I recently discovered FDS literally at the right time and I'm so so so freaking thankful.

But I always see both sides of an argument before choosing one to follow. So when I heard about all that backlash against FDS, I went off to youtube to see what everyone is saying against FDS.

And oh my gosh?? People have it ALL wrong. We are not a man-hating group but that's the way we're described. There's literally a part in the handbook titled "It's not man v.s. woman but high v.s. low." Another video straight up said "These women describe an LVM as any guy who is average or even above average looking." In reality, it's not how attractive a man that determines whether he's an LVM, but rather his actions. The ignorance everywhere else is ridiculous. These idiots scroll through our reddit page for two seconds and get up to make a video with anger clouding any rational part of their brain. They don't even read the handbook.

And then there's all the LVM telling each other to never get married because she'll "leave with half." Asshat, you're broke. What "half" are you talking about?!?! And then there's all that with women's unpaid labor, ugh.

What I find so upsetting is that there is SO SO SO much hate against FDS but there isn't anywhere near as much hate for MGTOW. I curiously went on MGTOW a few minutes ago and there was literally a thread where men were convincing each other that paying for sex escorts was not problematic in any way.

Of course we need a freaking dating strategy. Men don't have to worry about their safety in dating. Us women do. It's even proven scientifically that men are more benefitted in marriages than women so it becomes so much more important for us to be with someone we truly feel respected by.