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5

Well it's about damn time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:31 AM
6

Thank you! I'm not alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:29 AM
1

Wow, no. I'm just amplifying what you said. Like, they need to choose whether they are rutting beasts, or logic demi-gods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:38 AM
0

...Bitch, which?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:24 AM
3

You can de-condition yourself in the same way they do on nofap; by decoupling your orgasms from the undesirable stimulus. Meaning, don't let yourself cum to bdsm themed porn or fantasies or erotica (and remove yourself from any bdsm relationships). Decide to only orgasm to other, more healthy ideation. It absolutely is possible, because I weaned myself off of a very harmful fantasy this way. And it didn't even take very long. Here was this thing I thought was "a part of me", and it just fell off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:20 AM
1

God, if only they could understand this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:04 AM
1

Yes! When I was 15 I was walking around Paris with my parents and younger siblings, and I suddenly felt a hard, invasive grab on my ass. I spun around and like six or seven teenaged French guys all laughed in my face and then ran off still laughing. Never had anything quite like that happen to me anywhere else. In France, the Me Too movement was called Name Your Pig. Sounds about right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:50 AM
6

I had one guy tell me, in all seriousness, that I walked with a limp. No single other person had ever said anything similar to me. People are much more likely to ask me if I'm a dancer and then go on to praise my grace or good posture or something. So I knew he was full of shit. But how do they even come up with this stuff? It's like they truly just pull it out of their ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:15 AM
5

And someone should inform him that other races of women can also get pregnant...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:21 AM
2

When guys say "get back in the kitchen", my friend always immediately replies "get back in the coalmine".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:16 AM
1

His argument is illogical on a couple of grounds. If not shaving your body is dirty and comparable to not brushing your teeth, then both men and women should be expected to do it, just as both are expected to brush their teeth. BUT he started from a false premise. SHAVING is actually the more unhygienic option, and related to worse health outcomes. You can google medical articles about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:11 AM
2

I'm not sure if she's still active, but I really liked a lady on YouTube called Sugarmamma. She's an Australian single mother named Canna, and she presented everything in a very relatable way, without all the posturing and bro-talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:59 AM
2

Okay, that's (thankfully) not my dad, but it is ALL of my uncles. After being literal strangers to me throughout my childhood and youth, now that they're in their fifties and sixties, they want to "connect" with me any time one of them gets a cancer scare from their doctor. And I'm like, who are you again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:55 AM
3

Obviously he means that her goals must be ambitious and thick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:44 AM
2

Let's just take a moment to realize that the on-call doctor, who was not even present, got paid for this delivery (because salary) and Doctor Hess, who actually did the work for him, while being in labor herself, did not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:23 AM
6

Whatever the demographic of Cracked's readership, this article is very clearly addressed to women. The "you" that the author speaks to throughout the article is women. "We think you're conspiring with our boners to ruin us." "We're trained from birth to see you as decoration." "We hate you if you're ugly; if you're pretty, then...." I don't think this author consciously wants to hurt women. I think he thinks he's defending us. But he offers no solutions, or even hope. He argues that this way of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:06 AM
11

I get what you're saying, and, for people who have never read an actual feminist article, this one could potentially be an eye-opener. But I don't think that this article is intended to make men think critically about how society works. Firstly, because it's clearly intended to be read by women. The whole premise of this article is that it's revealing the secret thoughts of men to women. Men are presumed to already know what men think. But, even more problematically, because this article contain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:22 AM
60

Oh my god, how devastating! How is she ever supposed to trust anyone ever again? I'm sure he gave no thought at all to how much this would damage her mental health, because he probably assumes that everyone is a heartless automaton like himself. If she can get his confession in writing, a good lawyer should be able to drain this man for everything he's worth. u/leftnowhere, please come visit us here, where you can get support and advice from actual women. You deserve so, so much better than what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:04 AM
6

I get what you're saying, and, for people who have never read an actual feminist article, this one could potentially be an eye-opener. But I don't think that this article is intended to make men think critically about how society works. Firstly, because it's clearly intended to be read by women. The whole premise of this article is that it's revealing the secret thoughts of men to women. Men are presumed to already know what men think. But, even more problematically, because this article contain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:57 AM
4

That's the conclusion I have reached too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:33 AM
3

I don't think it's good for your peace of mind, but I certainly understand why a person might reply to fuckwits, now and then. I still do sometimes, but I always regret it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:32 AM
8

I agree with you completely. He was low effort so you mirrored his effort, just as the FDS handbook says to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:23 PM
2

Oooh, what do you think space salt tastes like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:47 PM
60

Yeah, if a man was being paid to be an asshole to a woman, he definitely would have slept with her when she offered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:42 PM
2

Oh man, that reminds me, I never finished the dress I started last spring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:30 PM
10

"Now, mind you, her hamster is NOT special." Oh my god, I'm screaming! Why is that the funniest part, to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:13 PM
16

I know, I thought about this when all those men were saying that Game of Thrones "had" to have rape scenes "for realism". Like, forget the dragons, the resurrection-magic, the ice-demons. If this is realistic to "the time period", where is the armpit hair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:57 PM
6

Yes! I've noticed exactly this about men's profiles. "I'm reliable" = half hour late to our date. "I'm witty" = I am tedious and crude. "I looove my cat" = I abuse my cat and only keep it as chick-bait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:40 PM
9

At least then these men would be adding value to society. In the form of iron ingots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:34 PM
16

Boss-ass answer, good for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:26 PM
38

He's a pushover but he calls you a hateful bitch? In those exact words? He sounds personality disordered. Please be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:24 PM
29

Oh, I totally agree that men are capable of doing this kind of thing! I just don't think this is a genuine report, and I don't think the author is really the woman in the story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:20 PM
10

You had me going! I was like "wow these dating apps are getting a little too honest."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:13 PM
4

I once lost a job due to false (statutory) rape allegations. I was 24, working at a very small and unusual high school. A 17 year old boy decided to tell his friends that he had slept with me. One of them told a school counselor, and me and the 17 year old boy were called to the principal's office. The boy immediately realized that I was in big trouble, and tried to take back what he had said. He ended up crying when he realized that I was going to lose my job. I was just amazed. I, like most sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:28 PM
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I'm having trouble believing this is real. It has a very 'fiction' tone to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:01 PM
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This is my very least favorite kind of article that men write. The here-ladies-let-me-just-explain-male-depravity-to-you kind. Boy, we are the experts on male depravity. Maybe you should shut your entitled mouth and read what women have to say on the subject, because it will curl your toe hair. Force this man to read some Andrea Dworkin, or spend a day scrolling through r/NameTheProblem, and maybe, just maybe, he would realize that he's still in kindergarten when it comes to male depravity. But …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:34 PM
16

Yes, I used to have very high testosterone, due to a medical condition. When I say very high, I mean higher than it is in some men. I never noticed any of the personality side-effects that people like to blame on testosterone. Sure, I had a high sex drive, and in fact I still do (now that my testosterone is much lower). Did it ever cause me to abuse or dehumanize my partners? Nope. Did I get angry at attractive men who wouldn't have sex with me? Nope. What I didn't have, that men do have, is the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:16 PM
53

Wow, a model citizen! Meanwhile, men my age are -- actually, I'd rather not think of what they're doing. But good for him! That's how you leave a legacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:42 PM
51

What a load of blame-shifting BS. Trying to look like the unfortunate and unaware victim of circumstances is bad enough, and repellently weak of him. But he's actually trying to make her out to be the bad guy, and painting her as vindictive and irrational. I'm so glad she ditched his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:39 PM
14

Is it really called that? Doesn't that suggest... scum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:29 PM
27

Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:28 PM
97

I had to sleep with eleven different men, over a period of seventeen years, before I got an orgasm from a man. During all of those years, I felt disappointed, cheated, disgusted, and resentful. I knew it wasn't me, because I can easily and quickly give myself dozens of orgasms. Men are super duper disappointing. That's the issue. You can find loads of articles, essays, reddit posts and comments, where men say "oh, pleasing a woman is our very favorite thing to do, there is nothing we would rathe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:23 PM
5

Updike. Ugghh. I hadn't thought about that entitled scrote in years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:51 AM
2

Rage-lulz. The only kind that most of reddit provides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:46 AM
3

There's a couple of methods now. PGD is used with IVF, and sounds like it involves letting the zygotes develop for awhile until you can tell female from male, and then discarding the unwanted ones. Sperm sorting can be used with IVF or insemination, and seems to involve centrifuging the sperm into heavier and lighter groups, one of which will be female and the other male. The method I was originally talking about may have simply been that, but for some reason I was under the impression that it i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:45 AM
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These sorts of men get their entire concept of "feminism" (and probably everything else) from strawman Russian bots on Facebook. If they ever actually sat down with a bell hooks book, or something, they'd be in for a big surprise. But who are we kidding? They don't read books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:18 AM
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"Do I have the right to decide what can and cannot be shoved into my orifices?" A lot of adults have failed this young woman, over the course of many years. Our entire culture is a failure, if even one woman feels like she needs to ask this. u/pink_cyanide, you deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:10 AM
34

Literally the motto of patriarchy. There is no way women can "win" at patriarchy. That's the very nature of the game. Like the dots and the fruit can't win at Pacman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:02 AM
7

It's never an 'honor' to clean up after any man, even if he won three oscars, two tonys, and a Nobel peace prize. If has actually said to you that you should feel honored to be cleaning up for him, and/or that he's a 'great musician', I think you have a narcissist on your hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:54 AM
14

"You don't have the right to be picky." That's right, you heartless skank! You have to eat cilantro, you must watch Seth Rogan movies, and I insist that you keep going to that dentist who calls you sweetie and reeks of garlic! You have no right to make choices that align with your preferences! /s I mean, what? Does he hear himself? Pretty sure everyone has the right to decline to date anyone else...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:45 AM
25

Oh, I'm sure his peepee is thrilled with her, but god forbid she be left with a shred of confidence if he can help it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:35 AM
9

NVM = negative value male: subtracts value from your life. LVM = low value male: brings no added value to your life. HVM = high value man: brings value into your life. NVW, LVW, HVW = the same, but women. OLD = online dating. scrotes = worthless persons with scrotums. I can't think of any others right now, but feel free to ask about any specific terms. Have you read the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:32 AM
3

So his wife is going through what has to have been one of the worst and scariest experiences of her life, and this dude's thought process is about how he could potentially use her older child to lure in other women? Nightmare fuel. It's like we share this planet with a race of demons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:15 AM
9

shudder The men that "everyone loves" are usually the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:07 AM
4

A process was invented decades ago to separate XX sperm from XY sperm so that parents could choose the gender of their child. It was originally developed for cattle breeders, but it works on human sperm too, and is available. The inventor of the process was surprised that most prospective mothers asked for a female baby; he had been confident that boys would be preferred. If some female scientists could come up with a variation on this, and patent it, and make it widely and cheaply available, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:40 AM
4

Because we are all queens - a growing Army Of Queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:07 AM
1

Right, we should already expect that everything is transactional with men. It's sadly rare for them to help just for the sake of helping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:05 AM
6

Yes, she may get mad in the moment, but years later look back on you with gratitude. We shouldn't be put off of doing what's right by the fear of a little name-calling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:01 AM
6

Right? If only men could be brought to understand how absolutely no-value their dicks are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:59 PM
9

Thank you! It's not a joke worth saving, but if it were, you would have saved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:31 PM
31

Can the world please drag Stephen King more? I want him to go down as the Edward Bulwer-Lytton of our age: a best seller during his lifetime, but a literal joke forever after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:27 PM
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Who says "no more sex in bed"...? Like, "the car, the floor, the kitchen are still fine, just not the bed." That's how I know this is 100% made up in a weak attempt to get a laugh. Men can't even make sense long enough to tell a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:24 PM
14

For science. And lolz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:45 PM
29

Oh my god. This makes me want to post identical but gender-swapped versions of all these horrible stories. Just to see the difference in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:32 PM
1

Definitely not. This reminds me of somebody's post from yesterday about the rat that lived a normal life despite having no brain. They walk among us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:29 PM
48

Oh yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:27 PM
28

Oh my god, I got the same thing too, after a recent date. At the end of a first date, where we had split the bill, this jackass has the audacity to say "so, do you want to invite me back to your place?" I was so surprised, I just answered "no, if I did I would have verbalized that." Like, did he think I couldn't make up my own mind and express my own wishes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:25 PM
14

I love her dress. Where can I get one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:15 PM
75

I went on a few dates with a guy, several months ago. He was young, handsomish, clean, well-dressed, polite, with beautifully broad shoulders. We had gone on a number of dates, and we had kissed on most of them. I was starting to think he was a real possibility. Then he took a picture of something on one of our dates, and told me he was going to post it on reddit. Well, he shouldn't have done that. I was easily able to find his reddit account and go through his history. So, turns out he's spendi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:11 PM
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If anyone says "you're going to end up single", just turn your eyes fervently up towards heaven and say "thank GOD!" Let there be no mistake, that is the preferable outcome, 9 times out of 10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:56 PM
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She may already know he's a piece of shit, and she could be hoping and praying for some good excuse to dump him. When a wedding is all planned, there is a ton of pressure to just go through with it, but if she has the receipts that he's a cheater, and she can show them to everyone else, that could be just the ticket to freedom that she needs. I know that might not be the situation, but it is a commoner one than many people realize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:44 PM
7

It looks to me like he's interested in you and was trying to nudge you into making the first move by mentioning the tinder date. It's like a real estate agent saying "we have another buyer who's very interested, so you better hurry up and put in your offer." If that's the case, he is laboring under the delusion that men are the prize, and so he will forever be worthless as a partner because his head is in the wrong place. I'd give him a wide miss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:35 PM
15

Me too! How can this be so common?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:25 PM
18

Yes, good idea. I'm going to call it what it is from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:23 PM
90

Right? It's not a murder victim's responsibility to say "hey, I prefer not to be murdered". The police never ask a mugging victim, "okay, but did you tell him you don't like to be mugged? Maybe he didn't know?" These stupid men truly believe that women are some opposite-land alien species that perceives pain as pleasure and rudeness as smoothness. No, fuck right off, we are human too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:53 AM
13

Men have no sense of humor. That's why they think other men are funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:44 AM
3

I would guess that, if you document everything, you could sue them later?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:42 AM
6

YES, why can't they understand that? It's like if we went around accusing them of going limp "for revenge".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:01 AM
14

I came across some guy in a totally unrelated thread talking about how his balls smell like Pillsbury biscuit dough, and he likes it. I wanted to tell him, sir, you have a yeast infection. But I no longer speak to smelly scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:55 AM
7

What evidence does he have that we're ugly? He's never seen any of us. How can he justify holding a belief for which he has no evidence? Can he please explain how that's rational? No, never mind, he's already shown himself to be an illogical cumbrain. I have no interest in whatever idiocy he drools out next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:40 AM
23

They make me so sad. They really think hating themselves will make someone else love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:14 PM
38

I would watch that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:12 PM
17

"It's only information." That is some weak-ass justification, there. "People have to make their own decisions". So, I'm sure he wouldn't throw a hissy fit if I posted directions on how to give your husband a lobotomy and not get caught? It's only information. "Are the risks and possible rewards worth it to you? This is the only question you should be asking yourself." LVMs are some champion-level responsibility-shifters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:49 PM
28

Ugh, they're so pathetic when they get possessive. This guy is a cringe-fest and I hope the young lady can see it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:34 PM
60

Numbers don't lie, but angry men sure do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:28 PM
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God, you're so easily triggered for politely declining to spend time with a person who spouts contempt for your demographic! It would be so much more rational of you to donate yourself to people who despise you. I can't believe you don't see that! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:27 PM
5

Ugh, he sounds like a mess and a half! I'm sorry he took up so much of your time and mental space, and I'm so glad you've found FDS so you never have to accept that kind of three-ring bullshit circus again. Enjoy your brand new new life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:57 PM
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He left one blank. "If I'm giving her __, she giving me money!!" Excuse me, what is she paying you for? Are you her gigolo? He also forgot a few. "If she's going through pregnancy, I'm __!!" "If she's dealing with the financial and physical costs of birth control, I'm __!!" "If she's getting paid less for her work because we still live in a sexist society, I'm __!!" "If she's giving me orgasms every time, I'm __!!" "If she's putting her body and life on the line in childbirth, I'm __!!" "If she'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:45 PM
13

Yep yep yep, I feel like you just recited my life story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:27 PM
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I used to send back a picture from an ad for a device that cuts hotdogs into coins. It was the most horrible, flaccid-penis-colored hot dog, and a woman's hands doing the cutting. It shut them right up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:16 PM
10

I hope they become fewer and further. Actually, scratch that, I know they will!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:12 PM
5

u/tianuhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:10 PM
48

You're so right. Years ago I had a male coworker start spouting off to me and a younger woman about "pretty" vs "ugly" "pussies". I didn't want the younger woman to start down that shame spiral, so I just laughed lightheartedly and said, "yes, but at least all vaginas feel good. Let's talk about the different kinds of dicks!" I roasted every different penile configuration I could think of for a good fifteen minutes straight, laughing the whole time. I was doing it so cheerfully, he couldn't even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:09 PM
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Yes, as soon as the accusations of infidelity start, a woman's life is actually in danger. I hope she gets the fuck out of Dodge, before things go even further south.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:56 PM
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I was a "femcel" for about thirteen years of my life. I THANK GOD I never found a place like reddit to echo back my own disordered thinking at me, or I almost certainly would have committed suicide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:53 PM
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Having been raised in this misogynistic society, nearly every woman is going to have some pickmeisha mistakes of her own to look back on. I think a lot of our collective disdain for pickmeisha is just a way of bashing our past selves for the shit we permitted. The more we grow away from that old mindset, the more benignly we'll be able to look at the women who are still stuck in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:36 PM
2

I haven't really noticed that in myself or my siblings. Could you give some examples?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:31 PM
14

Oh god, the flashbacks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:11 PM
15

You guys ever meet the sort who pokes your boobs? Sometimes really hard, like they're trying to count your ribs through your breast tissue? The worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:10 PM
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It's a disrespect test. They want to see if your female socialization is strong enough for you to still be nice to him after he's disrespected you. If it is, whoo boy, you're in for the full shit-storm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:07 PM
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He betrayed his female patients. A lot of them told him they were sexually abused by older male family members. At first he believed them, but then so many were saying that that he decided, 'Nah, it's just some new complex I've discovered'. He couldn't accept how common incestuous pedophilia is, so he literally told all those women they were crazy. He was the granddaddy of gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:54 PM
6

I was just about to refute that too, but you did it quicker and better. Right on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:48 PM
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Do these people know that there is a whole-ass immune system for getting rid of foreign particles? And that the vagina is a vigorously self-cleaning orifice that is actively hostile to sperm? If you hear any moron spouting this shit, ask them to cite their sources. Guarantee it'll be "this guy I met at the gym".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:42 PM
14

I don't know. This woman was just going to not say anything? And have this busted old ring modified? At her own expense? I predict that it's going to be years before she truly opens her eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:34 PM
6

I'm guessing Breakfast At Tiffany's, but I've never seen it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:25 PM
31

Oh gross. I'm so sorry you had to listen to that nonsense. I fucking hate when men try to tell us about ourselves. Man: So what I'm hearing is...you're bi. Woman: I literally just finished telling you that I'm not bi...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:22 PM
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"Now when we have sex again I'm going to be so self conscious." Well, I think the obvious solution would be to never have sex with him again. Problem solved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:15 PM
2

