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Men love to 'mentor' inexperienced young women, but hate having to deal with accomplished older women as equals. I'm suspicious of any man who blathers on about how he supports female colleagues, because 90% of the time this 'support' manifests as patronising and creeping on twenty-somethings. Watch men like this lose their shit when an attractive young women is promoted above him and his mediocre bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 01:02 PM
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While I'm with you in appreciating a man who is not deterred by period blood, it's quite odd that he's sharing anecdotes about sex he had with previous partners. This is not something a HVM would do. I'm also wondering why you feel the need to enquire about exes. Without wishing to hurt or offend you, this implies real insecurity on your part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 11:41 AM
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Maybe there are a few outlier women who have high self esteem and engage in casual sex, but the overwhelming majority of women will have low self esteem to begin with, which means they are easily duped by libfem presentations of casual sex and think being a cool girl will bolster their value in the eyes of others.... The treatment they receive from community dick LVM will cause their already poor self-image to deteriorate still further, which often leads to a vicious cycle of validation seeking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:03 PM
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But why would a woman suffer through a series of unsatisfactory sexual encounters unless on some level she had internalized the belief that her safety, comfort, and pleasure were not particularly important compared with the need to be a cool girl in the eyes of LVM? I think it's pretty clear there's a link between casual sex and low self esteem for many women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 10:39 PM
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I agree. What you say corresponds with what I've observed in other women and my own experience. I was severely mentally ill when I was engaging in casual sex. The risk/benefit ratio of casual sex is so objectively shitty that no entirely rational woman would entertain it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 10:32 PM
21

Agree, I came here to say exactly this! I would have zero concerns about walking alone at night with a transman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:57 PM
30

Saw an ex's dating profile and he'd included in it jokes that he'd heard me say! Sad sack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:58 AM
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'Get a cleaner' = 'just make it another woman's problem, one who is likely living below the poverty line and so desperate for cash she'll be pleased to scrub your man's shit stains from the toilet and pick his stinking cum-encrusted undies off the floor.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:24 PM
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I don't actually mind this: men should suffer discomfort to live up to a masculine aesthetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:51 AM
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Yes, it's not about throwing shade on stay-at-home-moms, it's an acknowledgement of the sad reality that most men's behaviour detoriates rapidly once they think you're 100% locked down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:41 AM
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I find it curious that so many of the 'sex work is work crowd' claim to be anti-capitalists. Our pozzed, pornified, sex-work-is-work culture is the apotheosis of capitalism: reducing women to commodities and introducing the profit motive into the most intimate spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:48 PM
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From the description box, under this Youtube video: "We don't let people sell their eyes, because we'd end up with an exploited underclass of one-eyed people, especially in developing countries. And the folks making all the money would say, 'But it's their choice.' Now think about prostitution and surrogacy." -Author unknown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:28 PM
2

Good summary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:22 AM
3

Yes! Announcing 'I'm funny' is so cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:17 AM
7

Me to: really looking forward to this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:07 AM
36

Embarrassing when your dog has better sexual boundaries than you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:01 AM
145

