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FDS HUMORheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:52 PM
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LIES MEN TELLheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:31 PM
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LIES MEN TELLheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:26 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?heythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:53 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:51 PM
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#KickHimOut2020heythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:48 PM
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NAH, SISheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:08 PM
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LIES MEN TELLheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:45 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:08 AM
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FIELD REPORT heythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:54 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:44 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:32 PM
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NAH, SISheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:30 AM
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TRIGGER WARNINGheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:15 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:16 AM
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How-To High Valueheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:59 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:17 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYheythere360/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:22 AM
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Not a horror movie but remember being so annoyed when I finally got to watch Magic Mike with my girlfriends and a naked woman was literally in the opening scene..... Scrotes can’t let us have one thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:18 AM
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Even though this is likely fake (it may not be), these men have these fantasies every single day. I pray single mothers, please reconsider ever bringing the men you date around your children. Even if they like you and are attracted to you, it doesn’t change the fact that they’ll be likely sexualizing your children. Porn has cemented the fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:02 PM
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Okay but why is the narrative always “left over women” instead of what it really is: left over, under-qualified unremarkable male rejects? Thank you for sharing the truth about what’s going on in China. Once again proving men need us a million times more than we will ever need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:06 AM
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The funnnnnnniest part about this is the average dude, who the girl likely isn’t even attracted to in the first place, is going to do this, and the repulsion we will feel in response will make us recoil. Make sure the girl is fucking obsessed with you before you try this boys. Otherwise you’ll just be another joke in the girls group chat 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:31 PM
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Like neck, neck, neck, MOUTH LOL The way you broke this down gave me life 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:31 AM
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PickmeTSD You should make a post and coin that term! Priceless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:26 AM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:12 AM
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Why would she? He was happy calling her a little “whore” for years before she became a mOtHeR. Now he’s pretending to be a saint because he no longer wants to degrade her? Trust - his need for “whores” will not go away just because he made her a “Madonna”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:35 PM
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We should not be praising men with a clear case of the Madonna whore complex. Next he’ll be deadbeadrooming her and she’ll have no idea. He’ll turn to porn to get his “whore” fix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:32 PM
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No. Because ugly men are the most Incentivized to masquerade as HVM because they have little else to offer. When an ugly dude or a guy whose not your type successfully dates a woman out of his league, his status sky rockets, and you’ll find out how quickly his LVM tendencies show up (if you’re lucky) and he’ll embarrass you with the pick mes who want to compete with you. Most men are low value. Don’t waste your time getting heartbroken over the charity case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:43 AM
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And yet somehow when a male dares talks to you “MEN ONLY WANT ONE THING!!!!! STOP TALKING TO HIM!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:13 PM
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I'm talking guys who think they are some kind of misunderstood genius while in reality they can't even have a phone call. Sis I’m dead 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:40 AM
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It’s because you went no contact and received clarity. It’s scary to think of how many lies we absorb in the relationship...but the longer you go no contact, the clearer everything becomes. When you take the leap of faith it hurts and it’s terrifying, but the truth is revealed, and that truth usually that the relationship was even worse than you thought. And then if your ex, who already put you through so much, has the nerve to contact you again, it shows you they have no morals, no shame, they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:32 AM
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Kids need fathers. Tell men to stop being deadbeads for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:55 AM
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I sang this with all my heart when I was 10 and it wasn’t until recently I listened to the song and actually understood what ”Its just you and your hand tonight!” actually meant lmao 😂 love that this was on the radio so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:58 PM
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Okay but just because you’re low in demand because of your race, doesn’t make you better men. Or actually scratch that. You’re only “better” men because you’re otherwise unattractive. If you were just as successful but white, these women would want you right? But when hordes of women want you, why settle? Men are only good cause they lack options. They act all morally superior but there’s a reason why “good men” usually struggle to date. If they had more options, they’d never want to settle down…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:42 PM
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And all men know how to build is an internet world in league of legions in between jerking off to porn. Lol 🗑
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:38 PM
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This is the spiritual journey that all women should be on or heading towards. I love how you took ownership and accountability for your own habits and patterns, while not shaming yourself and expressly forgiving yourself for being a human being...a young one at that. One of the biggest hurdles women have to face is fighting their natural instinct to shame themselves. I love this sub because it speaks plainly and honestly about the truth, instead of watering down to not hurt anyone’s feelings lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:11 PM
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I’m not saying men aren’t capable of this but please realize you were dating a complete psychopath. That is not normal...like at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:09 AM
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Madonnas ALWAYS get deadbedroomed while the men sleep with the “whores” they supposedly hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:02 AM
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On the bright side the pick mes always get the most brutal karma, as do the cheating pigs they’re smug with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:53 AM
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Notice how he strategically said “hold a gun against their heads” and doesn’t use the pronoun “she” until the end. Thinly veiled misogyny and violence against women. Using gender neutral pronouns where the threats and violence happens so they can get upvotes and awards so everyone can pretend it isn’t what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:05 PM
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That’s why they settle down with a woman and trap her with a few kids....they crave stability...until they get bored and start the cycle all over again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:39 AM
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Okay it must be Sunday because you are preaching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:31 AM
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Ewww. And the fact that that shit is normalized. 🤮🤮 I cant say it enough. Great on you for packing up and leaving. I’m 26 and fully prepared to be single forever since porn is a deal breaker for me in a committed relationship now. This sub opened my eyes and it’s always so encouraging and empowering to hear women like you had the strength to leave! Like I said, nothing but queen energy PERIOD!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:23 AM
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This is nothing but queen energy. Sounds so simple but sooooo few women would leave let alone DIVORCE a man before he cheated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:17 AM
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Yeah I don’t believe men are capable of being faithful. Now even ugly fat losers who somehow manage to get into relationships with sweet women have God complexes whenever they don’t download tinder or a prostitute. ”All my friends are doing it I’m SUCH a fantastic man for not sleeping with this prostitute while my wife’s at work.” Thanks to the surge of internet porn and the unlimited access to other women, men truly believe they are Gods. Don’t believe them when they say dating is hard. They ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:47 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:43 PM
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Hi Pheonix! Can you approve of my post to the main sub? It’s not positing on the main page and I’d love to start this specific discussion before the New Year! Thanks a bunch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:53 PM
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Allmen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:49 PM
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As a 34DD with no children yet this comment will keep me up at night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:12 PM
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Factssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:50 PM
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I got so excited when I read a man could make you come everyday for 6 years. But then it registered that he was an ex. Of the small population of men who are consistently good in bed, they all seem to be LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:35 AM
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Yep. Similar logic when it comes to “body count” shaming. He doesn’t actually give a shit about you “saving yourself” and being “pure” otherwise he’s put a ring on it before trying to hit. No, he’s just madly insecure cause you might have been with a bigger better lover. Dating conversations would be so much more productive if men were just honest about their insecurities. Instead they insult us and project and wonder why we won’t touch them with ten foot poles 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:49 AM
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Needed this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:46 AM
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You....do realize revenge porn is mostly made up of exes right? Even if it’s not, your exes have no loyalty. You can’t “know” anything about anyone. That’s why revenge porn happens after the break up. If he hates your guts by the end of it, you’re SOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 03:06 AM
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That’s fair. Hope you stop though. I think back in the day there were more unwritten rules for men about not broadcasting nudes they got sent by girls. These days men send them all in group chats and laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:00 PM
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Or just stop sending nudes because why would they judge a man for asking if the girl is silly enough to send? Look no one deserves to have their nudes leaked but it’s naive of you to send them out trusting men who aren’t committed to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:45 AM
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Oh please and what’s that going to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 06:37 AM
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And don’t ever explain how they’re being disrespectful. Simply dump them and be alone unless you find a man you like who finds the same things disrespectful as you ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:07 AM
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This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:18 PM
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Agreed. Based on the picture alone we can’t assume much, other than she was being cute about the cut she wanted and got exactly that. Being overly judgmental comes off a bit bitter in these situations. If she accepted a Cheeto, I’d understand the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:10 PM
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They need mothering if they’re still boys. But I will say that oldest siblings (especially women and girls) are usually very responsible and nurturing. Tbh y’all usually can’t help but to be that way based on your up bringing so I’d advise you to reflect on how you choose partners and how you treat them at the beginning. It will probably take conscious effort to scale back your natural mothering tendencies. The earlier you display them the more entitled to it they get. Choose a man who can prove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:54 PM
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Because they realize their youth and beauty is their only worth. That even “good men” will no longer feel the same way about them when their older mothers. Women her start to learn the true nature of men don’t care about marrying some rich dude who will cheat on her after her first wrinkle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 04:01 PM
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The problem is there is literally no accountability from either side and the fact that everyone is a victim. Meanwhile 90% of the opinions of the opposite sex are from their teens and young adulthood. Most 30 year olds on here act like their entire world is over because they never had sex as a 20 year old. Men celebrate the down fall of post wall women as if they wouldn’t trade SMVs with her in a heart beat. And women are guilty of what you claimed as well. At some point we need to realize it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 07:37 PM
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Until you block him, you’ll never find peace. Keeping him in your life will destroy the personal progress you made and undermine your new relationship even when you think it’s not. Block him. Nothings holding you back but yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:10 AM
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Right but the fact is men didn’t stop watching after that news came out. And it seems like we as women are all pretending not to know that. In fact, many women continued watching after that came out. But idk those scenes always made me super uncomfortable. I just brushed it off as being prude but now that the actresses are speaking the truth I feel extra justified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:16 AM
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Idk how you ladies watched GoT with all that rape and forced nudity of all the young actresses. Men watched that shit to get hard at the hot topless women and rape scenes...I feel like these shit tests are kind of a coping mechanism. Like I know there was more to GoT besides the rape and exploitation of its actresses but I could never bring myself to watch it, let alone with a bf who has to hide getting turned on while cuddling with me. These days they’d call me insecure for that. Oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:05 AM
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Omg the passive aggression in this text thread makes me NOT miss roommates. I remember these kind of threads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:50 PM
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A lot of them do it to promote their Only Fans and to drive more attention to their porn pics in other subs. Strange these days you can see a nice selfie of a Normal girl, go to her profile and see her spread wide open naked. Reddit’s the last social media I have and I’m struggling to stay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:02 PM
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Their greatest con is convincing women that they are incapable of the simplest of tasks so that women give up asking and do it for them. ...Wait, does this mean they really DO know how to give oral and they just pretend to be trash so I don’t ask them to go down again cause...wtf are they doing down there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:17 AM
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What most people call love is actually just infatuation. The infatuation or honeymoon phase with someone you have amazing chemistry with is unlike anything else. The feeling of “falling in love” is euphoric honestly. But to me, true love is loyalty through the tough times. It’s genuinely wanting what’s best for the other other person, and continuously working on yourself so that you’re a good and attractive person. Most men fall into the infatuation stage thinking they’re in love because they te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:04 PM
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There will always be a mistress chasing desperate men’s money. They don’t care if he’s single or taken. I think Only Fans should be banned for many many reasons. But at the end of the day if a woman’s husband can’t resist the urge to take his credit card out and pay to see an abused teenager shove things in her asshole then ultimately that is the man’s problem and he should be sued for everything he’s got and worse. But I agree with this dismantling of OF and all porn. It’s nothing but televised…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:13 PM
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The lock down sure was a wild card wasn’t it? Glad you made it out safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:43 PM
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Yeah it’s over. And married women and women in relationships - please beware. This only fans influence will be stronger than you think. Your husbands single buddies and coworkers will be talking about it and the temptation to cheat via Only Fans or tinder are sky high right now for ALL men. If you know your man watches porn, keep an extra close eye out. They’ll be the first to be susceptible to this madness. It’s practically common place for men to make a tinder when they’re out of town away fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:32 PM
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I hope you reconsider introducing your son to the men you date if you continue to do so. No judgment but just a suggestion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:09 PM
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Preach sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:53 PM
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And 90% of these “HVM” are just the guys with enough sense to pay for a date and not neg you for 2 month. Most watch porn and have problematic mindsets that they know how to hide well. I was convinced my ex was a HVM for 2 years. He said he wasn’t into watching porn and barely watched it. Thought he was a God send. Turns out men lie when it benefits them and throws you off their track. Stay woke ladies. The porn and only fans indoctrination has just begun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:14 PM
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When women (especially but clearly not limited to unmarried women), 10/10 times this is how their boyfriends really feel. This and so much worse. Then they go out and watch porn and rage jerk off that you’ve stolen their youth. It’s sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:05 PM
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Not the shit I was expecting to read today 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:45 PM
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And men literally just steal this from women who originated this trend...I’m sure this comment section is full of pick mes calling him a king for making this video...about not praising the bare minimum...sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:50 AM
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I’m not talking about the girl in the OP. My response to her in my own thread is that I will pray for her. I’m simply responding to this: But it’s almost like she’s taking it out on the kid because her man won’t pay for things. The girl in the OP sounds sweet, but my comment was generally addressing the idea of a “jealous” step-figure in a child’s life. Having children with LVM increases their risk of exposure to abuse. With not only the women he chooses to date but whoever he brings into the ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:27 AM
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This is why I don’t know if having kids with even a husband is worth the risk. As soon as you break up, they go hunting for your replacement. If you have shared custody, any time your ex has your children, you can’t protect them. You can’t protect them from a woman who will compete with them, passively or actively harm them out of jealousy. You can’t protect them from you NVM ex and his selfishness as he exposes his children to harm for sex and creates more children with more women like an idiot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:44 PM
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If men had the discipline to ban porn from their lives, they’d find being a HVM soooo much easier. A million more times attracted to their wives, no ED, no constant fantasizing about every girl you see while holding hands with your wife. I mean the list goes on. I honestly think this behavior would be seen way more commonly if men decided to level up without porn. Now the few who do seem like Gods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:36 PM
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All that support to open the door and he still will send “wyd or are you too cool to respond?” as his first message to you 😂 Please. And poor thing. I’m sure her inbox is flooded with neck beards and nice guys negging her and begging for her nudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:59 PM
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I’ll send her good thoughts and vibrations because this level of pick me...I honestly just can’t. Where do you start?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:51 PM
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And the saddest part is...they’ve demonized aging so much but how old is Stormy Daniels? Most of these men cheat with women are 30s and 40s+. Usually coworkers or “old friend” Yes men love youth but they love NEWness more. Anytime I’ve ever been cheated on it’s been with an older woman than I and in my opinion, less attractive/ fit. So it really doesn’t matter. They want anything they don’t have. Regardless of age or attractiveness. That’s why men despise hypergamy. When they cheat, they often c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:15 PM
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If you look at rates of cheating in men, it sky rockets after like 50 years old So no, even if you keep yourself a virgin unicorn to be snatched up at 19 by your 30 year old god, he’ll probably not only cheat on you within the first few years, there’s no chance he’lll remain faithful as you age. Men claim to be polygamous which they use to excuse their cheating. Never trust a man who says he’ll never cheat on you. Even if he had the best intentions, men cannot handle temptation. They’ve shown th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:56 PM
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I get triggered any time an actress has to bare her breasts for no reason to get a role on a show. Everyone on set is a fucking abuser. We watched it play out our whole lives. Told this was “entertainment”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:43 AM
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San Franpsychos!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:10 AM
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Glad to hear it. I imagine there’s someone out there who needed it clarified though, so I’ll keep my comment up 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:40 PM
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And not anything else huh? Okay, just know you don’t have to let them keep going if you don’t like what they’re doing. If you’re currently seeing a man you think would rape you if you say no, consider not seeing him. Follow your instincts and know you’re worth a man who gives a shit both inside and outside of the bedroom. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:36 PM
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“Any hostility” 🤣🤣🤣 Can’t even take accountability while “taking accountability”. This was the best he could do after 6 months? This is a NVM 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:33 PM
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You don’t like oral or a man has never made you orgasm from oral? I used to say the same thing you did...until I learned how to use a vibrator and give myself orgasms. Girl, you need to take a long long break from sex. You didn’t lie...not one bit. But your posts reads as if you don’t know why men do all of the things you listed. This is how men treat women they do not love. Period. This is how they treat women they don’t like. If you’re with a man and you know you have to accept sex or else get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:28 PM
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That’s called your survival instinct sis. It’s the sad, sad truth :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:07 PM
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It’s cause deep down, every woman believes: if he didn’t want me, he would break up with me. I made a post about it awhile ago. It’s something we have to experience sometimes to learn. But if we can help each other Unlearn this response to men faster, the less damage they can do to us. Breadcrumbs don’t look like breadcrumbs when they come from a person we are desperately in love with / codependent on. And really it is codependency. I pray your friend finds the light one day. But I fear there’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:40 PM
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Lmao new in town sooo...? I’m living in my home town and I still expect you to take me somewhere I’ve never been before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:16 PM
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It’s a sick feeling watching women coddle and protect men who hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:30 PM
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What’s baffling is watching men cling to this hunter prey biology story but then act clueless when their addictions to sex grow and grow and consume their minds because they are so constantly on the prowl. Porn and the constant scarcity mindset make men terrible long term partners. Just because you’re the predators doesn’t mean you should eat every prey you get. Men have no standards anymore and their addictions to sex porn and only fans is only making them more financially and sexually dependen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:41 PM
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Wait...you currently have a boyfriend? I’m a bit confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:18 AM
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I block every user that follows me that is not a clear and active FDS user. Do it fast because it doesn’t allow you to block them later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:33 PM
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Wow what a brave beautiful choice you made 💙 Good for you sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:30 AM
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55% of white women actively voted against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:05 AM
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Unfortunately, this is most fathers. Very few men stay husbands. Even less stay faithful, committed, respectful husbands. I’m starting to wonder if anyone knows what they’re signing up for when getting married. We think we do...until we find out our parents were secretly miserable as were their parents. Our great grandmothers had no choice! Like which marriage are we actually supposed to look up to??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:21 PM
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I’m in this weird stage in my life where every male I have met in the past year has been depraved beyond belief and I’m trying to decide if it’s just current culture with the internet, porn, the pandemic and Only Fans, or if men have always been this deprived and I didn’t notice because I always trusted them and let them gas light me. Like I had to long term relationships I thought were super healthy. Now that I’m single, I’m thinking back on all the times they must have cheated on me throughout…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:15 PM
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This is the new normal ladies...gear up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:10 PM
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As gay people, we grew up in dark closets, forced to hide our identities and lie about who we were in order to survive. We learned how to lie before we learned how to love. When we come out, the deeply ingrained survival strategy of lying does not disappear This is so important. Although I’m straight, this resonates in the sense that female masturbation / pleasure has been so deeply shamed and hidden, that I find many if not all of us emerge from puberty either completely concealing our sexualit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:08 PM
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I totally get what you mean and don’t disagree, but in this case, I do think he would go after me if I gave him a chance but not for the right reasons. The point was that he’s not going to necessarily dump you for her. The point is he wants his cake and eat it too by flirting with you and staying with her. Even if he stays that’s not the kind of man you want. I get it’s flattering but once you become the boring gf it’ll be way less cute. Good luck.
/r/askFDS06/11/20 07:09 PM
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Lmfao and how tf would they know these are women? Where are they getting their data from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:51 AM
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A lot of men who remain silent merely do so to appear attractive to women but absolutely agree with all the misogyny whole heartedly. That’s why his friends are the way they are. No he’s not the “one shy special one that has never used a girl before”. We just convince ourselves of that. After all, these are the men who get into the most relationships with girls out of their league. Many “nice guys” do end up getting regular hot sex this way. I know my exes did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:56 AM
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That’s so sick. I’m sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:50 AM
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I’m single for the first time in 6 years (2 back to back relationships in my early 20s I’m now 25) so although I vet hard, I’m just looking to go out on dinner dates with pleasant men who treat me well and want to get to know me. I don’t sleep with them and I don’t care about them cause we don’t know each other, we are just dating. They’re ALL dating to get sex until proven otherwise. I know women are indifferent places generally but it’s good to not give a f***about these men. Stay safe and sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:20 PM
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Like I said at the beginning, there is no fool proof method when going somewhere with a stranger. They can literally roofie your water at Applebee’s and dine and dash. There is ALWAYS a risk and that is the most important thing to remember. But I listed out bullet points above for main red flags when dealing with a man who wants to show out financially. There’s many more that can be found in the Handbook. A little common sense as well. Basically, there needs to be no red flags prior to meeting a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:47 PM
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Did y’all know it’s super common for men to look up porn stars that look like you?? Like apparently it’s a “thing” that almost all men do but women don’t know about, and I absolutely believe it. In college a group of my “gUy fRiEnDs” told me I looked like and had the same body type as this porn star. One guy said it and the rest enthusiastically agreed. I remember feeling confused watching them all remark over the same porn star cause I was too naive to realize they were all addicted and memoriz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:38 PM
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The fact is, when you’re dating a man, especially one you don’t know, anything can happen. You can go on a date at a normal restaurant and still get roofies dropped in your water. There is absolutely no guarantee that your date won’t run out on you or drug you or try to coerce you no matter where he takes you. This is why keeping your standards high is only part one. We need to vet, vet, vet these men as well as we can before ever meeting them. Personally, I’ve never been walked out on on a date…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:27 PM
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Oh brother. His wife knows and she’s known for decades. She doesn’t give a fuck and has definitely had at least an emotional affair or two throughout the years if not more. I actually think women like this know exactly what they’re doing. They’re older, they think being single will be lonelier than staying. It’s the “as long as he comes home to me” type of woman. As sad as I am for her, it sounds like she has chosen her path and is content with that. In situations like this, where the woman know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:53 PM
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When I tell you I burst out laughing 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:17 AM
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Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:10 AM
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💀 💀 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:48 AM
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Yes OP, you have a lower SMV than an obese woman. No exaggeration either. There’s a whole community of men who want only fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 03:37 AM
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This though. Their porn addictions have only become more depraved with the increase of time on the Internet. Stay woke ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:21 PM
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I stopped reading after he named his girlfriend “Russell Wilson” like...let me walk away from this train wreck now lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:43 AM
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If you'll notice, the men who are most crazy about their wives are men who felt that they were on the top of their game when they met her, not when she fixed him back together like Barbara the builder. Omg thank you so much for validating why I only respond to men that I am attracted to and who are constantly on their best behavior around me. If their intentions are bad it always comes out immediately. The problem is we ignore it and justify it because the attention they give us despite being a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:40 AM
31

