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| 3 | Ignore the hate from other womenMoral of the story: don’t hang out with people who have low self esteem and negative energy. I just dropped a friend last year who was once of my best friends. She’s so fun to talk to and hang out with. But she was just so sloppy and emotionally needy. She was so insecure that she would hate on other girls for being prettier than her, or yell at a mutual friend because she had her picture taken unknowingly in public. Even when I wanted to celebrate my wins, I had to consciously consider whether … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/21 04:57 AM |
| 1 | I find the casual cohabitation culture to be repulsive I don’t know whyThat’s fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 08:02 PM |
| 45 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄Fuck these disgusting men who prey on vulnerable women from other countries. It’s fucking disgusting. I know one too many guys who are into importing a bride. It’s so sick and disgusting. Men literally just need a warm hole and a maid. They literally don’t care about anything else, except maybe a vessel for their legacy. I’m so disgusted. He is SO fucking nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:17 PM |
| 132 | I can't believe that OP/everyone in the comments believe this is accidental. He's definitely using alcohol as an excuse to indulge his anal fetish.That is rape. Wtf. It wasn’t consensual. That guy is fucking disgusting and deserves to be reported to authorities. What a sick person and this poor girl has to deal with the aftermath of his perversion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:12 PM |
| 133 | I think I hit the goldmine here. “Imagine how a man feels thinking that you are scared he will rape you.”Fucking moronic smoothbrain scrote L0giK: 1. Women are sexually assaulted, raped and murdered everyday. Some of these stories make the news. Some women know this happens to their friends. 2. Women are in high alert because of these stories and experiences. 3. Women develop a keen sense of environmental awareness due to the fact men sexually assault, rape, and murder women. 4. Men feelings hurt. Men need woman be more nice to men. So you’re telling me that rape is basically a woman’s fault????? E… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 95 | Yesterday I had brunch with 2 men I know..one decided to invite a girl he matched with that morning. She showed up with a couple hours notice to a first date group brunch, paid for her portion then wanted to continue to hang out!When I was young and naive I did these things too. It’s sad we shouldn’t look down on them. Some pickmeishas need saving. I remember waiting for an Uber outside by myself after my date left to go do something else. It’s a shitty feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Money Doesn’t Cure Depravity: CEO Charged With Child ProstitutionBc apparently it’s discriminatory against homosexuals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:40 AM |
| 70 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.Best sex is relationship sex with someone who has the same libido as you and is willing to learn you and please you. Having loyal, committed sex (not fearing STDs or infidelity or death) is pretty fucking great if you ask me. That’s all the safe, consensual sex I need. I’ll be a slut and have fun with a guy I trust who is committed to me and respects me, not some anxiety-inducing LV scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:07 AM |
| 7 | “You got to have standards”But be super weary. My ex went from being a corporate executive to running a startup. Along the way he got too comfortable and lazy. He’s just not passionate about his job anymore. And my own passion started to dwindle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:54 PM |
| 51 | Nothing like bragging about your proposal with a $76 ring while playing video games to the freaking New York Times.Ladies. I think y’all need to hear some truth. Cuz it took me to come to this realization. Do not accept these lame ass proposals, cheap dates, etc. hoping men pick you because you see their potential. Why? Because when these men even reach their potential (if ever), they will not stay with you. MEN DO NOT VALUE LOYALTY! They will trade you for someone “better” in a heartbeat. Don’t be the starter girlfriend/wife. Kids do not even guarantee his loyalty. Look at Jeff Bezos. I mean, seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:35 PM |
| 38 | So many things wrong with this 🤦♀️God I hate childish men like this. They’re usually the ones who gaslight you and try to get you to drink their piss. Yes. I had an ex who said he and his friend went to parties and tried to get bitches to drink their piss. It’s fucking disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:31 PM |
| 39 | Would you tell a pickmeisha her bf is cheating/trying to cheat on her?The thing that sucks about telling pickmeishas is that they start hating you and viewing you as a threat. In my hometown, there’s a famous photographer who has a girlfriend. They’re a really sweet looking hipster couple who have been together for a long time. But once when I was in college on Tinder (different city), I saw him. I swiped right just to see wtf he’s doing on a dating app despite dating his girlfriend for at least three years at this point and he gave such a casual response like he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:24 PM |
| 115 | What would you do if a NVM took you to a grocery store and gave you $50 on your first date? I’d take the money and go straight home.Fertile ground to plant your seed That is fucking sickening 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:19 PM |
| 51 | My boyfriend went on sex vacation and am i being unreasonableThat’s fucking nasty. I don’t want to be with a guy who’s been with a prostitute. Somethings wrong in your brain if you have to pay for sex, and I want nothing to do with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:46 PM |
| 41 | Sis, just leave during the dateLol. CEO. Of a company he prob created. The ego. As an Asian woman, this is why I don’t date Asian men. They either automatically judge me for dating white guys (guys who actually ask me out in a socially acceptable way) or they think of me as sub-white woman, which I don’t tolerate. Their egos bust at the seams because Asian mommy taught to be submissive to all men. Which means these guys can’t do basic house chores either. Most Asian guys I know either game and have severe inferiority complexe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 8 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Just comment on his penis and he’ll get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:53 PM |
| 24 | Meredith Blake was a true queenLeave it to Disney to villanize a hardworking successful business woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:53 AM |
| 18 | I just-I’m surprised they didn’t blame his mom for not teaching him how to use the oven. Isn’t meat grilling a manly man’s job anyway? Should be innate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:46 AM |
| 8 | Rant: does anyone else feel like it is a cruel trick that there is such a disparity between men and women?I thought this too but just ask them. They don’t wash their asses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:44 AM |
| 93 | If only men would be more “natural”Men are so uninteresting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:45 AM |
| 67 | Another trash Tinder profile“Have a career” = Hobosexual Gold Digger “””Exotic””” emojis = He’s starting a stamp collection of women around the world. 5’9” = he is actually 5’7” Bad Grammar 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:42 AM |
| 13 | Just saw this on PPD and it honestly scares me that probably most men think this way. This whole thread is grossI believe this is what they mean by blame shifting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 28 | I HAVE NO WORDS.I hope this becomes normal among men so my disgust outweighs my sexual inclination. Would never think about sex with a man ever again 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:22 PM |
| 21 | Why all the rape jokes??Just make them think about being anally raped and they’ll shut right up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:20 PM |
| 9 | are men ok lolIs there a way to check someone’s internet history? I want to avoid dating any man who makes memes like this or posts this shit. By avoid dating I mean avoid every possible form of contact imaginable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:18 PM |
| 7 | please take the time to watch this 1 minute video on reactive abuse.I’m so sorry that happened to you. That is so awful. My ex would share it with his friends and threaten to share with law enforcement. These men are really really sick and prey on vulnerability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.No bc I was a pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:01 PM |
| 3 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.I’m DYING LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 12:52 PM |
| 3 | The Chris Watts case: how our vetting can save livesTimeline is because August is before school starts. Easier to murder your kids if no one is taking attendance. It’s sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:16 AM |
| 118 | please take the time to watch this 1 minute video on reactive abuse.My ex did this to me and then would record me. He gaslighted me so much...honestly that was just so bad and makes me sad to think about how stupid I was for putting myself in that situation (being with him). Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:58 AM |
| 30 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.That’s so sick. I feel bad for his next victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:42 AM |
| 10 | Can't walk my dog in peace.Me today taking out my dog in my mother fuckin yard and a scrote passes buy on a bicycle and whistles. Ok it’s dark out you can’t even see me but thanks you idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:32 AM |
| 41 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.Guys fart all the time and act like it’s nothing omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:29 AM |
| 4 | Oh really? Then why 90% of profiles on OLD looks horrible.How many fish do you really expect to catch with a pic of a 4” penis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:24 AM |
| 42 | At least you got picked 💁♀️Came here to say this. We are all sisters on the same wavelength 👏🏼😂👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:23 AM |
| 76 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.Literally have seen shit stuck in butt hair mid blow job. These scrotes are MOTHER FUCKING NASTY omfg here comes FDS again bringing up repressed memories | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:22 AM |
| 21 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.I didn’t know guys didn’t clean their buttholes until this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:21 AM |
| 19 | If I had a penis, I would run. At midnight in the pitch black. With headphones in both ears instead of just one. I would feel free as a birdThis is the type of response I got when I worked in a bad part of town. My male coworkers would be like who cares nothing will happen to you. We worked next to a lot of mentally ill homeless people and sketchy people. My female coworker got punched in the face by a crazy person and another one tried to put out a cigarette ON MY FACE. I would be walking into work and men would verbally harass me and set fires in the park across the street from my office. The two men who said it was no big deal we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 65 | How to spot someone whos been redpilled or someone similarYeah these guys have a hard time hiding their weird. The best part is that they have no idea how weird they come off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:32 PM |
| 71 | Someone in the WOW community is keeping a detailed list of which women are single or notIncels are disgusting. I wish they would all just...go somewhere far far away from the rest of civilization. They’re subhuman. If I ever came across one IRL I would vomit. I don’t have sympathy for pathetic ugly losers with personality disorders. This is seriously disgusting and they wonder why they never get laid. Introspection and self improvement is foreign to these low lives. YUCK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 38 | The comment section is full of people hating on “Princess week” and how he’s just super spoiling her etc. I can’t believe how some people just can’t deal with a man being nice to his wife...I noticed this too I don’t get what everyone else is seeing. He doesn’t seem very affectionate and it was basically her day with him tagging along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:29 PM |
| 30 | The comment section is full of people hating on “Princess week” and how he’s just super spoiling her etc. I can’t believe how some people just can’t deal with a man being nice to his wife...She cuddles him. Have you noticed that she always approaches him??? He seems so unenthusiastic....this guy should be happy he was able to get her 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 18 | Wtf why are men literally obsessed with anal sexIf there ever was an ultimate jackass loser, he da one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:20 PM |
| 57 | Washed up LVM/ZVM logic as to why they prefer to marry women in their 20’s when they are pushing 40. It is truly mind boggling. As a woman in my early 20’s who has been approached by these type of old men, I find this vomit inducing. 🤮If ur a dude and you hit 35 years old and you have barely any relationships to show for, red flag no one wants your saggy balls bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:13 AM |
| 83 | Taking too long to call/see youProfessional athletes are usually extremely disciplined and don’t have time for a lot of this stuff tbh. I wouldn’t get with one unless you know you come second (if you’re lucky) to his sport. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:10 AM |
| 16 | This story is really the most amazing woman to woman support I have read in awhileWow that guy is a piece of shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:00 AM |
| 718 | Saw this gold from a FB groupGuys all be about anal sex until it’s their anus 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:39 AM |
| 193 | Wtf why are men literally obsessed with anal sexMy favorite was when my LVM ex bf was like “ew I would never want to do anal sex that’s bad” Fast forward 2 weeks when we were talking about sex and what he’s into: “I’ve never tried anal sex CaN wE tRy iT?” 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:38 AM |
