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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 414 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteWhatever Pickminique. Thanks for the free publicity. 💁🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:37 AM |
| 81 | These middle aged men are dating teenagers, disgusting 🤢. They admit they do it because they're easier to manipulateDon't even entertain the idea of talking to a guy who thinks TRP has some "good points". Their ilk don't even see women as people. Bye scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 18 | Almost 5 y together, still no proposal.Doesn't believe in marriage and gave you a shut-up ring? You already know what to do | /r/askFDS | 09/01/21 03:13 AM |
| 11 | Bloke arranges stay at home wife a work christmas do and annual review of her housewife duties. Degrading and humiliating even as "a joke." When will women get some self respect?!Yall have no idea the noise that came out of my mouth when I scrolled down and saw what this dude looked like. He's really got the audacity to criticize his wife on anything when she was generous enough to marry the spitting image of a parrotfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:30 PM |
| 42 | Is it just me or would anyone else break up with this guy?Wait - "She's married and has a kid with her baby daddy and it's clear she loves him very much" huh? Did she call this woman's husband her baby daddy? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:48 PM |
| 25 | When your seemingly HVM...is an undercover cop"At least three women had children with the undercover police sent to spy on them." Horrific. Innocent women and children's lives destroyed, and certainly the men responsible will not face any kind of consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:20 PM |
| 8 | This is what movies like Holidate lead to smhIt is literally always the dudes named Jason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 35 | Is not being able to cook low value?Personally I think everyone should know how to cook. It has nothing to do with stereotypes about women belonging in the kitchen, and everything to do with being an adult and being able to fend for yourself. I would be very off-put by a partner who only eats takeout or frozen foods. If you don't cook I don't necessarily think that makes you low value, but learning to like cooking is absolutely a level up imo! | /r/askFDS | 07/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 13 | Anyone have experienced this with married female colleagues how do you deal with itI assume it's probably because they wanna go on double dates with you? Idk though. That's weird | /r/askFDS | 07/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 5 | I can't with male "humour" anymore (translation in the comments)Even the lowest of the low value dudes I've known in my life have an apartment they wanted to take you to instead of a cardboard box in a field -__- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 10 | My boyfriend is anti-feminist but is sooooo sweet and wonderful otherwise...Why is it worth listening any further if he says women are evil manipulative opportunists? In what way does listening to that drivel pose any sort of benefit to the woman listening? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 42 | My boyfriend is anti-feminist but is sooooo sweet and wonderful otherwise...For anyone with a misogynistic boyfriend: If he hates women, he hates you. It's really that simple. Misogynists don't have "exceptions" and you are certainly not the one good woman who gets a pass in his mind. He is using you for whatever he can get out of you and will toss you to the side when he's wrung you dry. He will cheat on you, he will lie to you, he will think of you as less than him. There is nothing in a relationship with a misogynist that is worth exploring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:57 PM |
| 35 | This makes me so sad 😶It fills me with inner peace knowing the man I married doesn't play video games 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:24 AM |
| 292 | Always trust your gut instinct. It's not snooping, it's basically confirming your suspicions. Once again proved men ain't shit. A HVM will give you no reason to snoop. You'll always feel safe and secure.In my lifetime anytime I've snooped my suspicions have been confirmed. I have never snooped and found nothing. Women are very perceptive and we KNOW when something is up just by how a man is acting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:20 PM |
| 17 | Do any of you have HVM dads?Joining the "my dad cheated" club 🙋🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:54 AM |
| 176 | 100 scrotes aint worth one “hoe” as they sayMen who call women hoes are typically the ones who are out there fucking those "hoes" behind your back, in my observation 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 20 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.Omg 😂 on one hand I have IBS so this kind of triggered me BUT I have never pooped in an alley either. And there are times when I really had to go! I mean if it really was an emergency then whatever but even if it was, I don't blame her at all for not wanting to see him again. And she gave him baby wipes? That's way too close for comfort. I would be haunted by this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:18 AM |
| 76 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???I can tell by the flair that this post came from breakingmom, where they rant about their awful husbands but seldom do you see anyone leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:33 PM |
| 34 | I have a feeling it wasn’t her idea...Anyway. My husband was so excited to wear his wedding ring that he started wearing it on his right hand a month before we were even married. He told me he wanted everyone to know how happy he is to be committed to me. 💁🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:00 PM |
| 136 | Pickmeisha hasn’t figured out her boyfriend is never going to propose after being with him for 5 years30, commitment issues, criminal record. What a catch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:24 PM |
| 9 | The partnership is about working together 🤗 he's making the mess, and I am cleaning it. But seriously, I can't imagine how harmful it is for the young girls to hear such things said by an authority.A partnership is about working together. But if your partner consistently is leaving a mess and expecting you to pick it up, he's openly showing that he doesn't respect you. It would have taken him 0 seconds longer to drop those clothes in the hamper instead of the floor beside it. Why did he do that? It's his way of showing you that your place is to pick up after him, that he is the dominant one in the relationship and you are his submissive servant. Turning it around into dating advice is the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:59 PM |
| 155 | Fuck Only Fans. Here's why.Almost all the facebook groups I'm in have strongly libfem-leaning admins and many of them have their own OnlyFans accounts even while they're in relationships/engaged/married. Make any kind of remark about your partner consuming content from camgirls being cheating, and you get dogpiled. Women are contributing to our own objectification and the normalization of porn culture. Advertising your own body and dignity for sale and consumption is the ultimate pickmeisha business model. If things keep … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:08 PM |
| 77 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits continues their Pro-Pedophile agenda by smearing FDSers concerned about protecting gay youth from predatory adult men as “hateful”. Makes extremely homophobic claims that FDSers are “Political Lesbians”.I don't even understand the logic in calling us political lesbians (which are women who choose to date other women because, despite their attraction to men, they don't wish to be in a relationship with a man). There are a few gay women on here but the majority of FDS users are straight women, or bi women actively seeking a relationship with a man. The occasional joke about "I wish I wasn't attracted to men" by FDS users who are jaded by online dating doesn't make this a "political lesbian" subre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:07 PM |
| 38 | Adult Toddler Wants "Chocwit Ice Cream." I Can't with This.💀 The commenters on that post suggesting the op take him to the doctor because he might have a brain tumor rather than consider that maybe she's just married to someone insufferable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:55 AM |
| 131 | I got married, queens! ❤Yes! Personally I don't hate men at all. I just hate the ones that have proven themselves to be scrotes. It isn't my fault that scrotes make up such a large portion of the male population, they need to work it out amongst themselves if they have a problem with that 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 279 | I got married, queens! ❤We were high school sweethearts who found each other again in adulthood! In the back of my mind I always knew he was special because any guy I dated in the years before we found one another again, I always felt disinterested because I never liked any of them as much as I liked him. We've been together for 3 years, long before I found FDS, but he adds so much value to my life and there's no one else I would rather commit to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:34 PM |
