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LESSON LEARNEDyfunk3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:28 AM
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NAH, SISyfunk3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:36 PM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENyfunk3/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:43 AM
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We had a meeting recently where they seriously made us sit through this Pranic healing BS. Now, if it works for you, great! But at the end, it was basically being rammed down our throats that " it's up to YOU to change things and YOUR attitude!" It REEKED of an abuser gaslighting a victim. After the workshop, I told the only coworker I could trust it was gonna be used against me. Lo and behold, at the end of the workshop, everyone immediately went, "OMG, yfunk3 is the one who could benefit from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 05:51 AM
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I have the opposite problem of being deliberately isolated by standing out while hardcore leveling up, and am seeing the effect of being labeled the problem for merely reacting to the actual problem. Same ole "woman is a bitch, but man is a go-getter" thing in the professional sphere. Thought it would be different in a company run by and which was half women, but ALL the other women are PickMes. Literally all of them. I actually had my supervisor tell me, regarding a local news story about a man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 11:02 PM
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This is why I have seen all of 1 Marvel/DC movie in its entirety (1st Wonder Woman movie). The majority of them are the same damn plot and I'm just. not. interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 04:11 AM
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I wish I was a Sims 4 character. That way I could live in a world where I could afford real estate in a neighborhood I actually want to live in. And be able to prevent unwanted male Sims from entering my property. 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 08:41 AM
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I have had other women try to convince me about how "showering everyday is bad for your skin". 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 11:53 PM
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I get it, only it is other Asians (at least outside the very diverse state I live in now) who did this to me, too. Sorry, not playing "Oppression Olympics" here. Just empathizing with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:59 AM
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Honestly, I am that other woman at my job right now to this one coworker...and it's because I tried to be friendly to her like I am to everyone from the start, and she continues to just be insufferable to me and only me - making backhanded compliments, correcting me in passive-aggressive ways, always bragging about how is the preferred person to be asked to do a task we both are responsible for, etc, etc,.etc. I first tried to say good morning to her every morning, and make small talk, etc. She …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:57 AM
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This is why I never accept anything from men who are not my father or brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:59 AM
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Especially since all of these idiots look like their diet has consisted of microwaved chicken nuggets and Cheetos for the past 15 years of their life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 07:49 AM
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It disappointed me to an unimaginable degree when Last Week Tonight recently did a show about sex workers. They tried to play the "we're not telling you how to view it morally or debating it. We just care about thr sex workers"" angle. I could tell right there and then that their staff is majority male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:07 PM
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So it's getting to the point that wherever I see the word "banging", I automatically know that person is not worth my time or brain cells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:59 PM
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Wait until her surgeon boyfriend deems her too old to be of use. Then she'll be single, unemployed and broke, with no job skills or experience other than "social media influencer" on her resumé. And let's face it, she'll be a single mother at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:47 AM
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Good for you. I just hope there are no "friends of friends", even on social media and the like, that he can use to track you down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:00 AM
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And all the men were brainwashed into thinking that it was just acceptable for people to have these "kinks", and even "adventurous" to try them out with your partners or you're just "a prude" and "setting masculinity back for all men". But that's just as ludicrous as everything else mentioned in this thread, right? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:57 AM
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Who the hell says "banging"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 09:15 PM
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Seriously. If I get a whole new account now, I need to start a whoke new block list. Mine is already hundreds long. I found out only a couple months ago there is a 1,000 limit on blocks. Was so sad... 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:40 AM
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IMHO, as someone who saw the internet grow, the buggest downside is that it made literally everyone (including the oldest people who were used to life before the internet) so impatient and used to that instant gratification. This includes getting rich quickly. The rise and proliference of MLMs and the internet/social media AND disinformartion simultaneously is not a coincidence. It is human nature to want what we want, how we want it, when we want it. And we always want it NOW. How many of us wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:30 AM
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"Stop judging me for my totally legitimate job!!!" ::proceeds to judge everyone else as suckers for having totally legitimate jobs:: What's that phrase? Oh yeah. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:18 AM
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One of my friends who is a Lib Fem (but mistakes is as being a Rad Fem) thinks that she scored a victory because she had a guy from Timder over for a one-nigjt stand, did the deed,made sure to do it in a way where she also had an orgasm, then after he finished (of course 🙄), she was like, "okay, bye now." And he was shocked because he wanted to stay amd maybe hook up again, and she explained to him they were never gonna see each other again. I told her that's nice that she made she she orgasmed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:39 PM
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They ask you for photos of you wearing your clothes/bathing suits/underwear or shoes. Or anything, really. Creeps and pervs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:05 AM
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Even fucking Poshmark and Mercari.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:24 AM
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Why do people even give Jordan Peterson the attention he will literally say and do anything to get? He's a useless lump of shit, and should be treated as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:25 AM
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Ugh. Remind me to never shake hands with men without a sink and soap nearby...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:20 AM
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Wasn't there a study years ago that concluded that all beards tested had elevated levels of fecal matter and bacteria in/on them? It was mainly due to men not washing their beards thoroughly, or with anything but water. 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:41 AM
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The main reason why I hate facial hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:39 AM
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I work with construction guys a lot No matter what the age, most guys think they are invincible. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:03 AM
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His sense of humor is insulting literally everyone around him and declaring loudly everytime someone called him an asshole, " No one gets my sarcasm!" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 11:58 PM
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Kanye and idiot men everywhere: "Would you please stop existing and living a good life because you are making me look bad!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:03 PM
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So that's why he doxxed her. He wanted some man out there, any man, to agree with him that he wasn't the asshole so he can make himself feel like a good person when literally everyone is saying he's a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:00 AM
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All I needed was 1.) this was his version of events, so it was obviously written to make him look better. I can only imagine her version of events (or a neutral party's POV)! 2.) This real moron thought he would post on AITA and actually get validation and people calling his EX-GF the asshole. And idiot doubles down and refuses to accept the judgment he asked for by posting publicly about it. This man deserves to be alone forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:58 AM
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Forces her to stop for sushi on the way back, too. How much you wanna bet he criticized her driving during the entire 40ish minute drive, each way? So glad this woman left his ass at the sushi place and threw his ass away. He still blames her for him having a shitty car and missing work. Loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:53 AM
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I had to leave a house situation after only 5 months because of a middle-aged creep who had a group house situation. He had to have his own fridge which we weren't allowed to touch, gave us literally 1 square foot of kitchen counter space and would always make gross comments about what I was wearing or cooking (so much so that I stopped cooking or going outside my room), refused to put locks on our room doors, insisted on having my laptop's MAC address "for internet purposes", nickel and dimed u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:28 AM
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First time I came across this was with a 13 year-old friend in 8th grade. She had a baby at the age of 11 because of the asshole who raped her repeatedly and the mother who blamed her for getting pregnant instead of breaking up with the boyfriend. Her mom's ex-husband had to take her in because her mom kept letting her go to high school and college parties alone and she kept getting coerced to have sex or raped by the guys at the parties. When I start thinking some of the women here are being wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:20 AM
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Prob cooked spaghetti and meat sauce...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:04 AM
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That's because back then, being "fat" meant you had more than enough to eat. Nowadays, it's pretty much the opposite (unless on the extreme end, of course).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:12 PM
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Yay for women addicted to Sims like I am! 🤗🤫 I do sometimes wish I wouldn't go to it as my default past- time. There are phases I get when I get very obsessed, and then periods when I don't play for months. And I hate the Sims subs here. So many nsfw posts for people who are giddy for using Wicked Whims and can get off while playing. Men, of course. Teenagers, most likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 08:59 PM
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You mean the man who had no idea women could get wet "down there", despite having a doctor for a wife? 😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:58 AM
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I think it's definitely that, but for a lot of Asians who grew up in Western societies, it is also that they want to be "in the club". "The club", of course, is the "accepted by white people and seen as their equals" club. I made one comment on someone's post years ago about how it's sad how blatantly so many of the Asians on the AznIdentity sub were openly and blatantly advocating white supremacist ideals (including shitting on other minorities and playing Oppression Olympics all the damn time)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:26 AM
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The Asian MRAs are why I unsubsribed from literally every Asian-focused subreddit. They ruin literally everything with their penis-centric egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:10 AM
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I've always heard pedophiles are most hatest in jail/prison because so many in there have kids of their own, or were sexually abused themselves in their youth. Also, probably because they know most of the rapists/pedophiles raping men are men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 08:31 PM
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"A lot of things were made for men, like Spike TV and Epstein's Island..." 😂 😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 09:45 AM
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Women with unisex names understand this in the age of email at work. I never correct anyone when they call me "Mr." In an email because I know they'll immediately stop responding quickly to my emails/requests, thr "please" and "thanks" suddenly disappear from their emails, I suddenly have to get yhr project manager involved for simple things because there us no response from the companies working for us whom we are paying to do the work. So I let them think it. Sometimes the managers correct the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:27 PM
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Honestly, anyone who says things or continues to say things that they know are outright offensive to you or are things you are vehemently against are just looking to get a rise out of you so they can play the "look at how rational I am and how emotional this bitch is" card. Do not play their pathetic game. "Block and delete" can be applied to more than just one area in life. Idiots fade away when you starve them of attention, and they go find and leech onto someone who will give them that attent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:12 AM
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Tell him "Bloating is supposed to be temporary. A balloon is supposed to lose air or pop eventually. A hard plastic ball is not bloated. It is just plain ROUND and will never stop being round."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:23 PM
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I block every single drawing of a nude woman that comes up from the art subs. Every. Single. One. Also, the two most popular drawing themes from men are 1.) sexualized drawings or 2.) The darkest, most fucked-up shit (like monsters, serial killers like in horror movies à la Joaquin Phoenix as the Joker, the deranged clown from IT, Jason, Freddy Kreuger, etc,.etc. There is very little in-between. The only art by men that I can think of off the top of my head that are regularly voted as the most p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:17 PM
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I ordered a ridiculous amount of Indian food delivered tonight and will be eating it alllllll weekend. Sooooo good. Am surrounded by presents from my loved ones that I will open Xmas day, mailed to me and arrived a few days ago. Staying put and avoiding COVID. The best part of being single. 😁✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:48 PM
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All I gotta do is look literally everywhere else and see how miserable the wives and girlfriends are on any given holiday, and then whatever nascent feelings of "maybe" that might be manifesting are laughed back into nonexistence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:45 PM
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Oh, but whenever they do bother to listen to you for two seconds, it's them trying to "teach you" about what you like, or how to do it better. Because you must be doing it wrong somehow and could obviously be doing it better! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 11:54 PM
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Exactly. "I didn't FORCE YOU to stay with me!" 🙄 No, but you sure tried every goddamn manipulation tactic in the book, didn't you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:23 AM
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He already got physically aggressive, and I am 99% sure he has been before this incident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:20 AM
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"But did you CoMmuNiCaTe to him that you don't like being abused? Because how would a grown-ass man who wasn't a miserable, woman-hating, self-loathing psychopath know if you didn't tell him directly?! /s, if that wasn't already clear...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:18 AM
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🤨 Tell me again that men are the more intelligent beings... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:02 AM
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👉👃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 08:55 AM
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Ha! Got banned from there for pointing out one of the many daily posts supposedly written by a woman, but was so obviously written by a man. They have a rule, you see: It's "rude" to "accuse" someone of lying. Because the last thing a lady would want to be is rude. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:23 AM
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All right, I see a cat, I'm comin' in... 🤪😸 Your kitty is adorable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:59 AM
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Gawd, I wish it was that easy to switch teams! Seriously! There has never been more viable proof that homosexuality is not "learned" than ::waves hands around:: .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:34 AM
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I love how he complains about how his wife supposedly wasted away her life by not "bettering" herself while raising his goddamn children...and the chance she gets, she chooses to better herself by getting a second degree...and he finds a way to derail that and put it down, too. I hate that women are constantly being backed into these shit situations where we are always forced to be an asshole. Either we choose to be a pushover asshole, an uncooperative asshole, or an honest asshole who points ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:06 AM
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Why is he still in your house? And why is the "HVM" tag still being used to deacribe him in any way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:50 AM
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Is this a certain popular feminist sub that appears on the front page often? 😂 So glad the male mods there finally banned me (for calling out a man pretending to be a "female"). I was so tired and (quite frankly) exhausted of reading shit posts like this. Unsubscribing frim all the horrible subs was like the "block & delete" for Reddit that I truly needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:39 AM
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::high five for obscure Python skit reference:: Yet another thing men have ruined for me and that I can never mention that I love in front of them because it suddenly becomes a f*cking competition or I'm clearly "faking". 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:40 AM
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Sadly, I wish I could say this was true everywhere I lived. But it is not. There will always be stunning, young women willing to give themaelves up to bridge trolls for the right amount of money. It doesn't even have to be that much money. It can sometimes be just the *promise" of a "successful future" (whatever that may mean, insert fantasy here). Sigh. We can only control our own actions and let others learn for themselves. Teach others by example in our own lives...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:32 AM
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As soon as he gave her the diapers, she should have asked him if this meant he was finally ready to act his true age and dumped his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:32 PM
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My sis lived in S. Korea for a few months and her students were constantly telling her that she "would look prettier" if she wore some makeup, or "she could get a boyfriend or husband" if she "only started wearing makeup or losing a bit of weight or got a bit of surgery". She was horrifed at how sincere they were being, and tried to convince them she was happy with how she was, and they just could. not. understand. at. all. It's sort of one of the reasons why I've sort of bypassed the K-Pop and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:47 PM
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The frugality subs are something else. Always shaming people, usually women and "feminine" luxuries in life, for spending $10 on themselves once a month and tellimg them they're idiots and fools because they could have spent only $8 and five hours of their time if they had made whatever themselves. And then it turns out they spend hundreds on video games or a PS5/gaming computer for themselves all the time, but that's "something I enjoy that brings value to my life". Losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 04:03 PM
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Yeah, when I saw the trailer, I was wondering why they're making a movie about their damn father instead of the TWO AMAZING WOMEN WHO ACTUALLY DID THE THINGS. They even had that stupid scene where he asks the girls who their best friend is so they can tell him that he is. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:05 AM
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LOL, ATP won't do shit. They didn't even scold Djokovic when he started to spout anti-vax bullshit (and still continues to). They only care about money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:49 AM
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Every time I see someome post about using OLD on here, I know they 100% did not read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:39 AM
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Can we do that, but with their vas deferens? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:24 AM
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Someone fucking send this asshole's IP address to the FBI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:06 AM
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Nah, cardboard can pretend to be many things convincingly. Dakota Johnson can't even act like anything other than boring ole Dakota Johnson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:08 PM
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I bet she'd totally leave her daughter alone in a room with all of these men, then. My brain automatically erases the existence of people who deride "wokeness" and "cancel culture" as if it's some scourge on society as harmful as disinformation, climate change, or the intentional systemic breakdown of democracies worldwide by right-wing factions. Because said denouncement of cancel culture is just a strawman argument and distraction to be used as a means to all three of those ends in one way or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:04 PM
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Yup. If you give no reaction to people looking for a reaction, that is the deepest cut of all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:03 AM
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Wait until she's 35. She'll probably be crying for a different reason after she's experienced a relationship or two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 06:23 AM
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I hope her father wakes her the fuck up and then kicks the shit out of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:53 AM
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"A quarter to never. Bye."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:20 AM
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Not being even willing to try is what kills it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:44 AM
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I hare horror movies because they make me get motion sickness due to the stupid handheld camera craze started by Blair Witch. Or they're so stupid and predictable that I can't suspend my belief. Either way, I end up falling asleep, so it's all a waste of my time (and money). The only horror movie I can think I ever remotely liked was Get Out. Even if I liked them...why would I ever enjoy watching people suffer as entertainment? Often the women and so-called "simps" die, so it just reinforces tox…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:09 AM
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Can your mom adopt me? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:23 AM
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My boss's boyfriend, who is the father of her 2 kids, is a teacher who constantly tells her that he'd love to become a SAH dad. She's so smart in every other way, but I know that doesn't exclude one from falling for a LVM and his forever GF baby trap BS. I'm just glad that she is the one who can easily walk away at any second while he would be left worse off in literally every way imaginable. I think she thinks this is why she's fine with not being married to this loser but...unless she is just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:58 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised if "she" was a male to begun with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:20 AM
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Tell him you deliberately walked slower than him because you were embarassed to have an uglier BF. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:16 AM
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He told her to his face she's "not worth $10,000". I hope she hears that in her head and LOLs when she walks the the aisle in a few years' tome with her better, hotter, richer, HV husband and her $40k diamond ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:42 AM
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Just go to the sub where people ask if they are an a- hole and you'll see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:40 AM
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This is the type of asshole who fails upwards by taking advantage of those weaker than him, and then yells at everyone how he did it all by his lonesome and no one helped him, so that's why he never lifts a finger to help anyone else. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:38 AM
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But he had a degree! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:35 AM
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As soon as he let that shit slip, I was like, "Well, you don't have to worry about spending your precious money on a ring ever now because no woman will ever want you now, much less this patient woman who was willing to put up with your bullshit and get you a cushy job with her uncle when you were worthless and lower than low yo everyone else. Enjoy never spending money on a woman ever again."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:33 AM
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Please don't converse with him anymore. It's okay to ghost this guy. Block and delete.
/r/askFDS19/10/21 04:59 AM
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I bet one of her traits is that all her friends are men and that she "just can't be friends with girls. They're just too much!" ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:38 AM
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Ugh. Just set that poor woman free to find an actual decent person to spend the rest of her life with while this scrote spends his retirement money on OnlyFans and other sex workers to fill the void of losing his bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:00 AM
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Did it have something to do with that bullshit "This post will probably get deleted" post earlier today that was total drama clickbait flame-out BS? Having been on the internet since the early 90s and since newsgroups, it's always someone whose feelings have been hurt from having been disagreed with who causes all this crap...and she (if she was really a woman) totally gave fodder to the scrotes constantly looking for something to criticize FDS about instead of just contributing positive things …
/r/askFDS09/10/21 03:01 AM
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Report him. He crossed a professional line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:47 AM
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They're not like other couples. ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:16 AM
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Even Tina Fey trashed Jezebel a decade or so ago on 30 Rock. It's been a joke for way longer. I just can't wait for the numbers here to go up due yo the free advertising. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:21 AM
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Jezebel supports sex work, porn, BDSM, 50/50, and a number of other very, very Lib-Fem and mysogynistic ideas. And people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:16 AM
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You know, it doesn't even nevessarily have to be that to be "levelling up". How many times has it been said that "levelling up" consists of just treating yourself to things that make you happy? But that doesn't make good clickbait, now does it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:13 AM
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Jezebel has always been full of 20-and-30-something freelance writers who think they're still shooting the shit with their classmates in high school. I stopped reading in my mid-20s when I realized they sounded like adults trying to rap in school to the kids in order to try and teach them things in a "cool" way. Edited because I am the queen of typos on a damn smartphone touchscreen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:10 AM
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Funny how Jezebel honed in on FDS "focusing on looks". The vibe I have gotten from this sub? "Loving yourself is leveling up, so do what you need to do to love yourself." This has nothing to do with "making yourself look good for men". This from the shitty blog that always focuses its news on the f*cking Kardashians like they're worth defending as feminist icons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:08 AM
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Jesus effin' H. Christ, like there isn't enough animosity between the Asian and Black communities (from both sides!), this is the last thing either side needs to see! This asshole just made it worse for both minority communities to break any negative stereotypes against each other. Freakin' moron actually thought he could prove otherwise by what he did? Why are men so goddamn stupid?! They really are their own worst enemies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:48 AM
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Until I found this sub, I was maybe 85-90% radfem already. But I still had the wacky thoughts that maybe I should be 50/50 with my partners in all things, and pay for some dates, and online dating wasnt that bad, and sex work being legalized would help sexworkers, and I shouldn't kinkshame... I'm really glad I finally unlearned the rest of that bullshit. It always felt a bit off and uncomfortable to me, but I always felt, "Well, I should be open-minded". Now I know I was just being gaslit into l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:07 AM
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Bald. Surprise. Die angry and sad, asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:48 AM
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Have you seen on other Reddit subs how men posing as women are trying to not-so-subtly try to make "pickme" into the complete opposite of what we mean on FDS? It's so freakin' obvious, it's laughable, but I bet they're all high-fiving each other with their cheeto-dusted hands and saying, "Brah, we did SUCH a good job! No one can even TELL we're not a GIRL!" 😂 😂 It's literally the same copypasta on all the different usernames, too. They're not even smart enough to be creative about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:50 AM
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I would've sold that shit for money I could use on something useful instead of a heavy watch I barely wear...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:50 AM
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I mean, look at how many extremely intelligent women fall prey to abusive relationships. Abuse knows no bounds. No one, not even die-hard FDS followers, are 100% immune. We just have to be careful. Some of them, men or women, are super sneaky and subversive. What is one of the biggest warnings here? Men can and will fake it until they think they've trapped you, and will keep the pretense as long as it takes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:12 AM
109

