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46

There was a woman on r/femalelevelupstrategy complaining she had to dump her boyfriend because he wouldn't accept her desire to be "sexually adventurous". I've learned to trust my spidey sense and her post history revealed she's 20 and wants to become a prostitute, so apparently he's toxic because he doesn't want her to screw sickos for money. This shit is literally everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:23 PM
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r/PornIsMisogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:51 PM
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The only man on earth who doesn't use porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:51 PM
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70% of the men who pay to use prostituted women and children are married or partnered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:50 PM
6

They're both evil people. He's far worse on the spectrum of evil but she's definitely sick in the head given her default was to research how to profit from the murder of a pregnant woman and her 3 children. And I'm not going to argue with you about it because your values are wacked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:26 AM
46

She also googled how much money Amber Frey made on her book deal, so she couldn't wait to see how she might capitalize on the murder of 4 people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:22 AM
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She was googling how much Amber Frey made on her book deal. She's a ruthless sociopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:20 AM
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She's in witness protection with a changed name, so she gets to move on fresh to a new life with no repercussions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:17 AM
8

Good luck with all that.
/r/askFDS10/10/20 10:06 PM
30

I feel the same way. Common values matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:28 PM
40

It's still creepy and a violation. You aren't consenting to having your photo taken and circulated simply by existing in public. It's rude uncouth, and a violation of boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:18 PM
4

I'm so happy to be single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:10 AM
29

It's not that. They simply don't like women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:07 AM
7

You're right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:05 AM
27

I feel like a broken record stating that on this sub. I think it's time to take a break. Using OLD in a search for even decent men, nevermind a "HVM" is a self defeating waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:44 PM
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This is one of 100 reasons I'm opposed to meeting complete strangers from the internet. Only give a chance to men who you can vet and verify through social and professional circles. These men are on OLD for a reason. There's risk involved in dating but with a complete stranger with whom you know not a soul in common the risks are exponentially greater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:41 PM
4

Definite predator vibes. Has anyone found this post? I looked but can't find it. I'm curious about the responses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:38 PM
36

Disgusting. Enjoy gum disease and missing teeth. IDIOT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:29 PM
4

There's a sub for women choosing to be single and independent, not investing in men r/wgtow. It's not as active but the participants are very supportive of each other and it would be great to grow the sub. Please come check it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:27 PM
8

You cut them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:26 PM
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Ladies please get off the dating sites. They are teeming with trash. Please just stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:19 PM
4

He hates her parents because they clocked him as a douchebag from the beginning and it's a threat to his brainwashed control over her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:18 PM
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I think that's how many of them are, naturally. I have a 14 years old son who just cut off his best friend of several years for making a very insulting remark about his art. He used to play baseball and the kids would "neg" each other - their own teammates. They do it to each other. I think it all comes down to the male ego being so fragile and insatiable, and every interaction is about jockeying for power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:12 PM
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That's admirable and nothing to be embarrassed about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:48 AM
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I'm waiting for robot husbands to become available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:47 AM
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Yeah, it's Tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:44 AM
29

Your friend is headed for a world of hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:28 AM
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Hi, welcome! I read your story and am so happy you came here! The betrayal you've endured is vile and inexcusable, but thank goodness your dad is going to be there for you. It sounds like this experience will bring you closer together. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:26 PM
48

I guess he'd know, since he's a sexual predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:23 PM
67

Men don't want relationships anyway. At most, they want someone they can take advantage of in various ways. Men can fake an entire relationship if it benefits them, so why do they care if women are single? Control. Everything is about control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:21 PM
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No, that isn't why. Studies show that men who use prostituted women are extremely high in trait narcissism and they get a thrill from the power of buying someone and the dupers delight from keeping this secret from people in their normal life. There are plenty of women willing to engage in consensual hookups, so unless the guy is absolutely hideous or disabled, he's buying sex because he has a personality disorder, not because he's desperate for "adventurous sex"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:32 PM
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I'm so sorry, sis. I hope you and your mom have a good support system. If the girls are asking for money it's very likely he's been engaged in commercial sex arrangements and encounters. What is your mom going to do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:28 PM
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Welcome, sis. You deserve fundamental respect and consideration. You are valuable. Don't put up with any more mistreatment. Your self love will protect you from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:26 PM
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I don't add any men I don't know on social media because they always do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:45 PM
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Please don't tell men about the harm other men have done to you. They'll either see you as damaged or use it to manipulate you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:13 PM
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He's definitely a member of the manosphere. He parroted all their talking points and can't think for himself, which is how they end up there in the first place. I think these red pill cult members are becoming the norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:12 PM
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Finally someone is talking sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:06 PM
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He definitely has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:05 PM
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You're right to be skeptical. Most of those posts are fake karma-farming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:03 PM
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This is what you get when you marry a scrote. Tale as old as time. I have a friend who looks like the actress from Wonder Woman and her husband cheats on her with hookers, so you don't even have to be middle aged and menopausal for men to treat you like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:01 PM
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So, just like humans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:58 PM
4

