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| 6 | Thoughts on “My SO is my best friend”?My boyfriend is definitely one of my best friends. Keyword: one. He’s not the end all be all of my friends tho. You should want to be friends with your partner in my opinion. But they shouldn’t be your only friend. That’s when we cross into dangerous and possessive territories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!I knew this message looked familiar... wow what a clown! 😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 12 | Men who can satisfy in bed > flowersperiod. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:11 PM |
| 7 | I agree but also, it’s unfair for men to cry “no one cares about our mental health” when they were the ones to create hyper and toxic masculinity in the first place. Men need to care about their own mental health if they want others to care about their mental health.y’all I got stupid men and other women coming for me on Twitter talking about, “you blaming this on men doesn’t help 🤡”. So me pointing out the fact that men created toxic masculinity and were ultimately the ones to put this on themselves doesn’t help? well boo hoo. They can still go and seek professional help. Oh wait, they don’t want to do that either! So what do they want from us? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:13 PM |
| 146 | He mad as hell!!! LMFAOOOOright. with those 7 figs, he should probably pay to go tf back to school 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:48 PM |
| 69 | He mad as hell!!! LMFAOOOO😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:47 PM |
| 11 | Which of you saved this girl?Was gonna say the same thing! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.🧐 ion know about that.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.my bf lives in a part of Brooklyn where NYPD don’t really respond to non-emergencies... so yeah... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:30 PM |
| 15 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.Ahh yes, there’s a psychological disorder called “exhibitionism” that describes just that. Super gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:23 PM |
| 9 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.he tried to but the guy wasn’t hearing it. he blocked out his entire surroundings so even when other people got on the bus, he still sat there, phone in hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:37 PM |
| 18 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.Yeah I get that. I still probably would have made a scene tho because that’s not okay. He may have been young but we need to stop infantilizing these boys and men and hold them accountable no matter how young they are. If girls and women be sexualized at such young ages, boys and men can be held accountable for their actions. Cause that shit isn’t right at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:29 PM |
| 11 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.I’m sorry I cackled at SoundCloud links 😂😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:24 PM |
| 21 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.What???? Oh nah I would have gotten in trouble that day cause the way I would have had to go and slap the shit out him??!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:44 PM |
| 95 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.That’s exactly what I was saying to my bf yesterday cause had an adult been there with their kid and the child saw, he would have gotten in big trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | If you got a dick pic, it's your fault. Remember!“NoT aLL mEn” 🥴 Shut up Michael. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Sounds like a dude I knew in college. He said his body count was between 60 and 80 something and I could help but think how many of those women he actually got off.Same here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Sounds like a dude I knew in college. He said his body count was between 60 and 80 something and I could help but think how many of those women he actually got off.This same man wanted me to be his girlfriend after college and would get upset at me for not traveling several hours to go and see him AND also thought it wasn’t worth it to come and see me if he wouldn’t be able to sleep over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:40 PM |
| 28 | Sounds like a dude I knew in college. He said his body count was between 60 and 80 something and I could help but think how many of those women he actually got off.😂😂😂 apparently! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:32 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.If I wanted to say Black women were the biggest victims, I would have said that flat lol. I made that statement based off research that has been done on adultification bias in the US. If you wanna argue with research that has been done, go ahead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:35 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.Like everyone has pointed out on this thread, this is in the American context. And I am speaking from my experience. If you want, you can make a post and speak on your experience instead of attack me and claim I’m racist for not speaking on your experience and on your behalf. Bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:13 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.Again, I never said those words anywhere on this post.. never did I say “we are bigger victims”. That is how you are interpreting it. That’s not my fault if you want to see it a certain way and put words in my mouth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:12 AM |
| 8 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.10!?!?!!!???!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:10 AM |
| 18 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.I’m racist for saying that adultification of Black people happens more than it does to other races??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 it’s literally been proven through adultification bias research... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 14 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.You cannot tell me how to feel about your comments lol. That’s not how it works. You coming at me for bringing but the case for young Black girls and then going, “but but but” feels like you are trying to deflect the problem I have brought to the table. Nowhere did I say this is not happening to other types of girls around the world. You’ve taken it upon yourself to take the “who is more oppressed” route with your example. I’m not going to continue to engage with you. Goodbye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:07 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.What exactly does it improve? It improves understanding between women of different background. If you can’t see that, then you are part of the problem. Nowhere here did I say that “white ones not at much”. You seem to have an issue with discussing race so I’m gonna end the convo right here. Take care. Edit: i also wanted to add that it amplifies voices of women who are often overlooked (and quite often Black women) and silenced, just as you are trying to do with me right now. This is not how we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:58 AM |
| 15 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.If you see it that way, then okay. But I’m only highlighting racial disparities on this particular topic. Take it as you will. Highlighting racial disparities doesn’t make us bigger victims, it’s points out the discrepancies seen between different racial and ethnic communities. We need to acknowledge this to move forward as an entire community of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:59 PM |
| 28 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.I agree 100%. Race has to be central to our conversations if we are going to progress towards any type of equality. Deflecting and quieting the voices of Black women is not going to help move us forward as women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:49 PM |
| 85 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.I think women yes, but you know Black men 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:35 PM |
| 133 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.I hope R Kelly burns in hell. And the Black community doesn’t wanna let him go but that’s a discussion for another time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:15 PM |
| 27 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.Absolutely. I would go out on a limb to say it definitely happens in more communities of color cause African countries are also notorious for adultification of young girls as well. It’s a shame honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:13 PM |
| 34 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.oh ya I’m def speaking in an American context. I’m definitely not an all knowing God or deity who surveils the entire world 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:09 PM |
| 79 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.I just want to make myself clear: me saying that it happens to Black girls more (if you google sexual adultification, you’ll see what comes up!) is not me saying it doesn’t happen to other races!!! Please understand that! This isn’t an “all lives matter” vs. “black lives matter” situation. This is just me pointing out the discrepancies and disparities in how certain races are seen in society. This is how we become divided. When we fixate on discrepancies (that are not of our own doing!!!!!) in s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 54 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.Well Black people in general are adultified more than any other race. This is why I said we are more likely than not to be sexually adultified as compared to other races. But I’m not trynna make it a race thing, I just wanted to highlight the research and statistics around this matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:33 PM |
| 83 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.Yes and while I agree, I’m just speaking from my experience as a Black woman and from what I’ve seen in the Black community. Young Black girls are sexualized from even before teenage years and it’s often unconsciously done by family members and relatives (speaking from personal experiences) and purposefully done by society. This then translates into the oversexualization of adult Black women and fetishes and all that shit. But it is important to note that young Black women are not the only ones … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:29 PM |
| 8 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.You can feel the way you want to about these things but I am just trying to explain to you the complexities of the music industry. It’s not this way for just Meg, it’s this way for many female artists. Women artists already get lots of shit from everyone in literally everything they do and Black women artists especially. You can disagree with these themes and what she raps about, but still want to see a woman succeed in what she does just because there aren’t many like her that have made it thus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:19 PM |
| 16 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.And I understand that. But again, this is just one of her songs. This is not all of her songs. Also, she is apart of a genre mainly dominated by men who rap just like this and she’s finding ways to spin misogynistic themes and make them more empowering. Being in the music industry required appealing to certain audiences and sometimes this is what it takes to appeal to people. These people cannot be perfect in their efforts lol. I think that is what people need to understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:00 PM |
| 13 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.😂😂👏🏾 Meg is consistent with her anti-pick me themes throughout her art of rap. We truly love to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:21 PM |
| 23 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.Agreed. Clearly you would know Meg is not a pick-me if you listen to her actual music. Meg just came to have fun on WAP. Meg is the opposite of a pick-me. She could give less of a fuck about what a man wants. Cardi on the other hand... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 04:48 PM |
| 32 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.this also!! no one bats an eye to what male rappers say in their songs but wanna run to condemn WAP as if it’s the most heinous track to ever be produced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 15 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.I realize it’s not the best example and it’s perfectly valid for you to feel that way. the message read like this on twitter, and I agreed with it. we can agree to disagree, but I still stand by my point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:25 PM |
| 51 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.And it not just men I’ve seen comment, I’ve seen other women make the same comments and be silent about “real” violence as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:16 PM |
| 31 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.Yes I realize that. But what I am trying to highlight with this post is that when women are abused, killed, attacked, etc., no one wants to talk about it. But when a woman wants to talk about what she likes sexually, everyone is quick to say something about it. Hence why I said even if you don’t agree with some of the themes in the song, it clear that society hates when woman talk about their sexuality and pleasure in general. Edit: sexual violence means nothing to people because it’s become nor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:52 PM |