| 5 | Thank god I found this sub right before the end of my last relationship.Yeah I haven’t been engaging the last two weeks. Thanks for looking out, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 13 | Thank god I found this sub right before the end of my last relationship.Ew that guy seems low trash. His lifestyle and his personality. Yuck. My friend is pretty cool. We’ve been friends for three years now and we’re pretty close. He’s a great friend but we fundamentally don’t agree on dating and long term goals / values. He’s very much anti commitment until he finds the right girl. He’s told me a bunch of stuff about this girl he likes and stuff. But he’s banging other girls on the side and just loves getting around. Doesn’t see why it’s so bad. He’s pretty attract… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?Oh my GOD that is despicable. I hope he’s no longer her bf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:19 AM |
| 22 | Just going to leave this here...LMFAO YES 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:06 AM |
| 16 | Thank god I found this sub right before the end of my last relationship.Omg yes same situation. What were the signs for you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 12:59 AM |
| -2 | American murder, family next doorIf you actually read the court papers, they were in debt. The documentary avoids talking about their financial situation. Just look it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:51 AM |
| 191 | The most empowering takeaway from FDS is "you don't have to put up with this"As I get older, I realize how my voice and many other women’s voices have been stomped out of us by society. I was always fixated on being pleasant and easygoing because everyone told me no one wants to be around someone who was bossy, assertive and picky. It lead to a lot of boundary crossing in relationships and made it really hard for me to advocate for myself, personally and professionally. I’m a little more vocal than I was before, but I’m not quite there yet. And it’s been a difficult jour… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:45 AM |
| 201 | The red flags here... so painful to read after FDS!! 🚩That was heart wrenching. It’s kinda crazy how she still sticks to the facts and doesn’t completely demonize him like calling him a lazy fat lard (basically what men would do to a woman). She seems like a class act. I hope she finds happiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:45 AM |
| 7 | Recently got banned from r/unpopularopinion because “misandry is just as bad as misogyny”💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:28 AM |
| 10 | Recently got banned from r/unpopularopinion because “misandry is just as bad as misogyny”This. My ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:28 AM |
| 44 | Just watched American Murder: The Family Next DoorDead eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 40 | Padma Lakshmi recalls abstaining from sex due to painful endometriosis. Her bridge troll husband Salman Rushdie, who is 25 years her senior, became enraged at her and called her a “bad investment”She knew what she was doing: * "At 3 a.m., I woke with a start. I'm naked in a married man's bed," she thought before sneaking out of the hotel room. You choose LVM, you get this type of life ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:14 AM |
| 62 | Padma Lakshmi recalls abstaining from sex due to painful endometriosis. Her bridge troll husband Salman Rushdie, who is 25 years her senior, became enraged at her and called her a “bad investment”Did anyone read the article? This woman is a walking disaster. She slept with the ugly scrote when he was MARRIED. She’s a pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:24 AM |
| 7 | “To be honest, I just want to f*ck this girl to prove to myself I can, and move on with my life. I’m determined to make this happen” - Ugly scrote wants help manipulating a “9/10” woman 🙄“But I’m not gay” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:05 PM |
| 6 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!True sorry I wasn’t PC enough to include rape 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:05 PM |
| 47 | “To be honest, I just want to f*ck this girl to prove to myself I can, and move on with my life. I’m determined to make this happen” - Ugly scrote wants help manipulating a “9/10” woman 🙄She has a very chill personality 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:29 AM |
| 31 | “To be honest, I just want to f*ck this girl to prove to myself I can, and move on with my life. I’m determined to make this happen” - Ugly scrote wants help manipulating a “9/10” woman 🙄If you’re an attractive girl and you say hi to a guy, they automatically think they have a shot. It’s so disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:28 AM |
| 17 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!Nah even if they find a pickmeisha, they still try to squirm into any wet hole they can find | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:23 AM |
| -3 | American murder, family next door“She had her finances together and a home at 25” Nope they were broke and going thru significant money problems | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:17 AM |
| 37 | I mean...isn’t it obvious?! Grandpa is gna show up.If she didn’t ask questions, she would be the one to disappear. Always ask questions ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 6 | scrote finds out his fiancée had one night stands in college and cancels marriage because he had to wait three months to bone her 🤡I bet he’s fucked a bunch of people and done one night stands. Anyone notice how there was no self reflection in this post? Means he’s guilty of the same behavior she’s judging her for lmfao idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!I don’t date short guys cuz they’re short. I don’t date short guys because they’re FUCKING CRAZY I’m 5 ft FYI and will only go for 5 9 - 6 ft baby. I don’t give a fuck about my standards for physical appearance because men have theirs 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 39 | Oops....You don’t love getting scripture on heart jewelry sterling silver from kohl’s? Ungrateful bitch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 15 | "Why didn't you hit me up?"What a loser. If a guy can’t understand that you went on a trip with your friend and didn’t hit him up then he’s a loser and only thinks about his dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:54 PM |
| 15 | Canceling the date for this. He can’t bring me a chair? I just threw mine out as it was rusting but I’m not buying one this morning. We have five mutual friends so I have to let him down nicely. How?Amen sister. I can’t believe he didn’t even bring a blanket? Or plan a picnic? This guy has no game. Who sits in lawn chairs for a date? Are you two middle aged men watching sports in a garage with Bud Light in each cup holder? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 19 | Canceling the date for this. He can’t bring me a chair? I just threw mine out as it was rusting but I’m not buying one this morning. We have five mutual friends so I have to let him down nicely. How?Guys are honestly so fucking faux clueless (cuz I know they actually aren’t) and I’m tired of dealing with this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:43 PM |
| 23 | But god forbid you don’t take care of a LVM when he has his “man cold”So many men. My abusive ex told me up front he was a big baby when he’s sick. So you’re expecting me to cater to this? Like why are you telling me this 2 weeks into our relationship when you’re not even sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:21 AM |
| 50 | But god forbid you don’t take care of a LVM when he has his “man cold”LADIES DO I HAVE A DOOZY FOR YOU! Please do not read ahead if you have high blood pressure or anger issues cuz you’ll want to blow up / throw your phone. My emotionally and mentally abusive ex was such a fucking asshole. We lived together. I got food poisoning once and he went to work. I stayed home to fend for myself which was fine whatever. After work he said he was coming home with food for me. He said he would be there soon...I waited two hours and nothing. So guess motherfuckin’ what. I dro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:14 AM |
| 29 | Is this seriously the standard for “better than most”?I’ve dealt with so many guys like this. My last ex was great, no sexting or anything but he just wasn’t a super sexual person to begin with. And it made me always wonder if there was something going on that I didn’t know about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:38 PM |
| 24 | Just got asked what has changed about me by someone I have not seen in a few monthsI love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 7 | The absolute delusions scrotes will haveThe scrote beard is so spot on. Now that we’re in quarantine, I see a lot of men with beards like this and it’s so nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:58 PM |
| 99 | Don’t post screenshots of texts to men UNLESS...I cringe at some of the responses to men. I have friends who send guys literally paragraphs of how they mistreated them. I did once too as a pickmeisha. It’s just a waste of time. They don’t care and you should move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.Yeah like you have no self restraint? Wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:07 AM |
| 22 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.People are fucking nasty. God I wish the cops would just crawl on that Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:52 PM |
| 13 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.That’s so fucking disgusting. I have a female rescue dog who came intact and I literally want to barf thinking about what would have happened if she got into the wrong hands. I have an aunt who works in a job where she extremely wealthy clients who think they can get away with anything basically. She’s told me that they’ve sent her pictures of them fucking goats and shit. It’s literally fucking insane what people (AKA MEN!) will do to get off. It’s so sickening. If they’re willing to do that to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:50 PM |
| 28 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.WHY IS THERE A SEX OFFENDER SUB? WHY HAS REDDIT NOT BANNED THIS? WTF? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | The biggest danger to a woman's life is a manOmg that is insane. Some people are literally nuts. They like to do that bc they think they’re entitled to you or they want to just bother you for enjoyment. It’s sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢Weirdo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:49 AM |
| 19 | Learning how to control your emotional response and attachment to men is POWER.Omg I wish I knew about this when my ex was emotionally and mentally abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Pickmes in nycI’m sorry to hear as well. She caught many diseases within just a few months. Those Scrotes are not only aggressive but diseased. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:56 AM |
| 14 | NYC woman finds love on OkCupid - confirms what we already know about OnlineDating (OLD). OLD is one of the most effective tools you have in your "2020 dating toolbox". It WORKS, ladies. Be selective, be RUTHLESS, be persistent, and TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN, WHO ARE A PENNY A DOZEN ON OLD APPS.I think that’s my point. I’m saying that you should value your alone time so much that this person needs to be worth giving up that alone time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:55 AM |
| 39 | He should always be chasing you, even if you're in a relationship.This. I just got out of a relationship. Part of it was because he wasn’t chasing me anymore. Why would I want to stay in a relationship when I feel undesired and undesirable despite communicating it multiple times over the course of years? All I could see was an abyss of no dates and low effort, even if he was great around the house, with my dog and with my family. But at the expense of what? My soul? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:50 AM |
| 12 | Learning how to control your emotional response and attachment to men is POWER.Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 33 | Learning how to control your emotional response and attachment to men is POWER.This took me almost three decades to learn. Literally just thought of it right now. Sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 11 | Pickmes in nycMy “friend” moved to NYC and fucked everyone and everything. Pickmeisha, low self esteem and loneliness combined is one hell of a disease. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Love this woman so much, Alexyss Tylor talks about the plight of the pickmeSummary? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:37 PM |
| 82 | Learning how to control your emotional response and attachment to men is POWER.My parents preached this but without feeling emotionally supported and having your confidence torn down all the time, it was basically in one ear and out the other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Why even swipe on me when he can obviously see what I look like!O h m y g o d LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 4 | The biggest danger to a woman's life is a manI agree. And it doesn’t even have to be a significant other. It’s almost based on luck whoever you run into that is a psycho. There was this guy in high school that I became good friends with. I had a boyfriend at the time when he developed a perverse crush on me. He would go from being nice to me and friendly to telling me I was a slut for making out with my boyfriend at lunch (it was high school ok). I knew of his background; his dad was a psychopath who threatened to kill his mom and family. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 57 | NYC woman finds love on OkCupid - confirms what we already know about OnlineDating (OLD). OLD is one of the most effective tools you have in your "2020 dating toolbox". It WORKS, ladies. Be selective, be RUTHLESS, be persistent, and TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN, WHO ARE A PENNY A DOZEN ON OLD APPS.No. 1 is so important. “Are you happier alone than with them?” should always be the first question you ask yourself. Always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Except none of ‘em are ever this fit.My mom would die if I brought this turd home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:39 AM |
| 6 | “wish ALL girls would do this tbh”Just got out of a relationship (1 weeks so it’s fresh). Can confirm that if you make the first move, expect low effort for the entire relationship in terms of keeping the romance alive. 3.5 years, always voiced I wanted a little more thoughtfulness but I can’t even remember the last time he planned a date, suggested a place he thought I would like, etc. Talk about being entirely unfulfilled. I’m done making the first move. Literally would rather be an old maid than go thru a 3.5 year relationshi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:26 AM |
| 8 | Indian scrote asks advice to stalk and harrasss an accomplished surgeon, for a 'coffee date'. Doesn't believe in rejection or consent.This is not normal behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:19 AM |
| 38 | Don’t Let Men Dictate Your Life DecisionsHonestly if I had kids, I wouldn’t mind being single mom if I got into a good spot in my career. I honestly just don’t want to deal with a shitty husband and I am privileged in the sense that I have parents who would be happy to watch my kids for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:16 AM |