| 12 | if that ain’t the truth. we need to start looking at cheating as the man’s defect and not what the woman was lacking.I definitely see what the intention of saying this is, and feel free to disagree, but imo using pictures of women who are far more conventionally beautiful than the average Jane, and saying things like "how could anyone cheat on HER?", whether intended or not, places a higher value on the more beautiful woman and implies that she is less deserving of being cheated on than average or ugly women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 08:36 PM |
| 58 | Married scrote can't sleep without teddy bear that plays a recording of his dead ex0% chance that bear isn't haunted. That girl has been dead for TWENTY TWO YEARS, LET HER REST | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 52 | if that ain’t the truth. we need to start looking at cheating as the man’s defect and not what the woman was lacking.Average & ugly people do not deserve to get cheated on either! You shouldn't have to be a total bombshell for people to not blame you for getting ran around on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:58 PM |
| 22 | I’m a part-time writer, and I saw this on a romance book sub. I hope it gives you ladies a laugh! For some reason, I feel like this is what a lot of men have to offer. 🤔🤣🤣 (and, usually not even the fitness part)Dusty scrotes wish they had this much going for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:54 PM |
| 22 | At what age did you stop dressing up as Ninja Turtles and Batman and start wanting to be ‘pretty’ for Halloween?I am 24 so I wonder if others my age can relate to this. I really started being obsessed with being pretty and acting older than my age when I was in middle school. A huge catalyst for that was reading "The Clique" series of novels by Lisi Harrison. The girls in the books were in seventh grade but were obsessed with looking beautiful, growing boobs, kissing boys, and designer clothing. Wanting to be like the girls in those books is probably the main reason I forced myself to grow up so fast and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 17 | LVM out here “cooking” dog food and frozen broccoli on “dates.” I’d literally rather go to the field.Pickmeishaism is hard to de-condition yourself from! Hopefully this experience has opened her eyes. Being a pickme will win you a "ground turkey dude" every time 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 31 | LVM out here “cooking” dog food and frozen broccoli on “dates.” I’d literally rather go to the field.The first warning sign is partially covered up in that first message... he asks her to CUDDLE AND WATCH NETFLIX!! 💀 She should have blocked him right there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:40 AM |
| 40 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansYou made the right decision. I would do the same. Take care of yourself in the meantime... order your favorite food tonight and watch some funny movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:13 PM |
| 12 | Ugh, a few articles that empower me to stay single somedaysI can see that, but she's had 76 years of watching her fellow women get divorced, cheated on, abused, left for younger women, etc. I've never known an old lady who doesn't recognize to at least some extent that men have bad intentions, and I grew up in an extremely religious "men are head of the household" community. She would have to be incredibly sheltered to think it's a good idea to give up her home and income to a man she wasn't even married to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:54 PM |
| 117 | What would a young HVM look like?Physical green flags: Good hygiene 100% of the time. Hair and facial hair are styled appropriately. Dressed respectably even when in very casual clothing - no holes or stains on his clothes. Owns a car, and lives alone with no roommates (unless he is still in college). Said car and home are clean and tidy. On dates, he's a good tipper. He uses good grammar when texting. He has a job and isn't still riding on his parents' insurance (again, unless he's in college). MUST know how to cook and clean.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Ugh, a few articles that empower me to stay single somedaysI feel so bad for the lady in the first column. But damn, at 76, she reeeeeally should have known better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | She should buy the house, and then kick him out.Yes! I think video games can be a fun social activity for having friends over or to play together on occasion. But I could never ever be with someone who spends all their free time glued to a first person shooter or with a headset on. Sooo unproductive. It's ridiculous that women have to pretend they're okay with a partner who pays more attention to his computer/xbox than to her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:51 AM |
| 8 | She should buy the house, and then kick him out.I feel an overwhelming sense of peace in my life knowing I'm getting married to someone who doesn't play video games, much less want to devote an entire room of a house to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:45 AM |
| 67 | Even Lauren Southern’s boyfriend expected her to pay for him. Goes to show that libfem logic is pushed onto women from all sides of the political spectrum. Yes, she was stalked and harassed like the rest of us. But she had been a 🤡 from the beginningInteresting read. I can't understand the mental gymnastics she must have to go through on a daily basis to convince herself that it's okay that she received all that sexual harassment that made her cry and fear for her life; that the men who said those things to her are good people who should be looked up to and exalted. & That's not even digging into her racism. She played with the wolves in an attempt to get preferential treatment over the other sheep, and she got eaten alive. Hard to feel sor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:46 PM |
| 16 | The torture, rape and murder of Junko Furuta. The men who did it are walking free today after mostly 6-9 year prison sentencesMy heart breaks every time I read her name. I wish someone would round up everyone responsible and do to all of them what they did to Junko. They don't deserve to be alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:14 AM |
| 131 | This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men.WAP stands for wack-ass pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 73 | They’re now mocking sensual and intimate sex. The comments are full of girls saying how they only watch brutal or forced or kidnapped porn?? And they’re so proud of it??Why do pickme/cool girls always have the worst makeup application? You'd think they'd get better at it if they want to be picked so bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:06 AM |
| 2 | And that's that!She eatin crayons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:01 AM |
| 50 | And that's that!I did! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 89 | And that's that!https://imgur.com/a/DwILakP Here are the "stacy FDS queens" images if anyone would like to use them for anything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:37 AM |
| 32 | Pre-order your copy!💀💀💀 TOENAIL BREATH 💀💀💀 I just watched a video yesterday where a streamer was reading posts off a juggalo forum. And someone on there talked about a sex position called "Clipper 69" where you 69 someone but instead of oral you both chew on each other's toenails. You didn't need to know this but now you're armed with the knowledge that it exists. You're welcome 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:05 AM |
| 331 | This the FDS energy we love. No sending paragraphs or explaining. Just pure boredom: “I’m just less interested.”Scrotes always use the excuse "I got done dirty in my last relationship/I've been cheated on" as an excuse to completely disregard our feelings and play stupid mind games. Nah dude. Your exes have nothing to do with your current behavior (and if they do, you aren't ready to date). You're just a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Bought myself some lilies a few days ago just because I deserve some and they finally opened up (except one!). Highly recommend. They smell amazing!Hey thanks! 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:00 AM |
| 125 | This just happened to me...feeling stupid but now on high alert SMHThe lock thing I don't really care about. I wouldn't expect to go through my partner's phone for no reason. If I'm with someone, I trust them. But when he starts putting it face down all the time and tilting it away from you so you can't even catch a glimpse of his screen, don't demand to see his messages. Just leave. We are not doing that shit anymore. I've literally never had my gut feeling be wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Bought myself some lilies a few days ago just because I deserve some and they finally opened up (except one!). Highly recommend. They smell amazing!They are messy but I really like the way they look on the flower so I always leave them lol! I burn a lot of incense so I am always wiping ash off my counters anyway 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:02 PM |
| 6 | Booked an appointment to take my IUD out. However,the only gynecologist available for this month is a man. I plan to wait longer for a woman because I'm not comfortable with the idea of man removing it. Am I the only one that questions why a man would want to be a gynecologist in the 1st place?I ask myself the same question at times. While I wouldn't necessarily be opposed to having a quick gynecological procedure done by a man I have always and probably will always want my regular gynecologist to be female. That's more comfortable to me. But I don't think it's necessarily creepy for a man to become a gynecologist because 1. The reproductive system is fascinating and he may have gone into the profession because he wants to deliver babies. 2. There is a big need for gynecologists; enor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:17 PM |