They're staring at the dicks and the men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:08 AM
27

It's because they know that simply having a penis is less and less likely to get you good grades or get you that job over all the harder-working women and minorities, so they're trying the last gasp "gaslighting" technique.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:38 AM
96

Maybe he smokes. Smoking ages you faster than drinking from the wrong choice Grail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:35 AM
40

Yeah, I kinda feel like they both were not meant to be in a relationship with each other...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:34 AM
103

Lucas is a piece of shit. Harry needs to find her a newer, better boyfriend who won't constantly be waiting for someone better to come along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:32 AM
14

What's that saying? A hit dog always hollers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:10 AM
149

Have been noticing a lot of these fale posts all over Reddit lately making women out to be heartless, gold-digging, outright cruel idiots to men (every single time) in a romantic/dating situation. Almost like there's a concerted effort from a group to continue ramming the narrative that "females have 100% of the advantages in relationships nowadays due to FeMiNiSm and men are juat helpless/have to play along if they want to be partnered up. ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:15 AM
18

I always remember the first time I realized this. Was a teenager in high school, and this asshole guy who always said asshole things but was somehow kind of popular and was thought of as a funny guy would always have to add to his "jokes" afterward, "I'm just really sarcastic." And I would always immediately think, "No, you're just really an asshole, but allowed to get away with it because people with dicks can't be 'catty', so we just say they're 'sarcastic' and 'witty'."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:47 AM
53

Don't forget the "Look at me, a MAN! Doing WOMAN things!! GIVE ME A MEDAL when all the women who have been doing these women things have been doing these things quietly and confidently without being lauded for centuries. WHERE ARE MY UPVOTES?!?!" posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:32 PM
34

The beauty and skincare subs always have idiot male teenagers and grown-ass men who clearly just need to wash their damn towels, clothes, bedsheets or backs. But when you say "You need to clean your face/back/whatever better", all the PickMes come out in force and say "It's genetics and has nothing to do with how clean you keep your face! Stop being mean, you meany face!" Well, that kind of bad acne that I see all the damn time is definite not genetic, and you should not be suddenly having acne …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:29 PM
20

Police are never the first people who come to mind when I need help in any situation. They're all fucking useless everywhere, if you ask me. Even the good ones are held down and rendered useless by the 98% of the bad ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:22 PM
47

I basically left every subreddit that had majority men in it. And those I still do happen to be subbed to, I block so man users on a weekly basis, my fingers get more of a workout than I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:39 AM
27

Yeah, once people stop using all the negative words used to describe women, we'll stop using this still-obscure-and-niche word to describe actually-shit men who do actual harm to people of all genders. ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:46 PM
37

Reddit is aware. Reddit doesn't give a shit. Reddit hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:41 AM
3

Some trees bear fruit and provide sustenance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:06 AM
8

Wow. What an absolute scumfucker of a piece of shit. I hope he got COVID and is now wheezing with every step and has everyone laughing at him. An asshole like that deserves nothing good in life. You should have reported his ass to the dating site and blasted him on every review site you could find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:56 AM
17

I mean, they kinda deserve each other if you think about it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:51 AM
30

They really are their own worst enemies, aren't they. We don't even need to do a damn thing except just sit back and laugh at their dumb asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:47 AM
73

The very same men who always act like they're dying when they get a cold. Fucking babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:43 AM
37

Why even entertain guys on OLD (if you're even still choosing to do OLD, which is basically useless to radfems, imho) who are " just visiting"? Even when I was a pickme trying out OLD for all of 1 month, I avoided "just visiting" like the plague because it was so obvious they just wanted to get laid for free during their vacation. But then again, I've always lived in super touristy spots, so maybe my cynicism precedes me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:41 AM
32

This is why you block and delete the first time. The second time never actually changes anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:28 AM
28

Mr. Rogers still good, right? Except for the creepy puppets. ::shudder::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:08 PM
13

I am a crazy wall decorator, but then again, I have very little space and need to use every bit of space I have! But yeah, I find blank walls depressing. Put up nice prints. Even in thr cheapest frames, they can make a space look great. Or find a nice tapestry. I also got cheap plastic roses on a vine and cheap led fairy lights and pinned those on thr wall (using the 3m tiny clear hooks for lights and wires). Hide fairy lights behind a sheer curtain. It's a fun way to be creative! Congrats on yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:04 PM
39

Those are the ones who most likely are men pretending to be women and always end up not being able yo keep up the pretense for longer than a few weeks because...well... ::points to obvious::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 07:51 PM
1

He has explained it plenty of times and knew her a bit before meeting her in person, but I mean... I'm not gonna get defensive over him. You're gonna see what you wanna see and pull evidence for what you wanna back up. ::shrug::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:11 PM
2

I don't see that as LV? People are allowed to grieve differently, and a year and a half isn't exactly short to me. But you can see what you wanna see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:10 PM
112

Olivia Munn's PR schtick always relied on who she was sleeping with at any given time. By design.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:26 PM
155

He had a coke problem and went to rehab about a year ago, I think. So I'm sure there were plenty of other warning signs before the affair for his poor ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:34 PM
31

Ugh, another comedian I used to like gets struck off my list. Olivia Munn was always a PickMe from day 1. Nothung had changed, I see. Patton Oswalt has continued to remain on the top of my favorites list, though. Will love him forever. Pleasepleaseplease don't do anything horrible....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:32 PM
170

Pro-lifers see it as a form of birth control, too, and will absolutely use it to their own advantage when they have to deal with the consequences of their own shitty actions. So they can all go to whatever hell they supposedly believe in right now and forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:09 AM
87

Oh, so he went to Trader Joe's and dropped $0.99 on the bag of pizza dough? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:49 AM
23

This. The concept of a "soul tie" is just another BS way for LV and ZV people to gaslight you into thinking that you are "making the wrong decision " when you choose to focus on bettering yourself. Stop using that kind of marketing/new agey catchisms. To be perfectly honest, I even find it kind of cringey using the FDS ones myself (note: this is just my own opinion), but they at least denote a truth, so I use them on the FDS fora. "Soul tie", "soul mate", "love language", "shame spiral", and all…
/r/askFDS22/08/21 07:51 AM
47

Such BS. You should have a license plate number and that paper license immediately after you register the car in any state in the U.S. Also, Uber shouldn't be letting unregistered cars on their platform. Not to mention it being illegal yo drive an unregistered car...except to get it registered. So many red flags. I try to stick with Lyft nowadays, but sometimes Uber has more availability and better pricing for the poor people like me. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:41 AM
34

I love ignoring men (and women) who are obviously so used to being "the popular one" or want to be "the favorite", "the most" whatever. Their response to being ignored by a [insert whatever insult they try to come up with to demean me ::rolls eyes:: ] always outs the "low-value" from the "high value" so easily. It's fail-proof, really. They really can't stand never being thought of by someone else they have met for even one second, much less anyone successful or competent in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:39 AM
68

Amen, especially to your last paragraph! I want to print it out in fancy font and paste it all over my home! 🥰💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:32 AM
101

Depends on if the OP described her bra size and measurements in the original post. Because you know it's a man describing a woman when that happens. Every. Time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:22 PM
76

Exactly. Look at what MacKenzie Scott is doing with her hundreds of millions of dollars, and she is doing it without press and fanfare. So much good for present and future society. Now look at what Jeff smalldick Bezos is doing with his billions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:33 PM
30

I know none personally. The only crushes I have had were celebs I have never been within a thousand miles of (probably, or knowingly).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:26 AM
6

You can maybe request a female oral surgeon and female assistants?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:49 AM
33

Exactly. Had a woman once insist that she thought male gynos were "more thorough" because female gynos "think they know what's wrong with you". There is so much internalized misogyny in women to fight in today's society STILL, it's insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:45 AM
23

Oh my god. That is horrific. Is it still possible to make a complaint? At least get it on record against the hospital?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:40 AM
3

We're always the ones who should "take the higher road". (Rolls eyes)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:29 PM
29

Are we twins? This was almost my exact experience! This one loser who had been "housesitting for someone for a year" (rolls eyes) asked me if I had any "hot friends to bring over for a party". I told him I'm not into parties and blocked him. Moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:32 AM
86

Un-fucking-believable. And men are the more "rational" species. ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:54 AM
11

If you're questioning the age gap, then you know deep down that you're with her for superficial reasons and you wouldn't have given her the time of day if she was your age. Your entire post reads like you trying to justify your age gap relationship and you wanting to "trick us" into permitting you into an age gap relationship and then going to all the incel subs and showing them how stupid we all are. This is even assuming you have a 25 year-old GF. It doesn't really matter, anyway. If she is re…
/r/askFDS23/07/21 10:14 PM
82

Oh, I bet the day it happens, we'll all suffer for it somehow...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:30 AM
3

I guess I get it, but I also see the reverse with Tomi Lahren and Tulsi Gabbard where the right-wing reveres them because of their atrocious views and does the whole "concern troll, whataboutism, trying to control the narrative and turning it on you" thing where they call you the misgyniat for hating them because they're powerful women while they admire them because those women are on their "side". So it only really works for men who share the exact same political views as you, I guess. And you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:34 AM
5

Gotcha. I was about to be like, "some of these names are not like the others..." 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:30 AM
0

I wouldn't say Tomi Lohren, Tulsi Gabbard, and J.K. Rowling are HVW either, but that's just my opinion...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:29 AM
8

There should be no thoughts. People who are blocked should stay blocked. Keep him blocked forever and stop thinking of him, and stop asking others about him. That's my thought.
/r/askFDS17/07/21 01:01 PM
6

Then why should any man bother being a decent, empathetic human being who stands up for anyone else? Do you see the problem with your defending men there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:58 PM
74

Yeah, well, he didn't try hard enough, because the worth of any woman (even someone he loves and knows) does not equal the worth of his social standing amongst other men who actually could not give a shit whether he was alive or dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:42 AM
51

The only people who ever cussed and screamed at me in all my years of retail and dealing directly with customers in any capacity were men. Women just complained to someone above me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:14 AM
16

Yes. I have a friend who considers herself a "man-hating feminist" who: 1.) Says it's fine to have used OLD to have a ONS with a man because she used him like a man uses women all the time for sex. She treated him like men treat women (libfem logic). I kept my mouth shut on that one and didn't say that the man still got everything that he wanted and then some because the deed was already done and she seemed extremely proud of it. Didn't want to burst her bubble and make her feel ashamed of somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:22 PM
41

Agreed. If he liked you as more than a friend at all, he would have told you in some way by now. Doesn't sound like he has given any indication besides his haphazard/lazy "I'm bad at reading if women like me" BS. Either he likes you enough to make some kind of move, or he doesn't. If not, then he ain't the one, so move on.
/r/askFDS02/07/21 03:42 AM
37

Even in professional settings now, they get ignored unless I am acknowledged directly or I need to ask them something for my job. I don't take any chances anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:56 PM
13

There isn't enough battery on my smartphone for me to type out my list. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:22 PM
14

