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PICKME CULTUREstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:19 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!stankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:40 PM
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STRATEGYstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:36 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 07:26 AM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:27 PM
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DISCUSSIONstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:41 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:27 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:46 AM
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LEVEL UPstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 11:41 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:53 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:56 PM
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FDS MEMESstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:12 AM
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FDS SUCCESS!stankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:55 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:33 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:08 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:47 PM
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NAH, SISstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:05 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGstankyhose/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:55 AM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
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You've come so far ! You should be super proud of yourself, I wish you all the best with your journey ahead, it'll be hard but you've got this ! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 10:13 AM
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You’ve got this! We’re here for you. Goodluck In your next steps and path to freedom x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 06:07 PM
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First red flag i noticed is that she met him when she was going through a traumatic time and he was her shoulder to cry on! This is such a good case study, I’m so sad she went through that but there’s so many red flags in just her description of how they met, I wonder how many more there were that she didn’t see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:23 AM
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No idea why he thinks this is a flex. Note how he describes himself at the beginning ? He’s just a weirdo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:43 PM
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Yeah if anything they’re going to be annoyed and disgruntled because they can smell his real intentions and fucked up energy a mile off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:42 PM
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It’s not an open wound. That is a very misguided take to have on the menstrual cycle. The period os made up of endometrium, blood and mucus that comes from the cervix and vagina. It is discharged through the vagina opening, the vagina is not a wound it’s the… vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 11:21 AM
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Open wounds ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:04 PM
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Second this about keeping secrets with kids! That is terrible parenting and I’m glad they told OP about it. Such shady behaviour 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:46 PM
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Ew yeah I see that as a red flag now and a sign of immaturity if someone can listen to the same thing all day everyday. That’s so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:59 PM
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Yes me and my current boyfriend listen to a playlist called Sunday Mornings when he comes to stay (LDR). So many different genres of music and they can only listen to one, to me that’s a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:57 PM
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I’m dating a builder at the moment and he’s always fixing things around my shared house, trying to make my living situation better. I work in quite a hands on job so it’s important to me that someone is handier than I am because when it comes to owning a home those skills are so important! I once dated a guy who didn’t know how to use a drill and it was a complete turn off (that and his complete lack of cooking skills and hygiene!). My current boyfriend is the most generous, despite his income, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:16 AM
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First of all well done for your Vice President position, very proud of you. Secondly I’m sorry this happened but super glad you have a strong woman supporting you! I’m glad you recognised his hypocrisy. He has probably treated other women this way. If you are wary of him, keep your wits about you when around him and document anything else questionable he might say to you. Good luck with your role and don’t let the scrotes get you down !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:05 AM
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I’m so annoyed that we’ve been tricked and conned by the patriarchy into thinking that women have to attract men. Everywhere else in the animal kingdom the men have to attract, especially birds, some of them have to make pretty nests and do a cute dance to even get female birds to look their way. Women by default are beautiful, men are lacklustre in the majority and should be putting the effort in to becoming more attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 10:11 AM
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I’m so sorry you went through that! Men like him are the reason the cycle of abuse continues. What a piece of shit. Sending big hugs, I’m glad he’s your ex and your new partner is treating you how you deserve. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 10:06 AM
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That’s such a classic trip up men love to pull, “oooh you like Star Wars name five facts about Darth Nihilus” and then if you don’t get it right or don’t want to entertain he scoffs and uses it to put you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:57 AM
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Ugh this rings so true! The amount of men who love music and just dominate the playlist to your life. My ex would play Drum and Bass in the morning, not a vibe! Sometimes I just like silence ?! Not every moment has to be filled with music.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:54 AM
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Thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:11 PM
