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SCROTES MADpancakejourney/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:28 PM
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They want to be low effort "needed". I don't need a man to open a jar, or drill me a hole in the wall. I built a damn kitchen cupboard with drawers myself today. I don't need them to mow the lawn. Those tasks are easy for me and I'm not too lazy to do them. If I couldn't do them then maybe I needed a man for such things in my daily life. So what do I need a partner for? Difficult. Because I have great family and friends. A man would have to show me exceptional emotional and physical support in o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 10:35 PM
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I only ever met a handful of men who I would call "emotional repressed". They wouldn't open up about their feelings even if their life depended on it. But surprisingly they were not automatically low EQ. On the other hand I had plenty, plenty of men consume my time for free therapy. Hardly ever would I receive the same open ear in return, it has happened tho. Men would tell me how someone hurt them, how insecure they are. They would tell me how they are unhappy because their career isn't the way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:56 PM
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Exactly. I already walk my dog 3 times a day, sometimes more often. Why would I want to go for another walk. No, I also don't want to walk my dog as first "date". It's not romantic to pick up dog poop in the middle of a maybe flirty conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:28 PM
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Yes, don't tell such things. Don't go into detail. Put them in their place when they ask too much. Don't even think about mentioning anything trauma related or unusual before you are absolutely sure he is not a LVM. They will use it against you. They will try to compete with your abuser. A HVM will accept if you are scared or anxious about something without further detailed explanation. I had a "threesome" probably because I was drugged. It just made no sense that after one drink I was completel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:32 AM
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You protected your boundary, that sounds like a success story to me! Mistakes happen but it still turned out the way it should have! Good job, you saved yourself from a lot of trouble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:01 PM
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So cute. He also looks like a proud man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 08:52 PM
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I'm excited for you! Go and enjoy your life! Nobody needs a "I'm not sure how I feel about you" dragging you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 08:50 PM
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Glad you're throwing out the trash before 2022! Soon you will feel much lighter and happier. A bad relationship can weigh heavy on happiness. There will be tough days but stay strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:51 PM
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I am shocked by the amount of men who bark at my dog. One barked for a solid minute and I was like wtf. She weighs 4kg and they are trying to play alpha or what? Thankfully my dog is a Queen and acts as if they don't exist. This can happen several times per week. I have yet to meet a woman who does this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:22 PM
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Can confirm. They are telling you the truth. Also "I have no idea why you are interested in me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:58 PM
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They want to choose women like porn categories
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:20 AM
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Women will never be like Incels. Women want to get away from abuse and want abusive men as far away as possible. Unlike incels who fantasize about violence towards women or even go and shoot people just because they can't get laid, are too lazy to work on themselves or because they avoid therapy like the pest. "Block and delete" is not dangerous. Having standards is not dangerous. Those men won't even have to deal with FDS women if they don't want to meet their standard. Go separate ways and you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:29 PM
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They are projecting so hard. They hate FDS women and want to hurt us, they want us to suffer. They want to harass us, fantasize about hurting us and so on. They think that women want to treat men the same way. But women are not so primitive or have such fragile egos. Women just want to get away from abusive men. Far far away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:05 PM
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Sometimes I make the mistake to check out other subreddits and surprisingly often I stumble over hate posts about FDS. They say its redpill for women, it's the same as incels, bitter, dangerous. 80% of the time they use the "vasectomy for men!!" as reason why it's so dangerous. Rape, violence, basically anything is "just a joke" but oh we evil women use forced vasectomy as satire to show how the abortion laws boss women around. The other 20% complain about men having to pay for dates. How is FDS…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:48 PM
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Enjoy your special day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:35 AM
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I just bothered for the first time to see what those mysterious 6'0 are in cm and wtf. I thought they were talking about like 190cm but it's just around 182cm? Apparently I'm a bit more than 5'9/176cm and men have often told me how tall I am. Too tall. I think it's nice when the man is around 3.94inch/10cm taller than myself. In my case that's just around 6'1/185cm and I don't think I am asking for too much. If I was smaller I would still prefer a man 10cm taller than me. Smaller men are usually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:32 PM
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Want to be famous? I can bring you on the news ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:28 PM
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Junko Furuta oh my god this was absolutely horrible I have no words for it. And they got away with almost no punishment and just kept going on and on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:34 PM
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How can men be this disgusting just because this poor girl didn't want Sex. Where comes such a primitive rage from? How can you impale someone alive? Three men all ready to gang rape and murder her in the most barbaric way. How do they expect us to be trustful to men if there are #toomany They even hate us for vetting. This poor girl. Three men decided they had a RIGHT to end her life over their pathetic feelings and dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:23 PM
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I got so upset when I saw comments under an article where they only showed the video footage where the officer talked to her and she admitted her "wrongdoing". the comments were all "she must be unstable" "I bet he got just sick of her attitude" and so on. Like come on people, try at least a tiny bit harder to understand the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:57 AM
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Oh Gosh I can't watch it. He has the same stupid face Chris Watts had on the body cam video just less body tension because he hadn't killed her yet. This poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:24 PM
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He jumped out of the window?? What the heck Every toothless Chihuahua would be of more help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:54 PM
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He probably just snooped through OPs phone to find something he could break up over without making him look like the bad one, or maybe even justify his future cheating.If someone is guarding his phone like a lion than because there's something the person is not supposed to know. You didn't do anything wrong.He blew up on you like this because he tried hard to not admit any guilt on his side.He took you back because he was hoping you become even more submissive due to guilt.Be glad that he's gone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:45 PM