| 23 | Men who don't pay on dates are insecure, not just cheapOk I’m coming clean: I have been the one on dates and in relationships to pay for 1/2 or whatever I order. I constantly treated my (ex)boyfriend to things. And where did it get me? He’s a HVM in terms of how he’s so great around the house and our dog, but he would just never take charge. Never initiate date night. Never pick a restaurant for us to eat at. And it just exhausted me so much having to take charge at work and then come home and also take charge there. There was literally just no pass… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:09 AM |
| 20 | And that’s on LVMs being LVMWhen Harry Met Sally anyone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 48 | How to date men less smart than youThe thing that sucks is that extremely book smart men are emotionally dumb. The hard part is finding an EMOTIONALLY intelligent man. For a book smart man, you can at least know you can find them at universities or certain companies. But emotionally intelligent men are the true unicorns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:00 PM |
| 43 | Reality checkI just want them to IMPLEMENT. Like WHY can’t you treat women like decent human beings???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 103 | Reality checkI wonder if scrotes even read this. It’s like they don’t want to be helped at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend doesn’t DO anything with me, can’t tell if low effort or no common interests.My ex is like this. We both have feelings for each other still but I just know it’s not going to work out. I just asked if he wanted to come over tonight and he said he rather stay behind to watch the presidential debate. Lol. Like I don’t have access to it at my place but I’m tired of doing the thinking for him. Hint taken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Apparently FDS is delusional and a cope. This OP thinks he is the prize 🤔I actually see a lot of young people on here. I’m also pretty sure a majority of us are fairly experienced and attractive....most of us have gone thru lots of dating, hookup culture, etc to know how bad it’s been. The funny thing is the FDS is a collective group of women who are tired about being actively mistreated by men. The male equivalent of this stuff is about how they are entitled to women and sex. The one thing I wish was that the sub was less shitting on LVM and more about leveling up a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 34 | “LOVE HAS NO AGE” IS AN IDEA PERPETUATED BY PATRIARCHYGuys take such terrible care of themselves I would never go too old. Those guys who preyed on you for your youth are pedophiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:30 AM |
| 25 | 😂Best one I’ve seen of this meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:27 AM |
| 67 | When men use derogatory/offensive humor and then are upset that I think their humor is shit.People who hate gays are a RED FLAG. They are insecure with masculinity and uncomfortable with femininity and they most likely do not understand gender fluidity. I mean aside from being a narrow minded unempathetic asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:25 AM |
| 157 | When men use derogatory/offensive humor and then are upset that I think their humor is shit.Gay is still used as an insult? What is this? 2004? I thought we were past this shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:17 AM |
| 23 | He wanted a traditional woman, but still wanted to treat like a traditional man. That's a no for me dawg.Men out there being like “I want a wife who can cook and clean my marriage is so unfulfilling” when they can literally go and do these things themselves Like. What. While women over here being like “I want companionship and equal partnership from my spouse.” You can’t do that alone. I think it’s a perfectly reasonable request? But which one does society think sounds more unreasonable and entitled? 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:20 PM |
| 168 | I don’t want a guy who isn’t overjoyed about being with me as well.FUCK YA Principle for Dating: If you aren’t FUCK YA! about them and they aren’t FUCK YA! about you, then go no. Both parties must be FUCK YA! about each other in order for a successful relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 38 | Cardi B Says She Left Offset Because She Didn't Want to “Wait Until He Cheated on Me Again”Can we all spam her DMs? She needs FDS in her life. Offset is TRASH! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 8 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???They 👏🏼 don’t 👏🏼 even 👏🏼 shower 👏🏼 I’m not sucking that shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:01 AM |
| 87 | May Every Woman Find Her Marty Ginsburg (Vogue)A modern day feminist fairytale. If you have a moment, listen to the speech RBG gave on behalf of Marty which is called “How the Tenth Circuit Got My Wife Her Good Job". Link: https://www.c-span.org/video/?c4769697/user-clip-how-tenth-circuit-wife-good-job I cannot believe: * They met in undergrad and jointly decided to go to law school together. Marty wanted to go to medical school but he didn’t think medical school would play to his wife’s strengths. * She lost her mother at 17 years old. Her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:47 AM |
| 11 | FDS helped me change my competitive views on other women, thank you all so much!I see it as an opportunity to learn good habits. I will identify something I like about a girl and ask her about it. Jealousy inhibits growth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, if you’re lucky enough for this guy to ask you to get a drink, you’d better bring a stopwatch! You’ve got one hour!Who would agree to meet up with this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 21 | Why do men think I want to be their friend? When I refuse dates, they say they just want to hangout "as friends"... Um my friends are comical geniuses, who are empathetic and have so much wisdom to share. These men are dull, sheltered and boring.LOL😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 176 | Why do men think I want to be their friend? When I refuse dates, they say they just want to hangout "as friends"... Um my friends are comical geniuses, who are empathetic and have so much wisdom to share. These men are dull, sheltered and boring.I believe this is a common sales tactic called “foot in the door” but somehow working in reverse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:22 PM |
| 8 | Saddens me more than I can sayThey’re def rust belt state women. White women on that sub can do no wrong, but one slip up from a POC is game over. Ignorance and racism is strong over yonder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 54 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???Does she even know what gamer guys look like? Hunny you don’t want that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:03 PM |
| 10 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?Y E S this is my experience as well. They literally have no empathy and don’t realize that people have a lot of experiences that make them they way they are. Anyone who isn’t like them is beneath them. It’s really weird. They all have this complex that any other job in business is a piece of shit joke if you’re not in finance doing investment banking or private equity and they literally send emails shitting on accounting, tax, audit etc. All while being a males-only club. Toxic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 34 | Saddens me more than I can sayIt’s disgusting and nothing will ever rationalize that behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:54 PM |
| 52 | Saddens me more than I can sayI see that 100%. Non-progressive White women consistently marginalize minority experiences and calling them out on that behavior only leads them to literally outright mocking you. It’s pretty frustrating. I feel like it comes out on Reddit pretty often too because they get to hide behind a username. Have you been on The Bachelor subreddit? It’s primarily white women who have literally been so racially biased that minority women had to create a Bachelor POC subreddit. White feminism is strong. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 95 | Saddens me more than I can sayI don’t know how you can be a woman and be against women. That’s what I get from the nominee. You have to be extremely self loathing or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:27 PM |
| 9 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?You have to be a sociopath to be in finance basically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 6 | EVERY guy I talk to on tinder will not stop talking about himselfNo one should be doubting your sexuality. I’m sorry ☹️ Unicorn hunters are 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:41 AM |
| 15 | EVERY guy I talk to on tinder will not stop talking about himselfI hate that men continually exploit women and some women enable this behavior too. It’s so shady they hide their BF from you 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:40 AM |
| 2 | EVERY guy I talk to on tinder will not stop talking about himselfI had no idea. Thanks for sharing your experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:39 AM |
| 43 | Nah, sis. This is just sad.This is a joke guys. I think she’s one of us hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:30 AM |
| 63 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?I can’t believe no one has said finance yet? Those guys are fucking assholes. I dated an investment banker who literally had a girlfriend. How did I know? His apartment still had her stuff so I questioned him about it. He said they broke up. I found out we had a mutual friend so I asked my mutual friend about him. The friend confirmed his GF and that he is KNOWN IN HIS CIRCLE FOR CHEATING ON HER. So much respect for that mutual friend for telling me the truth. The investment banker told me his c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:24 AM |
| 29 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?They have the social skills to even date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:21 AM |
| 35 | What are some professions that have the most LVM/NVM?Agreed. My toxic ex who literally got a thrill from tricking girls into drinking his piss at parties was in the Air Force. The military is a frat party that never ends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:20 AM |
| 10 | How do you communicate with men who are intent on having an authority over you (when they can't)?None of those behaviors are worth sticking around for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:19 AM |
| 6 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkThe second one basically says that the study is inconclusive among non offenders. I’m reading the first one and I want to throw up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkCan you share some of these studies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:38 AM |
| 8 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkYeah I’m not sure and treatment effectiveness probably varies by individual. I think it’s fucking disgusting and god forbid I ever come across one. I don’t even know if you could successfully rehab someone with that perversion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:08 AM |
| 91 | EVERY guy I talk to on tinder will not stop talking about himselfI know this isn’t PC but WHY WOULD YOU EVEN BOTHER GOING FOR MEN WHEN YOURE ALSO ATTRACTED TO WOMEN? I wish I was attracted to women 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 These scrotes are such low quality it hurts my soul to even want dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:31 PM |
| 37 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkThis is super unpopular opinion: if he knows that he has this sickness, I’m glad he’s seeking consensual relationships for this instead of preying on children. There are women who enjoy this dynamic just as a matter of preference and if they match up with this guy then so be it. I hope he’s also seeking therapy for this as well because he really needs to find a way to address his perversion head on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 10 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isThat’s one way to look at it. I’m happy he’s now your ex!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 8 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isNo but I’ll check it out! Thanks for the rec :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 15 | I’ve blocked incoming messages — and why you should too.Do they even realize how easy it is to get laid as a woman? We really don’t want low quality sex lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 4 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isThis is the best compliment I’ve ever gotten 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:13 PM |
| 8 | I’ve blocked incoming messages — and why you should too.This is different from accepting/rejecting their messages. This blocks ALL messages entirely. You don’t see them at all and there is no accept/rejecting process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:56 PM |
| 11 | I’ve blocked incoming messages — and why you should too.No the mods are still able to message you. I think the post I linked answers that and other common questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:47 PM |
| 47 | Tf you think, bruh??Real winner right here. Freak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 21 | Common lies on OLDShort guys have really bad inferiority complexes. I avoid them even as a short girl. Not worth it they’re like 90% likely to be fucking crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 22 | Common lies on OLDDo they really think we aren’t going to find out? Like??? I’m 5 ft tall and even I know the difference between 5 11 and 6 ft | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 19 | Common lies on OLDThis. My ex drank a pack of beers a night watching TV and playing video games. He is a toxic scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 35 | Common lies on OLDMen all the time are passing judgement and excluding people from their dating pool. The moment they find out the world works in the same way against them, they’re up in arms and will lie in order to get what they want. Men are honestly inherently bad until proven otherwise. They have such fragile egos. I think that’s why so many of them are so defensive 🥺🥺🥺 and it’s SO FUCKING UNATTRACTIVE LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:34 PM |
