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| – | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyWhat does any of that have to do with OP's post or my comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 06:59 AM |
| – | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyI mean, there's definitely men who stay at home while their woman earns and provides. My SIL was doing that for a while! If there are guys who wish to stay at home they just have to communicate that to whoever they date and if it doesn't work out, onto the next. Or a guy can work remote and stay at home while making money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyMy husband made 6 figures when we met and I made $17 an hour working part-time at a restaurant. I didn't know he made that much at first. We were both living at home with our parents and we were party-goers. We genuinely enjoyed eachother's company (we still do). He got me pregnant, then told me how much he actually earns. Knowing was actually SUCH a relief. Because lack of money when having a kid is extremely scary and can cause so many issues. I think what many men dislike is a woman being a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 11:17 AM |
| 2 | What characters are you attracted to and why?Captain America. He is a nice guy, humble, kind, believes in the right thing to do. I loved it when he said "ma'am there's only one God" or something like that. I loved that he had so many options as far as women go but went back in time to be with the one that won his heart. Very romantic, patriotic, perfect personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Do you think age of puberty has affected your dating experience?Yes, puberty didn't effect me like how it effected other girls. I started getting my periods at age 13 or 14 but it was weird, because the rest of my body wasn't filling out, it was just me getting blood and me getting taller. My feet going from a child's size 5 to a women's size 7.5. My bones were growing but my feminine stuff wasn't. By age 16 I was 5'8" and only 100lbs. I was constantly bullied for being anorexic and no guy in high school wanted to ask me out. (I also had really bad acne.) Me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Should men try and appeal to a specific niche of women or to a majority of them?Yea if a guy told me he paints warhammer mini's I'd softly next him lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Should men try and appeal to a specific niche of women or to a majority of them?It's been my experience that those men with alternative or niche styles are not attracted to us women that dress "normal" (plain? feminine) and almost always want women that look like them. They are good looking guys and I wouldn't turn down a guy with a tattoo as long as he were kind and has a good personality, but yeah. They would turn me down for the chick that looks like Shego from Kim Possible. If a guy has a very specific type, like alternative style women, and won't give any other women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues.....It's meant to seem masculine on purpose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 05:07 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about women who want to be “spoiled” in relationships?Sounds like OP wants to abuse a woman tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about women who want to be “spoiled” in relationships?I like to be spoiled and I will (and have) spoil my man in return. With my ex I took note of things that he enjoyed and bought him gifts accordingly, but he took advantage of it and wasn't returning the love back. So I cut him off in that regard. I made less, a lot less than him, but he was asking me to get him a dog for Christmas and shit, all which I ignored. I was still affectionate and we had a good sex life, I just reduced surprise gifts for him by a ton. I like to be spoiled with things th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 11:57 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about women who want to be “spoiled” in relationships?Same. I love getting gifts/food for the one I love. It's me showing them appreciation and I love being showed I'm appreciated back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 11:48 PM |
| 7 | At least in the U.S., obesity is exacerbating all the other dating and birthrate issues.....A 40 inch waist? That's nuts. Mine is like 26. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are banned from other subs? Specifically relationship style ones. Also what pill would you consider yourself and what gender are you?I was banned from FDS. I guess redpilled female but not such a cynical one. People are individuals, not all women are one way, not all men are one way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Are high income blue collar men attractive to modern women?I would date one in a heartbeat! But it's been my experience that they rarely go for asian women. I'm half and blue collar conservatives want white women. It would actually be ideal because I have chickens and I enjoy country living. But again.. they prefer white girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Between these 2 types of men, which type do women find more attractive?2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 08:39 PM |
| 3 | If virginity in men is a red flag for you, after which age would you consider it a red flag and why?No, virginity is not a red flag. It's a plus for me. Then you can do things to your man that he's never had before and you will blow his mind. As long as he's at least 6 inches and girthy then there is no problem in the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Is this low birth rate something that should be concerning?There's so many white people and white families in the US military-- go to any base, look at all the white families, white people aren't endangered lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Is a Man Approaching a Woman in the Streets an Effective Way of Dating today?Holy shit her thighs though? How much squatting do you have to do to achieve that body type? Does it take 3 years? Steroids for girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?I mean, not always. Maybe on the first go because it makes him look good, but a woman can make arrangements to go somewhere. I do it all the time. Taking turns is the easiest way to go easy on the wallet. Maybe people need to be less immature about it. It's just food. If you can't pay for food then don't be dating in the first place. Men AND women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Why do many women nowadays reject sexual abstinence until marriage?I am the same way. I was not a sex addict per se, I was in relationships, long term ones, and I had lots of fun with my exes. Sex is fun! It's a real pleasure, and I think it should be reserved for 2 people who are committed to eachother, because well, sex is for making babies. You don't want kids with someone who isn't on the same page as you about things. I fully believe that sex feels so good because it's a gift from God himself. He wants us to procreate and it's a special gift for married co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Does being not like the other girls (nlog) gives you an advantage in the dating market?It does not give me an advantage at all. The men I want do not want me. I always attract weird men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?In conservative circles apparently the e-girl look is the worst thing ever and red flag central. I LOVE the e-girl look, they are SO cute, their eyeliner skills is amazing. Pretty sure all the grown eyeliner women nowadays went through an emo/scene phase in their teen years. I know I did. Whatever conservatives are usually attracted to, I don't really like. Those women just look too normal. Umm for men idk.. oh! I'm not a fan of 6 pack abs and guys having very little body fat. The super cut, chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 02:51 AM |
| 1 | What styles of clothing can men try to make them more appealing?Grunt style fitted shirts on men that have nice physiques. Oof. Good oof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?PMS can look like BPD. I PMS pretty baaaad, crying, moody, irritated af, etc. the works. I thought I had BPD until I went to my doctor and he said since I only get that way around my periods, it's just PMS. I'm 100% chill and laid-back at all other times. I have a friend with diagnosed BPD and she is all over the place. Very different from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?Men who look poorly-- bad at dressing, bad hairstyle, bad hygiene, etc. Recently a guy asked me out and his hair is in these weird braid things (he's black, I do not know what they are called) and he wears an oversized hoodie that has satanic imagery on it, and it says "blackcraft". Not attractive to me. A few months ago a different man with a weird sense of style asked me out also, and he has a man bun hairstyle thing, which he bleached and dyed bright red. Nooo. Not for me. I prefer men who dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?The only reason anyone should pay for a going-out is if they invite and make the arrangements. Since paying is such a touchy topic nowadays then two people should discuss it before the date happens. My friend (a girl I've known since elementary school) is taking herself, another old friend of ours, and I to six flags. She paid for our tickets which came out to over $200. The polite thing to do is help with gas and food at the amusement park. Seems like people forget about politeness. A man takin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that women who want to be homemakers have been let down by feminism? How has this affected dating for you?For me it sucks, lmao. I swear up and down you don't have to be wealthy to be a homemaker. I live in a poor ass area and somehow these men working trades (almost all welders) can afford their wife to be at home with their kids, hell even poorer than that. I know SAHM's who aren't even married, living off of every government aid there is, their baby daddies doing who knows what. I guess these families live within their means and make it work. I'm 26 and I want to settle down but I'm forced to gri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?Find a milf, they're almost always chubby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Husband Material Mega-ThreadNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 03:11 AM |
| -2 | Getting what she deservesYea I need the context of the fight. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/10/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?Lots of petite, skinny goth gfs out there though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?I think so. But I never go in there... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Husband Material Mega-ThreadThat's good, but I meant more like a man that isn't going to argue athiesm in every conversation, be grateful for the things that has happened in life, is generally more positive about life, the meaning of life, etc. And have similar values. I talked to an athiest man before and he didn't believe in marriage, yet to me marriage is a huge milestone in life and something to look forward to. I think it's 100% possible for 2 people of differing faiths (or lack of faith) to be together and have a goo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:00 PM |
| 8 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?Torrid is an underwear or lingerie brand for "curvy" women, overweight women, fat women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 08:42 PM |
| 12 | Feminist feels that the movie her grandpa’s watching is sexist and decides she’s going to prove a point.I work in retail and men on average are SO nice. Very flirtatious at times, but overall very nice. I see them around town and they always say "hey it's you! hi you!" and it's always a pleasure interacting with them. Maybe that's a small town thing? I ask because in the city, IME, even with being nice, some guys can be a real ass lol. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/10/21 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Feminist feels that the movie her grandpa’s watching is sexist and decides she’s going to prove a point.It's the same for incels. Anyone that doesn't get something from the opposite sex is resentful. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/10/21 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Feminist feels that the movie her grandpa’s watching is sexist and decides she’s going to prove a point.I can't get over how she looks like that, like a stereotype. It would appear feminists are on the autism spectrum. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/10/21 08:22 PM |
| 10 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?Yes. I've told many men and women different things, but most of them took offense, or straight up denied my advice. "No way I'm too old and too fat! You know my daughter is a Torrid model, right? Men would just eat her up and I know they're thinking the same about me!" .. ok Tammy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Husband Material Mega-Thread26 I keep attracting men younger than me though blah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Husband Material Mega-ThreadI think so too. Yeehaw🦞 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Husband Material Mega-ThreadI had one but yes it was kind of weird. I am definitely nervous of predatory people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 07:44 AM |
| 8 | Husband Material Mega-ThreadI've read that there are subs that take being submissive to their husbands very seriously behind closed doors. Christian/conservative people aren't all saints or vanilla 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 07:15 AM |
| 7 | Husband Material Mega-ThreadHusband material for me would be a guy that has a huge heart, loves animals, loves people, can build things well (someone's gotta build the chicken coops), is a Dom, kinky af, wants kids, marriage, loves God and makes me want to go to church. The perfect man would be a good boy in the streets and bad boy in the sheets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Husband Material Mega-ThreadHow do you meet good Doms? I hardly ever meet Doms, I come across submissive men a lot though. I'm a sub and like the good Doms you meet, I dress very normal and square in public, I am not "out there" with what the red pill calls red flags; piercings, tattoos, bright colored hair, etc. But it seems like these women attract freaky men a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Husband Material Mega-ThreadOh my gosh, YES. This. I want my future husband to be a Dom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Looksmatches and the assumptions behind themWhich disney princess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 01:59 AM |
| -4 | 2 Questions for FeministsI can't imagine anyone going to jail for getting someone pregnant (or getting themselves pregnant). These questions have such extreme answers lol. C. Both people just suck it up and raise a child. D. Abortion? | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/10/21 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Which would you prefer ?!??Far right Taiwanese guy is cute. The rest meh. Maybe the second far left (second before end of the row) Australian. But this photo makes their bodies look huge and their head so small. The Taiwanese men look a little more proportional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:46 PM |
| 0 | A reminder as to why a lot of women really hate pornMy favorite porn couple is SukiSukigirl and AndreGotBars. I'm jealous that she got a fucking viking for a bf and they have great sex together. I need a man with those looks and that energy. Woman here and I don't hate porn. Women who do hate porn, how do you get off? Serious question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Hard truth: The reason you're single is not because you're ugly it's because you're mentally ill and shitty at hiding it.bpd here I've started to just acknowledge it and try to improve sort of? My pets keep me level-headed, they don't hurt my feelings or are overly needy, they eat sleep shit and tolerate me. That's all I could ever ask for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick?Guy on the left, guy on the right looks hella gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himThat woman is super cute! I would date her and I am a woman. The guy, meh. LOL. He looks like the crackhead customers that walk thru my store. Maybe if he shaved? Maybe I'm just not attracted to those features. But on the other hand, look at the actor Jamie Dornan, to me he is very attractive in the face, even with a beard or a scraggly look. I'm not sure what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Who is to blame for ethots making millions , look in the mirrorI saw a snap story of some woman that has sold her feet pics for $10k. I just wanna know where I can do that. Like, men will buy my stinky socks, too? Cool!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Looks are THE ONLY thing men care in a woman. Unattractive girls have no chance.Maybe I should be a slut like everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being attractive as a woman is the easiest thing in the world: just don't be fatEven easier when you're asian and no matter how much you eat, you don't get fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Question: Why are the foids so weak that calling them females makes them go cuckoo bananas?A lot of people think it is degrading. I am a female and I call other females, a female, to exclude trans "women", because they're not females. And never will be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Looks are THE ONLY thing men care in a woman. Unattractive girls have no chance.Ya same. 26 and unmarried. I'm actually not ugly, I'm pretty attractive when all done up (8-10 when dolled up, 6ish with no makeup), but I don't get done up often. I'm very plain jane. I don't like to wear provocative clothing, I don't even like to show bra straps or anything like that, whereas most women these days love showing off all their skin and curves. I think if I do that it'll attract the wrong attention, happened when I was younger, people assumed I was a slut. I've noticed that older … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | What is everyones opinion on r/vindicta?If they wanna do that then great. I just want to know the scientific name of my face shape and read up on it. I don't want plastic surgery lol. I don't see many others with my face shape so.. from the front my face looks great but the profile/side view is completely different, if you saw my face from the side angle you'd be like HUH? I be looking like the crimson chin over here wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life or is this just a social pressure? Is this something that you genuinely want for yourselves?For me it's because I get jealous, fwb sets up the chance to be fucking with multiple people, men more likely to keep their options open. Meeting up just to fuck is so vapid too... I need connection. Library dates, Costco dates pls. Meet my mom and I'll meet yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Why are pick me girls criticised?I thought so too but certain types of people think adult human males can be women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why are pick me girls criticised?I just got called a pickme on FB today because I commented on a public post that was concerning the use of masks. Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Women, how would your perfect partner act in a relationship?For them to be like my dad; very chill, talk about feelings, not yell, be chill, provide, be chill, do BBQ's, drink tequila with the neighbors at the neighborly BBQ, watch movies together, eat together, chill together, no yelling/fighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | if you're a young woman that only dates men who earn 80k+, then you can't complain about older men dating young women.My dad was 13 years older than my mom and he raked in $13k a month, which is a lot more than most make, especially where we live in redneck, hick, yeehaw-ville, and in the 90's early 2000's. It was really nice growing up as an only child with money. But he passed away when I was 16, and the death of a husband/father is very debilitating to a family. It fucks everyone up. This is why I could not marry such an older man, because I want a husband who can be with me when we're both old, and both enj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Why are pick me girls criticised?Yes, they treat us the same way they treat black people. And anyone who speaks up against it is outed, hard. I wouldn't be surprised if Nicki Minaj was blasted as a pickme for her recent postings on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are pick me girls criticised?FDS does this by putting down women who are into BDSM, video games, porn, and hell they even put down aspie girls because aspie girls are different. So technically FDS are all pickmes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are pick me girls criticised?Well by this logic I'm not a pickme, even though a lot of other women call me a pickme, because I don't adapt to shit for a man. I'm single because I'm difficult to get along with. I don't give up my interests, hobbies, and love of things for a man. Screw em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Why are pick me girls criticised?I only use the word females because nowadays the word "woman" can apparently apply to males, people with dicks and balls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are pick me girls criticised?I met one in the past and this lady wasn't really "one of the boys" but holy crap was she out for male attention like no other. I went to a party and she was being very loud getting all the male attention, and female attention, like she needed it. NEEDED it. Not very friendly to outsiders though because this girl didn't seem to like me and I was new there. The person who hosted the party let me pick a song for the speakers and I picked a Metallica song, because I like Metallica and you don't rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are pick me girls criticised?I've been called a pickme MANY times, by other women, simply for being conservative, blunt, having a crude sense of humor, and for having opinions that aren't very popular. I am not a pickme. If all the men in the world turned leftist my opinions would not change to pander to them. I think the pickme thing is actually rather misogynist, it implies that anyone who isn't a FDS extremist, can't think for themselves pretty much. Internalized misogyny coming from women who claim to be against that st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Why are pick me girls criticised?I've been called a pickme MANY times (it seems for being conservative) and I don't have orbiters. I have 34 followers on Instagram and maybe like 28 friends on Facebook because I don't really trust anyone. Always other women calling me a pickme. I'm just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather stay lonely or date somebody who doesn’t necessarily pass all your dealbreakers?I'd rather be alone. Not lonely, tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?Yup looks like a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?A lot of women love the heck out of effeminate men. When I was in high school I clearly remember many girls going CRAZY for yaoi anime/mangas and all those gay anime men were like twinks. Justin Bieber got more love when he looked like a 12 year old, that harry styles guy women love even though he looked like a f*g when he first came out. When I was young I loved Brendan Fraser with long hair. Hmm I wouldn't say Brendan looks feminine though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:06 PM |
| 7 | Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars?I'm a chick (korean too) and I do not find kpop stars to be very attractive. Honestly they look very feminine. There are hot asian men out there though: Ji Jin Hee is pretty handsome. He looks like a Korean Jamie Dornan, and if I ever came across someone that looked like either of them I would just melt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingI like psychology, human behavior, including mating behaviors, etc. It's all very interesting to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingNot liking animals. I have 3 dogs, 3 quail, 12 or 13 chickens (I forget honestly), and in October I'm getting a muthafuckin' hedgie. I'm severely allergic to cats so if he has cats that would be a deal breaker. He has to enjoy the company of critters because the critters and I are a package deal. So if everything goes well, we get married, we move in together, my pets are coming too. I'm not getting rid of my pets for a man ever again. I did it when I was 18 and I was SO depressed. If he has cri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 09:08 PM |
| 2 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?Well. Look at Ted Bundy. His gf lived with him and had no idea he was a serial killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 06:32 AM |
| 3 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?Who breaks furniture over a facebook post? His friends and family took his side because they're his friends and family. And they were poor, all were poor. I grew up with money and nice things. For example, when I moved in with him, my mom gave me money for an emergency if I ever needed it. She said it was for me. One day my ex just upped and took it without even asking me, because he said he didn't have any money to pay the electric bill. That's just fucked up to take someone's money without eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 06:30 AM |
| 2 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?I mean, my parents and my friends were not on his side and they talked me into breaking up with him and getting away from him. I was depressed living with him because he treated me like a slave, pretty much, while also trying to take all my possessions/money, when I wouldn't he would call me selfish. I think a normal, loving relationship partner would not guilt trip their woman so much, or make them feel like a maid while living with them. I know what normal, loving men look like and he wasn't i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 5 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?Of course he didn't think so, otherwise he would have been like "oh shit" and would have tried to change. Plus the fact his friends and family supported him, he probably thought he was in the right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 3 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?Guy said that it's not realistic for abusers to be sneaky, manipulative, calculating, etc. IME they do hide it until a certain point in the relationship is reached. They are manipulative people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating?Yes. It is why I am 26 and unmarried. I just don't settle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed that if you point out that women consistently date toxic or abusive men that you get called a “victim blaming” misogynist by feminists?Well, I wish more men were like you. This will sound very judgemental, but because of how I was raised, to me tattoos and piercings are trashy. When my mom sees women with tattoos, she is straight up disgusted. My dad was the same, too. In our household, that shit is not normal nor acceptable. I meet very few IRL that were raised the same as I was. So hats off to you for having some standards and class. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 07:37 PM |
| 7 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?Well I mean I had no idea my narc ex had explosive anger when I first met him, or even on our first few dates. When I was 18 and I met this guy at a Christmas party, the only red flag was someone else's parents telling me "He's not a good guy, you should be wary." 18 year old me thought that maybe they just didn't know him, and because I've always been misunderstood, I wanted to give him a chance. My narc ex is actually very popular amongst his friends/people, when I met him he was this friendly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?I put up with shy/timid men for a long time, kind of "teaching" them to be more assertive. Then shit happens which ultimately causes the break up. Like this fella I dated in 2017, he was an aspie too, there were many times where I was like "wtf is he doing". We broke up because I wouldn't convert to be a Southern Baptist, and apparently that was a must to move forward with the relationship. I'm Catholic. He said that my dad would be in hell for being Catholic, and he didn't want to see me go to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?Cheating can be emotional, too. Ricardo and I could just fall in love with eachother. But I assumed from the title of the post that it was referring to having sex with someone else as a form of cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 05:18 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck is this shitI loved dressing up this way when I was a little girl and my parents did make me feel like a princess many times during my childhood. Raising daughters up this way is a good thing.. I think. Cussing as a child? You will be slapped.. or worse. The belt. Or a tree branch that is made into a switch. Do not cuss as a child, do not cuss as an adult around the parents, either!! This video is stepping on traditionalism, from what I see. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | No free Meals kingsYou're right tho, it is who asks out who. If a guy asks a chick out he should choose in-n-out because it won't hurt his wallet if he pays for it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Roma Army is not our ally! She is feminist who popularize gender pay gap myth! She isn't supportive for men rights advocacy, she just makes money of men who are female validation seekers!Of course she isn't. All her tattoos and body mods. Like I said on another post, men greatly prefer bad girls, they're sexy to men. And those women tend to be.... leftist, feminists. I've always disliked her vibe and whiny voice. Feminine women don't do that crap. Does she have a husband? He isn't giving her enough attention it seems. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?I never said anything about killing in my OP.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Whatever That StoryOn Facebook it's different, everyone is talking about their fighting during the road trip. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?Because this post is asking us ladies if we would ever cheat and why. This is the only scenario where I would cheat-- to save my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed that if you point out that women consistently date toxic or abusive men that you get called a “victim blaming” misogynist by feminists?The same can be said for all the men chasing bad girls. A LOT of men sexually prefer women that have facial piercings, colored hair, tattoos, etc. Usually pale goth girls or whatever. But their appearance are all red flags, basically saying "I have mental illness and 50+ sexual partners". I mean they're pretty, but we all know why they enjoy pain... I live in a small town, and as a plain jane type, or dressing classy/feminine style, ain't nobody want me lol. I've definitely had men come and tell… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Have you noticed that if you point out that women consistently date toxic or abusive men that you get called a “victim blaming” misogynist by feminists?Woman here.. so I do want a "nice guy". By this, I mean a really kind fellow, responsible, a doer, gentle, husband and father material. Hopefully a Catholic. I have been in poorly relationships, my recent one can be compared to Johnny Depp and Amber Heard's case, if I am Johnny and my ex is Amber. My ex made the same complaints as Amber did, and I am like Johnny-- if things are getting heated, I become quiet, I shut down, and I'll leave usually. My ex was an ENTP and I dunno if that's why he got… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?Okay well I'm not sure if you've personally talked to anyone that has been in that situation, but I have talked to people that have been in that situation, and I talked them into running away. One woman I talked to was being emotionally abused by her boyfriend, she felt like shit everyday, couldn't confide in his family (they treated her like shit, too). And she felt like she had nowhere to go. She was staying in Maryland at the time and had family in New York state. I told her to reach out to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?Let's assume the house has a backyard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Whatever That StoryThe woman who was left for dead in Teton or whatever? And the bf is on the run? People get so stuck on who the abuser is.. even if she was the abuser, she shouldn't have been KILLED. Good grief. The guy should have just broken up with her and took her home. She was someone's CHILD and she was left in a national park like discarded, old bologna. My sentiment remains the same if he were killed. But he wasn't, he is instead fleeing the country it seems, or at least successfully evading the FBI. Ano… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 03:24 AM |
| 3 | The Feminazis are happy to lead with racist attacks on Asians who refuse to submitI tried reading through that thread but I couldn't keep up.. can people just get to the point while they write? What is menslib? It's not cool when those asian internet keyboard warriors harass us asian women.. Listen, I typically prefer white and hispanic men to other races of men. I'm mixed so it's only natural for me to be attracted to white men-- we're attracted to people that resemble our parents in some way, right? Is that to say I hate asian men? Of course I don't. I do dislike the asshol… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | I saw this posted in a group, and I thought it was hilariousWhat's the stigma about for females taller than 5'5"? I'm 5'7"... | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 03:06 AM |
| 12 | This 👏They're very strange. Non-traditionalist women who want traditional benefits of relationships. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 03:04 AM |
| 7 | please note: i am womanSome countries out there don't need feminism anymore. I live in the US, we don't need feminist activists or an active feminist agenda. Look, we can drive, work, buy and own property, vote, etc. Do everything that men can do pretty much. All feminism does now is implement degeneracy in our culture. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 03:02 AM |
| 3 | would a feminist agree with this?We are that way if we are raised that way. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/09/21 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?I didn't say he would kill, some women feel trapped due to constant emotional abuse and having very low self esteem. In reality they can walk out at any time. Like literally walk away from the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?Sometimes law enforcement doesn't help especially when they're friends with the abuser. Abuser will tell law enforcement friend "oh Rhonda is just depressed and struggling to find meds that work for her, also her mom is bipolar, she cries all the time and makes up these delusions" and law enforcement guy will believe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?Well the transformed wife is a verrrry old school Christian so the first thing that comes to mind is sex. Sex is reserved for husband and wife to us believers. Another is cohabitation as a whole, if you're not married, why would you live together? You would risk fornication (sex before marriage) by living together and not being married. The article I was reading was about cohabitation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 10:12 PM |
| 2 | What is the ideal marriage dynamic in your opinion?My parents and my brother and SIL. Parents; dad was breadwinner, mom stayed at home but also had a lot of freedom to do whatever, my dad funded her hobbies/interests, hardly any fighting over money, they shared an account, simple, easy life. Brother and SIL; my brother is the breadwinner, SIL stays at home, has a lot of freedom to do whatever, brother funds her hobbies/interests, again barely any fighting over money, they share an account, simple, easy life. Both my parents and my brother and SI… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit, why would you cheat?I always see these stories of women who are stuck in very abusive relationships and supposedly cannot leave their home, are in very bad situations, etc. If I were that woman, I'd cheat. Get myself tf out of that situation any way I can. Can't kill the bf because that's illegal, so I'll cheat instead. Hopefully the mexican landscaper can take me away, drive me away in his garden rake truck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position?My neighbor is a forever gf in my opinion. She's been with her bf for 5 years, been living with him for 3 years. Not too long ago he bought a used truck and when she told me about it, she said it made her upset, because she thought he was saving up money to buy her a ring. But later she is thankful he bought a truck, because they can haul stuff around now, such as recycling or furniture. I've asked them about marriage and kids, and she says she wants a baby before she is too old, and her man alw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:47 PM |
| 1 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?I don't have any and I don't want to be someone's booty call. I have a very small circle of friends because of things like that. At the moment I am celibate and I will remain this way until I find someone to marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: I think we need to address the elephant in the room - Why are introverted men largely unattractive to women?I was attracted to them at first, and then the more I got to know them, I lost attraction, and eventually broke up with them. They were all physically attractive men, but I wasn't attracted to their personality after getting to know them, and many of our values clashed as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Introversion" isn't what's unattractive to women. It's the traits commonly associated with those who are introverted.I think they balance eachother out, having 1 person extroverted and the other introverted, in a relationship. From the trend of PPD posts it seems like introverted men are having difficulty finding women, gfs, partners? They just need an outgoing girl to compliment them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's preferable for a woman to act more masculine or more feminine? What's your personal preference?Both, perhaps. But I loved all that while growing up, I always went to the spa with my mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?I'm saying all the guys who want casual sex just aren't going to invest with someone, and the majority of men out there just want to play around, not settle down. I've had difficulty finding like-minded men, and I think it is because of casual sex being so readily available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on transgender people?I do not entangle myself with them. They can do whatever, just don't include me in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."$400 from a dinner date? And making the guy pay all that? That's just cruel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?I wouldn't want to be won over by that person. Our values would not align. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | A successful man wanting a woman to be a housewife is like a successful woman wanting a man to be an Elevator Operator - both jobs are obsolete in 2021I want to be a SAHM one day. You don't have to be rich to have a wife at home, despite everyone else saying you have to be. Maybe just have a good job or career? Obviously it would be very hard if a man was a Carl's jr. janitor or something. However, I know women that are SAHM's and their baby daddy, or husband, does not have a career. They depend on government aid a lot, but they make it work. Poor Americans live this way. You do not need to be rich. A man working a trade could afford a SAHM, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's preferable for a woman to act more masculine or more feminine? What's your personal preference?I don't care what other people do. For myself, I prefer to be feminine. If I ever have a daughter, I would raise her up to be feminine, although if she ever develops "masculine" interests, I wouldn't stop her. I would just hope she'd enjoy doing things with me and her friends that seem traditionally girly. Spa days, getting our nails done, pedicures, makeup, shopping, sleepovers, etc. Showing her how to do housework and baking/cooking with her. Housework is a must she can't weasel herself out of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:24 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "Introversion" isn't what's unattractive to women. It's the traits commonly associated with those who are introverted.It seems there aren't enough extroverted women for introverted men? I like extroverted men, but I can never get them to come my way. Even though extroverts make up most of the population, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] It’s unwise for women to invest in romantic relationships with men if they aren’t valuable to men past age 30.This is true. My past co-worker was 18 and she had guys drooling over her left and right. She was 5'5" and like 100 pounds, no titties no ass, very skinny, but guys were just drawn to her. I am 26 with a good figure and for men it's hit or miss. I've had men compliment my figure and tell me they respect me or like me because I dress very respectable. I remember when I was younger and much skinnier (damn near anorexic looking), I caught men's attention more often, although I wouldn't call it good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | When women are willing to sleep with men without commitment, do you think it makes harder for all the other women to get a long-term partner?IMO yes. I want to get married and have a few kids. Why would the guys out here try to win me over when they can get sex or attention easily from someone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: I think we need to address the elephant in the room - Why are introverted men largely unattractive to women?I'm introverted and in my past relationships my exes were introverted. I have no idea why, but these men were not particularly dominant, in their life OR in the bedroom. I always felt annoyed by their timid nature. I grew up with a dad who found passion in his career and was quite a popular guy, influential, had an impact on others, spoke at meetings, conferences, handed awards to others at awards-things. At home, my dad would unwind with a beer, good food, and a movie. But he was dominant when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapBy his logic I'm "high quality" but it's not easy getting fucking married. Ain't nobody wanna get married these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?Another conservative Christian, preferably a man met through church. Someone who doesn't do drugs lol. Has a good head on his shoulders. Even if his income is low, or his education is low, that's OK. A man that knows a trade is more valuable than a man who has a BA in sociology, IMO. All that matters is that he has a job, is trying, and wishes to be successful. Not sitting around smoking weed 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | It's disgusting the way FDS objectifies the female body - "hand out p*ssy" is their words. They hate women and men.I was banned from there because I criticized them in another sub. I'm a "pickme" by their definition 🙄 I can think of plenty of pickme examples and I ain't one of them. Any woman that is happy and has good success with men is a pickme, just cause we're not miserable over there at FDS. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/08/21 11:03 PM |
| 2 | It's disgusting the way FDS objectifies the female body - "hand out p*ssy" is their words. They hate women and men.Honestly I think most of them are fat. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/08/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodI got 11.5%, 2/5 down to earth I put the height starting at 5'8" since that's my height, any color man (they didn't put Hispanic or Latin on there lol what), exclude married, no obese, started income at 30k. I'm 25 and most men my age don't make a whole lot, I wouldn't expect a man in my age bracket to make triple g's a year. I don't really care though. I have decent luck finding attractive men with jobs. Lately I've been attracting men 2-3 years younger than me, I think because I don't look my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | FDS v. TRPFor myself I can accept it. I'm a sub in the lifestyle so that comes naturally to me, my future husband should be a good man and good leader, I will be naturally submissive to the right man. For sex, assuming I'm attracted to the man I marry I would hope he would be dtf anytime I want, too. As for authority in the house-- I don't know what that looks like really? The husband should know how to lead, prioritize, and make decisions for everyone in the household, and wife should listen, but also be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | FDS v. TRPGirls can go to homemaker school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | No matter how good a man may be. Men can never be good enough in the eyes of a feministWell, no two shitty people are the same and people can be shitty relationship partners in different ways. A lot of the times, people hide their flaws in the honeymoon phase of the relationship, and stuff doesn't come out til later. It happens. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/21 09:32 PM |