Never thought the depravity could deepen and yet here we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:28 AM
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It doesn’t matter. If you decide to get married to and spend the rest of your life with someone, it’s best you date them exclusively for two years. You cannot rush getting to know someone by being with them every moment of everyday. In fact, that sounds like codependency. Time tells all. Ime the mask didn’t start fall off until year 2. Twice. With the last one though I thought I had the last HVM on earth. But then new situations brought up new problems. You only know a certain version of your pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:26 AM
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Psychologists agree that two people do not fully begin learning about each other until 18 months have passed. Older couples, younger couples - anyone can choose to get married for what ever reason. But you don’t begin knowing all sides of someone until 18 months is up and even that’s not a guarantee. Get married whenever just don’t be surprised when the surprises come during year three. Hopefully you recognize that man you married while you both were still in the honeymoon stage. Like I said, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:08 AM
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Ladies, he’s spiraling. Why? BECAUSE SHE BLOCKED HIM. Period. He didn’t expect that. He expected a back and forth. Expected forgiveness. Maybe even a pick me “oh no worries!” Sis said WHAT THE F*CK IS WRONG WITH YOU and blocked. Hope she sends it to his work. That’s why he posted this. He’s an alcoholic creep and this isn’t the first time. It’s just the first time he’s been blocked and powerless. LOVE. TO. SEE. IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:06 PM
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So happy for your happiness sis! Please do not accept an engagement a day before 2 years together. You known him less than a year. Not becoming a forever girlfriend does not mean rushing into marriage! Glad you’re feel respected and being treated well. Get used it. It’s how it should be ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:02 PM
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If you read my post and walked away with the idea that ugly men are better to date, then you misunderstood ENTIRE point of this post. 80% of this post is about how ugly men fool us into thinking they’ll love us better than attractive men. Men are individuals and should be judged equally, regardless of their looks. If anything this post should encourage queens to date men they find attractive and vet them. Wasting time on uggos because you feel bad or cause they’re “nice” is a waste of time for a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:16 PM
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I’m humbled queen. Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:55 PM
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As long as you’re not going on those types of getaways with men you don’t know. If he wants to take you on a trip without knowing you, he’s paying for you to be his live in sex toy. Always vet and don’t be fooled by the money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:58 PM
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“Look Honey, Ive been looking at the asses of teens playing volleyball and your ass looks like this 15 year olds! Not better, but just as good as ;). You’re welcome. Good job and dont ever age or gain weight. Also the girl with a bigger ass than you will get my attention. And there are plenty of those so be on the look out! I will be constantly checking out ass when we are together tehehe step your game up! 🥰😘”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:00 PM
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They’re not proving themselves that they can make you finish with just their dicks. That’s just mental gymnastics women entertain so they don’t have to accept their partner doesn’t give a shit about her orgasm and just wants his dick wet. Exactly like you said: it’s just lazy and selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:37 PM
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Those are probably high schoolers, possibly middle schoolers. Regardless it was taken without consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:15 PM
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Amen to that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:12 AM
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Men crawling back to you is not a compliment. You are a direct source of happiness and an ego boost for them. Any response from you is a victory. The silence of ghosting is lethal. No response will ever be as effective. You must reject men you’re extremely attracted to if they’re low value. Stop making excuses for them, if they’re trash they’re trash. There will be better attractive men in the future. Everytime I have sex with a man I lose power in the relationship. Sex is power. You can get a s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:08 AM
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Oooh this is so good. Especially the part about not dating hoping he will be better. Ugh just be chasing a false idea. I did it in reverse. I had an amazing boyfriend for two years. But when life changed he stopped treating me well slowly and gradually became an a**hole. I was so stuck on how perfect and thoughtful and passionate about me he was in the beginning that I spent years waiting for him to be that guy again. Nope. Just an ass who took me for granted after the newness wore off. Shitty t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:05 AM
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Does anyone else NOT relate to having exes with old ripped up skid marked underwear?!? Lmfaoo like no shade but Jesus...The depths of pick me hell are deep 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:07 AM
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Yeah it’s almost like women simp for hot men like all men simp for every girl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:21 PM
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LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:21 PM
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Because women have better things to do lol. Yes even if you believe they’re “femcels”. Men really have a lot less qualms about being bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:17 PM
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How he brags about watching a girl finger herself on Only Fans smugly and gets showered in awards. Ladies. Our HVM are competing with direct access to any women they want in a personalized setting VIA Only Fans. Wives around the world who married in good faith are not competing with 18 year olds paying rent by exposing themselves to pedophiles online and because they’re making an absurd amount of money for the perceived effort. It’s terrifying. It doesn’t matter if these guys are hot or ugly. An…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:12 AM
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The thing NO GUY wants to hear is that most girls given that ugly friend zone guy a chance and honestly while sometimes it can last for a long happy while, the men ALWAYS end up cheating on them. I know...I know. The hot ones and the ugly ones do it? When ugly guys date pretty girls their SMV sky rockets. Most men can’t resist temptation and ugly men are especially prone due to their ingrained scarcity mindset despite being in a happy relationship with a more attractive girl. Every girl has thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:13 AM
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Omg that color is stunning on her 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:46 AM
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Most women are blue pilled. I’m emerging out of the blue pill everyday on subs like this. Everyday I’m blown away by the sickness of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 12:09 AM
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They’re not better gentlemen it’s just the accent sis 😩😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:01 PM
2

Big strong hands? Yes pleaseeeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/20 02:07 AM
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Such intelligent women on this sub. I love the way you write. This post was extremely relatable even without you going into specifics. Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:51 AM
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The fact that this is based on real events makes me physically ill. Just cancelled a date with a new guy I was on the fence about. Feel like this was a sign. Chilling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:27 AM
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Duh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:55 PM
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You seriously don’t know? That’s like asking why men with small penises are obsessed with their size... or why TRP obsess over getting fit to be attractive for women. We are on this earth to mate. Not only will being attractive help women select from top tier men, look up the halo effect. Do you really need it spelled out?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:42 PM
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You’re really asking why women would want to look attractive....?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 06:09 AM
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Men have a higher sex drive than women. I think it’s because duh - testosterone/ hard penises they can’t control - but also because they find so many more women attractive. Women do not find the average man attractive. But I do think men and women’s level lust is equal when it comes down to it. The only difference is it takes soooo much more for a woman to be sexually aroused by a man. Men wonder why women have casual sex...but men who have casual sex and are deemed as attractive understand that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:52 AM
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He expected you to neg yourself Just when you think you’ve seen it all smfh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:58 AM
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OMG. Did you see the thread they made AFTER this where the women gave advice to the men? It was full of “IF YOU LIKE ME COMMUNICATE WITH ME ITS NOT HARD” “Stop leaving us on read if you like us jeez 😒” “Tell your baby mama / best girlfriend I’m sick of yalls sleep overs. Please stop” It was like they hadn’t read any of the advice the men gave them just moments before. Like.....the denial is terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:56 PM
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I’d toss the money to the ground so I could watch him grab it from the gutter before I walk away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:50 PM
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Aside from debt and ANY job I don't think men care about most of those things. And then men wonder why the broke unambiguous girl who can’t cook or clean or pay her bills they chase is trash lmao. How are you going to ask what she brings to the table and say men don’t care about those things? Make it make sense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:07 PM
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Annnnnnd this is why girls fake with their boyfriends. Can’t even tell men the truth without them throwing a tantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:25 PM
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As a woman who has spent most of her twenties in a super happy and successful LTR, I have to question your calculations. Thanks for playing tho. Or tell me how mine doesn’t count and how I’ll never have another?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 02:41 AM
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Welcome!! You’re safe here 💛💛💛💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:17 PM
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27 is certainly wellllllll passed that age smfh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:23 PM
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No lies detected except me growing up in a conservative household haha. Glad you agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:38 PM
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I know you think as a man you know how attractive low n women operate. Interesting that you did not comment on much of what I said about the average men not having what it takes to actually secure a low n woman. All of the traits he admires about her are the exact barriers he knows he won’t or can’t overcome to date her. Also saying “most men are trash” unfortunately, is common among all women haha, although I concede it was a blanket generalization but let me expand... Ever wonder why low n wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:47 PM
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Y’all love to put us low n count women on such pedestals but we are the most alpha widowed out there. Most low n women secure commitment of the highest forms early on. Because we practice extreme discernment, the “average guy” is probably more invisible to us than he is to even high n women. So while we appreciate all the compliments, I find the same men who hate sluts don’t have what it takes to pull very low n, decently attractive women. I’m an rather exclusive with my body and my sexuality be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:37 PM
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The fact that she didn’t even mention him in her memoir proves that there is no greater insult than indifference. Mariah blocked and deleted him from her life and they were married. You can block him off your insta sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:07 AM
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He had a new girlfriend before I even moved out and they stayed together over the last 4.5 years. Did he let you down gently then? Sis he he uses women like you for validation then throws them out. The main reason why he had you blocked while in his “replacement” relationship is because his ex gf had at least the brains to know a low value guy like him would string you along and emotionally cheat with you through their relationship if she didn’t make him cut you off (did he even really want to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:05 PM
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What the “wall” really means is men have never truly cared about old women so marriage is the compromise both parties make to not feel alone. Scrotes, why the fuck would we marry you if you think we are ugly when we age? Honestly, the way men idolize youth makes me never want to have daughters and never get married. I don’t want my marriage to feel like a beauty competition, or wonder if my husband is getting hard ones when our daughter teenage friends with big breasts come over cause deep down …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:43 AM
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A swift block and delete is the most radically direct response a woman can give 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:36 PM
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I think this is a perfectly reasonable time for you to cOmmUniCaTe ( usually terrible advice but not in this case imo) with him what you want in a sweet but matter of fact manner. Just say “hey babe, you know what I’d really love and appreciate? If you...” Even give him a chance to ask clarifying questions. But don’t be too coy. Make sure you’re looking him in his eyes when you say it and be super clear about your expectations. Do you want to go to more sit down restaurants, picnics? Multipart d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:11 PM
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I wouldn’t know, because my ex is blocked on all platforms and that will never change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:28 PM
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Moral of the story here is you can cook for him and feed all his friends and he will still openly oogle other women in front of everyone like an untrained dog. The more you know ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:10 AM
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So this is top comment when this sub spends the entire day complaining about girls “playing games” by waiting for sex. If she doesn’t claw for your dick on the first date she doesn’t think you’re attractive - that means you’re a beta. If she fucked a dude early on 5 years ago, you deserve the same treatment etc. etc. Men really do simply live in a Madonna / Whore state of mind. Don’t listen to what they say ladies, watch what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:02 PM
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Actually, polygamy is what they mean. Polygamy is one one partner has many partners, and the other is faithful. When men say they’re Polygamous, they’re quite literally saying they are self selecting as the person in his relationship to have multiple partners. That means by default, his girlfriend/ wife’s remains faithful. What you’re alluding to is called polyamory, which is when both people in the couple are free to date other people. So the wife and the husband are free to sleep with others, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:14 PM
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Yep. It’s an insecurity thing. Because they know there’s men out there who can make her orgasm. She knows there are too. So instead of addressing it he cheats with a pick me who will fake it 5 times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:25 PM
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Oh a million percent. That’s what FDS is for. Thanks for the great content!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:34 PM
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Yes, but ladies, you can only teach them through. actions not words. Do not tell them you can find somebody else who will do x y and z. They know. You actually have to do it for it to count!! It doesn’t count in paragraph form either no matter how “witty” your self realization is. Block him and live your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:24 PM
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Trust your instinct. Don’t believe for a second he didn’t notice your tattoo. Would have been better if he just acknowledged it but I think his long winded response is a deflection. No harm no foul. Proud of you for following your gut. Maybe next time he’ll ask girls about meaningful things in their lives in the moment, rather than waiting to spring shit like this on them which seems love bomby, forced and out of place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:46 PM
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Girl ain’t nothing wrong with that. Problem is the dating pool is full of LVM and LVM manipulating love bombers who pretend to be crush-worthy for a month then dip after Sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:57 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:32 PM
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I’m not even going to clown her because it’s either this, screaming matches everyday or divorce and enter single motherhood with two infant kids. However a woman deals with her dumpster heap of a husband while juggling kids is none of my business. For all I know, he bait and switched her and this is her mode of coping. Typically though, women who bulldoze through red flags and marry losers usually wanted to be mothers more than anything, so let them be that and cope how they want. I do think the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:09 PM
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🗣SIX FEET BACK SCROTE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:02 PM
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...is...is this legal? His therapist sent you what?! What in the unauthorized, inappropriate, abusive pickmeisha hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:05 PM
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Imagine having a spouse that is fighting for their lives and this is the question to pose to reddit. Yeah he’s porn sick and cheating. We all know what happens when women have the nerve to get sick while married...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:52 PM
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I am now convinced that the only thing that “motivates” a man to apologize and “promise to change” is the threat of the woman leaving and getting treated better by one of the thousands of guys who are in her inbox. Ladies, him begging and crying for you to stay cyclically every few months while disregarding your feelings and well being as soon as he’s conned you back into settling for him IS NOT A COMPLIMENT. I used to take pride in the thought of: “Well at least he’s fighting for me.” Yep, figh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:18 PM
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Mmm. I totally see where you’re coming from. As a soon to be former serial monogamist (2 ltrs back to back) at 25 years old, believe me, I’m currently pondering the same thing. But my problem with that method is that it basically invites the man to sleep with and pursue other women the whole time you’re dating. Studies show that you shouldn’t even consider marrying anyone before dating them 18 months. I don’t like the idea of being in basically a poly relationship with my dude for 2 years. I als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:13 AM
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....Do Pick Mes and angry men not realize that every woman on this earth could get picked if they wanted to? All it takes is a wink and a smile and any average woman could have some scrote in her lap. It’s like uplifting a literal trash bag as a prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:23 AM
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Damn, this is a man fighting with his conscious. He probably really likes the girl he’s dating if he’s even bringing her up. He’s probably falling in love with her tbh. Damn, this is exactly how men throw the best things they have with a good woman away for one sexual experience with someone else. This is why expressed exclusivity is important. Men will be head over heals for you and still fuck a random because she matched with him on his dusty tinder. It’s insane. They cannot let it up. He coul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:18 AM
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Omg. Two recent dates grilled me on my ex. One was a first date and one was a second. I kept calm and kept my answers vague. At one point I had to ask, does it matter? To finally shut him up. Of course he rambled on defensively as if he didn’t just ask where my ex lives... I’m 25 and these were both guys in their early thirties. The BAGGAGE. And they say women are bitter. Like don’t ask about my ex psycho, he’s just a dude I don’t fuck with and now so are you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:11 AM
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And then when she cheats back or grows a spine and leaves him for the hot upgrade coworker at her work who had been seen her worth she’s going to be the bad guy 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:02 AM
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It sounds like...a very toxic mix of both. Cause at the end of the day if you’re willing to risk it all, you’re willing to risk it all. It’s worth it to them to lie and get away with it. They made the conscious, repetitive decisions to be duplicitous because the thrill was worth the risk. We were worth the risk. Aye, thanks for playing boys but you lost. Phewf I’m leaving the first time every time forever. Never going down that dark dark path of “forgiveness” again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:56 AM
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And once you find him, hold his feet to the fire 🔥. My ex was all of those things for the first two years. Then he started slipping. Spent way too long chasing the good past good memories. Let it go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:44 PM
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Yep everything you said is true. But don’t forget the other factors involved The depravity that Quarantine has brought to the surface for ALL men all over the world Pick Mes are at an all time high, giving men more access to non committal sex via tinder than ever before (much less cam girls / insta thots etc.) As you said - you’re in LA. I used to live there and...condolences. Even though I did find a great bf from the ages of 19 - 22 but this leads me to my next point: dating in your 30s vs. da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:31 PM
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Ehh even then, exes and past flings don’t count/ aren’t worth mentioning ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:14 PM
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I think a lot of women would be surprised to learn how many men they know / have dated have experimented with other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:20 PM
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I was not ready for this 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:18 PM
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HA! I’d believe it when I saw the prenup and the marriage license is signed. Then I’d only change up my career if it made me at all unhappy. I actually do want to be a stay at home mom while my kids are too young to start preschool, and if (when lol) my husband is as you describe, it will ideal because it allows me the flexibility I will need to decide what level of career woman I want to be while raising kids. I’m happy to stall my career for my children. But if a man cons me into dropping my c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:52 PM
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Some baby steps: 1. Never move in with him before marriage 2. Limit how much you see him. It shouldn’t be every day or every night thing. Weekends plus a day or two in the week max - and that’s for a year + relationship imo. But don’t be too available because it means you’re neglecting your family and friends. There should be at least one night a week you’re with a friend spending time with them without your SO. My exes always were very understanding of my schedule. I promise, it just makes them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:40 PM
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Ehh yes confidence gets your foot in the door. But if you project BDE or talk a big game but you’re a shitty kisser, Jabby With foreplay, shitty rhythm, have an unappealing penis etc. the girl will likely see herself out. A lot of men who project calm confidence end up proving to be at least decent lovers. Yes, faking it until you make it does help and is worth trying for men, but please know - if you sick at fireplace you suck at foreplay. Competence matters. Many confident guys are well endowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:16 AM
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If you block him, he can never bother you from that number again. Unblocking him is a way to hold on, but. I get it it’s hard, but it is what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:06 AM
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A lot of “HVM” are just psychos who didn’t get caught yet. Great on you for leaving the first time, asking no questions, and giving him no room to further gaslight you. I mean, this whole text thread is him pleading for you to talk to him since you both look like assholes. The utter delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:34 AM
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Oh my god sis every fucking time. And they’ll mansplain over you until there’s veins popping out of their necks over a topic they’ve literally never even googled once. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:24 AM
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A man who projects that he knows how to please a woman in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:50 PM
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SAME 😭 Scrotes are so obvious and clumsy with their audacity. When a woman has lost all respect for you, you better hope she leaves you. A woman’s true audacity has the ability to be unmatched. Sometimes it’s hard balancing being true to yourself and remaining a “classy HVW”. It’s like ya I don’t want to put our business out there but why do you get to act like a victim you cheater?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:27 PM
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She probably lost a substantial amount of subscribers just by reminding them she’s 24.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:16 PM
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...GIRL IF YOU DONT BURN THAT BELT IN A PIT OF FIRE SURROUNDED BY ALL YOUR BEST GIRLFRIENDS..!!! eta: you’re a boss & a queen. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:48 AM
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I actually think this is an average / above average marriage these days. Marriage was never built for men to be faithful. Marriage was built to force women into being Teenage virgins for one man. It has always been accepted and expected for a man to cheat throughout his marriage. Women up until recently had no right to leave him even if he hit her (back in the days women were also punching bags - too fun!) Point being, she sounds like the typical suburban mom you think has a perfect life. She sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:45 PM
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This is exactly what our internal dialogue looks like when we listen to men’s words and not their actions. It’s easy judge how cringe this is to watch but if you’ve been here before you will be here again. We have to be willing to walk away without acknowledgement or apologies from him. Why would a man stop telling you ridiculous lies when you always come back for more? This video should have been over at the 0.01 mark. Why haven’t you blocked him yet sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:05 PM
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Oh this relationship is over lol. But whenever I’m on Tik Tok I always have similar thoughts. When one spouse/ partner blows up in fame and the other one is just there...I wonder what tensions and insecurities come up with the other partner. I honestly never paid attention to female thirst and I thought men leaving deprived comments everywhere was just a given. But holy shit, if a guy blows up on Tik Tok because he’s hot, the comments are insane. It’s literally Pick Me’s Gone Wild in the comment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:57 PM
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Yeah...It’s ghetto out here sis lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:04 PM
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Get them tested but understand that without exclusivity those tests are null the second they leave your sight of vision. Then remember even disgusting POS “husbands” pass on STIs to their wives and it’s in their vows to stay faithful so the answer is no, there is not bullet proof way. Abstinence, tests (temporarily) and condoms are your best bet. With sex there is always a risk, and that’s something every woman needs to understand. Thanks for bringing this up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:49 PM
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I want to see it too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:16 AM
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There’s a lot more to the story and you’re absolutely protecting him. 3 month break in a relationship that’s only 2 years, and that was just the longest break of many? Yeah, that doesn’t happen because of missed texts and quiet conversations. If you two were compatible you should be able to go a full year without going on another “break.” It’s okay to not want to get married again, but this is the rocky life of the forever girlfriend. He’s not going to suddenly treat you the way you want to be t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:12 AM
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They’re used to being given a lot of leeway for their fumbling awkward behaviour, and for women to step up to the plate, give them all the answers, and hold their hand. This is the second time in two days that this type of man has had some sort of emotional crisis in response to me refusing to give them Good Boy treats. Omg THIS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:25 PM
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I’m newly single and just did a clean break with all the guys I was seeing. I realized I didn’t give myself enough time to actually be alone, content with my own company. These boys can’t give me the high highs I’m looking for. Neither could my ex. Only I can do that. I’m excited for what I’m capable of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:07 PM
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While this is true, it is also true that men do use niceness as a ploy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:57 PM
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He groomed her since childhood. Beyoncé didn’t have much of a “choice” at all. Now she does, but grooming is powerful and men get away with it way too often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:33 PM
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He was sexually abusing you. Using you as a human fleshlight. You didn’t need a break from sex, you needed a break from what this POS was doing to you repeatedly. Sis. It is upsetting to see the topic of this discussion is around whether you hurt his feelings but it shows you’re not over him and you need someone to help explain the truth: He is a rapist. He is a sex addict. He needs help. You can never help him. Stop talking to him. He doesn’t miss you, he misses having total ownership of your b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:57 AM
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I’m not sure which is more embarrassing, the drawing or the thrift store ring 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:49 PM
2

