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I understand the roots of the sub were “feminist” in that it prioritized women’s needs and wants in relationships, and was supposed to show us how to weed out men who will disrespect us. And didn’t allow men to comment and derail. While also calling out men’s abusive behavior. Unfortunately, when you actually examine hetero relationships you can’t hide the incredible abuse women tolerate and die from. Just like they didn’t want to expose fds mods to the males flashing their dix, or sending hate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/23 08:05 PM
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Nah, she just made Fds look stupid. Ps I shave my armpit hair most of the time because I prefer it. I’m still able to disagree with Reaux’s take. Can you disagree with me without implying I’m a hairy feminist? This is why Reaux’s take is so bad. This is what it leads to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/23 12:11 AM
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No, i haven’t been enticed enough to pay for the patreon. I read as much as I could of the Twitter thread. It definitely is not nuanced on twitter, probably intentionally, but for what purpose? People can dunk on radfems and fds can gain more patreon subscribers? What’s her reasonable take? That it’s not political to shave or not shave? I think it being a “statement” is just a stage women go through in order to defend against any blow back anyway. But I think anyone hanging their hat on whether …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/23 03:49 PM
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This is such a bizarro world-take. It also makes it seem like Reaux doesn’t understand the radfem viewpoint on shaving. No one is not shaving because they think it will dismantle anything other than men’s expectations about whether their wife/gf will remain hairless for eternity. Now fds is here to remind us, hey some feminists still shave, and that’s better than those hairy radfems! It’s disappointing because Reaux is obviously really smart. But I guess making fun of radfems gets you more retwe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/23 06:30 PM
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Seems like #3 is driving #s 1 and 2. Men will tie themselves in knots talking about the definitions of causation and correlation, whatever it takes to not acknowledge video games/porn (they should be grouped together at this point) have directly and negatively affected their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 07:50 PM
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Will knows there’s only one way to teach Chris and everyone else a lesson, and that was to give an immediate consequence. He could’ve “communicated” later but the damage to his wife was already done. If I were Jada, I would have been so pissed off if all my husband did was laugh. For some reason I’m actually impressed at the way he was able to direct such anger at Chris on his wife’s behalf. Men I’ve dated (or am related to) with anger problems NEVER directed that anger towards other men, and es…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:45 AM
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I was only paraphrasing what you literally said but then removed in your edit. What’s all this beach body nonsense? Do you work for Dove? Sometimes we need tough love. That’s the only thing to snap us out of our conditioned thinking. That’s what helped me when I first got here. Nothing I said was to attack you personally, I’m certain you’re great, but the words you were saying and the thoughts you were putting on this forum were not. I hope you and other women reading this use it as an opportuni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:16 AM
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I think her thinking that her body is a factor is a delusion. If she thought her skin were too dark to get a HVM and she would feel more like herself if she avoided the sun for the next couple of summers, would you say her body is a factor? Is it a factor or is it a delusion she’s been conditioned to think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 09:55 PM
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Y’all she’s a size 8, physically she cannot obtain a HVM! This is anti-women rhetoric. We’ve got to call out this kind of thinking in women, just like we do with RP you tubers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:33 PM
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There was an article describing how men use these bots for their BDSM fantasies and then these bots learn this behavior and go on to terrorize women who use chat bots. They literally learn how to virtually rape someone over text, and men are teaching them. So no, no matter what it is not healthy because abusive men’s behavior just spreads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:41 PM
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Exactly! Because she mentioned it, it has now become the one thing they cannot do. As soon as she opened her mouth, their imperative became to ignore her and do the opposite of what she said. They have to prove women are dumb even if it makes them look dumber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:17 PM
231

I think they immediately discount any “win” a woman gets. They pretend it was just luck to protect their egos. I think realizing women are sentient beings AND intellectual ones at that, is a rough pill to swallow because it goes so counter to the foundation of their “supremacy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:13 PM
502

This constantly happens. The men just ignore the sensible woman because she’s a woman and she’s talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:40 PM
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Jaw is on the floor. I knew they turned a blind eye, I didn’t know they visited warehouses full of trafficked women! 😲 Pornhub/mind geek are truly despicable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:51 PM
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He doesn’t want a divorce because he knows someone will be worse off. He knows if they divorce he can’t “help” but ruin her and their kids will suffer. He’s telling on himself. As though she isn’t also making a sacrifice by being unhappy with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:48 PM
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Gross. Typical redditors. FDS is the only good part of Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:44 PM
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The mom, the mom is worse. Not because she’s the woman in this situation but because she’s a pickme extreme, and doesn’t even love her daughter. Love is respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:39 PM
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Oof… the second he’s in it’s all going to flip. I hope they have her good advice? Or was it just regular Reddit advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:42 PM
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I feel you on this! My dad is a nvm, and when I’m in contact with him I cannot lose weight no matter what. Just being away from him and the weight falls off. Must’ve been his constant fat hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:41 PM
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If we had an all-female police force, warning this woman of her impending STD would be perfectly legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:36 PM
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A man who doesn’t read still believes himself to be a great intellectual, while a man who is well-read is almost scary in his level of arrogance 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:46 AM
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I’m sorry, I shouldn’t be so cavalier. I was only expressing the man’s choice here, since he’s definitely the type to visit prostitutes. He’s essentially hoping this adult adoption will be a form of prostitution. And the woman he brought will feel obligated to sleep with him. It’s just so sad that a baby, a post partum woman and his wife will all experience trauma from this. Prostitutes experience trauma as well and I’m in no way trying to diminish that. Just trying to point out how he could hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:18 AM
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He literally jokes about her giving him a “blowie” and the way he hugs her twice at the airport, he’s just trying to feel her up. The way his wife talks he sounds like a raging narcissist and that’s why she’s going along with this public humiliation. She’s resigned to “he gets what he wants,” these women need an escape plan from this monstrous creep. Just divorce your wife and go buy prostitutes, why all this “I just want to be a dad to an attractive 18-20 year old girl” bs? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 06:08 PM
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I think once you’ve seen how insincere men can be, their shallow compliments are almost insulting. Because it’s like, what’s your game, what’s your angle? They don’t appreciate real beauty in life. For instance women can see beauty in the mundane things, in the world around us, so our beauty spectrum is huge (edited to say we appreciate all beauty, so when a woman tells you you’re beautiful you know she appreciates beauty when she sees it). While a man’s definition of beauty is often narrow, non…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:46 PM
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Not sure why you got downvoted for this comment. Straight sized people don’t understand the plus size clothing issue. Even lots of younger (than me) plus size women don’t get it because they’re either “small fat” or never went through the experience of shopping while fat in the 90s. When I was a teenager, there just wasn’t pants in a size 16, it was like a rare find and then it was the only choice! So I was grateful for things that FIT, style was for the lucky people. I had style in my head but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:30 PM
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You don’t owe women anything? Only your life! You were born of a woman! Literally every person on this earth was. If you have no respect for that, you have no respect for yourself or life at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:16 AM
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I’ve noticed men are like this. Because if a robber breaks in and sees them that’s deterrent enough. But if it’s a woman in there alone, the robber may not care or may think it’s a happy accident. My father and brother in law leave the house with women inside the house and don’t lock the door. Even if the women or woman is asleep. I’ve seen too many news stories about homeless men or thieves walking in through unlocked doors to steal TVs or other crap and then murdering the woman they encounter.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:58 PM
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In my experience, maybe because I have an expressive face, excuse me in the right tone has been enough to cause a scrote to shiver in his chonies. But you’re correct, say “excuse you!” When your scrotes are acting up since it’s them breaking etiquette!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:50 PM
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Can I just say? If a man ever TELLS you what you’re supposed to do, or what is “expected” of you in a relationship, the proper response is, “Excuse me?” With a quizzical look. Do not entertain their scrotey arguments. If they want to say that shit it means that at minimum it will be a big discussion (at a time of your choosing, doesn’t have to be when he feels like it). The audacity of a 28 scrote telling his pregnant partner what is “expected” of her? Well she better start telling him what’s ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:20 PM
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Me too sis, sending you 💕🕊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:03 AM
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Woman makes contact with man, man tries to murder her. Yup, that’s the formula 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:18 AM
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There’s only three male celebrities I feel I could trust off the bat if I met them today: President Obama, Eckhart Tolle, and Prince Harry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:16 AM
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It probably is because you’re having sex before commitment, that will cause insecurity. Pay attention to how he has made you feel during sex, was he mentally comparing you or mentally checked out thinking of porn reels? That could also be causing it. But I’d say having the intimacy of sex before the emotional intimacy can make you feel uncertain and uncomfortable. Read the handbook and do not beat yourself up, we’ve all been there, sis! 🍀💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:41 AM
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I was pretty disgusted by that guy, and he had a lady who fed and housed him when he wasn’t living out of his van, but he was still prowling for women. I guess he wanted a really rich one 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:39 AM
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Driving dangerously when mad. Punching walls, throwing things. Always having a good reason for his anger, you’re usually this reason, or it’s a totally absurd reason. Burning himself with cigarettes, similar self-destructive type of behavior. Devaluing you to his friends, not defending you to them. Not caring if you’re sick, any display of a lack of empathy. Acts pissy doing things with you and your friends. Porn addiction, often comorbid with gaming addiction. Cheap with you but not himself. An…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:58 AM
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It’s gotten to the point where they’re gaslighting women into thinking it’s normal and pressuring us to coddle them through “sex,” or what are unsuccessful sex attempts that are embarrassing and degrading for everyone involved. I’ve spoken before of a guy on Reddit I messaged who had disappointed another woman with his broken chew toy 🦴 She didn’t coddle him and showed her displeasure, so he was happy to blame her for the negative experience. He even said it was her fault he felt bad and that ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:37 PM
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Can talk for days about Kubrick, but wouldn’t care to watch a Jane Campion film. For vetting movie buffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:08 PM
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I hear a lot about doctors prescribing too many pain killers, and ones that are too strong. But as a woman, doctors have always treated me as if I have a latent pill addiction, and that they must keep me away from the hard stuff. This absolutely broke my heart when I was caretaking an elderly relative. They were in excruciating back pain, something they probably ignored their whole life, but mental and physical decline made more pronounced. Of course, the caretaker’s request was seen as me just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:51 PM
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“She got fat” to a man = she dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:48 PM
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Omg, I love foodie beauty. The boyfriend she was living with gave her the clap?! I need to know more, off to YouTube!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:36 PM
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Yes, that was a big part of the post. The men were worried the woman would protest at their erections, and this guy was saying she was a professional and didn’t bat an eye at his dribbling dong 🙉 But now I’m learning this is actually a big issue, and some wax technicians do not want to do men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:29 AM
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Here here! 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Take all my non-Reddit awards, sis! 🏅🥇🥈🥉🎖🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:26 AM
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I’ve read men recommending ball hair waxes to other men because it’s arousing for them. It was on a bodybuilding forum. He really enjoyed his wax. He described his erection and everything 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:09 AM
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This is really what life is like for women. Men a thousand meters below you, trying to point out your flaws. She handles it like a Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:44 PM
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Couples therapy? So would the therapist start encouraging her to have sex with him more? Why would she want to have more sex with him, when things are going well he decides that’s the time to sit down and ask for more intimacy? What a trash 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:23 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Men talk about sex robots like the Messiah! 🤣🤣🤣 Good riddance! Go pray to your rubber effigies of children with breasts! I can tell the incels are hurting because of all the hidden comment replies, really hit a nerve! lmao 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:40 AM
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I was on the dating subreddit and a guy was asking for OLD advice. He wanted to know if it was bad to link his art Instagram because he gets negative reactions, he draws lots of realistic nudes. I guess women were basically acting like he was just a pervert. He links to this insta, so I go there and I see it’s pretty basic nudes of women and some men, and the women seem normal. I also notice he tagged everything with an art subreddit name. Basically on this sub people post selfies and artists dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:45 AM
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😮 My face when he reveals he’s akshully only 35!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:18 PM
72

I hate how men are, nothing to contribute so they have to try to sh*t on what everyone else is doing. It’s so transparent and pathetic, have some dignity for crying out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:51 PM
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Yes, and we have to get rid of this, “I’ll try anything once” attitude. If something sexual seems scary or intimidating, you don’t have to overcome your fear just to “try” it. Just skip it, and if it absolutely haunts you that you never tried some random sex act, then circle back when you’re older and can decide if that’s something you want or if you’re just trying to please someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 07:24 PM
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Thank God! Stay safe, sis 🙏🍀♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 08:57 PM
6

Can you get a dog?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:14 PM
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😂 This is so true. Men really think they’re breaking down walls with their guyliner and leather skirts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 04:40 PM
64

You got a good job, you’re free sis, run! How can anyone stand these scrotes???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:13 AM
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I just want to tell these girls, “Me too!! I was the most laid-backest girlfriend! He still didn’t meet me halfway like you’re describing, and then I had to accept worse and worse treatment so I didn’t look like I immediately got into and then out of a relationship. They find other ways to f*ck with you too!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:37 AM
10

I am so sorry sis 😞 This reality is heartbreaking… I hope you’re doing ok ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:22 AM
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Yes, be wary of men who approach you at your lowest. Chris Watts comes to mind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:06 PM
12

I wish we could get through to these teens. He doesn’t like you or his girlfriend, so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:49 PM
12

I was going to say get a needle, with a little bit of shit on it, and start “brushing” bugs off this f*cker, but seriously you’re in danger! I’d listen to HereForTheFreeFoodOK, and if you can, order a body cam off Amazon. Just please be careful, don’t let him have any chance to injure you in a workplace “accident.” If you’re job requires him to dangle pianos over your head, that part of the job is no longer safe to do, kwim? And make that paper trail, even posting here is better than nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:06 AM
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I’m going to be sick. It’s times like these that make me wish for women vigilantes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:58 AM
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I was really heartbroken to hear that the safety of our most helpless women…is worth just 10 years in prison. That’s not enough to de-incentivize these creeps. Thank you for the heads up about requesting all female staff 🙏🙏🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:37 PM
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Did they ever even charge the guys who dropped off the women they drugged and left on the sidewalk by the hospital, who died?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:39 PM
14

Wow, can we clone this guy? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:30 PM
3