| 3 | If american men all vanishedI guess we'd have a lot less healthcare employees, teachers, and retail workers. But society could still run itself. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | No matter how good a man may be. Men can never be good enough in the eyes of a feministI've had bad experiences but I didn't turn into a feminist. Sometimes shit just doesn't work out between two people. So just dip, learn, use what you learned the next time you meet someone. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Single straight/bisexual ladies, how would you describe your ideal future partner/husband?Personality: Kind, empathetic, respectful, patient, can control his anger or only get angry when he needs to be (yelling at our kids for example). Goofy, funny, outgoing, extroverted, loves animals, loves kids, wants kids, treats his mom good, hopefully his parents raised him up good. A guy that loves to smile, talk, and can bring me out my shell. Protective is preferred. Wants to help people and is handy with tools. I would prefer another sensor, intuitives talk about so much bullshit lol. Stuf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Myers Briggs Personality Test: Purple PillINFP is worse for men. The many I've met were weenies... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Myers Briggs Personality Test: Purple PillFemale, 25, ISFP but ESFP when I'm in a hype mood, or if I drink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 09:18 PM |
| 23 | No matter how good a man may be. Men can never be good enough in the eyes of a feministMeanwhile lots of women out there being treated like queens by their evil man. It sounds like feminists pick shitty dudes to date and then blame all men. It's not the good one's fault that you settled for a guy that does the bare minimum. | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/08/21 09:15 PM |
| 15 | I always feel like the odd woman out because I like the “patriarchy.” (I know the patriarchy doesn’t actually exist.)I'm the same way. I was raised very old school, traditional. Men are always very nice to me IRL and I give them the same respect back, as I would with anyone!! Some men are rude online but they can hide behind a screen. It's very different in person. Be stern when you need to be, though. I work in retail and some dudes are just gross, tell em to fuck off. As you would to a nasty woman. Men respect women that stick up for themselves. Treat others how you would like to be treated. | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 20 | If american men all vanishedSociety would come to a full stop. The military wouldn't just be hindered. No electricity, no water, no planes, no food, no farms, no homes, etc. | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/08/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Blatant misandry has become totally normal and nobody in Reddit seems to care anymore…Since the fds sub doesn’t care about calling men names..I hereby call them Vags too..anyways wanted to say, Vags might get this subreddit banned too.Reddit is a leftist leaning forum. | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/08/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Reddit is officially against men and white people. See for yourself.Why can't we have a subreddit that criticizes and roasts non-whites? I'm white/asian mixed and I work at a liquor store. You know who spends their cash benefits on cognac liquor, blunt wraps, and useless shit? Blacks. They can get cash-back and go spend it on drugs, weed, whatever. Yea there's a lot of meth head white people in my town but I've always seen them buy their vices with cash. It's always the blacks who are buying useless shit with their cash benefits, meanwhile their kid wants a cand… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | FDS v. TRPIt's fine to describe unproductive members of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | FDS v. TRPTrash = gang members from central California. Mandatory military is definitely needed in this day and age. Or perhaps boys need a father in their lives that'll actually whoop them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 07:32 PM |
| – | FDS v. TRPThey're not conservative, though. It's not really funny, to me it's just sad. They want conservative dating perks but do not want to return the favor to guys. Femcels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:58 PM |
| – | FDS v. TRPWhatever they are, they take no accountability, and are lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:55 PM |
| 0 | FDS v. TRPThe police have helped my community greatly.. I live in a POOR area and the deputies that come out here and put the trash away to make my community safer, are truly a God-send!! Put more gang members away and keep them there! Speaking from a small town perspective-- we don't want them here, keep our towns safe, remove degenerates. Seriously, mandatory military service should be a thing in the US for 18 year old boys. It would turn them into men. Maybe then we'd need less police. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:53 PM |
| 0 | FDS v. TRPA lot of POC (not all) are "woke" these days and take no accountability. They blame all negative happenings on white people. I imagine FDS women don't like straight, white males. Straight, white, conservative males are more likely to be traditional though, as the FDS crowd prefers, but the men don't want to give that nice treatment to entitled gold diggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:48 PM |
| – | FDS v. TRPI guess I'm friends with and related to all the nice ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | FDS v. TRPBut not all of them do. A lot of liberals suck but some of them are nice, the same could be said about blacks as well. That is very well documented. But, I give everyone a chance equally to get to know them and to be friends. Until they give me a reason to not associate with them anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 08:40 PM |
| 8 | FDS v. TRPThe way how they carry themselves is not in a way that breathes goodness, kindness, positivity. They're horribly entitled and selfish beyond normality. They are a huge clique and anyone who doesn't follow their narrow world view is harshly excluded. I criticized them once, questioned them once, and was banned. When I communicated with a mod, she was all "lmao", childish. They have some good points with setting boundaries and knowing what they want, but they need to realize that what they put out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | FDS v. TRPFDS women are mean.. TRP men are mean. They're the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 08:13 PM |
| 11 | FDS v. TRPThey're NOT conservative Christian women. No way in hell. I'm a conservative Christian, my boss is, many of my friends are and conservative Christian women are the sweetest women around. And conservatives are hella kinky, so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 08:12 PM |
| 15 | FDS v. TRPThey banned me after I asked if they could understand aspie women, show aspie women support, as aspie women oftentimes get along better with men and they're called pickme's, even though they're not trying to be. They're not kind or friendly to people with disabilities, and to me that's just fucking shitty. I don't have aspergers but I know women who do and they enjoy traditionally masculine hobbies quite often-- video games and anime for example. They're such lovely gals though and SO smart. I j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 08:10 PM |
| – | Can a manchild reasonably want a feminine woman?I'm trad-ish and feminine, fit. Can a manchild want us? Yea ofcourse. Do we want them? Ehm, I personally don't. Some women totally get off taking care of a lazy, immature, unorganized man. I'm not one of those. I'd prefer a man that is on top of his shit and prioritizes everything. I would clean and do things around the house for him out of sheer respect, that's how I was raised, we women respect our breadwinner by taking care of the house/children for him so he can relax when he comes home. A g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 05:41 PM |
| – | what is it like being an average invisible woman?Definitely not made up nonsense that men ignore us normals for "stacies". My co-worker and I for example. A vast majority of our male customers chase her-- she is 19, goth aesthetic, nose piercings, big light brown eyes, short/petite 5'4" or 5'5", very pale ivory white skin, black hair, 103 pounds, goth/satanic dress style and aesthetic. She is white, which I guess is the majority in the US? But some would disagree with that statement. She told me a construction worker just gave her $500 dollars… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Men here don't chase "all types of women". Otherwise, they wouldn't complain about one type of female.I did and my fake dating profile was reported and banned. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Men here don't chase "all types of women". Otherwise, they wouldn't complain about one type of female.Those traits definitely belong to a certain type of woman, or a small group of women. Sounds like thots to me lol. But I get it, they're pretty af. Just know, men out there, that other women besides thots are pretty, too. Find a more honest woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that you always hear about women being very vocal about not wishing to date men of their opposite political spectrum (the vast majority of the time it's liberal women vs conservative men) but you don't see men doing the same thing nearly as often (mostly conservative men vs liberal women)?Well. Let's see.. relationship values to some degree, I prefer gender role relationships but I am down to split the bill or take turns paying, and I like to buy my man stuff if he's doing the same for me, conservative on marriage values, kids, moving in with a spouse. I do believe in the phrase "America first", I don't think Biden should have sent millions to other countries, he should have put that money into this country. He could have put it into healthcare, farms, something to help the Ameri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that you always hear about women being very vocal about not wishing to date men of their opposite political spectrum (the vast majority of the time it's liberal women vs conservative men) but you don't see men doing the same thing nearly as often (mostly conservative men vs liberal women)?Libertarians are all over the place, I guess there is some rule amongst Libertarians where everything is cool as long as you don't harm another? And abortion violates that apparently. Also I'm good with taxes being used towards social programs that actually help people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 01:58 AM |
| – | Why is it that you always hear about women being very vocal about not wishing to date men of their opposite political spectrum (the vast majority of the time it's liberal women vs conservative men) but you don't see men doing the same thing nearly as often (mostly conservative men vs liberal women)?A fellow conservative that supports bodily autonomy. We're rare, and also hated by other conservatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with wanting your girlfriend or wife to be like a motherSome motherly qualities are OK to exhibit, but in my experience with men, is that some of y'all get used to it way too fast, start to depend on it, and when the lady doesn't feel like being motherly then the dude throws a huge fit over it. I never want to be any man's mama-gf. Mostly because I work-- I do not have the energy to do all that extra stuff for someone else. Maybe on my days off. If I ever live with a man, whoever is home first should make dinner for the both of us, and make enough fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Could just be a hobby. Getting them lifted and adding more to them is very expensive. But satisfying when complete. When my car is paid off I want to trade up for a honda and turn that into a hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Hey man, blame the manufacturers for not creating a green, powerful truck. Don't blame the lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieI turned down a man who's 12 years older than me. He has 2 kids, a baby mama, is saving up to buy a house for his parents, wants an ice cream shop business in the future, etc etc. We are very much at different places in our lives and I don't wish to be sidetracked from the things I want to do, and I don't want him to be sidetracked from the things he wants to do. He's got a lot going on-- I'm still living at home and figuring out my long-term career/job stuff. I'm going to be 26 and he is 38. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?You're missing out on some of the best horror movies, dude. From Dusk til Dawn is fire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?So if you saw a hot lady (whatever you consider hot), and the sight of her turned you on immensely, driving a big diesel or gas guzzling truck, you wouldn't talk to her? Even if her 4x4 could climb a mountain and give you two the best moonlit date there is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Oh of course. I'm down to chat with anybody, any time. I work in a store and I love the interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I think if I had $500+ extra money laying around, I would put it towards paying off my car and NOT buying dresses lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?My friend's mom is like that, she threw away a perfectly good Michael Kors bag just because it got ketchup on it. Meanwhile I'm using the same backpack purse I got from DD's discounts back in '18. That lifestyle is extremely wasteful, I couldn't do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I see women like that in cities like Calabasas, La Jolla, and they're rude too lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?My decent sunscreen costed $44 for a tiny ass bottle ._. Luckily it's lasted me this long since I bought it back in March. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Who doesn't? (Old school vamps) that and werewolves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I meet a lot of women who save, but not many who invest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I think they sell their bodies because they're lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?They would get a few thousand out of him at a time, they said sometimes he would be cheap, so they would slip him ecstasy to get his debit card, and pull thousands out at the nearest ATM. Yes, they were hot. They were just normal, skinny/in shape blonde women in their early 20's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I guess it depends on what you consider overdressing. The guys I've seen while out and about look nice, but I've never seen one in a whole suit with dress shoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Won't be satisfied with dinner at Olive Garden? Have they tried the breadsticks? My only gripe with Olive Garden is that they use a big ass bowl for such small portions of food, to make it look like there is more, and the fact that Olive Gardens are always so packed with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I dunno, my mom came from a wealthy background and she can be such an entitled hoo-hah sometimes.. she will make a big fuss if we're at a store or some establishment, and if she was wrongly charged some very small amount of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?It's different for everyone. Hopefully that woman has her own house, income, and a car, and they're just spending time together because they want to, not because they have to. I plan on buying my own house one day from my family's house/inheritance, sell this one and go buy a better one somewhere where houses are cheap. The fear of having a leech or mooch come for your stuff is very real for women as it is for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Yet men prefer women who look good, which costs women money to execute. Even the 'natural' looking women are paying for high quality skincare products to keep their natural look in check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I don't really see blue pilled people talking about dolled up women as much as red pilled people do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?How do you determine someone is materialistic from just looking at them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I mean, the other day I bought a new wallet for $18, and I'm pretty happy with it. It has Sailor Moon on it. I'm good on buying a wallet for a while. The other one I had was given to me. Not going to lie though, if I went to store today and I saw some cheap Castlevania shirts, I would buy one. Totally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Be resentful, lol. I understand totally-- I work hard also, and it is frustrating to see that others just get things handed to them and they behave so unfriendly, nasty, judgemental to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I get that. I have a ps4 pro, and I bought a 2TB card for it, which I think is better than buying a new console. It works just as fine as anything else and I'm just grateful to have a ps4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I'm always looking at dresses, as long as they're under $20. I found an expensive, high quality lululemon dress at a rummage sale once, and the organization who ran the rummage sale said I could pay whatever I wanted since the funds were being donated anyway. For a good dress, a coach swimsuit, several sports leggings, and t-shirts, I paid $5 lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I've always been unevenly yoked in my past relationships. I have never met someone who is on the same page with me about things. Unfortunately lol. Not even talking about materialism-- that's a small issue. I'm very simple yet it's hard to find someone who enjoys the same things as I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Modern fathers are responsible for 99% of "slutty"/sexually dysfunctional womenI do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Okay... I live in the US and I don't see such desperate people.. here in the US, if you're really that financially desperate as a woman, all you need to do is have a baby and collect money from social programs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Women care about all sorts of things. I've met a lot that care about rescuing animals more than clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?This is what I do. I love Shein and Romwe because their clothes looks cute and it's cheap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I don't know? I respect others? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?We need men to do tasks around the house, such as fixing the leaking sink, so neither of us have to pay thousands for a plumber | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, how would you feel about a great looking guy that was very shy and timid?I guess so. I'm shy around people I like or that I think are very good looking. Otherwise I'm fine talking to people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:53 AM |
| 5 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?It's nice when he both dresses nice and takes care of his body. I'm just not particularly attracted to men who dress slovenly-- not to say that a shirt and shorts is slovenly. Buff guys fill out their clothes really well and they don't need to do much to look good. A man who dresses well isn't necessarily wasting his money. I dress nice and my cutest blouses/dresses were all under $10. My jewelry costs .70 to 2.00 at the most. It doesn't cost much to look good, you just need to have an eye for g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?If she spends frivolously, how can she pay her bills? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:45 AM |
| 4 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I met sugar babies before and while they sucked their financial provider's dick for money, they kind of loathed him and were in it solely for the money. To me that seems shitty to live like that, maybe not shitty for the guy, but instead of being lazy and letting their parents down, those young women could have found a job easily for money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:42 AM |
| 4 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I don't like dating apps. I tried in the past-- way too many crazies and weirdos on them. I feel like you shouldn't try to force something to happen when it should happen naturally IRL. I work at a small store and plenty of customers come in every day, there's no need for a dating app when you work with the public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I've been told I'm good looking also and I've had no problem in the past talking to muscle heads, or them asking for my number, maybe he doesn't like asian girls. What surprised me is that he wasn't interested when others have been interested in the past. Oh well, I heard from others he's not suitable for dating or LTR's. My co-worker turned him down though and friendzoned him, she prefers skinny hispanic men. I do wonder if that affected him or how it made him feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:34 AM |
| 8 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?If they're trying to look good for women, it's definitely working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?The hottest guy in our town wanted a relationship with her so 🤷🏻♀️ maybe he isn't intelligent, I dunno. But when I asked if he wanted to hang out sometime, he beat around the bush and basically told me no thanks. I usually have good luck with muscle heads, so I was surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:23 AM |
| 7 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Well, okay.. are you old? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:04 AM |
| 10 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?But if a woman looks good all by herself then she wouldn't be high maintenance.. correct? My post is talking about women who work and buy themselves things because they genuinely enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Which romantic trope would you most like to experience in real life?I would love to experience a man taking me on a date where he rows me around in a small boat, during nighttime, with fireflies or lit lanterns about, in beautiful, crisp waters. But he better come prepared with the deet spray because hella bitey bugs come out at night near water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:51 AM |
| 6 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Are men who go out of their way to look nice also high maintenance and vampires that drain others energy? I have a lot of respect and admiration for men that dress up just to do a simple, everyday task such as grocery shopping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I was just replying.. I didn't mean to come off that way? I don't think you're attacking me at all. I don't look down on the people here for dressing like hicks. That's just the best I can describe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:44 AM |
| 10 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?From what I've observed at work, men do not care if a woman is financially irresponsible as long as she is hot. My co-worker is hot-- she is white, about 5'4", very skinny, pale, big eyes, goth aesthetic, and a lot of men in our town have a crush on her. She is financially irresponsible, though. We were supposed to move into a place together but I backed out because of it. She does not have a car, spends her money on her nails, eyelash extensions, new piercings, etc. She can barely pay rent and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I'm not worried about that. I just find it odd that many men dislike materialistic women, when those women are probably nice, they just like to look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:15 AM |
| 5 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I do not consider myself very materialistic. I'm poor as shit lol, I work but just for a small, family-owned, locally run business. After all bills are paid I figure out how much I can spend on myself at the end of the month. I buy most of my clothes from boutiques that have sales going on. I look like I'm materialistic on the outside, because the stylish clothes I buy is always on sale, and my aesthetic is cutesy/classy. But idk because a lot of people in my town dress like hicks. I generally s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:12 AM |
| 5 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?What store is it if I may ask? I look up furniture on Facebook marketplace because everywhere else it's mad expensive. I love sectional couches with the recliners but not for $8,000 jeezus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Do women really care about social status?I don't need to date the most popular man in town, or the most wealthy, or whatever. I do look at who his friends are-- are they good people, are they druggies, or partiers, criminals, etc? Or if he has no friends at all, why? I live in a small town.. these seemingly trivial things matter more in small towns. Me personally, if I date anyone here, I want to make sure he comes from a family of good people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:41 AM |
| 1 | It seems well-known that women find "ambition" attractive, but what types of ambition, specifically?Someone who is really trying in life to get by and achieve what he wants. No excuses. No vices getting in his way (alcoholism for example). If he says he can't go to work because he threw up 1 time, or his foot hurts, then I don't want him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:35 AM |
| 0 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?I'd say I'm materialistic to some degree (I'm a female lol) but my needs are not insatiable. For me it feels more satisfying to get only what I need at the time and to buy things that will last me a while. I also feel happy buying things for others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:30 AM |
| 0 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?You make a good point-- what happens when the money runs out? I will think about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?It's acceptable for birthdays, holidays, or once in a while gifts just cause. I would occasionally spoil my ex and I went all out on his bday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, how would you feel about a great looking guy that was very shy and timid?I'm introverted, but I do not mind talking to people. I work in retail and I genuinely enjoy my customers, the small town vibe, interaction in general. I love having the old people come in and I help them grab what they need and doing it with a smile. However, after a long shift at work, my ideal place to be is in my bed by myself. I need that time to myself to recharge. And certain individuals drain my energy. Extroverts prefer being around others to recharge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, how would you feel about a great looking guy that was very shy and timid?My friend's bf has a brother that is like this. He is GORGEOUS but very shy and quiet. He's a customer that comes into the store I work at, and how do I feel about him? I like quiet men. I just hope he doesn't have a crazy temper or mood swings. Apparently his brother (friend's bf) has never seen him with a girl, and he is the oldest brother out of 6 siblings. My friend said he is a "loner", he goes to work, comes home, and plays video games. Sounds good to me. When I'm ready to date again maybe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Is that the issue? Men are afraid of spending? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Men have a preference for younger women?Why are women your age picking on you and making you feel inferior? Why would an 18 year old be impressed with you? Yea some men do prefer younger women.. but are they trying to marry these young women, or just fuck them? You say you are 30 and prefer younger women, 10+ years, that's a huge maturity difference there.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Do most men really, truly dislike materialistic women?Of course she can. But what's wrong with a woman treating herself to nice things and looking nice? Why is it a red flag if she enjoys those things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Straight Women who prefer to be single are both strong and ridiculousMy co-worker is like this. She doesn't believe in marriage and doesn't want any man (or anyone really) to pay for her shit, she is unable to have kids, and is a super hot goth INTP. She's had a bad streak of relationships with emotional men and she is sick of how needy men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Did you ever go to various dates with different guys at the same time?No, that sounds incredibly exhausting and draining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How hard is it for women to find a good guy after 30?Doesn't seem hard to me? Only if their personality is bad and or they are overly ugly... but I've seen absolutely cute couples that were what would be considered "ugly", that were just happy, in their 30's, and totally smitten with one another. You have to accept people.. that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Modern fathers are responsible for 99% of "slutty"/sexually dysfunctional womenI had an excellent relationship with my father, my first best friend. Problem is he passed away when I was 16. It fucked me up in a different sort of way, different type of daddy issues here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Women should do the "Pig Woman Experiment" on dating apps to really appreciate how worthless 'validation' is.I did a fake profile in the past, to see men's reactions. The pics I used were not of an obese woman, but a kind of ghastly looking woman? I will attach a link at the end of this comment. I used the fake pics on Tinder and POF. For the pics being so "ugly", my profile was reported and banned from Tinder. On POF I could send messages to men, and I messaged one guy proposing a dinner date of eating microwavable corndogs together. This man replied "Corndogs? Really?", then reported my profile and b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:26 AM |
| 31 | No one is happy I am pregnant!Is English your first language? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/21 05:47 PM |
| 8 | Reminder: Red Pill Women is not a women-run group. It is being run by men and has been for quite some time. Ex-RPW are welcome here as well to detox. Please report any harassment to the mods. RPW tend to get quite a bit of it if they're found out to be women. Stay safe, ladies!The weird admins were men all along? Role-playing as women is WEIRD. Tf | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/21 07:56 AM |
| 1 | RPW advice never worked for me, so I went back to being a quirky weirdo, and I found a good bfI think he is handsome but other people (men) disagree. He is 5'11", skinny/lanky, just normal looking. He isn't buff or ripped. Big blue eyes. He doesn't have great confidence in his looks, either. His teeth are a little crooked also, but I have yaeba teeth so I don't care. A lot of women marry average looking men because they're nice. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | RPW advice never worked for me, so I went back to being a quirky weirdo, and I found a good bfI mean, my bf is pretty weird. He is a big goof and it's part of the reason I love him. But he's serious when he needs to be. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 3 | The Unhealthy truth about "wifely" activities: especially the kitchenI thought RP men hated trad women. I think it just depends on the person, what they're cooking, their genetics, etc. My mom was a SAHM for the most part, but because she's asian, she never got fat. My dad had a big beer belly, though. She also had a garden and would use lots of veggies from her garden in her cooking. I don't think my mom was very bored, yea she was a housewife, but she also went shopping A LOT, and she would have frequent weekend getaways to spas, saunas, casinos, buddhist retre… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Did you experience a HS romance/love? Do you feel like you missed out on HS romance/love?I was a retard and kept forgetting my locker combo. So I hardly used it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Did you experience a HS romance/love? Do you feel like you missed out on HS romance/love?I did not experience HS romance, or even getting laid. I had crushes but it was never returned. I was very skinny in HS, about 5'7" and 98-103lbs. Yup.. and up until the 6th grade I had a rolling backpack. I went to a small school, from K to 12, on a military base so it was kind of private and everyone knew eachother. Military base schools are something else. Most of the kids are "normal", follow the status quo types. I went through an emo phase so I stood out like a sore thumb, and I also wasn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it just an American thing to want a woman who doesn't work?To some, a career woman is unattractive. I've talked to these very ambitious women before and they're not too keen on settling down, marriage, family, etc. They're very motivated by money and power, will fuck men on the side or for fun, but they don't really commit. They don't want to be slowed down. I am with an American man and I do work. I work full-time, I have medical and dental benefits, my job is very low stress, very chill, swing shift (which to me is more freeing and flexible), and I ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:48 PM |
| 16 | What makes a woman a loser?Meth/heroin users, grown people that do not work and are essentially couch surfing for long periods of time. Begging random strangers for money, saying "pls help a single mom out". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 8 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Thank feminism. I think it's OK for men to have preferences. Don't like fat women? Ok. Don't like skinny women? Ok. Don't like blacks, don't like whites, don't like big hands, don't like pterodactyl feet? Ok. Who cares honestly what someone's preferences are? That is their business and up to them. But thanks to the LOUD, feminists of the world, it's become taboo for men to share their likes/dislikes. For some reason these people take it personally and to heart if they read that some random, anon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?I would hope it also brings down gas, groceries, shopping in general, utilities, etc not just housing.. my friend just moved to OK and her rent for a 2 bedroom apartment is 650/month. My SO pays 1100/month for a 2 bedroom.. and I would 100% be OK with minimum wage going down also, to match affordable states minimum wage. My SO would still make a lot as a tactical aircraft mechanic, he is a contractor for the DoD, we could live much easier and actually start saving towards big goals like a house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?I voted for John Cox, but apparently the rest of the state voted for Gavin Newsom. Which totally confuses me. It doesn't make any logical sense. When my SO's work probation is up we'll be looking to move to a state with lower taxes overall and is more affordable to live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?Xenophobic towards who? Us Asians are taking over the world, and mixed children are the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 8 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?Yep. My SO and I want a family, but it's not too feasible even with our incomes combined, our state CA is very expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?It costs too damn much to get married and have a family. The American dollar lost its value. Also, is this an issue for America mostly? Seems to be a boom of Asians all over the world, Canada especially lol they're multiplying rapidly (saying this as a half Asian). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | The red pill targets autistic peopleI am NT and one of my exes had aspergers. Not sure if he was red pilled or not, but I'm not dating another sperg ever. Who knows, I may have turned him red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/21 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?They're just not very attractive to most men. I look at girls too and I do like the shape of a chubby but still curvy chick. But even that is just too much for most men. Keyword 'most' here.. there are outliers that love a big hunk of bologna smelling hambeasties. A fupa isn't very hot. Hate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Personal styling and presentation, and how it impacts datingI dress very plain jane most of the time, comfort first, but sometimes I doll myself up and either go soft goth, grunge, or floral. I never do bright ass colors, though. Most of my everyday clothes is grey, black, video game T-shirt, khaki skinny jeans, vans. I attract a few types of men usually.. body builders/gym nuts, tattoo nuts, and nerds/geeks. The latter is varied but they're usually lean, tall, and attractive. I have found that I don't attract clean cut men, or fashionable (?) men. I don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | It's actually ridiculously easy to find a woman who cooks, cleans and wants to be a SAHP.Yea I make poop compared to what my SO makes and trust me when I have a baby I am being a SAHM with glee! But I will want to go back to work when the screechy bastards are older | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Study: Having an attractive partner makes no difference in a woman’s reported relationship satisfactionYeah, they need to be funny also and have some common interests, likes. Gosh who knew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Women who make the first move are more likely to end up with men who they actually find attractiveI had much luck messaging my fiance first and announcing him as my boyfriend in front of my mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 03:14 AM |
| 1 | is it a dealbreaker is a man watches pornIt's not a deal breaker, but it does make me uncomfortable, and I've shut down discussions that my SO has tried to have with me in the past about porn. It makes me uncomfortable to see other women doing stuff and him getting aroused from it. He tried to show me a video he liked, I looked at it and I said please don't show me anymore. I would prefer it if he tried to hide it instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 09:12 AM |
| 1 | is it a dealbreaker is a man watches pornThis is my problem with porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?IME it was an ex who appeared to be really nice and likeable, he knew how to put on a facade, but in reality he was mean af, manipulative, and had explosive anger. But he didn't let his friends see this so when I tried going to others for help, no one believed me and I was dubbed a liar and I was called the crazy one. 🤷🏻♀️ whatever I suppose my SO is an asshole but he isn't one to me, so I don't care. I like him for other reasons. He has a lot of nice relationship qualities and great qualities … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Most women I know are not as funny as the men. Why do you think that happens?That sucks, dude. A huge reason my SO is attracted to me is because I make him laugh. We're both goofy and clumsy, and random at times. He laughs at dumb shit, we laugh at dumb shit. Just the other day I was messing with someone through the talk-to-text feature, my gibberish translated to "goblin jamboree" and for some reason this made my SO laugh so hard his chest was hurting. I fart in public frequently and he'll be dying from laughter.. he will randomly scream at people in a filthy frank, pin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's breasts are way more sexualized than they should be?I grew up seeing boobs at Korean spas and saunas. To me, boobs are overrated. But I'm a female. They're very distracting to most men. Certain kinds of boobs, not all. Those national geographic tiddies aren't very appealing to men.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | How can Western Societies increase the birthrate?Make the American dollar have value again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | If a girl openly says she wants to find a guy who makes enough to support her and let her be a SAHMI want to be a SAHM at some point in my life, to experience raising kids and being a homemaker. If I hate it, I can go back to work. My SO will help me when needed, but I already told him to get used to me handling things so that he may have quality time with the children. So that all his attention can be on the kids, I think that is important for both him and the kids. I have no intention to be a gold digger. Children are expensive, most of the money will be going to them, they're the gold digg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 2 | What is the female equivalent to male pattern baldnessBeing heavy in the midsection. A lot of women my age (mid twenties) have a lot of fat on their waist. No curves.. they usually hide it with baggy clothes but that's a big indicator of it. And like baldness, I think it is genetic, because I live pretty sedentary these days and I'm still quite tiny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Do women believe that their career gives them an advantage in the dating/sexual marketplace?Yes, some women do. I relied more on my looks and my personality when I was looking for someone, not so much my career-- I was a student and just an aide for elementary students. Luckily my looks and personality helped me snag a good man lol. And you know, I've been insecure before about not being a college graduate and a career woman (because it's such a big deal these days) but my SO has reassured me that in the future, he would prefer me to be at home with our future kids. I can go back to wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 05:36 PM |
| -1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Men like that are not family men, period. I know men who are stepdads and they LOVE kids. Kids love them, too. My SO's biological father is a stepdad, he treats his GF's kids as his own, and his GF's grandkids as his own. They're very compassionate people. But then people like my SO's stepdad, with his biological mom, are total assholes. My SO has very few good memories with his stepdad. That guy wanted to get rid of my SO when he was a boy. He always just wanted my SO's mom to himself. That kin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Women have insecurities but do not tolerate insecurities in men.Either way he's got a full head of hair and isn't a fatso, which is nice, considering that a large percentage of American men are overweight and balding by their late 20's and 30's (as are American women but I ain't fat). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Women have insecurities but do not tolerate insecurities in men.Good genes! I hope you find someone that you find sexy and enjoyable to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Women have insecurities but do not tolerate insecurities in men.It's pretty cool that you're a whiz at math. Did you do all that in your head? I'm horrible at math lol. Still very interesting. He's also got a full head of hair and his dad is the same way, no balding or receding hairline on his dad at all. His dad isn't overweight either, so I feel very fortunate in that regard. I'll have a sexy 50 yr old husband in 30 yrs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Women have insecurities but do not tolerate insecurities in men.Interesting. My SO isn't fat nor ugly, no college degree, however he was in the military (air force college credits) and when he got out he went to a trade school and graduated with a license for something aviation related. What's the math for not ugly, not fat, and graduated a trade school? Is the percent higher when compared to college graduates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Relationship_advice is not the place where you should be asking for an advice. Not with those feminist women “Girl leave him!” That sub is so anti-man!Honestly, the people who post on that sub for advice are strange to me.. like 99% of their issues would be fixed if they would talk to their SO, with exactly what they said in their postings. I feel like a lot of them are teenagers with no friends. When I need advice I'll talk to my SO's mom, because she knows I love him and she will be our mediator if something is going wrong. My SO loves his mom, he will listen to her. Keeping things personal like that is better with eachother or with the fami… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/11/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | DEAR WOMEN: Don't do this.I haven't done any of those things. My SO always picks me up from my home for our dates and I am always ready on time. I'm not interested in tattoos at all (my body is tattoo and piercing free, except for my earlobes but that's normal for a woman), yet my SO has told me more than once that I would look good with tattoos.. he has one and wants to get more. I think it's fine if others want tattoos, but I am simply not interested in it for myself. He has told me that when we get married he wants to… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/11/20 03:45 AM |