Can men get commitment if they want it? So does this mean the average guy knows he can date someone he’s not attracted to, he just chooses not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 05:55 PM
3

YESSS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:35 PM
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I saved this comment because this is what I’m thinking about next. I’m really a sponge right now when it comes to the truth about motherhood because it’s a decision you can’t take back. May I ask if you are an advocate for a stay at home mom? I know it ruins your career prospects and it gives the man all the power, but I’m getting to the point where I’m feeling all or nothing. If I’m married to a man I trust and believe will be a good man, and if he and I have an understanding that I will be a s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:53 PM
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People are talking about it and still handing their children iPads and iPhones because they can’t bother raising or disciplining them. The talking has been ineffective. We need action. I pray our generation is the one that learns from our mistakes and break this cycle of giving kids unlimited access to social media at 8 years old. If we could universally normalize not giving kids iPhones until 16 or whenever appropriate and having a family computer or two everyone uses we could scale back so muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:58 PM
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No. I’m a teacher and these kids are legitimately wilding. Creating pick mes at a young age make child pornography basically produce itself to a certain extreme. Hell, I’m 25 and I definitely flashed old guys when I was 14 on Omegle. Had a whole “22” year old boyfriend I met in a teen chat room who was extremely inappropriate with me too but I was too curious and flattered to stop. He was hot and no one liked me at school. The craziest part is I stopped all that at 16 when I got my first real li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:28 PM
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The best part is the comment section of this post in the Tinder subreddit. The incels are ripping her apart for trying to manipulate depressed men into falling in love with her only for her to run off with Chad lol. When the incels don’t even pick you, you know you’ve got a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:15 AM
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Yikes, the amount of denial in the comments is concerning. Do you honestly think only incels are capable of writing this? Time to wake up. This is real and possibly even common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:39 AM
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Right. Imma pass all together lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:19 PM
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The point I was trying to make is in some instances woman are shitty and I don’t know if you can fault them for the relationship being destroyed but they are not innocent. Nothing I said negated or even challenged your point. Like I said, cheap ass people. The pick mes who go for taken men and the taken men too weak to say no. No ones defending these women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:02 AM
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Jesus Christ. It’s scary how over time men just use women like this for cheap thrills while they’re in relationships. This is exactly why it is never about us when men cheat. Just cheap people behaviors. Sucks but we have to dump them the first time, every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:42 PM
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I agree. My point is, even women with high self esteem and ruthless vetting practices get caught up with LVM in disguise particularly because some manipulators will put on a disguise for a couple of years before revealing themselves fully. Even with sky high expectations all being met for years I was caught with an ungrateful bf who ended up getting lazier about hiding it stopping his low value impulses. So my point is HVW can devolve if not aware that all men can change at any point. They don’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:00 PM
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Ladies, we gotta let go of the honeymoon phase and all the dreams and treat each day like a new one. All human beings manipulate their image to best suit their needs. Men, particularly older men, know what’s attractive to us (pays, attentive, sensitive, fun, not jealous) and play that role to the gods. Their mask usually falls off. Took my ex 2 years. Don’t run from it or explain it away. It’ll start to impact your mental health, sex life and self image. Walk away when it’s time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:48 PM
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A lot of handsome men are growing bored of sleeping with pick mes right off the bat. Some men resort to this behavior because they can. Men are hypergamous too. They want the hottest girl they have a connection with on their arm. So they hide behind false promises while never expecting to marry her or stop cheating from time to time. I was almost a forever girlfriend. That is what FDS taught me and I’m forever grateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:42 PM
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You don’t even have to be a pick me to do this. Thing about intentionally manipulative men, they’re very good at what they do. They’re doing a lot to make sure you stay, that’s the part he mentions but glosses over. Similar thing happened to me but he was high value for two years. Took me two years to realize he was never reaching his past potential again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:40 PM
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Oh shit, this is it. Is there a permanent loyalty and zero porn setting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:34 PM
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Crying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:22 PM
7

“Are the straights OK” 😂😂😂 Umm can I make an official report? 🗣No!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:21 PM
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Delusions born out of privilege. This has white supremacy all over it as well as being misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:29 PM
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If women actually reported all of the sexual harassment that goes on in the restaurant industry, then 90% of the restaurants would shut down (that’s only if these men were brought to justice, right...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:26 PM
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Jesus Christ. This is insanely valuable insight that needs to be exposed and shared. I had divorced parents who were great friend - my childhood was very happy. They apparently were very toxic when they were married according to my older siblings. The divorce of was of course 10000% harder on my mom, she raised us and my dad was the cool parent for taking us to the movies every other weekend and paying for shit. He even remarried. My poor mom. Well now we all adore and spoil my mom. Take her on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:43 PM
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Sigh, it had to be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:03 AM
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Men like this do this to signal to their harem of pick mes that they’re high value men. Not calling you a pick me but it’s working on you. If he’s popular on social media there are hundreds of other girls like you that he lead on and now taunt on social media. Girls in his DMs trying to become side pieces. It sounds dramatic but depending on how famous he is that’s how these guys get down. They get the “hottest” girl they can, treat her like a queen, always in front of cameras of course, and get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:01 AM
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This cliff hanger tho... And girl I need to stand up and applaud you. I fell into the HVM trap too sis. He presented high value for two years. Even paid for me and showed me off on social media. But after that he got a new job and did a 180. Took me two years to accept he wasn’t the man I fell in love with and that he wanted someone else. Problem is, guys with HV qualities know they have HV qualities, but when they have access to sex with other women, they find it very hard to give them up. So t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:26 PM
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Yesss chemistry is real. The spark is real. The spark is also dangerous, don’t let it cloud your judgement...but yes it’s necessary to have 100% of the time you move forward with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:15 PM
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By the way, Jada didn’t cheat. August explicitly said Will gave him his blessing to date Jada. And in the interview, Will said they were separated. Will and Jada have had an open relationship for years, which makes this double standard even more gross. Jadas behavior was approved by her husband. So why is everyone calling her a cheater?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:23 PM
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Oh...maybe I should stop dating because all men make me feel unsafe. After the ones who said the loved men hurt me so callously, I learned yes all men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 12:01 AM
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Sis he didn’t even use your expensive birthday gifts? Trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:41 PM
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Most times the dudes who do all these ones are the ones who also beg you to stay. Don’t worry sis, he was gaslighting you too. They know what they’re doing and that’s what’s scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:36 PM
14

Somebody frame this and hang them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:34 PM
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The internet is the only access incels have to real women. Getting their attention is how they cope. It’s a sickness. Ladies, stop engaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:26 PM
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...this is literally what women have been telling guys when they complain about hypergamy. Sooo yeah. It’s natural for people to move on, it just sucks when you’re the one whose heart is broken. Basically common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:09 PM
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If it hurt your feelings to read this you might want to wrestle with the idea more. The problem is people read accountability and see it as an immediate attack because whenever we as women “take accountability” we immediately turn it into self loathing and self hatred. No, accountability means embracing the fact that we are maturing humans and we are recovering from mistakes we made as children, hormonal teenagers, lost 20 year olds 30 year olds and so on. People hate being called out because th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:16 AM
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So most men have to pay for validation and women get it for free and then some. Is this the point of the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 01:15 AM
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Haha that’s fine. It’s still free and never ending. It’s expensive to date and it’s expensive to see prostitutes. It’s weird how many guys on this sub hate FDS but they preach exactly what men want which just proves them to be right over and over again. It’s better to be selective as a woman, wait for sex, and wait for high quality men to sweep you off your feet. Not every girls getting humped and dumped. It’s a pretty pleasant dating world out there if you have a bit of self control and standar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 01:14 AM
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LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:29 AM
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Not a brain cell or career prospect in sight sis 😔 But don’t worry, their weed and porn stash are always plentiful and up to date! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:28 AM
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Honestly...it just makes me feel like guys like this (of any race) don’t have jobs or any reason to present themselves as anything other than low life losers. All guys can be losers, but anyone who feels comfortable posting that shit publicly with their face and name attached to it clearly has nothing to lose. Sad shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:29 PM
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ChEaPeR tO kEeP hEr Okay Harold so shower and stop sexting cam girls in the mean time so she doesn’t leave your ass and get her much deserved alimony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:38 PM
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Omfg the last woman on earth would have to be protected by family members if she had any. Otherwise...I shutter thinking about what these men would do to her. Can’t even have a male friend without them crying about not being able to have sex with you. Yep like you said, the last man on earth would be not only be looked after by HVW he’d be treated like a king by Pick Mes 🙄. Must be nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:15 PM
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I’m so happy she made this follow up post. I was disgusted by some of the top rated comments. Idk how many times I saw “Welp, he’s never telling a girl the truth again” In that thread were hundreds if not thousands of men thinking about the time they sexually assaulted women without getting caught and projecting that bullshit on to OP. Most of the comments made her bf the victim. Just stop the planet and let me off please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:58 PM
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It’s not a cam girls fault that a man feels the need to leer at you when you’re in a flashy top. The problem starts and ends with men. Sis they are sick. Women keep trying to rationalize and control them, but they cannot be controlled. We cannot blame other women for men’s internal weakness. No one forced them to pay for 18 year olds to strip down naked. These men are not the victims they are the perpetrators of evil. You should be a lot more concerned about the well being of these poor women wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:33 AM
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Oh so this is fake?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:53 AM
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And how many of them, who won’t even fuck you, will want to marry you? Oh only when they’re 40 and fat? Tells us more about your SMV and RMV doesn’t it? Your problem isn’t the girls being sluts. It’s even the sluts don’t want you. Cause if they did you’d have a high n count too and wouldn’t be obsessing over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 05:25 PM
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Ummm so I’ve been single for a year after dealing with a couple LVMs and dating a LVM Cheater for 8 years. Congratulations on your year of singledom! It’s so important to heal. I think in times like these it’s really easy to judge our friends for doing obviously pick me things but it’s equally important to remember we have all done dumb shit in the name of love. Yeah buying a house with a guy is dumb but at the same time a year ago you spent 8 years doing things I’m sure you regret. If she asks,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:14 AM
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Nah but your title is about “high value” which is an obvious jab at FDS, an all women’s sub which has only been popular for like a year tops. Meanwhile TRP has been calling women plates, holes etc for a decade plus but of course you’ll never see a post in this sub titled “calling women plates makes you low value/misogynist” and even if you did it would have negative likes. That was the point of my comment but that’s what I get for visiting a sub overrun by angry men and incels. Which is good, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 03:25 PM
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I am not talking about males This post is about males. A specific male in a position of power. When a woman says she was inappropriately touched by a male doctor, they should not be told “people in general behave some ways without meaning to.” Even though you clearly didn’t mean it that way, that kind of response is a form of dismissal. He is a male doctor in a place of power that behaved inappropriately. Bringing up how men and women sometimes do stuff without thinking doesn’t help and can actu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:35 PM
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And calling women plates is just fine right? Lol I need to get off this sub the projection and hypocrisy is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 09:24 PM
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They try to be nice and compassionate without using their brains and ask if it's okay with you to even be touched. If female doctors have to use their brains to keep their jobs and clients, male doctors sure as hell do too. “Not using their brains” on the job will have their medical licenses revoked and charges pressed. OP good for you for recognizing the breech of professionalism and doing what you need to do to feel safe in such an environment. The idea that male doctors are not just as depriv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:22 PM
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You mean goldsiggers? 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:15 PM
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SIKE BITCH!! 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:05 AM
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At first I thought I was horrified because of this story. But then I realized I’m horrified by the realization that if all men could, all men would. And I mean all. 100% of them. Lord why am I straight😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:02 AM
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Jesus Christ. I am proud of you for being strong. You children need zero of that in their lives. Even if they’re never introduced to the bfs, children are still impacted by the LVM their mothers emotionally involved themselves with. What if he hurt you? He’s still stalking you, which is continued harm. When you put yourself first, you put your kids first. Single mothers do Gods work cause goodness knows I couldn’t do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:59 PM
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This past time, the one time I saw him after vacation he choked me very hard with a towel from behind and the next day i woke up with broken capillaries all over my face. When I tell you my mouth DROPPED. ⚠️ THIS IS NOT NORMAL. THIS IS NOT OKAY. ⚠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:47 PM
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Omg this was so scary and heartbreaking to read. I’m so happy you didn’t let him in and have sex with you (that’s the most important part) but it breaks my heart to hear you felt so pressured to stay to 2am with this man and even take him on your roof because he was so persistent. UGH I’ve definitelyyyy been there too. I think a lot of us have to certain extents. It just shows up in different ways. It’s such an overwhelming feeling sometimes when your face to face with a man who is demanding you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:43 PM
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Plus I read that going on thrilling dates increases your chance of attributing the feelings of exhilaration with the person due to the activity. This research is part of the reason why they always make the contestants on the bachelor do exciting things together like parasail and jump off cliffs etc. Obviously safety alone is more than enough reason to never do these kinds of dates early, but the research is still interesting and useful I think!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:39 PM
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Oh my god FaceTiming while you slept?? Can I ask what finally ended it?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:33 PM
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You’ve only been dating him for two months. I’m sure he’s a sweet guy and I’m sure he’s obsessed with you, but I promise, you will find hundreds of sweet guys wherever you go and honestly you’ll learn that a lot of these sweet guys aren’t always so sweet after 6 months or a year later. You two are growing so much and you owe it to yourselves to give yourselves freedom to discover yourselves. You can’t be in love with him after two months. It kind of almost sounds like you pity him more than anyt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:29 PM
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No one got upset but you sis...he actually looks quite unbothered by your paragraphs. :/ Hope you find the strength to block him once and for all. He wins every time you respond, no matter how “bad ass” you think your paragraphs are. Not trying to be mean. Just wanna be honest. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:31 PM
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I don’t understand...are you still talking to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:30 PM
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🎶 You’re so ugly when you cry...please” 🙄🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:51 PM
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So you’d prefer a woman spent most of her years dating / single / in casual sex? Say she’s mid to late twenties. That’s less of a risk and red flag for you? Her body count wouldn’t bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 07:15 AM
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As they should. Because you said, women are reactionary. If you please them, they become the very thing you masturbate to every night. When two people are falling for each other, the proactive reactive shit is automatic. It’s natural. Both parties want to be viewed as useful and special by the other. When my boyfriend did thoughtful ass shit for me, it made me feel safe, appreciated and secure. When I felt that way, no other men exist and I gave myself fully to him romantically and sexually. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 07:11 AM
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No we usually break up with y’all cause y’all are usually caught being unfaithful because, we’ll, you’re addicted to porn, slaves to the female body and operate on a scarcity mind set. You boys can’t control your dicks and you think it doesn’t directly correlate to why women dump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 06:59 AM
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Basically every thing you did happily to get her to fall in love with you but the things you no longer felt compelled to do for her any longer. And if not for you specifically, most men. Love how all the comments ignore the vast majority of men are left because they’re caught literally cheating with other women lol. And before you say wOmEn ChEaT tOo the statistics and commons sense shows up until (and still) now men always cheated more or are at least caught which is what matters (because when …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 06:45 AM
1

What’s wrong with having long-term exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 06:14 AM
2