🤣 project much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:48 PM
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His title should just say, “Virgin Seeking Virgin.” I checked out his website, he’s not terrible but does have a touch of on the spectrum vibe. Though he denies any social handicaps. And he admits to always being the helper of the family, running around dealing with other’s crises (he has money so he could be the family cash cow). As well as coaching people in scrabble, and hosting scrabble clubs. I find it strange that he’s never met anyone through his scrabble hosting/coaching. It’s probably t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:39 PM
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Whenever I try to “rescue” someone on a dating sub, this is what they do not get. I don’t follow and believe in these rules because I’m a “Grammy,” like one lady my exact same age called me, nor because I think rules are fun. These rules came about because of the hard lessons learned. Women suffered, and continue to suffer, and all we can do is make rules for ourselves to vet men, because they’re not our saviors nor are we theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:19 AM
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It’s just the complete mindfuck that this person is choosing being huddled over a keyboard, giggling and yelling with his online “friends,” instead of spending time with a beautiful woman he pursued. He pursued you, and maybe you even made it easy for him, only for him to start ignoring you the moment he thinks he has you. And the way they never tire of the pixels. It’s like don’t you want to go out to eat once in a while? Or go anywhere or do anything that takes place in the real world without …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:15 AM
2

Big Ed is that you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:32 PM
267

Another reason why only fans is gross. How do you know your boss, your boyfriend’s uncle, or your own brother aren’t buying your nudes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:13 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 WHERE ARE THE MEN WHO WILL SUPPORT AND BE FAITHFUL TO THE HOMEMAKERS FOR LIFE??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:47 PM
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I just don’t think your argument is complete. I know I’m getting downvoted to hell but I’m not towing this “virginity has no value” line of thinking because it’s destructive. Virginity is our natural state, it has nothing to do with a hymen of course, it has to do with whether a woman has had sex or not. Virgins have as much value as non-virgins. A woman who has had sex has not lost value, she has not gained value, she has simply changed. But to say there is no value in not having had sex yet???…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:27 PM
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Apple+ has some good shows. The Foundation is a really interesting sci-fi show with female leads, based on an Isaac Asimov novel. The Shrink Next Door: based on the podcast which I found really entertaining. It’s about a narcissist psychiatrist who infiltrates the life of a rich pushover (Will Ferrell and Paul Rudd, so it is a bit of a sausage fest, although Katherine Hahn plays a smaller role). On Netflix Anne with an E was really well done, wholesome, but still intriguing. The female character…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:25 AM
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I think it’s dangerous to say virginity has no value. I’m not saying it should be used as a moral evaluator. Obviously women who are virgins are the same as non-virgins. But virginity does have some significance, it seems silly to ignore that. Virginity is not about being pure, it’s the first time you have sex. That has significance and shouldn’t be treated just as something to get over and done with because it has no value. To say it has zero value just because our patriarchal society uses it t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:32 PM
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We shouldn’t rate someone’s morality on whether they’re a virgin. But I think it’s a libfem slippery slope to say virginity has no value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:35 PM
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Jon Stewart’s new Apple + show did an episode on this. Men who commit mass shootings often have domestic violence convictions, we should be removing guns from men who abuse women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:47 AM
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But why stay blind to men’s porn watching? All these women were aware their men watch porn. You don’t have the confidence to snoop until you’re locked into the marriage and you were just hoping he only masturbates to women who aren’t attractive? Whether the women in the porn look like your dolled up twin or total opposite, it’s going to hurt. And YES! The OP is correct. It makes us feel like every attractive woman is a threat, because men are so easily distracted. It is not fair that every woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 04:29 PM
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Why do men equate pornography with real life? Those women are getting paid. That prostitute was a “sweetheart” because you paid her! If the money wasn’t there, the performance wouldn’t be there either! Not to mention a good portion of these women are being coerced or forced into sex work and porn. Lurkers stop living for a dopamine rush and yearning to live out your fantasies. Wake up, you’re a Peeping Tom at best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:58 PM
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Even Apple autocorrect is sexist! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:38 PM
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One old scrote literally pulled the bandaid off my hand because he wouldn’t let go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:33 PM
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It would be nice if America said something. Serena is a true queen for speaking out. I’ll always stan a woman who steps up for other women publicly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:30 PM
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Those men, if caught, will get the lightest slap on the wrist you’ve ever seen. Men know how to cover their tracks, they injected heroin so that the judge can say, “well, she wanted to do drugs because that’s what the evidence says” 🤷‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:01 AM
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This reminds me of Harvey Weinstein and his Frankenstein Dick. He had to inject it with something just to attempt to rape someone. Sick 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:10 PM
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Red flag 🚩 that I cannot get passed: She doesn’t remember meeting him and he was a police officer… my intuition says he totally saw her somewhere and used his privileges as a cop to find her information. At best he made a mutual friend give it to him and then proceeded with this play act of “I was partying and meeting so many women I just text random numbers in my phone asking them who they are” 🤡🤡🤡 Seriously though, that’s not just a Bobo the clown level red flag for me, that’s a John Wayne Gac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 05:12 AM
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Tbh, women get a pass for ending anything over text or for ghosting because we literally put our lives on the line when dating men, and breaking up with them is dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:37 AM
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“Waaah, I changed my nappy one time this week, I AM NOT CHANGING AGAIN!” 👶🍼😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 02:57 AM
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This. I have hair loss from pcos and it’s the looks that I hated, and looks from family being the worst. Luckily my father didn’t say anything even though he’s negged me hard all my life, but I could tell he really really wanted to, despite being totally bald himself 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:43 PM
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I got negged at a party one time when I was in school for a job working with animals. “Oh, that makes sense. You totally reminded me of my little sister and she really likes animals.” Tf these clowns think? I’m mingling at a party I do not want you, scrote! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 02:02 AM
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I guess it’s that “thousand-fap stare” Reaux was talking about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:25 PM
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A true Queen going to bat for women and girls! 👑🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:16 AM
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One of the best horror movies I’ve seen was made by a woman, Jennifer Kent’s “Babadook.” It actually examines womanhood and the horror it can be. You’re right, most horror nowadays is just torture porn. I can’t sit through anymore scenes of a woman screaming and grunting because a man is beating her. Why must we sit through several minutes and several scenes of the same thing? It’s depraved and highlights the utter lack of necessity to the plot/story/tone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:05 PM
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True, and look for micro expressions. They can’t help but leak clues. Why did he flash a small smile while telling me something bad? Your intuition will catch it before your eyes do, and it takes practice. Watch what the mouth does. One side turned up in a half smile? That’s contempt. Contempt for what exactly is harder to parse and context dependent of course. Are the eyes sincere? Is he good at smizing (smiling with the eyes)? He might be good at hiding negative emotions too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:16 AM
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Always take a friendly white man with you when you go to the cops. After they tell you “No, it’s a civil matter blah blah blah…” have the white man make some innocuous chit chat or ask some questions, this may lead to the officer realizing there is something he could do. It may not be what you hoped they would do but it’s better than nothing. This has happened to me a couple of times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 09:09 PM
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All the cry babies on the dating subs, this is why you MUST be ghosted. Honestly, lack of hearing is the best defense. Just pretend you don’t hear them because you’re distracted. Then zoom away as quickly as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 03:58 PM
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Shocked 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:05 PM
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I’ll bet every search tool has recognized that when you type “female” and anything, you’re probably looking for porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 05:17 PM
106

I appreciate this feedback. This is good information. I still tend to take both sides of this with a grain of salt. We all know how women’s history can get garbled and erased all together. Let’s say it was legal for women to have their own bank accounts, but in practice banks were asking for a male as a co-signer from the vast majority, and allowing only the most privileged seeming women (white, wealthy, family history of using that bank) to open their own accounts. Or it was illegal but certain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 02:41 AM
0

You need an escort wherever you go, can you arrange this with friends and coworkers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:43 PM
621

How can you expect a man to have sex with you when you dare have a clogged pore! Everybody knows men need an airbrushed sex doll with printed on makeup to achieve orgasm! 🤣🤣🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:28 AM
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It’s gross to me how men use bachelor parties to cheat. Even if you have a joint party, how do you know his bros aren’t going to sneak a stripper in the moment they get the groom alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:16 PM
50

Why is every man just a Fox News caricature? 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:33 PM
21

Why’re you telling men their red flags? Have some compassion for the next lady! Now she’s going to have to dig farther, give this scrote more attention, just to hear this story about the pickme therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:06 AM
7

I want to, but she would take it as an affront. And will get defensive or even offensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:08 PM
26

How do you tell this to a loved one who is trying at all costs to preserve the family unit? She doesn’t want to hear negativity about her husband from the outside, and she might even go tell him what I said. She may already know this statistic, she likes true crime. This is so hard…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:04 PM
10

I thought “exclusive” was a scam? Do you mean like boyfriend and girlfriend? Just want to be clear here because guys use the word “exclusive” to mean fwb but the girl has to be monogamous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:12 PM
13

He’s trying to spread those STDs with minimal effort, run sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:06 PM
22

My narc dad has 100% recruited one of my sisters. She actually thinks the abusive rage-a-holic was a better parent 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:26 AM
29

They feel it they just ignore women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:11 PM
49

Seriously! How can she say something so off the wall and still think she’s a journalist???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:06 AM
34

Jezebel aided this whole libfem movement. It sucks because in the very beginning they made some good feminist points. But “Slut Machine” and then the writer who slept with James Deen for an article sort of bookended Jezebel’s descent into low value territory. It just sucks how there’s literally no women journalist capable of taking a fair look. It’s impossible that there are no intelligent women journalists, so what’s going on? Are editors changing things around to portray FDS in a bad light for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:05 AM
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This is spot on. On reddit I see males comparing a woman saying anything they don’t like to actual violence. They even describe our written words as “violent,” because we say something about how they fall below the standard. how dare you violently attack me by correctly pegging my ED as porn-induced! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:34 AM
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Anyone who frequents the dating subs, please message the pickmes and tell them it’s ok to ghost, all the Reddit men are gaslighting them that it’s “honest.” The messages men send are always some passive aggressive or straight up aggressive negging when they’re “let down gently.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:56 PM
20

Whenever I viscerally dislike an actor he turns out to be shite. I totally hate watching Hamish Linklater, he oozes sleaze on screen. I guess he’s holding out for someone better?? 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:26 PM
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Gist of his explanation: “I, a billionaire, decided to move my entire company to Texas, making it impossible to see my girlfriend or child in California. No, I can not use the same resources to move her work to Texas because I don’t respect her or her work. wE aRe sEmi SePARated.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:18 AM
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Y’all know she felt comfortable saying this because he probably didn’t want the sex anyway. It couldn’t be a real incentive for him so she thought it was a hilarious offer. If he’s like most guys he’s jacking it to porn daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:14 AM
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I guess this is the only way she’ll get any money out of him. Being a billionaire’s plus one has got to get boring after a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:20 AM
40

doink chain 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:19 AM
73

Horrible! You’re best bet is to go to the media and/ or to the police, I’d take it as a threat. I wish FDS were more organized, so you could contact the media savvy fdsers. I hope someone with connections dms you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:17 PM
17

🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:43 PM
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🤣 thanx mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:06 AM
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I took her comment about the police doing everything they could to be the typical way women are forced to speak on platforms where men participate. It’s to prevent a pile-on basically. It was a well written comment, I’m just so sad for women in these relationships. I’ve been the crying woman when police arrived, one approached with a shit-eating grin as though this was entertaining?! Or like he already assumed I was faking it? Police and men in general are not equipped to handle “domestic violen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:17 PM
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There’s other supplements you can take if you have hormonal issues, I know Evening Primrose Oil is one. I’d make sure you’re taking enough vitamins/minerals/omegas before really judging your acne/issues. Some vitamins can make acne worse like Biotin. I’d start with vitamins before looking into herbs though (of which there are tons).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:57 AM
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It’s delusional the way these men pursue relationships knowing they cannot have sex to completion (not like they’re compensating by providing orgasms for the women). I messaged a scrote (always a stupid idea) on a different sub who seemed open to the idea that his ED was caused by porn. He had posted about an awkward sexual experience where the girl was rightfully a bit horrified. He somehow was able to convince himself within one or two messages back and forth, that actually it wasn’t a big dea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:06 AM
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It makes you think, when was the last highly visible male CEO or founder who was held accountable? I don’t know if Shkreli counts since he is obviously nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 11:15 PM
7

