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Since you’re operating on the 50/50 mindset, let’s reverse the tables. Let’s say you make way more than he does, would you INVITE YOURSELF to move into his place to save money while offering NOTHING monetary in return? All while consuming FAR MORE than him and expecting him to foot it, without any discussion? This is a grift. Don’t fall for it. He wants a sugar momma, you want equality, but we want EQUITY for you. He must be charming and persuasive to have gotten this far, but this one is a loss…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:12 PM
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Liberal feminism is a type of modern feminism, not a slander of liberal women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:12 PM
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Liberal feminism is a kind of feminism, not a slander of left wing women. It’s the one made palatable to men you described. So palatable we are selling consumption of our bodies and told we’re freer for it. Liberal feminism is the “sex posi” brand that does not allow critique of porn or sexwork or you get branded a SW-RF. Brush up on the difference between that, and 2nd wave or radical (root) feminism, which is where the overwhelming majority of strides have been made for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:09 PM
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I’m in tears 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:45 PM
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This bag of dicks can’t even ask her, “Is there anything you’d like for your birthday?” Just deflect and forget… okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:48 PM
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Completely agree. “Karen” is the magical key word that allows “woke” men to be disgustingly misogynistic with impunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:39 PM
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Had an ex like this. Untreated/unmanaged IBS and a six pack of beer a day was the culprit. In the end, I hid my toilet paper in another room. Don’t miss those days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:31 PM
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Another example of how sex work will never be free of exploration because that’s literally the foundation it’s built on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:00 PM
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In other trades, your worth doesn’t decrease as you gain years of experience. In other trades, pregnancy is not a possible outcome. In other trades, you have personal protection, contracts, workmans comp. In other trades, getting raped isn’t seen as “theft of service.” In other trades, they don’t get coerced into getting raped/beaten/etc. If sex work is work, child labor is labor, and slavery means you work for room and board. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:29 AM
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“I got enough of an ego boost out of this that I want to go chase down my ex/coworker/friend and when that doesn’t work out, I’d like you to still be on the back burner waiting for me. Sound good, sweetheart?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:55 AM
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sounds like he doesn’t know how renting ANYWHERE works Shockingly, a lot of them don’t! That mom to wife pipeline is real 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:57 AM
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I get that but the stupid one makes me sad! There’s not a positive spin on stupid the way there is with bitchy vs. assertive. I’ve actually been correcting my inner voice everytime I call myself stupid because we create our own reality, you know? I’d like to be more of a bitch. But you don’t want to manifest stupidity.
/r/askFDS11/07/21 07:18 AM
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As a people pleaser myself, I have been trying to get in touch with my bitch side. So because I am afraid deep down of being called a bitch, I call my self one first. So I will say “sorry I’m gonna be a bitch for a second, XYZ.” In reality, I am only acting like any normal, straight, white dude would, but because it is a jump for me, it’s easier to frame it that way. What I did not expect, was how many people would say, “oh my God no that’s not bitchy at all!” So that has been helping me heal my…
/r/askFDS11/07/21 01:14 AM
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It completely illustrates our socialization too. I speak on this a lot but how fascinating in this context. Men are taught to externalize so if they are mentally fucked up, it’s OBVIOUSLY not their fault, it’s circumstance. Women are taught to internalize so if we get mentally fucked up, it’s OBVIOUSLY our fault, our wiring being faulty, or our lack of resilience. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:52 PM
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Questioning your personal decisions that affect your appearance, questioning your career and priorities, questioning why you have to respond to family/friend/client, making you feel like your career is less important than theirs, negging of any kind really, start stupid arguments to try to establish dominance, talk from a place of a VERY overinflated ego. They will project their own insecurity on to you and treat you like you are “life-ing wrong.” Basically any time in a convo with men they say …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:22 PM
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And concerned with not using methods that would severely traumatize the one finding them, the way men do (overdosing on pills vs shooting yourself in the head)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:26 PM
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I honestly get less harassment when I dress up because I look like I could castrate them versus maybe I could work at hot topic slumming it. Do an experiment in your local area 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/askFDS09/06/21 06:42 AM
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Sour grapes
/r/askFDS01/06/21 10:40 PM
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Or start picking for me 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:49 AM
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Life coach 💁🏻‍♀️✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:48 PM
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Get some HIGH QUALITY tattoos to cover it. Covering that kind of pain which something truly unique and beautiful will negate the focus and change where the attention goes.
/r/askFDS25/05/21 06:13 PM
