| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 51 | Found this on wtf, he asks her to have his kid at gun point. Nice. | MALE DEPRAVITY | ana-moss-city | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 07:25 AM |
| 50 | Trauma bounding. | DISCUSSION | ana-moss-city | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 42 | I honestly think that when women say they want a nice guy this is what we are talking about. This man is masculine but also very sensitive and kind to his wife, it is so nice and attractive. thoughts?I feel like this show/ character was written by a woman.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:14 PM |
| 39 | FunnyHahaha right, I love their facial expressions aswell, sarcasm so clear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:58 PM |
| 19 | Honestly nicer than most places I’ve been for dates (Waffle House and then Walmart)Bhahaha incinerated!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:22 PM |
| 14 | LVM need not apply 💁🏼♀️👑Ngl, some of that poetry isnt half bad tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 6 | I love when she says “low effort might work at the first stages of the relationship, but I guarantee you that you will be pissed in a few years, when he puts in 0 effort into doing anything for you...don’t set yourself up for failure like that, be firm in what you want”Can someone explain, why she set the rose on fire, what's it supposed to symbolise? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 07:48 PM |
| 29 | SIS.. trust me when I say absolutely NOBODY wants your LVM. Embarrassing.I'd be out so fast, i would catch whiplash! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Fucking disgusting indeed! 🤢🤮Oh that reassuring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 10:00 PM |
| 14 | Fucking disgusting indeed! 🤢🤮What did i read. Motor oil and toothpaste, how? Is this a real product or just a joke? Edit: Googled it, it's real alright 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:56 PM |
| 5 | I'm just focusing on myself!Ohh, i also got beach! Along with hope and butt, I'm not complaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:31 PM |
| 15 | This video on Tiktok made me think of FDS ^_^ she’s got other videos on similar topics @youcancallmerachI know right! Preach sis🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 21 | Im fed up of my mom asking me to wear a bra at home!!It's sad, but that's a typical Indian mum's attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 13 | LVM in my local area: a play in three acts with a shocking twist ending.🤣🤣🤣 Oh my god! I'm dead! The audacity! I gasped from shock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:10 PM |
| 5 | My desi aunt and uncle are looking for a daughter in law. Sign up with the name of the woman you hate.I agree, sure it has regressive aspects, but both parties are aware of what they are entering into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 18 | On Saying NoWow, that's a powerful quote. This is a tricky lesson to learn, in academics or at work the general norm is more you put in, the more you get. This is not the case in relationships, i think this mindset is what leads to so many successful women trapped in dead end relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Money is power. Why financial independence and security is important.Oh cheers, thought perhaps it was code for something else, like pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Money is power. Why financial independence and security is important.What is a pickachu? I 100% agree, financial independence is very important! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 6 | To all the ladies who think weekly flowers is asking too much... he buys me a new bouquet even when last weeks is doing fine. You deserve to be spoiled.They are beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:12 PM |
| 10 | What's your opinion on having male friends (purely platonic)?This is very well put, i also this is about emotional boundaries. If a man in a relationship confided in a male best friend, its socially acceptable but if said said best friend is female, it can infringe on emotional cheating territory, and visa versa. Definition of friendship is very fluid in my society, and can include varying levels of physical intimacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 10 | Creative men of TinderWell, that escalated quickly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:39 PM |
| 15 | If the only thing special about him is that you like him, it’s time to move onWelp, better late than never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | I hate this channelThis, on my dayss, but tbh i can empathise, what good is a high paying job if you have no one to share it with... Hallmarked movie are my guilty Christmas binge, where i allow myself the delusion of a happy every after, as supposed to the negotiation it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 09:24 PM |