Right? Plenty of men are terrified of women, never mind just intimidated. You can hear them whining about it all over reddit, any day of the week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:12 PM
13

Ahh, reading this made me feel so refreshed. It must be even more refreshing to live it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:42 AM
22

This is the truth, u/Theweirdkid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:37 AM
10

From the fact that they don't know what color a period is, I'm guessing "as much as possible" is none.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 10:52 PM
6

It should be illegal. I mean, if it was true love or something like that, surely they could wait until she graduates?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:38 PM
3

Oh sorry, I didn't realize it was you in the post. Fuck with them all you want; they are funny, and sometimes I do it too. I only meant to suggest what he deserved, not what you "have to" do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:35 PM
10

lol (But mine was sincere)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:01 PM
8

Thanks for introducing me to that horrifying sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:47 PM
7

"Yikes!! No thank u" should have been her very first response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:24 PM
18

How can men be so ignorant? And, being so ignorant, how can they think they're smarter than us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:20 PM
23

Oh hork. You should create a diet app where you send people disgusting comments like this each day. It would be the most effective thing since fen-phen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:16 PM
32

Yeah, and if he did it with her, he's probably done it to other students. We had a teacher get fired from my high school because he was sleeping with a student. When the school finally did some research on him, turned out he had a long history of that sort of thing. Surprise surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:08 PM
40

It's wage-slavery of the worst kind. The baby doesn't have a chance to build the healthy, dependable bond that it needs, leading to more fucked up adults later down the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:57 PM
17

"I do know a thing or two I can share." How much you guys want to bet he doesn't know shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:52 PM
11

Ha! More male projection. It would have taken him half an hour to write that. Or maybe he's admitting that it took him half an hour to read it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:45 PM
3

The only positive side here is that the pedophile will likely die many decades before his victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:35 PM
8

They hate us because they are nothing without us, but they know the reverse is not true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:28 PM
10

Brilliant! You seized power from that situation ruthlessly! Thanks for sharing, a lot of women can use that tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:25 PM
18

I know, I've sometimes thought about what the internet would be like if men as a whole were banned from it. Honestly, I think women would have solved world hunger and cured cancer within the week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:23 PM
1

Wow, what a wild ride! I really enjoyed reading that, especially the part where your dad had your back. Thanks for sharing, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:16 PM
25

A bargaining chip for commitment? That's rich. Don't they realize that we expend more energy trying to get superfluous men out of our lives than keep them in it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:34 AM
8

Great idea, there's so much of it to discuss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:57 PM
9

Way too accurate. I need to go somewhere and reflect...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:44 PM
6

Welfare queens? Is he referring to the bankers who have received $4.6 trillion in welfare since the 2008 recession, and are slated to receive at least ten trillion more? Yes, they are a cancer on society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:42 PM
12

For some reason I pictured Spock. "Fascinating. This human being believes that it is... a human being."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:32 PM
70

Everything Andrea Dworkin wrote is so to the point and spot on. She was a true hero and an everlasting inspiration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:42 PM
7

Those are exactly the kind of articles that I like to read using the Jailbreaking The Patriarchy app. The app gender-switches all text, when you have it turned on. So guy becomes gal, whore becomes gigolo,etc. These sorts of articles become freaking hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:35 PM
15

Yes, it absolutely is real, and if you want it, don't settle for someone who doesn't deliver it. The world is full of men, just chockablock with men. Each one will give you a different feeling. Ditch any guy who doesn't give you the tingles. Your time is valuable and it's up to you to grant your wishes. You say maybe it's your depression that's causing your lack of passion with your boyfriend? That is perfectly possible. It's also possible that your lack of passion with your boyfriend is causing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:26 PM
11

This story is so inspiring, I love it! Ladies Revenge Squad! I have no idea if you're going to be able to get justice from the "justice" system. I do know that taking control of the situation and reclaiming your power is great for your mental health. Just the fact that you have joined up with these other ladies and are trying to do something is so much more than many women in your position are able to do. By the way, you're an excellent writer. This was long, but I tore through it like a bag of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:17 AM
32

Yep, I dated one of these last year. He turned out to be a covert narcissist and an abusive dad. If it feels off, it is off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:00 AM
4

God, you put this so well and succinctly. It's like the history of the last 5,000 years, in twenty five words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:53 AM
21

I don't know. If I went into another room to lay down, that would mean that I wanted to be left alone. It would annoy me if someone came to check on me when I had signalled that I preferred to be alone. Maybe that's just me? The situation you're describing wouldn't bother me. But it sounds like other little cues are making you feel like its part of a pattern that you don't like? If you're not happy, you're not happy. Don't overthink what he "deserves" or what his motives are. Consider your own n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:46 AM
33

Who gilds a story like that? Oh wait, never mind, I know. Rapists and aspiring rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:25 PM
3

No, I mostly read pre-Cold War authors. Modern stuff is a bit nihilistic for my tastes usually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:20 PM
14

Of course, they would also revile you and consider you fair game for murder...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:05 PM
16

Two bedrooms plus the four others makes it what they call a Classic Six. Those sell for millions of dollars in New York City. You're living the dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:45 PM
23

I must have a sinister mind, because my first thought was 'prostitutes or drugs'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:40 PM
3

Some is, certainly. But you still have to dig through a lot that isn't to find the small "plenty" that is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:28 PM
40

"don't hold his actions and words and choices against him, that's not fair! feemales are so mean"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:17 PM
10

That's a lot of men. I'm not sure the system could handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:14 PM
22

I'm sorry but that's a clit. And those balls were actually descended ovaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:11 PM
1

I'm glad to learn that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:05 PM
5

Oh really? Then I've wronged him, and I'm sorry. I'm glad he's being critical of the dipshit in front if him. I'd be even gladder if he felt like offering that man a free ass-beating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 08:03 PM
5

I was talking about you.
/r/askFDS14/04/20 07:59 PM
145

He lives in a one room apartment with no kitchen. He has no car. He has a very small wardrobe. He makes significantly more money than you. You live in a six room apartment with all the amenities. You drive a Mercedes-Benz. You invest in a quality wardrobe, and in presenting yourself well. You pay for the groceries that both of you eat. You make significantly less money than him. Here's my question: where is his money going? This is suspish as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:55 PM
23

Men eat sooo much, too. When my cousin finally moved out of his mom (my aunt)'s house, she was amazed to find that all her money troubles vanished overnight. He had been eating her out of house and home, and she hadn't even realized it because he was her precious baby boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:50 PM
40

Nope nope nope, this cannot be real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:38 PM
79

He can't even wait until it's an actual open relationship? Fuck right off, Kyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:49 PM
51

I live for the day when the human race declares a moratorium on male politicians. They had their chance, and we see the results all around us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:47 PM
39

Funny....how looking into the pits of hell is more or less synonymous with looking into the minds of men....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:42 PM
6

You might enjoy the religious writings of C. S. Lewis, Dorothy Sayers, and G. K. Chesterton, if you find the story of Jesus to be inspirational. I'm not Christian either, but I can also be moved by certain people's take on Jesus. It's great that you have people in your life that you can truly admire. I'm sure you can find ways to bring out the same admirable qualities in yourself. A lot of people, both on reddit and in the real world, hold onto stereotypes and will believe, for example, that no …
/r/askFDS14/04/20 05:38 PM
20

Yes. Solidarity is our superpower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:27 PM
16

Of course! Because assholes are famous for their honesty and integrity. Everyone knows that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:25 PM
-3

Yeah, I caught the "this is good" part. If ever I saw the eyes of a malignant narcissist, those are them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:22 PM
110

What's really pitiful is how many men are going to believe this. They apparently believe that sex workers enjoy and desire sex with johns, and that their reactions are genuine, so of course they're going to believe that if a sex worker says she loves all penises, that is her sincere sentiment. You have to wonder, if a used car salesman calls them buddy, do they believe they've made a friend for life? If an employee laughs at their jokes, do they assume they could go into standup comedy? I once d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:10 PM
16

I don't think this is rude or dismissive. Obviously prenatal depression in general does exist, but any psychiatrist will acknowledge that life circumstances can play just as big a role in depression as any chemical imbalance. If the woman is depressed, she deserves our compassion no matter the cause, but it's pretty clear from her story that, however physiological the origin of her depression may be, her scrotish babydaddy is at the very least a contributing factor. It doesn't diminish women's s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:55 PM
50

Manners are a test of character precisely because anyone can learn them. It is completely a choice for a person to just decide not to, and our choices are exactly where our characters show. For any male lurkers: look how easy - and free! - it is to impress the average woman. You literally have no excuses left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:47 PM
26

Good for her and her family. I'm sure it wasn't easy for them, but they probably saved thousands of women from a horrific fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:41 PM
74

Oh, Stephen King is problematic left, right, and center. I knew I detested him after I read his short story 'The Raft'. I also have a theory that some of "his" books are written by his wife. Early in in their careers, their writing styles were indistinguishable. Then she dropped out of the public eye, and now two veerrry different kinds of books appear under his byline. Like 'The Green Mile' versus 'It'. It would make sense for them to do that, because they know they can make obscenely larger am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:34 PM
57

Girls are looking for this kind of guy? Did he not read to the end? Of this one-sentence anecdote? Kyle, you're going to continue having trouble with women until you improve your reading comprehension skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:24 PM
63

Sadly, this wouldn't even be the craziest thing on that sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:21 PM
41

Aw, that's so sweet! He's offering to let you be a notch on his filthy bedpost. If only more men were like this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:17 PM
20

It's so true that beauty is no guarantee of good treatment. You only have to watch a few porn videos to learn that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:12 PM
7

I don't know what that second man is saying, but I am 100% certain that I disagree with every word of it. That woman has more than those men will ever have or even dream of. She has actual dignity, and the love and trust of her children. Those men are tyrants, and deserve the fate of tyrants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:02 PM
40

No, I think the man should still pay, because they still need us way more than we need them. If you were ever to marry a man, you would be prolonging his life and improving his physical and mental health significantly (according to statistics), so he should be grateful and have to earn that, even if no children are involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:59 PM
67

Right? You know those little disclaimers they have at the end of movie credits, like "No animals were harmed in the production of this film". They wouldn't be able to put that on most porn, or they could be sued. How devastating that non-human animals have more protection than human women. I mean, PETA would firebomb a studio that put out a movie showing the genuine rape of a dog or pig, but replace the animal with a teenage girl and we're all good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:52 PM
12

This is my thinking too. It's just such a time-suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:42 PM
1

Doubtful. If LVMs were capable of honest self-reflection, there would be no LVMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:51 AM
8

Very scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:09 AM
30

I work with children, ages 5-18, and I have for about twelve years now. I can say that there are some who come to us already having coercive, manipulative, deceitful, cruel, aggressive, narcissistic, and/or antisocial personalities. I think (maybe wishful thinking?) that any of these things can be improved tremendously by strong boundaries and firm, consistent discipline. It's really astonishing to hear textbook examples of gaslighting come out of a child's mouth. Some of them I genuinely believ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:58 AM
26

Right? LVM truly seem to have no idea that a ton of other men are out here acting like actual gentlemen. They project their own low value onto all other men, which is why they say stupid shit like "you'll never meet a man who doesn't love blowjobs" or "you'll never meet a man who doesn't watch porn". Guess what, I've met multiples of both. And then they accuse us of painting all men with the same brush. Like, excuse me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:09 AM
3

I've got hair on the tops of my feet too. In fact, I'm extraordinarily hairy all over, for a woman, and have had boyfriends who were naturally less hairy than me. It was shame-inducing and upsetting when I was your age, but I got over it when I slowly learned that none of them cared. Personally, if I were a very hairy guy, I wouldn't worry about any of it except the back hair. Back hair is the only kind of dude-fur that I hear women complain about. I would go to a salon and get it waxed once a m…
/r/askFDS13/04/20 11:52 PM
1

I had a home laser device and it didn't do jack shit. I'm glad they work for somebody, though.
/r/askFDS13/04/20 11:42 PM
2

I had an experience like that too! At first I was like "yuck", but once he showed me what he could do, even his back hair started to seem sexy to me. Weird how that works.
/r/askFDS13/04/20 11:39 PM
13

You're focussing on the wrong things. HVM are HVM because of their integrity and their character. Not only do they do good things, but they do those things from good motives. You can volunteer at a soup kitchen until your fingers fall off, but if you're only there to impress women, that won't impress women. (Still do it anyway, soup kitchens need volunteers). Whatever you do should be done out of a wish to be someone you can admire. Really think about the qualities that you admire in other peopl…
/r/askFDS13/04/20 11:36 PM
10

Sexual urges, of themselves, certainly aren't an LVM trait. Sexual urges are healthy, necessary to the survival of the species, and enjoyable. If, however, they're linked in your mind with causing pain, fear, or humiliation to your partner (and after years of porn-watching, they almost certainly will be) that's when it's begun to degrade your character and you're in danger of being an LVM. By the way, there are plenty of medications that have the side effect of killing the sex drive. SSRIs are n…
/r/askFDS13/04/20 11:20 PM
10

Perfect response! They're so predictably bratty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:56 PM
20

As if any mental state could excuse the vicious bludgeoning of a baby? Even if you want to claim that the woman or the other men abused this guy, are we supposed to believe that was the baby's fault? Or that beating a baby would help the situation in any way? What are these baby-beating apologists trying to say, exactly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:05 PM
35

I heard he bought motorcycles for all of the stunt doubles that worked on The Matrix, as, he said, "a thank you for making me look good".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:55 PM
22

Wowee. "Honey, I know you're struggling with a dangerous mental health condition, but couldn't you just undo all the progress you've worked so hard for, to make my dick a little happier, after which I'll probably abandon you anyway? What do you say, hun?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:53 PM
11

Weak, self-infantilizing parasites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:46 PM
53

A healthy penis should not resemble a croissant. I think he's telling you he has Peyronie's disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:44 PM
86

I love how he says they "slipped up", like they were ashamed to be FDSers but somehow accidentally started talking about it on a first date. Son, HVWs can keep a secret. If we don't want you to know something, you won't ever know it. Besides which, why should anyone ever be ashamed of a subreddit that promotes knowing your own value, and helping other women to know theirs? But, none of that matters, because these dates most definitely did not happen. Other incels may be dumb enough to fall for t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:39 PM
2

Is that a real billboard somewhere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:21 PM
14

LVM are amazing, and I mean that in the worst possible way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:43 PM
6

What doesn't? Serious question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:39 PM
39

So, he secretly had the hots for ET...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:37 PM
8

I mean, the Y chromosome is prone to defects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:16 PM
5

We used to use ours for rolling paper, because the pages are so thin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:15 PM
1

Don't bother reading more, it's the same all through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:02 PM
22

So true. Any fetish is literally a symptom of mental and emotional maladjustment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:00 PM
22

Now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:59 PM
66

Marlon Brando was 48, and Maria Schneider was 19. The scene wasn't in the script. Marlon Brando came up with the idea and asked that it be added. Maria Schneider didn't know that she could say no, because of her inexperience in the industry. She also didn't know exactly what they were going to do. Bertolucci, the director, didn't trust an actress to act, so he wanted her to actually feel pain and humiliation. She had a breakdown after the movie came out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:58 PM
48

And yet it's women who are irrational and led by our emotions, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:48 PM
42

Nothing is more awkward in bed than a man who insists on being "dominant" but doesn't know what the fuck he's doing. And the two always go together. If he knew what he was doing, he wouldn't insist on being "dominant". Men think being "dominant" is a short cut to being good lovers. Like "If I just growl at her and pull her hair, she's sure to orgasm, right?" They really are that dumb. Ask me how I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:43 PM
8

The article is good, but says that it's "sexist and unhelpful" to suggest that "women are innately more compassionate and cooperative". It might be sexist and unhelpful (hint: it's not), but that doesn't stop it from being the simple, scientifically-demonstrated truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:35 PM
8

It is disappointing, isn't it? People hyped it up to me as containing many great stories, so I read some of them. Is it me, or is God literally the bad guy in just about every Bible story? He's like a psycho Bond-villain! Committing genocide left and right, supporting the wrong side in wars, bombing whole cities, not to mention drowning every human and land animal with miniscule exceptions. I came away from that reading experience wondering, "Have humans accidentally been worshipping Satan this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:26 PM
14

Oh lord preserve us! "We kill you and we kill ourselves. Therefore you guys are murderers." --incel logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:05 PM
30

Too accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 11:47 PM
6

You literally cannot win any game you play with LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:01 PM
124

I'm afraid this guy went on a whole rant about a word that he doesn't actually know the meaning of. He seems to think that the only kind of intimidation is physical intimidation, and therefore no man is intimidated unless he is literally in fear for his life. Back in the literate world, "intimidate" simply means "to make timid". Anything can make a person feel timid, from a roomful of listening strangers, to a new food, to the person you have a crush on, to driving someone else's car, to stairs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 08:59 PM
41

Oh my god! Sigmund Freud called and he wants his whackadoodle nonsense back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:01 PM
34

Imagine if you had snuck out and slept with him. Then your parents came down with the virus, and one or both died (forgive the grim hypothetical). Do you think he would have taken any responsibility? No, he would say "well you shouldn't have come out." All the risk was on you here, and he knows that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:06 PM
11

Then perhaps he felt that it was too easy for his tastes? Either way, you're well rid of him, sis. Don't waste your precious thought-power on this nonentity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:58 PM
26

"It's not deep, it's stoopid. Name your horse, for crying out loud." Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:43 PM
3

I love the sad face at the end! Like 'why don't you want a stranger to have your nudes, I'm so hurt by your irrational rudeness'. God, they are just as dumb as a box of rocks, aren't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:40 PM
9

He only wanted to have sex. When he saw that it wasn't going to be easy, he stopped making any effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:23 PM
28

I've had a lot of opportunity to observe how casual dads are about their children's safety. You can bet that if pregnancy and childbirth were their burden, they wouldn't be so blase about it, but because it was all someone else's effort, their general mentality is 'I can always have another'. This is another reason to insist that men do as much of the childcare as possible: once they've invested a lot of their own time and effort into something, it becomes more precious and irreplaceable to them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:20 PM
9

Right?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:03 PM
4

Oh, now I remember who you're talking about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:58 PM
27

This is feigned obtuseness. It's a manipulation tactic. He's taking it one step farther, though. He's basically saying, yes, I see that what I did was wrong, but I don't understand why wrong is wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:24 PM
25

I don't either. Religious men are a mindfuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:20 PM
51

They want us to be dependent, and they want to be able to berate and belittle us for being dependent. Basically, they want power, and they want to abuse that power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:09 PM
324

He must have been trying to get her to break up with him. Although why he would go about it in this humiliating fashion, only an LVM would understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:24 AM
122

She was already carrying it and had already exposed her whole family to it. Quarantining herself with this guy was pointless and dangerous. What she should have done was QUIT DATING DURING A PANDEMIC. Especially with a guy who is apparently still going in to work. Do people not understand how contagion works? It's not that complicated. You're basically exposing everyone you know to everyone your booty-call knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:29 AM
21

