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| 58 | Grimes not even at the 50% rule with the richest man in the world smhShe was highly successful before she started dating him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Looking for a Conservative Co-Host for our upcoming podcast, Female Political Strategy!I don’t know why you’re being down voted. But you’re right. If you search her name on reddit all the results are “big mommy milkers” or the such. I do watch her videos for an interesting perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:03 AM |
| -2 | Looking for a Conservative Co-Host for our upcoming podcast, Female Political Strategy!Is abbey shapiro the next best thing? Kidding but also not kidding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 08:34 PM |
| 50 | Women can predict a man’s interest in short-term uncommitted relationships just by looking at his face - Scientific study resultstfw you love big noses on men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:43 PM |
| 3 | If you’re into spirituality, be careful. Men will think you’re stupid.He’s probably an INTJ who thinks he’s a little robot genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 10:15 PM |
| 6 | I love being tall. There I said it.I love talk women and being tall in heels/boots. It’s so powerful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 78 | Why are strip clubs normalized? Its cheating imo, and you should NEVER go with a partnerHow is men going to the strip clubs with their friends not....kinda gay? (For lack of a better term) like getting sexually excited about women around your friends is fucking weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:51 AM |
| 3 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awfulOh and while I was sleeping with him I had my first and only UTI in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awfulWe had sex on New Years, the condom broke, we had to find a drugstore open (he didn’t pay for it) at the party he told me his friends said I have a nice rack, and then he broke up with me the next day over the phone saying he’s been wanting to break up with me but didn’t wanna do it over Christmas? I would not have had sex with him if I knew he was planning on breaking up with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | FDS Show Recommendations?Maybe Veronica Mars? Probably still some pick me energy but she definitely has strong female energy and she finds out who murdered her friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:31 PM |
| 6 | FDS thoughts on virginityI think it does technically exist. You haven’t had sex or you have. The morals or ideaology you apply to it is another thing? Loosing it for me wasn’t some huge monumental moment (we were watching arrested development lmfao) but it’s still something I think it as “hey I guess that was my first sexual experience and I’m glad it wasn’t traumatizing”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 12:05 AM |
| 61 | Cynics are LV and boringIf you read the comments on his account they all say something similar? He has a youthful aura? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:34 AM |
| 84 | FDS QueenShe has a podcast; Let Me Ruin Your Life, it’s worth a listen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:01 AM |
| 110 | Cynics are LV and boringLVM will always say Valentine’s Day doesn’t matter to avoid putting effort in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:40 AM |
| 73 | Let's talk about 'well meaning' friends and family who try to set you up with some scrote who is far beneath your worth. How do you deal? And what is wrong with your fam/friends to do this to you?!My friend does this all the time! She knows I only like men who look like Jewish comedians (I’m half joking here but my type is andy samberg) and she has the audacity to set me up with balding blue eyed blondes YUCK! she won’t leave her depressed POS boyfriend because she depends on him for money and a living situation because her family is toxic. Why would I get set up with someone from you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Rape by deceptionThis happened to me; ex BF and I had sex on new years and then the condom broke so we had to find a pharmacy open for plan B. Next day he broke up with me over the phone. I hope he rots in hell. When I used to use dating apps, I saw his profile claiming he was 5’9. I'm 5’7 and he was maybe a hair taller then me. I won't dated him because my first bf broke up with me a few weeks before and I didn't want to be “alone” again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:19 AM |
| 26 | Hollywood's indoctrination and social conditioning of womenSimilarly lots of villains are coded as Jewish (no surprise; Walt Disney is noted to be guilty of that) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:58 AM |
| 18 | Feminist dating books recommendationIt’s not a book but the podcast “let me ruin your life” by serena shahidi is very FDS queen shit aligned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | *MBTI TYPES IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR LOW VALUE BEHAVIOR* Has anyone else noticed an influx of men who label themselves “INTJ” absolutely shitty, and leave you with a funny feeling?I’m sorry so many can relate LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:16 AM |