| 30 | How Burnout Became the Norm for American Parents, Especially Millennial Mothers.This def will be the new wave of feminism. Knowing we can survive without men and finding self worth outside a sexual capacity. Either be high value or we don’t want to be with you or anyone for that matter. The only way this will work is if women ban together and provide the emotional and social support for each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 162 | The fact this sub gets so much hate from people on the manosphere proves us rightScrotes doing what they do best — blaming others for their shortcomings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 37 | I’ve blocked incoming messages — and why you should too.And if you block them, they just make a new account and keep harassing you. Don’t let them do this to you. We already put up with enough bad behavior from men in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 18 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isIt sounds crazy but it really works. A lot of times, things are just stuck in our minds, festering and taking up energy. This is such a great coping mechanism that I share it with all my close friends in real life as well (male and female). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:22 PM |
| 32 | She didn't even bother reading from fds cause apparently its sexist but i said literally the same stuff as fds ,she agreed.Same! I still grapple with some shame for being on this sub but then I realize how many things it made me confront. There are also such great tips on here and I felt a whole mindset shift. I am worth something. You are worth something. All women are worth something. And we shouldn’t be ok with disrespectful and poor behavior from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:21 PM |
| 13 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isIt’s something that some of us have to learn thru experience, unfortunately. I’m so happy you’re learning to protect yourself from these manipulative emotional abusers. Keep learning and keep growing. I’ll be right beside you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 121 | She didn't even bother reading from fds cause apparently its sexist but i said literally the same stuff as fds ,she agreed.What I’ve learned is that people read emotional responses of other people before actually reading the content at hand. And they mirror their emotional responses to align with the herd instead of actually digesting and reading information themselves and coming to a conclusion themselves. It’s conclusion contagion. Happens with the news, happens with this sub, happens with a lot of things going on right now. Break the cycle and inform yourselves. But I’m probably preaching to the choir. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:59 PM |
| 19 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isWriting is really cathartic for me, esp since I’m extremely forgetful. If you don’t prefer writing, make a video or recording to talk about how you feel and archive it so you can easily access it in the future. Another thing I’ve posted about that’s a good objective measure is checking your heart rate monitor. If you’re really stressed out around a guy, it should show on your monitor. I’m the type of person that questions my thoughts and feelings a lot so it’s really important to have these obje… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.I sincerely hope he realizes his disgusting ways and learns from them so other women don’t have to go through the same ordeal I did. I wasn’t even the first one sadly. This is what happens with bad behavior goes unchecked... And yup. He told me he and his friends would trick “bitches” into drinking their piss at parties. That’s literally a crime. I don’t know what sick twisted person would get pleasure doing this stuff, and it definitely speaks volumes about him as a person and his mental state.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:13 PM |
| 8 | Acquaintances reveal on FB that husband cheated on her, got caught, cheated again, got the other woman pregnant, & they're staying together. Here is his post vs. hers.Why are people airing this stupid shit on social media. Are they trying to get a reality tv show or what? No one cares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 9 | I accidentally deleted the rest of it when I was moving it around, but I saw this and it was aimed directly at women. I wanted to comment "title should just say people instead of women", for obvious reasons, but I know it's not worth it. What a loser.LVM lowering his self worth even more by posting this shit. I guarantee you’re not a joy to be around either, buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:03 PM |
| 10 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.That actually reminds me — I had a friend at work in the same position as you. The guy WOULD NOT stop grabbing her neck. She felt uncomfortable with it and didn’t say anything but asked me if that was appropriate and I was like hell no. I’m assuming your freak doesn’t have a name that starts with a F. It’s kind of mind blowing how similar these situations are. Men touching women at work that way is just like wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 25 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.I paid rent twice this month cuz I moved too. I thought I was super extra but I’m glad someone else did it too LOL. I cannot deal with needy clingers who take periods of silence as a personal attack. I mean, I have female friends who get mad at me when I have my read receipts on and I don’t respond bc I’m DRIVING and after I tell them that, they get butt hurt that I yelled at them. Needless to say, I cut people like that out of my life cuz who needs fuckin drama when there are more pressing issu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:51 PM |
| 21 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.It makes me so sad I stayed for six months. And I know many women stay far longer than that. I would never, ever want my future daughter (if I have children) to go through something like that. You hit the nail on the head. The remainder of our relationship was him gaslighting me and videotaping me crying after trying to provoke me. For years I felt like I was crazy and in the wrong, even after he admitted to doing this to his other girlfriends for fun. Even after he admitted to tricking girls in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:43 PM |
| 11 | HVM anticipate your needs!I didn’t even know it was possible. My dad is great in his own weird way but he would never be caught dead doing this stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 34 | HVM anticipate your needs!This sub would literally be a cesspool of unhealthy shit if men could comment. It’s a female-only environment for a reason. Men just don’t want women to ban together and collectively learn and boycott their bad behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:37 PM |
| 51 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.Such awful unhealthy behavior. He is a predator and abuser in the making. Great that he has a five year old daughter...who baits their children like that? Oh god I’m sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 63 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isYou’re SO right. We want it to be the one so bad and we have been conditioned to fit a mold to make it work or to do Thing 1, Thing 2 and Thing 3 to make it work. Yes, you can do your part but you can’t force him to behave in a way that is generally accepted in a relationship or what you need from a relationship. 👈🏼👈🏼👈🏼 this took me SO fucking long to figure out. You can’t change people and you can’t control as much as you think you can. Sometimes you just need to find the self discipline and wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:13 PM |
| 324 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isI don’t know if anyone has the same issue as me, but I rationalize bad behavior. And often. Even if it’s staring at me RIGHT IN THE FACE at the beginning of a relationship. After my last abusive relationship, I started writing down any moments that made me feel uncomfortable as I felt them so I had an objective thing to refer to when I tried to rationalize that behavior later. Please journal red flags if you’re like me. I’ve been so use to feeling that I was undeserving my entire life (Asian par… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:07 PM |
| 11 | "You get one chance to act right, and that's being generous." Thank you FDSWhite collared job at a large company. During this time, you can just blame home WiFi issues and take the day off. I’ve literally had scrotes tell me they do that just bc they don’t feel like working that day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:04 PM |
| 190 | Anyone else not find this funny? This is just immature.The fact a guy would get annoyed over something like this is a red flag. I had a boyfriend that was mentally, emotionally and verbally abusive. He came back from work one weekend and sat on my bed. I asked him jokingly 3 times to get off my bed, with the last one saying like “Stop being annoying”. He got so unreasonably mad that he left the apartment complex and drove off. I was so confused bc it was the first 1-3 weeks of our relationship and it was our first “fight”. So I texted him saying “Ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:37 PM |
| 8 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.If a girl posted shit like this, she would be harassed. If a man posts this shit, I doubt any woman is really calling him out to his face on the app like “you’re a fucking loser who has a small dick and will never get laid you chinless unfunny fuck”. I can actually see pickmeishas actually entertaining this type of guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:13 PM |
| 44 | Viral videos of women having sexIt’s only acceptable for men to have sex. But not acceptable for them to have sex with each other. Explain this logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:11 PM |
| 106 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husbandMen are so stunted emotionally and in homemaking and sexually that they use relationships to get these things for free. A relationship is nothing more than this to them. It doesn’t even mean he will be committed to you. Just keep that in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:05 PM |
| 9 | "You get one chance to act right, and that's being generous." Thank you FDSYeah I know of people like this at my workplace too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:00 PM |
| 9 | I started swiping on women, just for a change, and I realized how low our standards have gotten for guys.I shit you not, I’ve seen an incel with sharpie on his face to look like a demonic pig and tape to hold up his nose. Pic was a mirror selfie. I’m sorry but you have to have a pretty deranged and immature mind with shit humor to be posting shit like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:19 AM |
| 85 | PROTECT YOUR WOMB LIKE ITS THE LAST THING YOU DOShe was probably being emotional and delirious. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:06 AM |
| 132 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.Riding a face with no chin should be fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:36 AM |
| 21 | If he has a public instagram?Doesn’t matter. Use it to your advantage. Read my post on how to read a man’s Instagram. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 24 | At least the responses are great 😂All these boys wanna put shit into a woman’s butt but don’t want to take it in their own butts. IDGI. You wanna have anal? Let me reciprocate 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 497 | HVM anticipate your needs!Incels want to comment that this guy is a pussy ass bitch so bad but can’t cuz this is our sub 💁🏻♀️💁🏻♀️💁🏻♀️ One of my friends said her father went out and bought period protection and other female necessities for her when she was a teenager. Like a man who buys pads for you and notices when you’re running low on shampoo? Women across the world do this for their husbands but we can’t even do much as expect them to do this for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 36 | The latest low-effort date: “Come out with me and my friends”Chances are, you wouldn’t have been the only girl he’s brought along on this type of outing. Probably goes through a rotation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:21 AM |
| 332 | I started swiping on women, just for a change, and I realized how low our standards have gotten for guys.Men are literally so gross and disappointing. It’s a curse I’m not attracted to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:17 AM |
| 102 | HVM will do ANYTHING to make you succeedHe told me my success is our success. 🥺🥺🥺 As a career woman, my heart just melted. I love this. If one person is going thru a tough time in a relationship, stepping in to clear their mind and help them forge a path forward is a HV trait for both men and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:11 AM |
| 61 | After you defeat all the other pick-Me’s you have to face the final bossIs this a joke? What is wrong with people? Seriously I am very concerned for people who want to regress into oppression. Something is seriously wrong with her brain. Stockholm syndrome? Delusional? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:10 AM |
| 627 | "You get one chance to act right, and that's being generous." Thank you FDSI can’t believe people stand other people up. It’s not hard to say you made other plans. The immaturity of these people astound me. Do they do this at their job too? Just yikes, yikes, yikes. You did good for cutting him out. I can’t imagine a relationship with a flakey person. Straight outta my book of nightmares. Yikes again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:07 AM |
| 22 | Wall? What wall?!Men of similar age look 70 and disgusting. Leonardo DiCaprio is a prime example. Stop glorifying dad bod; no one wants that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*Ok wow ur good at identifying logical fallacies. My pussy is soooo whet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:40 PM |
| 12 | I got this attached to my tips from one of my coworkers. (It normally just has date/my name)Ya lol this guy is 6ft 6in and 300lbs and makes fun of me for not wanting to walk around in a bad part of town (where we work) at 10pm alone. There’s not much I can do to help with his brain but I’m glad the hooker got to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 2 | If you think about it, it's actually kind of funny when men tell women to smile more.“She must be on her period” is 💯 the train of thought when you lash back at them. I was just trying to do something nice why she gotta he such a bitch WOE IS FUCKIN ME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | If you think about it, it's actually kind of funny when men tell women to smile more.I just respond back with “Thanks! Good tip!” still smiling “You should lose 35 lbs! You’d look a lot better. You’re welcome!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else become a pickmeshia even though their parents taught them better?My parents taught me better and to have high values, but not in a way that was really effective with me. They basically told me I should be a certain way because I had to be, but there was no real logic or explanation or dialogue behind it. I was pretty starved for attention and emotional connection in my teens because my parents withheld praise and I could never open up to them without fear and harsh judgment. On top of that, I had no self esteem because my parents would constantly reinforce th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Personal safety in the age of "people search" sitesI just googled my own phone number and I’m listed as a Hispanic man. I am so relieved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:11 PM |