Truly, it's the silence that I appreciate most. Now I can fall asleep to my own uninterrupted thoughts, because he's not watching TV in the next room or practicing the guitar. I also really love that without him in my life, I just don't drink. I never was much of a drinker, but now I just don't have any reason or occasion to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:21 AM
29

Sounds amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:14 AM
3

Christ, what a time to be alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:12 AM
24

I've been there too. I said yes to things only because I recognized that I couldn't safely say no. I think it's heartbreakingly common. I'm so glad we've found this place where we can speak the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:11 AM
51

Yeah, he just knows how to bargain for vacations. And bargain himself right out of relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:20 PM
152

So, because he would do it behind your back if you asked him to stop, you should therefore not ask him to stop? Likewise, if a millionaire decides to cheat on their taxes, we shouldn't bother asking him to stop, because he'll just lie about it and keep doing it? Is this how low our understanding of justice has fallen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:17 PM
214

Wow. So when two thousand people on the internet tell him he's an asshole, he's willing to take a closer look. But when one daughter had to cut contact with him entirely and another is having a nervous breakdown, that's just business as usual for this man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:12 PM
3

Oh gross. What is wrong with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:46 PM
3

I've known plenty of 7th graders, hell, plenty of 2nd graders who show more mental maturity every single day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:44 PM
5

So she's potentially bringing the virus back to these people who have been very kind and generous to her, and then she's lying about it, and then she's dragging you into her lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:43 PM
11

He's already out and about, but you're probably in isolation. So basically he's saying "come, share my higher level of danger so that I can have the ghost of a chance of getting my dick wet."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:40 PM
10

I've just never heard of someone cumming in a colostomy bag before. But I'm sure porn of that exists, and I'm sure this man has seen it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:33 PM
16

It's not just individual bad men. All of society is set up to do this to women. The combination of benign and sinister grooming tactics, the sneaky ways of getting abuse victims and bystanders to collude with the abuser, the methods of being the only source of explanation of what's happening, the listening to our complaints only to gauge how best to abuse us in the future. This describes patriarchal culture as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:25 PM
16

Great point, a good lawyer could have a field day with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:06 PM
48

Right, by this "logic" anything that can hurt or kill you is your superior. So, sharks, rhinos, bears, dogs, rattlesnakes, a bat with rabies, a monkey with a gun, the coronavirus, all these things are this man's superiors, and therefore it is his place in nature to suck their dicks and make them sandwiches. I'm sorry, Dwight, but facts don't care about your feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:03 PM
19

This is a great concept. You untangle the skein of fuckedupness the same way Alexander the Great untangled the Gordian knot: you pull out your sword, you chop it the hell up, and you continue on your path to greatness. All the people who sat there picking at it for days on end aren't now remembered as Somebody the Great, because they allowed a stupid distraction to divert them from their path and never accomplished anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:53 PM
87

Does he... know what a colostomy bag is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:26 AM
476

Holy shit, he couldn't even hold it together for a single second. This is a dangerous person with zero grip on his emotions. I would bet dollars to donuts we're going to see his name on the news someday soon, and it won't be because the mayor is giving him a medal...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:19 AM
39

We need to give ourselves permission to leave way sooner and way easier. He's not helping, he's not listening, he's not changing (unless it's for the worse). If it gets to this point, just go. You don't ever need to spend time agonizing about the thoughts and motivations of a parasite. If you found out you had a tapeworm, would you be like "Why is he doing this? Why is he robbing me of nutrients that I need? How can I explain to him that that harms me? How can I explain that harming me is bad?" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:57 AM
37

The Abrahamic religions are inherently misogynistic. Sadly, all of the other major organized religions are as well. Have you ever read any of the Vedas, or the works of Confucius? I don't recommend it, if you don't want to spike your blood pressure. Even if they weren't misogynistic, though, the established purpose of any dogmatic, organized religion is mass mind-control. To put it more bluntly, mental slavery. Who benefits? Certainly not the billions of poor believers who live and die in extrem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:43 AM
58

Sex has so little cost for such a reliable payoff, for men, that it might as well be ordering a pizza. What's really amazing about the situation is that they refuse to see that it's so much more dangerous, and so much less rewarding for us. Then they act like we're the crazy ones for noticing the facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:00 PM
9

Yikes. But yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:07 PM
129

Oof, spot on take-down of the Cool Girl. Bye Cool Girl, I'll come to your funeral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:06 PM
138

Ha! They obviously have opposite meanings for the word "serious". He means commitment and she means sex. Incompatible. I've noticed this about the word "respect" too. When men say they want respect, they often mean they want a voiceless, choiceless slave. When women say we want respect, we just mean that we don't want to be that slave. So many disconnects in communication between the female way of seeing the world and the male one. Good thing the male way won't be the default much longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 04:04 PM
31

In my experience, men only love-bomb to get you addicted so that you don't leave when the abuse begins. Men who don't plan to abuse you have no need for a love-bombing phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:38 AM
75

Men will continually claim to be the "more rational" gender. And yet if you imagine a tank driven by a horny gremlin, you have basically pictured a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:12 AM
9

1) I love how creative I am, that I am literally overflowing with good ideas all the time. 2) I love how strong and sturdy and competent my body is; it always has my back and has saved me from a lot of shit. 3) I love how much pleasure I get from the simple things. It's so easy for me to be happy. 4) I love how easy it is for me to acquire the friendship, loyalty, and even admiration of the people around me. 5) I love how much I love to learn and grow and investigate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:54 PM
13

Wanted to take him to the vet and have him fixed, would be my guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:58 PM
12

Written by a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:47 PM
11

I know! It's such a new and refreshing feeling for so many of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:06 AM
66

How, how did they get this stupid!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:17 AM
53

No no no no no no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:15 AM
10

Wow, you called it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:20 PM
39

I love the look on her face. She's so ready for this date to be over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:19 PM
8

"For some reason!" Christ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:01 PM
22

"Why do ordinary, respectable men visit prostitutes?" They literally don't. You're thinking of a different sort of men, Guardian. The funniest part of this article is how many of the men say that the women enjoy it and want it. One man actually says he feels like a great lover. I'd love to see each of these men's quotes juxtaposed with the opinion of a sex worker, giving the reality of the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:58 PM
8

Holy shit, did this guy miss the point. Of reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:14 PM
10

Sing it from the rooftops, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:12 PM
13

It will! Trust your brain to soak up the life-giving miracle that is FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:11 PM
8

So, so true, and well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:09 PM
44

Yay! Thank you for sharing! Know that your story will help others. It's not my place to say that I'm proud of you, but I'm proud to share a community with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:04 PM
1

You know, I read that book years ago, but I was so disappointed that everything turned out to have a non-Gothic explanation, that I didn't even really notice the guy. Maybe I should read it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:16 PM
27

I love this picture. All the women presenting a united face against the LVM. That's powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:57 PM
2

What was he going for there? To almost burn her? To scare her? Either way he sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:45 AM
8

What a lovely sentiment. And true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:32 PM
68

I love making them explain the stupid shit they say! Preferably in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:49 PM
110

A hundred years ago, and LVM still haven't gotten the memo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:45 PM
186

Ten bucks? Girl, leave him so he can find out the actual going rate for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:42 PM
8

Oh hey, hot stuff! Sadly, we won't be a match. I'm Montana in the front and Kansas in the back. But, please, tell me all about your schlong anyway? Pics?? Pretty please??? Is that what they want? Am I femaling correctly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:39 PM
9

Do you have some favorite books, in which the HVM is really a HVM? I'd love to read something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:30 PM
1

Too real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:27 PM
21

Wow. Profound. Disgusting. True.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:16 PM
6

Yeah, sure, it's great and sooo special to be a Highly Sensitive Male, but when he uses his own supposed sensitivity to justify another man's mistreatment of that man's wife....uh, what? How? That tells me this dipshit will latch onto literally any excuse that allows men to go on mistreating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:11 PM
9

I'd say write back addressing him by an adjective, as he's doing to you (possibly 'tedious' or 'mediocre'), but it's really not worth the trouble. Nothing interesting will ever come out of this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:03 PM
52

Oh lord, I'm wheezing! He thinks he has the right to question you about your butt?! LVMs never cease to amaze me, in the worst way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:58 PM
18

Often though, in the interests of having conflict i.e. a plot, authors have the "HVM" male lead do some pretty LVM stuff at the beginning, which works out fine in the context of a book, but can lead young or inexperienced readers to excuse away LVM actions in real life. For example, Rochester from Jane Eyre. He was supposedly based on some dude that Charlotte Bronte actually fell in love with. She found his mercurial and masterful personality attractive, so she wrote it into her romantic male le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:53 PM
6

It usually does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:25 PM
3

Yes, all economies are a web, including the dating economy... I really appreciate your insights too, and I'm glad you made this post because I think that solidarity among women is our most powerful tool for change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:06 AM
4

Essentially we are in agreement. On a macro scale pickmes do harm (though, of course, we know they are just a symptom, and not the causal agent), and on a micro level, we benefit from them. I guess I'm making a more semantic argument. They can't technically undercut the market on us, because the "product" they're offering is not comparable to the "product" we're offering. It doesn't matter how cheap chicken mcnuggets are, the consumer knows that $100 is still a reasonable price for a wagyu steak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:43 AM
4

Well, I mean that globally it's not good that so many women are out there accepting such poor treatment from men. That allows the bar for publicly acceptable behavior from men to be depressingly low, which is bad for everyone - men, women, and most tragically, children who grow up with the idea that this is normal. On an individual basis, though, pickmeishas can't take from us anything that we would have wanted anyway. They are out here mopping up the LVMs like an activated charcoal cleanse goin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:41 PM
3

Sorry, that was supposed to be a W. I changed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:58 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:43 PM
10

I absolutely agree with you that it's important and in everyone's best interests that we raise other women up and present a united front. However, I don't believe that pickmeishas can "undercut the market" in any way that harms HVW. Even the men who gladly take advantage of them are actually very disappointed by pickmeishas. The ocean of pitiful women out there only make HVWs that much more impressive to behold. In a sense, they are helping to raise our value by making us rare. For their sakes, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:35 PM
19

Or when you're watching a new documentary, and they're still referring to the entire human race as "man" or "mankind". Seriously, shows were actually better about this in the 90s. We've regressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:23 PM
21

So I'm better off going to Chuck E. Cheez, where I can at least win a plastic comb?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:08 PM
21

"I have never made but one prayer to God, a very short one: 'O Lord, make my enemies ridiculous'. And God granted it." ---Voltaire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:07 PM
25

Are they redeemable for prizes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:51 PM
10

I know, I was rooting for her despite her worrisome name, and then the end came...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:50 PM
80

Aw, she looks so happy in the last picture. Good job, dad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:48 PM
5

Do you know where it is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:32 PM
20

Ah haha! That was hilarious! He's all "oh, men aren't sensitive like feemales are, you can't hurt me." Lady: * stomps his ego so hard that he can't speak for four days * Is he kidding? LVM are the MOST sensitive, the MOST fragile little worms to ever crawl the face of the Earth. He mistook her past kindness for weakness, and actually thought he was stronger. Oh my god, what a great story. u/Brief-House, please come visit us. It certainly seems like you're ready to be treated better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:29 PM
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Amazing. You can see him actually having the healthy male reaction, but then pulling himself back down with the redpill rhetoric he's ingested. He says "I felt inadequate" and "it made me feel like shit to hear that". By god, it should! You've secured the attentions of a beautiful female! Your gonads are telling you to protect and adore her, and count your lucky stars! But the imaginary voices of other scrotes in his head jump in to undermine his biological chances. Too bad, so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:47 AM
113

Oh my god. "Anal...she keeps fighting me on." No, bro, you are the one who keeps fighting her. She has told you 'no'. How many times is she going to have to protect herself against someone who claims to love her? This is so scary and sad. I wish we could find her and open her eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:39 AM
16

He is definitely selling these, or at least using them for upvotes on some NSFW subreddits. Thousands of people have seen her pictures and videos, without a doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:42 PM
29

I am like this. My goal in life is to achieve perfect internet anonymity, and I'm nearly there. It's not because I'm a criminal or have anything to hide. I just like my privacy, and I don't want the energy drain that is social media. I enjoy the sensual world so much more than the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:36 PM
9

Wow, what classy wording she uses to convey the idea "ugly dudes can stfu". I am in awe of her graciousness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:31 PM
10

Yep, I've gotten to that stage myself. The minute somebody appears to be looking for pity, I become repulsed. I've had my tenderheartedness used against me once too often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:04 PM
8

Someone told me that these men who feel like they're touching you with robot hands are the ones who didn't get breast-fed as babies. I have no idea if that's true, but it always stuck with me. Some group of lady-scientists should do a study.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:00 PM
1

Thank you for your thoughtful reply! It's really interesting to hear your perspective, because I feel that I suffer from the opposite condition. I'm often more aware of other people's emotions than my own, and can be overwhelmed or distracted by people's nearly invisible emotional displays, even if they have nothing to do with me. A lot of times I feel like a turtle with its shell peeled off, but I know the grass isn't necessarily greener.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:35 PM
12

The fatality rate of covid-19 is miniscule for people in their age range. So the man is a coward and bad at math, besides being a homicidal monster...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:03 PM
9

I second this. I am choosy as hell on OLD, and have never been spoken to like this, nor had a bad first date. I use OkCupid, and the longer profile space can give you all the clues you need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:29 PM
24

Girl, you said it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:20 PM
1

There's so many of this type, and it's such a sad delusion to witness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:08 PM
13

I'm getting to this point now, and its the best feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:03 PM
17

Yikes. This is where I say a word of gratitude for my natural laziness, because no matter what else I have put up with from men, I have never ever done one speck of their housework for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:57 PM
13

So every woman on the internet has to be the parent to every young boy on the internet, and police what he can and can't see? Where are the actual parents in all this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:54 PM
31

I kind of want to see a picture of the ring. Why does it look real only from certain angles? Did she get scammed by a jeweler, as well as by a horny jailbird?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:49 PM
51

I had one who I picked off of OLD due to his adorably handsome face. Like a very young and boyish Jason Momoa with dimples and short hair, if you can picture such a thing. Beautifully muscled body due to various martial arts, and he fit into my rather specific height requirements (5'7"-5'9"). His profile was funny, cute, self-deprecating, and smart enough for what I was looking for. I asked him out (I used to make that mistake) and we went on a date. He was even cuter in person, and well-dressed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:46 PM
53

The weak-minded ones who are most susceptible to the suck of the screen are kindly showing themselves out of the gene pool. Good-bye fellas, you won't be missed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:14 PM
27

Smart man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:21 AM
30

He waited literally one minute before turning into a little punk. I pity any woman who answers within his time frame. It might take her two minutes to find out what he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:18 AM
2

Interesting, thanks for sharing. When you watch movies or read books, do you feel that you're able to follow along with the emotions of the characters usually?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:41 AM
29

"...a much stronger man was encouraging a boy to deal with the feeling of defeat..." Yeah, that's not actually what was happening. In the real world, an adult man was using a little boy's trust to humiliate the boy and feel better about himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:36 AM
8

With my narc, the realization of what he was came all at once. He said something during a fight, and I was like "Oh! This man doesn't love me and is incapable of love! He will always be this shitty, and all my struggles to help him have gone right down the toilet. I get it now." I stopped talking to him from that moment. Right in the middle of the fight, I just stopped. He dropped me off at my place, I kissed him good-bye, and then he never saw or heard from me again. I went from loving fiancee …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:26 AM
27

As if it matters at all what this incel prefers. He must be talking about his porn preferences, because no real woman is even considering his trash weiner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:11 AM
6

Thank you for typing this out. I've been going through the same things, and it helps to see it coming from someone else like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:03 AM
74

"We are like training a puppy". Does he have any idea how unsexy that sounds?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:03 AM
38

Padme is what you get when we leave it to men to write "strong female characters". They don't have a clue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:58 AM
13

Gilded garbage will still stink up your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:53 AM
5

In my personally conducted studies, there is no correlation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:52 AM
8

Yes, I've always felt that the "cross-body" strap in the front seats is much more "cross-neck". Perfectly placed to sever the jugular and crush the trachea of a woman-sized person...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:59 PM
20

What an interesting article. Written by a man (confusingly named Sharon) about how his wife is his genetic superior, and how very glad he is that that's the case. I'm glad you posted this, OP. I'll probably buy and read his soon-to-be-released book, 'The Better Half: On The Genetic Superiority Of Women'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:06 AM
35

I know, it's baffling! They claim to want sex, but they can't be bothered to do the very rudimentary things that could make them sexually acceptable to women. Instead they spend enormous amounts of time and energy on things that make them repellent, like gaming, drinking, smoking weed, jerking off, and pissing in bottles. They've psyched themselves out of the game, in many cases, by thinking that women have insane and completely arbitrary standards that they'll never be able to live up to anyway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 12:47 AM
12

For however long you go on believing that it is "critical" for you to find a man in order to live the life you want, that is how long you will continue to self-sabotage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:55 PM
8

It's true, they are projecting. They're like a bunch of head-butting rams with each other, and then they have the foolishness to be like "hey, want to get in on this?" to us. Uh no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:34 PM
5

It always made me think of cuttlefish anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:30 PM
30

Anyone else notice that he refers to the kid as "my son" every single time? You could almost imagine he was talking about a child from a previous marriage, and that his current wife had nothing to do with it. This little whiner needs to wake up. It's her son, as babydaddy is going to find out when the wife up and leaves him, taking the kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:24 PM
8

I wondered that too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:18 PM
8

You are so spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:15 PM
6

Hear hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:07 PM
27

So, so true. The more power you give them, the more they want. The more you surrender, the more they demand. The more you humble yourself, the less respect they will have for you, and the greater their contempt will grow. You can never make a man happy by giving him everything he wants (and you certainly won't be happy yourself). If you want keep a man's interest, you have to challenge him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:06 PM
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"Allow women to arrive at equality with us, and they will from that moment become our superiors.". -- Cato the Elder to the other Roman Senators On some level, they know that we're better than them. They are desperate to keep us from knowing it, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:58 PM
12

Acquitted of assault, but was he charged for being high on shrooms? The headlines should read "Famous White Male Acquitted Of Breaking One Law Because He Was Also Breaking Another".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:12 AM
9

I don't want to laugh at your misfortune, but that's hilarious. I'm so glad that butthole is banished!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:01 PM
27

I don't know why everyone's being snippy. OP found herself in a possibly questionable situation, took the time to suss it out using her own on-the-spot observations and judgement, and landed herself exactly where she wanted to be. I say, well done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:51 PM
108

Somebody has tricked fuckboys into thinking their dick is golden. How shall we break the truth to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:42 PM
19

This is nice to hear. I have to keep reminding myself that sane men do exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:39 PM
28

Ah hahaha! Of course! Men are the hands of the household, nine times out of ten, and women are the brains of the operation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:37 PM
24

They're problem creators, primarily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:35 AM
3

There's nothing like a high value dad. Mine just sent me a video of something called the "grasshopper mouse". It looks like a mouse, but it throws its head back and howls at the moon like a tiny wolf. It's carnivorous and it wrestles scorpions. Thanks, dad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:34 AM
4

