| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 28 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.Lmao when guys would harass me for sex I’d just tell them I had herpes and it never deterred them, maybe saying HIV will 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:12 PM |
| 47 | Sound advice 👏🏻 Pay attention to the holes in their walls, this is a good way to vet out violent men and men with low impulse control or anger issues.This is a HUGE red flag. My ex husband would try to break down the doors I locked myself behind. One door wouldn’t lock anymore and had a crack by the doorknob, and the other one latched weird. If an adult is trying to lock themselves away from another adult whose attempting to break the door down, that is a very bad sign | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:34 AM |
| 26 | Sound advice 👏🏻 Pay attention to the holes in their walls, this is a good way to vet out violent men and men with low impulse control or anger issues.Imagine being an adult who puts holes in the wall 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:24 AM |
| 16 | Assholes are good at sex ...How good the sex is, for me, depends on how attracted I am to the person 100%. If you’re attracted to emotionally unavailable men (assholes) the sex will be bomb compared to some guy that respects you but you don’t find attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsI feel the same exact way. If I can’t be gay I’ll be single 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:41 PM |
| 11 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsI remember my dad saying he doesn’t know how women are attracted to men. WE AREN’T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:40 PM |
| 15 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsNothing empowering about being degraded to survive. It’s horrible. I know I women who was making nothing cam modeling and a guy told her to write “pig” in French across her stomach because she was a bigger girl and she did it. So sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:38 PM |
| 219 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮What did he do a few years ago that was inappropriate?!? Why do men have to bother us AT WORK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:25 PM |
| 12 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.I have dyslexia and get my a’s and e’s mixed up pretty bad so it’s easier for me to type female. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:46 AM |
| 11 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.Woman dating strategy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 84 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.I wish every female at 16, 18, 21, and 25 ( if she is still choosing fuck boys) had to read the sidebar and take a test on it then pass. It would at least plant seeds of confidence in their heads that they deserve better. Men are sneaky and grimy but it would help young women not be pick mes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:13 PM |
| 54 | No thanksAny man over 30 looking for kids “someday” is either A) Lying B) Delusional (if he didn’t have them yet but wanted to hes LVM probably) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 4 | I love everyone's ring pics, I decided to join in. I got myself my dream car! Taking myself and my pup hiking all along the east coast for 2021.CONGRATS!!! Living the dream | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:35 AM |
| 10 | Ex-Husband Contacted Me to "Catch Up" After 6 Years of SilenceLmaoooo he lasted like 5.5 years longer than my ex husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 10 | This man knows something at leastNot a snowballs chance in hell 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:15 PM |
| 3 | My little “I love you” gift to myself arrived today. Years ago, I pinned this ring and when it popped up in my IG feed this fall I ordered one custom made. Loving all these ring posts.That ring with those nails 😍😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 03:28 PM |
| 27 | If you catch feelings easily, this might help! Stay strong! >:)Ask him what lies he’s used to sleep with women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:23 AM |
| 43 | Men of this generation are so disappointing....Or video games. A “hobby” that requires no talent or brains, just sitting on your lazy ass. Kinda like porn 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Reconsidering marriage and kids?I had an epidural so I didn’t feel any pain, took under 20 minutes, and I went back to my underweight pre pregnancy weight within months. It’s not always that bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Reconsidering marriage and kids?It’s not about him being worth it or raising “his” kids, they’d be your kids also. Even people who leave dirt bags don’t usually regret their kids and think if it as raising “his children”. Also as a woman courts will side with you a little more, you’ll have an advantage when it comes to custody wants and child support if it doesn’t work out. People who leave relationships think “thank god I didn’t have a kid with him” not knowing if they had a kid with him they’d be thinking “thank god I have m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Reconsidering marriage and kids?My body is definitely better after kids, I’m less scrawny and more womanly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:04 PM |
| 35 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseI’m not going to lie, the guy I’m with now, I almost swiped left on but I saw him at fancy hotels and in expensive suits so I thought why not and swiped right. No shame. I live a comfortable life with vacations every few months, got my car paid off in about a year, have pretty much no expenses so every dime I make I can spend however I want. I’m a little out of his league physically but he’s not ugly, just average I guess. He also doesn’t call me names, let’s me have as much freedom as I want, s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:00 PM |
| 55 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseAnd when they fall for you and you don’t fall for them, without fail it’ll take YEARS for them to get over it. Literally. Even if you move away, have kids, get married, or they do those things, they’ll still be trying to slither into your life lol. On the flip side if you would have dated them it may not have lasted six months but that doesn’t matter. They were rejected and can’t get over it. Guys never get over unrequited lust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 8 | Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target.I used to have this problem. When you have self esteem and self confidence this doesn’t work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 23 | Which of you saved this girl?I literally bought an ex a car right out of high school then helped him buy another one. They were cheap cars, but still. And clothes, food, tattoos. I wish I had FDS back then, but high school me wasn’t ready for anything like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:20 PM |