| 21 | Shoe0nhead holds out a cup to collect male approval penniesI can just look at her and tell she has no self worth and that she’s not a girls girl. Sigh. I hope she finds her way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 15 | Male entitlementYes, I owe you a response because you have low self esteem. LOL what a way to bait women into responding to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:00 PM |
| 31 | THE LAST ONE JUST WON IT 😂I busted out laughing at the last one LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Just a mini rant on boundary pushingTelling someone sternly no and acting repulsed and slapping them is honestly 100% acceptable if they cross your personal boundaries. When they cross that line, all bets are off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:57 PM |
| 29 | Always do your researchThat is terrifying. I am SO glad you did your research girl and you did exactly what I detailed in one of my previous posts. This research is really really important to do because it saves you time and could potentially save your life. I’m glad you dug and dug because otherwise you would be his next victim. OLD is literally opening the flood gates for stalkers, weirdos, STDs etc. since you don’t have your friend or family network to vet these people. Stay safe and be weary. Wishing you the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 13 | Just got this message in my Reddit inbox!I don’t even think a pickmeisha would want this scrote lol The fact men are extremely aggressive to us because we want better and more from dating than casual sex already shows how fucked up this world is. And how even other women (pickmeishas) antagonize us for wanting more... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:48 PM |
| 87 | Stay awareHe probably can’t hold a job because he’s too busy doing this stupid shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:18 PM |
| 11 | The news should have reported this as: "Lucky lady gets low value meal, effort and proposal all in one!" CoNgRaTs tO tHe hApPy cOuPLe tHoUgH 🥴I’m confused. Is he proposing to a five year old? This is unlawful for many reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:55 PM |
| 59 | NVM wet dream. This is what we are up against in the dating world.Incels be in a dark basement giggling at this dumb shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 39 | I got this attached to my tips from one of my coworkers. (It normally just has date/my name)My coworker use to make fun of sexual harassment claims until one day he was walking in a sketchy part of town and got sexually harassed by a transvestite hooker. Literally hoot, hollered and followed for blocks. It took that experience to make him uncomfortable and empathize with the shit women go thru. Nothing is wrong with a transvestite hooker, just noted that bc it was something he does not desire personally and to show how the advances were unwanted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:44 PM |
| 19 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.Omg I had no idea. Truly sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:24 PM |
| 113 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteWhy is arguing about who has the right to vote still a thing in this day and age???? All these idiots should try living in an oppressed regime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Literally, the audacity!Exactly. Some guys get a thrill from duping you and knowing they can continue to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Pervert Men Megathread PlanJust mainly want men to be aware of this: as a young girl (I’m talking like 8 years old young) I had really random creepy men who I still believe to this very day were trying to kidnap me. Middle aged men who approach little girls in supermarkets and at the park...just NOT NORMAL. The number of times this has happened to me as a child makes me scared for children. I am always hypervigilant when I’m in the same setting as children and middle aged men. I will NEVER be afraid to step in and tell an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Seriously 😒Women deserve it though and they should look past all those guys and see me for me. Just give me a chance! Not all guys are like that! 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 3 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...Scream it from the rooftops NEVER ENGAGE Some men get off on an emotional response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:58 PM |
| 3 | r/feminism is coming around!Are women even acting the way they want to or bc they’re indoctrinated with ideological BS? I’m all for equality and sexual freedom but I’m not gonna fuck 10 wart dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 44 | Attention to Lurking Scrotes and assorted LVM/NVM shitbags: What is like being a willing slave to MuH PENis?They’re probably in a corner crying about how they just want love while still texting obscene things to woman on tinder right now as we speak. I would feel bad for your pathetic soul, but you chose this life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 31 | My favorite part is how her female friends are surrounding her for this epic momentTheys def be chicken shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 20 | How to reclaim your life after LVM“Sit down and let me teach” lol? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:32 PM |
| 22 | A male friend of mine shared this and joked “Time to disappoint you ladies twice!” and this was my response.Unpopular opinion and rant: STD panels don’t catch everything. They don’t even test for HPV? And herpes can be dormant? I don’t trust a single dude when he’s like “well I’ve been with a lot of girls but I tested clean!”. By the middle of that sentence, he’s talking to my foot dust as I run the fuck away. 💨💨💨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 17 | Man is offended that I ask about his most interesting photo. Also feels the need to insist he could take a moose in a fight...U ok son? 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 36 | After my post earlier....lolWell I could be killed or murdered going on a date so really what is enticing me to come out of my hole? Coffee? Naw son you’re a fucking incel. This whole paragraph reeks of entitlement. Woe is me! Why have women developed standards? Now I have to put in effort but I don’t want to mommy!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:50 PM |
| 136 | They always come back. Always. They might be nasty to you, make you feel obsolete. But they come back, always.They come back for themselves, not because they think you’re awesome. 👈🏼👈🏼👈🏼👈🏼👈🏼 for anyone who missed it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 40 | They always come back. Always. They might be nasty to you, make you feel obsolete. But they come back, always.9 out of 10 they come back. It’s ridiculous. And I’m never interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 16 | Absolutely depraved comments sectionThe best thing we can do as women is knowing to walk away. It doesn’t have to be a big show that’s loud and dramatic. Just walk. It’s fucking powerful when he gets zero reaction from you and is sitting there wondering what happened. 🤯 I’ve been reading a lot of people on here saying that they cursed out a guy then blocked him or something like that. But just know that there are men who WANT YOU TO DO THIS TO THEM. It’s a depraved mindset that I got to experience first hand with my ex. He use to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:40 PM |
| 45 | When the LV ex comes back (as they do) ...The number of these texts I’ve gotten is fuckin ridiculous. Trash keeps finding its way out of the dumpster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 147 | Never settle for less than you deserveI’m so thankful I live in a time where being a single, career focused woman is a possibility (even if it’s still looked down upon). I love my ability to reject a bunch of shitty suitors in favor of being with MYSELF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 6 | “Thank You” is a low/no value responseGirl getting LVM to even say thank you is difficult enough 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 6 | Pickmesha calls us InCeLs 🤡Ok go give out ur vag for free and catch an STD. That’s now how I wanna live my life tho. The beauty of FDS is that it says BEING ALONE IS BETTER THAN BEING WITH LVM. Aka INDEPENDENCE FROM MEN. How is fucking a bunch of dudes independent? Like girl y’all should be focusing on your career or something else. I also think none of us are like incels at all lol a majority of us have had lots of sex and realized that it’s an easy commodity. It’s almost like an evolution. LibFem is what I started out a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:29 PM |
| 54 | My experience as a 33 old woman on Tinder - The wall is a lieAnd this is why I’m on no timeline (I don’t want kids so I’ve got all the time in the world baby) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Literally, the audacity!It varies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 9 | If he isn’t open to hearing other people’s opinions that aren’t the same as his, walk awayI don’t like being around narrow minded ppl anyway so it’s a win win when friendships end cuz of this 🤷🏻♀️ they don’t have to be friends with someone whose family has opposing political views and I can stop having to deal with people who insult my family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 6 | If he isn’t open to hearing other people’s opinions that aren’t the same as his, walk awayYeah they’ve had it pretty fucking rough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 11 | Literally, the audacity!Community 👏🏼 dick 👏🏼 I ain’t vying for the YMCA 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Seven friends buy mansion in China so they can grow old together. I hope more women do this in the future ❤️No the house mom was great and took the necessary precautions (lockdown, informing houses on the row, etc.) and called the cops | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 29 | Literally, the audacity!My idiot friend had a guy lie to her about his age and I was like dude that’s a 🚩 🚩 🚩 RED FLAG 🚩 🚩 🚩. She came around and was like “why can’t you just be happy for me”. 🤡 🤡 🤡 because I’m Satan obviously and I’m here to ruin your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:56 AM |
| 10 | The Audacity of some scroteaI love how men spin this narrative. They’re just a bunch of softies who need love and women just stomp on their hearts. Woe is me! Women should be nicer to men and open up, emotionally and physically. Maybe he will treat her better! Here’s a playbook of what you can do to make a man biologically attached to you! Fuckin’ victim clowns at it again. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:52 AM |
| 20 | "I'm kinda sad that I didn't live in a culture where scrotes could groom and sexually exploit me in my developmental years.... anyway I'm gonna get that empowerment by prostituting myself (for free) in my 20s" 🙄 I'M DONE WITH THIS LIBFEM BSYes let’s go back to a time where if a man raped you then good luck cuz there’s 1) no science 2) the law hates you 3) you’re treated as subhuman 4) need I continue? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:49 AM |
| 14 | If he isn’t open to hearing other people’s opinions that aren’t the same as his, walk awayThis is such an important red flag that should carry over to friendships as well. Especially in this political climate. People are extremely polarized and hateful. I come from a politically conservative family due to the fact my family fled communism so they’re very antsy when it comes to socialist policies. While I do not agree with their political beliefs, I understand and acknowledge why they vote the way they do based on their own life experience (moving countries, war, lots of trauma). I ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:40 AM |
| 39 | Literally, the audacity!Fuck guys like this seriously. They think you’re some kind of object that will be waiting for them when they’re ready. I’m dead set on the idea that when you know, you know. If there’s any hesitation after a decent trial run, it’s not it. Time to leave. Men also forget that there’s another human being component to this relationship. A woman on the other end with a brain and feelings. Who will continue to live without you. Who may not want to be with you in the future. Who may actually find someo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:29 AM |
| 21 | Literally, the audacity!Men who do this aren’t HVMs anyway so it’s not like I would want their sorry asses. I know this doesn’t bother a lot of other people, but personally I don’t want to walk into a room and know my fiancé/husband porked half of the room (or even one other woman in the room). Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:27 AM |
| 78 | "I'm kinda sad that I didn't live in a culture where scrotes could groom and sexually exploit me in my developmental years.... anyway I'm gonna get that empowerment by prostituting myself (for free) in my 20s" 🙄 I'M DONE WITH THIS LIBFEM BSLibFem is toxic shit. When I was younger, I tried to fit into the LibFem mold, but thankfully I kinda realized it wasn’t my scene. You shouldn’t act according to principles of LibFem...or even FDS if you don’t want to. DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU! Know what you’re comfortable with and stand up for yourself when you’re not comfortable with something. It takes maturity, age and wisdom to just walk away from something that doesn’t benefit you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. I wish I found FDS so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:20 AM |
| 38 | Literally, the audacity!I don’t think they’re monogamous. He just won’t commit to her. I’m the same way. It’s just me or the highway. Don’t have time to be second guessing how much I mean to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 83 | Saw this yesterday, thought it belonged here.Men are fuckin clowns. Sorry you’re ugly and make no money. Guess natural selection hates you. Did I hurt ur ego 🥺😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:01 AM |
| 102 | Men who are disgusted by body hair on women usually look like gorillasThe number of men who need to wax their buttcracks and back hair outnumber the women who need to remove any sort of body hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:00 AM |
| 20 | I "hurt his feelings and mistreated" him by asking if I could finish my sentenceIf he knows the recipe then why didn’t he make it? Is baking too gay for him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 21 | FDS in a nutshellSometimes you see the signs but you still go down the LVM route 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 52 | Told "too intimidating"Fuck that guy. Report him to HR. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:22 AM |