Yep, right before lockdown I was going through something similar. The guy was interesting, cute, well-spoken, clean. He asked me back to his place at the end of the first date (an orange flag for me), but he was super chill when I said no, so I thought he was okay. On the second date he did it again, but still seemed very cool when I said no. Did it again on the third date, but still was totally relaxed about me saying no. Then he asked me over three more times by text, after the lockdown had be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:23 AM
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None of these really have much to do with dating, but here are some movies with female characters that I find inspiring: Princess Caraboo, starring Phoebe Cates Moll Flanders, starring Robin Wright The Scarlet Letter, starring Demi Moore Cutthroat Island, starring Geena Davis Alien, starring Sigourney Weaver O Brother Where Art Thou, with Holly Hunter in the role of Penny All are period pieces with fun costumes (except Alien), if anyone else is into that kind of thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:06 PM
6

The other women don't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 08:07 PM
1

Why does the guy in the picture look like such a schlump? Can't he roll his hems up? Anyway, this list is pointless. You can't make an LVM happy, their natural state is peevish misery. And you don't have to make an HVM happy, he is already secure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 08:04 PM
4

That's exactly what he means, and it's too much for him to handle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:59 PM
11

I don't know why this is so funny to me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:48 PM
8

Most downvotes on this sub come from LV male lurkers. No idea why your comments would be triggering them, but then who knows why LVM get mad about anything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:43 PM
4

I used to have a wonderful female pen pal in Singapore and another in Canada. Each friendship lasted for years. I met them online through a fairly niche interest that we shared. It was nice to get a long, personal, well-written letter once a week. That said, it's not the same as a real world friendship. When they ended (for different reasons), I barely cared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:40 PM
21

I just think its hilarious that he is completely taken by surprise when she breaks up with him. He had fallen out of infatuation with her, says he was becoming a worse and worse boyfriend, putting in less effort, not even taking care of himself physically, and he notices that she "was very unhappy inside". But when she breaks up with him, he is in shock. Did he think she wasn't noticing any of this? Does he think that her head is an empty la-la land, where an occasional fluffy white cloud drifts…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:32 PM
11

Yeah, the fatalistic attitude is for real on some of these guys. I have a male friend who is funny, smart, talented, driven, interesting, unique, courteous, empathetic, sensitive, respectful, and honestly pretty cute. But his nihilistic outlook is just too bleak for me to consider dating him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:58 PM
11

Relatable. Accurate. Horrifying. Five stars!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:48 PM
2

Oh absolutely, but I think either way this couple isn't really working. They're clearly not bringing out the best in each other, and once either partner has begun to feel resentment, it's usually past saving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:26 PM
7

If he's too weak to ask you out, how is he ever going to protect you from a mountain lion or the IRS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:17 PM
11

Men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:45 AM
4

This doesn't tell you anything about mental health, but my friend told me that you get to see pictures of the donors as children. I thought that was interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:30 AM
3

Yep, you can take them at face value. They really are just as bad as they seem. It's only in movies that someone seems like a jerk but magically turns out to be high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:21 AM
12

Don't just ask yourself, ask him! That lets him know that you are a woman who is on the side of women, and he'd better toe the line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:27 AM
12

Patients with female doctors live longer and have less hospital visits. Just one among a long list of things that men would rather we didn't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:22 AM
42

My ex-coworker had a baby via sperm bank last year. She has a close-knit extended family and a strong social safety net, although she is by no means wealthy. I'll be honest, I was a little concerned for her in the beginning, but she is doing really well, and the baby is so happy and healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:47 AM
12

Right? The Nice Guy believes he's entitled to sex with you, while the Psycho Chick believes she's entitled to the bare minimum of human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:36 AM
8

I think that would be "scrotitude".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:29 AM
11

Oh, that would be great if OP started her own rival club.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:25 AM
5

I'm the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:23 AM
18

I have been so quick to end things with my dates since finding FDS (which was right around the beginning of 2020). It's like a revelation. You mean I don't have to give boring, crude, ugly, or disrespectful men ten thousand chances each? You mean they don't all have hidden depths that I should spend my precious time and energy to bring to light? It's made such a change in my dating style, and - who'd have thunk it? - dating is now actually fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:10 AM
4

On any one thing I agree that it's fair to cut the other person some slack, but it sounds like OP is seeing this as a pattern.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 12:01 AM
101

It is so gross that this even crossed this man's mind. And then he apparently thought it was okay for him to broadcast this disgusting thought in public? If I were a man I would feel bitterly ashamed to have to stoop to such an arrangement, but here he is acting like he's had some cute and cheeky idea. Yuck, just yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:55 PM
2

I found it interesting to read about too, because I have a very "male" 2:D 4:D ratio myself, yet I'm a heterosexual woman. I guess that goes to show that statistics aren't especially meaningful on the individual scale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:05 PM
2

I over-simplified for brevity's sake. The situation is not as clear cut as my comment makes it sound. It was an article about what they call the "2:D 4:D ratio", or the difference in length between a person's index finger and ring finger. Supposedly this correlates to how much testosterone one was exposed to in the womb, and can later be predictive of things like athletic ability, proneness to prostate cancer, higher testosterone levels as an adult, and, amazingly, agreeableness towards women. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:28 PM
90

Please come visit us here, u/sierralapuerta. You deserve so much better than what you've gotten in the past, and this sub can help you to find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:43 AM
19

This is so exciting! What a happy day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 07:37 AM
22

It may not convert him to the light side, but it could be a morale boost for any women nearby to see the pedophile get curb-stomped by facts. I know I always enjoy that feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 02:17 AM
4

<3 <3 <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:58 PM
23

I love to thrift on Etsy. I just got some beautiful woven leather flats for spring. They genuinely appear brand new. Buying used will always be more eco-friendly and ethical than buying new from any company. I also like to support my local (female) tailors. If I have a piece that I like, I ask them to copy it for me in a different fabric. You can also buy amazing vintage fabrics on Etsy and eBay. It's so fun and rewarding, because you get exactly what you like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:55 PM
59

He thinks he's impressing you with... his willingness to give you a life-threatening virus?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:49 PM
40

Thank you! This will be handy for shutting down gross conversations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:46 PM
8

Too true, LVM are such weasels!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:11 PM
6

Yes, I hear you. My plan is to go the sperm bank route, or if I were to get pregnant the old fashioned way by accident, I would be sure to put "father: unknown" on the birth certificate. I watched my aunt's horrifying experience of trying to keep her child away from a self-annihilating alcoholic, and I would never wish that on any woman. I know that men can be good fathers because my own happens to be a really excellent dad, but he's more or less unique in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:09 PM
46

Oof. She looks Un. Con. Vinced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:58 PM
17

I mean, it kind of does? It attacks the vesicles in the testes and causes what they're guessing could be permanent sterility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:57 PM
9

It's sad that he didn't value the advice of a partner who loved him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:00 PM
6

My main concern with marriage is that it gives a man some rights over your children. Imagine the pain and anxiety you would feel if you had to go through a whole legal proceeding just to keep your children out of the hands of an abuser. You would probably win in the end, but these things can drag out for years, during which time you would have to drive your children to his house once a week, and leave them with someone they resent or fear. That is the quickest way to erode the bonds of trust bet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:24 PM
9

Just out of curiosity, how is your ex doing now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:14 PM
4

Sad but true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:42 PM
52

Please come here and familiarise yourself with our handbook, u/hispasia. There is a better way to date, where you don't have to learn things the hard way. You deserve better than what you're getting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:30 PM
14

I want to make it clear that I don't blame puberty itself at all. The hormonal excuse doesn't carry any weight with me, because studies have shown that higher testosterone in men actually correlates to better treatment of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:36 PM
18

He looks like a spoiled baby with a drawn-on Abraham Lincoln beard. This poor kid is going to go straight from looking like a baby to looking like a sack of rotting fruit, with no period of ever looking like a man in between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:48 PM
66

With the boys, as soon as they get to fifth or sixth grade, sometimes earlier, it's as if it becomes their aspiration to be worse people, instead of better. They begin to idolise the bad guys in movies and stories. They never shut up about Thanos, Pennywise, Slenderman, etc. Whoever is most deranged and least worthy of emulation. Their sense of humor takes a turn for the darker, and they begin laughing about and making fun of things they can't possibly understand. With most of them, I can still …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:15 AM
17

It's funny to me that what is life-changing, character-building "good advice" to men is just no-brainer-obvious to women. The fact that a man could build a huge and fanatical following by saying things like "clean your room" and "acknowledge your own actions" is laughable, but also kind of scary and sad. But I guess some men actually needed to hear that (from a man, of course - I'm sure their moms had been telling them that for decades).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:12 PM
76

Anger is natural and helpful, but I don't see any reason to direct it at myself. I remember having very high self-esteem and self-respect and self-preservation as a child, and I can trace the events and reactions and constant low-grade undermining that wore me down over the years. We live in a misogynistic society that teaches us to devalue ourselves, and then we accept unworthy mates. I work with children and I've known many of them before, during, and after puberty, and I've seen what a number…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:55 PM
28

If you want men to take your advice seriously (and it IS great advice that could do them a ton of good), I'm afraid they will have to believe that it is coming from another man. To them, we just make an annoying sound like Charlie Brown's parents. As an experiment, you could post these exact same messages to some male subreddits using a name like GrizzlyMcBeardface or BicepsForDays or EightInchesOfPain, or some ultra-male bullshit, and see what kind of responses you get. You'd probably be hailed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:33 PM
27

It's almost as if the real world ocean is becoming this metaphor for the dating pool. There are actually less and less healthy fish, and now there are literal trash vortexes as large as continents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:23 PM
33

This is the photo he chose to put on his profile?!? Can't these creatures expend any energy or strategic thought?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:19 PM
59

Ouch ouch ouch. She knows she's going to get dragged because she knows that everything about this situation is wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:09 PM
24

That's a great idea that they mention in the article, of turning empty hotels into women's shelters. This whole issue goes to show that male humans have been less successfully domesticated than male dogs. Perhaps the difference is that most male dogs are castrated. Just saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:04 PM
258

Before I found FDS I used to look back on most of my exes with some degree of affection. Each of them had one or two good qualities, and that was about all that I expected from men. One would cook for me, one was a good conversationalist, one gave a good foot massage, etc. Now I look back on them with impatience and utter indifference. Not one of them gave me orgasms, not one of them was actively supportive of my goals, not one of them was someone I could fully trust or admire. Now that I've fou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:24 PM
25

It's not you. All women who date men have had these experiences. And then we've all gone on to question 'What is wrong with me? Why am I attracting assholes?' And then we came to FDS and learned that all women who date men have had these experiences. It's truly not you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:43 AM
2

I looked it up, but the YouTube channel is gone. It was a video about his body language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:40 AM
113

Yes, once in desperation I prayed to Saint Jolene. That very evening my useless FWB called and told me his ex had moved to town. It was a Chanukah miracle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:36 AM
21

I had that thought too! Hopefully her finances are not tied to his, because heart issues/diabetes can be a very expensive way to die in the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:23 AM
44

"Their dick is resting on the bathroom sink" No! Now I've pictured it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:09 AM
261

Her man must be morbidly obese. Plus useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:59 AM
53

Yes, there is a whole lot of linguistic mindfuckery going on in the way we habitually talk about girls and women. If anyone here wants to be handed the X-ray glasses on this issue, in a way that is both hilarious and infuriating, check out an essay called 'A Person Paper on Purity in Language' by "William Satire". The entire paper speaks about black people in the way that is usually reserved for speaking about women, and shows how totally unacceptable that way really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:18 PM
100

I saw a very similar video about him years ago. Just loads of clips of him telling gross, outdated anecdotes, and putting (and leaving) his hands all over some very uncomfortable-looking women and children. The excuse "he comes from a different generation" is one that we will no longer be accepting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:07 PM
121

'How To Catch A CumBrain' by Theophilus J. CumBrain PhD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:59 PM
10

This is the real answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:59 PM
7

Imagine being someone who has lost a baby and having to hear that. Much of the time, we don't know who has been through a miscarriage. It's the same reason good people don't tell rape jokes. If you tell it to six people, chances are at least one of your listeners has been raped. Then they have to stand there and hear their friends laughing about what traumatized them. I had to explain that to a twelve year old boy once. Very painful discussion, but he got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:55 PM
4

I just went and downvoted every dick related comment. Is it brigading if I suggest that others do the same?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:42 PM
3

This is a nonsense scenario she fabricated out of her own deeply disturbed imagination, for no other purpose than to advertise to strangers on the internet the sad fact that her pickme socialization is (hypothetically) stronger than her maternal instincts. Her post has no real world meaning, other than being weak-ass anti-virtue signaling, because no hospital would ever leave such a decision up to the mother. They do the triage, they don't ask you to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:25 PM
10

I am in complete agreement with you. Studying history can be so beneficial to your worldview, and therefore to your mental health. I spent a few years obsessed with reading books about plagues, and now I'm glad because that gave me a much better understanding of what we're currently going through. Also, it was fascinating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 12:17 AM
21

She has to say that it was the perfect proposal "for me" because she knows that the self-respecting women in the comments are going to be like "oh honey, that's a pathetic way to propose", and now she can point back to her phrasing and say "for you maybe, but it was just the right one for who I am". If you are the kind of person for whom a proposal after eighteen years, involving a thirty dollar ring in a ten piece chicken mcnugget box is "perfect", then you need to work on your self-esteem. Thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:53 PM
5

Neither did mine, that was just his little euphemism for being a slimy manipulator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:03 PM
19

This is all too familiar. I used to be with a guy who would always say that I had "book smarts" while he had "street smarts", with the heavy implication that street smarts were the only kind that were useful in the real world, and book smarts were some sort of cute, decorative accessory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:14 PM
26

In this episode of Douchenozzles Explain, Ludwig and Abdullah, certified ladyologists, probe the unplumbable mysteries of why women keep telling them that they're shitty boyfriends. Thank god Science is here to tell us what these wammen-folk really mean!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:47 PM
2

Have you by any chance read Delusions Of Gender, by Cordelia Fine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:25 AM
10

Why is he only looking for men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:07 AM
7

I recently read that during the earlier dynasties of ancient Egypt, in order to get married, a man had to build a house for his prospective wife. If she approved of its site and size and quality of construction, she would move in and the man would be considered her husband. The house, meanwhile, was her sole property. She could order him out of her house at any time. The women of ancient Egypt believed that the goddess Hathor had come down and taught their foremothers the trick of domesticating …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 08:17 PM
3

I agree with everything you've said here, but I'm curious if you know of any actual evidence proving that the purpose of the ridge on human penises is to scoop out the sperm of the previous male? I've heard a number of people say that as if it was an accepted fact, but so far it just seems to be a hypothesis? I think a more likely, or at least more prevalent, use for that feature would be to draw down the woman's own lubricant towards the mouth of the vagina where it is most needed for her comfo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 08:06 PM
1

That's true! Did you ever see those videos of bears versus honey badgers? Very inspirational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:53 PM
11

Men have the same access to professional therapists that women do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:14 PM
17

The bigger the truck, the lamer the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:05 PM
2

I know it can be tempting to bring all your questions here, because as a women-only sub it's so much more pleasant and supportive, but this really isn't the right venue for this question. Stay safe and don't let anxiety decide your actions. Even in Wuhan they didn't experience food shortages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:03 PM
3

Are these supposed to be haikus? If so, he is failing as a poet, besides failing as a functional human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:40 PM
16

And she must be more attractive than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:31 PM
3

I understood your point to be that men need to be in control to be happy? That was the point I was refuting. If your point is that I made the mistake of accepting an idiot captain, I can only say, where is the man smart enough to be a captain?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:16 PM
6

I'm going to have to disagree with you (and RPW) on this. Men do not need to be in control to be happy - men think they need to be in control to be happy. As with most things that men as a group think, they are dead wrong about this. In fact, the more control you give to men, the more rage-filled and self-sabotaging they become. Just look around at the world we live in. Men have enormous power. Are they happy? Are they healthy? I was once in a relationship with an emotionally abusive narcissist.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:53 PM
135

Look at the disgusting smug expression on his little cartoon face, and master of the universe body language. Look at the eager to please expression on the women's faces, and their servile, handmaiden body language. I want to punch this picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:57 AM
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I've started paying attention to my voice when I go on dates. If it gets "tighter", more strained, dry, weak, rough, squeaky, shallow, tinny, or in any way unpleasant, that's my body saying no. When I'm with someone I feel good with, my voice sounds open, authentic, clear. When I'm with someone that my body really likes and wants, then my voice gets throaty, smooth, and "purrish". I haven't always been good at identifying my own feelings and desires as they're occurring, so this has been very he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:38 PM
96

He doesn't love her, it's as simple as that. He is, however, perfectly content to use her for sex and a place to stay while he presumably rents out the condo that he owns, thereby making even more money out of the situation. This is a vampire. Sis needs to wear a necklace of garlic, and start sharpening the stake, so she can get this life-draining abomination out of her apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:29 PM
17

Please read the handbook. It will give you the most comprehensive answer to this question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:24 PM
35

Pussy is priceless and powerful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:42 PM
11

That's right, all the resources exist for men to be able to handle this on their own. If he hasn't, that's a choice, and it speaks volumes about his overall attitude. Looking shabby is the symptom of deeper issues. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:20 PM
49

If this is his posture when he's trying to impress, imagine how slug-like he'll become once he's comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:13 PM
18

A) The coronaVIRUS is not a bacteria. B) There is no such thing as "platinum grade silicone". C) Of course this company is called Abyss. On a barely related note, has anyone here seen the movie Lars And The Real Girl? It stars a chubby Ryan Gosling as a guy with some sort of severe social anxiety, living in his brother's garage in Minnesota. He orders a sex doll off the internet, but he tells everyone, and he himself seems to believe, that she is his long distance fiancee who is finally coming t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:33 PM
4

How can I also work in the fact that I think of myself as Apollo, and have zero concept of how I'm coming across to other people? He's an engineer of words, that's for sure. He managed to get all of that in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:16 PM
11

If you're getting LVM vibes, and you're not feeling any attraction, then your time could be better spent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:03 PM
7

You definitely do not need to feel guilty for having sex. Your body is yours, to be used for your purposes, and anyone who would tell you differently is attempting to objectify you. Be safe and protect yourself, and do only what is good for you, because you should be your own most beloved person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:59 PM
89

You thought they seemed similar to FDS? They are the direct antithesis to us. They are women who advocate for the least possible benefits for women, the least possible autonomy, the least possible respect. They have come from Bizzaro World to steal everything we hold dear. When you see a redpilled woman, the correct response is to chant loudly "The power of Christ compels thee!" while dashing her with holy water. It's all laid out in the Handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:54 PM
39

Yay! Good for us! We're taking over the world, and we're helping so many people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:40 PM
10

So beautifully expressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:31 PM
15

Many Christian girls have been taught to despise themselves. There's all kinds of Christian. I'm glad for you if you came from one of the better ones, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:29 PM
6

I caught myself referring to HVM as "dudes of integrity" the other day, in real life. I call LVM a whole array of names, depending on what they've done. Calling them leeches seems to instantly get other women on board, because we've all felt drained by that kind of man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:23 PM
8

He clearly forgot to "choose which words to use for the desired effect." Unless his desired effect was to make himself look like an arrogant cretin?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:16 PM
39

He's exactly right that's it's not feminism for you to have to do the man's work as well as your own. However, I'm not sure why he had to all-caps the word man. "I am a MAN." Of course you are, sweetie, now chill the f out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 03:10 PM
3

I only know because it says so when you click on the link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:45 AM
74