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I am shorter than you so grain of salt but the only time I effortlessly maintain is when I do OMAD, so a feeding window isn’t helpful for losing weight. And I would love to move more but between time and injuries, I do what I can. Not everything works for everyone in the fitness world. Especially for the shorter women. We get the shortest of the sticks, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:37 PM
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Yessss!!! Us small ladies have to eat the same as a 6 year old to lose weight slowly and healthily. THAT is some fcking willpower 💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:12 AM
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Logic about how prostitutes create this situation and ruin it for the rest of us You completely misunderstand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:15 PM
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No one is here hating on prostitutes, just prostitution, and the reasons men view women as objects to be consumed rather than a human being. And this sub is about dating yes, but also recognizing men’s entitlement to women’s bodies and objectification of women. Because it all plays into why men feel we deserve “less”, basically the shit end of the stick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:12 PM
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not the girls who’s someone’s first choice The flip side of that is not being able to live up to whatever fantasy they created out of you in their head, and then you get ghosted by someone who was literally JUST worshipping you. Same outcome: you’re left thinking “wtf is wrong with me?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:31 PM
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Volcel? Vulcel?! That sounds like an evolved form of Vulpix, which I enjoy 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:10 PM
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Oh I just got banned from there, same reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:35 AM
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I died at Sea Biscuit lol! I feel that. I’m newly out there and I’m about to turn 30 with all of these literal children swiping on me. If you don’t remember 9/11 keep it moving. Also a femme here. Are you also dealing with the fact a lot of masculine leaning women haven’t taken care of themselves and “look” age inappropriate? Lol it’s a struggle out there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:28 PM
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Boy can’t wash his dick in the sink at work if it’s that serious?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:27 PM
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You would probably not be surprised to hear the answer is ‘no’. 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:24 PM
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It might be the stress added to the body that causes cycle disruptions. Mine also came a week early after the first dose. I’m currently recovering from the second dose and will have to wait for more evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:44 PM
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Also crazy ex girlfriend stories are “funny.” Crazy ex boyfriend stories are perceived as “being dramatic/hyperbolic, playing the victim, complaining, etc.” They are fundamentally not perceived the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:30 PM
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How rarely are men ever the victims of women, compared to how often women are the victims of men. Because patriarchy is worldwide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:48 PM
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That’s just good reheating etiquette
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:09 PM
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Beautiful!! Be careful if you have cats! Lilies are toxic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:12 PM
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Oh I had this happen too in my early twenties. It was clear people assumed I was an escort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:09 PM
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I recently saw a post about it on the lesbian version of this sub, and the examples were over a year old so I was confused. Seemed sus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:04 AM
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They have back hair though 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:20 PM
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This is fascinating to me from the lesbian perspective because I definitely have analyzed this recently too. On average, I’m way more skeptical and distrustful of men’s opinions. Masculine women I trust the most, feminine women the least (despite being feminine myself) so I’m working on that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:17 PM
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Edit: just remembered laws in Canada say that any item used to hurt another person is illegal and you can be charged so this won’t work. How dare women have anything to make up for the gap in strength 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:41 AM
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It’s always projection with these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:17 PM
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But cards on the table: How many of us actually enjoy sex, especially as frequently as men want to have it? Not with men. With women though.... 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:30 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:11 PM
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Like the auto delete bot IRL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:08 PM
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Calling him a cocksucker as an insult is a little homophobic, just saying 🥴
/r/askFDS09/03/21 10:02 AM
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I actually have a male therapist for the first time and I believe it or not, I do enjoy him because it is very helpful for breaking my socialization and people pleasing tendencies. (But that’s after over a decade of self introspective therapy with women.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:29 AM
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After two years of bullying I finally lost it and left the entire group but I wonder how they all like her despite her openly bullying me. They don’t, they just don’t want to be her next focal point for abuse. Life is easier as an enabler than as the black sheep, from their perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:37 PM
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Thank you, that’s so sweet of you 💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:06 AM