| 112 | LVM/NVM love hiding behind the "traditional" tag most of the time. If an African man describes himself as this, run. Those are the most misogynistic men aroundThis is spot on. My own mother, a native Ghanaian woman, warned me of the traditional African man. She said if I ever planned to date or even marry one, he has to be enlightened or worldly to an extent because all the traditional African men know how to do is tear down their own women. Funny enough, I’m now with someone who is much like me, American born but with African immigrant parents. I couldn’t imagine what dating him would be like were he traditional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:40 PM |
| 6 | some angry scrote was in the comments like, “men always have good ideas and you bitches be aggravating as hell” like this shit isn’t creepy as all hell.Ask them sis. Cause I honestly have no idea. You are absolutely right on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:33 PM |
| 9 | These men who share that logic have zero knowledge of the female anatomyI know the scrotes are mad at this one! 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:36 AM |
| 5 | male depravity has exponentially grown since lockdown. try and prove me wrong.Wow what the fuck.. how fucking sick is that guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:34 AM |
| 1 | if that ain’t the truth. we need to start looking at cheating as the man’s defect and not what the woman was lacking.I think she’s just IG famous is what it is. I could be wrong tho cause ion follow these people’s lives like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 01:32 AM |
| 2 | if that ain’t the truth. we need to start looking at cheating as the man’s defect and not what the woman was lacking.Her name is De’arra Taylor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:09 PM |
| 28 | if that ain’t the truth. we need to start looking at cheating as the man’s defect and not what the woman was lacking.that doesn’t even make any sense!!!! 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:55 PM |
| 54 | male depravity has exponentially grown since lockdown. try and prove me wrong.the way I SCREAMED at this comment! Thank you for giving me a good laugh 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:15 AM |
| 79 | Applies to generic white malesAs a Black woman, I’ve been fetishized by anyone not Black lol. It’s been especially bad with the white men, but Asian and (white) Hispanic men have definitely seen me as “exotic” before as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 01:23 PM |
| 4 | NEVER TATTOO HIS NAME ON YOUthis my friends is what you call advanced pickmeism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Just out in the open on an OLD profile.men have some fucking nerve. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 12:32 PM |
| 15 | I don’t know how to feel about this...I was wondering that too... like why are major cities in certain states the top searched category? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:15 PM |
| 3 | I don’t know how to feel about this...How is this supporting porn?? I saw this and thought it would make for an interesting discussion, hence the flair. If FDS hates it so much, they can remove it. You are not obligated to interact with every single post made in this sub. If you don’t care for it, you don’t have to contribute to the discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 10:47 PM |
| 45 | I don’t know how to feel about this...Also, the fact that most of the “dirty south” states being hella racist but also loving big black dick and ebony porn makes me absolutely sickkkkkkk. Even more reason to hate the porn industry for feeding into people’s racist fetishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 10:45 PM |
| 45 | I don’t know how to feel about this...“WoMeN LoVe pOrN aNd PoRn sEx tOoOoOoO” No. No we don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 3 | checking in with you queens! happy Wednesday!I know it may hurt but think about it this way: the trash is taking itself out instead of you having to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 10:38 PM |
| 10 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!As Megan thee fine Stallion said, “You know I ain’t cum boy, if you had to ask me.” Can’t tell you how many guys I’ve slept with that asked me this dumbass question. Like boy does it look like I came??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 09:33 AM |
| 4 | I ghosted him, he sends this 🤡I— why do men??????????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:49 AM |
| 10 | 😂Ewwwww!!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:47 AM |
| 6 | Every day my faith in men gets closer and closer to zerothis is just sick... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:25 AM |
| 3 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.His name is credited at the bottom left hand corner of the drawing. His name is Justin Richburg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:16 AM |
| 3 | “Don’t wank with your right and point with your left.” A word.Making it not safe for work was definitely a great suggestion. I’ll keep that in mind next time I come across posts like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 12:15 AM |
| 29 | “Don’t wank with your right and point with your left.” A word.100%. A lot of women have tried to “reclaim” the industry in ways that makes them feel powerful and empowered but at what expense? To perpetuate this sick industry? It’s quite sad when you think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 17 | “Don’t wank with your right and point with your left.” A word.I know its not. But a lot of women that are and aren’t in sex work don’t understand that... that was the entire point of my comment. I’m not trying to argue lol. They find it empowering when they shouldn’t because it cannot be empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:32 PM |
| -1 | “Don’t wank with your right and point with your left.” A word.I never said it is empowering. I said it shouldn’t be. Many women still do not understand why it shouldn’t be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:28 PM |
| 53 | We need to teach our children about the dangers of hookup cultureThis this this. I literally went through the same exact thing and come from a very religious and African background. “hook up culture” was one of the reasons why my pickmeisha ass let so many men fuck me over and part of why I’m so hypersexual today. I endurded emotional (and physical) trauma for years and years, sleeping with men I literally felt nothing for, let them do whatever for the sake of participating in “hook up culture”. It’s fucking gross, enables the abuse and use of women, and is j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 03:09 AM |
| 5 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️who’s cutting onions????????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 10:38 PM |
| 46 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰what a great piece of artwork to wake up to! 👏🏾 amazing job OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:02 PM |
| 9 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.they always fucking do!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 03:53 AM |
| 12 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Yesssss! This definitely needs to be talked about more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:04 AM |
| 12 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.!!!!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 11:48 PM |
| 72 | Why do LVM get so mad when they see a woman being loved properly?And I’m not shocked that it’s a Black man who made this comment. We only live to please and serve them. When we wanna do something for ourselves, it’s not okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 93 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.girl I saw... the “artist” is a fucking moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 08:20 PM |
| 148 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.I couldn’t have said it better my damn self. 👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 08:13 PM |
| 259 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.girl my mouth dropped. I was like this can’t be real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Ran into a guy I’ve been seeing while he was on a date with another girlThis is God doing his work in your life. That boy was only placed into your life as character development for you. As a lesson for you. As a wake up call for you. Feel blessed to have seen him out because now you know to no longer waste any of your precious time or energy on someone not worthy of it. Sending you love and strength. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:41 PM |
| 7 | And who’s gon check me?periodddddd 💅🏾 who finna check me!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:35 PM |
| 6 | An ex hit me up to “check-in” with me and see how I am doing. Check-in for what? What am I, a fucking hotel?Literally. I wanted to be petty and tell him I have a man now and everything and just thought, no. Be an adult. Don’t respond. Delete. Go on with your day. 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 9 | An ex hit me up to “check-in” with me and see how I am doing. Check-in for what? What am I, a fucking hotel?Wish I had thought about blocking. I already deleted it and hopefully he’ll get the hint since I won’t be responding to him at all. If he messages again, I’ll def block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:52 PM |
| 7 | How did he not see that coming?😂thanks for this giggle. 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:40 PM |
| 35 | An ex hit me up to “check-in” with me and see how I am doing. Check-in for what? What am I, a fucking hotel?You should ask him because I truly don’t understand. We “dated” for 6 months, he made it clear he didn’t want a relationship, we stopped talking for almost 2 years now, and now he wanna “check-in”. Fuck outta my face. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:39 PM |
| 10 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻Yessss love my 🇳🇬 sister!! She’s amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:57 PM |
| 18 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻Yesss! The name of the book i alluded to in my other comment is called Sister Outsider! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:51 PM |
| 158 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻I actually really appreciate you saying this. I’m a Black woman and some days I identify with one more than the other because I am an oppressed person in terms of my race and my gender. Audre Lorde, one of my favorite Black feminists and poets wrote a book as a call to ALL women, white and BIPOC women, to come together to fight sexism. And if that fight against sexism doesn’t include a fight against racism as well, then it’s not a fight for everyone. Edit: And she highlights women because she fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:59 PM |
| 5 | Let me tell you something, we don’t care.I can see where you’re are coming from. I’ve had a string of scrotes try and comment some pretty stupid things and send me personal messages these past few days with the posts I’ve made. So I just felt the strong need to address them and let them know that no matters what any of them say, we really could care less about what the think and how they feel. Plus, posts like this generate great convo for the women of FDS to think more deeply about this problem of men being obsessed with literally eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:13 PM |
| 83 | Let me tell you something, we don’t care.Oh ya someone just messaged me and said, “I have an account as an FDS newbie and can lark as a woman in there. You can’t stop me.” Like okay congrats, you’re a loser. Now what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 3 | they did it to themselves. 🤷🏾♀️He can stay mad 🥴🥴😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:40 AM |
| 78 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingComing from a Black women, Black men are really fucking embarrassing sometimes. I’m ashamed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:29 PM |
| 5 | they did it to themselves. 🤷🏾♀️😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Another gem from Incelwithouthatewhat the fuck is this??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:14 PM |
| 98 | Twitter been killing me with these memes 💀period sis. they always want Black women to do the most for them and bend over backward for them but refuse to lift a finger and help us out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:43 AM |
| 59 | Twitter been killing me with these memes 💀Deadass 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:24 AM |
| 7 | I screamed lmaootriggered 😬😬😬😬😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:51 PM |