This doesn't even surprise me. I knew some shit like this had to be going on somewhere, because there are enough sick men in the world to make this viable. Even the "good" man in the story ends up joining the side of evil. And yet you can go on unpopularopinions today and read some male assholes whining about how "women are actually the privileged ones". Oh really? Then where is the international cabal of hundreds of thousands of female blackmailers coercing young boys to saw off their own nippl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:33 AM
24

Yep, I've had exactly this happen to me. I refused to be guilted. I had warned him not to introduce the kid to me too soon, kids love me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 02:55 AM
4

My grandma too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:34 PM
5

I am seeing this from the other side. A man that I was dating keeps asking me to break my isolation to hang out with him. I will not be seeing him anymore when the lockdown is over, because this behavior is irresponsible and selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:31 PM
90

"I can't be a friend." No, you sure can't. I had a guy pull this line on me. He was all "I just feel too strongly about you! Being around you in a friendship capacity would be too hard for me! It would tear me apart on the inside!" So dramatic. I told him "Okay, I understand, we don't need to spend time together." I guess he didn't expect me to call his bluff. Just hours later, he was like "Never mind, we can be friends." No, we can't. You tried to emotionally blackmail me into sex. Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:23 PM
25

u/lowflyinphoenix, please come here. This is a women-only sub where you can get solid advice and support from people who have been exactly where you are now. Your deserve so much better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:11 PM
70

I kind of hate that these qualities are coded as masculine. Most males don't have them. I wish these were just considered high value human qualities that everyone should aspire to. Why do we have to code the basic virtues as "belonging" to one gender or the other? There's a lot of this "masculine energy" and "feminine energy" talk going around these days, and I just can't relate. The most courageous people I've ever known have been women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:06 PM
29

What she probably means is that she finds this necessary, because otherwise her pornsick limpdick lovers would never get erections at all. Not my problem if a man has ruined his dick, and I will not do any work to solve his self-imposed dysfunction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 10:58 PM
6

May I ask what you did to try to improve in this area? I always feel a disconnect when talking to guys about sex, because they seem to have such different ideas than I have about what makes a man good at it.
/r/askFDS21/03/20 08:31 PM
31

Ugh, I've been wondering the same thing. These men in their thirties are all still uber drivers who want to split the bill. It's embarrassing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 08:00 PM
8

They're unhealthy blocks on your sexuality, if nothing else.
/r/askFDS21/03/20 07:29 PM
2

Maybe buy your mom a copy of Why Does He Do That, if you want her to permanently stop dating scumbags.
/r/askFDS21/03/20 07:06 PM
6

When a man invites me back to his place for drinks on the first date, I immediately categorize him as a fuckboy. I believe that you truly are looking for something deeper, and in fact, I think most fuckboys are, but in order get it you need to pursue it differently than you would pursue a one night stand. You don't hunt tigers with a fishing pole.
/r/askFDS21/03/20 07:03 PM
5

It almost certainly is at least a part of your issue. When women talk about how most men are very disappointing in bed, most men seem to think "Nah, I'm alright". There is no alright. There is only disappointing and excellent. Plus, when we say "most men", we are talking about the huuuge majority. Every man seems to think he's the exception to the statistics. Why? You may think you're doing okay in this department, but speaking as a woman, when I find a man who actually satisfies me (and I've on…
/r/askFDS21/03/20 06:55 PM
4

You might be dating the wrong type of women. Where do you find them, and how old are you?
/r/askFDS21/03/20 06:44 PM
7

The things that LVM just let "slip out"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:24 PM
11

Yes, we have a better layer of subcutaneous fat. It's just a bonus that it's aesthetically pleasing too! I got in an argument with a guy on OLD about whether or not Jack could have fit onto that floating door with Rose at the end of Titanic. I said it wouldn't have made any difference if he could, he still would have died. Kate Winslet is beautifully well-insulated, whereas young Leo was working with about 1.5% bodyfat. He probably would have died even if they had gotten into one of the lifeboat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:23 PM
5

Oh my god, did he think he was being charming?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:13 PM
6

Right? It's like they describe their sense of humor with whatever terms will excuse their shittiness. That's lame and cowardly. They should just be honest and say 'I am awful and I find it funny'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:10 PM
3

Ew, show her what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:04 PM
2

Twelve Angry Men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:23 AM
1

You can just say 'Hey, this situation isn't working for me. I wish you the best' or something like that right before you block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:17 AM
14

We also withstand hypothermia and hyperthermia better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:02 AM
7

Good for you for getting out so quickly! Many women stay for years or decades, faking their life away. I'm so glad for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:54 AM
74

Yes, this is the kind of dating that I used to accept as normal. We've been socialized to have shitty boundaries, so we can't blame ourselves. Nowadays, I try to think "would my cat put up with this?" She has some powerful boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:49 AM
13

Yep. Basically, if they talk about their sense of humor, they don't have a sense of humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:20 AM
37

As he should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:59 AM
6

Oh god! That's exactly what they do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:55 AM
5

So many.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:54 AM
11

I've seen so many of these, always with the wildest excuses. "I work for the FBI", "I'm a celebrity", "I'm in witness protection", blah blah blah. Meanwhile Sharon Stone put up a dating profile with pictures and her real name. I guarantee none of these dudes is more famous than Sharon Stone, and if they were, their agent would find them a girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:43 AM
1

What an image!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:38 AM
2

"Ignoring those who aren't worth it is one of the greatest social skills you can learn." Excuse me, I just wanted to repeat that so I can drill it into my own mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:37 AM
20

Unfriend this person. He really calls himself Witty Af? This is arbitrary, but a man using the word "witty" to describe himself is one of my dealbreakers. The men who do this are some of the least amusing you will ever meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:29 AM
33

Garbage advice. Garbage advice everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:22 AM
23

But weren't there more than four men involved? I don't want to reread the facts, because they were horrifying, but I seem to remember that it was much more than four.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:19 AM
11

THE ACTUAL TRUTH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:11 AM
15

Nah, dudes love Aubrey Plaza. You're fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:09 AM
42

What a crumb bum! That's no boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:06 AM
24

A queen in her larval form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:02 AM
85

Oh guys, he is so wonderful! He spends nearly ten minutes caring for his own child, and somehow this absolute prince among men finds the strength of character to refrain from belittling his wife! How will she ever be good enough to deserve all this wonderfulness?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:59 AM
40

Why does he have a daily war within himself? That doesn't sound healthy at all. What if he took all the hours that he spends unproductively staring at a screen and used them to get that situation straightened out instead? Like, see a therapist, start a meditation practice, hold actual attentive conversations with your life partner, spend some time in nature, be an active role model for your children, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:44 PM
2

That would genuinely surprise me. Let's hope not! There's tons of good men out there, they're just not usually the ones who are most popular with other men.
/r/askFDS20/03/20 03:57 PM
15

I know, there were peahens there too but, funnily enough, they weren't jerks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:09 AM
18

It wasn't a Wiccan preschool, it was run on Montessori principles. The other teacher was a Native American lady. It was awesome, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:53 AM
10

Can they use this to their advantage somehow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:49 AM
1

I would guess that pharmaceutical companies will do very well going forward, unless/until the US government decides to socialize the health industry suddenly and drastically, as England did after WWII. That said, it seems likely that we'll be looking at wild inflation in the near future, so that even high earnings will be simply worth much less. Take all of this with a grain of salt, please, as I am not a financial professional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:35 AM
17

Yes! Thank you! That was the closure I needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:27 AM
5

You'll never go wrong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:25 AM
29

It is one hundred percent rapist logic. These are the men who rape when they know they can get away with it; when the woman is blackout drunk, asleep, under anesthesia, paralyzed, in a coma, suffering from dementia, an unprotected child, dying on a battlefield, etc. Only a thin veneer of social consequences stands between this sort of man and his own monstrosity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:24 AM
49

There is a book from 1952 called 'The Natural Superiority Of Women'. It was written by a medical doctor named Ashley Montagu (a man), and supposedly just explores all of the ways in which women are better than men. I haven't read it, but as I understand, it was released as a series of essays in the national newspapers of the time, and met with a very warm reception. I wonder what kind of reception it would get now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:23 PM
22

You've expressed it perfectly. That's exactly what they think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:13 PM
40

I would have given him a friendly smile and a little wave, and said "it's been real nice getting to know you!" as I sailed on by. I always ask myself, what would Dolly Parton do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:01 PM
146

In my experience, any man who says 'nice guys finish last' is bad, bad news. He hides his ugly nature under the guise of nice guy, but then he "throws a pity party" when people don't give him prizes for wearing the correct mask. You are not wrong to be put off by this. Listen to your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:53 PM
8

Actually, this might be an important milestone for him. He has formulated a thought about his thoughts. That's metacognition. Way to go, Joshy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:58 PM
37

It is completely illogical. It's like 'sorry I... have a body?'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:55 PM
5

One of the worst is Annie Get Your Gun. Annie Oakley is a way better shot than the guy she has a crush on, and the "lesson" of the movie is that she has to pretend to be less talented than him, so that he can feel okay about marrying her. She literally has to lose a public contest to him, and then smile and act happy because she won the "real prize". I wanted to throw my TV into the street after watching that. It is not a true story. I believe Annie Oakley was undefeated, and her husband was qui…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:50 PM
3

Oh my god, me too. And few things are less sexy than a man saying "you like that don't you?" Usually the answer is "no, not especially", but even if I am enjoying it, him saying smug shit like that just turns me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:37 PM
66

She was great. She snatched the tail feathers out of this peacock that was terrorizing us. When you're little, a peacock is like a whole velociraptor. Of course it was a male peacock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:19 PM
23

Self sufficiency is going to have to make a comeback in a big way. Growing a shit ton of tomatoes on your balcony, and then trading for eggs with your neighbor who has chickens. Mending clothes instead of throwing them away. All that stuff that sounded hipsterish may now become every day life for many. I would like to point out that in times of Recession or Depression, LVM only become more parasitical. Their low value way of thinking doesn't allow them to plan ahead effectively, so they won't so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:08 PM
6

Right now you might actually be better off asking for jewelry. Solid gold or silver with high quality rubies or emeralds. A whole lot of stock isn't even going to be worth the paper it isn't printed on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:58 PM
23

You did the right thing. It's really no loss, because his behavior only would have gotten worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:54 PM
5

A prize is something you compete for. Men should never ever be competed for. That's bad for women and bad for men (as we are currently learning in this world).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:52 PM
77

This cannot be real. I refuse to accept that this might be going on somewhere. The only one that makes the least bit of sense as a reward is that she will allow his pit-stained shirt to continue to exist. Fear of consequences is the best motivator for weak personalities. As someone who works with children, I've seen ample evidence that rewarding people for what they are supposed to do anyway is the most effective method of producing unmanageable, mercenary, lazy, entitled little snots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:47 PM
173

I got thrown out of preschool for biting a boy who wouldn't stop hugging me. I don't remember it, but my mom says I was very patient and kept telling him 'no, please don't do that', but he just kept trying it, day after day. When I finally snapped, and the preschool acted like I was at fault, she told them off for not protecting me (the boy was bigger than me), and she found me a new preschool run by a Wiccan lady, where things like that were not tolerated for an instant. Little girls should be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:34 PM
32

Please tell us about how you dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:39 PM
34

She looks so uncomfortable. And he's obviously enjoying that. This dude is a Brock Turner, no question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:35 PM
11

This delusion is going to bring her a lot of pain. Meanwhile, over here in actual real life, women are indisputably the true prize. When enough women realize this, men will shape the fuck up or die off. I don't care which.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:32 PM
64

Do they really have to publicly announce every thought that crosses their minds? Not one person was curious about what this man was thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:25 PM
3

Thank you! Yes, I'm writing an FDS-friendly novel and novella right now. Plenty of time, since my city's on lockdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:10 PM
13

I feel so bad for any woman trapped in quarantine with her abuser. Realistically, it's probably a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:01 AM
22

I know, when I think of every single man I'm acquainted with, 0% of them are something I would even consider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:21 AM
86

Cheap ass doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:18 AM
12

Shame on Andi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:17 AM
43

Nope nope nope nope. He will be up to his old manipulative, gaslighting tricks in no time, plus he will probably give everyone the virus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:15 AM
2

This man lives in Oppositeworld. I'm a nice guy = I did two years for assault I love animals = I love hunting I'm a great provider = I live in a halfway house I'm single enough to be dating = I'm still legally married How can a person live in this state of cognitive dissonance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:52 AM
18

I'm writing another story at the moment, but I freely give away the rights to this story idea, because I want to read it too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:43 AM
3

Awesome, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:26 AM
16

It's mutual!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:25 AM
89

I like how the guys appear to be clones. In my mind, this is a scene from the future when you can order three clones of your favorite cunnilinguist, like from a catalogue. They're obviously on board her private space station, and that's why there's no gravity. She's probably three hundred and twelve, but she looks twenty eight because she has zero gravity and zero stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:24 AM
20

We would be able to judge men solely by their actions, not by their verbal diarrhea. So many bad relationships would never have begun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 11:38 PM
27

I haven't seen that episode, but that sounds like a dream come true. The person who invents that technology will become a gazillionaire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 11:33 PM
2

Oh, interesting. Where were you able to watch it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 11:28 PM
68

"LVM stockpile sex for the pandemic" This is definitely how they are looking at it. I had a guy (that I had been on only three dates with) ask me to move into his apartment for the duration of the lockdown. I was like "Boychild! What if it turns out you're bad at sex? What if a hard quarantine is announced, and I end up stuck there for six months?" I am a true blue deep dyed introvert, and I am savoring all this alone-time. I would have been miserable trapped in a little box with some brozenheim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 11:25 PM
112

Maybe we have rock bottom self-esteem because we're constantly being picked on by straight men? Can you imagine this world if all straight men were just on mute?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 11:14 PM
3

Yeah, older movies often have great humor because they were forced to be so sly about it, because of all the things you couldn't directly say or do onscreen back then. No gross-out humor, or that kind of thing, more just nudge nudge wink wink. Ernst Lubitsch has some good ones, both before and after the imposition of the code. It didn't seem to slow him down, as far as suggestive situations. I would be surprised if The Good Fairy was streaming anywhere, but it is on YouTube, although cut into te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 10:16 PM
73

Doubtful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 10:02 PM
30

Ah, I see. In that case, she needs to familiarize herself with the statistics about male gun owners, and who exactly they are using those guns on. Because it's not TP thieves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 10:01 PM
91

That was his way of leaving stinky little letters in the porcelain mailbox, telling you that he no longer cared to be even slightly attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 09:41 PM
5

Ugh, yes, I've seen it. Just a cringe-fest from beginning to end. The opening scene is a fancy party of rich flibbertygibbets doing a scavenger hunt in which one of the items on the list is a homeless person. So morally gross. (If I remember correctly, another item is a license plate? Presumably stolen off a stranger's car?) Carole Lombard plays a sort of high society version of the manic pixie dream girl, and falls in love with a very smelly looking man that she found in a garbage dump, I guess…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 09:35 PM
29

Amazing, isn't it, how women can be so weak and pointless and simultaneously so all-powerful that even other people's actions are our doing? Puzzling, that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:52 PM
211

I guarantee that if you posted this to a redpillers sub, they wouldn't get the joke. They'd be like "yeah, Sharon needs to see a specialist, but where's the punchline?" It's in the mirror, manbabies. You are the punchline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:37 PM
18

Perhaps I don't understand what LAJenn is saying. Is she really arguing that "a good man with a gun" belongs at the top of a woman's hierarchy of needs? Or is she saying he's been misplaced there by the scrambling of the hierarchy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:33 PM
67

Wowee. Here we see the ugly reality of exactly how bad men turn their bad actions into someone else's fault, always. If she doesn't want to get beat, then she needs to mind her lip and kowtow to her lord and master. Barf barf barf. I would literally rather run away and live with the wolves than be a slave to someone just because they're bigger than me. These are probably the same redneck scrotes who yell loudly about their constitutional rights being infringed upon, but what about women's freedo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:21 PM
22

It absolutely is. It's timeless, somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 07:29 AM
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I honestly think that if he just keeps abstaining from porn and masturbation for another two to three months, this problem will go away on its own. He could even expedite it by abstaining from porn, fapping, and sex for a bit. It's funny to me how big of an issue he has allowed this to become. It's clearly stressing him out, which is natural justice at its finest, since he brought it all on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:35 AM
2

I can't believe I never thought of that perspective. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:23 AM
2

The explanation I've heard for this mindset is that it's because when you have daughters you can be sure that your grandchildren are really your grandchildren. If you have sons, his kids could actually be anyone's, and no relation to you. I don't know your culture, but is that the rationale where you're from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:16 AM
5

What's the difference between a parody of something, and just yet another example of that thing? Especially for young viewers who never watched the 'originals'? Either way, I certainly could have done without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:54 AM
7

I think you should tell him clearly and calmly that his words are not matching his actions, and that that disappoints you. Tell him that you cannot make up his mind for him, nor would you want the kind of man that you need to do that for. Tell him that you will be walking away, so that he can make up his mind with no pressure. Then proceed to walk away. Stay away until he has made up his mind either way. Personally, I don't think that you're in love with this man, and in all honesty, he doesn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:47 AM
18

Please don't think of this time as playing the waiting game. Chances are that he will never accomplish what you need him to, and then you will have wasted even more time on him, only this time without the sex and intimacy. Move on! Really wash him out of your hair! You'll feel even better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:18 AM
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What an unmitigated ass! I'm so glad you left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 10:47 PM
22

You'd be amazed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 10:40 PM
25

Sometimes it's actually a relief and a life improvement to simply give up on men. They can be such an energy drain, and pay you back only in self-esteem issues. This isn't like regular giving up, which I don't encourage. This is more like giving up smoking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 10:36 PM
26

If he's calling you hoe, he's not in love with you. If he's in love with you, he's not calling you hoe. That's axiomatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:52 PM
11

Depression can be constructive. I speak from experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:22 PM
8

Oh, me too. I'd feel gross after. Better to not get off at all than get off to sick shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:14 PM
8

I'm so glad mom is around! Be well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:11 PM
10

This is really how LVM see themselves. This man probably genuinely believes he looks like the bottom pictures, in spite of how much tweaking he knows he does on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:09 PM
13

Penile pursuits! Oh lord!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:27 PM
36

Yes, exactly. It's strategic, and they laugh when we fall for it. Don't bother to communicate with LVM, if they don't already know how to act right, they are not permitted in the presence of a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:26 PM
25

Oh my gosh, stay safe! Do you live alone? Do you have enough inhaler stuff to last several weeks? Maybe make a plan with your downstairs neighbors for what to do if they hear you fall? Vitamin D3 has been shown by multiple studies to lessen the severity and duration of respiratory illnesses. No word yet on coronavirus specifically, but it couldn't hurt to be taking supplements. I'll stop with the unsolicited advice now, but please know that my thoughts are with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:57 PM
14

Too real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:47 PM
19

What a brat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:46 PM
9

Looking for a bugger, would be my guess, judging by the position and what he's wearing. Wife didn't want to peg him, probably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:45 PM
16

Yes, I used to watch porn, and no matter how carefully you choose your video, in nearly every single one there comes that moment when the guy either says or does something that shows that the woman is just a handful of warm flesh to him. It's such a turn off that turn off isn't a strong enough term for it. It's like hitting a brick wall at 60mph.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:42 PM
12