| 30 | *MBTI TYPES IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR LOW VALUE BEHAVIOR* Has anyone else noticed an influx of men who label themselves “INTJ” absolutely shitty, and leave you with a funny feeling?Intj men who love Jordan Peterson... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:04 AM |
| 5 | Any tips for vetting therapists?I’m not a fan of CBT at all. I’ve been following a bunch of trauma informed/polyvagal theory therapists etc on Instagram and their posts resonate with me worlds further then any regular psychologist has. https://instagram.com/sarahbcoaching?igshid=1rq4dqkz93hpc https://instagram.com/awakenwithally?igshid=ymz7at3vfmx9 https://instagram.com/lovingmeafterwe?igshid=fml0pqp1aqik. (Esp relevant to dating/dealing with trauma from an abusive relationship) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 07:38 PM |
| 7 | Why a man taking drugs is an immediate disqualifier (yes, even cannabis)I agree, smoking is just a nasty hobby. Don’t get me wrong I love edibles, but the smell of weed is so yucky and tacky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Any FDS approved podcasts?Let Me Ruin Your Life by Serena Shahidi is FDS adjacent? She discussss being a HVW and only dating, and how to find HVM to date. A lot of her dating advice falls under FDS standards. Her recent episode discussed the Armie Hammer situation. She is everything I want to be tbh, she’s like real life Blaire Woldorf but nicer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:17 PM |
| 12 | Be Happy for Yourselfalso who remembers babycrawlingveryfast from tumblr? She spoke pure gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:14 AM |
| 13 | What's your level up goal this year? 😎 (It can be in any area of life!)I want to get a better job, so I can get a nicer apartment that’s not so cold. Then in a bigger apartment I can get a brother or sister for my current cat because I think he would love a buddy. I also want to keep my apartment clean and tidy because I turn into a messy pig so easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 06:54 AM |
| 5 | Is it just Canadian guys?Especially when they talk about going to certain countries like Thailand. They’re going there for sex tourism. This post made me think of “A Small Place” by Jamaica Kincaid, she wrote a great personal critique on tourism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:05 AM |
| 66 | HVW on a dateThis women has a podcast I really enjoy too; she is very FDS adjacent. It’s called Let Me Ruin Your Life on spotify. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:46 AM |
| 13 | Does anyone have any tips for beating lonelinessThis is so true. I’ve spent years of my life, countless nights bawling my eyes out because I feel lonely. But truth be told most people aren’t quality and won’t bring you up in life. And now I’m just used to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:31 AM |
| 3 | They’re thiiiis close to figuring it out!Slightly relevant to this post but this guy I tried re-dating (bad I know) and who gave me really mixed signals, his Hot Model Ex-GF not only got engaged last week, but she’s now pregnant; and he follows her on Instagram so I know he’s probably feeling conflicted and hitting the whiskey hard :) warms my heart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:08 PM |
| 58 | Don’t be a roommateI know so many women who’ve been engaged for years, it’s crazy. I worked with this girl who had two kids with her BF before they got married, and they dated for a few years prior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 7 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Also said I would make a good mother, and told me he loved our ~deep~ late night conversations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:44 PM |
| 30 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?He called me a goth princess lol 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | To counter the video I just had to endure, so GLAD to see sane women thriving!!YES! She’s such a queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:28 PM |
| 2 | It’s sad that this kind of behavior from men is so rare.god this is so true. I’ve worked in beauty/makeup sales for over 4 years and whenever I have to ask men what kind of makeup or skincare their GF likes they never know enough for me to make a perfect suggestion. Like come on! It’s this easy! Take pics of what she uses!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Level up tiktokers?Binchcity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Why Online Dating is Awful and Makes People Feel AwfulSame! It’s hard when you work in a female dominated field and when you also don’t have any masculine coded hobbies or interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | "you seem really sweet"God this is me :-( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:42 PM |