A much needed and much appreciated post 🙏🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:54 PM
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Was this dude ever pressured to go into sex work because it was empowering? Did anyone ever tell him it’s a great choice over his current career track because it would empower him and make him more money? I would use this tack when arguing with men about this issue, keep turning it around on them. The only time I can get men to really think about it is when I ask them to imagine the same thing for men. Are teenage boys encouraged to be strippers to empower themselves, and should we start doing t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:11 PM
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Oprah was a tabloid fixture, and even Jimmy Kimmel on the Man Show went after her relentlessly ON HER OWN NETWORK CBS! So yes she’s untouchable, but she was still the butt of jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:46 AM
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I had to tell a guy friend, “Other people also survived the Holocaust and even concentration camps and they didn’t go on to drug and rape 13-year old children.” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:30 PM
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This man is toxic, but I blame his father for trying to cover for his son at all costs. It seems like his family already know he has antisocial/npd and they just give him an apartment, a job, money and expect him to normalize on his own? To stay out of trouble unattended? I think they want him away from them but not drawing any public attention to themselves. Well, how did it work out? A woman he locks on the balcony mysteriously falls from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:27 PM
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Sometimes I legit wonder this. When we clap back hard and (rightfully) call out scrotes, which woman will he release his anger on? Apparently scrotes are still mad Sarah in 6th grade wanted to date Brandon instead and are taking it out on every woman they meet. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:42 PM
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I loved My Dark Vanessa! I feel like I have to plug Wendy Ortiz’s novel here, Excavation, because she took issue with My Dark Vanessa getting such a substantial book deal and celebration, while her memoir (which author Russel read as part of her research), was considered a risk because of its dark subject matter. Wendy Ortiz is a Mexican American who wrote about how she was groomed by a teacher. It wasn’t available as an e-book (it’s available as an audiobook), but I hope to read it soon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:01 PM
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Don’t give up, ladies. I think the tides are still turning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 06:53 PM
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Can you be gross in front of him, like burp a lot or fart or something? Something that will turn him off (as long as you pretend like you didn’t do it, and act hurt if he points it out, if you let him make it into some kind of joke it could backfire). Anyway, I’m worried for you so just brainstorming here. I noticed how men will back off when they perceive you’re not “lady-like” or their dream girl. Please get some cameras, keep your kids and dogs close, and can you afford new fencing to make yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:09 PM
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I relate to this so much, thank you for making this post! 🙏🥰🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:30 PM
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🤮😱🤯🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:29 PM
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What kind of slap on the wrist will he get though???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:13 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 05:02 PM
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They know how to cloak it in “concern” too, but even if it’s towards their daughters, the underlying sentiment is “you need to be more pleasing to my eyes/in men’s eyes.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:17 AM
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If you live alone, definitely get some old men’s work boots to put by the front door or garage, in case that creep comes sniffing around again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:25 PM
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👆This right here, some incels are autistic and love making spreadsheets…always change details when you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:39 PM
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“I posted a picture on the 21 Pilots fan Facebook group and asked people what their favorite song was,” Charline told The Mirror. “Jeremy answered and I didn’t really react to his comments, but then he found me on Instagram and we started chatting on there.” Just going to leave this here while I thank Facebook for facilitating this scrote’s access to a vulnerable young women 🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:09 PM
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Queen energy! 👑👑💕🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:04 PM
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My ex was a selfish sleeper, took up the whole bed like a starfish. And on top of that, you literally could not wake him up. I don’t understand how he woke up for stuff if I couldn’t wake him by hitting him with a pillow and yelling “wake up!” how could an alarm? Anyone else ever experienced The Man Who Cannot Be Woken?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:22 AM
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This is true. I went to the movies with a guy friend, and he chose a theater with only parking garage parking, and then did not walk me to my car or look concerned at all that I was walking to my car alone after midnight. If I were a guy I would never do this to a woman, whether I was interested in her sexually or not. What a jackass! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:01 PM
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I do this with reckless/harassing/aggressive drivers, (let’s be real, 99.5% are men). But they back off when they see you’re filming their antics and especially their face and license plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:48 AM
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Gross. They’re sexualizing female athletes for viewership? Why is a bikini bottom necessary? I already thought the booty shorts were shorter and tighter than needed for playing volleyball but what’s the point of bikini bottoms? Edited, my misandry was showing 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:27 PM
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I think the way he’s wording it most beneficial to men, so they’ll realize they’re not being macho by breaking shit in anger. They’re just rewarding their anger with cathartic violence that will eventually be aimed at the other “objects” in their orbit (wife and kids). It’s a harder sell to say, you like violence? Your an abuser. Maybe this will work. I like that he says we need to end the myth of the “good man,” because every man is only 100 incremental changes away from being an abusive or bad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:30 PM
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This should hit close to home with the lurkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:43 PM
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I would love a podcast on fat women, what it’s like being fat (not even getting basic eye contact from retail employees or customers), interviews with people who have been both fat and thin and experienced the stark contrast in treatment from non-human to beautiful woman. Interview this woman on beauty privilege: Oh! Stephco on YouTube (https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=x1921sXvM3g) It would be interesting if someone could delve into how men use the word fat to control us. From making us buy diet pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:00 AM
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He probably thought he could bag a young hottie in HOlLyWoOd while his placeholder made him a family and kept her seat warm. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:23 AM
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I have heard experts say long distance relationships usually happen when we’re young because we’re more immature. I don’t think it’s something mature people are ok with unless they’ve committed to each other and have a set end date or frequent visits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:12 PM
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In my experience, if his friends are all cheaters, he’s a cheater too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:40 AM
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I think if you’re in a committed relationship then you can use your own judgment. I just worry when I hear women are cooking for men that they’re “dating,” it can mean so many different things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:52 PM
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That’s the right attitude to have. It takes a lot to get there. Not all of us are there, and we might not know how to handle him asking us to cook up something quick since he just spent a lot of money on a fun-filled day, even if we are equally tired. There’s so much nuance and men come pre-wired on how to get us to do stuff in the name of “reciprocity.” I think just not cooking at all for men unless we are committed is a good strategy, at least for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:45 PM
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You do you, I trust you know you’re relationship better. I’m worried for the newcomers who read your comment, then think, “oh I knew the handbook was wrong about that.” Because as time goes on are you planning on cooking less or more? What you do for a man in the beginning becomes the baseline. Personally, I don’t want any man to ever expect me to cook, which might happen if I make it a habit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:13 PM
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It’s a slippery slope, cooking for a man, and especially 3 months in, it seems too risky to me. Now I trust you can handle your relationships, who I worry about are the newbies who come to FDS and think it’s ok to cook for a man they’re dating because it feels more balanced and because they’re seeing lots of comments saying it’s ok in certain situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:55 PM
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How long have you been dating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:38 PM
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Read the handbook! You’re not even his girlfriend, you shouldn’t even be having him at your place let alone cooking for him. FDSers do not invite men to our homes nor do we encourage that (it’s dangerous!) and we don’t cook for them either (and if we do it’s not going to be 3 months in before the mask has slipped or without a real commitment!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:30 PM
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*For the newbies this goes against the handbook, we don’t give wife privileges to men we are dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:57 PM
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Dude does not care that she is scared and wants him to leave, that is the scary part! He knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:06 PM
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Thank you so much for this reply! It’s been such a relief to hear that you’ve been through the same thing. No one really gets it, and it’s hard to explain why I want a diagnosis if the only concrete remedy is physical therapy(?). You’re so right about the Queen mindset. I’m really going to have to be prepared. I always let the appointment trail off and forget the actual thing I need from the doctor. Probably because I also have ADD and I believe I’m on the spectrum. But I’ve had professionals ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:26 AM
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🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:43 AM
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My doctor told me today she wants to do blood tests before she will refer me to a rheumatologist (recommended to go to one by a hand surgeon she referred me to). I hope she doesn’t say, “Welp, blood tests don’t show anything so no need to see a rheumatologist.” I haven’t mentioned EDS to her, so I’m worried she’s only looking for arthritis blood markers? Idk, I’m worried this will be difficult 😬 Edited to say thank you for this reply!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:16 AM
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If he would actually make it worth her while by getting a table (are tables even hard to get at the airport?) Or standing in line. You know he’s just going to be chilling on his phone when she walks up 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:28 PM
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Also, I’ve noticed if I immediately don’t like them or for me personally if I find them very unattractive, or “ugly,” they’re usually mean, narcissistic, or misogynistic at least. The Me Too movement has proven to me that my irrational dislike of people is actually pure intuition. Which is odd because I’m not socially gifted, so I think this is just something most women have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:06 AM
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Skid marks too! This is literally what FDS complains about and even I thought it wasn’t all scrotes. But scrotes gonna scrote! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:05 AM
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Dying to know what he needed “help” with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:51 PM
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This is what I’m looking for! Why does every Netflix show depict porny sex between adults and/or teens?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:40 PM
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Was that for sure Gloria Allred? I remember reading about her daughter representing Weinstein, which is still abominable. But I didn’t know Gloria herself was for certain involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:45 PM
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This is awesome. I also love what they chose to wear, I believe the skirt is called a pollera, and it’s how cholas traditionally (and typically) dress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:21 PM
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This is truly depraved behavior. Reddit and memes like to normalize this shit, but this is not a joke. Literal serial killers start by stealing underwear. It always escalated. Don’t normalize this behavior. Don’t care what your parents think, take pictures of your underwear in his drawer, call him out in front of his girlfriend and your parents. Shaming him is literally the only way to give him a negative consequence for this. If you want to play it non-Chalant and give him more chances, at leas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:16 PM
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Them’s fightin’ werds. spits in bucket pitewy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:26 AM
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I wouldn’t do this because it allows predators to more easily target you. OLD is not good for women period. I would get off the apps. It encourages men to objectify women in general, and treat them as disposable. It also encourages and protects rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:06 AM
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Amen, sister. I’m intrigued about being asexual because while I like the sex I have with one person, I hate hate hate how every media image, tv show, the news, literally everything is sexualized or pornified. Every accessible medium has been ruined. Magazines, blogs, social media, newspapers, photography, art, tv, and movies. Netflix is the worst. I was just watching a quirky comedy with Paul Giamatti and the next scene suddenly shows a graphic pornography scene. Isn’t that like non-consensually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:21 AM
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I always want to say to these guys: True rape allegations don’t ruin a man’s career either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:56 AM
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It’s funny you say that, because I was just watching that new Eric Andre movie where he punks people in real life. He uses a safe word to alert his crew or security that someone’s threatening his physical safety (and they do!), and he kept forgetting the word! I thought, dude that’s your lifeline! Some guy pulled a gun on him, I would not want to forget my safe word! But it in the moment Eric would literally be performing/acting and then get scared by some violent guy and forget the word or say …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:07 AM
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Apparently, you can go to a geneticist to get diagnosed, but when I googled it there’s no genetic test. I think there are certain genes associated with specific types of EDS, but no standard test. It’s not required but they do look for a family history of it. Most people get diagnosed by rheumatologists, geneticists, but it just depends if the dr is familiar with it and feels confident enough to diagnose it. I’m starting to realize because I had a problem with my veins and a dr noticed my extrem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:23 PM
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That part also stuck out to me, as I suspect I’m on the spectrum and I’m just starting to realize I have Ehlers Danlos! I’m going to Google this research. Also, thank you to the Queens in this particular podcast, so much of what you said resonated with me 🙏🙏🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:57 AM
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I’ve never heard this explained so well before, thank you for writing your comment! 🙏🙏🙏 This schism you describe is exactly what stops me from fully believing I can be in a relationship. Like how does that even work? I’d have to reveal several vulnerabilities to explain certain needs and just trust he won’t either ditch me or use it against me. FDS and experience tells me he will use it against me, if he’s not turned off. It seems I’ll get hurt either way, unless he’s a high value man. But do hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:21 AM
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“Vulnerable women let me do this to them under heavy coercion so my depraved kinks are justified” 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:49 PM
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How does one read the comments? All I see are other recommended videos, which are all of women either pornified or one that has a black eye?! TikTok is gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:46 PM
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50% of dudes on OLD are in relationships, they didn’t need Ashley Madison 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:42 PM
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Posts like this are gold! 👑🌟🏆 Thank you, sis! 🙏🙏🙏 Side note, but does anyone remember the post about someone who had basically busted the myth that back in the old days old men married young girls/children and it was considered the norm? She, or the study she referenced, used actual records of marriages to check even as far back as the Middle Ages and the majority were about 19-early 20s. I can’t seem to find it anywhere, I think combined with this post it would make a great way to back ourselve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:00 AM
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☠️🪦🌱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:44 AM
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This why I can’t stand watching Botched and those plastic surgery shows. They grab a natural breast and say how it doesn’t project enough. Why does it need to project? Why do our breasts need to look as perky as when we were younger? Why should our flesh try to emulate a silicone implant? No good reasons are ever offered, except for the woman’s poor self esteem and body image, which comes from men comparing her breasts to “perfect” non-existent breasts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:10 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:52 PM
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This is exactly how Neil DeGrasses Tyson acts, a typical pseudo intellectual scrote who thinks the humanities and arts are lesser than science (because he succeeded in science). Also I hate him because I believe his rape accuser. That guy needs to be canceled already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:38 AM
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OMG, men are sooo annoying when driving! Like, I’m constantly having to brake or accelerate based on what some idiotic scrote decides he needs to do for his big baby ego 🍼 They do exactly those things you’ve described. I hate when they just literally refuse to let you in their lane. Like their fee fees hurt when you have to merge in front of them, so they speed up, but not enough so you can get behind them. In order to do that you have brake hard or for a long time, which can be dangerous depend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:32 AM
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Wow! This deserves its own post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:04 PM
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I’ve noticed this too, as a WOC. Why is this most palpable with conservative blondes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:26 AM
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This wasn’t an innocent comment, he was sexualizing your daughter. He was most likely imagining her with boys in a sexual way, or accusing her of being sexually active. And this is the way he chooses to relate to a a young girl? I support you in this. I know we’re not supposed to lose control like that but men give us little choice with their bullshit responses and attitudes. I hope you’re okay, sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:30 AM
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I’m so sorry you had to go through that. That’s traumatic. I hope you have someone to stay with and can report this to police. You handled it perfectly though, props to you for leading by example 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:11 AM
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That was beautiful 😭 Anyone else notice the two scrotes in the corner smirking and clapping uncomfortably, and the many men not clapping at all? 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:21 AM
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I almost want to say it’s not true, but based off my ex, totally true! He got aroused when I broke down in front of him one time, and a few years later he attacked me, strangled* me and punched me in the face. These types of men must be porn sick, my ex definitely was. Porn sick, gamer, narcissist. *edited for more accurate wording (he strangled me not “choked”)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:45 PM
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I wish I could watch it right now! What does she say about the study of ignorance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:40 PM
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Just keep your face clean, try not to let oil sit on your face for long periods of time. Reducing stress is a big one too, because this affects our hormones and our hormones control oil production. To reverse skin thickening, probably a prescription level salicylic acid cream, or retin-a. Edited to say the yeast is normal, everyone has it on their skin. We just try to stay clean and not give it opportunities to overgrow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:34 AM
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“How do YOU know?” “So?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:18 PM
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Skin can also thicken because of enlarged pores, yeast overgrowth, rosacea. Fungus/yeast will actually intertwine itself with your skin. I think men have thicker skin because they make more oil to feed the yeast. It happens to everyone as they age, but especially with an overproduction of oil/testosterone/stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:47 PM
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I hate this. Little boys and girls will watch this, it’s priming them for gonzo style sleep porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:19 PM
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Narc ex used to do this voice. It’s so fake sounding that anyone who hears it knows it’s non genuine, so I’m not sure why he thinks he needs to talk to women or new groups that way. I guess because he can’t really be his authentic self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:54 PM
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I totally get this. Is your dad a good person? It sucks because my mom also prioritizes my dad who is literally everyone in the family’s abuser. She didn’t even care that he attacked me physically, like never even asked for my side of the story. She was just like, “What do you want me to do, divorce him?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:44 PM
68

The average 18 year old boy is too sexually inexperienced to be useful to a porn director Agreed. Thank you 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:21 PM
177

Why aren’t 18 year old boys being recruited for porn? Porn is sex trafficking but they film it so it’s legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:19 PM
136

Never believe a man who says he works too hard. Men don’t work as hard as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:56 PM
6

Crazy! This should be its own post! You’re poor friend ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:38 PM
4

