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1

Ugh, my pig spouse did the same when I learned my step dad had colon cancer (he is in remission now! Great news as he is a very good man). My spouse yelled at me and demanded to know what stage, is he going to die, and when I said I didn't know (and was not going to be asking these questions during a very delicate time) he told me I'm "not normal" and I should be looking this up online. It became all about him. God I hate selfish men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 05:46 PM
5

It's really sad - everything you said it correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 05:41 PM
18

She was calm and confident. Good for her. She knows what's right for her and her family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 05:38 PM
33

That's horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 09:03 PM
61

Women are given scopolamine during birth?! For what? I took this once for motion sickness and I had terrible psychosis. Very frightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 06:41 PM
75

Me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 02:42 PM
166

Absolutely. Men's lives are enriched to women's detriment. I stupidly paid my long term (12 years) boyfriend market rent to live in the house he owned. I was making very, very bad mistakes. Paying to be this pig's maid and he wished his prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 02:41 PM
9

It's gross. The /meditating and /yoga subs are all full of men asking about ejaculating, getting boners, etc etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 04:48 AM
106

I find all that performative stuff so so cheesy, and I have had to stifle laughter as well. A man asking me to "call him daddy"? I'll laugh in his face. One of the last things I want to think about during sex is my parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 01:18 AM
1

It boggles the mond how saying "I'm into hurting and degrading my female sex partner!" makes violence somehow okay. It's disgusting. As long as the man gets a boner out if it it's a-okay. Actually no. I suppose he needs to ejaculate in her face too. My bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:23 PM
1

Why should there be no shame attached to wanting to choke, hur, gag, degrade your sex partner? That is shameful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:20 PM
1

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:27 PM
3

I feel the same. If this was done in her name, how did any I'd this help her? What are her feelings on this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 12:28 AM
166

😳 I think you're on to something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:38 PM
375

At first I thought ED= eating disorder. He probably has one of those too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:38 PM
2

Could be. I think it was an attempt to be "cute" and it's really dumbing herself down. She deserves better than that incompetent man, regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:04 AM
28

I had to stop reading after she used "smol" meaning small. Women need to stop infantilising themselves. I'm sure she had a good point, too. Edit: hadn't considered english might not be her first language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 09:06 PM
1

No one commented on how she is paying him $600 in rent. My LVM ex charged me market rent to live in the house he owned. And as expected, this pig called ME a gold digger. I can't with these disgusting men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 12:13 AM
113

That comment stuck out to me as well. If she (obviously the "babysitter" who is likely a flipping licensed day care provider) "gets" too much of your money stay home and care for your own damn kids asshole. What a prick. That woman cares for your kids so you can work and this is how to speak about her? I hope she sees this and fires him as a client.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 01:28 AM
163

Came here to say the same. They sexualize anything. It's disgusting. I used to enjoy food subs to look for recipes, but they've ruined it with their comments that any sauce looks like cum (I'm trying not to gag typing this)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 05:26 PM
10

Hahaha! Love this. Saving it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:21 AM
1

Lent me use computer and saw he had accounts on Cougar life (younger than me! Lol), lava life discreet encounter, and plenty of fish. Also had looked at prostitutes for dates and locations that lined up with when he was away for work. Don't worry though friends - his CO WORKER was looking at hookers on his computer. Honest mistake, right? I mean how many times have you borrowed your coworker's laptop to book a sex worker? Could happen to anyone! /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:52 PM
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😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:48 PM
1

A childhood friend of mine tragically died when we were in our early 20s. I had a difficult time processing the grief, and developed health concerns very quickly. I couldn't sleep and got painful sores on my mouth and down my throat which made if difficult to eat or drink. I had to get medication. Just before the funeral my long term boyfriend took pity on me and decided to disclose that he had been cheating on me, and he had recently had sex with a woman he met in an alley (what the fuck?!) and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:47 PM
203

The term "nutted" disgusts me to no end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:19 PM
21

I bet most of us have. I think we should do a poll. The results would be sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:27 AM
95

It's irrelevant, but Michelle Obama isn't even close to being unattractive by anyone's standards! Neither is Priscila Chan, whose husband is Mark Zuckerberg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:19 PM
44

