YoU nEeD To CoMmUnIcAtE!!1!!

CatsOnTheLaptopAgain · 2020-02-23T21:07:42+00:00

'I have neither the time nor the crayons to explain this to you'. :p

DelicateDream · 2020-02-23T23:46:10+00:00

Also remember NO JADE

No

Justifying
Arguing
Defending
Explaining

I’d also add no teaching, scolding or training.

Communication is about expressing unapologetically what you need and want and feel and shouldn’t require a therapy session to help him develop the empathy a 2nd grader has, nor should it require a drawn out defense of why subjective feelings are valid.

rinabean · 2020-02-23T20:58:34+00:00

It's sad how many women buy this nonsense that they're responsible for raising & teaching a grown man!

delicateearthbabe · 2020-02-23T19:55:44+00:00

"Walking over talking" are words to live by

MagicAte_8 · 2020-02-24T01:26:54+00:00

Once is a mistake. TWICE is a habit. Communication can't solve the moral and mental failings of men. 😒😒

kokisses37 · 2020-02-24T03:12:15+00:00

THIS!!!! One hundred percent. I’m no longer teaching a man how to treat me with common courtesy. Yes, you have to learn how to love someone, learn their habits, what’s makes them happy, what makes them sad, allergies, likes and dislikes.... but I REFUSE to ‘teach’ someone how to call when they can’t make dates, how to not cheat, how to express themselves without getting violent, how trying to confine me in one space is not acceptable, how NO MEANS NO, how just because you took me on date doesn’t mean I should sleep with you, or how to support me during the times I don’t have faith in myself.

Im no longer explaining why I don’t Fuck with people.

FluffandRainclouds · 2020-02-24T04:05:34+00:00

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grand_tiremaster · 2020-02-23T23:01:52+00:00

I’m an ISFP and when it comes to conflicts, I tend to think to myself and revisit the issue later.

Title	YoU nEeD To CoMmUnIcAtE!!1!!
Author	AlienUtterings
Upvotes	460
Comments	15
Date	February 23, 2020 7:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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