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| 2 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?I hate beards like this, it's even worse if it's not well kept. Dated one guy with one of these, and he kissed me this one time, and it smelled terrible.... never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:52 PM |
| 13 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolAlso idk why the post was marked as spoiler lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:39 PM |
| 14 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolThe trash took itself out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:38 PM |
| 28 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolWe'll go pet the cows in the barn and feed the chickens afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:41 PM |
| 41 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolGood for you, you dodged a bullet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:40 PM |
| 138 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolThat's literally the only emoji I use, it means so many things and you never know which one it is 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:56 PM |
| 91 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolThe emojis are free 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:13 PM |
| 60 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolDude's not even bothering | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:00 PM |
| 188 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolGirl I'm done 🥲 literally though he was joking, spoiler: he wasn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:51 AM |
| 26 | So we're texting & tell him he has to be an absolute d*ck for me to cold shoulder him, he goes "well lucky for you I'm not" To which I respond "uh I'm not lucky bc that's the bare minimum" he said "Im not going to argue that, I was being cocky saying lucky that you have me but last time I'm cockyOne thing my dad who has a pHD in psychology of children told me is, you ARE supposed to praise kids for little achievement. So him saying this is a 🚩 for me bc I absolutely love children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:38 PM |
| 2 | HVM I've had a thing with in February, he went back to the USA and I'm in the EU, he obviously can't visit bc of Covid. We talk a lot but I've been seeing other people lately bc I don't know where this thing is going, but a part of me is afraid of losing him bc he has potential. Advice?Yeah this sounds like a more realistic scenario, I am straight forward and I don't want to lead him on, so I'll just tell him that I don't see myself abstaining from falling in love for 5 years because this MIGHT work out at the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:56 AM |
| 1 | HVM I've had a thing with in February, he went back to the USA and I'm in the EU, he obviously can't visit bc of Covid. We talk a lot but I've been seeing other people lately bc I don't know where this thing is going, but a part of me is afraid of losing him bc he has potential. Advice?I've made the big LDR mistake a few years ago, never again. He hasn't even considered LDR and that says a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:54 AM |
| 2 | HVM I've had a thing with in February, he went back to the USA and I'm in the EU, he obviously can't visit bc of Covid. We talk a lot but I've been seeing other people lately bc I don't know where this thing is going, but a part of me is afraid of losing him bc he has potential. Advice?I was thinking that maybe he didn't ask because he doesn't want long distance, but even that he didn't really bring it up, he literally never spoke to me about the future until now that he felt that I was slipping away. I got my answer lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:52 AM |
| 2 | HVM I've had a thing with in February, he went back to the USA and I'm in the EU, he obviously can't visit bc of Covid. We talk a lot but I've been seeing other people lately bc I don't know where this thing is going, but a part of me is afraid of losing him bc he has potential. Advice?Big Nope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:50 AM |
| 5 | HVM I've had a thing with in February, he went back to the USA and I'm in the EU, he obviously can't visit bc of Covid. We talk a lot but I've been seeing other people lately bc I don't know where this thing is going, but a part of me is afraid of losing him bc he has potential. Advice?I needed this ❤️ thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:49 AM |
| -2 | HVM I've had a thing with in February, he went back to the USA and I'm in the EU, he obviously can't visit bc of Covid. We talk a lot but I've been seeing other people lately bc I don't know where this thing is going, but a part of me is afraid of losing him bc he has potential. Advice?He's doing med school, that's why he has to stay there for 5 years, although he has the means to potentially afford a plane ticket to Europe every 2-3 months, but like you said 5 years is a long time even for a LDR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:51 AM |
| 5 | HVM I've had a thing with in February, he went back to the USA and I'm in the EU, he obviously can't visit bc of Covid. We talk a lot but I've been seeing other people lately bc I don't know where this thing is going, but a part of me is afraid of losing him bc he has potential. Advice?I honestly don't believe in words, I like actions way better. But in this situation even if he genuinely wanted to make it happen he wouldn't be able to, and it's making it harder. But yes, this might be a last tentative to keep me hooked bc I've been slacking lately, texting less, sometimes not picking up the phone, etc.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:49 AM |