Yeah, all stories I hear about him are that he's a major asshole. I mean, if you think the bar was low for laypeople, the bar is even lower for showbiz types, and Cavill even managed to not meet that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:37 AM
18

But better not have an ED...that means she's damaged goods! /s and rolling eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:33 AM
1

❤️🥰 Thank you for the story about your grandfather, and please tell him you love him and appreciate him while you still have time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:26 PM
64

Because other incompetent men who became leaders lift up other incompetent men as leaders, perpetuating the incompetent men as leaders cycle. Idiot men support their own because they see themselves in their "protegés" and think that because they succeeded themselves, their own loser qualities must be what it takes to succeed in this world. In reality, they're just continuing to keep this world as shitty as it's ever been. e.g. The past 5 male bosses I've had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:05 PM
9

Her mom is still not a bigger monster than the monster who actually abused both her and most likely her mother for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:20 PM
268

I don't like that literally every other adult failed this woman throughout her life until literally this year, but the fact that some people are trying to make her mother to be the "bigger monster" than the actual abusove shithole man responsible for all this in the first place makea me feel queasy. No, I have no sympathy for her PickMe mother, but her PickMe mother is still not worse than the actual man who caused all the abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:03 AM
35

There was also literally a dildo on the cover of the VHS, so no need for Eric or any man. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:26 AM
25

Bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:40 AM
44

Ugh. Maybe if you didn't have such a high ratio of useless men to women due to your one-child policy for 30+ years, you shouldn't be so selective in literally any woman wanting to stay in/move into mainland China, CCP. ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:33 AM
14

Yup. He wanted to trst his power over over someone else to make himself feel bigger and better today, and OP was the person he chose. And he chose poorly. 😂 Good on the OP for standing up for herself unapologetically, and I'm glad it didn't take a violent turn. I wouldn't trust the police either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:15 AM
28

I've said it before and I'll say it again: I regret not volunteering for that mission to colonize Mars. Earth is irredeemable in my lifetime...might as well just try to spend it on another goal on another planet. Though with my luck, only LVMs will have volunteered for the program, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:08 AM
17

My ex-boss would talk about a City manager dressing "impeccably" and driving "an expensive, nice car" as reasons why he thought this City manager "might be fruity". I saw this City manager once and he looked like literally every other upper management type I've ever seen: polo shirt, khakis, and dress shoes. My ex-boss was also supposedly super into cars and changed cars every 2 years because he "had a good friend at a car dealership". He was also all of 5'2". Pure projection for scrotes. Every …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:22 AM
84

Men don't care. Because so many are raised to be sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:11 PM
6

My sister calls herself a life cpachn has a life coach, and gora to life coaching workshops and groups. Ever since she first told me, I've known it was bullshit. But of course, I can't say shit. It doesn't help that she's the financial and professional success and I'm not, so people think it's because she's a life coach and has the qualifications. Um...no. It's because she has the snotty connections that I don't have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:21 AM
29

My answer is always, "Lucky, I guess!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:41 AM
3

Congrats! Wishing you all the best from this point on! ❤️💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:35 AM
14

Engineer should be on this list. Any type of engineer. All the types of engineer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:13 AM
12

This is also why I refuse to upvote the men who try to post on other mainly-female hobby/interest subs I frequent. They always get accolades and awards just for doing the bare minimum in life in anything they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:05 AM
110

My friend who calls herself a staunch radical feminist but has libfem tendencies (she has not discovered FDS yet) said Aziz Ansari's situation was " kind of misunderstood and not his fault". I shut her down immediately withn "No, that's libfem BS. You're allowed to say no at any time. Period." She had nothing to say to that because she knew, even by the libfem messaging, she couldn't argue with that. He forced himself on someone. He coerced her into oral sex. He is a rapist. End of discussion. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:05 AM
9

Yes, I found it somewhat benignly (is that adverb? 😂), too. But love it, just the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:31 PM
98

I'm seeing more and more "random" attempts throughout the rest of Reddit in the more mainstream subs to try and badmouth this sub in attempts to get it banned. Just a quick FYI. As always, they think they're being so subtle and "grassroots", like the Russians during a U.S. Presidential Election or something, but (as always) they are conspicuous as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:25 AM
37

Yup. As someone that didn't have a car until a couple years ago, I don't recall a time when a man ever offered anyone a seat unless asked to do so by someone else or saw someone else doing it first and he did it as an empty gesture to make it seem like he wasn't an asshole. I mean, we all see through it. They pretend not to see the obviously pregnant/elderly woman right in front of them until someone else (most likely another woman) offers their seat. Then the man pretend to suddently notice and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:29 PM
40

I have a car and I try to take thr bus/walk whenever possible because parking is such a nightmare. Also, other people are horrible drivers (not that I'm a formula 1 driver myself, but I'm at least not dangerous).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:09 PM
19

Exactly. Anyone who rails against public transportation (no pun intended) is automatically an LVM in my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:08 PM
19

And what's the response when men are rejected? "Like I wanna f&ck your ugly/stupid/fat ass anyway, you frigid b&tch!" ::rolls eyes:: They truly do not know how 100% predictable they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:25 PM
25

Ugh. Once I was staring off into space in the distance in a window's reflection and some idiot thought I was staring at him and walked all the way towards me to sit next to me. Morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:20 PM
31

Men literally everywhere at any time of the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:22 AM
18

Sigh... I do miss wearing lipstick. But I also love hiding behind my mask and my sunglasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:38 AM
16

Is this what they mean when SW say they support women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:24 PM
7

Unfortunately, the managers in my company have a shitty habit of enabling and covering up the stupidity. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:12 AM
13

But can we ask for links of TikTok and other content that has been posted here that are FDS friendly, so we can share with IRL people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:04 AM
16

I just don't get involved. At all. I suggest the exact thing that I know will work and will fix a situation once, IF asked. Or when tasked. Or if my boss is present and we are actively discussing the subject. But if I am not involved at all in the situation, or if my suggestions are immediately shot down or just plain ignored (100% of the time), then I just keep my mouth shut, sit back, and watch the shitstorm conflagrate. Sometimes it's amusing and gives me a dose of shadenfreude, because these…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:56 AM
5

Yeah. I learned my boss can't take it, either. So I just keep my mouth shut and just collect my famn paycheck while just concentrating on my job. I just bitch and commisserate with the other admin who understands what I have to deal with. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:46 AM
2

He did this on purpose as "revenge" for Father's Day. He doesn't give a shit about her PPD or her raising his kids for him while he does jack shit and acts like the "cool dad".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:33 PM
34

"It's your fault for not getting to the door I pointed out. You should have known what would happen. Don't blame the men doing what is in their nature to do." 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:47 PM
42

Most of my bullies were men. The women who did bully me were notorious PickMes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:44 PM
20

Her boobs and lack of penis makes her soooo clumsy and stupid! Learn how to walk with your smaller brain, feeeemale! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:42 PM
116

I had a freakin' BOY who couldn't have been more than 13 (looked like he weighed 80 lbs soaking wet) get up in my face because he was with his other loser friends and trying to act tough. I just gave him an "Are you shitting me?" look. Seriously, at least wait until your balls drop to be the true LVM you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:40 PM
6

Ugh, some people are miserable. Thank you so much for takimg these two lovely kitties in and giving them a wonderful, loving home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:06 PM
5

Tuxies! Your life must be so exciting! 😂 They're absolutely precious! 🥰😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:05 PM
8

Um... Can we please see a photo of these sweet luvvies? 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:03 AM
44

You know you need to stop. You know your entire family is messed up. Why are you asking us to validate your addiction? Please get yourself and your loved ones the help you need. Immediately. Before it's too late. For all of you. This is not an FDS issue. It is a life or death issue.
/r/askFDS07/05/21 09:48 AM
128

I know some men who love that shit. Let them have sex with this piece of shit and leave the women to thrive away from the losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:49 AM
5

Can someone link just the TikTok link for me to share with my private circle? TIA! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:15 PM
57

More of this, ladies. Gang up on these pervs in groups. We have the numbers. We have the power. They are cowards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:50 AM
23

Seriously. I can and have destroyed people with my words before (to the point that they still being it up decades later), but I would never say anything this deranged and violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:06 AM
48

Hell, at work every single one of my suggestions is rejected by my boss, and the idiot men just circlejerk themselves into a tizzy until they eventually end up... doing the exact thing I suggested in the at the very beginning, but was shot down by my boss initially. ::rolls eyes:: I don't suggest things twice, not after my boss shoots them down. I just sit back and bear witness to the morons complicate the simplest tasks. Frustrating as all hell, because instead of thinking, "This is what she su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:16 PM
10

Prince: Now I gotta go bother every woman in a 20-mile radius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:22 PM
26

I saw this in another subreddit. The amount of responses from men about this about how "the wage gap is a myth" and their resulting "reasoning" and gaslighting of the women who try to explain why it's not a myth is an exercise in "over-confidence of mediocre men" and "mansplaining". I mean, that one entire thread should be preserved for all time as the paradigm for mansplaining, truly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:29 PM
54

It'S bIoLoGy! 😁🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:10 AM
6

Dude, how? HOW? I have the ever-hated grouted tile currently, and I only clean my shower monthly to prevent mold and soap scum build-up, and STILL it doesn't look ANYWHERE NEAR this nasty. It doesn't even look as dirty as the "clean" pic on the right! Though having worked at certain companies before and having grown up in a family that didn't really keep things super clean, you'd be surprised just how many people do not know anything about how and where mold grows/comes from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:32 PM
72

This reminds me of a pamphlet that I used to see in my university's health services waiting room: "Chlamydia is not a flower."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:14 PM
20

Exactly. 99% of the time, it means "she stopped doing everything. I tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:01 AM
11

My mom had multiple c-sections. After the last one, the doc told her he had to tie her tubes or her stomach would explode if she got pregnant again. It's not exactly a better option. She almost died after her first one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:58 AM
8

I hope you have him a shifty rating and complained yo Uber. Not that Uber does anything. I much prefer Lyft if I ever need to use rideshare, but my stupid company keeps giving me Uber gift cards...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:18 PM
110

So infuriating. I feel horrible for that little girl... That's probably the only positive reinforcement she gets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:11 PM
18

"I wanted her to do all the emotional and physical labor. I just didn't feel like doing anything to even gain her attention in the first place..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:12 PM
2

That is a beautiful poem! Thank you do much for sharing this treasure with your sister and all of us! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:26 AM
1

This is what my rich sis is doing and even though I never wanted kids, I support her 100% and can't wait until I get a niece or newphew to spoil and teach to become either a radical feminist or an ally. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:24 AM
26

A lot of assholes suck up to pets, then start to abuse them horribly once they trap their woman in an abusive relationship. They start abusing the animal(s) and the woman at around the same time and use the animal abuse as another means to control the woman. Again, men will play the game as long as they feel they need to in order to get what they want. And they can pick it up as many times as they feel they need to. This is why us women have to continually be on our guard, even after we're marri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:11 AM
13

LOL. So it's basically 2x?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:08 AM
4

And the male Reddit admins took that report seriously while ignoring and greenlighting all the outright sadistic shut I see and report regularly on 2X and literally every other subreddit where women are not 99% of the members. Fuck Reddit admins. Go ahead, report this comment so they can read what hypocritical, misogynistic pieces of shit they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:22 AM
56

It sucks. No one anywhere ever wants to think that they are "stupid enough" to ignore all the red flags. To give ten thousand second chances. To be "beneath everyone else". No, we ALL like to think we're the exception. "It only happens to people from broken homes. Who have daddy issues. Who have mental trauma. Blah blah blah. It could never happen to ME, a smart, aware, educated woman who has life experience." Until it does. This is why women need to support each other instead of tearing each ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:28 AM
18

Same. Same. Most of my posts are comments, and most are about cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:27 PM
11

I really wish my relatives and friends would move onto other social media or actually keep in touch in other ways. But I basically have to keep FB and IG or cut people I genuinely care about out of my life, which sucks. All because these tech loser assholes manipulated literally everyone into thinking that email "takes too much time". ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:49 AM
5

Thanks! Saving for later this weekend when I have the time to get through it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:46 AM
36

There's always someone desperate enough for a rich person. Also, sociopaths attract certain personality types and vice versa...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:43 AM
12

Because the male emperors didn't want anyone else touching their many concubines. Of course. #NotAllMen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:41 AM
16

I mean, look at how corsets and corseting came back. I know people who either put it into the "cosplay" or "kink" category. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:36 AM
10

I mean, most of what men have to say might as well be coming out their ass anyway...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:28 PM
40

It started out as a racist thing that was also always tied to a white woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:21 PM
26

I love how they pop up and try to defend themselves by saying what the "male equivalents" are, and then name the dozens of male names that are used. The fact that no one can agree on one is truth to thr misogyny of the "Karen" meme. And yes, we all know by now it started as a racial thing, but no one can deny that it was also always misogynist, as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:20 PM
32

I love a man who knows how to use cologne and has a nice collection. I have a huge perfume collection myself. I just love things that smell good. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:15 AM
14

What a cutie pie! My heart bursts when I see kitties carrying things in their mouths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:58 PM
32

I think it's always an ongoing struggle with trying to overcome something like that, especially if you hurt someone so badly a d broke someone's trust like Terry Crews did with his wife. You need to constantly be building that trust up every single day. And there's no way he hasn't had little slips along the way because he's human. This is a cycle I think we've all been through in some form or another with someone in our lives in some capacity, on both ends. And I think it's amazing and strong o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:41 AM
13

This reminds me of something that happened over a decade ago, but always amuses me when I think about it because it's so damn ridiculous. I was at a Target in the feminine hygeine aisle, and we all know they put the condoms in the same aisle (because it's oh-so-subtle that the woman shoyld handle the birth control, amirite? 😾). Anywho, I'm just pawing at my fave type of Stayfrees when all of a sudden a blonde girl just zooms up next to me where the condoms are with her boyfriend and says loudly,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:08 AM
3

"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle." - Irina Dunn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:55 AM
1

Thanks. Appreciate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:00 AM
97

It could also be a "poor people" thing. So on second thought, yeah...an American thing. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:28 PM
40

And his sexual history of liking "rough sex" would have been used as his defense in a way of "he can't help it! BiOlOgY aNd MeNtAl IlLnEsS!" I wish I had applied to go on that rocketship to Mars...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:26 PM
518

Or the men reporting the post because their penises got sad. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:22 PM
2

I already did this and was not approved. So someone must not like me there. ::shrug::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 08:38 AM
33

It's really sad when you see their fake LARP accounts try to post all over other subreddits (like ChoosingBeggars) trying to badmouth FDS in any way they can, just to go on their unhinged diatribes, and then a whole string of morons (most probably other AHS LARPers) saying they went on, read our posts, and need to "bleach their brains" or some other oh-so-original (read: obviously scripted) response. They truly think they're being MI5/CIA subtle. This is how pathetic they are. Because all they h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:39 AM
5

The cynic in me is going to ask if male employees, including contractors/plumbers/etc. are still allowed. Because if they are, the dangers facing women at a hotel are still there, imo...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:18 AM
45

I hate some of the Shein posing. It's so porn-y. But I guess you get what you pay for at Shein. Sigh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:12 AM
42

Reddit probably just found a loophole. If they don't pay this person directly via Reddit's coffers, then this person isn't technically employed by Reddit anymore...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:41 AM
23

They're not asleep. They just pretend and make the occasional "Just report those comments. I swear, we *totally* remove them!" proclamations whenever someone laments about how often the MRA brigade comes in to derail the conversations with their bullshit, but they don't actually *do* anything. It's all lip service. Typical "listen to all the good I'm doing, but don't actually look too deeply and look to see if I'm actually following through and doing what I say." Armchair social activism. Don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:40 AM
28

Ha. Which explains why my misogynist-as-all-hell-male-modded-and-dominated regional subreddit didn't even so much as pause during this whole debacle. Not even a peep from anyone. Not that I expect anyone on there to give actually give a crap about actual children being harmed, especially young girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:35 AM
27