William Golding, author of Lord of the Flies on women and men: 'Women are foolish to pretend they are equal to men; they are far superior and always have been.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:19 PM
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Sorry, not sure how to do that. Maybe someone else will know how. Anyway, what she's suggesting is that to avoid paying, when the bill arrives you look at it and then innocently ask him: 'do you need help with that?' The idea being that the injury to his masculine pride will ensure he pays in full, to prove to you that he needs no help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 10:10 PM
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Harry is the personification of privilege. He's a mediocre LVM who, due to his title, has managed to snag a charismatic, beautiful, and talented woman. Now he's blurting out woke slogans his thick, low IQ brain barely understands just to impress his new wife and her showbiz friends. It's embarrassing. Can't believe people think he's HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:24 AM
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So what if he's marginally better than William? You're just comparing one LVM with another!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:11 AM
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Yep. As well as the usual bloodsports, Harry killed endangered birds, and used his Royal connections to evade criminal charges. He's a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:07 AM
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I think it's important that you're deriving tangible benefits from OLD in the here and now, regardless of whether the men you connect with turn out to be HVM/relationship material. So he needs to be entertaining you, taking you to fancy places, buying gifts, introducing you to interesting people, etc. Otherwise it's a waste of time and a massive opportunity cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:41 AM
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The ultimate pickme move was to accept a second date after he'd told her to shut up. What's the point of demanding to pay the bill if, when all's said and done, you'll accept that kind of disrespect?! Pickme logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:24 PM
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The problem extends well beyond the sphere of middle-class, university educated men & women. I used to work in a salon, and observed that the hairdressers had exactly the same problems professional women report. The men they dated were typically skilled manual labourers, but they too seemed to have 'golden penis syndrome', despite spending their working hours in male-dominated environments. Porn is the common denominator: it deludes men from every walk of life into thinking they are the chooser,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:08 PM
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Older men always try to sell themselves on how they're supposedly much more skilful and considerate in bed than younger men. What a joke. In my experience, they are selfish, arrogant and stuck in their ways. Also their dicks never get quite hard enough, they can't manage more than twice in one session, and their semen tastes foul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:48 PM
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Agreed. Only a small number of men remain hot in their 40s, and they're attractive in spite of their age, not because of it, lol!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:29 PM
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I've used conditioner on mine! I love my pubic hair - makes me feel feminine and sexual. Plus, I'm so over ingrowing hair and itchy regrowth. I'll never wax again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:27 PM
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I came here to say exactly this. Cervical dysplasia is a 'sexscapade' I could've done without. Guard your health and don't fall for the lib-fem lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:38 PM
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Complains men are getting soft and then packs his profile with cutesy emojis... Dickhead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:53 AM
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I love the strategy posts too and have complained that there aren't enough, however I've never actually written one myself! If every woman who has complained on this thread about the lack of strategy posts went away and wrote a really high quality one, then we'd see the change we want. The mods are too busy acting as a human shield between the subreddit and legions of LVM. Realistically, they're not going to have the time or energy to fill this gap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:12 PM
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I agree that the moderation of this sub is somewhat authoritarian but, on balance, I think this is the right approach. The ideas presented on FDS are extremely unusual and countercultural. To a lot a women they will seem strange and even offensive when they first encounter the sub. Robust moderation is essential to preserve the core FDS philosophy. A more permissive approach would result in an inevitable drift towards the status quo, and before long the sub would have descended into yet another …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:02 PM
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Female Level Up Strategy is a good sub for discussing HV hobbies, fashion, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:51 PM
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Great post. It's getting that balance right: having both the confidence to stand alone and the humility to keep an open mind. Not an easy thing to achieve, but definitely something I'm working on as part of my level up journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:12 PM
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I can't believe your totally reasonable post is getting down voted. Thanks for sharing your story nonetheless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:56 PM
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I really liked this podcast as I'm also political homeless, formerly of the left but now lean towards reactionary ideas. I love the idea of a pragmatic approach to female self-interest: taking the best ideas from right and left to build something new. This is very much aligned with FDS's pragmatic approach to dating. This podcast felt very American-centric to me. That's OK I guess, but has probably contributed to the polarised reaction. US politics is so charged right now: While I applaud the po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:20 PM
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I pray that she can gather enough evidence of his depravity to ensure he never gets access to their daughter again. Walking out is a gamble: if he takes her to court and they get a naive or paedo-inclined judge, this vile man might end up with unsupervised access to the little girl. This situation is the stuff of nightmares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:50 PM
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Good thinking. Don't want to accidentally coach this porn-hound to deceive other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:01 PM
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Exactly. Act all coy and flirty when you ask him, then he'll think he's found his perfect, gullible kinkmeisha. After he's exposed his depraved character, that's your cue to make for the door, blocking and deleting on your way out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:53 PM
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Many of the red flags are right-wing channels. However, left-wing content creators can be just as shitty. E.g. The youtuber Vaush: a smug, obese, neckbeard who uses his channel to broadcast paedophilia apologetics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:59 PM
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Now you come to mention this, yes: Big Lebowski is a red flag. . Good spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:50 PM
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You're not cynical, sis. This is a man who wants cookies for doing the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:21 AM
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The one saving grace of this story is that she found out before they married and had kids. It chills me to think of how many women have devoted their entire lives to men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:45 AM
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The male friend who walks you home after the bar closes is more likely to rape you than a man hiding in the bushes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:26 AM
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Wow, I'd never heard this explanation for the witch hunts before. I'm intrigued. In the British Isles, the worse witch hunts were in Scotland, which had a different legal system to the other countries that allowed women to inherit. I wondering if these two things were related. Fascinating. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:48 PM
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I'm shuddering at the thought of where those items might have been previously. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:42 PM
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There were a number of comments in the RooshV/Covid thread wishing him dead. OK, so he's not known for his likeability, but I thought that was a bit harsh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:18 PM
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Lol, I unthinkingly did this the other day and the automod immediately flagged me as male! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:11 PM
