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#JustLVMThingsdelicateearthbabe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:09 AM
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QUICK TIPdelicateearthbabe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:21 PM
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STRATEGYdelicateearthbabe/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:57 PM
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6

"Single" but has a wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:04 PM
13

Y I K E S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:26 AM
7

What the fuck is wrong with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:23 AM
8

So she's with a 12 year old guy with no washing machine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:01 AM
1

The girl from #2 he dated is a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:20 AM
7

The guy behind this account clearly knows nothing about Oedipus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:17 AM
9

It'd be like he's paying a cheating fee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:04 PM
12

Yes, really. I never text anyone back past 10 pm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:56 AM
7

I'm so furious and frustrated reading this, I want to hit him with a pan on his stupid head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:30 AM
6

No one should answer their phone at night, no matter the gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:21 AM
61

Sadly it's so obvious from just the title.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:01 AM
22

I'm glad my boyfriend payed for it when we needed it. On the other hand I shouldn't feel grateful for such a standard thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:23 AM
3

Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:56 AM
69

If my boyfriend proposes with a fake diamond I'm gonna say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:04 AM
2

Imagine his face if she'd done that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:04 AM
5

Is this supposed to be funny? Am I supposed to be attracted to this kind of humour? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:25 PM
25

My jars don't spark joy for you? Well, you don't spark joy for me either *throws boyfriend in the trash*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:35 AM
87

What. A. Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:28 AM
3

Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:34 AM
19

Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:16 AM
143

I usually answer with "I was sleeping, what's up?". They never know how to respond the next morning when they don't have their dick in their hand while texting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:56 AM
51

I know you want to scream into his face but you know how it goes — block & delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:48 AM
2

What the fuck is a roast beef labia supposed to be? Do men ever think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:16 PM
4

He needs help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:10 PM
25

My first thought too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:42 PM
13

The best approach would be to get rid of that asshole of a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:37 PM
9

Oh god, I remember that story. Nightmare stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:54 PM
35

I second the angry memories at guys who seem to can't stand you but for some reason refuse to break up with you and you don't do it either because somehow your past pick-me-self was blindly in love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:31 PM
10

Watched this movie yesterday and I hated it. It's so bad, I'm sad I wasted my time with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:23 AM
11

Your presence, personality and unique traits are all inconvenient for him! You just explained all my past relationships to me. Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:36 AM
17

Sounds like an extremely low value man to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:02 AM
8

What's it Michael? Would you pay her to fuck her or that she keeps quit about your asshole ways? Make up your mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:43 AM
4

If other girls don't get butt hurt like you then he is free to date the girls that don't get butthurt. What is his point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:31 AM
58

Racheal is my queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:21 AM
7

What the hell?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 08:29 AM
18

lmao, I love how he's all "I don't want you anymore" and then you're like "ok, that's fine" and he just goes on and on and on instead of leaving it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 08:10 AM
4

I have heard about this, but never tried it. Maybe I'm trying to sneak one or two of them into the conversation over dinner tonight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:45 AM
26

I wouldn't have discussed it any further, just told him "Alight, I don't want to meet up anymore." and block and unmatch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:09 AM
47

So technically he didn't answer your question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 06:14 PM
44

"It's not really weird or anything" Yes it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:59 PM
77

"Oh yeah, let me be rude for a second to the woman I'm potentially living with for a while, this is gonna score me the place" w h a t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:08 AM
167

If breasts aren't sexual body parts then why does he want to see them? I mean he's not asking for pictures of a left knee or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:31 PM
18

This quote explained my past in one sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:29 PM
7

Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:26 PM
78

As a general rule, don't answer texts from men at nighttime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:32 PM
5

Oh my god, I did that too. When a guy had a specific style I tried to match that so he would think I'm cool and "worthy". Thank god I have since figured out my own style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:36 AM
18

What does he even want? Why is he bothering you? He doesn't want to date you and he knows you don't want to just fuck, why is he still texting you? Why did he crawl out of the hole he was staying in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:31 AM
32

I'm intimidating? Good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:20 AM
2

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:12 AM
2

Why did you stay? Instead of sitting there, on a date, without a drink you should have left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:12 AM
8

