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Question For Menblueribbonskies/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:31 PM
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This makes a difference though women do not be violent with the intent to hurt and cause damage men do, It's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:49 PM
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It is really not, I am so tired of people pretending it is, Men will hit for completely stupid reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:47 PM
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Why can't women expect the same thing from men? Women want loyalty and appreciation too. A man who won't grow tired of her familiarity via the coolidge effect and cheat and expect her to be okay with that? Also when women make men wait 3 months or so for sex men freak the hell out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:45 PM
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Men are cheater who expect domestic servitude any woman who enters that deal is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:43 PM
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marriages are a worse deal for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:45 AM
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Not in intimate relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:12 AM
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I am a woman and I know women, I did not say all displays of violence by women are okay and not dangerous. I think men blow severity and proportion up, Like comparing a girlfriend slapping her boyfriend if he says something disrespectful to a man beating his girlfriend who is much stronger than up. Its not the same !!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:36 AM
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Definitely do not, I think severity is important here too. Severe verbal and emotional abuse Destroys people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:33 AM
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I understand RP very well you are just delusional. Women do not find being a madonna attractive or being a whore, it is just stupid and has no benefit either way. I'd still choose the whore anyday though being it is just any woman with freedom who is not a submissive doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:29 AM
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I disagree I think it's complex and well I agree with the statement, I think men use the equal rights equal fights things to manipulate women intently. It is a trap completely. I think this obsession over "violence" is absurd because 99 percent of the time it is not real inflicting violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:27 AM
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TRP is tortured by the madonna whore complex. men are not satisfied If they have the madonna they want the whore If they have the whore they don't respect her and want a madonna If they solve this by marrying a madonna and sleeping with side whores well guess what no valuable woman would accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:25 AM
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Yes you absolutely do not understand complexity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:24 AM
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Oh god that is the worst, " JUST SMILE AND BE PLEASANT FOR MEN YOU DO NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:23 AM
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You are very uneducated on the effects of verbal and emotional abuse in relationships. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:16 AM
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That is probably attributed to so many different factors, It is constantly men who are more likely to murder women and other men. Back to what we were discussing which is adult and adult violence male vs female. when it comes to actual infliction pretending a woman's slap is the same as a man's punch is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:16 AM
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it just indulges in it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:14 AM
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Oh god so ridiculous women are raped for centuries and men act like they are the biggest victims of the century when one hollywood man goes to prison for REAL sex crimes. GROW UP!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:11 AM
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All I hear is it is bad for women to have sex but good for men. Should women just accept men sleeping around on them ? and remain a good and chaste wife, Misogyny misogyny never fails. Men hate women having sex. MADONNA WHORE COMPLEX.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:10 AM
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Not true, men are second children in most households these day. Beyond that women find men's attitudes and behaviours repulsive I would never accept a ring because it would be like accepting an ankle arrest bracelet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:08 AM
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The madonna whore thing is proven to keep men in a state of constantly being unsatisfied enjoy it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:04 AM
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Okay so a man calls his wife a stupid ugly cow everyday and she slaps him after years of it and yet she is now the abusive and toxic one in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:01 AM
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A woman's slap to an emotional attack is nothing like a man's slap or punch or abuse. You cannot deny the physical difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:00 AM
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That has to be a joke, emotional and verbal abuse are incredibly detrimental same with sexual. Think before you comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:58 AM
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It is true most of the time, men are much more violent and likely to kill their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:57 AM
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Pretending female and male violence are the same thing is ridiculous. No I am not saying people should hit eachother but pretending that it is the same level of aggression is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:56 AM
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This does not happen to all women and it is likely she could be lying about exactly what she has to do, although men like that exist. If you think it is so unfair you'd see quickly living as a woman has tons of unfairness too. You can be a sugarbaby too go to an older man or woman even. I understand your rage at the unfairness in your life but you have to let it pass as harmful as that sounds it's the only way to enjoy your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:11 PM
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Obviously I am referring to the broader male sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:01 PM
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lmao not the same thing at all !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:00 PM