I don’t I’m sorry, I thought it was one I’d heard mentioned on here, it could even be in the handbook. It just reiterated how don’t give men the benefit of the doubt, they all objectify women, even father’s objectify their daughters. Edited to add, I even think it went further and said men want to have sex with their daughters. That they look at them sexually, evaluate them the way they would a sexual partner. I’m talking blood fathers who raised their children. It’s very scary to think about. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:17 AM
13

Yes! Men do sexualize ALL women and girls, even their daughters. Another queen made a post about a book that states this plainly. I noticed it with my own father, years later, he loves my oldest sister because she’s outgoing, popular and beautiful. But he hates me because I’m fat and he’s treated me the worst so I see how depraved he is. He’s always been fatter than me but he harassed me so much that at a size 16 I felt I was 300lbs. I lost of weight but then he said I’m getting too skinny. It s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:55 PM
60

"Yes, I am a man and you as women should have come up with better solutions than diapers and plugs. But you didn't." Dan Dopps, genius creator of vagina glue. 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:07 PM
18

Male drivers also do this when I’m in a parking lot walking with plenty of space for them to pass, they speed up and roar their engine as they go by. Occasionally one will even swerve toward me a bit to scare me but still maintain some plausible deniability (the thing is it’s happened enough times with those muscle cars especially that I know it’s just asshole scrotes).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:29 AM
3

TikTok is showing how mainstream porny images have become. They also do this thing where the image of the video looks highly pornographic but it’s just an illusion and when you play it’s something benign. I love the FDS tiktok stuff but can we cancel the rest? I have a 9 year old nephew who just started using it, my gawd 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:24 AM
9

I finally watched it with the sound on. I cannot agree with you more. Not only was he pathetically scared, the language he used was insane, “Now’s not a good time”?! Implying he can come back another time!! Probably when the brother’s not there, huh? I know people are saying she shouldn’t have reacted BUT I feel her brother’s lame ass response to her abusive stalker ex forced her to say something! Brother literally put her in more danger with his words, forcing her to defend herself and put her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:12 PM
146

Just like gynecology, funeral homes need to be a female only business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:10 PM
19

Women are amazing ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:54 AM
162

Shit, life is fucking scary as a woman. I just watched a video of an old scrote shooting a woman he befriended when she introduced him to her boyfriend. Thank God the boyfriend hit him with his car and beat the shit out of him. Even if he goes to prison for life, it’s not enough for what he did. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:17 PM
11

Get some cameras, especially a body camera. Catch him spitting on you, this is assault. Are you in the US?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:10 PM
8

They’re all “good,” until their buddy gets accused, then we see who they really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:18 AM
32

All hail Queen Charline! 👑👑👑 She has more balls than all these scrotes put together. Thank you, Queen! Rogen is so personable, no one will call him out, but he’s been such a back stabber to women, the way he’s shielded Franco from rightful criticism and consequences. He wants to keep giving Franco work, then I guess I’ll never watch another Rogen movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:11 PM
93

Wow, that is such a revelation. If the roles were reversed like you said, I wouldn’t be offended if the guy I asked out wanted a better, longer date, I’d be happy! But if I felt offended by his suggestion of dinner instead of coffee, it would have to be a guy I don’t even like. Like I can’t even imagine why I would ask a guy out if the idea of dinner with him actually upsets me. Unless I were like some sort of scam artist, then I could see how his upgrading to dinner would be bothersome, because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:46 PM
38

I’ve seen worse pickmes. It bothers me more when pickmes throw other women under the bus. Here I just see beautiful women who’ve probably rarely gotten asked out, being susceptible to a man who seems into them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:35 PM
38

Thank you for this! Can the libfems start reading actual studies to inform their sex pozzy brains please?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:05 PM
147

Omg, what is it with every below average to average white guy (god forbid he’s slightly above average), thinking they have to fight woman off with a stick? It was sooo irritating as a retail employee, when every mediocre white guy acts like I’m hitting on him just by being a friendly customer service person of the same age as him. Don’t worry, Matt, you don’t have to be gruff just to prevent me from falling in love with you in that ripped baseball cap 😂 Someone’s Tia joked about what a cutie he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:19 PM
22

Thank you! Why are they hosting such pron?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:55 PM
44

Then why does pussypassdenied exist, Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:20 PM
8

Jared Kushner...lmao 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:32 PM
3

I go to the park a lot, whenever someone’s not wearing a mask it’s ALWAYS a man. Sometimes people don’t want to wear them and they stay away from the playground. Men? They are in the middle of the fucking playground, no mask, talking on the phone, drinking Starbucks not a care in the world. Of course their wife and children are wearing masks, but hubby’s got his around his neck, exposing his nose, or flagrantly flouting the law, shit eating grin to the world, just daring us rule followers to say…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:55 PM
122

Tbh, men avoid accountability at all costs. They have the defense mechanisms of a criminal lawyer, even for the stupidest shit. At the gas station the other day, I got pissed at an old scrote who cut in line after just arriving, and I had been waiting already a long time. He of course just shrugged and said, “what do you want me to do?” And when I told him I wanted him to move his car, he just started filling up his tanks. And when I complained to the manager he said, “Why is it always a man? Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:40 PM
19

Definitely! Both times I’ve been in a car that had a little fender bender and we had to leave a note, some old white scrote would walk by and angrily tell us, “You better not just walk away! You better leave a note!” “My apologies, total stranger, for not writing the note before I checked the damage!” I think they do this because if it were reversed, they would not be leaving a note!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:32 PM
16

I had this really nice office chair in college that I borrowed from my dad. He told me he wanted it back when I was done because it was probably not cheap and good quality. My last year in college I lived with my ex-bf. I let him use the chair since he had the only desk in the apartment and he was constantly on his pc “raiding” on WoW. He was really good at pretend stuff. I specifically told him not to damage or stain it because I had to return it to my dad. Well, when it was time to move out I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:24 PM
66

You guys realize the reason we can’t have nice women -only things is because scrotes always sue the crap out of them? Like take it all the way to the SC lawsuits. And that effectively eliminates it as a women-only space. It’s really heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:43 PM
170

No woman ever died from dying alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:23 PM
12

Yes, totally understand this. I think the only way I can ever be myself is to get away from my family. Even my pick me mom is making me sick. I mourn the bubbly and fun girl I was before I started “dating” in college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:20 PM
8

Ew 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:12 PM
44

Seriously, this is insane. Legislators have really failed us by not making it a requirement to provide the driver’s license of each individual in a “pornographic” video (maybe this would prevent the ease scrotes feel with putting their hidden camera sex tapes online). There’s so many laws they could create to trip up the criminals who do this, but they don’t even perceive a problem with voyeurism, porn or the internet. The courts have failed us too by not explicitly saying we have a right to pri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:49 AM
51

Saved! Very interesting read, thank you for translating it for us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:52 PM
17

His ex was saying he would talk about his grandfather’s sex parties with admiration. Just a whole family of narcissist men who view their depravity as a badge of honor because it has to do with conquering women. Beware of any man who talks fondly of another man’s crazy or depraved sex life. And look for the glimmer in his eyes because the smart ones will pretend to be disgusted as they reminisce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:16 PM
8

This was me with my first boyfriend, I was just so happy someone thought I was pretty and wanted to spend time with me. I wish I could’ve known he didn’t actually like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:54 PM
10

Dude, this is the only way forward. I made a comment similar to your post on a different post. Let’s make jobs for women that actually pay them properly, and we can all live like Queens 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:11 PM
9

Voted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:34 AM
683

I like horror stories but this is too much 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:12 PM
4

I had an ex scrote tell me about a happy ending massage he had in Tiajuana, he said she was such a “sweetheart” because she put the condom on for him 🙄 She wasn’t being sweet she was being PAID!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:08 PM
40

I’ve been thinking about this a lot. What if they didn’t have to share a house? What if they had their own house in a community, where a nanny who also had her own house in the community could help her out for fair pay. What if this community was only women. Imagine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:22 PM
9

Wow, how do you know my ex-BFF? 😂 I didn’t realize their was a specific name for this, I finally diagnosed her as a covert narcissist many years later, but it can be a broad term. This main character syndrome describes her to a T though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:50 PM
67

Love this! Interesting side note: Sometimes talking shit can repel a narcissist, since sometimes they look for nice people who don’t ever want to talk badly about others. This will stop you telling on them when they harm you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:52 PM
1

Just wanted to say I feel you on this. Not having a great family/friends, it really sucks to not have success with a partner. Don’t ask me what I did while I was single, because I did jack shit. All I did was dwell. I’m ready to start living tho, with or without a partner. Wishing you all the best! 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:39 PM
15

Seriously, anyone notice how his two adopted daughters look like clones of Dylan and Soon-Yi?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:42 PM
59

Why are men so pathetic? Can you imagine grown women taking a picture of a 17- year-old boy’s legs to look at later?! Like wtf are men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:43 PM
7

Fat is a Feminist Issue What’s a go to insult for women regardless of their weight? Fat. Who naturally has more fat on their bodies? Women. Who decides when a woman is too fat? Men. Food is also associated with sex. A woman who eats a lot is looked down on the same way as a promiscuous woman. That’s why they turn food/diet into a moral issue when it’s inherently not. It’s just another way for men to control us, demean us, degrade us. Sorry for derailing. My ADD brain forgot this was about bipola…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:12 PM
193

I’m pretty certain his porn sick dick is the one who had the idea of running her over in order to rape her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:35 PM
53

Women don’t want to put the effort in for a real relationship? He wants something that will “lead” to a relationship. In other words, he wants a submissive to fulfill his porn fantasies until he moves on to the next or decides she’s conformed to his expectations properly. And women aren’t lining up for that? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:03 PM
13

I’m more mad that he silenced his rape accusers with lawsuits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:41 PM
2

Wow, Maria Del Russo is amazingly obtuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:14 AM
2

This is why Only Fans is such a success, Anirudh will get lots of girls texting him for their shot at his delicious $12.99/month 🙄😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:29 PM
4

“Fuck this girl” “everyone should just be nice to everyone regardless” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:48 PM
99

Every time a man has hit me it’s because he started a verbal argument and could dish it but couldn’t take it. We have superior memories, better verbal skills, and we speak the truth. When scrotes are on the brunt end of our words, they get mad like toddlers and feel entitled to hit us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:30 PM
15

I would love to here an FDS synopsis of this movie! I thought it was gross that Netflix was glorifying their age gap, with him all, “she knows more about the business than I do” -Denzel Washington’s son referring to a Disney child star 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:06 PM
178

Dance for me, Object! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:20 PM
351

Lmao why do they expect to get chased 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:32 PM
24

I have to think maybe she’s not as word smart as she thinks she is, same with Manson. Manson knows how to talk “as though” he’s smart (notice how I didn’t say “like,” because “as though” sounds smarter but isn’t really). Perhaps Dita is of a similar kind of intelligence. Smart enough to sound smart but not really able to back that up with knowing subtle differences between words. I would guess that Manson is probably more book smart than she is, but his brain is hard boiled at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:22 PM
9

Seconding background checks! Without this the entire dating pool is tainted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:57 PM
104

Can you imagine being the next girl he dates in this desperate state? He finds you just barely fuckable, he might even consider you a “butter face,” but he decides to ask you to be his girlfriend because you’re sweet and normal. He seems really excited and into you, but he’s just riding the status high of having a girlfriend. Aside from getting murdered, THIS is why dating is so scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:48 AM
63

Oh look, it’s Johnny Depp and Doug Stanhope’s best friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:29 AM
22

She looks so sad! This would be a true fds mission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:20 PM
90

The more geniuses/billionaires/gurus I read about, the more I realize these are pretty average people with incredible confidence and belief in themselves who market themselves as geniuses. They also have people around them who are convinced of their genius. Like, Elon Musk. Ok I get that he was a super smart kid, and built huge companies (right time, right place- it would’ve been someone else if not him). But he’s also very dumb sometimes, pandering to incels/not a stand up guy you can be proud …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:23 AM
5

Do a deep dive on Sherri, I think this was an elaborate and poorly planned gofundme scam that they used to buy a new house. She has a history white supremacy. Don’t forget she tried to blame this on two Latina women who obviously didn’t do it, because police are not looking for them. A man came forward and said she spent her time with him while she was missing. I am all for supporting dv victims, as one myself. But this is a scam and she seems really racist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:10 PM
7

You’re right, but I think she was in on it 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:03 PM
54

That guy’s full of it anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:18 PM
211

Scrotes are still trying to get us to bleach our vaginas lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:25 PM
95

Wow, he took both earphones off, high value male right there! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:10 AM
268

Belle Delphine is a total Loser. Edited to add that Twitter should ban her for posting this kind of content. Promoting insurrection bad, encouraging men to fantasize about kidnapping/rape/child rape totally acceptable and appropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:06 AM
7

One of my playmates growing up was like this. We had a sleepover at my house and I asked her to help me fold this big blanket, you know how you fold a sheet with two people holding the corners? And she was like, “Why do you need my help? I did mine by myself,” and she points to her “folded” blanket without a single corner matching up. I knew I would have to fold it again or I’d get in trouble. Why ask someone to help you when you can just half-ass it by yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:35 AM
169

This should be a PSA: What you have to look forward to if you attach yourself to a gamer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:10 AM
2

I hope all is well with you sister ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:43 PM
29

I noticed this in high school too. I went to an all girls school, there were several classes on literature but one male teacher was known as being the “fun” one. Every year he threw a roaring 20s party, where 15-16 year old girls would dress as flappers with full faces of makeup, and pretend to drink alcohol. There were always pictures in the yearbook. I used to be jealous and wondered why only one class was allowed to do this? It’s because the other teachers were women and would rather teach th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:36 PM
16

I’ve been dreaming of something like this and actually started looking at land in Hawaii! I feel like I’ve gotten to a point where I need to have my own place, and I need to have access to the outdoors to feel safe and at peace. But a larger goal is helping other women who feel the same or are in a bad place. I don’t have the app at the moment and can’t figure out how to DM you, but I am definitely interested in this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:37 PM
5

The only reason to be an influencer is to take this kind of stuff and make it viral, so facebot will have to actually do their job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:30 PM
10

He’s literally cat fishing women with pictures to pretend he a) has a job b) goes to Starbucks and c) leaves his gaming chair. So now we know none of that is true. He couldn’t even pretend for one day for his dating profile, gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:38 AM
42