There are absolutely great communities for male improvement out there who are actually helpful and men choose to joing this one Facebook group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:40 AM
48

OP should really go to HR about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:47 PM
6

I don't think OP meant a list to give a man but a list for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:38 PM
102

What the fuck did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:45 AM
15

Yeah, obviously it's you who needs to be nicer /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:39 AM
12

/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:30 AM
12

What the hell? He's so low I'm sure he has hit rock bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:03 PM
3

It means you should never see him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:39 AM
18

Does he really think he's gonna get other answers than "Okay, that's okay. I'll just move on then to someone who is."?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:36 AM
4

He's human scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:42 PM
2

I literally don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:37 PM
24

You really brought a point home with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:18 PM
17

No, they aren't that dumb. They know exactly what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:42 PM
12

It's so obvious he was trying to go down that low effort PUA lane 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:59 PM
5

I lived life like this for so long. I'm glad I'm not like this anymore and I'm proud of everyone who stopped behaving like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:08 PM
18

This! Everything he said reads like he's trying to follow some rules from a YouTube video on "How to make her fall in love with you in the first 5 minutes".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:04 PM
4

The Universal Studios are a amazing! I hope she has a fun time there while her husband is home fuming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:36 AM
12

"Men literally want to see less women in their world." Fair enough. I want to see less men in my world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:47 PM
6

Certainly my imaginary dick is a lot bigger than some of theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:45 PM
5

It's like they have the brain of a baby 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:43 PM
6

🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:31 PM
36

He uses XD, doesn't understand proper grammar and substitudes it with "internet speak" and ends with cya — goodbye 2020, hello 2007!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:28 PM
8

I have never tried dating apps and stories like this makes me want it to stay this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:06 PM
38

I'm in my late 20s too so I understand that's it's a weird transitional time but it's really not that deep and proper adulting shouldn't be a kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:40 PM
25

In my mind there is a low value man answering this with "No one sucks and that's my problem 😡".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:33 PM
19

I feel like this would have gotten upvotes on 9gag in 2012.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:31 PM
129

"I find it very attractive when a woman takes her obligations seriously" reads so weird. So he likes adult women being adult women and therefore doing what adult women so do? What? How old is he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:28 PM
20

Exactly that. Seconded all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:18 PM
59

The perfect example of someone throwing her whole man away. Well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:10 PM
22

I loved this song from the second Lover released and this video is everything I imagined it would be. The ending is perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:34 PM
2

You're a true queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:14 PM
2

What the fuck did I just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:39 PM
6

Which is why some guys dress like they are still 15. This is the last time their mothers bought them clothing and they refuse to do this themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:14 PM
14

So unless you look like Howard Stark or Charlie Swan you gotta shave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:26 AM
8

I rather not, Paul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:44 PM
9

Got my first hate mail a few days ago — this guy should've rather spent his time improving his life instead of getting blocked immediately and therefore wasting his time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:36 PM
9

Next step is being called "mommy" in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:31 PM
3

That's the kind of grammar that happens when he has his phone in one hand and his dick in the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:16 PM
31

Can't tell if he's trying to catfish or if he seriously idolizes Penn Badgley's character in You.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:08 PM
9

Not all men are the same! Some are worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:04 PM
5

Don't even need to read the article because this one line says it all already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:47 PM
7

I don't understand why you'd ever fight for a man's attention. If he's not looking my way, fine. I'm not gonna make a fool out of myself trying to make someone look my way who's not interested in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:36 PM
16

Damn! That's the kind of revenge success stories I am here for! I hope you bought yourself a real Hermès bangle from the money you made selling his things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:29 PM
27

On Today's News: "Man finds woman who is not miserable and is fascinated!" 🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:26 PM
25

I feel sick to my stomach reading this. I just want to hug OP and personally drag her out of this hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:22 PM
26

I hope she shoves that $6 ring up his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:03 PM
14

Thought exactly the same — take out Sushi is more expensive than that ring and some men have the audacity to call her a gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:00 PM
28

Yeah, you're so ungrateful for being deceived with a $15 knock off /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:58 PM
35

I wonder how this played out? Apparently he went to his friend who proposed with a real Tiffany ring and asked for the box. Can you imagine telling your friend "Hey bro, I'm gonna propose to my girlfriend with a $6 ring from Amazon, can I have your old Tiffany box so I can pretend I got the real deal for her? Yeah, nice bro. Thanks."? Literally what the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:54 PM
36