| 31 | I laughed out loud. How ludicrous men can be!!“I had no cell reception” !?!?! Is that a thing!!??? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 6 | we literally can’t even sleep in peace...😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 4 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.If this ain’t the facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 4 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.That’s alright hun. Conversations like this are important so we can learn, right? ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 15 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.I don’t think it’s fair to place blame on him when all he did was try to defend him and Breonna. The police are to blame for this entire situation. They broke into the wrong house, unannounced, to begin with. If someone broke into your house unannounced and in the middle of the night, and you couldn’t identify them, wouldn’t you grab for a weapon of some sorts too? How are you going to class him as an LVM for defending his girl? This I don’t agree with at all. He never got a free pass. He was lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:04 PM |
| 11 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.I’m gonna have to agree with rivka here. I feel like the term PoC in a way erases the individual struggles that specifically Black women have to face compared to other women of color. BIPOC is a much better term to use because it’s more specific in encompassing the various types of PoC. But this post is focused on Black women, and not other women of color. We face racism in ways that no other color of women have to face. And to take it a step further, Black women of browner and dark skin tones h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:31 PM |
| 53 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.I’m such a dummy. I just realized I wrote Non-FDS women when I meant non-Black FDS women 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Y’all know what I mean LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 80 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.Your monthly donation is helping us sis. Trust that. Just give more energy into listening to our stories, believing in us, calling out misogyny against all women and especially against Black women because our own men are notorious for being misogynistic towards us. Read. Talking to Black women, etc. Make this intrinsic to your life. This is how to be a true ally to us. ❤️🙏🏾 Thank you for genuinely asking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 44 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.!!!!!!!!! Period Queen. I’m tired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 75 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.Payton Manning did what?!?! This is my first time hearing this!!! Wow men fucking SUCK!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her.Was gonna say the same thing. It’s one thing to cook for him, but to HAND DELIVER it to him like you’re his slave? Nah sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 8 | YesI have no words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:46 AM |
| 3 | YASSSS QUEENYesssss my African sista 😂💅🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:15 PM |
| 21 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂Yeah he look like a low grade Kappa fr. He should shoulder shimmy the fuck on somewhere 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 45 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂🧐😂😂😂😭😭😭💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:55 AM |
| 20 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂Mental fucking illness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:54 AM |
| 81 | This is why we don’t sit around and put our eggs in one basket and remember if a man wants you he will say it directlyThe “let’s take it slow” while wanting to fuck you in holes that shouldn’t be fucked is too freakin’ real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 7 | “wHy dOn’T wOmEn iN AbUsiVe ReLaTiOnShIpS jUsT LeAve!?!!?!”You make a good point. I just marked it as NSFW. Thank you for bringing that to my attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 10 | Men know men are trash and that’s why they’re so overprotective of their hypothetical daughters.When men say they don’t want to have a daughter, they know exactly why the fuck that is. Smh I hate it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:36 PM |
| 14 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagescongratulations, you played yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Don’t wash a mans shoes on the first date. Why would he wear those? Her page is about cleaning which would make her a target for men who want to use herJust the fact that you even have to say, “don’t wash a man’s shoes on the first date”... 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 4 | The fact that I was in love with this song as a child...whew chile let’s pretend we never sung along to this 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 20 | Aaand we need to stop saying hi to men... I can't believe they wonder why don't we act friendly.I’m sick and embarrassed.... what a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:37 PM |
| 10 | Why does it bother men so much when a woman refuses to sleep with them that they have to label her as prude?🎯🎯🎯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Please Use Our New Flair "SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGY" to discuss issues specific to your racial, ethnic, political, professional, or religious group.100% agree! And intersectionality is one word that better describes what was said in the original post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 116 | The comments section is a bunch of LVM twisting the conversation to victimize themselves, and pickmes/cool girls slut shaming, as usualI’m glad someone said this. This does not get talked about enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:24 PM |
| 5 | The pictures you post are inconsiderate, the problem is definitely not the pornsickness I possess“pLeAsE cOnSiDeR WeArInG mOrE CLoThInG” “ThE PiCtUrEs yOu PoSt aRe InCoNsIdErAtE aNd UnFaIr tO pEoPle iN ReLaTiOnShIpS” I find it fascinating when men victimize themselves in this way. Like bro, nobody held a gun to your head and told you to stare at photos of other women. You did that of your own volition, but wanna turn around and blame WOMEN for your wandering eyes. What a fucking lame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:38 AM |
| 2 | 48M Seeking 28-34FAbsolutely horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | This is my favourite quote!The name for this is “sexual coercion” and it happens all too often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 6 | "how to talk to a woman who is wearing headphones" - don'tThis is a combo of “Lies men tell” and “Male depravity”. Men need to stop speaking for us and only speak for their fucking selves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Avoid LVM on OLD who "want a woman who doesn't take herself too seriously"And their delusional asses don’t see it! 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:19 AM |
| 7 | What’s your favourite FDS principle?Set standards and boundaries for yourself and STICK TO THEM. Weed out whoever doesn’t meet your criteria. And that goes for all relationships in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:18 AM |
| 115 | Women at all ages fully understand and are aware of male depravity. In all circumstances.literally during my first or second week on the job, I had one of the male patients ask for me Instagram so we could “keep in touch”. Mind you, this man had just recently had a child with a woman he wasn’t romantically involved with. 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:16 AM |
| 23 | Avoid LVM on OLD who "want a woman who doesn't take herself too seriously"It’s so funny how men don’t realize that the whole “doesn’t take themselves too seriously” is a direct reflection of their demeanor and character. Why would you want to waste energy on someone that doesn’t take themselves seriously? Because you don’t take yourself seriously? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:13 AM |
| 3 | I—????????????this made me giggle 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:54 AM |
| 12 | I—????????????Deaddddd 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 21 | I—????????????The cockacity!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 74 | I—????????????girl you gon have ask him that cause ion know 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Cracks me up EVERY time.I’m crying!! 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:30 AM |
| 4 | Don't date guys who refuse to wear a mask in public. Don't even talk to them. Treat them like the walking biohazard that they are.If I can be real for a second, the guys that don’t wear their masks in public actually look uglier. 😂🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:30 PM |
| 5 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻big sameeeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 10 | Prom isn't even about sex or dominant fetishes but more about humiliating women at another level.This made me vehemently angry. Did anything ever happen to those fucking devils that did this to her?? How evil do you have to be to do this to someone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:58 PM |
| 23 | Whoever wrote this did not lie. 😂🥴that’s exactly what I got from this. it’s almost like, “you said it, not me.” kind of thing. Which made it funny and ironic that a man would say something so fucking stupid. Of course single mothers are badass. My grandmother was a single mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:13 PM |
| 7 | Whoever wrote this did not lie. 😂🥴Again, I didn’t see it as that deep but I understand how this can be offensive to some. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:01 PM |
| 9 | Whoever wrote this did not lie. 😂🥴Again, I didn’t see it as that deep. I see where you are coming from though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:33 PM |
| 20 | Whoever wrote this did not lie. 😂🥴I didn’t see it in this way at all. I thought it was funny because of the irony of the situation. Can you explain to me how this is dragging another woman down? Because for all we know, his mother’s last name could have come from her father (aka his grandfather). So I didn’t see it as that deep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:26 PM |
| 11 | AOC talks her signature red lip, femininity as power & Self-Confidence as a form of protest (18 mins)I love me some AOC! BX represent! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Sent to me from a friend ... a hard pass if I see one 😂Get a pregnancy pillow. You can cuddle with it as much as you fucking want. What a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:31 PM |
| 16 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?So sorry for your loss. Bless you. 🙏🏿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:29 PM |
| 56 | A subreddit for “under 18” aka CHILDREN to ask questions about masturbation exists and is a pedophile trap. WHY DOES REDDIT ALLOW THIS? 🤢But it’s the FDS sub that people have issues with... I hate it here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Megan Thee Stallion PROTECTED the man who seriously injured her only for her to get her name slandered, get accused of lying and “provoking” Tory?!! Too many of y’all just hate women 🤷🏽♀️If we can be real for a second, the world definitely hates women, but it especially hates Black women. The world has a serious hate for us. If this was to happen to Kylie Jenner, who was hanging out with them that same night, the world would have been set on fire. And that leprechaun ass Tory has yet to say shit. And none the male rappers in the game have yet to say shit either. I fucking hate it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Excuse the profanity, but her passion spoke to me. I’ve been here. Black women, you DO NOT need to struggle behind a man to one day be worthy of love!! You are not losing anything by letting go of a man who mistreats you!she is PREACHING. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:46 PM |
| 8 | reminder! or better yet!!! 😂😂😂in my experience, I straight up ask them. because if a guy can ask me to give him head, imma turn around and ask him if can do the same for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | How to stay single: Scrote edition!the v2.0 means he made this list more extensive somehow... I’m curious to know if he has even touched a woman before to have made this dumbass v2.0 criteria | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:04 PM |
| 3 | It’s been over a month & this conversation still makes me want to vomitAre men okay?????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:57 PM |
| 5 | OLDI don’t know if now is the time to use them especially with all that’s going on. I met my current boyfriend on Hinge but I won’t knock them because we wouldn’t have met without OLD. But I will say, you need to go in with no expectations and really high standards/many boundaries. This will help weed out a lot of the guys who don’t meet your criteria. Be casual, and have fun with it. Don’t let it stress you out at all cause that’s not the point of them. But again, dating has been made hard at the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:10 AM |
| 7 | How do you ladies respond to questions about your body count/last time you had sex?I usually tell them a stupendously high number with a decimal like 487.62 so they can feel dumb about asking it. “In the last year I fucked at least 81.7 guys alone and when I add that to this years total...” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:06 AM |
| 8 | Actual r/wholesomememesFacts and I hate how her skin gets lighter too. This illustration always pissed me off but I’m glad someone transformed it into a more positive message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | The double standard is astounding😂😂😂 also, happy birthday!!! 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:32 AM |