Yes yes yes yes yes to the no sex is abuse line. yes to all this. My ex would also claim I was gaslighting (therapy term de jour) him by bringing up real issues (for example not washing the dishes for weeks, or leaving s mess) and he would claim that was my mess and I was gaslighting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:56 PM
228

On another sub a person asked what would you do if you were on vacation with your male partner and got your period? I responded - I'd do nothing different, and what kind of question is this? Women told tales of scheduling events (weddings, vacations, parties) around their periods (and made it clear it was due to menstrual fluid, not health concerns associated with periods such as cramps, etc) many women remarked that special days (sex days) were "ruined" despite their very careful planning (whic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:54 PM
15

Ugh. I was guilty of this unkind, selfish behaviour. I learned it from my male partner who treated me like that. I, in turn, treated others in my life this way, and I'm so sorry for it now. He would say terrible things to me, and I'd ask him not to, and he'd say "why? It's true." And when I was young and stupid I thought he was right. Why shouldn't I tell someone their idea was stupid? Why shouldn't I tell them I don't like their hair cut? Why not tell someone they are fat? Why not tell someone …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 10:44 PM
88

What's the strategy here? Weed out pigs? Edit: apparently I can't read! I see that's exactly the strategy, as you've explained!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:55 AM
110

I'll add - call the police!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:22 PM
19

Sadly I learned of it when my friends spouse demanded it of her. We both had to look it up. Vile. Disgusting act. I'm happy you said no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:50 PM
109

Face fucking is disgusting to you because it's a disgusting, painful sex act for the person whose face is "being fucked" It's vile. People gag, vomit, cry, and are in pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:16 PM
134

I guess I need to add face fucking to the list of sex men expect on the regular. I never have and I never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:14 PM
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I read the first and that was enough. Fucking despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:20 AM
68

I e never encountered a man who speaks this way. If I do, I could see myself enjoying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:00 AM
18

I think it's cheesy, and performative. Not a fan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:59 AM
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I went to "sex therapy" too!! Ha. By myself of course, because this pig-man refused to aknowledge any part of our "sex problem". I had an awesome therapist and will never forget what he said to me - "this isn't about sex. You could stand on your head, spinning around while giving a blowjob and making a sandwich and it wouldn't be enough for this man"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:49 PM
37

Me too friend. my ex would cry, neg, throw tantrums, and manipulate me when I said I didn't want to have sex. Or call me names, and tell me there is something wrong with me because I didn't want a man to do sex to me (that's what most of the "sex" on my life has been) who had been calling me heinous names earlier. I'm working through these issues as well. Sadly I think many women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:39 PM
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This is disgusting. Who is actually this stupid and needs to be told not to do this? Good grief. Sad state of affairs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:09 PM
11

Yes, I think so. All women will fare better once we stop catering to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:08 PM
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You've raised a good point. It should be ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:21 AM
19

You're right. I have no reasonable answer. We shouldn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:20 AM
84

The game should give these fuckheads the same box of tampons or whatnot and call it a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:20 PM
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My ex would twirl my hair all the time. I did not like it. He was so angry I wouldn't let him, he told me his sisters (ew) and his mother (double ew) all let his 40-year-old-ass do it. He told me remembers doing it while breastfeeding and it's calming. He tried doing it during sex and I swated his hand away. Then he pinned me down and yelled at me that how dare I accuse him of being a pervert (I didn't call him a pervert, I hadn't said a word other than slap his hand off me) 🤮🤮🤮 Even the sight o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:31 AM
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This was a big issue in my previous relationship. He couldn't figure out why I didn't want to fuck a man who sleeps in his own filth, won't wash a dish, won't flush (nevermind clean his toilet). Once you have to ask a man to clean up after himself it's over. In my experience once Tou see that man as a child (because they act like children) you don't want to have sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:16 PM
204

Ugh. An ex used to call me "kid" 🤮🤮🤮😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:41 PM
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Yes, you're right! How did I gloss over that? They're proud to have mommy issues and see no shame in literally asking their partner to be their mother!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:24 PM
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Another commenter brought up how it's absurd that "daddy issues" is an insult levelled at women when in fact it's deadbeat men that are the cause of that trauma!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:05 PM
3