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Yes exactly! Felt very loved. Thank you for your lovely comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:11 PM
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That is such a bizarre way to gift someone! Probably hoping you end up just saying don’t bother and then they don’t have to give a gift and it looks like your choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:24 PM
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Most of the women I know that have gone sugar free has been for chronic illness reasons and not just a diet fad reason, they can have a little bit of sugar but a lot increases the risk of a flare up. He’s a waste of space anyway but thought I’d add that he also doesn’t seem to give a fuck about her health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:03 AM
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Pickmes will defend “hIs NeEdS” to the death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:23 AM
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This is disgusting, why is this so normalised? My dad is big on conspiracies and his latest rabbit hole has been the pedophile agenda and for once I’m like yep, I definitely believe him. Children should not be watching porn! Yes 16 is puberty and is when they start to be more intrigued with sex and relationships but it should be a slow process through interacting with people their own age and exploring their own sexuality and not being brainwashed by porn. Makes me so sad. By failing our boys we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:21 AM
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Someone made a post the other day about dating as PoC and the comments are a good source for picking up on signs that someone is just fetishising you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:05 AM
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Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:27 AM
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Interesting, this is a really good point I’ll bring it up to her ! Thank you for the feedback
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:49 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s a “sexy” photo she’s just wearing red lipstick lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:58 AM
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7 months after she posted that he’s written this and complaining about it? Hope he talks to her about it and realises that this sun isn’t actually what all the Coomers cry about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:19 AM
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Oh god I saw the red pill one too, makes me sick that they think it’s in anyway similar…? Just really solidifies that a man’s worse fear is being humiliated (FDS) and a woman’s is being murdered and raped (red pill subs)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:17 AM
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Yeah I’m not too sure about that part either, I do wonder though if the gaslighting and manipulation was so deep that it was easy to convince she was pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:42 PM
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From BBC article: A man who pretended to be a lawyer, doctor and council official to control his girlfriend's life has been given a two-year suspended prison sentence. The 29-year-old used fake email accounts to lie, including saying his partner had been drugged and abused. Carwyn Roberts, from Bangor, had previously pleaded guilty to controlling and coercive behaviour at Mold Crown Court. He was also ordered to carry out 150 hours community service. The court was told Roberts met his girlfriend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:49 AM
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I've just shared it with my partner so hopefully he finds it as appealing as I do. Sounds like there's a lot of benefits for him, it's also got me on the path to tantric sex practice which I want to start doing now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:12 PM
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This sounds amazing... Thanks for the info!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:57 PM
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Can you tell me more about this "retention" ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:53 AM
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I have second hand rage for you. I'm so sorry for your loss (of items!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:26 AM
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What the fuck, that is so insanely rude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 02:45 PM
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hobo-goblins Sounds spot on to be fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:32 AM
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Men created the bar for themselves and it's basically floor level if not in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:17 AM
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Maybe I could understand it if it was an exes name tattooed on her and he approached the subject with dignity and grace but even then it's still her body. This is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:23 PM
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- They've been dating 3 years, he hasn't proposed but still wants wife privileges. - "Dumping" 150k into stocks is not as easy as he seems to suggest, she's been investing for 5 years. Has probably had this goal in mind for a while. If he gave two shits maybe he would have been interested in her investments and could have learnt from her and invested his own money. But he probably shook her wanting to buy a house as a silly dream. - $700 is a fucking amazing deal to live in a $1mil house by a la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:57 PM
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His loss is your win! Well done for kicking him to the curb. Enjoy your time with yourself, I wish you nothing but happiness x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:53 PM
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I love this dream, make it a reality ! hehe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:32 AM
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Omg she has another video called "Who is attractive? Blonde vs. Exotic" Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:41 PM
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When he lists what sex means to him, it's all about adventure and spontaneity, not being intimate with his partner or reaffirming their connection...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:34 PM
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I am creasing at your username !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:23 PM
