https://imgur.com/gallery/jNxQY8J

Please read the screenshots before reading my post and tell me your reaction! I’m the blue bubbles

I’m posting this to show you guys that sometimes the “nice” approach is really just a ploy to get into your pants. Like 2 months ago, I met this guy breifly at an associate’s gathering, gave him my number and he would incessantly message me. I just felt the vibe was “off”. I made it clear to him that I simply wasn’t interested in him anymore (I messaged him through text). He never replied back so I assumed he understood my decision. This morning he messaged me after not speaking for over a month and the link was our interaction.

I found it apalling when he wrote, “Tried to be nice and polite with you but you turned me down. Decided to go blunt”. In other words. His niceness was a tactic to get into my pants. Morever, he assumed I was a woman who didnt respond to “niceness” when I was simply JUST NOT THAT INTO HIM. By being “blunt”, I felt like a cheap whore the way he was talking to me and decided to block his number.

Instances like these make me very afraid of the current dating pool. Niceness is now a tactic, a ploy to get between my legs. Ladies, continue to be very vigilant... really scope these men out. And always, ALWAYS trust that gut feeling. Initially, he never did anything “wrong” to me but I just felt weird whenever communicating with him and that’s ALL the reason you need to not mess with anyone. Only be “nice” to yourself and wait patiently for what you TRULY desire and deserve!!!!!