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It makes a lot of sense if a woman is looking for commitment and marriage she's wise to not wait around and become a permanent girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:20 AM
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Only overly simplistic women have a hoe phase, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:17 AM
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YOU SAID JUST THE OTHER DAY ABOUT HOW YOUNG GIRLS WEARING SHORTS IS ASKING FOR THEM TO BE LOOKED AT SEXUALLY!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:09 AM
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I can't take you seriously at this point , you are too typical 'slay' pussy I mean alright are you 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:07 AM
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I don't understand how this applies unless you mean in the context of men who scream over all women and deny us any free thought that isn't simplified to petty emotion and their own projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:25 AM
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Look at that chart of looks for truerateme, it makes it very clear they are harsher on women and overate men as other men. That's why your perception is this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:32 AM
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To me I am heavily grossed out by how cruel it is and forceful and a certain taste for disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:28 AM
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is that a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:20 AM
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So you really do not think that women growing up from age 12 being sexually objectified and pawed at by grown men has no impact on her when she comes of age and what her political views are? No just jealousy? That's what all men simplify it down to and it is hilariously absurd. Men need to allow women more complexity and hindsight, it's offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:25 PM
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I am 19 !!!! I am light years ahead of my 13 year old self this suggestion is INSANE.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:50 PM
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I would rather be a women male sexuality is disgusting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:44 PM
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LMAO !!!! there is a huge difference between a 13 year old and a 21 year old I am praying to a god I don't even believe in because this comment is real. I just really can't believe you just said that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:38 PM
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Im sorry why should unethical porn not be banned that is a disturbing thing to suggest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:32 PM
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Lol your view of women and feminism is so lame. You do realize younger beautiful women grow up right? You really think there are no young beautiful feminists? This is what I dislike about PPD you guys are all obsessed with this vilified enemy of a woman over 25 ruining men's life. it is bad and completely hollow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:28 PM
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this is so depressing to be born a woman my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:25 PM
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That's just what people who know they are being gross say. This is purple pill debate to discuss common sex and relationship gender issues, and older men chasing young teenagers is one of those :)! Im allowed to have and share my opinon ! You do not intimidate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:09 PM
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That makes it so clear you would sleep with teenagers who are below 18 and meet the age of consent, you are coming off as predatory based on your replies for sure. Also your reversal of thinking that it's women infantilizing other young women saying she " can't make her own decisions" is BS, it is you who we are critiquing because it's so clear you give off the illest of intentions and low self esteem. Im 19 and I can make my own decisions but that does not mean your behaviour is not problematic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:39 PM
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It's the emphasis on the age that is creepy he is also 50 and constantly makes comments about girls younger than that. He's sexualizing young women in a completely misogynistic way and I am tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:34 PM
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Even the women who have great sex appeal men complain and call them gold diggers, it does not answer my question at all. If you don't find women's livelihood important beyond her simply having one and you value her beauty why can't she just be beautiful and date an affluent man? Men lose their minds and vilify gorgeous women for this. We are not valued for our money or careers in your own words, what is the point of dating an income matched man if we are young and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:57 PM
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Sure that's totally why take your fiction to wattpad please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:48 PM
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if their careers don't make you more attractive as a woman then why do men still get upset at women who want rich men, because they themselves are not rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:41 PM
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Lying about your age is embarrassing and I guarantee they can tell. I always do. This is manipulative and predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:38 PM
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disgusting stop being so misogynistic you always leave comments that are very gross and sexualizing young women, the last one was about a 12 year old, just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:36 PM
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That's a myth average people date average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:43 PM
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There is nothing a relationship offers young women right now besides maybe regular sex and less risk of STDs. Despite really wanting one I know a long term relationship is not a good option for me as a woman. I do not accept casual sex with no "wooing" though I am still picky and do not sleep with men I date right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:40 PM
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Tons of women prefer porn free relationships it's a healthy goal!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:05 PM
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No it is not, in a relationship you establish boundaries, If you are not comfortable with porn you do not have to be with someone who uses it frequently, Similar but escalated that's like saying not doing anal is textbook abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:04 PM