I love the brilliant and spot-on observations here. Did anyone else feel like he was downplaying his "faults", and even lowkey shaming his ex-gf for her "ambitions" and "gift-giving". Like it was basically because of her actual expectations and not because of his lack of everything that was the real problem. That's the tone I got out of it. It sounded like an elaborate backhanded compliment/humblebrag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:52 AM
9

I have even tried every method of trying to get approved to comment. ::shrug:: Oh well. I'm not here to win a popularity contest or curry the mods' favor. If someone doesn't want me to comment on that subreddit, then whatever. I should probably spend less time on Reddit anyway. I've been meaning to do more craft projects anyway. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:05 AM
97

It's so heartbreaking, the mixed messages that misogynists and libfems are giving this poor woman. "Sometimes men just want to be the little spoon! But men arent2 allowed to be vulnerable and emotional!" "But sex doesn't always have to be intimate and special!" F*ck right off with that trash. If this woman wants sex to be intimate and special every time, then she deservrs to be with someone who wants the same. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:52 PM
21

Same thing on AskWomenOver30. I dared disagree with someone in a thread (not even the OP or a mod). I wasn't banned, but she literally called me a c-word and b-word and insulted me in numerous ways, and I reported her comment multiple times for multiple reasons. It was never removed. I just unsubsrcibed because that was just the last straw. The advice on that sub is bullshit anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:23 PM
26

Yeah, but I'm able to post and comment here while totally blocked on AskFDS for some reason (have literally never been able to post a comment there ever) while all these people are able to post questionable BS? It's shady as hell...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:05 PM
22

This is grade A "Patriarchal Leopards Ate My Face" material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:13 AM
3

Don't worry. They're all "just having a bad day". 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:17 AM
8

I'm imagining a 50 year-old neckbeard whining about how all the 20 year-olds he tries to creep on are "so rude and inconsiderate of his feelings".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:16 AM
17

"This situation must be executed." "Sir, this is a Wendy's."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:08 AM
21

I had to go claim my free award just so I could gift it to you for this act of perfection. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:02 AM
11

I mean, as an East Asian person, that movie always sucked for me, but yeah, I did always think the other men weren't exactly princes. Not really gonna look for HVM values in 99.99% of 80s movies, tbh. Especially the teen comedies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:57 AM
1

Solidarity, sister! ✌ I also forgot to add, support your other admins, male or female. Even if they don't outwardly support you. I always try to lift the other women in whatever company I'm in up, no matter if they're "below" or "above" me in stature, because I know just how hard it is in the man's world of construction and engineering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:28 AM
4

Honestly, the only advice I have is to just keep doing your job as well as you can and to kind of try and be seen as "part of the team" as much as possible without really being seen as a pushover, if that makes sense? Like, if the guys ever complain about something not happening that falls under your jurisdiction, just tell them that all they need to do is tell you and it would be done, but if you never hear about it, that's on them, not you. And sometimes you do need to repeat stupid shit like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:11 PM
91

For East Asian women especially, misogny and racism are always, always a package deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:34 AM
15

Been in the construction industry for almost 17 years now. It hasn't changed much, but if you find a somewhat better company, they might at least put up the appearance that they give a shit about the few women in the company, even the women in the vastly disrespected admin roles like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:05 AM
35

Why???????? I just ate lunch! 😳😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:21 PM
84

Many moons ago, during a particularly hot and humid DC-area summer, I was walking to the metro station to go to work in the morning and this hairy topless dude goes jogging past me. His sweat got on me. On my face. I stopped dead in my tracks and literally shuddered in disgust. I was too far away from my apartment to go back and eash my face, sp I had to wait until I got to the office. Ugh. I hate men who run topless. I don't care how fit they are, wear a goddamn shirt. No one wants your gross b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:20 PM
83

😆 I am dying laughing at this entire post and thread. I don't feel so alone and bad for disliking mustaches, beards, or any facial hair now. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:15 PM
7

Pepper spray is illegal in my state, as are stun guns. I'm so pissed. I just try not to walk around alone at night...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:47 AM
8

Rooting for you, and hoping you get a stimulus check soon to help you along! ✌👍❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:22 PM
10

Please don't forget to change your locks! And congrats on never losing yourself! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:21 PM
113

I swear, there was a crosspost about asking a doctor to mark a "denial of service" on your record if you ask for a test and he/she refuses, but I can't find it anywhere now. But the educational ones with things that aren't in the handbook (such as the posts teaching us about the terms MRAs and other hate groups use) are just super useful in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:31 PM
19

Exactly how Conservatives are all up in arms about "Cancel Culture", when they're always the OG "SJWs". Or "fck your feelings"... Until "but that's MEAN!!" when it's *their feelings. All textbook Gaslighting, Obstructing and Projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:16 AM
11

Well, I don't see the writer of the article volunteering. Go on, if she believes in it so much. Charity begins at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:12 AM
26

Exactly. Who the hell thinks like that? And also.... Why would you want a member of the police force to think like that?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:05 AM
24

The edgelord "journalists" (ha) on their HBO show openly goad locals they contact/hire in violent, war-torn areas of the world to head further into danger (and then openly show and voice their excitement at the drama playing out to the cameras) just for the ratings and drama. It's not about "journalism" at all. It's a fucking tabloid that pretends to cover "serious" topics. They have no right being so smug about their shitty articles and pieces. That office must stink of self-loathing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:57 AM
123

Honestly, I've met people like Dominique before, and she's the type of ten-faced person to be all "OMG, you're such a strong, courageous, inspirational example of feminism!" to your face, and then she turns around to her friends and completely tears apart every single thing you just told her in minute detail because she is completely and utterly devoid of anything good and interesting inside herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:42 AM
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It's shitty tabloid journalism and gaslighting manipulation at its finest. Are we surprised that she is a writer at VICE? Isn't the founder notorious loser and scumbag? All their articles and news pieces are shit, too. Trying way too hard to be taken seriously with clearly way too little talent and inability to do actual research and hard work. It's a tabloid, plain and simple. They knowingly seek out the drama and bullshit that they know will enrage a certain idiotic base. Their reporting on fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:19 AM
22

I live in Hawaii, where Japanese culture is prevalent and we get tons of Japanese tourists (well, we did in the Beforetimes), and yeah... The racism is totally there. Even the local Japanese... I have heard them compare black men to gorillas and apes. It was disgusting and not a one-off incident. They always say that it's so multi-ethnic here that people are free to make racial jokes, but that was a step too far for me (and I'm always jokingly blaming stuff on me being Chinese). Now...I am Chine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:08 PM
15

I'm so glad my dad, who can so often fall into horrible old-school Asian thinking, is not like this with my mom and her health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 08:46 PM
19

Twins run in my family, so yeah...reason #56 why I am child-free. I knew this post would turn up here when I read it this morning. And I also was happy to see most comments telling the OP that he doesn't deserve sympathy. He still only cares about himself and getting his own happiness back. His poor wife had her body and entire successful career ruined permanently because of him, but oooooh, pity HIS lost carefree lifestyle of yore. 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:57 AM
91

Also, why would I want to bring a kid into this world that Boomers fucked up so badly beyond repair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:05 AM
27

This is why I refuse to live in a walk-up building. I'd rather continue living paycheck-to-paycheck and adjust my budget accordingly every month for luxuries than deal with this bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:29 AM
2

"But the courts are so stacked against fathers when it comes to their children!" ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:00 AM
33

Yes, and may I please add that this includes the downvote system on Reddit? Downvotes do not mean a damn thing IRL, and should not affect your confidence and belief in your own self-worth IRL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:06 PM
3

Serena is still out there kicking ass and being a great role model, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:45 AM
7

I love them! Need to look up painting classes once this whole pandemic thing is over...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:47 AM
6

Despite finding Armie Hammer objectively attractive, I was never attracted to him because I always had a gut feelimg about him that he was trying too hard to... Be a certain someone all the time in order to sell women an image of him. It's a feeling I have often with very attractive men who know they're physically attractive. And it sort of disgusts me? Does that make sense? Like it literally makes my stomach a bit nauseous and unsettled enough that I can't even watch those kind of men talk on T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:25 AM
7

This is also yet another reason why Conservatives everywhere do not want the pandemic to end, even when it kills them in higher numbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:19 AM
5

I wanna grow old to be Dorothy. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:18 AM
3

You know what they say: You can take the gal outta Jersey, but you can never take the Jersey outta the gal. 😉😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:07 AM
386

Did anyone else get the random survey on the Reddit app? On the "enter a comment" part, where they asked me why I wouldn't recommend Reddit to anyone, I only wrote "Reddit hates women."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:33 AM
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Yeah, if it's some rando's party where I only knew the people I came with, no way in hell would I offer unless maybe I became friends with the SOBER host during the night. Then I might offer to help HER (not HIM) clean up or if she needed help with anything. Anything else, if I just didn't wanna be at the party, I'd just...y'know, LEAVE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:25 AM
94

There has also been an uptick in Asian hate crimes all over North American and European countries, so please stay aware and safe out there, Asian women. All women should, of course, but Asian women (and elderly Asians of all genders) have been targeted much more since the pandemic started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:56 AM
32

And then in every other women-oriented subreddit they can access: N0t @ll m€n!!!!!!! Generalizations don't help anybody!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:34 AM
94

Fucking disgusting. There's a horrible reason why police departments reject you if you're too smart...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:36 PM
7

Qidiots literally believe in frazzledrip. I mean... They literally believe Hilary Clinton rips off children's faces and drinks their blood. That is frazzledrip. Without irony. Q is rife with anti-Semitic bullshit centering around blood-libelous conspiracies. It's so fucking obvious to anyone with more than two brain cells to rub together, yet here we are...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:50 AM
38

I think it's because we've been reporting their actual fascist and seditionist and traitorous asses to the FBI and actually getting them in trouble? And they're trying to get us in trouble? I bet you the actual FBI agents are reading some of the reports from these male idiots like, "yeah, I think the reportee is the one that needs to be put on the list..." Edited because touchscreens! 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:41 AM
5

Oh, so now anti-Semites are now broadening the centuries-old blood libel claim to include feminists? Hooray! Now you know we've really made it, ladies! Whoo hoo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:34 AM
9

This reminds me of the snowglobe contest my company just had with the theme akin to what we wished for the holidays, and the Financial Manager of the company won 2nd place with literally a half-assed entry of a Sugar Daddy lollipop in a plastic toy treasure chest. Gross. She is a single woman around my age, but skinnier and dresses/acts traditionally "feminine" in my very male-dominated and very misogynistic construction company. It just made me roll my eyes so hard. And makes me just realize ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:48 AM
10

They're literally $35 on clearance at Saks Off 5th and some of the cheapest ones on the rack. Even I know not to buy that shit, and I'm yellow trash. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:38 AM
3

Ding ding ding ding ding! These morons are just running a disinformation campaign because they can't stand the fact that a women's only space exists anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:25 AM
2

TBH, it's the main reason why I haven't been on this sub as much as I used to. Too many newbies who obviously haven't read the handbook or the sub rules just getting away with it, and me not having the time or energy to keep reporting them all... It's not the reason why I come on here, to report literally every other post or comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:40 AM
3

I would maybetey volunteering? I know it's tough now with the pandemic, but there might be litter clean-ups or trail maintenance groups near you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:04 AM
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Yeah, I dunno. I like the movie and all, but I wouldn't exactly call it radical feminism...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:49 AM
9

I am so glad I now have woman OB/GYN and a woman GP. And whenever possible, I try to go with the women on any list of specialists I see. It doesn't always assure a good doctor (I have made complaints against one before because she literally rescheduled my blood check-up appointments for "conferences" 4 times within the span of 6 months), but I have been very lucky ::knock on wood:: with my current docs. Keep looking, ladies. You don't necessarily have to stay with whoever they assign you to init…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:51 AM
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Seriously. If her rudeness wasn't attractive, then why do you think your unwanted opinion is? The door is right there. Literally no one is begging for you to stay, right? Use your legs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:29 AM
2

I am keeping aaaalllll the masks I made, and will continue to wear my masks once I start taking public transportation again. 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:09 AM
3

I knew one in high school and even made a formal written complaint against him because he was gossiping about me to some of the girls he creeped on in my class (one of the girls nearby who overheard was friends with my sister, and told my sister, who told me). This asshole was also notorious for assigning seats in his physics class (the only science teacher to do so) and placing the prettiest girls closest to him. Everyone knew and talked about it. No one thought it was a coincidence. My sister …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:17 AM
21

What, she run the cleaner over the poor dog too and now it's sparkling? This whole video is cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:24 AM
6

As if I couldn't hate beards any more...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:39 PM
67

Only the dirty Democrat women, though. Look whose office they immediately trashed and made a show of stealing and destroying. I hope they rot in federal prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:48 PM
52

I agree. The first thing I thought after reading some of the replies (including the OP's) in the original thread was that the son must be up to no good with either a bad friend(s) or significant other, and/or some sort of addiction that is fueling his need to be a financial leech on his mother for as long as humanly possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:28 AM
17

Fucking traitors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:41 AM
3

Aw, adorable little Nacho. 😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:09 AM
3

I think it can be interpreted either way, and you can take away good and bad things from the show. I liked the show overall, so I'm just going to have to say I disagree. I can reject the bad stuff in the show and embrace the good stuff, just like in the novels, because it's all entertainment and escapism to me. Can it do better? Yes. Should we push it to do better? Of course. But I'm happy with small steps, too. ETA: Sarah MacLean wrote an excellent article about the classic rake in historical r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:47 AM
10

Cue the gif of Professor Farnsworth saying, "I don't want to live on this planet anymore..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:31 AM
89

😆 Seriously. The money I make is to be spent on me and the people I love and care about and however I see fit without any obligation whatsoever? Whatever will I do?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:10 AM
1

I hate it when cashiers ask you for your phone number and you have to say it out loud. Wish they would let me punch it in on a keyboard so I don't have to announce it to the world. I'm less worried about shitbags during cuffing season, though, and more worried about scammers and MLMers of which there are plenty around me because I live in a city with a huge wealth gap problem...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:22 AM
22

AirBnB doesn't care about anything, laws and residents of the places they're destroying, as long as they keep getting rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:29 PM
10

A lot of it does still have a tiny bit of Pick Me energy, but mainly because it takes place in Regency England. They do make it very modern by giving the women lots of agency and power over their own lives and the lives of the men they're attached to. It does have a strong female empowerment message. Overall, I liked the tone of it and didn't dislike too many of the female character (that I wasn't supposed to dislike). The show is very much through the female gaze, sex scene included. As a fan o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:27 PM
15

Even though George was my favorite, the older I got, the more apparent it was that Paul was really the only decent Beatle. And even he has his LVM moments. But he really is the best Beatle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:13 AM
12

I cooked lamb chops Tuesday night, but tonight I splurged on Chinese delivery because I got an unexpected bonus at work. Even though the food wasn't as good as I wanted it to be, I still supported a local business and I treated myself. And finally got my fried rice fix! 🎉🎊🎄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:54 AM
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I literally just read one there where a woman asked if she was the AH because she took the kids out for dinner without her husband because the husband "forgot" (actually willingly neglected to after seeing there was nothing to make sandwiches in the fridge) to feed the kids all day because he was working from home and got caught in a 4-hour meeting...even though he insisted he could handle the childcare duties. And 70% of the replies were ESH. Some were even saying the woman should hace made alt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:20 AM
3

I like watching some game walkthroughs because I'm a nerd for some of the storylines (like the Assassins Creed games) and love the history aspect of a lot of the games. I also grew up watching my bro play games because I suck at gaming due to not being able to press the damn button combos at the right moments! But it's not something I wanna do regularly. Meaning more than once every 3 months. Then it becomes kinda sad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:14 AM
12

I always kind of felt like an odd duck whenever I told everyone in my life (especially my family), "If I find a guy worthy enough to marry, great. If I don't, I'm fine with myself and my loved ones." But everyone kept asking me, "But don't you feel incomplete? No. No, I don't. And FDS gave me the community that I needed to make me realize I'm not alone, and that I'm never done leveling up. Also that using emojis is perfectly normal and cool. 💪👑💜😁😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:51 AM
4

