| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1443 | “I don’t have a child” | LIES MEN TELL | brownskinnedflower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:57 AM |
| 184 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage? | DISCUSSION | brownskinnedflower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 90 | Mr. Nice Guy | LVM LOGIC | brownskinnedflower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | I’m not COOKING and CLEANING | RANT | brownskinnedflower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I have never been spoiled :( | DISCUSSION | brownskinnedflower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Too beautiful for commitment? | DISCUSSION | brownskinnedflower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | FDS has made soooo many shows unwatchable for meSorry I’ll never finish watching GOT. I don’t understand how as a woman you can watch another woman get raped for entertainment. I couldn’t even finish season 1, I was so uncomfortable and grossed out. I don’t care if the plot is amazing, it’s hella disturbing!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:28 PM |
| 8 | I have never been spoiled :(Thank you everyone for the advice!!! So helpful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:23 PM |
| 2 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?She’s suppper happy! I don’t want to send this and be a bitch. She sees him and their baby as her future. I don’t want to crush it...and she may be an exception..who knows? However, I just feel in 2021, the information and examples (Summer Walker, Iggy Azalea, etc) are out there of women who did the same thing. There’s no excuse. But if a woman truly believes a baby will bring them closer despite what the facts say, let them learn on their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:21 AM |
| 2 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?Good for you at least you thought it out! Some women don’t even think they probably will be single mothers. They just think they’ll be one big happy family...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:19 AM |
| 1 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?I have no clue, this is an acquaintance. We used to be childhood friends then life happened and we drifted apart. No animosity, just different lives. She seems to really love him so I feel he sweet talked her into it so I guess it’s “planned”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:18 AM |
| 3 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?She’s an acquaintance....not on my shoulder lol I’ll send her positive vibes from afar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?You go girl!!!!! Don’t fall for it until he provides for ALL your needs. No babies for boyfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?Gurrrll she’s in la-la-land right now. She’s not trying to hear what a rational mind thinks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:13 AM |
| 2 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?Scam artists | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 3 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?I’d say screw whatever he wants, do what YOU want. YOU are the prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 3 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?So sad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:11 AM |
| 3 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?Go big sister!!!! She has your back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:11 AM |
| 4 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?That sound like a horror movie plot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:11 AM |
| 94 | What do you do to show yourself extra love and care without spending money?Journaling to self daily, dance/singing sessions in front of the mirror, affirmations in front of mirror, eating whatever I want, working out when I feel like it, doing something creative using my hands, meditation, love letter to self, random online purchases, watching stuff I’m curious about, spend a day with SELF (no texting friends, snapping, etc) ...just be with self and sit with yourself. No phone, no book, no nothing...just sit a few minutes with yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:07 AM |
| 4 | 6 baby mamas and looking for “the right woman and the right time”Straight loser bum! So glad CICI let him go and did better for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 13 | Vogue promoting FWB and age gap relationships to a probably 90% female audience - yikes.A woman has ZERO to gain in a FWB situation. I did it once thinking I was being empowered in taking ownership of my sexuality and vagina. Next thing you know, I’m starting to develop feeling for the guy and he’s still talking to other chicks! And I had to shuttup because I had agreed to the terms. Sex is more deep for women... we make connections and want to be with who we sleep with. Yeah, some women may be the anomaly but this is the reality for the majority. NEVER AGAIN. FWB WILL NOT BENEFIT … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | DID SHE LIE?!But they’re ready to pay for that Plan B because they want to go in raw. But ask for a Michael Kors purse......crickets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:02 PM |
| 119 | I felt my brain cells vanish after reading thisAs much as I love Bey, I have to side-eye her from time to time. A woman who truly loved herself would never settle for this. But given their history of him grooming her, their children, and mega brand... I can see why she stayed. Beyoncé, sadly, is a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:04 PM |
| 15 | Boy, Bye.Off to the loser bin!!💅🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:54 PM |
| 7 | Mr. Nice GuyGlad you got out of that!!!! Thank you for sharing that quote! I totally agree that niceness does NOT equate to goodness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:48 PM |
| 9 | Mr. Nice GuyCuriosity got the best of me! I wanted to see where he would take it. In other cases, like you said, I would’ve blocked and deleted right after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 12 | Cardi B Says She Left Offset Because She Didn't Want to “Wait Until He Cheated on Me Again”Libra Queen just like my mom! She never shed one tear after her divorce with my dad. She told me, “Once you’ve had enough, the tears will all dry up.” Like Cardi, my mom tried and tried to keep the family together. And like what will happen to Offset, my dad realized too late after the divorce that my mom was the best thing to ever happen to him and he will never get her back no matter what he says to her. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:36 PM |