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Good idea. He has no right to know about your financial affairs until you are married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:30 PM
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Could a scrote claim home rights, meaning he could basically squat and block a sale of a property he doesn't even own? I'd be interested to know this. I know that married partners can claim these rights in England. Best establish him as a lodger so he can be kicked out easily. Better yet, don't let him move it at all!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:26 PM
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In the UK, where this lazy gold-digging scrote is, pre-nups have no legal standing. British women, don't marry broke, useless men unless you want to be propping up their gold-digging lifestyle for the rest of your days!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:28 AM
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Regardless of whose names are on the deeds he's going to walk away with 50% of her assets, thanks to law that's supposed to protect wives who sacrifice their ability to earn in order to raise children. Yet another way that 50/50 egalitarianism serves men and fails women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:20 AM
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I'm a monarchist but this kind of stuff makes me long for a republic. Anyone know where I can get hold of a guillotine? ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:41 PM
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It's great that you're confident, but you don't need to drag other women to let your own light shine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:19 PM
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Absolutely. Guard your womb, sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:30 AM
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I've not encountered a single man who was proactively concerned with preventing an unwanted pregnancy. I don't know whether on some level they think hormonal contraception gives them permission to be so irresponsible, or if they've always been this way. Thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:57 AM
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Exactly. She needs to kick his fat arse over the Atlantic so that he can face justice. Disgusting man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:52 AM
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I see where you're coming from, but survival sounds a bit bleak for me. How about Female Thriving Strategy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:48 AM
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Has anyone else read Middlemarch? The story is about a young woman who marries a nasty, impotent, old literary scrote in order to assist him with his Magnum Opus. You can guess how that worked out for her. It was written by George Eliot (aka Mary Ann Evans), whose partner was a rare example of a decent man who recognised that his wife's genius was much greater than his and therefore it was his job to support her, not the other way round!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:51 AM
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Yes, I agree. The strategy posts are my favourite too. Focussing on male depravity is only constructive insofar as it illustrates something strategic we can do to safeguard ourselves and enhance our lives. And I love the idea of more posts focussing on Queen behaviour in relationships, marriage, motherhood, etc. I think becoming a mother is often the pivot-point at which women's lives take a turn for the worse. So much pregnancy advice has a narrow focus on the birth, and women are told virtuall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:26 AM
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Pretty girls aren't mediocre/generic, they're fully rounded human beings just like the rest of us. You assume pretty girls are vapid and bland because that's what scrotes think: it's a resentful, woman-hating mindset. I'm picking up 'I'm not like other girls' vibes from this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:08 AM
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More victim-blaming, unworkable 'safety advice' for women, that implies we are responsible for safeguarding ourselves from the rapists and murderers they employ. I'm so fucking sick of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:55 PM
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Yup, makes me wonder how many 'nice guys' would behave this way if they found themselves in a similarly permissive culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:59 AM
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Exactly. And when scrotes are denied access to women, they cry it's a human rights abuse. They think being deprived of a girlfriend is justification enough to go on a killing rampage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:34 AM
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This is the perfect response. Let him explain to the paramedics why they've been called out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:26 AM
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Article describing the practice: www.bbc.com/news/magazine-36843769.amp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:05 PM
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Exactly. Scrotes love to infantilise women and adultify girls. They love to pretend that distinction doesn't really exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:35 PM
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True. But in England we do use 'lads', which is a permissive, affectionate term for men behaving badly: lads are typically loud, drunk, violent, boorish, and rapey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:33 PM
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I agree completely. It's so smug and self-satisfied: they get to enjoy some woke points whilst abandoning much less privileged women and girls to their fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:26 PM
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Agree 100%. I try to catch myself doing this. It's insidious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:02 AM
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I love that she's literally a queen too! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:46 AM
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The so-called 'initiation' of girls in remote areas of Malawi is horrific. Each area has a man known as 'the jackal' who is a sort of sex worker/shaman. He's employed to come to the village and rape the girls after the onset of menses. As well as being sexually traumatised, the girls are often infected with HIV. Widows are also raped following their husband's funeral. It's illegal but the government struggles to extend the rule of law to rural areas, so the support of local chiefs is really impo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:32 AM
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Yes, but because of their addiction to sensationalist journalism, they do occasionally print articles about what's actually happening to women that more 'respectable' papers wouldn't touch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:15 AM
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She was hurt so badly she now needs a colostomy bag. I don't believe she wasn't screaming and begging them to stop. This was gang rape of a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:13 AM
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I've always thought he seemed like pretentious old windbag. Thanks for confirming it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:36 AM
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My hunch is that, unless a man has a principled stance against porn which he's arrived at via his own reasoning, he's not going to give it up for any length of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:49 PM
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I wouldn't have answered his dumb-ass question at all. This arrogant fucker seems to think he's interviewing for a junior member of the team. Scrotes really do think they're the prize. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:40 PM
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Only women should have the right to bear arms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:29 AM
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At this point, I'm almost enjoying watching them destroying themselves. They deserve it. If only they weren't harming a lot of women along the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:37 AM
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Yeah, I know exactly what you mean. The mug-shot sex offender aesthetic. As women we've been socialised to be so kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:38 PM
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Or men that have a sissification fetish who come to those subreddits for 'girltalk' and ask basic, time-wasting questions about makeup application etc. Fuck off: I'm not your servant and it's not my job to affirm your fetish. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:20 PM
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Omg, I'm having flashbacks to my pickmeisha days. I could have written all of this - what a clown!! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:00 PM
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This is one of the many reasons I have absolutely no sympathy for paedos. They choose to become monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:31 PM
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bUt iT'S cOnSEnUaL!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:12 AM
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Me too! I've always felt this way so finding FDS was like coming home. Pickmes can be so hostile to women who demand more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:01 AM