Sigh...if only men our age were high value... 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:41 AM
11

Whoa, seriously? Men truly cannot be feminists...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:31 AM
44

Something she has no control over and which most dental plans refuse to cover, so that makes this asshole like...quintuple the asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:00 AM
7

I guess I understand, but it kinda doesn't sit well with me, that's all. Just my opinion, obviously. I just don't want people to think FDS endorses this PoS... He has never been, and he will never be, an ally of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:19 AM
24

Why are we allowing NVM trash like Joe Rogan on this subreddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:31 AM
99

Why would I care what literal children think about adult women they don't know? I'm busy living a busy, single adult life with freedom and contentment they can only imagine at this point, and will most likely never achieve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:42 PM
4

Man, if I am ever fortunate enough to own my own property, I wouldn't even let my own family and friends (for whom I would take a bullet) touch anything that I haven't personally seen them do/fix/build with my own eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:42 AM
26

Yes, all the girls in my 8th grade class were taught self defense tactics one random day in gym class by some guy, and four of the biggest things I remembered was: 1.) If someone is choking/strangling you, stick your thumb in their eyehole. Just deep into their eyehole. 2.) If you can, always aim for the groin area. Always. 3.) When punching, don't punch with a clpsed fist. Curl your fingers and thumb in, keep your palm open, keep your hand stiff in this position, and use as much force while hit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:06 AM
16

She said it was still "embarassing" to have been rejected, but they "had a long talk", and she's gonna stay with him. Comments on thr update are about 70/30 "he doesn't want to marry you so dump his ass"/"OMG, y'all are so toxic here, it will be fine!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:40 AM
42

Yup. Illegal in my state. So are stun guns. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:37 PM
18

Seriously. His friends are fucking trash and so is he if he doesn't tell them that when they treat his wife like that to her face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:57 AM
27

Also men: "Men are never favored in court for child custody! Misandry and matriarchy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:52 AM
127

"Be romantic" = "Wear makeup and sexy lingerie 24/7 while doing all chores and cooking for me while also working 40+ hours a week to support my lifestyle of videogames and masturbating all day".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:42 AM
3

So I do focus groups sometimes...and it's always always always the men who dominate the discussions by being the first to speak up, talking over people because they feel they just have to have their opinion heard first, correct others, start arguing with the hosts or other participants, go off on tangents and rants about totally unrelated issues... I mean, just name it. If I weren't getting paid cash to be in those groups, I'd just get up and walk out when they start to talk every time. Would ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:24 AM
7

I've seen grown men fondle the asses and thighs of literal pre-teen girls on the bus. Often while they're exiting so no one can do anything about it. And mainly on a very crowded bus so I couldn't easily get to the bus driver and tell him/her. Fucking degenerates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:20 AM
14

::rolls eyes and screams:: Everywhere is literally a men's shelter, assholes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:16 AM
8

How many idiots have already tried to sue bars for "Ladies Nights" already? Morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:15 AM
18

When my friend and I went to Tokyo last year, we went to a women-only spa. It was so relaxing. Not even men were allowed in the restaurant part of the spa. I can't wait to go back. Figures that such a patriarchal society has had to carve out so many women-only spaces!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:14 AM
7

I often wonder why gyms have huge open windows for people to gawk at the members from outside. I hate that and refuse to even consider places like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:09 AM
3

I so badly wish there was a women's gym near me. There is a Curves I can drive to, but the hours are horrible for someone with regular work hours and it wouldn't be worth thr membership. There's also the YWCA, but parking is bad and I would have to take the bus at night in my workout gear, which is not ideal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:07 AM
6

Fake banana flavor is the worst... 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:28 AM
3

😆 Mods removed all the comments that said it was fake, but left all the responses to those comments supporting that it was fake. Has anyone noticed an increase of male LARP posts on subs like TwoX and GirlsGuide lately? Like it's a concerted effort? Not surprised in the least. I guess lots of LVM don't have loved ones to devote time to this holiday season. ::playing tiny violin::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:50 AM
1

LVM only want compliments from women they can imagine themselves having sex with. If the woman is ugly, fat or old, then they will still complain. Nothing is ever good enough for LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:16 AM
28

This reminds me of when some idiot troll tried to insult a photo I posted to r/slowcooking once, saying it looked like shit. So my response was that he really shouldn't be looking at the mirror while posting on Reddit at the same time. He immediately deleted his comment. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:22 AM
22

He's not clueless. He thinks he's a genius by oh-so-cleverly using his "empathy" to "empathize" with us "old female uggos" to label us all as "damaged, ugly, undesirable morons who are no good for anything else other than practice sex dolls for improved models of incels like him." And he thinks the FDS women are stupid enough to believe it. The sad thing is, men and PickMes are stupid enough to believe it, so the hate for FDSers will grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:23 AM
4

Just adding my thanks and appreciation to the mods in this sea of love and gratitude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:10 PM
6

Heh heh. The only thing I envy tall women for is not having to use a stepladder or those grabny claws as often as I do. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:33 AM
5

My parents say this all the time, and I just cannot believe them! They say it's a filterless system. I don't know if that exists...but I do know they don't ever change any filters on anything! They have only ever had to fix their central A/C system once, surprisingly (in 25 years).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:24 AM
10

I would love to join your subreddit because I hate working out, but I can walk for miles if I have the time or need to get somewhere on foot/have a purpose (including hiking with this). Keep us updated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:52 AM
17

Most of the homeowners I know, no matter the age, have no idea abput basic home maintenance and waste so much money hiring experts and conractors to fix or maintain basic shit. Becauae they couldn't, say, change the filter for the A/C. Or the hole in the basement that was letting the huge rats into the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:14 AM
84

I'm so grateful for the creators of this sub and the handbook. You take the brunt of the hate and violence from these seriously disturbed and deranged men and still stay strong and supportive of us women. Thank you for not giving up. I hope one day someone at Reddit realizes these men throwing death and rape threats should be sent to jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:01 AM
28

I bet viagara is covered, though. ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:19 AM
10

Well, he does have a middle-schooler's ability to grow facial hair...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:42 AM
26

I need to see if it will be available on any streaming services...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:24 AM
16

Men only volunteer to meet women to trick into fucking them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 09:31 AM
2

I think it wouls be hilarious if one of these idiots happened to have a PickMe SO and asked her to LARP as an FDS disciple...only for her to be converted and leave his ass. And I would hope she would sing her song of freedom here for us all to enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:01 AM
1

She made a disclaimer about it "being the regular flu, not COVID". My brain went "sigh, here we go" as soon as I read that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:52 AM
2

NoVa...of course. So glad I moved away feom the DC metro area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:00 AM
8

Yeah, I read it early in the morning for me and couldn't even get past the second paragraph. But I finished it and realized it was 100% a man posing as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:50 AM
8

I love my Schick Quattro. One "blade" lasts me months. I so only shave my legs and pits once a week, though. I do sometimes wish I could find a better indie shaver...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:46 AM
47

She posted this bullshit on TIFU, too, so you know it's all about attention and karma whoring. And of course, it got twice as many updoots there. I can't with these PickMe humblebrags. Reminds me of bullies in high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:21 PM
2

Bret Easton Ellis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:43 AM
3

Ugh. I remember being so excited to finally read this book when I was a freshman in high school because of all the cultural hype and my teenage angst. Throughout the whole thing, I kept thinking, "Maybe it actually will start saying something worth saying soon? In the middle? At the end?" I got to the end and I was like, "WTF?" I hated the book. But of course, you can't crticize a "classic", especially in high school. Salinger was an LVM, anyway. Though if any story of his was interesting and ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:42 AM
1

The best role model a woman could have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:29 AM
2

I don't even wear dresses that often, but when I found two cute dresses on sale at Target with pockets, you better believe I bought both of them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:29 AM
1

There clearly aren't that many there anyway. Most of the women who post there are in their 20s... 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:28 AM
2

You can report a Mod. It won't do shit because Reddit hates women, but you can still do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:24 AM
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Used to see it a the time in all the dating subreddits before I decided to just take myself out of the game forever. Posts from a single man vowing never to date another single mother because he realized he will never be #1 in her life, and the man is praised while the mother gets labelled as selfish and a shitty, enabling bitch. Posts from a woman vowing to never date another single father because she feels like she's only there to be a babysitter for the father. Cue attacks on the woman, prais…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:04 AM
2

How has no one mentioned Entourage yet? I don't even need to watch more than onr episode to know it's toxic bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:34 AM
3

Yes, gawd. Read this in middle school and just thought the entire time, "Heathcliff is just batshit crazy and Catherine is just as batshit crazy for tolerating that shit."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:33 AM
2

Thanks! Will try that in a few months. Give them time to forget how annoying they must think I am by now. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:26 AM
5

🙋👸✊ Keep it up, ladies! We're worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:10 AM
9

Ugh, I'm disgusted at how you and your friend were treated, and I'm not surprised at all that a special law field exists to defend domestic violence perpetrators (I mean, there are lawyers that make bank defending drunk drivers, after all). I learned about the choking = murderer statistic early on, luckily, and I don't think it's an exaggeration to say that it has saved my life in a couple of instances involving men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:44 PM
71

It's common knowledge for even the faux feminists nowadays that choking is the #1 precursor to domestic homicide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:44 AM
5

I got the FDS Newbie flair pretty quickly because it's pretty obvious, but I cannot for the life of me get approved to comment on r/AskFDS (have tried literally every method, including messaging the mods). So I guess I'll forever be an FDS Newbie. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:56 AM
27

It's easy to find non-rapey ones nowadays. But the ones that have become mainstream (Twilight, 50 Shades) are super horrible and misogynistic. Surprise surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:35 AM
5

I love them, too. Critics be damned! 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:32 AM
13

😆 There are things I just do not buy from Aliexpress. Electronics (especially computer stuff), jewelry expecting it to be real and high quality, anything more than $50. Cheap home/hobby stuff and dupes/reps? Yeah, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:25 AM
2

They complain because they're only wanting the 10 out of 10 women, and those women want nothing to do with them. And when they "date down" with women their own age, those women don't want anything to do with their BS either. So instead of bettering themselves as human beings, it must be every single woman who is a bitch and a whore. Also, they want to keep all their options open in case something better comes along, but of course, women doing the same damn thing means "women on OLD are the worst…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:29 PM
5

Lots of the men on that sub admittedly go for women in their 20s, so us women over 30 can at least sit safely knowing that we don't have to worry about those losers trying to date us. 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:26 AM
23

You can probably still report him. Do you have details of your appointment date and time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:44 AM
20

Yeah, and it's a lot to do with Dan Harmon. I totally agree with you about the fandom, too, which is why I'm sort of reluctant to really get involved in the fandom. Incidentally, Dan Harmon is also responsible for Rick & Morty, which I don't like and cannot get into despite having seen most of the episodes (I just leave the TV on Adult Swim a lot). And Rick & Morty is misogynistic as hell. Of course, who are the biggest R&M fans? Men and teenage boys...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:04 AM
21

r/datingoverthirty actively perpetuates the idiotic thinking that men get the shaft on OLD and women have it all and then some. I've unsubbed from it, and absolutely nothing of value was lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:53 AM
40

I've loved Community since the first season it came out on NBC, but always hated the Annie-Jeff shipping. Also not a coincidence that all the NVM/LVM go nuts over Annie and not Britta, and that Dan Harmon (an LVM himself despite being good at programming) made Britta out to be annoying while making Annie more desirable. Annie is the textbook definition of a PickMe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:38 AM
15

What is also more effort is separating her finances, finding her own place to live, and leaving his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:00 PM
74

What's even sadder is that someone suggested that, if she didn't feel comfortable giving him a paper cut-out of a PS5, she could bake him a cake and decorate it into a PS5. Meaning she would still put an inordinate amount of time and effort into his gift when all she's gonna get back is another piece of paper. And she replied to say that it was a great idea. 😐 I don't evem bother posting replies tp these types of posts on AITA anymore. The women are clearly still in the "denial" stage of their r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:03 PM
31

I clean up after dinner parties or if I am a guest in someone's home to show gratitude to the host, not to impress anyone. It's how I was brought up, to respect the work that people put towards you. ETA: Some hwre are saying it's intrusive. I just ask, or I say, "Hey, thanks for cooking. I'll just do the dishes. They won't take long." Usually, they tell me which ones to leave alone for them to handle later, and I always do. But for someone to never even offer as a guest in someone's home, when t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:47 AM
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Most of the field workers are basically standing around 80% of their day, mainly for safety purposes and their work is just sporadic bursts of activity. Literally. If they were working hardcore 100% of their workday, they'd be dead. They sweat mainly because they're outdoors in warm/hot weather in hot clothes, and in confined spaces. I'm not saying it's easy work by any means, but to say construction field work (especially in the U.S. and in a union with public works projects) is physically dema…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:29 AM
38

Mother probably had to bake Pence extra sugar cookies that night in order to stop his tears from having been so oppressed by Ms. Harris. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:41 PM
105

Of course, the male computer nerds at FB and Instagram are suddenly worried about privacy...when it threatens their ability to continue their porn consumption. ::rolls eyes so hard they get stuck in the back of my head::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:06 AM
2

"Murdered by suicide". 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:42 AM
2

Whoa! Did Reddit even apologize for for security breach? I would be so pissed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:39 AM
53

These are the same people who take food from food drives when they don't need it, just because they love free shit. They can go straight to whatever hell exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:36 PM
13

I am simultaneously laughing and repeatedly saying, "Fucking idiot".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:21 PM
34

I bet your cat's like, "Oh! You got me flowers! How sweet of you!" 😸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:12 PM
2

Internet hugs. You'll find only support here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 06:35 AM
13

I would love for this to work, but unfortunately, there's just no way for any woman here to safeguard their info or make sure it's either 100% women or 100% honest. It sucks that that is the state of the internet and humanity... Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:02 AM
2

That's awesome you had great experiences! I def don't wanna take those away from anyone! I just didn't want people going into this for the first time thinking it will be this great thing that will make them feel great and be part of their leveling up...and have it end up doing what it did to me, personally. I was doing so well in my personal journey, and you never really know what will trigger you, y'know? Just wanted people to be aware of it because all you ever hear on Reddit (because of the c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:59 PM
5

Yes, it's not that we didn't get something in return. It truly is nice to have made someone's day with a wonderful gift in the end. But the problem is the culture around these types of exchanges is very similar to and triggering for those who have been in abusive relationships of any kind, or those prone to bouts of depression. So I just wanted to warn the women here who might not be aware to not fall for the "goodwill" PR that the Reddit Secret Santa/Gifts website doles out, especially this tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:42 PM
17

The thing that really triggered me was all the gaslighting and bullying from the SS mods and those who got great gifts. Of course, if you said anything negative at all, your post was removed within a day. What people alsp fail to realize is that the Reddit Gifts website and Secret Santa exhange is responsible for a large chunk of the money Reddit makes off its users in the form of tokens and people paying to be "Elves". The Reddit Gifts website was also created and is run by the man who started …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:55 PM
24

Yes, I was worried even using a temporary office address. And cemented my worry when seeing how the Secret Santa mods acted to all the laments from the literally thousands of people who got scammed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:44 PM
22

I hate to say this, but I am 99% sure that my santas were men who saw my very reasonable female-centric interests (low-carb snacks, crafts, things that taught me something about the geographical area and culture they came from) and just did not want to out in the effort because it had nothing to do with gadgets, computers, video or board games, Star Wars, or Legos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:43 PM
29

LOLWUT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:11 AM
50

Vaginas are too complicated, but they know al about building their own damn computer and programming. 🙄 You learn about what you're actually interested in learning, idiots. Go have sex with your bros if you don't want to learn about female genitalia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:58 PM
5