A $6 engagement ring from Amazon to match the wedding dress from Wish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:36 PM
48

Why did this woman decide to marry a potato? (No offence to potatoes though)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:32 PM
42

If they are low effort they want someone as low effort as them. They can't stand having a partner who puts effort in herself because that means they have to match the effort, which is too much for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:28 PM
35

She's a queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:23 PM
16

Men always do that with me when I mention I wear an apron for housework. They are like "Sexy, I could fuck you wearing an apron" like I'm some slutty maid until they actually see me wearing it while I do the normal stuff I do when I wear it. Sorry not sorry to ruin your fantasy. On another note: Your apron is super cute! Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:16 PM
7

Literally what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:10 PM
36

Men literally NEVER think and on the one instance they try to this happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:44 PM
90

Mocking your ADHD son is a whole other level of asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:13 AM
3

"I know he meant no harm" That is a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:44 AM
12

In Germany you are able to get two scoops of ice cream for 2€. If a man doesn't have 2€ to buy ice cream... boy, bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:24 AM
39

How's he gonna find a grandmother for his grandchildren with this attitude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:45 AM
18

I- 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:33 AM
68

I, too, once gave in when an ex begged me to blow him. Continuely asked if I can stop now, and when he finally gave permission I went to the bathroom to brush my teeth and went home. I have never felt so violated. I feel you, sis! Big hug! Be glad you dodged that bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:31 AM
12

Drove through half the country to see him every weekend for a few months. He never did the same for me. When I stopped doing all the work because I've been too depressed to do it it took him three months to come visit me for the first and only time. He broke up with me two months after he visited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:14 AM
17

Same. Worst two years of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:07 AM
36

Why doesn't he cook his own, fresh lunch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:06 AM
2

F
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:03 AM
12

Yeah, like, if it's embarassing for the both of you maybe don't do it in public but in private instead 🤦🏽‍♀️ man, some couples...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:03 AM
8

The more aware I am of myself, my tendencies, my dating-style in the past the easier it is to not do that anymore. If I don't know how I operate when I don't think about it I'm never gonna change my dating life. So I have this list of who I am in a relationship and I just tell myself "No, we don't do that anymore!" every time I'm inclined to going back to my old self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:03 PM
13

Sounds like he's only moving away so he has a reason for her not to bring her frogs 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:44 PM
43

"Don't settle for someone that expects you to sacrifice your passions while he sacrifices NOTHING" is so important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:39 PM
69

Get this predator away from young girls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:37 AM
15

He has some audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:56 PM
43

"Walking over talking" are words to live by
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:55 PM
28

At first I thought this was a weird suggestive comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:54 PM
6

Why would you call someone at night instead of daytime? He even asked for a time, you should have told him sometime during the next day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 08:47 PM
2

No. Keep your finances separate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 08:26 PM
12

With that profile, why do you think you never had a girlfriend, Keaton?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 08:24 PM
20

"Lighten up stinker" 🖕🖕🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:45 AM
11

"Passion mandatory" to me reads the same as "Teamplayer" in a résumé. Well of course it's mandatory, you shouldn't have to point out the obvious. And if your partners in the past haven't been passionate about you, that's on you buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:48 PM
1

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:21 PM
0

was that too rude? Yes. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:15 PM
1

I am deeply ashamed that I thought of this as "cool" in my past 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:04 PM
3

The pill causes the amygdala to shrink. Functions of this area of the brain include mood and sleep regulation. TIL. Suddenly a lot of things make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:03 PM
4

What is wrong with you, John?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:40 PM
16

She needs to tell him she forgot the pasta, leave him behind in the supermarket and treat herself to the wellness weekend she deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:34 PM
10

I guess he likes going on walks 🤷 On another note - any man I'd go out with would know about my interests, make it an exciting date and would not come up with something this low budget. If it has to be a walk - go somewhere with beautiful nature, new location every time and explore the area you're in. If it's the same park every damn time I'd next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:19 PM
6

Leave him be and focus on your issues and you foremost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:13 PM
26