| 2 | FDS learning what it's like being a man and dating lmao. $7K sounds cheap tbh 😄😄😄Isn't this just the cost of being an adult? I've spent hundreds on bills alone, and other things needed around the home. I'm buying a new cuckoo rice cooker for $300 because my old one broke... and it's for my mom mainly. I dropped $180 on my turtle recently so that it can live outdoors. As for relationships.. I spent $150 on my boyfriend for his birthday and he told me NOT to spend money on him like that, like he legit got annoyed, but he said he liked his presents. But that's just life! Wait u… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/11/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually?I think 9 or 10. Very strange because I was a skinny girl and I looked like a boy for most of my childhood (thanks mom for cutting my hair short). I was told by my mom that sometimes she or my aunt would hold my hand tighter in stores and similar areas, because they were sure that human traffickers were following us around, and in those days I was 5-10 years old. With all the stories I read about human trafficking, I believe it. In my pre-teen and teenage years, friends' dads would stare at me s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | What in the actual fuck is this Pseudo-science? The venn diagram is atrocious in its "accuracy," and this is supposed to be a representation of men? In which parallel dimension does this float?I've only seen these weird desires while going on internet rabbit holes, extremists pretty much. They are a small percentage of people. Definitely not the majority. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/11/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | If you're a strong independent women, why do you always act like women are victims?Yes and he deserves that wage, I think he deserves more than what he makes. 14/hr is fair for working with kids. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/20 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Fanaticism is obsession.I think disabled and elderly people should get a seat on public transportation, or similar places, no matter what. I will give up my spot for an old or disabled person if there is a lack of seating. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/20 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Incel is a slur. Its sexual shaming. Its the male equivalent of w**re. It implies a man HAS to have sex to be worthy of respect as default.I see your point. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/20 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Incel is a slur. Its sexual shaming. Its the male equivalent of w**re. It implies a man HAS to have sex to be worthy of respect as default.Sooo I am not linking celibacy to resentment. I am linking awful thought processes and nasty personalities to resentment. Celibacy does not equal a negative personality or bad head space. There are plenty of celibate men that are wonderful people, many that are celibate are waiting for the right one to come along, and that's a very respectful thing! When I use the term "incel", I use it to reference those nasty people from that forum. I'm sorry if the word offends you, but it is what it is. I do… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Incel is a slur. Its sexual shaming. Its the male equivalent of w**re. It implies a man HAS to have sex to be worthy of respect as default.My boyfriend wasn't having sex for 4 years before he met me. Was he an incel? Absolutely not. Does he deserve to be disrespected? Absolutely not. I actually applaud him for focusing on himself, focusing on his goals, and bettering himself as a person. A man taking the initiative to grow is a man I respect. I don't really like people who sleep around-- it shows me that they are impulsive and bad at commitment. If someone wants to live like that then ok but I don't want to associate myself with th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/20 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Incel is a slur. Its sexual shaming. Its the male equivalent of w**re. It implies a man HAS to have sex to be worthy of respect as default.I think "incel" is an appropriate term for people like Elliot Rogers. Absolutely nutty, that man. He felt victimized because the blonde bimbos he crushed on didn't like him back.. would it have killed him to maybe give other women a try? Join a club, get involved in a hobby.. try a dating app? Men don't need to have sex to be respected. Just be a decent person and mostly everyone will be decent back to you. IME most men are very nice, polite people. Very rarely have I come across the scornful in… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | If you're a strong independent women, why do you always act like women are victims?I'm not a feminist. I'm perfectly fine with earning less than my SO. He works as an aircraft mechanic, I work as a special education aid for elementary students. I'm grateful to be where I am. He makes 30 something an hour, I make 14 something an hour. My job gives me more flexibility and time to be at home, and this will set me up to be a better mom in the future. IMO women shouldn't take on infantry jobs in the military. If the enemy catches them and rapes and tortures them repeatedly to get i… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Satirical but accurate.I have neighbors that are divorced, but they remain cordial with one another, and they get to see/hangout with their children as much as they want. No money extortion or court problems. When they tell others the reaction is often shock, but in my opinion I think more people should practice this. I think the mom is a wonderful person and it's very rare to see mothers like her. Pretty much all other divorced mothers hang kids over their father's head and are petty resentful assholes. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Fanaticism is obsession.My former gym partner was a feminist.. staff sgt in the air force, worked on missiles, had just bought her own home and a brand new 2020 vehicle, 3 dogs, and no man. Pinnacle feminist, strong independent woman, yadda yadda. She was also very abrasive and hated kids.. One day at the gym an older gentleman was saying "good morning" to everyone, not just us women. He said good morning to me and I smiled and said good morning back. He said good morning to my former gym partner and she rolled her eye… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 7 | That's exactly what's wrong about feminism.Small perky tits, nice ass > big tits in general | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/20 10:28 PM |
| 2 | That's exactly what's wrong about feminism.I've heard that a strict carnivore diet is a great way to lose weight. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/11/20 10:26 PM |
| -1 | Do tall men really have a preference for short women?Short women prefer tall men, tall men prefer hot women. Taller hot women are a low percentage and are picked up quick. So tall men take what they can get. I'm like 5'8" and I look pretty decent.. not fat at all, 31-28-38 measurements last I checked. I've had no problem getting the attention of tall men, short men, without trying usually. I'm an introverted person, I don't usually approach men. I've seen short women approach and pursue men pretty aggressively, like they need the D, and they need … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Men who want independent womenYeah, my exes who wanted me to be more independent seemed liberal-ish. I'm ok with having a job when my future kids get older, but it will likely be part-time and I'm probably going to spend my earnings on my kids, husband, myself, or for stuff for the home. Not bills... lol. SO will come home and find a deflated bounce house in the garage for the kids, lol I love spoiling the ones I love. I have thought about being a dog groomer in the future and my SO fully supports that, sounds good to me sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | I mean, it’s not like men contribute a large part of our children nowadays, it’s not like we get framed for being pedophiles for just being around children, it’s not like we lose almost every divorce court case.Never met a man that complains about paying bills while doing everything else, and his wife or gf doing a lot for him in return. Seems made up to me. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/11/20 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Feminists when they realize there's a man in WOMANYeah! And a lot are overly paranoid lol. A lot of them are saying the end is coming because Biden got elected (being kinda selfish no? other countries have it way worse than us and have been that way for a long time) and we're going back to the kingdom of God soon. I'm pretty sure we're not but ok | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/11/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Feminists when they realize there's a man in WOMANYea if he comes across someone being an asshole to him, he'll catch right up to them and be an asshole back by getting close, shining his brights, and passing them aggressively. He's a truck guy too. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/11/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Feminists when they realize there's a man in WOMANMost of us are just prone to be troublemakers. But some guys are too-- for example my SO can be a big dick when he drives, and is a risky driver, whereas I drive more like a grandma. I think what he does is funny, though. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/11/20 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Feminists when they realize there's a man in WOMANYup! | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/11/20 03:08 AM |
| 2 | What are the positive steps each of you are taking?Bf and I have started playing MHW together, and found a group of other people to play with online. I'm not sure if that is considered positive, but yeah. Gamers are some of the nicest and most cordial people on earth. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/11/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Feminists when they realize there's a man in WOMANAs a Christian, I believe in both God and evolution. Some Christians think evolution is blasphemy but I think those ones just aren't as logical? | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/11/20 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Here's the perspective of an old guy who wonders if it's not him that got too old to get things.Yes, us conservative ones look normal. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/11/20 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Reddit DOES care about female victims but this time it's not about you. You're all about standing up for the victim right? So why not now? STAND WITH JOHNNY DEPP!Dude I absolutely hate Amber Heard. She shouldn't have her job, or her status. She should be a homeless bum sleeping on the frozen sidewalk under a freeway overpass. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/11/20 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Feminists when they realize there's a man in WOMANA lot of our culture is derived from the bible. God created man first, then a woman. So it would make sense. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/11/20 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Body shaming is fine if it’s a manLol I'm banned from FDS. The double standard is bullshit because it is, everyone is entitled to their own preferences and no one should be offended by someone's preferences. Especially fat women. If they want to be attractive why don't they lose weight? My bf detests fat women with a burning passion, should I tell him to quit making fun of them because men are also made fun of for being fat? No one gets to be made fun of because people are offended? I think him and I will just continue to make f… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/11/20 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Would you choose to help another Woman over your own Son?Hell no. Your kids come first always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 01:00 AM |
| 6 | Man pushes woman off the bus after she spits on himI'd just punch her. Not worried much about catching a cold, it's just nasty to spit on others and 100% warrants a punch. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.Me not having black friends doesn't hurt anyone though? | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.As if being called a racist means anything | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Fucking FemcellDoes she mean lesbians? | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Pussy pass of the year. Can you imagine if the genders were reversed?The only cure for a pedophile is a bullet in between the eyes. The sex of the pedophile doesn't matter. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:58 AM |
| 1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.He's at work. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:56 AM |
| 5 | Body shaming is fine if it’s a manIt's fine for EVERYONE. Everyone is entitled to their preferences. "Body shaming" is bullshit. The double standard is bullshit. Women shouldn't care if some men don't find them attractive. Not everyone is going to find everyone attractive. Even the ones that are fit, someone will prefer a chubby chick, the ones that are blonde, someone will prefer a brunette, someone will prefer the big jugs to the perky handfuls, and vice versa. Even genitalia! Some men like huge clits, some men like roast beef… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.I grew up with parents that stayed together throughout their marriage, until my dad passed away, and my mom hasn't remarried or dated anyone since. I would like to be the same way and have my future children raised the same. To me, marriage is very important especially when children are involved. Divorces damage children. I'm not interested in ruining my man's life. Women that pull that shit are selfish, period dot. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:43 AM |
| 7 | Body shaming is fine if it’s a manThat's actually perfectly fine to do. Did you read my comment? I said it's perfectly fine for anyone to reject anyone based off of one's preferences. My bf has told me he absolutely hates boobs that have huge areolas, I'm sure if I had bologna sized areolas he would be like "ew" and would have dumped me. Or if I were fat. Physical attraction is just as important as emotional attraction. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.And that's fine? You're assuming an awful lot. I got on meds about 3 weeks ago, and my bf and I started our relationship earlier in the year. I talked with him about it and he said it was fine. My bf has been burned by a lot of women so he is pretty red pilled himself. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.Just saying that not every relationship is a bad one and that everyone is damaged to some degree or another. Everyone has had a negative moment or situation happen to them in their life. It shapes people. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.Well, you're not my boyfriend, so it doesn't really matter, does it? We'll probably never meet or cross paths ever. It doesn't really matter what you would do. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.I don't have a self diagnosis, I talked to my doctor and a therapist, and I was prescribed buspro to manage my anxiety. It's helped me tremendously. I used to cry when frustrated or stressed out, now I hardly stress over anything. My relationship with my bf is very anti-feminist, we're more trad, it works for us perfectly. I had exes that were more pro-feminist and they wanted me to be a certain way, it didn't work out. The relationship I'm in now is probably the healthiest one I've ever been in… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.I mean, I'm not too damaged and my bf is doing fine. When he isn't working, we spend a lot of quality time together. Bonfires, off-roading, video games, movies, shooting, etc. Pretty much normal couple stuff. Not therapy sessions. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 03:34 AM |
| 8 | Body shaming is fine if it’s a manI'm not kidding or trolling. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Entitled woman is annoyed that her date wanted to split the billThis is why I think values should be discussed BEFORE going on a date. Who pays for what, no confusion or awkward moments. I'm glad my SO is conservative and pays for our food. Last weekend he paid for $70 sushi.. no complaints out of him, and a lot of gratitude from me. But we talked about our values before he spent big bucks on food/dates. Otherwise it would be a waste of time. Who pays for food doesn't seem to be a huge dating issue, to me it seems to be the lack of communication. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Oh The Horror of A Little Girl Liking Pink And Princess Stuff. So Much CringeIf I ever have a daughter, I will absolutely encourage their likes and interests, especially if they love princess stuff! Dollhouses, ponies, tea parties, and changing baby doll nappies. I liked all that stuff when I was a girl 🤷🏻♀️ there is nothing wrong with it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | All a man needsAlthough some people can live like this, there are people out there that can appreciate having someone to make their house feel like a home. My older brother has his wife who stays home and she decorates, he always thanks her for making his home beautiful. And he doesn't charge her rent or anything like that. Some people may also live like this because their living situation is temporary. Such as my bf's tiny apartment, he doesn't have much in it, and told me to save my decor/furniture ideas unt… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How Asian Vs Caucasian Women AgeMy mom (South Korean, Japanese mixed) looked very young when she was in her late 30's and in her 40's. My dad used to get dirty looks and comments from people because they would assume he was with a teenager. My dad was 13 years older than my mom, so as you can imagine... Some of us do get wrinkly past menopause, though. My mom is 69 now and she looks to be in her 50's, and is surprisingly very healthy for her age. But I've seen 50 something year old Asian women that look like they're 90. It rea… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/10/20 11:55 PM |
| 3 | What’s wrong with teaching ur son not to worship someone because they are a woman?Teach your son to work hard and not focus on women so much. Or girls. Bring a good girl home, not some tattooed, pierced up, pink haired freak.. boys will want someone to go to dances and homecoming whatevers with.. have your boy do a sport at school and if he has a lot of competitive drive and ambition, he will attract one in no time. Teach him the dangers of bad ones and how to react accordingly. Just be involved. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/10/20 11:49 PM |
| 32 | Body shaming is fine if it’s a manAs a thin woman whose SO has a good sized yahoo, it's perfectly fine to have preferences on one's physical appearance. Everything from body type, hair color, racial preferences, to genitalia preferences. No one is entitled to be attracted to anyone.. I don't really believe in "body shaming". Grow a thicker skin. It's just facts that men prefer thinner women, or actual curves, not flabs. And women prefer men with girthy dicks. So what? My bf makes fun of fat girls almost everyday. He asked me ove… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/10/20 11:45 PM |
| -1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.I liked FDS when it wasn't swamped with leftist POC (sorry, as a white/asian halfie, I prefer the kinship of other old school non-blacks) and actually would discuss toxic relationships and how to weed out poorly dating choices. 2-3 years ago it was much different. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | FDS struggling to come to terms with the fact older single women often bring a litany of issues "to the table" in a relationship. Instead of reflecting on it, they instead shame men for having a preference for emotionally stable younger women.Everyone is damaged to some degree or another. I just turned 25 a month ago, my dad passed away when I was 16 and that damaged me. He was my best friend and I never really got to grieve properly over his death. It was sudden and a surprise death. At age 18 I was with another 18 year old and I expected him to be like my dad-- kind, nurturing, calm, and patient. He turned out to be the opposite and his emotional abuse messed me up for a while. Whenever people yell, scream, slam things, etc. I free… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/10/20 11:28 PM |
| 0 | What is so wrong with being a gold digger?Watch 90 day fiance with Jorge and Anfisa (or look them up). That chick is a YUGE bitch and generally unlikable person. Yes, she is a gold digger. They're just shitty people, is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Why are there seemingly more women who don't get along with other women than men with men?Same here girl. I am introverted and I have unusual hobbies/interests, I am mostly seen as weird to other women. I usually link up with other weird girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are there seemingly more women who don't get along with other women than men with men?I get along with certain types of women, and others not so much. My female friends tend to be down to earth, honest, blunt, practical, fun, and they are themselves. I like girls like that. I don't really like girls that place a lot of value on popularity and superficial things. I don't like girls that add me on social media but never reach out to me or aren't down to hang out (nosey asses). I'm selective about who I chill with and I've told people straight up "I don't like you, don't talk to me"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What is the correct split of duties in a traditional household with a SAHM and a working Father?My dad gave my mom money so she could have her time to herself, my mom liked korean spas/bath houses. Dad would spend a lot of time with me, watching TV and movies together. His job was like a 9-5 and he had a lot of vacation days saved up to do stuff with mom and I. The only part that wasn't healthy was my mom being terrible at communicating, and her way of winning an argument was yelling loudly. I think my dad did everything right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | What is the correct split of duties in a traditional household with a SAHM and a working Father?Well said. Papa can take over while mama takes a nap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What is the correct split of duties in a traditional household with a SAHM and a working Father?That's not a traditional relationship at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want.Yep. I greatly dislike all the pro-obesity posts over there. Losing weight will help attract better quality men, and "hot" men (whatever one considers hot). I see them talk about men with six pack abs over there a lot, unless a man has a fat fetish, most of them prefer lean and petite women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Women's concerns around dating and relationships w men?I actually want to get pregnant, but bf says he wants to wait til he proposes or we get married 🙄 I want a babeh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | As a woman. What's your opinion on hypergamy?It can happen. I don't doubt that there are those of us who don't settle. I look at lifestyle habits when dating/vetting and whether or not I'm able to step in and fix or micromanage some things to get things to where they need to be. If a man is totally stuck in his ways and isn't willing to change, or let me take the reigns, and it looks like an eventual trainwreck, then I bounce. I am looking for security and stability (I've dated male impulsive spenders and lazy males). But I break it off ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 6 | For those who have a tall preference, what does seeing a tall guy feel like to you?Feels like I am talking to a normal person.. I don't like too tall or too short.. I'm 5'8" almost everyone seems shorter than me, even men since the average height for males is about my height. 6'5"ish dudes I just feel like are too tall. 6'0" to 6'2" just looks right to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYeah I mentioned that woman's history and I got rebutted with "that's a MRA lie and deflection" and "she had to do what she had to do to get by", followed by something about how women have it harder than men and it's dangerous being a sex worker, women are killed, or something like that. Then choose a different fucking job? Cardi B is not high value and she is a horrible role model.. a high value woman of the music industry uhh-- Shania Twain comes to mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYeah, I just saw the sub has 100k members. But that isn't everyone out there, and that's actually a very small percentage of women. I liked it when the discussions used to talk about toxic relationships and toxic male habits, but lately it's turned into something else. I think there are definitely bad people out there, cheap people, creepy bastards, oddballs, and crazies, but it's not every guy. A week ago or so I replied to a post that brought up Cardi B and well I said she isn't a great person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThat could be it.. I love my bf and I genuinely appreciate good men that are out there. And I don't view men as disposable money-machines.. I notice that mentality over there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI don't participate in those subs, this one only. They have users that are on this subreddit though and they don't ban em. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYeah, I'm temporarily muted lol I tried | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadMine didn't say, it just said I'm permanently banned. How do I find an admin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI was muted for 3 days so I can't message the admins, I think? I don't participate in the manosphere subs. Unless.. Is r/antifeminists considered one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadAnyone else banned from FDS and muted so you can't ask why you've been banned? I don't understand why.. I'm not active on Reddit. I think because of my username they think I'm a man LARPing as a woman? I'm honestly horrible at usernames and just come up with random shit. (My username on WoW was GrahamCracker, for example). It's kind of petty to mute someone so they can't ask questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Get yourself a man that cooks for you > a man that buys you fast foodNgl I'm a tad lazy with cleaning too, I got knick knacks in my room that I haven't moved in years 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Feminists make me feel invalidatedNot everyone will be accepting of trans people. That is just a fact of life. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/09/20 12:57 AM |
| -2 | Not only do they base a woman's value over her 'cooking and cleaning' but then they try to change the narrative of who ended things by saying some 'struggling in silence' nonesense 😭😭 the audacitySorry, I don't keep up with people like Cardi B, and I didn't even know who offset was until coming across this post. I didn't know she was married, either. But I still hold my stance that she isn't a good woman to bring up in this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:50 AM |
| -8 | Not only do they base a woman's value over her 'cooking and cleaning' but then they try to change the narrative of who ended things by saying some 'struggling in silence' nonesense 😭😭 the audacityI said that I wasn't 100% sure about whether she raped them or not, so thank you for clearing that part up. However, I still don't think what she did was OK and her behavior isn't excusable, and she is not a good role model under any circumstance. Especially with that WAP song she released recently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends?I told my bf that I once tried webcamming for 3 days and made a few hundred bucks from it-- I was very scared that he was going to rethink the relationship with me, as the ex before I met him reacted very badly to it. He was just like "nah that's not a bad thing" and said he'd want to try it with me, just without our faces in the camera. I was expecting him to be shook, because he is pretty conservative. He said he'd be uncomfortable if our faces were visible, because he doesn't want family memb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 9 | In the past it was easier for 30+ men to date much younger women, now it's much harder because younger women increasingly see it as creepy.I'm unemployed and I don't care. Friend of mine is unemployed, her fiance is 10 years older than her. My dad is 13 years older than my mom, my brother's wife is about 10 years younger than him. Mom doesn't work, sister-in-law doesn't work. I am pretty sure they feel very fortunate to be in the situation they are in. I tried talking to an older man before but he got tired of my shit, I took it as a lesson, improved upon it, (though I am still immature in other ways). We split due to differences, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | The “manosphere” and other adjacent communities are damaging to the majority of people’s mental health who engage in themHi fellow civic nationalist, I don't see too many of us around. Or fellow tradcon Christians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Study finds marriage is in decline mainly due to a lack of "economically attractive" menHe worked in finance and my major is pretty useful actually! My dad spent 27 years in the Air Force and was a pretty chill guy, if he didn't want me to use his benefits then he wouldn't have done the paperwork to transfer them to me. Does that make me spoiled? Is every son or daughter of a veteran spoiled? I don't think so, lol. We're just fortunate people. And because of that we don't have to be in debt like others. With my major I can do a lot of cool jobs but my focus is becoming an animal co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Should men care about a woman's financial status?Depends on the man and what they want. I think if a woman is a really good nurturer and is more simple in her wants and desires, and a man is seeking that, then how much she makes really shouldn't matter. But if he isn't interested in marriage or kids, then he should vet based off that. IME a lot of men are turned off by women that aren't career oriented. I'm not career oriented at all. It's taken me 8 years to find a man that doesn't care about my career or lack of one. But he makes good money … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Happy long-lasting LTRs generally only work if you're really good friends with each otherFriendship, sharing common values, opinions, goals, and intimacy is more important than sex. I have found in my past relationships that I would get easily annoyed and would resort to arguing often-- I really didn't get along with my exes and outside of being sexually compatible, there was no friendship. You have to enjoy eachother's company, even when there isn't anything to say, just being around eachother is enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Study finds marriage is in decline mainly due to a lack of "economically attractive" menI always tell my bf "I got it" when it comes to housework, the most I ask him to do is to put away folded clothes or take out the trash. If I was the breadwinner I would expect him to be the dishwasher and sandwich maker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Study finds marriage is in decline mainly due to a lack of "economically attractive" menThank god my dad was in the military and my schooling is paid for through VA benefits. I can't imagine being in debt because of college, hell no. I met another female with an AA in psychology, applying for jobs that pay $15/hr. Wtf moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Concerning single redpilled men who want a monogamous relationship: are you hopeful of finding the right person and relationship in the future?My bf is a Christian (first church of the nazarene) and he doesn't think sex before marriage is a sin, his reasoning is that we don't live by old laws anymore. There's different levels of Christians, some are more strict about their lifestyle while others are more lax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you lose friends when they get into serious relationships?Sometimes yes, sometimes no. I have some friends who stick to their SO like glue and I'll hardly see them again for one reason or another. I have others who are like me, and will still make time to see their friends. But once someone moves or has kids, I prob won't see them much at all again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Low effort first dates are basedTo go to a few different places? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Low effort first dates are basedHonestly my bf is new to our area and I suggested "hey we should go here and to this place" and he drove along without complaint. I don't think he knows about that rule.. he hasn't dated anyone in years. I'm just an adventurous person and I like to do stuff. Staying in one place is very boring to me, especially for a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Low effort first dates are basedHe said the only coffee he ever enjoyed was a seasonal blend he tried while in S. Korea. He doesn't think it's anything special. For me, it leaves a bad aftertaste (and bad breath) and sitting down to drink it with someone is weird and awkward. Physical activities like walking, and sensory friendly environments like being outside, makes me talk more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 02:02 AM |
| 7 | Low effort first dates are basedWell, why don't more men do this then? Seems simple enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 0 | How will the dating market change after the pandemic?I don't live in a city or a suburb.. I live in a rural area with country and ghetto towns spread out in between. Quarantine didn't stop me from dating or doing anything differently. Bf and I have had normal dates and date nights-- we can't go out to eat? We make steaks at his place. TGI Fridays was open in his hometown and we ate there. Bf and I hang out and go on walks with no masks on-- we really only use them if a store we're going into requires them. So we can still kiss and talk to eachothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 44 | Low effort first dates are basedBf and I went to a small mountain town (very country, very cute), walked around a lake, walked up and down the town's blvd as our first date. To end the day off, he ordered pizza and grabbed a bunch of blankets and pillows to put in his truck bed, and we hung out under the stars. It wasn't expensive or crazy (unless you consider walking around to be crazy), and it definitely wasn't as boring as a coffee date. It's technically low effort since he didn't spend much money at all, but I thought it w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The change in beauty standards amongst womenI dunno, most of the white dudes I come across seem to prefer skinnier women. My white boyfriend prefers skinny with a heart shaped booty, so not an overly large butt (like female rappers), just a nice lifted one. POC like the bigger women. I don't run in their circles so quite frankly I don't care what POC men like or prefer. If it ain't white it ain't right lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Ah, we love the hypocrisyIf you post pics like that, don't be upset that people sexualize you. When I put on makeup for the purpose of enhancing my eyes, to make them pop and stand out, do I get upset when strangers stop me to compliment me? Nope. If anything she should be happy for the compliments and attention, most women her age are overweight, half their head is shaved, and they have a bunch of piercings/tattoos. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 7 | Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid?Single dads can be really weird sometimes, about their kids, and I have found that they come with a lot of baggage. I think only single moms could understand their issues. Yes, I typically DQ men with kids. Animal kids are OK though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 05:15 PM |
| 16 | My parents had a traditional marriage. Everything was in her name. My uncles give their salary to their wives who do the family finances. I feel like most ‘traditional men’ nowadays don’t intent to stay with their SAH wives ‘till death do us part’ considering how they react to such a proposal.When my family sells the family house, they will give a good chunk of money to me so that I can buy a house.. in MY name. That is the only request of my family-- doesnt matter how HV my future husband is, the house I buy must be in my name, not his or me and him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:03 PM |
| 2 | What are the pros AND cons of being in a relationship with you?I love my asian mom too but she has some toxic traits, I won't get into it but my bf has learned to just take what she says with a grain of salt. My bf also likes to annoy and he is quite the jokester. I like it, I laugh. One time I was falling asleep and he whispered "penis people" into my ear, which startled me to say the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | What are the pros AND cons of being in a relationship with you?Pros: can cook crispy potatoes with cheese every time, wants to play co-op vidya games w/ you for hours on end, makes trips to the store into an adventure, love languages are quality time and touch, I'm a pleaser, I rarely get angry Cons: my asian mom, am shit at cooking Mexican food, I like weird pets such as chickens and turtles, when I'm tired/sleepy do not talk to me or else I'm pretty sassy/cranky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 2 | What do women really think about MGTOW? Should society care?Who cares? There have always been men who live their life on their own without a woman or a family. It's nothing new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 12:37 AM |
| 5 | If you are not a traditional woman do not expect to be treated like one, for traditional dating.I'm pretty trad and even though I'm with a trad man now, I got into relationships with non-trad men in the past. It was a HUGE clash of values and a trainwreck each time. I will gladly own up to my gender role without complaint, a lot of men do not care for this, and will lecture you/bitch at you for not being an independent career woman. It doesn't matter if you're traditional or not, because traditional men are pretty rare and most regular men will just bully you for being traditional. Oddly e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Q for M&W: How do you handle a relationship where your counterpart is noticeably more "objectively attractive"?I think my bf is a looker, but he thinks he is ugly, he thinks I'm gorgeous, and he has admitted that sometimes he feels he isn't good enough for me. I don't really know what to say to him in regards to that, because again I think he is a very good looking man. He is of English, Irish, and Polish descent. I think he's got very handsome and striking classic English facial features. (He looks like Tarzan's dad from the Disney animated movie.. that's the best I can describe him lol.) I've never bee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 03:06 AM |
| 9 | "Men are disposable"I don't agree that men are disposable, however it's perfectly acceptable to leave someone if your needs aren't being met, and to go search for someone more compatible with you. Just keep in mind that when you find a real good one, don't let him (or her) go. I've dumped exes for incompatibility reasons. I argued with one about him getting a DL and a car to come see me. He made up every excuse every which way to not come see me, I always had to go to him, and he lived 2 hours away so I had to take… | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Transgenderism: What causes it? Is it bad for society? How can transgender people best be helped to have the fullest and happiest lives?Yeah, its mostly the weird 50 yr old MtF ones that let their hair grow long and put on lipstick that get posted in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | What PERSONALITIES Would You Be Compatible With in LTRs?Someone who likes video games and plays them together. My bf and I have been playing Borderlands 3 together and I really love it. We just sit next to eachother and occasionally kiss, it's really nice. I like laid-back and weird men. I don't really get angry so I need someone who can get that way, and can be firm when I can't be. I like men that "go with the flow" but can also be structured when they need to be. I'm introverted and I prefer other introverts who don't need constant attention 24/7.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Transgenderism: What causes it? Is it bad for society? How can transgender people best be helped to have the fullest and happiest lives?They kill themselves because they don't know what they want, and they're not happy with themselves. I think they're mentally ill and are mostly abominations. I say mostly because some have made it and are happy, normal people. But the majority are freaks. If you're on Facebook, join a group called "thank you neon hair, very cool", trans people are posted regularly in there and they look like circus sideshow freaks. Are they good for society? Sure if they go in the restrooms they're supposed to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Encouraging women to not pursue education/careers is TERRIBLE advice if they want to lock down a high value manI'm pretty happy with my middle class man, and yea I don't have a career. I go to college but I'm not really focused on anything. I think a career would get in the way of me being a mom, unless somehow I could work from home and work when I want to (set my own hours). I consider my bf to be high value, even if he isn't rich. I think the issue is that people tell women that high value men are only wealthy men, and that's just not true. A blue collar man can be just as high value as a white collar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Any stories about how toxic exes are doing years after?My abusive ex got married to his friend's younger sister and had a kid with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:37 AM |
| 3 | I want to settle down in my 20’sI have been where you are. I went through a few crap relationships to get to the nice one I am in now. It was not easy. I met my boyfriend on Tinder too, of all places! We're not married..yet. he is planning on it in 1-2 years and he has let me know that he plans on proposing soon, he won't tell me when, but it's soon. I'm 24 turning 25 next month, and he is 26 turning 27. We're still in our 20's and we're settling down soon. At one point I really thought that I was going to end up as a crazy ca… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/20 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Why are men broke?Well, to each their own. I'm not particularly career oriented. I work part-time as a receptionist at a cannabis company for the time being and I'm fine with it. For my life I want to get married and become a mother-- which is why I've been looking for a breadwinner partner to make that dream come true. Some people would consider this lowly or sad, but I think being a housewife or SAHM is a valid life aspiration as any other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Online dating is bad, because it's increasing the value of looks over personality.I met my bf on Tinder. Had to wade through a lot of trash, though. He super liked me which is what got my attention initially. I saw that he was pretty cute and decided to message him first. The rest is history. I think he's pretty handsome, but he doesn't think the same of himself. I heard this from a friend, but usually men like this are the best ones for long term and marriage. Avoid the overly confident and cocky ones. I think we worked out really well because looks wasn't our main focus whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 4 | Why are men broke?From what I've noticed the attitude and outlook on life is very different for left leaning men. It just seems like they would rather complain about how things are unfair in society and they want freebies or a higher wage for their minimum skillset. How lame is that? It's just sad to see that women are becoming the more ambitious and studious ones-- understanding that hard work and better skills equals better jobs with better pay, while a lot of men don't seem to get that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Why are men broke?My bf does the same-- he works as a crew chief which is what he did when he served. Yeah, services def sucks. It helps to score well on the ASVAB and go open mechanical in basic. Still, their schooling is paid for if they want to do something else. They just have to try, but a lot of men these days would rather whine and complain than try to be better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Why are men broke?I used to think the same until I met my bf.. my advice is stop hanging out with leftist type men.. the straight white blue collar males are where it's at. I've always wanted one but they usually seem taken up already and married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are men broke?My bf works with fighter jets and it looks like the military and aerospace tech companies will still need people. People still need engineers, mechanics, and electricians. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Why are men broke?I don't think a lot of men are going for those degrees, though. Like my bf went to trade school and makes $65k/yr now, but if he went and got his bachelor's in engineering he could get a job that would rack him $120k/yr (working with airplanes). That's a good college degree to go for. He is only 26 and most people his age don't make 65k a year-- he came from a poor background as well, blue collar, not UMC or anything. Serving in the military paid for his schooling. But the guys going for psychol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:40 PM |