I just think of The Village People song "Macho Man"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:57 PM
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People are going to be offended by this, but a person of quality is not going to degrade themselves by using OLD. There's a reason it's always the same guys. The entire concept is dehumanizing. It's an advertisement for a human being. And I'm tired of the fallacious excuse "it's the only way to meet people". No it isn't. Every generation before OLD met people. They met them by having social groups, clubs, being involved in their community, volunteering, et al. The men on OLD are bottom feeders o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:14 PM
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OLD is degrading and I'm not into degrading myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:03 PM
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Come to r/wgtow and be free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:01 PM
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Or, you know, you could be single and work on yourself and your own goals instead. Crazy idea , I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:04 AM
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Nobody wants the men on dating sites for a reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:03 AM
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Tacky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:01 AM
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They're evil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:49 PM
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Surprise, surprise, women can be trash too. I'm sure we've all known at least one absolutely horrid woman whose decisions harm the people unfortunate enough to be within her influence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:48 PM
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Hey CuTeE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:44 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:41 PM
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He seems like a high class, educated man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:38 PM
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It's terrifying because they are a real physical and existential threat to women's safety. There have been numerous attacks on women and girls by incels in just the last few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:34 PM
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Men are irredeemable and they're only getting worse. My grandfather was a salt of the earth person who treated everyone with respect, adored my grandmother, was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, friend, was a hardworking provider and a cherished member of the community. Men like this don't exist anymore, at least, I haven't seen any, and I know a LOT of people. It's too late for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:28 PM
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And these idiots claim SHE embarrassed HIM? He intentionally humiliated and rejected her in front of everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:22 PM
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My wealthy grandfather used to carry a bag with a lock on it, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:17 PM
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She's an embarrassment to womanhood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:15 PM
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WACKJOB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:13 PM
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And Joe Rogan. Joe Rogan fanboys are insanely toxic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:55 PM
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To add: watches Joe Rogan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:54 PM
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I used to live in LA and there were so many Baha'I in my neighborhood. They were the loveliest, most pleasant and kind people, especially in a city where most people will step over your dead body without blinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:46 PM
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Sounds boring as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:43 PM
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Um, I wouldn't feel safe around anyone who demanded to be made beneficiary in the event of my death. That's not a red flag. That's a red neon sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:43 PM
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Yes. If she commits, he'll get bored. They're overgrown children, that's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:40 PM
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Just like they want you to be faithful in the relationship while their dick is on a heat seeking mission. Engaging with men in any context means participation in their double standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:39 PM
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And to think some women are in denial that men hate us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:34 PM
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Because they're degenerates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:51 PM
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How do you know? You've never even met him. You have no idea what he's doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:49 PM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:49 PM
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One month? Yes, that's way too long to be texting without meeting. He's probably involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:48 PM
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Well, anyone who refers to women as "females" is automatically LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:39 PM
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And she'll still be emotionally and verbally abused, cheated on, negged, used, ignored, etc. This mentality is the biggest self own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:35 PM
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Good for you. That's not a productive use of your time. They don't really care. Some will pretended to care superficially to continue to get sex, but they don't actually care or have any investment in women's liberation and rights. Quite the opposite. The status quo benefits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:31 PM
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Without hate, huh? Newspeak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:29 PM
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100% cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:41 AM
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I think all online dating is degrading but being forced to proposition the man first is plumbing the depths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:41 AM
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They all do. Every one of them I've ever known. I expect that's pretty common. Most men overestimate their intelligence, competence, looks and charisma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:36 AM
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"Radiating light". Ugh, I hate the fake, corny, toxic positivity new age vernacular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:28 AM
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Yes, I married one. I'm so, so relieved that you have left him. You're so young and one of these people can permanently destroy your life. Thank God you didn't have a baby with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:26 AM
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He's a manipulator. I'd block immediately. He's a covert narc playing the victim role
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:23 AM
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Men have nothing to teach me about virtue, but they certainly have a lot to learn about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:18 AM
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That seems to be a common description of American men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:24 PM
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Almost all of them, but it doesn't mean they were good in bed. My ex husband lasted 5 minutes, tops. There's more to good sex than an orgasm. I can do that myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:20 PM
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No, why would they when behaving like this is to their advantage? They don't have integrity. He denies being a sociopath but all of his behaviors were in alignment with ASPD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:15 PM
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Yeah, you can't blame them. It's the only way out of the oppressed class. I've even thought about it myself, and I look very conventionally feminine and have zero attraction to typical male hobbies. But it sure would be nice to walk my dog at night without constantly fearing assault, or not have to work twice as hard at work in an attempt to be taken seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:28 PM
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OLD is trash and attracts bottom feeder men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:23 PM
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So true. The male ego is the most delicate thing on earth. They see everything as a competition and lack empathy. Studies have shown that men are threatened and feel emasculated by partners who out-earn them, and they actually prefer women who aren't as intelligent or more intelligent than they are. They, as a group, truly care about looks and acquiescence more than any other qualities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:09 PM
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I can understand the desire to seek support, but most of them don't want to hear the truth. They think complaining about their situation on the internet has some magical power to transform their shitbag boyfriend/husband. Ultimately they're just stealing other people's time and emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:05 PM
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The absolute state of heterosexual/bisexual womanhood. What a great deal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:02 PM
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This is why I refuse to subscribe to the "never critique other women" philosophy. No, sis. If your actions are harming other women, I feel zero obligation to support or apologize for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:01 PM
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Anything for head pats from the menfolk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:59 PM
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Yes, I don't understand why so many people here think this is fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:57 PM
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I think a lot of people in the comments are misguided if you think this doesn't happen in the era of hookup culture. Just go read the other dating subs for awhile. Yes, women are screwing these lowlifes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:52 PM
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Unfortunately, based on all the posts I've read from women on the other dating subs, they are willing to go fuck a stranger in his SUV in a dark parking lot somewhere, then complain that he ghosts them afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:50 PM
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He's verbally abusive, lazy, financially insolvent/moocher, and is either a porn addict or is cheating (dead bedroom). Buy out his 30% of the house and get this abusive scrote out of your life. You're an educated, financially secure woman. Why are you putting up with this? Contact a lawyer about the protocol for removing him from your house and paying off his part of the investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:29 PM
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Men only keep exes around because they're still having sex with her, or because he still wants to. I'd never date someone like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:23 PM
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He hasn't grown up, evolved, or bettered himself. You have. He's still drinking, smoking and doing drugs. You take care of yourself. He will ONLY pull you down. This isn't about being nice. This is a matter of self preservation. He's trying to use you as a rebound. That's insulting enough. The only "connection" that exists with him is a connection between you and self destruction. He absolutely has to go. Block him and move on before you do something you regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:04 PM
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Men are trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:19 AM
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This is the reality of marriage and kids. Been there, done that, don't recommend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:01 AM
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Ew. Why would you even want to have sex with someone like this, and there's nothing "sweet" about this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:58 AM
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How was she out of his league? They worked together, they both use "like" as every other word when speaking, and they're both average looking. What the hell is he talking about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:36 AM
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I think not being vulnerable to men is not some handicap, but a distinct advantage in every way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:45 PM
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I wouldn't either. Glad you're being cautious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:18 PM
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How are they not embarrassed? I guess the brain damage from porn addiction is that extensive they've lost all shame. Imagine being a 30 years old man and not having the presence of mind to be too embarrassed to post a pictogram of your masturbation fixation on the internet, with your face and name visible, no less. These fools truly have brain damage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:15 PM
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Maybe we could make it a private group. I love this sub but all the OLD posts are really getting on my last nerve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:11 PM
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We have r/wgtow, but it's not that active. I wish someone would make a sub similar to the ones that were purged, but with an innocuous name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:09 PM
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Not for me, it wasn't. In both marriage and cohabitation with men, I always ended up being a cook, a personal shopper, maid, laundress, nurse, appointment setter, personal assistant, therapist, interior designer, et al, while ultimately being abused, taken for granted, or cheated on. No thanks. I'm done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:05 PM
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For the THIRD time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:03 PM
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She's already been married twice. Just stop getting married. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:03 PM
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This stray dog needs to be neutered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:01 PM
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This psychopath has no business going near the practice of medicine, and he also sounds like a meme from r/iamverysmart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:59 PM
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"Aloud"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:34 PM
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He's just explaining his only hobby aside from hating women and licking trump's balls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:33 PM
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It means he has mental illness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:32 PM
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Army, MGTOW, Trumper, and a gym bro. Hitting all the toxic male boxes without even trying. How is being on Tinder MGTOW approved? Words have definitions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:14 PM
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The thing is, no one knows what these relationships are like behind the scenes, or who the man truly is when no one is watching. We have no idea what anyone's life is like in private, especially when it comes to public figures, who have an intentionally curated image. It's dangerous to assume that just because someone appears to be a certain way, or in a particular type of relationship, that you're getting the full picture. Maybe it's my age (mid 40s), but I've seen far too much fakery to believ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:46 PM
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Yeah, coming from a "straight" dude. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:29 PM
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Never share your trauma with men. They don't care and the worst of them will use it to further abuse and victimize you. They'll also tell other people about it. Don't tell them anything that makes you vulnerable. They are not safe people. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:14 PM
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Ugh, she paid for her own wedding ring. That was clue #1 this guy was a complete loser. Please, please believe the evidence in front of you. People don't change. If he won't buy your engagement/wedding ring, he's a bum! What a nightmarish story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:10 PM
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I cut out those people, too. They are privileged and will never understand where you come from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:54 PM
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Heck yes, lady!!! I felt a surge of endorphins reading how you hung up on your abusive mom. Brilliant self care!! Keep going - it's all onward and upward from here. 🌺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:47 PM
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I think they're all very similar in the sense that they're mostly narcopaths and disordered people exhibit similar personality traits and behavioral patterns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:44 PM
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No class or self respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:41 PM
6