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Ask yourself why it’s a “doll” and not just a flesh light. Would you want a dildo attached to a man doll? I personally believe it just further serves to solidify their perception of women as objects for consumption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:24 AM
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If it was truly empowering, men would be against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:14 AM
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It’s not about if it bothers you, it’s about the fact there is an inherent power and experience imbalance.
/r/askFDS14/02/21 06:35 AM
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We as women feel the need to over explain and justify our every action and emotion. To want intimacy after sex is completely normal and does not need to be justified to these men. Besides, any man that doesn’t automatically do that is not a good match for you. Also, a slap in the face in the middle of sex that you didn’t consent to is abusive. (Even with consent it still is but that’s a larger convo.) You should’ve left right then and there. As someone that has been in therapy half my life, plea…
/r/askFDS11/02/21 06:16 PM
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Absolutely! Lesbian here too. I think it’s absolutely necessary regardless of sexual orientation to learn how to recognize toxicity, even if small things must be tweaked. I definitely have seen a fair amount of toxic masculinity in my previous partners and wife (all MoC women) as well. I’m still fully developing my theory on why male socialization will often soak in so heavily in certain areas but it’s been eye opening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:19 AM
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Very true. But I feel like that’s “fun” crazy, not like crazy homeless woman energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:01 AM
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They only women most men are truly afraid of is crazy women, because they are the only ones who are as unpredictable and aggressive as they are. Use it to your advantage ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:40 PM
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I think what you’re picking up on is something more than just rejection. When something goes wrong in a man’s life, it must be an outside source, because he’s “perfect”, so their emotion goes outward (anger, aggression), as they feel this is something happening TO them. Conversely, women are socialized to believe of something goes wrong, it’s because we are “imperfect”, and it stems from within. So our emotion goes inward (sadness, shame), as we feel this is something ABOUT us causing the issue.
/r/askFDS21/01/21 06:26 PM
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Why bother when you’ve seen your future? This is what lies in the crystal ball if you stay with him.
/r/askFDS06/01/21 02:51 AM
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Omg, as a lesbian, I need to know what he said! What consequences must I face 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:21 PM
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And he will be APPAULED because in his mind it’s “a totally different situation.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:15 PM
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Yesssss. Also boy can’t even match his toupee to his hair color, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:32 AM
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https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJGQfAUU/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:31 PM
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Jesus fuck. In the previous video he is saying that 100% of men expect sex if you go to their apartment and you HAVE to have sex with them. He is saying “yes all men.” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:28 AM
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Provider can’t provide enough silverware (or plastic ware) for guests, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:36 AM
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My psychological analysis and rant: Because what do they have to be afraid of? They hold the societal upper hand. And to them, they are the main character in a world full of NPCs, and the main character always gets to speak their mind. No one silences the main character without revenge being served. And why would they care what a NPC thinks or cares about? So what if they inflict pain on the NPC, it’s not like they are an actual person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:05 PM
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“What do you mean I’m not a catch? I usually say thank you after she massages me!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:23 PM
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Being intentionally sexual is only okay for men 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:41 PM
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We need a bot that does this, this is great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:43 AM
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I am awful with dates and numbers but when my wife and I started dating, I snuck a look at her ID and wrote it down till I could remember it. When I found out her sizes for presents, I wrote that shit down in my notes for the future. No excuses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:50 PM
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Pets are strong competition! That’s why everyone I’ve dated has been jealous of the love I give my cat. Like, legit fights have occurred. They all want that unconditional love without giving any of the emotional support or trust building necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:36 PM
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It’s almost as if... they’re threatened. Which means we’re doing something right. Truly empowering things for women will be hated most by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:59 AM
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Not catering to their dicks is discrimination and victimization, apparently 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:35 PM
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Under love/relationships: How to recognize abuse, what constitutes abuse, common forms of manipulation like negging, the importance of your own life and hobbies Under “men’s jobs”: How to anchor something in the wall, Under safety: camera door bell, flood lights, wooden rod in sliding glass door, men’s shoes by the door, wasp spray for self defense I’m sure I’ll come back and add more lol
/r/askFDS12/12/20 06:35 PM