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Scrotes have ruined so many moments to me. One time when I went outside to watch the "super moon" alone some dude ran across the street and said he had to talk to me because I looked so neat. He already looked like a psycho and everything he said and did was straight alarming. I kept telling him I have a boyfriend and that I want to walk alone. I had to be careful not to hurt his ego to much because he definitely gave me the "hurt my ego and I will hurt you" vibes. He continued to tell me that b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:40 PM
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"then gives you an nice back massage— and doesnt try to get a “happy ending” yeah the happy endings that ruin everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:58 PM
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what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:08 PM
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Love it! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:26 PM
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When I think of men these days I ask myself "would what he's doing be seen as extraordinary if it was one of my female friends who did it?" My friends check on me, talk to me, encourage me or warn me, avoid things they know I don't like, cook for me, share their belongings with me, make sure I got home safe, pay for me and gift me things I like. I'm doing the same in return. This is the minimum someone has to do to be considered partner material in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:58 PM
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It's a crime in my country. I've even seen a celebrity getting sued because she had Sex even tho she knew she had Aids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:30 PM
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I did ONCE stop Sex in the middle of the act, after I complained for months why Sex is over as soon as he comes (quick) and how he completely ignores my needs and leaves me unsatisfied and frustrated. So I tried to make a point and oh my gosh was he butt hurt. He even mentioned that one time in arguments as counter example that I would also ignore "his needs". It was absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:28 AM
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I'm so sorry that this has happened to you.He's a disgusting monster You're right about what PORN destroys. I don't know if my Ex war porn addicted but whatever he was was enough to make me starve and humiliate myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:32 PM
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I'm so glad he's gone from your life. Stay strong. "because he could hear you pee" gosh what the hell is wrong with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:26 PM
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I've been very curious about "shrooms" for the last year and read many stories by now. I'm very tempted to try it out at some point but I think I need to work on some aspects of my psyche first. I often feel like my almost 2 decade long lasting depression wired my brain wrongly. I notice I am by nature a positive person but my brain starts thinking in way too negative and anxious ways. I often sit there and try to focus on the positive aspects but it's extremely tiring. I just wouldn't know wher…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:57 PM
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Another good example of how women who hate men try to get away from them while men who hate women try to get close to them and harm them. Just pathetic."farytails about patriarchal oppression" in one sentence "she must be taught a very brutal, ferocious lesson in order to stay in line" in another one. So full of weird violent fantasies and yet he apparently believes there are pleeenty of "false accusations of domestic violence and rape". Hope he grows up at some point, but I already know he neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:25 PM
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I'm decluttering my home. I want everything I don't need gone. I already started today and I know everything will be sold or thrown away by the end of the week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:24 PM
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I'm so proud of you that you're doing this. It's good to have support and I hope it will be a good experience for you. I wish you all the best. He's a monster and can rot in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:22 PM
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I remember when I went to a club in a big city with a friend. I had a crush on someone during that time so I danced alone or with her and sent anyone away who wanted to dance with me. Way too often they held up their hand, showed me their wedding ring and said "I'm even married, who cares?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:41 PM
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That sounds inspiring. Keep up the good work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:12 PM
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ugh I also had a "friend" sent me nudes of another woman to "flex" also of a giant dick and the question "would that fit in you?". Right after he sent that stupid monkey emoji that covers its eyes "oh sorry I hope it did not make you mad" Sadly I was a pick-me with no boundaries so I let it slide. Never sent nudes to anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:15 AM
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I think I've read it on fds but it seems to be true that women who hate men try to get away from them while men who hate women try to get close to them. They are pathetic and full of violent fantasies and tendencies. But yeah let's abuse women because they expect more than a greasy unhealthy meal. Makes totally sense. I mean it comes from the "logical Sex" so it must be logical... you could also just stay away but why would you. It's better to keep all the things you hate close to you so you can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:57 AM
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This weekend I payed dinner for my friend and her husband. I didn't expect sex from them although they are both attractive. Their company and our conversations were beneficial enough. I can't imagine to be entitled enough to expect Sex from someone after a 60€ dinner not even if it was a date. I refuse to look at someone and put a price tag on their body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:38 PM
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When I was in my late teens I had a male friend who would always offer to be on a call with me when I walked home from clubbing. Sometimes for hours when the train was delayed or cancelled. He always made sure I was in my bed before we ended the conversation. He always openly admitted when I knew more about a topic and wouldn't be shy to say things like "it's incredible how much you know about this" or "It's impressive how you can empathize with people and understand their point of view so easil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:46 PM
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1:1 my Ex! But my Ex would also get mad at me when I tried to explain him how I liked things. "I don't like it when you tell me what to do" which ofc would be followed by "but you never tell me what you like"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:43 PM
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I had to convince my first bf to cut his toe nails.. they were so damn long that they once scratched me bloody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:17 PM
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glad I could help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:28 PM
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when I think they aren't going move out of the way then I often just stand still and look busy on my phone. So they have to walk around me. Especially when I notice that they are the kind of man who walks from the edge of the sidewalk to the middle just to piss you off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:40 PM
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Oh gosh I used to have giant african land snails.. This poor woman. I felt sick to my stomach reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:56 PM
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I met my ex when I wasn't taking any hormonal birth control but started to take it because he kept trying to tempt me into Sex without condom, "let me just stick it in I just want to feel it" and all that kind of bullshit. I actually was less attracted to him on birth-control. His smell didn't attract me at all anymore but it turned me into a clingy, whiny little something that was afraid to lose him even tho I already started to realize the relationship was broken. I think I behaved like a preg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:12 PM