God, how sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:34 PM
20

Yep, I have instantly lost respect for men when they've told me that they liked it. There is no good reason to like that show, only bad reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:24 PM
17

Ooh, creepy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:22 PM
16

If it's making you feel guilty that he will have to spend time alone, just reframe it in your mind. Like so: This is a tremendous opportunity for him. He will be alone with himself for weeks, probably for the first time in his life, and he can use this opportunity to learn some truths about himself. If he doesn't enjoy his own company, it's likely because he has a dirty conscience. With no one to distract and appease him, he may actually realize that he is a LVM, and he may realize that that's n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:20 PM
2

It's time we start breeding human males to be less aggressive. Thank you for all this solid poultry advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:14 PM
2

Having heard what they do, I might delight in keeping drakes for meat...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:09 PM
3

This sub is so educational. I had been considering getting ducks, but now I'll definitely go for geese.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:53 PM
13

Why did it take anything for him to realize fundamental truths? His kids are going to leave him to rot in a nursing home someday. This is not a real father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:49 PM
2

If only that were possible! When will Big Pharma turn their attention to those suffering from Dunning-Kreuger Disease?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:31 PM
3

No, I also have PCOS and the higher I allow my testosterone to get the more depressed and lazy I feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:27 PM
3

She would have more time and headspace to work on her novel if she just eschewed men entirely. She would probably also have better luck getting pregnant if she went to a sperm bank, rather than counting on the sperm of one man, who may not be viable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:20 PM
2

A well-reasoned argument. Powerful and lucid. Thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:14 PM
2

I thought ducks also pair bonded?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:13 PM
7

There's a gang in Thailand where the members insert pearls under the skin on their penises. Of course, things often go wrong and their dicks get infected. Even when all goes "right" the end result looks like a permanent pustule. But it's cool and taboo, so they keep on doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:11 PM
19

Yes, more than anything I think FDS advocates justice. Good job introducing your friends to a new and better way of analyzing relationship dynamics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:44 PM
17

Haha what? He didn't even notice he had kids until the TV went missing, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:38 PM
14

You broke up for a reason. Probably several damned good reasons. This is so much hot air and drivel. Personally, I find it to be a turn off when men become maudlin. It's always with a purpose in mind. If it's not sex that they want, then it's pity and coddling, or just attention. Respectable men would never stoop that low. If he was a HVM who felt a sincere and powerful love for you, well, for one thing, you never would have broken up in the first place. He would have taken his abandonment issue…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:22 PM
3

Well, I'm not holding my breath.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 02:26 PM
6

When men do have a male role model, the one they choose is almost inevitably a piece of shit. Kobe was a violent rapist. John Wayne was a drunken bully. Male athletes are often abusers. Male musicians are mostly misogyny propagandists. Male writers are usually narcissists. And so on and so on.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 03:31 AM
1

Yes please.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 03:23 AM
3

Grown women are not girls. Please stop calling us girls if you are not sexist. It's infantilizing. We don't call you boy.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 03:16 AM
8

As a woman, I can say I've never felt this way with a man. I've never found one who I could trust to that degree. I think that's what I'm looking for, but so far I've gotten it only from platonic female relationships.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 02:44 AM
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The trouble is that it doesn't take the LVM out of the SMP. They're still there, practicing all their new depraved activities on women who didn't sign up for that at all. Also, and even more important, the things you see in porn videos are things that have actually happened to actual human people. I used to watch porn, and despite never once searching for non-consent, teen, incest, ATM, etc., I know for sure that I saw multiple rapes and some women that were being held captive. It was very diffi…
/r/askFDS16/03/20 02:19 AM
17

I really don't get it. It's not like they get a physical sensation from someone miles away looking at a picture of their dick. It must be that they're getting off on imagining the look of disgust and anger on a woman's face, and knowing that they're the one who put it there. Seems like a sad, self-hating way to get your jollies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:02 PM
16

There's a guy in my area sort of like that. I went on two dates with him, like six years apart. I didn't recognize him from his profile because he had changed everything: age, ethnicity, religion, degree, job, birthplace, parenthood status, and his name from Tony to Mike. When we met in person, however, I remembered him instantly because I had been so squicked out by him the first time, years before. Then, about four months later I saw him again on the dating app with, once again, an entirely ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:38 AM
63

In a sense, to be a pickme is the natural and correct state for men (not, I repeat NOT, for women). They need a woman to pick them if they're to have a chance to pass on their genes. That's why you see other members of the animal queendom puffing up their necks, unfurling their feathers, dancing, singing, head-butting, building fancy nests and collecting shiny things to impress their female counterparts. In short, all the same bullshit that currently makes up 85% of human culture. They are all d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:02 AM
7

Right, like we don't know exactly what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:53 AM
50

Oh yes, this is one of the oldest ploys in the LVM handbook. I had an LVM in two back-to-back classes with me in college, so we would always walk together to the second class. He was forever trying to get me to ditch class and go get lunch with him. Anyway, another woman walked past and he gave her the full up-and-down ogle plus head swivel. When he looked back at me, it was obvious that I had seen him. I genuinely couldn't have cared less, as the guy never had a chance with me, but he tried to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:23 AM
3

You're right, it's the porn and the porn ads. It's actually got the stupider ones believing that women have a drooling desire for the genitals of strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:57 AM
9

Humperdink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:51 AM
17

This worthless specimen really thought he could trade his crab-infested dick for admittance to a woman's apartment and bed? Hotels charge actual money for a clean place to sleep, and he thought three minutes of brainless pounding was a tradable commodity? Has he never noticed that women expend more thought and effort in avoiding penises than in coveting them? He forgot Sexual Reality Number One: dick is abundant and low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:41 AM
20

I would have to draw the line at Donald.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:10 AM
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Dear u/tueogb, you've been given, at a fortuitously young age, a true insight into the way LVM think and socialize. You can use this information to improve your life by learning to recognize the scumbags all around you, so that you can edit them from your world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:15 PM
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People who only read digital books only get digital sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:51 PM
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John Waters said that (about the books), such solid advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:17 AM
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Your life would be thick with bullshit and sweaty man tits. Come on ladies, and upgrade that runny life you're leading!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:34 PM
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Why would I want my life "thickened"? Life = gravy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:22 PM
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Thanks for the recommendations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:16 PM
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I heard someone suggest that it's karma for what China did to its baby girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:30 AM
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Ugh, can you imagine that high, muppety voice of his nagging you for a bj? It would be like if a Tickle Me Elmo catcalled you on the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:32 AM
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O-kay, there's a movie I won't be watching. Thanks for the heads up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:11 AM
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What is the two finger test? Never mind, please don't tell me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:08 AM
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They do learn, just slower than any woman would believe possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:04 AM
3

Oh really? Maybe we should trade guys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:48 PM
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Unfortunately this guy was such a freak, that would have been ahem right up his alley.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:45 PM
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I've heard a lot of talk about "women can have all different kinds of orgasms, from all different parts of their anatomy", but I've never spoken to any woman in my real life who claims that. Yes, the g-spot gives great sensations and can enhance orgasms, and the a-spot feels pretty great too, and tons of other places can contribute to my pleasure, but I've never had an orgasm, or even come close to one, without my clit being the star player. I'm not here to discount anyone's experience, and if s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:36 PM
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Are we calling men penis people now? I'm for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:19 PM
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I had a certain procedure done eight years ago. In my head it was a BIG deal, like my "before" condition was disgusting and unacceptable. Men didn't even notice. Not one. If I could go back in time, I would take that cash and invest it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:16 PM
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Ew. Been there. It wasn't even a secluded park in my case, people were constantly walking by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:08 PM
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You are so spot on with this post. Men seem to think that their penis is the source of our orgasms. No, dudes, your penis is the source of YOUR orgasms. Our clit is the source of our orgasms. Having sex with a woman and ignoring her clit is the same as two men having sex with no reach-around. A fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:04 PM
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The worst part was that I felt such secondhand embarrassment for him that I was extra sweet to him for the rest of the evening, as if I was, like, comforting him for being so pathetic. I'm so glad that that mindset is just a distant memory for me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:11 PM
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Thank you so much for these insights. There's some real food for thought here. And while we're examining the men in our lives, we should self-reflect, and think about how we receive praise, too. It really does say a lot about a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:04 PM
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It absolutely is insulting. They do it to bring our mood and assurance down a peg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:56 PM
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Years ago I went on a second "date" at a Good Vibrations store. The guy told me to pick whatever I thought would be the most fun. I chose an item that I thought he would find sexy, and we went up to the counter. I looked at him, and he looked at me, and I realized then that I was going to be the one paying. I paid, we became FWB, and he eventually ditched me for some ex. If I had had FDS back then, I never would have wasted my time or money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:41 PM
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Right? If a man were going to build me a log cabin by hand, hunt, skin, and butcher some elk for me, put his life on the line to protect me and my children from grizzly bears, make all of the furniture from scratch, chop and split a winter's worth of firewood, tend to the livestock, and plow the fields, then and only then might I consider washing his socks. These useless, flabby redpillers are the opposite of worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:33 PM
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Yes, if you're trapped by the false choice between being public property or private property, it obviously would be better to be private property. Someone should clue them in to the amazing news that humans are no kind of property, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:25 PM
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Excellent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:12 PM
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Good job! I love it when men face consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:11 PM
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Oh my god, that would be hilarious! Men are often extraordinarily self-sabotaging though, so it's not outside the realm of possibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:09 PM
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Why is it so hard for men to come up with decent, respectful things to say to women? You'd think it was some enormous challenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:07 PM
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He's got them crazy eyes. Let's all hope that God is not a crazy-eyed white man (although, that would explain some things...).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:48 AM
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What is this image from? Is there a movie where John Turturo plays Jesus (besides The Big Lebowski)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:34 AM
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"The memes that we put into motion will live on!" I don't think I've ever heard a more pitiful rallying cry, and I never hope to hear one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:59 AM
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Right, she has a made up disorder called frigidity. It couldn't possibly be that he is actively repellent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:51 AM
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This is great. Not only should we be vetting our own dates ruthlessly, but it's always nice and shows solidarity when we help other women in the vetting process. I think she's being extremely fair (more than he deserves?). She doesn't say 'don't date him', she just says 'be wary, here's the things he's been guilty of in the past'. Giving important information to women she doesn't even know. Thanks, Eric's ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:49 AM
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"My hobbies include sitting on the couch and staring at a screen for hours, days, and years on end. I would also be willing to be the recipient of blowjobs, as long as I am not expected to move or reciprocate. So... I'll just be sitting here, awaiting your message."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:37 AM
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"A woman is just what he does not want". This is the truth of all the misogynists you see online. They hate women and resent that vaginas are attached to us, and not free-roaming. Hopefully one day Eros will reorganize them, but that moment is probably still many lifetimes away for the majority of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:50 AM
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I want to say thank you to someone on this sub, but I don't know who it was... She mentioned that when declining a second date, she would say "I've enjoyed getting to know you, but it's not a match", because the impersonalness of this leaves guys nothing to argue with. It sounds like something an algorithm would spit out. Well, I've had occasion to use that little sentence three times in the last month, and it works! Instead of lashing out, or trying to change my mind, or whining, or asking a bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 07:30 AM
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Sad but funny but accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:58 PM
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We can add energy to this by having an FDS no-buy day on March 9. Women wield enormous economic clout, but we've been taught not to think about or acknowledge that. I've been really mindful lately of funneling my purchasing power towards women rather than men. You can find videos on YouTube about buying makeup, clothing, and toiletries from women owned companies. Does anyone have any other suggestions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:49 PM
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I'm so sorry that that happened to you, and me. We have done nothing to deserve this shitty treatment. These men are using us as whipping boys for the punishment they know THEY deserve. Sorry boys, you can't abuse your way out of a filthy conscience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:49 PM
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He also says he doesn't think anything physical happened between them, though. So...he's jealous that another man got to harass her? If he only knew! Women get harassed and molested by men everyday. Does every time that she gets catcalled also count as her cheating on him? She probably doesn't tell him about it. Does that mean she enjoyed or wanted it, or does it just mean that this is the background noise of women's lives, and so not worthy of daily reports?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:42 PM
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You've been together three years and you've never fully trusted him? You are too precious and important to have untrustworthy people clogging up your life. Get him gone. Men are not necessary things like refrigerators. You can easily and happily do without one. Reallocate all that time and focus that you've been giving to him, and use it to take up painting. Sell your paintings on Etsy. Voila, instead of a man and stress and humiliation, you have spending money, a creative outlet, and peace of m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:05 PM
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I truly don't understand. He's pissed off ... at his girlfriend? Why? In his mind, what would have been the ideal response for her to have had here? I honestly don't get what he's mad at her about. Was she supposed to tell him sooner? Was she supposed to not tell him at all? Was she supposed to quit her job? Was she supposed to suck her boss's dick and let the boyfriend watch? What does he want from her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:56 PM
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I have had multiple men slap my ass on first dates, or as part of the first kiss. No asking, no warning, they just haul off and whack a very personal part of my body. Huge turn off. I see this as them non-verbally informing me that they are into BDSM and it will only get grosser moving forward. I wish they would adult the fuck up and use their words, so that I could avoid being touched in that violent and disrespectful way by strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:49 PM
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You describe his appearance with clinical accuracy. Also, let's all take a moment to notice that his makeup is rubbing off onto his collar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:23 PM
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I'm so glad you ran away from that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:33 AM
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Not having to work around a man's poor planning and flakiness. Not having to patiently endure the male over-complication urge. Not having to smile and nod when he tells me all about Wim Hoff for the fifteenth time. Sleeping in, listening to the birds, paying more attention to my cat, making unilateral executive decisions about what to watch and what to eat, taking non-sexual showers and baths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:11 PM
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Thanks for that list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:59 PM
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That has not been my experience where I live! I have to swipe through fifty guys to strike a looker. You think they're bots or catfish? If they are, it's probably with the intention to kidnap, traffic, or film women without permission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:24 PM
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Oh thank god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:45 AM
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And also sadists!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:36 AM
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This is it exactly. I've been here. He's testing out your guilt trip puppet strings. Cut and run, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:24 PM
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He's acting like its all better because he no longer does that, but just picture what a smug little shit he had to be to do that in the first place. I doubt he's made as much progress as he seems to think he has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:20 PM
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Do you mean libfeminism? Because radfeminism is awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:34 PM
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Oh bleh, you just brought up memories of my own homeless guy situation. He used to come into the cafe/bookstore where I worked to show us his art (which was very good), but took to following me on my lunch breaks and always asking if I wanted to hold hands or borrow his coat. He was more than twice my age and homeless, but he really seemed to think he had a chance, just because I had tried to be kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:15 PM
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My number is 1 out of 11. But that one sucked my clit until I came thirteen times, and we never did PIV at all. He was a bad kisser, though, go figure. A lady who I trust and respect, who has had MUCH (much much) more experience than me, told me that only one in twenty are any use in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:33 AM
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Horny and hopeful. The story of my life (pre-FDS).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:18 AM
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Try looking at them balefully and chanting in another language under your breath. They hate that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:08 AM
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I have done this. The dude literally ran away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:59 AM
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You have to be a special kind of coward to hurt the weak, the defenseless, the small, the young, or the innocent. Don't these people disgust themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:50 AM
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Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:42 AM
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This is manipulation. He probably doesn't even have any issue with her smell, he just wants her to feel shitty and self-conscious. Weak, parasitic men need to find or create a weakness in the host so that they can latch on. A real man with real love for you will compliment you all day long and make you feel exquisite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:32 AM
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I'll tell her someone said that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:51 AM
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Or else he straight up assaults her, like he did to Pussy Galore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:56 PM
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Even when you tell them repeatedly 'no, I am not interested in you, it will never happen', their wishful thinking is more convincing in their minds than your actual spoken words. Has nothing to do with evolution, and everything to do with male privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:30 PM
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I have an older friend who spent years as a homeless crack-whore, after being abused by her father and then her husband. She struggled her way to sobriety and faith, and she was the one who saved me from my narc ex, not by talking him down, but by providing such a contrast to his behavior. He demeaned and belittled and stole from me, and she was kind, gracious, and giving. And she wasn't even getting sex out of the bargain, imagine that! She gave me a place to live, and supported me through ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:23 PM
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Shout out to male black widows for at least providing a meal for their lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:13 PM
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Poetic and perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:11 PM
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This man is a drag on you. If you feel uplifted and relieved by getting two weeks away from him, then he has no business being in your life at all. You are not shackled to him, you are not conjoined twins, you can simply walk away at any time. Unfortunately, this person is a NVM (a negative value man) who actively detracts value from your life. That's why you feel relief at getting away from him. You feel like you are devoting time and energy to him that could be better spent on yourself. This m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:38 PM
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A first message proposing marriage tells you that marriage is not something he takes seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:16 PM
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I honestly think he just last minute decided he would rather sleep in on his Saturday, and didn't give a shit how it affected me. Fortunately, I don't spend much time at all getting ready for dates, because men don't notice and aren't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:15 PM
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Or the ones who use "I always put the toilet seat down" as a selling point in their OLD profiles. Well no shit you're going to put it down, you're the one who put it up. I don't touch that thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:43 AM
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His mission in life is to do yard work, and he thinks that will turn you on? Oh boy, it'd be funny if it weren't so pathetic. Why don't they just try honesty, integrity, and ethics? The world may never know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:18 AM
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This identical thing happened to me the weekend before! We were supposed to meet for our first date at a brunch place, and as I was walking there he texted me to ask me to meet at a different location. Since it was closer to me and not worse in any way, I agreed, and said when I would be there. A few minutes later he texts and says sorry but he can't get away from the work he's doing on his basement. I mean, it just sounded like such bullshit. I was already at the place, so I treated myself to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:55 AM
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You're probably being downvoted by the male lurkers. Don't worry about it, it evens out eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:32 AM
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Yes, the healthiest thing we can do for ourselves is to just give up on men and move through our lives with serenity and purpose. If someday a man surprises us by being a person of compassion, justice, and courage, well, that'll just be a nice bonus in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:57 PM
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Ugh, what a devastating article that man wrote. Every word of it just made me lose more and more hope in men, and I didn't have much to begin with. If even an introspective and moderately intelligent man, as the author seems to be, can go through most of his life viewing women as soulless appliances, what chance is there of the stupid and oblivious majority of men ever coming to their senses?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:31 PM
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One thing that really helped me was actively and willfully changing how I thought and felt towards myself. It sounds woo woo, but besides doing self-loving actions (which it seems like you're already doing), it really is valuable to give yourself words of love. Like, just praise yourself for every little thing and tell yourself you love yourself, in your head, as you would do aloud for a child or lover. Thank yourself, call yourself by cute nicknames, etc. A mental exercise that can help you get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:55 AM
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What are peedubbs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 05:35 PM
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I was on a date a while ago and the guy mentioned that he's been going to cuddle meetups. He didn't ask me to cuddle, but when I said I wanted some tea (as we were walking past a whole block of cute cafes), he said "I make very good tea, won't you let me make it for you?" He wanted me to travel an hour by public transport to his apartment to get a cup of tea (aka sex, and probably no tea). I was like "no, my hands are cold, I want to be holding a cup of hot tea right now". That of course led to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 05:24 PM
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I mean there's millions of great female inventions and inventors. Because women couldn't hold property until recently, their patents were in their husbands' names, so we'll never really know how much was given to us by female geniuses. Women's inventions are notable for their wholesomeness, and life-improving or life-saving character. How many thousands upon thousands of people didn't die agonizing deaths by fire thanks to the lady who invented fire escapes? Probably at least one ancestor of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:42 PM
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I'm curious what the male lurkers will think about all the responses in this thread? The general consensus here seems to be: uncut feels better for us as well as for men, and to slice up the genitals of a baby is sick and unacceptable. Given how women get blamed for everything, I'm sure there are a lot of men out there who thought circumcision was our fault somehow, but this is not something we would choose. My personal belief is that it originated as a way for monotheistic cults to traumatize t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:23 PM
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How embarrassing for them that they ask each other rather than googling when they have a question. I just googled things invented by women. The ice cream churn, the first computer algorithm, fire escapes, the dishwasher, underwater lamps, the life rafts that saved the lives of over 700 people on the Titanic, the chocolate chip cookie, and the list goes on and on. Things invented by men: nuclear weapons, strip mining, dynamite, thalidomide, the guillotine, machine guns, the chastity belt, the ele…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:05 PM
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Glad I could help! The womanizer, from what I hear, is not a vibrator but an actual clit-sucker. Sounds intriguing, but I'm too satisfied with my hands to shell out the seventy bucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:45 PM
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Yes, or some who grew up with an abusive or psychotic parent can develop it. And likewise, women can unlearn it. Patriarchy depends on gaslighting this feature out of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:04 PM
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Men don't understand this and some will say we're being irrational to judge a person based on so little interaction. That's because they lack this ability. Women have sharper senses across the board and are better at "tuning in" to another person (necessary for childcare), so of course we pick up on a lot quickly. This is a gift given by nature to protect us from male behavior. Men want to deny that because they want us to give them a thousand chances. Nope, you get one chance, and it lasts less…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:54 PM
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I just yesterday told a man on OLD that. He asked for a coffee date, and I said "that feels like networking to me, not really my idea of a date". I haven't checked on his response yet because, thanks to FDS, I don't care one iota what it will be. He's already acting LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:44 PM
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In fact we often feel invalidated after participating in the kind of sex LVM offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:28 PM
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There was a thread here awhile ago where a lot of people were chiming in about a toy called "the womanizer". The other favorite was the Hitachi magic wand. I haven't tried either, but those seemed like the winners of the popularity contest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:56 PM
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Just tell them 'I'll pay for dates when men start giving birth'. We are the bringers of life, men can be the bringers of onion rings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:53 PM
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Just play it cool and pretend to be very accepting and understanding until you can get him to send you a picture of himself. Then do an image search and find his social media and if he has a wife, tell her what he's doing. If she exists (and I think there's a 99% chance that she does) she's probably sick of his shit and looking for a solid reason to divorce him. Give a sister a hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:16 PM
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Yes, that's what I think of too! But I love Quark. One of the funniest Star Trek characters. And his mom was a badass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:10 PM
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And we still beat them at it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:45 PM
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Looks like lurkers have been downvoting you. That's when you know you've said something so spot-on even their dumb asses know it's true. So they try to strike out at the woman speaking the truth, thinking that will make the truth go away. Just proves what you've said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:43 PM
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"My partner says it's nice and a novelty." Yep, this is the response I've gotten from the men I've slept with. Possibly TMI, but they get so excited when they see the shrubbery I've got going on downtown. They nostalgically compare it to 70s porn, and love to get their face in there and smell it. Guys are so weird. The wilder and bushier, the more they like it. And I've had dudes be the same way about my armpit hair. It just makes me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:30 PM
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I don't think it took him a few weeks to choose between you and the other woman, especially after you had chewed him out. I think he chose her, and it took her only a few weeks to see him for the shitstain that he is and drop him. Then he came back to you all like 'my decision is finally made, and you won'. Then you dropped him too. Poor little shitstain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:16 PM
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Wait. What.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:11 AM
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First of all, nobody asked what he finds attractive. Secondly, this feels like a neg to all women, or the classic you're-different-than-the-other-girls. Does he consider it unusual for a woman to honor her commitments? Then he must not know very many women, and probably gets his ideas about us from other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:59 AM
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Yeah, if he doesn't love you after two years, he never will. You deserve love. You deserve the best. You deserve to be cherished and adored. I'm so glad this lukewarm person is no longer standing in your way of finding all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:36 AM
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This is not an answer to your immediate question, I just want to say that I'm very glad that he has so far shown no LV behaviors, but really take your time and vet, vet, vet, with any man who plays any sport that may have led to past head injuries. They can have sweet personalities, but turn into a completely different person when angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:25 AM
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Yeah, the word 'bitch' does not need to be coming out of men's mouths. That's hate speech, pure and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:16 AM
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And yet they're always complaining that no one ever pays them compliments. Can you imagine how insufferable they would be if we did? It would be off the insufferability-o-meter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:12 AM
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I don't do any of that (except wear minimal makeup), nor would I ever. You already know men aren't worth it and don't actually care (these are the same degenerates who will fuck sheep or jars of peanut butter after all). I consider it part of the screening process: if a dude complains or even gently hints about my body hair, even one time, he is dead to me. A literal non-entity. That said, I have never had a guy I was sleeping with complain about this. Once a friend of my then-FWB snarkily infor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:50 AM
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That's it exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:30 AM
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I mean, if she's displaying his shitty side to the world, it kind looks like it's headed that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:14 AM
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"Porn is a type of propaganda which enables them in their evil ways." That is a very true assessment. Porn has had a globally devastating effect on men (and, of course, the women involved in it). I think when people in the future look back on this era of free, ubiquitous, ever-more-degrading porn, they'll think of it as a disgusting disaster on par with mass DDT spraying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:53 PM
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Oh, no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:45 AM
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Are we living in the Middle Ages!?! Ask them to give you a copy of that policy in writing. They will probably refuse. Tell them their policy is in direct violation of the law and you will be going to a different clinic. Tell them you intend to write all about this in a yelp review, tell the story on social media, and contact the news. Tell them their name will be mud, and everyone will know that they view women as a man's chattel. Tell them all of this very calmly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:07 PM
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Yes, strike fear into their shrivelled hearts! What an Amazon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:58 PM
5