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If he wanted to, he would. My wife and I are geographically apart currently, and I was talking to her about continuing the cooking she had been doing instead of eating trash, and she literally said this about herself. I was shook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:32 AM
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And our warped sense of humor! 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:30 AM
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Oh my gosh no! I’m making fun of the hashtag itself and what society thinks our life consists of. I’m the same way and do the same thing. That was one of my signs that my childhood was not normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:04 PM
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Telling a joke only to find out it’s horrifying to others - #justgirlythings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:07 PM
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Where is this magical place and should I book us a party bus?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:05 PM
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Same 😔 The more I progressed, the less they cheered me on. Then I told them I made six figures and their reaction made me abruptly aware my success was not in their interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:38 AM
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Just like him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:47 AM
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Oh it is very much still ongoing. One of my friends just tested positive. I think most people just jump to HIV because it is life threatening and can’t be gotten rid of. And the point was about giving everything to a man only for him to give you a life threatening STD he contracted while cheating. Tiny side rant, it’s hep C that’s the scariest one in my opinion. Wayyyy easier to contract.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:13 AM
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Yes! And don’t let him get split custody either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:01 AM
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Me too please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:11 PM
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This only further confirms my theory that a huge portion of men are just looking for their next mommy. Is he going to throw a tantrum if it doesn’t go up on the fridge?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:28 PM
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I've straight up told dudes, " I'm staying single until someone dates me better than I date myself". I give myself oysters and Prosecco, what are you going to do to impress me? Hmmmm? DAMNNN!!! 🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:24 AM
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Yes to all of this. This is the core of why women want to be left alone, and why all men want to do is overstep that boundary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:52 AM
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A sip of wine per red flag will have you wasted half way through the first movie lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:34 AM
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I think deep down they know they are inept compared to women. If all women disappeared from the earth, society would break down. If all men disappeared, women would prosper and our society would flourish. Most of them jump from mama to girlfriend to mama to girlfriend to wife, always having a woman around to wipe their ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:03 AM
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Yesss!!! Nothing warms my heart like these posts 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:28 AM
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I genuinely wonder if men are not only socialized with less empathy, but are innately less empathetic. Like, is that the reverse of us being more “maternal” (read:empathetic)? I’m starting to view the majority as overgrown, selfish children and I have yet to be disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 10:19 PM
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He complimented me on my looks and said I have an “old soul” and even joked I must be the oldest sibling to be so level headed (I am the baby in the family lol). It’s funny he said he’d never guess I am 35 Oh look, a parade 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/askFDS22/11/20 06:18 PM
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Also like, was she supposed to not tell him for hours so she could run out to buy a card or was she just supposed to have this card on hand? In either of those situations, he’d still be raging 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:42 AM
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Ask any tattoo artist. Women take pain far better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:05 PM
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Fixed it lol 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:45 AM
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Lol story time! So as a lesbian, I went through an experimental period where I tried to date men in my early twenties. Not a single one of them would agree to a threesome. They knew it would not end well for them. The reason sexist men want threesomes with their bisexual partners is because they don’t view women as competition or a threat. My ex’s were smart enough to know better 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:20 AM
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Even better, I learned in a Reddit post an eternity ago that sometimes when they sit on the toilet, their dick touches the inside of the rim. And then expect women to suck it. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:58 AM
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I always used to wonder why it felt so wrong when criticized for “keeping a list.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:53 AM
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Absolutely. There is already rampant abuse of women and people don’t give a shit. So why compare animal abuse to abuse of women? It’s like trying to tell a Trump supporter that you can’t treat your dog like police treat black men. It doesn’t make sense, your target audience doesn’t give a fuck, and if anything it undermines the abuse against our fellow humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:08 AM
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Love this movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:10 PM