She's said a lot of things over the years about being skinny and about men that have just rubbed me the wrong way. Her relationship with BJ Novak especially is a red flag for me. She's not the worst out there, but there are better examples for me. She has never really stood out as a feminist to me. Edited to change BJ Penn to BJ Novak. It's...been a long day. 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:47 PM
10

The cherry on top of the whipped cream is that her father is partner in the accounting firm where the idiot guy works. And will no doubt let slip why his daughter is divorcing his NVM ass. So everyone at work will be gossiping about his and his friends' golden hot tub moment/fetish. Losers never bother to truly think of all the consequences to their idiotic actions, do they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:07 AM
7

Holy shit, this cannot be real...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:35 AM
6

Internet hugs and commiseration/empathy on being treated so horribly by family that you didn't even know what good to look for in other relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:34 AM
69

She probably got a Dyson. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:18 AM
8

I kinda think there are also less PickMe celebs to be quoting... But I like the sentiment if the quote itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:02 AM
11

You see it so much in STEM fields, and on Reddit because of the prevalence of STEM field people on here. Men in STEM fields see themselves as the upper echelon of intellectuals. They think they are the educated top tier of society. The reality ks that they only know one or two things really well, or they only know the things they are interested in really well (just like the average perso ), and are dumb as hell in literally every other way, including critical thinking and self-awareness/social s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:49 AM
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Yeah, should you not be the main character in your own life? What the hell kind of thinking is that? You can still care about and love others while putting yourself first. It's not a zero-sum game, for chrissakes. These emotionally-stunted beings... Edited because I hate touchscreen keyboards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:45 AM
32

Thry literally want the the world to become their own personal brothel, and one lucky prostitute with a heart of gold will become their lucky forever sex and house slave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:41 AM
15

If she is a 6.5/6, then I am a negative 9 (and I objectively say that I am not fugly at all, just chubby).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:33 AM
16

Especially on Reddit, which is a lot whiter than it likes to admit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:32 AM
3

I'd choose the pantry, too (jealous)! Plus, you have to clean the balcony...ugh. I live in a city, and the black city dust is just gross. I gave up and finally moved to an apartment without a balcony. Now I have a big window and lots of light, and a thriving vanilla bean orchid. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:00 AM
30

Cinderella: Bitch, don't touch me. Take this hard-ass shoe and leave me alone. Man: <proceeds to bother every woman in a 10-mile vicinity>. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:50 AM
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I actually tried to be libfem. I tried to embrace other people's sexual choices, even though I personally (and somewhat secretly) did not practice or approve of casual sex or open relationships for myself. "Feminism means supporting all women's choices!", I kept telling myself. Little did I know it was all a male lie being sold to me as "feminism" and "choice shaming". I was the "old-fasioned prude" who was stuck in the "old patriarchy". So much gaslighting. I'm so glad that my instincts were pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:47 AM
68

Hell, most men of any age are just looking for someone to take care of them. Along with a bangmaid, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:32 AM
4

I refuse to live in a walk-up for this reason. It's just not safe as a woman, especially a single woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:30 AM
6

I would never be caught dead in a bathing suit or anything less than a t-shirt and capri pants when with coworkers because I know how creepy male coworkers can get when women are dressed in the dowdiest work clothes. Imagine how horrible if you're in a swimsuit. I know it sounds prudish, but I refuse to be spoken of like that by any LVM in my workplace, even behind my back. I get enough shit with the type of work I do and them thinking it's beneath them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:05 AM
66

As with any STEM or male-dominated industry, just be aware of the rampant misogyny that can and will be brushed off by many of the male engineers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:53 AM
54

"Low quality" = "I just don't like them". I just fucking CAN'T with these fucking losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:39 PM
3

It was always meant to be sexist. Always meant to be against, specifically, a certain middle-class/affluent white, uppity female. It was sexist in origin and continues to be sexist in its use because, in my decades of customer service experienced throughout my life, it was 90% male customers who lost their shit and complained. Yet no one can agree on the male equivalent of "Karen". Very telling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:05 AM
5

You know, this is very real. My own family members put down my attempts at relearning Mandarin Chinese (it was my first language, but now only know it in random bits and pieces, somewhere between complete beginner and intermediate) so much that I pretty much stopped trying. Now I speak French better than I speak the very first language I ever learned and spoke in my life because instead of encouraging me, I was mocked for even trying and laughed at for every small mistake I made. I know it sound…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:48 AM
17

I tell everyone I'm allergic to football. They all laugh, but it works somehow. No follow up questions or convincing. I don't question it. Heh heh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:06 AM
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Yes. Any "feminine" sport. I used to be really into figure skating (er watching only! Not coordinated at all 😆). Of course, it's just "twirling and dancing on ice" to "manly men into football and bseball". Thr same men who probably couldn't even ice skate ten feet, much less do a single toe loop, much less the quadruple jumps that even the women are landing nowadays. Also, how is jumping up 4-6 feet into the air and landing on one blade edge on ice not one of the most amazing athletic feats know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:20 AM
8

"From the source". So...from the testicles? Awkward!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:25 AM
2

I don't really see anyone laughing at the woman? The man, yes. But not the woman. Because we can all relate to the woman in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:19 AM
2

I do feel bad for her. But at the same time, her entire post is full of anger. It's obvious she is so close to seeing it...but then all her comments in the thread are defending his NVM ass. So it's clear she's not going to leave him anytime soon and will "give him one more chance", probably try the "communication" route. She's at the stage where she won't listen to anyone else. She needs to learn this herself, unfortunately. And it's going to be a much harsher lesson she's setting herself up for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:17 AM
4

The kicker was that she was still defending his NVM ass inthe comments...by shitting on his ex-fiance. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:11 AM
11

Who wants to bet he ain't no virgin?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:59 AM
7

I used Hinge first, then Coffee Meets Bagel. Hinge was more "popular", but more superficial because of its ridiculous lack of profile info. It was basically Tinder with one more step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:48 AM
50

I love solo travel. If I were rich, that is all I would do. Whenever I traveled for business, I would love finding and going to all the most interesting local sites, no matter how obscure. I also travel with friends and family, but with solo travel, I get to do what I want, when I want, how I want, where I want. It's the ultimate relaxing vacation. The only thing I hate is that, as a woman, there are so many places that I just cannot go solo (India, so much of the Middle East, Egypt, Algeria, et…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:45 AM
29

Sure, I like looking at some of them. But once they open their mouths...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:17 AM
8

I like how you have no idea, and how you see Nicole Kidman's therapist character struggle in real time with what the hell is happening, how she missed the signs, if any of it could have been prevented by her, etc. It's something every woman can relate to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:38 AM
33

WTF does that even mean? The joke makes so sense! What an idiot....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:50 AM
41

Men say they're "just sarcastic". No, you're not. You're just an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:41 AM
32

It's all projection, again. They are the ones who don't even know women who are not attractive/they are related to/their bosses exist, nor do they even care to. Yet "all women" are cruel. ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:00 PM
49

I've realized that people against FDS love to play the whataboutism/false equivalency/"not all m€n" bullshit arguments because they can't attack the truth behind the actual strategy. They think or even try to play it off like FDS is about agreeing with the opinions of the creators on this sub. No, it's about being able to spot LVM so they won't be able to drag you down. Period. I don't agree with all opinions stated on this sub, but that is the case for every single subreddit and every single fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:53 AM
16

No need to apologize. I do this with some of thr more useful drugstore gifts, like the plush slippers and stuff. I love buying thr plush slippers at 75%+ off! For myself, yes...but I get some for others to gift, as well. Let's be poor and frugal together! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:06 AM
20

I love Judge Judy. One of my favorite moments was just when she straight up told someone: "Let me be perfectly frank: I don't like you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:37 AM
17

I like Lush, but it's just become way too damn expensive for what it is. I might still splurge on a couple key items that I really can't find replacements for (like a couple perfumes and Ocean Salt), and maybe still shop their Boxing Day sales, but...their bath bombs and soaps aren't worth it anymore. I've still got a ridiculously huge stash of their products I still have to use up, anyway! 😁😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:34 AM
23

Someone will buy it 90% off at the end of January! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:30 AM
12

God, I detest drugstore gifts... Thought I have to say, the absolute WORST gift I ever got was from my ex-roommate's/former friend's mother. It was an extremely flimsy bottom-of-the-line plasticy cloth ribbon tie bag fillef with two free-with-purchase Victoria's Secret lip glosses. The kicker was that the roommate/ex-friend gave it to me with so much fanfare and excitement, like her mom had put the government's top people into this gift for me and she was expecting this super grateful, amazing r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:29 AM
3

Yay! Congrats! 👸💑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:34 AM
11

"You know, you need to work on communicating what you need me to do in a nicer, more productive way because yelling at me and making me feel guilty isn't helping!" ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:02 AM
8

"You're just so much better at it than me!" -after deliberately pretending to be shit at something and acting like we're too stupid to ever pick up on what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:00 AM
11

Just load up on thr broccoli and brussels sprouts and share thr same blanket/comforter as him. Let's see how funny he finds it. Fucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:58 AM
7

Well, I've been contributing to a 401K since I got my first job straight out of college, but who knows if that will be enough by the time I get too old to do whatever? Just a generally crappy situation for a lot of people, I guess. The insecurity of retirement and all of it. But what can you do but keep plugging on? ✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:38 PM
8

What kind of psycho does that? I thought the mason jar drinking fad was kinda dumb, personally, but I would never physically do (or say out loud) anything about someone else drinking out of one! Drink out of an old sock, for all I care..as long as you're not forcing me to do the same. Some people are freakin' bonkers with their control issues...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:55 AM
58

Should have just blocked him without a response. He didn't deserve one, or an explanation. Now he thinks he still has a chance, that you're still on his back burner, and will probably try to hit you up again sometime in the future now that he has your number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:48 AM
30

I hate how these dating apps are a free-for-all for all types of violence to happen. There absolutely needs it be stricter background checks for every single member, even if it means paid membership. But of course, like with most start-ups nowadays, money isn't made by being responsible for the extremely horrible consequences your service wreaks upon the world (Tinder, AirBnB, Uber et al, Doordash et al, Turo, and so on, and so on, and so on....) Am starting to sound like a real old fart here. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:43 AM
33

Even though I'm poor as hell (okay, maybe exaggerating, but I'll probably never own any property of my own and will never be able to retire), if someone starts talking to me and asking me about my job, I just tell them I'm rich as hell and walk away. 😆 😆 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:33 AM
50

Have you ever walked into a room/house/apartment and smelled thst stale, dirty smell? It just hits you like a punch in the face... That's the #1 red flag for someone with atrocious hygiene. Also someone whose coats smell horrid and rank. My former friend/1st post-college ropmmate's coats smelled rank and unwashed. All. Of. Them. Needless to say, I am no longer friends with her, and she is the main reason why I refuse to have roommates as long as I am single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:29 AM
27

What will happen when male sex robots become a reality, and women can have the same penis, but different "man" every time? ::points to temple::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:05 PM
6

I always keep some on hand with me, as do most of the women I know. So it's rare that I'm asked for one. Only at work, and I also keep a small emergency stash at work. ✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:51 PM
11

Report him to the AMA. He crossed some serious personal and professional boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:27 AM
5

Hooray for Kamala! And I'm so so so positive about Biden allowung more female Cabinet members, especially my hero Warren as Treasury Sec! But first, GEORGIA! Let's keep it blue!!! Not letting my guard down, either! The next Trump will be smoother and smarter. That scares the shit outta me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:10 PM
47

My first thought was the easiest and fastest way that would get me rich for the rest of my life. Who the hell thinks of harming anyone else in any way?!?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:04 AM
12

Why not? HVM and HVW are both looking foe the same thing. No reason why we can't use the same tactics to achieve the same goals. Only LVM see this as oppression and "misandry", though. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:50 AM
249

The problem with prostitutes is that men know they can't trick a prostitute into being a free sex and house slave with promises of commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:33 AM
5

Also another reason why they want prostitution legalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:43 PM
2

Oh no, I don't actually want to become a nun! Sorry for the confusion. I was just being a smart-ass. 😆 Just speaking of an FDS "nunnery", so to speak. Heh heh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:54 PM
12

Heh heh. Been saying I'm moving to a nunnery/convent since I was in my teens. Little did I know it would become an actual real yearning in my 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:21 PM
14

::whispers:: Can I see the donuts, too? 😁😜😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:11 PM
4

Is it possible to buy one online?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:53 AM
6

My same experience. Just..ugh. Coffee Meets Bagel isn't much better. All OLD is horrible, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:13 PM
6

I would never date military. Just couldn't do it. Came close once, but luckily the red flags were flying from a million miles away and I ran. Sad story from this week: a young woman in her 20s in my industry that was on a project I am working on, on track to become a project manager herself in a few years if she kept it up, just quit her job and her company to move to another state to be with her military boyfriend. The first thing that (immediately) popped inti my head when I heard that her boy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:49 AM
76

Just some OLD scrote who was just gonna ghost her after he got his rocks off because he just sees women on OLD as sex toys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:32 AM
111

Oh, humans.... 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:07 AM
51

Imagine having an Oxford-educated, upper-class born and raised reknowned beauty and talented, successful actress as a girlfriend...and not being sure if you want to marry her or not. You either want her, or you don't. Don't string her along. ::rolls eyes:: She wasted so many good years on that troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:32 AM
19

And like every Goodwill now, priced way more than they're actually worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:28 AM
35

Yup. My City just decided to use taxpayer money to pay a policeman's ex-girlfriend a settlement for his repeated abuse and battery charges. After he was fire, rehired due to police union intervention, and is still working full-time to this day. Really good chance the settlement will be approved by the city council, too. I try not to contact police for anything and would rather try to figure out how to avoid trouble on my own. Police in every single one of the United States are useless, especiall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:48 AM
28

Yet heaven forbid if a woman ever admits that SHE settled for the guy she's with...even though it's what we're pressured and shamed to do every second of every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:10 AM
17

Um, he was nervous and embarassed about what she would think about his makeshift hovel in the woods... Give him a break! 😆 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:44 AM
78

This is like how rich idiots think they'll be able to survive by buying million-dollar bunkers and leaving all the plebs to die. So you're gonna be alive...in a world without servers, teachers, nurses, adminstrators, plumbers, carpenters (etc.), maintenance workers, and so on and so on...? Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:42 AM
4

::internet hugs:: I know it's cliché, but one day at a time. Focus on the good things that happened and were achieved on any given day and not the bad things that happened. The CEO of my company once laughed at me for having the motto "It could be worse", but that seriously is my motto. I still have a roof over my head, I still have a job (even if it's not perfect), I have family and friends who care about me and whom I care about... Yes, I get depressed and unmotivated to do just about anything…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:37 AM
10

Never turned out well for me, but nothing turned out well for me on OLD. So little effort from men there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:13 AM
2

Yup. My firat thought is that he's 100% changing the locks on her and refusing to let her have her possessions back unless she agrees to be his girlfriend again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:55 AM
3

Maya Angelou was a one-woman FDS quote machine with her published poems alone. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:48 AM
12

I read this and was like, "Why did you not leave him the first damn time? Your life is literally too short to be wasting on this shit."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:16 AM
4

This is reason #1 why I will never, ever join a gym. Reason #2 is thr cost and shady financial crap they pull, but it's a distant #2...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:54 PM
5

I didn't even bother with that one. It's so obviously masturbatory fodder/a ridiculous fantasy love-goal of a lonely, pathetic person, and there are just so many other depressing and scary things for me to think about nowadays (like the state of the U.S. and democracy/basic human rights). These losers' bid for attention and more adult fan fiction is not worth my time. I'm going to my hobby and cat subreddits (and here).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:11 AM
3

"Women are so entitled, expecting me to pay for a meal! Why can't they literally kiss my hand and cling to me and declare their undying love to me every second we're together after I buy a book or a cheap object for them every now and then?" 😆 😆 😆 Every time I think people can't be any less self aware, even after literally putting their trash thoughts down in writing, some moron proves me wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:27 AM
23