| 273 | The fact that she feels the need to ask if she's an asshole...He kept doing it after she cut the tip of her thumb off and needed surgery. He's 100% doing it on purpose. This is why we need FDS. She doesn't even see that she's being abused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 07:33 PM |
| 40 | 5 years?! Wholesome my @$$... Way to make her think she's wasting her time. She needs FDS.Imo age plays a big part in it. Like I was with my man for 3 years before the proposal, but we are both young. If y'all are 35 and he still hasn't proposed after 3 years, you're probably a forever girlfriend already. 5 years is only acceptable if you're very young | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 44 | Or maybe don’t go having kids all over the place when you only have $800 a month to support them?? Why is that so difficult?And men rag on single moms all the time!! Guys like this are the absolute bottom of the barrel of human society. Absolutely no thought about the consequences of their actions, no regard for bringing a human life into the world. Ladies, if a man you're talking to has kids with more than one woman, you RUN and you RUN FAST. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:16 PM |
| 23 | LVM proposes marriage, gf accepts, then LVM explains he actually doesn’t believe in legal marriage and just wants to be “spiritually” married. (And of course, most of the comments are defending him.)Yawn. If you want to spend the rest of your life with me, grow old with me, and have children with me, why won't you make it legally binding? Oh, because you want zero commitment, zero obligation to contribute financially to the relationship, and the ability to leave at any time with no consequence? Next. Sis is 19, she has her whole life ahead of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:11 PM |
| 15 | Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheatWow, wtf. I misread and thought she said he was working from home. This worthless sack of human garbage has been fucking OP's best friend while she was 100% supporting them... he is not even human. Throw him in the gutter where he belongs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:41 PM |
| 13 | Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheatI hope she takes everything he has and then some in the divorce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 15 | Just... WHY IS THIS PIC ON YOUR TINDER PROFILE?!?!Is that poop? Like... actual poop? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:36 AM |
| 24 | Poor girl. This is disgusting.This is why FDS is so important. To keep young women and girls from ending up in a relationship where her partner is capable of doing something like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:35 PM |
| 50 | Have you had a man who was a complete stranger or you barely knew physically assault you or threaten to?I have never been physically assaulted by a stranger, but in the past I have had men on OLD tell me they were going to rape me. If those dudes actually SAID it to me, imagine how many more are THINKING it. I shudder to think about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 9 | Help. I'm in trouble. Obsessing over a guy, nearly over night. This is BAD.What do you think is going to happen, though, when he inevitably finds out you've been reading his emails, Google searches, etc? Can't you make your own account for this game? | /r/askFDS | 01/10/20 11:34 AM |
| 38 | Help. I'm in trouble. Obsessing over a guy, nearly over night. This is BAD.What? Girl this is a trainwreck. First, you HAVE to tell him to change his gmail password. You don't need to go into specifics, just tell him to change it because it makes you feel strange having it. Second, if you might want to date this guy in the future you HAVE to get a grip and stop obsessing over how many times he's googled you. This is a really weird situation, and from what you've said, you guys text each other a lot. You would be so much better off to take a step back and let it progres… | /r/askFDS | 01/10/20 11:21 AM |
| 58 | HVM love FDSMy fiance doesn't read this sub regularly, but he knows what the premise is, has browsed in the past, and knows that I'm active on here and he has no issue with it. Why would he? He's a HVM and our relationship has only improved since I discovered FDS 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Apparently FDS is delusional and a cope. This OP thinks he is the prize 🤔Spoken like a true scrote. Curious how someone "got a bunch of our pictures" when the vast majority of us don't post any personally identifying information on our pages? Side note - the kind of man that typically tries to convince women that they're ugly usually looks like a sentient thumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Ahh yes, girls aren't raised differently to boys at allI'd rather become a nun than end up with a man who thinks this way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:59 PM |
| 9 | How easily do you orgasm?I've always had a tough time orgasming. I have never, ever been able to make myself cum through masturbating... I've tried everything, believe me. I've watched videos, done research, experimented... I always just end up numb after masturbating for 45+ minutes with no orgasm. So I just don't do it anymore. When having sex I can pretty much only cum if I'm on top, riding cowgirl style. My partner loves foreplay and giving oral and tries all kinds of new positions, but usually nothing but cowgirl m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Men wanted children with his partner, now he is upset she planned it, but he didn’t mind finishing inside.Lol. What did he think he was he gonna do, leave her and go find another 38+ year old woman just ready and willing to have his army of children? 38 is very late to be starting a family for someone who "always knew he wanted to be a dad" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Men wanted children with his partner, now he is upset she planned it, but he didn’t mind finishing inside.She's just as stupid as he is for having a child she didn't want just to keep him from leaving her. These two clowns deserve each other 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 8 | Man is offended that I ask about his most interesting photo. Also feels the need to insist he could take a moose in a fight...Date idea: take your local LVM to fight a moose while you watch from a safe distance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 0 | I just got my IUD taken out and I couldn’t be happierOh I'm not doubting that! But if my birth control is already working fine, why pressure me into getting something implanted inside me that has the possibility of terrible side effects? It just feels really shady | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 5 | After my post earlier....lolAnd I won't rest until baby girls come straight out of the womb already saying "scrotes mad" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:57 PM |
| 9 | 🤡*Circus music slowly gets louder*🤡Shout out to all my fellow married/engaged queens who didn't have to humiliate themselves by being a desperate pickme to find a partner. And shoutout to the single queens who refuse to lower their value by begging for a man's attention, because they know they don't need to. Ever seen a commercial for a Harry Winston diamond? Cartier? Yeah, me either. Sis here can stay Walmart-level. FDS ladies are worth more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 27 | I just got my IUD taken out and I couldn’t be happierWhy are IUDs pushed on us so hard?? Even by other women!! I've been taking birth control pills for a few years now; I found one that stops my period and doesn't cause any bad side effects for me. In EVERY conversation when birth control is brought up, the women I know who have IUDs chime in to tell me "You need to get an IUD! It was incredibly painful to insert, I get periods that last 3 months, debilitating cramps, and almost-daily spotting, but omg you should totally get one! Pills are bad for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:56 PM |
| 13 | Ladies in relationships with HVM: what bad habits does he have that don’t detract from him being HV?Omggg mine doesn't wear sunblock either (unless we're going out in the sun together and I offer it to him). He's native american and thinks he'll just tan but idk how many times I've told him that darker complexioned people DO still burn. He always gets fried on his ears, neck, nose, forehead, and the tops of his feet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:47 PM |
| 17 | Ladies in relationships with HVM: what bad habits does he have that don’t detract from him being HV?Hahaha. He's a little unobservant. Like sometimes we take my car places and he doesn't remember to fill it back up with gas. Annoying, yes, but I know he isn't doing it on purpose. Things like that on their own are just part of being human. When there's a clear, definite pattern, though... that's when an annoying habit becomes a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:44 PM |
| 248 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂Can you move your bigass head? I'm trying to see the prophet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:35 PM |