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Of all the weird devices and implants we’ve invented, wtf hasn’t this been one of them. I know of the spiky condom thing but like permanent. I’d feel far better about traveling alone lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:08 PM
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Yep. Didn’t get further than that and I don’t need to to know it’s to the chopping block with him!
/r/askFDS15/11/20 06:44 PM
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This made me think how it would make a ton more sense if only women were allowed to own a gun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 10:32 PM
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The thought of exactly this is what has been getting me through the day lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:17 AM
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Lesbian here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:32 AM
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Financial rape!! 🙄HEAVY /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:32 AM
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🔬🔬🔬🔬🔬🔬🔭🔭🔭🔭🔭🛸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:48 AM
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I can’t even imagine asking someone to go through an enormous amount of effort and emotional labor to play out a miserable porn fantasy, especially not long term. They really don’t think we’re humans. Just rewritable hard drives. “Don’t break character, if there even is a character.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:54 AM
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This gave me hope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:34 AM
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Omg yes! For me it burned horribly. Just another way my body was telling me I’m gay 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:47 AM
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He almost killed her because he does not have sympathy/empathy towards her. He almost killed her because he does not respect her. He almost killed her and wants to brush it under the rug as quickly as possible. Never let their selfish, disrespectful actions slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:02 AM
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“I’m totally the victim here guys. It’s not my fault I missed every red flag and possible opportunity to display basic empathy towards my wife. Yeah she almost died but the only real issue is that I’m in the dog house. She might not sleep with me for a week, fellas! I might die! Do I sleep with her neighbor till she recovers and forgives me? Need advice!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:54 AM
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The irony gets better, he’s over in another sub calling us femcels 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:33 AM
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Forever relevant ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:06 AM
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Ooh same didn’t make that connection in mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:30 AM
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Oh this gives me hope. Like, I look good thicc but I definitely am envious of that “lean and hot” stage that I missed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:02 PM
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Well damn... that’s too accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:07 AM
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LVM limbo games: How low can you go? He lowers the bar, she meets it, lowers it again, she meets it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:45 AM
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I’ll be in the back room helping perform abortions that won’t end in coat-hanger-assisted death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:19 AM
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Ah! So there’s different kinds of feminism. Here’s a quick breakdown of the top 2 that get talked about here. Liberal feminism = pro sex work, pro male centered, pro “whatever you want is a feminist choice,” female is a feeling, coddles men. Radical feminism = anti selling women’s bodies, female centered, pro critical thought, female is biology, doesn’t coddle men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:19 PM
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One step closer to my parthenogenesis utopia 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:21 PM
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So tell me how tf feminism ruined society if only a few generations ago women finally were allowed to participate in society? It started diluting their “perfect” patriarchy, that’s how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:03 PM
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You guys are seriously about to make me get a tiktok just for all these wholesome messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:08 PM
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I could not be more here for this 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:11 AM
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When I did try dating men (gay), I summed it up sex with them like fast food. It seems like a good idea at the time, but then afterwards you’re left feeling empty and sick to your stomach and filled with regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:07 PM
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Depending on who I’m talking to, I might disclose I’m a radical feminist, or I’ll just say I’m an old school feminist, and say that from where I’m sitting, if it was empowering men would be against it. Or I’ll say that it’s where patriarchy and capitalism intersect, because it can’t get more succinct than that.
/r/askFDS22/10/20 11:32 PM
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Thank you! My recent life strategy has been to be a mirror so that turning the tables thing is perfect! This is the kind of thing that emboldens and promotes real conversation among women. Aww I hope so. That means a lot, thank you. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 11:05 PM
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Procreate on iPad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:57 PM
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My apologies for your shirt! Lol thank you 😜🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:56 PM
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Ooh ooh can I have “Sapphic strategist?” 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 08:45 PM
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Edit: Was thinking about “Good Guy” and was able to puzzle out what kind of boy the first box is. 😂 lmao. You ma’am have an eye for detail 👈😎👈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 08:43 PM
2