How do you like it? Is it more comfortable? I dislike working out around men, and they're so unhygienic. I know two men who got foot fungus from just walking on the floor in the gym locker room. Yuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:23 AM
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Hi! I am a silversmith and use a lot of semi precious stones, but I also love ethnic / tribal jewelry: Afghani, African, Indian - so I'll sometimes use vintage tribal components and beads. I worked as a full time designer for many years, but now I just make jewelry for fun (got very burned out after doing it for a living). If you're interested in learning different jewelry making skills, YouTube is invaluable. Definitely check out jeweler's supply company channel , RioGrande. They have a plethor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:21 AM
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I hope someone told her how it is in the comments section of her video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:13 AM
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Go on with your bad self, Amazonian sister! I hope you make tons of men feel insecure and inadequate! Now THAT is doing God's work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:10 AM
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Have a wonderful birthday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:06 AM
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Drew Peterson too. He killed 2 wives, as far as I know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:05 AM
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You know what's sad? While trying to find the particular story, umpteen similar reports came up about different people. There were so many, I gave up looking. I remember he was in San Francisco, though. Really disheartening but not at all surprising that there are sooo many using benevolence and altruism as a disguise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:48 PM
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I promise you, no. It's an act. They don't change. If this is on display via social media, be certain it's all for show. People who are living authentic lives aren't broadcasting their private moments on Facebook or Instagram. He's doing it for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:35 PM
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He's a "daddy dom", apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:21 PM
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Haha @ the clapping monkey! Hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:09 PM
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Thank you so very much for the helpful info! I've felt intimidated by it because I'm not sure how to use it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:35 PM
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Oh, and here's the hair oil! This is great for moisture and detangling, but it isn't greasy, and doesn't make me break out, unlike other leave in products I've tried https://www.sallybeauty.com/hair/hair-care/conditioner/leave-in-conditioner/macadamia-healing-oil-spray/SBS-398003.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:33 PM
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Hi! I posted the links above. I usually wash twice a week. If I have to rinse in between days, I'll recondition the ends because my hair is thick, wavy, and on the dry side, but it depends on your hair type, of course. I also use a hair mask every so often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:31 PM
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I use a biotin shampoo that's so amazing I'll never switch to another product. It makes hair so shiny, manageable, and never leaves a buildup. My hair is very dense and wavy, so it's hard to find a shampoo that doesn't make it frizzy without leaving a waxy buildup. You only need a tiny bit and it lasts forever. https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B01ENCBOA0/ref=cm_sw_r_apa_i_v5JEFbBHG1VAF For conditioner, I use Live Clean Fresh Water Hydrating formula. It's the perfect amount of moisture for my hair, wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:29 PM
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Wish there was a way to identify him and inform his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:20 PM
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Even if he's raping adult women, he's still evil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:20 PM
10

We need Charles Bronson to take care of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:19 PM
16

He's incapable of love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:18 PM
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People like this have no idea what love is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:18 PM
6

How do you like the retin-a? Have you noticed any results? I don't have lines or wrinkles on my face, but my neck is losing elasticity and has horizontal lines. I just got the retin-a, but haven't used it yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:07 PM
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It means he's a sexual tourist. That's someone who pays to use prostituted women or children in economically depressed countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:53 PM
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"Foreign travel" sexual history = paying to rape impoverished women/trafficking victims in other countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:45 PM
12

Classic abuser move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:40 PM
13

It's so predictable at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:39 PM
6

Same thing happened to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:12 PM
12

I'll have to Google it. Should I assume he was living as a hedonist and now he's "changed his ways"? You know who else aged terribly? Russell Crowe! Talk about hitting the wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:07 PM
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Wait, what happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:02 PM
24

You don't think so? Am I the only one here who thought he was hot?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:01 PM
103

I don't eat meat or dairy, and consume a lot of green juice and carrot juice. My hair is waist length, and I use henna and macadamia nut oil to maintain it. Sunscreen every single day. I've worn it for 20 years and it's really retarded the aging process. I don't smoke, drink or do drugs. I walk at least an hour a day, use hand weights, resistance bands and a step machine. I never go to the gym because I hate gym dudes and the facilities are never sanitized properly. I bought an LED wand and use …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:58 PM
28

Holy crap. He used to be such a dreamboat. Men age so badly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:34 PM
26

Why are people expecting a relationship out of someone who is practically a stranger simply because they had sex? I don't understand this. After 4 dates you barely know someone. Just because you screwed doesn't mean they're relationship material. I'm so over these idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:01 PM
10

I know, right? People are just unbelievable. Even POTUS, who downplayed the virus all year, is now in the hospital with COVID. All these people risking the lives and health of people around them deserve a Darwin award
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:59 PM
7

These conversations need to occur BEFORE having sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:57 PM
32

Is he hetero?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:55 PM
105

Eye roll. Do everything backwards and expect good results. That should work out just splendidly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:53 PM
11

Sigh. I'm so tired of these posts with 20 something women and men in their 40s and 50s. It's just so tedious at this point. I don't understand the attraction they have to these men. Most of them look terrible, they have a shitty attitude and tons of baggage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:50 PM
19

Not after he has sex with her. Unless he already did. She's screwing randos from Tinder, according to her post history. Sad situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:21 AM
67

I know, that's so desperate and sad. Now he knows he's completely in control of that situation and she's ripe for taking advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:14 AM
33

She's going to be crushed to find out he has a Tinder roster of pick-mes going to "the laundromat" with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:05 AM
42

I've never enabled a murderer. This isn't a libfem sub. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 09:27 PM
1

Absolutely. He faked two marriages. We were window dressing so people would think he was normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:27 PM
3

Unfortunately not. Everyone thought he was the salt of the earth and a wonderful partner. Turns out he was a serial cheater, sociopath and criminal living a double life since LONG before we ever met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:26 PM
65

Exactly. Realizing this is true empowerment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:33 PM
225

See, this is why I'm so cynical. All the vetting methods women talk about here don't measure up against the deceptive cunning of men. They aren't all too dumb to figure out how to hide their degeneracy. Some of them are incredibly skilled at it. I know: I married one. Between puppet apps that look like clocks or calendars but hide texts instead, Google phone numbers, reddit, anonymous sex forums, having secret IG and other social media accounts, and things like snapchat that delete evidence, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:33 PM
177