| 34 | Why are men broke?Men need to go to trade school. That is where the money is at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 09:33 PM |
| 30 | Hm interesting 😐I'm Asian (half) and my boyfriend is white. Not about to be one of those Asian pick me's that pander to Asian males by shitting on white people. Just going to say "different strokes for different folks". There are some major cultural differences that can make WMAF dating difficult, like you either have to be white washed like me, or the guy has to be verrry understanding of the woman's culture (which is often very conservative and patriarchal). Also take into account that many of us Asian women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:56 PM |
| 5 | My sister just got this exciting dude, he asked her on a date and then decided to switch up on her???Sounds like a loser tbh.. if he can't go out then buy some steaks and cook them for your girl? Not many places are open, yea yea covid, but my bf managed to take me out to TGI Friday's and he cooks steaks for me. If he was making excuses like this guy I'd confront him and drop him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:53 AM |
| 9 | Where are you meeting these "typical" women?My bf and his friends call me a "bro" or will say "she is one of the guys" because I have similar hobbies/interests to their own. I know a lot of other women that are similar to myself.. we ain't rare lol. For reference me and him met on Tinder.. he super liked me because I put in my profile that I'm conservative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Allllllllll it takes us an upvote.....or comment idkI used to really like FDS because I thought they had traditional feminist values (I'm a traditional feminist, I think women should be equal in the eyes of the law and such, I'm just not into progressive feminist ideas), but for a while now it's basically the anti-men, pink pill feminism sub just with more memes. I liked that they were discussing low effort men (who hasn't dated one?) And toxic relationships, however now it's just 100% "MEN ARE BAD". I got shitted on over there for expressing tha… | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Who else has been called a pick me girl?Is "gold digger" one of those things? I've been called that by non-trad MEN lol | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/08/20 06:16 PM |
| 29 | Who else has been called a pick me girl?Yes. My main goal in life is to be a housewife and SAHM, sooo as you can imagine.. but as far as I know, pickmeisha's are women who bring down other women to put themselves in a better light. Me taking care of my bf by cleaning and cooking for him isn't bashing other women. I'm also conservative and I get called a pick me just for being that, or for my interests and opinions-- I think hunting and fishing is cool, I love eating fish and my bf told me that fish and game will give you money for hun… | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/08/20 05:45 PM |
| 7 | LmfaooooIs there a subreddit that makes fun of men's dating profiles like this? I know there's a few for mocking women.. but I want to mock men for being cringey and gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Am I TA for leaving my wife because she can’t be my incubator? 🤨I feel like if I call him an asshole I would be a hypocrite, because I've outright left exes for not having their shit together and for wanting to wait years to start a family. (I'm almost 25, been wanting marriage and a baby for quite some time now.) But you know what, that's what makes him an asshole. He should have nipped it in the bud early on and found someone more compatible for him. Now he's gone and wasted this woman's time, plus insulted her, and can't show her support or empathy over h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Mainstream deeming men with limited earning prospects "ineligible for marriage" or "unmarriageable" demonstrates that women seek to cast aside their own traditional gender roles while continuing to impose them on men. "Unilateral imprisonment".That's what I'm hoping for, that's the end goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Mainstream deeming men with limited earning prospects "ineligible for marriage" or "unmarriageable" demonstrates that women seek to cast aside their own traditional gender roles while continuing to impose them on men. "Unilateral imprisonment".Yea, I've already been bashed on over there for sharing my honest wants/life aspirations. If other women want to have a degree and make good money then good for them. I'm just not wired like that. As far as jobs go, I tend to jump from job to job and I don't stick to anything to build up something (such as promotions). But when I really care about something or someone, I'm pretty damn good at taking care of them. My bf's job is very stressful on him and I do care about him, so I do what I can to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Mainstream deeming men with limited earning prospects "ineligible for marriage" or "unmarriageable" demonstrates that women seek to cast aside their own traditional gender roles while continuing to impose them on men. "Unilateral imprisonment".I see it being mentioned a lot in FDS.. basically ya man should be making lots of money and should support you, but should also be doing 50/50 of the work around the house. Sure like changing the lights or tackling the plumbing, doing something outside maybe.. because I mean it's not that hard to clean a place (unless it's really big I guess). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 01:03 AM |
| 6 | Mainstream deeming men with limited earning prospects "ineligible for marriage" or "unmarriageable" demonstrates that women seek to cast aside their own traditional gender roles while continuing to impose them on men. "Unilateral imprisonment".I'm into gender roles and all that jazz. My bf and I have a trad relationship and there is nothing to complain about. I know the FDS ladies give me shit for it-- but I actually LIKE doing things for my boyfriend, such as making him food or keeping his place tidy. One of my love languages is acts of service.. I'm that kind of lady. All I hear from my bf is that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him because he got screwed over by his exes in one way or another. And yes he earns a good amoun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 11:57 PM |
| 12 | Friendzoned men - what are your experiences?Literally every male friend I have ever had has shown romantic interest in me. Which sucks because some of them can be real cool people, but because they wanna have a crush on me I have to end the friendship. The only male friend I can have is my boyfriend. Which is why I'm so thankful for my female friends-- I may not have a lot of them but I appreciate the ones I do have. We can always hang out and chill without some type of awkward stipulation. Our friendships last forever because neither of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 6 | It's a sad but true reality for women. You are always taking a chance dating someone, so please be cautious and vigilant.When my boyfriend took me out for the first time he came to my house to pick me up and my mom and him interacted a little bit, plus I called her throughout the day so she knew I was OK. I thought it was rare to see-- for some reason a lot of men just aren't willing to mingle with the woman's parents and tend to be avoidant about all that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Their opinions change depending on how it benefits themI actually had the opposite problem:( my mom is the one who convinced me to abort 4 years ago. She pretty much told me that she wouldn't help me at all, whether that be driving to dr. appointments or helping with the baby care, and anything inbetween. Basically being a single mom was the worst decision possible, and aborting it would be better for me. It made me feel so shitty because my friend got pregnant that year and even though her and her family were dirt poor, the women in her family (her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:51 PM |
| 6 | I see no liesFuture husband needs to help with all of the above, but I ain't gonna be working or going half on the bills. I'm just not going to be. Everything else is enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Wtf, and men complain that women have “impossible” standards.My boyfriend and I weigh about the same-- 140 something, and he can't believe it. He's a very lean guy and I appear to be very lean also, but yea I'm like 145. Men straight up don't understand how weight is distributed on women. I've heard "oh you're 145? That's fat" soooo many times from retarded men. If they could see me they would be eating their words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Pro tip: You can tell the quality of a man by his reaction to AOC's speech todaySame here. I am pretty conservative politically so I'm not a fan of AOC, but I'm not going to compare her looks to a horse or whatever childish bullshit other people do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | What these LVMs think we areI like this sub and I have sex/play around with my bf regularly. I'm pretty sure a lot of women here have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:32 PM |
| 8 | They just can't pick a narrative and stick to it, huh?Yea, was told that he may be tempted to cheat one day by a red piller, or something happens to him, blah blah. I shouldn't depend on him financially pretty much. Right now I'm not. Right now he drives to see me before he goes to work, he picks me up to go to his place, if he goes out shopping he takes me with him, same with errands and such. The LVM I dated in the past would not drive to see me, they always complained about gas or some shit. My bf makes enough money so that he doesn't have to wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:35 AM |
| 7 | They just can't pick a narrative and stick to it, huh?Hopefully at some point I can work and save my own stacks-- he's helping me find a $20/hr admin job. Which would really help me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:29 AM |
| 2 | People underestimate how freaking poor young people are today compared to the past and how much that affects their dating and sex livesI do things for him because I love him and I care about him. We're both just so blessed that he makes enough to where he can start a family/future with me and we can live comfortably. He's helping me find a better paying job so I can work in the mean time :) $20/hr admin work, which would really help me. And he said I can quit whenever, I won't be on a contract. But a career isn't in the cards for me because I need to be home with the future babies. And I'm 100% not ashamed for being with a man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 08:25 AM |
| 1 | If men are not capable of attracting younger women then why do you fear becoming a "starter wife"?I want kids, marriage, and a white picket fence before I turn 30, so that's why I don't have the time for a looong "build up". I'm not going to cohabitate without at least a ring. Don't know what a "starter wife" is, I think if you marry someone then you're in it for the long haul. If you want a "starter wife" then try a live-in girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 02:52 AM |
| 11 | They just can't pick a narrative and stick to it, huh?Yeah it's not their life, why do they care? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:46 AM |
| 57 | They just can't pick a narrative and stick to it, huh?Yea I got called a gold digger on PPD because I said my bf makes good money and if he made as little as I do I wouldn't consider him a romantic prospect. I only make 700/month working with kids. I told him I'm not career oriented, I just wanna be a SAHM, and if he doesn't like that then lets end it now. He said "thank god" and we've been doing good ever since. I want a family so it wouldn't make any sense to LTR a man that makes 700/month. But for some reason that really triggers the fuck out of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 2 | People underestimate how freaking poor young people are today compared to the past and how much that affects their dating and sex livesI like how I flex my bf's paycheck and people assume the worst possible. Yes, I'm such gold digger: I help him go grocery shopping to make sure he buys greens and healthy foods because he has heart problems and when he was single he was buying frozen food and pizza all the time. I'm such a gold digger that I clean his kitchen, his floors, I make the bed for him, do his laundry, because he is so mentally and physically exhausted when he gets off work that he'll let his house get dirty. He literal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 12:18 AM |
| 0 | People underestimate how freaking poor young people are today compared to the past and how much that affects their dating and sex livesI was honest with him and told him the exact same thing, if he was a burger flipper I wouldn't want marriage and kids. He wants marriage and kids in 1-2 years, which is perfect for me, because I want a family before 30. The older us women get the more risky it is to have kids. And he wants a housewife-- when I told him that I'd rather be at home and making his home clean and comfortable for him, making him meals, giving him massages, because he works in 110° weather, he squeezed my hand tighter … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What is a gentleman?My bf is a gentleman. Always picks me up, drives me home, he has good manners around my mom, he brought me flowers, never makes money an issue, he loves my dogs, my dogs love him, he opens the truck door for me even though he doesn't have to, always tells me how beautiful I am and how much I turn him on by just being me, he admires me when I'm being silly, he always looks presentable when he sees me-- he's never wearing flops or pajamas, I could go on and on. He is very considerate, perceptive, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Q4Purple: what draws you to the middle, and what keeps you from being BP/RP?I want to get married and have a family, which is BP I guess, but I am aware of sexual behaviors and psychology through the RP. I'm not fully RP because I believe good people of both genders exist. I'm not fully BP because I understand some people are horribly shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 08:13 AM |
| 1 | People underestimate how freaking poor young people are today compared to the past and how much that affects their dating and sex livesMy bf served for 4 years, got the GI bill to go to trade school, and now he's making decent money for his age. He went into the military at age 19. I know the military isn't made for everyone, but it can present a lot of opportunities especially for careers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 08:08 AM |
| 3 | People underestimate how freaking poor young people are today compared to the past and how much that affects their dating and sex livesMy bf works on planes and makes $5k a month, he makes bank compared to most people.. he is 26. I make like 700/month working with kids, and I'm 24. I could see a future with him, marriage and a couple of kids. A man making as little as me-- I wouldn't probably consider him as a romantic prospect really. So yes, money affects dating and sex lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?Oh I do. Usually the ones I talk to are already taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 07:09 PM |
| 5 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Yeah, my mom tells me all the time to find someone like my dad, but my dad was one of a kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 10:45 PM |
| 9 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.When I was a kid yeah. My mom isn't a cheater, she'd go and meet her Korean buddies or just be playing slots. If my dad suspected anything I don't think he'd be giving her money to go off on her own, plus the times I went with her I never saw her talk to men. I had the discussion of sex with her a few years back, she thinks it is gross. Only ever did it with my dad to try to conceive. Since my dad passed away she hasn't remarried either nor has any plans to. Her plan is to die and see my dad in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?I'm an individual and I don't represent all women. Me personally would love to be asked to go out to dinner or hang out by a man in person. It's happened to me a handful of times in the past, BUT I was in a relationship with someone else and it couldn't happen. I'm doing the dating app thing now and it's horribly boring, nothing comes out of it. There are a lot of shy men on these apps. If an outgoing man said "hi" to me in person I would say "hi" right back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are many women still so interested in marriage?I want a family, so I want marriage one day. I'm into tradition also. If I didn't want kids then I'd have no interest in marrying and sharing my finances with another person. Or sharing my house/car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?It's not just women that get upset over being stared at. I people watch very often, and I've heard random people walking by say "the fuck are you looking at?" Lol. Men usually say this. I'm a woman and I don't care if people look at me or check me out.. otherwise I would be a hypocrite, because I look at and check out men sometimes. It would be nice if the checking out advanced to something else. Ask us out pls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 18 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.My friend's husband helps her and they're poor. He is the breadwinner, but not for a high paying job. My friend can unwind with some wine and play on her xbox while her husband takes over with their toddler. She is very lucky that her husband lets her relax. She doesn't work either, but her husband makes sure that she gets a break everyday. I was in an LTR with a guy that wasn't helpful at all, and he expected me to do everything in the house because I wasn't working. Even if I was butt tired. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Can you explain to me the “not ready to have sex yet” mindset?Because most women want a relationship and they probably don't want to do the do until they're certain they can get commitment from the guy. On the plus side, there are a lot of women just looking for casual sex and won't put up a fuss over commitment. Just make your way over to those ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | A man's best chance at a sexually healthy relationship is one in which he is far more attractive than his partner.Nowadays men don't approach much IRL. Online, yeah, but in person? No. And it's very unlikely that a man who finds me homely looking will ask me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | A man's best chance at a sexually healthy relationship is one in which he is far more attractive than his partner.So we just have to find a hot guy that thinks we're ugly enough to wife. This sounds very hard to do.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 6 | I hope this isn’t real because that’s a $4k gun and they aren’t even together. The Pickmeisha is strong with this one.I'd never buy a man a gun, wtf. He can buy me a gun. 200 or 4k it ain't happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 04:39 PM |
| 9 | “Law of consent” in Sweden forces men to describe how they verified consent rather than forcing women to prove the sex *wasn’t* consensual, resulting in more successful prosecutions of rapists.The US is behind Europe in many ways. As nice as this is and as much as we want it here-- I doubt our country will implement this statewide anytime soon. I could see a few individual states trying this out, and with success more states following, but it would take years.. For example look at police.. in the state of CA there are only TWO certified video tape analysts for the body cam footage of law enforcement. We could sure use CCTV like Europe has. Some towns have implemented it but not the en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 7 | Where are we likely to meet HVW friends?Just be true to yourself and likeminded people will flock to you. One girl wanted to be my friend after she heard me ranting about how much I liked a type of soup broth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:53 PM |
| 7 | "I like small penises," said NO WOMAN EVER who was actually interviewed for a formal scientific study. Men who insist the “Motion of the Ocean” is better than the size of the ship is scientifically disproven Scrote Cope.I'm all for a hvm with an average sized penis. If it fulfills its purpose, ie giving me a baby, then its A-OK in my book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:45 PM |
| 12 | "I like small penises," said NO WOMAN EVER who was actually interviewed for a formal scientific study. Men who insist the “Motion of the Ocean” is better than the size of the ship is scientifically disproven Scrote Cope.6-7 inches, girthy and curved upward a bit is perfect. A couple of my exes had 7.5 - 8.5 and it was incredibly painful. I don't like my cervix being stabbed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:42 PM |
| 61 | I hope she gets picked 🤡Why not both? You can make your own money and still be taken care of by a man. Not gonna go 50/50 on dates lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What Do You Look for in a BF?The INTPs I've come across were stingy mofos and not kind. Always wanting to argue little things. The kindest and most real man I've ever talked to was an ISFJ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 09:09 PM |
| 69 | What's the most egregious behavior you've tolerated before finding FDS?Being used as a trophy girlfriend by a few of my exes 😐 Men who want you because you're hot and you on their arm feeds their ego. Men like this will never put you first because the only reason they got with you was for them first. And when you're good looking a lot of men assume things about you that are low value ideas.. the worst happened when I didn't realize I was being used as a trophy fuck, I had low self esteem about my looks, so I often just let things slide. Now I know I'm good looking,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Cohabiting before marriage?These days I would too. 18 year old me was a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:18 AM |
| 22 | This is lovelyA good man would never take food from his lady, in fact he would give up his own food to his lady if it meant she would be more happy and full. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsYea but if I give my mom a guy's birth info and she tells me its not a good match again, I'll take her word for it and move onto the next one. I've had 6 failed relationships and I'm getting tired of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Cohabiting before marriage?I'm sure if I had said that he would have dragged me into the bedroom and scream at me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Cohabiting before marriage?Dolled up and feminine every single day at home? Huhh? A lot of the women I know (myself included) just bum it at home. I don't do my face unless I leave my house. I tie my hair back and go about my day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:31 PM |
| 3 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsHow do you mean "entertainment value"? Whats freaky to me is the little details like for example this guy I talked to on POF one time, he gave me his birthday and time of birth, and after my mom was done looking up his stuff, she was like "be careful!! his first love will die!!". She has never talked to this guy on POF before-- but somehow the mathematical process of the reading knew about something that DID happen to him. He told me his first real love in high school died in a car crash. She al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 02:27 PM |
| 5 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsI think it is on the chat bubble thingy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:23 AM |
| 6 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsSometimes for some individuals marriage is out of the question. My mom said one of my exes should stay away from women completely for his sake, he will do better by himself. She said for me I'll get married, have 5 kids but 2 will die, I have had an abortion in the past and she said that was 1, I will get divorced, then marry again when I'm in my 40's or 50's and that marriage will be the one that lasts. The kids part gets to me the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:14 AM |
| 4 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsI sent you a PM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:08 AM |
| 3 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsHere is an article that talks about it and a woman who does readings in Los Angeles. It's based off of statistics and data, and whoever is doing the telling is performing something similar to algebra to tell all about a person. My mom will do it for you free of charge. She has like 10 books for it so that she can be as accurate as possible. I sent you a PM if you are interested. http://www.koreatimesus.com/korean-fortune-telling-tradition-backed-by-statistics/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:50 AM |
| 15 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsMy mom is very into a form of Korean fortune telling, in China it is known as the four pillars of fate, and based off of one's birthdate and time of birth you can figure out a lot of things about a person including relationship compatibility (these aren't generalizations that can apply to anyone either like with horoscopes). I used to think it was BS until all these things my mom told me about my exes were true, like the things she warned me about-- I would be like "no, this time it is different… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Cohabiting before marriage?I think I would do extended sleepovers to test things out like that. I would just like to still be able to go to my home to think about what I observed and experienced to figure out if I want to marry the person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Cohabiting before marriage?Don't worry, I plan on finding a pushover to marry and he'll do what I ask of him lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Cohabiting before marriage?You also have to realize that he would be gone most of the day for work hours. A future husband could help out when he comes from work in the evenings and on weekends. I have had many animals in my past on my own mini farm and it is not from morning til night. I am not talking about a for-profit type of farm, just a hobby farm. Mini-farm. I live on .25 of an acre, its enough for animals and a garden. Chickens are not high maintenance animals-- I've had them for years. You feed them, water them, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Cohabiting before marriage?I'm hoping that when I get to that stage in my life I won't have to work. I have been watching School of Affluence videos this morning and I agree with what the lady is saying (sorry, I don't know her name) that women have to do a lot naturally/biologically, so it shouldn't be a big deal for men to go to work and pay the bills. This is the bare minimum I expect from a man because IMO that's what he was meant to do (my mom raised me with the same beliefs). A husband helping out around the house a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Do friends who have made sexual advances toward you deserve an explaination as to why you're cutting them out?No they don't need an explanation. Just block and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:05 PM |
| 6 | Their reality is completely warpedI find it sad that these guys go out of their way to message random women. For what? No lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Cohabiting before marriage?My dream life is to have a little farm (not too big) with chickens, goats, ducks, and a garden. Plus a nice country home to go with it. Pretty much what I currently do but with more green plants around. I would have to take care of the house AND the animal husbandry. I love caring for animals so I don't mind. The ideal husband would build all the coops and animal enclosures, heck even pay for a cool custom ranch gate entrance to the property (very expensive btw). I'd decorate the house with a lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:44 PM |
| 9 | “b-B-bUt mEn aGe lIkE fInE wInE rEeEeEe“ 🤢🤢Is this real? It HAS to be a troll ad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Cohabiting before marriage?I used to be the same. I just always tried to see the good in people, thinking like "oh they're young, they will learn from their mistakes and figure it out". Apparently not everyone is capable of this lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Cohabiting before marriage?A man has to show me he is financially stable and has his ducks in a row for me to consider it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:25 PM |
| -4 | Cohabiting before marriage?Not if I vet like my mom did? I'm not going to take care of a house for a man that is doing the bare minimum. 🤷🏻♀️ My mom did most of the house stuff and she didn't seem to have any issues with my dad. He would buy her anything she wanted like cars, and the house me and her and living in now. My mom also sees the house as her house, she wants it her way. I figure if I ever get married then I would also like to run the household my way, too. I'm not sure why this is a bad thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Cohabiting before marriage?To each their own. I wouldn't mind doing stuff around the house if its just to keep me busy and to make the house look nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Cohabiting before marriage?I think I would do extended sleepovers, like staying for x amount of days, and still be able to go home to think on it. That way I could still wait for commitment but not spend months with someone. Btw I don't like sharing a bed with another person.. I think its a little uncomfortable when it comes to sleeping. I remember my parents sleeping in separate rooms when I was growing up, I wonder if I could find someone willing to do the same lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Cohabiting before marriage?I did it when I was 18. Lived with an ex for 6 months. Then I house hopped for a little bit, a friend let me stay with her for a while. I moved back in with my mom when I was 21. No men allowed here at all lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Cohabiting before marriage?I did it once and I did not have a good time. I wasn't working so I didn't pay rent-- but a lot of the valuables my mom gave to me, for me to sell if I needed the cash, my ex would take from me to give to his friends, and if I refused he would call me selfish and other negative things to guilt me into giving away my things. I also had to get rid of almost all my pet chickens to move in with him :( I am never doing that again either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Cohabiting before marriage?I think what I would do is have like extended sleepovers, but still have my home to go back to for me to think on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:02 PM |
| 8 | Cohabiting before marriage?Before we moved in together he was doing a lot of mean stuff. I wanted to get out of my mom's house cause my dad passed the year prior, and her and I were arguing a lot. I saw it as a chance to get away from her and I took it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:00 PM |
| -7 | Cohabiting before marriage?I guess it just depends on the wife, how much time she has, and what she wants to do with her time? Its up to the individual. Me personally I would take care of the home until I'm feeling like I don't want to, like being tired or achy joints. Something like that. Future husband can pick up where I left off and he will handle the lawn/outside. I just think if I had a home to myself almost 24/7, I would try to keep busy and get as much as I can done so I don't die from boredom. As long as the hous… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 13 | Cohabiting before marriage?Pay rent AND do housework? Heck no. That's a roommate situation where everyone is out for themselves. If a man had me paying rent I would be bringing Tinder dates home with me, seeing as I pay for my room and my half of the utilities lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:29 PM |
| -5 | Cohabiting before marriage?I think it is different for a wife. Like being a wife you get to be provided for and I would think a good husband would take over some household chores if the wife is tired or sick. I was under the impression that cohabiting before committing means a gf has to split the costs 50/50 on top of doing all the household work. Plus probably working a job to split those costs. If I was a wife I sure as heck wouldn't pay 50/50 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:24 PM |
| 12 | Women who support women and build them up are automatically beautiful to me. Let’s be friends!Are you very close with these ladies? A good question to ask or consider would be "Do we really want to end a friendship over a man?". If they want to end a friendship over a man, then yeah they aren't worth it IMO. They need to subscribe to this subreddit before burning bridges over males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Cohabiting before marriage?I pretty much consider it to be a live-in maid because all we'd be doing is cleaning, laundry, and making meals. Probably not getting paid like a maid, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 13 | Cohabiting before marriage?I think a lot more women need to catch onto this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:15 PM |
| 12 | Women who support women and build them up are automatically beautiful to me. Let’s be friends!Have you ever tried confronting these women and talking it out with them? It sounds like to me you are very pretty and you're making the gals in your social circles nervous. I think we've all been insecure at one point or another, I have experience in that lol with a past relationship. I think just talking out the misunderstanding with them will alleviate a lot of the issues. Be like "Hey Mandy, so I noticed that when you started dating Jerome, you started to treat me a little different and I'm … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:09 PM |
| 11 | Women who support women and build them up are automatically beautiful to me. Let’s be friends!How do you mean your friendships with women turn into competition with the males? Are these big friend groups you're in? I don't think it should be that way..? Women can have their boyfriends and whatever but don't you guys have girl time without males around? I think its essential for women to have girl time and a break from males to reconnect with eachother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:58 PM |
| 9 | Cohabiting before marriage?That wife perks thing-- I feel like if a man can't take care of his home and himself by himself that would be a red flag. No grown man out there whose got his shit together enough to have his own place needs a maid picking up after him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:47 PM |
| 31 | Cohabiting before marriage?Are there men out there really charging their gf/to-be-wife rent? Thats disgusting IMO. If a man is going to buy a house then paying off the house is his responsibility, not a gf or spouse, not family. Dude I HOPE I come across a man like that one day. A man letting me save my earnings for myself, wow what a dream lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Ladies what's stopping you? I'll start! Self respect... and go!I have never seen a woman with a refrigerator looking body. Back when I was taking birth control it made me thicc. I actually had thighs that touched and a booty for once in my life. When I went off of it, I went back to being skinny 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 15 | LVM when women expect them to pay for dinner/drinks/anything at all:One of my exes complained to me about us eating out, apparently adding a drink to the meal was racking up his debt? We didn't eat out that much, either. 4 times in 2 months? He would drop $$$ at the bar almost every night to buy people drinks, people who didn't even like him that much. But yea it was the medium coke lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | I just can't anymore.I have a very unique and not so common lastname from my dad and I would like my future offspring to have this lastname also. Future husband will just have to git gud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:21 PM |
| 13 | Cohabiting before marriage?I see. Finances will definitely cause a lot of strain in such a situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:10 PM |
| 15 | Cohabiting before marriage?Yea that forever girlfriend thing really turns me off. What you said about the ring-- I like that. I think I may apply it to my future relationship(s). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:08 PM |
| 55 | Women who support women and build them up are automatically beautiful to me. Let’s be friends!They just haven't found the right girlfriends! I found a lot of neat girls through marijuana 😅 I met one girl at my old work that expressed that she prefers the company of men because they are less dramatic, so I tried being her friend to prove to her that old trope isn't true. WELL, this girl sent all my text screenshots of me venting about my ex bf, to my ex bf. She said she was "trying to help". I guess she wasn't conventionally attractive? But aside from physical appearance, women who say ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:03 PM |
| 18 | Cohabiting before marriage?I saw these bad traits too in my ex when I did the cohabitate thing. He did this one really rude thing in front of his friends once.. he clapped his hands and said "woman! fetch me a beer" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:50 PM |
| 15 | Cohabiting before marriage?You're very lucky to have that happen :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:47 PM |
| 14 | Cohabiting before marriage?This is a good point. I would visit the dude's place frequently, unannounced to see how he lives lol. You're absolutely right some of them are nasty. I think that may have to do with how unhealthy mentally someone is, too. I wouldn't commit to a person that barely showers due to depression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:46 PM |
| 48 | Cohabiting before marriage?This shit made me so mad when I cohabitated. Exes family talked shit about me not doing domestic stuff, but he never proposed to me? Its literally not my job lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:43 PM |
| 11 | Cohabiting before marriage?How do you mean about the roommate part? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:41 PM |
| 35 | Cohabiting before marriage?When I lived with my first ex at age 18, I wasn't working so my ex really wanted me to be a maid.. there was a roommate living with us and my ex wanted me to clean up after the roommate as well. This guy tracked his work boots inside with a bunch of dirt.. I straight up refused. Also my exes friends would come over and use MY plates/kitchenware when they ate, and would leave towers of dishes in the sink. I thought it was super rude so I left the dishes there hoping the men who were responsible f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.I'm sorry to hear that-- that wasn't right of your mother. Hopefully she patched things up with you? One of my friends has a daughter with autism, and when her daughter was a baby she did not cry much either. She is 3, almost 4 and is non-verbal for the time being. I remember when her daughter was an infant she had almost no reaction to new faces, new people, toys, stimulus things in the environment. She would just stare at you lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:54 PM |
| 0 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.You were being very assumptive, and that's not cool! I thought this subreddit was supposed to bring women together, not divide them. Go over to the aspie subreddits and tell the women who have had experiences very similar to mine that its not a spectrum thing, they just all have interalized misogyny. Tell the same to the women who replied to my comment and related with what I said. Look at how I made connections with them by empathizing and understanding them, them empathizing and understanding … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:49 PM |
| 2 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.I make a lot of friends through Animal Crossing: New Horizons and MHGU (monster hunter). A lot of women play ACNH and when I first made my island, a few really helpful and sweet lady players gave my island flowers and fruits. I help my monster hunter buddies rank up and help them farm gear 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.I'm sorry, but I am not suspicious of women. I don't judge all of them based off of a few negative experiences from my past. I have also had negative experiences with men in the past, but I don't judge all men as bad people. I don't judge all women as bad people. If you read my other comments, I share that I have made friends with many older female colleagues at work, and I have other female friends. I even told the woman who was replying to my comments that I am down to be her friend, especiall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Being attracted to the opposite gender while in a relationship - yes or no?I think a lot of men are good looking and I will often stare for a few moments at particularly gorgeous men, relationship or no relationship. Some humans look like paintings lol. I have a low sex drive though, I don't wanna fuck all these men, I just think they're good looking. I think a lot of women are good looking also and I will look at them, too. I always figured it was some sort of aesthetic taste. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:16 AM |
| 2 | 49 Red Flags You Are Dating A Low Value ManI understand but like.. could men see these as red flags for women as well? Or would a HVM not care that a woman that he is very attracted to lives at home, maybe has a low paying job, is close with her parents? Etc etc. This is something I think about often since I'm not particularly career driven. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:13 AM |
| 1 | 49 Red Flags You Are Dating A Low Value ManOk but I live with my mom.. does that mean I'm not suitable for a HVM? Also my mom and I are close | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?This is ridiculous. Men are supposed to be driving to us. That guy is going to be lonely for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:55 AM |
| 3 | “Why You Should Look for a Generous Man”My dad was super generous with my mom. My mom tells me that when her and dad were in stores together, she wouldn't even have to ask, if my dad caught her looking or staring at something he would buy it for her. My mom tells me all the time "find someone like your dad" but its a hopeless mission lol. Generosity speaks volumes about a man's character. "Gold digging" my ass. We ain't after millionaires (well, not me anyway). A man working in finance, maybe racking 60k-100k a year can provide and be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Why you should never pay for a manMy mom has given me the same advice. If we're doing 50/50, then we are FRIENDS, not romantic partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Handling suspicion during your single journeyHappened to me only once and I dealt with it by not paying any attention to the guy at all. He kept staring at me, that was his issue and his wife seemed mad, but rightly so. Background on this: I visited my older brother to hang out with him and his family. Sometimes he lets people stay in his guest bedroom, usually these are ex drug addicts and my brother lets them stay with him until they can get on their feet and move out. There was a married couple with a baby staying in his guest bedroom, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:38 AM |
| 6 | I ain't gonna fall for that shit againI used to have like 70 or so pet chickens, when I was 18. I got rid of almost all of them to move in with an ex.. all my babies.. and him and I didn't last. I'm never getting rid of my pets again for any man. We're a package deal. If a man wants to be with me then he better find a home that allows farm critters. I only have 12 chickens now, with 2 developing in eggs. I take really good care of my birds, these guys can live past 10 years. My oldest is 7. And I have babies hatched/hatching this ye… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Choose what makes you happyNo such thing as loneliness when you have pets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 09:22 AM |