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That's great. The only reason I want to have my camera silent is so I don't wake up my sleeping dog when I take a picture of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:31 PM
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I understand. The first time this happened to me was the time my rose colored glasses cracked. He knew I has experienced abuse before and that it was very important to me to be in the mood but he told me "I would also sleep with you if I wasn't in the mood but you wanted to" (fun fact: that never happened because obviously I would let it go the first time he said no because I don't want Sex just for my sole pleasure) or "not both of us need to be in the mood when we have Sex" and pestered me wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:08 PM
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He has now figured out that No means whatever he wants it to be. Take care my Dear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:19 PM
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That's adorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:30 PM
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I'm sorry you went through this and experienced this disappointment.I would highly recommend to not have a last conversation.I never felt good after it, they even managed to somehow piss me off even more with their clown-show reaction or made me feel humiliated. Imagine the worst reaction he could have. Even possible crocodile tears won't be of any use for you.He knows he's a piece of shit, he just doesn't think it's something bad.Block and delete. Edit: I just noticed your edit and I'm proud! G…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:30 PM
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We had a case of a gang rape in my country. An 18 year old was raped by several teenagers. two of them 12, three 14 and then two 15 year old and I'm not sure if there were older ones involved or how many in total. In my country you can't be punished as long as you're not older than 14 years old. You're simply non-accountable. The 12 and 14 year old's could just go home, nothing happened. They were free. I think they only changed school and one of the families was asked to go back to their home c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:28 AM
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yeah they are there as well but you can usually spot them pretty well when you play among high skilled and experienced players because they fail to treat you as equals. Praising you for just doing your job, stealing your kills in order to "protect" you, giving you unasked advice about combos or just being glued to your ass. When you play on a training map they just walk in front of you and start to show their combos. But yes, always be wary. I just don't play at all these days or only with my fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:06 AM
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I once asked a Dude about his day and he answered: "I did a little something something ;) . I wondered if I should record it? Would someone watch it? Would I want someone to see it? I came not once, not twice but three times because the thought was so lewd." Wow thanks dude, definitely not what I wanted to hear. I think it was even more fucked up. I still got the screenshot somewhere. He also fetishized my origin. No you freak, I'm not your Nazi girl who will punish you in bed just because I'm g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:44 PM
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Oh, I hope you're in the process of leaving him. He sounds like shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:33 PM
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yeah yeah, always the same. Lower your standards and have Sex with them, plenty of Sex, Sex ASAP!!1 I wonder who benefits from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:12 PM
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Yeah imagine the shit you would get if you reply "and you're my boy" instead of "man".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:02 AM
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It sounds absolutely wonderful so far! I hope one day (when I actually want to give dating another chance) I will finally find a man who does such things for me. I'm a really passionate and caring person and it was always killing my spark that I got depressingly little in return. Sometimes I would send packages to my Ex with self baked cake in jars, his favorite meat items from my country (I'm vegetarian) and game codes so we could play something together due to our long distance relationship an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:32 PM
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I would try to give him the full custody for the children. There's no way he never wanted kids when they are having three of them. It's just a mean way to make her feel like she needs to protect her children from his emotional neglect. "He never wanted them".She won't be able to provide for four people for a while so it's just logical the father of the children takes care of them. Just wonder how long his "childfree by choice" new woman would stick around when he tries to make her the new mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:44 PM
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So wholesome <3 great man and great woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:12 PM
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Gosh I took a look at the sub and found it pretty quickly. The comments are also FDS super fans material. They are so damn stupid and just look at "lava cake" and their brain goes nom nom. He didn't even have the decency to ask "Do you have time tonight?". It's just a cheap ass booty call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:22 PM
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wow what a bunch of assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:16 PM
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love your energy <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:03 PM
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My Ex was like this. One time I just stopped and asked myself "Am I a dog?" so I turned in another direction and just walker wherever I wanted. 5 Minutes later he noticed I was gone and asked me where I was. I told him and he was on his way to pick me up. In the meantime a man started a conversation with me and when my Ex arrived another 5 minutes later he saw me standing with another guy who was very obviously trying to flirt. hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:54 PM
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Yesterday I played CS:GO and as so often some Idiot posted "Fag" "NI**ER*" "LOL I hope u die of Covid" and some rape threats. I disabled the voicechat long ago because I can't stand to hear their whining and screeching. When I play with my female friends we send " :* " and " <3 " when we killed each other and we congratulate us when we win first, second or third. It's ok to be frustrated when you lose a game, I also get pissed when I play horrible because of lags or because the others are just w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:08 AM
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Yes you're right. Such walking disappointments don't deserve any kind of excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:34 AM
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WTF I am glad she fought him and kicked him out. What the fuck is going on in his scrambled brain. That was a really scary moment. In summer when I play with my dog in the river and have fun it usually doesn't take too long for a scrote to show up behind me and either stares at me or makes weird comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:18 PM
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Woah. Please get yourself safely out of this situation. Far away from him. I wish you all the best and all the strength you need to accomplish it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:41 PM
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When I played videogames as "man" I got to know a lot of other male players. They found me hilarious. Would even tell me openly how funny and witty I was, would even laugh their asses off over ingame voicechat. When I started to openly admit that I was a woman the kind of jokes they made changed. The retarded shit jokes all of us know started. Suddenly I had no humor. Can't stand a joke. Said I'm too german to find it funny and so on. No dude, your uncreative lame jokes with suppressed sexual ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:30 PM
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I have yet to meet a man who can stand to receive his own "humor".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:35 AM