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I would counter the whole swimmers body thing with the fact women find very skinny men attractive too, or very bear like men even the dad bod is constantly praised. Men have less strict body requirements than women. Whether it is gross to women or not men still do it that is the point, it is still available to them and they do it all of the time. So you are not really disagreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:34 PM
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I have never in my life heard a woman go " I want a man with wide collarbones" Also yes If a man consitently dates more than 5 years down and more than 10 years down once you're like 35 + It is considered creepy and very clearly for the youth and it's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 09:23 PM
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Victim blaming men should not look at 12 year olds sexually regardless of how they are dressed or whatever makeup they are wearing let kids be kids please it's so cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:54 AM
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Women can make their own money today, and Im sorry the likelihood of scoring someone whose rich and would give us that benefit is low, and eight times lower for finding someone whose worth enduring for it. Completely devoid of personal complexity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:31 AM
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why are you discussing how she looks older with multiple people that is so sus you clearly are thinking about her in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:28 AM
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This comment is why I hated being a teenage girl, men and their obsession with us!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:27 AM
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I love how a man is telling us that there is no difference in girls from 16 to 22 when I myself am 19 and 16 year old me vs 19 year old me is like night and day. i just don't get the insistence, everything you said is more than sufficient he just does not want to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:23 AM
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Yes if you prefer your women look as close to children as possible I don't know what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:19 AM
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This is full of resentment revenge fantasy LMAO i think women are just fine with their vibrators and not your bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:56 PM
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OP you are constantly trolling your " women are meant to be quiet and have babies advice" I mean is it really necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:54 PM
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You do realize by "revealing" these statements you believe it does not push women to marry, it repulses them away from it. What would a young women benefit in sacrificing her time for self exploration to be a wife to a man who will call her old and over the hill at 25 and continue to resent her when he himself is 2 decades older? Really in what world is that appealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:52 PM
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You would be the one doing the degrading, and given how i'd estimate you probably find fucking your girlfriend hard I doubt you'd make an adequate porn performer. It causes so much mental health problems they do it because they are groomed by the idea it's easy money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:48 PM
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Yes they can it's called not dating men who are porn addicts. Whoring is immeasurably hard how about you take dick all day and get degraded and see how easy that shit money is my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:43 PM
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Ahh your response is telling, you really can't critically think as to why porn is not something women desire in a relationship and morally repulsive? Because " just some whore looking to get easy money" Nothing about whoring is easy and the way you talk about the women in porn shows how poorly you view women in general to me. Not worth the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:35 PM
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Do you not see the obvious unethicalities of porn, bottom line it's very unattractive there is nothing hot about thinking about a man vigorously masturbating to some vulgar and disgusting porn of a most likely teenage and trafficked girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:16 PM
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Porn is disturbing, sorry but it is, I don't want to have sex with a man who watches the most bizzare stuff for an orgasm instead of just touching his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:11 PM
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women don't get off in actual sex because most men are shit at getting their partners to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:08 PM
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The due process is not stomped over, men still hardly face any consequences for sexual assault legally, very few. Socially maybe but I still don't think the answer is to let sexual assault remain untalked about and let these perpetrators continue to sleeze bye with zero consequence. It is not misandrist. Edit: Yes men would do that they hardly care about it for any other criminal offence, quite literally only when problematic sexual behaviour that puts onus on alot of men to change how they trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:02 AM
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it is not irrational, it is very true. I hate being gaslit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:16 AM
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wow dont sexualize minors and adults fucking please I cannot stomach that just cuz you think you would have wanted it does not mean anything. Sorry but YOU don't know I know very well the effects of those relationships first hand, stop please. Adults have the responsibility to not sexualize children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:14 AM
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they hate women speaking up about the rape culture they benefit from
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 11:17 PM
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The point is they care about male preservation as whole instead of female safety, they act like they are the victims when it is women who have to be entirely wary. And DUH teacher should not be sexually engaging with students period my god, seriously acting as if thats such a male in danger of a teenage seductress ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:00 PM
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that is not the problem men have with it, regardless they hardly ever face justice regardless for every probably hundreds of thousands rapists free there is 1 man falsey accused ( NOT PROSECUTED).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:58 PM
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It still opened women's eyes to be critical of men, before it was all just silent. The response generated by men has made me see how truly little they care about actually stopping rape culture because ultimately it's still their own preservation they care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:46 PM