| 271 | Literally, the audacity!Yup. This. I have a friend who is like “I’m not looking for a relationship at this point in my life” and I’ll ask him if he makes that clear to women he sees and he goes “iono yeah I guess”. All the while he’s talking to this girl he tells me he wants to marry, but still porking a bunch of other girls on the side because “he’s not ready but he’ll settle down with her in a year or two”. Hannah, if you’re reading this, please know it’s you and RUN!!!!!!!!! Men literally think they can put women on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:17 AM |
| 53 | I hate these types of questionWhen guys accuse me of racism, my pussy gets SO WET! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 26 | What do High Value Couples Look Like?High value behavior is contagious. You’re lucky you got to see it in action. Thanks for sharing it with the rest of us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:32 PM |
| 58 | Women repost this as a joke but in reality it’s pathetic and trueAnd they’re the first ones to gorge. It’s lovely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 394 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!This is beautiful. 💕 I love this idea!!! Can we start getting Thursday group dates on this sub!?? Just a bunch of HVW treating ourselves and having good convos about feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 17 | I just got my IUD taken out and I couldn’t be happierBut how else will I rob them of their joy? Lol jk. I try to be open about this stuff in a relationship but aside from one partner I’ve just been made a fool 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:26 PM |
| 74 | Seven friends buy mansion in China so they can grow old together. I hope more women do this in the future ❤️Is it sad that I immediately think “please don’t publicize this”. Fucking weird ass men will view this as a great place to break into and rape women. I lived in a sorority house for a year and the number of stalkers and creeps was frightening. There was one guy caught standing outside a sorority house with a M A C H E T E. Yup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Five types of man-centered friendsQuality post. Thanks for this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 7 | Her post versus his... and she’s posting about how it’s ‘cute’ and ‘funny.’ It’s like no... he did this for his own selfish gain and not for you, how is this cute?No no unrelated. It’s like some brainwashed person always trying to undermine other people who genuinely are fighting for that person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Her post versus his... and she’s posting about how it’s ‘cute’ and ‘funny.’ It’s like no... he did this for his own selfish gain and not for you, how is this cute?Basically. This carries over to racism too but I digress. Makes my blood boil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:18 PM |
| 15 | Second dateYou might not be attracted to a HVM. And that’s fine. Don’t date someone just because you think you’re missing out or that’s the best you can get or because they’re perceived as HV. Also male nurses can be huge man sluts so watch out girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:16 PM |
| 23 | Her post versus his... and she’s posting about how it’s ‘cute’ and ‘funny.’ It’s like no... he did this for his own selfish gain and not for you, how is this cute?Pickmeisha being like “why is everyone offended on my behalf? I have no issue with this and it was super sweet” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 10 | Can a woman change a LVM into a HVM?A man has to transform on his own thru his own willpower. It’s messy. Don’t be there before he’s HVM. Safest way to protect yourself is to avoid him until he’s HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Can a woman change a LVM into a HVM?It’s best that you are there after the transformation and not before or during the transformation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 16 | I hate these types of questionNothing screams “I’m shallow and insecure” more than asking questions like this. Thanks for weeding yourself out, bro. Ur fucking weird 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 22 | I just got my IUD taken out and I couldn’t be happierThe sad face ☹️☹️☹️ and excuses that come after the “you still have to wear a condom talk” 😢😢😢 “but I can’t feel much with a condom on” ☹️☹️☹️ and my health comes after your pleasure? My bad 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:55 PM |
| 13 | Do you find it pedophilic when men want their partner to be shaved everywhere ?Could you imagine what the world would be like if women started demanding men wax their butt hair? All the while women across the US are paying $60 a pop for a Brazilian wax or $700/year at European Wax Center. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 46 | I just got my IUD taken out and I couldn’t be happierWhen guys find out I’m on BC, they get these sparkles 🥺 in their eyes 🥺🥺🥺 bc they’re so excited to raw dog me 🌭🌭🌭 like BC = no physical protection ❓❓❓❓❓And I fucking hate that 🙂🙂🙂 if y’all wanna fuck me, you’re wearing a condommmmm. No condom, no sex 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ Kudos to you for doing what YOU want to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:48 PM |
| 97 | ✨Y’all heard?✨Lol @ the fact most guys who want this can’t even hold a job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 675 | YesIf you’re asking, you’re the reason why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 12 | If you feel the need to start playing games to get his attention, it’s time to cut him off.This is GOLD!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:25 PM |
| 59 | Do you find it pedophilic when men want their partner to be shaved everywhere ?Ok I’ll groom but what he IS going to do for me? Can you trim your pube beard and wax your chest hair? What about the hair on your butt cheeks? Get rid of that too I don’t want to look at that. Also, no 👏🏼 hair 👏🏼 in 👏🏼 your 👏🏼 buttcrack 👏🏼. What’s gayer? Cleaning your ass everyday or waxing the hair in your asscrack so that shit doesn’t click to your dirty ass hair? Also if you grow a beer belly then I’ll leave you. I fucking hate beer bellies. Physical standards can go both ways. For all the L… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:17 PM |
| 3 | I feel like this applies here 💖 👑Unable to love low value men* I think she left out a few words? I love myself, I love my career, I love my family, I love my community and I love my dog. I could love a scrote but how can you love something willfully unloveable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 90 | For me this is the telltale sign of a man that is addicted to video games and/or porn. Lifeless eyes... keep a lookout for it!I’m just going to feign interest in video games in order to weed out any guy who plays video games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 132 | If you feel the need to start playing games to get his attention, it’s time to cut him off.If someone is serious about you (and if you are serious about someone), there will be no games. How are y’all gonna be a power couple and play the world if you’re out playing each other? Games are LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 15 | Oh look, another man with an unwashed ass has an opinion on something he knows nothing about.Incel for life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 7 | Her post versus his... and she’s posting about how it’s ‘cute’ and ‘funny.’ It’s like no... he did this for his own selfish gain and not for you, how is this cute?I hate half assed gifts. Just don’t get me anything. She’s signaling she would be overjoyed with a pop tart for an engagement ring. Yuck. Have self respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 9 | We're doing the right thingTrust me, I would love for this sub to be mainly HVM discussions. But guess what? I’ve dated at least 20 guys since high school, a lot of them seriously. And guess what? Only FOUR have been HVM. That’s an optimistic success rate of about 20%? So basically has hard as getting into a competitive public university. We are having discussions that need to be had of our collective experiences, which are so fucking common. LV-behavior and shitting on LVM are so commonly discussed here BECAUSE IT IS A C… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:21 PM |
| 22 | South Korea's Low Birthrate and the Sampo Generation:) tell me again why I should date Asian men :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 44 | South Korea's Low Birthrate and the Sampo GenerationThe best part is that it’s still the woman’s fault for not procreating and therefore her fault for the entire culture dying. L o L. I don’t get this shit. Let’s marginalize and oppress half the population responsible for carrying children. Childbirth is perhaps the ultimate sacrifice of a woman, and we don’t even get respect for that since it’s viewed as an obligation. Makes me sick. The only way most men will be able to procreate is by deceiving, coercing or forcing a woman to procreate with hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:03 PM |
| 37 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...This is the level of asshole confidence I wish I had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:01 PM |
| 45 | I'm grateful to my (male) friend who got me to stop being a pickme!I honestly have so much hope for Gen Z. They’re just more socially aware and they’re a lot more empathetic and understanding. I think the world is going to change a lot in the next 20 years due to the way that Gen Z is progressing on social issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 5 | When the Universe talks to you....you better listen! I found a Susan B Anthony coin today while ordering my morning coffee. Thank you Susan for your work you did for us.*white women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 40 | I went undercover on tinder. Newsflash: 95% of them only want sexNot surprised. My LVM friends and exes crawl on these apps. Being recently single, I’m never going back. Rather be alone than deal with a disgusting trash bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:44 AM |
| 6 | Queen-to-Queen check-in: how does your gut feel around him?Yeah heart rate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:43 AM |
| 39 | They’re even sexually harassing us on OLD! And YES his name is DAN.I’ve always said to my friends its like opening the floodgates of garbage and trash. Unvetted, low quality men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:12 AM |
| 103 | They’re even sexually harassing us on OLD! And YES his name is DAN.This kid has no game. Horrific. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:58 PM |
| 46 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsI worked with a predominantly Japanese female group and they all said that the culture in Japan STILL treats women like shit in the workplace. Essentially any woman in a professional job is not taken seriously because she is expected to become pregnant and leave the workforce at one point. It’s so fucking sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:48 PM |
| 14 | Incels get the wallLVM: insults women online because they never leave mom’s basement LVM: post on Reddit why women won’t have sex with them and how they’re entitled to wet pussy LVM: wonders why no one wants them People are so fucking delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 53 | 😒 Damn, I hope you get pickedI don’t know many men my age who will buy a $3,000 Chanel purse for his gf. Lol. I’m also not buying a PSwhatever so my boyfriend can become more LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:43 PM |
| 36 | And I'd rather shit in my hands and then clap than be in the same room as a dude like this.This is my LVM friend 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:42 PM |
| 2 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.Omg that would annoy me to no end! Honestly, people will think whatever they want to think about you regardless of what you do and what you know. ESP the delusional. And ya it’s quiet a hilarious twist isn’t it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 37 | Girl this is not it.Yeah because he dumped me shortly after. Also he was annoyed I rearranged his stuff. So there’s that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:04 PM |
| 9 | Signs he's not the OneThe signs are easy to spot but the part I had/have the hardest time leaving after I spotted the signs or rationalizing myself out of leaving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Men will literally complain about anything and everything we do, whether we ask for a lot or don’t expect anything at all.Just wanna ask men why they want to “deny [women] simple things early on so they don’t get it twisted”. Are you trying to find a life partner or become an unsolicited parent to a fully grown adult woman? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:48 PM |
| 10 | Working in the construction industry, things like this are way too common. Scrotes taking advantage of young hard working women.Me too! I have some girl crushes at work but they totally get eaten alive by both men and women. It’s sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:46 PM |
| 5 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.Yeah I basically get called white by them. I’ve literally been called white by a white person who hates White people and identifies as Asian. Lol. Because my personality needs to have a race assigned to it. OookAYyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 9 | Working in the construction industry, things like this are way too common. Scrotes taking advantage of young hard working women.Yeah I purposefully dress super frumpy at work. Not just the men, but women are relentless when it comes to a female who is well dressed and good at her job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 147 | The accuracyWhen women make almost the same or more than the man, watch how the man behaves. Usually becomes a lazy piece of shit and his masculinity leaks out from his scrotum. Usually has some mental break and breaks up with the woman because he can’t reconcile the inferiority he feels in reality with the superiority he feels in his mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:42 PM |
| 23 | Working in the construction industry, things like this are way too common. Scrotes taking advantage of young hard working women.It’s probably her fault for wearing a button down blouse with a skirt. Maybe try wearing a trash bag to work and no makeup slut. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 109 | Girl this is not it.I did this for one of my exes. LOL. He use to work late odd shifts as a food runner so I cleaned his desk and left him food for when he got back. He texted me 5 years later to tell me it was the nicest thing anyone’s ever done for him. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA IM A FUCKING CLOWN 🤡 🤡 🤡 🤡 Thx u to this subreddit again for digging up these shitty memories 🤕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 74 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsSexism 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 fuckin 👏🏼 real 👏🏼 If people are killing babies in the womb already bc they’re female, imagine the world that the ones who survive the womb are born into. Oh wait, they’re born into our reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 17 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾FDS cured me of my pickmeisha brain. Never again will I waste my time on worthless scrotes. I’ve been thru so much already when it comes to dating, but I feel like I found FDS at the perfect time. No more bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 8 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.Sometimes I’m just like...are you blind? Why would I want you if you have this mindset? No wonder so many Asian men are incels and basement dwellers. I don’t date based on race. I date based on values, emotional compatibility, intellect, etc. and usually these fucking idiot piece of trash fall off the fucking cliff when they start spewing idiot shit like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:25 PM |