| 8 | THIS 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼SAY IT LOUDER! 🗣🗣🗣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:31 AM |
| 30 | When people act like the women here that are calling out LVM behavior are just as bad as misogynists/incels/PUAsWhew that self-hate is a sickness. I’m glad somebody said it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:50 PM |
| 30 | 🥴🥴If it makes you feel any better, I was just followed on my walk to the grocery store. This stupid motherfucker in the pickup truck passed me 6 times before asking me, “hey mami you need a ride?” 🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:45 PM |
| 49 | 🥴🥴What the hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 06:46 PM |
| 7 | If they can’t stand women so much, why don’t they date men...This is the comment I was looking for. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:23 AM |
| 37 | Why are we so hated?Because people become very afraid when women have a voice and actually use it. When we refuse to succumb to the mediocrity, the low effort and low value, the abuse, etc., we are seen as “rebellious”. It’s unfortunate but to make things worse is that other women hate us too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:11 AM |
| 2 | "we talk all the time at work so let's keep doing that" 💀💀Queen shit only. 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Butt hurtThey do this and then get fucking mad when we want to own our sexuality and live our lives how we want. Make it make sense. Men really are fucking trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:05 AM |
| 5 | When you’re cute, single, focused on leveling up in every aspect, and driven by your passionate desire of a life well lived.I’ve hate what the word vibe has turned into. No bro, I’m not a “vibe”, I’m goals okay??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:03 AM |
| 39 | I found this on Facebook today lolhappy birthday 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Who here can relate?I posted on my FB and he decided to comment. I’ll make sure to ignore him and anyone else like him next time 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 7 | Who here can relate?Unrelated but this is how a lot of the people who aren’t in healthcare / medicine look like when they wanna fight scientists and medical professions about COVID-19. I’m an epidemiologist and I had some dude argue with me about COVID because he works in construction and he has asthma, but was confident enough to rebuttal every single thing I had to say in our discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 3 | I wouldn’t have used the word “bitches” but you get the point.Yes only respond to this one part of my comment. Have a good rest of your day hun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 24 | Imagine being this much of a butthurt clownwhat an embarrassing loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:56 PM |
| 8 | I wouldn’t have used the word “bitches” but you get the point.💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:25 PM |
| 6 | I wouldn’t have used the word “bitches” but you get the point.Listen, if you wanna let statistics govern everything in your life, continue to do so. Statistically we (Black women) are the least desired in terms of interracial marriage. Does that stop Black women from getting into interracial relationships? It certainly does not. And I literally said above that we need to call them out on their bullshit. Never did I say we shouldn’t say anything about that because we absolutely have to. But it comes to a point where if a Black man doesn’t wanna better himse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:24 PM |
| 10 | I wouldn’t have used the word “bitches” but you get the point.Nah sis, sometimes we have to get our words across and it’s okay for it to come off as harsh and angry. We’ve been through a whole damn lot. And yes omgggg literally every single Black woman (and honestly all women of all colors) need to read this book. The power and love of women and ESPECIALLY Black women can be used to do a lot if we could hone it, use it to empower each other, and make changes that’ll literally benefit everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:40 AM |
| 8 | I wouldn’t have used the word “bitches” but you get the point.Ahhh I see so there are statistics to back it up. But this is a result of years of systemic oppression and internalized racism, sexism, and other things. I’m not trynna defend Black men (cause a lot of the time they don’t defend us 🙃) but I am saying if we are gonna move forward as a community, we need to stop fighting each other and fight the real evil holding us back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:29 AM |
| 18 | I wouldn’t have used the word “bitches” but you get the point.And I can fully agree with your comment. We do need to call them out but dehumanizing them by saying they are “the lowest value men” is problematic. I would rather not stoop to the level of some of these Black men that say horrible things about Black women. But I definitely get where you are coming from and can agree that there needs to be a shift as a whole. I am currently reading a book by Audre Lorde called “Sister Outsider” and she speaks so heavily on how Black women we need to band togethe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:27 AM |
| 32 | I wouldn’t have used the word “bitches” but you get the point.I wouldn’t generalize Black men like that but I do agree that our community as a whole needs to level up. Leveling up is gonna take a lot things, including introspection and a shift in mindset. A lot of our angst against each other (as Black men and women) comes from external threats we have faced over time. So we all gotta work collectively past that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!Honey you don’t know shit about me. Grow up. You know better than to call another woman, especially one you don’t fucking know that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!I sound like I have plenty experience being the other woman? 😂😂😂 now you just sound mad. You know nothing at all about me and are now making assumptions because I shared a one-time experience that I had in the past that is completely relevant to what we are discussing. Again I don’t see where the emotionality is coming from but I cannot tell you how to feel. Take care sweetheart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!Is there rules that say I can’t answer your question with a question? What emotionality are you seeing in my reddit comment? I’m truly confused. And yes 100% women can ask questions but not everyone does that right? So things proceed with lack of information and leads to messiness. We don’t live in a perfect world and so unfortunate things like this happen. I never spoke to the man ever again because it was my first and last time meeting him. I did talk to his brother about what happened though … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!Okay, so what evidence do you have for it both being their fault and not just the mans? You can’t assume the women that is partaking in the cheating knows the man has a partner. Every situation is different. I said more likely than not because what man is gonna go out and let the women he is going to do the cheating with, know that he has someone back home? Many women will not go along with that. I already said I agree with you that we shouldn’t always just blame the man but in many cases, the o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!my issue with that is it’s more likely than not that the cheatee, i.e. the woman the man was cheating with didn’t know that he had a partner. If she knew, then obviously she should also be held accountable. But if the other woman didn’t know, how are you gonna blame her? I am speaking because I have been in a situation where I was intimate with a man who was in a relationship and didn’t find out he had a partner until the following morning. We didn’t have sex or anything but he still laid down w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:18 PM |
| 55 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!Like when a woman finds her man cheating and then blames the other woman???? I never understood that shit at all. Like GET YOUR TRIFLING ASS MAN SIS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:07 PM |
| 25 | Do I even need to say it? 😒This man is having sex with a woman in doggy style position and she keeps moving because she is either in pain or uncomfortable with what he is doing. He then proceeds to force her head down to stop her from moving is he can continue fucking her doggy style. So basically, he is continuing having sex with her by force and knowing that she is uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:26 PM |
| 64 | Do I even need to say it? 😒look at how many men AND women agree with him 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:05 PM |
| 42 | YUCK. Do NOT trust people that are into this low-value shit.Aimed at the quote. You can be cute without having to degrade yourself like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:50 PM |
| 14 | So proud of women for not settling for less!Another FDS win!!!! 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 12 | Is there any hope in OLD?I met my now boyfriend on Hinge and I never expected him to become my boyfriend from the minute we started talking. A few of my best friends also met their partners off apps like Tinder. My advice is go on there with little to no expectations, be opening minded, and keep it 100% with yourself. Set boundaries for the type of relationship you want from the jump to weed out men who just want to “see where it goes”. Other than that, don’t use it as an end all be all type of thing because that’s not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 11:44 PM |
| 2 | My LVM ex just sent me this, probably thinking it was cute. Find someone who can express entirely how they feel about you.He really thought he did something with this 😂😂😂 buddy should have left this in his photo album. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Never consent to rough sex. Never be with a person who demands rough sex. Don’t go to jail or get put in the ground for a “kink”I’m convinced he was trying to kill her. How do you choke your lover till the point of them BLACKING OUT??? Like does that not sound fucking insane??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 11:51 PM |
| 40 | But did she lie????this!!!!!! like okay you are nice and what else???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 06:12 PM |
| 44 | Miss me with that bullahh yes, y = 1/x as a mathematician, I approve ✅ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 04:24 AM |
| 5 | amazing advice!she makes me proud to be from NY 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 04:26 PM |
| 9 | Boys after you treat them how they treat you😂😂😂 ain’t that the mf truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 02:57 PM |
| 11 | The only appropriate response to this kind of manipulative ass message is *BLOCKED*blocka!! pops tongue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 06:51 PM |
| 56 | The only appropriate response to this kind of manipulative ass message is *BLOCKED*How does redefining commitment even look like???? Pulling shit out his ass to make himself sound like sophisticated. The GHETTO!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 06:51 PM |
| 42 | The only appropriate response to this kind of manipulative ass message is *BLOCKED*Don’t worry sis. Me too. Those days are long gone now! 💅🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?Sorry if I came off as defensive. Was just clarifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?nope! and yes he knows exactly what to do to get me off 😍 he always takes his time with me and always makes sure I come first before he comes. If he comes before, he takes it upon himself to make me finish as well, unlike many men I dealt with in the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 0 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?you mean how he has sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?I’m not sure if you read correctly but he has a therapist that he relies on for all of his emotional troubles... if anything, I rely on him for my emotional support.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 6 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?I haven’t been with my boyfriend very long (just a few months) but I think we’ve made it clear to each other that we want to be together for a long time. He’s been the only man to come into my life and make himself completely vulnerable to me. He even spoke about me with his therapist, telling her that I felt like home to him. He told me that even the thought of disappointing me makes him nervous because he’s afraid I’ll up and leave to find someone better. He’s had a rough childhood (father was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 05:07 PM |
| 67 | Is he serious????!😂😂😂 right?!? but don’t have the decency to wash their own assess! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:21 PM |
| 8 | This has got to be a joke. Who in their right mind is waiting 18 damn years for a ring....I know I’m not 🙅🏾♀️🤣18 years!? What in the almost 2 decades of waiting is this?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Remember girls: when a man beats you up, it's not abuse if he has a boner while doing it, it's a kink!🤪 s/me knowing a child didn’t draw this (cause on some real shit, it looks like a child drew this): whew! 😥 me knowing a grown ass fucking man drew this: not shocked or surprised, just disappointed 😒🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 09:53 PM |
