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I love this comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 01:26 AM
30

I do hear what you're saying but it's literally not my job to teach men to be decent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 07:30 PM
74

They know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 09:52 PM
91

Porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:01 AM
17

My thoughts exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:25 PM
28

If they don't beat you up, they get to bask in the warm luminous glow of how they really are such.great.guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:49 PM
22

"The dickness" so apt, well done sis🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:39 PM
49

Don't explain anything to them sis! Bye is all you need
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:24 PM
6

Both pics are what he's trying to manifest 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:07 PM
5

And then they give you a subpar rating bc you didn't entertain them with your attention and conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:49 PM
44

Hahaha this is perfect 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:00 PM
3

Same, please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:51 AM
236

Because they can. They lack empathy, they are physically stronger, they have the money to coerce these desperate young women. People look down on you if you torture animals, but if you torture 18 yos, you can cry, "kink shaming, oh noooo" and all of a sudden everyone shuts up bc libfem wokery is running the cultural narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:59 PM
44

Calm, quiet peacefulness is very high vibration. It really is about what's at the core, not what presents on the outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:08 PM
121

Queen shit!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:01 PM
23

This whole, conspiratorial, common foe approach immediately made me think of debeckers book, the gift of fear. These are common manipulations to forge a false sense of intimacy that bad guys use to their advantage. Idk sis, I'm kind of grossed out with the suggestion to trick people into thinking they like you bc you just did them a favor, etc. I think you're coming from a good place but this isn't sitting right with me. At all. Queens don't need to manipulate nor trick to gain a man's attention…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:42 AM
101

He probably feels he deserves a lot of credit for not actually punching you too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:37 PM
7

This made me laugh 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:48 AM
4

Hell yes sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:46 AM
20

Wow this actually explains a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:30 AM
144

I'm just glad he felt compelled to get out of there so abruptly instead of using the mom to gain access to the daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:45 AM
272

I read "vibrant" as "violent" at first in the "we are proud of our vibrant community"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:56 AM
7

If I had a nickel...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:07 PM
72

What is the deal with this weird gaslighting, i.e. saying I'm not being rude when they absolutely are being rude. Men just really expect their shitty words to be believed no matter what. Absolutely horrible first date behavior, but I love when they tell on themselves like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 04:07 AM
33

I think it was the book, The Sociopath Next Door that said wanting/ enjoying your pity is a very common red flag for someone that has no conscience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:35 PM
11

Lmao I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:39 AM
45

Its cultural misogyny grooming us to ignore our instincts. Women should be nIcE, UnDeRsTaNdInG, and pAtIeNt with men's bullshit. It's almost like the more common the scrotastic behavior is, the more acceptable it is to society at large. Women are just expected to swallow their discomfort (or worse) over the lack of basic human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:33 AM
14

Thank goodness you listened to yourself! Even if it took a while, sounds like you dodged a major bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:27 AM
226

Lol! This reminds me of another meme, no one gets madder than a dude being accused of something he definitely did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:14 AM
53

Gosh, this hit me hard and you are so right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:13 AM
137

Exactly. How they treat someone they deem unfuckable says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:22 AM
25

It was so easy for him to imagine some background details about the man... guitar player, talented artist, cute baby pictures. Yet he did not come up with one single example of anything that might exist in a woman's life. It's so telling. Prostitution and porn have completely destroyed any humanity they may have once seen in women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:21 AM
15

Let's please normalize the phrase boundary shamer! I've never heard this before and it's so apt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:54 PM
7

Agreed!! This is so insightful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:46 AM
303

Many times you get the marriage and nuclear family and you still don't mean something to someone. Not in the way you expected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:33 AM
39

Exactly. Tell me you're a gross, fat slob without telling me you're a gross, fat slob.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:58 PM
5

Do you think it's like...projection? Like they'd be attracted to a grown woman acting like a child so we must be too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:32 PM
5

Exactly. I don't believe for a minute that he's not sexually attracted to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:10 AM
63

Yes! Thank you! Why do they have to be such joy thieves??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:32 AM
16

Ugh and trying to bully her into being with him! Lord help the poor young woman with terrible boundaries that this pushy, demanding act works on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:24 AM
9

Saying no means that you may be able to do this someday for someone who you love. Who loves you back. Saying no means you will be around longer for all the beautiful souls in your life. Everyone dies eventually. Your dad's death isn't on your shoulders. People who want you to believe that are evil, cut them out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:22 PM
14

And he just assumed she would do it! The audacity. Making this donation would condone the terrible way he's treated you your whole life. He's not even superficially "nice" to you. I understand there is no choice you'll feel great about here, but do not do it. He would never do it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:48 PM
6

Awesome but you should have kept the ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:45 PM
11

Absolutely love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:19 AM
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Men who love their partners don't share them with other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:04 PM
53

Typical male redditor gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:45 PM
9

Yes! Gluttony first, the health issues follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:59 PM
53

"The women who most love this (to be taken and violated) are most men's equals; the most liberated." 35 short years later and this is rebranded as "feminism." Her paper could absolutely describe liberal feminism today, and sadly, our culture has been sold a bill of goods. Catherine Mackinnon is such a legend. Thank you for posting this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:03 AM
19

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:43 PM
72

Hahaha extra extra read all about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:43 PM
52

And for all the others that decided to remain "neutral" you are also enablers. Neutrality benefits only the oppressors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:37 PM
4

He's EvOlVeD though! 🤡🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:29 AM
97

I hope there's a special place in hell for scrotes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:24 AM
129

All of this! Also, have you considered that he might be gasp depressed?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:34 PM
30

'Sacred penises' I'm amused because it's such a ridiculous concept and ofc the ones that are the most indiscriminate about where it goes and what it does believe this the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:22 PM
10

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:11 PM
677

Not just a trail walk, but a trail near his house! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:50 AM
50

Excellent post sis! You're right, it's so subtle and so ingrained in our culture it's easy to miss. Thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:53 PM
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They only care when they think it will silence women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:38 PM
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Thank you! I'm so tired of 'being a secure woman' conflated with 'accepts me in all my scrotastic glory' Fuck right off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:35 PM
46

His beard doesn't even connect lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:09 PM
70

Kyle and Jake's approval IS what gets him hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:23 AM
99

How about be as submissive as your ego will allow? Ok. So not at all. Got it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:16 AM
75

She was my professor for one glorious semester! She and Andrea Dworkin are two of the most brilliant feminist thinkers of our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:12 AM
3

I'm with you. It's basic manners to acknowledge and thank someone for doing even a mundane, regular task. I wouldn't bend over backwards praising a man for basic things, but I do also expect a thank you for the little things I do as well. It's just kind and incorporates gratitude in your daily life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:21 PM
95

Wonderfully stated sis! Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:59 AM
41

This is so heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:49 PM
75

It's classic DARVO on a societal level. Look at this young, beautiful inexperienced teenager. How predatory of her to pursue this saggy old scrote, everyone knows he's completely powerless against her devil vagina magic on him. She's exploiting him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:21 PM
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"I am dying of boredom just writing this." 😂😂😂 this one sent me, sis! Also, swamp creature from the dorito dust lagoon...lmao You have a wonderful way with words, I thank you for your service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:42 PM
2

My absolute favorite is to say, is that a child's penis?? why did you send me a picture of a child's penis? I'm calling the FBI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:17 AM
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Consensual dismembering play makes muh peepee hard. Don't kinkshame me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:50 PM
13

They abuse the ones they think they can get away with abusing. Like the wife batterer who wouldn't dare raise a hand to another man who is bigger and stronger than him. They select their victims, but they're still narcissists in the hallows of their shriveled, black hearts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:40 AM
40

Yes, I feel that if you marry one of these morally corrupt scrotes, you'll be triangulated with the dead wife in perpetuity. The widower is the only one who wins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:28 PM
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Every single time. Even when they don't know the men. Even when it's a good friend or a young girl in their own family. They stare off into space trying to make themselves invisible, pretending like they hear nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:35 AM
16

It makes him feel good/powerful/wanted that you care so much, you'll endlessly shed tears and plead and explain how his behavior is not that of a decent human being. He's not dumb, he's just pretending he doesn't understand because he's a covert narcissist and he has a fucked up way of getting his ego stroked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:44 AM
36

Yes! They feast on our explanations and stuff their egos with our frustration with their feigned misunderstanding. Starve the bastards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:26 PM
145

Oh no, that breaks my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:26 PM
1

It's ego
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 10:01 PM
13

This is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:49 AM
9

😂deceased
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:35 AM
45

"But enough about me. What do YOU think about me?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:57 AM
22

What do you mean by stepmom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:01 AM
38

He's probably scared. It's so haaaard for men to admit fear. Have you tried relieving him of all responsibilities regarding your pregnancy and the birth? And the childcare to come?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:46 PM
47

Yeah I think it's more of a misogyny thing than an immaturity thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:41 PM
35

And what better way to achieve this goal than to prey on an unsuspecting, inexperienced girl 10+ years their junior?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:36 PM
212

I mean... she fucked his landlord? Is that what she's saying? She had me at waking the whole family up at 4am. Hell no. So she has a shitty family that tolerates a bf abusing their young daughter that still lives at home. No wonder she conflated obsession with love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:33 PM
1

Why do they even say this, like hello?? Eyelashes?? Hair that reaches the nape of your neck? It doesn't even make any sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:14 PM
8

A clapback for the ages 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:18 PM
3

That seems... almost threatening. Like lots of love = lol and the see ya. I hate it. Fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:12 PM
53

They exploit our kindness and empathy at every turn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:55 PM
27

I doubt they would care. They're the type to take the abusive son in laws side and shit all over the daughter for wanting better for her life and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:49 AM
24

Nah, that would just teach them to subvert their tells... just block and delete. (Although I totally get how satisfying it would be to say that!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:47 AM
28

Yeah the handmaiden variety that actively promote misogyny. Its like they think they're making themselves indispensable to men. They will be used/consumed and discarded gaining no respect along the way from the patriarchy they prop up. Handmaidens are their own worst enemies... it's infuriating and sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:25 PM
10

Same. I'm working to bring them around in their own time with well placed questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:59 AM
42

Its gross that they refuse to put a modicum of effort towards taking care of their skin. Also, have you noticed several companies marketing soap for men and using balls in the name somehow? Like if we're graphic and Center men's genitalia, they'll be more inclined to use it? Men are in love with their dicks and balls and think about them all the time, plus we get to further pornify the culture by normalizing talking about them. Seems like I'm seeing tons of ads this Christmas season. Which is ki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:55 AM
17

Yup, methinks the scrote doth protest too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:24 AM
224