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Woah that speech gave me goose bumps. She's so right and I love that she's telling him exactly what he is. But what I've noticed about myself when I hear a woman speak the emotional truth is that I feel uncomfortable, as if she shouldn't speak. As if it is embarrassing for her. I realize that I do fully agree with her but that I was raised in a way that makes me feel that speaking up against such vile men is wrong, is disturbing the "piece". I have to sit down for a while and fully absorb the fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:28 PM
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I'm playing video games myself, also shooters like counterstrike but my worst reaction is "ah, well fuck". I always found raging gamers so pathetic. How can you treat your own child like this? I hope this child is safe now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:16 PM
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ugh get rid of that man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:41 PM
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I know a surgeon who often doesn't wash his hands after going to the bathroom. You would think he knows how the be hygienic but yeah they never fail to surprise me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:28 PM
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the best way to respond to such scrotes! Good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:22 PM
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They cum as they always do. But suddenly, after the woman created an entire child in her womb, they did their fair share? lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:43 AM
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I'm so sorry my Dear. My heart hurt reading it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:33 AM
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I was called an Aryan female, perfect for breeding. WTF is wrong with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:29 AM
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Oh it's so hurtful to fully realize that they knew all along. They just did not care. It was a very bitter pill to swallow and it caused a lot of pain and anger. I'm now working hard to protect my boundaries and it's working. I'm not manipulating, I'm not giving anyone drama. I just stick to what I've said and crossing my boundaries has consequences now, consequences they knew would happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:32 PM
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oh gosh it's so awful when they use your dog to make horrible compliments. "Mhhh can you pet me too? ;) " "our dogs seem to like each other ;) maybe give me your number so we can meet and they can play?" seconds before my dog snapped and chased his away. My dog is a Queen. She only accepts gentlemen lmao she has a zero bullshit tolerance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:18 PM
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It's so infuriating. My mother is a otherwise strong and intelligent woman but she does nothing but to choose LVM. I'm so sick to witness how almost all the amazing women in my family let themselves be pushed around by their loser men. My father was a LVM and it made all of us suffer. All the beautiful childhood memories of how he barged into our rooms and threw everything around. Flipped tables and destroyed my favorite toys just to make me tidy up the mess and if I wasn't fast enough he would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:40 PM
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Most men also seem too proud to speak to dogs in a more high pitched and happy voice as if they had to prove how alpha they are to a scared little dog. A dog warms up so much faster if you speak to it as if you're the most happy person on the planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:41 PM
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ugh I'm sorry you had such bad experiences. I have similar ones. The worst harassment and groping in my life happened between the age 10 to 17. Ofc old ass men or men easily 10 years older than me. It got less since then (still more than enough tho) and I think that says a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:26 PM
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When I broke up with my Ex he asked why and I named him several reasons. He said it was due to his mood swings and problems and tried to turn it around and attack me. "I told you one year ago that I have some problems, how comes you never take it into consideration when I did something that hurt you??" I just said "And what did you do about your problems in the past year?" Lol that silenced him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:41 AM
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it is true! I had Sex with my Ex many times until I realized he didn't give a fuck about my needs and as he said "your pleasure bores me". My feelings for him decreased rapidly and resentment grew. At one point we couldn't have Sex because my muscles were so cramped. I told him that I think my body is rejecting him. He replied with "lol can I try to stick a finger in?" Our subconsciousness knows what's going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:03 PM
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Because I wanted to pick up a beautiful and harmless beetle to take a look at it. He held both of my wrists to keep me from doing it. In public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:28 PM
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You can file charges in my country, if he knew it then it counts as malicious injury. I think more people should actually do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 08:29 PM
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ugh I watched it. They are really just disgusting and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:38 PM
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When my Ex made a completely inappropriate joke or comment he would always tell me I'm oversensitive, I don't have humor, it's his way of joking, he was just joking anyway how delusional I am to not notice etc. I think she heard this kind of bullshit for so long that she actually started to believe it or pretends to so she doesn't humiliate herself any further because it's obvious that she fails to get the respect she deserves. Besides that he totally humiliated her even more. I understand she w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:47 PM
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wtf I fit every single symptom you listed. I asked my doctor to get tested for a lack of vitamin D but she said it's "impossible" for me to have a lack because I walk my dog 3 times a day. I would have to pay for it myself if I wanted to know it. I managed to get tested for a vitamin B12 lack, but only after I pretended to have a weird feeling in my leg and said I'm a vegetarian for 14 years. I had a slightly lack of vitamin B12 tho. I just started to take Vit D supplements anyway and it improve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 12:29 PM
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It sounds promising! I'm happy for you! It's the absolute opposite to my NV Father. When my mother went to spain her tires got slashed before the highway. Thankfully she never drove to the highway otherwise they would have most likely mugged her. She bought new tires at a workshop. My fathers first reaction was to get mad because she bought expensive one. He actually never expressed any kind of concern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:39 PM
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i already see a positive effect on the women in my life since I joined FDS. I encourage them to respect their boundaries and to go through with consequences when someone tried to cross them. Be a good example. Even a male friend is now more respectful to himself and is more aware of red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:40 PM
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I went to a piercing and tattoo studio with my beautiful friend and later that day one of the tattoo artists wrote her on facebook. We had to fill in a form with our names, allergies etc beforehand so he took a look at her name and finally found her on facebook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:14 PM
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I'm from Germany and I just remembered a scene from the first lock down. It was the first day brothels were closed and unbeknown to me back then I passed a brothel every time I walked to the supermarket. That day a fat, balding, greasy old man in (I shit you not) dirty wifebeater rolled out of the backyard on his tiny looking scooter. He looked at me and started to yell angrily why nobody informed him that the whores wouldn't be working today. I was giving him dirty looks and only on my way back…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:46 PM
56