| 21 | Is this too much?Preach! & Right under that is "open when it's our 1st anniversary" sis did all this for less than a year of dating 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:27 AM |
| 13 | Don't put up cameras and don't internalize it as "your own insecurities." If the person you're dating doesn't want to honor your requests on a dealbreaker issue, then you leave. Don't even waste your time wondering if they have an addiction. Put yourself first and just go."OH JEEZ it's been 15 seconds since I've told everyone that I'm not like other girls, better make a new post" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:23 AM |
| 15 | “I’m not a feminist for very simple reasons. I love being a woman. I love men. I can’t wait to get married and start a family and I’d gladly make @GTSFarmer a sandwich, every time. Feminism is a scam. If you think Lena Dunham and Kathy Griffin are happy — go be a feminist.” - Candace OwensI love being a woman. I love MY man - why do I need to love men as a group? My love only matters for ONE. I am excited for my wedding and to start a family. I don't know or care if Lena Dunham and Kathy Griffin are happy, and whether or not they are has nothing to do with feminism. The difference between myself and Candace Owens is that I'm not a pickmeisha who bases my self-worth on whether alt-right fuckboys point at me and say "she's the only good one of her kind" because I've been doing noth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 65 | Why don’t men make attempts to look better??Because the average scrote lacks the self-discipline to do anything to improve his appearance, lifestyle, or personality because lazing around playing video games and eating cheetos is more fun than shaving his hobo beard, practicing a skincare routine, or going to the gym (or therapy, for that matter, but that's a whole other story). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 6 | I guess now it is a walking date into a Netflix and chill. Reminds me of limbo...How low can you go?This was probably written by a man, but if this was really someone's dream, I'd feel sad for her. You can't figure out how to walk your dog and order a pizza on your own? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 25 | Can High School Sweethearts Be HV?I'm engaged to my HV high school sweetheart! We dated when we were 16, went our separate ways, and found each other again years later. I don't really think that proves your point wrong or anything, though. We were just a case of getting it right the first time. Plus we had years to grow as our own people, separately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Ex collage for my LVW ex-gf. (Bi sisters unite)Split ends 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:46 PM |
| -8 | Ex collage for my LVW ex-gf. (Bi sisters unite)Girl it's not that deep. We were both taking zoloft. If you've ever used it, you'd know what it does to your sex drive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:51 PM |
| 124 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.Libfems are hilarious. They'll make a giant "woke" post talking about how women's bodies are not for male consumption (making sure to reply "not all men" to every male commenter because god forbid someone not think of the men for 5 seconds), and in the very same breath claim that selling your body for male consumption is empowering, and that if you don't agree, you aren't really a feminist. If sex work was empowering and a real career, why do you go by a fake name on your onlyfans? Is it because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:27 AM |
| 127 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.Nope x1000. Men with mothers like this are off-limits to any self-respecting woman. Having this kind of low-value woman as your mother-in-law will be torture like nothing you can imagine. She WILL pick fights with you, she WILL start drama the minute she isn't the center of attention, she WILL shit-test you every opportunity she gets, and her son WILL take her side, every single time. This woman is the type to wear a white dress and tiara to your wedding, to demand to be in the room when you giv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 85 | Got downvoted by scrotes for offering advice to a woman who drove halfway to meet a LVM who turned up 30mins late to a coffee date while holding a tea he made at home...That's true too. If she valued herself, she would have walked out the door the minute he wasn't there at their agreed time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 218 | Got downvoted by scrotes for offering advice to a woman who drove halfway to meet a LVM who turned up 30mins late to a coffee date while holding a tea he made at home...She even had to buy her own coffee, and she's asking if she should see him again 💀 Even the lowest-value men would OFFER to buy her drink, especially after making her wait half an hour! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:40 PM |
| 24 | There are so many posts like this from women, they think they have to put up with it. And some scrote telling her it’s normal and he does it too. I know things are slowly changing but When will we get Completely ahead of the social gaslighting?"Does that make me a bad partner too?" Yes. Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:47 PM |
| 790 | They don’t even try to hide how vile they are. They just tell on themselves.📢 OK GROOMER 📢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 18 | What to expect from a LVM who promise you a ringI feel so bad for her. Can we all take her to see Justin Bieber like she wanted? :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:54 AM |
| 83 | "Male Bowerbirds make art to attract females. These structures don’t act as nests at all and are purely aesthetic." - The men of our species need to take notes (neckbeard nests don't count)The amount of trash this bird was able to find is horrific. But at the same time I'm insanely impressed with the color-coordination achieved by a creature with a brain the size of a raisin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:09 AM |
| 29 | Just a lil funnyAsk him to send you a pic after a few weeks. Men love doing that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 42 | what the fuck is this shit and how is she okay with that?👄📢 SHOWERING AND BRUSHING YOUR TEETH ARE NOT CHORES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:08 AM |
| 9 | Can men and women be just friends?I think men and women can be friends to a degree, but under most circumstances it'll never be the same as female/female or male/male friendships. In my experience, men catch feelings SO easily and if you tell them you want to be friends, not romantic partners, they take it as a personal attack. If your boundaries work for your relationship and you and your partner are happy, there's no point in evaluating those boundaries for the comfort of outside parties. Who cares if your friends don't like i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 271 | This girl did all this to find out later she was being cheated on🥴I do feel bad for her though. She's beautiful, educated, and obviously really cared about him. Anyone who could cheat on a woman like her is a psychopath. I hope next time around she doesn't act like a pickme; she clearly doesn't need to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:34 PM |
| 414 | This girl did all this to find out later she was being cheated on🥴ALL THIS FOR A MAN SLEEPING ON AN AIR MATTRESS I'M.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:30 PM |
| 26 | FDS is not only about celibacy : you can date, be married, just do not forget about your goals, interests and safety.Getting married in 2 months to my HVM :) FDS/FLUS taught me to be more confident in myself and the meaning of being high value, which has only improved our relationship. Bitter redditors who call this sub an "incel" sub either 1. don't know what they're talking about, 2. are scrotes mad that women aren't falling for their shit anymore, or 3. jealous that they aren't woman enough to shed their pickme ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsSo glad the sub is back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:35 PM |
| 110 | NEVER AGAINHaha, when I moved in with my now fiance (pre-FDS, don't roast me), all of his pillows were like sheets of paper. I showed him the true need of having nice, memory foam pillows, and now there's no going back 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:08 PM |
| 61 | I'm sorry, but what?I kind of feel for her. I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness too. The sexual repression, discouragement of independent thought, and withholding of outside information really does something screwy to your brain. It takes a lot of strength to become a well-adjusted person after being so developmentally stunted during your formative years. But seriously, the mindset that middle aged and older people can't have fun, or have sex like young people is so bogus. Girl just go fuck if you want to fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:31 PM |
| 21 | Just propose alreadyNormally I'd say you're a forever girlfriend already, but since you do have a child together and you say you are happy and enjoy life with him BUT marriage is important to you, if it were me I'd give him an ultimatum. Propose or lose me. If he still drags his feet, he doesn't care if he loses you. Drop him and find someone who values you like you should be valued. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:24 PM |