| 42 | You know if a woman had done this she would have been roasted in the commentsHow is this even real? Shm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Here's a great(and fun) way to out filter men, that me and my friends have tried and has been proven accurateI love this list, curve anyone whos into nietzsche even kafka tbh. Personally i am huge fan of dostoevsky, he soothes my soul , i preferred notes from the underground and the idiot over brothers karamazoa, i wouldn't go as far as saying it makes them misanthropic. It is difficult to find a dude who read philosophy objectively and isn't a self-righteous asshole, who's head is far up his own ass. Unicorns really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Comedy hour: A self-described Chad on what he has to offer HVW 🤣🤣Honestly, this idea is more prevalent than you would think. Or perhaps I have interacted without boundaries one too many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 07:17 AM |
| 40 | Why You Should Cultivate a Great Social Life as a FDS WomanThis is a beautiful, where were you 2 years ago?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Guy I knew for 2 weeks and slept with 8 years ago has msg’d me until 2016 (and I ignored him for the most part). 4 years later, He’s back. He’s now married, has a son and has suddenly “thought of me”.Happy cake day =) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Guy I knew for 2 weeks and slept with 8 years ago has msg’d me until 2016 (and I ignored him for the most part). 4 years later, He’s back. He’s now married, has a son and has suddenly “thought of me”.Even if you tell her, I dought she would leave. I mean you would have to be in rought place mentally to legally bind yourself to this man. Creeps are creepy in all facets of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:37 AM |
| 12 | Good Morning Goomah : A Talk Show For Pick Mes (SNL Skit)Or worst they relate to it and find it funny in a non satirical sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:33 AM |
| 15 | Don't do it, ladiesHahaha its truly liberating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 09:57 PM |
| 29 | Husband did a LVM thing today"Gutter goblin" hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 05:23 AM |
| 15 | LVM Logic: 50/50 is always fair 🤡I love this visual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 12:54 AM |
| 7 | Unfollow that ExPreach!! Block and keep it moving sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | WhAt ShOuLd I dO?No one is ever that drunk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Can this become an FDS meme symbol for a LVM lol?Haha, well you gotta hit rock bottom to bounce back. It isn't about trust, just being responsible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:08 PM |
| 6 | He's here to BREED, not to READ, ladies! Form an orderly line, please!You know, i have a tendency to go off into my la la land, where there are happy ending etc. Etc. This sub bring me crashing back to reality. I'm truly thankful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:12 AM |
| 8 | An update to the emotional cheating thread from yesterday, most commenters: tHeY'rE jUsT fRiEnDsAhh you know what, ma bad. I skimmed through the text, this does cross boundaries. Yeah okay i cant defend this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:51 PM |
| 16 | He said "fuck you" to me in a text, then dumped me when I was sad about itLol, be greatful!! The trash took its self out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Forgive yourself for falling for them. Forgiving yourself for letting them in. Forgive yourself. Let go of that anger projecting onto them. It’s ok. You know better now. Forget them.Ohh my mantra! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:39 PM |
| -17 | An update to the emotional cheating thread from yesterday, most commenters: tHeY'rE jUsT fRiEnDsIs this emotional cheating? Idk, i mean if friend was a guy this would be okay right? Besides its unrealistical to expect a romantic relationship to be your whole emotional support, its easier to talk to a stranger since they have no real effect on your life. Where is the line between confiding in a friend vs emotional cheating? Also we are only getting the girlfriends perspective, which can be tainted aith insecurities, its just one prespective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:39 PM |
| 11 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Dammmn sis, speaking the truth out here 👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:26 PM |
| 8 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Dammmn, where did he get all the confidences?!?! where can i get me some of that. The AUDACITY! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 16 | "He is hesitant because he lives far away." BS!How is this real? How are you doing this? Where i fine these wholesome men?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:07 PM |
| 8 | What should you do when you have a tendency attract LVM and the "loser" type of guys?Level up, Level upLevelupLevelupLevelup - Ciara Applicable to this situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Shallon Lester - Should you tell a guy you like him?I like it, wish i knew this earlier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:58 PM |
| 17 | Men: You get what you giveBhahaha voluptuous hips!! I think called a barr body (medically) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:56 PM |
| 29 | "I ignored everything I read in the FDS handbook, is this relationship still salvageable???"Of beer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:45 PM |