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Saving for later!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:25 PM
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I dated a manipulating/gaslighting LVM for three months, we broke up a couple of times and would get back together. The last time we got back together I set a pretty basic boundary of not wanting to spend 24/7 with him. I had a really tough Monday - Friday week of very physical work, I was supposed to work another job on the weekend but I was so burnt out I had to cancel. Having been in contact with him I knew that he had planned to spend the Saturday studying for his degree, but once I told him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:40 AM
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Omg that proposal is goals, Morticia and Gomez are the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:11 AM
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Woody Allen is literally the incarnation of a NVM. Depraved, misogynistic, paedophilic pervert with a god complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:35 AM
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Rubbing your clit like they see in porn, hard and fast... Like in that tiktok video of the guy trying to be sexy recreating it on a console controller
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:25 AM
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Or buy a variety of different made up salads instead of just potato salad? I've had a broken wrist (my right hand, I am right handed) for 6 months now and really miss cooking. When my housemates or boyfriend aren't able to make meals for me I can still muster up some basic things; soup, quiche, tuna mayo, packaged salads, pizza, sandwiches, wraps, eggs, etc. etc. things that require literally little to no effort and that anyone should be able to make... Her husband hates her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:12 AM
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100% He can't be a fully functional adult and be this incompetent in the kitchen. My boyfriend can't cook, his parents were academics and worked (still work) really hard, so cooking was never an interest to them, they could cook basic meals but they never passed the skills on to their children. He could cook really basic things, but he started learning to cook when we started dating. He googles it, watches videos, looks up recipes and does it all himself. Apart from a macaroni cheese disaster (w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:08 AM
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Or the woman is bisexual and the rules are that she can only date other women, not other men. That's definitely a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:53 AM
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Good luck lovely lady!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:00 PM
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A friend of mine was heavily sexually abused under the guise of "kink", when she was telling me the stories of what he did I asked her if he showed her proper after care afterwards, she said "What's that?". I've never cried so hard for someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:45 AM
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I love you. Thank you so much for introducing us to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:57 PM
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This makes me want to cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:52 PM
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The Addams Family films are actually quite good in terms of how the women are represented
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:56 PM
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Appreciate this comment, the diamond industry is terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:32 PM
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Truly love this film, what a great recommendation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:45 PM
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"He made sure to clarify he never had any special feelings behind what he did, and it was purely out of urge, thrill and extreme curiosity." This OP is a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:27 PM
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Any man who is actually worth anything wouldn't want to comment here, they would only read and learn from our experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:31 PM
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Aaaaaaah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:23 PM
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Oh god he's so aggressive talking to the camera, especially in comparison with Courtney who is so eloquent and calm... He's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:53 PM
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I like this website, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:34 PM
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Good luck to you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:24 PM
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Good luck!! Beautiful flowers, they match your home so well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:24 PM
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Even if he did misspell "bang" it's still disgusting either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:42 PM
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I love that whenever I see ladies disagreeing on this sub it always ends so civilly and positively. Just one of the many examples of levelling up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:01 PM
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People may not be killed for the colour of their skin here in the UK but that's because our police don't have guns. There are a lot of cases of police brutality based on skin prejudice, the UK is not innocent. Edit: saying that, I don't agree with OP's statement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:52 PM
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So I agree with this to an extent, I think face tattoos are acceptable when someone is a tattoo artist themselves (in a professional setting, not some scratcher), or in some other established arts career. The tattoos in question would have to be tasteful and well executed... Not like these ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:51 AM
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You made me spit out my banana from laughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:44 AM
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I almost downvoted you because I was so disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:49 AM
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I love how you just proved it wasn't that hard to type what he meant...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:47 AM
