Being attracted to the opposite gender while in a relationship - yes or no?

blair2006 · 2020-06-07T15:38:53+00:00

I have a low sex drive so I basically don’t care about men unless I’m dating them. I find that lots of attractive men have not attractive personality’s: I think it’s a men problem where everything is sex sex sex to them and emotional connection is second.

__kamikaze__ · 2020-06-07T14:35:49+00:00

Being in a relationship doesn’t make attractive people disappear. The key is whether you act on it. If you respect your partner you won’t cheat.

bye-raspberry · 2020-06-07T20:01:30+00:00

I don't feel any kind of attraction to other men while I'm in a relationship. A big part of my attraction to others isn't just based on looks, but also their personality, how well we get along, emotional compatibility.

Nearby-Armadillo · 2020-06-07T13:51:20+00:00

I definitely do.

ombrelashes · 2020-06-07T21:05:10+00:00

I'm not attracted to men unless I find something interesting or admirable about them. So outside a relationship, I don't feel attracted to others. I expect the same of my partner.

grand_tiremaster · 2020-06-11T10:16:24+00:00

I think a lot of men are good looking and I will often stare for a few moments at particularly gorgeous men, relationship or no relationship. Some humans look like paintings lol.

I have a low sex drive though, I don't wanna fuck all these men, I just think they're good looking. I think a lot of women are good looking also and I will look at them, too. I always figured it was some sort of aesthetic taste.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2020-06-07T17:16:24+00:00

It depends on how much you’re attracted to someone else. When I was in a relationship, I still found my coworkers and other people attractive. I have eyes, I know when someone’s hot. But it wasn’t a red flag until I started to have a crush on someone. It was weird. I think as long as you don’t act on it you’re fine, but you might also want to rethink your relationship if you’re really attracted to multiple people outside of it.

Title	Being attracted to the opposite gender while in a relationship - yes or no?
Author	chickenpork72
Upvotes	17
Comments	8
Date	June 7, 2020 10:15 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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