| 31 | So I was conflicted with the flair for this post but chose this one because I personally 10000000% disagree with her statement. What do y’all think?Ooooop— well I am someone that likes doing it to please my partner because it turns me on to see them pleased. But I’ll be DAMNED if a man expects me to start off our sexual experience with his dick in my mouth. Tf I look like???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:55 PM |
| 18 | So I was conflicted with the flair for this post but chose this one because I personally 10000000% disagree with her statement. What do y’all think?I agree but unfortunately, the internet is a free and open space and there are a lot of misinformed people using it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:53 PM |
| 41 | So I was conflicted with the flair for this post but chose this one because I personally 10000000% disagree with her statement. What do y’all think?Exactly! Like isn’t sex supposed to start with foreplay??? Kissing and touching??? Or am I mistaken???????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:50 PM |
| 18 | This sub is great and the hate it recieves is hilariousIt’s funny cause I can’t even go and view that sub you mentioned 😂 They can hate all they fucking want to over there! We don’t care! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:44 PM |
| 2 | If a man truly loves and cares about you, he will be attentive to everything and anything that involves you.we love to see it ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 03:37 PM |
| 8 | Share your top leveling up strategy tested and worked for youSET BOUNDARIES AND STICK TO THEM grew more confidence within myself took better care of myself (mentally and physically) learned not to expect SHIT from anyone (because that leads recurrent disappointment 🤷🏾♀️) learned to hold my tongue and save my energy for where it would be well spent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 06:00 AM |
| 9 | And here we have a typical LVM getting butthurt because you have standards...BLOCKED.Bro what the fuck is he even talking about??? 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 05:52 AM |
| 37 | Treat her right = get in her pants, i.e. coercion rape!I’m sorry you had to go through that but we thank heavens you are in a better place now. 🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 05:49 AM |
| 7 | (Shared by male facebook friend) So even when you make us mad, we are supposed to clean for you?If he expects you to go on a cleaning rampage when he knows you’re mad, he’s definitely a fucking idiot. Real men know not to get a woman mad; but since we’re not perfect creatures, he may get you mad. If and when he does get you mad, he knows exactly what to do in order to make up for his mistake and should learn to never do that shit again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 05:47 AM |
| 19 | Treat her right = get in her pants, i.e. coercion rape!of course dear. glad you got away from that stupid motherfucker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 05:40 AM |
| 8 | If a man truly loves and cares about you, he will be attentive to everything and anything that involves you.thank you 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 04:32 AM |
| 19 | Weed out pornsick men in secondsHe looked embarrassed and he should be 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 4 | The definition of the word “admit” is to confess something as true or to be the case. This statement right here, is a whole ass lie 😂🤣🤣🤣 I’m fucking dead!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 07:20 PM |
| 8 | The definition of the word “admit” is to confess something as true or to be the case. This statement right here, is a whole ass lie 😂Also, is that a new flair?! I love it 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 04:18 PM |
| 19 | The Fact They Even Have To Ask...Someone direct her to this thread! Immediately! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 01:30 PM |
| 6 | Husband of 12 years hits wife, she posts to relationship advice, read the male replies below. JESUS.These are the same type of people that jump to scream “EQUALITY” when it comes to a woman getting hit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 10 | I certainly do.LMFAOOO ahhh the good old pick me days! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:59 AM |
| 22 | My friend came across a Tinder profile from a guy we went to high school with. Please roast the fuck out of him.Either way, it’s fuckin’ lame as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:59 AM |
| 50 | My friend came across a Tinder profile from a guy we went to high school with. Please roast the fuck out of him.BRILLIANT!!! Unfortunately I don’t know his address nor do I want to 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:48 AM |
| 52 | My friend came across a Tinder profile from a guy we went to high school with. Please roast the fuck out of him.LITERALLY 🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 64 | My friend came across a Tinder profile from a guy we went to high school with. Please roast the fuck out of him.questions that need answers!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Reminder: Male sexual attention is not a compliment, and you should not make receiving it a priority.Whew I wish someone had told this to me 6 years ago!! This is what made me the biggest PICK-ME back in college 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:25 AM |
| 46 | Long story short: this cutie pie went viral on Tiktok/Twitter with her video, wearing a Bernie Sanders shirt and dancing to a song poking jokes at Baby Boomers. After disclosing that she had a boyfriend in this video, she’s lost a lot of her following and is being harassed by bottom feeding incels.That’s hella gross and the fact that you were so young makes it even worse 🤦🏿♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 12:59 AM |
| 27 | Long story short: this cutie pie went viral on Tiktok/Twitter with her video, wearing a Bernie Sanders shirt and dancing to a song poking jokes at Baby Boomers. After disclosing that she had a boyfriend in this video, she’s lost a lot of her following and is being harassed by bottom feeding incels.LITERALLY!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 12:58 AM |
| -1 | I kind of miss sex to the point where I’m considering casual sex. I shouldn’t right?I may get roasted for this but casual sex with someone is great so long as they are a good person and will respect you, inside AND outside the bedroom. Also, you need to be sure that you’re not the type to attach emotion to sex cause that’ll leave you in a big mess you don’t wanna be in. Otherwise, I see no reason against getting a fwb. If that is something you want to do and know you can handle, then go for it! You can also put that energy into other things (working out for example) so deplete … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 11:44 PM |
| 6 | This man knows what’s up!OOOP! I’ve def been guilty of this in the past as well. My current boyfriend opened up to me about his childhood this weekend and now I understand why he sees a therapist about his issues. He knows better than to use me as a shoulder to cry on when there are professionals out there for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:05 PM |
| 90 | Than you FDS! This felt really good to do. Before FDS I would have either agreed to, or felt guilty about saying “no.”I like how he said “sorry to be blunt about it 😂” No the fuck you aren’t. You wouldn’t have asked such a dumb question. Men are really something else 😂🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Listen up fools, we don’t give a single f*ck how you feel! 😁Exactly. If something here offends you, that’s your guilt talking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 03:03 AM |
| 13 | Listen up fools, we don’t give a single f*ck how you feel! 😁We love to see it! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Straight from the mouth of a rapistwhat the absolute fuck is he talking about? what a moron! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 03:37 PM |
| 39 | I never thought the sleep apnea subreddit would become relevant to FDS but here we are 🤦🏻♀️Bruh the sexual harassment in healthcare is too real. I was a patient care tech at a dialysis center about 2 years ago and I would get sexually harassed DAILY by my patients AND by one of my coworkers who was crushing on me. It was horrific. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:31 AM |
| 13 | Anybody else just syncing with the Universe after discovering FDS?literally! I’ve gotten into my first relationship EVER after finding and religiously sticking to the themes in this sub! I set my boundaries and standards high and found a good man! Crazy!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:28 AM |
| 15 | We are really expected to be work mules from birthThis is the default role of daughters in African and other ethnic households. I speak from experience. That shit is toxic as fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:21 AM |
| 25 | She needs this sub more than she needs that other sub... seriously. 🤦🏿♀️I’m down because is definitely headed down a dangerous path. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:17 PM |
| 34 | She needs this sub more than she needs that other sub... seriously. 🤦🏿♀️oh no baby... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:27 PM |
| 66 | She needs this sub more than she needs that other sub... seriously. 🤦🏿♀️And now I’m being attacked because what I said is “stupid” and “fake”. Meanwhile, the women on this post want to improve their looks to cater to male attention while simultaneously, calling men animals. What a fucking yikes. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:24 PM |
| 3 | When Pickmeisha's and FDS'ers meet in the wild💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | So this fella struggled to understandA man with an unwashed ass has an unwarranted opinion on a sub that was created to defend against his exact type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:09 AM |
| 13 | Could not help myself, these LVM are so entertaining 😩😂The way I hollered!! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:00 AM |
| 13 | No clue why he still has a girlfriend but this makes me sad for herThis gives me flashbacks to a guy I was sleeping with in college. He literally threw a fit because I asked him to finger me. And the proceeded to tell me that the girls he slept with in the past never asked him to finger them.. I should have ran far away from him after he said that. You shouldn’t be having sex at all if your can’t use your hands and mouth to please your partner. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:56 AM |
| 54 | Just because you look a certain way doesn't mean you deserve less!!!Baby girl take a step back and work on your self-esteem and self-image. Treat yourself kinder and that starts with your words. Talk better about yourself. Uplift yourself. And that will translate into how you take care of yourself. Everybody is beautiful to somebody. Remember that and always remember that you are 1000% worth it and are deserving of wonderful things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:49 AM |
| 3 | "H*e culture is wonderful" --> Can we dump this narrative in 2020?This girl is always tweeting problematic shit. Don’t listen to a damn thing she has to say about ANYTHING. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:43 AM |
| 24 | "Real Men" need to look in the mirror before opening their mouths smhLook at how many people agree with him 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Both of those desserts taste eager, stupid and devoid of self respect...We stray further from God’s grace everyday. 🤦🏿♀️ I’m mad that someone actually tweeted this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Ladies we are almost 3 months into 2020! Have we all dropped that pick-me mentality yet?!I said almost 3 months because we are approaching the end of Feb 😂 this month is literally flying by! But agreed! We got hella time in this new year to upgrade ourselves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:15 AM |
| 9 | Ladies we are almost 3 months into 2020! Have we all dropped that pick-me mentality yet?!we love to see it! 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:13 AM |
| 22 | Ladies we are almost 3 months into 2020! Have we all dropped that pick-me mentality yet?!Proud of you baby! Keep it up! 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:14 AM |
| 34 | Reminder Men ain’t shit and they know what their doing when they don’t make you a priority. Cut Your loses and BLOCK.It pisses me the fuck off that in order for a lot of men to learn how stupid they fucking are, they have to go and manipulate the hell out of someone else, until the point of being cut off. Like does that make any sense to y’all????? Cause it sure as hell doesn’t make sense to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:55 AM |
| 19 | Wit his whole ass chest.😂😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 09:02 PM |
| 20 | As expected, men in the tweets calling her “childish” and “materialistic”. Lol it ain’t hard to put effort into a relationship, men are just lazy and entitled.LOL I just asked the guy I’m seeing what he got me for V-day and he’s upset because I ruined his surprise 😂😭 But nah this is 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:45 AM |