| 6 | I've seen the Presidential debate compared to a lot of things: the circus, Facebook fights, wild animals attacking each other.... But this is what really got me. I think every woman has at least one story of arguing with a piece of shit NVM like Trump. Watching it was like an out of body experiencebinchcity is amaazziinggg. her content needs to be posted here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?Dark hair and brown eyes. I just don’t like blonde men or men with light eyes. Race does play a part. Some races are almost always religious; or some men from certain cultures will almost always evoke the sexism and women hating from their culture or background. I say this because no one else really mentions it. If I’ll be honest I always find half white/half Asian men super attractive. Related to the above, I am not religious. I don’t want to date anyone who is religious or seriously believe in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Just a rant about comments on makeupI’ve had guys say things like this to me when I explicitly mention to them I work in the makeup industry. OFC I wear lots of makeup dumbass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Please share your list of deal-breakers and must haves in terms of values, career, physical, etc.This isn’t an extensive list, but the things I think of right away must love cats. I don’t trust men who don’t love cats must love going out to eat. I love trying new food and I don’t wanna date a toddler who eats chicken nuggets I have a low sex drive. I want to have sexual compatibility with the person I date so someone who isn’t a horn dog. Sex gives me a lot of anxiety too, so nobody who makes it their “goal” in sex to make me c*m because that just gives me worse anxiety. Like it’s not a gam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:12 AM |
| 7 | Which non-physical, non-material traits do you consider HV/attractive?Loves cats isn’t afraid to be silly texts me throughout the day, I joke that my love language is me sending 17 memes and tiktoks to my friends everyday. I love sending people little things that I know they would find funny. Little things like that, where they smile when they look at their phone, can bring a bit of happiness to someone’s day takes on initiative. I don’t want to always be the one planning everything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Exactly! It's not about being more "selective"; I'm literally sorting through trash!Yeah I can, off the top of my head, think of three of my friends whose boyfriends or husbands literally tried to kill them. Nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 13 | While We're on the Subject of Researching Men Online..I usually first use details from their profile to find their linkedin account so I know where they work. If they don’t have LinkedIn, then that’s not good because they don’t care about their future. I then use that info (being that I found a last name) to find a Facebook. This isn’t always helpful as lots of people have private facebooks, but if it is public you can see if you have any friends in common. You can also try and find pictures of them posted by other people. I then move on to Instagr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 15 | Is it just me or are there barely attractive men out there?bruh I thought I wrote this for a second because I am also 5’7 and saw my ex boyfriends profile who was a hair taller then me claiming to be 5’9 But your right, so many are very ugly/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | HVM Sexual behaviorCommunication. Or just straight up saying, I like these things, but please do not do or say these things to me in bed. I’ve never had good sex from with a man or myself, which is a problem of its own for me. So I also don’t want to man to make it his “goal” to get me off. It makes me feel so insecure. I don’t want that added pressure. Someone who cleans themselves before sex. I’m 25 and I’ve only had one UTI in my life, with an ex boyfriend, and never again. Ideally, I would want someone who sho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel ok about your life after rejectionsIt can hurt for me especially when I rarely go on dates or put myself out there. I try to tell myself I deserve the world, if it isn’t an enthusiast YES from them it might as well be a no! I try to tell myself I want a lot of love in a relationship, I can’t let myself get in the cycle of dying to hear back from someone and being on edge wondering when we will see another again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:48 PM |
| 3 | To all of you, amazing queens 🌹I need this. I need to remember that I am the prize, I need to be impressed. Someone needs to make ME say wow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | How old is everyone and does that impact strategy?I’m 25 and I’ve been single for 2.5 years...my longest relationship was 3 months. It makes me feel immature and “behind” but at least I know it’s because I won’t lower my standards and I won’t let guys do things to me which I do not want. I’ve exclusively gone on dates from dating apps just because I’m very shy and all of my friends are women/I don’t do lots of social stuff where there is men. I would like to meet someone irl, but I’ve never had a crush on a man I’ve met irl. I do not like casua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:30 PM |
| 5 | This man is very obviously not under 25 and is bragging about a car, home, and career while being 5’9. Dude there’s like a million taller guys in your same positionIn the words of Shania Twain, that don’t impressive me much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 10:08 PM |
| 7 | What are your top ten-ish requirements for dating?Oh another one. I am not spontaneous. I am a safety oriented person. I don’t wanna date someone who drives fast cars and goes ski-ing and takes big danger risks. I don’t wanna be shamed for not being spontaneous Also they must be punctual. I am obsessively punctual. I want the same respect back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:20 PM |