How tacky and devoid of any class must you be to invite someone on a date and refuse to pay? You extended the invitation, you pay! These men are f%## idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:05 PM
44

They don't. Not like we do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:57 PM
23

He's so fake and smarmy it's painful to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:37 PM
44

Definitely not. He's slimy, that's why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:36 PM
26

Does he wear a fedora, m'lady?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:36 PM
-16

I wouldn't want a partner who had a promiscuous past because we'd have fundamentally different values and concepts of intimacy, and I sure as hell wouldn't want one who lied to me about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:24 AM
141

I understand precisely what you're saying. I've learned that the men who are supposedly the most virtuous are often, secretly, no different from the men who are overt trash. They're just more adept at concealing their evil deeds behind a likable and trustworthy exterior. That's been my personal experience, and it's validated every time I read the news. This is why I'm WGTOW. A few years ago I read an article about a man who was a tireless civil rights advocate for decades. Everyone admired and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:17 AM
17

I am very weary of the OLD exchanges. Everyone should know by now that 99.9 % of men on OLD are the bottom of the barrel. It's unproductive and not particularly interesting to read those interactions. Texts with a current or former partner might give some insight into relationship dynamics but sometimes all the OLD content makes me consider avoiding the sub for awhile. It's like going swimming in a shark tank while on your period and then complaining that the sharks are trying to eat you. Please…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:21 PM
48

Porn users are the ultimate cucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:16 PM
41

I hate reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:01 PM
8

Thank you for everything, Gloria.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:44 PM
30

Right? Imagine this POS being an upgrade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:40 PM
25

He's directly stating he sees her and women in general as objects to be used. It doesn't get any more explicit. Most of them are too clever to admit this. I can't imagine why she's sticking around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:39 PM
26

Yes, what you're describing is love bombing, and it's a preferred manipulation technique of narcissists and other antisocial personality disorder types. Definitely continue being skeptical of this behavior. It's usually a strategy and not sincere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:37 PM
109

Can't imagine why you'd be tired! Maybe it's my age but I've run out of sympathy for people like this. Trying to brainwash other women into misery and subservience nullifies any empathy I'd normally have for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:12 PM
9

I'd work on the detachment a bit. If you've only been texting for 2 days, it's too soon to like him. You don't know him at all. I wouldn't initiate texts and keep responses congruent in length and enthusiasm with his
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:53 PM
81

When you've intentionally brainwashed yourself....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:49 PM
16

This is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:31 PM
57

Why would a lesbian care what hetero women are doing in relation to men? None of the lesbians I know really have men in their lives outside of family. That's just pathetic. Probably not even a lesbian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:03 PM
15

Faux feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:00 PM
28

Fuckboy. Block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:11 AM
93

Go cook him a 3 course meal every night while he grunts in your general direction and plays video games in between masturbating to anime, sis..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:48 PM
103

My husband is so ineffectual and incapable, teehee! Isn't that adorbs??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:46 PM
66

That sub along with Two XX Chromosomes is nothing but fake feminist, libfem hell. I avoid them like the plague
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:12 PM
7

Ok, jabba
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:44 PM
12

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:36 PM
38

No. Some of the oldest books about sexuality discuss deviance and paraphilias. Porn is so popular because it reflects what is inside of them, not vice versa. Porn wouldn't be appealing to someone who wasn't aroused by that material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:35 PM
52

I believe they all have secret paraphilias. Something is really broken in men's sexuality. The worst part is their entitlement. They think they're entitled to be this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:19 PM
9

You're right: they are sociopaths. They check all the boxes for ASPD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:34 AM
6

Why are so many people proud of degrading themselves to the degree that they broadcast it on the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:08 AM
25

Yes, I have given up on men. They aren't worth the grief, energy, emotion and inevitable trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:15 AM
3

💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:10 PM
59

That's right. It's another manifestation of "not like the other girls".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:06 PM
83

Narcs actually get off on knowing they are perceived as destructive and dangerous. They think it is a mark of their power. That's how sick in the head they are. Soulless ghouls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:04 PM
4

I'm very sorry she's in this position, but she's there by choice. I hope she wakes up and stops prostrating herself before petrified turds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:01 PM
4

Boo hoo hoo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:52 PM
29

I love this response. So tired of the milquetoast reaction to these people. Sometimes tough love is required. Let's stop enabling and making excuses for social rot and the active harming of women and children by normalizing this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:49 PM
6

Throws up in mouth* Well, you really found your calling. That's what I call meaningful work. Very fulfilling, I'm sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:48 PM
10

Do we get a medal for not criticizing them for being fat, flabby, balding or bald, hairy, having no fashion sense, having stretch marks, a flat ass and a beer belly? No? No pat on the back? Hmm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:46 PM
14

No thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:41 PM
15

Please read The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. It will help you to avoid these people moving forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:40 PM
8

Exercising once a week is why you're fat. I swear, this cannot be real. No one can be this devoid of self awareness. I will never understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:39 PM
34

This isn't even true. There are some men you can fuck every day, and they'll still cheat. This lady is just dumb. Do not dumb here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:33 PM
39

It's so funny the way inferior men love to LARP as "alphas" on the internet. Real men are busy working, learning, providing, inventing and building things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:19 PM
67

See, this is why I don't defend people who work in the sex industry as a lifestyle choice. They really do not care how their decisions impact others, or society in general. They have no concept of sisterhood, and just like with Trump's current pick for Supreme Court, I feel zero obligation to support women who actively undermine and harm the general well being of all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:11 PM
21

Indeed. I unsubscribed from that sub because so many posts are about porn and sex. Not wholesome at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:13 PM
22

I think it's beautiful and we need about 3.5 billion more male persons like this instead of the lowlifes who currently exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:11 PM
15

Ew, Russell Brand's chinless brother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:44 PM
15

I think they're all the same regardless of age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:01 PM
25

I don't know, she really roasted his ass. I think it's funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:57 PM
9

Exactly. Gymbos are so dull boring, anti-intellectual, macho, arrogant, uncreative. There's nothing attractive about them to me on any level. Try working on the inside a bit, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:50 PM
11

I can't stand gym bros anyway. Steroids or not, they're usually dumb, superficial and steeped in toxic masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:47 PM
36

Sometimes I think it would be better if this sub was private. Men who read the content here will learn what methods we're wise to and use that info to manipulate women or change their tactics. They're also discovering the FDS vetting process, which will enable the especially cunning and sociopathic types to alter their methods to deceive women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:42 PM
17

That's gonna be a no from me, dawg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:33 PM
6

Oh, My, God. I hope she sues this diabolical POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:32 PM
8

Cope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:18 PM
6

HeDOniSt, teehee! These dipsticks all think they're Hugh Hefner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:34 AM
7

Is this your first day on the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:52 PM
13

I've never "accidentally" used a racial slur in my life, have you? Have you ever accidentally paid poor people in a 3rd world country to hold up signs reading "death to Jews", like Mr Pewdiepie? Me neither
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:49 PM
9