He broke up with you so he doesn’t have to go to college and cheat on you first. He has rejected your invitations many times and to be honest if he was my friend I’d recommend blocking you :/. Not being being just being honest. There’s nothing vague about this. He has rejected you and said he doesn’t want commitment with you. Please leave him alone and fall back in love with yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:51 PM
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This is your boyfriends family. Idk why you’re over there as their slave, but your worst mistake is completely ignoring the fact that your issue isn’t with the grandmother, but 100% with your bf who allows you to to be the house slave like this. Also, why are you putting up with it? Your boyfriend obviously doesn’t care, what are you willing to do to protect yourself? You’re being abused...for what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:49 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:57 PM
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That’s what I’m thinking. He didn’t marry her on accident. He chose her time and time again and then decided he couldn’t live without her. Men are attracted to seemingly wild women for a reason. But they project themselves to be so outwardly humble and perfect. Meanwhile their “cRaZy” gfs and wives are filling a deep void in them that only chaos can fill. These dudes are fucked up man. Real normal dudes date real normal women period. Especially when there are SO MANY HVW TO CHOOSE FROM. Loyal, i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:20 AM
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Pleasssse more posts like this ladies if they exist 😭 So happy for you love!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:06 AM
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The scrotation 🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:56 AM
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You sound like his sugar momma. Keep things causal and don’t marry him. He’s not high value but it seems he provides you some value (company). Him planning dates after you fly him out is the absolute bare minimum. Enjoy the attention and the attraction but please do not give him credit he did not earn. As someone who has been flown out and wined and dined by another person, I can say with confidence that it’s not that hard to be ultra pleasant for a week or weekend that’s on someone else’s dime.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:47 AM
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This this this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:15 PM
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Honestly they need to replace “Dont Break Up” with “Dont Cheat” and direct it at men in marriages because that’s who really needs to hear it. Husbands who stop dating their wives are always the fucking worst. They expect enthusiastic sex on demand (sex they dissociate from) without putting in an ounce of effort to even be seen as sexy. And ladies, boyfriends who stop dating their girlfriends need to become ex boyfriends full stop. It could all be so easy 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:50 PM
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I think it’s the same mindset for these models. They’ve been harassed by attractive fit men their whole lives just to get cheated on and abused at every turn. Problem is assuming fat uggos have any less audacity at the end of the day :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:14 PM
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Trust but verify I always say. Men out here giving their girlfriends whole STDs and having emotional affairs with coworkers like it’s no big deal but then snap at their gfs for going through their phones like “YuH doNt tRusT mE?!” Saved my self from wasting my 20s by snooping. My thing is, if a man goes through my phone he’s not gunna find shit so idc. Same should go both ways. Get him while he’s sleep sis. Don’t let him waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:00 PM
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We need to understand that all men, even HVM have this shit lurking in the depths of their minds. Men care about body counts because they’re terrified that you’ll compare him to a guy who was bigger and better in bed. This is pure projection because they are constantly thinking about sex - real or imagined, on porn or with exes in the past. All men are fighting against their deprived nature. All men. High value men are the ones who can deal with it at best and suppress it at worst. But men are m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:48 PM
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And this is coming from a girl who once dated a 450 lbs. man, I admit it. Sounds like you’re more than qualified to tell US why sis. Why’d you do it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:43 PM
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He’s a friend? That makes this even more sad. Most guy “friends” end up being LVM when it comes to being a romantic partner. Too bitter and damaged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:38 PM
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Men are low value because they didn’t have strong and moral father figures to teach them how to be real, respectful, protective men. Real men aren’t there to teach them about the truth about porn addiction, erections, pervasive thoughts and thinking with their heads rather than their dicks. They’re not there teaching them how to manage their anger through physical activities like sports, building, reading or art. They’re not there teaching them how to manage being men. Try as we might, we will n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:10 PM
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First, hugs and love. I guess I don’t know what you mean by “pretty enough for FDS.” You know you are a HVW. You know you shouldn’t have to change yourself to get a HVM. You say no man has treated you the way you deserve. Do you think this has to do with your looks? FDS cannot change the nature of men. I have never seen anyone tell another woman on here that they need to diet and be skinny to be loved, just to have good personal hygiene. Men are evil to conventionally attractive women everyday, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:25 PM
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They’ve never not coerced a woman into sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:24 PM
1

If mother and child will have a similar quality of life, why bother having the father around? This is a huge leap and assumption which you should not make. Kicking a good father and otherwise good partner out of the house has a huge impact on a child. So it is important to consider this impact. I find it interesting that you make so many assumptions against the father, even though all we know about him is that he’s a great partner, just that he refuses to marry her which she’s known since before…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:48 PM
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I had one of the few responses mentioning that there is an entire child involved. Yes he’s not marrying her, but she said SHE decided to have children with him unwed, SHE decided to get the house with him unwed, SHE decided to go off birth control unwed. He has told her he isn’t interested in getting married every time she asks year after year. My main point is to help her understand that she has an answer, it’s up to her what to do with it. I know it’s every woman for herself out here in this s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:00 PM
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For his convenience? Lmao where did I say that? I said no matter what she chooses she needs to save her how money and be financially viable for both her and the child. She should use him to help raise the kid and decide if no marriage is a deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:25 PM
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No one ever said OP was “obliged to stay humiliated.” You can disagree without putting words in my mouth. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:16 AM
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It is concerning that 99% of the screenshots of blatant negging and and abuse that women post here are replied to with “lol thanks” and “lol wow really?” That always saddens me more than the neg. The internalized need to be nice and accommodating and non upsetting is so ingrained in women it often takes a physical effort to ignore and block rather than entertain and forgive. This shit isn’t funny or cute. It’s not on accident, it’s purposeful negging to cut down your selfesteem. We have to train…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:49 PM
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Sorry sis, sometimes when you bulldoze through the red flags, there’s nothing to do but to feel the full force of the consequences, so I don’t have advice other than stay strong and continue to learn from your mistakes. Please read the handbook so you don’t have to personally experience the reason why we must keep standards high and never falter. If nothing else, this situation can serve as a warning for any girls reading this finding themselves lowering standards and going against FDS principal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:06 PM
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If you want to be with him don’t expect to be married. You already have a child and a house with this man. You made these decisions unwed. If everything else is as good as you describe it, I don’t think it would be that fair to uproot your daughter just because you’re finally coming to terms with the truth that has been truthfully expressed for years. He doesn’t want to marry you and he never will. If things are good I’d try to work it out. Two good parents raising your kid is better than one. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:58 PM
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If you’re having sex with both, stop. It’s probably time to move on. Great on you for dating both at the same time. I know it’s tiring but what’s more tiring, putting all your bags in one basket and still getting told “we will see where things go” or having the piece of mind knowing you kept your options open and didn’t waste all your time on one scrote. You gave your 100% and you would have ended up in the same situation with either, so never think you didn’t give either your “all”. No man dese…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:42 PM
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.....and these men expect me to put my body through hell and back birthing their spawn...for this pile of steaming shit? Mmm. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:31 PM
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You don’t start to really know someone until 18 months. And we only know certain versions of them. You know what he’s like when he’s infatuated. Men can turn into entirely different people depending on the circumstance and opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:07 PM
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I always cringe while doing it. I can’t help it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:53 PM
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I love you. Do you have an update? Did she respond?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:51 PM
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Please do it quickly. He can easily go through her phone and computer and block you prematurely. It has happened many times before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:48 PM
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I appreciate your thoughtful response and being open to differing opinions! There’s no one right answer just like there’s tons of different ways to be a pick me (many of them due to socialization and learned insecurity - all women are victims). I guess the reason why I pushed back on the label is because it’s clear that you love this girl but the way she talks about men and work rubs you the wrong way and youre over it. Sounds like you may be feeling guilty deep down for feeling this way (clearl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:45 PM
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And that’s a healthy mindset if I’ve ever heard one. My sister just got married to the sweetest porn free gentleman who comes from money to boot. She’s 35 going to try for a baby when she’s comfortable. No use in rushing anything. Raising a family with a LVM is the worst thing we can do. Good luck sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:33 PM
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Are you talking about your husband or your child?! 😂 You did what needed to be done! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:25 PM
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Sad thing is most men do this all the time. It’s not about you being lucky to not have kids. You’re lucky your partners didn’t want to have kids. Y’all blame women for trapping you so much but never stop to thank the hundreds of times women faithfully took shitty ass birth control and plan b and hell even abortions in order to keep you from having a child. I have zero sympathy for men who do not wrap it up 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 07:05 PM
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The general answer is to level up and let them find you. When you are leveled up, not only do you frequent places that may have HVM, but you’ll attract more HVM in general - even if it’s OLD. Obviously due to the pandemic it will be nearly impossible to frequent any place with HVM (it was already tough before the pandemic). Now all we really have is OLD so do what you will with that info lol. I’m a week out of a 4 year old relationship with a guy I’d describe the exact same, great guy was high v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:53 PM
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You’re not disappointing anyone here, we are just trying to be honest with you because we have all been here before to different degrees. Like I said, you’ve covered step one which is amazing! But this sub is (or at least at is core should be) not simply a place to “roast a scrote” but a place for women learn how to finally eject trash from their lives and never look back. Really reread what he said to you. You posted this not for a laugh but because deep down you know you deserve better...espec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:57 PM
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You’ve found an entirely avoidable way to still “need him.” How can we judge only him when you continue to entertain him? Step one is recognizing the trash, which you’ve done which is great. The second step is actually taking the trash out. What’s the use of dragging a man you still have attachments to and allow to talk to you this crazy? I was very sad to see you continue to reply and further justify it. You can find another dealer if you want. Unless you have children there’s no reason to conv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:32 PM
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I’m just saying I don’t get pick meisha vibes because you haven’t mentioned that she dates losers and throws other women under the bus. All you’ve said she’s done is brag which I understand is annoying. But I don’t think bragging makes you a pick meisha. It’s when you make men an active priority in your life and you put other women down. You’re also annoyed when she talks about her accalaids at work. Sounds like she’s looking for a lot of validation from you in general. You don’t have to be frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:32 AM
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When there’s a baby involved, you can’t always stick to the script. You gotta try to see if a healthy environment with their father is possible, so I totally understand. Do what you feel is right but know you are a queen that deserves to be happy. We got your back either way 🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:04 AM
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Low value men love splurging on women and feeling manly. That’s why they prey on young teenagers because it’s impressive to have a man drive a shitty car and pay for your Taco Bell at the age of 16. The men who complain cannot afford to properly court a woman their age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:57 AM
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...Either this is a man with a super specific fetish or she’s a girl who needs endless male validation and tries to mend her insecurities through “male friendships” aka getting validation from orbiters. There is nothing wrong with having guy friends but deliberately looking for a strange man to “care” about your life screams insecurity. I doubt her boyfriend makes her feel special or seen. Why would she need to do this if her man made her feel loved in the relationship? So many questions. Hope t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:21 AM
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Wow I literally don’t see pick meisha at all. Sounds like she is confident and at worst she brags a lot. It’s normal to get annoyed when someone brags a lot. Idk a lot of the things she said I literally said to my best friend yesterday. But my best friend bosses me up and gassed me even more. The difference is my best friend is also a boss bitch who works at a top company, has all these accolades and gets hit on all the time. I LOVE her stories about her success in life and in dating. We also ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:30 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:16 PM
5

I love you for this😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:17 PM
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If you feel that you are in the right head space to date, then do you! I said what I said based on what you told us and based on your response I still stand by it. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:43 PM
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I’m not pushing any tropes. I’m giving specific advice to someone who is asking for it. Glad you found happiness sis 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:18 PM
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The worst thing you can do is to try to heal while in another relationship. Sounds like you’re still traumatized and that you’re in your own world. Believe it or not, your state of mind also leaves you vulnerable to missing red flags in your current relationship. Because your ex partner was so horrible, it’ll be nearly impossible to objectively vet this guy. He could be the HVM of the year, but look out for savior types. If he knows anything about your past trauma that’s not good. My advice is t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:53 PM
6

Let’s all watch in awe as a man finally admits to his branch swinging hypergamous nature and doesn’t get called names by any of the men in this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 07:29 PM
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Why are you expecting him to fund your life? You have made yourself extremely vulnerable. You are almost entirely dependent on other people. Can you move back home so you can get back on your feet? You need to do this ASAP no matter how long this guy says he’ll support you. I hate to be the one to say this but there will likely be a day he kicks you out. It will be well within his right and you need to prepare for that. If you allow that day to come without securing your own housing or saving en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:00 PM
1

I personally don’t think there’s anything wrong with dating a man 5 years older than you, but you have to vet twice as hard and make sure they’re legit head over heels for you. This takes more than a year to determine (for all men). I was almost surprised to hear you were having trouble finding an older guy to stick around. According to them, early twenties women are their life long obsession (careful about dating too old, a lot of these men are ONLY attracted to your youth, and will replace you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:55 PM
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Wasn’t it just last year a man threw a random toddler over the balcony of a mall because a woman rejected him? The toddler was a boy so maybe men will finally care? 🙃 Fucking trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:58 PM
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It’s the unbothered billionaire badass mogul vibes for me ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:54 PM
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You can’t make the comparison because men only pretend to care about the worthless prostitute hiring vermin that Cardi robbed. If a man came up to another man and said “ugh the stripper I harassed and paid to have sex with robbed me!!” No one would give a shit because if you play sick illegal games you win sick illegal prizes. Not defending the action simply calling out the double standard, gaslighting and hypocrisy of men. These same men who dragged Cardi said Cosby’s accusations weren’t that b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:46 PM
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Have threesomes with your attention after they’ve screwed you over, but make sure they feel left out. It’s the best revenge ever. Shaking my mother effing head. “Punish” a scrote with sex with another attractive woman? Lord have mercy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:47 PM
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Men are not the prize. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:38 AM
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Lol this is how all men are just with varying time spans they can fake it for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:34 AM
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No it isnt. The hypocrisy has never been the problem. If it were, women would shame men for high n counts. I addressed your point directly. Women can and do call out hypocrisy without slut shaming men in general. Doesn’t really get more direct and clear than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 10:44 PM
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What? You don’t have to shame someone for calling out their hypocrisy? Lol. Women: “you judge high n women when you have a high n yourself. Thats hypocritical. “ Men: “No it’s not cause you never shamed me for it heh heh” Like...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 10:32 PM
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As long as I’m not exclusive with a man that’s all I require. That’s what dating is. I often forget men have to put in quadruple the amount of energy into dating which is why they have to have a million tactics and names for things like plates. If I’m single I have to actively minimize the exposure I’m getting from men (actively pause my dating sites after a few days cause the messages are overwhelming) literally try to wear baggy shit to get hit on less in public. Not go out as much etc. But ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 10:09 PM
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Only if he’s courting her properly and not getting caught creeping on other women. If he’s giving her what she needs, resources and fidelity, he can keep a high value woman. But as far as I know men in the red pill aren’t trying to give resources and fidelity. Those who are cheap and use women for sex or string women along are not getting with high quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:07 PM
1

Can you define the acronyms in your post please?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:47 PM
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RP specifically targets low self esteem women. They try to manipulate them into putting out then after they sleep with these women they categorize them as easy and move on to the next girl. It’s funny, the more you fail their tests by not putting out, the more respect they gain for you even though they’re frustrated. TRP men only works on high N women with lower self esteem and lower sexual inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:43 PM
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Ladies, I bet you she blocked and deleted him. THIS is what happens when you block and delete no exceptions. He’s now trying to snake into random reddit DMs looking for you? Well good. Block him everywhere lol they’ll obsess forever. Or not. Who cares either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:39 AM
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I wasn’t ready 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:33 AM
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Oh my gosh or god forbid you compliment another girl on something your pick me friend is jealous of. Pick mes act so confident but their nastiness shows how fragile and insecure they are. But their words hurt other women starting a never ending cycle. Ugh I just thank god i didn’t grow up on Instagram. It was bad enough with MySpace and tumblr shit but Instagram?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:31 AM
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Regardless, we take your word for it. Why would we assume you lie? Y’all mad we believe you?? Guys don’t tell girls they fake it. Like this is not common knowledge among women in the slightest. But that’s not our fault...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:46 AM
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Women have to understand this and learn the answer once and for all. Sometimes I forget not everyone is on FDS with knowledge of the hard truths. If all women internalized this, we would stop wasting our own time screaming “WHY WONT HE COMMIT ?!” Into the wind as they cook, clean and service his crusty dick at his every whim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:24 PM
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Don’t send the letter sis. He will forward it to the colleague and she will save it feeing so damn proud of herself. Then they’ll just use you as a warning tale for the next gf “Yeah we are just friends but my crazy ass ex send me this cRaZy letter ending our relationship out of jealousy. Wanna read it?” If you MUST, do it over the phone so at least they won’t have physical evidence of it. Believe me, make your exit dignified with no written evidence that it had anything to do with her. Don’t gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:03 AM
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Men love bomb so women can gaslight themselves into believing whatever he tells her. They’re definitely orbiting each other and I can promise you she feels in competition with you. Any man who invites this into my life knowing I don’t like the girl can fuck right off. Sorry OP if I were you I’d trust my gut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:00 PM
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Clarifying question: Are you two exclusive? That definitely needs to be in the cards before thinking about sex, especially since this is really important to you. If talking for all these months warrant sex then they should warrant commitment first. You should not bring this up or tell him it’s a requirement before sex. Just know that it is and watch how he proceeds. But just a word of advice, take inventory of your emotions and mental state. Are you really ready to start sleeping with a guy who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:50 PM
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Right! “My eQuAl” like you literally just admitted you can only handle women with bottom of the barrel self esteem. Those are your equals sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:16 PM
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So he got cheated on by army girls who ran game twice as well as he could ever dream. So instead of being humble he’s angry. Classic lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:09 PM
13

Tbf I think she realized her mistake and then he negged her about it...the whole interaction was rough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:08 PM
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Do men care about the rape of little boys unless someone brings up the rape of little girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:34 AM
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First and foremost, you can date whoever you want and break up for whatever reason. Attraction is super important and if you don’t feel the chemistry he is probably not a great fit. However. I just want you to keep in mind for the future that while I understand why you’re doing so low key dates, you should also understand that those “low effort” dates may contribute toward feelings of disinterest. I’m not surprised you weren’t interested in even a kiss. What about walking around a campus or shar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:46 PM
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This relationship was meant to happen. It proves that you are are a boss and omg you DECIMATED his ego with this, just know it. Ugh I love it you are a QUEEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:44 PM
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Men are too cowardly to divorce you. They always resort to cheating. The gag is, she doesn’t want to fuck you because you use her as a glorified flesh light and she got bored of faking orgasms after the second kid. Your dick game is trash sir and every side chick pick me you have is only using you to temporarily raise their own garbage self esteem. And when these men get caught do they ever say “Ha! Lets divorce!” Noooo they scream and cry with snot dripping down their chins, begging and pleadin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:02 PM
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Love how begging random thugs to RAPE your sister is cutely repackaged as “being thrown under the bus.” Considering the whole family is gaslighting her and couldn’t care less I understand why. She needs to cut all those fuckers off, go to therapy and start over again. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:46 PM
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Trust but verify I always say :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:28 PM
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Shhh no one has to know sis 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:35 AM
38

I’m sorry but your edit cracked me the fuck up cause you’re being so earnest 😂😂I feel you girl lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:57 AM
67

Okay get it ChristianGirl93!!! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:49 AM
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I’d definitely say “Oh this isn’t going to work for me, I require a man who knows how to satisfy a woman.” Then I would block him. Because a man who tells you that he doesn’t like giving head is a man who is selfish and trash in bed and he should be shamed for his arrogance and incompetence. If he’s an eager learner, let’s give it a shot. But if you’re off the bat telling me or showing me you have the sex skills of a confused preteen I’ll have to politely decline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:47 PM
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I stopped reading after seeing their ages and that they already have a 2 year old kid together. This dudes a low value pedophile who was probably an incel in his 20s. This girl believed his lies that he was with her cause she was “so mature.” She’ll learn what trash he is once she’s officially nothing but a baby momma to him while he runs around chasing young women around abandoning his fatherly duties. I’d never let a LVM ruin my life with a child. I’ll barely trust my husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:06 PM
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2 years later cheated. Happened in two LTRs for me. At the end of the day you can only live one day at a time. Trust but verify. Read the signs. Check yourself if you’re gaslighting yourself. But also if there aren’t any red flags just enjoy yourself. My exes cheated because in both cases we were gunna start long distances. Started causing problems and then months later they cheated. Turns out they didn’t want long distance despite lying aggressively about it. So maybe they were LVM all along an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:57 PM
4

Did you guys end up breaking up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:51 PM
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If it brings anyone peace (because my blood is boiling rn at the audacity of men) as traumatic as that was for his ex, thank god she found out before the wedding and kids!!! Ugh that poor woman though. The trauma. I hope she finds FDS and heals! And that poor baby. Raised and conceived by low value vermin. A terrible situation, all because men can’t keep their dicks in their pants. Vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:47 PM
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This is all so wild to me because I’ve been through this too and I feel like a fucking FREAK for craving more sex from my parter. So he’s getting off while I beg...funny how men collect their worth. Cuz truth is all this does is cause women to day dream about breaking up and getting their world rocked by a real man who knows how to satisfy a woman. But I also believe a lot of these crazy fetishes like small dick humiliation fetish (very popular among men with small penises who gave up on life) o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:29 PM
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I hate to be this person, but I highly recommend seeking regular therapy if you’re arent already to really start to unpack and eventually heal from the trauma you grew up in. A lot of people who grew up in trauma and broken homes unknowingly repeat the same cycle they swore they would break. You were abused and neglected by your mother. Now you’ve reproduced with a LVM and your daughter will be exposed to what sounds like toxicity in the home you move in and out with him. If you do choose to dat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:25 PM
38