| 7 | HVM I've had a thing with in February, he went back to the USA and I'm in the EU, he obviously can't visit bc of Covid. We talk a lot but I've been seeing other people lately bc I don't know where this thing is going, but a part of me is afraid of losing him bc he has potential. Advice?I was fine just talking, until he texted me today about me being different lately, so I told him that I'm just not sure where we stand and that he shouldn't expect me to put my life on hold for him bc we never really spoke about the future. He texted me that and it kinda confused me so now I'm seeking guidance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | HVM I've had a thing with in February, he went back to the USA and I'm in the EU, he obviously can't visit bc of Covid. We talk a lot but I've been seeing other people lately bc I don't know where this thing is going, but a part of me is afraid of losing him bc he has potential. Advice?I entirely get your point and completely agree with you, but I have to say that I'm not really looking for a relationship because if I were looking I'd be in one right now. I am currently casually dating multiple people, no sex, just going on dates, hanging out and enjoying each other's company. But this guy is the one I truly felt like there was a possibility of us becoming something, unfortunately he went back home and I was like "oh well, I'll just move on I guess" and I was ready to move on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | What do you reply to a "sorry for the late response" ?I know why I reply late, my reasons might or might not be the same for him, hence why I'm asking lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:17 PM |
| 5 | What do you reply to a "sorry for the late response" ?I tried this with another guy a few ago, he texted back an emoji and I totally ignored it because it's sooo low effort. Guess what he did? Double text. So yeah I'm definitely ghosting him at the first sign of low effort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:19 PM |
| 8 | What do you reply to a "sorry for the late response" ?I mean I do want to talk to him but I just put myself first, however I always text back when I have nothing keeping me busy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 5 | What do you reply to a "sorry for the late response" ?He texted me last night around 10PM to ask if X day work for me to meet, I didn't text back bc it's bedtime lol so I replied this morning at 9AM and he texted at 6:30PM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:37 PM |
| 38 | What do you reply to a "sorry for the late response" ?He texts way faster after 6PM so around the time everyone leaves work, he's a market analyst so lots of reports and screen time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 12 | Arguing about her breast size with a scrote she doesn’t even know... yikesShe should have stopped replying the moment he started talking about breasts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.Hahah omg I just realized that myself! It's actually a reference to HIMYM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.I don't know why you're getting downvoted, but good for you! Yellow raincoats are iconic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.Lol I never do that, the only person I check on is my mom bc she is a technophobe and never uses her phone, it's 2020 everyone keeps their friends updated on social media | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.Exactly, it's not like I care anyways or that whatever he says gets to me. So why not have some fun? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:30 PM |
| 8 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.I live in Spain, and it's very serious here, you get fined if you're outside for any other reason besides grocery shopping. So running outside isn't really an option. I started doing yoga though and I really like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:39 AM |
| 6 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.The ball was always in my court, he tried to make things better by saying he doesn't want to stop talking to me, but I didn't budge. It's all about standing your ground. I'll be punching my rice bags in a moment lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:37 PM |
| 22 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.He had the audacity to tell me that I should have sent a text to check on him when I saw that he disappeared 🙃 Yes!The last update has a dark theme, you can activate it by turning on the dark mode from the control center on ios | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:18 PM |
| 29 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.Honestly, I don't go to the gym anymore bc of the quarantine, and I really need a way to let out all the negative energy lol so I thought, why not be a bitch to any LVM who dares to text me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 13 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.Same, I've done a major cleanup in my social media accounts and deleted at least 30 people I stopped talking to, he was honored to be one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:11 PM |
| 30 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.Lol Actually he's pissed that I didn't double text after he ignored my last text. He basically wanted me to check on him, which I didn't because he had stopped texting back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.You definitely should mind your business, eventually she'll realize you were right, but it will probably be too late because she'll be an emotional mess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 02:40 PM |