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I think we were basically talking about a couple on TV or something: Me: "she should just break up with him" Him: "but they clearly love eachother" Me: "just because you love someone doesn't mean you need to put up with them treating you badly, love doesnt mean shit when one person is acting a fool. Even though I love you if you disrespected me like that I'd drop you in an instant" Him: "yeah that's fair enough" Something to that effect from what I remember. I think if someone reacted badly to y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:18 PM
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He is literally the worst: I've messaged no other women romantically and have confided in my former crush/childhood friend for advice as to how to proceed with our issues, but have since stopped because it was a huge sticking point between me and my SO. I only message other women for the sake of work and literally hoping that one girl who had a slipped disk in her spine is ok, wondering how she's holding up being out for 7 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:55 PM
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The top comment on that thread is: Your fiancée is being more than extreme. This level of control over you is not sustainable for either party. Tell her what your expectations are, and that they are as far as you will go. The former crush is a tricky one, I understand the insecurity there. For example: I won’t look at porn anymore but the suggestive anime is just cartoons and I’m going to keep having it i will bring our relationship problems to you first but that doesn’t mean I won’t talk throug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:54 PM
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Would it be considered passive aggressive to send this to my pickme friend who got back with her LVM boyfriend recently after I coached her through their first breakup...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:35 PM
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This made me snort laugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:55 PM
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What the fuck. Men literally ruin everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:27 PM
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I'm just here to say good luck Queen! Sorry you're in a shitty position but I have no doubts you'll push through to success xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:43 PM
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I wish I could teach you but it has way more to do with the men than it is to do with us. I think walking with confidence and assertiveness (even if it's 'fake it till you make it') really helps because you automatically don't look weak and vulnerable, and that's what predators are looking for. Saying that, for a lot of men it's all about the power behind it. I have a great example: I was riding my bike down a hill, a man in a van pulls out of a junction without looking, I almost crash into him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:23 PM
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I see Nachos friend. Oh yeah baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:31 PM
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Ah yes, I remember. She preaches female empowerment while underpaying and exploiting an almost entirely female work force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:11 PM
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A great letter! So well put. If we hated men so much we wouldn't try so hard to date them... I want this post pinned to the top.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:10 AM
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I mastered this art with toxic friendships, when I went to university I made a promise to myself that as soon as a "friend" started making me feel bad, I would drop that friend. I did it with two friendships and never looked back! It took me a while to practice that with romantic relationships, but ever since ending a really toxic overbearing relationship (which was only 3 months, ack) I went into every new interaction with myself at the forefront of my mind. I'm currently dating a really magnif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:02 AM
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I am in this situation right now, without her throwing away our friendship. I comforted her during her breakup with a LVM, he was trash, I reaffirmed that she was making the right choice, was checking in with her every other day. Lo and behold, she's back with him now. I said "Nah sis, I think you're making a mistake, but don't feel like you can't come to me for advice." I rolled my eyes so damn hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:25 AM
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I feel the same way, thank the Goddesses for this sanctuary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:22 AM
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After talking to people who also made similar comments and finding out they weren't banned, I've concluded that it's my affiliation with this sub which got me banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:20 AM
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I second this! I used to wear uniform which consisted of a ratty jumper and trousers, still was catcalled by grown men CONSTANTLY, even more so than now. I think it's because now they get the sense I would literally rip their eyes out of their skulls if they dared, despite me wearing more revealing and typically "sexy" outfits. Goes to show it's not about clothes, it's about power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:52 AM
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bonnie_no_shame said " Someone in the original thread actually looked up the “””feminist””” OP’s profile, and found out he is a regular john, who pays for using women’s body, and calls him out, saying he is just trying to validate his misogynistic attitude by sex-positive feminists. Busted. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:33 AM
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Is it NSFW ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:33 AM
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:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:32 AM
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Thank you for this <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:31 AM
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Kinda confirms for me that it might be affiliation with this sub then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:29 AM
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Probably because she wrote a whole album dedicated to JayZ's infidelity but didn't dump his ass. I think there's also a lot more reasons but that's just one off the top of my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:29 AM