| 34 | OP says her bf won’t stop making sexist comments and of course the answer is to cOmUnICaTeNah, sis. If you tell him you're uncomfortable with his comments ONCE, and he doesn't stop, he doesn't care about your feelings. And if he gets defensive that's not "normal". That's your sign to get tf out of there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:57 PM |
| 219 | We can do that after we normalize women needing emotional support😒Normalize men emotionally supporting other men so that women don't have to be y'alls free therapists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 11:12 PM |
| 19 | My sister just got this exciting dude, he asked her on a date and then decided to switch up on her???Nooo nooo don't worry about my AGRRAVATED ASSAULT WITH A DEADLY WEAPON charges I just want you to come over to my house where there are no witnesses, I'm just protecting us from the virus sweetie babe hun darling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:13 AM |
| 6 | Dear fucking gods.HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:00 AM |
| 133 | “Not true! I still do!!! 🙋♀️”Sorry your nerve endings are fried from whacking it to porn 10 times a week since you were 12, Kevin. Maybe in your next life you won't be such a brainless scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:01 AM |
| 14 | Why is it always the first instinct to ARGUE with a woman’s opinion? I unmatched before his response. So annoying.Men are so bad at conversation. It's like they don't even respond to what you're saying. They just want to relentlessly talk AT you about stupid stuff until your eyes gloss over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 31 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?I cannot believe no one has posted Jason yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:32 PM |
| 14 | I have no words lolA prenup cannot include child support. Doesn't mean he wouldn't try, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:15 AM |
| 115 | I have no words lolI am not even joking when I say I'd be halfway to planned parenthood the second he said "you're paying for the entire birth". You'd have to be a clown to have a baby for a man who acts like this. And you know when she wisens up and leaves his ass, he's going to do everything in his power to avoid giving her a cent of child support. DO NOT PLAY YOURSELF LIKE THIS LADIES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:30 AM |
| 44 | Tomi Lahren Has An FDS EpiphanyWow. This actually might be the beginning of her "waking up" and realizing that being an anti-feminist is just playing yourself because men really and truly ain't shit. She's spent years defending men and maintaining the patriarchal status quo and is just now realizing that not a single one of them gives a fuck and she's just a warm hole in their eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:40 PM |
| 15 | Tomi Lahren Has An FDS EpiphanyCan someone post a TL;DR for this? Idk if I can handle 14 minutes of her voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:27 PM |
| 129 | Just got back from a first date where the guy have some sort of eating disorder and made a whole scene about splitting the bill. So awkwardI would have been so embarrassed over my date making a scene like that. If he didn't plan on paying, why didn't he ask for separate checks? Also, the food issues and his sudden volume change at the end... this guy sounds unstable. Block! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:30 PM |
| 19 | Okay. Let’s not talk about how men constantly make fun of things girls like such as princesses, twilight, romance films and books, pink, girl stuffy, etc.Boy, I sure do see a lot of offended fish-holders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 27 | Cheap LVM brags about not buying his wife a ringThis scrote didn't even get her a silicone band from Walmart 😭 imagine valuing your wife so little that the idea of getting a piece of jewelry for her is painful to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:33 AM |
| 14 | “He called me Mom during sex” The biggest pickmeisha/cockholm syndrome sub is FULL of that kind of stuff.This comment on the original post... I... 💀 "Many of the replies seem to see this as a red flag, or something related to BDSM, MdLb, or incest. Here's my two cents. My boyfriend calls me "mommy" during sex, and I sometimes call him "daddy". He doesn not have "mommy issues" and I do not have "daddy issues". For us, it is nothing but a kink and something to make sex more fun. Kinks may not always have a deeper meaning, like desires for incest. " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:22 PM |
| 30 | And this, ladies, is why education is fundamental, and porn is not educational.It is mostly pee. If a woman does do it, great! But the fact that people have put so much focus on it to the point where a woman feels inadequate if she can't do it is annoying as hell. Especially since, you know, getting a woman to climax should be the responsibility of the person she's having sex with, not the woman herself 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 10 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgerySis, you're the only one saying certain noses are desirable compared to others. All I said was that strong noses are often associated with certain ethnicities. You also said that a girl would be disappointed to have a nose like the one in the picture. There are 86,000 women using this forum, and I'm sure a good chunk of us have a strong nose like that. Do us big-nosed gals really need another reminder that y'all think we're ugly? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:16 AM |
| 14 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgeryHe told op he had work done after 3 months. Where is the false advertisement? Strong noses like the one pictured are ethnic traits. I know "looksmaxxing" is a hot topic in adjacent communities, but acting like the only features that make a woman beautiful are white, Scandinavian button-noses and tiny pointed chins does a disservice to your fellow FDS queens who have strong ethnic features. & I say this as a Sicilian woman with a big, strong nose that I would never change! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 8 | Ultimate pickmeisha behaviour covered up by a 'prank' video where she tricks her bf of 14 years (!!) into going down on one knee. SMH.Idk why it's such a hard concept. If he hasn't proposed to you after FOURTEEN YEARS, NEARLY A DECADE AND A HALF, he never will. Move on, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:11 AM |
| 16 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.Can you do me the new address? I want to check to see if I'm on there. I used to send nudes :S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:21 PM |
| 80 | An man posted his wife’s joyful reaction to him buying her a new house and a handbag and the Twitter comments are now an all out assault from LVM and Pickmeishas. Ya hate to see it.The comments are full of male cope 😂 "ACKSHUALLY, we should stop equating buying things with love!" Like, okay Kevin, way to miss the point. It's not just the gift, it's about being so happy to make your partner happy and the way he smiled when she opened that gift. He loves her more than a scrote even believes he's capable of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:47 AM |
| 200 | I'm proud of myself for getting clarification and setting boundaries."Good vibes only!" (2 seconds later) Hey will you let me fuck you pleeez | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 11:07 PM |
| 46 | Whats with this new trend of men trying to be victim? Weren't they criticising women friendships few days ago?I GUESS he was hoping I'd say "oh perfect, I'd love to cheat on my fiance, come over now!" 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 11:46 AM |
| 123 | Whats with this new trend of men trying to be victim? Weren't they criticising women friendships few days ago?I don't feel bad for men who don't have any friends. A guy I used to hang with texted me out of the blue and talked about how the virus has had him living here longer than he thought he would be, and that he's so lonely and has no friends here. I offered to get a coffee with him because we always had gotten along well, we like a lot of the same music, and I know that lonely feeling. He said "well, you're in a relationship, and I'm kind of just interested in having sex with you". 5 seconds earlie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 11:26 AM |
| 48 | Wtf, and men complain that women have “impossible” standards.I'm 5'3 and fluctuate from 110-115 lbs. I wear a size 2 jean, a D-sized bra, and can easily fit in clothes from the little girls'/child section. This guy is completely brainless and I'm willing to bet his hairline is nonexistent. Bye Kevin! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | What’s your rules for other girls when dating?I think it's inappropriate for a man to "hang out" with other girls alone when he's in a relationship or married. Or for him to text other women every day. Doesn't matter how long they've been friends. If you want to make plans with another woman, and I'm not invited, automatically 100% suspicious. Something is going on there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:41 PM |
| 15 | Marriage timeline - am I ridiculous ?4-5 years is a very long time if you're in your 30s. You would be almost 40 before he even decided to propose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:10 AM |