| 34 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.She'll call you crazy, she'll tell you to "put yourself in her shoes" and that you don't understand, when it's in fact all rational and logical; he cheats=dump him (yes having a dating app when in a LTR is cheating). She'll call you insensitive and that you don't have her back, if you try to rationalize with her and tell her that you're a good friend because you actually showed her his true colors, she'll tell you to MiNd YoUr bUsiNeSs. Been there done that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | They want the hottest women and they don’t even brush there teeth.I can't imagine how his breath would be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 4 | Terrifying that this was a practice.I'm from a North African country and I'm pretty sure it's the case in all of the North African countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 07:40 PM |
| 4 | Terrifying that this was a practice.It is still a common thing in most Muslim countries, since a women is supposed to lose her virginity and break her hymen after marriage. If she gets raped the rapist has 2 choices; marry her or go to jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Why men don't delete your contact after a few dates? Even when you told them you're not longer interested in seeing them again ?Omg 😂😂 Well they're mistaken because once you try and fail, customers no longer trust you 🤷🏻♀️ it goes the same way for me, once I make up my mind about someone there's no way I change it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Why men don't delete your contact after a few dates? Even when you told them you're not longer interested in seeing them again ?I could see their profile pictures on WhatsApp when it normally shouldn't appear unless you're one of their contacts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:12 PM |
| 24 | Why men don't delete your contact after a few dates? Even when you told them you're not longer interested in seeing them again ?And yet you'd find he only has 3 conversations on WhatsApp, his buddy Kyle asking him to hang out at his basement, his mom refusing to lend him money, and a dead conversation with his ex where he's blocked and still sending texts begging her to take him back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Why men don't delete your contact after a few dates? Even when you told them you're not longer interested in seeing them again ?Gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 10 | Bumble match’s response to me saying I don’t believe in sex work and I think it’s bad for women. He knows more about feminism than me!Might have studied under a sociologist, but he apparently missed all his grammar classes in middle school | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 01:48 PM |
| 11 | Tips for college-aged womenI'm in college and promised myself to not get into a relationship until I graduate, in the meantime I get wined and dined and meet new people every now and then. It's so much less stressful than a relationship when you've got a shitload of studying to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Lmao, I’m 19.Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 03:04 AM |
| -1 | They get interested in you when you lose interestThe user might not be a HVW but the method is still partially true, I've tried it and I have good results. I obviously don't want to abuse or use anyone, even if a guy doesn't show interest in me I just move on without making things trashy or vulgar. The reason why I said this is because a guy I really liked kind of stopped texting me, so I got the hint and stopped texting him back too. I kept going out with my friends and living my life, and updating my Instagram, he knows my name so he found m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 09:40 AM |
| 21 | They get interested in you when you lose interestExactly! When a guy doesn't seem interested in us we pick up our dignity and leave, and they end up texting us AGAIN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 10:52 PM |
| 11 | They get interested in you when you lose interestMen can be stupid sometimes, I don't get it either but this is just how things are. We've all been that girl who double and triple texts lol I literally cringe when I think back of how needy I was, but now they're lucky if they get a full sentence, and yet, they seem to be grateful for it. Kevin sucks honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 10:51 PM |
| 3 | This guy asked me out directly after matching, and although I technically can meet him tonight or Tuesday night, I am triggered by the way he's limiting my options and making me choose, block.Don't worry, I actually unmatched him immediately after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 10:05 AM |
| 19 | Why do men think having negative bios will attract women? Doesn’t seem logical to me 🤔Because pickmes will try to prove him wrong and make him FaLl iN LoVe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:10 AM |
| 3 | He probably meant to say "you shall receive a mediocre male who is asking for a woman way out of his league"Every pickme's dream guy IKR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 08:21 PM |
| 9 | He probably meant to say "you shall receive a mediocre male who is asking for a woman way out of his league"He's not even 3 lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 12:28 PM |
| 5 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)I really don't care about the compliments, I'm at a point in my life where I'm so fed up with men that I no longer take their compliments seriously, even if they're genuine. And you're right, your interpretation totally makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:10 PM |