They never want to level up, they want you down on theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:12 PM
14

If I'm ever going to be married it's gonna be the "You lose the ring, you lose me too" philosophy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:09 PM
11

Does he really think this works? 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:57 PM
19

I pay too much for my underwear to leave a pair with a guy I'm never seeing again, what the actual hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:49 PM
31

Sometimes I feel like I'm on some kind of drugs when reading these posts. Unreal experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:36 PM
35

That woman is a queen for going to leave her shit ass boyfriend if he moves in with another woman. She set her boundaries and if the guy doesn't respect that he's out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:23 PM
6

Then the drug thing or straight up "I have asthma you asshole"! And I don't think he called you lame, I think he meant "hang out lame" as in chilling with no effort from his side, just smoke some weed and eat. He definitly doesn't treat you like the goddess you are, leave him on read in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:28 AM
6

"I don't do drugs" would be a good remark unless he knows you smoke. If you do but he doesn't know, tell him that anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:13 AM
11

It's so weird when someone asks me late at night what I'm up to. I'm a responsible adult, I'm heading to bed because I have work in the morning and I want to get my 8 hours of sleep. You obviously don't, so 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:08 AM
12

Reply with the number of a local cleaning service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:18 AM
34

Jesus Christ, I'm speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:11 AM
76

I don't understand how a man can look this unkempt and not be ashamed of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:05 PM
3

Wait — he has a girlfriend but asks you for support?! Girl, definitly tell the girlfriend what he's up to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:57 PM
20

I don't care how much money a man has if he's unwashed and unhygienic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:37 AM
17

I wouldn't want to keep things from someone I'm no longer seeing. I would take it with me when I'm breaking things off and give it back then so I can avoid a future situation where contact is needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:29 AM
10

This, 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:49 PM
5

Who the hell even talks marriage via text messages? Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:44 PM
8

Rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:56 PM
2

Thank you ♡ I realise that now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:25 AM
9

He made me feel like I'm a psychopatic bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:10 PM
39

What the fuck is wrong with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:23 PM
40

All I read is "You're girlfriend material but I'm an asshole who's not ready so I'm gonna treat you like shit and pretend you're overly clingy so I can continue not putting effort into anything in my life".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:13 PM
78

I think if you know you know. The first time I came across the term pickmeisha I felt called out because I knew that was me. So I started reading and it changed my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:10 PM
4

I read it as "aww, look how much of a dumbass you are" with the next move being he's getting unmatched
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:08 AM
15

Sounds like a job ad in the local newspaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:59 AM
4

Look up Demisexuality. You're perfectly normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:58 AM
3

It's a no all over, this much is clear. I just choose to comment only on her reasoning as why the guy is apparently not able to move because he definitly is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:54 AM
11

The reasons she has that she's the one to move are still no reasons. Okay, cool, but none of that explains why he can't move. He can just get a new job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:29 AM
37

I am disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:11 AM
110

I hope she threw the whole boyfriend away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:47 AM
59

Went from "I like it" to "I don't want to speak to you anymore" so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:25 PM
29

I wonder if that's the other side of the "he's mean to you because he likes you" boys. Do these boys not grow up to realise they can't pull the same shit they did as little children anymore? And that their Moms won't come over to the girl and defend his mean behaviour? Surprise, that toxic bullshit doesn't work anymore if it ever did. You're just mean and no one's gonna like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:11 PM
84

I really don't understand why guys think this works. My reaction to this will always just be "okay" and I'll move on with my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 08:18 PM
53

I hate this typical reaction so much. Completely detracting from the point with what he thinks is a funny joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:55 PM
3

You made a point! I think the difference is between going to a self serve place and a guy pulls some shit like this or going to a cafe where you get served and you get a hot drink and maybe a slice of cake and in the end you see if he pays for you and tips well. But also in my country it's not common to go inside alone. You usually wait outside for your date and go in together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:49 PM
20

This is disgusting. I'm speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:43 AM
13

Penny and Leonard from The Big Bang Theory. Penny doesn't like Leonard like that, he's not her type, they have almost nothing in common but they get together anway. They even make jokes about how Leonard has worn Penny down in the end and he looks so proud of that. That relationship is barf worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:29 AM
21