How exactly are you teaching yourself coding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:34 AM
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I made time in my schedule to cook myself a delicious and filling breakfast every day (hash of Yukon gold potatoes, veggies, and honey cured bacon - it's so good!), which is saving me money and is healthier than buying the sugary stuff at Starbucks. I've recently lost 12lbs by counting calories. I've been working to finish two novellas that I started writing over a year ago. I had gotten stuck on problems of plot or tone, and just gave up on them, but now I've hauled them out of hibernation, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:28 AM
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Oh, I faked so many orgasms for this one guy. He had an enormous sexual appetite (up to six times a day), but the MOST disappointing penis (scarcely four inches, and never fully hard). To this day I wonder if he was convinced by my acting, or if he just truly didn't care either way...? The craziest thing is that this man bragged about his "amazing cock" before we ever had sex. Narcissism is a helluva drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:07 AM
33

Her post history says she's only 20. Can we do an intervention?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:44 PM
37

"So you think I'm good looking" Not only did she not say that, but he didn't even put a question mark on it. I wish they could bottle and sell the overconfidence of worthless men, I could use a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:37 PM
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I am hopeful that this will become more and more common in the near future, now that women are increasingly financially independent and are waking up to the general toxicity of men. I think a household like this would be the best possible place for children to grow up in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:34 PM
76

Is this from reddit? u/chirpchirping, come here, please. I don't even know you and I care more about your passion in life than your boyfriend does. You deserve and can have better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:29 PM
99

Lame, unsupportive boyfriends are a dime a dozen, while safe, comfortable homes for frogs in need are so rare that this is the first time that I have ever heard of one. Which of these things makes this world a more beautiful place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:27 PM
51

She's been to this sub. She's the person who posted a couple of days ago asking if getting plastic surgery could be a part of leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:24 PM
13

Yes, this sounds similar to how it is for me. Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:50 AM
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Yes, if a woman knows that sex causes her to feel attachment, or if she knows that sex doesn't cause her to feel attachment, that's personalized wisdom that she can use towards her goals. I guess I'm just wondering about the experience of other women. I mean, I might feel cuddly and happy around a man immediately after having orgasms with him, but that feeling wears off quickly, and is nothing like love, genuine affection, or respect for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:58 AM
53

If only men were as cute and self-cleaning as cats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:20 AM
32

I keep seeing people talk about this, how having orgasms with a man causes a woman to develop feelings of attachment towards him. That has not been my experience.... Just me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:11 AM
3

W...T....F.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:56 PM
9

I can enjoy Casablanca, but it's so far from being the best. I love Ingrid Bergman and Conrad Veidt, but the way everyone calls Sam, an adult-ass black man, "boy" is super duper cringey. And your work sounds a thousand times more interesting and important than that schmuck's!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:53 PM
2

Oh, the rest makes it even better. She triumphed over his sorry ass so hard, we ought to build her an arch in Paris.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:44 PM
123

Man: has deep self-reflective thoughts about how he may not have treated a woman right. Also man: uses term for female genitalia as a derogative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:41 PM
232

"She actually made an insightful comment!" His incredulity is leaking from every syllable. Now him and his chuckleheaded buddies are going to treat her like a dancing poodle and wonder why she loathes them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:34 PM
48

Why do dudes think we're so easy to impress? It's like they think we've never seen something unless they personally showed it to us. A pet peeve of mine is when a guy's profile lists Casablanca as a favorite movie. Old movies are kind of my thing, and if he likes Casablanca, it's usually because it's the only black and white movie he's ever seen. But they think listing it makes them look cultured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:13 PM
73

I can't believe how dumb this guy sounds. "Whoa, so it turns out I'm a selfish little ego-beast. Who knew!" Everyone, friend, everyone. All he had to do was picture the situation in reverse. Would he be happy if his girlfriend had mostly male friends, went to romantic dinners and one-on-one breakfasts with them, and had in the past slept with half of them? Of course not, he'd feel like shit. Did it really take therapy for him to get it? Also, look how he says the man has "justified the existence…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:54 PM
51

She's so tiny, what kind of man could do that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:26 PM
7

It's been deleted, does anyone know how to find it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:25 PM
84

Yes, the coffee thing! In my area there are so many men who say they love coffee, and then go on about that as if it makes them some sort of artist or coffee-philosopher. Am I supposed to be impressed that you own a $7000 espresso machine, meanwhile you don't have a real bed frame or any money in savings? Hipsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:23 PM
8

The article you've linked gives a perfect example of how, when there are less women, men don't go back to courting or leveling up. Quite the contrary, they buy trafficked women and girls who have been abducted from other countries, and they "represent the greater proportion of lawbreakers". I don't believe that women would become desperate for men. Any desperation on women's part is just to fit in with society and meet expectations by getting married, not for the actual man himself. There would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:12 PM
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"We can go at your pace or mine". What if their paces are different? Whose takes precedence? Nope. I dislike everything about the message, but this part has my spidey sense tingling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:28 AM
20

Hannah, I love you, but don't feed the animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:03 AM
48

I think it's appropriate to lose interest, faith, and trust in men. Up till now, they have not earned any of those things from you. A healthy attitude to have towards men would be a blend of skepticism and mild curiosity. Like they're the Loch Ness monster. Maybe HVM exist or maybe they don't. Just keep an eye on the misty surface of that loch, and definitely don't go skinny dipping in it alone or at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:55 AM
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Hating yourself for any of the things you listed toward the end is not an effective response. You will get much better results, now and for the future, by loving yourself. We've all been there, wasting our love on the unworthy, because women in our world are taught to love themselves last. Love yourself first from here on out. Keep strengthening yourself with the advice of other women. You seem to have your feet on the right path now, and great things are ahead for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:47 AM
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It's such an outdated insult! I even thought so as a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:20 AM
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You could do like they do in books, and mail the evidence to her. Like, print out everything that's printable, include a handwritten letter explaining the whole story as you just told it to us, and maybe mention that you have more evidence if she wants it (the voice messages). You don't have to include your name, or any real contact info, you could just make a burner email account. Or, you don't have to offer contact at all, just mail her the printed stuff, and wipe your hands of it. You're a go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:01 AM
16

"Cast that line and catch your LVM!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:40 AM
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"I better not see you leaving with a man" like all of a sudden he's the principal of your middle school. Entitled fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:39 AM
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If you do it, please make sure that you go to a female doctor. Female surgeons are statistically safer for their patients, they listen better, and the surgeries have better outcomes. Plus, why put your hard-earned money into the pocket of a man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:32 AM
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He doesn't know the first thing about us. We are all about seeking actual partners, and putting the axe to games. A man who believes malicious hearsay and doesn't investigate to make up his own mind, is and will always be an intellectual infant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:21 AM
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Look how beautiful she is compared to him! Why, why would she settle like that, and he can't even treat her right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:17 AM
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So true, the entire blame and burden is on the women. I work with children and we have a couple of books for kids about Greek mythology. I've read them, and they are not appropriate for children because these stories CANNOT be sanitized. The whole plot line is depravity and degradation, for most of the stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:01 AM
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Greek mythology is full of rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:56 AM
13

Same. We are 100% entitled to judge men on their genetic material. I would go so far as to say that we are in fact obligated to, at least if we're of childbearing age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:45 AM
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u/ThisIsntFb19, please come here and learn how much better you deserve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:39 AM
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I don't think they will ever step up. I think the time has come in human history when we should start having way less male babies. Maybe like one to every hundred girl babies. The wars and one-on-one combats that used to cull the male population can no longer be relied upon to do that, and it was never a good solution anyway, since women also get killed in war. The technology already exists to separate XX chromosome sperm from XY chromosome sperm, so that you can choose to have only daughters, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:35 AM
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I've started taking notes too, because someone on this sub mentioned keeping a date log so that she can go back through it and review each guy. It's a great idea, and has really helped me to clarify my thinking on individual dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:20 AM
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The funny thing is that they often actually include this stuff in their dating profiles. I saw a couple of profiles today that said "if you're looking for the one, that's not me" and "I'm not everyone's cup of tea". Thanks for the warning, dudes! Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:17 AM
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How can there STILL be men out there who think you get bigger labia from having sex? I mean, the stupidity knows no bounds. Does your mouth get bigger because you eat? Does your dick get bigger because you jerk off? Please. Now, the fact that he's thinking about his daughters' vulvas is something else altogether. That's not just stupidity, it's much more sinister. Then the fact that he thought this was okay to post, like an ad for little girl vagina - whoo! I hope the mother comes to her senses …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:11 AM
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Phew! Now that I know that, I can laugh at this post. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:26 AM
8

You can do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:11 PM
23

Just one more thing women are responsible for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:06 PM
7

Oh, barf. And the little emoji party he threw for himself at the end of that "cute" comment...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:05 PM
45

I'm going to ask some married men on OLD this question, and come back with answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:02 PM
3

I used to worry about that myself, but apparently it has more to do with the vitamin A status of the mom/parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:55 PM
33

A boy called me "four-eyes" when I had to get glasses in third grade. When we came back after summer vacation, he had glasses too! I like to believe he jinxed himself by being a jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:41 PM
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He's not going to work on it, though. He's going to get a thousand little incels to pat him on the back and tell him "there there, bro, there's nothing at all wrong with you, don't change a thing, just start hating women."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:18 PM
6

His PR machine should tell him to lose 40lbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:52 PM
7

An excellent point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:46 PM
28

What is going on in this picture?! I hope those cheetahs made it out okay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:40 PM
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This whole sub would be worth it if it kept just one woman from having sex with an ugly, greasy, man-baby, but I know it has done so much more than that, for so so many women. Congratulations on your new life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:07 AM
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They're about to do the same thing in South America, I hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:44 AM
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Can you imagine having sex with someone with a face like that? Her ovaries must be shrieking at her all the time. Never mind his shameless exploitation of women and minorities, his unhealthy love of the n word, and his utter obsession with violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:49 AM
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This train of thought reminds me of Nietzsche's concept of Master Morality and Slave Morality, except that Nietzsche was a syphilitic fleabag and his ideas, like those of most male philosophers, are either irrelevant or inimical to the female experience. Really I think there is a trifecta of moralities at work in the world: Selfish, Selfless, and Healthy. Selfish morality is embodied by LVM, Selfless morality is embodied by pickmes, and Healthy morality is embodied by HVW and HVM. Healthy morali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:45 AM
13

I have not the slightest clue. Because their brains are garbage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:41 AM
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Or the guys who think it's a good idea to slap your clit. Ruins any chance of an orgasm that night. Even if you've seen it in a million pornos, how can you honestly think that'll work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:33 AM
141

Can we bring back beheading?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:55 PM
17

He is fully trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:43 AM
12

I love that he blurs it, trying to be incognito, but I guarantee his wife (or his wife's friends) would be able to recognize him in that photo. They really think they're slick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:53 AM
8

On his face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:50 AM
8

He just got all those tattoos to distract the eye from how shapeless and hairless he is. Karen, you can do better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:50 AM
3

Being driven too far? Jesus. How about he's just a vile rage-monster that should have been put away at the first sign?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:21 AM
5

Ugh, look at his smirking face. Bleh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:18 AM
3

Same! Can't believe I got naked with some of these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:24 AM
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Once after a particularly bad breakup, and a few unpleasant revelations about myself, I swore to read only female authors for a year. It was a life-changing year. You begin to realize that we've all been inundated with male fantasies and ideas since birth, and they don't even make sense, and are not relatable. I didn't miss men's writing at all, and even now I read much less of it. Some of the "great male novelists" are the worst offenders, by the way. I used to like Dickens, but have since lear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:22 AM
12

Not quite what you're asking about, but there is (used to be?) an app called Jailbreaking The Patriarchy. When you turn it on, it flips the genders in any text you're reading. Fucking hilarious results! And so refreshing if you've overdosed on male POV lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:08 AM
7

I love her outfit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:55 PM
58

Yes, men feed off of women's emotions. Put them on a starvation diet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:44 PM
9

I had no idea that living in the countryside with chickens was such a common goal among women! I'm currently in the initial stages of negotiation on a century old two story farmhouse in upstate New York. It reminds me of the March's house in Little Women. I want to grow a thick, tall hedge of blackberries and marionberries around the yard, and call it Briar House.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:40 PM
6

I briefly dated one. At first he was very friendly and generous. Almost to the point where he came off as a suck-up. Laughed at all my jokes, always had some cute story to tell, never an awkward silence. I began to wonder, though, when some of his stories about his co-workers (all of whom are below him in the hierarchy) made it seem as if he was somewhat abusing his power over them. Not blatantly, it was hard to put my finger on it. But like he didn't care if underlings felt humiliated by the wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:11 PM
2

I would watch Miss Fisher just for the settings and costumes, but it's also well written and feminist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:01 AM
13

I had a pile of books at my seat in the public library, and I got up to get another one. When I turn around, some old dude looking like Trump without the hair and makeup had sat down in my seat. I said, "Excuse me, that's my seat." He barked out "You could have said that nicer!!" I was so confused I just said "How?" A different old guy nearby started laughing, and pasty-Trump gave us both the stink-eye but finally heaved his fat ass up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:10 AM
2