Isn’t it such a mind fuck realization??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:04 PM
35

Wow. Good for you. I’m out here afraid to break up and you pulled the big guns. I’ve had nothing but long term relationships that were healthy and wonderful all end in infidelity. It just makes me really give marriage the side eye because objectively high value men ended up cheating on me 2 or 3 years down the line. You really can’t fucking trust anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:47 PM
181

He fantasizes about attacking women walking alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:41 PM
155

He was the one who cheated. Why did he even tell us otherwise? This is the TRUTH 99% of the time. Not too long ago there was a post here about the “evil pick me” wives of the OP’s male coworker friends and how they all are threatened by her. I told her that when women are especially overprotective or “controlling” over their husbands, it’s usually because the husbands were unfaithful in the past. The OP of that post said no, these were undoubtedly high value men and these girls were crazy. I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:36 PM
1

Excellent. This is prime information that I’m saving. Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:45 PM
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Ooooh so she talks about it to millions of random strangers on the internet? For her children to find and be mortified when they’re preteens and all their friends make fun of their pick me mom? It was a cry for help otherwise she would have kept the same energy and kept her mouth shut. Hate to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:40 PM
5

Do you just ask them what their full name is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:48 AM
33

Not that police report!!!! 😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:29 PM
12

Is English his second language?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:01 AM
7

Okay that’s what I thought cause real or fake the reaction disturbs me. Like why was this normal to watch? Literally had to put trigger warning in a sub full of grown women. Insanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:14 PM
5

Are all the comments being ironic too...? I do not get that vibe at all Edit: Like I understand that it’s fake but does everyone know that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:04 PM
2

Yeah but a lot of the girls who stick around have been played more than once. What scares them is The Red Pill very quickly exposes the true nature of men. I’m still connecting dots about my ex thanks to the red pill. I had no idea how my my virginity and low n is worth to these guys. I’ve always known the power of purity but now with the knowledge it’s easier for girls to gain power back. It’s always a teetering balance scale. I think men are starting to get on top again. But one thing men cann…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:36 PM
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It’s always been fascinating to me to watch men get so upset and offended when a woman here speaks with any ounce of snark. They can literally be on a post titled “Women are hypergamous cheating Chad chasers who hate ugly men” with 100 comments calling girls high n sluts. On girl will say “Don’t get mad cause you can’t get casual sex” or something And there will be 10 comments under rather her “jeez you didn’t have to be such a bitch about it” “Your tone is really disconcerting. Can you be a lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:28 PM
6

I would 0% trust him on this trip. Ooh you could make a profile and see if you find him at that location 👀 Or am I just fucking crazy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:22 PM
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Isn’t that such an interesting phenomenon for so many attractive people? Except with men it shows up as abuse and toxic behavior and for most women it just causes anorexia and anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:31 PM
8

Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:38 PM
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You’ll never ever in a million years be able to satisfy a man that women predominantly see as unattractive. Their best bet is a tradcon life in which his parent arrange the marriage young. But if his wife is forced to be there and unattracted to him, then the marriage will be miserable for both and he’ll end up fucking prostitutes anyway. The current sexual climate is also their best bet for sex. But TRP is split between those who can enjoy the decline and those who cannot. I suspect a lot of fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:52 PM
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Good luck! You deserve peace as well. One day when you’re daughter is dealing with the same thing with a friend (who knows, maybe with your friends daughter lol) you can tell her how you created and reinforced boundaries with someone you love. I don’t think it has to be black and white, but you do have to be firm however you go about it. Best of luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:21 PM
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Could be true, love. Thank you, however I don’t think anything is going to change her. I’m not sure how else to say this. It’s not changing her. It’s informing her then enforcing your boundaries. But it sounds like she only wants a friendship with you if she can complain the whole time and you believe informing her that you will no longer entertain those conversations will be fruitless. If you came here to get permission to block her without “communicating” than go for it. Imo telling her what y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:09 PM
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Not the original commenter but how is clearly telling your friend that you will no longer listen to her complain about her love life another example of the “just communicate” BS? Your issue isn’t with your friend. Your issue is with yourself and you’re inability to stand up for yourself to this friend due to fear of upsetting her. You were given a solid angle to approach creating a clear cut boundary before you implement it. There’s no “it sounds good but it won’t work.” What won’t work? You com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:51 PM
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People hurt the people they love all of the time. It doesn’t make it okay, but that’s why it’s greedy. If a man loved and provided for his family and wife for 50 years and then went out one night and had a one night stand with a woman for the thrill of it to does that mean he never loved his wife or family? It’s a rhetorical question to highlight the fact that many men “love” their partners but are too weak, selfish and greedy to say no to temptation when faced with it. Saying “he won’t cheat if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:39 PM
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Yes and move tf one after your point is made. Even if the scrote doesn’t accept it. I have this problem going back and forth. Something I wanna work on is leaving shit on “I said what I said”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:30 PM
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Why do you consider finding a man the light at the end of the tunnel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:39 PM
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Anyone else find it interesting that 100% of women have been cheated on and yet every guy you’ve dated as has 1-5 ex gfs and has never cheated in his life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:50 PM
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Because of the Cool Girl monologue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:42 PM
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Convenient how they “grow up” as soon as their ED kicks in and beer belly cements. Only after they leave a trail of broken hearts do they...”start to grow up”. And yet if you put a naked 18 year old in front of a 70 year old he’d go for it in a heartbeat. So do they really grow up or do their options and energy just dry up like their sex appeal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:04 AM
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Do not bring your one your old baby to strange men’s house. I know it’s incredibly unfair, but you need to stop dating. Stop. This guy could be a child molester. All of them can. Please, for the child. Your post was very unsettling to me. You cannot afford to be this naïve around men when you have a baby to protect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:54 AM
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Soooo we’re just supposed to let people with severe “depression, mental illness and trauma” to keep digging their own grave by continuously entering (and creating) toxic codependent relationships that always end in worse mental states for everyone involved? You can’t fix yourself with another person. These are the men who love bomb and hide all of their deep rooted trauma until you’re bonded 😂😂 Women are tired of being collateral damage...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:55 AM
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Never call out random men when you or others are in eminent danger. At most just report them if you can. Otherwise stay alert. The girl was in a motor cycle so her risk was low. He’s a disgusting pig who probably lives a sad and depraved life. Because of that he wouldn’t mind attacking either of you. You looked out for her so I wanna look out for you. Stay safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:25 PM
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When a scrote can’t go 0.2 seconds not being the center of his woman’s world. Men feeling jealous of the love and bond between mother and baby is a really underrated phenomenon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:52 PM
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Ooooh that’s a tell tale sign he’s likely totally cheated on her before or watches porn or some shit. Sometimes with women like that I suspect they know their husband is a creep but demonize the girl for it. I remember being super platonic friends with this man at work. He seems super chill. Never flirty just a cool guy. I met his wife, was exactly as you described, cold and mean. One day a group of us were getting beers and his wife called all angrily on the phone. I guess he didn’t tell him wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:46 PM
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Please read the last post I made in this sub 💙 It’s no more dusties all 2020 and beyond sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:13 PM
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So this is actually super real and sometimes it’s hard to talk about without seeming...idk women blaming? But there are definitely pick mes out there who legitimately couldn’t care less about a man unless he’s in a relationship lol. Or they’ll meet you and feel intimidated or confused and have this innate reaction to win his affection and flaunt it in your face. I haven’t had to deal with it too too bad. I just keep my head held high and watch how my man responds to her. That’s really it. If he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:48 PM
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👻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:36 PM
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First of all, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your honestly. I am absolutely gutted by what happened to you and your family I can’t even fucking imaging what you went through but honestly your story is the exact reason why the focus on this sub is or at least SHOULD be reaching YOUR personal best, no matter what that looks like, regardless of men, low and high value alike. Every single woman here is at a different stage in their lives and takes what they need from the conversation. We…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:33 PM
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Y’all really speak on FDS and have no idea what it’s about lol. HVM are rare, but it’s better to be alone then to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 02:51 PM
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I caught her & blew her life up. I’m sorry. I laughed out loud tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 04:28 AM
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It’s really scary tbh. And he’s an Uber driver? Really makes you wonder if you’re the first girl.... I wonder how many girls he hits on and takes out who are captive in his Uber over the span of an entire day. Uber drivers can be fucking creeps. Thanks for sharing your story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:21 AM
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Girl. Female intuition is real and it’s astounding how we have been socialized and pressured and bullied into ignoring it in order to be “polite” to these porn brained mini psychos. Sorry. I just have a strong feeling this dude is probably red pilled. Maybe I read to much PPD but man they’re everywhere. They teach them all these ways to figure out a girls “body count” which I think this particular scrote very clumsily attempted to do with you. Trying to calculate if you have ex boyfriend drama l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:17 AM
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Well obviously FDS don’t believe these men to be simps and TRP don’t call these women Pick Me’s but generally yes each of their target audience is the opposite of each other. Which is why this post doesn’t really compute. They’re not meant for each other. Each strategy specifically weeds the other out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 03:17 AM
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What male anger? The anger towards women constantly. In this case those who “trap” men with children. The kind of women you just incorrectly characterized as FDS women. But you can just ignore that again lol. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 01:16 AM
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No not FDS women. FDS women would rather have no children or do in vitro than have a child with a man who doesn’t check all her boxes. A child out of wedlock for a check?.....Why tf would you need a whole sub for that I could literally get pregnant by a millionaire tomorrow if I wanted to. So what now, shame women for having standards or shame women for not? I’m starting to get confused on the male anger at this point lol comes from every direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 12:45 AM
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Mmm mostly observing tbh. My mom was a single mother and even though my dad was in my life, she gave up so much life to raise us and selfishly being a divorced mother is just not what I want to be at all. I’m 25 so I’m in that weird stage of life. It’s not all observation. Having your heartbroken is intense. Having your heart broken while juggling a career, mortgage, children and a piss poor marriage with someone you don’t respect anymore? Seems like a nightmare. And it’s even worse for the chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 12:39 AM
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Millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 11:45 PM
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I feel like when people talk about single parent homes especially single mother homes they conflate those with homes in which the kids were never wanted in the first place. Like two parent harms aren't any better if both parents were basically pressured into having a child they didn't want or could support. Thank you for illustrating why it’s so important to choose your partner wisely before starting a family with them. Idk what’s worse, being a single mother or being trapped in a piss poor marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 11:40 PM
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No no. Yes the child and family are wanted but I’m not going to destroy my body for a fickle man and raise kids with someone I don’t trust. Men have to be really really into you and really family oriented to want to stick around and raise kids with you. I mean...obviously? Cause men can always leave and throw money at it. Women “can” too but are less likely too. My dad left my mom to be single. Three kids under 10. Watched her struggle and persevere all my life. Love her but that is not the life…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 11:08 PM
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Not every male stranger. Just the cute ones who want a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 11:03 PM
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How quickly y’all forget we literally birth and raise your children. If I’m going to destroy my body, autonomy and career to birth a man’s children, fuck yeah he’s gunna have to invest up front. Literally giving you the chance to impregnate me requires a fuck ton of investment. Plus, as upsetting as it is, when a man falls for a woman, he treats her really well. It’s biology so no chasing men and begging them for sex and commitment will never work because men will never be attracted to a woman h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:43 PM
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Uh but their target audiences aren’t each other. The FDS target is what men call “simps” TRP target women FDS call “pick me” Each side is just compatible with the “rejects” of the other gender. So I actually think it works quite well. And it makes sense if you think about it. A relationship with two scorned people could either be a match made in heaven or hell. I bet hell obviously. One side must have someone that’s a bit idealistic. The blue pilled of the couple brings hope and adventure back t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:34 PM
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If a man is genuinely nice, takes care of himself, and isn’t toxic, he will 100% find a girl who loves him and appreciates him. Problem is Nice Guys typically rage against women when they turn around 16 and older when one girl friend in high school doesn’t want to sleep with him. “Nice Guys” are manipulating snakes who ALSO, and this is important, find actual nice girls boring and not worth it which is why these guys are perpetually unsatisfied. That’s my take on it anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 10:30 PM
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It it worth giving him so more time to prove myself wrong? So if you go on another date with him he won’t be following hundreds of insta girls and lying about celibacy and purity? Do what you want just know you’re entertaining a liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 10:10 PM
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She’s not a pickmesha and actually I have a lot of compassion for her, because at the end of the day, whether they were super explicitly exclusive or not, finding out the guy you fell in love with fucked some random chick abroad the day before he came home to you and slept with you is re-fucking-plusive and there’s just no getting around that. This girl found out 9 whole months later, is in love with the kind of man she thought he was, and is understandably in shock. I do agree, wholeheartedly, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:55 PM
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Lmfao what is this dumpster fire?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:13 AM
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Ah yes. I leave my house a pig sty and my wife leaves me despite multiple warnings because of hypergamy :) Good thing you can be perfect even in your mans eyes and still get cheated on with the town bicycle if she eyes your porn addicted dirty ass husband enough... But I digress :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:00 AM
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For fun It’s never for fun. That’s just what they tell themselves online. The more they do it the more deprived they become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:08 AM
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No way this is fake and as scary as it is it shouldn’t be treated as fake either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:14 AM
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Men can’t stand the fact that they have a natural instinct to go above and beyond when they’re in love or even just infatuated with a woman. Now just doing the bare minimum is simping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:42 PM
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Still reaching even though Will gave August is literal blessing to sleep with his wife lmao. Men are clinging to the delusion that Jada cheated instead of acknowledging the cuckhold behavior for a man. Men expect other men to cheat while their drop dead gorgeous wife’s sit at home and knit lmao. If you can’t beat them join them I guess. Not the life I want but men are animals who can’t confront their own compulsions and addictions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:57 PM
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But if this said “How do I help my wife understand that drinking and driving is dangerous?” With some LVM pretending to be confused why his “wife” is doing something so monstrous just so he can karma farm from the millions of comments bashing women as human beings lmao. It’s not necessarily just the drama they’re attracted to. They love a good opportunity to bash a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:53 PM
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He said that the idea of only ever being with one person physically for the rest of his life makes him nervous. He said having sex with me is kind of like having "the same meal every day" because we're so familiar with each other. I didn't know When men explicitly tell you they can’t be monogamous with you PLEASE believe them before you bring innocent children into this mess 😭😭 Do whatever you want at the end of the day, as long as you don’t procreate with him, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:45 AM
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An $80 dollar ring (especially one you paid for?) is a glaring embarrassment for everyone, high and low value alike that encounters you. You can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:58 PM
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One of the best things you can do is to date with out sleeping with them. Date as many as you want at one time, keep a handy vibrator by you and work on building social capital with a lot of friends and things to do. But yeah don’t sleep with them. Drop any that have a problem with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:17 PM
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This is exactly why we are not faking anymore ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:05 PM
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It’s true. It’s a good thing I caught on to this early as a woman because men can really try to make you comfortable enough to reveal things about yourself they’ll hold against you. But if you’re beautiful and pass the test, these same guys are the ones the chase tf out of you and become the ultimate “simps” and throw you on a pedestal just for the chance to be among the first to none you 😂 As someone who is low n by circumstance (long term relationship with the man I lost my v card and met my n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:53 AM
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Understand that you can be with him and be monogamous with him for five years and commit that huge chunk of you life to him and still get hurt or dumped on the 5th year. If you are comfortable with the reality that you can commit to him long distance and still be dumped right after, then go for it. Because it can and does happen all of the time. But if you think he’s worth the huge risk with out even an offer to be a gf much less a fiancé, then no one can stop you from living your life and learn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:25 AM
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The children always suffer the most :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:39 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:33 AM
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It’s true. I guess I just come in hot because I’ve been around LVM my whole life who knock women up and complain about it. I see the women literally raising their kids doing everything to make sure they’re safe the the LVM who visit twice a week cry about child support. But you’re right, it’s equal responsibility. We just know that the consequences do not distribute themselves equally at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:54 PM
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Of course not, but the women STILL have the opportunity to take plan B and worst case abort the night after unless she doesn’t believe in it. If a woman doesn’t protect herself, her consequences are life and body altering. Men can’t handle not paying. The woman is the one impregnated. It’s so obvious idk why it’s a crime to call men out who never ever want to take responsibly for having multiple children when you know how this shit works? Maybe once but all these damn times? At some point they j…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:29 PM
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Girl I just saw this post so in case you missed it: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/i32xka/this_is_why_its_important_to_have_an_abundance/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf I’m in the planning phase rn lmaooo so much clarity and yet so much fear 😭 Where did this fear to be alone come from?! We can and will upgrade and love being single bad ass women!! Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:23 PM
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To be honest, I don’t think we talk nearly enough about the impact our siblings had on us as kids and how growing up with them shaped our view of other women/men. I love my older brother to death, but he knew exactly what to say to make me cry like a baby up until honestly probably now if he wanted to LOL. But as weird as it sounds, my older brother “negged” me in a non like relationshipy way obviously and it kind of conditions you to seek their approval. They practice and get off on creating tu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:18 PM
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There would be no single mothers without idiot men who refuse to wrap it up. Except for the percent in which the condom broke and even then the woman is more fucked than the man by being the pregnant one over a mutual accident. It blows my mind that men do not wear condoms 100% of the time. You really let women control whether or not you will father a fucking human being. Like all that trust in a woman who could screw you over intentionally for a quick nut. You weren’t tricked, you were just hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:07 PM
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Men pretending they need a reason to cheat 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:51 PM
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Could have?? Girl this dusty just opened your eyes and set you up to upgrade like you’ve never before! You just have to make sure your bounce back is strong and be unapologetic about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:49 PM
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It’s a sickness 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:32 PM
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Jesus Christ I have a “friend” exactly like that. This is exactly why I have never and will never sleep with him. I already know he is great in the sack (his word and women have told me from experience - he’s ugly but charming and funny with BDE and a big dick to match) but he is deeply deeply damaged and inevitably breaks these women’s hearts. He uses women but can’t help but to “simp” for beautiful women. That’s why he can hump and dump so many chicks who “think he’s different” or too ugly to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:21 PM
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Oooh yes they always do. They always find one or two things they can offer that are low effort and excel at them. How they rope you in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:21 PM
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You just kind of described my bf. Makes me feel guilty for wanting someone who can actually fucking tell me no or be protective over me. A lot of times they have a lot of underlying issues Hence the ED and like you said, they refuse to talk about it or really change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:17 PM
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First things first. No one knows if a man who is HV in his youth will be HV when he’s older. As men gain wealth and opportunities, their amount of interest in them goes up for both men and women. So if this guy has a history of being really good at blocking temptation, then that’s a point in his direction. Beware if he’s the kind of guy who might fall for someone else despite “still loving you and the kids.” You’re about to live a life totally at his mercy. Only things you will have in your pock…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:52 PM
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Girl jobless AND bad in bed?! What was it about him that made you stay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:16 PM
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Girl they really hand us the get out of jail free card and we rip that shit up and march straight into jail defiant af lmaoo 😭😭 like whyyy?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:00 PM
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Girl...😔 And every time a new friend wants to see him or meet him your heart drops a bit and you prepare your speech for the millions of reasons why he he’s worth being around despite looking like a troll lmao 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:57 PM
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And the absolute worst part about giving into an orbiter is that you KNOW in your HEART committing to a fucking orbiter is not a good investment. I agree with everything you say. Its not that shocking. These men are manipulators, they’re just patient as hell and will orbit several women that are out of their league for years just to get a chance to sleep with her. I mean decades in some cases. Women are always most vulnerable after a break up and these low life men know it. And deep down we know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:53 PM
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Losers and abusers taking themselves out of the dating and mating pool. It’s cause to celebrate honestly. Now if only they could actually go their own fucking way for one day...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:26 PM
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18 months is the Golden time, you’re right. This is delicate because while it is important to communicate your marriage standards, pleaseeeee be careful about getting caught up in what you’re friends are doing. I think it’s an subconscious thing I’ve seen a lot of women do (just my personal observation) When one of their friends gets pregnant or married everyone starts low key feeling some type of way and gets anxious about it. One thing I’ve learned about relationships are that words are both v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:14 PM
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Why did they photoshop this poor woman’s sign?! Like did she consent to being a tribute for the pick mes? Lol I’d be pressed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:54 PM
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Don’t be so hard on yourself! Keep your crown tall! You literally found someone to pass the time with during a world wide lock down...like that’s no a crime lol. Some girls love chatting it up with tinder guys throughout the quarantine which always impresses me cause talking to a stranger I can’t meet for months sounds very boring an exhausting lol. But at the end of the day you lost nothing and gained even more bad bitch perspective. The fact that you can diagnose exactly what happened from the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:09 PM
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Ooooh lol I’m really picturing a whole gun store rn smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:50 PM
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Gun store?? Can we get a little context?? 👀 Proud of you regardless!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:39 PM
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They’re obsessed with porn and hate your “body counts” not because it makes you immoral, but because it’s that many more men who may have blown your mind in bed. Men hate non virgins because they watch other men pound their dream girl three times a day while watching porn. A man will despise you if you have a “body count” because he watched 20 other men drill a girl who looks just like you in porn the day before. Of course it’ll disgust him to know you’ve had sex. He watches men who are bigger a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:03 AM
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This is really insightful and helpful for the other side of this situation. Men fall fast and hard for an idea of us. They put us on pedestals and a lot of time love bomb us to trap us and use us until we are knocked off our pedestal and another shiny new thing “replaces” us. We can’t get overly excited even when a man is stepping up to the plate and doing everything right to get you. Women must multi date and they must be able to support themselves and love themselves in order to not get caught…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:38 PM
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I promise you you could find another guy exactly like him in 24 hours of being single...if you continued to financially support their lives like a live in momma they get to have sex with. Sorry sis. Here’s the tough love (it comes with a lot of love for you girl haha) He’s not in love with you, he’s in love with the convenience. He didn’t pull his weight or step up when you asked, because he doesn’t respect you. But when you threatened his free bachelor pad, he straightened up. You lost respect …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:50 AM
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Someone that wants to grow with you is special. If he’s not a LVM by FDS standards than he’s not a LVM. Maybe there’s something else going on...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:44 AM
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The only logical explanation to his rage is that he sexualizes hugs his female friends give him. He feels cheated on because HE sexualizes hugs and assumes all men do. Do they? Wouldn’t surprise me at this point. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:34 AM
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And yet they want us to believe they won’t cheat at any chance they can get...lmfao. Clowns 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:32 AM
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Thats great and all but you’ll still need to wear a condom with him regardless, every time. These diseases are no joke and honestly HIV is still around and idk why nobody talks about it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:27 AM
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LVM are always orbiters. On the flip side ladies, if you have an inkling your own bf orbits another girl aka his “female bestie” listen to that instinct. You can tell the difference because you’ve been that girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:24 AM
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Don’t psyche yourself out. If you over think it you’ll get into your head and try too hard to prove you’re not just “a girl who got cheated on”. A guy being a scrote cannot change who you are unless you let their behavior dull your shine or make you paranoid. I understand where you’re coming from. Just don’t bring up Sean. If he’s brought up just say you wish him the best but you’ve moved on and have nothing else to say about it. Unbothered with a smile. At best he’s a sweet heart and you meet s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:03 PM
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I think for me it’s the acceptance that actually there is no perfect ending and there is no magical perfect man out there who won’t eventually take me for granted or never treat me poorly. It is also the acceptance that I am not perfect and that two people cannot complete each other. Every human being on the planet works in self interest. When we give we expect something back in return. So just live your life and love yourself. If you meet someone cool, great! Enjoy them but don’t put them on a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:44 PM
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This is really it. I’ve never had a boyfriend any other way and the honeymoon phase so far for me is 2 years lol. It’s not perfect but the key is the leave the relationship with no regrets. We can’t guarantee these men will treasure you forever (very fickle beings) but honestly do we need them to? Invest in yourself so that when a man enters your life it’s immediately clear whether he’s supplementing to it or draining from it. Then if they start acting up move on. The other key is to not fear be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:49 PM
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Rob had used you twice in a row my love. Please block him now and never unblock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:13 PM
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Good for you sis!! Proud of you! A word of advice, any man in his late 20s and thirties that pursues you is a creep who is really good a lying. It’s not a coincidence that he was able to go 7 months “without sex”. He was doing sub BDSM on the side (at best jacking to it every time you left his place) but lying to you about it because he wanted to take your virginity. I know it’s sick but please know it’s an obsessive point of perversion for especially older men to “deflower a perfect, untouched,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:56 PM
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This is really the best advice. LVM who confidently harass women well out of their league and live rent free in our heads are the type of men you need to avoid like the plague. These guys know that a majority of cute polite girls are too polite to tell them to eff off. They smell our fear and feed off of it. It’s scary If you think about it. I have a story identical to OPs and it was really sobering realizing what is really happening versus what you perceive to be happening as it happens. Ugly b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:47 PM
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It’s totally fine. It was meant to be that you’re posting here. I just saw a lot of women women giving you really good advice and I wasn’t sure you were absorbing it. Shallow friends help you talk shit and insult these losers but it keeps you where these guys want you. You’re out of their league every time and yet you’re pursing and getting rejected? Insulting them means dwelling on losers you let get the upper hand. The problem is, most men are losers, and because it’s so sad and depressing, we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:11 PM
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But...you understand setting “witty” comebacks are an expected part of being a side chick right? He’s going to keep messaging you cause he doesn’t care. You have to learn how to identify these guys and block them immediately. They are immune to your insults. They know that the girl who feels the need to respond rather than block immediately is that much easier to gaslight and manipulate because it’s an invitation to get him to apologize and eventually forgive him and oops! Sleep with him. Sounds…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:46 PM
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Idk why girls especially make such a big deal over whether it’s technically pee or not. Like who cares?! It’s feels bomb. The point is girls shouldn’t be shamed for doing it and girls shouldn’t feel inadequate for not doing it. But when people are going on and on about how it’s pee sounds like internal misogyny to me. It’s like and so what if it is?! Feels bomb if you can do it, no worries if you can’t. Female sexuality is shamed enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:09 PM
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True but who says I’m being sarcastic lmao. Like I’m in a LTR rn but if I’m single again don’t ask questions you don’t want the answers to! 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:45 PM
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When someone straight up tells you a threesome is absolutely worth cheating on you for, don’t expect them to respect you in any way shape or form. He should have never had the opportunity to ghost you for the phone date bc the first comment told you everything you need to know. You learned your lesson and I’m proud of you for identifying that insane first red flag about the threesome. In this case it’s good the info helped you identify red flags, but in the future I would not recommend telling t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:53 AM
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Either take out the trash yourself with an unmatch or let the trash take itself out with a simple: “Tons. Hby?” Men are so predictable and boring. Dating is like a choose your own adventure but you know where every path leads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:21 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 07:28 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 07:24 PM
7