"Why can't humanity provide me a submissive mommy bangmaid?!? I'm crying out for one! Wimmen are So! Selfish!" Nowhere is he offering anything at all. Just gimme. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:38 PM
28

Gross ass scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:34 PM
5

Wow. I'm pissed on your behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:54 AM
19

I can definitely believe that every woman he's ever been with has broken up with him. Let's hope that trend continues!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:32 PM
3

Cut of your jib 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:52 PM
15

Exactly!! Like maybe there's clutter on the table or something if you've let things get out of hand, but just throwing things on the floor?!? Why would you bespoil your own domicile like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:20 PM
18

Yeah except the incel isn't even put together from the waist up. And definitely doesn't drink from a glass lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:12 PM
6

Same. Up on day 3 = meth binge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 10:53 PM
9

Totally. Like catcalling and other unwanted harassment. I also think there's a splash of projection in there, as in they get excited when they see a penis, but they're uncomfortable with their own homoeroticism so let's go ahead and externalize that kthxbye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:37 PM
17

Ever encounter the ones who only read Palahniuk? Total lvm red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:27 PM
10

The men beg for it! Thus, it's secretly what every single man wants and I'm a sex goddess for realizing this and acting on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:25 PM
24

This is a brilliant analogy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:03 PM
6

Yes!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:01 PM
15

He's using this tragedy to hurt you further and flex that small dick energy... reach out to the family just like you would if he didn't exist. Also please block him back, so he can't come crawling back ever. His behavior so beyond unforgivable. I'm so sorry for your loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:23 PM
8

So perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:10 PM
7

It wasn't nice meeting them, so it's like the opposite of harsh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:09 PM
2

I mean, some of them do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:23 PM
46

Right? But if you throw "it was just a joke" onto whatever fucked up thing you said, the other person isn't allowed to be mad. #scrotelogic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:20 PM
3

💋👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:05 PM
15

Internalized misogyny coach. Seems pretty lucrative these days...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:23 PM
11

I thought she was going to say gaming 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:21 PM
24

What the actual fuck? Why are men?? At least this one has a happy ending. She deserves a huge settlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:18 PM
34

Who tf are these parents?? How can you hold such little regard for your own child? Also, didn't jerry lee Lewis marry his 12 yo cousin?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:07 PM
115

Crabs in a pickme bucket
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:53 PM
3

So gross and manipulative. Begone, chud!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:52 PM
43

She must have called her mil's phone...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:51 PM
4

You had me in the first half, sis 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:16 AM
7

Damn. You're probably right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:26 PM
10

Yeah but at least he's not an asshole to her whilst she's cleaning the dog shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:26 PM
147

That's it?!? I bet the men who own the site are absolutely raking it in off these women's backs too, just like regular porn. Our culture is so fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:22 PM
12

She needs to become single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:29 AM
10

Same! Like is he for fucking real? Lmao!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:28 AM
13

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:58 PM
16

I thought I saw she said if it's a fetish thing, she's done. Soo looking forward to her update. Damn I really hope she leaves. Fuck her mil too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:09 AM
20

Welcome sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:18 PM
31

I read your "for what?" In Eartha Kitts voice 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:42 AM
25

Nothing grosser than a grown man acting like a child/toddler/baby. Like that mommy wife meme that gets posted here from time to time, it just completely and utterly icks me out. FOH with that nasty shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:31 PM
26

Yas! Lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:04 PM
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Like 95% and think about how hard it is for them to be the bad guy all the time! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:51 PM
10

I love this comment 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:09 AM
243

What do they think will come of this creepy behavior? You're going to jump in his truck and give him head bc he deigned to show interest? Tf. I'm mad on your behalf and good for you for calling him out. I hope he felt so embarrassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:07 AM
32

"Take your dignity and move on." Love to see this queen shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:04 AM
218

It's funny because it's true 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:02 AM
22

Wow. She really thinks it's special and adorable that her husband has been saving his best, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent self for work and giving her the bland leftovers for 25 years. Glad you got picked, ig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:03 AM
30

He's into children, that's why he got an erection. He's into children, that's why he "trained"his gf to speak like a child for his sexual gratification. Dudes just into children, however he tried to justify it. I know you know this, but I'm just so grossed out, it had to be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:42 PM
13

I love this one!! Well done, op
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:34 PM
18

Amazing! I hope she never loses that attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:28 PM
1

Interesting, how do you mean? It seems to me to be a reason for feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:26 PM
2

Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:21 PM
34

Yes they will no matter what. However, if you wear shorts so short the bottom of your buttcheeks show, you will attract attention from more lvms than without. Same with cleavage and underboob or sideboob or whatever. More men will approach you, catcall, leer,etc. It's not right, but it's reality. I assumed this is what she was speaking to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:43 PM
39

Watch everyone on your life get so upset about how you've changed and are not as easy to walk all over and manipulate once you start setting boundaries. People get really mad when you stop bending over backwards to accommodate their shitfulness. Also when you start expecting the same of them. It's wild. And it's easy to backtrack and really consider that maybe you're being too harsh because you have a loving, empathetic heart. Sis, I promise you are not being too harsh! It might take a little wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:14 PM
43

Do you want warts and fungi? Because that's how you get warts and fungi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:05 PM
75

They really do despise us. And I don't want anything that doesn't want me. All of me, not just my sexual and emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:01 PM
1

Yeah. Run!!! This is way too messy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:26 PM
18

Such an ass. Also where was the part where he made himself seem like a better person than he is and justified his actions? Because he was a complete chode the whole entire time. Maybe bc I speak fds and the typical gloss overs don't work on me, idk...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:24 AM
69

They always do. That's why I come through and upvote everyone like a queen 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:05 AM
25

Omg yes! Foh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:40 PM
26

I mean honestly, if a man was breadcrumbing, making minimal effort, acting super selfish (and seeing nothing wrong with his behavior) and you react to these things because it's not fucking cool, he could check off this list. Reacting to abuse doesn't make you the abuser. Idk your specific situation and insight and self awareness are important. Good for you for looking inward. We always have room to grow. But my initial thoughts reading this list were that it sounds like some bare minimum effort …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 11:30 PM
5

Spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:11 PM
3

The nest! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:16 PM
2

A lot of narcissistic personalities (most, really) engage in emotional abuse. They're still abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:15 PM
2

Exactly. Coerced consent is not consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:58 PM
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I heard about these from some scrote that saw 2 prostitutes use one on each other at a bachelor party. 100% designed for the male gaze only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:00 PM
27

Some men get turned on by a woman crying and consider it a kink. There's some fucked up word for it that I don't remember. It might have been that, but the point is who cares, he's a fucking weirdo, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:57 PM
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How did you find out about it? Is there a way to check these things? Also, if you had a weird feeling about him for a while, it's pretty safe to assume he was also doing other shady shit your subconscious picked up on. Not your problem now, bullet dodged. We're proud of you, queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:52 PM
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Aka you don't go along with my gaslighting and insults to your intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:26 PM
13

I AM the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:25 PM
7

The crowd seemed to be his boys he planted around there to help with his public pressure campaign. The ones chanting marry him and booing when she walked away. No way those men were random bystanders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:24 PM
4

Way more in line with our fds principles too. I get that it feels good to get the last word in or whatever, but block and delete is the move. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:20 PM
84

Oh he thinks 'don't contact me again' is an intro to a bunch of bs back and forth. He must not know about you, sis 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:42 PM
72

Yep, basically any fake niceness men pass out on their quest to satiate MuH pEnIs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:50 AM
32

I assume it's small penis humiliation, based on the context lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:33 PM
63

Yes exactly. Also if he had an opportunity to breathe the same air as an ig model, he'd leave the gf in an instant. If she became 'best friends' with a charming, rich handsome man, he'd have his skidmark underwear all in a knot. Delusional af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:28 PM
13

I.... my ovs just shriveled up from seeing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:22 PM
41

Its sad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:14 PM
41

The roommate one stood out to me as well. A man ready to marry should have his own place. Plus yes, 19 is way too young. The younger a woman is, the smaller the age gap can be to be predatory. The consensus is 10 years but if you're a literal teenager or in your early 20s, 5 years can be too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:08 PM
80

Sph? Methinks the scrote doth protest too much. Looks like male sexual humiliation fantasies hit a big nerve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:01 PM
56

Yep. It's all a prove- yourself- to- me game where they try to trick you into thinking that they're higher value than they are. I love this sub so much for teaching me to spot the patterns. It's gross that it's so ubiquitous but I'm glad my eyes are open!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:44 AM
11

And you're aloud to feel this way! (/s and yes I've seen this from native English speaking scrote dummies)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:47 PM
74

Right? Was the tummy tuck info really necessary, bitter Brian?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:56 PM
47

Infuriating. What an absolute scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:55 PM
58

See it for the red flag that it is. Especially when it comes to something you care about or is personal to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:50 PM
59

Why can't we just exist without everything we do being viewed with this attractive/unattractive lens? Oh yeah, bc men are controlled by their dicks, duh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:49 PM
38

Yep, pedophilia is rampant once you really pay attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:47 PM
22

Hell to the fuck yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:02 AM
2

Yes I was suggesting cranberry pills for the bladder/uti issues. Perhaps they're not for everyone, but taking one daily at the first hint of uti, or before and during situations when the tend to crop up can prevent an infection altogether. Hope it helps someone❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:12 AM
40

Cranberry pills, love. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:36 AM
7

Hell yes! User name checks out, sis🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:34 AM
3

Yassss listened to it twice! Thanks sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:31 AM
12

So accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:28 PM
37

This is some beautiful poetry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:02 AM
16

Seriously. Call them creeps or weirdos. Such a shiv to their little piss baby egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:29 PM
53

Probably madonnaizes the daughter until she takes the ring off that he gave her at the purity ball 🤮 later takes her abusive husband's side in absolutely everything because wimmen, amiright?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:03 PM
31

Yes! Like a woman who trained hard to get abs would even breathe in his direction🤣 sour grapes are a hell of a lunch, scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:59 PM
38

The MRAs looove to call it divorce rape and that's actually pretty accurate, just not in the way they think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:39 AM
11

I appreciate this post. It's a great reminder to listen to our intuition/ gut/ hearts and honor what its telling us. If you don't feel uplifted after spending time with someone, they're not good for you spiritually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:47 PM
20

Right? I thought this was crazy for 2 days....2 hours?!? Thanks for letting me know you're a fucking psycho ig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:20 PM
29

EnOuGh AbOuT mE, wHaT dO yOu tHiNk aBoUt Me???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:18 PM
208