| 41 | Men need to stop projecting their personal rejections onto women. Like shut the fuck up already bro!!Literally someone commented, “I would never leave a hot, wholesome, NFL quarterback who is a millionaire on read.” Like sirrrrr what credentials do you have??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 09:28 PM |
| 14 | Men need to stop projecting their personal rejections onto women. Like shut the fuck up already bro!!It’s kinda sexy to me... 😬 but we all have our opinions! People were saying he’s trying to look white, which is rude as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:34 PM |
| 5 | V-Day PlansThe guy I’ve been seeing is coming to visit me in MD and we’re going to spend the weekend together going around DC and eating lots of food. 😂 also, we’ll see about maybe making things official after 3 months of dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:59 PM |
| 52 | 😖😖😖the violin 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 04:32 PM |
| 6 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️The influence. The recognition. The flavor. We LOVE TO SEE IT!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:32 AM |
| 3 | I mean.. There must be something wrong with us to resist such a perfect specimen.. LolI’m DECEASED!!! 💀💀💀 You won too girlfriend, with this response! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:18 PM |
| 3 | How to teach your love language without coming off as desperate?This is definitely something I wanted to hear. I don’t think it goes against FDS to speak up on what you want in a relationship. Exactly as you said, a closed mouth doesn’t get fed and I feel that proverb applies pretty well to this situation. I have the rest of this week and next to think about how I want to approach this but I totally agree with what you are saying. I think it’s important to communicate these types of things in some way. No one is perfect and is all-knowing, so providing some … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How to teach your love language without coming off as desperate?That is a very interesting way to approach it! I will definitely try the subliminal messaging at first and then if he still doesn’t get it, I’ll definitely go and buy myself something while he’s there so he can see exactly how much these small gestures mean to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 47 | Why do guys like "hard to get " girls?“You should be respectful of your own time and energy.” PERIOD!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 05:09 PM |
| 4 | How to teach your love language without coming off as desperate?You’re right. It’s each of our own responsibilities to learn about the other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 04:35 PM |
| 18 | I mean.. There must be something wrong with us to resist such a perfect specimen.. LolThe way I hollered at this comment!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:17 PM |
| 10 | Dating someone with lower qualificationsI’m kind of in that boat right now actually. I have my Master’s and I hold a government job doing research and the guy I’m seeing only has his Bachelor’s and is working as a graphic designer for a small company. We don’t focus on that at all. We focus on the important things: how we treat each other, the time we spend together, the things we do together, and ya. He’s very mature for his age, is such a sweetie, is very open and honest with me, which is more important to me than the degree he hold… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:28 PM |
| 14 | I mean.. There must be something wrong with us to resist such a perfect specimen.. Lolhe’s looks like an ugly evil boss that you must defeat at the end of a game... shudders 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:22 PM |
| 18 | Ladies, always remember this. Boundaries are what allow you to separate those worthy of your energy and those unworthy of even standing next to you.LOL meanwhile, you can be seeing and sleeping with someone for months, even years and still just be “dating” or “friends”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 9 | and I oop—This isn’t encouraging anything besides throwing what has been said about us back at those that said it. Why is it okay for them to say it and then for us to sit quiet? These populations have every right to be upset, especially with the shit that gets said about them on a daily basis by men AND women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:42 AM |
| 1 | and I oop—wholeheartedly agree. but like I said before, worse things have been said about AND actually done to these populations so 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 27 | and I oop—worse things get said about all of the subpopulations mentioned in this tweet. the guys “lurking” in this sub shouldn’t be here to begin with and I actually hope they lurk so they can see that we don’t give a fuck about what they think. I said what I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 09:42 PM |
| 14 | and I oop—Delicious 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:25 PM |
| 24 | and I oop—BAHAHAHAHA I love it!!! 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 05:53 PM |
| 14 | My cousin needs advice. She is 25 and her boyfriend is nearly 27. Together for three years, no proposal.OP, I have a friend in your cousin’s situation as well but she’s been with her boyfriend for almost 7-8 years now. They were high school sweethearts and we are all going on 25 this year. Me and our other friends have brought up marriage to her and every time we ask, she kind of pouts and shrugs. I’m not sure if she’s talked to him about it and the conversation didn’t go well or what, but I’m sure she’s feeling frustrated as well. These things can’t be rushed but also, 3+ years is a long time to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Do we tell the men we are dating that we are dating other men? Or do we lie?I’m a firm believer that it’s none of their business until they ask you to be exclusive and/or be their woman. It doesn’t involve him and therefore, he doesn’t need to know about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 08:39 PM |
| 6 | A High Value Date does not have to be a High Cost DateI love love love this. I hate that a lot of people often associate high financial status or willingness to spend big bucks with high value. That is not the case at all. I had a high value date the other week with the guy I’m seeing. He prepared dinner for us and had it waiting for me before I got to his. He told me to eat all that I wanted, offered to rub my feet while we were watching TV, and offered to run out to buy us wine to drink. It was so sweet and it cost us nothing to enjoy each other’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 06:30 PM |
| 40 | FDS Rules for Black Girlsmy sista won 2020 with this post. talk yo shit baby, talk yo shit!!!! 🗣🗣🗣🙌🏿🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 04:46 AM |
| 233 | The cockacity!!!!This one always gets meee!! Like YOU ARE SHIT BRO TF?! 😂😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:38 PM |
| 72 | The cockacity!!!!“I wish we didn’t trigger each other”!!?!!! What in the toxicity???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:37 PM |
| 70 | The cockacity!!!!Y’all are absolutely killing me with these comments 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 03:39 PM |
| 39 | The cockacity!!!!point blank and period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 03:38 PM |
| 44 | The cockacity!!!!Right I’m sorry YOUR feelings are hurt regardless of MY actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 6 | Honestly. Because it’s bullshit.!!!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:21 AM |
| 22 | Honestly. Because it’s bullshit.The post is about how men get hurt one time, internalize it, and use it as an excuse to be horrible to women, while women get treated like shit all the time and don’t mistreat others because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:38 PM |
| 29 | Honestly. Because it’s bullshit.🤯🤯🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 15 | The Case Against Online Dating For WomenSis got the data and everything to back her sh*t up. You did an excellent job on this post. 👏🏿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:09 PM |
| 7 | I (20f) need advice on my male (19m) friend, and I just learned my lesson today that men and women can’t really be friendsOP I been there and done that. You need to sort of train your brain to shut off any physical feelings and urges you get around him. You need to start looking at him in a different way then you currently are. I know it’s easier said than done but this is going to be the only way you can protect your peace. To me, he has made it clear that it was just a casual thing.. You now need to take that and internalize it. You can totally still be friends with him, you just need to set boundaries between th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:00 PM |
| 10 | Woo let's praise men for litterally doing the bare minimum of human decency. This isnt what makes a good man, this should be the expected baseline behaviour.keyword: baseline!!!!! that should be default behavior. period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 04:48 PM |
| 3 | How can I use the "single until married" strategy effectively?I’m currently in something like that at the moment with the two men that I am seeing/interested in. I’ve decided that until a man has made it clear to me that he wants me and only me, I’m going to continue to do whatever I want with whomever I want. They can feel however they want to feel about it because at the end of the day, if you want something, you go after it and you do what you can to get it. That is my take on dating and all of that until a man proposes to me or makes it clear to me tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Should we give up online dating?yes yes and yes. I’m quitting them completely as well. I’ve been called mocha princess, coco bunny, and all kinds of other bullshit on the apps by gross white men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 7 | What reasons do you have for wanting to marry?Cultural reasons. Wanting to start a family (although I can do that on my own, but it would be nice to have a husband to raise the family with). A lover, companion, and someone to have regular sex with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Pretty much😂Highly agree! It’s still funny though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Tell him to see a therapist because “fixing” him is NOT YOUR JOB!!!!wow I’ve never actually thought of it this way. I actually use to be a super pick-me type of girl and reading this has allowed me to reflect back on those days. I was absolutely flawed and damaged myself. Thank you so much for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:25 AM |
| 13 | Tell him to see a therapist because “fixing” him is NOT YOUR JOB!!!!Those women are what we call, “pick-me” women that are ready to “ride or die” for their “broken men”. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 3 | The “Hinge” dating and relationships app (among others) is bullshit.hmm I’ll keep that in mind and maybe try the apps again next year. I definitely need a solid break from them for now though. Thanks for the advice and congrats to you and your sister ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:08 AM |
| 8 | The “Hinge” dating and relationships app (among others) is bullshit.This is amazing advice. The thing I really need to work on is waiting on having sex. It’s just so hard for me because I love it so much 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:05 PM |
| 6 | The “Hinge” dating and relationships app (among others) is bullshit.You are absolutely right!! My thing is, I realized that I tend to lower my standards a little bit when I am on the dating apps as compared to when I meet men IRL. Half of the men I come across on the apps, I wouldn’t even give the time of day if I was to meet them in person. But that last part you said about men weeding themselves out quickly on the apps is also very true. They are more bold on the apps than they are in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 05:54 PM |
| 14 | The “Hinge” dating and relationships app (among others) is bullshit.Literally if it’s an app for dating, men will use it to try and fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 01:38 PM |
| 25 | The “Hinge” dating and relationships app (among others) is bullshit.I said this to myself. I feel like I would have better luck on an app people are willing to pay for and have to really put time into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Men never cease to amaze me with how fucking stupid they are 😂😂😂Probably!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Men never cease to amaze me with how fucking stupid they are 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 05:00 PM |
| 11 | How much does appearance matter to hvm?Listen honey, go look at yourself in the mirror and if you like what you see, then it shouldn’t matter what the fuck anyone else has to say about you appearance. If you don’t like what you see, figure out ways YOU can improve your looks for YOURSELF, not for nobody else! I know that looking good and help to actually make you feel good, so if this is the case, take the time to learn about yourself and give yourself some love! Don’t base these types of things off of what others think or have to sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Fuck what anyone says. You ARE worth it!yes ma’am!!!! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Fuck what anyone says. You ARE worth it!Ooooo maybe! I always present myself as a HVW to a lot of men (because I am indeed a HVW) and I think intimidation and all that leads to being asked these belittling questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:21 PM |