“He couldn’t find the birthday card he wanted to get me, so he was going to have to get it in a few months...” tf? You mean he googled birthday cards twenty minutes before he had to meet you, found the perfect one on eBay, but it wouldn’t arrive from Bulgaria for another three months? 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:31 PM
15

Also...another man who allegedly gets physical with women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:37 PM
60

He’s sad his pp doesn’t get Margot Robbie r*pe scenes. TRASH. It’s outrageous Variety published this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:51 PM
56

It has gotten worse, strange how they come for our abortion rights but allow porn to saturate everything. You can’t even browse news and gossip sites without being confronted by what looks like porn at a quick glance. Sorry Kim, I don’t want to see your new “itty bitty bikini” while I’m reading about Nancy Pelosi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:26 PM
29

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:44 PM
9

Ew how do I delete this 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:27 PM
90

The article I read said the parents claimed he had CP in his “collection” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:52 AM
9

🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:44 AM
60

Poor girl, she needs this to just be a funny prank because the actual truth would be too painful 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:23 AM
19

It’s just weird when psychologists ignore the fact that the perp hates women and doesn’t view them as human, in fact he says he couldn’t really be with this girl because she was a “prostitute.” Devaluing her in death to prove how it’s not really a bad crime that he killed her. And the fact that domestic violence has been decriminalized in Russia, so like of course the guy thinks he didn’t do anything wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️ Who cares how we categorize him in the dsm, he’s one of many with the same views.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:43 AM
115

“Yes, actually I’d love it if you boiled some ground turkey and broccoli for me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:35 PM
54

I wonder which Oscar he’ll get, best actor or best supporting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 02:50 AM
55

She’s an absolute queen for doing this, she’s protecting other women. 👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:27 PM
12

There are men so notorious for this that they have News reports on them and a dozen women filing police reports for sticking them with hundreds or thousands of dollars in dinner bills. Why is he focusing only on women who don’t want a second date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:49 PM
74

Finally!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:40 PM
12

You just don’t GeT iT, their humor is more sophisticated than ours 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:21 PM
231

I think this would actually be a great form of protest. I would love to ask these questions with a straight face! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:01 AM
56

Whyyyyy?!? I don’t get this at all. Might as well be drooling over a heroin addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:48 PM
46

If you’re a guy you can go through this stage and still be a Supreme Court Justice. If it’s not a stage and you continue to do it, you can only become President.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:10 AM
250

The guy who wrote this is guaranteed to be not classy. These long-listers are always deficient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:10 AM
19

Wow, so he admitted to having video of himself raping a minor? Even if he was a minor at the time too, I think a properly zealous cop could get him for something here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:26 AM
16

King Turd Elliot Rodgers was offered a prostitute by his rich dad, but he didn’t want one. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:43 PM
34

I always had an irrational dislike of him. The Me Too movement has started proving my instincts correct, male celebrities I don’t like turn out to be rapists, harassers, misogynists, racists, or at least best friends with similar creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:13 AM
21

I’m not saying they deserve disrespect. Just pointing out that he’s treating his date like an escort if he expects her to dress to the nines for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:39 PM
22

It sounds like he should’ve hired an escort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:10 PM
4

That would only work with a HVM, or else you’re signing up for what is essentially torture. Why take this gamble? Girl, you’re lucky to have a career!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:55 AM
100

If our chest area isn’t perfect we also have to have illness causing plastics inserted inside our bodies, not just to please men, but to have self-esteem. This is all sorts of messed up, queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:02 PM
76

“Did you hear the one about the whore who whored her way to the whorehouse with a bunch of whores?” -Every joke some scrote I had to work with told.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:30 AM
12

Remember when Facebook started tagging us in photos? So back in ‘05 I went to one of those parties where they sell you things like dildos and vibrators. And of course the host took pictures of us holding them. Right after I got a message exactly like this, from some scrote wanting to talk to me about what sex toys I use! Gross, thanks Facebook for starting this bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:23 PM
169

You suck it up and move on? Scrotes are literally murdering women for rejecting them. Read the news sometime, Mark! 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:01 AM
1

I’m so down for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:52 PM
131

Just wanted to add Jason Sudeikis and Olivia Wilde to this. They apparently met several times and while he was charming he never made a move. Her best guy friend handed him Olivia’s number and told him to use it. They just ended their 8-year ENGAGEMENT, after 2 kids. 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:06 PM
44

“What’s your romantic life like?” “I don’t want to talk about that (WITH YOU)” “Oh, it’s that bad!? Hyuck hyuck!” I hate when scrote coworkers start prying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:25 PM
91

I used to crush on Emile Hirsch too, til I found out he strangled a woman exec at a club when he was drunk because he thought she had rich parents or some bs 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:44 PM
48

How old is the artist? I expect this kind of edgelord behavior from college kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:20 PM
20

Yeah, sounds like he didn’t like how you reacted to him hiding the kid from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:01 AM
16

Wish I had this 🙏🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:57 PM
68

Scrotes really get tricked into thinking OLD prompts are their diary lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:23 PM
3

Oh ok, I thought this at first, then I thought the hair looked more like some kind of updo/messy bun. But I guess it is a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:04 PM
18

You’ll never see a man stand up to these messages, never. They literally are the simps they’re so terrified of being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:08 PM
17

Didn’t realize this was a woman at first, I honestly wish this were blurred. Just exposure to these images is harmful, causes fear, triggers those of us who have experienced it. Reddit doesn’t care, I reported that Sean Connery thing to reddit the way r/banfemalehatesubs said to, but they said they reviewed it and didn’t break any of Reddit’s rules, thanks reddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:49 PM
1

I was able to read it, it’s very sad . It’s not like a tragic story, but it’s just so sad how men treat us like shit whilst they’re causing us all these problems. Like her car is messed up now, her back is messed up now, that accident will end up costing her but the scrote is acting like it’s her fault? And she’s accepting this blame because he said it’s her negative thoughts that attract bad stuff? Like, kick this loser out. Unfortunately, if she used to be 320lb, I know that can obliterate you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:34 PM
21

Really needed this. I really have no one who feels like home, even my mom is choosing my nvm father over me. It sucks. But I am my own home. I just wish I had an actual home to make mine 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:46 PM
145

“I can cook you some dinner [and Netflix and chill]” As soon as she says yes to that: “I’ll be making some ground turkey if you want some.” Proving FDS right time and time again! As soon as you accept their low effort they treat you like a dog. Also, if you’re not feeling up to going out, then you’re probably not feeling up to hosting dinner at your place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:02 PM
33

This reminds me of my Nvm dad trying to help with my math homework, but I had to reteach him exactly what we were learning, and then he’d be like a beginner at it and I’d have to tell him whether it was correct. Then I’d be frustrated because he wasn’t actually helping. But he’s good at math and knows better! 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:57 AM
29

Didn’t he use Madonna a few years ago when this came up, he like hoovered her back in and she hosted some charity dinner and was like drunkenly saying he was the love of her life. But then they never got together publicly or anything and he had a girlfriend not too much later. It always seemed like he got her on his side by playing into “the one that got away” trope, like they’d finally be together, but after she publicly backed him he found some excuse and broke it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:09 AM
25

Guys named Paul tend to suck, I can see why he’s trying to be a Patrick 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:10 AM
60

And nothing of value was lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:18 AM
19

Please have someone come and take care of you after surgery (not him)! I’ve heard too many horror stories about how lvm treat their girlfriends or wives after they have surgery and are dependent on them. For your own safety have a friend or relative come stay with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:25 PM
15

I used to be bffs with a girl EXACTLY like this. I had to go no contact with her. We have this mutual guy friend that I like, but he doesn’t think she’s this evil, he thinks she’s actually really cool! Of course he thinks she’s really cool (she noticed the things he liked about me and adopted them, like studied them). Despite having zero sexual attraction for him and being in a relationship with her now husband. She literally did it to take attention away from me! I mean she sounds psycho, but h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:02 AM
27

I feel ya, I’m not a mom but I take care of kids and I also wasted my twenties on lvm and pickme friends. I’m going through a hard time too and I wish I had a group of hvw friends so bad! At least fds is here for us 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:49 AM
23

Yeah, this “litany of issues” is called AGENCY. They’re upset we have it. They want young girls not because they’re hotter or “emotionally stable” lmao, but because it’s easier to destroy their boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:56 PM
26

🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:34 PM
69

Lmao Greg is so dumb 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:40 PM
69

Exactly! It sure sounds like this guy made sure he got his nut first. And who mistakes breast fat for a lump anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 12:14 AM
5

Someone cc Dave Chapelle on this 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:52 PM
41

Sometimes I think it’s good not to disclose chronic illnesses on social media for this reason, you can attract these lvm who see you as easier prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:19 AM
17

Serial killer! 🔪😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:25 AM
2

My last DBT therapist called me literally ten minutes before an unexpected opening, and I agreed to come, but I had to call her back 5 minutes later when the person who agreed to watch the elderly person in my care called me back and said they couldn’t come anymore. Was she understanding? No, she very coldly texted that she would be billing me for the session since I was canceling on her! This woman was making $1,000 a week on each person in her DBT group. Then she would pause the therapy and sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:14 PM
7

It’s not even that they try to sleep with you if you give them a compliment, it’s that they think you’re crushing on them and then they act all cold. Stu, I like your band t-shirt I’m not in love with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:33 PM
10

Ding ding ding! Thank you, you’re totally right. I know I should do therapy (again). This issue kind of prevents me from seeing one because in my experience they only try to help if they like you, they only remember details of your life if they’re a bit invested. I can’t get a therapist to like me to save my life 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:45 AM
34

I have a tendency to assume no one likes me (even if they do-unless no one has ever liked me which is possible ngl). Not sure how to tell when I’m always in doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 10:01 PM
27

Megan rapping about how men hide their crooked hairlines and weak jaws with beards!!! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:19 AM
1

Thank you so much for your support. I am so sorry you experienced the same thing, you definitely had a much worse injury than me, I hope that has totally healed. It really is devastating to go through. It’s crazy how they are able to gather so much supporting evidence while our testimony of what just happened is immediately suspect. Thank you for the kind words. You ladies are like my rock ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:13 AM
1

Thank you for this, you’re right I’m already on my way. I feel it took longer because I never had anyone outside of me validate that it actually happened the way I said it did and that it was a traumatic event for me. Thank you for the hug and everything you wrote, you’re much appreciated ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:01 AM
30

Mine is ridiculous, but we were technically broken up when my ex-strangled and punched me. I literally couldn’t wrap my head around it, like since we’re not together it’s not dv, it would just be seen as two people fighting or something. I was too afraid to call the police because I thought they might arrest me for throwing a Small speaker that landed near his foot. Thought he would lie and say I hit him or perhaps he’d have a small scratch and I didn’t really have any marks on me because he did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:20 PM
12

When I first started dating my narc ex he came to pick me and my best friend up to go see a comedy show on campus. He showed up pissed (as in really mad), wouldn’t talk to me normal privately but super nice in front of my friend, even tho everything had been fine up until then. Now I would have sent him on his way even if it meant missing the show. My Pickmeisha self Back then didn’t want my best friend to get upset that we wouldn’t have a ride so I just went with it. When we were watching the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:50 PM
147

Love it! Of course he thinks he can get out of it by just casually gaslighting her, “misunderstood his intentions” lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:55 PM
12

🥰👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:46 AM
24

Hilarious! 🤣 I love Bane’s monologue here! Whenever I have a hoarse voice from a cold I can’t help but say it 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:01 AM
15

Men crave more and more depraved sex because they’re addicted to porn and short term pleasure (instead of finding a legit hobby or passion)! It literally has nothing to do with whether his wife is ExPerIMEntal enough in the bedroom 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:42 PM
15

Where’s the eject button?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:27 PM
26

The scrotacity astounds 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:24 PM
63

I guess Skyrim has fried his brain and he thinks life is a video game 😂 #SayNoToGamers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:38 PM
32

Love this lady! 👑 I can’t wait for his friend to feel the consequences of messing with his friend’s girlfriend! Their friendship will not be the same after this! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:25 PM
3

It’sAllMe2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:30 AM
13

You sound amazing first of all. It sounds like he’s just comfortable, and using you for financial stability. I think you’ll do so much better on your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:12 PM
16

thEre is LiTEralLy No pOSSiBle ArGuMENT to tHe CoNTrArY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:27 PM
2

I have yet to see a male psychologist talk with true insight, this seems like a half-baked theory the defense might come up with. Sometimes women don’t need all the facts to intuit the truth, but men? They just can’t do it. Men don’t need a mistress to kill. Not wanting to hire a lawyer and go through a divorce is enough motivation for them! Her not cooking his dinner properly is enough reason for him! Jfc!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:13 PM
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What’s one experience you wish I’d never had? I was like “Aww he’s going to say he wishes she had never been sexually assaulted because of the pain and trauma it caused her,” NOPE. He wishes she’d never been sexually assaulted because it was hard for him to grasp at the beginning of their relationship and made him feel anger and sadness ☹️🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:24 AM
23

I would love to hear some of his sex travel stor-🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:43 PM
4

If a man will rape you, it means he would kill you too. Why should we believe these crimes are so separate from each other as to deserve vastly different punishments? They’re often hand in hand. If a man rapes you or tries to, you should have every right kill him in self defense, because there’s no way of knowing if he’s going to murder you as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:55 PM
3

I once “dated” this guy with a limp. We had just started holding hands, this scrote could not make it an entire block without letting go. He did that thing you described where his grip becomes so loose you let go. But then a little while later he’d grab it, but then do the same thing over again. He blamed it on his limp, like when he leans away from me he has to let go, but it didn’t make sense to me because my arm can move so he didn’t need to let go. I even tested it out. People with limps can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:06 PM
4

It’s hard to normalize a women’s only gym when scrotes keep suing for DIsCRIminaTIoN and the gym ends up closing and the courts keep setting this precedent. It’s ridiculous that there are no women only gyms except Curves (which seems to have a specific model not like most gyms).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:19 PM
14

I forget where I heard this (maybe here?), but someone who worked with sex offenders said that they can’t be rehabilitated if they’re still watching pornography.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:31 PM
3

I don’t know if it can be proven, that’s why I said allegedly. But, if you look up the case, there are some text messages she sent her boyfriend (the one that murdered her), about some of the “grandpa feelings” she would experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:43 PM
45