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What the fuck. I'm so glad we have this sub...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:15 AM
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I saw a post the other day that had quite a lot of upvotes of a trans-woman saying how she was now passing and couldn't believe how women put up with the amount of harassment she was now receiving. I couldn't help but think, yeah cool we've been telling EVERYONE for fucking yonks that we're being harassed constantly but guess it's all cool now that you're an adult and have experienced it, now you can finally believe us after all those years of being male passing thinking we're just exaggerating …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:14 AM
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Yeah, right? I asked a few people and they haven't been banned. I'm starting to wonder if it's because of my activity in here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:43 PM
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It's actually ridiculous. Talk about censorship...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:15 PM
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I think this really proved that to me today. Fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:40 PM
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Yeah really strange, I also wasn't the only person to comment suggesting that porn might be a factor, there were actually quite a few comments from people saying that it's detrimental. I've reached out to a few people who commented similar things to ask if they were also banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:33 PM
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Any woman who's smart with a college education will be smart enough to know not to put his needs before hers, what the fuck does she get out of this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:37 AM
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I don't think men should put themselves next to beautiful women because it makes them look even uglier... Even with this ladies face cropped out, I'm still looking at her more because her outfit and pose are super cute and he's just stood there all scrote looking...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:32 AM
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I thought that too, weird pose for a wedding photo. Not looking at each other but touching, he's taking up most of the space and she's sat neatly next to him looking in a completely different direction to the camera. I don't understand...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:17 AM
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I saw this post, and I thought immediately that he would be a LVM... Getting those FDS super senses tingling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:15 AM
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This sounds like 'Toxic Positivity' : ​ "The process of toxic positivity results in the denial, minimization, and invalidation of the authentic human emotional experience. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:33 AM
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He'll get treated like a King when he proves he is worthy to become mine. (And it aint gonna be like this bullshit 50/50, how are a pair of shoes and a suit on the same level? Lunch is always cheaper than dinner too...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:34 AM
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I met him during a hobby we both enjoy (skateboarding, which is hugely social in my area and I've made loads of friends through it), it was a missed connection but he later found me through a mutual friend and asked me out. Green flags: - After asking me out and arranging a time and place over FB messenger, he asked me lots of questions, if I enjoyed certain other hobbies and made conversation through my likes and dislikes. - On the date he was happy and positive and easy to get along with, he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:22 AM
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What the other ladies said + easy access to his house so he can pressure you to go back to his and have disappointing sex with him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:40 AM
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I'm 25 (UK) and I would say for the most part I'm financially secure for my age - I have very minimum debt (I'm talking <£200), living independently (Paying my own rent, bills and expenses in a shared house with friends), owning and financing my own car, and I am steadily growing a couple of different savings pots (An emergency fund, general savings and a mortgage fund). I think at this age I want my partner to be equal in terms of their financial independence and literacy and that, like me, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:18 PM
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Within hours! Haha he really called himself out didn't he? Men really only have the audacity don't they.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:08 AM
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Ew, all these comments really prove that men who say they want a "chill" woman just mean they want a shaved carpet to walk all over. Funny that he noticed you deleted him, as most social medias don't alert you which means he had to have noticed he no longer had access to your profile depending on what it was ? Why is he so obsessed with you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:09 AM
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Hmm no I think this was just a repost into a group I'm part of on Facebook. I don't think you're wrong though, the lack of context is just a hazard for arguments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:57 PM
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Hahaha I literally said this to my boyfriend the other day. For someone claiming to not want anything to do with women anymore they sure are obsessed with women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:01 PM
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This really breaks my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:51 PM
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I know right? They basically came back later saying "I judged you for what you wrote, if you didn't want to be judged then maybe change your outlook?" Like bruh it's an imaginary scenario and I've already expressed that so why come in now with your unwarranted opinion. So rude and unnecessary to call me ignorant. I wrote out a reply but ended up just blocking because I can't be bothered to argue with someone who won't read what I've written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:06 PM
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I would have loved this, but no, he had to make it about his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:53 PM
15