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" it's all in your head" Wow I love that avoidance tactic very classic move. It is not and many women will attest to that the sexual harassment and sexual assault is a very real problem of being a woman. Before you say men get hurt too , yes proportionately by OTHER MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:43 PM
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MeToo has opened the eyes of women to see how little men actually care about sexual violence considering they feel more intensely about a man being accused of a crime than the women who actually suffer the life shattering effects of the crime and never get justice. Men managed to make it a male issue what a suprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:41 PM
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UHM NO , if only a small minority of men are committing then how come such a high number of women have been victims of it? It is not overblown, rape and sexual assault etc. rely on silence it is how they operate women finally make a fuss and men retaliate saying it has gotten out of hand such bs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:39 PM
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Seriously....... You were the guy who tries to change a lesbian, why just why. It's so classic dude bro move.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:36 PM
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yeah cuz that's literally disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:34 PM
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It's considered obnoxious to bring up your own preferences regardless of their relevancy. Some examples: The man who announces when he sees a fat woman doing anything and has to say he finds her unattractive. The woman who tells men who aren't even interested or inquiring to her that she finds them too short for her. Both of these examples are embarrassing to me, it's just social standards. Some people do it anyways and sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't I really do not care, if they want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:32 PM
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how is that different from how men seduce, its about creating an erotic and sensual appeal and atmosphere. Yet still there are women who do not care and you would be a lovely pair, but you are not going to get me to feel guilty for desiring romancing before sexual intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:22 AM
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so women never put on a show or seduce men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:15 AM
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sure lol in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:06 AM
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what is so awful about seduction women put. effort into it too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:02 AM
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Get better at seduction that's really it If you ask me to have sex right off the bat with no romancing I will not be turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:07 PM
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What good is being in extreme advantage when young and I'd argue it's just being extremely sexually objectified. If men only desire young woman than there is no point to a woman committing even if she is young because he will just resent her when by no fault of her own she ages. Yet, if she uses her youth to acquire resources via idk lets just use sugar daddies men personify her as evil. They want women to enter a deal that does not really benefit them especially now since we can provide for our…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:18 PM
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A lot of the time when women use some of these advantages they become attached with negative labels imo and most women still surpass these advantages. Also in regards to makeup I think its becoming more gender fluid. The ability to use makeup also comes with the pressure to always be made up , I don't really want to debate whether it comes from men or women but a woman's default beauty is actually at disadvantaged by the existence of makeup if you do not use it. I do get what you mean though as …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:15 PM
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Im sure they are flattered you already think they are over the hill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:09 PM
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Yeah I guess I meant more personally I don't feel obsessive about my sexual status, whereas so many men are very fixated on their perceived access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:58 PM
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I'm tired of seeing your creepy comments everywhere, do you even know any 18 year olds? leave them alone my god it's so disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:46 PM
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At least you are honest about that advantage rather than pretend like women have the most rigorous "beauty" expectations for men, when it's very clearly women who get the shit end of the stick for that. The divide between attractive men , average men, and unattractive men is much more forgiving. I really don't get the outrage a lot of men have towards women who have more specific standards or honestly more like preferences, when men have their idea of a perfect woman down to like the shape of he…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:32 PM
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That's exactly what they are trying to do they are fixated on youth and we won't be the exception ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:47 AM
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It's the assumption and " for a woman" part that is misogynistic and insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:02 PM
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Way too much dichotomy going on there, why do you think a woman can not have casual sex with men without losing her value? Why do you assume most women are uber slutty?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:57 PM
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What you are describing is a father and daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:47 PM
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No it's not about being dominant or not it's about feeling like an accesory to a man that is not fulfilling. It's just so clear what type of men say these things there's no genuine admiration here, its all about being the best kind of property. or pet. Also the emotionally sane part is vastly misogynistic and men always assume they are so logical when women can see clearly it is not the case. No slutty women ( which means basically being a virgin or no exploratin for herself) is just about men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:29 PM
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It does, its so clear that you just want someone to submit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:12 PM
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That is not the point of my comment, It was in relation to the fact that a lot of women do not want to have kids even if they desire being a mother because men disrespect their wives after they have kids so much. Anyways enjoy !