Allegedly he had an affair with his step-granddaughter. She went on to get into a relationship with a nvm who murdered her during a drug fueled rage. What was Freeman’s response? “Who?” He was all smiles after this happened, like he never knew her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:55 PM
5

Stratia’s Liquid Gold, love what it does for my skin without being harsh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:47 PM
13

Girl, I’m so with you on this one. Customers see a woman behind the counter and they think “Yay, a punching bag! I can now feel free to start an argument that I can win!” Where I worked most customers were trash, misogynistic males, but some LV women also relished being mean and rude to the “girl behind the counter.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:45 PM
24

Sorry, I didn’t mean to be a downer (I’m just so annoyed by his “good” reputation). It’s a good quote and very true for women especially!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:29 PM
66

Ugh, Morgan Freeman is the ultimate NVM in disguise as a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:19 PM
11

I can’t imagine the horror of being one of these “overweight” woman (you know this just means she’s fatter than a pronstar). She gives him a chance and this toad will STRUGGLE to find HER ATtractIvE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:05 PM
2

Sounds like my ex-“bff”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:09 PM
28

I can laugh at a field all day! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:39 AM
17

Cash is King for an Fdser! 💵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:58 AM
24

You dropped this 👑 ❤️🥰❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:47 AM
16

I think they’re worried she’ll leave with “half” of her own money, meaning they won’t get to keep all of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:39 PM
37

Gross, glad they called him out. It seems like his mom is rightfully upset he’s looking at porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:57 PM
11

I’ve always dreamed of being taken to a field 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:23 PM
9

Yes, we should each have the luxury of living alone but with a support network of like minded ladies close by! Signing you up! 🎉😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:42 AM
5

You are a Queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:54 AM
15

Join us! (Moving you to the top! 😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:27 AM
6

Absolutely! 😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:25 PM
10

Done and done! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:24 PM
22

You’re on the list! 🎉🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:08 PM
99

I’m 35, I still don’t know what it’s like to have a man WANT to hold my hand. Should I keep waiting for this dream guy? Fuck it, this whole romance thing is a lie. I’m leveling up and starting a women only commune!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:50 PM
46

Seriously, can we talk about how difficult it is for women to hire men? They’ll take your money but be patronizing, disrespect your stuff or where you live, be intentionally obtuse, it’s the worst! This is something you don’t anticipate as a young woman, like, they’ll STILL be patronizing when I’m grown up? Yes. Even when I know more about something then them and they need my knowledge to do something properly? Yes. Even if I’m paying them? Yes. Even if I’m their boss? Yes. Lordt, help us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:27 PM
72

If she doesn’t dump him a part of me will die 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:14 PM
5

What if you guys are friends first, gaahhh so confused! 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:10 PM
6

They’ll never receive real love but they’ll never give it either, so what’s the point of their lives? Does not compute 🤖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:31 PM
22

It’s actually very difficult for me to see narcissists as human, what are they??? 🧐🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:31 PM
8

😞😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:13 AM
14

It’s not just the average neck beard keyboard warrior, it’s that they take it to the top, and who’s at the top of everything? Men. And they will always side with the LV men who are complaining. On the surface it seems like a legitimate complaint, a database that publicly shames men with possibly false info? But do they care about all the websites that are up and running full of minors and women’s nude pictures that have leaked? No, because men don’t start campaigns against this type of stuff the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:23 PM
3

I would do it too, but the last example that was posted here, the men went after the women who created it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:08 PM
3

Call him out! Tell his parents, they need to cut off the porn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:35 PM
41

I would love a database like this. I think they’ve tried it in the past but it got taken down. Basically men are allowed to do this type of thing with underage girls, women’s nude photos, posting names and addresses, BUT when women try to warn other women about LV and NV men using actual facts, it’s only a matter of time before other complicit men have it taken down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:57 PM
8

Amen, sister! Now, how do we legislate some regulations on porn? Not just for the industry but also for what’s freely available online to any child (whether they search for it or not, it’s too easy to stumble upon).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:20 PM
25

Hurr hurr hurrr and why didn’t boyfy say anything at the time???? The scrotacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:44 PM
6

I prefer to SILENCE and BLOCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:36 PM
89

It’s more about being conditioned to have negative feelings when they see a “stripper body.” Images of beautiful women become associated with men ignoring her or implying she’s deficient. I don’t blame her either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:51 PM
18

Except she does not need that ring anymore!!! 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:21 PM
22

BeyOnCe and RiHANna R fAt Scrotes live in such a distorted reality. Like, they have no concept of the world. Everything is a 2D image with no context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:49 PM
15

This reminds me how a NVM ruined Designing Women (Les Moonves). Did anyone read the interview the creator of the show wrote? As soon as Les came on the scene he disliked her (Linda Bloodworth-Thomason, who had a $50 million contract with CBS and multiple hit shows), and eventually canceled Designing Women and blocked her other shows! Obviously it was just his pure dislike and lack of need for a high value woman. Why do LV men ruin everything? Here’s the article if anyone’s interested: https://ww…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:10 AM
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It’s so damaging to one’s self esteem to know your own father won’t protect you or defend you. It makes you susceptible to other nvm and lvm who will use and abuse you. This truly breaks my heart 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:33 AM
6

💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:30 PM
7

FETUS CHILDREN 🤣🤣💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:31 AM
180

That yellowed comforter and those vintage pillow cases look so inviting, I hope he picks me! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:59 AM
149

“You sound horribly insecure” said a scrote who is horribly insecure about his teen rape fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:53 AM
12

It sort of proves the idea that men require a chase. But this guy just seems uninterested in other people. Why hasn’t he connected and made friends with any of these people throwing themselves at him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:38 AM
17

Yes, he was just using you for sex, but you did good and didn’t give in! Honestly, I’m proud of you. At 23, I don’t know if I would’ve done the same for myself. Get mad, get angry that this scrote wasted all your time and emotional energy just for some PIV. Once you realize what a shit he is, that he took advantage of you because of your age, that he only pretended to care about you, then you won’t feel bad that he wasn’t the one. Also, read the handbook, and remember not to get emotionally inve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:25 AM
5

I’ve also been depressed, pretty much my whole life. The only thing that truly helped me was meditation. There’s a woman named Maritza who makes a fantastic dvd for beginning meditation. You just have to commit to trying it, whether it’s starting at 1 minute a day, or 5 min, try to do it for a month and honestly evaluate whether you feel better than when you started. A journal would be helpful too. Anything written by Eckhart Tolle is also great, trying listening to or reading The Power of Now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:03 AM
28

Two words, one scrote: Jesse Williams
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:43 PM
29

In my extreme pickme days I had a fwb who wanted a threesome, and me being a pickme I was all for trying it at least once. He had the audacity to insist I, yes Me, start looking for this unicorn. I was like whatever I guess I’ll look at other profiles, but didn’t want to spend too much time doing it since I had a job and other responsibilities. When I told him I hadn’t really had time to do it, he was so disappointed! Like, if it’s that important to you why aren’t you looking?? Lazy scrote. Stil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:41 PM
16

I’m so sorry. It sucks so much that scrotes will let you bring life into this world without being honest. It’s hard to believe! But I know from experience how these go-with-the-flow/user types are. I’m so happy you’re getting a job, now’s your chance to get away from this dead weight and flourish. Have you thought about what you truly want? I have faith you can provide it for yourself. Focus on the good things you want in your life! We are here for you! 🥰💕❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:31 PM
12

Can you just be straight up with them, like I appreciate the advice, this is just how my bf and I like to do things. Can we not dwell on it tho? I’d much rather plan our camping trip or whatever it is you guys enjoy doing together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:02 PM
18

A cheap man is not even operating on the same level as everyone else, DITCH THEM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:58 PM
45

“Why aren’t they spherical tho”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:02 PM
10

You do respect yourself, that’s why you can’t stand his disrespect. Just know you will not ever get it from him or any other LVM. Read the handbook. Be confident that the second a man is disrespectful or makes you wonder, is that an insult? Walk away, there’s no point in continuing (and if you read the handbook you won’t have emotionally invested in him or slept with him, so it’ll be easier to walk away).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:55 PM
11

Scrotes never pass up an opportunity to neg. “No you’re not a supermodel...” GTFOH 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:12 PM
10

Please leave him and find a sexually functional high value boyfriend. We’ve been down this road, he’s misleading you or too ignorant to realize it’s because of porn. My ex had the exact same thing, couldn’t come from hand jobs or oral. He had several excuses, childhood trauma, high cholesterol, but that didn’t stop him from jacking it. We tried his hand over mine to see what he likes, let me tell you it’s physically impossible to grip his penis as hard as he needEd it to be. Death grip! It was u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:23 PM
48

“I sweep women off their feet in my sleep. It’s just depends on...” 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:31 AM
1

I can smell it-🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:19 PM
39

This would be a dream come true, if I could convert my mom! So happy for you guys! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:49 PM
7

👏 👏 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:11 AM
33

Is exhaustion a hobby? That’s usually what I’m doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:02 AM
6

Yes, I think it would be great to include stories about worst case scenarios. Teens don’t always conceive of the possible consequences. It’s hard to believe your sweet high school love interest could become cold as soon as you sleep with him, and this could blow up your entire social situation! Teens need to know that this is a possibility, which is why they need to vet very hard before deciding to get into any kind of relationship. Why taint your high school experience with low value boy drama?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:17 PM
12

It’s true, most men are garbage. So what’s the point of lecturing a landfill? To create better trash?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:04 PM
23

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:04 PM
16

Ding ding ding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:40 PM
13

“I took a class on giving women oral, so I’m actually really good at it.” From a scrote who thinks oral sex is an isolated act, not tied to foreplay at all. Cut to him asking me why I’m not moaning and making more noise 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:24 AM
23

Yes, he just wants a free prostitute. There would be zero benefit to you. He is absolutely not scared to share his true feelings. He said he isn’t “in a place to date or be committed (to you),” the “to you” part is silent. Good for you for going on other dates, time to block and delete this guy tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:55 AM
5

If one of you has to leave and get a new job because of his behavior, better him than you. Maybe this angle can be worked. You’d have to be able to walk away though and that depends on your career situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:23 AM
84

😧Jaw droppingly sinister, absolutely evil = average scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:05 AM
34

Let’s try not to make them better liars. This is teaching him to avoid that terminology in his profile and/or with the next woman. Block and delete 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:59 AM
134

wHAT Do YoU BrInG To thE tABle? Uh, you mean that crappy plastic table you inherited from your ex-roomie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:26 AM
11

I’ve been reading about that too! And apparently Brazilian butt lifts are also incredibly dangerous because of the blood vessels we have in that area getting squished from all the fat injections. This puts a strain on our lungs and can cause death! I’ve been down several google rabbit holes on the dangers of elective surgery. From laser eye surgery, to nose jobs (have you heard of “no nose syndrome?” -horrible because it’s not even recognized by medical professionals). The worst part is the gasl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:19 PM
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Scrotes coming in all serious like, “Wow, that’s insane. That is a huge breach of his trust, you are a terrible partner. Do him a favor and break up with him, he can do so much better.” 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:50 AM
3

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:01 AM
19

Right? She’s going to have to prod him for that! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:26 PM
4

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:11 PM
103

Workin’ hard for that one “aw thanks babe.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:35 PM
69

Just your ages are worrisome. A 20 year old should not be pursuing a 17 year old. He freaked out because this is about getting laid for him. Find a better partner, who will value you and your first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:44 AM
5

😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:45 AM
6

“Now you send one! I’ll reply with notes on how you could make yourself look more naked in the next 100 pics I ask for. Gotta prove to me your real!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:13 PM
2

Nah, just a lame attempt to be eff buddies for 6 weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:09 PM
9

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:30 PM
38

I understand the lesson here, but I can’t judge a fat girl. It’s not easy, and when you have no self esteem to start with, I can’t even begin to describe the difficulty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:41 AM
26

It just doesn’t seem like a good idea to let a strange man into your home, were other people there to ensure your safety? He now knows where you live, and the layout of your place. Please be safe! Also, it could be a great favor to him to get rid of this bed, so let’s not characterize this as a “selfless” act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:02 PM
157

Scroty gamers see someone who has a healthy relationship with video games and they get upset that they’re not as “dedicated” as literal children or adult gaming addicts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:11 PM
1

You ARE the light at the end of tunnel! Keep your head up, we’re all in this together! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:46 PM
1

I should be! I’ve lurked there but it gets depressing after a while. That’s why I love it here, there’s actually a light at the end of the tunnel!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:43 PM
5

🤷🏻‍♀️ I think he’s going through beginning stages of dementia, but he’s also a lazy narcissist and has zero integrity so he acts super LV when he thinks no one’s looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:38 PM
7

My nvm dad has started peeing all over the grass in his backyard, where his grandkids play. Including the main pathway you walk to enter the grass area (while the grandkids were inside and could’ve come outside and stepped on it). 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:34 PM
6

It just doesn’t sound genuine when guys try to manipulate 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:39 PM
6

You should direct this at other men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:26 PM
18

That’s awful, I’m so sorry. Your poor friend. What did she do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 06:11 PM
5

Me ex was pretty passive, still tried to choke me out and punched me in the face, while we lived together after a breakup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:17 PM
46

Congratulations Queen 👑 Breakups are a dangerous time for women, especially if you’re cohabitating. Stay safe please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:15 AM
39

I had a friend like this, but she was petite and “exotic” and looooved the male attention. Turned out she was a total narcissist, and my insecurity around her and guys was because of her, not because of her “extraordinary” looks or personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 05:16 AM
6

This! I’m without supportive girlfriends too, that’s why I need this place! Sending love 🥰💕🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:17 PM
19

I’ve been to the park when a husband and wife came with their toddler. The husband and the toddler played on the playground, while mommy used the jungle gym for pull ups (she seemed to have a whole routine). It was kind of early and we were the only ones there. I didn’t really mind it. Secretly I was hoping he was being supportive and not like forcing her to lose the baby weight, but she seemed motivated on her own. Other times I’ve been to a super busy park and will notice a middle aged man try…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:31 PM
9

It’s sad because I feel when women are finally ready to date, and have their early twenties glow up, these are their prospects. Just guys wanting to have lots of bad porn sex, no one asking them out on dates, no real intimacy. The lucky ones get boyfriends (who aren’t all that anyway), and the rest feel like crap that no one is asking them to be their girlfriend (despite having a lot going for them).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:08 PM
45