| 27 | Mr. Nice GuyJokes on him, I never cared for him to begin with! Ha! A loser, indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 32 | Step 1: Try to sound smart while not actually saying anything. Step 2: Make it known that you don’t know how to plan dates. Step 3: Get blocked.They don’t want to get used for free food lol But these are exactly the type of guys who get used for food🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:12 PM |
| 3 | “I don’t have a child”Sorry if I didn’t use the correct term. However, my question still remains. Why would a woman with kids refuse to date a man with kids yet expect a childless man to date her? Make it make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 3 | “I don’t have a child”My thing is why would you expect a CHILDLESS man to carry on your baggage? I don’t think it’s fair... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 4 | “I don’t have a child”My absolute favourite button! 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:05 PM |
| 4 | “I don’t have a child”Exactly! My memory is like an elephant’s...I don’t forget shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:03 PM |
| 5 | “I don’t have a child”I feel like men and women with children should date one another🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | “I don’t have a child”That’s how dumb some men are🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:03 PM |
| 13 | Can you imagine coming home to that? Why would you want a guy who seems pissed of 24/7Sound like the MGTOW community will have him soon 🤣🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:30 AM |
| 114 | Trigger warning for extreme cringe lmao someone Is mad their ex wife moved on and is in love.Megan is a sweetheart. I used to think she was a bitch and was just hot. But again, that’s because of the narrative that Hollywood pushes about her. I watched a few of her interviews and she’s an intelligent woman!!! Beautiful inside and out. Seems to me her ex-husband is a narcissist and she was abused by him. She had attempted to leave him many times years before now. Glad she got away and is living her best life. Go Megan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:27 AM |
| 12 | Would you simply block a guy like this?Block block blockity block!! Listen to that gut instinct. You’re only here so WE can validate that “off” feeling you have about him. And I am here to gladly validate it for you😘Please BLOCK him ASAP. No need to feel bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:22 AM |
| 23 | “I don’t have a child”Thanks!! Sounds like an excellent approach. And I don’t feel attacked, I’m loving the dialogue under my post!!😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 38 | “I don’t have a child”Me too. How can you deny your own seed? So disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:03 AM |
| 52 | “I don’t have a child”Thanks for the tip! I thrive on “honesty is the best policy” but you’re absolutely right. I only polished his game by being honest. Weird, huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:54 AM |
| 46 | “I don’t have a child”It matters to me. It is my boundary. I don’t care how sweet, kind, and compassionate the man is. I have been through the baby mama drama rodeo before and it is mentally draining. After a horrible experience dealing with a man with children, I vowed to myself to never deal with that drama again. No exceptions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:51 AM |
| 118 | “I don’t have a child”Thanks!! I always let them have the last word before blocking. Makes them more mad. That’s a tip for you ladies! 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:46 AM |
| 343 | “I don’t have a child”You’re right. And his daughter is across the world in Europe with her mom. I’m in Canada (for more context). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:26 AM |
| 70 | “I don’t have a child”Exactly. Girl I learned my lesson!!! I no longer engage in conversation with Uber drivers. Shut the F up and get me to my destination. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:24 AM |
| 87 | “I don’t have a child”Yeah it’s just trifling how my honesty was met with BS. They scream that women are never straightforward in dating and never know what they want. Once you’re honest, you’re met with lies. Make it make sense. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:19 AM |
| 56 | “I don’t have a child”It was “pornfried” for me! LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:17 AM |
| 132 | “I don’t have a child”Damn, that’s awful. Hopefully, you ran like Forrest Gump after that revelation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:07 AM |
| 313 | “I don’t have a child”This is my first post on here so sorry if the format is weird. Anyways, this guy was my Uber driver, thought he was cool so I gave him a chance. I went on one date with him a few weeks ago and he overshared that he had a daughter and even showed me a picture of her. Mind you, he never shared this information prior to the date. I simply took a mental note of that fact. After the date, the following couple of days, he’d always text me around 10 pm asking to “hang out” but I already knew what that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:04 AM |
| 51 | You owe it to yourself, sis🙌🏽So true! I walked away from a man who I deeply wanted to love forever but he disrespected me constantly! By doing so, I love myself so much and I am in awe of my inner strength. This is the best feeling ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:32 PM |
| 6 | Don't give him the Heimlich maneuver when he chokes on his red pillLast year, I was using this guy for sex lol I would get dick from him while actively dating the men I really wanted to pursue a relationship with (I never told him this, I just acted dumb). He tried to control me via red pill tactics (negging, gaslighting, devaluing, etc) and it never worked because my goal was always: sex. The “closer” we got, the more he voluntarily opened up. Underneath all that facade was a weak, insecure little boy who had been heartbroken from ex/baby mama of 4 years. The … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Once you realize they are a toxic LVM/NVM, believe it. It is okay to put yourself first. It is okay to go NC. Your safety and well-being comes first. You are allowed to no longer invest in things that do not serve you well.Same. It’s been 3 months for me. It’s so hard because I miss him (or the idea that I had of him) but I have to keep reminding myself of all the bad he’s done to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 02:02 AM |
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