Why don’t men make attempts to look better??

bear_sees_the_car · 2020-09-20T03:07:12+00:00

Because it is gay to take care of yourself, boys would get suspicious

lalalalaika · 2020-09-20T02:19:22+00:00

Where tf do you live where 15% of men are attractive lol It's like 2% for me everywhere I've lived

2020-09-20T03:45:10+00:00

Most men are ugly. I realized this in my mid-20s. In high school, I remember finding men attractive (in TV and movies) and being sorely disappointed that there was no one I considered good-looking at my school. I figured that I just needed to move out of my small town. So I moved to a city, and while the men there seemed to make more of an effort with grooming and style, they were still mostly below-average. Unfortunately it's like this everywhere.

My conclusion is that historically men have had their pick of women for thousands of years and as a result we're now left with a disproportionate ratio of ugly ass men to attractive women. It's crazy to me that women have endured the burden of looking attractive to men (with surgery, fitness, makeup, hair, etc.) when it's men who are the ones who should be going above and beyond to make up for the abject ugliness.

Adawritesrules · 2020-09-20T02:37:28+00:00

We are figuring out men have trouble wiping their ass and are struggling from serious mental disorders and you are complaining they don’t groom 😂

Meanwhile everyone is criticizing women on mere inches on their body or a single strand of hair etc. world is fucked up

bye-raspberry · 2020-09-20T02:21:31+00:00

Because the average scrote lacks the self-discipline to do anything to improve his appearance, lifestyle, or personality because lazing around playing video games and eating cheetos is more fun than shaving his hobo beard, practicing a skincare routine, or going to the gym (or therapy, for that matter, but that's a whole other story).

nycgirlhere · 2020-09-20T03:07:49+00:00

Because some girls will still go for them ie pickmes who think men looking nice is shallow/unrealistic so they see no reason to change

ApartPersonality · 2020-09-20T03:55:49+00:00

Unrealistic view of their own attractiveness and/or low self esteem.

XiAyala · 2020-09-20T03:16:37+00:00

Omg, some guys prefer to be heavy because they think it makes them look muscular. They prefer to be overweight rather than a normal weight for fear of looking weak. No, dude, I can tell you’re more lardman than strongman.

hypointellectual · 2020-09-20T05:08:02+00:00

Bc pickmeishas will still fight over each other to swallow his load even if it’s buttfuckin ugly. Women’s standards are so low when it comes to men that they don’t even care to put in the effort.

modernmedusaa · 2020-09-20T07:22:36+00:00

Men don’t think we are visual and think we are LITERALLY blind. They think we only see in personality 😂 (we would still avoid the ugly dudes if we saw in personality tho lol)

Make them self conscious because that is their only mirror. I’m telling you, no one told them they ugly. We need to tell them they are not good enough, because it’s the truth.

Women need to stop saying that “personality is all that matters” and “looks don’t matter” out of politeness also, it only feeds into the lie.

Men need to stop about muh “2% men only get women.” Only 2% fucking try to look good lol

2020-09-20T13:32:15+00:00

Don't be sorry. It's so true.

A majority of them are ugly, and I'm so glad I'm not the only one to think this way! None of them know how to groom themselves, or how to trim their facial hair. Their hygiene is fucking reprehensible, 9 times out of 10. Top this off, with a majority of men all being lazy as fuck. They sit on their sofas for so long, their asses are forever welded to the fabric of it! The state of their skin is deplorable, with all of the junk food they cram down their holes. And they dress like ass, and smell like it too (most body spray, smells like cat piss).

I objectify men's looks and I don't give a damn. They've been doing that shit to us for years. You be honest in doing so, they're quick to say "You're a shallow bitch." It's like, where the hell is their self-awareness? When they're gawking at girls who are only their "type". Bunch of morons.

They also assume that if they have a good job, or a higher education... of course you'll overlook their ugly ass face.

I didn't mention personality, because a majority of them are all faking it anyway.

djburokas · 2020-09-20T09:25:39+00:00

what to expect from scrotes who dont even wipe their asses

berned-out · 2020-09-20T17:39:09+00:00

This is a big part of why I was so attracted to my last SO, yo Boy, he could put himself together, lifted weights, emphasized all his best features ironed his shirts, turned heads everywhere we went. And he worked hard, so hard. Roping cattle, fixing fences, stacking hay and all that cowboy stuff, then he cleaned up so nice, smelled so great. It was so out of the ordinary that damn, he hooked me but good. I wish I'd had FDS when I met him, things might have gone better than they did. (Want to know how "out of the ordinary" he was, he didn't know porn was free on the internet, bc he doesn't even use a smartphone except for facebook at home on wifi. He still had the idea that it was like premium cable, the playboy channel or something, LOL. Bless his innocent soul. He never begged for blowjobs or tried to get me to do anything you see in porn. Refreshing.) Still he didn't measure up to what I need, what FDS teaches, which is respect and treating me nicely the way I expect to be treated. Stay woke!!

2020-09-20T14:05:20+00:00

When I first moved to New York City, I thought “Wow, there are so many attractive men here.” Took me a few months to realize they were just taking care of themselves and dressing well.

evilkitty9 · 2020-09-20T20:39:48+00:00

Below average men always date above their league. The average to slightly better think they’re some sort of sex gods.

XiAyala · 2020-09-21T00:24:22+00:00

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Title	Why don’t men make attempts to look better??
Author	XiAyala
Upvotes	248
Comments	37
Date	September 19, 2020 11:09 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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