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Agreed. Also, many more women than men live in poverty, and yet we invariably dress better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:35 AM
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If anyone doubts this, just check out the forum on No Fap. There are hundreds of threads devoted to this subject, populated by men despairing that they'll never recover from this stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:16 AM
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Yeah, it's a known fetish called autogynophila. Except autogynophiles never want to experience the shitty parts of being a woman. They imagine womanhood is being a pampered, giggling bimbo, ie life on easy mode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:09 AM
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How could it have unfolded worse for Gabbie? She's dead, I'd say that's bad enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:58 PM
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This Queen gets it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:24 PM
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I know! I'm dying right now!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:40 AM
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Not sure where you're based, but in the UK there is Rad Fem Collective, Women's Place UK, Safe Schools Alliance, and Nordic Model Now. Probably many more, but I'm not too familiar with the scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:01 PM
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Tomorrow, I'm taking myself out to visit a historic house. I'll look round the house and enjoy learning about the history, have tea in the garden, and probably buy myself flowers on the way home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:43 PM
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I agree that the biggest threat to a woman in the UK is having a baby with a LVM. In the public sphere, women are generally treated as equals, and life for a young, well-educated career woman can be pretty good (notwithstanding the horrendous housing costs, and increasingly shrill and unpleasant tone to British culture). However, in the home so many women become downtrodden, and have their health and sanity destroyed by LVM. There's an annoyingly widespread belief here that it's the woman's resp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:50 PM
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This is exactly the right attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:22 PM
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Personally, I would not allow a boyfriend to meet my daughter until she is an adult. I will never remarry and subject her to risks inherent in being part of a step family. Her wellbeing is my number one priority, a man could never even come close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:20 PM
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Great song. It's amazing how 40 years can go by, and still the LVM script stays the same...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:30 PM
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Cringey, show-offy, and coercive. And yes, I'm suspicious of the teen girl aspect too. Men who work in IT are almost always depraved pornhounds. Edit: Can't believe the positive response this video is getting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:14 PM
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Lol, I came on to say the same!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:28 PM
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If the disease led to scrotes having the tip of their penis burnt off, perhaps it would be taken more seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:08 PM
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I caught it from a really clean-cut doctor (ironic). Met him online and it took me ages to find out he was a secret swinger and riddled with disease. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:04 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this. Hope the news on 1 July is good and that you make a quick recovery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:01 PM
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Scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:18 AM
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Great! Hope you enjoy it ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:43 PM
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If you like historical romances, maybe try Indigo by Beverly Jenkins. Both the heroine and the hero are HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:55 PM
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This sounds really scary. At least you know what he is now and can act accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:17 PM
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Let's hope this is the turning of the tide against these evil men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:10 PM
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Great comment, don't know why it hasn't been more upvoted. I tend to agree with OP's analysis of male nature. And I agree that, in some cases, the penalty for allowing his ego to become bruised is rage, hatred, or even lethal violence. But I'm left with this question: how is in my best interests to enter a lifelong relationship with such a creature?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:01 AM
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Focus on building a strong local network so you can look out for each other if shit hits the fan; invest in your mental resilience and building practical skills; have a plan for how you'd access food and water in a natural disaster scenario; store wealth outside the fiat system in crypto and bullion; retrain for a job that can't be replaced by automation. Finally, find an HVM - if you can, lol!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:06 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear your mum went through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:42 PM
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Sadly LVM often don't reveal themselves until their partner is pregnant and - they think - trapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:02 PM
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I accept some men can be constructive and supportive. When I was in labour, my husband helped me. But there is too often an assumption that fathers have a right to be present, which I reject.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:00 PM
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'Fathers in the birth room: choice or coercion? Help or hindrance?' https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/02646838.2017.1361124
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:38 AM
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The French obstetrician Michel Odent claims that the presence of men in the birthing room can often slow labours and lead to an increased liklihood of complications for woman and child. The idea that their presence is indispensable is more lib-fem trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:33 AM
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Nowadays scrotes feel 100% entitled to be there and are enraged if a woman says she'd prefer her mum or sister as supporters. Father's rights are mostly just catering for male narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:30 AM
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Aww, thanks. Love the concept of microdefenses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:24 PM
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I was at a meditation session where the theme was overcoming anger. I spoke up and said that while scrotes need to learn this, it's terrible advice for women. I've spend too many years being numbed out and immobile while men pour their abuse over me. The other women present nodded furiously as I said this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:49 AM
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Why would a tween be crushing on an older man unless they'd been seriously messed-up by child abuse. Tween is, what? About 10 years old...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:00 AM
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Thank you for researching this dark and disturbing topic, OP. Every line of that Esquire article was truly horrifying. It reinforced what I've believed for a while now: that our fight against pornography is as much a spiritual struggle as a political one. This passage struck me as particularly chilling: "I was good at getting people to behave like animals! I was good at tearing away all their socialization, everything their parents had taught them. It was weird. I never even had to raise my voic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:25 PM
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Obese paedo-scrotes in the comments are enjoying this one 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:29 PM
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What a Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:45 AM
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Same. My ex was disgusted by porn, never touched it but was also the worst LVM I've ever been involved with. Low-key sexually abusive too: he would want me to stay completely still during sex and spit on me to compensate for my complete lack of arousal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:37 AM
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Love this! 😂 And I'm the same: if I've not come for a while it's always a much bigger O.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:55 AM
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Amazing news: so happy for you Queen! 👑 Your achievement is so inspiring to me and, I'm sure, many other women. Take good care of yourself in the coming weeks & months and don't forget we're all here to support you! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:12 AM
2