| 24 | What are your top ten-ish requirements for dating?Must like cats. I don’t trust men who don’t like cats or animals in general. I love pointing out birds and rabbits if I see them, they have to be equally interested. Can’t shame me for not being well traveled. Sorry I don’t have money to go to Europe. Must be more outgoing. I’m really shy so I will not date a shy man. Must not pressure or shame me into doing things or shame me for not doing things. I have no desire to ride a bike, I don’t know how. I DONT want you to teach me how to ride a bike.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:28 AM |
| 3 | FDS Youtubers and InstagrammersExpirednfabulous might fit in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 13 | Being attracted to the opposite gender while in a relationship - yes or no?I have a low sex drive so I basically don’t care about men unless I’m dating them. I find that lots of attractive men have not attractive personality’s: I think it’s a men problem where everything is sex sex sex to them and emotional connection is second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you have a general rule for age range and dating?I don’t think it would work for me. I find that I don’t have much in common with guys my age in general idk if it would get different with an older guy. I also still live with my parents so I think it would be weird for a man in his 30s to be interested in seeing someone who still lives at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:53 AM |
| 5 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?If your interested in attachment theory and stuff I found these insta therapists posts helpful or like, resonating. https://instagram.com/sarahbcoaching?igshid=1dp59ovjpckro https://instagram.com/dr.marielbuque?igshid=ipr8jtui1edb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 7 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?Same I’m really needy (lol) and if I don’t have consistent communication it puts my anxiety into over drive and makes me afraid they aren’t interested in me. Next time I date someone I’m going to try to be more firm on what I want because being “sweet and accommodating” keeps getting me broken up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:49 PM |
| 12 | Do you have a general rule for age range and dating?I’m 24 (turn 25 soon) and my age range is 24-27. Any older and I think it’s super weird. I think it’s so gross when women my age date guys in their 30s. Like that’s my uncles age. Yuck. I also do not want children. And I think it says soemthing is off about the man when he is like 32 and dating a 24 year old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 05:54 AM |
| 4 | What Makes You Swipe Right?Physically attractive. I don’t find many men attractive. I like men with dark hair and dark eyes, I don’t like blonde light eyed men at all. Andy Sandberg is a good example I think. He is attractive, but not so stereotypically sexy that he would have a huge ego about being hot. Wants a relationship and doesn’t want kids. Sometimes it’s hard to know the kids part, but these are two core values I want in a relationship. Likes cats. I don’t trust men who don’t like cats. Wont think I’m lesser then … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:36 PM |
| 10 | Eventually, the mask begins to slip...Literally in the exact same boat ): | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:44 AM |
| 13 | Paris Hilton says ending her engagement was 'the best decision I’ve ever made... It feels good to not have someone controlling me,’How has she aged SO well without obvious fillers or plastic surgery!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Is it me or are most men on OLD so f*cking boring?God all the low effort "likes" with no comment. Tragic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Is it me or are most men on OLD so f*cking boring?That’s a pretty bad sign! Politics are soo important to discuss when dating. It’s a big priority to have similar political values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:09 AM |
| 8 | Is it me or are most men on OLD so f*cking boring?Litterallyy. I’ve paid for apps before (don’t judge lolol) and I would have so many outdoorsmen conservatives like my profile that listed my job as a mua and had photos of me holding my cat dressed up cute. Like bro we ain’t got nothing in common! I don’t vibe w ur kind! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 07:28 AM |
| 14 | Is it me or are most men on OLD so f*cking boring?My local issue is fucking hiking. Every guy wants to go fucking hiking and fucking camping. I swear, at least 2/10 swipes have a profile where the guy has a picture of him in the mountains. I hate hiking and camping and playing/watching sports too. I wish they would just stop with it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 11:57 PM |
| 4 | What are your dating dealbreakers?I don’t want children, ever. A guy has to be on the same page. This is the hardest one to find I think, everyone is so indocternated to want children, especially men because the child has to be from their sperm/blood or they don’t care. is too obsessed with sports/hiking/camping/beer. I dislike all of these things. I really hate watching sports, I would rather watch like....those commercials that come on at 3am preaching about the second coming of Jesus. speaking of Jesus. No body religious. I m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:41 AM |