Oh single mothers? Where are the fathers? They probably ditched their highschool sweethearts cos they were young and still wanted to fuck around and don't want any burden. Now they are on dating apps, pretending to not have kids and try their hardest to fake being a good person until the women gets emotionally attached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:47 PM
5

I checked out a longer video in better quality on youtube and it's really touching to see all the women trying to better their future and the one of their future daughters. I didn't expect this to touch me so much but it really made me tear up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:23 PM
2

That's a fantastic idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:05 PM
4

lmao I've become a better person since I've found FDS. I try to be the best version of myself so I can love myself from the bottom of my heart. I try not deal with emotionally draining losers anymore, which gives me more energy to invest in my hobbies, my family and friends. Since I stick to the handbook I actually protect my boundaries and do not lie angry in bed anymore because someone pushed me around and I let it happen. this sub is a blessing. I absolutely do not get why they say we are hat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:52 PM
3

Next time say 'I was looking at you, not him ;) ' No seriously, wtf was wrong with that dude lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:11 PM
29

They all want a Lelu from the fifth element. Attractive, but doesn't know it. Clumsy and helpless (except ofc for her fighting skills). Innocent and easy to impress. He can show her the world! Lmao if all women would know how attractive they are then men would actually have to put effort into their compliments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:59 PM
25

Oh boy yeah. I think my Ex is also porn damaged. He put absolutely no effort into our intimate life. No foreplay, no trying to delay his orgasm (for over 1 year until I started to beg and neg constantly), thought it was his right to have Sex without condom every now and then even tho I wasn't on the pill, wanted to cum on my face, hit my face with his dick, thought blowjobs gave us EQUAL pleasure lmao. The funny thing was how he complained a few times that I wasn't loud enough in bed. Like boy, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:37 AM
6

My NVM Father wanted his two underage daughters to sleep in a tent in some creepy area. He ofc wanted to sleep in the camper. I'm surprised he didn't see it coming when we cut him out of our lives. And yeah I'm not hiking alone because of too many encounters with creeps. Some Psychos already ruined my favorite route along the riverside. Last guy followed me, said he would rape and kill me. Had to call the police. I'm afraid to walk my dog there now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:15 PM
9

I never understood why my Ex refused to use some moisture. His face was so dry, skin peeling off. WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:34 PM
7