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:09 PM
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This is the misogynistic attitude that causes a lot of women anxiety about ever commiting or having kids with a man. If you think this is acceptable you are apart of the problem. A woman carries a child for 9 months and gives birth and the only concern right away is she's not "hot" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:02 PM
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No I admit that even the women who do lose the weight are still met with that stigma. Also if the first thing you tell your wife after she had and is caring for a baby is " you need to lose weight" , never get someone pregnant ever. Especially cuz I guarantee you are not looking in the mirror at yourself first, that's abusive. Expecting your wife to look the exact same is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:00 PM
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Ugh your last point is so gross. Men really don't seek anything of value in women, all I am seeing here is that she abides by you and is an accessory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:53 PM
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That is a condition regardless. Pregnancy takes a huge toll on a woman and it's so childish of men and not to mention selfish that instead of expressing gratitude at such a monumental change for her to go through for your child you critcize her not looking the same. No woman wants to marry a man who she thinks loves her only for him to resent her after she has his kids. It's honestly a main point of why I will never have children its a horrible amount of disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:43 PM
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There is a difference between seeing someone only as an object vs having some exchanges in society. When men see women as pure sexual objects and deny their humanity ( I am not saying they make a woman human I am saying in men's mind they do not see women that way, very different) it is disturbing. In the same way you might find a gold digger who kills her rich husband disturbing. The topic is so stale at this point, every other posts mentions it. I am sick of this narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:26 AM
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Only when I start having a near panic attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:01 PM
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That's what I mean it really concerns me and they objectify young women and deny them their humanity. The way they compare young women to older women ( who are the same people just in different stages everyone gets older) is degrading to both. They have a horrible dichotomy going here, and it's very insulting to me and I'm 19. They mystify young women and as someone who suffered from self objectification as early as 12 this stuff is sick and hurts young girls who get exposed to it. I cried on my…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:00 PM
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It's really not and I find it an annoying thing that is constantly reiterated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:57 PM
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Men who watch tons of porn tend to centre their sex lives around porn and not whoever they are in a relationship with. Also it's a turn off for me to know guys watch a lot of porn I would consider creepy and it makes me not want to sleep with them. Sex with a porn addict or frequent porn user can be very unenjoyable with issues like erectile dysfunction, lack of sexual knowledge and a general disconnect. This is without factoring in the morality of porn trafficking and disturbing themes found in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:52 PM
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I hate this it is so abusive, I demand to be let out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:41 PM
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Why is every post on this forum against feminism and centred around old men and teenage girls fucking? To answer your question yes you've made many mistakes it may apply to reddit but please touch some grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:37 PM
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I never suggested that was the solution if you bothered to read the rest of my comment , I clearly said depending on the response to this issue being brought up either closes or opens the door for solutions to be made. I was giving him an example of how some men respond to conflict directed at them and turns it into a problem without fix. It is not the same, one is addressing lack of mutual satisfaction in a sex life and a careless partner. It also is not unrelated it shows continuous behaviour …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 11:47 PM
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Do you not understand how women work? Most need clitoral stimulation so the ideal women are being princesses for only wanting to have sex with men who are willing to reciprocate the pleasure they give is ridiculous. You see sex as pure benefit for the man and this is what women are frustrated about the default should not be male orgasm or pleasure and female sacrifice. Should she just be satisfied to satiate the man in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:31 PM
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So a woman expecting sex that is rewarding for her is egotistical event though it is standard for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:25 PM
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Men are already emotionally and verbally manipulative just as much as a woman could be. I mean manipulation is literally the foundation of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:08 PM
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Then what is the solution to not have any effort to satisfy or show affection to one's partner ? Genuinely asking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:06 PM
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You seriously do not think men do that? You have no point to reply to people when you do not even engage their point of view. How do women do that in so much more of an evil way, and what makes my example more convoluted? Women are evil <33333 happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:51 PM