Its so sad, we are conditioned to be as small as possible physically with our bodies and emotionally with others resources. Even taking up space with the way we sit and stand in private and especially in public. My heart breaks for this woman. She's worth so much more than she realizes right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:41 PM
26

Some get mad if you don't fake it. They really do not care and are so happy to lie to themselves to preserve that precious, fragile little egg shell ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:36 PM
104

Perhaps, but being completely shut out of any interaction (block and delete) has got to be the least satisfying response to these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:55 PM
58

Their worldview is so special and important, everyone else must share it too, right? Like what else is there beyond their own dicks? Nothing of value!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:52 PM
3

Same🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:50 PM
110

Amazing to see eyes slowly open to this, it's the gateway to the truths of radical feminism!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:44 PM
15

And they say this because any time they deign to talk to a subhuman female, its to curry sexual favors. Period. Keep telling on yourself, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:40 PM
17

His eyes look evil. Giving me the creeps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:38 AM
10

Porn sick limp dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:07 AM
8

Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:48 AM
9

Damn, tell em, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:48 AM
3

Its strange to me that our sub is called female dating strategy. I would've found it sooner had it not been named female... due to my general disdain of the word tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:16 PM
7

Team don't promote a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:39 PM
10

For sure. Also my mom would totally encourage me to accept poor treatment and blame me for feeling like I deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:37 PM
10

Their jokes reveal so much about their character!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:27 PM
9

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:14 PM
12

They really are fucking tribal with the defense of other men's bad behavior no matter what. What is this systemic gaslighting bullshit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:09 PM
12

They can easily fool themselves into believing they're accomplishing something without the ennui and frustration of actually learning a new skill. They can pretend to be conquering warriors and receive instant gratification for their "efforts." Similar to porn if you think about it....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:06 PM
73

Almost as if they assume every woman exists for the male gaze. And since he objectifies women, all other men do too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:53 PM
7

Oh no lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:11 PM
12

Also ridiculously overpriced since they're wax coated canvas, not even leather. Its just flexing for clout from other people who are impressed with low quality but expensive items, ig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:09 PM
5

Yep, I'd be like thanks for the heads up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:04 PM
7

ShE gAvE mE a DiScOuNt tHe 10th TiMe I cAmE iN AND ALWAYS SMILES! sHe wAnTs mE sO bAd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:56 PM
6

I had a similar experience with a cab driver, and I freaked the fuck out on him. I'm so glad both of us escaped the assault. Happy birthday sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:52 PM
7

Wtf. That's not ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:51 PM
57

This is the biggest projection out there. Like how tf can they even tell themselves this with a straight face? Is being fine with making zero effort emotionally whilst still having all your needs met loving a woman?? And her not being okay with the drudgery of making a life and home livable while receiving no emotional support not loving a man like he loves her? Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:45 PM
75

Seems like many can only respect and therefore only truly love other men. Women are just objects to service them and gain the approval of other men they so desperately desire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:08 AM
27

It's like degrading and diminishing a woman's soul, seeing her joy extinguished feels like their own growth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:07 PM
6

So happy to hear that you're being super smart about your safety❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:01 AM
11

Have you searched for any recording devices planted in your apartment? This is so scary and my heart goes out to you sis. I can't believe the police don't care. I hope you can move soon. Trust your gut and take care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:17 AM
3

Did you return his letter like he asked? Or write a new note? I think it's weird he wanted it back too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:06 AM
6

Her kids' scrotatious father. And ya, it doesn't matter lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:52 PM
5

Yes!! The meals that they expect to get a lot of attention and praise for. But the drudgery of daily cooking is beneath them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:52 PM
11

I think it's a 'look at me, publicly negging this amazing goddess, I'm a cool boy' type of sitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:49 PM
15

What??? Fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:46 PM
28

Its so expected and ingrained in our culture, but you're right. We don't have to! Thanks, great comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:43 PM
94

They loooove to call women solipsistic... it's all projection. Good on you for standing up for yourself, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:40 PM
4

Ngl: stfu, scrt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:38 PM
8

I love this comment and I agree. It might look like the burden is shared on the outside, but likely the burden is doubled, especially when it comes to the emotional labor. Maybe take a peek at the breaking mom subreddit and bask in the peace of knowing not even a scrap of that bullshit is on your plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:07 PM
11

Yup, and this is why we cannot give men compliments even if we wanted to... they take it as sexual or romantic interest. Like maybe I just genuinely like your fucking shirt, Troy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:00 PM
9

This is the perfect translation lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:57 PM
45

All of this, and it's so rare. Men would rather ask for forgiveness than risk asking for permission and being rejected. Fragile masculinity hard at work, folks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:56 PM
80

And this is why you do everything in your power to avoid going to a second location with the shady stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:52 PM
25

Id live in that neighborhood!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:46 AM
81

D. Demonstrate value E. Engage physically N. Nurture dependence N. Neglect emotionally I. Inspire hope S. Separate entirely For the ladies that haven't seen the show, the guy Dennis is basically a pua douche and this is his system to get women to fall in love with him. Fucking absurd but also very much rooted in reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:18 AM
28

This is so sweet and exactly who deserves your energy and effort. Hope you have a lovely dinner❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:00 AM
29

That's how he knows🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:59 AM
28

I'm getting the mean girl vibes and I love this comment lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:22 AM
4

It's so unsatisfying but you're right. Safest bet is to ignore even when I want to yell, good luck with that small dick energy! With a friendly wave and a big smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:20 AM
22

I assume she means her actual aunty or one in her circle but I'm curious too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:10 AM
8

Especially number one! Attempts to elicit pity are the hallmark of sociopaths. Thank you, The Sociopath Next Door and fds for recommending that book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:09 AM
27

So many times I fell for the earnest promises that were broken over and over again...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:07 AM
12

I... just threw up in my mouth a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:03 AM
24

Because you're speaking the truth. This is beautiful and I'm saving it. Thank you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:22 PM
36

Thank you! My very first thought is that he will not notice the baby is choking until its too late. Take 15 minutes to be a present father ffs. This is not adorable or sweet or endearing, it's bullshit and shame on the pickmes that glorify it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:59 PM
26

Absolutely so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:57 PM
22

Good for you, queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:57 PM
126

It's almost as if they see us as nonhuman. Or subhuman, more accurately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:05 PM
26

Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:01 PM
7

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:00 PM
9

Queen shit!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:59 PM
15

So damn fragile!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:58 PM
36

Yes I saw a study where they did ultrasounds of the bladder before and after. It's pee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:57 PM
17

ALWAYS with the, you're not perfect either and at least I'm not going out doing whatever horrible thing that is worse than my own horrible shit. Is there an lvm script or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:37 PM
37

Wonderful quote! This is why fds is so important. Block and delete without explanation. Do it for the sisterhood!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:28 PM
29

Yep. Never move in without a commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:27 PM
11

Kick his ass out. Selflessness is not a virtue in romantic relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:25 PM
4

I'm kind of dying to know what these bs strategies are tho lol. I'll have to go read the reviews
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:24 PM
16

kickhimout2020 I just get sad now seeing all these women that need to seek validation that yes, your man is being a pig and no, having an expectation to be treated better than absolute shit is not unreasonable. Selflessness is NOT a virtue when it comes to adult relationships. Especially romantic ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:23 PM
5

Yes! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:14 AM
7

I caught that too. Maybe don't party with your underage kid and her friends? I doubt any of them are even flirty with him anyway, more like polite... which totally means they're dying for him to marshmallow in his shriveled half chub (aka bang the hell out of them.) So fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:52 AM
5

I just love how your perspective of this shit treatment culminates in growth and lessons in self respect/ love. I appreciate you sharing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:01 AM
30

Which really, is probably what this scrote wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:45 AM
12

You deserve it, sis. Get used to this treatment❤👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:36 AM
15

Kafkatrapping, weasel words, doublespeak... I'd love to see a glossary like this too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:30 AM
28

Lmao right? It's so neckbeardy. M'lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:24 AM
6

Lol this is great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:21 AM
50

Money, time AND effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:17 AM
8

Love it!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:36 PM
28

This. It is so much smarter to stay single and protect your sacred heart from lvm abuse. Makes the whole, "better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" sound like some major patriarchal gaslighting bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:17 PM
20

This is so great. When you love and appreciate yourself, it shows inside and out. I see women in their 60s and 70s all the time that radiate love and look chic af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:12 PM
140

"My wife didn't insist, so was i supposed to pick up a few phrases ON MY OWN? Why would I do that when her world revolves around me? Pssht."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:08 PM
10

And thriving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:00 PM
29

I had the same thoughts re Lundys book. They don't "lose control" it's just an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:41 PM
59

Very. She still learning, but I hope you nip that shit in the bud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:19 PM
4

Men are so nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:03 PM
8

You mean, using their toilet? Or like on the floor/ in the yard? I've allowed (outdoor) contractors to use my bathroom and both times they didn't flush and left the seat up. I find that so gross and disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:59 AM
18

Yes, I love what you said about the benefit of the doubt! Women need to be judgemental af until someone has proven themselves over time. Well said, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:24 PM
46

This is exactly what debecker talks about in the gift of fear. Your subconscious picks up on all these little cues and the uneasy feeling you get is the result. Women are conditioned to be nice and ensure no one suffers any social awkwardness at our own expense, so we often ignore that gut feeling. Cannot recommend the book enough. Sounds like your friend read it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:22 PM
15

Way to go, sis! Welcome and congrats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:17 PM
6

Hobosexuals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:41 PM
8

Id love to see this lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:42 PM
22

Damn what an asshole right up to the end! Tf outta here with that public performative apology, after you already spoke about it in private. I bet he thought he was really sticking it to you and turned everyone against you with his drama queen exit, lmao. At least he got the perfunctory 'don't go' before everyone was kinda like oh well? I love this story, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:27 PM
50

You KNOW they picked once a day bc the truth sounded too gross, even to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:06 PM
68

Applauding your QUEEN ENERGY for sticking to your standards, sis!! It's admirable that you love yourself above all else👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:01 AM
13

Getting chummy with the wife and kids was a stroke of genius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:53 PM
5

They all fucking would!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:50 PM
23

It GiVeS hIm a HoRnY bOnEr sO iTs cOoL, GuYs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:13 PM
13

Hear hear!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:11 PM
8

Hahaha her response is fucking perfect lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:03 PM
40

Some scrotes not only have standards, they've got DOUBLE standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:01 PM
2

I like the sound of this! Super curious if you could give an example of how it plays out irl?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:35 PM
133

"After countless hours of jacking off to niche porn and chatting online with my community, I've come to learn that I identify as a girl and I spent all our money on hormones, plastic surgery deposits and twirly dresses. Think I'll keep the beard though."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:33 AM
8