I appreciate that compliment! I’m not used to coloring things in procreate 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:51 PM
3

It was a rainy day and it seemed more fun than cleaning 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:26 PM
2

I try, I try 😜🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:22 PM
3

😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:21 PM
7

I wanted to represent that but I wasn’t quite sure how since I’m not WOC. Thanks for linking the original!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:21 PM
2

🙏🏼💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:16 PM
3

Thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:16 PM
3

Thank you! 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:15 PM
16

It’s fascinating how women have been socialized to expect criticism while men are shocked to receive any critique at all 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:15 PM
8

Thank you, that’s why I couldn’t resist! I think men feel like they have a monopoly on satire but uh, two can play that game 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:12 PM
6

Thank you for enjoying it!! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:08 PM
6

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:07 PM
10

Lol I couldn’t resist 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:07 PM
39

Aww thank you so much! My art tends to be more realistic so this was a 180 for me lol 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:06 PM
29

Hahaha thank you for the encouragement 😜🥰💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:01 PM
58

I’m glad that was appreciated 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:00 PM
5

No need to credit! Share away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:59 PM
7

Oh absolutely! No credit needed! I put a pseudonym signature on it. I am an artist by profession but this is... very different to what I normally do 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:58 PM
4

Shit I knew I missed something 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:55 PM
42

Calling a woman a “purchase” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:40 PM
76

Also not WOC but from what I’ve read and been told it has to do with the old trope of men that feel powerless punching down. And who do black men feel is “below” them? Black women, because they are women. I’m sure someone who has experience in this will answer it better for you though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:32 PM
9

As a lesbian, I was very confused reading this before I clicked on what you responded to 😂😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:16 AM
56

Where I will bury you 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:40 AM
67

Homeless often have a gym membership to shower
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:39 AM
14

Even pre-FDS, I felt like that show was ruined the second they brought on dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:37 PM
2

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:08 AM
37

Lol one time I moved 4.5k miles for someone I was dating (who I was friends with in high school which made it feel safe) who said they wanted to marry me, only to be broken up with not even three months later. Don’t do it ladies! Luckily I make better money here, so whatever. 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:58 AM
52

Take him off the pedestal. Sit down, take the rose colored glasses off, and write out anything and everything he ever did that annoyed you or pissed you off. Consult the list anytime you start idolizing him. In fact, try not to think of him at all. Wipe him from your thoughts. If he pops up, distract yourself, “oh what did I need to pick up from the store?” As the years go on, it can be easy to forget the bad and only remember the good. Everyone is guilty of it. I promise you the longing will go…
/r/askFDS19/10/20 12:19 AM
5

My hot take is: The average man has never been truly scared. So they have never been truly brave. 🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:10 PM
32

They will be soon too 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:26 PM
17

He participated in sex slavery. That doesn’t make him “upfront” with his sexual desires, it’s him adding trauma and abuse to the poor woman (who likely was forced into prostitution as a child) that he’s sexually abusing for funsies. While liberal feminism may tell you “empowered” young, white girls on cam sites loveeee being a sex worker, the truth is that the privileged white washing of the sex industry only hides it’s true face of sexual slavery. I know we were sold the line it was empowering,…
/r/askFDS16/10/20 07:09 PM
9

You just reminded me of a time a dude catcalled me while I was crying. And he was like six feet away, it’s not like he didn’t see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:21 PM
42

Damn she straight adopted another child. How long till she’s paying his rent too? Poor woman can’t see she’s doing allllll the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:29 AM
87

Translation “Don’t lose a loyal man who isn’t actually loyal.” Further translation “You don’t deserve loyalty.” Core message “I will abuse, gaslight, and disrespect you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:15 PM
5

Ouch at that truth bomb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:29 PM
14

I’m a six figure artist but fully endorse #11. Even the men that make decent money manage to live paycheck to paycheck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:51 AM
12

Lesbian like that right here. I swear most dudes don’t like p***y.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:42 AM
8

Absolutely!! Lol think of what Reddit’s primary demographic is (couch creature men)... They know they don’t meet the standards here so they hate us. They literally call this a hate group in the main dating sub because we dare to call out their shitty behavior 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:55 AM
6