Interesting! Does this mean we can stop describing a 34-year-old’s pregnancy as “geriatric?” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:34 PM
11

Yup, my narc dad will have his license taken away if he keeps running red lights. He also reversed hastily and sped away as I told him I need to put my seatbelt on, so of course I got tumbled around in a crowded backseat, to prove to us how he’s a “great driver.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:37 PM
7

Slow it down, it’s too soon to sleep with him. It’s so tempting to just go with it, but it does seem like love bombing. There was a post on here where the woman was so happy to be engaged to a seemingly hvm, who swept her off her feet after a short courtship (she felt confident because she employed fds), but the commenters warned her it was too good to be true, and it later turned out they were right. He left her for an ex, despite the romantic whirlwind they’d been through. Shows you how easily…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:49 PM
3

😂👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:27 AM
7

Awesome! 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:25 AM
4

Ichi the Killer (Japanese movie, don’t watch it, it’s gross)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:23 PM
79

Thank you for calling him out! 🙏 I hate seeing these guys on Reddit go unchallenged. It sucks they can’t google it themselves, but it proves how they just don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:31 PM
7

I’m starting to think bpd is just women reacting to trauma, and also that a lot suicides have been the result of having a narcissist in their life who’s essentially torturing them, but with plenty of plausible deniability so that no one is the wiser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:52 PM
3

Embarrass the shit out of him for it, it’s the only way she’ll be able to get over such a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:45 PM
5

Indian men are too misogynistic and at the same time too effeminate for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:35 PM
1

Her parents support her brother of course! Not a care for how disturbed and traumatized the daughter is by her brother’s behavior. I can’t with these pathetic men who get to walk around like they are still men when they do crap like this. Apparently, he’s been mugged before, so this is probably a scenario he’s run through his mind (like what would he say to save himself).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:45 PM
2

Oh, Hi Dad 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:20 AM
1

Extremely accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:22 PM
28

Just writing out exactly what they’re saying will get us banned, the scrotacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:00 AM
44

Did he photoshop his shirt and tie to make his tummy look flatter? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:47 PM
64

Thanks Pornography!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:12 PM
36

This is amazing, you are awesome! I never liked the original either, it was like an fds horror story. Thank you for doing this! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:21 AM
36

His look at the end isn’t very loving or grateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 06:13 AM
36

This right here ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:56 PM
8

I hate this dude with a passion! 😡🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:56 PM
5

“When did they say this?” LMAO LVM don’t argue any point to get what they want, they just ask stupid questions to waste our time or piss us off so we look crazy or lose patience and give up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:33 PM
8

Do you think if his business became a huge success over night he’d start contributing and being a better partner? I think he’d probably be the one doing the dumping. It’s just how they roll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:51 PM
26

Ok we all know he rushed to marry his current youngin’ because Charlize embarrassed him by saying they were never engaged. This poor girl thinks it’s true love 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:59 PM
10

You know it’s all ice cold by now. Can he make it and make sure it’s served properly? Or can he just set up a good picture?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:45 AM
21

My nex also NEVER took a photo of me or us except once when I was asleep and I he got mad when I did the same thing back to him because he had made me promise to never take a naked picture of him and you could see part of his butt cheek. It had nothing to do with social media because he didn’t use Facebook, but it was becoming super popular to post pics at that time. And the one time I asked him to take a pic of me at the lake and he acted like it was so stupid of me to ask and that I must be ve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:06 PM
8

Yes, my narc ex would drive dangerously if he got upset by something, which was a lot, and this was during the honeymoon period. I hated it, and I will never drive with someone who I don’t fully trust is a safe driver. My narc dad does the same thing, but it’s to prove he’s the “best” driver, except he’s old, always running red lights (they’ll take his license away if he gets anymore), and always getting into altercations with other idiots on the road. I also had an ex bff who I found out was a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:53 PM
288

What actually happened is his friend downloaded the app on his phone, after he’d already deleted it! Duh! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:55 PM
7

🙌🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:16 PM
7

I have to agree with some commenters. While I always enjoyed reading the story, as it neared the end I would get this creeping anxiety. What is he trying to say here, that it’s good to be like the tree? Years later I heard there was an environmental theme to it, maybe the tree was Mother Nature. But every time I go back to read the story I start to feel bad towards the end. It be great to have a literary sister deconstruct it from an FDS viewpoint!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:01 AM
54

I saw this and was thinking the same thing! Ridiculous! He says at one point, “I’m looking for someone exactly like my mom, literally hahaha.” It was so pathetic but he was acting like it was all cute 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:17 AM
10

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:54 AM
39

Hahaha! This reminds me of my nvm ex, he literally went fishing ONE time (with a friend who planned everything because he actually fishes) and from then on when someone asked him what his hobbies were he would say fishing! 😂 Last time I looked him up online, the Uni he worked for had a profile for him, guess what his sole hobby was! 🤣 I guess he was too embarrassed to say “hentai!” 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:01 AM
66

🤷‍♀️ For me, my dad’s a NVM and a narcissist, so basically I just pretend like I don’t have one. It sucks, but what can you do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:41 PM
9

I understand sis, I love my mom, but when my dad is physically abusive towards me, her response since I was a child has always been, “he said he didn’t do it,” and that’s that. It’s like living in Bizarro world. The woman who is supposed to protect you and care about you, cares more about some NVM narcissist, I mean it destroys self-esteem. I’m 35 and I didn’t realize til recently how pathological pickmeism is. It’s not just a mean name for desperate girls. It’s a whole personality with a certai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:26 PM
46

I am so sorry, that’s such an awful place to be, I’ve been there. Just know it wasn’t any of your friend’s qualities that made him say that, it was said purely to provoke that kind of reaction in you. He wanted to make you insecure, so don’t give him the satisfaction! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:31 AM
78

It’s messed up because he knows it’s going to get inside your head since it’s your BF. You being honest about someone showing interest in you was an attack on his ego and he had to hurt you even worse. Whether it’s true or not, if getting in between you and your best friend even “jokingly” is his way of dealing with his own insecurity, he’s majorly projecting and messing with your relationships. Isolating you a bit, making you insecure about keeping him. I can see why you’d want to throw the who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:09 AM
19

“You’re kinda cute” = “you seem like a cheap date who requires no effort” 🤡 He’s clowning her just by taking her on this ridiculous “date” where he obsessed over $ the entire time! He does not seem like a good guy, scams his friends with rent, flushes once a week (for three grown men?!🤮) This man is gross, mean-looking and gives me nightmares. Also eff that network for participating in that woman’s clownification. She probably said whatever just to get the hell away from him. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:33 AM
12

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 05:04 AM
22

Yeah, all of these hobbies are a huge turnoff. I think you could passively enjoy looking at classic cars even if you don’t work on them, but guys who pour all their resources into buying a car they want or if it’s their only “hobby-“ I’d call it an interest at best- are sort of living in a different reality. It’s actually difficult to understand. The action figures, I understand that some people like to collect stuff, but it just seems so silly and aesthetically it sucks. I always expect them to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:32 AM
34

What a creep, what if her stepdad is abusing her? Does he even care? As an adult I regret that my mom never divorced my NVM father, but I can acknowledge that he still would’ve made life really hard (still better than man baby tantrums).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:33 PM
4

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:42 AM
6

I found this while going through my old college notes. Apparently, I wrote it down wrong, it’s from “Adventures in Esplandian” by Garci Rodriguez de Montalvo. So the Island is actually called California, named after Queen Califia, who is a beautiful pagan moor who wants to raise an army of women to sail away and fight against the Christians. She inspired Cortez to name the state after her. I felt she was an interesting archetype!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:18 AM
3

🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:00 AM
9

I just imagined a world where scrotes carry their robot dolls on their backs wrapped in tarps when they leave their shoebox apartment to get supplies (lube,silicone cleaner). Gotta take your robot with you so no one steals her! And the injustice when a group of bigger scrotes rapes his robot right in front of him! They’re going to be so anti-robot rape!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:58 PM
11

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:37 PM
7

Right?! If my child’s father stalked me and waited until my very first day out as a new mom and tried to murder me, I would also not be taking him to court! Let’s be honest too, he probably doesn’t have money anyway. Yes, I’m praying this child has a grandmother or someone who will tell her the truth about her father before he tries to weasel his way back after he suddenly becomes “ready” to be a ‘dad.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:07 PM
21

Why are the rape subs only quarantined? They literally have the word “rape” in the name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:25 PM
2

I just got the app and I can see now that it’s your cake day, Happy Cake Day! 🍰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:05 AM
15

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:38 AM
34

🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:09 AM
133

I agree! I like to think the credit goes to our sisters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:23 AM
6

Let’s cut the girl some slack, on the previous post about this a commenter said she got with him while she was underage, so she may have been groomed into this situation and now he’s gaslighting her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:17 AM
78

He’s COnTRoLlInG lol! Dude is depraved! Get tf out of there child!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:22 PM
3

Exactly! They have literally no ethical standards, it’s just people manipulating others for ratings/profit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:20 PM
8

Perhaps he’s a narcissist and you never realized it (happens a lot when you have one or more narcissist parents). He’s experienced a “narcissistic injury,” basically a big blow to his ego. This causes him to lash out because it’s basically reopening the original wound that made him this way (usually not bonding properly with his mother as a baby). He has to blame someone for this and lucky for him, he’s got you for that. It could’ve seemed salvageable if his immediate response wasn’t to start pu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:16 PM
3

My NVM narc father does this. We’ll be alone in the house and if I’m sleeping in the morning he’ll leave the house and leave the door unlocked (even though he obviously has a key- it’s just laziness and zero concern for his daughter’s wellbeing). I’ve read two stories in recent years where a psychotic homeless person looking to steal, entered an apartment or home by checking if the front door was unlocked, and then murdered the occupant when they realized someone was home. In one case, the woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:38 PM
7

UnREAL is a brutal takedown of that show by a former producer, it’s a good binge watch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:28 PM
11

“He could actually be out doing other things,” like living life for real?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:56 PM
9

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:31 AM
208

Complete scumbag this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:08 AM
54

I’d focus on making HV friends in college. It’s possible this could be the group that introduces you to your hv mate in the future. Most college guys are too immature for a proper relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:25 PM
108

On my last vacation I noticed a few mismatched couples, who seemed to be serious but who knows. The men were either fat or had weird hair and the women were the average beautiful women. I remember trying to see in them what their girlfriends see but couldn’t find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:55 AM
11

My nvm next told me the thing about picturing every woman naked and imagining having sex with them. He was a porn addict/gamer. Is this just how all men are or is it the influence of porn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:52 PM
3

I just started learning web dev, is there anything I can do to help? Even if it’s unrelated, I’m a decent writer too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:38 PM
9

Don’t even bother with these scrotes, block and move on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:49 AM
1

It’s time to start to living, this is no way to live. You just have to keep your boundaries firm, walk away from anything at the first sign of this. If therapy is not your thing, meditation can help you with the intrusive thoughts. Eckhart Tolle has a great book called the Power of Now. He talks a lot about our ability to replay and dwell on certain thoughts, and how to move past that. I know you can do it, this is the first step towards leaving all that stuff behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:42 AM
21

It’s like the Twilight Zone out here. It’s such a trip reading about the hotties these scrotes are looking for, meanwhile I’m nowhere near that league but wouldn’t touch him with a ten foot pole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:07 AM
16

Now’s the time to level up. Stop worrying about men, men your age are terribly shallow and porn sick. You don’t want to date when your self esteem is low. Use this time to Level Up, make money, and become happy in your own company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:52 PM
47

For male lurkers, as I know you ladies understand this: women don’t murder these criminals in their sleep because every prosecutor and judge in America will rush to convict her of first degree murder with a life sentence or death penalty despite the years of abuse he inflicted on her. What about the woman in Alabama who shot the man who just raped her as he was attacking her brother. No one in Alabama will defend her and she will end up being in jail for a long time because some violent rapist w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:47 PM
29

Why would his heart sink when seeing the picture? Unless he has a crush on the roommate or he knows it makes him look uncommitted (but he explains it like an “unwritten competition” between the roommates). I hate these scenarios where LVM lust after the “awesome” and “artistic” friend. I’m sure she’s sooo much better (ie hotter).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:24 PM
15

There were some posts on here about making sure your your man’s type because he’ll always be desiring that. Rest assured, you’re better off without him. He’s a LVM with an Asian fetish, you need to ditch him. Cut off your emotions to him as much as possible. He broke up with you, throwing you out in front of his roommates. Even if it were possible, would you really want to come back from that? You’re not an insecure person, he was making you insecure with his Asian fetish bs. Imagine a HVM who o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:09 PM
2

Meditation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 07:39 PM
454

Wow, what a dick. What was it like vetting him beforehand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:23 PM
27

“It would be soooo hottttt” to rape you. It’s just ridiculous how everything boils down to what would be “so hot” for their pee pees. You could literally train them like monkeys to be aroused by the stupidest crap. It always comes back to porn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:54 PM
36

This is so true. It’s like dating a heroin addict, at any moment they can choose to go into this cocoon and ignore real life. They may even have a whole personality when talking to the people they’re playing with. But too exhausted to have a conversation with you, it’s hurtful and absolutely absurd. It’s better to be single than deal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:02 PM
44

This is so disturbing. I wish we knew what percentage of those rapists were exposed to pornography, I’d bet all. This is so sad because their victims are probably even younger than they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:57 PM
2

She’s in her early twenties and still in the honeymoon phase, wait til you guys are actually functioning adults! It’s not going to be fun bringing him a tray of tendies when he’s no longer as excited about having sex with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:58 PM
10

Why not continue dating him when quarantine is over? Have him plan some dates for you, it doesn’t seem like you could’ve been on many of them if it’s only been three months including lockdown. It just sounds like he needs to be vetted more. How’s his porn use? As an outsider, it doesn’t seem like he’s earned the next step of sex, not sure why you’ve committed to it already. If you’re at fds, I’m assuming you want a true relationship and not just a hook up. This would bother me too, I hope you ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:19 PM
1

I am so sorry. This is the biggest injustice against women. Just having to talk to a bunch of male police officers who don’t care and are already bolstering the accused’s possible defense. I am so sorry. I hope as women we can turn this around and maybe our kids or grandkids will see all types of rape be punishable by law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:29 PM
11