Ugh, boy humor. And why does every man trot out the same tired puns? What is it with them and puns? If you've got a brand new one, I'll hear it, but all men seem to have all the same ones up their sleeves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:40 AM
6

"Masculinity has become bloated and destructive". If that doesn't just sum up the state of the world today...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:25 AM
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Right? She has to say it's not about the money so many times, because she knows LVM in the comments are going to pounce on that immediately. Guess what? It should be about the money! She has every right to feel goddamn insulted that this man brought her some cheap-ass costume jewelry to be her wedding ring. $80 is shameful, unless you're two starving artists or something. He could not have said more clearly that she means nothing to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:07 AM
32

I work with young children, and some of these dads out here are real eye-openers. They'll be calling me pretty lady, telling me my eyes are beautiful, asking if I'm single, telling their kids to leave the room "so I can talk alone with the lovely Miss Soulsalts", etcetera, etcetera. In my place of work! In front of their own and other people's children! I'm like, you know I know your wife, right? I had to go on a few marketing missions around town with my boss's husband. Each time, when we were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:17 AM
107

"I'm a selfish prick". I believe you, John.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:59 AM
6

So we're in agreement? Implement plan!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:56 AM
10

It doesn't have to be by force. Sometimes it's just societal norms. You think "oh, it's normal for a man to be a sack of shit, I'll just pick the nearest one, since they're all like that anyway", and voila! a LVM gets to reproduce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:53 AM
9

Exactly. That's why we should make it our mission to raise up other women. Forget trying to save men. They are not the real power players.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:45 AM
2

'Princess Caraboo' (1994) starring Phoebe Cates, Kevin Kline, John Lithgow Based on the true story of a young woman in foreign garb found wandering the fields of Austen-era England, speaking an unidentified language. She claims to be the princess of a Pacific island, captured by pirates, who escaped by jumping overboard and swimming to land. This is a really inspiring and moving story about MAKING YOUR OWN DAMN LIFE. She manifests her royalness just by demanding that people treat her with the ut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:43 AM
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'Ronia the Robber's Daughter' by Astrid Lindgren Ronia lives in a cave in medieval (?) times with her parents and a gang of highwaymen. Her father is the robber king. She explores the wild woods of Sweden, makes friends, and helps her mom with the cows. They more or less have to hibernate over winter. This is a short chapter book for maybe 8-12 year olds? Very adventurous and outdoorsy. Would be good for girls who are avid hikers and climbers, or boys who might be reluctant to read "girly" books…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:29 AM
2

'The Wild Washerwomen' by John Yeoman, illustrated by Quentin Blake (famous for illustrating most of Roald Dahl's stories) A group of washerwomen are fed up with how they're being treated (I forget why) and decide to go on a wild rampage, riding hell-for-leather in a huge horse-cart. Their arms are so strong from scrubbing and wringing that they are much more formidable than the townsfolk expected. A read-aloud picture book for young children. I don't remember much about the plot, but I remember…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:19 AM
2

'Mighty Mountain and the Three Strong Women', by Irene Hedland Mighty Mountain is a sumo wrestler traveling through the woods on his way to a major tournament. He meets a teenaged girl carrying a water bucket on her head and decides to tickle her to make her drop it. She clamps down on his fingers with her arm, not spilling a drop, and drags him along behind her. He begins to cry and beg, because he can't believe she's so strong. Then they meet her mom who is even stronger, and at last grandma c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:10 AM
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Thank you! That movie is hard to watch, especially with younger kids. I had to keep reiterating to them "in the PAST people treated women this way, but that's not alright" and I could practically see their absorbent little minds soaking up all the wrong messages from it. Mulan herself is a badass, but kids don't necessarily see the underlying messages of such a movie, they're more monkey see monkey do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:54 AM
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Being chosen by a HVW. A centralized government agency determining people's fitness would obviously be a nightmare and very Nazi-esque. But in other animal species good gene pools are maintained by the females rejecting the overwhelming majority of males as mating partners. A healthy, well-functioning woman knows who is worth procreating with. It has taken thousands of years of terrorism and gaslighting by the patriarchy to make us forget what should come naturally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:30 AM
15

Yes, but history has shown that that plan doesn't work. When LVM are given sacrificial women, it only makes them more entitled, and hence more violent and disruptive. Instead we need to instill in them from day one the idea that 'no, you will not get a woman, not unless you work as hard as you can and make yourself the creme de la creme, and probably not even then'. Then they won't be outraged and surprised when they can't get a woman, they'll know to place the blame squarely where it belongs: o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:23 AM
54

The mating rituals of the Low Value...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:08 AM
5

I'm so glad you left him! Your health will thank you. Mold is no joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:40 PM
35

When I looked back through my journals I found my very first mention of the man who would become my narc/soc boyfriend. I had written "it was like talking to a spider". Surprise surprise, he WAS a spider, a spider in a human suit that I would go on to move in with for two years. Women know, but we've been conditioned to doubt our own judgements and trust those of shady, ulterior-ass men. Now I judge men in fifteen seconds, and I never look back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:24 PM
11

Male lurkers, if you think you have it tough, go spend fifteen minutes scrolling through that sub. That is the truth of our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:13 PM
13

I loved every word of this. Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:57 PM
13

Don't ever be deceived by self-serving male bullshit like this. The only reason that such a man can even feel like he's "fighting the battles of life" is because he has some kind lady not only serving up all his creature comforts, but stroking his fragile little ego each night and patiently telling him "yes, sweetie, you're a big man, so brave, much impress". Meanwhile, it's women's lives that are the real battlefield and women who are the true warriors, getting up after every knock-down blow, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:50 PM
2

Yes, male authors seem to think of rape scenes as high entertainment. What a privileged perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:56 AM
4

Ursula K. Le Guin is THE queen! I have two books signed by her, and you better believe I treasure them. I really like the whole Vorkosigan series by Lois McMaster Bujold, there are some really colorful and vivid female characters of all different types, and a very realistic portrayal of what marriage to a narcissist looks like from the wife's point of view (thankfully that doesn't last long, and he meets a satisfying end). I just found the books to be very human and moving and funny, despite bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:54 AM
18

Mm-hm, ain't that always the answer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:32 AM
75

I believe you that locking your keys in the car wasn't intended as a trap, but I also low-key think that your subconscious did it to save you. I'm so glad you didn't end up with that useless, entitled, pressuring creature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:53 AM
14

No hoper men, perfect description.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:39 AM
9

He thinks that's your whole personality!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:36 AM
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The spelling makes me want to hit him with a yardstick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:34 AM
9

Rich is a personality type?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:32 AM
16

Holy jeezus, and I bet the numbers are actually much worse than reported, since suicide has only now been decriminalized. And if this is the number of suicides that succeed, just imagine how many are attempted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:29 AM
21

u/dishykiwiburger come hang out with us. We're about so much more than dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:22 AM
75

Wow, lightbulb moment. No wonder every time I see a well-groomed and put-together man he turns out to be gay - they are competing for the attention of people that haven't been shamed out of all their standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:09 AM
13

I wouldn't, because I like to hole up alone like a dog when I'm sick. Then again, I've never experienced a relationship with such a HVM, so maybe that's why being alone seems preferable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:06 AM
29

Yes! We should always have women's welfare at the forefront of our thinking. Nothing can change until women are firmly on the side of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:02 AM
39

Love the picture. This HV geography teacher is not here for anybody's nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:59 AM
71

Yes, I love your attitude! This filthy, old, patriarchal culture of ours would LOVE for you to feel ashamed by someone else's misdeed, but there is no reason for that at all. You are a Queen and your body is not a source of shame. The one who wronged you, HE should be ashamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:55 AM
13

"Does this mean her likes her?" No, but it sure as hell means he doesn't care about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:45 AM
51

How did he respond? Being honest with men can be so nerve-racking: they might take it like calm, rational human beings, or they might lash out in the wildest ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:42 AM
3

Who does make the rules? Can I have a word with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:57 AM
2

Better to have overreacting instincts than underreacting ones. But I actually don't think yours are overreacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:55 AM
2

Like, he turns her down each day so she has to try again the next day, and the next, and the next? Nightmare. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:53 AM
2

I'm so sorry this happened to you! He was not worthy of you, and he heartlessly wasted your time and toyed with your feelings. The silver lining is that, if he was able to treat you that way, then he is not a HVM and he couldn't have made you happy in the long run. Plus, now you'll be so quick to drop any other man who shows even the slightest lack of enthusiasm! I know it feels awful, but believe me, you are the winner in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:43 AM
2

Yeah, they've done studies showing that women can get just as aroused by visuals as men do, but they were just different visuals that did the trick (no surprise). Women on average have keener senses than men, so of course we respond to sensory stimuli. Dudes, we see you and, Goddess help us, we smell you! They've bought into their own bullshit evopsych theories, and now it's come around to bite them in the ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:36 AM
9

Wait, that was his very first message to you?! Holy hell. You're not ridiculously pretentious, he is socially incompetent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:29 AM
1

Frustration that a grown, sexually active man calls it her "vajayjay".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:15 AM
6

This is exactly why they get so scared and angry when we hold women-only meetings (like this place); they know they're about to be held accountable for their behavior. The day of reckoning is nigh, boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:08 AM
108

This is her publicly warning other women in Hollywood "His dick doesn't work, he won't buy you a single thing ever, and don't bother thinking he can get you roles, because he won't." She's performing a service to womankind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:47 AM
17

"Kisses to kitten" HORRKKKK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:31 AM
227

God, imagine this clean, cute little lady living in her own clean, cute little apartment, going to jazzercize classes, and hosting brunches for clean, cute little lady friends, and dropping in for mah jongg with her neighbors on Friday nights. Just watering her flowers and taking two baths a day, and watching makeup videos with her nieces or whatever. Then picture her trapped in a pen with this hairy old dingleberry, cleaning up after him wherever he goes, having to monitor his health for him, w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:27 AM
2

That was the vibe I got. If he had been younger, bigger and fitter it would have been scary, but I turned around all ready to throw a shit fit, and saw this little gnome winking at me. Kind of disarmed all anger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:13 AM
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Ugh, a bunch of hookah-smoking men come over at 10:00 and stay till 6:00am twice a week, at the home of this very pregnant lady? I would divorce him for that alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:04 AM
2

Definitely agree about the tourists. I got there at the very tail end of tourist season, and I was so glad when they left! Rowdy and rude, for sure. This old guy seemed to be trying to be cute?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:59 AM
2

Thanks for the recommendations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:43 AM
5

This was in November though. He was very old and small (which is why I didn't feel scared at all) and looked very much like every other old man I saw there. He pinched my butt/thigh as he brushed past me in the aisle of a grocery store. Then he winked and smiled and said something in Croatian. He seemed like a regular at this store, because next time I saw him, he was deep in friendly conversation with the deli counter guy. I'm not trying to paint all Croatian men as gropers. Maybe he was a bit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:42 AM
2

I don't think he was a tourist, but he was very old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:26 AM
30

Oh my god, she is going for the jugular. I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:41 AM
58

Men are a bad influence on each other. They are so desperate for each others' approval that they all end up as LV as the "alpha" of their group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:37 AM
5

Society, the media, and my own heterosexuality. Thankfully, I never went full-blown Pickmeisha, but I was definitely the Cool Girl with some pickme moments. Because our culture inundates us all with patriarchal thinking from day one, even a safe and secure upbringing can't totally save us from this mindset. My parents were excellent, responsible parents, and both staunch feminists. But I had seen so many movies and shows and read so many books encouraging the ideas that 'love can conquer anythin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:36 AM
39

"I like being in control" and "it was a problem in my previous relationship". Basically telling you he's a rapist. Lovely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:15 AM
5

I love to know women's opinions of books, and I love fantasy novels! Thank you for telling us! Anyone else know of good fantasy or sci fi books for FDSers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:03 AM
4

I'll definitely check out that video, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:11 PM
12

Of all the places I've traveled to, only in Croatia and Paris have I actually been groped by strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:50 PM
18

I sincerely wish you luck, Castor! We'll be here for you, however it turns out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:35 PM
18

Ultimately, what are men good for? Do you want sex? Can he give you orgasms? Is there a high level of chemistry that you can't get from other pairings? Are you in love with him? Does he make you feel loved? Do you feel on a bone-deep level that he would be there for you in a time of trouble? Do you want children? Is his genetic material top-notch? Is he good with children? Can he pull his own weight, and then some? Do you like things and experiences? Can he provide them for you? Would it be easi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:21 PM
3

Right! Such a sad commentary on the state of men when they're too lazy even to be lazy properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:52 PM
8

Oh, absolutely keep score. One of the most enlightening moments of my life to date was when I sat down after a breakup and made a list of every gift I had given him vs every gift he had given me. I recommend it as a way to quickly squash any residual feelings for an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:49 PM
2

"Women don't have trust issues, we have pattern recognition." Can I please get a bumpersticker of this?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:30 PM
6

Oh yeah, they HATE it when we're stronger than them. Years ago, me and my then-boyfriend were being giggly in the morning. I was teasing him for still being in bed, just watching me get dressed. He says something like, "make me get up then", so I went over and hoisted him up in a bridal-carry. Gigglytime was over, let me tell you. If you haven't already, you might like to read 'The Frailty Myth' by Colette Dowling. I learned so much about women's strength from that book. Did you know there have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:19 PM
14

"You have such an interesting expressive feature". Which feature is he talking about? Her nose, her mouth, her left eyeball? He can't specify, because then his copypasta wouldn't work on every single woman. I get so many comments on OLD complimenting me on my "beautiful smile", and I block every one of those men, because I am not smiling in any of my pictures!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:37 PM
20

Please tell me you meant to type "ex-boyfriend"? You deserve so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:09 PM
46

Two dudes have done this to me, and I asked both of them why. Both responded that I should do it in order to prove that I'm not a catfish. One even wanted me to hold up a piece of paper with my username on it, to prove...something or other. Nothing about me says catfish or bot. I'm not cam girl pretty, my profile is long, articulate, and unique, and no catfish would claim to be my age. All they wanted was to make me jump through hoops for their amusement. Or should I say, for their arousement. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:36 AM
3

I literally said that it is the correct word to use in some cases, and then you say the exact same thing and tack on 'agree to disagree'? How about we agree to agree? You seem to have a specific liking for the word female, and that's totally fine. For me it has already been tainted by misogynists (and Ferengis), and unless it's being used accurately and out of necessity, it's usually being used maliciously. I don't blame the word, I blame it's misusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:01 PM
21

He thinks he knows better than her what SHE wants. I guarantee this man is bad in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:29 PM
22

The fact that she's asking if she should apologize is giving me a facial tic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:17 PM
2

I think it makes sense to use the word female when talking about a group that includes women and little girls, just as I would lump men and boys together as males. However, when there is no ambiguity about age and we are definitely talking about post-pubescent human females, then women is the accurate term. The word female is not human-specific. We talk about female sea lions and female ginko trees. To deliberately chose the term that is not specific to humans when there is a human-specific term…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:51 AM
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No, this has got to be fake. They call their own product "sloppy and hastily prepared". No ad company in the 60s would do that, ironically or otherwise. I don't know who would fabricate this, or why, but it's definitely not real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:32 AM
46

Why is he calling us FDM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:28 AM
19

u/justachoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:38 AM
2

I used FAM with great success for several years. I was in an exclusive relationship, didn't like the feeling of condoms, and hadn't liked being on the pill. For those circumstances, FAM is ideal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:24 AM
33

On the opposite end of the spectrum, but I recently rewatched O Brother Where Art Thou, and Holly Hunter's character Penny is so inspiring to me now, in light of FDS. I don't think I liked her much when I saw the movie the first time. I probably thought she was too harsh on George Clooney's character, Everett. But she was right to be! The man got himself sent to prison for practising law without a license, leaving her all alone to raise five or six little girls during what seems to be the Great …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:08 AM
1

If you get a dick pic, just respond "I'm sorry, the photo's not coming through. What was it of?" Then watch him squirm. Of course, after you've had a laugh, block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:47 AM
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Any man who suggests that Margot Robbie is, or ever could be, ugly has just given himself away as an irredeemable porn addict who never goes outside and has no idea what normal people look like. That aside, what these little wanklings fail to understand is that this movie doesn't exist for the gratification of their weeners. This movie is serving entirely different purposes, and I thought it served them pretty well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:26 AM
45

I truly don't know what men like this think they mean when they use the word "love". He says he loves her, but he obviously doesn't because he can't even dedicate a single moment's thought to her unless she is in his direct line of sight. When I love someone, I consider how my every action or inaction will affect them. Because their happiness is important to me. And if I inadvertently fail them in some way, I certainly don't get on reddit and air a bunch of lame excuses to the world. Does he fee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:07 AM
23

Okay, that was pretty cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:18 AM
8

This may or may not be the case with this guy, but a male friend of mine has some sort of "shaky hand syndrome" (he told me the name, but I forgot). He rarely will eat around me, for precisely this reason. Some foods are hard for him to neatly deliver into his mouth, and he doesn't like to come off as sloppy or gross by struggling with it in public. He will drink stuff in public, but almost never eat. He told me about this condition when we first met. Otherwise I also would have assumed that his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:59 PM
1

If thinking is their essence, why are they so bad at it? In very early mythology, intelligence, intellect, and wisdom were usually coded female. Athena, Hathor, Isis, etc. The Gnostics believed that the creator of the universe was Sophia (wisdom) and that her son presented himself to earthlings as the God of the Old Testament, taking credit for her work and fucking everything up royally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:06 AM
9

I prefer to call it a Risky and Unhygienic Getting Laid Why(?). RUGLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:53 AM
10

I would love a women-only sub dedicated to finances. I feel like most financial advice is centered around men (like most advice in literally every other field), whose life-cycles and earning potential can be very different from ours. For anyone else interested in this topic, I've really enjoyed watching the videos of someone called Sugarmamma on YouTube. She is an Australian, and I think her real name is Canna? From watching her videos, I learned how to invest and have made $800 so far, even tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:27 AM
14

NEVER. Why? What possible reason could justify this? Is it because he's already ruined his own credit score? That's your answer, right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:15 AM
14

Vanilla has a romantic and tragic origin myth, about a young priestess/princess who ran away with her warrior lover. They were apprehended and beheaded, and on the spot where they died, the first vanilla orchid grew, astonishing everyone with its otherworldly fragrance. Genuine vanilla is very valuable and rare, sort of like healthy sex these days. So "vanilla" is the perfect term for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:04 AM
7

50/50? We wish!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:38 AM
3

I have no doubt that this is a serious problem, but the statistic saying that 10% of boys under 14 are using this is simply impossible. "Boys under 14" includes everyone down to newborn babies. For 10% of the 0-14 male population to be taking steroids would have to mean that nearly 100% of 13 year olds were using. If that were the case, we'd be seeing a much fitter group of 13 year olds...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:28 AM
9

So, so true. Once they've gotten you to engage in an argument, you've already lost. You've lost time, you've lost dignity, and you've lost your serenity. These people shouldn't even be a blip on our radar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:06 AM
6

When talking about women, he can only bring himself to use the words 'girl' and 'female'. That's a subtle but pervasive show of contempt. Fuck this belly-crawling vampiric creature. Having dealt with my own narc in the past, I can tell you, OP, that you deserve ten thousand times better than this, as do all WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:52 AM
3

He says heart, but he's pointing at the P...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:57 AM
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