So so so glad you’re here 🙏🏼💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:41 AM
7

have never shamed a woman for her hobbies. This whole thread was devaluing this woman’s art form and career, because it creates food waste, and someone else said it’s a waste of talent and money. I’m not trying to shame anyone, I’m trying to do the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:19 AM
12

Do you comment on male culinary artists being wasteful as well? If so, carry on. If not, reflect. Because it only ever gets commented on when done by women. That’s the point I’m making. We as humans are wasteful a million different ways, but women get shit on more for it, especially when it’s “frivolous” like with art. Tbh it’s a sore spot for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:48 AM
18

I have no idea on the demographics of cake decorators, lol. My career is in the arts and it’s just been something I’ve noticed time and time again in every art form. “Super creative and unique!” if a man does it, “Pointless and wasteful!” when women do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:34 PM
8

I just said this last night!! Not only would you find out who is secretly a shit bag, but we could make recs! Like “omg you need to meet my friend Andrew! He has five stars! Truly a wonderful dude.” 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:14 PM
39

Hear me out, people only talk about “waste” with art when it comes to women. I follow a ton of painters and just the other day on Instagram a ton of people were criticizing a female painter for “wasting paint” because she paints thick, and “being wasteful by ruining her clothes” because she wiped her hand on her dress. I have NEVER seen a post like that on any of the male painter’s posts. This is internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:07 PM
15

Especially not if they want the popular “thick” body type. I’d be genuinely shocked if Kim Kardashian didn’t hover around 150.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:31 AM
42

Especially when half of them can’t cook a grilled cheese, let alone a full meal, to save their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:53 AM
32

Lol 150?! They do not understand women’s weights at all! For anyone 5’6” and over, that’s in the healthy BMI range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:13 AM
144

He views her as a used object, which means she is now sub human. He will never treat her like a fully autonomous human ever again. Girl please don’t marry this dickbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:22 AM
16

Can he not check the damn tag on what she is currently wearing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:47 AM
10

This man brings so much joy and hope for men-kind to my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:52 PM
30

I’m very curvy (small waist, huge butt and thighs) but I had no boobs. Literally just the pointy nipples that ten year old children have. After battling for years about the social stigma, I finally got my boobs done. Small B’s nothing serious. But it has seriously changed my quality of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:30 AM
74

Their wedding day is more about you than them. Take solace in that. Also, I know this is hard to have this perspective now, but they are both obviously pieces of shit so be happy that they removed him from your life before he could do more damage (emotionally, financially, whatever) to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:18 PM
18

They want to get past your boundaries one way or another
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:01 PM
6

Where do these men find time to be bored? Even during shut down I have a million things I need to do or want to do. Is that what a life without doing house chores is like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:28 AM
28

She literally rips out her hair from stress while denying her own oppression. Sweetie... c’mon...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:29 PM
5

Vomit. Except in extremely rare circumstances, nothing good comes from being friends with an ex. At least in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:52 PM
18

You can post there, you just need to tell them you’re the man and he’s the woman. Then you’ll get legit replies. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:35 PM
10

God being a man is the biggest damn case of womb envy in the history of our species. Everyone knows women are the ones that bring life into the world, and men are typically the ones to destroy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:13 PM
125

One of the comments: "If a woman is really into you it doesn’t matter what the date is." If a man is really into you, switching from coffee to dinner is a blessing because he gets to spend more time with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:43 AM
21

Omg, spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:25 AM
24

Right?! What a fucking joke that “her” easiest orgasms are through anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:30 PM
27

Omg yes, same. I was having a full blown panic attack like three feet away but video games were more important. I remember being terrified I was going to die and it wouldn’t even be noticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:20 PM
1

Absolutely 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:04 PM
28

I bought a gorgeous crown with the full intention to literally put it on my head and treat myself as a Queen any time I need a physical reminder. Genius. Hello Etsy here I come
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:32 AM
2