| 35 | His friends are right though.Grammar is our first line of defense, ladies. If he has bad grammar, weed 👏🏼 him 👏🏼 out 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 30 | The pain of realising I was brainwashed and finally breaking freeGoing to Thailand basically means taking advantage of women or even children who have no other way of making an income and have been groomed to sell their bodies for money. Fuck guys like this. They make me want to vomit so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 16 | I would like to inform you all that NOT ALL MEN are violent misogynists.This so much. My ex who was emotionally and mentally abusive would be like “well I didn’t hit you”. But would still grab me really hard and pin me down. This sub literally is bringing out my most repressed memories I’m going to need therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:34 PM |
| 17 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.Men have an existential crisis when they realize the free market is working against them. Then the entitlement surfaces. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:31 PM |
| 71 | Can we stop using "walk date" like it's an actual thing? Sis that's not a date. It's a walk.I’ve been off the market for 3.5 years. Is this actually a thing?????? What on earth? They’re not even putting in the effort to plan a hike?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 43 | Man takes a woman on a walking date and she calls him over later to try to initiate sex.... This can’t be real. We’ve found Queen Pickme!Honestly it sounds like he’s into writing erotica. I guarantee this never happened and he’s an incel. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 65 | Queen-to-Queen check-in: how does your gut feel around him?Always trust your gut. If your watch has a stress monitor, look at that data too. One of my exes was mentally abusive. Constant gaslighting, constant lying, constantly provoking me until I started crying and videotaped it. I was be completely stressed out of my mind around him because we lived together. Every click of the door, every foot step, any sound that made it known he was in the apartment with me set my heart rate through the roof. I was such a strung out mess. If you don’t trust your gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:23 PM |
| 129 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsI always laugh when cultures favor one gender over the other. Don’t you know how procreation works??? Bunch of fucking moronic clowns 🤡 🤡 🤡 The fact governments don’t try to correct the problem until it’s too late shows (1) governments rarely act in favor of the population it governs and its future (2) governments do not protect women’s bodies. I feel for every single woman who is stuck in regimes and cultures like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 18 | Is it just me or commenting on anyone's appearance in a negative way is just the lowest trick ever?It’s literally always the ugliest motherf*ckers who give their unsolicited appearance insults too. Both men and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:12 PM |
| 28 | For those of you still on OLD, set up a fake profile along with your real one to weed out scammers, etc.Omg this is a genius idea LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 43 | Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her.Does she work for Door Dash, Postmates or Grubhub? Hope she’s getting paid for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 31 | Politics changes need to come. Men need to be imposed a Homicide and Partner violence tax.My aunt said this and it really resonated with me (regarding the last election): Sexism is stronger than racism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 9 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.I agree. I think cultural compatibility is really important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:24 PM |
| 41 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.I am an Asian female and date primarily white guys. I constantly get shat on by anonymous entitled incels at my university, my uncles, my friends, my community, etc. because of this. But at the same time... Asian men are either: Intimidated by my “outspoken” behavior (this is hilarious because when I ask my white boyfriends if I’m loud and outspoken, they think it’s hilarious bc they don’t think I am by western standards). The ones that actually are not intimidated by me try to control me. There… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | PSA: On grocery shopping datesThis is how fucked up my mind was in my teens and early twenties: Maybe if I’m a doormat and fit into his life, one day when I leave he will realize how much he misses me and wants to be with me. Grocery store dates basically operate under this mentality. You are there to fill his void while he takes care of things he needs to do, often with no regard for your schedule or anything involving you. You are there to cater to his loneliness and you are expected to do it in a way that is convenient to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Count the red flags in his profile ugh...I’m sorry but who falls for this garbage??????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 22 | I would like to inform you all that NOT ALL MEN are violent misogynists.Girl. Me. Too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 35 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Yup basically showing that you respect yourself enough to take care of yourself and that you’re friendly and approachable will get you extremely far | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 27 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)His look screams “unmateable impotent scrote” chic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 95 | How to remain HVW while still being anti-marriage / childfree?Being a HVW means sticking to what YOU want and holding high standards. It’s easy to be a HVW with no kids and no marriage as long as you divert your energy into your craft, career, social justice, etc. At the end of the day, it is your passion, mission and high standards that will make you a HVW, whether you’re married with kids or not. Do it with style and with grace. HVM will pine after you; LVM will be intimidated by you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:29 PM |
| 14 | I used to watch his videos as a kid. Just goes to show that you can't trust men.Omg his Wikipedia page: John Robert Krampf is a kiddie diddler . https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Krampf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 156 | I would like to inform you all that NOT ALL MEN are violent misogynists.He must have not loved you then :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 45 | Hell, nahYou can do it yourself with Stouffer’s and a sock so what do you exactly need us for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 90 | I would like to inform you all that NOT ALL MEN are violent misogynists.Is it misogyny if I treat everyone of all genders with equal contempt and hatred 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:56 PM |
| 316 | I would like to inform you all that NOT ALL MEN are violent misogynists.Yeah some are nonviolent misogynists. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:53 PM |
| 44 | When the Universe talks to you....you better listen! I found a Susan B Anthony coin today while ordering my morning coffee. Thank you Susan for your work you did for us.White feminism. There’s a quote of her out there saying white women should get to vote before the negro. Here’s the actual quote: “I will cut off this right arm of mine before I will ever work or demand the ballot for the Negro and not the woman.” Some reading: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2018/07/28/opinion/sunday/suffrage-movement-racism-black-women.amp.html https://www.womenshistory.org/articles/votes-women-means-votes-black-women https://www.npr.org/2011/03/25/134849480/the-r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 17 | My theory about the men who always complain about women being boring...This encourages girls to reject feminine hobbies and pretend to like sports. Lol gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:40 PM |
| 4 | This poor woman’s boyfriend spends all day jerking off to deep fakes of her own friends and using VR and a pocket pussy for hours so naturally she asks Reddit for their quality adviceWhy would you even want a guy like this???????? Like????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 12 | No. ❤️Been there 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:28 PM |
| 35 | Broke: financially, spiritually and mentallyMen should stop being broke lazy assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:25 PM |
| 57 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!I think it has more to do with grooming and being bubbly than being attractive/pretty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 31 | FDS hitting 100k but men STILL be like...The best part is when you’ve been to the field before and there’s no cell reception | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 5 | My Standards After Finding FDSIf you take care of yourself, by all means demand a man also take care of himself. It’s not shallow; it’s knowing what you’re worth. No one wants to date a morbidly obese porn addict neckbeard basement dweller anyway. Because 👏🏼 we 👏🏼 have 👏🏼 standards 👏🏼 and 👏🏼 that 👏🏼 doesnt 👏🏼 make 👏🏼 us 👏🏼 shallow 👏🏼 Especially when incels think they’re entitled to Taylor Swift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | My Standards After Finding FDSDesire for personal growth is SO important!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:38 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a guy says "I like myself when I'm with you"?Always looking out for other women!!! The world needs more sisterhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:37 AM |
| 12 | I cannot believe a woman said this in response to "men fantasize about women as sex objects, women about mutual love and care"This sub taught me there are a lot of men posing to be pickmeishas on the internet. Nothing guarantees your involuntary celibacy more than this. (Except committing heinous crimes, which I’m sure you do already). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 18 | When i saw people calling this a sub for "nasty/evil/crazy/scary" women i immediately got hopeful and wanted to see whats up, not despite of the reputation but BECAUSE of it. Because every time women are doing something RIGHT it's rebranded by men as "nasty/evil/etc"We a bunch of nasssssty women that’s for sure. Suck a tit, scrotes! Bet u can’t cuz ur a LVincel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:29 AM |
| 188 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉Asian aunties should have a full face shaded visor for you to use too. Sometimes in a fake Burberry print so men know you’re only there for his money. The pandemic makes this also a wise choice. It should also block any facial advances he makes, such as kissing or eye contact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:26 AM |
| 42 | What does it mean when a guy says "I like myself when I'm with you"?Centering himself while saying he likes you. Red flag. Watched too many Rom Coms and thinks this is a good line to use. I think there’s a new pop song about this too? Can’t think for himself or really wants to sound romantic but it’s super try hard. Red flag. He sucks as a person and can’t be decent when he’s alone. Red flag. He’s manipulating you and pinpointed you as the caretaker type that wants to stay around and improve people. Red flag. Always trust your gut!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Reddit Promotes Misogyny! WoMEn DeStOy NuCLeAr FamIly bY dIvOrciNg ShiTTy HusbAnDS WhY CaNT wOmeN STiCK WItH AnYthINg STUpId WOmEn!!!A M E N 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 65 | So he needed a daughter to figure out that men do not give us even basic respect. Dude, go outside and grow up.“As a man” and lurking on TwoXChromosomes because why? To toot your own horn or to show women that you’re an idiot who can’t think past your own experiences? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 13 | Reddit Promotes Misogyny! WoMEn DeStOy NuCLeAr FamIly bY dIvOrciNg ShiTTy HusbAnDS WhY CaNT wOmeN STiCK WItH AnYthINg STUpId WOmEn!!!Or you can think about it this way. In the US, there are low barriers for divorce compared to other countries. That means that women can initiate divorces and better themselves and their position without societal pressure, threats of death, etc. Aka it’s like a “free market” in a way for women. It’s not fair to look at the divorce rate of the US and compare it to the divorce rate of a misogynistic country. Women in misogynistic countries might not have divorce as an option or face extremely disp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:08 PM |
| 9 | My next door neighbour just got arrested - trigger warningThanks for the book suggestion!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Your mental health > Your feelings for himOh yes I agree. Sorry misread! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Your mental health > Your feelings for himI know but when you’re young and impressionable, you don’t think about these things. Also certain situations make it a lot harder to leave like living with the guy. We should never ever blame women for not seeing “the signs”. Men shouldn’t treat women like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Your mental health > Your feelings for him28 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 36 | My next door neighbour just got arrested - trigger warningThis is so fucking frightening and sick. Always trust your instinct. I wonder every single day, if not every waking moment, how much better the world would be if it were ran by women. It sounds silly, but we all know it’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 53 | 'How I Met Your Mother' through the FDS lensI hated this garbage dumpster fire of a show before this post and I hate it more now. This show needs to die. It is just fucking awful in terms of humor, character growth, plot etc. and now this too. Tracy 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 vessel 👏🏼 oh my god you articulated what I’ve been feeling this entire time. This is gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 11 | Your mental health > Your feelings for himI had no idea what was normal in a relationship. He came back and apologized. We also lived together as room mates. It was a really toxic situation and I didn’t know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Men's excuses, and projecting them onto you.I stopped reading after the third line. He’s a waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:20 PM |