What the hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:18 AM
122

A prime example of the trash taking itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:24 PM
2

I really like what Orlando Bloom proposed with to Katy Perry – really took her taste and personality into consideration and gave her something that's fit for her. I'd love for someone to be like that to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:46 PM
12

You are not "only 3 months in". You managed to fight your addiction for three whole months already! And that's under the circumstances that the temptation is literally everywhere around you. You are doing so well, keep fighting for your health and well-being ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:24 PM
59

Get a divorce, Jon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:06 PM
15

I'm proud you're sober now! Glad you made that decision 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:08 PM
35

You can also peep r/seduction and see how they tell men to plan coffee dates and arrive 10-15 minutes early so they can buy their own coffee and not pay for yours since they're sitting down already by the time you get there. Literal clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:34 PM
41

Sadly it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:58 PM
86

I remember that wish wedding dress post, horrible all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:46 AM
126

At least she's not looking for excuses for him, she wants to get away from this trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:52 AM
2

I didn't know they broke up :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:22 AM
7

I would have left him on read after he said he'll come over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:10 AM
10

I'm german. Stay away from german men. They are effortless mommy boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:49 AM
-4

I agree. Call him out on his disgusting bullshit and then block him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:20 AM
8

The home one is disgusting. I'm about to puke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 08:10 AM
32

Damn, when did he get so ugly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:42 AM
18

Hard pass, Michael.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:39 AM
12

Never settle. Either he is what you want or he isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:04 AM
41

If you have to describe yourself as "experienced in this world, well raised, and intelligent" you're faking it because you wish that'd be you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:57 AM
51

He's trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:59 AM
3

I found it on Twitter, I decided to post the screenshots after I made the comment if you want to check my post history. That's the account. Absolute queen energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:55 AM
34

For me "never stay up for a man" and "don't text back late at night" are the top two rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:14 PM
18

I highly enjoyed reading this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:08 PM
15

Definitly ghosted more if I didn't feel like texting back instead of doing so because it's courtesy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:38 PM
5

I'm proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:29 PM
10

So it was less of a love letter and more of a manipulation letter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:26 PM
5

Damn, I'm so sorry you had to go through that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:24 PM
5

Really? How do you get a man who does that? Also, is that a sign of a HVM or is this love bombing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:15 PM
44

Yes. As in don't text him a whole paragraph of your emotions to which he'll only reply with "k." if he replies at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:11 PM
108

"Don't paragraph." When I first read that phrase it hit home and I haven't paragraphed someone ever since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:00 PM
3

Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:36 PM
18

If you want a therapy session with me set a date and pay up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:34 PM
1

#DivorceHim2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:32 PM
38

I'm so glad every single comment is telling her to run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:26 PM
12

Everything you did was justified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:32 PM
3

I feel like I lost 3 braincells reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:35 AM
3

What
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:30 AM
9

Call the police. Get a restriction order. Don't handle this by yourself. Block the "family friend" on your phone and never talk to them again. Make it known you took these steps so your family knows you're not taking this lightly. Their behaviour is unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:17 AM
13

Truly a badass Lady!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 09:28 PM
15

My Mom always told me to be financially independent from a man so I never have to rely on him for money. Best advice I ever got.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 09:27 PM
5

How do you even go from "When do you brush your teeth?" to "You are hot"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:59 PM
18

No good hygiene, no personal style, no hobbies, doesn't cook, doesn't make phone calls. Just off the top my head, there's probably more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:40 PM
15

If he lies he's out, because a.) he's a liar and b.) I don't like to date tall men. Imagine how good it could go if he just owns up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:37 PM
27

Sounds nice, good idea for a night out with the girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:32 PM
16

Gift him the shower set back and tell him he needs it more than you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 08:28 PM
50

The least thoughtful gift you can give to someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:18 PM
68

I need to print that out and pin it on my forehead so I never forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:59 PM
25

Always keep the moral high ground. Never do anything that he could see as "crazy"; don't give him that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:44 PM
4

Can't unsee this now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:10 AM
16

That's too much to ask, Dan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:14 AM
2

Beautifully said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:52 AM
15

Yeah, because all women obviously want to be with a man who is tired and drunk all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:46 AM
7