“You’d love my gf. She reminds me so much of you!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:20 PM
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Like you said, the grass isn’t greener. While they’re sipping their wine in their Ferrari’s, plentyyyy of married women are still complaining about their shitty marriage lives and how they’re now just turning a blind eye to their husbands affairs cause it’s too late to change the status quo. Regardless of who is happier, women are becoming less and less desperate to marry and potentially get trapped by a lazy guy as he gets too comfortable. Men too. We are making enough money to not make the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:58 PM
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I’ve squirted a few times but only once with an ex and only when I was super drunk. All the other times were when I was masturbating. I’m so happy I learned what that feeling building up in me was. I had been and still am not comfortable enough to let all go during sex and that tells me a lot about my sex life I didn’t know or want to admit to myself. Doesn’t matter if you squirt or not, but for me personally it’s telling that I can only do it by myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:30 PM
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Yes they do and if you actually look around they almost always are. The average couple look pretty matched in level of attraction. Beta male sometimes have the best dick game of all time. There’s a lot that doesn’t meet the eye. Women get down right freaky for their “beta males”. My ex who I gave my virginity to was a “beta male” he was way under my league. He got three years on non stop crazy sex until he got cocky and got caught trying to chat up other girls. I dumped him and moved on to even …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:37 PM
2

Or just take 1 week to use some common sense and stop asking women to solve your failures in attraction for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:33 PM
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No they can also offer good dick. If you’ve ever met a poor ugly dude who fucks regularly with chicks who are good or decent looking it’s cause he knows how to make her orgasm. A very underrated but equally important factor. But I understand it’s hard or impossible for incels to “practice” but that’s why ugly broke guys who are persistent with charm get the opportunity. But it’s a lot of work. They orbit and are constantly in DMs. Gross but ultimately effective if they can get one or two girls h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:23 PM
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You literally said, and I quote again, the reason they remain alone is because of the ‘personality’ And I’m saying thats not true. If an unattractive dude can’t get laid it’s because he has nothing else going for him, thus, needs to have an enticing personality or status. No one believes personality is what gets men laid. Personality is just one of the things to get unattractive men laid. No hot guy really struggles with this which is why “personality matters” is always said to unattractive men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 07:00 PM
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And men really really need to learn how to leave these women who habitually do this. Instead they put up with it, act passive aggressive and start chasing other women on the side. And then they get caught and blame the woman for being a nagging troll and the woman blames the man for being lazy and unworthy of sex and both parties would have been better off just either bettering themselves or ending it. Both parties victimize themselves. At least women leave. Men stay and use the mistreatment as …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:56 PM
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I've seen this rhetoric being aimed at men all the time (especially directed at incels) saying that the reason they remain alone is because of the 'personality', when in reality couldn't be further from the truth. It's proven by OKcupid data that women find 80% of men below average No one said personality was literally everything. We just said can’t be ugly AND have a bad personality. The only way a woman will fuck an unattractive man is if he has status or an enticing personality. Not sure this…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:53 PM
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Imagine having to be born a man that transitions into a woman to get respect and power lmao. It’s fucking depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:28 AM
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But now they have a kid and the baby would suffer :( So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:25 AM
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HVM is not about wealth, it’s about character. You want someone who is genuine but also a hard worker. This was a lovely exchange and a breath of fresh air. Don’t forget tho that the bar is in hell, and objectively, his observation of you was simply accurate above all else. Him not grabbing your ass, gawking or negging you is a sad plus I guess lol. But such is the state of affairs. At this point we have to be cognizant of three things. How men treat us, why they are treating us this way, and wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:02 AM
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For some reason, they always post pics of me and make me their profile pics, meanwhile it takes me a year to put them on my 24 h private story loll. Idk how to engineer this tho. I like my privacy so I don’t post relationship pics until after a year. But as long as we are exclusive I don’t mind if they post me. I’m in an LDR rn and am my bfs profile pic on everything. He did it himself even though you gotta look to find him on my social media. I like it this way tho. It’s good for accountability…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:53 PM
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Be yourself and don’t let anyone rush you or distract you. As long as you do those things and read the handbook, I don’t agree that people should be telling you not to date (unless it’s about COVID, it’s a bad time to meet men). But barring a world wide pandemic...lol...do it with your eyes wide open, and even if it ends in heartbreak with every relationship you learn and grow. You’re on the right track being super cognizant. This will help you not fall into the same traps a lot of women fall in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:57 AM
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No, always expose when you can and feel comfortable to. It’s not your obligation but it’s a dangerous trope that all women are too pick meisha to handle it. No that’s shit has literally saved the lives and sexual health of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:39 AM
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It’s okay love. It’s good to hit this rock bottom. That way, in 3-6 months from now, after you’ve stopped all this useless dating and endless searching to nurture yourself and your friendships and your personal hobbies, you’ll look back on today and shutter thinking “remember when I thought a MAN could end my depression and keep me happy?” When it comes to one exteme or the other, men bring misery not happiness. Only You can bring yourself happiness. A man at most supplements you’re already full…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:26 AM
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You’re literally on a dating site for dates. If he wants one with you he’ll ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:11 AM
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I’m very much a socialite and a party girl and those girls would make me feel exceedingly uncomfortable. You’re going to parties where the people are obsessed with drugs and sex and the men are rejecting you cause you won’t put out... I understand random house parties are a staple of the college experience but it sounds to me you’re growing out of that stage (if you were ever really into it to begin with). I used to like house parties until I turned 20 then I was ready to hit the bars with my fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:06 AM
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Wait this is iconic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:52 AM
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In this age of corona he’s making you get into a strangers car? What a lazy entitled sack of shit. And you’re still going to sleep with him? A LVMs dream situation. Not to be rude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:19 AM
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Wow glad it worked out for you! Do you think he was seeing someone else before or during your break? Low key text book case...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:16 AM
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Underrated comment that deserves its own post tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:14 AM
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Yes this is psychotic behavior love. It’s not normal and lots of women would fall for it. Take all the time you need to heal. You have no reason to trust men right now. To no fault of your own. Take your time ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:06 AM
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Not H&M sis 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:02 PM
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What a fucking psychopath. Please don’t blame yourself sis. He’s trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:58 PM
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How old is your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:01 AM
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Ladies, this is PROOF that sex alone doesn’t control men, it’s the need to CONQUER a NEW woman sexually by penetrating her is what controls men. Men will treat you like a diamond before he sleeps with you. Once he’s done it he’ll continue out of convenience as he looks for more challenging “prey” (victims). Next thing you know he’s laughing in YOUR face as you offer him free sex. With guys like these, it’s not about wanting you, it’s conquering you. Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:26 PM
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Zero context so not sure why downvoted. Do you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:01 AM
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Don’t be fooled he’s cheated on this current and would smash his ex if she looked his way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:01 AM
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The real tea lies in what you said after and if you continued to entertain him 🌚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:46 AM
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But how to not be bitter when women always go away with their opportunistic behaviour? It’s not our jobs to make you less bitter. And when the only way we could have a relation ship is to get betabuxed and renounce to sex because woman only want what we can provide to her? Plus the fact that this is encouraged by society, and woman sexual leberation too. But when men want it so bad too it's only shame that they receive. Not true at all. Chads, players and fuck boys are praised by both men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:41 AM
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Either way, women are smart to do whatever tf they want during their “best years” The other side of this that men love to ignore is that men on this sub alllllways talk about how women in their youth will always be most desirable. They pretend that if a women gives up her “best” years for them, they’ll be faithful to her and never truly desire fucking the young thing that flirts with them at work. That’s not how it works. It makes so much more sense to you know, live your life the way you want i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:52 PM
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TRP glamorizes the beautiful low n count women as if the more attractive she is the more virtuous she because she’s somehow a better person than the rest. They fail to acknowledge that the only reason a 10/10 isn’t a pass around is because she knows her sexual availability is worth literally thousands of dollars. They’re pickier and go for LTRs because those are the gifts that keeps on giving. They’re taken on extravagant dates and given anything they want from these men. These are the HVM you’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:16 PM
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I’m just as shocked as you are tbh. Of course there were tons of guys like this at my college so I know it’s a thing (co Ed dorms, lit but smelly) but I have never in my life dated a dirty man. The thought makes my skin crawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:44 PM
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Girl no face! You’re good. What you have to realize is this, you would have made the same mistake again and again until this very thing happened to you. You were a smart girl when you sent it, but now you’re even smarter. Everyone feels like they’re the exception until they’re proven not. You just had to go through it to learn. Most of us do. Sometimes it’s less a bout how we stop feeling bad about our mistakes and all about how we let those feelings of shame and embarrassment drive us to be bet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:44 AM
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You said “unfortunately no face”? No face is a good thing right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:34 AM
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If he’s not in love with me or like my personality nothing else matters. But if we are married and he treats me very well regardless and it doesn’t shit then oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 07:57 PM
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It is! Roasting the character not the actor lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:06 AM
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Just because many women and men don’t count oral into their n-counts does mean it’s not cheating..? Literally a peck on the lips is cheating much less a blow Job. You’re conflating two totally different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 06:24 AM
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Anal yes. Oral I’m pretty sure you’re in the minority on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:52 AM
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Men include non PIV as sex? Pretty sure that’s not a thing for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:37 AM
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I hope you see now that you should have immediately turned around, got into your car and left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:43 PM
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NTA. Good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:26 AM
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Yeah, it’s pretty much what has to be done. Sad state of affairs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:11 AM
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I’m so sorry that happened to you. It’s a lot more common than most women think. One of my older cousins just found out her husband is a secret gay cross dresser. She’s 40 and pregnant with their miracle baby. He basically used her as an incubator and was hardly effected by the ongoing divorce. He has already dove head first into the life of Grindr and back door hook ups with other men while my cousin is pregnant and in an extreme depression. Funny how committed so many men are to using and abus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:08 AM
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Yeah he didn’t rape her while drunk but he still took advantage of a literal teenager as a 33 year old man because YES he was clearly desperate. He wasn’t even attracted to her. But still “dated” aka fucked a clearly disturbed young women AND still had the nerve to violate her by asking out her sister ??? Is it supposed to be impressive that he found a 27 year old with a career attractive? Especially since most of the emphasis was on her looks, crudely assigning sisters numbers on the attractive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 04:40 PM
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You’re doing great sweetie! And even though I totally know what you mean about saying ‘you lost 4 months’ in another comment, know that absolutely no time is lost. This experience was meaningful and thousands of women are seeing in real time what it looks like to uphold boundaries and LEAVE at the sight of a red flag, not just ponder about it, push through then cry about the “signs” years later. Thank you for sharing! This is huge!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:11 PM
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I’m just more so concerned about how to navigate any verbal aggressive comments in a way that won’t make his family apprehensive about us if that occurs . Thank you for your response! You’re worried if someone makes a racist comment because you’re part black that you’ll respond in a way that makes his family apprehensive about YOU? This needs to be the other way around sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:02 PM
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I personally would not go. Especially in this climate. Why can’t he come to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:45 PM
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Immediately sorted this by controversial to find the cuties I need to block 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:11 AM
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as a 60 year old female. for my profile pictures I used stick figure drawings of me traveling the world. compliments they were willing to throw my way. I could have EASILY fleeced all those guys of some cash. They were willing to buy me food....clothes....makeup....travel expenses.... But...what about the wall?!??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:40 AM
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This is the first time a clap back actually was as savage as it was meant to be lmao. I know he felt that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:27 AM
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Not only do they move on because they’re empty inside, they purposely post it and make it public to rub it in your face. Women? We take more time to heal, and even when we don’t, we move in silence. It’s just the way things are. My cheating ex still thinks I’m the angelic one that got away...I mean I AM. But he’ll never know the adventures I went on with so many quality attractive men soon after we dated. In fact a year after our break up he sent me an essay about getting back together, little d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:23 AM
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Is this you? You’re entertaining it so...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:10 AM
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You can afford to live on your own, just not in the city where your mom lives. How can you in the same breath claim you can’t do anything on your own, while also saying that you paid for and took care of not only yourself but a whole grown ass man before you moved home? Use this time to heal yourself and save your money while at home. Stop dating. Once you’ve created a good foundation for yourself, think about moving out to a cheaper city, possibly with a friend or for a work opportunity where y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 07:43 AM
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She clearly cares about him a lot The women always do 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:56 AM
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...y’all know this girl planned this and decorated the house right? All this shit is staged af even her reaction is stale. Not an ounce of authenticity. The likes and the views get them sponsorships, fame and stone hard cash. That couple is a smart business partnership. All these little YouTube relationships are. Keep your eyes open y’all. Don’t be duped like the preteens who think it’s real. I say this as someone who has had my current and ex bfs cook four course meals for me, fly me out, do he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:01 AM
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No that’s not my point. Be vigilant, but normally so. You went through his computer and didn’t find him cheating or creeping or doing anything otherwise dishonest. You found out that your type is a preference. Just be a normal amount of watchful, that’s all. Don’t psych yourself out of a good thing because you think you’re too old to be treated well. I think the most important thing is for you to be confident in yourself. That’s what matters. That way, if he ends up being weird you can calmly wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:37 PM
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Judge him for who he is and how he treats you. Make sure he is a faithful, honest man who is not trying to manipulate you or make you mommy. Otherwise...it is what it is. People have types that they go for. Preferences remain preferences until they’re used in abusive ways. Then they turn into fetishes. But not all preferences are fetishes. It’s good that you’re aware of his pattern, but if that’s all it is, don’t stress yourself out over it. You have nothing to feel insecure about. You’re a good…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:31 PM
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You’re probably not ruthless enough to keep this going without catching feelings. He KNOWS sending you all these gifts will make you feel obligated to date him after. A hot guy treating you well is every woman’s Kryptonite. He’s luring you in and is being pretty manipulative to get what he wants. But only you can decide if the risk if worth the reward. No one here can make that decision for you. But yes, red flags everywhere. Edit to add: I’m proud of you for doing your due diligence by sending …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 11:03 PM
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You don’t know someone until after 18 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:46 AM
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Quietly....? We must be on different Reddit’s lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:26 AM
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I’m a world where most girls don’t even expect head, let alone for it to be good, your girlfriend is a huge anomaly. Either that or you’re exactly the betabux dudes are always going on about here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:37 PM
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I truly believe if more men prioritized foreplay and getting the woman off a lot, they’d get more sex. But I’ve found men are actually the ones preferring porn to their wives. Dead bedrooms is full of these instances and I’ve gone through it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:27 PM
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It’s disingenuous to say being a single mother is easy just because you became a single dad (at what age were you and your children) and have kids that aren’t deadbeats. Millions of single women raised millionaires. Depending on the circumstances, some had it harder than others. But women disproportionately are left to raise their kids with no to little support.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:25 PM
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Why do you think so many men are in denial about the impact porn can have? Especially in long term relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:21 PM
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I’m wondering why you’re regularly making long term plans with men you’re “if” about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:43 PM
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If you ever wanted to know what 90% of the the misogynists you’re arguing with online look like...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:23 PM
1

