Be careful before sharing your trauma with men.

riseaboveagain · 2021-08-19T15:47:55+00:00

These men are utter trash, and I’d suspect they’ve chosen to hate women because women have rejected them many times for being either unattractive and too lazy to do anything to improve themselves

Or for being self-centered, uninteresting human beings 🤷‍♀️🙅🏼‍♀️

janpra07 · 2021-08-19T16:03:12+00:00

The way people will make a kink about anything and everything that is harmful to women 😐

carmen_sandiegos_hat · 2021-08-19T15:49:31+00:00

Don't share your trauma with men.

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-08-19T16:43:16+00:00

Tears shouldn’t make men horny. Studies have shown that tears make men less attracted to women not more attracted, so this is some really aberrant behaviour right here.

Snugglyy · 2021-08-19T16:26:36+00:00

This must be the sacred sense of locker room bonding humor that women need to accept as totally not a red flag and normal

buzzkillyall · 2021-08-19T17:31:47+00:00

"Very few things as enjoyable in life as revenge is." He wants to take revenge on a human being who had nothing to do with his insult or injury. She just happens to be the same sex as someone who he believes hurt him. So, half the world's population must pay for what one person did (or failed to do)?

Which one is the more emotional, less logical sex?

So breathtakingly fragile, and so malevolent. I hope none of those hate-saturated monsters reproduce, or have pets. Only the soulless find joy in another's suffering.

We want to simply avoid harmful people, not gloat over their misery.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-08-19T15:16:38+00:00

As a german speaker, this is not Schadenfreude anymore. This is pure evil.

NottodayScrote · 2021-08-19T15:22:08+00:00

Dear Goddesses, please, please make every single one of these men come back as a frat boys colon. Thank you

99power · 2021-08-19T15:56:50+00:00

Wow this is terrifying. The things they don’t say to your face but think.

2oatmeal_cookies · 2021-08-19T15:16:35+00:00

I've made the mistake of sharing trauma and family shit with men. Never again.

Inside_Inside_8610 · 2021-08-19T17:38:40+00:00

This should come as no surprise. This article from Julie Bindel in the Guardian talks to men who use prostitutes. The amount of self and projected loathing is disturbing, but not surprising.

Also not surprising is the fact that they knew that many of the women had been trafficked. They talk of seeing women with cuts and bruises. It makes no difference, as long as they can still have sex.

Sara Pascoe, in her book "Sex, Power and Money" quoted some research that shows that the more sexually aroused a man is, the less empathy he has.

And then men say: "But male sexuality is demonized"

I wonder why........

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2010/jan/15/why-men-use-prostitutes

OrangeCatsAreNice · 2021-08-19T17:38:53+00:00

Getting hard over the thought of a newborn struggling to be fed properly in its first months of life. Why would any woman want a worm like this? Guys like this destroy everything they touch. There is a reason why no woman has given him a chance. We can sense the desperation of failures with no honor and no morals.

I think we can subcounsciously sense when someone is not right in the head. And this is why many of them end up alone, despite having money and not being hideous looking.

I dont believe men like this are even attracted to women. They have some sickly obsession with the men they think most women have relationships with, almost like they are jealous.

redditor_2782733 · 2021-08-19T15:01:51+00:00

This is disgusting.

barbellvalkyrie · 2021-08-19T15:23:41+00:00

Men, once again, proving they hate women and that nothing is off limits for getting them off.

PinSome6826 · 2021-08-19T15:04:42+00:00

You’ve gotta be careful with who you share your mind with in general. Some people just aren’t stable enough to fully accept and healthily process and help you process your selves feelings.

PinkPetalCdistbeauty · 2021-08-19T16:17:36+00:00

Vile creatures. Who is protecting these predators screens names? (obviously not us)

MamaGia · 2021-08-19T18:31:22+00:00

Pigs. The more I read the less I ever wish to have sex with a man ever again. And I'm serious.

theMathBackground · 2021-08-19T15:04:02+00:00

It’s best not to share your trauma with anyone. Men and low value women both do more harm than good.

FemclFleshBeckyBones · 2021-08-19T16:26:45+00:00

The only person you should tell your trauma to is a therapist. Maybe a few strongly vetted female friends or family members if you really feel the need to.

Men really can't be trusted with that kind of information.

Peak_Tree · 2021-08-19T17:56:15+00:00

Thay saying about how women don't know how much men hate us? each day i confirm it more and more.

FineDeliciousSnakes · 2021-08-19T17:56:39+00:00

More proof that some men are the trashiest trash to ever trash 💫

galian84 · 2021-08-19T19:15:39+00:00

WTF is wrong with these so-called “men”…

I swear you’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

“BuT hOw Do YoU kNoW yOu WoN’t LiKe (insert degrading sexual act) If YoU dOn’T tRY???!!!111”

And if you’ve done said act and hated it/traumatized you: “yOu’Ll Do It FoR yOuR eX bUt NoT mE??? tHiS iS aBuSe 😭😭!”

My abusive ex had a strange, perverse obsession with crying women. You might think you’re sharing a part of yourself with them, but most of them will just use it against you or think less of you. Don’t do it. I learned the hard way.

23eggz · 2021-08-19T19:58:15+00:00

P much any man who watches porn these days has some sort of "kink" that involves female suffering and its disgusting

Astral_weaver · 2021-08-19T18:52:42+00:00

These men are vile creatures and deserve a life devoid of women.

Alyssatotallyrules · 2021-08-19T19:00:48+00:00

Bookmarking this post & all of the great comments as excellent life advice! It has taken me years to learn that over sharing just gives them a better game plan. So sad but true! But I’m glad there are now at least forums like this to help!

2021-08-19T22:48:03+00:00

Why would you ever open up to a man about your trauma? Instead you should be glorifying your ‘ex boyfriend’ (even if you never had one or he was a piece of shit). Just lie and say that he was amazing in bed and a great boyfriend so scrotes don’t think you’re ‘broken’ and try to do the bare minimum. NEVER share your trauma or insecurities with a scrote.

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-08-19T20:29:07+00:00

If you call them out on it they'll say it's a joke. But that's really shitty humour. Not dark humour, just shitty. Like them.

RabidWench · 2021-08-19T23:56:28+00:00

But sex work is empowering! Right, men? RIGHT?

Novemberinthechair · 2021-08-19T20:16:50+00:00

I don't share trauma anymore.

Kimpractical · 2021-08-20T01:18:35+00:00

I’m bisexual but I feel like I’m turning a little more gay everyday 🤪

BelleCervelle · 2021-08-20T03:00:31+00:00

This is exactly why I, as someone with legitimate trauma, will test the waters by telling a story of something that could be seen as traumatic, but wasn’t trauma inducing for me personally.

What a man does with that information, how he responds to it, if, when, and who he shares that information with, if he ever uses it as ammunition against me, his behavior/response gives me all the information about him, without putting myself in the crosshairs.

Never stop vetting.

Royal-Progress · 2021-08-19T23:35:44+00:00

Ironsculpture · 2021-08-21T11:24:59+00:00

Men really act like they spawn as grown 6ft tall adults... They forget who shat them out and chose to nurture them.

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