| 10 | In one sentence, comment your best dating advice...GO!Yh but I also don't want to be stuck on a dinner date, know 2 mins i don't want to be there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:00 PM |
| 13 | After losing 150 lbs, they always come crawling back"male friends do not exist" I love the bluntness. Here for it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 10:56 PM |
| -2 | Save time, energy and emotions. From my experience it usually gets WAY WORSE, not even a little better.Chuckin up them (deuces) I told you that I'm leaving (deuces) I know you're mad, but so what I wish you best of luck And now I'm finna throw them deuces up - Chris Brown ✌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 12:53 AM |
| 9 | How can i get over my LVM ex?Anything you haven't done before, start painting, join a yoga class, do BRUNCH. bake. Work on your job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 12:48 AM |
| 26 | How can i get over my LVM ex?Ahhh the ego, works in weird ways. You dont really really want him back, do you really want to be with a cheater? your ego is hurt you want to create a situation where you can stick it to him. Forgiveness is the key, forgive yourself for being stupid, shake your swlf off and try new stuff. Keep trying new stuff till you are a new you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 12:45 AM |
| 7 | THANK GODOooffff, sad to say now a days thats a big ask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 02:04 PM |
| 8 | Looking dumb or incapable on purpose just to make a man feel better is problematic.Yup relatable, but to be honest I curve conversion away from any topic that displays my knowledge, mainly because I don't feel comfortable in the "teaching" role, I'm genuinely like exploring topics im not familiar with. Statistically women but more educated than men, so to expect a potential partner to be equally yolked might not be possible. But yh stimulating conversations, emotional/financial intelligence are non negotiables. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 09:39 PM |
| 26 | Rolanda Hollis proposes bill requiring men have vasectomies at age 50. “Year after year the majority party continues to introduce new legislation that tries to dictate a woman's body and her reproductive rights. We should view this as the same outrageous overstep in authority," she said.Tje spiteful part of me is here for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 06:52 AM |
| 4 | Do not be that girl.... Not all men are like that, my father has done a tremendous lot for me, I just want to provide that for the next gen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Do not be that girl.I mean, daddy issues are reallll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:43 PM |
| 15 | Do not be that girl.It's hosestly appealing to me to, but I worry about not being enough. In the sense 2 people can provide better than one (finical, emotional, different prespective), a good male role model is an important as a good female role model. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:42 PM |
| 13 | YoU nEeD To CoMmUnIcAtE!!1!!we call them baby, they become our son. Or maybe this is an example of correlation with out causation, just ma thoughts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | I am DEAD!!!😂Amen to that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Trauma bounding.No, not really. DIY for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Trauma bounding.A year and a half, okay so I have definitely been putting too much pressure on myself to be over this. Wish human emotions come with a factory reset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:32 PM |
| 11 | Trauma bounding.Oh, stay stronge you'll get through this. My situation isn't as complicated and pretty much over. It's like a state of congnative dissonance, just conflicting and opposing thoughts. I am actively trying to get rid of the pedestal. This really has very little to do with the person and more about my beliefs about relationships and obsessive tendencies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 7 | Trauma bounding.Problem with this is that you attach people based on who you are right. Last thing I wanna do it jump into a volcano from a fire. Decided I'll spend some time working through my beliefs before I go and try to build a friendship circle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:12 PM |
| 10 | Trauma bounding.I only reliased in retrospect. It's not like I valued my self respect/dignity and left. There's real shame, for allowing this to happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 10 | I hate how I constantly crave male attentionUghh lately I'm guilty of this too. Honestly I thought it was just my pick me traits flairing. Flirting is fun tho,--yh idk will wait for the strategists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to "Whaaaaat how are you single? You're so beautiful"?Love Matthew hussy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 07:54 PM |
| 4 | I removed him from instagram thanks to FDSGood for you sis! You saved your self time and emotional labour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 07:50 PM |