He'd never be able to catch me! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:29 PM
162

Had a pig say to me once he didn't "mind" the wrinkles around my eyes, because he knows that meant I spent a lot of time smiling and in the sun. At the time I thought that was cute (🤡), but now it makes me want to 🤮 Meanwhile he looks like a geriatric, fatter Ricky Gervais despite being 20 years younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:48 PM
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Awesome! I'm still trying to figure out if I even like sex with men or not, after an emotionally traumatic relationship. I know I don't miss it! I think you're right about the sex obsession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:13 AM
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I was not attracted to my ex, despite staying together well over a decade. My friends all told me how great they thought he was on paper (they spent scant minutes with him, so couldn't say with first hand experience). I remember writing a magazine (🤡) to ask what I should do given I was not attracted to this man, he was a poor kisser, sex was awkward, I couldn't stand the smell of him, but on paper he was great! He had a great, masculine job, he had a lot of money, he was well travelled. I wish …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:49 PM
2

Sadly, no. She is a very unwell woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:24 PM
6

Sadly, no. I know this person :( she's very unwell. I linked to a recent social media post she made (on her public profile) about being in the psych ward :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:22 PM
6

No, she's real. I know her. It's really sad. She's unwell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:21 PM
6

Reading it now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:09 AM
13

Mentally, as far as I can gather from her social media. Please delete if not allowed. Her profile is public. https://ibb.co/CmVCcck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:44 PM
28

I don't know her well (she dated my sister's ex - how's that for a negative value man!) But am good friends with her cousin. I'll reach out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:38 AM
16

It's not, I know this person in real life. I wish it was fake. This is very, very sad. She is very troubled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:59 AM
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They are deceased 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 01:57 AM
97

It's not. I know her. I'm very saddened to see this, but not surprised. She is extremely unwell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:22 AM
40

Oh my god. I cannot believe this, but this woman is from my very small city in Ontario. I know her. This is very much true She has severe mental health issues. I'm shocked and very sad by this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:20 AM
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When I caught mine searching "single friends" on Facebook and an account in cougar life (I'm older then the "cougars" 🤣) he told me "what do you expect?" Because he was angry at me. It's not even absurd, just fucking sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:47 AM
23

Sounds ideal to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:40 PM
6

I don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:39 PM
5

She should spend that money on a therapist, or joining some sort of s club to meet friends. I don't necessarily feel.bad for this woman, I do feel she's got some serious problems of she thinks she can purchase affection from men and why she'd even want to. Are we sure a woman actually wrote this? Not saying it's impossible, but I've never heard a woman in my 40 years say anything remotely close to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:31 PM
7

This is such a good point I hadn't fully thought of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:22 PM
11

Reading this makes me feel sad and sick. So many men see women as nothing other than a fuck toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:24 PM
18

Hahahah. Isn't this the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:32 AM
23

Despicable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:55 PM
11

Gagging and vomiting, likely. As if this is a porn mainstay :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:50 PM
64

I once found my exes search history and he searched "girlfriend boring in bed not attracted to her" he also chastised me for not being turned on and needing lubricant. Oddly, never ONCE did he blame himself for my lack of enthusiasm or lack of lubrication. It was always me. He never thought his disgusting pig stye of a room was the problem, or his lack of hygiene, of his weight gain that made him obese, his untreated mental illness, his unemployment, his psych ward stays -nope, in his eyes the p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:10 PM
72

Just last night I had a sad epiphany - every man I've "loved" has been revealed to be a disgusting, repulsive pig. Cheaters, addicts, users, manipulators. It was really upsetting of me to realize I haven't had a single long term relationship with a high value man :( The red flags I ignored are embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:05 PM
115

I heard one pig refer to the number as women's he's "taken down". Disgusting and violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:28 PM
31

Cheers to being on the other side. We've got this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:28 AM
16

I met one man! I highly suspect he's a closeted gay man though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:15 AM
45