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completely ignored my common example that shows that yes men do those things. It is not only women and you are hellbent on giving women this evil persona like all we want is revenge. Men do fight btw they constantly beat the shit out of women..... Emotional manipulation with cruel intent is gross so i don't know why you are advocating for that in all ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:45 PM
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Ideally in a relationship both partners would refrain from that, vulnerability can be thrown back in both sexes faces its just a human fear. The whole reason people are scared of falling inlove lol. An example targeting a women: You are vulnerable and tell your partner you were sexually assaulted or let's say you have a history of hookups. they act cool with it and comfort you and reassure you. Then you have a fight or he perceives you as flirting with another dude, and he turns it around on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:32 PM
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I'll give you an example : " I don't like how you always skip foreplay, it makes me feel ignored and unsatisfied, similar to how you ignored our anniversary last month despite knowing how much it meant to me." The other person could respond in a self serving way and flip it around on the person and accuse them of believing the other person does not care and then continuing to not change their behaviour. Leaves nothing resolved and completely cradles one's ego over the other's frustration. Wherea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 04:15 PM
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You see women's nude bodies as something you have the right to see though even if it is without permission you don't see it as a person you see it as product.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:58 PM
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Bingo, this goes both ways when forming a relationship sharing overly intimate details or struggles directly or not naturally and quickly can create false bonds and that's why it's not good for either partners to do so. First date should not feel like a therapy session, but that does not mean as the relationship progresses you cannot open up. I can't imagine doing anything other than opening my arms to a man I love or like a lot that shared his struggles with me. Without that connection establis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:43 PM
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I disagree, Men actively ignore solutions in my experience when it comes from women. Any criticism that is a fair point gets dismissed and see as not worth changing and then a man associates it with an unfair embarrassment of his character. Also there is a common theme where men turn the argument into a pity party and get mad someone is mad at them and try to centre it around them them being made to feel bad rather than the actual issue at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:34 PM
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Where in any way did I deny that men do not perceive women this way? My point was that for women this so called " fall" is not really an actual fall it just means less complete sexual objectification since in your own words male 'instincts' do not see us any other way. As in women have complexity beyond simply wishing to appeal to men and this hardcore narrative men try to spin is boring and oversimplified, over done and seriously stupid. It does not say anything negative about women rather it d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 12:52 AM
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I love shitty reddit armchair anthropology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:57 AM
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How about the lie of " men view you as people" sold to women still.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:50 AM
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I mean he could have just tried to fuck her better, is it because of compatibility size wise idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:42 AM
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You are equating the stupidest things, goodbye I see where your head is at now. Probably below mine too <3.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:20 PM
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I am not saying that this 'wall' does not exist in the minds of men, I am just saying it says nothing of fault about women, all we do it get older like every other person. It only points out how repulsive male behaviour is, and makes male attention unflattering. Since we heavily self objectify this will impact us, I think it may shock some women who don't know male depravity but I am well acquainted with it since I was a child. The antidote for women is to defy this scorn they want to place on u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:04 PM
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How am I not old enough to have an opinion on this but I am old enough to be fucked by old men? I'm the exact age men are mystifying as ' ideal', I have every right to an opinion on what is affecting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:37 PM
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Men are angry that women are people **** there fixed it. but sure explain to me how i sexually operate based on wolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:29 AM
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Haha nope my bestfriend is dating an unemployed man who is hardly a 4, and she's a 6. Plus objectivity is not relevant to dating and attraction sometimes people like who they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:58 AM
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tell that to all of my friends who are with guys you'd consider "low tier" of their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:51 AM
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burn the witches !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:43 AM
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Haha men told me it was the devil too !!!! I was like jesus what am I going to see here? like seriously they are deranged to see this as misandry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:42 AM