| 9 | Just because he works away doesn’t mean he forgets Valentine’s Day 💕Ahhh, this gives me hope! Good job OP, you have excellent taste 👌🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Don’t do it, sis!Oh I STRUGGLED with this. A thing that helped me was, to link a action to the impulse. So every time I would get the urge to creep, I would switch my hair band and from wrist to the other, and change my thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 7 | Scrotes talking about FDS on Reddit.Ooofff sis, rip em up👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 09:31 PM |
| 14 | Yikes, girl.Honestly, I kinda wanna defend her. We are told never give up, try again and again, you gotta put the work in, while this works in school/ work, sociaty forgets to mention its not applicable to relationships. HOPE is a double edged sword, maybe she hopes 20th time would be different, like an experiment changing a variable each time, didn't eddison make a light bulb 1000 times before it finally worked. So much time and labour has been invested, its too painful to cut your losses and take the L. S… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Can we not with this in 2020. All of this makes me vom.Damnnn, you're right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:33 PM |
| 5 | Can we not with this in 2020. All of this makes me vom.Wait. wait. Waiiiit a minute. The guy has minium SIX children. Yo how's he paying child support?!?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:24 PM |
| 15 | (22F) Use to be a LVW dating a HVM got dumped and now i regret itImo, going back isn't a good idea. You have created a pattern of behaviour with that man, it would be challenging for him to see you as a new person. It may also lead you to revert back to old ways. Maybe you only want to go back because the rebounds sucks. Better to learn from this experience and be a better partner in your next relationship. You're young, meet new people they'll teach you more about yourself, find your purpose in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:21 PM |
| 7 | Can we not with this in 2020. All of this makes me vom.How can he afford a ring on burger King salary let alone that ring. Also this is just sad, i feel for her man, all that pain, for what??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 10:07 PM |
| 7 | Me after discovering this subMe trying to put on my face before coffee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:52 AM |
| 17 | and I oop—Offff, that was hardcore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:43 PM |
| 8 | Reminder that if you find yourself psychoanalyzing a man, he's manipulating you.Cheers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 09:20 AM |
| 12 | Reminder that if you find yourself psychoanalyzing a man, he's manipulating you.Wait, where's the rest of it? I would like to read it, maybe drop the title? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:55 AM |
| 89 | Someone needs to hear this... Oh and that woman’s husband is NOT your soulmate 😂. Level up.So checked that subout. I wish I hadn't. I cant believe it actually exists. so cringe, not only do these women not value themselves there is no morals?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 03:31 PM |
| 5 | I created a Spotify playlist with all your recommendations.I'm having the same issue. It'll only let me shuffle play But I'm so here for this playlist👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 20 | Amen.Offfff, sis went hard...too bad experience is the best teacher | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 92 | Is there anything more suddenly feeble than a man being held accountable?I understand these men are too old to server their full sentences. But I feel oddly comforted knowing their legacy is ruined. A sense of karmic justice for the ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 10:32 AM |
| 6 | Midweek FDS Chat 1/8/20That's food for thought. The pitiful thing is, men mostly get bored and leave even after a woman makes herself small. I'm a former pickmeisha, in the process of revamping. Lastly do you have any good book recommendations on this, there's a lot of garbage out there, I'm tired of reading half away through a book only to find out I have wasted my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Midweek FDS Chat 1/8/20Thank you. But walking away might not always be a option (kids, finances) or simply because a woman wants to work on the relationship and not walk away. How to set boundaries in those situations? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:19 PM |
| – | Midweek FDS Chat 1/8/20Hello ladies, I'm pretty new to subreddit and to this philosophy generally. So I have a few questions: 1) what does OLD mean? 2) leveling up physically is pretty obvious but things like "setting boundaries", "practicing emotional intelligence", "self love" or what a "healthy" relationship looks like, are so vague. Can you shed some light on these topics? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 10:06 PM |
| 37 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.Oh my god, this is too relatable, is this is reflextion of poor boundaries or gaslighting? How do you break the cycle? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:51 PM |
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