The fact that the term demisexusl even exists - and having feelings for sex partners needs to be distinguished because it's not universal - is disgusting to me. I'm "demisexual" as well, btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:14 AM
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Yes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Then I realized I'm not asexual I just didn't desire sex with a man who refused to clean up after himself, slept in a filthy bed covered in his filthy clothes, called me names, expected me to be a bang maid, didn't carry his weight at all (while we're on the topic, became obese over the course of our relationship), refused to treat his diagnosed mental illness. Gee ...I wonder why I wouldn't want to be intimate with a man like that?! I must be asexual 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:06 AM
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True for men with cluster b personality disorders as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:42 PM
2

Yes - simply because there are more HVW in my estimation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 11:28 PM
39

He also rudely directed her to "listen", listen to me" when she was overwhelmed and confused because he dragged her on stage, blindfolded, at a huge Adele concert. He rubbed me the wrong way big time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:17 AM
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It's considered to be under the umbrella of asexual! I was shocked and disgusted to learn that. Imagine that? Desiring to have fondness with the person you're having sex with is considered unusual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:49 AM
4

I have to wonder why lingerie would be a woman's hobby or interest? How many men's hobby is men's sexy decorative underpants?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:23 AM
9

Question - in general, do lesbians wear expensive lingerie for each other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:18 AM
4

I find it cheesy as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:17 AM
29

My exact feelings. I can't think of something more selfish than creating a life after ones image. Caring for children that already exist is another story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 02:28 AM
16

Wow. What a catch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:46 PM
20

I've never waxed, and shave only the hair that's not covered by my underwear. I will never forget when a previous male sex partner said he liked my pubic hair. This was 2010. I was confused why he'd say he liked my public hair. I do not watch porn and had NO idea that women were expected to have none! Imagine that. A woman having pubic hair was noteworthy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 10:10 PM
5

Beavers are so cute. There is one near my house and when he/she cleans like this I am overjoyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 09:16 PM
10

https://www.lovingmorenonprofit.org/wp-content/uploads/Robert-Natalie-DavisInt-768x599.jpg this is them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:04 AM
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Men will sexualize any job and anything. My female friend is a researcher. A social researcher. She joined online dating and men (more than one) would make the awful joke (?) that they want her to research their dicks. Now, this joke is neither clever, or funny. I just don't get it. It's not even a joke. It's straight up disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:13 PM
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I did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:58 AM
3

I think they are dumb by using language hardly anyone understands 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:54 AM
4

Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:53 AM
1

Ugh I hate this so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:52 AM
151

In the past I was verbally abused, called a bitch, useless cunt, helpless cunt, etc etc when I asked my male spouse to clean up after himself. Men are disgusting and entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:47 PM
32

Been there. Little man-child spouse couldn't bother to wake up yet this was MY fault. Always my fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:06 PM
39

My ex literally left shit in the toilet because he said he was too busy to flush. Disgusting pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:00 PM
15

Yes yes yes!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:58 PM
36

My ex did this - and I refused to pick up a single thing after him. And why should I?! He would be content to wallow in his filth for months. I refused to clean up after him, to the point we had maggots in the kitchen. He would call me a stupid bitch for not helping him clean up! Said I'm not a "team player" and I don't help him. I told him I help him by paying him rent (🤡) and by cleaning all the common areas and not making him clean up after me. He claimed he was "too busy" at his job. I worke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:57 PM
24

I can't believe the coincidence, but this happened to my friend (nurse) who was dating a doctor. He also took her on a trip and cancelled her return ticket when they got in a fight. She had to call her parents to buy her a ticket home :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:11 AM
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And an addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:11 PM
137

I'm working on this as well. I've only recently realized my own internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:59 PM
3

But almost threatens to do it when he isn't givens blow job for his efforts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:07 PM
4

What is it called when men deflect like that? I see it often and I'd like to call it out by name. I think it's beyond overreacting and I imagine it has a specific name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:43 PM
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Could you imagine if a mother wrote this?!! Hahahhaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:41 PM
5

Me too! It's fine, and if I want it once a week or once a month I'm cool with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:08 PM
18