| -2 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.I always give women a chance. Like I said in another comment, at past parties I urged the girls to give the video games a try, not to worry about sucking at it, but they always refused. However, I did notice when men invited them to play their tune changed and they were more willing to try. And I disagree about the male friendship part.. I have made a few male friends over common interests, these men weren't attracted to me and I'm not attracted to them. The men at the parties were friendly but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:39 AM |
| 3 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.The ones I have met liked to interrupt and drive conversations their way.. not leaving me much room to say something. One autistic guy at my old college literally interrupted me by saying "yeah yeah yeah but this should be this way blah blah". I just politely said "ok" but when he said his piece I got up and walked away. I believe a good conversation needs to have both parties adding something to it.. also the other disabled folks I have met were VERY sensitive to criticism, making some conversa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:08 AM |
| 2 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.I don't do the special needs meetups because often times the people are much more disabled (for a lack of a better term) than I am and I am unable to click with people who have more severe disorders. Like, I'm pretty normal, I just have a couple uncommon interests amongst a lot of women my age (24). And I do join groups and subreddits for those interests. For example I keep chickens as pets and I connect with other women online who enjoy this hobby also, but the vast majority of these chicken la… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 07:02 AM |
| 6 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.At work I usually make friends with older female colleagues, and one of my good friends is Puerto Rican! But alas older people have their own lives, they aren't often free to go to the beach or go hiking, and my Puerto Rican buddy lives states away. I do have a couple of friends here and there, and I always tell them how much I appreciate them as a person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:54 AM |
| 2 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.Sure we can be friends :) I will PM you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 05:59 AM |
| 5 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.Any chance one of both of your parents were older too, when they conceived you? There are studies out there that show older parents tend to have more autistic children, and the older a man is his risk of producing autistic children goes up higher. For reference, my parents married late, my mom had me when she was 42. My dad is 13 years older than my mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 05:36 AM |
| 5 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.I have no formal diagnosis, because my parents were like super anti-neuro disease type of people, like they thought of it as shameful or something. In the past I asked my dad once if I had something, and he got REAL defensive and said "Nothing is wrong with you!!". However, I've had moments in my life where I obsess over some random interest and I research it heavily, and I know all these random facts about it. It happened a lot in my teen years especially. Nowadays I'm a lot more lax about that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:38 AM |
| 5 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.Story of my life girl. Hell, if you lived in my area I would be down to hang out with ya. I'm always open to hang out with others, EVEN if its awkward at first, because I mean all adult friendships always start out a little awkward. Do you connect with guys easier over hobbies like video games? Or even music taste? That is something that I've connected over with guys easily with. And like, the girls I meet through parties and stuff don't really play 😣 and girl, I'll invite them to play, to try, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:16 AM |
| 13 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.Do these friendships end up with the guy falling for you? Then you have to politely tell them "no thanks" and the friendship fizzles out because the guy feels hurt and no longer sees a reason to talk to you/hang out with you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:50 AM |
| 10 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.I think I may be on the spectrum, so its a little harder for me to click with my fellow ladies.. and much easier to click with men 😔 No, I'm not trying to be one of the boys, it just kind of happens.. and there is always awkwardness or tension with other women. Trust me, I WANT to connect with women more than men.. I wish this topic would be touched on more in FDS. Edit: this comment isn't meant to being down or degrade other women. I was just sharing my personal experience.. The things I enjoy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else likes being boring?I sit outside for hours sometimes just throwing treats or corn in my yard and watching my chickens have a blast. Chicken TV is something 40 yr old housewives do. I'm in my 20's. I'd say that yes most people would find this boring, I can be boring. I enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 12:13 AM |
| 6 | She's the bestIts the first time I've been downvoted in this sub, lol. I honestly don't find a lot of comedy movies or shows to be funny. Some are entertaining yes, but I won't be crying from laughter. I find Youtubers to be more funny-- I LOVE the prankcall channels. Now those crack me up. There's this one Youtuber who messes with Indian scammers by pretending to be an old lady. How he wastes their time and gets them so angry, its hilarious to me. It's just a different kind of humor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:23 PM |
| 6 | She's the bestI think The Office and other related shows (parks and recreation, for example) are terribly unfunny and boring. I never saw the appeal. Just like I don't find stand up comedians to be funny. The last couple of movies that really made me laugh were Borat and Bruno. Different kind of humor I guess? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How old are the posters here and is betabucks really even a relevant option for them right now?I know a lot of women who chose BB in their younger years (straight out of high school for most of them) and they're in their 30's now, still married and with kids. They didn't marry the "chad". It seems like they married guys that they got along with and trusted. I'm 24 and the first thing I look for in a man is if I can get along with them. Then I look at their attractiveness. There are a lot of chads out there but a lot of them are boring chumps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 3 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?When I see long or dirty fingernails, or the ones that looked like they have been chewed to death, I get grossed out. How hard is it to trim your nails once a week? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?A thin guy can absolutely get gains. Eat more and max out heavier reps. Keep going until you can't anymore. The thing about gaining muscle mass is that it takes a while to see results. When I was working on toning my abs I didn't really start to see a difference until 3 months into training. And I only trained my abs 2-3 times a week. But I did start to see improvement. It can take some people 1-2 years to see a huge difference, given you aren't using hormone treatments (steroids for example wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Sexless men are in that situation because they provide little to no value and expect high value in returnThis is exactly why my mom says almost everyone in America is fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: I see a lot of talk about "levelling up" and "self-improvement" but what have you actually done in the last 14 days, or 12 months?I cleared up my skin even more than before by buying new cleansers and serums. I've decided to go back to school to get a degree in business administration. I hear accountants make decent money and I could sure use some. I quit smoking marijuana. Old me worked seasonal jobs because those employers will hire anyone (even convicts). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Could you view a man that is crying as a protector?Yes, if he is crying for a legitimate reason. Losing your pet, losing a family member, having fingers cut off? All very good reasons. If a man was crying because I tell him something like "I'm not going to buy you donuts anymore", that is a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Sexless men are in that situation because they provide little to no value and expect high value in returnIt depends on the man I guess. Men who are also tidy care about it I imagine. But a lot of men live in post-tornado homes themselves. I think there are a lot more messy guys out there than tidy ones, which is why they seem to want women that clean for them. It's like a luxury to some people. I don't think tidy men would complain to their lady about messes, maybe they would just put on their big boy pants and clean it themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Sexless men are in that situation because they provide little to no value and expect high value in returnDoes he date mostly through apps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Sexless men are in that situation because they provide little to no value and expect high value in returnUrban areas have a lot more restaurants and pre-made food readily available for a quick grab n' go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Sexless men are in that situation because they provide little to no value and expect high value in returnI'm a lady and I can tell you that a lot of us don't keep our living areas very tidy. I like to keep my areas tidy because I generally keep everything in the same place-- I'm scatterbrained. It helps me to be organized, I also label my things. Anyways I roomed with some women for a job before, they were in their early twenties like me, and their areas had piles of clothes. I mean BIG piles. It has a lot to do with one's mental health and state of mind. Unhealthy mindset people tend to live in ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Sexless men are in that situation because they provide little to no value and expect high value in returnI used to have a friend that had a toddler and one time she was boiling hotdogs for her kid. Barf. Like she couldn't think of anything else to do with the hotdogs? 2 ingredient pancakes- bananas and eggs. Simple and you can add fruit, nuts, coconut shavings, chocolate chips, etc and its kid friendly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 15 | My uncle, who's almost 50 and still lives with his mother, keeps sending me these *funny* memes.Thats a trip to planned parenthood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:44 AM |
| 14 | NEVER DO HIS LAUNDRY SISI don't even have kids and my libido is in the gutter lol. I say no to sex 9.5 times out of 10. If a man expects me to be some sex lunatic then our marriage will also go into the gutter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:41 AM |
| 2 | What Do People Here Look Like?Oh wow girly. Why so thin if I may ask? Age? Thyroid? I don't mean to ask in a rude way.. I'm about your height and I weighed under 100 when I was in high school. I got skinny shamed by the boys I crushed on in high school, so I know how you feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | What Do People Here Look Like?I feel you. Its hard for me to put on weight also, (unless I take birth control which makes me thicc but also emotionally unstable.) Over the years I have slowly put on weight. I'm 5'8" and I weigh healthy now, but at age 18 I was like 107lbs. I looked awful. The only way to put on weight would be lifting, but ehh I procrastinate working out. I understand you completely dude. Even with the work thing. Have you ever tried seasonal work? Big plants accept anyone that apply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/20 10:47 AM |
| 2 | What Do People Here Look Like?Cute! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/20 10:36 AM |
| 3 | What Do People Here Look Like?Eurasian mixed, 5'8", 145 lbs, slim/slender but I'm not an hourglass, my body shape is called rectangle. I tend to slouch, but I've been actively trying to fix that. According to those rate me subs I'm about a 6 with no makeup, and 8/9 with makeup. But I have also been called butt ugly by people who aren't attracted to asians lol, also been called fat because my face is round and I guess it makes me look chonky. It's subjective, eye of the beholder and all that. https://imgur.com/a/RRv4NXC https… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/20 10:31 AM |
| 10 | Common courtesy things your bf should be doingJeez, imagine a man being that caring and kind! That sort of thing is rare. In my experience the guy either gets pissy, or he just keeps trying to get you in the mood by touching/kissing you, making YOU pissy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change.LDR and low libido. I've also been celibate between relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Let's hear from the volcels for a change.I have the same views since reconnecting with my spirituality (I was raised Catholic). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | FDS Level Up Bitches!Most ppl who use reddit look like an old shoe (including me) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Is there a problem with the marriage and birth rate dropping so low?I am in the US. I personally do not care about it. People are still having kids. Lower income families pump out babies no problem. So no shortage of Americans as far as I can see. People like me are waiting to have kids until we have more resources to support said kids, and I'll realistically probably only have 2 kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you sick fucks even have casual sex?Public displays of affection, which would include hand holding. When you see couples kissing in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you sick fucks even have casual sex?Its what I've done in all my relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 06:05 AM |
| 2 | "The woman IS the prize" (found this on r/iamatotalpieceofshit)Sounds like something Phyllis Schlafly would say. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/05/20 10:13 PM |
| 7 | Discovering TRP is one of the the best things that can happen to a man.Some men that grew up without a masculine influence find it through other means as well. Indirect RP. My partner/not partner (situation is weird now), has a ho of a mom who jumped from stepfather to stepfather. All of his siblings have different fathers, 5 of them. He found his masculine influences through body builders and athletes. Also people like Joe Rogan. He doesn't hate women though, he just doesn't really give respect to people that don't deserve respect, he doesn't like feminists who wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceFDS women want to date millionaires?? Seems a bit much... I would be happy with a man that makes enough to live comfortably. $80k a year in an affordable state and town in the US would be nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | FDS isn’t good dating adviceTrue that to the part that HVM don't care about a woman's wealth. If a woman is pretty enough (whatever the individual considers pretty), has a decent personality, and has a decent set of skills (such as cooking), she will be wifed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 09:33 PM |
| 0 | How do you sick fucks even have casual sex?Exclusivity first, that must be established. Hanging out, hand holding, PDA, meeting eachothers parents and having BBQ's together 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:26 PM |
| 1 | If all simps and white knights were to stop immediately, how would women cope?I'm sure you can if you catfish as a female.. or to gay markets even | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | So honestly, how much do women really like big dicks? And how big are we talking?That shit hurts. I can relate. I don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone who hurts me during sex. A thicc 6 incher is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | If all simps and white knights were to stop immediately, how would women cope?Wow, they get thousands of dollars for existing? I wish I could make that kind of money. But I wouldn't put on makeup or wear clothes to accentuate my body. Actually, I'd prefer earning that by livestreaming my chickens instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | 6/6/6/...7?If I lived in a city, I would def take a bus, or even ride a bike to work. You're very lucky you get to do that. I wish rural areas would have buses, but I guess its too expensive. A train would be nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you sick fucks even have casual sex?I know an INTJ woman who has casual sex and she just treats it as masturbation, except using a real person to get her off. Impossible for me to have casual sex, because I'll reel a guy in, then persuade him to do cutesy stuff with me, if he does not want to do cutesy stuff then I break it off lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Why does every guy here hate FDS? they seem pretty reasonable and self aware. Maybe there's something I'm missing, tell me why they're toxic.Thats awesome! Keep it up dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Why does every guy here hate FDS? they seem pretty reasonable and self aware. Maybe there's something I'm missing, tell me why they're toxic.I understand. Everyone tends to be on the defensive on this subreddit. I know a lot of women that I went to HS with that are overweight. Same age as me, no kids like me, but big buddha bellies lol. And they all want hunks ideally.. sometimes I tell them to lose weight in a nice way, it will improve their chances, and they make up excuses. They absolutely cannot cut out pasta and bread from their diet or do a physical activity for 1 hour a day. I know one who is 21, short, and shaped like a beach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Why does every guy here hate FDS? they seem pretty reasonable and self aware. Maybe there's something I'm missing, tell me why they're toxic.Men can absolutely be picky. I never said they can't. I don't subscribe into the body positivity, pro-obesity garbage. Everyone has a right to their dating standards. I take care of myself to keep my skin clear and to keep my body thin, wearing nice clothing and to not look like a hobo when out and about. I like men that also take care of themselves and put a little effort into looking good. I actually don't purposely ignore men, I'm nice and cordial with everybody. I talk to people when I trave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Why does every guy here hate FDS? they seem pretty reasonable and self aware. Maybe there's something I'm missing, tell me why they're toxic.Well, I'm quite a decent person and trash dudes still come my way. It doesn't matter if you're nice and pleasant to be around, all the equally nice men won't swarm to you. FDS points that out. We women HAVE to be picky and next a lot of people when it comes to dating. Personally I don't do online dating, seems to be a big waste of time. My advice to other women is-- find a good guy through an activity or hobby that you really enjoy. Like church, volunteering, gaming, sports activities, clubs (li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why does every guy here hate FDS? they seem pretty reasonable and self aware. Maybe there's something I'm missing, tell me why they're toxic.Unfortunately there is no alternative to FDS for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 03:55 AM |
| 10 | HVM trait - celebrating your interests, quirks and hobbies. Men who make fun of you or make you feel badly for these things do not deserve you (more details in the comments).My mom's hobbies/interests were cosmetics and gardening. My dad enabled her interests by giving her money. He was disabled so he couldn't help her garden, unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:01 PM |
| 8 | 6/6/6/...7?I love public transportation, but mostly cause of the people watching aspect. Wealthy or not wealthy, its fun either way. I've seen plenty of people using newer phones on public transportation. I drive mostly, and I was using an old iphone 6 for years. Only recently I replaced it with a samsung s9, due to the iphone battery being shit. I will likely use this phone for years also, until something goes wrong with it. It seems to be more practical IMO, than buying or trading for a new phone every y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Queen BurnShe probably earns more than Mr. Egg-Obsession does as well. Officers make bank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Most of you just need to get outsideMy neighbors have karaoke in their garage every weekend, as well as playing pool, I see 5-10 people over there on Friday nights. So I guess it depends on the people! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 08:13 PM |
| 12 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣I'm a halfie and I actually want another halfie or hot korean. Or a hot hawaiian 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | FDS Level Up Bitches!You caught me. East asian AF lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Here for it! Level UP sis 👏👏👏He.. didn't have a job? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Most of you just need to get outsideOmg. So people never ride their bikes or walk their dogs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 04:46 PM |
| 0 | FDS Level Up Bitches!I mean, are you cute enough for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 04:45 PM |
| 12 | Here for it! Level UP sis 👏👏👏I looked him up, never heard of him in my life. Is he relevant? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:30 AM |
| 28 | Here for it! Level UP sis 👏👏👏I don't follow celebrity stuff. Who was he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Most of you just need to get outsideWhere do you live where people can't go outside due to the virus? I go outside everyday.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: do you have this ability?Unfortunately no :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:46 AM |
| 2 | FDS Level Up Bitches!Razor cuts? Thats from my dogs! Lol. I took them to the vet that day and they were on my lap looking out the window 😂😄 Edited to add that I have never harmed myself in my life, but I have a scar or two from working outdoors and with my animals. If you live on a farm, it is bound to happen. I got messed up by an angry rooster when I was a teen and the scar remained on my shin for quite a few years. Luckily dog scratches go away after a day or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 03:22 AM |
| 2 | FDS Level Up Bitches!I have chickens. That is the broody nursery, a smaller enclosure for hens and their babies 😁 I have a hen sitting on eggs and I check on her daily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 12:51 AM |
| 3 | If the “squishy” girlfriend junk wasn’t enough, they’ve also made an actual MOMMY girlfriend stereotype. Does it get any worse than this?!This is gross and cringey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:51 PM |
| 354 | Here for it! Level UP sis 👏👏👏Adele lost weight? She looks like a completely different person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:50 PM |
| 7 | FDS Level Up Bitches!I like some things over at FDS, but I'm not fat. Here are "hot dog" thighs for confirmation. https://i.imgur.com/XrLzgcH.jpg I think its pretty sad actually that women are this large and are putting up all these standards for men.. double standards. Guy must check off boxes 1 2 3 but they don't check off any of those boxes themselves. Thats extremely flawed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 11:39 PM |
| 8 | Ugly men who want sympathy for having to date ugly women are fucking retardedThey're just so honest and true to eachother, they're on a plane of happy that I wish I was riding on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 09:05 AM |
| 36 | Ugly men who want sympathy for having to date ugly women are fucking retardedI love those happy ugly couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Are humans falling out of touch with one another?I would 100% help her if it looked like she needed help. My mom is old and a bit wrinkly, but she gets helped frequently. So I don't think it's just about looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Who has it harder, Men or Women?Pleasant to be around for me just means be true to yourself.. I'm generally a nice person and pretty quiet. I have loads of opinions and I am no doormat. But I am not screeching in public or obnoxious. If you have ever taken public transportation, you may have come across obnoxiously loud people who have no filter and do not think of others around them. They're pretty unpleasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Who has it harder, Men or Women?Societal amongst asian families, and white people like my dad who believe you have to work for everything you want. Maybe it is just bias, other families I've seen, they have daughters at home but those daughters have to pay rent (same as their sons). My brothers all have careers, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Are humans falling out of touch with one another?That depends, like I get helped a lot loading feed bags into my car (they heavy af for me) by random nice people. If they also help other weak people, weak males, disabled, old, then yes I would say they have a good nature. I'm sure they would help men with directions also, if any man came forward and asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years.I was the quiet girl drawing things in class. Way too young and immature to be fooling with boys. Asked my parents once if I could get pizza with a boy after school, they said OK but your mom has to be there with you. The pizza after school never happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's become acceptable to be fat or "thick" as a woman, and what effect has this had on dating and the sexual marketplace?I consider Torrid models to be fat, and yes women like them are becoming more accepted. But certain types of men out there still prefer thin and petite, or thin and tall women. I believe wealthy white men and light skinned poc (such as asians) still prefer their women looking like models. Thin women are still high value and more valuable than fat women, to the wealthy people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | What should lonely men do? Do y’all have any advice for them?Get a pet and a hobby. Seek therapy so that they become comfortable with their own company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | What would a woman benefit to gain by breaking her "wait 3 months for sex" or similar rules?Imo I see it as getting to know someone before ruining it with sex. Sex can 100% ruin a relationship if done too early. Sometimes people get too attached, but then as they get to know you more they figure out "gee I don't like this person", split up, waste of time, sex led to nothing. FDS don't wanna hook up, they want something for the longterm, and the best advice is to be with someone you know well. Sex can fog up a good friendship, even destroy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 12:08 PM |
| 2 | How much of men with dating woes is simply not being in shape?Some women love a big ass on a man. A bubble butt. My partner has one and I love it. He looks great in jeans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Is online dating becoming way too common?At my college, everyone is glued to their phones. Waiting around for a class to start.. people staring down at their screen. Me trying to strike up conversation, I get looked at like I am a weirdo. Truth be told the only really friendly and open people I've met at college were "different" (unusual people), or special needs. A lot of people don't want to hang out or be friends outside of the classroom, either. Unless you have weed ofcourse.. 😑 I honestly wonder how do people meet their loves at c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 11:57 AM |
| 7 | Who has it harder, Men or Women?Woman here, and I think men have it way harder. If I were born a man the expectations from my parents would have been much more. If I were a man I ought to be having my own house and a good career at my age. Living with my mama as man? That's a big nope, unless I'm working a high paying job and contributing quite a bit. My parents would have sent my butt to the military right out of high school if I didn't want to go to college. Some men can handle the pressure and the expectations, but many men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 11:49 AM |
| 0 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!I tried, but he is pretty bent on getting his license for it and putting money away for a bike. His country has some of the best drivers in the world because getting a DL is thousands of dollars, including exams and books. I'm sure he'll be ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 11:35 AM |
| -2 | It's not just about "getting the girl when she's young, hot, and fertile with less baggage". It's also about being there for each other during your critical years.Most girls start suckin and fuckin in their high school years, especially those popular pretty girls. Sad but true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Are humans falling out of touch with one another?I never said they like me. I said they're nice! I certainly hope they don't like-like random people they help, because that would be weird and creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you think most women are fully aware of men’s nature?Yes and no. Depends on how involved their parents are. Some dads (or moms) will sit their daughters down and tell them about the nature of men. My parents never did, I guess they expected me to wait until marriage or something. No idea why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How can shorter men make women feel safe?Be built? I have seen loads of short couples, short man with much shorter women, and despite being short the man was bigger, not scrawnier than their woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How Many of You Want To Marry and What Does Marriage Mean To You?Yes, one day. Years from now. Marriage means I'm having kids with the other person and they can't bail out (easily) when they feel like it. We're both taking care of the damn rugrats and we're doing it as a team. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Perception of individuals based on the increase and greater acceptance of online sexual based occupations OR what’s your opinion on the rise of professional e-thotting?I say good for those women. I wish I could make money for e-thotting, truth is I'm too lazy and too uncomfortable for such a thing. Wish I could make money for taking pics of my pets or something else low effort. Yeah I think e-thotting is low effort.. shoot me. I used to have a job where I stood 17 hrs a day picking out fish eggs and throwing them in a box. Everyday, unless there wasn't fish that day. Stripping in front of a camera isn't hard work. So that's why I commend those women.. making h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 08:23 PM |
| 15 | Are humans falling out of touch with one another?This is 100% true. People are so friendly in the real world and it's much easier to vibe with others. Sometimes I ask for directions from men when I am in the city, and they are so kind and helpful. They aren't like these apparent incel fantasies of men being crass or rude to women for the sake of being rude. I only met an old man like that once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*.I would like a man that is polite and respectful. By sensitive all the time, I would not want a man that gets easily offended, because that turns into arguments. I've been down that road, it's not fun. I have an abrasive sensor mother and 100% of the time no man I have ever been with has ever liked her, except my current. She has treated him like shit too, but at the end of the day he shrugs it off and still says hi to her, how are you doing, despite her usually ignoring him. My exes were too se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!My bf researched the cost of a wedding and it's $10,000+ he doesn't want a cheap, lame wedding. That doesn't include the cost of the rings, I told him to buy cheap rings like from Brilliant Earth and he flat out told me no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!My parents had just me and most people in our family just have 1-2 kids later in their years, after making money and having a lot of resources. I would like my kids to grow up like how I did and not have to struggle like most younger families do. Between then and now I can continue to learn from my mom on how to cook really good meals and homemade baby food. She never fed me gerber garbage, always homemade from various ingredients. Also there was no shortage of toys, art supplies, or pets. My da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!He is more of a motorcycle guy, I'm the boat person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 09:16 PM |
| 22 | Video details a breakup between a LVM and his beautiful, kind hearted ex who apologises to HIM after he went to a party knowing 2 exes were there and smoked up on a family camping trip.He looks like the baby from Ice Age (and everybody hates the Ice Age baby) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What's your minimum requirement in a women for you to date her?How about a centrist or libertarian? You should use the term leftist btw.. classical liberalism is on the rise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Is going overseas the best course of action for average men?To pull the best in asia, you have to be able to pull the best in the US also. My dad was quite the ladies man back in his day.. even though he married my asian mom, he had no issue getting women on the east coast. He just liked all kinds of women (given they were thin and pretty) so when he travelled overseas he messed around with the asian ladies, too. A real ladies man doesn't care about race, thats for the race based conservatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Is going overseas the best course of action for average men?The first way is how people used to do it before there was internet culture. Only way of communication used to be phone calls and mail, and face to face meetings. Things were a little more honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Is going overseas the best course of action for average men?My mom's parents and family were not happy with her bringing home my dad. My mom came from a wealthy family. Her older brother chased my dad around with a knife. They really wanted her to marry a lawyer or doctor from their own country, but for whatever reason my mom rebelled. My mom's family pretty much disowned her, except for her sister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Can a man's frame and attitude overcome any beta physical traits?I notice small details at first, me personally I just do not want someone whose hands are as small as mine. And yes, I have met men with teeny little hands, maybe their hands are structured differently or their fingers are longer, but it's not something I find sexy. I've been described as having "baby hands", so seeing men with baby hands is a little weird. But these men have much smaller frames and body types.. broad shoulders on a teeny handed man just doesn't make any sense. A teeny skinny ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Do men honestly think young women live carefree perfect lives?Yuh I have issues that still bother me. Yeah I look attractive and all that, am young, but I reflect often and I analyze negative experiences I've had. Lost some friends a couple of months ago due to the dumbest of reasons (me wanting to breed my dog, I guess it conflicted with their values), and I still think about it. I bring it up to my partner every now and then. Maybe 30 yr old me would brush it off and not be looking back so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!I must be the outlier then lol. My siblings have all done great things with their lives, and I work with problem or disabled kids in the classroom. When this corona crap is done, I want to go work at a dude ranch. 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 05:48 PM |
| 4 | [Discussion] U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record!Us millennials are too broke to marry. The vast majority of us are NOT wealthy. The only point of marriage is for kids.. I don't think many of us want kids right now. I would make a horrible mom right now, I'm way too immature and not adulting enough to be one. I'm 24 too. My partner doesn't want kids til he is 30. I can work with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?Well when I was 18 I was extremely immature and in no place for a relationship. Was in one and it fell apart due to my immaturity. A lot of emotional immaturity. If a 40 year old was going after me I would think it's just for sex, not marriage, which is creepy. Marriage would be weird too. I definitely do not wish to be a widow when I am older. When I have a daughter in the future, she will have both parents that will protect her from old creeps. I'm not old and ugly. I'm 24 and frequently confu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever told a man you care about to get in shape?Yes. For overweight and skinny men. I would recommend weight training to skinny fellows I knew, and cardio for chubby fellows. I'm not afraid to call someone a skeleton or chubby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?Why wouldn't a 44 year old man be attracted to a fit and healthy woman his age (or 5 years younger)? They exist, but they often have high standards and are probably high maintenance. When an older man goes after an 18 year old I find it creepy, and it tells me he may be immature, may not have what it takes to court a woman his age, and/or is only interested in sex. Like a fetish. Same goes for old women going after young men, cougars are a predatory and its very predatory to go after people much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.I know a guy in NC that gave up on American women and brought over a latin woman from one of those countries. She is very Christian, no kids. She is not 18, closer to his age I believe. It's possible. I also don't have a kid. My mom is from S.K. and was a virgin when she met my dad at age 30 something. But being a virgin isn't an indicator of a 100% lovely unicorn women, after she had me her hormones went wacky and she was always easily angered when I was growing up. Always yelling and nagging a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.Go for the tan ones in the jungley poorer areas. They’ll be so grateful to see a 4/10 American lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 08:27 AM |
| 1 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.Columbian chicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life?I understand. I like to do a lot of walking and activities outdoors, so I prefer a partner that can keep up, and also motivate me to push the limits. If your feet ache at the end of the day that means you had a productive day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life?Well honestly one cannot expect attractive men unless you are attractive yourself. I’ve been skinny my whole life, at 24 I’m still getting comments like “you need to eat or else the wind will blow you away”, but it’s a whole lot better than the awfulness that gets thrown at overweight women. But still they cannot expect handsome HVM to flock to them, queen energy or not, losing the weight is a must. LVM will go after overweight women 9 times out of 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4W, is a larger penis important to physical attraction?The thickness of the penis is important, not so much the length. An average 6 incher is great if the girth is filling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there is a correlation between sexlessness and fiscal conservatism?I have a low libido, integrate with conservative circles, yet I have zero issue with my taxes helping others in need. Children and elderly especially. Libertarians are the ones that hate all that shit.. some of them are very extreme, also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Have you ever met a FDS woman in real life?Are a lot of FDS women overweight? I don’t normally vibe or empathize with overweight women, as I literally have no idea what it is like to be overweight... I thought the majority of them were skinny like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | An honest, “bitchy” woman is way, way preferable over a pleasant, virtue-signaling woman.My bf loves my straight up, blunt nature. He encourages it, lol. I know when to tone it down like around parents, family, around old people (sometimes I slip if I don’t realize other people are around). I come from a family where it’s commonplace to call others fat, and to be generally politically incorrect in everyday conversations. From my mom’s culture, the upper class are VERY rude and judgemental towards others. They’re very blunt, and say a lot of things that really wouldn’t be accepted he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 06:20 PM |
| 3 | would you date a single mom and if not why not?A man will if the mom is pretty enough and if his self-esteem is low enough. Men who have standards will not even “shop” for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Have any of you genuinely tried to become a HVM? (by the FDS definition)My bf says the thing with those nice, planned out dates is that they are for a woman you are invested in and wish to have an LTR with, they’re not for women you are getting to know or just want to sleep with. I follow and agree with some of the things FDS says, but I would not expect a wine and dine from a guy I just met online. It’s always better to test the waters first, start with something inexpensive and simple, an activity you both enjoy and can spark a conversation over easily. Coffee is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Can a well maintained 30+years old giga-Stacy with no baggage get a HVM to marry her, according to you?Maybe Miranda has a nice personality to go along with her looks, and the men that fought over her really wanted her for that reason? I have no idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 4 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?Yup. Bf and I want to wait to settle down til our 30’s cause right now we’re both not very wealthy 😆 so just enjoy life and have fun in the mean time. Other couples should try this instead of rushing into everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | When someone is talking about traits they want in a partner, isn't "attractive to me" usually assumed to be one of those traits?He is a lot bigger in person.. we met online and trust me, from his pics I thought he was a normal bodied man. Literally big boned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or is it mostly short girls who are obsessed with height?If he’s built I guess it’s okay. That can change everything. But if he is scrawny (low weight at any height is yuck) then no thanks, not for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Can a well maintained 30+years old giga-Stacy with no baggage get a HVM to marry her, according to you?Yes, and Miranda Kerr is famous. So you agree with my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 06:52 PM |
| 1 | why are thai hookers so loving of ugly men?Visit Amsterdam and throw your cash towards the pretty white hookers.. they’ll treat you the same. They want your money and will make you feel like a big man for your money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Men being "intimidated" by women and refusing to date them is exactly the same as a company refusing to hire someone because they're overqualified.Well, from an initial meeting or first impression I do not think one could think you are an insufferable bitch.. I can be that way also, but one wouldn’t really see that side of me unless they have gotten to know me. But if men see a tall, even well dressed/very nice looking woman, they may be intimidated because they don’t feel like they’re in the same league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Men being "intimidated" by women and refusing to date them is exactly the same as a company refusing to hire someone because they're overqualified.I always thought it meant a tall woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 10:15 AM |