| 15 | This guy asked me out directly after matching, and although I technically can meet him tonight or Tuesday night, I am triggered by the way he's limiting my options and making me choose, block.I know right! Just because I state in my profile that I like dark humor and I don't like beer doesn't mean I don't deserve a decent dinner date 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 6 | This guy asked me out directly after matching, and although I technically can meet him tonight or Tuesday night, I am triggered by the way he's limiting my options and making me choose, block.Yeah I was like 🚨🚨🚨🚨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 12 | This guy asked me out directly after matching, and although I technically can meet him tonight or Tuesday night, I am triggered by the way he's limiting my options and making me choose, block.I'm sorry, but something is definitely off about the way he phrased it. Otherwise I wouldn't have felt upset and irritated. There are thousands ways to let me know about his schedule, one of the simplest ones would've been "Monday doesn't work for me, but I'd be happy to meet you tonight or Tuesday if it works for you" It's all about the way they say it, and they know it. This guy is literally trying to be dominant before even meeting me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:24 PM |
| 18 | This guy asked me out directly after matching, and although I technically can meet him tonight or Tuesday night, I am triggered by the way he's limiting my options and making me choose, block.I didn't really realize that, but I just read his texts and my face went from 😌 to 🤔 to 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 24 | This guy asked me out directly after matching, and although I technically can meet him tonight or Tuesday night, I am triggered by the way he's limiting my options and making me choose, block.This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 41 | This guy asked me out directly after matching, and although I technically can meet him tonight or Tuesday night, I am triggered by the way he's limiting my options and making me choose, block.Exactly! He's really trying to be the alpha or whatever it's called. Makes me think, he's probably one of those men who think that women like to be ordered around in bed or IRL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 6 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)As a future CEO, I thank you on behalf of FDS members 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)He graduated last year apparently and is doing a trial period in a private firm, this is in Europe and I can confirm things go this way after college | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:05 PM |
| 2 | The Power of Internalizing the FDS MindsetNo matter how hard following the rules seems at the beginning, it gives such confidence and sense of achievement when we follow the rules! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 7 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)He obviously has anger AND commitment issues, I didn't call him flakey for no reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:29 AM |
| 14 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)YEY! Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:25 AM |
| 19 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)I'm pretty sure he doesn't even know what it means, English isn't his first language, but dude can you like try ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:35 PM |
| 13 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)I have to admit that I partially rejected his invitation because I'm slow fading on him 😂 Also love your username 👯♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 14 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)Because it doesn't make you an easy prey, basically you show them that you have a life, even if they happen to text you when you're available, they need to understand that your life doesn't revolve around going out with them. Obviously you don't have to do this every time, but don't be ready to go whenever he asks. Trust me, guys do this too for ridiculous reasons. An ex-colleague told me he once did it to a girl because that day was his day off, and he just wanted to stay home and play online. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:30 PM |
| 29 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)I entirely agree with you, as if I needed him to tell me that I'm doing well. Honey, the only validation I need is my success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:25 PM |
| 14 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)Exactly! They try the Uno reverse card literally hahah It never fails to make me laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:23 PM |
| 17 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)I'll keep you all updated lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:22 PM |
| 31 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)Probably wanted to look witty and smart, big fail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:22 PM |
| 21 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)HAHAHAH He probably had a skyrock blog too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:21 PM |
| 13 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)Now I want to prove this hypothesis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:06 PM |
| 25 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)the nostalgia is hitting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 7 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)This totally makes sense wth But damn girl, you're brilliant for coming up with this. I think he's a bit too dumb to think that far, but I'll definitely watch out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:28 PM |
| 38 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)I wouldn't have done it without knowing about FDS, so we technically all win in this sub with every individual victory over LVMs ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:24 PM |
| 12 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)That's what I thought, although law isn't my field of work, it was a fairly important module in my bachelor and I know my way around it, but I still didn't get the joke/pun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:19 PM |
| 14 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)I made the same remark to him, he told me it's a law pun 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:15 PM |