I feel the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:03 AM
119

Nope. I feel the same. I thought maybe I was asexual, but nah, Im just repulsed my men. My sex drive is fine (masturbate regularly)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:02 AM
16

Yikes, so accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:20 AM
39

Blows my mind SHE is the one receiving blow back when her lazy, incompetent husband is the problem here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:45 PM
26

Fuck off. There is no one who wants their face to be cummed on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:12 AM
7

Repulsive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:24 PM
130

Me too. Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:53 AM
16

One of my male "friends" proudly admitted to this. I was shocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:42 AM
17

He's been on two psych holds. Needs more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:44 AM
149

Told me he killed baby chicks with piece if wood with a nail because he wanted to see what it was like. I tried not to react at all, because that psycho shared that (whether true or not) to get a rise out of me. hopes all addicts die. Is angry he's "supposed to care" that these people are someone's loved one, he wants them to die because the world would be a better place. knew his antipsychotic medicine was working because I'd "done things [he] knew he should be angry about but wasn't" would rat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:05 PM
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I don't have a clue what any of those words mean 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:05 AM
83

I read on a gossip site it was NA or AA at a church.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:38 PM
33

What a pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:33 AM
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Yes, I'm so thankful that I now know I have a "bad" vulva because it is "too long". Imagine - I lived nearly 40 years without knowing how "bad" this part of my body is. Thank you plastic surgeons who have shown me the way and let me know how much it will cost me to "fix". (This entire thing makes me sick)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:04 AM
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I'm shaking my head in anger at this. A man refused sex with a living, breathing (hot, no doubt) woman because she has pubic hair. Who the hell do these men think they are?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:59 AM
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I'll back this. 40 year old woman. Never once removed all my public hair, at most shaved bikini line. The thought of going back out dating (having sex) with men, when the expectation is that I be totally hairless is honestly repulsive to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:58 AM
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Five minutes of intercourse?! Wow your standards are high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:53 AM
19

All these responses are smoking me have nausea!! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:53 AM
75

My disgusting ex would throw a tantrum over me not getting turned on and lubricated. And an even larger tantrum when I told him not to spit on me. These men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:45 PM
32

That's how I got here!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:10 AM
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She's good at her "job". Convinced that pig he's good at sex. 🤢 Edit: oo this comment really hit a nerve with some man who is bad at sex - they reported it as a self harm report!! 🤣😆🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:38 PM
30

I feel sick to my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:37 PM
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I was in this situation almost exactly. He owned SIX houses and made atleast 3 times as much as me at work, and all the rental income on top. He charged me market rent (maybe even above) to live in his apartment and his unpaid maid, property manager, cleaning service, landscaper, etc. etc. Told him I wanted bills to be paid based on percentage of income and he called me a gold digger. Fuck that guy (actually, no body fuck that guy)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:19 PM
6

Always seem to be VERY pro sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:05 PM
14

This reminds me of one of my best friends. She married a man (lazy, didn't even work continuously, worked casually as a history professor). They got married and a year in he told her he was going to be having sex with a mutual acquaintance, because she was excellent in bed. Told my friend he won't be stiffelled by monogamy. They are no longer together. She was heartbroken. She's happily moved in and we all hate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:03 PM
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No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:00 PM
1

🤣 love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:26 PM
396

What is this squirting business I keep hearing about? Why is suddenly an expectation? Has it always been and I just hadn't heard about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:48 AM
51

Pigs. The more I read the less I ever wish to have sex with a man ever again. And I'm serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:31 PM
14

It should be taught to young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:31 PM
68

Hahaha "imagine" there are sites discussing how awful women are? They exist man - and you know this because you likely post there. And women don't just get called names because they rejected - they get killed you piece of shit. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:06 PM
17

Ye yes yes yes yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:53 PM
11

This is what I've learned too. Just leave. Don't beg (I used to do this 🤡). Don't try to get them to see it your way. Don't try to make them sad. They won't. Just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:32 AM
19

Oof. Isn't this the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:23 PM
45