| 2 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!Hmm interesting I have never heard any of this about a Taureans. He is a Taurus himself, so I am assuming he doesn’t think this way about himself at all. I get that we can be lazy, but unambitious I have never heard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Fuck what anyone says. You ARE worth it!It’s pretty demeaning if you ask me. Ya apparently I attract people that ask these dumbass questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 04:25 AM |
| 12 | Fuck what anyone says. You ARE worth it!That is a great way to think about it. I’m definitely still learning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:02 AM |
| 7 | Fuck what anyone says. You ARE worth it!Right?!?? I was very taken aback by it the first time I was asked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:27 AM |
| 4 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!my sis is a Libra and this is true asf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 10:29 PM |
| 7 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!I agree. We can be pick-me’s because of our undying loyalty but this hierarchy he made is damn stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:11 PM |
| 6 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!I totally agree. I like following it and reading up on it but shit like this is what makes astrology sound like complete rubbish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 5 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!Hello fellow Taurean! Who cares what he thinks anyways. You can’t base toxicity of a person SOLELY on there zodiac sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 09:07 PM |
| 30 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!I’m DEAD sksksksksksks 😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 23 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!I’m a Taurus and he tweeted very nice things about Taurus women but still, what the hell is this toxic ass shit??? A grown ass man is tweeting about toxicity of women depending on their zodiac sign???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:15 PM |
| 8 | Noticing myself implementing FDS principlesThis post is everything! I can relate to literally every single thing you wrote on here. I’ve really just been about ME since finding this. No more pick-me bullshit, no more caring about how I look or feel, no more wasting time and energy on undeserving fuckboys and so-called “friends”. No more of that!! Thank goodness for this subreddit honestly. It could not have come at a better time in my life. I’m super proud of us! Our FDS journey has only just begun. ♥️♥️♥️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:08 PM |
| 6 | LVM hit me up after I posted a new pic to remind me that I used to be ugly.Tell him to mind his fucking business. What a moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 12:58 PM |
| 29 | He Spat, Slapped & Choked Me: How Sex With My Boyfriend Turned Into AbuseSounds like a nightmare. I’m glad things ended between them cause she could have easily ended up like the girl in the UK did. Her ex sounded like a monster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, why do they ALL think and act like logic and emotion are two mutually exclusive things???? They can coexist!!!I understand that and I agree, it’s not good to make important decisions while being heavily influenced my emotions. But to completely condemn the idea that logic prevails over emotion and that the two cannot coincided at any given point is incredulous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:35 PM |
| 27 | He won’t answer the phoneDid you block him? Cause that’s literally all you need to do to never deal with that piece of shit again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, why do they ALL think and act like logic and emotion are two mutually exclusive things???? They can coexist!!!who did dat????? what the hell????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 05:05 PM |
| 25 | Seriously, why do they ALL think and act like logic and emotion are two mutually exclusive things???? They can coexist!!!Right, emotional repression makes you superior how???? If anything, it makes you inferior for not being able to realize and deal with your emotions because emotions are in everything we do. We just need to know how to control them so it doesn’t utterly ruin our lives. Men need to understand THAT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, why do they ALL think and act like logic and emotion are two mutually exclusive things???? They can coexist!!!💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 12:14 PM |
| 6 | Seriously, why do they ALL think and act like logic and emotion are two mutually exclusive things???? They can coexist!!!I 1000% agree!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 12:04 PM |
| 11 | Take the psychoanalysis and sign reading to another sub. It’s simple!put it on a got damn billboard for EVERYONE TO READ!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:20 AM |
| 52 | Wow ladies this is the lowest of the lowJust say you suck at sex and go somewhere. Don’t nobody got time for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 07:32 PM |
| 18 | Wow ladies this is the lowest of the lowALWAYS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 07:31 PM |
| 9 | What do you typically look for in a FWB?I think the most important thing is that you understand and accept that nothing serious can come out of a FWB. It happens but not very often. Save the “feels” for someone you actually want to be with. Other than that, I think finding someone you get along with, have great sex with, and can be open and honest with are some other important factors going into a FWB situation. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 02:12 PM |
| 2 | today I held myself differently and I could feel I looked good and it showedThe subreddit she linked in the original post will tell you everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Recent transcript . How was my response?he knows that he wants sex and nothing else. he tried to cloud his true intentions with all that other shit. but clearly, it didn’t work on you. good job blocking him. 👏🏿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 02:05 PM |
| 17 | A lot of LVM will warn you beforehand that they’ll sexually assault you on TinderMen need to learn that this is a sure fire way to get physically assaulted. I will kick your ass if you try to touch me in places I never gave you permission to touch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 01:57 PM |
| 25 | Saw this on fb she said they messaged on tinder for 2 hoursBut women are the sensitive ones, right? Fuck outta here with that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 01:49 PM |
| 45 | It's 2020. Let's all acknowledge that Drake is a pedophile :)“Ladies and gentlemen, we got him” has me on the floor 🤣🤣🤣🤣 But ya I never understood the obsession with him and the things he does. He is a great artist no doubt (if you are into this kind of music) but it doesn’t excuse his actions... he’s quite the creep if you ask me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 12:03 AM |
| 12 | put the salt down, bro.I just dumped someone I was seeing the other week for this exact reason. He claimed to “like me” but never made the time to take out or even fucking call me. Waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 12:00 AM |
| 5 | put the salt down, bro.exactly my point. don’t get smart with me for something you choose to do nothing about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:03 PM |
| 12 | put the salt down, bro.ya I’m with you there. he’s going to be moving soon so we definitely won’t be in contact as much. we got love for each other but he definitely needs to pull his head out of his ass and grow the fuck up. no one wants to put up with that nonsense and I emphasize this because we are getting older. that behavior is not cute at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:38 PM |
| 10 | My biggest regret is having "boyfriends" in my 20s. Don't do it.It’s interesting because I’m 24 going on 25 and have never been in an actual relationship (not by choice but kind of by choice). I would like to be in one with someone during this time so I can experience what it’s like to be with someone that is special to me. I not only want to get in one for the experience, but because I think I am ready for that kind of commitment to one person, to be able to grow with them, experience life with them, and give my love to. I definitely wasn’t ready for one wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Apparently “men of his caliber” are the one’s that are financially supported by women. He’s big mad when she says no. This baby needs to be sent back to the womb“Men of his caliber” how much y’all want to bet this 🤡 doesn’t know what caliber means??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 12:42 AM |
| 6 | So he goes and uses a naive girl for sex, ghosts her and brags about it!! Can’t imagine how she must’ve felt once she realized what he’d really done! Ladies, do not be some douche bag’s brag tag!!what a fucking loser!!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 12:39 AM |
| 2 | You want me to stay loyal to you when we’re just TALKING to each other? That’s cute! 😂that is very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:22 PM |
| 3 | You want me to stay loyal to you when we’re just TALKING to each other? That’s cute! 😂Hmm I moreso think that while she may be interested, she’s not going to miss opportunities with other people while you guys are still just getting to know each other At least, that’s how I see it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:25 PM |
| 11 | You want me to stay loyal to you when we’re just TALKING to each other? That’s cute! 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Going on a date with a low income, HVM?Low income HVM most definitely exist. To me, what makes a man HV is the way he treats those around him and how he treats and carries himself. If he is not respectful, kind, open-minded, humble, has good morals, etc., the man is not of high value. We are living in difficult times now (especially if you are a younger generation millennial like myself and like the guy I am seeing is) and money isn’t something that a lot of us have too much of. We got things to pay for! Student loans, car insurance,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Key quote: "Familiarity will not breed better behavior."This is exactly what we all needed to hear to start off 2020!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:00 AM |
| 6 | Considering dropping every man I’m “involved” with at the moment.amazing. thank you. that last one will definitely be one of my go to’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:19 AM |
| 15 | Considering dropping every man I’m “involved” with at the moment.Oooooo I like that! 👏🏿 Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....We are one in the same. I’m always trying to help EVERYONE and it spills over into my love life. Shits gotta stop for real for real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....Yeah I considered the possibility of it being viral as well, so just as you said, antibiotics won’t do a thing for that. Rest, hydration, and cough medication to loosen up the phlegm buildup should be enough to clear up the infection overtime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....Period sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....Half-baked date is the PERFECT way to describe it! 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....Moms a nurse and has antibiotics in the house for when we get minor infections so ya | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:42 PM |
| 8 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....Heyyyyyy this is the first time in a while something like this has even crossed my mind! 😂 I’ve been fairly ruthless with the men that have been trying to see me. I’ve already decided I’m’ not going and he knows that. He can come visit me when he feels better 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....My mother is a nurse, so she always has antibiotics in the house for when mine or my siblings get minor infections. He has some sort of upper respiratory infection which I always experience and usually have to take antibiotics for as well. But I hear ya. I already told him I won’t be seeing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:38 PM |
| 10 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....I told his ass all day to go get medicine and he didn’t do it. 🤷🏿♀️ You are right though. He can recover his health and then come to see me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:33 AM |
| 21 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....this is exactly what I needed to hear. thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:32 AM |
| 4 | Men who think like this are the same ones who don’t even have money to even take care of themselves.ohhhh 😂😂😂 I thought she meant me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:01 PM |
| 8 | Men who think like this are the same ones who don’t even have money to even take care of themselves.PERIOD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.hmmm I’ll look into it 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 08:09 AM |