| 1 | When someone is talking about traits they want in a partner, isn't "attractive to me" usually assumed to be one of those traits?This is my bf’s jawline https://imgur.com/2Y1NsXw https://imgur.com/D2fRgUC https://imgur.com/jLaas9Q To me it’s square-ish. His face shape is square-like, so when he puts on weight his face becomes rounder but I love him all the same. Here is a little comparison of mens’ face shapes, and for me personally the most attractive is the square face shape: https://imgur.com/DcFsTcB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Can a well maintained 30+years old giga-Stacy with no baggage get a HVM to marry her, according to you?You’ve had millionaires fight over you? Or just regular men? I’m a woman also and I’ve had dudes get into their beefs between eachother.. but not millionaires. Which was the point of my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 09:45 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] When looking for a LTR/marriage material type of guy, is his N-count important?Of course. Everyone has their dealbreakers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 09:44 AM |
| 2 | What are your height preferences/requirements for a potential boyfriend?I’m 5’8” (5’7” if I slouch) and I honestly want to feel smaller than my bf. He is 6’1” and a big guy (brock lesnar build), I think he is perfect and our sizes compliment eachother well. 6’1” - 6’3” is perfect height. I had a fling with a man that was 5’6” and we got along ok, but cuddling/spooning was super awkward and a turn-off. I felt like a mama baboon with a baby baboon on my back. And if I was the big spoon, it was like I was cuddling a young boy or child. I don’t get all these weird vibes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Are things really that bad for short men?I don’t see them with hotties. More like average and below average. The hot girls are always with taller men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Are things really that bad for short men?Online, yes. IRL? I don’t think so. The average height of men is about my height (I’m 5’8”) and I see these shorties with gf’s all the time. For whatever reason, hispanics are extra short, and I see these wee dudes with even shorter women. These wee dudes have the capability to pull women. That’s why they’re on dates or are married, and not complaining about wahmen online. Of course yeah women of all heights in general will flock to the 6+ ft men, but I don’t think it’s honestly as bad as the in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:26 AM |
| 11 | Can a well maintained 30+years old giga-Stacy with no baggage get a HVM to marry her, according to you?It’s cause she is a model. If she was just a pretty nobody American, it would not happen. Her status as a model affects what type of men will go after her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:20 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] When looking for a LTR/marriage material type of guy, is his N-count important?100 or so? I’m not marrying him.. jeezus. To me it would seem like he has issues committing or is never satisfied sexually. He’ll either leave me or cheat on me. Probably is very impulsive also, I like men that are more organized and stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Is severe acne on a woman a dealbreaker for men?Well when I was a teen I had bad acne and I picked at it due to stress, making it worse. I had a damn sausage pizza face. Men didn’t really look my way or like me “like that”. Or rather, the ones I liked didn’t look my way. Shy, accepting, meek types liked me but I never liked them. My skin has gotten clearer over the years and I attract men I actually like now. Having a slim figure helps even if you have a breakout or acne scars, a healthy face helps also (no dark circles, eye bags, a million w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Lying about your sexual history is better in the short term, but much worse in the long term.I have a low libido and it has made my bf frustrated in the past. Low libido isn’t necessarily a good thing. I think most men want a woman with a healthy, sexual appetite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:06 AM |
| 0 | Lying about your sexual history is better in the short term, but much worse in the long term.Ya I think they’re really weird and fake. Like, why share such a bizarre story online like that for validation? The people in r/relationships and r/relationship_advice have no friends at all they can talk to for personal matters? Shit is weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Lying about your sexual history is better in the short term, but much worse in the long term.My bf knows I’m experienced, but he doesn’t wanna hear it. We leave it at that and are comfortable with it. He isn’t as insecure as me, or other people. He never asks or pries away about my sexual history, he just notices I do certain sexual acts very well 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 10:59 AM |
| 0 | When someone is talking about traits they want in a partner, isn't "attractive to me" usually assumed to be one of those traits?Bruh same. My bf is 6’1”, built, and has a sharp jawline. The jawline reeled me in so hard. Who knew such a small detail of the male human body can drive us nuts like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Do men who claim that "being a 'pickme' is a good way to get a man" even have any thought for anyone but themselves?Yes I know what a housewife is. If my bf is working hard I don’t let him do the house work. When he visits and pays for the airbnb and all vacation/date expenses, I always tidy up in the airbnb and make him his food. He works his ass off to be with me and to do nice things for me, I am very grateful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Do men who claim that "being a 'pickme' is a good way to get a man" even have any thought for anyone but themselves?It really isn’t. I tried that for a while and all I got were complaints from my exes because I wasn’t driven enough or I wasn’t “going anywhere” as they say. Like really I tried.. but most men wanna LTR a woman that has a decent job or career aspects. And I am pretty too, but still it doesn’t impress most American guys where I live. I’m with a guy now that is OK with my lack of direction in life but he does have his concerns like how will we move in together if I can’t help financially. With my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?We like attractive men (whatever one considers attractive), men who can take care of their shit, takes care of others (us especially), but we also like big softies. Nothing’s cuter than seeing a big hunk play with a little puppy. Or taking his time to help his community, like donating blood or volunteering somewhere. I love it that my guy helps me around the house and he doesn’t complain or fuss, he actually enjoys doing whatever task I ask him to do. I asked him to de-shell a bunch of pistachio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Am I imagining things, or do "low value women" tend to be far more confrontational on online dating than average women are?Yes, my mother is like that. Had to grow up with one UMC parent (mom) and one lower class parent (dad). While I love my mom, I relate more to my father and I had a much closer bond with him when I was growing up. He was just so genuine. My mom complains a lot about people but doesn’t confront them, still keeps in contact with them. I don’t understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Q4W - Don't you get it?If an older man wants to ltr an 18 yr old thats ok I guess, but it becomes sketch when he tries to influence her instead of letting her be her own person and not allowing her to grow at her own pace. We women, especially when young, tend to be highly impressionable and can be easily molded if given enough pressure to. Older men almost always lecture and talk down to young women, like a parent to a child. They also gaslight young women. Btw I look like I’m still in high school and men irl don’t a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | What do you bring to a relationship besides looks?Practical skills neccessary for a homestead. If someone wants to grow a garden or raise some critters, I’m your gal. Or clean surfaces without harsh chemicals, I got that knowledge. Wanna kill ants in the home with pet-safe ingredients? Or learn which backyard weeds are edible? But for city men, I imagine I don’t bring much to the table for them. I don’t even know what they want in a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanCan affirm. I’ve had one too many relationships starting at age 18 and now I am only 24. Plus a few flings. But I don’t have any telltale, physical high n-count red flags. No tattoos, no crazy piercings, no wild colored hair, I don’t dress scantily, I don’t frequent bars or social scenes. Most people wouldn’t even guess it by just looking at me. You should see people’s reactions when I tell them I used to be a pothead— utter disbelief, they think I am joking. Everyone sees me as the “nice girl”,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Am I imagining things, or do "low value women" tend to be far more confrontational on online dating than average women are?Yea but quite a few of those people say all the crap when their backs are turned. Which is pretty unattractive. I prefer surrounding myself with honest people. My half brother is loaded rich and him and his wife talk hella shit about my mom (my dad left half brother’s mom for my mom), but when they would visit they’d be all smiles and “oh it’s so good to see you”. That filter UMC have doesn’t necessarily mean they have better chatacter. It just means they’re fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 08:59 AM |
| 13 | Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔I’m glad I looked like a boy at that age. But my friends who developed early on? Older men were always looking at them.. talking to them.. being creepy. I had a friend in HS who loved attention from guys.. at 14 after school she would flirt with this 21 year old man, and this man would flirt back with her. Men in their early 20’s will absolutely fuck underage girls as long as they aren’t caught.. hell any man will. Most are perverts and have no morals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 08:53 AM |
| 31 | Is it red flag when a guy is into one country ?Alt-right men tend to be like that. Ah yes, poor eastern european women are so desirable because they’re shit poor and will accept a LVM’s efforts. American women want too much! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 07:54 AM |
| 1 | The way a woman performs oral on you and kisses you speaks VOLUMES about her true feelings about you.Ehm that’s private.. why do you care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 03:07 AM |
| 3 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.I don’t think catholic or christian missionaries would be welcome in Iran lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 03:28 AM |
| 2 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.Ya visit a poor foreign country and find yourself a virgin 18 yr old. Easy. Latin countries tend to be pretty religious, wouldn’t be too hard to find one. This is how lots of creepy old men find virgin brides. Those women will even settle for 5/10 men because they rarely see white guys around, if ever in their villages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 03:26 AM |
| 6 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.You can find women like that in foreign countries. Take a trip to the far reaches of Brazil as a bible thumper, a virgin beauty will open the door for you at some point. But usually these guys who want virgins want white women... so. It’s only unrealistic if you limit yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Do men who claim that "being a 'pickme' is a good way to get a man" even have any thought for anyone but themselves?To me, someone in their 20’s, a pickme is a woman who thinks they’re unique, special, and superior cause they have low standards for men and/or perform basic tasks for men. “I got the ring because I cook him chicken, this is what is wrong with women nowadays, if more women cooked they would get a ring too!” Is something pickme’s frequently say. I used to be this way when I was younger and it really is just a bait for male validation and trying to feel better by putting other women down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/20 07:22 PM |
| 5 | The way a woman performs oral on you and kisses you speaks VOLUMES about her true feelings about you.The texture isn’t great either. It’s similar to mucus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/20 07:14 PM |
| 4 | The way a woman performs oral on you and kisses you speaks VOLUMES about her true feelings about you.Nah it’s okay.. I don’t care for it in my mouth. So he can eat how he chooses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Is this subreddit only for US cultural context?My bf is European and he wouldn’t pay for a lady’s food if it was a first time date where he is just getting to know the person. He wouldn’t even take them anywhere fancy with a 3 course meal and wine. He saves that for someone that he has gotten to know and is invested in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Is this subreddit only for US cultural context?I say that, but I’ve invited friends out and paid for their food. Because I invited them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men do subconsciously care about women's status and the amount of money she makesYa ofc. I doubt a guy wants to lockdown a fast food french fryer or janitor. Most men want a woman with a degree and OK-ish job (educators, social workers, veterinarians, nurses, etc). Guys who are super rich or established aren’t most men, so I’m not really talking about them. But men generally try to go for what’s in their lane in terms of that. For example, I know a redneck who went for some chick that is an heiress to her family’s pig farm. Very fitting for a redneck. Redneck dude isn’t goin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Where does spirituality fall on here ?I believe in God, however I used to be an Agnostic. I don’t subscribe to any sort of religion— my dad is Catholic and my mom is a Buddhist, and I’ve been to many different churches. I quite like Catholics and Buddhists, the ones I have met are not really judgey. Southern Baptists, though? I haven’t met one that isn’t like “false religion! you will bend the knee for jesus! hell is real! lake of fire!” Blah blah. I generally dislike their attitude towards those with different beliefs. We all belie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 07:02 PM |
| 30 | Boss level PickmeishaEhmmm... this lady brings plates of food to him while he games? So he can’t pause it and come to the dinnertable to eat with you? SMH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:45 PM |
| 6 | Why are “cat ladies” mocked? Shouldn’t they be admired?Usually these women LOVE cats though so I don’t think they’re complaining. Or miserable. Some people really don’t like other people or kids. I reckon they would be miserable with an SO or kids and their grandkids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on men with tattoos?One or two small tattoos is ok, but I really don’t like big pieces on men. They seem gaudy and it distracts from the natural beauty. I prefer no tattoos, though. Bf says he’ll get the date and time our future babies are born tattooed on him, which is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Is a little “mate-guarding” all that bad of a thing?My man loves it when I mate-guard him. I love it when he mate-guards me. Those chill, laidback, “oh I’m not worried about it” types ain’t for me. Nothing wrong with a little protective nature, as long as it isn’t abusive or obsessive. Like, you can’t help talking to/interacting with colleagues or classmates, for example. If your SO gets ramped up about that, then they’re probably taking it too far. I dated a guy who took issue with my friendly demeanor and literally got mad at everyone else for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Most LVMs want to date their mother.My dad is from the silent generation also and he treated my mom so, so good. My mom loved him so much. He passed away when I was younger and my mom hasn’t remarried. When she is asked why, she replies “nobody is like my husband”. My standards are super high cause of my dad which has made dating hell for me these past years. But these guys really don’t exist anymore it seems like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 11:26 AM |
| 12 | The way a woman performs oral on you and kisses you speaks VOLUMES about her true feelings about you.Yo I love my bf to death but I gag and immediately spit out his baby gravy. It tastes awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Stop explaining & engaging LVMJust ignore or block them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 07:02 AM |
| 3 | When to spend money on a HV man?My bf loves letters from me and paintings/drawings. It’s really all he asks for. He isn’t materialistic, and is understanding that I am (to a point). My LV ex would not accept letters or art, he said it isn’t his thing so don’t bother. Even if it was coming from my heart and if it took a lot of planning and hours to do. And btw, good paint and supplies aren’t cheap! And then would complain “why should I buy you this this and this when you won’t do the same?” He wanted me to buy him video games 🙄… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:59 AM |
| 18 | Common courtesy things your bf should be doingOr if you aren’t in the mood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:53 AM |
| 3 | FDS Women vs LVM lolMy sims husband stays at home lol. Raising the kids and babies. He also has a gym at home to stay fit, but my whole sims family does this. Tbh the male sims animations when interacting with babies/kids is REALLY cute, so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:47 AM |
| 10 | Fake feminist pickmeishas.My bf won’t let me do any kind of hard labour. One time we were cutting this cancer tree/bush in my front yard and he would only let me carry small twigs branches. I tried to carry more and he repeatedly kept saying “no babe, I’ll do that, you need to be careful”. I’m not complaining. He helped my mom move 200lb furniture up our steep ass stairs. We went and refilled 5 gallon water bottles and he did it all (the carrying) without even having to be asked. My mom is pretty independent and handy, e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Timing is everything...I share accounts with my SO, is that bad? My exes who wouldn’t share theirs with me, I always considered them to be cheap bastards ._. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:32 AM |
| 13 | Elon Musk is the perfect example of a LVM with money.I’ve always though Elon Musk looks like those puppets from that Mr. Meaty show. So ya know, ugly. Doesn’t matter how much money a dude has, if he ugly then he ugly. If he didn’t have wealth then he would be a nobody and that says a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Womens preference for short term vs long termNeither. I never said I was attracted to unhealthy chubby men. I’d rather be single with my showerhead than choose between a slob and a toothpick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Womens preference for short term vs long term5’7”-5’8” and 140 pounds. Pretty slender. My bf says I have a “petite” body shape, but I am tall so I don’t think “petite” is correct terminology. My sister in-law says I’m skinny but not too skinny, she said just right. It’s why I’ve never liked cuddling my skinny exes. Skinny on skinny is very uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Women who are into "masculine" vs "feminine" features in menI’m 24 and I like masculine looking men. When I was 14 I liked “emo” boys. But around that time my taste changed a bit when I got into raising poultry and I went to a feedstore— the boys working at the feedstore were oh so hot. But I always felt country guys were out of my league because I’m a halfie. 9 times out of 10 they prefer women that look like Taylor Swift. So I was into all these scene models and musicians. Nowadays I still like country men and fit muscular men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of focus on upper/lower class women, but what's dating like for middle class women?I grew up middle class and I am around middle class people a lot. Most of them are married with kids. Or in a LTR. Very regular kind of people. Not sex crazy like low class poverty types. Just very plain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | PPD crew, be honest: do you get an ego boost when a taken/married person wants you?I wonder the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | PPD crew, be honest: do you get an ego boost when a taken/married person wants you?Honestly yes a little bit, but it also makes me uncomfortable and I feel bad for the guy’s girlfriend or wife.. My friend’s fiance has gotten into discussions with me and when it happens my friend goes real quiet and that’s our cue to stop talking. I guess they don’t talk like that together and everytime it happens, it makes her feel insecure. It puts me in an uncomfortable position because I’m just trying to be friendly.. My bro used to let ex-addicts stay in his spare bedroom while they get th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you accepting of men artificially enhancing their looks?If a man wants to enhance his looks it doesn’t bother me. My favorite form of male looksmaxxing is hormone treatment. It does wonders for some men. My older bro is 50 and does testosterone treatments, his wife doesn’t complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 11:55 PM |
| 11 | They want the hottest women and they don’t even brush there teeth.Yes, it is mean. When I tried OLD a few years back, not every guy on the app was exactly a looker. Some looked downright strange or scary. Also.. I think it is pretty childish to make an OLD account just for the sake of these roast submissions.. I mean who would want to seriously LTR a man that does that in his free time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:59 PM |
| 26 | They want the hottest women and they don’t even brush there teeth.I feel like the second one is a catfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:39 PM |
| 31 | They want the hottest women and they don’t even brush there teeth.That is quite a bit of plaque build up.. bet his breath smells lovely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Men's Reasons for Having ChildrenIs he white? I’ve been noticing a trend amongst white ppl lately... namely white males on the internet talking about “muh genes” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Don't Let Back Burner Guys Lurk Your Social MediaI used a have a male friend that I would go to for advice and stuff. My current bf doesn’t like him, so I yeeted him from my friend list without a second thought. I go to my man for personal advice. There was also this guy that my friend wanted me to date, but I never liked him.. very cringey guy, wears “clout” sunglasses and a spiderman hoodie when he goes to bars. He would comment on my stuff also, brought it up to bf, bf said he has gotta go. Pretty much any orbiter is a no-go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Wow, a bonafide loser. He will probably be single for another 10 years then die from a heart attack, with all that fat and all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:17 PM |
| 5 | FDS philosophy on blowjobs (in the context of relationships)?It should be done out of love and intimacy, and he should be reciprocating (honestly he should be more focused on making you feel good, than himself). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Cringe stories from your pastA lot. When I was 18 I moved out with my first ex. Total gold digger. First ex made me get rid of almost all my chickens.. 50 or so birds that I bred and raised myself. Had to take them to a livestock auction and only got about $25 out of it. Which he KEPT, and used to buy a snake, which I ended up caring for. Cleaning it’s tank and I provided the tank also, plus the stand, and when he got bored of the snake, he just gave away everything to someone for free without even telling me! I had 2 chihu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:08 PM |
| 7 | Cringe stories from your pastGirl I feel.. I had a lot of chickens, probably 50 or more, they were my passion and I loved them.. my ex bf said we couldn’t take them all to the new house. And yeah I know 50 seems like a lot of chickens but I live in the country, very rural, neighbors here don’t care what or how many critters you have. I begged him to get a house out here, it would only be like an extra 15 min commute for him, but nope.. I was 18 then, I am 24 now. Now I have 11 sweet chimkins and 2 dogs, and we’re a package … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Never going to date a broke man ever again.I have a broke ex. I think I was 20 and he was 25.. We were together for 3-4 months. I have my own car and I roomed with an old friend at the time. He lived with his grandparents, no vehicle of his own.. he really liked me and my car. He was talking about getting a job as a security guard at a nearby mine, but needed to go to a city 40 min away for training every week. He was like “Hey maybe you can take me in your car?” I told him no. Boy didn’t even cover enough for gas. I gave him a ride once… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Remember, ONLY LVMs will try to convince you that “men don’t care about your education/success, only your looks/personality.” In reality, HVMs do care.I’m not particulary career driven.. I tend to drift in different directions. Wanted to be a zookeeper but when I took BIO 101 I just wasn’t having it with those protein processes and miniscule formulas. Tried Air Force but my recruiter is taking hella long to get back to me and I have no clue why. Looking into maybe becoming an elementary school teacher, but I’m not solid on it. I live in the moment and I’m not so great at planning for the future in terms of a career. But that doesn’t mean I’m a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 12:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you do about pubic hair? How does it affect your dating life?I’m in a LDR so I don’t shave too much. I do trim. But when I do, I shave the lips and keep the front hairy. Completely shaven looks like a young girl’s coochie and that’s just disturbing to me.. like why would a grown man be attracted to that? Likewise with dudes who shave themselves completely.. shit’s disturbing. Also if you shave your entire pubic mound, when the hair grows back it is ITCHY! Another reason I keep the hair there. When a man shaves his, and his hair grows back, all that stubbl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Men: You get what you giveA bubble butt on a guy always gets my attention.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Men: You get what you giveMy guy is big— 6ft, large frame, wide shoulders, huge biceps, etc etc. He is 275 lbs. not fat at all. I am 5’7”-5’8”, very small frame, slim, 140 lbs. I have always preferred men with meat on their bones.. big guys. Not fat/obese, big like John Cena with a little more body fat percentage. I don’t know anything about men with feminine hips.. but skinny on skinny isn’t comfortable or fun in the bedroom. My exes were skinny and damn, resting my head on their chest was like resting my head on hardwo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Ladies : take note !I shared my trauma with my bf and he was filled with anger and disgust— he said if he ever sees the guy, he will beat down on him so hard that .. well you know. I think men should react this way, I mean how would they react if someone raped their daughter? Would they ask if their daughter is lying, or grab their shotgun and beat some ass? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Using the term 'simp' is just another attack on women“Simps” are the men that keep their women happy and have long, lasting marriages. Yeah shit gets tough from time to time, but genuinely good people stick it out. It’s the toxic dudes that get divorced 5 times over, don’t realize it’s themselves, and blame it on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 10:56 AM |
| 2 | "He is hesitant because he lives far away." BS!My bf lives in the netherlands and I live in CA. We closed the gap back in January.. he flew to me. We are planning to see eachother again when this damn covid crap blows over (europe is on a travel ban). He will be flying to me again.. I’m having a bumpy time with my work, it’s not steady, and he said he’ll pay for my passport and my plane ticket next year if I am not able to. And he covers everything financially when he visits.. and he is 2 years younger than me, not some creepy old man. I dat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 10:44 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you really want 100% equality? Do you really believe in 100% equality? Details please?No need for it in current times, though. The US military is all volunteers now (including women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Where would you be now if you married the first person you dated?I would have a kid with an extremely sexist guy, probably never go out (like for anything, a drive even), probably OD on some pills from severe depression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Womens preference for short term vs long termMy LTR is a big boy. He isn’t ripped but he has muscle and a large frame. He’s got a cute face, too. I never saw skinny pretty boys as LTR material. They look too weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 10:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the most common reason for why women wear makeup?I put on eyebrow makeup because my eyebrow hair is pretty thin and sparse.. without it I look ugly AF. I do it for myself mostly, so my confidence is a bit better. Every now and then I’ll get extra dolled up for my man. Otherwise, spending more than 10-15 minutes on my face simply isn’t worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 09:57 AM |
| 4 | Tradwives have no idea what real traditional cultures are like.Omg right? I think that stereotype comes from anime depicting asian girls as sweet and unassuming, also from sex tourists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Most guys on TRP seem to want to be the "Captain America" type of alpha male, making TRP a net positiveStill, personality wise he is pretty beta. Red pill bois are show no empathy for girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 06:02 AM |
| 14 | Get you a guy whose compassion, care, commitment and sense of responsibility live up to this beautiful example from the animal queendom. 🦅 🦅I often think of birds and compare their mating practices/behaviors to our own. Male birds are usually doing the most for their lady birds. I have pet chickens and they live harem style but my roo is such a sweetie to his hens. But also they could live without him easily, one hen will take the rooster role if there isn’t a rooster around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | UMC men don't date poor women not only because of class but because of aesthetic reasons.My country ass isn’t complaining. I absolutely loathe stuck up, wealthy, city/suburb people. I know a girl my age whose dad works for Lockheed Martin and her dad bought her a nice car, and she is begging for a new one. Like really? She is horribly fake, two-faced, and pretty ungrateful. As are most rich people.. my mom is from money and she tends to be the same. Drives me nuts. I can’t imagine being with a guy that is like my mom or that girl I know. I prefer honest people. If that means they’re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Do you know many women who refuse to date men within their "league"?Yea seriously. An awesome personality can make a man so much more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you know many women who refuse to date men within their "league"?There are a lot of prostitutes in Vegas, though. They are usually hanging at slots/tables but not playing them. They look like pretty women, not downtown motel hookers, so be aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you know many women who refuse to date men within their "league"?You can zipline down fremont street in Vegas. Pretty fun. Also the waterparks and the rides at circus circus are a must. People who enjoy atmosphere like places such as Vegas. Lots to do and lots to see. It wouldn’t be very interesting to troglodytes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Most guys on TRP seem to want to be the "Captain America" type of alpha male, making TRP a net positiveCaptain America, while looking sexy af, is a simp in the highest regard. This guy went back in time to be with a woman and throwing off his original timeline/accomplishments just to be with her. Alpha looks, beta personality. I doubt TRP wants to be anything like him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Is it better to stay with someone you love at a young age?Younger me was not mature enough for marriage, much less a relationship. They say girls mature faster than boys, but mentally I was an immature shithead lol. I can’t imagine getting married when I was 18 or 19. Even at 24 I’m still a tad immature— I joke and play around too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 05:33 PM |
| 18 | Tradwives have no idea what real traditional cultures are like.Yup. Growing up, my dad respected my mom’s trad lifestyle and only had sex when they were trying for kids, AND they slept in separate beds in separate rooms. Also my mom is east asian... my dad gave her an allowance of $300 per week plus all the gifts he gave her. Asian women are expensive and not submissive/low effort as weeb-scrotes believe us to be. My mom wears coach shoes lol they costed $500. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:46 PM |
| 15 | Tradwives have no idea what real traditional cultures are like.My mom is japanese/korean mixed and she has a lot of old, trad views. Men are expected to be men— working and successful, and must provide and adore their woman. A 23 year old man doesn’t have a drivers license? A career? Or in school? To my mom’s standards that guy isn’t a man. Still a baby and not ready for a girlfriend or relationship. She says it doesn’t matter if I’m not working like a man— it’s perfectly OK for me to be a low paid waitress for example, and for the man to be the wealthy and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Simple Alpha and Beta DefinitionsWell usually when I am interested in someone, the interest begins with physical appearance. If they are unattractive to me, I don’t care if they are some hot shot CEO, if I am disgusted by the thought of sleeping with them, then there is no chance of me being with that person.. but also if my guy were a hobo, I wouldn’t be with him either.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?Japanese influenced... you mean anime? I have a friend who was stationed in Okinawa and she recalls the japanese women being based af. They had their opinions and weren’t afraid to express them. My mom is half japanese and she lacks tact when she speaks. I often tell her not to say certain things in public or else someone will beat us up, lol. Also if she is mad in public, she will def make a scene and scream at whoever made her mad. Not exactly the image of the wholesome asian waifu lol. I also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?She is OK but I did not want to see her cottage cheese butt on social media a couple of months back.. she could benefit from wearing clothes that covers her up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Guys who prefer thin women vs. guys who prefer curvy/thick women: what does it say about the guy?I think a lot of overweight women describe themselves as thick to make themselves feel better, and that is why my bf doesn’t like them. The women with cellulite thighs and asses (where it looks like curdling dairy) is what turns him off, and a lot of them women refer to themselves as thick. Or women who are just too big, like that momokun cosplayer, refer to themselves as thick. Btw there are white girls who have thighs and booty.. actually a lot of them are usually slim and heavy on top. But I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Is career still as important / a dealbreaker for women?I know a lot of women who are OK with the path they chose. I’m not really career oriented, I tend to drift in one direction to the next, it’s not likely me being out of work for 3-5 years will bother me. I am also considering homeschooling my future kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Are most men even trying to be relationship attractive? (beta)Most guys I see day-to-day are like that. From what I have observed, single, plate spinning guys are not so common, are usually younger men, and frequent young people places (college lol). But out in the working world, I don’t come across them too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Simple Alpha and Beta DefinitionsInteresting, I picked my bf cause he looks real hot to me, I wasn’t aware of his provider abilities or values when we first started talking. I guess he has a mix of alpha and beta traits then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you marry a man that couldn't provide for you?I won’t marry a non-provider for this exact reason. Children must always be put first,. I think that is the whole reason for a man to provide.. to prove that he can take care of his family. Cancer will get me one day and I won’t be able to work or do much when I go through the treatments, so I need someone who can pick up when I’m ill. It happened with my parents and my dad took over when my mom was ill from the radiation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever been (successfully) “cold approached” in public?It has happened to me a few times. But they scram when I say I’m in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Why Is There Such A Negative Attitude Towards Childless Married Couples?I don’t agree, but that is because I see humans above non-human animals. I’ve rescued, fostered, and rehomed lots of farm animals in my life, but I don’t see myself as more empathetic than someone who is able to adopt/foster children. Those people are much more patient and have way more resources. I rescue/foster animals yes, because I care about them, but also it’s much cheaper to than a child and farm critters can be left alone most of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4A: Why Is There Such A Negative Attitude Towards Childless Married Couples?I’m conservative and I want kids— I acknowledge the fact that it can be considered selfish with the planet dying and what not, especially since I want at least 3 kids. I heard from my liberal friends that it is selfish to have more than 2 kids. 🤷🏻♀️ oh well. They say that if I want more than 2 that I should adopt, for the planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Q4A: Why Is There Such A Negative Attitude Towards Childless Married Couples?The only time I ever considered a child free person to be selfish was when she mentioned her reasoning.. she said she didn’t want to ruin her body.. which I thought was a dumb reason, she’s overweight, her body is already ruined lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4A: Why Is There Such A Negative Attitude Towards Childless Married Couples?I have no issue with childless married couples. It’s the toxic childless people (married or not) that spend all their time bad mouthing those of us that want to have children. Kind of like toxic vegans; I don’t care what you eat, but don’t tell me how I should eat or how much of a shitty person I am for eating animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Do you have racial preference ?As an asian female I have never understood the stereotype that we will be more likely to be submissive. My mom has a temper, I have a temper, most east asian women have horrible tempers, they’re loud, opinionated, talk hella shit in their native language right in front of you (super cunty thing to do lol), etc etc. My dad’s ex wife is thai and he said she chased her niece around their old house with a knife, due to anger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you have racial preference ?I an asian halfie from WMAF parents. I REALLY find polynesian, hawaiian, and/or pacific islander men to be the most desirable (especially if they are also mixed). But I have never been lucky enough to be with one :( Hispanic and white men can be pretty sexy. Black guys can be sexy, but the only time I ever felt sexual attraction to black men was when I watched Black Panther. Disney studios cherry picked the hottest guys. Otherwise, I don’t really find a lot of their faces to be attractive. I do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Women who feel sexually attracted to beta traitsI love a man that is my “puppy dog”. My bf even described himself as such, saying he is always happy to talk to me/see me like a dog is. Even though I’m more like a cat :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/20 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Guys who prefer thin women vs. guys who prefer curvy/thick women: what does it say about the guy?Yep. My white and wealthy bf likes thin with a little booty and little boobies. He has described thick women as “nasty”, but he thinks being overweight and general unhealthyness is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 08:25 PM |
| 8 | Why is FDS considered good dating “advice”, while TRP was considered bad/sub-optimal?I actually got the vibe that most FDS ladies were gym thots and skincare/makeup crazy. A few months back I saw a post of a regular user posting all their skincare products, their cost, and her routine. I thought “oh these girls go above and beyond to look good”. I had no idea they were like Lizzo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Are men taught that they can be loved/wanted without trying?I dated 2 aspies in the past and they really did not care much about being popular and well received/respected at work or amongst their peers. They also both did not dress very good lol, both were skinny and tall, and both wore baggy clothes a lot. I like it when a man wears a fitted T and pants that hug his butt a little, with leather boots or some similar nice looking shoe. Or even just athletic clothing looks real nice on a man, but they were always like “why should I dress like that?” And go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Is career still as important / a dealbreaker for women?Saves tons of money to just raise your own kid, plus it’s better to connect with your child, than having your child connect with someone else IMO. My man doesn’t want to do daycare and it’s his choice since he’ll be paying the bills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 08:00 PM |
| 5 | How many of you admit to being shallow?I think I’m a little shallow, but I’ve never chased after men that look like GQ models or the hottest country singers. Like, I just won’t go after obese or handicapped men.. sorry wheelchair dudes. If that makes me shallow then OK lol. I think my man is good looking but random internet people have called him ugly, so maybe I’m not shallow. I don’t think it really matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do women value careers so highly?That’s pretty cool and interesting. Are you a natural green thumb? I want to do the same one day, but with chickens instead of plants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Why do women value careers so highly?Living in a van.. I could understand a trailer or RV.. but why a van? As for women.. we generally value hygiene and cleanliness.. I think it would be hard to have a bath and a whole routine in a van. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do women value careers so highly?What do you grow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Is career still as important / a dealbreaker for women?I have a friend who just had a baby and she doesn’t have time for a job. She cares for her infant. I’m assuming you can’t leave an infant alone for 8 hours a day. *edit to say, my bf even asked how would I have time for a job with a baby, or 2+ babies. He also agrees that when they become older that I can go back to working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Where do you usually go to meet people/socialize?When I go online mode in MHGU. Lol. Or at work. Sometimes people talk to me when I’m travelling alone, the observant types find me interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 09:22 PM |
| 3 | [Q4Women] Where are all the "Beckies" & "Becky-lites" who supposedly get ignored by men?🙋🏻♀️Average looking lady here. Nobody really hits me up unless I’m dressed in fitted clothing, because I usually dress “comfortably” which means baggy clothes. A baggy windbreaker on my tall and lanky self isn’t attention getting. Us average types are all over, not getting attention, often overlooked. Some of us prefer it that way. We’re in public a lot. Check a store like Harbor Freight or WinCo... because we’ll be running an errand, not going to Sephora or Ulta for fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do women value careers so highly?Who tf wants to live in a van? Wut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do women value careers so highly?They probably had bad financial experiences with men, or observed a parent becoming a single mom and their mom struggled, and they don’t want to be like their mom. Women want things like a house, a car, food, clothes, etc. They want to live comfortably like everyone else. Maybe some career woman wants a greenhouse that grows some rare plant for some makeup or skincare purpose.. well that costs money.. so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Will the West go the way of Japan? Are women simply happier single?The next Japan? Nope. Not sure if you have noticed, but the US is hugely multicultural and while maybe the rich white people are marrying less and having less kids, the working class hispanics are still having 7 kids. Latino men like to provide for their women, and they like to make big families. Most latina women I meet totally love having a bunch of rugrats and having their man bring home the bread. Also, lower class white people have big families too. Big families are the way of poor American… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 09:08 PM |