Lol so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:22 AM
76

It's always men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:16 AM
50

What did he do to get you fired, if you don't mind sharing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:16 AM
79

Because they're fake feminist handmaiden puppets propping up the patriarchy under the guise of go- girl feel goodery. It's easy, widely validated socially and makes them feel counter culture when in reality, they couldn't possibly be more mainstream culture. The fun kind of feminist as dworkin would say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:15 AM
7

Glad you're here! Good luck with the surgery❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:08 AM
11

Lmao, user name checks out, sis🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:07 AM
2

And the fact that there are patterns that reoccur with different people over and over again throughout time. Recognizing and naming the patterns can keep us safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:05 AM
5

Apt analysis! This makes a lot of sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:02 AM
9

Me too, that one got me lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:59 AM
2

He should be shamed of his DNA all in his own without involving women. Amongst men, animals, aliens, whatevs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:22 AM
67

Charged with one count of child abuse/ neglect causing substantial bodily harm. Are you kidding me?? His own baby girl DIED because he's a selfish scrote who cares more about his car than his baby. This is just heartbreaking. Who leaves a baby in a car in the first place? In VEGAS??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:19 AM
5

They totally look pretty, i hear you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:56 PM
12

Gorge!! I always pull off those pollen thingies bc I hate the mess but they're so pretty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:00 PM
2

Right? Her assumption of his shame was what got me. Like he hasn't even expressed that, but women need to be anticipatorily sensitive and justify scrotes anger and shit. Ugh I hate it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:12 PM
12

Lmao i love this so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:03 PM
15

You got this, queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:01 PM
27

Omg seriously? That's horrible. O cannot imagine standing by without trying to help that poor soul. And I don't even want to know what stomping out means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:55 PM
31

Have you read the handbook, sis? Block and delete. Avoid and ignore. Definitely no hangouts and certainly no kissing. It sounds like you've done incredible work on yourself, congrats. You owe it to yourself to cut him completely out of your life. You don't owe him shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:52 PM
63

I really hope it is a joke. You just know some other idiot will see this and think it's a great idea and will now ruin some other woman's trust and security for a few lousy bucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:44 PM
7

That's the QUEEN shit I love to read!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:43 AM
19

What about a dumb fox response the first time? Like oh, you don't have enough money? Is... your car not reliable enough for that? Or something along those lines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:19 AM
19

Beautifully said, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:09 AM
34

Hell yes!! You will notice so much push back from those who benefited from taking advantage of you. Men, parents, pickme friends, coworkers, whoever... don't let them deter you, queens!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:05 AM
6

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:44 AM
2

You're not sis. Is just being human, we all have those feelings at times. Growth comes from pain queen. We've all been there❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:33 AM
8

She ASKED him if he'd LET her wash his shoes? And when he granted her this saddest of sad wishes like some kind of fucked up genie, she was SUPER HAPPY you guys! Like degrading yourself and putting it on blast isn't enough. She fucking begged this dude for the opportunity to do so. Hope he picks you, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:14 PM
3

I'd love a pm too, sis! PS, smart to not publish it here so he can languish in never knowing which one of his scrotacious misdeeds caused the ruin of your relationship. I hope he's reading this and dying inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:45 PM
48

Based. Our culture seems to be shifting towards if it feels good, its right. But growth comes from pain. Thanks for the reminder, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:27 PM
133

Let's face it, no woman from any generation wants to get near this scrote. Men stay externalizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:15 PM
43

You deserve so much more than the bare minimum sis. Grieve your loss, never allow him back in your life (block and delete) and focus your sacred energy on improving your life FOR YOU!! Sending hugs❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:21 AM
27

It gives him a horny boner, thus He MuSt LiVe HiS tRuTh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:18 AM
16

Deceased 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:11 PM
35

Should've stopped responding after who's this. Please block him op, you don't need to feed his narc ego and that's exactly what happened here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:10 PM
64

I saw one that said this is my emotional support ex girlfriend. 🙄 Why is a man being emotionally dependant on a woman that he's not in the relationship always a red flag? Bc they're too shallow to keep it platonic when being vulnerable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:09 PM
52

Yeah this guy is insecure af and definitely wants to erode and control her self esteem. Hope she gets good advice and leaves his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:04 PM
3

👑👑👑love it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:33 PM
23

I agree with this. You're not the fuckface educator. I'm so glad to hear your instincts were proven correct tho, sis! Trust them next time and don't wait it out to see if they're right. They Are. Believe yourself, you got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:57 PM
21

Debecker and Lundy bancroft are essential reading for all women everywhere. I wish i could get all high school girls copies of their books and help them save themselves from so much bullshit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:54 PM
287

I'm sUpPoSeD tO bE tHe oNlY oNe uSiNg pEoPlE aRoUnD hErE 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:03 AM
11

🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:53 AM
3

Lol my question as well. My guess would be fingering, due to the period panty requirement. I take it she's a women's dating coach or smthg?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:11 AM
12

Holy shit, that's insane. I'm so sorry sis ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:08 AM
172

This is brilliant! I'm always so disgusted at the depths of their depravity. A passed out woman in the profile pic?? Like, really bruh? I wish things were different, but this is the reality of the world we live in and the more open our eyes are, the better we can navigate and protect ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:45 PM
1

Hell yes, sis!!! Reap the sweet rewards of putting yourself first now and forever! We're proud of you ❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:55 PM
12

Always!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:10 PM
91

Yeah that guilty conscience is pretty telling. I wish it was a basic truth all women knew that this is bs and no one has to put up with it. Fuck you, cosmo and your ilk for gaslighting and grooming girls to believe this is acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:09 PM
39

That's exactly it!! And/or sour grapes due to men of all ages being attracted to this demographic and unable to attain their attention/ time/ love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:24 AM
2

chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:44 AM
3

This is pretty much a perfect blanket response to any and all scrotacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:12 PM
3

This is such a lovely comment❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:08 PM
4

Yes loving that queen energy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:46 PM
70

How dare you have a preference regarding a man's looks?? 😤 thiccthighsnfatass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:28 PM
8

Omg and call the child that you birthed, "my baby" justnomil is full of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:08 PM
15

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:44 AM
63

Seriously. Their urges for sex seem to totally control them. Weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:35 AM
16

Great comment. Keeping sons from isolation is tough right now due to pandemic but that's temporary. I'd also add teaching them to clean and cook properly. Teaching them feelings and empathy cannot be overstated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:13 PM
10

Please please please tell me you responded, "who's this?" Right before you blocked and deleted. 😂 jk jk your non response is truly the best response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:09 PM
20

I'm mean honestly. What women are even replying to this shit? Keep telling on yourselves, ig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:04 PM
40

Great point! I've never thought of this, but it's so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:17 PM
1

Assumed you meant the fds minded women. I don't consider (usually downvoted and discredited) pickme's opinions as representations of this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:11 PM
30

Right? You know he's like 5'9.5 claiming 6' too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:36 AM
2

Thank you for this post! I bought and read this book based on your first recommendation and basically swallowed it in a day and a half. I should re read it again. The pity tell, unwillingness to take responsibility for their actions or consequences thereof (I've done nothing wrong), and the belief that everyone else is as unscrupulous as they are were huge in identifying sociopaths in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:26 AM
2

They do? I've never seen that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:47 PM
3

Oh yeah, my own parents yelled at and shamed me, an 8 year old girl, for wearing a dress too short around my older male cousins who made comments about seeing something they weren't supposed to see. Because it's my fault they're pigs and that I grew out of the one dress I had at the time. That they knew I'd be wearing. Girls and women are always being scolded for men's scrotacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:11 AM
4

What about INDEPENDENT MAN? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:30 PM
3

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:46 PM
32

Even if a 16 year old thinks she knows what she's doing... she doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:40 PM
32

Small dick energy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:00 PM
8

He'll do this to his own daughter/ children too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:39 AM
28

😂for the landfills!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:48 PM
4

I would feel newly single sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:24 PM
2

It's so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:02 AM
5

Damn the jokes one is especially spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:48 AM
21

I bet he unloaded the dishwasher like twice and is so perplexed as to why she isn't begging to sit on his stupid face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:36 AM
16

My thought too. Like reading a few Amazon reviews of said books doesn't count, Jason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:34 AM
15

Deceased 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:33 AM
102

Wow your instincts were dead on with this one. Men will really sink to any low to bask in our attention and waste our time. I applaud your queen energy, sis...cut his ass off. Also, this is the first time I've heard the word shitful and it's pretty much my new favorite word 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:06 AM
17

What a fucking douche. Good call sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:13 PM
13

I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:53 PM
12

I'm expected to teach my children these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:52 PM
15

Money? I hope at least. But really we know it's the patriarchy's double standards hard at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:50 PM
3

That part!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:48 PM
34

Tf? Glad he's an ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:18 PM
18

Wow that's totally fucked. I hate him on your behalf, sis. What a fucking pernicious scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:48 PM
24

If it doesn't apply, let it fly is my new go to. Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:21 PM
2

Fucking always!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:53 AM
8

Damn sis. User name checks out🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:48 AM
2

Dunning Kruger effect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:19 AM
4

💅love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:11 AM
7

Love this answer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:13 AM
119

Should ask him for her social media bc you're 'curious' about the girl he's talking about, then hit her with a link to our community. Anonymously even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:12 AM
48

Thank God she's dropping him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:07 AM
8

Isn't hitchhikers guide like scifi 101? I'm not into the genre and even I've read that book lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:04 AM
17

Oh no 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:12 PM
26

Crowns before clowns sis!😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:05 PM
44

Girl, me too. Handmaids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:04 PM
3

And reach my favorite sippy cup from the top shelf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:31 PM
13

Me too! Like, protect him from all the jezebel thots trying to get at his sad ass nubbin or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:29 PM
5

Omg you're probably right. He's so proud of himself lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:27 PM
5

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:26 PM
51

Its 100% a neg. Slicker than amateurish usual, with the plausible deniability but absolutely designed to put you in a position to seek his approval. The 'you pull it off though' is a qualifier. If it's not an outright lovely compliment, it's not a compliment ladies. I bet this chode is deep in the pua bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:16 PM
19

He's definitely some pervert. He knows it and we know it. It's so fucked up we have to deal with unwanted sexual attention AND are told we should be happy about it on top of that. I think just ignoring him was the right move... who knows if he would've followed you to your car or even followed your car to your home had be been outright rejected or embarrassed. Sorry love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:45 PM
22

Every single day, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:31 PM
9

Do you recall the name of the documentary?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:18 AM
7