It was absolutely hilarious. She was so savage in return of his lie. One time when he hung out with our friends she asked him if he also had to cry after jerking off. I bet he regretted it immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:31 PM
2

I had this one NVM who took me on a date (didn't know it was a date) and he had nothing better to do than to rant about Vegetarians. I am one. But this guy was from a different planet anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:20 PM
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lmao you handled the situation as good as possible. A friend also did this when a guy said she slept with him. She said he stank, didn't get him all way up and cried after Sex. His reputation was gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:10 PM
4

If he was raped by a man or if it was common and a high possibility to get raped by other men then he would behave the same as we evil women. His argumentation just show's that he's not really acknowledging rape as 'that bad'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:52 PM
4

I really hope she didn't hurt herself and I also hope he didn't do anything to her. I'm so sorry you're going through such a horrible time. My heart is also bleeding for your aunt. I hope she will return safe and sound. Take care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:48 PM
1

Well done, I know it hurts and it doesn't undo what he has done to you and your bonsai but you protected your self-worth. I think he did it to purposely hurt you. I've noticed it a few times in the past that men would aim for something that was very dear to me. My Ex for example knew how absolutely important it is for my sleep quality to have my little dog in bed next to me. Two years there was no problem until our relationship got the first issues. Suddenly he didn't want her on the bed (we did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:55 PM
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I often say "they always come back" but I've also never taken it as compliment. They crawl back and are still the same, nothing has changed about them. It's like they check if you are already broken enough to give up on your 'unrealistic' high standards or if you happen to be in the mood for some sexy time. Every now and then when they are bored or horny they check who might be available. The worst are the one in a relationship who reach out. It's like they say 'I'm on her lawn now and your gras…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:47 PM
11

I dated a guy with the intention for a relationship. Didn't want him because he did some emotional blackmailing shit. I told him I don't want contact anymore. He asked me if we can be FWB (I was so stupid to had drunk Sex with him) I said no. Half a year later he asked me again. I said no again. ONE YEAR later he asked me again. I told him every single reason why I never ever consider him boyfriend material and that his lack of respect for my decisions was astonishing. Never heard of him again. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:20 PM
2

what the...the audacity! I'm not even taking "you're so damn tight" as compliment anymore, because it gives me nothing when it makes them come within 5 minutes. It also just means that they didn't turn me on enough. But pressuring you into surgery? What the hell. He can enlarge his damn penis if he's not enjoying himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:52 PM
12

That's hilarious. I'll steal that comeback.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:11 PM
8

That's what my Ex said shortly after our break up. He made 'jokes' about my 'tight pussy' and his dick. He knows I hate it and I'm sure he does it to degrade or provoke me because I broke up with him. When I told him I didn't want to hear such 'jokes' ever again he called me a snowflake, sjw, that I am oversensitive and that I lack humor and muuch more. When I made it clear that I wasn't having it he said "I'm sorry that it made you overreact" immediately followed by "but I still stand by my sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:56 PM
7

I used to stay a lot at a friends house and at some point I've noticed that almost every time I walked the dog one of her neighbors was leaving the house or hanging out in front of it. First I didn't really think anything of it until the comments started. "You have such a beautiful dog. Fits you well ;) " Well okay..? This dude is at least 20 years older than me and has children and a wife. At least I've seen him kiss the mother of the children. Then it started to get really weird. Each time I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:46 AM
5

yeah sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:18 PM
3

OMG that's just so disgusting. I'm actually really glad that my Ex was the most hygienic person I've ever met. But he was also from a culture where it's normal to wash your butt with water and even soap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:02 PM
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I would be more impressed if it implied that he ate out his girl on her period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:53 PM
3

I'm so sorry for you, that's a horrible experience he is indeed a monster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:55 AM
5

One of the first pictures my Ex sent me was one from 8 year ago from a time when he worked out every day and looked extremely fit and nicely muscular. Eight years ago was also the last time he hit a gym though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:38 PM
16

I agree with you. Finding a man is no problem. Men hit on me more often than I am comfortable with. But somehow I thought that love I get for free, love I don't have to chase and sacrifice myself for is worthless and even suspicious. When a good looking, well dressed and polite man started to talk and flirt with me in a bookstore I fled the scene because how could such a man have honest interest in 'something' like me?! I do understand now that this was all caused because I didn't see my own val…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:17 PM
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I also don't understand the hate. Men who don't want women who live by the FDS principles can just not.. date one? What's the problem? Why can everyone date and love however they want except women who have high expectations in men? I found this sub not long ago and it already made me leave a relationship that I constantly doubted for almost three years and even during the break up the advice I got here already helped me a lot. I went to youtube and searched for Female dating strategy and I was p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:30 PM
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I even wanted to make a post about how such men project on animals. One dude received a photo of my female dog. She was lying on the back and you could see her genitals. He told me not to send such lewd pictures if I don't want to take care of his horniness afterwards. WTF. BLOCK. Or men let their male dog bother my female and they mansplain my own dogs behavior. I can clearly see she's disliking the other dog but they often make comments like "She's liking it ;) " "She's pressing her butt again…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:56 AM
9

thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:14 PM
15

I never have orgasms and bluntly tell them, they still seem to think highly of themselves or even lower their already sad efforts because it's 'pointless' anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:04 PM
12