| 18 | Everyone, I'm a florist and this is HELLomg when i worked at Sephora that was MULTIPLE times when flowers would get delivered to the store from employees ex boyfriends...every time they just left them at the store. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)The coloured hair is a good one! It always looks weeaboo-y in men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:34 PM |
| 22 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)Under 5’9. I’m 5’7 so I just want someone definably taller Blondes/blue eyed men. Not anything wrong with this, I just don’t like blondes/blue eyes on men. Lots if wrinkles. Sometimes I see men’s profiles who are my age, and their foreheads look like pugs! I mean I have a bit of foreheads lines if I raise my brows but these guys need a truck load of Botox to smooth that out. A weird hairline. Like when it’s a weird widows peak? Like avatar hairline? I mean I have a widows peak but my bangs hide … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:32 PM |
| 82 | This is why we need to have high standards and vet vet vet! LVM value their dicks over human decency 👏🏾God I hate the concept of rating people like you grade meat. It’s dehumanizing. Anyone else feel this way? I mean, I do think you should find the people you choose to date attractive, I know I would be upset if I stated to date a man and he saw me as anything less then a 10/10 ya kno. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:29 AM |
| 8 | The Case Against Online Dating For WomenI’m the same way, I’ve definitely paid before just to see who swipes on me, and is it ever true that men swipe on everyone! I get conservative Christian outdoorsmen when my profile says atheist liberal artsy-girl. I’d rather start of by seeing who is even untested in me then offering my interest to the men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 16 | The Case Against Online Dating For WomenThat’s true, my last boyfriend I met on bumble, and we added another in fb or he found me on fb and he was suspicious I was a catfish because all my friends in Facebook were women. It’s pretty easy to spot fake profiles tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 02:38 PM |
| 34 | Anyone not necessarily looking to get married?Same here, I don’t want children what so ever. I just want someone who will be committed to me, be my best friend, someone to spend time with. I’m in Canada so I have good enough healthcare, don’t need to marry someone for that reason. Plus weddings are too expensive! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?This is so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?I just want a guy to be taller then me, again I’m 5’7 so it’s that height where you’re not tall but you can often be taller then a lot of guys. I want someone who is larger/stronger then me for sex too, I don’t want someone who can’t playfully pin me down ya know. My sister lowers her height from 5’8 to 5’7 on dating apps because she thinks men wouldn’t swipe on her for that reason! So silly. I said this in another post but I saw my ex bf’s hinge profile and he said he was 5’9 when he was a smid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:09 AM |
| 9 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?The struggle of living in close proximity to rural small towns in Canada! Even if you’re in a big city you’re an hours drive away from fields of cows and small towns with pro life signs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:57 PM |
| 8 | Can a guy who is less educated than you be a HVM for you?It depends on what you see as less educated. I’ll be graduating uni in May, but I have also taken like 6 years to do my undegrad. As long as they did some type of post secondary, I’m not discriminatory towards tradesmen. Nicest boyfriend I had was an electrician. Just chefs. My sister said male chefs tend to have addiction issues, and I wouldn’t want someone who is always busy at night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:42 PM |
| 63 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Oh an addition: I always try to find men’s Instagram accounts so I can see who they follow. If they follow a couple female celebs, sure, I don’t care. If they follow 600 e girl/big booty women accounts on Instagram? It’s a no from me. Like have some shame? Do they not know who they follow is public? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:30 PM |
| 26 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Exactly the point I wanted to get across! Especially when they go to places like Vietnam or Thailand that are known for sex tourism. They will think they are so great for traveling but will also look down on immigrants in their neighborhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:16 PM |
| 29 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?The teeth! Last guy I dated was 23, owned his own house, had a rich daddy. Awful teeth. Like Chuck from gossip girl. Like he has the money? Why not fix them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:15 PM |