Please do. If anything, apologists for racists and anti semites should be banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:45 PM
11

It's pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:44 PM
70

They're engaged and it's "none of her business" that he's cheating? Male entitlement is a plague on this planet. He thinks she's trapped because she's pregnant and he a can do whatever he wants. This happens all the time. Don't marry or reproduce with these sociopaths!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:30 PM
50

Unfortunately, you can't really tell if they'll change once you're locked in. I was with my ex husband for 3 years before we got married and as soon as the ink was dry he started treating me differently. It was like the moment it was legally binding he dropped the act and treated me like shit. I've heard so many stories like this that it must be a common phenomenon for men to no longer feel obligated to perform their nice guy act once you're married or pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:58 PM
37

I hope someone delivered the much needed truth. He needs to be told he's not attractive and he belongs with his looks match. These men are unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:51 PM
38

I'm truly laughing out loud. It's astonishing how many men overestimate their attractiveness on all levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:50 PM
49

Niceness is exactly how my serial cheating, personality disordered closet addict ex husband snared me. "We must learn and then teach our children that niceness does not equal goodness. Niceness is a decision, a strategy of social interaction; it is not a character trait. People seeking to control others almost always present the image of a nice person in the beginning." Gavin de Becker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:37 PM
12

Exactly. Getting tired of these posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:37 PM
66

No, they tell on themselves all the time. It's a test of what you'll accept
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:36 PM
43

You have no idea how he treats her in private. None. Many men are performative around others for the purpose of impression management. I've known men who appeared to be madly in love with their wives, and highly respectful of women, who were incessantly cheating on them and abusing them in private. A celebrity's image is curated. Also, I have personally heard him made snarky comments about women and make references to porn. I made my son stop watching him for that reason. We used to watch his ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:32 PM
-1

Look at her adoring expression, gazing up at him in wonder. We know who rules that relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:26 PM
24

He makes a lot of snarky comments about "wahmen" (as he calls them). I suspect he's a big coomer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:24 PM
13

This poor woman is so, so willfully ignorant. You can do all that and more for a man and he'll still cheat on you with anything that has a pulse. She's going to have to learn the hard way, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:22 PM
91

That's so unfortunate. She knew he was a cheater when they married. Women must stop believing they can change a man. That's not going to happen. I believe most men will cheat if given half a chance, though. Only highly moral men with integrity will commit to sexual fidelity, and they are extremely rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:20 PM
61

I worked in healthcare and men do not take care of themselves. So many men think if they work out, they're "healthy" despite eating nothing but bacon and burgers, drinking like a fish, never ever using sunscreen, and sleeping around, therefore catching STDS. They don't take vitamins and never use moisturizer. They neglect to go to the doctor or dentist for routine care. But, the majority of them aren't fit, either. So they have all those habits, plus they're fat and bald! Where I live, pretty mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:28 AM
93

This article would make the dregs in the manosphere have a head implosion. Hey, RP and MGTOW nutters: men over 40 are generally unattractive to all women. Guess what? Women prefer youthful looking, healthy, well groomed men, despite the desperate coping delusions you guys tell each other regularly. If older men were such a hot commodity, they wouldn't be all over OLD swiping on literally everything, even a blank profile! They're absolutely desperate, and you guys know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:22 AM
22

The fillers are the worst. They make the face look swollen like a puffer fish. How is that attractive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:06 AM
14

Yes! That's how it's done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:01 AM
13

Definitely. I say this all the time. Vast majority are VERY high in trait narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:58 AM
3

They all look like naugahyde with crusty facial hair. So many men are ugly and they greatly overestimate their looks as well as their "charm".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:56 AM
14

I can't take seriously anyone of this age who uses tiktok. Please get a hobby besides dispensing terrible advice to teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:53 AM
37

Oh my God, that's horrific . Porn is a blight on society. I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:49 AM
9

Yes, definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:48 AM
6

By the second time we have sex. After that, I know he's just a dud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:47 AM
37

Yes, this is one of those rare moments I'm relieved to not be in such a "progressive" country. We have so many social and political problems here but that sounds like libfem hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:07 AM
2

Thank you. I'm sorry about your ex. Your description made me think of Patrick Bateman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:17 AM
14

Have you been to his place before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:14 AM
17

Everything you say is true, and if this reality was expressed to girls instead of indoctrinating them with fairy tales and Disney movies, it would save countless women from wasting their love, effort, energy, emotion, youth, years, their very lives on these massive black holes of narcissistic greed and need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:11 AM
7

Embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:45 PM
24

This guy will micromanage you until you develop panic disorder and your hair starts falling out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:44 PM
10

That's why they're on OLD! Men who are high quality don't need to use dating sites. They are too rare a commodity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:34 PM
73

They probably assume she'll be up for anything if she's drunk all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:30 PM
75

Sigh. It is so disappointing. This is why I won't date. I am turned off by slutty men and there are far too many who do this even they're IN a relationship. It's not worth the risk anymore. Your posts have been entertaining, though! I love to see them being called out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:28 PM
102

How presumptuous. I'd say "nothing. Cooking is a privilege for my husband or children". That'll shut them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:02 PM
4

Ugh, I'm sorry this happened to you. There are so many incompetent and downright dangerous therapists out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:59 PM
5

How can you tell who viewed your stories?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:57 PM
15

Right? Why do morals and ethics only apply to your partner? In a civilized world, the social contract applies to everyone. Telling women not to be upset with someone knowingly participating in infidelity with their partner is more GASLIGHTING and mental abuse of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:55 PM
3

She belongs here with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:53 PM
60

Ugh, I cannot stand all these Toxic Positivity and Pick-me "coaches". They're so vapid, and they're just exploiting and capitalizing on hurt, confused people. Most of them have zero credentials. They aren't licensed therapists, they don't have a psych degree or training, yet they're laughing all the way to the bank while luxuriating in the attention their public profile as a self-appointed expert begets them. So gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:43 PM
9

All of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:19 PM
36

It's creepy and disconcerting. I read a couple posts there (can't remember why), and they're obsessed with "neotenous" appearances. Sorry, I'm an adult woman. I don't want to resemble a baby, thanks. Second, they don't seem to realize that even women who look perfect by conventional beauty standards are treated like shit. Look at Harvey Weinstein's ex wife. She's one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:57 PM
29

Ladies, before you beat yourselves up and pick yourselves apart, ask yourself: if I were a man, would I feel badly about this (perceived flaw)? I'd be willing to bet that 9 times out of 10, the answer would be no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:55 PM
6

That's the ticket!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:52 PM
7

What the actual fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:51 PM
4

What were the responses?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:44 PM
11

I really wish we could point and laugh at his picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:42 PM
15

Absolute psycho. Also, anyone who claims to be "drama free" will BE the drama in your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:40 PM
18

This woman is such a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:37 PM
1

I'm more concerned about his fiance's lack of respect for her friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:31 PM
33