I love this so much!! I guess I didn't pay attention to the title and flair, because I thought this was going to go left lol. I love that he built her up and I love that he actually knew her material well enough to be able to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:05 AM
7

I don't think there are any great shortcuts. It takes consistently decent behavior, even while stressed, busy, sick, etc. over a period of time. Wish it was as easy as calls his mom twice a week and has a younger sister or something, but really only time tells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:31 AM
2

I can understand that, it's personal and private. Please don't think you did something wrong or brought it on yourself by sharing though. His bad behavior is 100% on him. Going forward, don't give men the benefit of the doubt when it comes to injuries to your soul. They don't deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:41 PM
16

Yes!! They sow all the bullshit and then are shocked and offended when they actually gasp reap bullshit. He got exactly what he deserved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:02 PM
26

The timing, the audacity, the disrespect...it likely was a conscious thing. I'm sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:57 AM
38

Where they flirt with other women or pull back or some other lame bullshit to make you dread losing them so you chase harder/ give them what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:48 AM
19

Good for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:10 PM
6

This is perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:07 PM
22

That part pissed me off too. And he said it twice! Please do not even deign to respond to this lowly ass creature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:05 PM
189

The porn thing. I suppose I didn't think much about porn at all before, but after reading this sub for a few weeks my eyes opened. It's not just naked people having sex, it's much more pernicious and damaging than that. Like our announcement says, it normalizes violence, incest, racism, degradation, etc. It's hurting our personal relationships and our culture as a whole. Which then leads to radical feminism and it all clicks. Everything the mods and more experienced members say here makes sense …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:59 PM
8

That's called triangulation and it is a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:26 PM
12

Agreed. Excellent things to be on the lookout for. Thanks op!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:30 PM
13

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:07 AM
51

How dare we have standards?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:06 AM
9

This made me laugh out loud!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:01 PM
25

Always! And the only low level "humor" their pornfried brains can come up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:59 PM
122

Due process?!? Men will reach and cover and defend other men's bad behavior with their last breaths. Men they don't even know. Why? Because they can see themselves doing the same shitty things. They profit from the patriarchy and don't want to lose all the benefits they reap from that yummy yummy oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:58 PM
28

So great!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:54 PM
2

Oh lordt that fucking nest 😂😂😂 how dare you judge?!?!! Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:22 AM
3

My bed is an unsheeted mattress on the floor 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:00 PM
3

Wow he went full on predator. Your instincts served you well! Sometimes we have to make a scene... many psychos bank on the fact we won't. I'm curious if in retrospect, do you think your anger was really fueled by fear? I've noticed several times my fear is (immediately in the moment) expressed as anger which seems like a survival instinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:16 PM
23

This reminds me of that episode of broad city when some catcaller on the street told the women to smile so they turned to face him and used both middle fingers to turn up the corners of their mouths lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:36 PM
9

That's awesome, and it sucks but we definitely need to be aware of the possibility of violent retaliation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:34 PM
5

Haha I like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:33 PM
5

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:32 PM
11

Great point. If it seems like the kind of situation that could get violent, I'd do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:30 PM
57

Ugh. It is true and such bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:31 PM
72

Empathy. And it seems to be rare, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:30 PM
21

Pick up artist. Aka sleezebag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:38 PM
18

I fucking hate that. Fuck your intentions dude. You're still responsible for your actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:33 PM
4

What an ass. I hate him on your behalf sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:32 PM
2

You're right ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:31 PM
3

Right? And also that he's gross out of shape broke loser. Cope much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:43 PM
15

All I wAnTeD wAs a sImPLe hOmeMaDe MeAL mAdE sPeCiFiCaLlY fOr mEEE. Is he fucking serious? Never do wifey shit for scrote ass boyfriends, ladies. They will run you into the ground. I hope she dumps his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:41 PM
22

Agreed! Chefs fucking kiss, sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:19 AM
3

Wow, fuck them both! No one needs that toxicity in their life. Glad you're on to better friendships sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:20 PM
18

Wtf what an asshole! Kinda dying to know what she did lol. Glad she's no longer in your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:14 AM
6

Ok yes I'm petty but I'd just not go and then give him the flimsy excuse after he realized he's waiting at the airport for nothing. I was beginning to work on going.... or whatever lame thing he said about unfollowing the thirst accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:21 PM
26

Not angry necessarily, but they'll look down on you for being foolish enough to fall for it. Some guys like to "conquer" (ruin) healthy, well adjusted women. It's sick, but that's the way it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:28 PM
5

Dick is abundant and low in value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:31 PM
13

Yeah just block him and keep it moving. No response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:31 PM
6

Yep. Get rid of the gift, cut the ex off. Don't give it any importance and there's nothing to tell the new guy. Boundaries are for YOU. You are the most important person in this situation and you owe nothing to anyone but yourself. Happy birthday, give yourself the gift of that glowy, block and delete queen energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:24 PM
11

Omg that one's barefoot!!! Hope you're up to date on the tetanus shots, boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:26 AM
13

Right? Slowly but surly you've proven yourself to be inarticulate af, Robin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:23 AM
32

Self deprecate lmaoooo he's an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:20 AM
11

That's that queen energy we love to see💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:19 AM
23

Idk sis. Lowest possible effort so you never expect things from them? Scrotes gonna scrote. Why would a woman entertain this bs? Couldn't be us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:17 AM
5

Classic projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:16 PM
7

Old you and those experiences led to your awakening of men's true nature. You wouldn't be the queen you are now without those learning moments. Don't be so hard on yourself, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:14 PM
22

Aka he didn't want to face the consequences. Glad he's an ex sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:17 PM
21

My first thought too. Where the fuck are her parents? Who the fuck are her parents? Sick fucks willing to sacrifice their toddler daughter's dignity for a tiny bit of notoriety and money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:26 PM
4

Yes! Is it things, or YOUR things? Also please read why does he do that by Lundy bancroft
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:00 PM
16

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:33 AM
308

Ugh. Oldest daughters are totally expected to take on the responsibility of being second mom. Reminds me of a meme posted here a while ago asking if you had a good childhood or were you the oldest daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:32 AM
20

Queen energy, I love it!! Block and delete and let him keep telling on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:17 PM
4

Welcome! So glad that ex is behind you, he sounds like a real piece of work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:05 PM
25

Sometimes I think you have to choose the lesser of two evils. Reporting the assault is way more important. Plus it shows him you're not to be fucked with, especially if you continue following the advice to keep your vulnerabilities to yourself and project strength from here on out. I'm so sorry that happened to you❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:53 AM
15

Yep he's totally looking for some sad soul to claim she can make a quiche and biscuits from scratch, blah blah blah... and probably offer to prove it. Also, brunchgiving sounds amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:02 AM
21

This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:58 AM
15

Holy shit, I've never considered this perspective and it makes so much sense. This is totally why this type pushes women into depravity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:35 PM
19

I bet he stepped over her to pour himself a cup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:30 PM
10

Right? I'm like, not even children. Teach them kids to pick up their own shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:27 PM
24

I mean, she didn't just fall over either. His slap was so hard it knocked her over. Tf, did he use all his strength when he hit her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:25 PM
14

The scrotacity is ageless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:06 PM
7

The scrotacity is ageless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:06 PM
3

It's not even confidence. It's projection. And he's ranking himself way too high. So I guess it is confidence lmao with a heavy splash of delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:58 PM
2

Agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:07 PM
15

It sounds like you need to do a lot of healing on your own. For yourself. Staying friends with your ex isn't helping your mental state at all. Continue with your therapy and build yourself back up. Your assault was not your fault but you need to believe it too. Read the handbook in the sidebar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:16 PM
17

Love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:22 PM
11

The pickmeishas might notice you living happily this way and start to have standards for themselves. Tides might turn and lvm might have to actually make an effort and offer value in order to get their dicks wet. We can't have that! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:30 PM
36

No thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:48 PM
31

Lol definitely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:32 PM
71

He's still denying it. He thought she wouldn't notice, also that she wouldn't mind if he spent it on himself. Also that he planned on telling her and why. Come the fuck on. I'm with you, I'm so glad she sees through his bullshit. Dying to know the real story. Side chick? Prostitutes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:30 PM
32

I'm sure she'll get picked and dumped over and over. Hate to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:57 AM
5

Yeah it sounds like he enjoys eliciting an emotional reaction from you, while he gets to sit there all, what did i do? I didn't do anything hurr durr. Gray rock his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:56 PM
14

That's how people respond when they're insecure about their views. Reasoned, well thought out opinions can withstand debate and questioning. Must have been her first foray out of the echo chamber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:25 PM
6

I love this attitude. We owe to them and to ourselves to live our best lives!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:44 AM
79

It's a harsh truth but it needs to be known.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:42 AM
127

She lost me at having to convince him that smelling nice is not just a capitalist scheme. Pickmeishas are really their own worst enemies. The worst part is, after everyone told her to break up, she is still asking for closure at the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:40 AM
19

No way that first guy changes his sheets once a week. Also they're all liars about how often they clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:43 PM
22

Great list lmao! "That wasn't my intention" fucking infuriates me. Also, bed is a mattress on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:28 PM
29

So true. And they take any criticism so personally! Like you don't even know these people, why is your back up? Unless.... you want any woman who may speak out about the dastardly deeds you could see yourself committing to be silenced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:25 PM
6

Men are narsty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:20 PM
38

The mental gymnastics a man will go through to avoid admitting that rape is a real and not uncommon issue is astounding. Why do they make so many excuses for men they don't even know, let alone the ones they do? Do they all suspect they're capable of it deep down or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:07 PM
44

Funny story and you tell it well! I'm glad those other men decided to follow you two out of the bar though. That whole thing could've gone left real quick. In the interest of self preservation, I'd encourage any ladies who find themselves in this situation to enlist the presence of a bouncer before publicly humiliating a man like this. It sucks but I'd imagine having to get your jaw wired back together or whatever is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:02 PM
19

I imagine they assume the woman they're dealing with is even less knowledgeable about carpentry than they are, so they can get away with the lie. Show em what's up, sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:50 PM
22

Maybe it's to demonstrate the decent genetics that aged terribly? It doesn't really matter, they know they look bad and YOU now know they don't take care of themselves. Imagine what that neglect will look like in another 15 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:48 PM
16

You just KNOW he thinks he's brilliant for that little time is money, that's why they call it paying attention quip. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:43 PM
31

Ofc his bed is a mattress on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:28 PM
24

I was pleasantly surprised by the few that were like, therapy, or what if he's really talking about murder. Seeing self love and self respect on tik tok gives me so much hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:26 PM
21

I think you're right, it's only going to get worse. I can't imagine porn changing for the better... unless that was somehow more lucrative. It's always going to be about the money, culture be dammed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:11 PM
2