| 32 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Exactly. I can go shopping downtown and see 100 beautiful super pretty women, maybe 1 man that might be handsome. It’s just so hard to find someone special, attractive, your age, in your city. The variables are against us, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:12 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Weird thing is, I went to Rochester NY in the summer to visit some family and I went on bumble for shits and giggles (would never meet up w someone on travels) and I found SO many more handsome men with profiles I liked, I made more matches there then I have in my home city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 11:19 AM |
| 32 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Oh it’s even worse if you tell them you don’t like it. They always get shocked and are like “you haven’t tried the right strain/breed of weed” they refuse to have someone not like weed because it makes them realize how they waste their life sedating themsleves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:39 AM |
| 30 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Australian men seem a lot like Canadian men, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:31 AM |
| 42 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Omg the Snapchat. Like I’m not a 13 year old; what adult using Snapchat? They just want it for nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:30 AM |
| 22 | so over these low effort low value men!! If I wanted to make the first move I would be on bumble 🙄Oh my god yes. Like ppshhh they should be happy someone matched with them in the first place! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | I wish there was racial preference on tinderYeah I mean I don’t want to date anyone from certain backgrounds because a lot of that time some backgrounds = super religious or an upbringing in a sexist religion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:58 AM |
| 4 | How do I meet men when I (24F) only work around women?Lmfao this is my struggle too, and I tend to dislike most masculine codes hobbies so it’s really tough to meet guys your age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 06:48 AM |
| 19 | I love my small boobs rantI have big boobs and it’s done nothing extra for me, so inconvenient. The last guy I dated I slept at his place three times and he didn’t even try to cup a single feel... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:26 AM |
| 5 | I pay $3/mo for an app that gives me their real name with their phone number. 100% worth it. Never met a murderer but lots of catfish.I’d like the name of the app, does it work in Canada? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 4 | what if he doesn't push me for sex bc he have casual sex with other women?I can relate. I mean I haven’t had sex since August. If I were to date someone it would make me feel bad if they were getting some in the side so casually, like it’s Uber eats. Because then they are like a sex addict? I would rather not date someone who has sex outside commited relationships because I’m a big prude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 05:20 AM |
| 5 | What are some of your dealmakers?I like someone who gets involved when they see something going wrong, or when they see someone getting mistreated. Even something as simple as say a Boomer-Karen is yelling at/being raciest at the people working at McDonald’s for not being speedy quick, a HVM would intervene and tell off Boomer Karen for not being patient and critique her for publicly making raciest remarks. Or if they’re in the train and there’s a drunk fello trying to talk to a teenage girl, he would tell the drunk fello off o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 02:51 AM |
| 9 | Short pickmeishas who shame taller women who want taller menHeight can be pretty random! I know a 6’1 Filipino man from work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 12:39 AM |
| 8 | What are some of your dealmakers?That’s a good point too! I’m always early for absolutely everything (an anxiety/ocd thing) so it really bothers me when others are late. Punctuality is surprisingly hard to find! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 10:46 PM |
| 10 | Short pickmeishas who shame taller women who want taller menI never think if myself as tall but I went to local Jewish event a few weeks ago at a bar and I was taller then like 70% of the men there! It made me think, I really do want someone who is taller or has some strength/size on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 10:40 PM |
| 30 | Short pickmeishas who shame taller women who want taller menSo true. I’m 5’7 so it’s a common occurrence for me to be the same height or close to the same height as lots of men. I don’t wanna fuck Danny devito alright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 15 | What are some of your dealmakers?Someone charming and likes cats, Someone who is excited to spend time with me. Someone who doesn’t use sarcasm because I think it’s low level humour and someone who won’t throw digs/tea etc at me because i don’t find mean comments funny or cool. Just someone who will take initiative to make me feel wanted. Or JD from scrubs. He’s my dream man. Someone goofy with a good heart who cares for others . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:24 PM |