I don't think there's an emotional association that causes them to behave this way. They do it in all kinds of situations and arrangements. Men are just parasites who think we're disposable objects to be used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:40 PM
17

Exactly, because they don't see us as people, not actual fully developed real people like themselves. They see us as a collection of images pieced together from porn and the entertainment industry. This is why I've reduced my engagement with men to the absolute minimum necessary to simply function in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:37 PM
5

Great suggestion! 🌺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:34 PM
19

Me too, because my diary was read and taken by my alcoholic, abusive, BPD mother, so now I have a paranoia about my journal being read or confiscated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:33 PM
20

Lying liars who lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:53 AM
19

This is so fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:53 AM
15

They're all liars just trying to con their way into some genitals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:51 AM
44

God, these men who play the walking wounded routine are cunning reptiles. They play on your sympathy and nurturing quality so you lower your defenses while they set about destroying your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:00 AM
7

Yes. I've ceased to consume most media because I'm tired of androcentric porn culture being foisted upon us from all angles. I don't watch tv and rarely go to movies (pre covid).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:30 AM
2

People are so irresponsible and self absorbed. I don't get the refusal of some to take this seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:55 AM
12

What a cornball. How does anyone lack this much self awareness?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:40 AM
45

I am very skeptical women "enjoy this preference" without being a priori survivors of abuse or assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:36 AM
24

Instead we let them rule over everything, sexually abuse, use, exploit and rape all forms of sentient life. The only reason we're in this position is because men are physically stronger. If we had equal or greater strength we could have subdued these beasts and installed a healthier society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:32 AM
16

What? Do you know him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:06 PM
14

Yes, almost all pop music and pop culture is completely toxic and promotes dysfunction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:05 PM
16

This is exasperating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:02 PM
32

Vomit!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:01 PM
3

They never grow up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:42 PM
1

Oh I'm not saying it is, that's just the commentary I've read from men on the topic. They think they're too rational for it. You know, male ego
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:41 PM
16

They're lying and trying to blame you because you called them out on their intentional deceit. They know they can't interest most women in their gross degeneracy so they false advertise to get you to engage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:37 PM
16

Unfortunately, he'll con some pick me into pitying him and buying a redemption story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:33 PM
9

That's an excellent startup idea. I think OLD is trash but there's a real market to be tapped if someone developed an app that requires ID verification and a background check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:27 PM
11

Don't use OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:25 PM
6

A valid reason to avoid OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:23 PM
16

Peak Dystopia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:19 PM
14

Looks like Tom Green
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:13 PM
7

I agree, and if I were to ever get involved with men again, that's the choice I'd make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:08 PM
1

They think it's anti intellectual and superstitious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:26 PM
30

You can be married and they'll still be wasting your time. Men can fake entire marriages. Happened to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:25 PM
30

No, that's just a cope. Many, many men who have relationships and sexual contact with women are like this and furthermore, some are experts at hiding it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:22 PM
11

I think that's how most of them feel inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:18 PM
9

He's so old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:40 AM
24

That's so coercive and rapey. I'm so sorry he did that to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:27 PM
3

I can deeply sympathize and identify with the internal struggle, disappointment, fear, grief and conflicting emotions you've been expressing in your posts and comments. Just know that you aren't alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:26 PM
3

Based
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:23 PM
12

You're my soul sister. Can we chat privately? We're on the same wavelength. I always dig your comments. I have to unblock messages here. Let me know if you're open to a message and I'll unblock :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:22 PM
17

It's violence. Sex and violence are confluent for men. Crime statistics support this supposition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:17 PM
15

She definitely needs help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:16 PM
13

It's not a myth that all men want sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:15 PM
25

Good, sunlight is the best disinfectant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:14 PM
33

What did you say? You should have set up a day, time, location, got him excited with erotic texts, then ghosted. I'd pay to see something like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:13 PM
17

I swear. It's unbelievable. No dignity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:10 PM
11

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:10 PM
36

Or tacos...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:09 PM
17

Tacky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:09 PM
11

Happy birthday, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:04 PM
7

As someone who was cheated on and as a result has an incurable STD that places me in a very high risk category for cancer, you are doing the RIGHT thing, the moral and ethical thing, by seeking a way to inform her, despite some of the gaslighting comments here. Thank you for being a woman of integrity and compassion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:02 PM
7

Yeah I hope I never meet anyone with your mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:58 PM
4

I'd look for their profiles on Facebook and see if they're in an active relationship. If so, I'd PM her the screenshots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:52 PM
7

You're smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:49 PM
15

Disagree. Their self esteem isn't low at all. They think very highly of themselves and believe everyone should cater to their dicks and their egos. Men definitely don't have low self esteem. This is a myth that keeps women entrenched in feeling sorry for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:48 PM
8

Yes, when I was 17-19 a 57 year old "mentor" was obsessed with me until I cut off contact. He looked me up on Facebook a decade and a half later. Creepy guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:46 PM
7

Lol, this stuff makes me laugh. It's either that or cry. Gross weirdos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:43 PM
45

Untreated mental illness is the real pandemic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:42 PM
21

I put up a fake profile with just a sunset picture and an age, and had the same experience, because men are just looking to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:39 PM
8

Anger management needed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:36 PM
9

Imagine having such an empty life that you waste your time harassing random strangers on the internet. Another hallmark of narcissism is internet trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:35 PM
58

That's right. My dog is actually capable of real love. My dog protects me. My dog doesn't lie, cheat, abuse and betray. It's an insult to dogs to refer to men as dogs. Animals are more sincere and evolved than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:32 PM
78

Because most of them are narcs always looking for supply. I had a boyfriend at 20 who turned out to be a raging, malignant narc. It's 26 years later and he still periodically tries to hit me up from different email accounts or social media profiles. "You've been on my mind". Yeah, right, Dustin. GFY. I keep blocking him. Almost all of them do this because almost all of them have NPD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:28 PM
210

She's so cute, you know she has infinitely more options than him. Good on her. We need to see a lot more of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:25 PM
30

Better you than me, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:23 PM
2

It's true. This is one of a thousand reasons I'm WGTOW. Why would I want someone who will put his dick in anything? That's revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:03 PM
1

Evidently not. I stopped associating with people like that because they just try to pull you down with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:01 PM
3

I concur completely. Please see my response above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:57 PM
7

Just because you didn't see it, doesn't mean it didn't happen. It was a very active sub. The last straw for me was when GC was overwhelmingly making excuses for a woman who stabbed her 4 year old child to death because "her husband was emotionally abusive". I'm sure many of us have endured all kinds of abuse and have avoided stabbing our children to death. Also, don't invalidate my experience. I was on the sub for 2 years. I didn't become disgusted and exasperated without reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:56 PM
42

It's a shame that some women resort to anything to receive head pats from men. Here's your cookie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:28 PM
9

He's a manipulator, he's triangulating you with the ex, he's definitely still involved with her and he probably hasn't even told her about your relationship! What a lowlife. I hope you are done with this clown and don't give him any more chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:38 AM
11

Unfortunately there are fuckboys in their 50s and 60s. Both my fuckboy exes are in their 50s! These morons never grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:20 AM
34