I don't think they do. Speaking from only my experience here - I had a male spouse that did nothing. I went to other message boards (before I found this sub) and legitimately making a chore board was suggested to me. And rewards for doing "chores" (cleaning up after himself) was supposed to be things such as "sexy lingerie". I never did this. The thought of it is causing me to be nauseated. I think this woman, and many women before her are at wits fucking end. She doesn't actually look happy. Sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:07 PM
7

This makes me want to throw up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:02 PM
3

Yeah, this sounds healthy /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:44 PM
6

That's horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:45 PM
138

One of the rare times men are concerned about consent 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:12 PM
50

Yes yes yes yes yes. I'd also add - teach young people how to leave relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:11 PM
13

Me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:49 PM
17

Sincerely nearly gagged and vomitted reading this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:48 PM
11

I've even started thinking this about my father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:40 AM
1

Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:39 AM
3

Oh good grief. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:39 AM
5

As someone whose favourite band is oasis I'm offended (just kidding). But in all seriousness, I love oasis so much. :) I didn't know "anyhow, here's Wonderwall" was a joke and I used to comment "oh cool, you like oasis too!" 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:37 AM
10

Same. Glad I'm not there anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:05 PM
77

I was surprised to learn that desiring sex with someone you have emotions towards is considered a type of asexuality!!!! Welcome to the club sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:09 AM
15

Gold!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:02 PM
33

Sad that women are hesitant to say anything positive about themselves without the caveat that they aren't bragging, or arrogant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:02 PM
27

I've heard men say awful, awful things about fat women, and how they expect sex from them as they should be grateful for make attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:58 PM
46

Yes. Yes. Yes. I've felt this way for quite some time. I dislike the "everyone is beautiful!!!" movement. No. We're not all beautiful, and it's irrelevant. Yet, we're all worthy of respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:41 PM
19

Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:46 AM
31

Certainly is humiliating for him. What an embarrassment and other men noticed too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:41 AM
2

Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:43 PM
3

Toxic masculinity is bad for women. Toxic masculinity is bad for men. women by and large are the victims of this. And I'll focus on the women -thank you very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:41 PM
54

Me too. I have a very nervous energy that comes through when I am speaking, and would like not to. Listening to people like her speaking gives me someone to look to as a good example of how I could possibly speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:41 AM
26

I'm shallow, but what a good looking couple as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:54 PM
14

Holy shit isn't this spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:57 PM
24

☺️ it's truly that gross. And this thread is so entertaining. Making my night a little more fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:43 AM
70

Ew ew ew ew ew ew ew. Mine too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:59 PM
94

My gross male partner (who thanks to this sub and my therapist will be an ex soon) twirls hair (which is repulsive enough) but he told me he does to because it reminds him of being a baby, twirling his mother's hair as she breast fed him. He tried to do this during sex and I swatted his hand away. So disgusting. And he wonders why I have zero sexual desire for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:09 PM
27

And again this sub blows my mind. All true and makes sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:32 PM
26

Ugh, unfortunately my male partner (soon to be ex!) loves Miley Cyrus. Bad taste in music - female artists or not - is a huge turn off for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:32 AM
1

Thank you 😘. I am free of that one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:19 PM
3

He cheated- repeatedly. But both can be true. You're right, it could have come from a 7 year old dorment case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:12 PM
8

For women who sacrifice any part of their livelihood for their spouse of children, and they make less than the spouse, or there is danger she will make less, or there is property or a business involved there is a benefit. You could also have various legal agreements inacted as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:56 PM
31

I got HPV when I was in what I thought was a monogamous relationship for 7 years. Always used condoms. I cried when I found out the news from the NP. I cried because I knew my relationship was a lie. She told me I couldn't be certain the HPV was from him, but likely. I was so hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:14 PM
46

Me too. I think sex is alright, but there are plenty of things I'd rather do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:26 PM
11

I said this on another advice sub. I said a person who do continually "vents" about their life with no action needs a therapist, and I'm not it. I was called selfish etc. Nope! It's called "not my fucking problem to fix."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:18 PM
52

Existing as woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:55 PM
60

Isn't this the damn truth!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:59 AM
1

I just heard it for the first time yesterday too! Some weird universe shit going on right now I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:44 AM
23