Finally switched to a woman doctor after going to the lowest energy, most unenthusiastic and unempathetic primary care male doctor for years (was the one automatically assigned to me when I first went to the place). It was literally like speaking to someome who had just taken sleeping pills or a massive amount of pot and just did. not. care. And I would always wait 20+ minutes to see him, and he would spend 5-10 minutes maximum with me. I literally never spent more than 10 minutes even though th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:09 AM
38

Nothing but "asshole" vibes and rumors about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:55 AM
6

This idiot is an Instagram celeb for his travel and "thrillseeking sports photos/activities". Which automatically makes him an LVM in my eyes... YMMV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:03 AM
127

I saw this on NBC Nightly News last night and on CBS Nightly News tonight, and it turns out this moron approached the female mountain lion's cubs to take a photo. Probably "for the Insta". And both nights I wondered why the hell I was seeing such an idiot on a national news outlet, and how he managed to survive such stupidity. Why is this newsworthy? I'm on the mother mountain lion's side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:45 AM
26

I also hate how a lot of men use the argument of "but how are we supposed to learn and be on your side if you won't even let us engage?" I'm not your personal tutor or mother. You're supposed to already know how to treat women like decent human beings. But you don't, and the onus is not on women to teach you how. If you can't learn on your own, you're not really learning anything you should be learning. You're just learning how to fake it so you can manipulate your way into getting women to like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:38 AM
21

"As a man..." 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:30 AM
23

Yes! Let's get healthy together! I lost a lot of weight two years ago, but have stalled for the past year. My friend from college has lost a lot of weight due to WFH over thr past 7 months, and the college-aged 20s me would have been jealous that she was skinnier than me now. But the older, more mature me cheered her on, and I'm using it as an inspiration to get over this damn hump and lose that last bit of weight to reach my goal number!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:13 AM
5

I think with your attitude, maybe this subreddit is maybe not for you yet? I don't mean that in an exclusionary way, but it's pretty cut and dry and laid all out in the handbook and subreddit rules. You're focusing on one thing here, and it just happens to be the one thing that the !ncels and PickMes constantly and incorrectly criticize, insult and harass women on this subreddit for. I can't force you to see something you don't want to see. You're free to live your life however you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:58 AM
9

For a dinner date, there are so many more factors at play: is he choosing a place he likes, convenient to you/safe for you to arrive to on your own, has gopd reviews? How does he treat the hostess/waitstaff? Does he try to order for you? Does he respect any dietary restrictions? You have time to discuss more intimate subjects in a more relaxed setting than just walking around a store somewhere where he can get distracted by objects and be low-effort by using material things to create a false flo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:33 AM
13

Don't feel bad. We're all learning constantly, and we're all here because we've all made mistakes. 🙋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:20 AM
18

I think people are more focusing on the fact that he's beinging the woman shopping. Just because a man buys things and spends a lot of money on a woman does not necessarily make him high value. He did not choose the items for her. She chooses the items, he just provides the money and reaps the benefits. And he can lord this over the woman later on. "What do you mean you feel neglected? Don't buy you everything you ask for? You're selfish!" That kind of thing. I think it's sort of telling that a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:08 AM
13

I think people are just saying to not put too mich stock into a man spending large amounts of money on you or any woman because it can mean nothing to them. In fact, it can be lorded over the woman later on. So just, you know, put more stock into consistent behaviors, I guess? Especially the first six months to a year...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:56 AM
51

Look at how many women swooned over that James Deen asshole, and he ended up being a fucking rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:38 PM
6

Oh my goodness. Hoping that your aunt turns up soon. 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:54 AM
14

I was gonna say, he wanted an excuse to make OP "the uptight bitch who overreacted and tore us apart", either for a past, present, or future (planned) digression on his part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:54 PM
22

Get outta my head! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:37 AM
13

Due to the fact that they swipe right on everyone to cast as wide a net as possible, they go on as many "dates" as possible. Their way of thinking is literally, "Well, if we have no chemistry and I don't fall in love with her at first sight, then I can at least get a potential orgasm out of it and move onto thr next victim." This is why I stopped OLD after a month. I don't like having my precious time wasted. There's too many things I'd rather be doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:24 PM
9

It's autumn in the northern hemisphere. You know how we females hide our naked vaginas under piles of dead leaves, set string traps for random men to trip and land penis-side-down into our open vaginas. It's real dangerous out there. Better lawyer up, and keep your eyes peeled, guys. /s (of course)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:21 PM
4

If I were one of the lucky lawyers approached, I would notify the authorities to put this moron on some sort of watch list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:16 PM
23

Every job I have had, the men have been the ones to spread rumors and gossip about women that had the potential to seriously ruin the women's lives. Only one middle-aged woman I've encountered was crazy enough to try to scheme and manipulate her way to "the top" (which backfired on her because everyone just quit and she was forced to actually do work...so she just quit! 😆). 1 woman...out of...over 30 men? More, probably. I overhear a lot of shit. So much shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:13 PM
7

These look so delicious and restaurant quality!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:07 PM
8

Because for most men, you don't exist if he doesn't find you attractive, or if you're not his partner, mom/sister/blood relation, or boss/can do something to directly benefit him somehow at that particular moment. I sincerely cannot wrap my head around how someone, anyone could be that callous, unempathetic, and sociopathic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:39 AM
18

More like "I will spend more time on PornHub".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:27 AM
2

I understand what those words mean individually, but together, it's all a meaningless bunch of gibberish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:24 AM
5

I've already unsubscribed from DatingOver30 and a number of other dating subs once I stopped dating. It was just a shitshow of "What did I do wrong?" from the women, and I just got so mentally drained and bogged down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:04 AM
6

This is why I don't have LinkedIn. It's really only for men to get ahead in life...and to hit on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:48 AM
74

I was gonna say, she's not his gf, she's his sex toy. But pretty much the same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:36 AM
1

I do think some go a bit too far and get a little too extreme, but we're all here for both a common reason and our own personal reasons. Lets trust the mods to do their jobs and help us all keep our eyes on the main goal. Women are so diverse, and we can all lift up other women in so many diverse ways. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:31 AM
6

That would require journalistic integrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:57 AM
6

A lot of people just naturally get angry when confronted with the fact that they have made horrible choices. Unfortunately, the ones still stuck with these horrible choices are the ones most likely to lash out at us. Some people just need to learn the hard way. After all, most of us did, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:56 AM
10

Ugh. Meanwhile, I so much as think about a cookie and my weight fluctuates like crazy. Metabolism seriously differs a lot between men and women, especially due to the muscle difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:57 AM
3

Congrats! Not a small issue at all! I always always think of these people (and yes, 99% of the time, it's men), "Imagine what you would be capable of if you put even half the amount of time and energy that you just spent trying to argue with me/gaslight me/degrade/guilt/shame me into doing your job. Why, you might turn out to be a competent, hardworking, valuable individual!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:30 PM
58

This is why I love this subreddit. It opened my eyes to so many things that I thought were just "normal reactions" from men in relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:36 AM
34

This is why I just gave up. The odds are against me. I've accepted that it will never happen, so I'm gonna be happy living my best life and enjpy the hell out of it for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:21 PM
6

They're always "dying" when they're sick. ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:36 AM
27

Most men don't even know the typical "masculine" crap of say, home maintenance repair and car maintenance that I and so many other women learn on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:59 PM
17

Bobby Riggs. He was in his 50s, loved smoking cigars and drinking, and hadn't played since the 50s. And he still thought he could beat Billy Jean in her prime. Edited because my fingers hate touchscreens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:42 PM
29

Every time I read a scrote's hot take on how FDS should be banned, I get Melissa Villadenor's "White Male Rage" song stuck in my head. SNL "White Male Rage" by Melissa Villaseñor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:06 AM
18

I was gonna say, the mouth of which rodent? 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:56 AM
22

I cannot believe that is actually part of their core belief system. Seriously? It really is just a satire subreddit run by men, isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:39 AM
6

I've also had grown women who have claimed to be victims of sex offenders in their youth advocate for legalization of prostitution and sex work, and I just think... How did you get there? How? And it always gets from me asking them how they think it would prevent sex trafficking to them yelling at me that I'm a fucking bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:50 AM
8

I think it's a pretty common saying. I'm not nearly succint enough IRL to come up with something that academic on my own. 😆 Just don't want people thinking I'm taking credit for it. Heh heh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:42 PM
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Because most men cannot conceive of being excluded. From anything. Or of anything not being made available for them and their consumption and their opinions (including fora auch as...this subreddit!). It really is that simple. The lack of privilege is seen as oppression to the privileged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:19 AM
72

French men are creepier than most, and that's saying something! I've never been harassed and felt up more than in Paris!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:17 AM
65

Biden's reaction when Trump brought up Hunter's cocaine addiction while Biden was talking about Beau... I'm not a parent. I'll never be one. But THAT was presidential behaviour. Above and beyond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:52 AM
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Watch, it was probably just cold in those rooms where shrinkage occurred...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:38 AM
4

Was this proven, though? I think it was never proven? I remember his step-granddaughter because she went to my college and she was... Not a good person. But no different from the other entitled rich kids of entitled rich parents and entitled rich grandparents at my school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:21 AM
19

I'm so glad you just left his pathetic violent ass after he pushed you to the ground. What an asshole. I hope people around you saw him do it and gave him death glares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:55 AM
6

I learned ages ago to not move and keep going, and if they stop in front of me like I'm in their way, I will stop until they move aside while staring at them, silently. This has happened a few times, both men and women. They never say a word and immediately jump away. I'm a short, nerdy Asian. But I have a mean RBF honed since grade school... Don't walk too much anymore due to COVID (I used to take mass public trabsportation more), but in stores, I make sure to "avoid" people in a very obvious w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:44 AM
13

They really are still living in the 1860s, muttonchops and all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:22 AM
10

Also, I know you're still young, but you dated him for 2 months. That's crazy short. You owe him nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:09 AM
5

I hate how boys (ahem, "men") have ruined all the subs with "interesting" in the name because they find anything with an attractive woman in it "interesting" due to their constant horniness. Would they evem give a shit if they weren't fantasizing about having sex with the woman in the video/photo? Pathetic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:13 PM
2

I only ever see men on that livestream. Always. 100% men. I'm surprised they would allow anything feminine on the livestream to become popular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:08 PM
6

Also, don't let them convince you to go to your place as thr back-up plan!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:26 PM
3

I saw "Salutations" and just DNFed the rest. I just couldn't. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:46 AM
21

Ugh. When child-hating misogynists hide behind the "child-free" label, it makes me cringe. That's why I never use it. There are always gonna be people "on your team" that you wish were on the other side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:45 AM
4

So now people somewhat realize just how shitty it is for Asian-American women dating in the western world... Old world vs. New World. Both still suck when it comes to how they view women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:12 PM
4

Apparently, a lot of women (myself included) get asked out on "dates" to go swimming, often at night. ::serious side eye to the guy suggesting such an idiotic thing::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:30 AM
23

This lack of empathy for any human being of any gender is seriously alarming... 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:13 AM
13

Thank you. I never feel/felt bad for doing nice things. It's not my fault that the other person didn't appreciate those acts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:48 AM
122

Yet, if a woman were to post this, out come the scrotes telling her how she's a bitch for not giving the guy a chance. "He was just nervous! How can you tell from 5 minutes! You're so superficial!" My eyes...they rolleth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:38 AM
1

I just pissed off my sister today because she was telling me about her dbag neighbor constantly asking her to print stuff for him, yet he complains and asks her to not walk so much in her own home (they all own, not rent). That, and he apparently is a greedy jerk to the other neighbors. So I told her to stop being so damn nice to him and tell him you're not printing anything else for him, and also he needs to get used to you walking in your apartment that you own. And she was all dismissive and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:27 AM
2

The flowers will hide us from passers-by... 😳😳😳😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:19 AM
5

Night swimming!!!!! Please! Can we make this a meme?! I have also been a personal victim of being invited to "house parties" and asked to "bring hot female friends and food". 😆 😆 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:17 AM
4

If only we can make "night swimming" a meme, too. Because that shit is also hilarious and too common nowadays...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:16 AM
1

You know the bomb and death threats (and prob actual bombings), and prob shootings, would start if one was set up. Which is probably the #1 reason why onr has never been set up. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:15 AM
2

I wish we could have a running list of usernames of these losers so we know who to block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:10 AM
6

I had to unsub from the Asian-American subreddit in less than a month because I realized it was mostly angry Asian-American men railing against white men for stealing "their Asian women" and white women for "not giving them a chance". And then in their comment, it would be them lamenting about why they can't get all the power, money, and women that white men are entitled to. It was scary AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:17 PM
5

Yes. And FDS also taught me that a lot of the reactions I had that I thought were in opposition to the way I was brought up are actually hurting me (particularly in terms of the "equality" issues). Solidarity, sister. ✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:09 PM
17

Fellow construction industry minion here! 🙋 I'm mainly working with engineers (ugh), but it's not rare for me to work with the field guys, too. It's just a shitshow of dancing around their feelings and bullshit all day. I'm glad my current coworkers and bosses leave me alone for the most part to do my job. ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:43 PM
17

I no longer feel like I'm stupid for choosing to be single, that I should be looking for a man even though I have no desire to be with anyone right now. I'm enough, I've always been enough, and I'll always be enough. There are already not enough hours in the day to do what I want to do. Why waste any of it on someone who doesn't value my time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:41 PM
29

As a naturalized Asian-American, I have always had a hard and fast rule for myself: no FOBs. They are 99% sure to be spoiled by their mothers and held on a pedestal by their fathers into procreating and "not bringing shame to the family name". Most of them are old old old school when it comes to marriage, children, and relationships in general, including who their wives can be friends with. Even my dad, who has a fairly hands-off approach to me and my sis and is generally HV to us and what how w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:29 PM
3

Yeah, the cab companies in my city suck, and when I used to walk more pre-COVID, I would get run over almost everyday at a crosswalk by one. Cabs in all major metropolises are prob better regulated in terms of driver training, but I've had a taxi driver in Paris try to debate how Islam was the one true monotheistic faith to me all the way to the airport, and I just sat there like a chump because I was 19 and just wanted to get on the plane. I should have just pretended not to speak French...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:51 PM
18

"Favorite show: The Office" "Trying to find the Pam to my Jim" 😆 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:52 AM
19

The choking part is just... 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:47 AM
3

Yeah, I haven't used Lyft too often so have never had a bad experience (yet), but you're right that the only women drivers I've had had been via Lyft. I've had a couple good Uber drivers after the first one, but tbh, I only use Uber because my company gave me a $100 giftcard and I have about $15 left. Got my own car less than 2 years ago, so really only use it for the airport or other places I don't want to look/pay for parking. After my giftcard runs out, never using Uber again. But one thing I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:26 AM
25

I hate using Uber and much prefer Lyft if I need to do rideshare. My very first Uber ride, the driver (at least mid-60s man) immediately asks me if I have a boyfriend. I just say no and nothing else. He goes into his life story, about how he needs a wife, how he's so lonely and needs someone to lool after him and cook for him, keep him company at night, because his wife was murdered a few years ago and he drives Uber and has three jobs. And I truly felt horrible for him and his situation, but at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:34 AM
21

No, because we have much better things to do: actual hobbies, interests, jobs, chores, responsibilities, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:40 AM
29

I'm sure he set his age range to "18 to 35". 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:36 AM
6

Good lawd...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:36 AM
25

Men literally cannot envision a space where they are not allowed full access and attention. So much so that they deem it oppressive and hateful when women dare to even suggest it, much less just go ahead and do it without permission like the wonderful creators and mods of FDS did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:32 AM
2

::enter man mansplaining why it must have happened/you should have fought back/don't lie, just tell him you're not interested and he'll leave you alone/every fucking excuse in the book that takes the onus off the man and shoves it forcefully back onto the woman::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:27 AM
4

It's absolutely just something LVM/NVM say in order to shut women up and invalidate their life experiences and feelings. Don't let them. Just ignore them and keep living your best life without that negativity dragging you down. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:24 AM
4

Men are so emotional. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:59 AM
17