| 36 | So this happened.... I'm actually taking it as a compliment I am pissing these incels offAll right guys, join me at dawn in the straw hut to begin our female-only nut gathering retreat. Bring your own basket! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 128 | "BDSM is empowering" is pickme cope. EVERY man who gets sexual pleasure from seeing a woman in pain is dangerous, and being the "cool girl" who's okay with this kind of behavior will get you hurt, every time. Period.In the post, she explained that he was hurting her, and then he proceeded to ignore the safe word and raped her. Afterwards he gaslights her into believing she did something wrong, refused to eat the dinner she made, giving her the cold shoulder and acting extremely angry. Thankfully all the comments are telling her she needs to leave immediately. I hope she listens. But yeah, I would LOVE that poster from earlier who asked "What's wrong with BDSM?" To point out where the empowerment is in this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Clarification about the BDSM rule?Girl, we don't give a fuck if you like getting beat up in your spare time. We're telling you why promoting that pickme bullshit isn't allowed on this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Clarification about the BDSM rule?Any man who wants to beat and tie up a woman, even with her consent, is disgusting. A man who enjoys getting off to a woman's pain is dangerous and a ticking time bomb. Period | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:51 PM |
| 9 | Clarification about the BDSM rule?Please enlighten me on how letting your partner beat you, restrain you/tie you up, and pretend to rape you to get off sexually is a healthy expression of sexuality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 94 | Why do they make this about sex?Woman: makes a joke Men: UNGA BUNGA!!! UNNNNGGGAA BUNGGAAAA WOMEN BAD!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:44 AM |
| 32 | /r/Trashy loves Applebee's, apparently."So because he offered to take you to Applebee's, he's broke?" Yes. And is also a chump for wanting to pay $8.99 for a microwaved entree. I don't know why it's so hard for the internet to understand that paying for a date = paying for our time and effort. There are 1500 men in my inbox trying to win me over, so show me why I should get dressed up and ready and spend my entire evening giving you my undivided attention. If you're gonna act shocked when a woman thinks her time, effort, and attentio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:40 AM |
| 61 | What the FUCK is going on hereImagine having so little shame and self awareness that you post this image online for thousands of people to look at. Lmao. Anyway you could fry chicken with the amount of grease oozing from this picture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:33 AM |
| 8 | Ladies if he refuses to follow basic instructions take out the whole man. I commented "dump him" and got harassed by several different people it's a joke, get the stick out of your butt, you're a karen, etc. Also recieved sexual advances🤡 This is man child and a lvm. It's not funny its pathetic.He looks like a counterfeit ugly version of Nathan Lane's character in Mouse Hunt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:21 AM |
| 13 | Really girl?? Did he pick you?You can go ahead and do that. We're good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:22 AM |
| 170 | God forbidBeing addicted to video games is a NVM trait. When you're missing out on your life, missing out on precious moments with your spouse and family just so you can play some stupid game, you're sucking the joy out of life for everyone who cares about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 10 | I might be falling for himFor your sake I hope it turns out well! Just guard yourself. Don't put your whole heart out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:32 PM |
| 26 | He had me in the first half NGL. What’s your opinion on this relationship?Eh, I think it's all right? Assuming he's temporarily unemployed due to the virus. It's good that he's cleaning and taking good care of the dogs while she's gone. He should find a hobby so he isn't just watching tv every day though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:39 AM |
| 194 | “i win” 🙄You won a crusty dusty man who's in other womens' inboxes begging them for pussy pics. You lost your dignity and self respect by playing pickme mind games with a ZVM. Congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:05 AM |
| 293 | Ladies, I present exhibit A - the Friendswithbenefitsasaurus. Abundant in urban areas, he is a common sub-species of the Loserasaurus. Complete disengagement is the only way to stay safe from this species.Before my FDS days, I had a FWB. It all crashed down when he literally got steaming mad at me one day because I asked if he wanted to go with me to a tattoo appointment, just like I'd ask any other friend. He said "You only ever want to do boyfriend stuff with me! All I wanted from you was drama-free pussy". That was the moment my naive self realized that a FWB is never actually your friend. They're nothing but a pussy vulture and if you expect him to actually be your friend or do anything with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:08 AM |
| 48 | Share your WORST date story.Tbh I've been with my HV fiance for most of my adult life. I haven't been on a ton of dates with other people. So mine isn't really that crazy. This is way before I discovered FDS, too. But this dude I agreed to go out for coffee with totally catfished me with old pics. I'm not into fat guys, and I show up to the artsy fartsy coffee shop, and he's at least 75 lbs heavier than his photos. Off to a bad start. He had gotten there before me, and already bought his own coffee. He says "I'll get us a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 26 | I’m speechlessI have mixed feelings. One one hand, I feel like this is creepy on the man's part. But on the other, she can't help her height and she shouldn't have to be limited to only being with other short people. It would be very hard for her to find someone her own height. Idk. I guess it just depends on his attitude. There's no way to know what goes on behind closed doors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:22 PM |
| 21 | The male expectation of women to be completely shavedYou wouldn't catch me dead with a man who wants me to go through razor burn, shaving bumps, and insanely itchy regrowth just so I can look like an 8 year old from the crotch down. The defensive scrotes on that post are hilarious. I enjoy making fun of their scrotations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:19 AM |
| 121 | He's taking crazy pills. Women are loved on the condition that are consistently attractive and providing sex.Telling on himself. That statement says "I am 55 years old and have never proven myself worthy of being loved beyond what I can provide". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:34 AM |
| 12 | Advice needed. We've been dating for 6 months and he hasn't told his parents about me. How to proceed?6 months to decide whether he wants his parents to know about you? Imagine how long you're about to be waiting for a ring sis. 💀 You have a one way ticket to forever girlfriend status. Ride along if you want, but I'd be getting off if I were you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:14 AM |
| 109 | I.....WHAT? The things some women will put up with. FDS is so necessary it’s not even funny.I don't mean to alarm you ma'am but your boyfriend is actually a sewer rat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:07 AM |
| 7 | Proof is in the pudding- you will NEVER win when it comes to NVM/LVMThere's no point debating this with him or any other scrote. Every choice we could make is wrong unless we're literally dating/having sex with them. It doesn't matter who you're involved with, a scrote will hate you anyway because you're not sucking his wee-wee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:33 PM |
| 47 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅The bottom right pic gave me weird vibes, even as a short girl myself. The print of her shirt and her backpack over her shoulders, holding his hand... she looks like a child next to him and the shot was prooooobably designed that way on purpose :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:20 AM |
| 7 | Is it possible for a LVM to better himself and become a HVM, in order to make himself a suitable match for a HVW?Of course people can change. But girlie, clearly you never stopped thinking about him/feeling for him and are making every excuse you can think of to get him back in your life. A HVW does not need to concern herself with a man who hangs out with drug dealers and has warrants out for his arrest, just because he's good in bed and folds laundry. Like do you hear yourself? A changed person changes of their own volition, not to appease someone else/keep someone else from leaving. In a year you'll be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:05 PM |
| 15 | Looking for a strong independent women but also reply within 24 hours or you’re toast. At least he’s self aware that he’s a piece of shit lol. 🤷♀️"Medical Doctor at Med Center" ok dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 13 | At what age did you meet your SO? And if you're married, at what age?Met him when we were 15. Dated for a few months, our religious parents made us break up because we were "too young to date". Reconnected again when we were 21. We're 24 now and engaged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Dudes been lurking here and doesn’t like why he sees🤔Where's the lie though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Buying your fiancee a ring like this just because it is the cheapest.....Girl it's okay nobody said you have to wear a diamond 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 09:29 PM |
