Is this the right place?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-04T17:30:33+00:00

First of all it's your boyfriend's job to take care of this because it's his family. The fact that he hasn't taken care of this for you and put his foot down with his family shows you what his priorities are. He's waek and doesn't care about you like he should. he probably even agrees with them that it's your job to serve everybody. And thanks to his grandmother he doesn't even have to say it! He can just watch.

Second, yeah you should move out! Free yourself! Move out and don't live with him either.

Summerisle7 · 2020-09-04T18:13:01+00:00

um wtf who are these people. I didn't even read the whole thing, I just caught the part where your boyfriend's grandmother is "scolding" you for some shit? Sis, MOVE OUT. Living with a boyfriend is strongly discouraged here and it sounds as though these people add no value to your life.

If you want to know more about this sub, read the Handbook in the sidebar.

heythere360 · 2020-09-04T17:49:22+00:00

This is your boyfriends family. Idk why you’re over there as their slave, but your worst mistake is completely ignoring the fact that your issue isn’t with the grandmother, but 100% with your bf who allows you to to be the house slave like this.

Also, why are you putting up with it? Your boyfriend obviously doesn’t care, what are you willing to do to protect yourself?

You’re being abused...for what?

kind_red · 2020-09-04T19:13:38+00:00

Please read the handbook

uhhellokitty96 · 2020-09-04T18:27:53+00:00

WOW i posted on the wrong sub.

When did I say he didn’t stick up for me? That he doesn’t say something to his family? I was on a rant after coming home from work and dealing with her WITHOUT him there. I was hoping for kind advice to put my foot down or help speaking up for myself. We’re moving out on our own anyway. Thanks anyway, I will not be coming back to FDS.

Title	Is this the right place?
Author	uhhellokitty96
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	September 4, 2020 1:32 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/im6q4g/is_this_the_right_place/
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