The biggest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:37 PM
9

Me too 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:07 PM
19

Men also hate women who are strippers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:12 PM
9

Awww. Must be so very hard for this man not to share his opinion on others with others!!!!! Newsflash we strangers - I don't give a shit if you have something positive or negative to say about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:43 PM
30

It's interesting travel is considered self indulgent but creating another human being in ones own likeness isn't. I have no children. I've been told that's selfish. I can't think of anything more selfish than literally creating a human being. Raising a child is not selfish, no, but creating one for zero reason other then wishing another human has some of my DNA is. We have so many children that need care (fostering comes to mind primarily). If one has the drive to parent or to care for another h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:06 PM
45

Holy shit - you're right! I know very few insurances to the contrary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:51 AM
5

Yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:51 AM
37

Holy shit, isn't that the truth. They have no problem remembering which sports teams are playing who and when. They can remember who won the championship of the last 30 years. Don't tell me you can't remember where you left your fucking phone, or keys or any other detail you expect women to remember for you because you can't be fucking bothered to be responsible for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:55 PM
17

What kind of disgusting pig can't control his sexual urges anyhow? It's vile he was turned in from moans of pain, and it troubles me he was unable (in reality unwilling) to refrain from masturbating while his child is actively being born. I feel ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:47 PM
12

This may successfully turn me off men forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:40 PM
95

Puke puke puke. My ex spouse (soon to be) used to twirl my hair. He told me he has done this to his mother's hair since he was a child, and remembers doing it while breastfeeding (doubtful, but that was his claim). He'd try to do it during sex and I can't think of anything more repulsive. I'd have to swat his hand away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:37 PM
37

Well, I'm working on it. I'm still living with him 😨 BUT things are changing. I'm planning my escape. And I will recover. Edit: I don't know why someone (multiple people) would downvote this. Please recall your transition, and when you started being strong. I, like all of you am a product of the sexist, patriarchal system we live in. I'm not deterred by your downvotes and will continue to make progress towards lining up my finances, etc so I can leave. Read this very thread. Many women were once…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:18 PM
13

Me too friend. At the time he made atleast 3 times as much as me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:41 PM
248

Paying my male partner rent (market rent) to live in the house he owns. I've paid him nearly $50,000. I own my own house too. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:53 AM
10

I just look up Yungblud. Not my type. I'm surprised he's any thinking, breathing person's type. Edit: I searched a little more, and I did see him supporting folks to speak up about sexual violence. Given I've been told he's very popular this is a good thing (bar is low).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:43 PM
39

I'm confused. Is he considered attractive? Is this what is sexy now? I'm much older than then kids, and I have no idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:04 PM
21

I was the same, and am also new here. My eyes have been opened - wide!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:38 PM
6

I "don't listen" Not to moronic men I don't!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:21 PM
19

"are you calling me a liar?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:51 AM
23

I got into a heated discussion with a nurse (who is a woman) saying sex work is just like nursing. She said she has to do "disgusting" things with her body she does not wish to, such as cleaning vomit and faeces. I couldn't articulate myself and explain why prostituted women's "jobs" of providing sex were different then nursing, even though we all know it is. I really wish I could stay cool and calm during those heated discussions. I need to practice making my points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:48 AM
11

This is a great response. I often get into these "debates" with my shitty family and I can never articulate myself well. Does anyone else have experience in these types of dialogues where they were able to make easy to understand points?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:45 AM
22

I was eating when I saw this. Not any more. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:35 PM
67

Lol. I searched "I hate my husband" and it was a bunch of porn about women having sex with other men (because they hate their husband).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:28 PM
123

Relating to Kevin Spacey's character in American Beauty. Or even liking that movie in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:48 PM
53

Yes. Any Joe Rogan fan can fuck right off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:44 PM
3

Incredible! Well done. You've worked so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:14 PM
28

I'd suggest it sets up men too. I had two - two! - lvm break up with me in my youth because our relationship wasn't like the characters in the Notebook! The fucking problematic, manipulative, pro-stslker Notebook!! Good grief. 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:35 PM
19