It feels so good to hear about a HVM once in a while. I'm so happy that your father is treating your Mom with the love and respect she deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:26 AM
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I never had the need to tell my male friends that I'm just looking for a friendship or quickly told them I have a partner. I know most of them for 5+ years and they never hit on me, they never made me unsure of their intentions and they never gave me the impression they are interested in my relationship status. The ones who did eliminated themselves quickly thanks to their actions. If you get that feeling that you have to explain yourself then it's a sign that this was never meant to be a friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:51 PM
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They don't have a chance with women close to their own age. Maybe on top of it they also think they deserve the 'freshest meat' available. Hence they pray right on young 'girls' who are less likely to be experienced, see red flags and don't know how to respect their own boundaries that well. They damage the girls until they are experienced, bitter and more picky. Vicious circle. I think it's indeed a red flag. In my eyes they are unable to provide what a relationship usually requires at their ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:47 AM
30

I remember a scene from a movie (idk the name anymore) and the murderer invited a man inside his house. The man got really bad vibes from him but the murderer kept saying things like "Don't be rude, just one beer" and so on. Despite his gut feeling he entered the house. The murderer lead him into a special room and closed the door. The man then knew what was about to happen and the murderer said something like "I could sense you didn't trust me and yet you walked right into my trap. Isn't it fun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:31 AM
2

I was actually giggling when I read your post. Not because of you, I'm sorry you had to encounter an Incel in his natural habitat. But because ever since I met such an Individual in real life I just can't stop to picture them. How they angrily sit in front of their PCs, violently typing on their keyboard because the dried cum on it makes it difficult to press the keys. Their mothers sighing in the background and asking their friends on the phone if it's normal that their 35 year old sons are sti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:24 AM
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My personal experience is that it's more a matter of character than a matter of looks. Sometimes I even think the most unattractive one with very little contact to women have unrealistic high standards. I assume it's because of porn etc, that they are so used to have 10/10 'around' and always jerk off to them. I hung out with men with average or below average looks. The absolute worst I ever met had one of the highest standards. One guy showed the other one a photo of a girl and asked if he shou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:13 PM
9

Is it funny or sad that the first LVM gather in the comment section below the screenshots?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:01 PM
14

It's one of the "This makes me look like Wolverine" guys with samurai swords hanging on the wall. I was also surprised by the woman. She looks fantastic in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:52 PM
9

Ugh makes me think of a dear friend on mine. One day she called me crying and explained that the guy she was seeing admitted that he wasn't interested in a relationship and lied about having feelings for her. She asked him why he lied to her when early on she asked him if he wanted something casual, because she was originally just looking for a sexual adventure. Why he had the need to instead pretend this was something more meaningful. Well, he wanted her to be exclusive because he doesn't like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:06 PM
4

He really needs some filters himself. She looks like a Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:09 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's also disgusting how many men are totally fine to watch a video of a naked, sleeping girl and don't call out their friend for his behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:52 AM
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Reminds me of my Ex who thinks disrespect in the bedroom is not a justified reason to break up. He listed other aspects of our relationship where he doesn't disrespect me. I just asked if he thinks that x y z makes up for it? He even said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:08 AM
3

Happy birthday! Enjoy your day and keep that memory close to your heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:19 PM
4

You deserve it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:23 AM
3

Wow. I am so glad she has this HVM in her life! He sounds absolutely fantastic.And it's such a good feeling to know a little girl has a HVM (her father even!) in her life too. He will show her what kind of treatment she deserves and should expect from other men! When I think of my father.. jeez no wonder I haven't talked to him in 10 years.To hear about such a great man is so calming for my nerves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:32 PM
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Absolutely lovely. Well performed! I can really imagine the feeling of power when you saw his sad attempts to fix the situation. He proved himself unreliable and unworthy. Next. I'm glad for you! I'll adopt the mantra.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:10 AM
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Cut him out of your life. As you said. He wants to get in your pants, your words are invalid. He thinks "if she doesn't want it then why does she want to hang out again". You'll never be safe around him. You let him push your boundaries and there is no consequence so each time he will take you less serious. You are a Queen. If you say something then people have to follow your order. Period. Saying you don't want a relationship is useless. I've tried it for years. One said he understands and that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:37 PM
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He never mentions a girlfriend in his plans for the day. I wonder why. Poor baby just doesn't want to be the only single between all the couples who care about each other and show it through gestures of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:22 PM
2