Right? This is an instant classic lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:14 AM
45

Right on. Violent sex, choking, spanking, hair pulling, all that shit is becoming more and more normalized (vanilla?) and actual, respectful love making is seen as subversive. It's more common to hear 'who's your daddy' than 'I love you' Thank you for this post. I need to get my ass on Gail Dines website, reframing culture, to get tips on how to discuss this with my kids and other mothers. It's so important and people don't want to talk about it let alone think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:39 PM
9

Evy is such a queen!!! I just finished her book, becoming bulletproof, highly recommend. Her interrogation techniques for spotting liars are perfect for vetting men on dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:00 PM
60

Hope she gets picked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:54 AM
4

Have you read the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:54 AM
7

Hahaha i like this one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:11 PM
16

It's so messed up but this really is the best approach in my experience. You have to be fake sweet in order to avoid provoking their ire. Fragile little egos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:30 PM
14

Oh you're having a horrible day? You should touch my peepee, it always makes me feel better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:04 PM
21

Don't hurt my fee fees about being a shitty dad! pic of a toddler and an infant standing on furniture next to an open window
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:58 PM
58

What the actual fuck? This is gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:51 PM
22

Wasn't this the judge assigned to the epstein case? So many suspicious/ silencing things happening around anything connected to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:42 AM
18

This is amazing lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:33 PM
1

Any little thing they can do or say in an attempt to assuage the butthurt over not being able to create life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:34 PM
30

She's stunning and I love to see women standing up for themselves. Posting a bunch of sexy pictures to prove her point seems to be playing into his hands though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:30 PM
77

The strippers he spends his paycheck on call him handsome, plus every morning his mom calls down the basement stairs, "time to wake up, my perfect boy" so he figures he's a 9. At least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:29 PM
13

Lol happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:24 PM
80

I don't know this guy but his points are straight from the handbook... Don't ever let a guy cross your boundaries, neg you, give you orders, make sexual comments early on. Don't play it cool when a man does these things. Tell him in a low voice that what he said is unacceptable and let the awkward silence ring like a siren 🚨 Seems spot on to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:15 PM
100

And men are like, maybe I'll consider forgiving you if you grovel to my satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:00 PM
48

You need to show him that do not contact me means just that. He's toying with you, love. Please block and delete. I know it's a bit unsatisfying for you, but it will be extremely unsatisfying for his dumb ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:34 PM
42

Has she considered...a nest? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 05:53 PM
27

Brutally accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 05:49 PM
29

Look at meeeee!! I'm performing wokeness!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:47 PM
31

I wonder if it's because you're out and about without a man at your side? Men seem to behave themselves better when a real possibility of getting their ass kicked exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:46 PM
25

This is the queen energy I come here for! Love it, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:43 PM
7

... dad jeans and uncle belt!! This is poetry lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:33 PM
7

Agreed, it's so unnecessary to compete when we can elevate ourselves and each other with cooperation and respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:32 AM
29

Right? This is a huge fuck you to that woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:40 AM
37

Tf is on his shoulder? At least he's upfront about his low value?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:39 AM
35

I needed this today too! Seems like the stronger my self love grows, the more push back I get from the world. Grateful to you ladies for keeping me on track!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:58 PM
39

Uhhh... that ain't a grown ass man, sis. That's a child in disguise lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:56 PM
41

Yes! This covertly pernicious language is gaslighting and needs to be identified and rooted out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:51 PM
1

So so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:24 AM
20

(With your cheap ass) 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:35 AM
2

International rescue committee, catholic relief services, Islamic relief USA. However, I didn't know she was donating to Canadian red cross and assumed it was the American arm, my bad. There are plenty of reasons why the red cross is corrupt including my own personal experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:26 AM
44

Yeah the "cannot control their aggression" is a lie plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:45 PM
15

I agree with everything you're saying about Zuckerberg furthering misogyny and I applaud your efforts to assist the humanitarian crisis in Yemen. However, the red cross is horribly mismanaged, wasteful and corrupt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:34 PM
103

It's physical prowess. 95% of men can overpower a woman physically, those odds go way down when it comes to another man. 50/50 or less. Men that react based on who can and cannot kick their ass are seriously unhinged and to be avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:24 PM
8

So...that's not a hvm. That's an opportunist looking to be congratulated for not being violent/creepier than he already was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:27 PM
10

I hear you but he was still hoping for something back for 'rescuing' her. I wonder if he would have even bothered had she been unattractive or old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:04 PM
8

Right! We actually care about not hurting the person we're in a relationship with. I don't feel a need to share all the times a guy flirts with me or does some show off move to get my attention because what's the point? To let everyone else know I'm desirable? Of course I am and I don't need to convince anyone else nor myself lol. More importantly, I try not to be an asshole and hurt people I care about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:48 PM
19

I think it's empathy too. They benefit from not caring about how the shittiness affects you, so where's the motivation to change it? It takes the possibility of losing the relationship for them to go through the motions but they still don't give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:16 PM
72

I have anxiety, I don't know what's wrong with me, boo hoo now I need to be comforted and reassured that I'm not a piece of shit. Newsflash bud, you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:47 PM
8

Agreed, that was my initial impression too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:50 PM
122

Why do they think they can just say anything and get soooo offended they're not believed when they want to be? How the fuck are these males coming up with this incredible sense of entitlement?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:42 PM
29

Yes, perfect translation!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:36 PM
7

Perfection chefs kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 12:28 AM
7

Gosh I guess I'm cynical, but I'm really hoping the "baby boy" she'll have more time to love on is their child and not what this dude calls himself lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:46 PM
2

Best thing I've read all day! Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:10 PM
14

The mistress should just know and pack the snacks without him having to ask. Let this be a lesson to all the women in his life /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:52 PM
42

Damn that makes this whole thing even sadder. The mras will use her as long as she serves their purposes and discard her without a second thought. This is an extreme example of how men will use a woman but never respect her if she doesn't even respect herself. It's so pathetic and terrible and such a disservice to her child. Hopefullythe kid will be okay someday. So fucking sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:15 AM
123

Has she tried communicating with him and letting him know how this makes her feel? Just kidding, sell the pc, table and chair and Dump. His. Ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:32 AM
19

Read this one a few hours back and I was pleased the comments advised her of being financially and emotionally abused. Kind of rare in that sub, love to see the truth being spoken!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:17 AM
14

I don't have Twitter nor Instagram and my reddit is pretty new...I actually made it so I could participate in this sub and to a lesser extent gc. It's been great to get to comment and vote here and I'm thankful for the enormous benefit I've already received from this community. I'm willing to do any other form of verification of my womanhood, but I totally understand the volume of applicants probably precludes it. I appreciate all of you queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:48 AM
18

And probably daughter's too. There is no lower limit to their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:39 PM
86

OK, coomer. I wish this were an exaggeration but it's right on point. With his dusty c cup ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:21 PM
30

He's running around town without a care in the world. No way he's going to quarantine for 2 weeks before spending time with you. He might try to claim it, but it's not going to happen. Just bc he never gets sick doesn't mean he can't be asymptomatic and still spreading it everywhere. He seems to only care about himself. Do yourself a favor and next this disease vector.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:17 PM
17

Haha I love it!! I'd be tempted to tell him, I could grind you up, but I doubt I have enough freezer space🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:05 AM
98

She rearranged her whole life to her great detriment to take over his responsibilities. He doesn't cheat/ beat me is never enough of a reason to stay. Like damn, sis. That little girl probably loves her too, it's just heartbreaking. Never do wifey shit before he proves himself worthy and offers you a real commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:01 AM
2

This is so great!! Thanks for sharing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:52 AM
9

Its so normalized lately. Like this is not a locker room, ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:15 PM
1

Baby moles! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:50 PM
14

Great article!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:33 AM
23

That's really it, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:46 AM
12

Absolutely! But it is so commonplace in romantic relationships many women don't even think twice. They had us (me) fooled in the first half, ngl. But no more! Fuck that noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:42 AM
1

Lol or embroidered on a pillow please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:39 PM
47

Thank you! We give them an inch and they assume it's a mile. Men cannot accept a compliment at face value, they go right to assuming you are dying to fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:41 PM
1

Lmao!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:38 PM
2

I love this, sis! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:51 PM
63

You KNOW he's short and insecure about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:03 AM
178

Right? That diatribe makes me want to slowly disappear backwards into the bushes a la Homer Simpson lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:02 AM
5

Love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:00 PM
25

Sounds like standard liberal feminism to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:02 PM
27

The media/patriarchy. So basically they lie to themselves lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:00 PM
42

Wow, you own mom. Does she now realize how dangerous and naive her actions were?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:44 PM
81

Yes!!! This was the Dump. His. Ass. girl, wasn't it? Love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:24 PM
5

I mean, everyone has a 'good heart' deep down, right? They don't, but you could make that argument for anyone. Some dummy sees the (fake) good in the worst person on earth. It's so important to judge people by their actions, not their potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:40 PM
1

Does anyone else use reddit on a mobile app? I can't find a url for my user page which is needed to request the code on the website. Please help me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:49 PM
35

No, little scrote, I am not your mother. Go ask that dark triad lady who will surely destroy your will to live over there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:37 PM
15

First of all, that whole family is disgusting. Secondly, farting and burping are natural processes, sure, but I expect the people around me to at least try to be discreet about it and say excuse me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:52 PM
27

There's this red pill baloney called the sexy sons theory or whatever, where the mothers will encourage their sons philandering. Because having their negative value scrote sons fathering many children spreads HER genetic material about. To the detriment of the poor mothers, society and civilisation as a whole. How fucking gross is that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:36 PM
24

This is actually great advice! Perhaps not for everyone but I'm loving the queen energy sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:27 PM
179

Right? The scrotacity of these men. I hope she dumps his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:21 PM
3

Chirp chirp 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:42 PM
3

Debra Winger is a queen. Thanks for the list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:51 PM
10

If it's safe to run outside where you live, try that. Running is a great stress reliver and when you're consistent with it you can see improvements in your time and distances regularly. Plus it can be exhausting which is better for you than sleeping pills. My heart goes out to you too, sis. You're a lot stronger than you realize!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:43 PM
181

She's pregnant as well! This is a parade of red flags. She needs to leave him asap. And report to the doctor, hospital, police that he stole her insulin. I cannot imagine she's going to go through the next 4 days without her medication. This man will end their lives one day. These abusive patterns seem to emerge from their shadows once the woman becomes pregnant. Don't let it be you! If you haven't read Why does he do that by Lundy bancroft, please do!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:26 PM
21