| 225 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...I go to a mans house with a good paying job He’s renting a room / small house with the bed on the floor. Always roommates. If the house is nice the room is usually trashed. Go to a single females house the same age with a good paying job. The home is immaculately clean, has her own nicer apartment, a pet or two, a bed that looks like it was built for a queen, and home decor that’s Pinterest worthy. Oh yeah and she’s not “forgetting” to mention any children or past marriages. The only time a mans… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 55 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?I literally saw a girl gushing over the fact her husband refused to ask her dad if he could marry her (her dad didn’t even request it), because it means “he will fight for my individuality and independence” or some bullshit like that. I felt super bad for her because if she’s jumping to those conclusions over such a small act she must be super easy to manipulate and have a low as hell bar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:55 PM |
| 69 | My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.I don’t play these games with men. I’ve been called a “narcissist” for dropping men so easily, but I’d rather be a narcissist than a bitter, abused, broken ex that let a man get the best of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:03 PM |
| 35 | Don't ask me how though.I was thinking about this recently. Like thinking about it hours ago. Women are the more nurturing sex in relationships. They also are more respectful, keep the home cleaner, you’re more likely to orgasm with another women than a man, etc. I wish I was gay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:20 AM |
| 6 | Older me would've defended myself. Now I know what makes me a HVW and I don't need to justify it to anyone. Block. Delete. Move on.He knows he’s LVM that’s why he’s offended 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:07 PM |
| 44 | People really think "communication" is going to help herWow was not expecting him to be 30. He should definitely know better and is not going to change. At 30 he’s doing it to “put her in her place” and make her feel insecure. This boy isn’t good for anyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:26 AM |
| 26 | 😭😭😭😭I’ve seen women jump from marriage to marriage their whole adult life. The desperation and fear of being “old and single” is real. Also jumping into marriage for financial reasons (like insurance) this is why it’s so important for us women to be able to take care of ourselves. Men will pounce to trap you with marriage and victimize you if they sense weakness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Treating MYSELF the way I want to be treated. I closed my first major deal today in my new career and took my beautiful self to the jewelry store to pick out exactly what I wanted 👏🏼Congrats!! Pretty hands, nails, and ring. You’re winning 🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else notice this?Oh wow are you allergic?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:37 AM |
| 7 | These men who share that logic have zero knowledge of the female anatomyWomen can literally be tighter AFTER HAVING A BABY but yes all those 5-6 inch wee wees must have stretched her unusable 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:52 PM |
| 24 | LVM “All men ogle” myth BUSTED 😎I’ve never dated anyone that checked out other women in front of me. I feel like it’s almost emotional abuse, like a way to disrespect you and make you feel insecure. Any man who does this is automatically low quality af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:43 AM |
| 30 | male depravity has exponentially grown since lockdown. try and prove me wrong.Thank you for screaming at his sleazy ass👏🏻. Maybe he will think twice next time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:49 AM |
| 3 | On a thread about facefucking... the last response is especially horrifyingSo sad for this woman she’s clearly got issues and doesn’t love herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 02:47 AM |
| 5 | When my LVM ex was toxic to me but was charming to others. He made everyone believe I was a lying, manipulative bitch but guess what, the truth finally came out and he begged me to not "destroy his reputation"💁🏻♀️A lot of people, especially men, don’t care. I stopped being friends with men who didn’t care that they had particular friends that treated women poorly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 04:48 PM |
| 121 | Anyone else notice this?Yes I had a male “friend” tell me he was cumming in his girlfriend and not telling her to try and get her pregnant. I told her and she left his sorry ass. He’s also no longer a friend. Also had a best friend who was being groomed by an older guy in her teens that was always trying to convince her to get pregnant. Do not let a LVM get you pregnant, or have the opportunity to “accidentally on purpose” get you pregnant. Be in control! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:38 AM |
| 26 | Feel free to brag about your SO/partner below. What are some green flags you've seen in your relationships?Supports and encourages personal growth Long standing friendships Respects privacy Shares chores Gives me and others the respect they deserve Emotionally mature Those are the biggest ones. The biggest thing for me is being respected, without respect you have nothing. A man will do any horrible thing to you if he doesn’t respect you. The second biggest thing for me is allowing me my independence and also supporting and encouraging it. Support my goals, hobbies, traveling on my own, education etc.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 18 | First date with a Tinder boy, had an emergency, and he stepped up!!So sorry about your bike that’s a huge bummer!! Good on you for having all your gear on. He did good, but make sure he continues to do good. It’s easy to put on a show at first, keep your guard up like you keep your gear on when you ride. Never know when you’ll need it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 03:07 PM |
| 15 | Why Settling is Damaging Not NeutralOh man. I saw a woman settle for the guy she had on the back burner because she really couldn’t find anyone else to date immediately after a divorce. Married right away once she realized she wasn’t getting any “hits” online from other guys. She’s going to be the poster child for this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 12:29 AM |
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