Me too. Would love to meet an amazing woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:11 AM
23

I think they're definitely over the border..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:11 AM
114

Disgusting. Just remember, while we're fantasizing about intimacy, romance, and meaningful connection, this is what they are thinking and saying about us. Why should we give our time, love and bodies to people who hate us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:10 AM
3

Yes indeed, people certainly have some warped definition of "perfect".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:03 AM
19

I hope you broke up with him? They are not just friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:01 AM
20

He should be rejected for his username alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:59 AM
3

100%, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:56 AM
2

I agree with this and posted something similar. Integrity, shared values, compatible interests and lifestyle are far more important than "sparks" if you want a healthy, lasting relationship instead of a fling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:55 AM
4

I can only speak from my experience, but the men I've been most attracted to were the most narcissistic and toxic, ultimately, and multiple therapists as well as a pastor I listen to have said that the best partner for you isn't necessarily the one who drives you crazy with desire or obsessive longing. That's usually a bad sign. I think slow and steady with a very measured buildup of emotion and understanding of the other is best. But only you know what's right for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:52 AM
27

Please tell me this is satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:49 AM
66

Yes, we really need to stop making excuses for women's bad behavior and infantilizing them by pretending they have no agency and are never responsible for their decisions, especially when those decisions harm other women or children. I saw that all the time in the Gender Critical sub and it finally made me so pissed I deleted my account and left Reddit for a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:40 AM
21

I think it's a sure indication that he's pornsick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:18 PM
7

She's probably too old for him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:43 PM
20

That's right. People are saying "he changed". No, that's not it. He was wearing a mask that eventually fell off. My ex husband was living a double life for 2 decades. Men are expert manipulators. They stop pretending when they have you locked in or when they are ready to move on to their next victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:42 PM
3

Yes, of course. Tale as old as time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:37 PM
48

Why are men such degenerates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:35 PM
23

His wife has a right to know he's trying to find a cheating partner and inappropriately messaging women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:33 PM
9

Posting this screams desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:23 PM
15

Ew. Get therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:56 AM
4

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:47 AM
4

Lies. Do you know any women who don't want a loyal, faithful man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:45 AM
17

Unfortunately they do. I've had a couple friends who were constantly going out to hook up with random guys from OLD. Not even dating, just going over for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:23 PM
15

You know it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:20 PM
57

Just keep your pictures and life off social media. The internet is teeming with these resentful trolls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:19 PM
110

I did the exact same thing with a sunset picture and zero text in the profile. Just age and location. It confirmed my belief men will fuck anything and they don't care who you are. They swipe on every profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:54 PM
10

Why would you admit this to anyone? I wish women wouldn't seek praise for humiliating themselves. She's basically his servant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:49 PM
6

Hurray!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:14 PM
20

Wouldn't you love to see them dropped off in the wilderness somewhere that they could demonstrate all their "alpha" skills?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:12 PM
20

He looks like he'd struggle to assemble an IKEA bookshelf, but in his delusional brain, he's some mighty alpha hunting buffalo and inseminating all the tribal wimminz. Remember when men were too busy building things, landscaping the lawn, and figuring out how things were engineered to spend 18 hours a day jerking off to porn and proclaiming their manliness? I do - my grandfather was like that. These men are an embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:12 PM
28

Basically, he's advising women not to tolerate LVM/NVM behavior, and he even states that men who manipulate women and use LVM tactics hate women, they resent women and just want to use them. He is telling women not to follow society's standards and programming of selling her dignity in exchange for any man. He preaches zero tolerance for bad behavior. I think you'd find his philosophy in alignment with much of FDS principles. In another video, he tells women never to "shoot their shot" and ask o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:05 PM
9

They do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:56 PM
4

Men: I am uncomfortable when everything isn't centered around me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:41 PM
5

I've had that thought as well. It gets overwhelming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:39 PM
3

No, men have always been like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:29 PM
11

The obsession is because men who buy prostituted women hate women and enjoy the power differential. It's not that deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:27 PM
6

I sure hope you're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:26 PM
44

Gross. My dog has more emotional depth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:14 PM
40

Our value doesn't hinge upon our looks if we detach our value from what men think of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:12 PM
83

Ok, chinless neckbeard. I'm sure you'd last a day in "a nature setting".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:11 PM
5

Because that's 99% of the Male population anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:16 PM
17

I don't have the time or skill set. I have a chronically ill child, a business, and I'm in school to get a degree in a totally different career. It would also be unethical to adopt the FDS brand, and if it's copyrighted, illegal. I'm not going to steal the intellectual content of the women who produced this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:41 PM
9

I wouldn't waste my time on someone like that. He can use Google, but he won't, because he doesn't care. He'll continue jerking it to porn until he breaks his dick and develops crippling depression, then he'll cry about what a victim he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:26 PM
12

Some women think any man is better than no man. Even men who rape their children. It's sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:19 PM
3

Disgusting. I feel nauseous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:17 PM
40

Stop. Why are you doing that? Stop doing that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:16 PM
13

I have messages blocked. Only approved users get through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:15 PM
8

They're soooooo fragile. That's why they can't stop with the chest pounding, the nasty, crude sex talk, the pissing contests with other men all the time. Because they're actually weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:13 PM
18

At least a YouTube channel? Mods, what do you think? Syncretize your philosophy and get it out to the masses of women in psychological chains? Let us help. Make this bigger. Change the world for women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:09 PM
40

Only a month old, too. He has a newborn and he's out manipulating women while the mom is up all night with feedings and diaper changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:06 PM
12

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:02 PM
24

Spread the word! Go out and plant thought seeds. I've started posting things on my Instagram hoping to make an impression on my friends, many of whom are in relationships with emotional abusers and cheaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:02 PM
27

I thought it was satire, or maybe posted by an ex, but he's obviously lying about his age, so it's probably real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:59 PM
1

Yes this is frankly insulting to women who aren't pretty, who are old, who are disabled. Stop expecting special treatment based on your looks if you want to receive the fundamental respect everyone should be entitled to as a hallmark of civilized society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:58 PM
22

"I can just buy my son's love later lolz what's the problem??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:56 PM
68

"Sauna"....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:55 PM
109

He's not going to the "sauna", he's off screwing other people. Nobody spends 4-8 hours in a sauna. I don't know who started this sub, but it would be a grand service to society if you'd form some kind of organization that provides coaching to women. You could offer services on a sliding scale or form a non-profit. Women need to get educated on how to avoid these situations and extricate themselves from them. This sub can be life changing for women and could end up being revolutionary if it were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:53 PM
121

This is how women oppress other women, minimizing their feelings, coercing them into being desperate for anything resembling a man. It's time to stop associating with people who are trying to pull us down. Even the guy in this discussion has more sense because he knows the dude is a bag of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:46 PM
47

You might enjoy RC Blakes on YouTube. He's a pastor who talks about narcissistic abuse, relationships and advises women how to avoid becoming involved with poor quality men and fake Christians like your husband. He's very sympathetic to women and even though I'm not particularly religious, I listen to him frequently because he has excellent insight into how to avoid abusive people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:36 PM
87