Women of fds told you it was because you're ugly?? That... doesn't sound like anything I've seen here. Anyway it's not true. Beautiful women attract everyone, you just have to separate the wheat from the chafe. I can understand how it could be insulting that a below average looking guy thinks he can just get sex from you with no effort, but it's a reflection of them and their delusion and has nothing to do with you actually being attainable to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:53 AM
45

I think no matter what you look like, you will get lvms shooting their shot for casual sex. Being beautiful is no immunity. The audacity knows no bounds lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:08 AM
72

It's thirst trapping and low value behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:59 AM
18

Sharing a bed and a home and presumably having sex regularly are still wifey things, but that's great you're not doing the whole maid service bit. Idk, I'm pretty direct so I'd just say how come you haven't introduced me to your parents yet? Or tell him you'd really like to meet them and see what he says. If you're in love and he's close to them, it makes sense you'd want to know them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:55 AM
28

You moved in after dating for only three months? Sis... that's giving wifey privileges way before he's earned them. He should be proud to introduce you to his parents, let alone notify them of your existence. What does he say when you ask him about this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:50 AM
6

It sounds to me like you have healthy boundaries! Your boss should not expect any emotional labor from you in any capacity. Good on you for sidestepping it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:48 AM
9

That's a hot take I've never heard before. I used to consider myself an empath but haven't thought about it much since leveling up/strengthening my boundaries. The one remnant is I can still feel people's grief as my own though when they lose a loved one. I want to be able to control my crying at these times, I hate that I can't. I'm going to explore this more, thanks for the food for thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:44 AM
64

No, it's not so far away. My presumption is he's trying to get you to beg for him not to walk away and offer to come to him? Either way, next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:41 PM
3

Ohhhh I thought you meant you didn't agree with the pic in the post, like that's fds 101 and obviously the guy should ask you out and pay. Like yeah none of us agree you should split the bill or actually pay the whole thing, but you meant the opposite. So it's actually not funny at all. Have you read the handbook? You know what this sub is about right? You don't have to settle for that treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:03 PM
7

It's so much more prevalent than I realized. Now I can't stop seeing the red flags either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:52 PM
18

I love this as a response. May we all get what we deserve lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:51 PM
14

I like it. I'm in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:31 PM
29

Love to see it. Well done, queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:31 PM
1

Idk why this made me laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:12 PM
3

You're an awesome auntie!! We need to keep teaching the younger generations, so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:00 AM
23

Thank you❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:22 AM
9

This is amazing, thank you so much!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:22 AM
3

I will!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:28 AM
15

They banned pornfreerelationships too??? Come on. This is so fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:47 PM
22

Saidit.net and spinster.xyz now have gender critical spaces and i believe there are discords as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:28 PM
18

Total narcissist move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:54 PM
95

This is so disgusting. And I just found out reddit banned r/gendercritical which was one of the best radfem subs imo. I'm truly concerned they're coming for us next. Why can't we have our own little space in this perverted cesspool? It's heartbreaking on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:50 PM
80

It's so common! Lord grant me the confidence of a mediocre man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:27 PM
45

Different side of the same coin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:23 PM
26

Nah. Unmatch without explanation was the perfect move. He doesn't even deserve your cleverness lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:04 PM
44

He yelled at you?? He's really going to try to intimidate you into a situationship? I really hope this tactic has never worked on anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:52 PM
25

At least she gets validation from the scrotes of the internet for her top-tier pickmeisha status.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:47 PM
31

Ugh. He sounds like one of those truerateme incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:40 PM
131

I don't even understand how it gets to that point. Men really have no empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:34 PM
8

Cockpanion!!! LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:43 PM
35

By "hang out" he means make yourself available to me based on my schedule alone, including and especially at the last minute. By have "fun" he means no strings attached, performative, degrading porn style sex and emotional torture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:35 PM
13

Its so true. And my mom is still to this day proud of being able to use guilt to manipulate me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:50 PM
16

That's really disgusting, I'm so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:42 PM
8

Uncanny valley
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:21 AM
38

Lack of ability? It has nothing to do with inability. Replace ability with willingness. Men don't wanna and you can't make them 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:04 AM
27

They do! It's crazy they'd even participate in that trash sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:26 AM
23

Same here! Are these women masochists or something? Are bitter scrotes posting these pics pretending to be these women just to make themselves feel better? It makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:24 AM
9

😂😂😂I love everything about this comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:06 AM
69

I just peeked over there and it's freaking ridiculous!! Beautiful young women being rated a 5.5? Another gorgeous girl and they're like you have a slightly above average quirky face... lmao. Ok, coomer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:05 AM
12

I never looked at it as sociopathy, but it's true! Ps happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:36 PM
24

I mean, yeah, that's their preference honestly. The scrotacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:00 PM
12

Love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:57 PM
36

I read that as boring then ghosting at first glance. Still works lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:52 PM
25

Why are men always surprised that violence and murder aren't women's go to solutions for everything? Scrotes stay solipsistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:49 PM
12

I've been dying for a shot to be a scrotes Mommy McBangmaid!! Where do I sign up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:37 PM
10

My MO is to trickle out nuggets of truth. People usually won't overhaul their worldviews based on one, or even a few, in depth conversations in my experience. I'm interested to see how others respond to this one as well, it's a great question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:32 PM
13

I don't think those standards are unreasonable at all! I've seen women posting for potential roommates requiring no drugs and no revolving bedroom doors. It didn't work out that way for her since the roommate that moved in was your typical cokehead stripper, but I think it's totally fair to explain your expectations and vet for the roommate you want. Can you hit up any friends who might be able to personally vouch for someone? Or even better, find a side hustle that affords you the opportunity t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:30 PM
6

I would just come out and ask. Tell him you want to know everything about him. I'm nosy though and would ask about his childhood, what high school was like, all of those things. What's the deal with his feet tho, sis? Inquiring minds want to know! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:22 PM
23

🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:53 PM
7

Also, a 3 year old??? I'm horrified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:24 AM
24

My thought was that he's testing the waters to see if his wife would roleplay being the daughter in bed. Or to groom her into being okay with his sexual obsession with their child. Is it really common for people to accidentally yell out the wrong name during sex? Its never happened to me or anyone I know, I've only heard of it online. That poor baby, he's definitely being gross with her on some level. I hope this pickmeisha wife opens her eyes and gets the hell away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:23 AM
8

Exactly my thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:15 AM
39

I am so happy for you and your selflove glow up! It sounds like your younger years were painful but it's really a blessing to be able to learn these lessons through others mistakes and not go through the LVM induced heartbreak so many others have suffered. Please read the gift of fear, why does he do that, not your mother's rules and why men love bitches. Keep working on truly loving yourself, you got this! And we're here for you❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:42 AM
52

Thank you! Making fun of a person's laugh speaks lowly of your character. Dark soul ass joy thief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:33 AM
12

Absolutely, I love all of this. Replace those proverbs with... Respect yourself first. Secure your own oxygen mask before assisting others. The most important relationship in your life is the one you have with yourself. You are doing important work OP. Thank you for your contribution to humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:47 PM
5

Yes! The example of the family in bancrofts book, where the children blame and resent their mother for being abused broke my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:38 PM
7

Agreed. Did you see the part where she said he "claimed" to have not used protection with the other women? He full- on-dirtbag admitted it and she's not sure if she believes it? I wish we had troops we could send in to save these women from themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:20 PM
8

Same, bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:14 PM
28

Maybe you're not in the US, but I could not imagine going to a nude beach solo as a woman. Even with friends, I was approached by too many pervs and it was much worse if the friend had to grab something and I was left alone. Like they crowd in on you and feel totally entitled to encroach and attempt to converse (and leer to the most uncomfortable degree) once a woman is there alone. Even if it's for 3 minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:47 PM
49

Me too and all it did was convince me he's a psychopath and to be avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:38 PM
12

The worst men I've ever known were Aquarians. Also Scrotepios have such fragile little egos omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:11 AM
28

Wow I hope she discovers that he's scamming her for money. Can you send her another anonymous tip on that front?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:21 AM
63

Who are these people??? This is how he speaks to her? And she's worried SHE blew it and still wants to be with him? Human depravity knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:56 AM
25

Such a horrible tragedy and I hope she can rest in peace now. Of course none of this is her fault but it really goes to show you that toxic optimism can be deadly. The article said she only saw the good in the worst people everyone else hated and shared her heart with everyone. You don't owe anyone your kindness, let alone a piece of your heart. It's okay to judge people, find them lacking and remove them from your life. Being "beautifully stubborn" about only seeing positivity in shit people is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 10:24 PM
5

Oh they lose their damn minds, you're so right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:24 PM
286

Such bullshit how they KNOW they are totally in the wrong so they attack your "tone." Fuck right off. I'm so mad on her behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:16 PM
84

Ugh even the old ass ones get that prefrontal cortex deterioration and grab and say sexually inappropriate shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:36 AM
88

She wants people to validate her because she knows deep down how gross this is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:51 AM
86

It's so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:48 AM
177

"Accusations like that could ruin his life!" Where is the sympathy for the innocent child? What about her life being ruined? They also excuse it for the sake of family unity and honestly just don't want to have to deal with the discomfort of facing the fact that there's a pedo in the family. It's disgusting. Those poor babies who have no one in their corner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:47 AM
17

Right? And their divorce lawyers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:49 AM
82

I am loving your QUEEN energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:47 PM
3

The little book of stoicism by Jonas salzgeber. Breaks down the best of the stoics, Seneca, epictetus, Marcus Aurelius and has practices you can implement in your life. Good on you for leveling up sis. Love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:06 PM
22

Dirty fingernails?? Yeah I'm going to automatically assume guy sleeps on mattress on the floor. Without sheets. Narsty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:47 PM
122

What does countless fucks have to do with anything? They'll really grasp for any straw. My heart goes out to his poor wife, i hope he at least has the decency to keep this poison to himself. The fucking scrotacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:36 PM
10

Love it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:47 PM
51

Wow, so edgy and hilarious, brayden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 11:56 PM
10

Not harsh enough. The message you sent without the I'm sorry would be polite af. He deserved to be left on read with no response at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:53 PM
33

Nice and sweet and probably good hearted but also a pickmeisha who's gonna have her time wasted over and over. You're going to have to be the strong example for them. Don't doubt yourself for a second, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:49 PM
9

I know so many whole families that center their weekends/ free time around the man's hobbies. He's the only one engaging in the thing but they all travel for it and support it and are the biggest fans. From the sidelines. It seems like no one thinks twice about this arrangement either. Like ofc my wife and children are mere extensions of myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:07 AM
16

Girl.... user name checks out lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:42 AM
38

