Alyssatotallyrules Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Be careful before sharing your trauma with men. Bookmarking this post & all of the great comments as excellent life advice! It has taken me years to learn that over sharing just gives them a better game plan. So sad but true! But I’m glad there are now at least forums like this to help!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/08/21 07:00 PM
12	The first time a new guy takes 24H+ to text, call, or reach out in any form? Don't bother acting chill, move on. Wow. This is SO exact! 🤯 I worked at a co once where it was pretty obvious they didn’t believe in “promoting from within”. For example, when I was at that co & applied internally for a higher paying job/different role — I didn’t have the “right skill set”. Odd, because 2 years BEFORE that,I was actually offered that very same, higher paying, “magical skill set” role when I applied as an unknown outsider but had turned it down at the time for something else. Why did I never see this about relatio…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 05:29 AM
14	For those of us who were in abusive relationships: Sending sooooo much love to you!!!! I have been there & EMPathize. U are so strong! So glad u have this community to support & encourage u. ❤️❤️❤️❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 01:52 AM
15	They hated her because she spoke the truth. Omg so true about after the money. It’s disgusting!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/20 11:18 PM
9	This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO. Oh good lordt! I was really pissed b4 and now just utterly disgusted reading it they almost died. What has HAPPENED to people????	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/06/20 07:52 PM
4	The audacity. THE AUDACITY! Thank you so much for such a thoughtful answer! This makes a lot of sense (especially with the porn analogy) and u have made me take the situation much less personally!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️where did u get all this knowledge?!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 04:02 AM
6	The audacity. THE AUDACITY! Awwwwww!!!! I LOVE you!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 02:32 AM
12	The audacity. THE AUDACITY! All of the above is so true! Hahah I love it “incels & neckbeards!” Seriously I swear it’s all the hormones in milk or something!!! Then combine that with porn standards (so they expect their date to be a 5’2” blonde with zero body fat & yet somehow still have big boobs) & moms who don’t make them pay rent....sorry I’m getting all vent-y & stuff.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 05:43 PM
11	The audacity. THE AUDACITY! It’s truly mind blowing!!!! And I know there is a book out there saying if we set our bar low we find low, but come on! It’s not like I literally listed that in my dating profile so that they knew to go lower than low!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 05:22 PM
9	The audacity. THE AUDACITY! Looooool! I’m gonna try the Peter Pan costume & practice the potato trick. Maybe it will up my odds of finding a HVM? 😂😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 05:20 PM
29	The audacity. THE AUDACITY! This is so sadly true!!! My standards became like, he has a job, not mean/abusive, likes sex (as in no major psychological hang ups about it), & is not just trying to move in for a place to live. And yet, I couldn’t even find one of those.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 05:17 PM
18	The audacity. THE AUDACITY! Omg I love this! This is why dating wrecked what little self-esteem I had! One guy to this day, haunts me because it was so confusing: I gave him up-to-date pics, told him I’m tall and size is whatever, & all the phone convos leading up to the date he was in hot pursuit. He shows up looking NOTHING like his pics—he had obviously used 10-15 yo photos because he was older, wearing glasses and a lot heavier. But he was tall and I thought carried the weight well, was dressed nice, & had me laughing …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 05:11 PM
2	Or- better yet, don’t reply. Wow! Wow, wow, wow. Just ridiculous! I’m getting angry FOR u lol! Like I wanna come over and just put him in his place hahaha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 06:12 PM
4	Or- better yet, don’t reply. Omg!!!! That is even more infuriating!!! Have some lazy ass gamer permanently glued to the couch, judging YOU. Ridiculous!!!! I swear people are so hypocritical. My ex works but when he takes time off or on weekends, spends the whole day on his phone then blames ME for taking up his time because I asked him to feed the dogs or something. When he’s just sitting there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 05:57 PM
5	Or- better yet, don’t reply. Thank u! Ya know, if I wanna get drunk on a Friday night in the safety of my own home & spend all day Saturday in bed sleeping, who else am I hurting?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 04:56 PM
9	Or- better yet, don’t reply. Good lord. I’m in the same spot. I’m waiting for him to find a place and move out. It’s my house. I can’t wait for a peaceful home. He’s always so angry & judging my every action.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 07:43 AM
4	Or- better yet, don’t reply. Omg this is the wisest observation ever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 07:42 AM
2	This is why FDS exists. Carefully vetting our partners is imperative! So true!! 😂 a similar one I heard from a woman who had car repairs was “if it has wheels or testicles, it will always give u trouble!”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 01:56 PM
5	This is why FDS exists. Carefully vetting our partners is imperative! Lol! I LOVE THAT SAYING!!! Wish I had found this post years ago.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 02:41 AM
1	There is another part to this but I don’t know how to post multiple pics or nest pics! Maybe someone else can find this and post it the proper way in full. Anyway- this is hilarious! Did we just become best friends??? 😂😂😂 I had the same idea just different approach. Like sending him a blue waffle pic. Again, don’t google, people, unless u r ok with very graphic stuff!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 01:35 PM
1	There is another part to this but I don’t know how to post multiple pics or nest pics! Maybe someone else can find this and post it the proper way in full. Anyway- this is hilarious! This is amazing! I lived to mess with a holes on online dating sites! Once a guy opened with some mildly offensive line & I replied-jokingly, that I was fairly active in that I can get out of bed every once in a while without too much help and that I LOVED fried chicken. And could he come over with a big bucket of chicken? Before I could even type the next message to say “Lol, I’m messing with u” he had BLOCKED ME 😂😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 01:32 PM
1	There is another part to this but I don’t know how to post multiple pics or nest pics! Maybe someone else can find this and post it the proper way in full. Anyway- this is hilarious! Yeah! Penile Inversion rocked ON! 😂😭😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 01:20 PM