| 4 | Men who think like this are the same ones who don’t even have money to even take care of themselves.Not at all. I’m just saying this in my personal experience. I feel like a lot of guys that I’ve been with in the past truly believed this about me. That I wasn’t worth spending money on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 08:05 AM |
| 4 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.your vibrators 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:55 AM |
| 18 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.Exactly. Which is why I’m not going back to any of the men I’ve previously slept with because this is exactly how they view me. Men are sick creatures I tell you. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 09:07 PM |
| 7 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.It’s a mixture of both. I want all the foreplay and skin-to-skin contact that comes with sex. But also, I’ve used toys before and while they have work for in the past, they just don’t satisfy me the way I want them to anymore. I may also be using them wrong. Toys just never interested me that much to be begin with. I would rather touch myself than use a toy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 09:04 PM |
| 11 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.That’s not a bad idea.. I don’t know if I want to be sleeping with that many people at once though 😂 or rather, if I’m going to actually have time to have such a rotation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 09:00 PM |
| 21 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.This is what I was doing the past year when I lived overseas. I occupied my time so much with working out that it kind of depleted my libido a bit. And I felt happier about myself and my situation in general. I’m going to get back into it starting in January. Running, lifting, yoga and kickboxing were my main forms of exercise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:50 PM |
| 24 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.no one wants to commit! not to me at least!! a lot of men want my high sex drive but not me, the person that comes with it 😂🤷🏿♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:47 PM |
| 30 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.See the thing is, I’ve only ever done the FWB thing and it always ends up in me catching feelings or me becoming resentful and ghosting them, which is very toxic. But that is something I know about myself, which is why I try to avoid it... I’ll think about it though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:45 PM |
| 22 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.See I’ve done the whole FWB thing and it always ends up with me catching feelings... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:40 PM |
| 6 | HVM to LVM in 3 days.This was my first thought... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 04:14 PM |
| 11 | When you wake up to some edgelord bottom feeder in your DMsI mean sis, look at his username. This bottom feeder clearly has no sense or no shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 04:10 PM |
| 7 | Being a Pick me= slaverywell damn... while I agree with you, I just said we both need to do better because the justice system is unfortunately rigged against black PEOPLE in general. So to make jokes about black men being incarcerated, when half of them are in there for petty crimes, is not okay either. the joke is funny but at the same time, it’s not. we live in a society built on systematic racism, which is why more of OUR men are incarcerated as compared to any other race of men. but go off sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:26 PM |
| 51 | Going 50/50 🤡This is why I never understood it when men would get pissed at us for wanting to be with someone that can financially support us????? Like we do all this, on top of that, y’all wanting us to cook for you, do ya laundry, give you bomb pussy and basically be like a pornstar in bed, etc. AND pay for half of the bills and rent/mortgage?? You must be out your got damn mind if you think I’m gonna subject myself to doing EVERYTHING YOU WON’T and ALSO pay for living expenses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:50 PM |
| -31 | Being a Pick me= slaverythis is funny and all but black men AND women, we need to do better!!!! 😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Don’t be like me and fall for the bait but anger, frustration and confusion and my broken heart got the better of me. This guy left me bc he didn’t want to date anyone and wanted time to his kids. FF 2 months and he tries to match me and I respond like a dumbo 😭told him to go F himself tho🤷🏽♀️Deadass report him!!! 😂😂🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 10:31 PM |
| 10 | How has your culture influenced your love life?Like they don’t talk about boys and boyfriends until it’s time for us to be serious about our futures... what’s up with that??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 10:31 PM |
| 38 | Don’t be like me and fall for the bait but anger, frustration and confusion and my broken heart got the better of me. This guy left me bc he didn’t want to date anyone and wanted time to his kids. FF 2 months and he tries to match me and I respond like a dumbo 😭told him to go F himself tho🤷🏽♀️Girl he not even cute and his dick is probably small asf. Please report and block him immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 05:31 PM |
| 8 | You’re SINGLE until you’re exclusive, sis. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.And that’s on what??? PERIOD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 04:43 PM |
| 26 | who’s gonna tell ha...deadass 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or am I over dating / anti-dating at the moment?Love love love this. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 02:35 AM |
| 14 | Blah blah blah - so many words for ‘I just want sex’ after turninf down a Netflix ‘n’ chill second date because I don’t have casual sex.What a waste of time. To type all of that just to say, “I’m trynna fuck”. Men are incredibly stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 03:31 PM |
| 5 | Does reddit hate you?They can keep hating cause I don’t give two fucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Is it just me or am I over dating / anti-dating at the moment?“It's not that dating can't be fun, or relationships can't be good. It's that all the time, money, and energy one can spend in pursuit of a great love is almost always better spent in the pursuit of personal goals, hobbies, and friends - far less risky endeavors, emotionally, and even physically speaking (given the relatively high chances that any given woman will have an encounter with at least one abusive man). Especially in today's world where there is so much free information, amazing food, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 01:01 AM |
| 5 | I slept with him...am I useless to him now. What do I do?sis I been there too. that man is what you call a LEECH. he’ll suck you dry until you have nothing left in you. you need to block him on every platform you have contact with him on. EVERY SINGLE ONE. and what you need to do is focus on loving yourself. set small goals for yourself. pamper yourself. In addition to that, take on some hobbies to distract yourself and occupy your time. Start working out, reading, find a new series to watch, something. When you are busy with things, you won’t have ro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Is it just me or am I over dating / anti-dating at the moment?“emotional labour” LITERALLY. the emotional burden is not worth it at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me or am I over dating / anti-dating at the moment?I’m about to take a full on hiatus too sis because I’m exhausted. The past year I was in London and I have no inkling to date over there because I wasn’t into British guys like that and I was INCREDIBLY happy. I felt so good and took such good care of myself and I need to go back to that immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me or am I over dating / anti-dating at the moment?right?? Like I wanna just cancel everyone!! And yeah there is one or two that I actually wanna continue to see because I have a feeling they may come around (no red flags so far) so we’ll see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 01:07 PM |
| 10 | Is it just me or am I over dating / anti-dating at the moment?It’s SAD how no one wants to be a decent human being! You would think men would get it together after a certain age but NO! They ALL SUCK!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 12:55 PM |
| 14 | Is it just me or am I over dating / anti-dating at the moment?It really does. And girl I’m right there with ya on the whole “bad tracker” or whatever we wanna call it. It’s annoying when you float between being happy and alone and then being sad (and horny 😒) and alone. But you gotta pick and chose your battles, am I right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 02:56 AM |
| 26 | Is it just me or am I over dating / anti-dating at the moment?Deadass!! Like I feel like I’m talking to walls when I talk to these damn guys! And that is exactly it! No one deserves what I’m ready to provide. Period. I plan to also pour this love into a child or something when I reach a point where I think I’m ready for one. Dating is really not worth the headache anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Ask a dumb question, get a smart answerRighttt I would absolutely want to know too! Well, more power to her and to their relationship. I’ll go back to “minding my business” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 11:46 AM |
| 9 | Ask a dumb question, get a smart answer🤣🤣 probably!! with his stupid ass!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 22 | Ask a dumb question, get a smart answerRight???? Men are foul out here! So update: he called me on his break (with some unrecognizable number) and was reaaaallll petty. He kept saying, “you need to mind your business and stay out of other people’s. this is why you’re still single. nobody wants to deal with a bitch that in everyone else’s business. I won’t contact you no more. Good luck finding a good man that’ll hold you down.” I just laughed and told him, “maybe if you hadn’t been so damn insecure about your dick game, the situation… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:04 AM |
| 43 | Ask a dumb question, get a smart answerUpdate: so the girl has read my message but hasn’t responded to me and the guy has not contact me either. Hopefully, they have had a talk about how stupid and insecure he was being. Will check back in tonight! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 08:47 PM |
| 12 | Ask a dumb question, get a smart answeryou right sis!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 08:45 PM |
| 73 | Ask a dumb question, get a smart answerI just sent her a message. I will definitely keep you all updated. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 04:47 PM |
| 76 | Ask a dumb question, get a smart answerI should right? She deserves to know that her man is being a snake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 9 | We all were pickmeisha at one point, but let’s talk about how our upbringing influenced our pick me ways!Amen to that! We’ll be the generation of mothers to break this cycle and teach not only our daughters how to navigate relationships, but our sons too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 05:46 PM |
| 31 | We all were pickmeisha at one point, but let’s talk about how our upbringing influenced our pick me ways!High school and early college years was what really drew the pickmeisha out of me. It was an array of many different things: having all of the black men at my school praise white girls like they were the only important thing on earth being the “ugly” friend in most of my friend groups being dark skin (colorism, self-hate issues amongst other things) being used as a fetish (by mainly white men) being taught that if you love someone, you go through and do anything for them, even if it hurts you (r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 04:58 PM |
| 17 | Thought you ladies might enjoy this. I can appreciate the honesty when most men would not be so forthcoming with all of this fuckery. Oh, and he is a total smoke show!But alpha male type where?????? Someone let him know before I do 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 12:52 AM |
| 11 | Dating Guys that are virgins?I personally don’t think it’s that important. I mean you guys are still young (because I am assuming you are around his age as well), so it’s not crazy to think he hasn’t done anything yet. Maybe those kinds of things haven’t been of huge interest to him until now. I wouldn’t dwell too much on that fact about him. I will say it’s best to stay curious, while still being open-minded and keep seeing him until some red flags pop up. Hope this helps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 12:49 AM |
| 13 | How is it you want us to commit to you when are providing nothing to us?PERIOD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 08:47 PM |
| 6 | FDS in relationships. Men don't respond to words, they respond only to mirrored actions and absence.What a QUEEN. You handled that perfectly and he took that exactly the way he was supposed to take it. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | “Nudes?” He asked hopefullyI’m deceased!!! 💀💀😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 05:08 PM |
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