What a tortured relationship to be in, he won’t even tell her why he doesn’t want to have sex! Like omg, how can you not even demand an explanation for 25 years! I would assume he’s gay or not attracted to me, especially if he still uses viagra. But he’s great in every other way, she says her heart still skips a beat when he walks into a room! It’s like she’s excited for her master to come because she’s going to get to do something now. It just sounds like control and fear. How do we convince ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:31 AM
36

😂😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:17 PM
6

I’m sure lots of people can play and it’s fine. I myself love all the old Nintendo games. But my problem with the typical gamer is that he’s basically controlled by the game developers. If they come out with a new game that’s really addicting and popular, will he go all in and forgo other hobbies or spending time with you (could be tempting if you’re going through hard times)? Or will he try it but take a step back when he realizes it’s taking too much of his free time? It just seems like a risk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:15 AM
7

Perfect, down to the last line, “We met someone else we’re out!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:58 AM
85

I used to listen to Dr Laura with my mom after school. At the time I thought she was so conservative, don’t move in with a man before you’re married? So old fashioned! Whenever a woman called in and said was sleeping with a man or living with a man Dr Laura would be like, “Oh so you’re a prostitute but worse because you don’t get paid?” Or if a woman talked about her relationship with her fiancée Dr Laura would ask, “Do you have a ring and a date? No? Then you’re not engaged.” 😂😂😂 I’m sure she h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:44 AM
8

“It’s easy bro, use a pic of a hot guy with like a similar nose or something as you and play it off like it’s from a few years ago and you’ve gained a few pounds. You can also say your phone has shitty camera quality (stupid iPhone! Lol 😆 etc.). Then when you take your pic try to make the same facial expression as the hot guy and crop out your hairline- very important because she’ll assume you have the same hair as the hot guy and it’ll improve the harmony of your features. This is what I did. M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:33 PM
18

I totally agree. I just wondered if it was bio mom’s uncomfortableness that was prompting the dad to suddenly become “involved parent.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:04 PM
30

To me it looks like maybe the biological mom found some notes and got pissed at the dad for letting the step mom have such a connection with the daughter. Stepmom says she’s already been asked to say “we love you” instead of “I love you” by the bio mom but she ignores it with the dad being aware apparently. What a shitty situation to be in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:48 PM
3

I heard this somewhere on this forum (paraphrasing) but I think it’s true: “A man who is stingy with his money is stingy with love.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 05:04 AM
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It says the AC was on but was not blowing cold air. So extremely sad. I can’t believe she didn’t even check on her once in 4 hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 08:34 PM
51

Never do a man’s laundry, this is how much they appreciate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:30 PM
12

My ex LVM was not exactly like this, but he would approach me from behind every time I was brushing my teeth and grind up against me! I couldn’t even get a brushing rhythm going because he’s pushing into me. I don’t feel sexy while I’m brushing my tongue! Grrr it still makes me mad. I freaking hate it now when someone interrupts my teeth brushing, I just want to yell, “Shut up and let me do this!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:08 PM
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LVM ex had on his profile that he was 5’11”. I thought that was nice since I’m an inch shorter. When we met in person I didn’t really take notice, but later I realized he was actually 1-2 in he’s shorter than me. When I naively asked about it, thinking it would be helpful for him to know his real height, he got all irritated and annoyed! The nerve of these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:40 PM
3

Meditation will help with anxiety and freezing, just stick with it for at least a month everyday before you evaluate how it’s working. My dad is like your bf’s dad. It’s possible everyone just ignores his unsavory side but they surely still bow down to the narcissist. That can be toxic too because if you ever go head to head with the dad, no matter how right you are or how wrong he is, everyone may side with him to keep peace. Don’t worry about his approval just try to avoid conflict. But even b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:41 PM
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Doesn’t even matter, your philtrum is wack, forever alone bro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:27 PM
3

I just watched The Love She Sought/A Green Journey with Angela Lansbury. Someone recommended it on another post. Available on Amazon Prime. Good example of a hvw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:32 AM
10

He definitely looks like an abusive guy. It’s the worst kind of cringe watching them. I also don’t like it when a man puts his arm around a woman’s neck like that, to me it reads “friend” or “buddy,” not “wife” or “girlfriend.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:30 PM
7

She says she has $100,000 inheritance that she’s saving for her child’s education. I think she’ll be ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:40 PM
55

Let me guess, he can’t be bothered to wash his own dishes so he’s getting styrofoam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:56 PM
3

The husband of the women’s studies professor!!! Omg that breaks my heart. She talks to him about prostitution and how she doesn’t believe in shaming the women or the Johns, but he won’t tell her he sees prostitutes because he knows she’ll freak out. That’s because it’s cheating! What an assholic idiot. He says when they discuss prostitution it’s on the tip of his tongue to say, “we’ll I’m glad you feel that way because I see a prostitute regularly.” It honestly makes me want to rage and I hope s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:59 AM
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He should come back to you already changed if he’s capable of it, and then you wouldn’t just accept him, you’d vet him even harder. But honestly, picking up women in front of you? I’m not sure how he could come back from that. But is he really worth it? It sounds like you can do better. Why play counselor with some guy who didn’t seem to respect you at all? Find a guy who’s already at your level. And hopefully don’t introduce a guy to your kids until he’s been vetted. Have you read The Rules? Yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 09:01 PM
77

You lost a cheating narcissist. Please don’t worry anymore that he was HV, that was the love bombing phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:01 AM
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Towards the beginning he had some get togethers at his place with all his friends for two big holidays. We were already sleeping together (I know). He didn’t invite me 😟 Then texted me after getting drunk at them to say he wished I were there. Well, why didn’t you invite me scrott?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:13 AM
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Hang in there, you got this. You’ll feel better once you’re away from him, but you may need to see someone. Getting hit by a man can cause ptsd, try to talk it out with a counselor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:36 PM
20

I saw the best meme about this: “Corona Virus Tests Positive For Harvey Weinstein” 🤣🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:40 PM
43

My nex stopped grooming his feet as soon as we started dating. And literally every time we got in bed he would stab my shins with his long ass toe nails. I had to start getting into bed with my knees staying bent. Then I’d wait for him to lower his feet in a stabbing motion, then I’d slowly straighten my legs out. And you know what he’d do? He’d kick his feet out quickly and stab me! My pickme self had to actually ask him to stop stabbing my lovely shins because it hurts. Also had fwb cut the si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:41 PM
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Send him home, who knows how long this shelter in place will be in effect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:26 PM
14

When should you expect him to say it by?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:54 AM
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I did this years ago and suddenly my ex wanted to get together for dinner. He even apologized for being physically abusive (minimized it because he “forgot” everything he did). He even paid for dinner even though he complained about paying for me when we were dating (never asked him to of course). Then when I brought up a tv show he had the audacity to say, “Ohh, you should give me your Netflix password” with a shit eating grin on his face. I couldn’t even respond just looked at him and changed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:53 PM
3

Whenever I see a man with his arm slung around a woman’s neck like that, I automatically feel that he only likes or loves her as a friend. It’s sad when I see husbands or boyfriends do this to their SOs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:38 AM
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Ok so part of my leveling up includes starting some new hobbies I’m interested in. This past weekend I went to this nature walk thing and this older man started talking to me. I thought he was just being friendly so I talked to him a bit. Like I did with another older gentlemen there. But this first guy started to get weirdly excited and started looking at me like a piece of meat while I was just trying to enjoy the nature around me. He said we should get together again at the same park, and bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:55 PM
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Yikes! The one guy who’s girlfriend surprised him by showing up can’t even be bothered to hug her with both arms! What a shitty proposal. I feel badly for these ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:55 PM
3

My dad hit me with a door on purpose when we were arguing, but my family thinks I should forgive him and that I also have to apologize for the things I said after my adrenaline was surging and I was fearing for my safety. Currently not talking to him. And he continues to lie and pretend I shut the door on him and he “accidentally” hit me while opening it again. He’s filth and I’ll never look at him the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:06 PM
2

I was told by some LVM that I was literally just online friends with that I should lose weight and get a nose job. I was a freshman in college and already going through a hard time so it sucked. But I had the sense at the time to just completely cut him out, even though he kept trying to message me under different screen names (remember AIM?!). But seriously how can you tell that to a girl and think there’s a way back from that? An ex told me I have really big hips, but didn’t say it like it was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:08 AM
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Ugh, some of the comments are not terrible but then they say, “You need to talk to him.” Uh no, dude needs to get dumped ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:24 PM
2

It’s really hard to let an old friend go. My ex-friend was someone I had known since kindergarten until my twenties. It was really hard to throw all that history away. And I’m a really loyal person. But eventually my body betrayed my still pickme brain, I started getting panic attacks because of her. I understand where you’re coming from with not wanting to hurt anyone. But ultimately, it’s she who is hurting you, and your health should be most important. Is it possible you’re having trouble let…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:44 AM
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Thank you! Honestly, it’s a little daunting when I look up reddit threads about a career in those areas. Some people say you need a real degree, others say just a portfolio, both say that’s changing. Gah, so confusing! Anyway thank you for the encouraging words!!! 🙏🙏🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:32 AM
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Haha! My thoughts exactly, if I never see her again it will be too soon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:26 AM
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Never dated one but my ex-BFF was one. They are very hard to sniff out because it is extremely important to them to keep up the facade. They have to be perceived as good and interesting without seeming full of themselves. But I remember my friend taking a certain pride in being “humble.” One time she bragged to her boyfriend’s friend (when he mentioned her crappy art), that she’s “really modest.” Not something an actually modest person would say. They always leak little clues like that. My frien…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:48 PM
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That’s awesome! I have a similar dream, maybe with goats and chickens? I love goats. And I would love to have some land where I can enjoy nature. I love this sub because it’s encouraging me to level up. I’m sort of in a bad position now where I work for family and get paid very little. But I’d like to get some kind of career where I could actually save money and buy some land. I’m thinking of taking a web development class at the local community college (already have a useless BA). I need to foc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:40 PM
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Yikes, she’s coming for you hard. Can you block her on social media if your pics upset her the first time it happens next, or would it create all out war? I remember the way my boundaries were flouted, it’s so disrespectful. I hope you can get away. Don’t let her suck you back in with constant contact. I think you should feel free to ignore her since she’s obviously ignoring your request for space. Keep me updated if anything happens or you just need to vent. Stay strong 💪!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:40 PM
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This is my fear for my mother too. It’s so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:33 AM
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Sorry it took me a while to respond, I wrote something and was coming back to it but I forgot I never finished it. Anyway, thank god you get a break from her! I hope you run with it. The thing about narcissists is they will never apologize properly, they will just do the bare minimum to keep you around. Remember they never totally discard people they like to keep them on the periphery so they can come back to them after you’ve “forgotten” their last abuse. I hope you can forget about her, it doe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:02 AM
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LVW friends do this too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:17 PM
3

I read her sister or someone saying that her parents had exhausted themselves trying to help her get free from this “monster.” It’s literally impossible when courts make it mandatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:03 AM
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What about a guy friend? I have one that I could see a future with but we’re still getting to know each other and just hanging out as friends. He’s talked to me on Valentines Day two years in a row but has never mentioned the holiday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:15 PM
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What kind of scam was this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:30 AM
11

Those eyes look tired! Actually they look like the eyes of someone who’s never spent a moment doing any kind of internal work. Also, is he really 35? Looks like at least 40 to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:29 AM
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Dude is pathetic. Better off alone than with one of these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:18 AM
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Reminds me of a Ryan quote from the Office: “Anybody can be Prince Charming one day a year, with the dinner and the flowers and all that, but you know what impresses me? When a guy can do that no days a year.” Love how unconvincing his face is when he says it! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:02 PM
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It took me years literally to see my ex-friend for what she was. I was so convinced she was a good person because of the initial love bombing phase. I thought it had all been my fault and it plagued me for years because I couldn’t even imagine that she had any malicious intentions. But as I matured and looked back it became clear that it was actually her. She’s the one who threw our relationship away over her petty ego. In our case she couldn’t stand me growing out of the ugly duckling phase and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:20 PM
2

Right on, she will probably be a better person to her other friends if you leave her life. I know the narc friend I had would never discard our mutual friends now (not really my friends anymore but we grew up together), because now they’re all she has. She’s not really capable of making true friends, although she has a lot of acquaintances. And after I left her for good, never to be fully hoovered back, I can tell she will never consider doing that to another good friend (she can’t really afford…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:58 AM
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I feel you, I really do because I’m also very sensitive and empathetic. And you’re totally right, narcissists glom onto people like us. Not only do we teach them when to have the appropriate empathetic response (so they look good to others), but we tend to be very forgiving and in my case not that assertive with boundaries. Honestly, I think it’d be a waste of your time messaging her anything about how she hurt you. They feed off our emotions and your message would be like a five-course meal! Pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:05 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:45 PM
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I agree, but what do you say if they point blank ask? I feel like any way of dodging it would come across like I’m trying to hide the number because it’s so big. Sorry if this is annoying, newbie here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:57 AM
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Not OP, but it’s a tactic to utilize when someone in your life is a narcissist. You become as interesting as a grey rock to them. Don’t share stories of your life, or anything that you like or enjoy. These will only be used against you by a narcissist. If you can go grey rock long enough, you’re basically cutting off their “narcissistic supply” that they live off, which is essentially attention and one-upmanship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:06 AM
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I am so glad to hear that! You are in a great position, much better than I was. This really resonates, “it’s not so much me that she relies on, but the idea that I’m ‘less than’ her in a lot of ways.” The narcissists hate when this starts to change and you level up. You’re obviously miles ahead of her. I can’t believe you still have sympathy for her! You’re a much better person than me! I no longer have any sympathy for narcissists or their sycophants. Anyway, I’m glad you have a good support ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:56 AM
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Mine was exactly the same! It didn’t matter that she had a long term boyfriend, she still had to have the attention of every guy around, and they had to think she was cool/attractive or they weren’t even friend worthy. I hope you’ve found some new good friends. It took me sooo long to recover from that. It’s the ultimate form of gaslighting imo because even other friends and acquaintances are convinced by her false version of events.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:16 PM
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I had the same “friend.” I actually thought we were ride or die sisters! When she was busy with school she actually expected me to stay home doing nothing. As soon as I got a bf she was suddenly no longer busy and started hanging out with our mutual friends and not inviting me and turning them against me. I also noticed that whenever we made a mutual guy friend, as soon as she had established a private texting relationship or hung out with them alone, the next time I saw the guy he would be kind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:06 PM
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