| 8 | Buying your fiancee a ring like this just because it is the cheapest.....My engagement ring is a smaller stone because I have extremely small fingers (my ring size is 4). It's a white gold "sunburst" type setting, 0.5 carat sapphire in the center, with diamonds accenting (aka the "bursts" in the sunburst) and around the band. It isn't a typical ring, and I absolutely think it's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen. It's totally perfect for me. I think unique rings are amazing, but the picture in OP obviously had no thought put into it. It looks like the person cho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:59 PM |
| 12 | This man is very obviously not under 25 and is bragging about a car, home, and career while being 5’9. Dude there’s like a million taller guys in your same positionAny guy so insecure about being 5'9" that he decides to blame women for his height definitely has the worst personality and is awful in bed. Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:43 PM |
| 16 | Pickemeisha in the wild, under a post on AITA cause a woman got a 70$ engagement ring with no stone.I spent $75 on a new houseplant the other day and this scrote wants her to wear a $70 costume ring every day for their whole marriage 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:43 AM |
| 17 | pick me spotted.He's still not gonna give you a ring sis 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 11:02 AM |
| 314 | Yet another example of the importance of abiding by the FDS rules - woman goes beyond her way to prepare nice date and ends up being used like a sex doll by NVMLesson learned hopefully. Sexual attention from men has zero value. Men will want to fuck you no matter who you are, what you do, or what you look like. Do NOT waste your physical or emotional energy on a man who only wants to sleep with you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:21 AM |
| 107 | This absolutely pathetic. If he wanted to marry you he would have done it. Please ladies stop your friends.🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 8 years 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 10:34 AM |
| 7 | Must Watch/Listen. “Men who value and respect their wives don’t marry down because they feel co-equal. Marrying down implies that they feel superior.”Surely this isn't the case for every relationship. But info like this is so important for the young girls here who are trying to make an informed decision on what kind of partner they want. There are so many different viewpoints here it can be confusing and hard to take them all in. Being able to understand the psychology of why some men make the decisions that they do is so so valuable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 09:00 PM |
| 72 | Men Who Invest In OnlyFans, Female Streamers, Pay-To-View Are Considered LVM?This. Paying a woman to be allowed to jerk off to her naked body is NOT supporting womens' entrepreneurship. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 06:37 AM |
| 153 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠THEY'VE ONLY BEEN DATING FOUR MONTHS!!! Imagine only being with someone 4 months, finding 30 dirty condoms under your bed, and seeing him wiping his biohazard penis on your clean curtain and coming to the internet for advice instead of telling him to get out of your house. While she was typing this, he was probably dragging his unwiped ass across her carpet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 09:55 PM |
| 162 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠It's gotten to the point where I almost feel no sympathy for women when they post this kind of thing. If you can type all this out and not realize that he's a pig and he's not going to change, you seriously lack self awareness and nothing any of the commenters say to you is going to snap you out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 09:49 PM |
| 61 | Literally 20% of the shops in my town are the third type. Men love that shit.It really reads as being about LuLaRoe/Younique/other money-sucking pyramid schemes. Why is "business" in mocking quotations? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:37 PM |
| 69 | This fuckboy just sent me a graph to mansplain to me why Covid is nothing to worry about."Time to come out and play!" Actually, it's time to shut the fuck up you creep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:00 AM |
| 6 | Sex writer says that instead of saying all breasts are sexy, to stop sexualizing breasts altogether because it “furthers objectification”. LibFems center their understanding of sex based on magical ideological thinking rather than material reality which is why their advice is always terrible. 🙄Honestly, just standing up with correct posture and shoulders back can improve any person's looks and confidence by an insane amount. Most people don't even consciously realize it, but slouching literally makes anyone look so much worse 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 01:18 PM |
| 36 | I hope this isn’t real because that’s a $4k gun and they aren’t even together. The Pickmeisha is strong with this one.I wouldn't do this much for a chance to marry Christ Jesus himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:12 AM |
| 32 | I hope this isn’t real because that’s a $4k gun and they aren’t even together. The Pickmeisha is strong with this one.I believe once she gives it to him he has to register it in his own name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:06 AM |
| 35 | Comments on a post discussing about how men have unrealistic and unfair expectations for women. The guy’s comment is EXACTLY the reaction pickmeisha’s crave when they they claim “men have it just as bad!” I’m glad I am past my pickmeisha phase.Imagine falling over yourself to achieve male attention, the most abundant resource in the world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 05:38 AM |
| 8 | Is there any other females who found their HVM but still come to FDS regularely ?I'm engaged to my HVM. I come here to hopefully help other girls realize that they don't have to settle. A LOT of my irl friends are dating LVM/NVMs. I have been trying to put FDS principles in their heads any opportunity I get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 05:32 AM |
| 31 | Blocked LVM after trying to lure me to come over because of “corona”LOLLLLLLLLLLLL LVMs ARE SO STUPID JESUS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 06:07 PM |
| 145 | Lord help this woman 🙏Also adding to this that the "get your ass ready" comment while pointing to the scale makes me want to projectile vomit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:10 AM |
| 273 | Lord help this woman 🙏Offering my own body as a cum rag to be used by my obese husband because he's a child and needs a carrot dangled in front of his diabetic, diseased face in order to stop eating himself to death! Haha I love marriage! 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:09 AM |
| 29 | Boyfriend Checking Out Other WomenThe root problem isn't really the looking. It's that he's doing something that makes you uncomfortable, you told him that, and he said "well it would be hard not to look". We are all human, and naturally when we're around other people, we may see someone attractive to us. HOWEVER, openly checking out other girls in front of your gf, even bringing up their looks to her? Disrespectful on so many levels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:32 AM |
| 3 | The scrodacityLMAO it's not so much the hair itself that bothers me, but putting your massively hairy, naked gut and nipples as your FIRST profile picture on a dating site gives me the heebie jeebies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:17 AM |
| 3 | How on earth do you meet a porn-free man?Honestly when I was on OLD, men couldn't help but mention porn casually, usually within a few days of starting to talk to them. I think they will make it known. With my fiance, I was open about it early on. I said "I hate porn. Porn is a deal breaker". And that was years before I found FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:01 AM |
| 40 | Dear women, please read this post. And then please: make the decision for yourself to never stay with a man who expects you to be his mother and servant.Couldn't 👏🤡 be 👏🤡 me 👏🤡 sis 👏🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:11 PM |
| 148 | Grandma Hattie is totally a pickmieshaThis is definitely a joke but I've seen lots of other women echoing the same sentiment. Imagine valuing your own body so little that you proudly tell the internet you'd perform oral for a $15 meal at a chain restaurant Cool girl mentality = a disease | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:39 AM |
| 23 | Guy hits me up on here and found he struggled with porn 18 days ago. I told him I wouldn’t talk to him until at least a year of being free of his addiction and get this- because “all men” do it- it’s okay 🤨My boyfriend hasn't watched porn in over 2 years and has no desire to, try again Kevin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:04 AM |
| 12 | What was the breaking point of your breakups ?When I was a child, I was regularly mistreated by my parents. Even though I was clinically underweight, my mom constantly told me I was going to get fat and called me "pig" every time she saw me eat something. My parents beat me and my siblings, and my brother-in-law tried to molest me when I was 15. When I was in my first serious relationship, I was over the moon in love with her. I could tell after about a year that she was becoming distant and it probably wouldn't work out. But instead of lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 09:25 PM |