It's the conversation following on from the meme in the other photos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:23 AM
19

I think I am the exception and not the rule. I have quite a few male friends and they have never expressed any interest in dating me. They cook me dinner when I visit, offer me drinks, ask me questions about life, trade advice with, and we build each other up etc. I even have a male housemate who is one of the loveliest people, and a HVM. These are all male friends that also have a lot of HV friends and date HVW. Reading everyone's posts and responses here makes me realise that I am probably run…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:37 AM
8

Great response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:40 AM
2

I do think unfortunately that men aren't sending us their best people, however I have met a couple of HVM men that are good at video games, it's their hobby but it doesn't rule their life. I know, shocker! This is definitely the exception and not the rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:04 AM
1

Interesting point, I do see where you're coming from as it does specifically say "higher skill" however I didn't read that as "higher skill than the woman" I read it as just higher skilled in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:20 PM
1

Because they have nothing else going for them apart from the fact that they are a sub-standard man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:08 AM
3

This is the level of petty-revenge I aspire to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:07 AM
2

For sure, I think this can be related to a lot of the ethos of FDS. "Female-initiated disruption of male hierarchy incites hostile behaviour from poor performing males who stand to lose the most status." REALLY hits the nail on the head for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:07 AM
1

Hey, it sucks that we don't know our bodies because we're never really taught about them. I use an App called Natural Cycles which uses my Basal temperature every day along with LH tests during the most fertile week to calculate where I am during my cycle and how fertile I am. It's amazing how much more I've learnt about my menstrual cycle in the past few years than I ever learnt from actually starting my period (15 years ago) I just thought I'd mention this as another form of contraception to l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:58 AM
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He's in a relationship but active on a dating app and he swiped right on his ex-girlfriend? This is all you need to know to reaffirm he is T R A S H.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:25 PM
12

" Begging someone to meet my minimal needs? " This is literally 90% of arguments with LVM/NVM...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:13 AM
5

This is as equally hilarious as it is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:07 PM
6

My guess is that eyebrows have been quite a dominant focus in the beauty industry recently and so men think that's what women want to be complimented on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:19 PM
5

His housemates don't seem to know that he lives for free but charging them full price rent? What an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:50 PM
4

HEY DID YOU KNOW I LIKE SEX? SEX SEX SEX IS SEXY. - bye. My favourite thing is that he's typing and I feel like the next message he sent also included the word sex...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:02 AM
29

Fucking hell, that hurt to read. I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm sending you a big virtual hug queen. Men are actually worse than Satan himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:24 AM
43

I had a shitty, manipulating, overbearing and intense ex boyfriend, during the time I was dating him I got severely depressed and suffered from excruciatingly painful eczema. Which interestingly enough I've never actually had before. When I broke up with him my eczema honestly began clearing up within two days... Recently my friend, who I've posted about in here before, was saying she was feeling really anxious and was losing weight because her anxiety was stopping her from eating. I told her to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:14 AM
63

Honestly, it's like he read the FDS handbook and made an account based on a LVM... He's a walking cliche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:27 PM
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I was just reading his post history, girl did you? He is 36 years old, virgin, suicidal and a porn addict... I think he needs serious help before he starts dating anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:09 PM
41

Oh my God I didn't even clock that in the first look. He asked you what you were up to AT MIDNIGHT hahahahaha. Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:28 PM
28

I would much rather a compliment on how I styled my hair, clothes or about something fun I do in my pictures. Not a compliment on something that I haven't got much control over ? The amount of times I've replied saying "thanks I know" and then the scrote says something along the lines of "alright, conceited much?" is astounding. Only they are allowed to see you as beautiful, we aren't allowed any self-esteem or confidence...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:08 PM
3

" There is no good reason to use an app that deletes your messages straight away. " - Exactly. I'm 24 and I don't use Snapchat, I would never accept that as a form of communication with a random man that was attempting to court me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:58 PM
12

How the conversation should have gone: Her: "I'm not in the mood anymore, I don't want to have sex." Him: "Ok no worries, was it something I did? Are you ok?" Her: "Yeah I'm fine, I'm just not in the mood." Him: "Would you like to cuddle and watch a film instead?" The irony is that maybe once he showed consideration and love, they'd have relaxed more and they might have ended up having sex later but no, instead he threw a hissy fit and made himself look like a child and then abandoned her to spe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:10 AM
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For real this is the dream situation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:47 AM
2

This isn't exactly related to what you said but it reminded me of this story. One of my hobbies is a very male dominated sport but it is a very sociable one and I have made a lot of male and female friends through it. It's really common for everyone to just talk to everyone regardless of skill level and gender. I remember one day I was sat down and I got into a conversation with these two guys who also didn't know each other. Guy number 1 was exactly how you're describing and was boring me sense…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:05 PM
2

This is one of my favourite Instagram's, has me laughing for days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:06 PM
20

I find the "Okay Betty Crocker" quite condescending (reminds me of "ok boomer")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:56 AM
3