I've stopped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:30 PM
9

I struggle with this. I'm in the midst of it. This sub is helping immensely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:17 PM
2

Brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:03 PM
27

My sister was diagnosed with a brain tumor in her mid 29s. Her boyfriend bounced. They'd call it "ghosting" now. I felt so bad for her as it was very difficult for her to have brain surgery and deal with the rejection simultaneously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:53 AM
8

Ahem. He has FOLDED clothing once, can't you read?! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:51 AM
5

He didn't even. He finished the chore she started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:48 AM
6

I'm not even out yet myself, but I'm getting so much insight and advice from you awesome folks! And I WILL do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:24 PM
15

Hear, hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:34 PM
29

Boggles the mind how this pig could find one woman to love him, nevermind multiple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:16 AM
15

Awesome to hear. Thank you for the information.I will speak with a lawyer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:15 AM
27

I don't have a lawyer, no. I'm not married to this man, but in our province he is my "spouse". When I do leave I will not need to divorce him, so that is a blessing. The other side is I'm unfortunately not entitled to anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:07 AM
67

I spoke with a legal aid lawyer who told me that sadly isn't the case in our province :( My spouse too, likes to call me a gold digger, so when I do make my escape I am going to ask for the money I've contributed, which is nearly $50,000 (typing that out makes me want to vomit). Some golddigger I am, eh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:48 PM
107

My piece of shit boyfriend has made me pay rent (market rent st that), which goes towards his mortgage for the past decade. He had the audacity to criticize me for not owning a house at as well. No shit I couldnt own a house, I was too busy paying HIS mortgage. Proud to say I do own my own home now. I was such a twit before I found this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:43 PM
7

Hahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:37 PM
55

Interestingly I am currently "too busy for sex" and he's pouting in his disgusting, filthy bed that's covered with dirty laundry. Jeez I've gotten leave soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:15 PM
52

Sadly I saw another woman here post similar. What the absolute fuck is wrong with these men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:47 PM
46

Disappointing to learn of so many awesome women living with such shitty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:35 PM
272

Fuck this shit. Goes in in my house as well. My male spouse is trying to start a business, and claims he's "too busy" to do anything around the house. And I mean anything. Sometimes he doesn't even flush the toilet after a bowel movement. He doesn't pick up a single thing and leaves rubbish, empty dishes, laundry, etc lying around. I refuse to clean up after him which means half of my house sis absolutely vile. He also yells at me and says I'm not helpful and there's no partnership. What he mean…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:46 PM
3

Yes. I had a similar experience back in university in the early 2000s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:07 AM
42

Thank you for the kind concern. Despite my username I have no children (nor does he). But you're bang on with the DV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:38 AM
23

We're not married, no, but he is my spouse in the province in which we live. Small, but important distinction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:28 AM
59

I do. And I feel like vomiting when I think of the fucking mistakes I've made and how I let this despicable man mistreat me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:57 PM
146

My male spouse of eleven years has charged me market rent ever since I moved in with him, almost a decade ago. Worse yet is that I actually own my own home. He bitches and complains I don't help out doing renovations (and I actually DO. Or used to. Not anymore!) I remind him the tens of thousands of $$ I've given him is help enough. I remind him he's made a profit off of me. (I know questions of why I stay are coming - it's because I was taught to think the above was what I should do, and newsfl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:55 PM
26

I like the way she speaks with confidence and has zero hesitation. She knows she is right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:52 PM
5

You've articulated my thoughts well. It blows my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:16 PM
105

I recently found out according to some, my desire to only have sex with men I've formed an attachment to means I am asexual! This is bloody shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:35 PM
24

We don't have to be polite period!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:31 PM
25

I know, and I'm planning my escape - thanks to you all! This sub is incredible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:10 PM
86

Good question. I'm still with him because I hadn't discovered this sub until recently. I'm planning my escape now :) This sub has opened my eyes. Of course I knew none of that shit he did was good or tolerable, but I didn't have the confidence and resources you awesome women have shown me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:09 PM
60

I believe it. My long term male partner essentially does this on his mattress, resulting me in refusing to sleep in that bed. Men are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:25 PM
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