I use IT Cosmetics CC Cream, which is a mineral SPF 50. I apply a thick layer, including all around my eyes, lids etc, then set it with some translucent powder to keep it in place and take the shine off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:50 PM
10

Reminds me of the men's retreat scene in Fleabag, where they all attack a blow-up doll in secretarial attire who they've been told has been promoted above them. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:21 PM
37

Great post: I've never before reflected on the g spot mythology or how it came to be. My preferences are exactly as described. The A spot is where all the good stuff happens. And I've also concluded that for sex to be really satisfying for me, he needs to be well hung.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:52 PM
14

This is why the growing number of men who want to be midwives should be viewed with suspicion. The concept of a male midwife is both ridiculous and disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:45 PM
62

Dr Jessica is amazing. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:50 PM
20

'I love strong women' What does that mean? I'm guessing he wants a mommy bangmaid who'll pick up after him and pay the bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:32 PM
1

No, I didn't see that post. Terrible that so many girls have been affected, but I'm glad they feel they can talk about what happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:21 PM
4

Agree 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:22 PM
5

This is such a serious issue, and those who try to discuss it are too often shut down. One of the worse consequences of the ridiculous QAnon cult is that it makes those who speak up about elite paedos appear like tinfoil hat wearing crackpots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:19 PM
4

Does anyone know why the UK restrictions were shelved after the legislation was passed a few years ago? I seem to recall it was due to some ridiculous admin error. Fishy as fuck. Makes me wonder if bribes/blackmail were involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:28 PM
3

Great post, but maybe look into the drugs-for-sex child exploitation scandal before donating to MSF. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/world-africa-44523086.amp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:31 PM
29

“Girls can wear jeans and cut their hair short and wear shirts and boots because it's okay to be a boy; for girls it's like promotion. But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading, according to you, because secretly you believe that being a girl is degrading.” (Ian McIwan)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:33 AM
19

I know from experience this is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:56 AM
200

Yes, there's always another woman. It's vanishly rare for a man leave a relationship for any other reason. Men are parasites that must move from host to host. They can't exist alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:55 PM
8

Good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:14 PM
6

We in the UK need to follow the example of the Americans with regard to the treatment of paedophiles. They are granted near complete privacy here - it's unbelievable. We have so many hand-wringers who compete to see how compassionately they can treat these evil-doers. I'd love to see a show like this in the UK, but sadly it'd be shut down before it was even commissioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:28 PM
2

Love this! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:05 PM
37

Having a Dad who cheated is a big red flag https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2011/jul/25/marriage-adultery-father-role-model
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:56 PM
3

I love this! Thank you for making it. x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:57 AM
2

Really fascinating, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:00 PM
12

This is really interesting. I've never heard this issue discussed before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:50 AM
6

'For my part, if there is any demand for it, I'd love to dedicate future posts to what it means to "behave like an equal" based on what I've learned in my own professional context.' Yes please!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:00 AM
2

This is so inspiring, thank you. And congratulations on your new home! xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:30 AM
20

My sister's psycho ex was able to break into her apartment which was secured with only keypad entry. He had some know-how about electrics, which I guess was how he did it. The police were completely baffled. Anyhow, since this experience I always tell women not to rely on a keypad alone. There is no substitute for a solid mechanical lock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:27 AM
3

That's such a pretty ring. Your nails are lovely too. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:52 PM
7

😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:35 AM
24

For women in the UK: https://www.dogstrust.org.uk/help-advice/hope-project-freedom-project/freedom-project https://www.cats.org.uk/what-we-do/paws-protect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:38 AM
18

Lol, the idea that Miss Universe would so much as look twice at him. Just who do these scrotes think they are? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:59 PM
2

Congratulations. Wishing you & your fiance every happiness. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:42 PM
15

So much abuse starts in pregnancy. I fear for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:57 AM
6

I'm definitely going to do this. I don't want the first time I see their deformed junk to be when I'm naked. Good for eliminating micro penises too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:24 PM
6

Yes. I've never met a man who didn't think that prostitutes are lazy, money-grabbing women of low character. It's clearly not 'just a job.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:11 PM
3

I know! Hard earned cash on flowers. Flowers. For a man. Totally ridiculous!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:37 AM
5

Same here. I feel really sorry for her. She's trying so hard to sound sexy & cool, but it's so obvious she spent ages crafting that lame message. I was exactly like that in my pickmeisha days. (Cringing hard right now...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:36 AM
6