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I would rather not, what you are describing is how men do not see women as equals right off the bat, that's the only reason they would ever be upset at women for having self interests.Not being dishonest not your countlessly debunked alpha/beta bs. No self interests are not exclusively now hypergamy, because unlike the past women have other means of achieving what we want and we don't have to be married off to men. You also are operating this way too strictly even your comment all men like slim …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:02 AM
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you fail to address anything i just said. All humans wish to advance themselves womens only means was marriage for so long. Now that is slowly changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:30 PM
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Men objectify women as a whole gender, it does not matter if she is specifically attractive or not they will look at every woman's and girls boobs butt body, everything. They do not see us as people they see us as objects, we are sexual objects. Women on the other hand may only glance momentarily at a man who specifically catches her eye physically, but we do not see him as an object at all. There is a huge difference. Male entitlement as usual is what it comes down to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:24 PM
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like what
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:19 PM
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So what do you think men are deserving of more respect than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:58 PM
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they are different but so are most individuals but we should be equal in respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:59 PM
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Oof the second hand embarrassment of this comment is strong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 01:58 PM
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Your ' Chad' obsession is why you don't understand women, not all women are hypergamous in it's literal definition but yes all women are individuals that have their own self interests just like men. Why does it anger men so much to see women as human beings also which is my take on why the redpill are so obsessed with this supposed trait in women. It is not even masculine moral framework it's just stupidity and misogyny. *men don't give women rights* women advances through marriage Redpill Men: …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:27 PM
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exactly, they don't seem to get that and are proposing that women just hardly have interest in sex. Which i'm pretty sure is disproven a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:23 PM
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and you are proud of this because why? Is this supposed "fact" you are proposing supposed to absolve men of self control, or force sexual access for them or guilt trip women for "blue balls"????? Also your point still does not make sense, maybe a nymphomaniac can't abstain but people with high sex drives can. Like i said for the 100th time i can get myself off which casual sex does not, so I am not abstaining I am pleasuring myself. you are not proving anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:20 PM
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because I can get myself off, can men not do the same? that's the difference I am not understanding. I would never pay for sex I can get a guy to fuck me if I really wanted it for free, it's called walking down the street
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:53 AM
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Because I can make myself cum very easily, which i do often if I want sex from a man it will naturally include a much higher fixation on them being attractive and adding value to the experience and passion. Why would I want to pay for that, it would insult my ego when I can get it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:26 AM
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I don't agree, I don't think so. In my perspective as a woman i want sex constantly but I do not try and get sex constantly my libido is not lower It just my lack of interest in casual sex that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:32 PM
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How does this directly contradict anything I just said, I said I have a high sex drive but that does not mean I have a high quantity of sex,so realistically your statements although disconnected could still remain true with mine. Quality over quantity for women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:20 PM
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I was referring to the first part of what he said. You refuse to acknowledge this and you are seriously deep down the rabbit hole of the alpha beta bullshit, Talking with you would bring no point or valuable discussion. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:58 PM
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The bitter misogynist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:32 PM
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I have a super high sex drive as a woman but I have more self control and less sexual desperation and would rather satisfy myself sexually than have a casual sex encounter that won't end in a definitive orgasm or close enough to one. I think maybe women are perceived by not liking casual sex as much because the satisfaction from it is not the same as a mans. But regardless all those are generalizations and based on my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:31 PM
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Thank you !!!! said nearly everything I wanted to say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:22 PM
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You just took a sliver of what he said and turned it into the basis of an entire argument. Which was never what I was referring to anyways I am not equating shit tests with a woman's interest, I am equating autonomy and personal desire I.e having goals and expectations in a partnership. My point was why do men associate Hypergamy negatively and assume it does not have any morality. If a women had no outside self interests, i asked would ideally her only interest be to serve. Aka trying to unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:12 PM