| 6 | How to date when you’re already in your mid 20s and you have very little dating experience? Lack of it makes me feel like some dumb child.I think it’s that I feel lonely in my friendships, or that I can’t get the consistent communication I want through friends because you can’t expect friends to be able to see you 1-2x a week. I remembered that I felt better because someone wanted to see me and be around me, without me asking and asking and making plans for two weeks in advanced to do something in a very certain time period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 09:06 PM |
| 7 | How long since your last date?I went on some dates in August. None since. I went to this bars “Jews in Christmas Eve” event and I was taller then like 70% of the men there...was hoping to meet a boy there but nahhhh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:21 AM |
| 10 | have any of you ladies experienced a man who wanted to wait longer than you for sex?Omg this is the last guy I dated. We dated for a month in went on like at least a dozen dates I think. I slept over at his place three times and he didn’t even try to inciate a titty feel. And I have enjoyable breasts...We did some mild below the sex stuff but just once. Like idk if he was gay or insecure about his body because he was pretty skinny? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 03:28 AM |
| 12 | Dating Guys that are virgins?It’s fine if you’re both that age, some people don’t date until after high school, I didn’t until I was 21. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 01:06 AM |
| 3 | I Resent I was Taught that Sex is a Truer "Need" than Love and SecurityI relate 100%. I’ve never been able to actually enjoy sex with any of the guys I’ve been with because none of them like, loved me or felt deeply about me. And I don’t like how you have to give in and have SEx before you get that connection. Yoh can’t wait months and months until a guy loves you to stick it in, if you also want the guy to be seeing you and only you and not fucking randoms at the same time. I don’t get the obsession to have sex so so often. I haven’t had sex since August and i cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 05:29 PM |
| 12 | Men on OLD who don't read profilesOmg literally saammee. I get those types of guys plus conservative oil rig guys even tho I look like I belong on a liberal arts school campus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Black Friday is coming up and I'm stocking up on perfume - what perfumes get you guys the most compliments & smell super sexy?Have you tried light blue from dolce n gabban? Also if you go to Sephora they can make you perfume samples of anything you want to try. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 12:45 AM |
| 3 | I only like tall men, and I’m not sorryI’m the same height, and god I agree. I just want someone who feels like a burly man, not a skinny punk or someone Danny devito sized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:06 PM |
| 19 | Disrespect me and eat aloneGod I can’t stand this shit. People in general being late drives me fucking nuts. Like I take transit everywhere but I still manage to be 30 minutes early to work (because if I am not early to things I get bad anxiety). And another of tangent thing; I can’t stand when they play it off as “hehe it’s just my culture latinos are never on time” (or insert race here). Like the fuck? Well that sounds like dumb shit to me. Being on time shows respect for the other person, for your job... I had this hap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:04 PM |
| 9 | Observation about dating sites. It’s basically all the same guy! Agree?The generic male interests are the things that always boil my blood from the pure generic ness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on sexual compatibility?I can relate so hard. I don’t have a high sex drive and I’ve never been able to reach orgasm by myself or with a partner, but I still enjoy the emotional intimacy sex brings. But yeah, it’s not a huge deal for me unless the guy is into violent/weird stuff or refuses to do oral sex. The thing that drives me nuts is guys who boast about their sex drive being crazy high and they need sex EVERY single day. Like the thing I am looking for is someone who I can develop an emotional connection with, who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Helpful tips to navigate dating in the modern world for the modern MENA womanI love expired and fabulous! She has such good and important things to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you any of you ladies suffer from low self-esteem and/or depression? I'm finding that I don't really have the urge to date because of my mental health issues and wondering what to do.https://instagram.com/expirednfabulous?igshid=iiw66mbp45eo You might like this women’s Instagram? She posts a lot about the intersection of conservative family and dating, might be relevant to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?I can’t find anyone who would be a good match for me on OLD. Not even me finding them good, I can’t tell they won’t find me a good fit for them. It’s hard when you’re the type of women who hates sports, camping, hiking, live music and that’s all men care bout or talk about in their bios. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad for dating prospects if I don’t drive?Wow I never thought of that before you cured my gear of driving anxiety | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 06:09 PM |
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