I'm cringing for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:32 AM
4

I agree old men are sleazy, but the woman who wrote this article sounds like a huge pickme, implying that young women are shallow, vapid creatures who don't read books (unlike her dowdy yet cultured self) and advertising how low maintenance she is like it's a selling point. 🙄 She seems to have internalised the sexist notion that beauty and brains are mutually exclusive in a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:28 PM
4

Anyone who regularly has anal sex with total strangers is at high risk of being infected by HIV, including this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:48 PM
61

Don't forget the bottles full of piss, because he couldn't be bothered to walk ten steps to the toilet! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:07 PM
9

I would never give my passcode away, not even to my husband. It's about my right to privacy, dignity & autonomy. If he made a fuss about it, I'd be reconsidering the whole relationship. For me, that would be a huge red flag. That said, I would have my eyes wide open to any suspicious phone behaviour on his part: ie, he's suddenly texting all the time, angling it away from me so I can't see what's on the screen, turning it face down as I pass by, taking it with him when he showers/goes to the loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:29 PM
17

Exactly the same in the UK. It's infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:24 AM
31

I love how long it took you to text back too! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:36 AM
30

Agree 100% with this. It's too easy to confuse them wanting us for sex with them actually liking us. Because we can't imagine wanting to shag someome we have no liking or respect for, it's hard to imagine that they could do this. But for too many men, there is no conflict between contempt and sexual desire. See the proverbial 'hate fuck'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 12:09 AM
3

Iron rule of men's behaviour: it only ever deteriorates, never improves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:44 PM
6

Yes, my sister who naturally has a very slender & petite build had a run-in with one of these. Scrote wanted her to emaciate herself for his sexual satisfaction. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:41 PM
13

So many of these hugely overweight women seem to have a man in the background, eagerly feeding her up. It's very disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:33 PM
5

'Whenever you point out how flawed and dangerous their cults is, they always hit you with the "that is not the real bdsm/religion educate yourself in it!"' Omigod, yes. They ALWAYS do this, don't they? Their comebacks are as generic as their sexual fantasies. And it's total nonsense: classic example of the no true Scotsman fallacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:29 PM
2

I really wish we didn't default to blaming women (in this case GenX moms) for men's deficiencies. Male depravity is not our fault: we didn't create it and it's not our job to solve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:37 AM
22

He's a total arse, but I hate the reply too. Suggesting he conditions her behaviour with praise, rewards and positive reinforcement makes her sound more like a wayward puppy than an adult woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:26 AM
27

My thoughts exactly. If he wants to marry her so badly, he should be ring-shopping, not penning this self-regarding doggerel for the entertainment of a bunch of internet strangers. Looks like a big fat show off to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:14 AM
72

Me too. Obviously they're in better shape and their dicks work x10 times better, but I also like the idealism of young men. Assuming they're reasonably smart, they tend to read more than old guys of equivalent intelligence and their conversation is more interesting. Old men (30s, 40s+) seem so miserable and lifeless, and are invariably obsessed with such a narrow range of topics: their money, property, ghastly children and semi-flaccid cocks. Yawn....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:46 PM
12

Lol at the notion that a woman would ever need to demand cock to get some. These sad-sacks are clueless. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:48 PM
2

Yes, exactly - children. Some were as young as 12. Yet they were conceptualised as adult women (sluts, prostitutes, etc) by the authorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:40 PM
14

In the UK, there has been mass organised rape and torture of mainly white working class girls, many of whom were in state care, so extremely vulnerable. When they reached out for help, they were dismissed by their social workers as 'young women making choices', while the police treated them as troublesome prostitutes. Some were even given criminal records when they spoke up, while their abusers were allowed to operate for many decades with impunity. The scale of it has been huge: literally tens …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:06 AM
59

That's so horrible. That poor girl. I have a similar story about the utter depravity of police officers: My cousin told me that when the police caught her teenage friends smoking weed they demanded, and received, blow jobs in exchange for not arresting them. This would have been in the late 90s, in a very impoverished community in South Wales. Like you, I didn't realise just how utterly criminal this behaviour was until I became an adult myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:51 AM
17

I think porn is a big factor. For a weak-minded LVM it's monkey see, monkey do. These feeble individuals are receptive to whatever notions the pornographers choose to implant in their sexual imaginations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:22 PM
7

Omigod, yes. They think they're so clever, but they're not. They are just disgusting. I post on mumsnet, a UK parenting website and you'd hardly believe the number of scrotes that turn up pretending to be middle-aged women with queries about hosiery, or mums who have to buy a first bra for a large-breasted teenager daughter. And yes, they think they are being oh so subtle and we can't see their depravity. I hate them: why can't they please just fuck off and leave us alone?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:05 PM
5

I know! So gross. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:47 PM
20

I wouldn't be surprised if he's got some kind of adult diaper, mommy issues kink. It's so disgusting. Firstly, why do this to yourself; secondly, why post it on the Internet? Must be a humiliation fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:37 PM
3

Oh yes. I'm guessing narc tendencies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:04 PM
11