Seriously. So many of us here have HVM in our lives, whether they be our family, friends or SOs. And some are just looking for a truly women-only space on the internet without the hate and violent male gaze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:08 PM
2

Her books are mixed. Some are good and some are problematic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:55 AM
10

I can't choose just one, but one of my fave authors is Sarah MacLean. She's very FDS-friendly, imo. I would start with Nine Rules to Break While Romancing a Rake. That was her first, I believe, and her series have only gotten more and more FDS-friendly. I do like Lisa Kleypas, as well, but her stuff can be mixed on the feminist front. Suddenly You is wonderful, though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:47 AM
10

Sign me up! As long as I can have my own small apartment! 😆 I know all kinds of basic home maintenance and repair skils, arts and crafts, cooking, baking, writing, auto detailing, cultural crap.... 😄 And I love cats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:35 AM
4

As someone closer to 40 than 30, it's probably because the men around this age are only interested in dating 20 year-old women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:36 AM
8

Let me guess: r/datingoverthirty is modded by men? Because the lowest value men are on there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:18 AM
10

Whaaaa? Who has never been to a museum before? Hasn't he ever been on a school field trip?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:38 AM
39

Romance novels have come so far. I read primarily historical romance (mainly because I'm a history nerd and I want it to be as far removed from my real life as possible without it involving magic or aliens), and even those have been putting more FDS-like principles into their plots. No more "bodice rippers", and the ones with issues get called out immediately by the readers in reviews everywhere. The most popular ones now are definitely the most "liberating" for women and teach women that they g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:15 PM
14

I left a NTA comment that the guy was obviously angling for her to break up with him so he can look like the good guy and say, "Look at all the awful things I had to put up with! Pity me!" I can't believe I was one of the few who saw that shit. Thr actions were calculated and deliberate, imho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:10 AM
58

You most likely were, or at least redditors with no life experience outside of middle school and their parents' homes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:26 AM
14

I bet he plays video games all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:46 AM
3

I checked out at the bad art. Incels are so lazy that they can't even be bothered to learn a basic talent such as drawing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:44 AM
74

Sigh. I've pretty much given up all hope of ever finding my own Marty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:37 AM
19

Sigh. I'm going off my diet foe the next two or three days... It's too much. I'm so scared. I'm a naturalized U.S. citizen, and I do love this country so much..but it's just so hard to keep seeing it stolen away and violated repeatedly in broad daylight...with half the country cheering on. I'm eating ice cream and sooooo much sugar and carbs for all the women in this country this weekend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:24 AM
1

Did you find it? Did it make you feel so much better that you aren't anywhere near as stupid as the man who posted is? 😆😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:54 PM
19

I gotta say, I immediately searched for this post because I wanted to bask in the sweet, sweet shadenfreude of the OP getting just destroyed in the comments. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:16 AM
25

This is either some idiot's creative writing assignment to get more updoots, or (as was my first thought when reading it), he's sugar-coating the fact that his family hates him for very clear reasons (he says racist/sexist/controlling things and they're not having it anymore, he feels his control and influence slipping away as a white man in today's society and is lashing out about it constantly, and blames everyone but himself, and I bet he's a fascist).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:14 AM
12

Classic PUA negging. So pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:06 AM
12

"I prefer to block your useless ass from my life. Bye!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:02 AM
4

I would start using this screencap as one of my OLD profile pics. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:59 AM
12

It's only gonna be "awkward" once any woman who agrees on a "casual meetup" with this guy realizes he didn't want to spend any money on her because he only wanted to see if she was willing to fuck him after exchanging "10 messages". ::rolls eyes::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:58 AM
6

"MEN GET HARASSED TOO!" 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:46 AM
10

Yup. And all the brigading supporters of that horrible Netflix movie. I've really had to bleach my eyea and stay away from a lot of subreddits this week because of it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:20 AM
50

I do think it's very interesting in that it seems FDS is mainly non-Caucasian women. I've always felt mainstream feminism of the "Jezebel" variety that is celebrated by the "woke" people (male and female) was mainly for white women to appeal to their white male partners so they can continue their society. Even though I do very much consider myself an unabashed feminist, I never thought I fit into that white feminist world that Jezebel promotes (note that they also openly encouraged viewing Chris…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:07 AM
16

Also, a lot of men view having dogs as a way to "meet women", which is diagusting in and of itself. Get a pet for companionship, not to get laid, for chrissakes. I love both dogs and cats. I actually thought I preferred dogs, but then my siblings got cats of their own, and I realized I am just a giant cat. 😆😸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:35 AM
12

Holy crap, I'm so sorry about your cat! Your uncle is a true psychopath, as killing animals is a very true precursor of a murder (especially serial killers).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:32 AM
3

Basically, they want to take away child custody for women and "affirmative action" since they don't think women should be in the workplace (their only argument for this is that in "more equal societies like in Sweden, women still gravitate towards the more "feminine" careera like teachers and administration, and don't go for STEM careers...conveniently ignoring the fact that men are still sexist AF in these countries). That is essentially it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:36 AM
3

There was a post that got a huge number of upvotes on the Singapore sub over the weekend, whining about how men are so oppressed in that country. Puh-lease. Anytime someone says Asian men (especially Westernized Asian men) are so advanced, I just roll my eyes and remind them that they're still men and they're still part of cultures that stress the importance of men over women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:32 AM
6

Change "20" to "15". The majority are straight up kids pretending to be voting age...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:26 AM
13

God, these idiots should just spend whatever money they would spend during the course of any "relationship" they manage to get and put it towards a Real Doll. Oh, wait, a Real Doll can't cook and clean for them and make them feel better about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:25 AM
2

He's a ghost dad! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:06 AM
12

I'm sure it took a whole five minutes to pick the best topless bathroom mirror shot, or the driver seat car selfie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:44 AM
26

The few men I've seen wear sunscreen use the spray cans, and spray like...one spray on each arm/shoulders. Nothing on their faces. Don't even spread it om their skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:43 AM
52

I read that his fans flooded his Instagram hashtag with cute puppy pics so it wouldn't bring up his pics. Do you think men would ever do this for a female celeb's nude pics? (Spoiler alert: NO)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:04 AM
4

My dad dyes my mom's hair for her. It's really sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:41 PM
185

That's what a lot of them want: a mom they can legally have sex with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:44 AM
14

Bet he's not spending much money now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:58 AM
10

There are lots of attractive men where I am (Hawaii), but also a lot of attractive women. Unfortunately, the majority of women are definitely of the PickMe variety who would do anything for a sugar daddy. And the men are...not HV. At all. It's sort of sad. I like living here, but I hate that I'll probably be single forever here. Not that I mind, but I would at least try to find a HVM here. I should probably save up money to move to another major city one day, but everywhere I want to live, I can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:00 AM
7

I sew, but like...simple sewing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:04 AM
16

I hope those idiots are sent a nice hefty bill for the cost of fighting that massive fire they started. Morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:49 AM
28

I unsubscribed from AskWomenOver30 so quickly because one woman on there didn't like that I openly said that I didn't feel thr same way as everyone else in that thread, as a woman over 30. She then sent me an essay about how I was wrong and immature and need to do some growing up because all women over 30 feel how she feels. ::rolls eyes:: I don't agree with some of the stuff here, either but at least I know I won't be told I'm wrong to think that way if it works for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:35 AM
1

I hear ya. I've heard of and have been to a therapists who had no right being in the field. If I ever need to go to another one, I'd have to vet him/her (let's face it, I'd be more comfortable with a good woman therapist) just as much as I would a potential SO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:05 AM
3

Undeerstood. Been there, as well. But I guess one of the big signs is if your partner is at least willing to get outside help. If they reject counseling/therapy from the start, then that should definitely be the nail in the relationship's coffin, imho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:54 PM
42

Seriously. If you're questioning it so badly that you're seeking advice from strangers, just realize something is deeply broken somewhere. The very least you should do is get some outside professional help. If your SO doesn't want to be a part of that in a sincere, honesy way to get the both of you to a bettet place, you have your final answer. It reminds me so much of the idiots on the "Ask a mechanic" subreddits who post pics of their absolutely trashed tires. I'm talking gaping holes, full-on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:43 AM
12

Got that before, too. Computers aren't at the point of "the Singularity" yet, thank goodness. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:03 PM
2

Yes, exactly. Men don't need "men's shelters". They're literally anywhere and everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:57 AM
1

The first time with ANYONE is what you should be concerned with, and odds are it will be more awkward (esp. for the woman) than not. Don't ever do anything you're not comfortable doing. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:20 AM
6

The funny thing is, if you ask the short men to pick who they would like to go out with, they will choose women taller than them and ignore the ones shorter than them. It's hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:30 AM
2

Oh no...living in a college dorm put the myth of "all women are cleaner than men!" to rest very quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:27 AM
35

What do men think people will judge thrm for if they buy maxi pads or tampons? Do they seriously think people think they will use the pads/tampons? WTF? It's not like women are embarassed to buy condoms or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:11 AM
26

I don't talk to men at work unless they talk to me first, and I don't strike up conversations with them until they have shown me that they are actually good people without ulterior motives. ETA: I can't even count the number of times when men thought I was into them just because I stupidly thought being chatty and friendly would help make the workplace a nicer place to be, NOT because I was ever attracted to any of them. No need to mention your wife or girlfriend every 5 seconds. I don't care ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:39 AM
60

I had a friend in 8th grade whose mom's boyfriend raped her when she was 11, she had his baby when she was 12 (and it was given to her aunt), her mother called her a slut for sleeping with her boyfriend (😠😡😖), she started smoking and drinking at high school and college parties by the time I met her at 13...and she told me that the older guys at these parties repeatedly raped her. I was too young tp do anything, had no support system.of my own, and she was already going to therapy at a center (wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:23 AM
16

I thought it was Jude Law. The blue eyes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:59 AM
2

Is that Jude Law in the lower left corner? 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:58 AM
199

Reminds me of this creep at my college who would hit on every woman with long hair. Well, obviously there were the thin hippie guys with long hair...and this creep ended up hitting on those hippie men from behind, thinking they were women. Once the hippies turned around to show their Jesus beards, the look on the creep's face... Priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:30 PM
34

This hits home. I had to move 5,000 miles away to learn this lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:59 AM
72

Shut up and take my money! Also, news headline: "Violent, mentally-unstable female burns innocent man who was just trying to ask her on a date for the 10th time in a dark alley on her way home. Find out what she was wearing at 10pm."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:27 PM
4

Oh, look. One of my many nightmares. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:04 AM
13

Shit, I barely have time to do all the things I love doing in life, even during lockdown and getting only 30 hours of sleep a week because of my shitty smoking neighbor. How do these losers find the time to hate so many strangers online?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:01 AM
44

If they can use "Karen" and the C word so fluidly, then FDS using "scrotes" is nothing. And just try to even mention that the "Karen" meme has serious misogynistic undertones anywhere on Reddit, even on TwoX, and you will get the scrotes coming out of the woodwork and dropping their masks in a hot second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:53 AM
18

Glad I missed it, though I snuck a peek at the Subredditdrana thread, and was, of course, not surprised at the incredible amount of effort that the incels were putting forth into discrediting FDS. I mean, just the outright lies and PROJECTION. 😆. And they kept linking to one or two of the same threads that they thought made their own case. And kept saying this sub is "transphobic", as if these scrotes give a damn about trans lives or any LGBTQ+ lives at all. Just like the "men get raped, too!" w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:44 AM
14

I wish I could blame it on just the men around me, but the women around me are just as stupid about mask-wearing. There's a lot of super religious and crunchy granola types where I live, so you get both extreme ends of the spectrum that are anti-mask/"COVID is a hoax!"/"We just need to hers immunity like Sweden!"/"I need muh freedums!". Of all ages, too. Young people thinking they're immune and partyimg anyway, old people not giving a shit about anyone but themselves, young and old people not gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:48 AM
17

Ugh. Does it seem like there has been a rash of misogynist idiot AITA posts lately? Especially of the "dad mad that baby will be a girl instead of a boy" or that ridiculous post about how the one father/husband was so livid that his wife said she would choose to save their daughter before both of them in a hypothetical alien invasion that he left the house in a huff, went to his sister's, ignored his wife's calls for hours, and was still mad at her days later? He also continued to justify his an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:34 AM
22

I can't enioy r/TwoXChromosomes at all anymore, even though a lot of the women there still work very hard to hold to their ideals and equality. I try to upvote and report when I can but most of the comments I read just end up getting reported because it's trolls and men brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:07 AM
66

I hope men are never allowed to post here. What could they possibly contribute besides bullshit and negativity? I sub to RepLadies and they just had a thread that just consisted of "Guy here. Any other guys?" And all the comments were the same. And I have seen maybe one or two reviews by men on that sub in the year I have been subbed. Meanwhile all the men on that low-effort "Man here, learning about reps and love how great the women make this sub!" are literally admitting that they don't contri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:21 PM
8

Word. I can't even get the resident manager of the condo I'm currently renting to realize that I sort of deserve to breathe fresh air in my own home more than the idiot smoker below me needs to keep their bathroom vent open. But hey, I guess that was my fault for thinking I deserve to actually breathe while being a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:19 AM
8

The over-confidence of mediocre men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:38 AM
4

Gross. I know on the reselling sites like Poshmark, Depop, Mercari etc, all the male (and it's always men, isn't it?) feitshists make accounts and pretend to be interested in items, then ask you to take pics of you "trying the item on". It's so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:25 AM
3

I used to get ads on Reddit and FB for "Yoni steaming", when nothing in my browsing history or anything besides my OB/GYN valendar appointments were anywhere near related. Internet ads are a freaking plague...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:45 AM
2

OLD did age me faster, that's for damn sure. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:15 AM
8

Didn't skip a beat. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:46 AM
171

I quit OLD really quick because my back hurt so much from all the conversations I had to carry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:44 AM
14

Aw, thanks. Right back atcha, and all the other lovely women here! 🌹🌼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:25 AM
34

I don't live in a state with a TJ's and groceries are notoriously expensive in my state, along with high cost of living and low wages. So I just focus on other things. Nothing wrong with it. Different strokes for different folks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:39 AM
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It's Khloe after 3 hours of Photoshop and filters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:08 AM
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Yes! Only I'm too cheap and broke for fresh flowers all the time, so I "splurged" on some very realistic fake phaleonopsis orchids and other fake flowers around my apartment. Makes me happy whenever I look at them. Edited because of my stubby thumbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:17 AM
4

God, I remember the random interactions I would have with strangers on the internet in the 90s, and I cringe when I think about just how many more of those interactions happen on a daily basis for every pre-teen and teenage girl today, and how much more brazen grown-ass adult predators have become. At least back in the 90s, the stigma of it all was still very strong...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:35 AM
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I'm saving this thread to any potential men in the future who I might see some value in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:42 AM
11

How else would they take the shirtless selfies that end up on their OLD profiles? 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:17 PM
15

This is why I have never visited my apartment pool in over 7 years...and have no plans to. They're all fronting the apartments and you never know what kind of creeps are staring at you or taking pics. Not that I think I'm worth taking pics of, but I don't wanna put myself out there and give anyone thr satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:15 PM
4

Idiot's so stupid that he doesn't even know non-latex condoms are a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:20 AM
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I used to before the pandemic since I used to take the bus and walk. But since I've been driving most places now, I've fallen out of the habit of putting my earbuds on (masks have replaced earbuds on my "don't forget before you go out" list!). Guess I need to keep them in my purse again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:04 AM
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I do have to work on being less nice to strangers. I'm not overly friendly or anything, and do have RBF, just hard to let my RBF shine with the mask on, I guess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:04 PM
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This was something that definitely occurred to me, but just has probably a 1 in a billion chance of actually working, imho. But then again, there are some really stupid people out there (of all genders), so I dunno. I mean, PUA version would be him feeling out what my response would be to see if I was dumb enough for him to pursue me even further? I guess his preferred response would have been, "OMG, you should totally just ghost her and go out with ME tonight, because I will love you better tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:02 PM
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