Wow. The women are so strong to not give in to the social pressure. Even the elderly women had no better reason for children than a dull "duty for the country" pfff for a country that doesn't support them. 80% of the men admitted they had abused their partners. I am sure not even all of them told the truth. They do not deserve the company of such HVW. Once they turn off the porn they can cry themselves to sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:01 PM
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‘Good luck never finding anyone like me again’ Is what he meant. Your HVM will find you eventually and until then you just enjoy your own company! Men like your Ex keep crawling back like cockroaches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:20 PM
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I don't even understand it. Sexy farts *name* 9/24 Edit: the second I posted it I realized it's sexy pants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:14 PM
6

Happy Birthday! You gave yourself a beautiful token of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:00 PM
11

I understand you, I usually always decline when strangers hit on me in public. I think I declined a really good catch twice just because I felt overwhelmed and caught off guard. I got hit on pretty frequently to the point my Ex got confused. Kinda funny because for the longest time I used to feel extremely ugly. Usually only drunk people approached me. In my teenage years nobody even looked at me with his ass. I had an extreme low confidence. But one day I just stopped giving a fuck. I didn't wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:57 PM
16

I'm so sorry to hear he treated you like this. I had an almost similar experience but he wanted to cum on my face. I have way too many negative experiences with blowjobs. I used to put time and effort into it, because I cared. Now I feel physically sick just by the thought of doing it again. He went from receiving 6+ BJ per week to 1 blowjob in half a year that I stopped because he pushed my head down again. He got too greedy and lost it all in the end. Me included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:19 PM
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One got angry at me because I smacked his hands away from my head when he was pushing me down on him as far as he could. And gosh how often he tried to slap my face with his dick. Jesus. I am so glad I found FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:42 PM
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Check out u/Ebbie45 she has a lot of experiences and resources for you to stay as safe as possible and good strategies to continue from where you are right now. At least I think your case could benefit from the knowledge. I also hope your account is a new one he doesn't know about. If he had control over your phone then please also make sure that any apps that maybe locate your position are removed or turned off. I wish you the very best and a bright future ahead of you and your lovely child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:55 PM
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Fantastic move! I feel you though. When I stopped taking birth control pills (that I only started taking cos of my Ex's condom phobia) and mentioned it to two of my doctors (both women) they both said "but what if you get pregnant?". Birth control actually stabilized my depression because I usually have extreme hormonal ups and downs. But I also noticed that birth control made me dry up, feel less during Sex, damaged my Libido and the worst of all: it made me clingy. I felt so in need of my boyf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:17 AM
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Oh my god, this is gold. And i just love how she handled it. I could really imagine the scenery. Lovely. And the amazing ending with the classic "just kidding" and the desperate "hello?" Beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:02 AM
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For the first trip, I want you to come in November but not in my home. That would be too “couple" I'm sure the real reason is not that it's too "couple" like but that his home, the Notre-Dame has burned down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:29 PM
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When you fail so hardcore at dating women that your only hope is to import one from another country. I'm sorry you have to deal with this, but I have to admit that the audacity made me laugh. It's surreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:42 PM
12

So he's french? Like the actual Quasimodo was? Maybe they are really related.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:38 PM
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oh gosh I had one rub somewhere between clit and my labia and asked if that's the right spot. When I took his hand and moved him to my clit, he angrily pulled his hand away and said "I don't like it when you tell me what to do" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:02 PM
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I must admit that one of my best friends found a HVM there. But she's also a HVW with high standards (cos she know she's worth it) . But I see this more as 'Exceptions confirm the rule'. Maybe there are also differences of the clientele differing with each country. But yes, overall I do absolutely agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:15 PM
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Consistency is so important. When I started a relationship with my Ex he seemed to be such a gentleman and so handsome. If it was raining he would walk around the car, open my door and the umbrella and kept me dry. He would cook for me, give me neck massages and sometimes even bend down to tie my shoes (cheesy I know :P ). He would whisper me hot things into my ear with his manly, deep voice that gave me goosebumps. I felt so spoiled. But yeah that went south quickly. He still grabbed my hand an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:02 PM
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I came here after someone commented in relationship_advice "check out FDS" and another comment said she shouldn't because they are a bunch of extremists. So here I am, becoming "extreme" by respecting myself and my boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:14 AM
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I totally agree, he abused the word "need", but that's how he justified his behavior. But I as a woman could not understand it, because women have a different and much lower Sex drive and would not have the "blue balls" problem. Aha. We actually fought a lot because of porn. In his eyes for no reason because he disconnected it from the relationship we had. I said: "oh, how nice of you that you can disconnect from our relationship so easily". I even used to be tolerant/pro porn until I realized w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:14 PM
11

I think porn enables the behavior or maybe even causes it. It just made me remember a conversation I had with my Ex. He said he does not respect prostitutes or porn-actress. I told him he then should not watch porn anymore. He said porn is mandatory for men and they have a right and a need for it. I can't really express it in English that well, but in that moment I felt like part of his need in life was to have women he can disrespect. That he felt like it is even his right and necessary to disr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:55 PM
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The sunflowers.. how he speaks about her, still deeply in love. I teared up a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:11 PM
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