As opposed to men who throw their entire families, reputations and livelihoods away just to experience sex with a new hot women. But you know same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:05 AM
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Pick me women are always neglected by their husbands (if they’re married) and seek companionship and loyalty in their sons instead. No matter what it always comes down to the absent / neglectful father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:21 AM
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Yes and so they marry betas and betas agree to provide because they’re marrying up in looks and would rather lock down consistent sex (hopefully) from a pretty girl. They both serve each other. That’s why it happens. Whether or not it works is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:23 AM
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Case in point lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 11:12 PM
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You’re destroying the average man’s coping mechanism by stating that women enjoy no strings attached sex (GASP). They can’t get mad at Chad for taking full advantage of that SMP because he’s a man and he’s their god. But if an average to good looking woman takes advantage of her inflated SMV, she MUST be desperately pining for his hand in marriage and desperately waiting on the day he proposes. It hurts them mentally to accept that women are capable of what you are saying. If women aren’t feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 10:26 PM
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Most women do not want to be with men that will cheat on them. Chads are not always emotionally or financially stable. Women do not want to marry Chads. They wan to fuck them. They want to marry the best looking beta they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 10:14 PM
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I’ve BEEN wanting to make this post, but as a woman, I know the incels would just tune me out lmao. Hopefully they listen to their King Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 10:12 PM
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Girl you barged in here loud and wrong af 😂 Gave me laugh, so yeah, I do feel better. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:03 PM
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The post is titled “nobody is talking about this” It’s indifference fatigue. When you have a president who is a rapist, who promotes rapists into the Supreme Court, it creates fatigue in people who give a shit about other male rapists in the political field. It is one thing to read and another thing to comprehend. You can ask yo clarify my point without immediately crying “DEFLECTION” I’m addressing the article from the angle of the title OP gave this entire post. In context, the post is about w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:25 PM
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I edited purely for spelling. Didn’t add a sentence, still not comprehending?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:19 PM
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Copy and paste the section where I excused this behavior or implied it was acceptable. All I did was expose more men and express how I now hate joe too. Feel free to actually read from start to finish. That includes my last two paragraphs. If that’s what you are saying Try again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:07 PM
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Can’t wait to see how many male lurkers vote him as a “HVM” 🍿 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:06 PM
1

Of course not. Why do you think it’s so hard for you to let this go?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:30 AM
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Some women never leave. The fact that you had a breaking point means deep, deep down you know you’re better than this. Many of us have gotten sucked into their own versions of this vortex. Almost every woman by the age of 30 that’s been in a long term relationship has “adjusted” a non negotiable or two for a man she was ~ deeply in love ~ with. Yeah your case was rough. But we all have to learn some time. Welcome to the light. The great part about you journey forward is that you will never drop …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:10 AM
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I mean the current president was accused of sexually assaulting how many women? He’s on record admitting to grabbing them by the p*ssy without consent. He nominated and confirmed a rapist into the Supreme Court. The government swore him in after her sexual assault hearing in which trump admitted her testimony was credible. Our whole government is full or rapists and psychos. Look how quickly they killed Epstein. Now no one is asking about the under aged trafficked girls. The trafficking market f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:06 PM
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I think the problem is more about the fact that rich males and male celebrities are 99% trash. Sad thing is, 3/4 or more of the men we consider high value in our lives would no longer be high value if they had unlimited access to the amount of women and money these men do. And the 1/4 of those high value men that would resist, are super rare so it’s not surprising to me relationships end the same way for stars. Everyday men blow up their lives to cheat or flirt. They can’t even go a day without …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:55 PM
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There isn’t a big critique on people judging others solely based on their N counts. It’s hypocrite men having casual sex with “sluts” their whole lives but demand the woman he settles down with or respects is a virgin with no N count. THATS what women on this sub can’t stand. The problem is the incels mix in with their raging hatred for women. Women think they’re arguing against normal men who have sex so they are defending their right to also have casual sex. 9 times out of 10 they’re pointless…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:51 AM
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Instead of obsessing over what ethots pre during and post pandemics, maybe try like, not? The main problem is you all resent these women but you still are a slave to them. You follow their every tweet watch their every move. You consume their porn obsessively and simply cannot stop revolving your lives around these women who you are supporting with ever view, angry comments and dislikes. Go to one thot’s picture on a NSFW site. For every thot there is about 3 thousand men salivating over her her…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:15 PM
7

Men seem to go after them Many men would go after underage teens if they could. What’s that have to do with anything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 12:38 AM
60

It’s a turn off to men who aren’t right for you. My good friend is like you. She was single for years but just bet her match! I think the problem isn’t not attracting men, it’s attracting the wrong men. I used to be friends with really sarcastic dry humor types (guys). They were fun to chill with but being their friend, I realized how bitter and misogynistic they tended to be. Because bubbly women aren’t typically attracted to that energy either, they were often rejected (I mean even I friend zo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:11 AM
10

Ugly women don’t get friends with benefits. Ugly women get humped and dumped. At best they’re routinely used as a hole while these men chase after women they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 02:04 AM
33

Why are you with someone who’s broke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:47 PM
6

Sorry I’m rusty on my incel terminology, or else I’d definitely validate your rage against Stacy. Oh well. Good luck in the hood and be careful and make sure you use protection. It sounds like a fertile infestation over there... Just lookin out for you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:08 AM
6

Omg lol first these women were swimming in debt and STDs from triple digit notch counts and her multiple baby daddies... Now they’re “blended families” 😂😂😂. That’s cute. Well done!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:59 AM
5

I don’t live in an area where women have multiple “baby daddies.” Men where you live are slinging dick unprotected and having children by different women? Or maybe they go the classy multiple divorcee route like you mentioned...whatever works for you and your people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:54 AM
7

Y’all really must live in the hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:43 AM
10

Kill the demand there would be no supply. Men are their own worst enemies. Y’all pay women to have sex, which is something they’re giving away for free on tinder anyway. Add a free trip and a shopping spree and your shocked a 21 year old would say yes. Neither party has strong values but somehow the woman is the one who has to be stronger than the man and withhold the temptation. If they don’t it’s WhErE r tHe VaLuez? In the toilet where these rich guys left them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:21 AM
23

I think you learned more about male thirst for sex than about your own attractiveness. Now you see why women have to be selective. When men feel deprived of options, they bombard whatever options they have (which you experienced - the gay pool is relatively tiny and they get tired of fucking each other and jump on new meat.) Similar experience for women. Lots of the guys who message you have barely looked at your pic and profile. They’re just casting the net wide and seeing who they catch. Vetti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:06 AM
7

Not one but two failed divorces later it’s...”Replace women with sex bots mwuahaha! Have mutually fulfilling casual sex with them and be on our way mwuhaha!” Like a divorcee having bitter sex with other “post wall” divorcees who are equally over the notion of marriage - that’ll stick it to these women!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:55 AM
38

Even though men are terrified of and mesmerized by confident women. Good job going for what you want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:08 PM
27

I understand the sentiment, but there is no one in this post I want to strive to be like Sure he tried to fuck around on her Nahhh I’d rather be single living my best life 😂 Ain’t no body got time for these games!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:04 PM
1

Lmfao you forgot to call me a land whale!!! Thanks for making my point friend :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:47 PM
15

I’m sorry my mind honestly can’t compute such idiocy lmfao....is there a 3rd sex out there we can try out? These men are shitshows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:07 PM
24

But that seems a little far fetched though right? Most men thirsting for a free prostitute on their vacation wouldn’t post screenshots of it online I feel like...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:04 PM
142

Thank God UGH these men are such creeps!! Question though, how are the screen shots taken from the man’s perspective each time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:53 PM
2

...God do you hear how lame you sound? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:37 PM
4

Who even cares what a post wall woman thinks? Lmfao you reddit men are obsessed with them! You’ve named them, made thousands of threads about them and bring them up in most of y’all a conversations. “Land wales” and single mothers are a close second. They take up free rent in y’all a minds daily it’s truly fascinating to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:11 AM
3

Leave the angry men alone. This is their safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 11:40 PM
59

Cussing any ex out would literally make their day. Under no circumstances would I give a man that satisfaction TF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:53 PM
17

Omg YESSSS I thought I was the only one 😭 Those long ass stiff ass beards really gross me out. To each there own but it’s a hard pass from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:20 AM
5

Oh, so if she has an N count of 1 but doesn’t know how many guys have gone down on her cause it’s so many, you’d be chill right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:49 PM
111

That’s very sweet but do not marry him until after college. Ideally, two years after college imo. Divorce rates for people married at your age are incredibly high for a reason. Be smart, get your education. You should be in no rush to get married. If he’s a good guy he will wait a few years and behave like a HVM all throughout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 10:59 PM
30

Are there any fds women like me? Oui 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:17 PM
15

The latter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:14 PM
31

Hahahahahaa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:16 AM
12

If she’s not asking for advice don’t give it. The worst thing you can do is try to get in between a roommate and her low value man. TRUST ME, for your sanity it ain’t worth it. Keep your home sacred and mind the business that pays you. Idk if you’ve ever been in a shitty roommate situation but it’s pretty much hell on earth. Don’t do it to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:14 AM
-4

Ew. Can you take this down? There’s literally no reason to have this trash up. Like I get the intention but no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:08 AM
2

You really think a date equates sex? I know some men do but it’s always sad to me when I see women make this comment. To me a man pays for a date because he is requesting time out of your day for you to take a chance on him since he finds you attractive with potential. If he chooses and takes you to an expensive restaurant, he damn sure should be expected to pay. If he takes you somewhere cheap...does your $12 meal/coffee really earn him sex? No matter how I look at it. The man should pay and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:49 PM
3

It’s different for a woman and a man. It’s beyond taboo. A grown ass man fucking a “smart mature” 13 year old is also a man who enjoys control and sexualizing young women who are just barely leaving childhood (literally a couple years from elementary). If you think grown men fucking 13 year old kids is only sick because of the taboo you are horribly mistaken. It’s healthy for kids to date each other because they are way more on the even playing field. Although maturity levels very, they lack the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:30 AM
5

So a grown man can fuck a 13 year old because she’s “smart”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:36 AM
16

If this is true why would you come back here and post this knowing he will read it? why don’t you ask HIM if you messed up? Or do y’all just communicate through FDS now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:10 AM
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I’m skeptical any of this is true at this point. Why would he have to see your reddit to understand what happened? You allegedly ran out after the date. That should have been enough. Instead he goes home and searched through FDS? Finds a post about him then calls you? Hmmm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 10:07 PM
2

People who exchange sex for money are in their own category. I’d respect a man with a high n count with zero prostitution involved more than a man who paid prostitutes to sex. Again. Ask yourself if you’d date a woman who had prostituted herself for cash and that visceral reaction you have against it is the same women have against men who have done the same. It’s not about measuring on a tangible scale. I lose respect for people who engage in that behavior period.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:39 PM
2

Should be obvious. Would you date a woman who prostituted her self in the past for a quick buck?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:33 PM
18

Well the comments were coupled with low value behavior on the first date so, yeah. You’re correct. I’m the same way “easy going.” The “easiest” thing to do with guys like this is block them as you walk out of the restaurant and smile as they wave goodbye ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:41 PM
23

I find a lot of the times that my friends will say “I’m having a hard time reading this situation” when really they mean “this is the situation and I don’t like it. How do I get what I want?” He has told you that he’s not interested in LDRs. He has shown you he is not after exclusivity or else he would have brought it up, it’s been 8 months. He is the guy you date when you go home. You’re the girl he dates sometimes when you’re home from college. You’re both dating others in the meantime. That i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:16 PM
1

First I’m so happy you’re happy sis. I’m gunna be blunt with my critique tho so know it’s coming from a place of love and concern for you ! I’m glad you enjoy his company, but the things you highlighted as being high value are kind of just basic imo. I once apologized for rambling a lot and he said "don't be sorry - you're not rambling, you're articulating." When I went on a rant about all the ways the Eragon movie sucked, he wasn't saying anything. When I trailed off, he had this big grin on hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 09:55 PM
9

No harm no foul on either end as far as I’m concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:29 AM
30

It’s not a red flag to take care of your mother and family, but it is a massive life decision to make. It’s like dating a guy with a kid. Those obligations will never go away. Even if he moves out, his dynamic/relationship with his mom will always be intense if he’s supporting her and her son at the young age of 32.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:08 PM
41

Girl...you are not ready to marry this guy. You do not trust him. Trust your gut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:17 AM
92

Imagine being 29 and having this as your legacy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:12 AM
36

So instead of paying off the contractors and helping you start a business, he wastes over a grand on an outfit he wants to fuck you in. What. A. Non Materialistic. Gentleman!! 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:43 PM
11

Yikes. Hoping that’s hyperbole because that’s boarding on sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:39 PM
25

Who tf is saying that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:21 PM
11

Exactly what the other poster said. If you get into the habit of emotionally involving yourself in your friends’ LVM choices, you will end up exhausted and weirdly feeling betrayed every time she decides to put up with it and stay. State the facts, support and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:33 AM
2

I know that. I’m just calling out the hypocrisy aS a BlAcK mAn he could look at a black woman in the eyes like his sister and tell her she should be denied her rights. Black women fight for black men more than black men fight for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:30 AM
6

I consider myself a catch and I haven’t had any problems dating using OLD. I would HATE to be a man OLDing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:45 PM
1

I guess I don’t understand the vitriol against women. What a single mother does is just honestly no ones business but their own. You can think they are somehow the most evil creations of the world and their baby daddies are the worlds biggest victims and it still wouldn’t negate the fact that single mothers should and do have higher standards for the men they choose. It’s really not much more complicated than that. Men HATE to see fat women and single women date. But they also hate to see averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:06 PM
1

Oops, I forgot to respond to your claim that most women on FDS are single moms. From my interactions that’s not true. But regardless, why wouldn’t single moms have even higher standards for men than us childless ones? For every single mother you look down on, there’s a deadbeat dad running around being a fuck boy not getting judged for the same exact thing y’all judge single mothers for. If I was a single mother I would have infinitely higher standards. From what I’ve seen single mothers hardly …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:08 PM
1

Aww that’s adorable! Where are you taking her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:55 PM
3

It’s hilarious that even when women are victims of cheating, disease spreading men, they are still at fault for “spreading the misery” when they expose the cheater for who they are. Whatever. Men will continue to get caught and exposed as they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:42 PM
3

I can understand that. Hope your also telling them that they have to offer something to be worth more then a NetFlix and chill these days. It’s not about “worth” or being worthy of Netflix and chill. It’s about a certain group of women not wanting that, because typically, if a first date is Netflix and chill it’s basically agreed upon that it’s a hook up. Most girls on that sub want a relationship. Because if they don't offer anything that the NetFlix and chill girls don't they can sit around wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:30 PM
5

Oh...I’m in a healthy and strong relationship with my boyfriend of three years! I just contribute to FDS because I unknowingly did most of the things they subscribe to while I was single. I held high standards and didn’t give the weirdos the time of day. It’s the advice I give my friends who entertain fuck boys. Yeah, all those men who send low effort texts, ask you on low effort Netflix and chill “dates” and only see you as a sexual object....sadly plenty of girls fall for them expecting a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:55 PM
2

They sure do! Such low effort and and to think men don’t even get a slim fraction of the same amount of effort or responses from women. I’d be demoralized if I was the average man but I admire the diligence LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 06:36 PM
6

So if your husband was cheating on you and potentially bringing he life threatening STDs and having side baby’s on you, you’d rather the first mistress who found out didn’t tell you? She has no moral obligation to tell you of course, but I don’t see how telling is 100% bad. I’d want to know the truth about the man I let expose me to STDS and HIV blindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:49 PM
2

Men are still looking at this from their own points of view from their own 3 match a day tinder accounts. Women get approached by men everyday, especially if they’re on OLD. Before you meet a man, he is just a picture on a screen, or a dude you hazily remember from the bar. The ones who want to take you out to dinner on a proper date raise above the ones looking to drink coffee with you, depending on what you both are looking for. There are tons of women on OLD happy to get coffee. I don’t see w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:23 PM
19

Either way, filtering him out is the intention. He’s looking for a pick me. “You make 3 times my income but SURE I’ll pay half for this expensive dinner and accept coffee dates for 3 weeks!” But that’s what pick me’s are for, so no harm no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:09 PM
8

Girl...either he’s nothing but a hot foreign slam piece for the weekend or he’s nothing. You will not make him fall in love with you in one weekend. Especially not by buying a hotel to serve sex on a platter for him. You’ll be the easy foreign girl who was desperate for his dick that at most he will string along while he moves on when he moves back home. He didn’t even give you a few days heads up. Remember, slam piece or bust. That’s all this will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:41 PM
18

And then they run back to their bfs and paint you as the enemy of their relationship LOL Learned my lesson and never made that mistake again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:44 PM
3

First of all everything you talked about is incel shit. Im not talking about incels and I honestly could care less about their porn addictions because it’s not harming anyone but themselves. I’m talking about men in relationships so moving on Porn abuse impacts your relationship, don’t be surprised when your gf cheats or dips. More and more men are becoming flaccid or uninterested in the bedroom. And no, not because their gfs have gained weight. This is nonsense. How can you be addicted to porn …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 05:38 PM
1

No eating because your hungry isn’t an addiction. Eating fast food everyday cause it tastes good is an addiction. Men can still jack off without using porn. The visuals in porn are highly addicting. The kinkier you get the less real sex is satisfying . This is why men in relationships often get ED or are plain uninterested in sex with their gfs for a while. And no it’s not cause the gf got lazier or fat. More and more men rely so much on porn that real life doesn’t do it anymore. Everything in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 11:25 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 11:17 PM
2

You don’t think most men in relationships watch porn? A joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:04 PM
4

seems like a chicken or the egg situation imo This is honestly so true. And at the end of the day, must humans are going to have their cake and eat it too rather than practice self discipline for the greater good of society. Both women and men alike. It’s just life I guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 06:21 AM
4