Honestly, it's absolute trash and I love it. You will feel for the women somewhat because the men literally shit all over a wedding (one dude made it a beer fest when his bride HATED beer??) but it's ok because "i lOvE HiM"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:41 AM
1

Omg I actually urge everyone who doesn't want to watch the whole thing to just skip to 22:21 that will tell you everything you need to know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:47 PM
1

He's so monotone and boring I can't watch the video, she seems more like a nuisance to him there, hes so cold and inhospitable. The way he talks over her when she's answering questions, and there's a part where someone asks her how she got into HR and he looks bored and then shifts the camera angle slightly more towards himself reeks of disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:45 PM
2

Interestingly enough in the 'Protocols of the Elders of Zion' (which is heavily antisemitic, I do not recommend reading, this link is to the wikipedia page on it) one of the stages to world domination is to use Pornography. The document is fabricated and I do not support it, however I do find this part interesting as Pornography has done nothing but damage to society as a whole and so I do wonder if there are some layers of truth behind it being used as a weapon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:51 PM
6

It's always the LVM clutching at the straws of their patriarchal power because HVM have power from other ventures whereas LVM only have the fact that they are men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:14 AM
2

Also "I think so" when you know for a fact what you're saying is correct. I've been trying really hard at work not to say "I think so" when answering a question which should just be a "yes", it makes you sound unprofessional and uncertain in the work place but I think it comes from trying to "soften" my speech in social settings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 09:09 AM
7

Please could you send it my way too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:26 PM
23

My G over here pulling out straight facts. Such a great breakdown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:39 AM
5

This post just got worse and worse. I want to throw up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:56 AM
13

That sucks! Please take yourself out on a date to the steakhouse and eat the meal you wanted in the company you love (you!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:57 PM
12

Ooof, what a great breakdown, I am here for it sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:05 AM
2

I think a good balance would be that they cleaned their car because they knew they were going to be driving you around and wanted you to be comfortable, and that its not a trash dump 99% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:29 AM
5

I've thought about doing OF for a while but this comment has really put me off, I didn't mind the thought of men getting off to me but realising that those men could be in committed relationships, married and doing it in their marital bed NEXT TO their WIFE makes me feel sick and like I would be enabling that behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:23 AM
6

Couldn't even take the time to crop you out... What a loser. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:19 AM
11

Imagine trying to put your best self forward to woo a potential date/partner and this is what you come up with. At least they're waving their red flags from the get go...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:17 AM
7

"I'll pay half when we get economic equality." I saw someone say this in another thread and it has S T U C K with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:10 AM
2

This legit makes me really sad. Most women wear their engagement ring with their wedding band, imagine looking down at your hand everyday and being reminded of your husbands ex? This is so horrible on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:47 AM
2

Omg. This is vile. He uses the "F" word so brazenly and has taken SO much time to write this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:33 AM
1

Which ones specifically?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:09 AM
1

One of my girlfriends had been talking to this guy who had seemed super into her: offering to lend her his car, his surfboard, offering to look after her dogs etc. eventually told her he liked her. Then did a complete 180, said he was getting out of a messy relationship and that he shouldn't have told her he liked her... When she told me all this I couldn't help but shout "What a fucking SCROTE!" It's such a good insult I'm going to use it forever alongside scrotum and crusty flannel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:35 PM
2

Question, why would we want men to tell us how to date them when we could take advice from our friends who have actually succeeded in dating HVM ? Straight men don't date men so what do they know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:18 PM
2

I wouldn't even want to be a colleague or an acquaintance of any of them. I can't respect anything they say lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:15 PM
2

Oh dear, at least they're all outing themselves as trash at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:17 AM
3

Right?? This is like pouring salt on an already horrible wound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:16 PM
2

I would find this outlandish display embarrassing too. Leave the poor girl alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:15 PM
129

The fact that the first two words are "As a female" is just so telling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:58 AM
1

Y I K E S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:36 PM
9

Hey, do you have any titles to recommend? I'm interested in learning more about the porn industry. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:28 PM
3

What the fuck did I just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:17 PM
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