| 83 | Your mental health > Your feelings for himI was with a guy like this about 3 or 4 years ago. Once he came back from work and sat in my bed with work clothes on. I asked him to not do it three times, after the third time I called him annoying “you’re being annoying”. Being a complete man child he is, he stormed out of the room and left our apartment complex. I texted him asking him if he was ok? It was our first “fight” and I was so confused how it had blown out of proportion. He texting me back, “never call me annoying you fucking bitch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:18 PM |
| 8 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?They’re so fucking stupid LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 3 | LVM and OLD: How to spot them so you don’t waste your time [Sleuthing Edition]My pain is your gain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:05 PM |
| 7 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?I read the convo. There are some really gross women out there. Please don’t discount my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 12 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?Oh gosh I don’t even want to think about that. It could have been. I could have sleuthed but I was so over it by then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:20 AM |
| 26 | This girl’s boyfriend is clearly so generous! Is even worried about how much toilet paper she uses 🙄Say it louder for the scrotes in the back of the room | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 2 | LVM and OLD: How to spot them so you don’t waste your time [Sleuthing Edition]You literally never know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:43 AM |
| 25 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?I didn’t know that guys receive unsolicited nudes until my ex literally showed me the ones he received, reluctantly of course. There are so many pickmeisha women with zero standards that are there to cater to their needs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 9 | LVM and OLD: How to spot them so you don’t waste your time [Sleuthing Edition]This is a good one. Omfg I am so sad you found his sec offender registry mail. That is so fucking sick. I literally try to find parks and schools to live near so I don’t have to be around these creeps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 6 | How should a non-exclusive, potential partner support you when getting IUD?The correct way to react would be for him to understand that it is a medical procedure, which comes with pain, uncertainty and anxiety. His immediate reaction should be to make sure you are comfortable and taken care of. He should listen to you, help you weigh your decisions, and help you stay relaxed and reassured. Any reaction related to sex and what/how this modification to YOUR body could benefit him is a red flag. I feel you about Plan B. A lot of my exes were just like well Plan B exists s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 64 | Identifying a HVM.You can tell so much about a guy from the way he talks about his exes. If he trash talks them, calls them crazy and can’t articulate what went wrong and lessons learned, RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:48 PM |
| 44 | Get out of the shackles. You’ve got this!This whole sub is literally making me address my past and I’m terrified | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:41 PM |
| 146 | This girl’s boyfriend is clearly so generous! Is even worried about how much toilet paper she uses 🙄A guy I dated once told me I use too much toilet paper. HAHA never again loser. Omg this entire sub is making me relive my nightmares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Ladies at some point we have to acknowledge our poor pussy management. Like I know most men are trash but if you continue messing with a LVM male people are going to have less empathy for you. It’s better to be alone than to be with trash.Typical blaming women for bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:37 PM |
| 8 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡That’s so fucking sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 8 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a secHard lesson learned, that’s for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 8 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a sec140 comments??? Train all these posts make me so freaking sad that other women where in relationships where the partner gaslighted them. This whole discussion just goes to show how prevalent gaslighting is among men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 19 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a secIt is so fucking cruel. I went through the same thing and haven’t really talked to anyone about it (happened three years ago) because I’ve been so ashamed of feeling crazy and stupid. It makes me sad that other women have gone thru the same type of abuse. My heart hurts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 26 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a secMy ex would video me too after he would gaslight me. He would send it to his friends after. That relationship was so bad on so many levels and it really fucked with my head and my heart. I just feel super sad even thinking about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 65 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡I’m pretty sure this is illegal if you’re in the US | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | I love it when the trash takes itself outLol I was veg in college and a LVM made turkey sandwiches for our date. Gross. He’s such a loser, and still is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:47 AM |
| 1 | I use to be a Pickmeisha and I kind of hate myself. But so glad I found this sub!!!RPW has encouraged me to be more in touch with my femininity, take care of myself, and to be a little bit more pleasant to myself and others. There’s nothing wrong with that. I haven’t become a brainwashed doormat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | I use to be a Pickmeisha and I kind of hate myself. But so glad I found this sub!!!It’s also so important that women stick up for each other. Keep trading tips to weed out low lives 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:28 AM |
| 2 | How will/are you instilling an FDS mindset in your daughters? Is leading by example enough? Should we ban traditional Disney princess movies etc?I care more about her feeling comfortable and knowing she has every right to say no to a guy than going thru that whole exclusivity and green flags checklist. I mean when you’re young, you don’t really know what red or green flags are. I rather have her rely on her intuition and hopefully my tactics will help her be confident in her decisions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Taste in men changing. Has anyone experienced this? Before I liked bad boys, because I confused my instincts telling me something was off, for butterflies and excitement. I knew these men were no good for me. Now I am more attracted to men, I before would deem "boring".Give me all the boring men. I love men who are responsible, respectful, intellectual, stable, healthy etc. I have never been attracted to bad boys and never will be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 3 | How will/are you instilling an FDS mindset in your daughters? Is leading by example enough? Should we ban traditional Disney princess movies etc?If I somehow got pregnant by some terrible twist of fate and had a daughter/woman-identifying child, then I would def instill FDS/high standards. What I hated was my mom using SHAME as a tactic to instill high values. I would make my daughter she knows her worth so she doesn’t settle for bullshit from a man. A woman who has high standards usually has a support system that instills confidence and independence. Also, I would hope that my daughter feels comfortable talking about sex with me. I have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 27 | Men trying to immediately take the conversation out of the dating appThe best way to find a fuckboy is to look thru his Instagram following list. It’s usually a mix of pickmeishas (that he’s already taken advantage of) and scantily clad influencers. So 👏🏼 fuckin 👏🏼 nasty 👏🏼. Don’t add him but just ask for his handle so you can properly vet. Source: I am friends with a lot of fuckboys. Some of them make great friends but I would never fuck them :) if men use women for sex, why can’t women use men for pure friendship? Plus I get insight into a fuckboy’s mind so I a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 39 | 30-year-old man child wakes up at 4 pm. Blocked 🤷🏻♀️Why are all these scrotes always surprised when people don’t want to be with asswipe basement dwelling obese neckbeards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:58 AM |
| -1 | I use to be a Pickmeisha and I kind of hate myself. But so glad I found this sub!!!So many people don’t bother to even really read the posts there that they don’t really understand RPW. It’s not a bad place. I upvoted you but there are a bunch of sour pusses who are downvoting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:33 PM |
| -3 | I use to be a Pickmeisha and I kind of hate myself. But so glad I found this sub!!!Dating rules align for the most part. I’m not that far into RPW but I do believe they defer decision making to a man to a certain degree because they seek a Captain. Honestly, there is nothing wrong with how responsibilities and decision making are assigned/not assigned in a relationship as long as the relationship respects both parties, it’s what both parties want, and it’s healthy for all individuals involved. I just think of RPW and FDS as two strategies with common goals, but the execution m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:28 PM |
| -6 | I use to be a Pickmeisha and I kind of hate myself. But so glad I found this sub!!!I think at the end of the day, both groups demand better from men and want to empower women, whether it’s in dating or self improvement or whatnot. Both reject liberal feminism and both agree that it caters to the patriarchy. A lot of the mindset is similar. I think people think RPW aligns closely with RP for men and that is NOT THE CASE AT ALL. There are strong lovely women on BOTH sides, both in RPW and FDS. I wish we would stop pitting groups of women together if we both have similar goals. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:20 PM |
| -14 | I use to be a Pickmeisha and I kind of hate myself. But so glad I found this sub!!!And yet they do. Both teach women how to not date scrotes. You would be surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:15 PM |
| 20 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.Oh I was super pathetic. I broke up with him, then tried to get him back. I was such a naive little twat back then. I still quiver thinking about how I literally had 0 self respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:29 AM |
| 29 | Every woman - friend / roommate / acquaintance I’ve ever known who‘s looked through a man’s phone(s) or device has always had their suspicions confirmed. Trust your gut and don’t let anyone shame you for doing so.Oh do I have a doozy for y’all!!!! I was seeing this guy in college for 8 months (he was already working a full time job). I really liked him but knew something was totally off. He was a LVM with an extensive sexual past (for STDs, transmitted it to other girls, etc.) just all around a L O S E R but I was in college and basically had no self worth. Anyways this pathetic excuse of a scrote was sitting next to me and showing me something on his phone when he got a text from a girl. I had never hea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:26 AM |
| 18 | RBG on dating, and men. Know your worth, ladies. Men do not accept their responsibilities in this society. Justice Ginsberg knew it. We know it too. Don't settle for the status quo. RIP Queen.RBG is a prime example of what women can do if they aren’t married to LVM scrotes. Fuck LVMs and fuck scrotes. She is a goddess and Marty is amazing for seeing her for her intellect and soul. Follow this example, scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:13 AM |
| 22 | Why don’t men make attempts to look better??Bc pickmeishas will still fight over each other to swallow his load even if it’s buttfuckin ugly. Women’s standards are so low when it comes to men that they don’t even care to put in the effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:08 AM |
| 9 | LVMs be pulling out all the red flags in the most unique ways....WHY DO YOU WANT TO GO OUT ON A COUPLE'S RETREAT ALONE?Ew this guy is garbage. Bad, Scrooge, very bad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:04 AM |
| 45 | Creepy scrote goes through his neighbors mail and takes a picture of it to post on reddit insinuating that it was a sex toy. He swiftly deletes after multiple commenters inform him it’s a makeup and skincare subscription service. Links to thread in comments.Only a LVM has time to do this stupid shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:54 AM |
| 3 | I’m looking to upgrade our bath towels to something super nice, luxurious and fluffy. What brands do y’all suggest? I figured if anybody, you domestic goddesses would know the answer!Costco towels!! Yes!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 5 | One more reason to never 👏🏼send 👏🏼nudes👏🏼 There is literally no photo he could take that would be an even trade. You’re beautiful, soft, can pose like a goddess. He’s most likely dirty, unkept, and using flash.I had an ex who kept requesting I send nudes and I REFUSED to because that’s just so fucking gross. Glad I didn’t because guess what? He was getting nudes from other girls throughout our relationship. Soliciting nudes is a CLEAR RED FLAG of a LVM. DO NOT SEND NUDES! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?Because they’re good friends otherwise? Lol there’s more to people than their dating history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:22 AM |
| 8 | When I read this I knew it belonged hereOh this still happens with my mom’s side of the family. Except completely unregulated. My uncles never bring shit, never offer to do shit, critique the food and get preferential treatment. All the women fight among themselves that they can’t collectively gather. It’s sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 4 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?My guy friends who are good at their jobs and not bad looking go for like 18 year olds (I’m mid 20s) and complain when they have to deal with an emotional train wreck, ghosting, and other immature behaviors. Like??? It’s not the girls fault. It’s your fault for dating young. You’re even young enough to remember that period of your life too. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:27 PM |
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