He's a liar. He doesn't deserve your time to hear this from you in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:44 AM
62

The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:41 AM
37

It's a mood™
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:39 AM
18

No, you're not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:37 AM
24

For me, that's the root cause of the problem. That's why I was a pick-me for so long. As soon as I realised I told myself over and over "I may not know what it's like to be treated well in a relationship but I'm gonna find out. I won't settle for less than the highest standard."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:31 AM
19

What an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:33 PM
7

He's cute. Too bad his personality is ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:00 AM
2

That's good, at least. I'm glad you're no longer with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:59 PM
2

Reading this I get the strong feeling he was cheating on you and not even home. Who the fuck doesn't let a significant other in if they are right at your front door?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:43 PM
7

I found "you're better at that" is a LVM way of admitting he's too lazy do to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 09:20 PM
13

My mom has a friend who does that. He and his wife live in the same house, each of them has their own apartment. It works perfectly fine for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 08:53 PM
15

I realise my comment maybe comes off rude towards prostitudes. I apologise, that wasn't my intention with my comment at all. I meant to say OP isn't up for sale like a house or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 12:18 PM
49

I'd tell him just that. "I'm not a prostitude, you can't buy me with a drink. Fuck off, buddy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:47 AM
3

He's scared? Good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:33 AM
2

Good to know you're intimidating — keeps the LVM at bay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:31 AM
4

It works, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:59 AM
8

Please share a clickable link to your comment so we can all upvote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 04:43 AM
11

Last year an low value ex situationship had me made an account on pornhub. I felt so sexy, like I impressed him and like he's finally proud of me. When things ended I deleted my account and now I cringe so hard at what I did to get attention from a guy who couldn't even keep it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:10 PM
43

And the worst part — the free meal comes with bad company. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:47 PM
10

I'm sorry you had to find this out the hard way. I agree — huge red flag!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:46 PM
15

I 100% agree and I don't date men who can't cook anymore either. I just said setting the table because OP said she likes to be alone in the kitchen and there's plenty of ways a significant other can help with preparing dinner while not actively be in the way of the partner who likes to do the cooking alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:44 PM
34

Big yikes. I hope she drops him and finds a lovely man who sets the table while she prepares the food and they can enjoy dinner together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:46 PM
81

Who the fuck even goes on a date for a "free meal"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:23 PM
5

🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:06 AM
14

What a fucking loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 10:01 PM
5

I wouldn't say anything. I'd make him sit and watch me uncomfortably as I live my best life without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:58 PM
15

Glad to hear he's shocked that he isn't the norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:08 PM
180

Why should a woman over 50 not be dressed and posing this way? Because your limp dick at 21 can't handle a grown woman being sexy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:41 PM
21

I rather not be up next with a guy like this, but thanks for the offer I guess?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:11 PM
16

Jesus Christ, what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:51 PM
8

She is glowing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:22 PM
58

Imagine the roles were reversed — men would be nodding along those lines in agreement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:51 AM
4

Thinking about this, maybe a juice bar or a smoothie place would work on me for an afternoon date with someone i met online and i haven't met before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:17 PM
12

🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:45 PM
18

The perfect come back to this would have been "Got any hot friends that are single?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:44 PM
158

I'd say you got yourself a HVM because he saved up in silence, without letting you suffering from his spending habits or rather not-spending habits to help out his grandmother without boasting about it at all. It not only indicates he loves his grandmother and values his family, not talking about it means he's doing it because he wants to, and not for brownie points from anyone who hears about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:23 AM
54

"Do you like my short skirt?…HOW ABOUT MY SHORT TEMPER, ASSHOLE!" had me dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:16 AM
5

Maybe it's a pet peeve, but I hate when men call women "girls". Have some respect for a lady and don't address her like a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:08 AM
29

What the fuck did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:40 AM
2

Keep the car, drop the husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:16 AM
18

Advice on pulling higher numbers and not spending money on them? It's simple. You can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:51 AM
11

This is amazing! You did so well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 11:58 AM
30

yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:09 AM
13

I am so proud of your growth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:38 AM
49

Never once in my life have I felt bad for telling the guy in his face that he didn't make me cum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:16 AM
9

This man is a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:21 AM
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