Right back at you on the handle! Aw that’s so sweet of you to say. I’m a stickler for color palettes too so that is very much appreciated! 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:27 AM
7

Here’s to hoping I can make it reality! 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:05 PM
8

Yesss that’s what I need!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:04 PM
3

Thank you sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:03 PM
2

💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:03 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:02 PM
3

Those are the goals! Lol I’m so glad you like it 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:02 PM
6

Totally underrated in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:00 PM
2

Thank you! I love learning the old remedies. It’s also a nice back up for healthcare if/when society collapses here in the US 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:59 PM
16

Oh I need that healing energy 😅 lol thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:57 PM
15

Oh for sure! Thank you! I’d love my own little homemade apothecary from plants I grew. I’m currently drying out some lavender flowers from my garden 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:56 PM
2

Can I join?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:05 PM
35

“If it was empowering, men would be against it.” That phrase is what woke me up to the sex industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:03 PM
37

I recently got mass downvoted over in late bloomer lesbians for asking why the fuck this woman wanted to go to a prostitute for her first encounter with a woman. Specifically I asked how you could enjoy sex with someone that would not be having sex with you if they didn’t have bills. It’s insane how much it has soaked into our society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:25 PM
22

I’d rather believe a liar than a rapist any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:32 PM
46

Depends on what you’re looking for in a new relationship. Are you just wanting a woman to replace the role of your wife and clean/cook/be domestic or are you actually looking for someone to love and care for? Ask yourself if you are looking to receive or give. If you answer both, you might be looking for a new codependent partner. High value relationships have both sides being givers. Also it’s not that men are hated more, it’s that too many men these days are pornsick. Not to mention as liberal…
/r/askFDS14/09/20 01:05 AM
107

God I used to work with a dude that was 450 and once his tiny (85-100lb) gf told me how he said she has a triangle butt and needed breast implants. I nearly shit a brick right there. All that coming from a man that was out of breath eating his 3k cal lunch from McDonald’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:54 PM
5

Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:48 AM
14

Maybe a giant dildo still suctioned to the shower wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:58 PM
17

Be careful with those boundary issues and entitlement issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:16 PM
7

What do you meeeaaannnn I can’t intimidate a woman into submitting to me dating me?!? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:14 PM
1

Agreed. At one point in my history I bought into the “we’re all the same with different genitals” rhetoric (lies) and saw how insanely different men actually think, and how insanely different straight relationships are. I’m forever telling straight women not to put up with the things they do, so I feel at home. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:13 PM
7

Wasp spray is a good alternative. Sprays quite the distance too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:41 AM
-1

Discussing the advantages of a past mating strategy =/=doing it in modern day and putting it in the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:40 PM
8

As another lurker lesbian here, I love this interaction. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:38 PM
9

I think the difference is that they want to return to animalistic ways and FDS does not, given no one here is advocating for harem style dating. It’s valuable to point out the societal changes since our animalistic roots because from our perspective, it gets shown how we’ve been manipulated, handed out to LVM, and had our choice taken away for centuries. From the *cel side, they are basically complaining about humans having developed a frontal lobe, given they want to act on their base primal in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:25 PM
33

Older men will never see you as an equal, especially since you’re still in your 20’s. Notice how he is already treating you like a disobedient child. They only date that much younger for control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:31 AM
7

Lol why does that sound like more coherent Trump 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:38 PM
7

Or any military base ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:48 PM
25

Pick your antidepressant ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:06 AM
3

No, predators do this. Predators who happen to be male regardless of their age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:16 PM
5

Omg 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:48 AM
16

They think women are as competitive and egotistical as they are 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:45 AM
7

“Not a legitimate argument” is code for “I will never ever respect your opinions or boundaries.”!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:27 AM
18

I’m trying to think of an organized religion that isn’t entrenched in misogyny...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:31 PM
9

I feel like I can hear his fist going through the drywall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:21 AM
26

The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb. Crazy how society warped that quote to mean the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:07 AM
1

Lol at him seeing my nice flamingo boxer briefs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:49 AM
63

1/3 of men will admit to being rapists if you don’t use the word “rape.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:26 AM
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