| 26 | Are men taught that they can be loved/wanted without trying?I think a lot of guys are simply unaware of how poopy they look and are comfortable with themselves, so they don’t try to look good to get women. I think some of them may be aspies as well, since aspie men really don’t care about socially appropriate behaviors and mannerisms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areVisit your local Walmart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Is career still as important / a dealbreaker for women?I plan on becoming an elementary school teacher in the future. But when we have our first baby, he wants me to be at home. When the kids get older and become more independent, I will go back to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Is career still as important / a dealbreaker for women?He expects me to keep the house clean, make him food, and take care of the kids. If I am lazy then he won’t provide, lol. Like I said, that is years off. I enjoy working in a school and he supports my dream of becoming an elementary teacher 100%. I can go back to work when the kids are older and more independent. It’s not your life though 🤷🏻♀️Why care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you judge your appearance based on how you look with make-up or without it?Well since I go without makeup almost everyday, I usually determine my looks without makeup. I don’t think I’m butt ugly without it, so hey that’s something lol. I am still able to make friends and I seem to mingle well with the “pretty” females at my work. But I make friends with everybody, so I dunno. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Do people REALLY believe AFBB does not exist?Yes, it exists. But not every woman is doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Do men want a "mommy wife"?You know, shrews are very cute little creatures, I am not sure why they are used as a negative connotation for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is making men so unattractive to women?Well a slim or fit man can still enjoy a fat woman sexually and physically. For a slim or fit woman, enjoying a fat man is very difficult. A fat man has almost no range of motion when it comes to fucking, his stamina will deplete quickly, the only option will be the cowgirl position for fucking and that will also be difficult. His penis will seem very small because of all the fat hiding it. Also the sweat and having to move rolls aside.. At least a fat woman can still appear feminine physically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 04:53 PM |
| 5 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areWell, I’ve seen really pretty women married and taken care of by men who look like goofy caricatures. But these couples seem to LAST. Even my mom was way better looking than my dad and they were together for 40+ years. I know the most pretty and most caring ISFJ whose husband is no where near a 10/10 chad, but their passion is there and she loves her husband. And I’m pretty sure we’ve all seen the good looking hunk with the overweight whale of a wife, with his 6 kids. But I bet that landwhale is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 11 | LVM thought he could get away with a $6 engagement ring from Amazon. His fiancee found out when she was going to resize it at a jewelry store otherwise she would've been fooled.One of my exes spent $800 on a new phone for himself but absolutely refused to buy me a $14 meal at a japanese fast food place. He said the portions were too small and there wouldn’t be enough for him to have any, so he wouldn’t buy. Oh but he can buy an expensive ass phone for himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | How will the world adapt to the single mother epidemic?A generation of boys who struggle with their masculine identity and they will probably not want kids or marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Under what circumstances would someone commit emotional infidelity?In a past relationship, my INTP ex was horrible at emotional stuff. So I had a guy friend who I would spill my heart out to and he would give me advice/counsel and mediate. And yes, my ex was aware of my friendship with the guy, he did not care nor was he concerned. So it’s pretty much emotional neglect. Luckily my bf gave me the OK to use him as my personal diary.. but he wanted me to not talk to my old friend.. had to burn that bridge out of respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Is career still as important / a dealbreaker for women?I just want my s.o. to make a bit more than me so we can save up to do stuff together, because I don’t make that much money. As we get older, I do expect him to get a better paying job to support us living together, and hopefully a family. That’s years off, though. The main thing is traveling together and getting eachother little gifts when we can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Did men and women used to have lower sexual dimorphism in ancient times?From all the fertility statues I’ve seen in museums, I think we used to be more sexually dimorphic. Like.. those things have HUGE boobs and wide hips. They also appear to present women as being smaller, perhaps shorter than women are today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on being a SAHM/SAHW or providing for one?I believe in it, sure. But I’d do it for as long as my future kids depend on me, as they age and become more independent, I would go back to working. Ain’t nobody wanna be at home 24/7 for 18+ years (especially if you have multiple children). I grew up in a SAHM environment, BUT my mom also went out frequently (to spas, saunas) and both my mom and dad took mini-vacations together frequently. My parents loved casino resorts and my dad even let my mom go by herself on school days, while he took ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | "Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date.The last time I got real drunk, I went around the room shaking everyone’s hands and saying “Hello, I have chickens.” to every single person. I don’t know what that tells people.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Women’s attraction to tall men: social or biological?I mean, I usually my female friends are shorter than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Women’s attraction to tall men: social or biological?Odd to read that. Over in the asian male subreddits, asian males are complaining 24/7 that nobody finds them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | The so-called "traditional" model serves for average men being able to control womenI do not know how to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:14 AM |
| 2 | The so-called "traditional" model serves for average men being able to control womenYeah. And she is really young. So of course she wants to go out of her house to have fun. I give her advice like how to be more independent— get a drivers license and start college classes, get her teaching credentials, etc. and her man says I’m a bad influence. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Is it rude for a girl to snub guys from her own neighbourhood that try to talk to her?Well the next time I went to karaoke, I brought a friend and he kept pestering her and being weird about it. Was asking her age (she lied and said she was 17, in hopes it would deter him, he is 40 something), and if he could sit next to her. He asked to sit next to her a few times and if he could contact her through FB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.I like doing something a little more engaging like doing some volunteering activity together, or going to a livestock auction. A bit odd yes, but I can see if a man is invested either by the time he puts in (volunteering together) or by spending on me.. and you can get like 15 chickens for $20.. that’s a whole lot dinner. Or buy a whole cow.. I’ve seen them go as low as $70, that’s your whole freezer. And he helps you walk it to the butcher <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 11:11 PM |
| -6 | YoU nEeD To CoMmUnIcAtE!!1!!I’m an ISFP and when it comes to conflicts, I tend to think to myself and revisit the issue later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 11:01 PM |
| 4 | HELL YA!!I work with an autistic boy at an elementary school and I love my job. I want to become an elementary school teacher one day. Now I don’t make that much, but ever since I started working, I have felt much better mentally. Like my moods are better at school, versus at home... and I don’t feel very dependent on my man anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of coffee first dates?I hate coffee.. I mean its ok, but not the best drink out there.. also doesn’t it get boring getting coffee with every person you go out with? If I like you enough, we are smoking weed together at the park, to discuss things without the shy inhibitions.. to get to the nitty gritty details. If you don’t like weed then you’re with the wrong person, no date for you. If things go well we can go somewhere to tame our munchies. Which sounds way better than coffee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 10:48 PM |
| 6 | Why are so many incels and MGTOWers delighted at the thought of "post wall" women being rejected?When my dad passed my mom was 60 something and she had men her age hitting her up. She rejected them, but still it was odd (in my mind) to see that her little gray haired self would get crushed on by other old guys. My mom isn’t even hot, either. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many incels and MGTOWers delighted at the thought of "post wall" women being rejected?Because they are children. Immature people who go “hAhA styooobid wahmen can’t get Chad hAhA be lonlenly”. That’s it pretty much. They take out all their anger on females, online. Maybe in their backyard they have blow up dolls that they chuck small axes at. Or old mannequins that they use at the shooting range. Angry people have no self-control and they don’t think before they speak. They don’t do any self-reflecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Men paying for datesDepends. If I barely know the guy and we’re just friends, splitting is fine. On low cost dates, like frozen yogurt or IHOP. Or a walk to the park, maybe even playing a game together (in public somewhere, like on a switch). 2-3 hours together. But if we’re actually more interested in each other, then a nice dinner or activity (like mini golf, for example) is preferred, I’d like the guy to pay so that I can see he is truly interested and willing to invest. Then from there we can take turns. I pref… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 10:23 PM |
| 5 | The reason dinner (as the first date) is such a point of contention in dating is because men don't want to feel like they are overinvestingI was raised the same way. Usually whoever invited pays, and the invitee covers the tip, but sometimes people are bickering back and forth about covering it all. Like they value that time being with each other SO much. I don’t see this too much anymore these days.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:57 PM |
| 2 | The reason dinner (as the first date) is such a point of contention in dating is because men don't want to feel like they are overinvestingUnrelated but from what I can see on the tiny picture, you have beautiful hair! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | The reason dinner (as the first date) is such a point of contention in dating is because men don't want to feel like they are overinvestingSo people should take the time to get to know other people... instead of assuming they are sleeping around with others. I had this thrown at me before. The guy assumed I was seeing other guys, so he wouldn’t invest. Even though I was very open, he still didn’t trust me. Oh well lol. I spend most of my days hanging out with my pet chickens... did not know the poultry-keeping hobby was a red flag hobby for thots (or sluts). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Women’s attraction to tall men: social or biological?Is BTS that korean boy band | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Women’s attraction to tall men: social or biological?My dad is 5’9” and he got with my super short 4’11” mom. I inherited my dad’s height and I tower over my mom. If I were a man I could get tiny women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Women’s attraction to tall men: social or biological?Right. Steroids are just hormones used to give a person the strength to push through more repetitions while doing physical activity. You don’t have to look like larry the lobster to be using hormone treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4WOMEN: is ‘daddy’ stuff cringey to you?I think it’s gross cause I grew up with a dad, whom I called daddy. I think that endearing nickname should be left between caring fathers and their children. Sexualizing that dynamic just disturbs me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever woke up one day and suddenly lost all physical/sexual attraction to your boyfriend?Yes, but it was kind of gradual. It was little things at first that were turning me off, then one day me thinking “damn this guy is ugly”. I no longer wanted sex with him, or even kiss. Kissing at that point was repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | "Get out there and meet women" - what do people have in mind when they say stuff like this?I think dog walking and going to dog parks is a real good way to meet others. If you have a dog of course.. if not, then perhaps meet ups or congregations of other hobbies. Go to a reptile show or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Is it rude for a girl to snub guys from her own neighbourhood that try to talk to her?Because a lot of men take things the wrong way from women. There are some of you that are nice and chill to us, but you have to be not attracted to us.. I’m generally pretty friendly and I tend to strike up random conversation on my travels. When I am on my own, many more people talk to me. Men seem genuinely friendly also. BUT there are also creepy weirdos. Or those with dishonest intentions. Unfortunately, many women come across the creepy and dishonest ones more than the genuinely nice ones. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Is it rude for a girl to snub guys from her own neighbourhood that try to talk to her?I went to community karaoke and told a man that he sings really good. He was singing Spiders by System of a Down with so much passion. I was just being nice, I compliment females who sing good too. He told me about his band on FB and seemed like he was trying to promote his page, so I was like alright I’ll give it a like. Well, he took it as flirting. Then he found out I had a bf and his whole demeanor changed. So yea. Women can’t win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they suggest men to get a better haircut to increase their SMV?He went from wook to pua lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?Woman here. I would rather adopt. I mean jeez, 10 kids I never got to know? Why? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Dating in a politically polarized worldWest coast conservative here. YES dating is hard as a right winger on the west coast. Pretty much all the rich white people are liberals. You can’t marry up here if you lean right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating in a politically polarized worldI usually don’t get along with guys cause I’m conservative.. IME a lot of dudes are more progressive. I guess it’s my state but I dunno.. these 90’s born kids are pretty liberal. I tried dating a couple liberals, and one anarchist fella, it didn’t work out... then a socially conservative, technical “bigot” says hi to me, and we hit it off. He’s actually quite gentle natured, just very opinionated, like most right wingers are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Why would anybody want marriage?Tradition, stability, accountability, responsibility. You can’t just walk out on your spouse and family when you feel like it. My bf wants 3-4 kids when we get married. That’s a lot of money (SO MUCH FOOD), best to have a husband to help with the $$$, and a wife to do the physical labor around the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How has your fitness changed your relationship with other people?I’m lean. Thicc girls don’t usually flock to me. All I ever hear is “I hate skinny bitches” from them. When I used to have overweight friends, bringing up the gym always caused tension, and they always took offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What are some things guys think women like that they’ve been sorely misled about?Flowers. I would be much more swooned if I was given a fruit-bearing tree from Lowes or a nursery instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:11 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I deal with kids in a classroom. Not autistic adults on a day to day basis. It’s very different. I have only seen instructional aides work alongside older autistic kids, in like a high school setting, where the impairment is very severe. Otherwise most of them are able to function in a classroom on their own as they get older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?A lot of jobs in the steel industry start at $17/hr and go up from there. But working with steel can be dangerous (heights, hazardous materials). A lot of male millennials would rather do something cushy it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Or they just like to find something to complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?That’s a pretty mean statement. I like helping kids and seeing them succeed. This job is a starting point for me— I want to be an elementary school teacher one day. Elementary school teachers teach NT kids, too. I’m also not saying that older people should have kids for the sake of having disabled children. I’m saying older people don’t have to worry if they adopt NT babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Yea but when you’re old what can you do? An old woman will have difficulty conceiving, and an old man has a good chance at having disabled (autism, ADHD) kids. Old women have a higher chance of popping out downs kids as well. Everyone complains about disabled kids when there’s perfectly healthy kids up for adoption? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?By “west” do you mean white people? I work with kids that have varying levels of autism and except for those with severe ASD, I don’t see it as a “crippling defect”. Most of them are pretty capable actually. They just need people like me to help them focus on their tasks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Yeah cause my trump supporter buddies never talk about it (or talk about helping children in general). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I did not know that. I thought tradcon was short for traditional conservatives— like traditional gender roles in relationships and such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Then there will be a new wave of Americans. As long as they come in legally I’m not bothered by it. BTW there ARE plenty of Americans for jobs, it’s just that most don’t want to do jobs that are labor oriented. Lazy bastards lol. Like I work in a school and for some reason, there isn’t a wave of women applying to work with kids 1-on-1 in the classroom. But working with elementary level kids is usually female dominated. Women nowadays want to go into other fields I guess.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I don’t hang out with religious conservatives, so I wouldn’t know. But thank you for the reply. I guess I hang out with the more political and social issue conservatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?God father/god mother situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?You’re a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I’m socially con but not religious, and I want kids. 3-4 if possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?“Ugly” is subjective. I think my bf is handsome but someone (an asian man) once called him a 2/10 lol. We’re all ugly to somebody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Thank you for the reply. See, I’m conservative but not religious, so part of the reason I don’t see the option of adoption mentioned much in my circles is because I don’t mingle with religious conservatives. I don’t like to talk to them, they’re rude lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Maybe. Thank you for the civil reply. I came here to learn and a lot of people want to argue. I’m conservative, but not religious, so I don’t socialize with the religious crowd. However, I’ve been called a “right wing traditionalist” because of my views, and I thought right wing traditionalists were the same as tradcons. I was wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I was just asking a question. Thank you for being civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I’m not a liberal. I’m a conservative. My OP is a question, not an argument. I asked to learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I don’t know who Brian Sims is. I’m a patriot type of conservative, not a liberal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?But I assume you’re not 60 years old right? My bf and I want to pass on our genes also, but we’re in our early 20’s, where fertility issues are not a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Just the shit I’ve heard from baptists.. they’re a nasty bunch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I don’t think the US is at any risk of having the American people go extinct. We’re not like Japan. I guess if people don’t want autistic children, they can adopt a NT child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I’m not trying to argue. My OP was a question. I am here to learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I have not seen, but may look it up after work later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I am a conservative. I grew up with people who weren’t allowed to watch harry potter movies cause their overly-religious parents thought it was from the devil himself. I grew up with people who didn’t want to be friends with 12 year old me, cause 12 year old me didn’t believe in Jesus. I have also met many terribly judgey southern baptists throughout my life. They’re the worse IMO. JW’s are annoying too and fall right under baptists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Ah okay. Well thank you for clearing that up. I’m conservative but I don’t fit in either the religious or alt-right category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 03:38 PM |
| -2 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Are tradcons always religious people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:58 AM |
| 5 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Makes me think of all the supposed pro-life conservatives who don’t give a rat’s ass once the child is born. If the mother is poor and uses EBT, WIC, or welfare then she’s a horrible mooch. Religious adopters (parents in general) are pretty bad, I agree. They’re horribly strict and don’t really let kids be kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I don’t see conservatives talking about adoption too much. I’m in a far-right group on FB and men there, even the old ones, are out there putting all their time and energy for a fertile young lady.. but like, there’s kids that need a home. It seems like they treat adoptable kids the same way they treat single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I see the discussion of women’s fertility being discussed almost everywhere amongst conservatives and that has to do with having kids. Instead of treating it like an urgent matter, why not look at the options.. there are babies that need a home.. like 45 yr old Martha and her husband Robert can go adopt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I’m not sure if all tradcons would be open to adopting from catholics. Especially holier than thou baptists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:39 AM |
| 2 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?The ability to give a baby or child a new life isn’t a bad thing.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?I don’t see adoption discussed much in tradcon circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Aren’t they usually childfree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids?Makes sense.. but that mindset is so ugly... children are wonderful. That is pretty sad IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider a well bred girl ?Well, I hope her kids work at least lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What makes you a HVW?Why my bf considers me HV— I haven’t slept with 20 guys, I have a genuinely sweet and kind personality, I can clean, I work with kids/have a passion for children, I have a good work ethic, to him I look very attractive, I respect my body enough not to fill it with junk food and drugs/alcohol, I retain my femininity even though it’s not largely accepted in the current political climate, ehm I am sure there are more reasons but this is all I can think of at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider a well bred girl ?That doesn’t sound healthy.. and contradicts her statement here. What happens when her parents kick the bucket? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever became obsessed/ really really liked/ fallen in love with a girl who's very average looking?Third woman down looks pretty above average to me. The ladies would be all hot with makeup skills. Most women don’t look hot without makeup.. most of us look pretty bland without a touch up. I’ve seen hot hunks with homely women, so yea. Maybe they think their ladies are hot, though. Men can’t use makeup so its not as easy for them to tweak their scale.. but I can’t fall in love with personality only.. I will want to sleep with the person, which requires some level of physical attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider a well bred girl ?Sorry dude, there is too much to look through. Just seems like she has a lot of time for a drawing hobby. **edit. Didn’t find anything about being unemployed or spending a parent’s money, but uh, saw some revealing pics... Eat some chicken gurl.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 04:42 AM |
| 3 | FDS is the strategy to find a HVM while RPW is the strategy to keep him?I discovered FDS from this sub lol. I had to go see what all the hub-bub was about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 01:09 AM |
| 2 | What do you consider a well bred girl ?I think that user is a SAHM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 01:02 AM |
| 4 | Why do women seem to love damaged men? It doesn’t line up with any “pill”.Exactly. My older brother is law enforcement and his wife is damaged. She is super sweet and is a SAHM for the most part, but one time while smoking together (yes, my cop brother buys his wife weed) she told me about her past and it was rough. My brother actually met her because he caught her speeding. The second time they got to talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenOh... I see. Yeah I guess that’s how some of them end up. I was unemployed also for a long ass time, the curse of being an artist? Lol. (I did find work recently) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenThat is very interesting. Can you spot people you could be friends with, through initial meetings/hangouts, with your psychoanalytic skills? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | What are some examples of men you find good-looking who don’t have “prettyboy” features?I know what it means, just thought it was weird to see pics of retarded babies instead of actual noses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | What are some examples of men you find good-looking who don’t have “prettyboy” features?Is Dwayne Johnson pretty? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 06:22 AM |
| 1 | What are some examples of men you find good-looking who don’t have “prettyboy” features?I google imaged this and found a bunch of pics of deformed babies/fetuses. Nigguh whut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenArtsy guys weren’t doing it for ya? I’ve never even met one, what are they like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.Ah like that. A little opposite of me.. I grew up in the country/ghetto (redneck neighborhood?) and always got into something. Either by myself or with others. Quite the troublemaker. My parents loved me though and were always frustrated/confused about my behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenI think the ones I interacted with weren’t into violent superheroes/anime characters. Basic types.. they talked about ‘my hero academia’ A LOT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenHow can you tell? I wish I had a good personality radar. Mine is terrible. I find INFJ’s to be pretty reasonable and decent people (generally), so I think it’s cool you’re one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 06:00 AM |
| 5 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.Sometimes you have to be straight up with men, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Men are not mind readers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.How do you mean you don’t go with the flow? Interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 4 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.How boring can a woman be to be taken for granted? I mean like how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.I always thought high maintenance meant women who take 2 hours to get ready and like to look nice, like to do nice things, prob won’t drive a shitty car, may have a temper, etc. Did not know it meant “crazy”. Different strokes for different folks. I dated men who did not like my definition of high maintenance, thus complained regularly about my judgey-ass. Now I’m with someone who is on the same level as me. We’re both damaged in similar ways and we bond over it. I know ladies who seem low maint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenGlad you found it! Ambiverts are cool in my book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenISFP, used to be mistyped as INFP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenI certain types of geeks, others not so much. I like the ones that love animals, natural history, regular history, nature, natural science nerds. My bf is really into natural science and biology. We like bird watching and I introduced him to herping— he LOVES it. I want to introduce him to catch and release fishing next. He is also a gun nerd and that’s always attractive. I don’t like the geeks that are into anime and comic books... The ones I have met (both men and women) seem to always prefer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenArtsy weirdo as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenNobody wants to hurt autistic people’s feelings. They seem to be protected by a lot of people, cause they’re technically disabled. It makes sense 100% to weed out undesirables from the gene pool, though. I see on “Special Books by Special Kids” that people with disabilities get into relationships with eachother, and I think that is really nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenYes. I have a halfie half brother (white and thai, from my dad’s previous marriage) who is ugly as shit but makes a lot of money doing tech stuff. He has a vietnamese wife and she loves his big house in orange county and his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenHe looks sickly. Like he’s been smoking meth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenNot very handsome imo. Women like him for money, not his looks. Melania Trump is a foreign sugar baby and by FDS standards, she is winning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:13 AM |
| 5 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenI’m an artsy weirdo woman. My bf is a big hunk, “ambivert” (loves to socialize but needs time to himself), outgoing and what not. My oddness attracted him like bees to flowers. I like normie men, though. I find certain types of geeky men to be very annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenYes, aspie men tend to greatly dislike old fashioned courtship and mating rituals. INTP’s and such. They dislike old fashioned-anything tbh. Holidays? “Why is christmas special I can give gifts anytime”. Religion? “God isn’t real, we can’t even prove we are real.” Having kids? “Just adopt instead of having more than 2 kids” etc. I’m a normie in the sense of my values and beliefs. “Old fashioned”, my bf is the same. We love our trad holidays and the potential to have more than 2 kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:07 AM |
| 2 | In response to MGTOW being quarantinedYes, we love good men. Husband and father material type of guys. The folks who hate FDS don’t understand because they’re not these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:53 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Question for single women with "traditional values" and who are looking to get married and be stay-at-home-moms: do you really enjoy cooking and cleaning?Well I agreed to being a SAHM after us having kids. He isn’t going to be providing like that until we have kids, which is 5-6 years down the road. I’ll be very happy to run the house and garden when that time comes. Cause I decorate it how I like and organize the furniture how I like. Then when the future kids are old enough, they can do chores and I can have time to sleep lol. But until then we’re both working towards living together, which may take 2-3 years. The house I live in with my mom is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Question for single women with "traditional values" and who are looking to get married and be stay-at-home-moms: do you really enjoy cooking and cleaning?I’m not lol.. I know different things work for different people. Doing ALL the housework sounds like being a maid. What happens if I get sick or ill, hubs won’t help out and the house will turn into a pig sty? Cancer runs in my family lol my bf better help when the chemo has me bald and weak. Also how does a 24/7 in-home maid have time for herself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree that young women avoid good men because they're afraid of discipline?I believe it. One of my friends is an INTJ and usually I am the one that has to coax her into going out or even hanging out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | From Askwomen: “How does it make you feel when someone you don't find attractive has a crush on you?”Yea if I’m walking somewhere and straight up hoodrat asks me out then I feel pretty disgusted lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:48 PM |
| 0 | From Askwomen: “How does it make you feel when someone you don't find attractive has a crush on you?”In HS this happened to me. I wasn’t exactly pretty myself— I was an awkward, emo teenager. Wearing black veil brides band shirts cringe. But I was pretty cordial with people for the most part, and I talked to this ugly boy cause he was being quiet and I know what that’s like in a friend group. Well like all males do, he took it the wrong way and told some peeps he was going to ask me out. Those people relayed it to me. I was like WHAT?!? Before he could get a word in, I yelled “GET AWAY FROM ME … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What would you objectively rate yourself?They only put 1 asian woman in there, and one I wouldn’t consider a 9. She is very pretty but like.. all the 9’s are in r/mixedracegirls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:29 PM |
| 2 | What would you objectively rate yourself?Yea good looking dude. You should do promos for fitness companies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What would you objectively rate yourself?8-9/10 with a little makeup, 7/10 without any makeup. My body is pretty good I think. I only ever got complaints from exes who said they wished I was thicker. I have no desire to be thick. I like being lean— like Melania Trump in her modeling days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Men and women will NEVER be able to empathize with one another. Trying to get them to is stupid and futileWell, I understand my bf’s issues cause they’re a lot like mine. He doesn’t struggle with being strong or masculine cause he is already. But we both have a crazy childhood, with problem parents, and similar annoyances in our daily lives. I’m not worried about being objectified cause I’m comfortable in my own skin— if I’m dolled up and getting looks, that is to be expected. I can empathize with incels but I don’t sympathize with them, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Do you agree that young women avoid good men because they're afraid of discipline?Ya xSTJ’s and xNTJ’s probably. My mom is an ESTJ and I would hate being with a man that has her personality type. I’m an ISFP and I need room to breathe, not have a rigid control-freak tell me I’m not doing something right all the time. Both male and female ESTJ’s do a lot of nagging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree that young women avoid good men because they're afraid of discipline?I’m 24 and I like a man that can both work hard and play hard. Drinking together once in a while is fine or going to music festivals (metal) is cool. Planning a getaway somewhere is great. My bf enjoys the moment like I do, so he’s pretty flexible about having fun. He still works hard and gets his shit done, though. I don’t meet a lot of men that are inbetween like him so I think it’s one of the many reasons he’s a catch. My shit isn’t together in the slightest, but my bf doesn’t mind cause he k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSI heard from another neighbor that he is scared of my mom. He had a dog that he took to the shelter due to worrying it will anger my mom, cause it used to escape his yard and wander into ours. But we love dogs that visit us and we always give them food and treats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | r/MGTOW just got removed. Is Reddit's Moderators biased towards blue-pilled ideas?Wut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | r/MGTOW just got removed. Is Reddit's Moderators biased towards blue-pilled ideas?It could be because the commenters say a lot of mean shit over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSPretty sure my neighbor is a MGTOW fellow. He is single, has a cool motorcycle, and keeps to himself. I'm very talkative and friendly with my neighbors but he gives off a "don't talk to me vibe" LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:35 AM |
| 3 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSIt's cause those women are so low value themselves that they can't get any better than assholes or weird niggas, anyone who comes to their sub must be low value also, so their advice is "hang onto these men cause you can't get anyone else". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:26 AM |
| 7 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSMaybe the husband shouldn't be making dumbass choices in the first place. Also, her descriptive words are disturbing and cringey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:22 AM |
| 5 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSWhat type of woman gets with a man that uses money so poorly? Did this "surrendered wife" marry a deadbeat? The price of a new car vs. us arguing. I pick the arguing cause if your man is that much of a dumbass then he needs an ass whooping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:20 AM |
| 7 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSYea they basically always blame women for relationship troubles, even when it is the guy that is the problem. They're usually doubtful of the OP and take the man's side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:09 AM |
| 5 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSWell it's clear their heads aren't on straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:08 AM |
| 10 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSYa that one mod pearlsandstilettos was a bitchy HS girl for sure. Also.. crockpot cooking.. that's some real low value stuff right there. I noticed it too actually. Like basic midwest, stereotypical white people cooking. Have they ever heard of stir fry? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:03 AM |
| 5 | It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDSI lurked RPW for 2 years and their advice wasn't doing shit for me. I stopped using the advice of women with low standards, did my own thing, and found my best friend-boyfriend. I feel bad for the women with low self-esteem who go to that sub seeking validation and confirmation from others about their value or whatever. Learn to be happy with yourself first and the rest will follow. You don't need to make a post about your weight concerns for 30 people to affirm yes you should diet and go workou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 01:01 AM |
| 12 | The ultimate pickmeishaThe same RPW that encourage us to date/marry balding fatties while we look like like 10/10's? No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?Not true. Short is subjective. A 5'9" man towers over a petite little 4ft something gal (he'll be picked as long as he has other attractive traits to him). I think only real, real short men like that guy that freaked out in bagel shop are considered hugely undesirable. He looked like he was 5'2". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 12:39 AM |
| 2 | If you’re struggling attract high value people it’s because the circles you frequent and subsequently you are not in fact high valueI don't get that tone. I do believe the women over there do work hard to maintain their looks like their face, hair, body, and dress/clothing style. I haven't seen a whole lot of pro-fat women posts over there, but there could be some. I know I do my best to look good and I do expect my partner to do the same. I simply refuse to be with someone I am not attracted to- if I put the work in then they should as well. In my past with dating I have nexted low effort men who showed up to a date wearing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 12:34 AM |
| 3 | For you, how big percentage is looks vs personality?Hmm this must be why my bf puts up with my shit. Lol. I think hotter women tend to have worse tempers and mood swings than frumpy ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 10:08 AM |
| 1 | If you were the opposite sex, but the same attractiveness level, how would you navigate your new SMV?If I were a guy I’d first go to school then make money then find a lady. Being attractive as a man doesn’t mean shit if I still live at home. It’s acceptable as a young woman (apparently) when we date, but not as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Should men feel guilty for being attracted to teenage girls?Well, for some reason lots of early 20 something men in my area have 16 yr old gfs. I think it’s because those 20 somethings are immature, can’t get someone their age or older, risk being labelled a sex offender cause they think their true love is a 16 yr old. Should they feel bad? Yes. They should be shot imo. Pedos and hebephiles need harsher punishments, not empathy and normalization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 10:01 AM |
| 3 | If you’re struggling attract high value people it’s because the circles you frequent and subsequently you are not in fact high valueThey don’t really need to list what they would bring to a relationship, it’s not a subreddit to advertise and fish for guys. It’s usually the pick me’s over at r/redpillwomen that list their shit cause they want validation for knowing how to cook a ham or a sew a dress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?I’m pretty ideal for him. Each man has a different definition of “ideal”. Some men really dig model looking women. My guy told me he doesn’t like big girls and constantly says “how did I get so lucky getting a girl like you”. I’m prob not ideal for a short man but doesn’t matter lol they’re not even in my lane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How many of your ex boyfriends were absolute pieces of shit?Hey you’re really brave though for doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:26 AM |
| 3 | If you’re struggling attract high value people it’s because the circles you frequent and subsequently you are not in fact high valueMy bf is like that. I suppose he is rare since he is from Europe and not America. But FDS wouldn’t like him because he is pretty conservative, not American conservative but European conservative. So anti-islam and he supports politicians in his country like Geert Wilders and Thierry Baudet. I’ve already seen their comments and they don’t like hunters.. saying you don’t like hunting is a liberal dog whistle. They seem to want hot providers that are loyal and are feminist/liberal. And THAT is pret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:21 AM |
| 3 | If you’re struggling attract high value people it’s because the circles you frequent and subsequently you are not in fact high valueA good HVM has a mix of both alpha and beta traits. FDS girls are just looking for long term men that are worth their time and energy. They don’t like men that want pickmeishas (women with low standards). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:17 AM |