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Oh interesting you suffer from the complex a woman cannot be intellectually developed and beautiful at the same time. Get well soon !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:05 PM
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I have major critcisms to make against porn but on this topic Yes men should abstain from chronic porn use especially creepy barely legal porn. It does condition them and prevent them from having a proper loving relationship with an actual woman they can regard as a human being. I am scared for the girls who aren't even born yet who will deal with the perversions of this generations chronic porn users since they were 10. It's a scary thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:45 PM
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Think about this maybe she values herself for something other than her youth? Oh my god crazy isn't it, women having goals and esteem that isn't based on male validation!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:43 PM
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I think you overestimate how much women love male attention. First of all it is disturbing when you constantly have men sexually harassing you, so the idea that women lose so much when they hit " the wall" is ridiculous. Even if you are someone who perceives the presence of excess male attention positively like I was it still does not benefit you and just makes you self objectify yourself as result. The wall views women so one dimensionally like we all just love as much c0ck as we can get and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:40 PM
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why do men find this evil? What theoretically is a woman supposed to do, just serve with no interests of her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:45 PM
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This is what naturally all people do, I don't understand men who get upset by this. Even hypergamy, each generations goal has been to increase their social mobility, women's only means for this for centuries was through marriage it's natural. How many parent's motivation is for their kids to live a better life than they had. I don't understand the upset and evil associated with this nature, especially how they think this drive is rid of any kind of loyalty or morality. Women still have morals th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 08:44 PM
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They need to stop selling this bullshit that rape 'play' is liberating and reclaiming trauma. It is not it is completely sinking into your trauma. I was raped when i was young girl and someone gave me this advice to "get over it and make it in my control", that lead me to wasting all my teenage years just retraumatizing myself to try and understand my trauma. Stop conflating trauma with pleasure. Get therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:02 PM
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What really pisses me off is it is always woman who are in a good position who post semi nudes or maybe full nudes to their only fans who yell about how being a sex worker is empowering over the voices of women who are forced and trafficked into it, or had no other option who have to actually sleep with dozens of men a day. It really irritates me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:58 PM
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Not even male therapist can most of the time. Especially if you are young and attractive, I've had a male therapist sexualize the things I told him and try and take advantage of the position I was in to get me to suck his d!ck. Female therapists or a very trusted male therapist you vet if you can. I know that seems extra paranoid but it is terrifying to go to, as someone who has been in and out of mental hospitals since she was 14.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:56 PM
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Men who romanticize the shit out of past relationships are so out of touch with reality, guaranteed if they stayed together and got married he'd be complaining about her right now and romanticizing another women, never satisfied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:38 PM
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Ahahaha yeah you really don’t get it and don’t actually know the point of FDS. Lol it’s not “convenient” it’s the actual legit definition, innocuous ? Pickmeisha is anything but lol. Pickmeishas are the Tammy Wynette stand by your mans of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:31 PM
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I was giving a hyperbolic ( not really though) example of the things that some women let men get away with and then shame other women for not putting up with. Also KAM and men are trash is basically a reverse euphemism for hatred of misogyny and what it’s created in the surrounding culture. A lot of the times the girl who is being referred to as a pickmeisha is struggling with internalized misogyny, and we can recognize because we have been there before. Feminism is moving away from the sex posi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:28 PM
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Thank you someone who actually understand the term instead of slandering it, it’s actually a sad person to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:09 PM
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You’re delusioned look at the other side, stop blaming “feminism” for the dumbest stuff Oh no a girl doesn’t want to clean your shitty underwear and wants flowers and romance shes so horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:08 PM
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Really not true you have the wrong view of what it is a pick me girl is someone who looses all personality and dignity to get male attention that means nothing. An example would be throwing her friend under the bus for no reason cuz she thinks it will make her more desirable. It’s basically internalized misogyny and low self esteem. Women don’t need to lower themselves for that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 09:07 PM
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