Great post. Another LVM behaviour I've noticed is competitive sickness: when you're ill they suddenly start experiencing similar, but worse symptoms... or they succumb to some invented illness that's much more serious than what you're suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:14 AM
3

This is appaling. I can't imagine how horrible it must feel to have your own brother suggest such things. In the UK, the authorities were recently found to be urging female welfare claimants into sex work. https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/politics/dwp-u-turns-after-telling-18978226 This is where lib-fem sex positivity leads. It's absolutely horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:18 PM
22

Why do they all look like this?? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:59 AM
82

I agree completely. It's a rape mentality. They want to force themselves upon us, and make us take notice of their pathetic, useless, hollowed-out selves. It makes them feel important and powerful. Sad fucks can't live without female attention and they'll get it any way they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:55 AM
3

Ugh yes, back in my pickmeisha days I was so sad for her when she cut all her hair off and adopted the iconic Gloriana look. Now I can see what a huge power move it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:16 AM
5

I love the bit when she declares, 'I will have but one mistress and no master here'. QUEEN - literally!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:08 AM
4

This is brilliant: practical know-how on blocking scrotes plus an insightful new concept about how our time, attention and beautiful female presence is being monetised for the benefit of others. This post would make a great addition to the handbook. 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:22 PM
4

Unless I respect someone, and know that they love & want the best for me, I give zero fucks about their opinion of me. Sadly a lot of people (men) are not coming from a good place. They resent us and want to drag us down to their level. Don't fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:28 PM
8

YES. I wish I could upvote this x100 times! Lipstick, heels, breast implants & facial feminization surgery do not a woman make. We are being encouraged to believe that our female bodies are without meaning or significance, and that male-invented stereotypes of femininity are the true index of what makes a woman. The transcult is vicious misogyny, repackaged as woke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:12 PM
13

Absolutely. The transcult is just misogyny's latest iteration. Woman is not a feeling inside a man's head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:01 PM
6

I was wondering this too! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 11:22 PM
8

Except its becoming apparent that the sexes are not equal, as females outperform males in almost every arena. While a few exceptional males exist, the average female far excels the average male, in terms of beauty, health, educational achievement, professional acumen and moral fibre. Unsurprisingly, lvm can't stand it. In a sense, porn, bdsm, etc, is lvm men's campaign for sexual equality. They want to reduce us to their condition, which is that of a depraved, brainless, sex-obsessed beast. Pure…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:11 PM
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Can we take a moment to note just how smug and condescending in tone the reply is? How dare they talk down to this woman, who has more sensitivity and insight that they can even aspire too. And all sex pozzies are like this, aren't they? Jumped up and full of themselves: acting as though they've discovered some secret esoteric wisdom about sex that they have a responsibility to evangelize to the rest of us. Meanwhile it's plain to see they're just bog-standard, old-fashioned perverts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:07 AM
6

Yes, what's the point. Sperm is the one thing they have an abundance of. What about an egg?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:52 AM
5

But wouldn't she still need to find another, unrelated woman to donate bone marrow? Otherwise her baby would physiological be akin to a child born of incest, with all the associated health and developmental issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:49 AM
11

The article is quite old: it's from 2008. That kind of discrimination is no longer legal in the UK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:46 AM
18

He's just trying to re-establish his self image as a nice guy. He's hurt his ego, that's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:52 PM
33

Dua Lipa, especially IDGAF, Boys Will Be Boys, New Rules, Don't Start Now, Future Nostalgia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:27 PM
5

Oh yes, I agree 100%. I'm also trying to discern where that line is. Right now, I'm OK with beauty practices that genuinely promote my health and vitality, but anything else I'm trying to avoid as a drain on my time, energy & resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:00 PM
5

It's also okay to strive for your goals while NOT attaining a beautiful glow. Men are allowed to be ugly and successful, why can't we have this too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:11 AM
20

I wish I was. Volunteering there was quite a blackpill: the depravity with which many men will behave when they're guaranteed 100% anonymity and no comeback for their manifold abuses. Needless to say, I volunteer for a women's charity now. I won't give my time to LVM in any context, no matter how ostensibly 'worthy'. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:03 PM
57

I used to volunteer for a suicide helpline. The majority of the men I spoke to had their dick in their hands and were calling for a facilitated wank. Most of them had absolutely no interest in addressing their issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:10 PM
14

This reminds me of a scrote I was messaging, hadn't even met up yet... He wrote me a long text, completely out of the blue, saying how it was my choice if I wanted to shave or keep it natural down there. Apparently, 'both were erotic, but for different reasons'. 🤮 THE AUDACITY!! He was a lefty-bro, male feminist type. I think he was expecting me to give him woke points. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:21 AM
27

Such an accurate description of life as a woman in Britain, c. 2020 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:53 PM
26

Good. Now let's follow suit and ban e-flashing in the UK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:27 PM
4

That's the Nordic Model. https://nordicmodelnow.org/what-is-the-nordic-model/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:42 AM
8

Love Margaret Cavendish: such an interesting character. I read some of her stuff when I was an undergraduate. Defo going to watch the YouTube vid now... ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:14 AM
6