| 52 | Wow, manipulative jackhole takes job in Australia without telling gf of 5 years or parents. Tries to gaslight gf reaction.Leeching off her emotionally and sexually for 5 years only to drop her like she's nothing the minute he has the opportunity to. He's a parasite, not even human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:12 AM |
| 51 | Just why.I'm an independent man! I refuse to marry my girlfriend of 9 years. But I use... Her body. Her home. Her car. Her money. Her credit score. Her physical labor - cooking, cleaning. Her emotional labor. Her time. Her energy. Her youth. And if she stops offering any one of these things freely, I'll just dump her and immediately move on to my next victim, because my heart is a black hole and I've fried my brain on porn, internet forums, and video games to the point where I will never feel love for an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:06 AM |
| 29 | Don't EVER let a relationship start with "sorry"I can relate so hard to this. There was one guy who I once had thing with, who kind of swept me off my feet conversation wise. Totally compatible. We had a few dates and it got to the point where I was really excited about seeing him. One day I was supposed to meet up with him in the morning. I work night shift, 7pm-7am, so at 7 i got off work, showered and got ready, expecting to meet him at 9. Nothing. All day. And then at about 6 pm, he texts me trying to start a conversation like nothing had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 01:05 PM |
| 27 | All the comments are about how they’d rather get lettuce instead of flowers because they can eat it. So they’re okay with $1 lettuce as a 1 year anniversary gift...lmaoHe's on his way home, sees a "flower", picks it, takes it to his gf. Like I know guys are stupid but I don't know anyone stupid enough to go to the lettuce section to buy flowers 😂 but LVM come up with new ways to be LV every day, so... maybe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:39 AM |
| 48 | All the comments are about how they’d rather get lettuce instead of flowers because they can eat it. So they’re okay with $1 lettuce as a 1 year anniversary gift...lmaoY'all aren't seeing what really happened here. Lots of people plant this kind of decorative kale in their gardens. He didn't buy it from the store thinking it was a flower, he STOLE it from someone's front yard thinking it was flowers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:22 AM |
| 30 | Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to beBruh he looks like a dirty leather glove and this woman is tripping over herself to get his approval 🤧 Couldn't be me sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:13 PM |
| 202 | "I didn't mean it that way" and other bold-faced liesImagine being in your 30s and still trying to neg your girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 07:35 AM |
| 46 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I got engaged the 1st of this month! Over the moon. I love him so much. We've been together for 3 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Being attracted to the opposite gender while in a relationship - yes or no?I don't feel any kind of attraction to other men while I'm in a relationship. A big part of my attraction to others isn't just based on looks, but also their personality, how well we get along, emotional compatibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:01 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of a man's income should he be spending on you?The tone of this post is so suspicious. This sounds like a troll post and whatever responses it gets are going to be screenshotted/posted on MGTOW-adjacent subreddits. OP, if you're actually a woman asking this in good faith, sorry. But this reeks of scrote bait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 07:32 PM |
| 17 | I AM CRYING 😭😭😭Lmao I have the same shower curtain in my bathroom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:39 AM |
| 60 | My HV boyfriend knows I post here. Scrotes can cry about it.Tbh it sounds like he's making it up. If a real FDSer believed her fiancé was toxic and was complaining about him on here all the time, she should have dumped him by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 11:47 AM |
| 38 | My HV boyfriend knows I post here. Scrotes can cry about it.We've been together since way before I found FDS though. He saw the notification pop up on my phone and asked about it. If I was still playing the field I would definitely not tell guys about it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 11:45 AM |
| 169 | Scrote stumbles across posts his SO made about him on FDS. Scrotey outrage ensues!Fake. Anyone here who would make multiple rant posts about their shitty partner would get roasted for being such a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 05:45 AM |
| 5 | Imagine having this level of audacityGod I seriously, honestly wish every dude who acted like this towards the woman who mommies him would just be struck dead so these ladies would be free | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:23 AM |
| 177 | It’s almost as if they try to take the least flattering photo possible 🥴I'm not even joking or exaggerating; when I was on Tinder, I would swipe left on almost 250 men for every one I swiped right on. Tinder really has me thinking 99% of men have pube beards, dead eyes, and are either obese or look like they've been rationing one can of beans for 11 years. And I for sure noticed nearly all of the unkempt, slovenly dudes that looked like they hadn't showered in months had cocky/rude/overtly sexual bios at a much higher rate than anyone higher than a 4/10. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 09:02 AM |
| 65 | On the topic of cheap rings, here's a quick collage I made browsing Etsy for about 10 minutes - 9 different solid gold engagement rings for under $300. No CZ, no sterling. All it takes to find a beautiful, quality budget ring is a few minutes of effort and 0 trips to pandora.comThis was just a post to show that NO ONE should ever feel like they can't do better than a mass produced cheap pandora ring, even ladies in poor rural communities. I was born in one of the poorest areas in my country, so I want to help other girls in that situation realize that nothing justifies low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 10:52 AM |
| 18 | If you don't want a diamond ring...Sterling silver is not the same as .999 silver. Sterling silver is only 925 parts silver out of 1000 total parts, the other 75 parts being other metal, usually copper, which causes it to patina and can turn your finger green. Edited to add: most jewelry stores don't make rings in .999 silver because .925 is so much cheaper and the addition of filler metals makes the silver less soft. Any .999 silver jewelry I have/can find is vintage stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:15 AM |
| 41 | If you don't want a diamond ring...If someone is experiencing poverty and can't afford an expensive ring, (in my opinion) something more affordable, but still high quality, would be much better than something that's going to lose stones or stain your skin. A plain solid gold band can be found for as low as $30, and will be something you can have and admire for the rest of your life. I would so much rather wear a plain band, a pearl, even a fake diamond, that showed how much a person loves me even in hard times, than to wear the f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:08 AM |
| 130 | A PickMeisha in the wildImagine your mother risking her life to give birth to you, raising you for 18 years only for you to beg a man for a CZ ring from Pandora | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Fiancé disappointed she didn’t get the ring she was assured she would, so future BIL (and all of Reddit) calls her a gold-diggerI think by 5k the op meant 5 karats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 10:07 PM |
| 12 | Oddly satisfying post of a gurl matching her outfit to the wall behind her. Men in the comments prove they will relate whatever they can to pornMen: OH GOD A TORSO... I'M GONNA... I'M GONNA COOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:33 PM |
| 80 | I’ll take 2 of eachOk but can we talk about how cute that cat is? It has cartoon eyes 😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:30 PM |
| 18 | I wonder where he got his statistics. 🤔 And don't forget that little gem on the bottom I got just before I was about to post the previous screenshot. 🙄"PLEASE DATE ME! PLEASE! FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, PLEASE, SOMEONE DATE ME, ANYONE". Imagine being mad that a faceless internet stranger wouldn't bang you. Top kek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 11:43 PM |
| 36 | Remember the days when men bought women flowers? 💐 Pickmeisha's in the wild.If you're in a committed relationship with a man, I don't see the problem of getting him a gift just to surprise him, as long as he would do the same for you. But honestly, most men don't care about flowers. I'm sure the guy will appreciate the thought itself, but seriously, he probably is going to be thinking "what am I supposed to do with these?" - in addition to probably getting teased at work over it. What makes this stupid, though, is the fact that she posted this story online to get valida… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 08:26 PM |
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