More like 45
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:20 PM
4

It's just a line. An emotional con game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:06 AM
28

Brilliant. Thank you for this illuminating post. The text bombing was how my ex husband hooked me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:04 AM
53

43 and still referring to adult women as "girls". Adventurous girls! Gross. Calling adult human females "girls" is one of the biggest turn-offs to me. Sorry you can't handle grown up words, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:01 AM
12

NARC ALERT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:57 AM
8

I've never even heard of this before. When did all these mundane, everyday activities become dates? Grocery shopping, walks, what's next: washing socks together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:54 AM
5

Your posts are so interesting. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I enjoy seeing them here and on r/wgtow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:52 AM
20

Thank you. Apparently he'd done this through 2 marriages and multiple relationships. You would have never, ever guessed. I never heard him make one misogynistic or sexist remark. It was the biggest shock of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:03 AM
16

They want you to be ready to prove yourself better in bed because in their sick head they associate the sex industry with some kind of sexual cachet, because these guys are extremely NVM. Prostitutes are in a very high risk category for STD infection so I'd really advise against sleeping with men who use prostitutes or date them. I have 2 incurable STDS from one of those guys. If you're dating a lot of men who get involved with sex industry types you might want to re-evaluate the kind of men you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:53 AM
38

Not to mention the countless novels and movies about raping and butchering women. The novel American Psycho contained depictions of rape and torture of women that were so vicious and graphic I can't even repeat them here. Violence and hatred towards women is ENTERTAINMENT but this woman can't write a book about her opinion of men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:26 AM
13

The fact that they're on OLD, for starters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:20 AM
10

Right. Lundy Bancroft should be cloned. He's like .001% of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:19 AM
5

Amen to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:17 AM
1

I agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:15 AM
1

I don't understand why you're being attacked. I thought this sub was in favor of "hard truths" and "leveling up".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:14 AM
11

Those are all symptoms. Either they have PIED, can't get off without porn, or have premature ejaculation. I didn't find out why he had that problem until after we were married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:01 AM
38

I know. "Sensitive" men are just as sleazy and deceitful as any other. My serial cheating ex was sensitive, romantic and very attentive. Doesn't mean shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:59 PM
92

So he spent all his time with his YOUNG girlfriend negging her and trying to break down her confidence. What a waste of oxygen. That's abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:51 PM
35

LMAO are you supposed to be jealous of their prostitute and stripper exes? That's hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:48 PM
53

Yeah women don't use that language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:41 PM
45

I think you're totally right. It's a painful truth most of us don't want to face. And it isn't just us they're unable to love. They don't love their children and abandon, neglect and deadbeat them. They don't love their parents, they don't even love each other. Not the way we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:40 PM
31

This is another side effect of porn addiction. My ex also was a 3 minute wonder. They come really fast because they jerk off quickly while masturbating to porn. It's not like an intimate experience where there's a build up and foreplay so the orgasm isn't immediate.They get accustomed to a quick climax and have no stamina. Men have broken their dicks with their pornsickness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:38 PM
6

Haha!! What's with all the fish? And the men here are sooo rough looking and sun damaged that they often look 10 years older than they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:34 PM
15

I just did a test. I only have a puppet account there. I literally only go on those apps to laugh at the gross men who think they're going to bag a supermodel. Anyway, I set location to Berlin, Germany, and preferences to 35-45 seeking serious relationships. So far almost all of the profiles are looking for hookups, several had sexual comments in the bio, and they aren't particularly great looking. But at least they aren't holding up a fish like everyone does here. Also, prostitution is legal in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:31 PM
11

Me three. The men here are the worst. I've lived in NV, CA, GA, NJ and Florida, and Florida is a cesspool of NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:23 PM
10

Yes, she doesn't want him to be called out for a significant age gap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:26 PM
1

She isn't moralizing. She's pointing out the dissonance between what OP says is her weakness (lust) when her post reveals it is more likely attention and validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:56 PM
3

Seems like she's just pointing out the disconnect between OP stating that she just wanted sex but also being hurt the guy "wasn't interested in her as a person", which sounds a lot more like a self worth issue than a sex drive issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:55 PM
25

They don't care as long as someone else is doing the work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:51 PM
84

Nothing is ever their fault. They are always, always the victim somehow. It's a hallmark of a sociopath. I'm convinced most of them are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:45 PM
62

Why do people act like this on social media? What a trashy, low class way to present herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:43 PM
7

Someone please think of the poor men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:37 PM
90

There are countless "normal" men who view and treat women like this. Normal men who have good jobs, good manners, families, education. Men who don't use drugs and don't even go to the gym. I've known them, dated them and married them. My friends have dated them. They're everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:18 PM
18

That's not true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:47 PM
40

How is using a plethora of women for ongoing sex "treating them well"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:46 PM
180

They hate us. Remember that they see us as sex appliances. You are not a person to them. You are subhuman. Don't think only gym bros are like this. I found hundreds of degrading posts like this my ex husband made on a forum about the prostitutes he was using. The men criticize their looks and bodies and talk about them like trash. Well, he's an educated, wealthy man everyone thinks is an awesome guy, or they did until his double life was exposed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:45 PM
15

How is sex taboo when it's everywhere? That used to be the case but certainly not since the sexual revolution. Look at popular culture (WAP), the normalization of porn, hookup culture, and advertising. With all due respect, your comment doesn't make sense. That's not the milieu and hasn't been for a couple decades now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:44 PM
22

Older men are just as bad. My ex husband is 53 and was a porn addict and sex "addict" who used prostitutes and craigslist randos for years. Cheated on all his wives this way. Older men are worse because they're just as depraved but they also want you to do all the domestic labor and are old school sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:38 PM
4

Firefighters are also infamous for cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:36 PM
16

Exactly. I did an experiment with Tinder to prove this. (I don't actually use the app). I set up a profile with a generic sunset picture and NO information beyond an age (32). I had over 99 likes in no time. Since I didn't pay for the service, who knows how many likes this fake profile had. They literally swipe on everything. It was insane. It was immediately evident that they have zero standards and are looking for anything with a pulse to fuck. It was all kinds of men, too. I set the age range…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:33 PM
12

They're always projecting their flaws onto others, especially women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:29 PM
21

To say the least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:26 PM
69

Can't stop pulling his dong like a demented toddler but she's the one with the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:26 PM
5

Sounds like a copy and paste PUA line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:24 PM
7

I agree wholeheartedly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:20 PM
49

That's true, and you have to ask if it's worth bothering. Why are women investing so much time, effort, money, and resources trying to find what probably amounts to about 2% of the male population? How many women do you know who are in high quality, mutually respectful and loving relationships with a man of true integrity? The stats don't look good. I honestly think it's a waste of time and we should be focusing on ourselves, our lives and our own joy instead of this fool's errand of holding ont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:13 PM
5

Yes he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:48 PM
3

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:23 PM
36

That describes 90% of the male population
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:24 PM
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