| 1 | If you’re struggling attract high value people it’s because the circles you frequent and subsequently you are not in fact high valueI keep chickens as a hobby and I meet/talk to mostly other women, because it’s mostly women who dig the whole sustainability and homesteading thing. Yea there are country guys but they usually want white girls and I’m Eurasian. Sucked for a while but I held my neck out and found some attractive and pretty awesome. His career path is medical or humanitarian related, mine was originally military but since it’s taking forever to get processed and I need a job, it’s looking like teaching is in my fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How many of your ex boyfriends were absolute pieces of shit?Same, second ex bf was nuts. Also if I had stayed with him I prob would have OD’ed to kill myself. How and when did you break it off with him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How many of your ex boyfriends were absolute pieces of shit?Damn, a restraining order? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: How many of your ex boyfriends were absolute pieces of shit?Just 1 ex was bad. He let his roommate kick my dog and didn’t stop him or kick his ass because the roommate’s dad was the landlord. He also threw his dog across the backyard very hard, hurting her physically and emotionally. He expected me to clean up after his roommate and when I refused, my ex screamed at me and broke my furniture/belongings until I was so shooken up that I apologized and agreed to clean out of fear. I remember when I finally had the guts to break up with him, that he kept beg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 03:56 AM |
| 9 | Chirp Chirp, MotherfuckaaHappens to me when I use reddit on my phone’s browser and as I try to hit send on a comment, I get a “something went wrong”. So I hit send again and again, it turns out it’s posting fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 07:39 PM |
| 10 | Got over being a pickmeisha, now I have a man who treats me like a queenHell yeah. Male “unicorns” exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?Thank you. he’s a big sweetheart literally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 07:33 PM |
| 2 | What do guys consider "fat"?Here is a recent photo of him (all his pics make him look smaller than he looks IRL) https://imgur.com/Rcl0jTE Before we met I thought he was a short small guy cause in his pics he doesn’t look like a big guy. **my bf told me to clarify since he’s been out of the gym for about a year he can only bench 475 now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?Just like my bf. Yes he is heavy but he doesn’t have a giant buddha belly or is obese looking. He looks like Johnny Bravo, if Johnny Bravo didn’t skip leg day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?Yes, he lifts. His bench press is 500 something, which he says is not a lot (its a lot to me! My skinny ass can’t even lift 50lbs) and squat is the same or more. Which is also a lot to me. I weigh 140 at 5’7” and I can barely squat with just the bar by itself, no weights on it. Thing is my bf doesn’t look fat. Same like a woman who could be heavier but if she has it all in her boobs, butt, and thighs then she isn’t deemed as fat but thick (and desirable). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?My bf doesn’t claim to be an athlete. I think he looks great though. He’s healthy enough to lift and move heavy objects and I care about that since I live on a farm/ranch. I just watch him move alfalfa bales while I play with our puppy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?He has fat on him but he doesn’t LOOK fat. I don’t care if a guy is heavy as long as he still looks nice. But to be fair I think my man’s body type is rare cause almost everywhere we go, someone says something about him being big. Fat slobs are everywhere but no one says anything to them, or the skinny ones, but giant boy comes around and people can’t help but say “damn that’s a big guy”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?No idea what PED is. He is a bigger man naturally. He has very broad shoulders and a big chest. He had no issues helping my mom move very heavy furniture up the stairs in my house by himself. When he is lean his body is similar to John Cena’s and according to google John weighs about 150. I had an ex bf who was 6ft and only weighed 170 something. He looked like a 12 year old boy without clothes on and wasn’t comfortable to cuddle. I’ll take big body builders over twigs any day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?200lbs is too lean for my taste. I like thick men with big muscular builds. Like that guy that played the mountain on GoT. My man doesn’t have a small frame like most men do. When he is lean his body is very similar to John Cena’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | What do guys consider "fat"?Huh? Yes people can be heavy but OP is asking what looks fat.. For example I tell people online I weigh 140 and their immediate reply is “goddamn you whale” but they don’t take into account my height, and I’m a little taller than the national average here. I look skinny af. I don’t have rolls or love handles or belly fat. I have friends that are shorter than me and their weight is like 170-180 ish. Some of them look curvy and big, while others just look a little pudgy. But none of them look fat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | I hate post like thisHell yea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?Assuming I practice and endorse that empowered women garbage. How about be a regular woman? I don’t like men shorter than me, and I am unfortunately about the height of the average man (5’7”). So my bf is 6’1”. Works for both of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 04:43 PM |
| 6 | What do guys consider "fat"?My bf is 6ft something and he weighs 275 lbs. Most of that is muscle plus a little chub, but none of my friends think he is fat. He has a huge upper body and is just a big guy in general. I don’t think he is fat. But I have seen dudes who also weigh 275 or more and they got a giant ass blubbery belly. Man boobs big like a woman’s. They look like all they eat is southern macaroni with bacon grease. I think they look fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How much do you care about a man's sexual history?I prefer a man that wasn’t a huge ho before he met me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, what would you say most guys you have rejected have in common?Physical features- shorter than me, bad hygiene, had an unattractive face, too scrawny, too fat Personality- pretty shallow personality, had no hobbies, didn’t love animals, liberal, talking too much about abstract concepts, or highly argumentive Pick up approach- I like men that pursue. Shy guys ain’t getting my time of day. I like boisterous men that talk to you with enthusiasm. I myself talk a lot IRL and love conversation, if you can’t keep up then go away. Also talking to them and finding o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?The woman should be smaller than the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 08:59 AM |
| 3 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?I’m 5’7” and lean. Always have been lean but after I started going to the gym to tone up I had no issues attracting big gym bois. Despite being on the taller side for a woman. Bigger muscley men love us, girl! They like women that look like the fitness models they follow on social media, not so much women that look like Lizzo or Adele. So don’t feel bad about your height.. also tall women make better actresses and models for the camera. Look at Yvonne Strahovski— she is stunning and stands tall … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?No idea what that is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?What’s my problem? My bf is much taller than me and very masculine. Despite being 5’7”, I had no issue attracting a big dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Question for single women with "traditional values" and who are looking to get married and be stay-at-home-moms: do you really enjoy cooking and cleaning?I won’t be resentful towards him. He’s a blonde and isn’t always bright lol. Big goofball type of guy. He has already said he will help me in the future when we have a baby, like taking turns calming our crying baby when we’re both dead tired. We’re very communicative and honest with what we want and how we feel. Part of the reason resentment builds is lack of communication. He is a big sweetheart and we take care of each other with no complaints. Right now we just got a dog and a new puppy. I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 08:46 AM |
| 11 | I hate post like thisMy bf bought me a nintendo switch plus games so he probably dropped about $400 on my ass. He buys me food, too. Ya cheap girls can accept your 2 dollar burger but do you have a switch? Lol get outta here with your low standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:11 PM |
| 19 | How much does race play a role in your dating life?I’m white/asian mixed and I avoid weebs, anime weirdos like the plague. Those are the men with the racial fetishes. I don’t like those type of nerds. And then there’s asian incels, bunch of twats that act like they have a right to us. My boyfriend is white but he wasn’t looking for exclusively asian women. He just happened to think I’m hot. I happened to think he’s hot too. I think polynesians are the hottest types of men out there. No white boy out there looks as good as Dwayne Johnson. Unfortu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Study Finds Older Women Who Date Younger Men Are More SatisfiedI’m only 2 years older than my bf. But wow he is a great guy. I never got best friend vibes from older men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?Are you mixed? I’m azn also, but mixed. I got my dad’s european height instead of my mom’s east asian 5ft height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?A lot of tall men are scrawny and sick looking. That is the downside to tall guys. The thick or muscular tall guys are more rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?I just like to feel protected. Tall and muscular makes me feel safe. For some reason, if I am taller than the man, I feel less feminine and low value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Question for single women with "traditional values" and who are looking to get married and be stay-at-home-moms: do you really enjoy cooking and cleaning?I mean he doesn’t know how to wash clothes and basic things like folding clothes properly because his mom does everything for him. He has a desire to learn how to and he wants to be more independent when he gets a place with me. Because until we have kids I’ll be working too and sometimes he’ll have to do some things around the house if I’m sleeping or out running an errand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail?Not a man but all I can say is that it’s probably not working out for a reason. I don’t think every person out there is meant to procreate or marry. For some it takes years to find the right one, like you might be 41 when you find a good man for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How many men can afford a stay at home wife?So glad I live in rural hillbilly-ville. Screw daycare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:54 AM |
| 1 | How many men can afford a stay at home wife?I agree completely. I live in the country in CALIFORNIA (an expensive ass state) and many men here can support their lady and kids on a single income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How many men can afford a stay at home wife?I live in the country, redneck land, and lots of households out here have SAHM’s. Some are military— military, despite not being rich, can afford a SAHM due to the govt giving them extra goodies for marrying. Some are men working for the local mines, some do trade work, some work on planes, are engineers, etc. These people are NOT rich and they have SAHM’s with 2-3 kids. Mind you they must be more conscious of their spending, their kids get hand-me-downs, they budget, etc. They’re not going to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe in the Male Wall?Male fertility issues yea.. the old ass dads whose sperm produces autistic kids. I wouldn’t make a good parent of an autistic cause I would treat/him like a normal kid. So do your chores and 2 hours of reading and don’t fuss. Better to not marry an older man for myself. I don’t want to be a widow, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:39 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] how many of you can honestly say that you would date yourself if you were a woman?The male version of me wouldn’t be able to attract me.. yea I’d date, try, but I’d have no chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:35 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Question for single women with "traditional values" and who are looking to get married and be stay-at-home-moms: do you really enjoy cooking and cleaning?I wanna be a sahm one day. I do enjoy cleaning, but cooking isn’t my strong point. My bf is actually a very good cook and he will teach me a thing or two when we live together. I am actually more interested in the raising and care of my future kids, educating them from home and learning along the way. But it’ll be some time before all that. My bf has no issue in teaching me how to cook better. Because I have to teach him how to clean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: What is the gender ratio of your gym?Why does the siren go off though? Loud clangs and bangs are normal with gym equipment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Those who are extremely prejudice have a hard time finding someoneMy mom is, I grew up UMC but now I’m on the lower end as an adult. I used to be pretty open-minded, but it led to me hanging out with people that were toxic, or negative, or just not good for me. People my mom didn’t approve of. Maybe my bf is UMC? I’m not sure. But he has his reservations about other people for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | What do men consider to be "Masculine" and "Feminine" traits?The woman that like them have yellow fever.. they like the physical features of asian men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Those who are extremely prejudice have a hard time finding someoneMy bf and I make snap judgements. I learned it from my mom.. UMC and very judgey. If she sees tattoos on a woman (and men) especially visible tattoos on arms, chest, face, and piercings, my mom just assumes that person is low class garbage lol. My mom had no problem getting wifed up and never divorcing. My bf comes from a middle class family too and he has his judgements about people. We found eachother so.. snobbish people tend to hook up with other snobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: What is the gender ratio of your gym?Isn’t PF that weird gym where a siren will go off if someone makes a loud noise, such as dropping a weight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: What is the gender ratio of your gym?Mostly men in the free weights area. 50/50 on the track, and in the cardio areas it just depends on time of day. After the time of day people get off work, there are more men in the cardio area. But there are always more men in the free weights area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 07:40 AM |
| 2 | What made you spit the pillRPW advice wasn’t working. Couldn’t score husband quality type men until I ditched the doormat philosophy and started embracing my actual self. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | "Women" these daysGrew up without a mom? Or teachers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | "Women" these daysYa I’ve never met a BPD woman IRL before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Good news for r/FDSI’m happy I won’t hit the wall until I’m in my 40’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Every Single PPD Woman Would Be an Incel if She Was a GuyNah cause probably if I were born a guy I’d be successful like my hapa half brothers. One is a big IT software developer who has worked for NASA, he has lots of money and a wife, the other is a Lt. Col in the Air Force with a white wife. The hapa males in my family do pretty well for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Every Single PPD Woman Would Be an Incel if She Was a GuyI’d use my half asianess to get koreaboo white girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 10:18 PM |
| 18 | Men hate single moms because they can’t get easy sex from them.My best friend was a single mom, then I introduced her to a colleague from my work. They’ve been together for 2 years and he proposed to her on Christmas. Oh and for male lurkers.. when they first started talking, she had facial piercings and she has several tattoos. Those horrible things “good” women shouldn’t have 🙄 but my colleague was very attracted to her big blue eyes and pretty smile. The guys who hate single moms are just immature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 02:00 AM |
| 3 | To whomsoever it may concernYep.. when terrible people (certain types of pillers) say that us asian women have purple pussies and it’s ugly.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 01:52 AM |
| 42 | Raising kids is the easy way out?LVM call moms “moochers” and “leeches”. HVM value and support their partner to raise their young. They make great dads and set an amazing example for their children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:05 AM |
| 23 | Men should be bodyshamed moreI don’t like skinny men. They look like they’re starving, and cuddling them feels like resting your head on a pile on cinder blocks.. they look nasty without clothes on, with their visible rib bones ewww. I body shame them frequently lol. I like a thick, strong, muscular man. A little chub on top of that muscle doesn’t hurt. MMA fighters have nice bodies. Not too big, not too skinny. I like strength. I like the discipline it takes to build muscle. Most important, I like a man that can EAT. I dat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: Do you feel you were ever "used" by some of your partners? For money, sex, emotional support which wasn't reciprocated or anything of sort?My second boyfriend. Money/nice things or gifts. Pretty sure he was after my house also.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 02:38 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Think of the least conventionally attractive guy that youve actually DONE A SEX WITH, describe him, and what qualities did he have that made up for his looks that made you want to bang?My second boyfriend who was part black. The black made him a bit ugly in the face. He had nappy hair too.. which was undesirable but I looked past it.. otherwise light skinned, 6 ft, medium build, popular guy in town because he went to the local high school and everybody knew everyone else. he tried real hard to be a country boy type of guy.. had a 1990-something toyota tundra that he used for off-roading fun and he went hard on the dirt roads. That was our first date and his “rough boy” exterio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Myth about "female nature" and hypergamyYa maybe if my bf turned into a shitty person but I don’t think it would be wise to branch swing onto someone else. Just break up and be on your way. By all means when you’re ready to be w someone again then find someone better. What’s wrong with upgrading | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 09:03 AM |
| 0 | Myth about "female nature" and hypergamyI thought the post was saying that men tend to do it as well and saying NAWALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Myth about "female nature" and hypergamyWell I’d say my man and I are the same in terms of looks, to him he thinks I look better but you know how boyfriends are. I still wouldn’t dump my bf for a hotter guy.. again, what good would it be to waste months of connection and bonding? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Incels are holding out for some HB9 to marry.Yes that’s what I said.. they ugly af inside and out. Can’t get their looksmatch because their standards are too high.. if they worked on their personality, despite their looks they could get a cute girly or someone that isn’t model tier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Myth about "female nature" and hypergamyA rich dude pays for everything too, but he’s not my bf. It’s my bf’s choice to practice trad gender roles in our relationship, it’s my choice to do it too in OUR relationship. As long as we’re happy and enjoying OUR relationship then why do you care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 11:02 PM |
| 24 | Incels are holding out for some HB9 to marry.It would be understandable if they were good looking themselves, but you KNOW they’re not. From observation, I have noticed an increasing amount of white nationalists amongst incel subs. So that may be why they only want fair skinned women... incels follow men like Stefan Molyneux.. who is a friggin weirdo obsessed with women’s ovaries and thinks white people need to all settle down and have children. What do you know, incels are also strangely obsessed with ovaries and think white women need to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Who should pay the bill on dates?You sure are getting a lot of hate for just being you and sharing your experience.. you’re not forcing it on anyone nor telling anyone YOU GOTTA DO IT THIS WAY.. you’re just saying what you do and everyone is getting mad... These people never heard of live and let live? Kandyapplez is happy with her man and this bothers you haters because? Is she hurting you? Is her man hurting you? Well put on a bandaid and get the heck over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Who should pay the bill on dates?Absolutely. If he WANTS you, he will pay for you. Not just food but he’ll pick you up and take you out to do stuff. My boyfriend has told me that men who don’t take care of their lady just don’t care about them that much and aren’t serious. That is the distinction.. serious vs. someone who just wants to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Who should pay the bill on dates?I think splitting with an LTR or anyone really shows lack of investment. Or saying lowkey “I won’t take care of you, take care of yourself”. My mom and I just took my friend and her grandma out to eat the other day.. my mom and I covered it, because we asked them to join us. It would have been really rude of us to tell them to pay for themselves, IMO. They offered to fill up our tank, we told them next time. We ain’t greedy. My boyfriend INSISTS on paying for everything if we go out to eat, or i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 09:50 AM |
| 2 | What is your favorite male archetype in movies and literature?Captain America from the Marvel movies. Yea the actor who plays him is hot, that helps for sure, but his character and personality is very attractive. Wants to help people and wants to do the right thing. Doesn’t fuck around with a bunch of women— he has interest in just one and even goes back in time to change his future to be with her. A male unicorn pretty much. Wholesome fella. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Its Saturday afternoon and you're spending time at home with your husband or boyfriend. He politely asks you to make him a sandwich. How do you respond?I ask him what he wants on it, does he want the bread toasted, and what he wants to drink. I make his then I make mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Q4women: do you ever turn down sex with your SO?Period, if I’m sick, or sore from previous sexy time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 09:17 AM |
| 0 | Myth about "female nature" and hypergamyIf hypergamy was true for all women then I’d be with some rich dude already.. going on trips to Cabo and getting spoiled like how rich boyfriends spoil their girlfriend. But that ain’t happening lol. Doesn’t matter how rich the fella is.. he isn’t my bf. Like yeah I’ll just piss away months of laughs, tears, joy, intimacy, and connection for some high roller rando. No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 09:13 AM |
| 0 | Q4all for those of you who disagree with rp tactics, what is the best most effective way for a man to obtain casual sex?I’m not sure what you mean exactly.. But uh, from what I’ve observed, they’re not exactly the sweet little housewife or mom that smiles and waves at everyone. They’re probably more likely to be a dog or cat mom, hates children, and wants pleasure to fuck without strings attached. They’re very serious and some are straight up bitches, like super grumpy, mean, thinks others are beneath them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4all for those of you who disagree with rp tactics, what is the best most effective way for a man to obtain casual sex?Yup, sounds like my INTJ buddies. They’re pretty cold. But I think that’s why they’re so good at getting casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | So like what's the dating and culture difference in the US MC and UMC?You can definitely live comfortably on 50k in the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | What would disqualify a potential LTR or spouse in your opinionDoesn’t want chickens, or live in the country to have chickens Reckless spender, makes dumb impulsive choices Drug user/alcoholic, or even a pro-cannabis nutjob Overly religous or athiest General immaturity and lifestyle differences The chicken thing isn’t even a huge deal, because in the future I want to buy my own home and property under my name, so I’ll have chickens whether my man likes it or not. My house, my rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that women always push for cohabitation as early as possible? Do you think cohabitation benefits women more than men?In my past relationships, it was always the men saying “we should live together!” first. Even my current SO talks about living together (before marriage) and I’m just like... no. I don’t think cohabitation benefits me, as a woman. I like living on my own. I actually find it pretty frustrating to live with other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Q4all for those of you who disagree with rp tactics, what is the best most effective way for a man to obtain casual sex?Uptight nerds uncomfortable with casual sex sound like those types that make decisions based off of their beliefs/values. My first thought would be INFP’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 04:56 PM |
| 0 | To what extent is sexual attraction determined by biology and society?Dude, she was TOO tiny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 04:45 PM |
| 2 | To what extent is sexual attraction determined by biology and society?Marilyn was curvy, but she was petite. She was not like Kim K thicc or what curvy is today. I’m tallish and lean for a woman, and my hips are actually bigger than Marilyn’s. And when random people look at me, they assume I’m a size 2 or less, when I tell them I’m a size 9 it blows them away. I can’t even imagine how small Marilyn was. 35-22-35 are her measurements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 04:45 PM |
| 11 | There's no such thing as a "looksmatch". Don't let ugly men make you feel bad about your high standards or shame you into dating them!Yea I think 10s tend to go for acting careers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 3 | The increasing disparity in American dating can probably be blamed on the internet, but I think it’s a statistical problem instead of a cultural one.Ah yea. That’s the go-to for military men as well, marrying foreign nationals. I’ve also watched enough 90 Day Fiance to know that’s true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4all for those of you who disagree with rp tactics, what is the best most effective way for a man to obtain casual sex?Idk what INTJ’s you know.. the ones I know are masters at hooking up on tinder. Meanwhile my ISFP ass can’t have sex without love/connection involved. But INTJ’s can just go at it without any romance needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 03:52 PM |
| 38 | AITA post about guy who brought his wife a christmas Roomba attracts shameless PickmeishaSucking dick for a damn vacuum. She has extremely low standards for herself. SMH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 09:48 AM |
| 37 | There's no such thing as a "looksmatch". Don't let ugly men make you feel bad about your high standards or shame you into dating them!No way.. I’ve seen 10s. There are some hot men out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 09:33 AM |
| 18 | who’s gonna tell ha...Sounds like she’s taking care of two babies. I’m a terrible grumpy witch in the mornings, I can’t imagine ironing my man’s clothes and doing all that extra stuff at what..? 5AM? 4AM? Hell no. I need my 12 hours of beauty rest lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you like dad bods?I’m fit af and I love thicc men.. thicc can be healthy, too. The leanest I will go is Captain Murica’s body in the first Captain Murica movie. Anything less than that looks like a featherless chicken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you like dad bods?Muscular chubby or thicc men are the BEST. I am a 24 yr old female. In my past relationships I was with tall and skinny men, but my eyes have always wandered to the men with wide shoulders and big arms. I used to tell my exes to eat more and go to the gym... I wasn’t satisfied with them. I learned that some body types simply aren’t suited for the muscle and fat. It has to be natural. Yeah, skinny white boys are tall but their shoulders are so narrow.. thicc white boys >>> all day everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Only Competent Women are LTR MaterialYa my bf just wants not-a-bum, a nice woman, pretty, good lifestyle choices, educated, good work ethic, etc. motherly attributes as well. He wants kids and a SAHM/SAHW eventually, he is a simple guy, It’s the childfree people that want donald trump tier women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Only Competent Women are LTR MaterialEveryone has a different definition of what competent is though. In another thread some rando called me worthless cause I’m not some rich lady, but my bf really admires my work ethic and my desire to serve the country. He likes that I know a lot about animal husbandry and gardening, cause he wants a lil farm when he settles down. But like that rando, some guys don’t like what I’m doing or what women like me are doing. A woman doesn’t have to be a CEO of a company or some STEM employee to be LTR … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 08:48 AM |
| 3 | What separates a confident woman from a shy woman in the dating market?Which is good if you don’t want to be approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 08:39 AM |
| 0 | The increasing disparity in American dating can probably be blamed on the internet, but I think it’s a statistical problem instead of a cultural one.How do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 08:37 AM |
| 0 | Q4all for those of you who disagree with rp tactics, what is the best most effective way for a man to obtain casual sex?They need to hook up with INTJ women. Avoid all the feely type girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.Women need to delete them from their social media, instead of accepting random friend/follow requests from thirsty weirdos. But SADLY, many women do not. I only have 24 friends on my FB and it’s fine. Don’t know why others need 600 randos on theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 08:30 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy posts will be removed until Monday.To each their own. It’s all about choice. You made the distinction “like men”, so I said I’d rather be a regular woman. Regular women can be anything they want. I’m not sure why you’re so salty dude, I’m going in the Air Force. IMO people in the AF do some pretty cool stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 08:13 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy posts will be removed until Monday.Nah I’d rather be a regular woman, work, and be a wifey/mom. Men and women are different and that’s the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 08:06 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy posts will be removed until Monday.Well I’m not really a female empowerment activist.. I was raised differently and my parents set a different example for me than other parents did. My dad made enough where he didn’t REQUIRE my mom to work, she had a career before she married though. I’m not particularly career driven, I’m 24 and don’t know what to do, so I’m joining the military to let uncle sam choose for me. After my 6 year enlistment my bf wants to have kids so then I’ll get to be a mommy (which is a full-time job in itself).… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.Eastern europe. Eastern europeans are trying hella hard to get old American husbands for that sweet, sweet green card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 05:51 PM |
| 23 | If a guy likes you, nothing will stop him from trying to connect with you.My dad used to walk miles through wind, rain, and snow to visit my mom while she was working at a restaurant. That was back in the day of no cell phones. Truly, if a man likes you, he’ll do anything to see you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | 30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share.Maybe they don’t talk about it much because in America, having defected children is widely acceptable, and you can even end up on TV as a parent of a disabled child. Like, it’s really praised here. Americans give them very special treatment and they talk to them/treat them like they’re all puppies. When in reality, depending on the severity, they’re a real burden to a family. Some autistic people have to live with their parents until their parents pass away, then becoming homeless, cause they ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | 30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share.Bless the healthy asian people. My mom had me at 43 and looked young into her 50’s, she started to get old looking due to getting cancer and stress of it. Chemo really does a number on the body. But, when she was fertile and healthy, she was getting carded at casinos and bars with my dad. My mom didn’t have any children before me so maybe that’s why she was able to stay fertile and healthy for longer? I think I’ve seen some younger moms who already “hit the wall” cause they’re fat af, white wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 04:37 PM |
| 16 | 30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share.What about older men’s sperm quality deteriorating? The older the man, the more risk of getting an autistic child ._. For women it’s just possible down syndrome kids or birth issues (prob gon need a c section). There was a study done on thousands of Icelandic people where it showed age 35+ men having a higher risk of passing mutated genes. Come to think of it.. I have noticed at school and such, that autistic people have old ass dads.. makes me glad my bf is a lil younger than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Men who refuse to buy flowers are LV by defaultI never said weekly.. like for a once in a while thing is cool. Me personally I don’t like getting flowers every week. Different strokes for different folks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 05:56 PM |
| 7 | Men who refuse to buy flowers are LV by defaultAbsolutely. Luxury roses are a must.. I like Roseshire roses. Boquets are like $70-80 at the cheapest, but the right man will get them for you if he is serious about you. Also if you buy from a luxury rose website, you can purchase roses that won’t die and can last up to a year or more. Men who don’t get this are low value. Regular roses are OK too.. but stick to roses. Those “variety” boquets with sunflowers and random crap flowers are friendship type of flowers, not romantic. They’re the cheap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | The impact of video game/internet addiction to the dating/social lives of young adultsJust get into trouble without getting arrested. For example, my friend and I used to ride our bikes around the neighborhood. When we were like 11/12 years old. There was this one guy who had a swingset on his property, but he had no fence. My friend and I would use the swings lol. Until he came out and yelled at us to get off his property, then we ran back to our bikes. He eventually got a fence lol. Sneak into old abandoned buildings/properties. TP a house, egg a house. My garage door got egged… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 06:13 PM |
| 7 | FDS and Long Distance RelationshipsI’m in an LDR. My man lives in the Netherlands, I live in the US. For me it works because he’s really needy for my attention, I’m a bit more aloof/need time to myself, but he always wants to talk to me. We video chat pretty frequently. He is visiting in a few weeks and he paid for the airbnb we’ll be staying in, plus the rental car, plus any other expenses while he stays over here. I don’t have to do anything except show up. I’m getting him from the airport and we’ll be together 24/7 pretty much… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:45 AM |
| 3 | How to keep myself busy?Do you have a wildlife rescue near you? Volunteering to take care of critters is always a good way to keep busy :) you may even be lucky enough to hold a cute baby bird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:24 AM |
| 7 | when I find the one she can delete my tinderHe has no neck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:21 AM |
| 1 | What are your dealbreakers?I don’t want hate for disagreeing.. imo it’s OK if it’s for food. Fishing, too. The best catfish soup I have ever had was from my mom catching a big catfish in a net. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:20 AM |
| 1 | What are your dealbreakers?An anime or comic mega fan (no I don’t want to go to comic con with you or hear you talk about marvel/DC crap), if their main hobby is video game playing, if they are unfamiliar with handy work and labor, vegan/vegetarian, poor hygiene, doesn’t like farm animals, doesn’t like to go outside, will fetishize my nationality/culture, has a track record of dating only asian women, doesn’t like travelling, if they wanna live in a trailer park, no cars or means of transportation is a dealbreaker, no job… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:15 AM |
| 3 | My profile stated my love language is “receiving gifts”Why’d he have to type all that? Just unmatch and move on Mr. Whiney. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy posts will be removed until Monday.McDonald’s and fine dining are two extremes. You don’t gotta go to a $$$ french 3 course meal place. Be creative.. getting a bowl of pho or ramen is a nice date and inexpensive. Pho is like 7.99 a bowl at most places for just the rare steak variety. 9.99 if you want all the meat stuff in it. Not expensive. If a guy can’t afford a bowl of pho, then he probably shouldn’t be dating. If the person is the main focus, then skip the fast food joint as a first date. That’s a terrible first impression. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 03:50 AM |
| 3 | The impact of video game/internet addiction to the dating/social lives of young adultsI guess people don’t know how, or really worry that they will be called abusers for whacking their kid with a flip flop, or yelling at their kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 03:30 AM |
| 3 | The impact of video game/internet addiction to the dating/social lives of young adultsSounds like I need to put chicken poop inside your shoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | The impact of video game/internet addiction to the dating/social lives of young adultsSo you’d gasp at seeing a chicken IRL? If you live in a city, you can see chickens at zoos, zoos usually have a petting zoo area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do Boomers and Gen X men honestly think Millennial and Gen Z women want to date them? The “Ok Boomer” meme came about because we literally can’t stand you.Millennial here raised by boomers. Boomers are OK in my book. Wouldn’t date one though, they’re too old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you react if your boyfriend lied to you about his financial situation?I’d understand his reasoning. Then ask him if we could get some chickens. That is the important question and precedes all decision making from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | It's ridiculous that a woman can sleep with another woman and still claim she's straight.I wouldn’t either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 07:05 PM |
| 2 | The impact of video game/internet addiction to the dating/social lives of young adultsI was born in the 90’s. Not that far back. I don’t want to hang out with young people anyway. I always befriend older people at work, they’re a lot more interesting and knowledgable. I’ve seen young people literally gasp at seeing a live CHICKEN (I keep chickens). Like they’ve never seen a chicken. That is some different level of fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The impact of video game/internet addiction to the dating/social lives of young adultsDid they look like their pictures? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 06:56 PM |
| 3 | The impact of video game/internet addiction to the dating/social lives of young adultsGetting into trouble is a part of childhood. Give kids bikes and let them go crazy. Weenie parents will be weenie parents. Don’t the moms spend time with their little ones? What the hell do corporations make toddler toys for if parents aren’t using them? I hate seeing kids in strollers glued to tablet screens. I saw that a lot while hitting up tourist spots in AZ some years back. Those same rugrats will scream bloody murder if you take the tablet away from them. And UMC parents don’t discipline … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 06:51 PM |
| 6 | The impact of video game/internet addiction to the dating/social lives of young adultsHow fucked are they? Pretty fucked. Pretty much everyone at my school looks at their phones instead of striking up convo with eachother, like normal, healthy adults. Which is why I like working, because I like talking to others. I often hear that people DREAD socializing at work/school.. like damn, it’s that bad? Introverted doesn’t mean anti-social. It means you can hang out, have a good time, you just need time to yourself afterwards. I played VRchat a couple of times and I found the concept t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | And the male equivalent of big boobs is?Most of my short booby friends develop bad posture due to their boobs being heavy, and frequent phone usage. I feel for them because while they have the advantage of chest, a lot of men overlook their other features, and they generally have a harder time with everything else, where as handful sized booby women have it easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Spending your time worrying about what's beta and what's not makes you a beta.Nope. He really believes men on forums like these are socially awkward or autistic, hence why they have problems with women in the first place. He also thinks they’re toxic. He barely talks about manosphere topics, except when he refers to his male colleagues as betas. But he doesn’t over analyze or really get into it. I don’t think he uses “beta” in the RP way either.. more to describe weak, undisciplined men vs. strong, capable men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | It's ridiculous that a woman can sleep with another woman and still claim she's straight.Oh my bad. Yes, it is strange, but some people are really disgusted by genitalia. It could be the only ladies he’s been with had the larger labia minora, or they smelled bad due to bad hygiene, or they didn’t shave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 06:13 PM |
| 2 | And the male equivalent of big boobs is?Yea my bf is a big guy and people assume that he’s a douche, or he’s mean (he doesn’t smile unless given a reason to), but he is really a big softy. But I absolutely love his upper body. He can move his pecs like Terry Crews. He has big arms that I always cling to. I can’t imagine him being any skinnier.. skipping arm and chest day sounds really weird to me. Can you pick up and carry your lady friends no problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Spending your time worrying about what's beta and what's not makes you a beta.I showed my bf this post and he agreed. He says his success is done by avoiding social media and forums like manosphere reddits. He also says it’s OK that I peruse reddit cause I’m a woman lol. “It’s what women do, that’s a women thing” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | It's ridiculous that a woman can sleep with another woman and still claim she's straight.I think most men generally prefer the simp type of vagina? They both had simps, I’m just not a guy so I don’t like them. My boyfriend loves doing it, he says it’s natural for him. Like it’s natural for me to reciprocate his pleasure. Similarily I don’t understand the female attraction to cut penises.. I truly believe natural looks better and more enticing than a mutilated one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 05:50 PM |
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