I didn't know he'd been so sick... really hope he's feeling better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:44 PM
15

I think he's aged out now. His recent weight loss has done him no favours lookswise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:28 PM
27

Their spirits age even worse than their bodies. Even the ones who aren't pornsick become grumpy, miserly and misanthropic. It's very sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:25 PM
20

This is such an important post. I wish I could upvote it x100 times. Validation does not equal empowerment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:07 AM
22

Exactly. We simply observe who they are, and then decide if we want to stay or go. FDS says trying to influence a man's behaviours or attitudes is a waste of our precious time & energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:36 PM
19

I agree completely. Let's focus on the man who slaughtered his children in cold blood, rather than getting all worked up about some silly woman googling wedding dresses and anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:58 AM
2

Yes, and even if she doesn't get pregnant, without condoms she'll never be able to enjoy sex because she'll be thinking 'what if...' But scrote doesn't care about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:09 PM
6

This is great, thanks OP. I'd love to see a series on powerful Queens (both literal & figurative) from history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:46 PM
5

Oh yes. I've had frumpy phases as well as periods of being 'hot'. Each style of appearance attracts its own variety of LVM. Nowadays, I just please myself lookswise - it's the only rational thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:36 PM
11

I love Deborrah Cooper. Her mentality is pure FDS. It's great to see her getting a shout out. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:36 PM
5

Or is it that pickmeishas think they'll be able to reform him where no one else could, and prove once and for all that they're 'not like other girls'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:44 AM
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For women in the UK, the domestic abuse charity Refuge has a specialist tech abuse team that can help with this kind of thing: https://www.refuge.org.uk/our-work/forms-of-violence-and-abuse/tech-abuse-2/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:33 AM
2

It's goes to show how premeditated these murders are. And yet, too often, they're portrayed as 'crimes of passion'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:15 PM
9

As well as using it as an excuse for bad behaviour, LVM like to talk about past trauma as a means of faking emotional intimacy and accelerating the sexual side of things. Pickmes will think, 'He's really opening up to me; not putting on a false face he has to with other girls...' 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:01 PM
3

It's takes so little for a man to stand out nowadays: all he has to do is pick up the phone, make a quick 2 minute call, and he's a unicorn. 🙄 And yet how many of them put in even this minimal effort??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:50 AM
2

'Is she supposed to get knocked up by the first man that lay his eyes on her?' Yep, and then when it goes wrong and she's left as a single mother, Stefan will make a video attacking & demeaning her for that, too. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:19 PM
2

I've had sex with eight men and four have made me come. I've not ever given instruction, they just worked it out themselves. All of the skilful men were regular boyfriends who, nominally at least, were 'in love' with me. Most of the ones that didn't make me come were one-nighters, who I discarded for various reasons to do with lack of sexual compatibility. A few of these clowns even tried to get me to come by vocal command! The self-delusion is real. 😂 Too many men are shit in bed and, in my exp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:33 PM
3

I didn't notice that!! 😀 But yes, before I was too sweet for my own good. Just about every mistake that gets discussed here, I've made. 😭 But I'm so glad to have discovered FDS because now I will teach my daughter to do better! 👑🎓👠💍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:19 PM
22

Yes, this has been my experience too. I think a lot of them are just really bad conversationalists who have no idea what else they can talk about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:01 PM
31

Thanks for linking this article, which is just so interesting. I really feel that the female body is amazing and only just now starting to be understood. Sadly, I don't see much liklihood of the 'biOLoGy' bros keeping up with developments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:01 PM
86

Yes. I've heard a few times of women taking homemade brownies to first-time coffee shop meets. It's so sad. Please, pickmeishas, save your time & talents for those who give a shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:38 PM
50

Oh god, I hope so. Let's see how funny he thinks it is when he's signing the sex offenders' register.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:33 PM
3

Just block. He can work out what he said wrong all by himself. Save your time and energy for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:07 PM
9

These pathetic men-children literally make me feel sick. Spineless parasites. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:16 PM
7

He's x10 sexier now than he was in the Nineties. It's like he's going through the wall in reverse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:40 PM
2

So you're saying he was so mesmerised by your beauty that he was rendered incapable of paying for the date he'd invited you on...have I got that right? Sorry, sis, but if a man took me on a date and then 'forgot' to get out his wallet when it was time to pay, he'd never see me again. Your boyfriend is either a dishonest freeloader or a useless, socially incompetent manchild. Surely you don't want anything to do with either?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:17 PM
1

So he says he hated her but used her for sex anyway... and yet he's the victim? Also, note the vague way he talks the police involvement in their breakup. I think I can guess how that went. He's a dead ringer for 'Mr Sensitive' in Lundy Bancroft's compendium of abuser archetypes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:56 PM
61

Ugh, that reminds me of when I asked a male friend if he thought my toddler's pigtails looked sweet. He said pigtails on little girls made him feel uncomfortable because they were too sexual. 🤮 Needless to say, I don't see him anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:57 PM
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