No but that’s my point. Even hot rich guys with gfs still wack it to porn. 99% of men in relationships (WITH NON FAT, ATTRACTIVE WOMEN-for all the red pill lurkers) watch porn. So I’m arguing it’s not about female pickiness. Well sure, if more guys were chosen by girls and were having sex, there might be less porn. But men wouldn’t stop watching. OP said cutting cold turkey was life changer for him in so many ways. Porn is bad for men and women, even if it’s not consumed every day. I didn’t mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:58 AM
5

Noooo contrary to what you want to believe. Taking rights away from women so “they can’t compete with you” is NOT protecting them. At all. So you mean to tell me, that in order to protect your women you have to take away her rights like her ability to work and provide for herself? Isn’t that like two individuals standing next to each other and one kicks the their in the leg and breaks it, and then says “now I can protect you!” . Even if the one with the broken leg was physically weaker to begin …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:49 AM
2

What did you mean when you said “[porn will never stop being popular] until women stop being as picky as they are.” That was the part I took issue with. What I had in brackets is what I’m implying you meant based the OPs position. What do you mean by women have to stop being picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:29 AM
4

I made connections, none of which you refuted, but actually conceded to being correct. Thank you for admitting you believe black women need to be stripped of their rights, despite going through the same historical battery and oppression black men went to. This is where I got too personal and “ad hominem” for you. Where I made the leap and told you to tell you mother your sister and your grandma that their rights should be stripped away. And all the black who march and fight for black lives matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:23 AM
1

Labels are important when it comes to sexual exclusivity. It’s not the “title” of boyfriend girlfriend that’s important. It’s explicitly establishing whether or not you both are dating other people on the side, hence my question of whether you date one person at at time. Being free flowing and title-less is cool until one person assumed exclusivity and the other didn’t. Even if you’re only dating one person at a time, it’s likely one or both of you will meet other people you’re attracted to. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:10 AM
26

Give me the cold, hard truth. Girl, forget the lack of presents for a moment cause this- He tells his mother, father, and friends every time we have a disagreement. I have expressed to him he should have boundaries and not talk shit about a partner to his parents, yet he thinks it is normal to confide in them. -is unacceptable. Let me tell you the cold hard truth. You cannot be in an LDR if your relationship is not ROCK solid. You must have virtually no doubts in your relationship and all of you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:10 AM
5

Which assumptions did I make? The one where you feel black women need to be grateful for what they have in life, because men could easily take it all away? That’s what OP said. I just made it specific to black women to help you contextualize why agreeing with OP is hypocritical and bullshit as a black person. Please be specific with the assumption I made here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 02:32 AM
4

That’s not true at all. 99% of men in relationships still watch porn. Way less, cause they also get the real thing, but make no mistake they still watch regularly. It’s an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 02:26 AM
5

Ohh okay. So you can say whites (dominant culture) can’t tell blacks to be grateful but men (dominant culture) can tell women to be grateful because...women weren’t enslaved? Except which women are you talking about? White women? You understand that black women were not only slaves but were systematically raped by their owners and forced bare their children? So these women, black women, also need their rights taken away? again ?? Jesus Christ. Please tell that to your mother, your sister and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 02:20 AM
2

And it was an irrelevant, off topic example...that you for some reason felt the need to repeat again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:55 AM
3

Sis...thank you cause...whew.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:58 AM
1

I don’t understand. How do you consider yourself someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend after a few dates? Do you mean that everyone you date, you date exclusively until you break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:30 AM
1

Female here. I’ve been “given” a gf tag as little is a few weeks. Yeah I dumped him when he asked because that’s a huge red flag. I date multiple men at once until I feel ready to be exclusive with one. This has been my only experience so far. I did this to my first bf when I was 19. He waited 6 months until I said I was ready to be exclusive (he was ready maybe 2 months in) Then I was single for a month before meeting my current bf. I was fresh out of a relationship with my ex so I also had him…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:26 AM
14

They also probably hated the fact that you’re black, and did not find you worthy of her. Whether she told you or not. Whether they in particular were racist or not. You’re over here asking women if they’re grateful for their freedom when most of the world wonders if you’re grateful for yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:13 AM
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My comment . The irony is the OP of that post is a black man. Does he really want 1800s America back? He should probably think long and hard...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 12:09 AM
9

Never once did I say slavery was comparable to the rights of white women 250 years ago. My post specifically addresses the way people who identify with the dominant group tell people who were historically oppressed to shut up because back in the day they were oppressed and so and so country is still oppressed. I’m curious to see what OP has to say about it since he is black, but interestingly enough everyone but him replied. To be clear- I am not comparing oppression of women, gays blacks etc. m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:04 AM
2

Loll aww wanted to prove that women couldn’t POSSIBLY enjoy casual sex so you stalk a post from years ago talking about me wanting to party with my hot straight friends without insulting my trans friend? Yeah those straight friends are the ones I’m talking about obviously...but since you’re invested I should tell you me and the trans friend drifted apart :/ Please unearth some more of my post history to cope harder. I think I was insecure once, wanna dig that up for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 11:52 PM
11

If you need FDS to get your unmotivated bf to care about you again you’ve got bigger problems than you think. I don’t think this is a case of you needing to recapture his interest, this is a case of him needing to recapture yours. And if he’s not actively trying to get you to fall in love with him again despite his laziness like you are for him, this may not be the best relationship for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 09:54 PM
46

“Women should be grateful men don’t strip away rights. They’re getting too comfy when they could have all their rights stripped away in an instant” “Blacks should be grateful whites don’t strip away rights. They’re getting too comfy when they could gave all their rights stripped away in an instant” Of course black men could put up a fight, but the truth is when blacks complain, loads of whites secretly think “We should have never taken these mother fuckers out of slavery”. Your post is reminisce…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 08:34 PM
-1

Oh. Yes that is a problem for women with self esteem issues you’re right. The women in my social circle do not have that problem. A number of them actively reject relationships because having a rotation is so much fun. If you’re a woman with your shit together, actively does not want a relationship, and enjoys dating and sex without the strings, men don’t typically hump and dump. They always come back for more because why not? Mutually beneficial situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:53 PM
4

Aka the average to good looking woman in the dating world today? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:45 PM
1

Why’d you all break up??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:00 PM
62

That is SUCH an awkward (borderline manipulative?) question to ask a woman that the MAN asks out at the end of the date. You probably felt put on the spot. If something like this happens again you could say “Since you asked me out I think it would be gentlemanly of you if you’re offering. If not, I’ll take care of myself” or something along those lines. Then I’d personally never see him again. And yes you are being WAY too available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:24 PM
51

Sister, MOST women who have fallen in love and had their heart broken have wrongly gone back and forth at least once with a guy that shoulda been left alone. It’s easy to block fuck boys. Harder to cope with the fact that the love of your life can switch up on you that hard. It’s fucking hard, and it’s NOT your fault. Give yourself time to grieve. What happened to you was horrible and you did nothing to deserve it. You do need to block him but I hope you take a lot of time to heal and process. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:40 AM
21

Girl WHAT?! The higher ups are trashhhh. How backwards is this? You are being sexually harassed and they say let it go? Don’t upset the cheating, lying broke pieces of shit that want to come to our club? If I was a higher up I would personally walk up to him and ban him for harassment. For now text him very firmly but clearly. “I am not interested, please don’t contact me again” and block!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:42 PM
-7

You made a ton of incorrect assumptions and projections from 2 words but okay sis lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:31 AM
7

Hopefully you read my comment and internalize. Good luck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:49 AM
17

Just let it go sis. He’ll survive and you both learned something. His lesson: listen to a woman when she tells you something makes her uncomfortable Your lesson: Well, I think it goes without saying. Sucky situation but he’ll survive. If you are embarrassed or anxious about his reaction just block. I know men can be irate and violent over anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:47 AM
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From what you said in the comments, your bf sounds lovely, and like what a typical HVM at his age and place in life would be like. It’s okay to want more extravagant dates, but be aware that a lot of older guys purposefully “wow” younger women by spending gasp $100 on a date. A lot of young college women gawk at this kind of behavior and allow LVM disguised as HVM into their lives to eventually ruin it. High value men, above all, act with humility and integrity. They are generous but not in ways…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:34 AM
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You’re my favorite type of woman. Keep us updated on what she says
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 08:26 PM
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🥵 If this is what hitting the wall is like, I would like to volunteer to slam in to it headfirst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:54 AM
53

Business strategy and statistics. Or Wine and a limp dick. Girl please only entertain men who are on par with you intellectually. You’re a boss and this is gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 04:50 AM
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Vetting is extremely important but nothing is 100% bullet proof, which is why you always need to be able to afford dating, even though you’re ideally never paying for dates. It is dangerous for a woman to date with the desperate expectation that her dates will pay every time because she’s broke. You should always be ready to whip your card out and pay half if your dude ends up being low value and asks for half. Then you calmly leave and block. Unless he’s heavily pursing you and taking you to hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:11 PM
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This cracked me up 😂 And men really don’t understand that this is what is in a lot of our inboxes every single day SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:20 PM
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And how the hell could you EVER assume that about me? Bold of you to assume that of any woman. I’m not starting a fight with you. I’ll let the downvotes and upvotes from here on out decide what’s what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:11 AM
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Because it has nothing to do with the female strategy. This information in no way helps women level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:07 AM
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With all due respect I do not think this post belongs here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:45 AM
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Ladies, if you ever decide to be vulnerable and confess your feelings to a man and he says “Game On”....Sprint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 03:36 PM
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He did all of this for me to STILL swipe left on his ugly, no value ass on tinder like a tick off a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 11:23 PM
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The trash walked itself to the dumpster sis. He’s truly humiliated himself crying over this. Thanks for posting though now thousands of queens can laugh along with you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:53 PM
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My response back woulda been:”You spent $150 and I still couldn’t think less of you if I tried.” Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:07 PM
18

As someone who has moved for a partner let me tell you this Do not take a pay cut or career cut for this. You should ideally be advancing in your career by making this move, not stalling it in any way shape or form. Have a community that you regularly see. Don’t just say you have them and ignore them. See them regularly. Invest fully in those relationships Move with the expectation that if he dumps and blocks you the DAY after moving, you will not regret having made the move. Do it for you and y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:32 PM
10

Every single time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:59 PM
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Nah I lost all respect for Khoe. She purposefully got pregnant with a man who left his 8 month pregnant girlfriend for her. Then Khloe preceded to parade her pregancy and relationship around while Tristans former ex gf had to raise his literal new born alone in the background. Imagine what that was like for Tristans ex? Tristan is the Hypergamy king and his ex has never said anything bitter. Stayed on her high horse and never lost respect for herself. Meanwhile Khloe was shocked when he cheated …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 05:35 PM
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Loll predictable ass scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:43 PM
3

Lmao once again everything is a woman’s fault. If women are such liars and men are such truth tellers why don’t men’s all mighty fathers tell them the truth about how bitchy and horrible all the women in their lives were? Sons are lucky if they have their fathers in their lives. Most abandon their responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:49 PM
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This and simply this for me too. Sounds cliche but Ive only gotten bfs when I wasn’t looking for them. My total fun, carefree yet non committal behavior and deep indifference when it came to securing a bf is what attracted HV men to me like flies. I was single for 3 months between two bfs. Other than that I haven’t been single for almost 6 years now. Honestly it shocks me because I LOVE being single. I’ve been realizing that a lot of having a guy commit to you is his fear and knowledge you’ll be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 07:33 AM
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I see what you mean! The initial excitement of sex will always fade in a marriage. It’s inevitable. Yours will be fresher for longer, but ultimately you will have to intentionally prioritize your sex life. I’m not married but from what I’ve seen, foreplay for both men and women happen well before night time. Make sure you’re both seducing each other by being thoughtful, attentive sweet and flirty all day. And yes taking care of your responsibilities. The only risk is if she doesn’t make sex a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:29 AM
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If you read my original post you can see we were together for 2 extra years after that. Happy as fuck but you sound depressed and angry. No one would wait for you to cross the street while driving much less for sex, so I understand your confusion and resentment. No I got offered a high paying job abroad and he couldn’t deal with it. It wasn’t until then he became someone worthy of breaking up with. In hindsight I understand his reaction. He’s blocked because he kept hitting me up getting upset I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:19 AM
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Good for you. Your sex life will be a lot more fun and fulfilling than most married couples for a longer time. At least that is the hope!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:06 AM
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You literally specified “QUESTION FOR WOMEN”. Are you slow?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:59 AM
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Okay and so whats your point? And yeah I was. Initially I thought he was just okay. But he had a lot going for him as well. He was pretty basic / average in looks but he was ambitious, popular and treated me very well. Being a virgin made waiting super fucking easy. I’d been denying men my whole life and I didn’t know what I was “missing”. It would be very difficult waiting that long now. I wouldn’t change it though and considering the fact my ex would still be texting me if he wasn’t blocked, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:55 AM
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Doing anything is only empowering if you do it for yourself and not for other people, in your case men. I waited to lose my V card until I was absolutely, undeniably ready to lose it with my bf (I was 20) I made him wait 7 months with zero guarantee that I’d ever sleep with him. He accepted it, treated me very well. We had a blast together and he was phenomenal at foreplay (he enjoyed what I was willing to offer him as well). When I finally lost it it was wonderful. I felt safe, protected, loved…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 01:03 AM
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Lol! Fill me in on part two sis 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 12:41 AM
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Thought you posted to get advice. Turns out you’re here to ignore it and just go on and on about him again. Like I said at this point it’s a choice. Have fun with this choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 12:37 AM
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You need to block them both out of your life. Well, he’s already blocked you, so you pining after him is nonsensical and honestly makes you look really bad. She sounds like she has no respect for you either, so blocking her won’t matter much in terms of friendship. Especially since she openly blames you for not getting this fuck boy to commit. At first you were the victim cause he played and cheated on you, but if you keep entertaining these toxic people you are a willing participant who can’t c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:23 PM
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Not belittling depression in the slightest, but this post and all the comments are thinly veiled attempts to call to all pick-me’s to rectify a situation which honestly would be better handled with men supporting other men. Women create body positive movements and get shit on by men (“Stop telling each other fat is attractive!!!!/ WhY is there no body positivity for mEn?!?!”) Then in response pick me’s started the dad bod craze and of course never got thanked or picked LOL shocker. And now women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:52 PM
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If you leave him you give both of you a chance to find love you both deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:54 PM
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You’re right your friends are wrong. You handled this well and I would agree it’s a dead situation. There’s a special place in hell for a man who drops off the face of the earth after sex. IDC how long you wait. If you have develop a friendship and report with someone, you don’t just go ghost. Even when I’ve lost interest after sex (Yes it happens to women all the time, especially if he’s bad). I keep the same energy after if he was a genuine dude, then in a day or two am honest about my feeling…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:27 PM
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I swear it’s like 80% of the girls who ask for advice here have never read up on the sub... You’re readily available and running into the arms of a ghoster. I challenge you to reread FDS and try to come up with a wild guess of what you’ll be told to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:14 AM
14

I refuse to read that trash lol. The title is more than enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 08:07 PM
6

Don’t leave your wallet at home. Just don’t pull it out, it’s simple. Don’t put yourself in a potentially dangerous situation in order to force a man to pay. If a man has to be forced he’s not high value anyway. Emergency cash may not be enough. And if your bring a ton of cash that just defeats the purpose of not bringing your wallet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 05:33 PM
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He picked me up Always have your own transportation sis! I am actually super happy for you! You being yourself is so important and I applaud you!! And I hate to be this person but you posted in FDS so a quick note: if a guy couldn’t bother to make a reservation (if this place didn’t take them, he could find another place) then had to take you to BWW, I don’t think he should get rewarded with a night on your bed, even if it’s just to cuddle. On the first date, no dude you want longevity with shou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 05:25 PM
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Is this supposed to be inspirational? So he comes running when she leaves? Hope sis is ready to threaten divorce every other year...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:48 AM
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Just say a cute, thank you, I did too ☺️ And leave it at that. & Please for the love of God dont trick yourself into thinking you need to kiss every guy you like on the first date. That’s just so so so wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:40 PM
10

You’re absolutely right. It’s a mentality. High quality post from a high quality queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:43 PM
1

Alex Fine as f*ck. Here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:37 PM
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So your plan is to double and triple text a guy who’s ghosting you? Level up sis. Adjust your crown and block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 01:55 AM
51

You live and you learn. If you offer a man sex, 9/10 he will take it, no matter how he feels about you. Jumping to sleep with a man, even if he likes you, eliminates the chase and the mystery that once surrounded you. It also eliminates your perceived selectiveness in sexual partners. It’s unfair but it’s psychological. The way he handled it was cold But it was straight to the point. Good luck sis sounds like you won’t be making the same mistake again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 08:40 PM
6

Doesn’t matter what we think. When you tell her you don’t believe in marriage (4 years in what a complete shit). She’s going to leave you. Debate over my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 03:11 AM
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Because men are desperate to do it in the dating phase and forget years later that it was that generous behavior that was a key reason why women let them in their pants in the beginning. And as everyone is saying women tend to cook, clean, organize children’s schedules be on top of all their appointments etc. Men provide. Those are their roles. Be sweet and considerate during dating phase = sex. It’s not crazy that it’s the same during marriage. It’s just all the other stressors take precedent a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 06:57 PM
9

Bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 03:42 PM
6

Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 05:02 AM
15

What a terrible, terrible mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:49 AM
7

This is actually disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:12 AM
5

Ummm she realizes he will fuck the first person he sees right? Besides the OBVIOUS and porn sick abuse, like how does she trust him outside of the house? He’ll be charged with sexual assault of a woman other than her (although she should charger him too) in no time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 07:10 AM
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I can only think of one that’s not gay that wouldn’t bang me if he had the opportunity (we’re like siblings). The rest would. They’ve also had my back and dropped everything if I really needed it. Vice versa. They truly are my friends but yes all but one would sleep with me if they had the chance so take that for what it’s worth. Most men sleep with anything so idk if that even means much at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:49 AM
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Not a crumb of dick though LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:27 AM
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It’s really men causing this problem but he doesn’t want to have that conversation. The only men joining his little movement are the men who don’t get any action either. Men who are attractive to women, and women, benefit the most here so I’m actually all for what he’s proposing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 05:23 PM
2

You can’t save someone that doesn’t want to be saved. cue J Cole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 01:38 AM
3

Getting what you want how you want it takes self control and discipline. If you want to break up with FWB do it. Just don’t start crying if you accidentally slip on this new guys dick on date two. Either do it or don’t. No one here can give you will power. No one here can make it easy. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 10:40 PM
1

So one of the reasons why he broke up with his ex was because he wanted to insist on her spending money to eat out two times a week? So she was happy and capable of cooking for them at home but he needed her to eat out with him AND pay her way? By telling you that he’s gearing you to have a pick me response. Knee jerk female response is always OMG I would never force your to eat at home like your ex. You like me because I’m a “career girl” yes yes you’re right I will always go Dutch even though …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:27 PM
1

The whole point of this sub is to learn how to love yourself and attract high value men. Hopefully that answers your question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:38 PM
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Slow down sis and try not to be so available. I know it’s exciting but he’s 29 courting a 21 year old he KNOWS how super into him you are and he KNOWS saying “you’ll never have to pay” will make you think he’s Gods gift to man. I know this cause I was there. Have fun but still have mystery to you. If he feels like he has you in the bag, the chase is over. No need to ghost him, just don’t text him back rn. Date other guys and please don’t be available for him the next time he asks. Wait at least …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 02:48 AM
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Block him and move on. /Thread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 02:33 AM
3

Have you tried “Hey what’s up?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 08:11 PM
1

Uber is huge friend sis. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 07:14 PM
3

“Incels are right” Incels would gauge your right eye out if it meant one night fucking your gf. Yes, lost make up and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:29 AM
0

Maybe reread my post because I very clearly explained the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 05:24 PM
3

Eh sounds like you dated two girls and never had the exclusivity talk before it ended. I think that’s different from an open relationship, or what most people would consider an open relationship. My current and last LTR started out with 6 months of non exclusive dating. Like all relationships, dating is inherently non exclusive until it’s expressly not. Just because we were possibly doing our own things on the side while dating for 6 months, doesn’t mean we were in an “open relationship”. We wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 12:01 AM
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