That doesn't even make sense, like if you're soooo lonely your standards are in the basement then you'd accept the scrotes date, no? Sounds like a bullet dodged. You don't owe them shit, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:30 AM
30

As a defense mechanism? Does he mean he'll crank up the sleazy to distract from the fact that his personality sucks? I don't understand this. Also notice the ones who claim to be alpha are soo insecure?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:28 PM
34

The woman expert. They wouldn't dare do this to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:07 PM
12

And the fact that he announced that he's a shitty dad and will continue to be throughout his poor daughters lives. So charming! So hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:44 PM
9

It's offensive lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:20 PM
159

So much worse and so clear it's obviously the truth. This woman has been at least emotionally abused for a while if she even has to ask this question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:15 PM
55

Is.... he rubbing his junk? Ugh. Also how did he cause her to lose her apartment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:41 AM
37

Aka I'll treat you like shit and if you have a problem with that, it's your own fault bc I told you how I am upfront.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:40 AM
7

It's very weird and probably fake. Deep conversations while she's naked in the bath? She can wash her vulva but needs him to wash her breasts? I'm shocked at how many people are validating this and I bet this whole post is an attempt to nudge incest toward being more socially acceptable. Thank goodness for this sub and the sane women here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:38 AM
18

Highly recommend this book as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:21 PM
37

They're so used to bloviating their clearly brilliant opinions on literally everything they don't even notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:04 PM
32

You're just an asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:58 PM
31

Right? What a fucking catch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:29 PM
5

Dunning Kruger effect lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:26 PM
16

Why are they so delusional? Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:25 PM
38

Yas!! Crowns before clowns girls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:14 PM
11

Nice, sis. First time hearing that phrase and it's so perfect lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:59 PM
19

Thanks, I hate it😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:37 AM
22

Yeah. That toxic optimism shit sounds tedious af too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:20 AM
84

Crowns before clowns, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:03 AM
15

They get lazy or never measured up in the first place, and count on our strength of character and loyalty not to seek those things elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:50 PM
28

What the eff did i just watch? Lmao. They seemed completely uninformed of any argument or point, let alone anything credible. Rando guy on the beach knew more about the history of circumcision. How are you going to advocate with zero information? Feminism is bad, hurr durr. Now, look at our bodies, never mind the lack of substance. (Hint: any type of 'substance' could be easily disproved so we'll just skip that pesky little step.) This is just cringey and embarrassing all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:56 PM
12

Exactly!! She's their pet handmaiden. Just at the expense of our culture, no big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:52 PM
9

Yeah that phrase makes me think of how many people you've murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:09 AM
2

Apparently the truth, "for jerk off material" would be too crude, even for them. Ugh these scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:03 PM
16

I love this comment! I was just thinking about how we should save our unconditional love for our children and pets but we need to come from a place of benevolence, not servitude. Having the utmost respect in ourselves first and foremost is truly the best thing for our families.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:10 PM
4

I would go with, what do you mean or why would you ask me that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:13 PM
10

I like this. Just get off their radar asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:39 PM
9

I love this so much! I got goosebumps reading your words. Such a wonderful reminder, thank you for sharing sis ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:27 PM
119

'Really I appreciate it, but no thanks' is in no way a rude response. A bit overly polite imo, but this guy clearly doesn't give a single fuck about your boundaries and the unfortunate truth is that being overly polite while standing your ground is often necessary to prevent violence. Men can get angry and violent anyway, but sometimes you can tell that anything other than saccharine sweetness will set them off. Its infuriating. At a party with your friends around, I wouldn't think this approach…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:42 PM
19

cough cough relationshipadvice cough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:31 PM
202

Well, what was he wearing??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:00 PM
34

It's so manipulative to use our kindness and compassion against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:35 AM
34

The mutual best friend is not your friend sis. Why are so many husbands of nurses on the front lines acting so childishly? Is the fact that their wife is making a huge contribution to humanity really so emasculating that they have to blow up the whole family with these mantrums? The fragility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:32 AM
19

Yes, he has zero respect for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:14 AM
15

Honestly, women are conditioned to have such low standards when it comes to husbands behavior. Like all the cleaning you'd do after him is some sort of badge of honor to be proud of, yet also banal and to be expected. I think it's a crabs in the bucket situation...I had to put up with terrible behavior from my man, you're not better than me so you don't deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:11 AM
62

Yeah for sure. So many men say they need sex because their love language is touch. If that were really true and not simply an excuse to get their dicks wet, hand holding and other forms of physical closeness to increase intimacy would suffice most of the time. Do they ever beg to give you a back massage, a foot rub? Nope, all about muh peepee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:44 AM
246

The 'please no negativity' at the end captured the essence perfectly lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:21 AM
20

Accurate. And gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:22 PM
29

She is deluding herself. If 'hot boy' magically decided to start treating her with respect, she'd be all about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:20 PM
5

This was what I thought when reading ops post. Children are physically weaker and very young ones require intervention to survive. If kids could whoop a typical grown man's ass easily, they'd be highly valued by the patriarchy, full stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:42 PM
67

It seems like everything on that sub is, if you have to ask, you already have your answer. Like that show cheaters where they'd bust people in the act... people already know they're with a cheater, they just need to be hit over the head with the evidence. I hope she gets the validation or whatever it is she needs to leave this nvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:12 PM
3

You KNOW he's not replacing the garbage bag, putting the new ones in the cans either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:29 PM
209

I mean, yeah remove yourself from this asshole's life, but giving them your blessing and wishing them happiness?? Nah sis. They're both trash and do not deserve your kindness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:20 PM
19

It's easy to feel insulted by the audacity of lvm feeling entitled to your time/ attention/body/love etc. Once you level up that self confidence, you realize that so many scrotes think you're perfect for them, because of course they do, you're a queen. You understand that their audacity is a reflection of their own self delusion, and certainly not due to you being anywhere close to attainable to them. I just wish women didn't have to be so careful in letting these unhinged losers down gently. Li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:11 PM
11

So true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:02 PM
174

They really can't help but to flatter themselves. Lord grant me the confidence of a mediocre man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 01:43 PM
7

I have and they got real flustered and ducked right off lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:22 AM
1

Guarantee of paternity I'm thinking. Thanks for your response, you've given me a lot to examine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:01 PM
4

How are the roots and philosophies different? This article could have been written by an fdser, the blooms on these plants so to speak look very similar. I'm new to all of this and coming from a religious conservative background, but radical feminism resonates strongly with me, especially as I delve deeper. Is it because radfem is based in Marxism vs faith? Also, I never heard about the research regarding sociopaths kissing with their eyes open but omg that is totally true in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:02 PM
22

OK I love this energy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:55 AM
108

And they say women are duplicitous. Project much, scrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:39 AM
64

At least he had the decency to succumb to the pressure and resign after this tweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:22 AM
189

Yes your instincts are correct. He's not prioritizing you and being insulting on top of it? Nah sis, you deserve better. Give yourself better and 86 this fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:08 PM
17

All of this sis! Lundy Bancroft talks about it in his book, why does he do that. They want to implant their jewels of wisdom in your brain and expect you to fawn over their intellectual prowess. Uhh, I have several degrees and you dropped out of community college, settle down John.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 02:14 PM
8

Right? But this dumb scrote actually revealed/explained the tactic. Amateur hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:02 PM
18

It would never occur to me to say any of these things either. But now that I think about it, it would be so entertaining to watch them get all worked up about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:38 PM
6

All the little fuccbois think they get more performative porn style sex when the woman feels an emotional connection. It's in the scumbag handbook or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:14 PM
18

We are Queens!! Leave these LVM/NVMs to the peasants lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:00 PM
3

Giving me the narcissists prayer vibes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:34 PM
1

Both of you move to the town 30 minutes away where your friends live?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:28 PM
14

Ashley Mattingly seems to have been battling several demons. She had an abusive ex who was actually convicted of battery (color me jaded but I've got to assume he beat the shit out of her at least a few times for a whole ass conviction to happen) and she struggled with substances. Her family says Ashley recently adopted a golden retriever partly to help with her depression and loneliness. Her story is tragic and too common. May she rest in peace now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:25 AM
2

I'm around the same height and tend to have much shorter girlfriends/ besties. Many shorter men in the friend groups have been really hostile with me for no reason. Total napoleon complexes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:55 PM
8

People that preface claims with honestly (ie I'm HonEsTlY tHe NiCeSt) are trying hard to convince you to believe them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:40 PM
19

A lot of them, unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:55 AM
12

*won't. Won't clean sis. It's not that hard. Ugh my heart hurts for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:57 PM
36

The language changes such as gestational carrier vs mother smack of TRA and commodification. When will the "woke" wake up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:36 PM
19

He's blocked now then? Bc chances are he'll come back with some bullshit you needn't concern yourself with sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:51 AM
7

Yes!! They're trying so hard to convince themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:50 PM
134

Applauding her QUEEN energy for ghosting this guy. Her total refusal to allow him to manipulate the narrative and worm his way back into her good graces is inspiring. He's still so butthurt about it, he's posting his clearly scrubbed up version for internet sympathy points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:47 PM
30

I know a woman who is gorgeous and her much less attractive husband convinced her to have sex with other guys while he watched. Why in the worldwould he want that? And then he's mad that she sought an emotional connection with these men and wanted to choose her own partners and wouldn't just fuck whoever he picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:45 AM
3

Ugh that shit makes my blood boil. Your poor mom. Fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:35 AM
12

I just finished it too! Thought it was interesting/ telling how he included porn use in his list of red flags for abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:29 AM
6

Let your guard down, I'm a wokebro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:54 PM
4

Sounds like you're doing a great job grey rocking this narc. I applaud your restraint and civility. My petty ass would be so tempted to tell him all about himself, which would be too satisfying to these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:59 PM
18

The fact that she keeps mentioning him getting head "off" her too... like he's stealing/ taking something away. Not "from" like a gift, but "off" like the person had to be swindled or tricked or something. That verbiage is... uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:39 PM
13

I've had the creepiest uber drivers. Why are they always trying to marry you into their family? Also cologne does not equal a shower sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:21 PM
2

LVM like being treated this way. An ego stroke is an ego stroke is an ego stroke. Its pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:52 PM
8

When people tell you who they are, believe them the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:50 PM
15

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:27 PM
35

Yes! The fear of being alone outweighs everything. Love yourself and level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:18 PM
100

I don't even understand why she's taking to reddit to ask this question. Like look at me, I'm such a cool girl? And too ditzy to be able to come up with my own thank you gesture? Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:55 AM
2

Lmao...roasting this guy again? Doesn't he have enough on his plate? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:32 AM
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