| 151 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)I let him have the last word, that's the least I can do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:13 PM |
| 54 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)Boohoo I'm so sad. I had such a good laugh with my girls when he texted back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:12 PM |
| 70 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)He needed an excuse to mention it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:48 PM |
| 56 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)Lmao that's a way to put it too. Finding being responsible; which is a norm, attractive is a red flag to me. He's in his late 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:33 PM |
| 36 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)I KNOW RIGHT! It drives them nuts, even if you DO want to meet him, just pretending that you're busy makes them impatient and desperate. Sometimes I like to tell them that the day they chose won't work for me, even if I could make it work, and instead I choose another day and 90% of the time they're like "Sure! Whatever time works for you." Amen to ghosting and taking ZERO shit from men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 35 | DON'T BE AVAILABLE! They absolutely love it. He basically asked me to meet this weekend but I have a huge deadline so I said no. (Idk what him being a future lawyer have to do with me being busy tho)It definitely is. The funny thing is that they'll be all about that, but once you actually start dating them seriously they'd be like "you never have time for us, always working/studying" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 08:58 PM |
| 14 | I kind of exposed this guy to all the women who could be his fiancé... long story how I found out. My heart was racing! I know it’s the right thing to do but I’m a quiet girl I normally don’t do this stuff but I felt so bad for his fiancé about to marry a cheaterIn the same time being cheated on with a Prada bag in your hand is better than being left in a 1 room apartment with heating problems lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:52 AM |
| 21 | I kind of exposed this guy to all the women who could be his fiancé... long story how I found out. My heart was racing! I know it’s the right thing to do but I’m a quiet girl I normally don’t do this stuff but I felt so bad for his fiancé about to marry a cheaterI'd rather not go on vacation than have all my friends know I'm being cheated on and look like an idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | YoU nEeD To CoMmUnIcAtE!!1!!Am I the only one or every man I know who's called Jade is a fucking dick ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:15 PM |
| 8 | Women who standard-shame other womenYou are doing amazing! I am investing in my education at an early age too, getting my MBA at 21 and planning to do much more. My mom always tell me that the more educated I am, the better my social circle will be, she always tells me "do you see yourself, as a CEO, married to a bus driver or a kindergarten teacher ?" And it totally makes sense to me, those professions are respected and there isn't anything shameful about them, but if a highly educated woman is going to get into a relationship, i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:57 PM |
| 3 | It’s all about expectationsDid they dangle when he'd wear shorts ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | "Divorced, with 3 kids and a huge debt that needs to be paid. I'm not looking for anything serious, just a wife."That's true, actually Romanians have a pretty bad reputation in Spain, it's sad that the behavior of a minority damages the reputation of a whole nation. I dated guys from Bulgaria and Hungaria and they were very friendly, also not super experienced in dating which makes me think it's a thing there? Idek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 07:32 AM |
| 3 | "Divorced, with 3 kids and a huge debt that needs to be paid. I'm not looking for anything serious, just a wife."Yeah this is in Madrid actually hahah and yup, A LOT of them, Eastern European people too, their men are actually nice, better than Spanish men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 11:16 PM |
| 4 | "Divorced, with 3 kids and a huge debt that needs to be paid. I'm not looking for anything serious, just a wife."This is in Europe, he was like 15Km away from my location. I don't know if he's Persian though 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 11:13 PM |
| 9 | "Divorced, with 3 kids and a huge debt that needs to be paid. I'm not looking for anything serious, just a wife."Omg 😂😂😂 that's exactly how it be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:29 PM |
| 17 | "Divorced, with 3 kids and a huge debt that needs to be paid. I'm not looking for anything serious, just a wife."Such a mystery though, he definitely seems like a financially responsible guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:29 PM |
| 13 | "Divorced, with 3 kids and a huge debt that needs to be paid. I'm not looking for anything serious, just a wife."Exactly what I was thinking, ideally he would have written it in English and Persian too lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 7 | "Divorced, with 3 kids and a huge debt that needs to be paid. I'm not looking for anything serious, just a wife."Lmao IKR all that freelance crap is a joke to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 11 | A reminder it’s okay to have standards when women have always been expected to look good all the time and guys expecting to have a 10/10 girl when they’re ugly goblins.I mostly dated average looking guys, I don't have that much experience with relationships, but I've been single for a few months now and the attention I'm getting from guys that are 8,9 and 10s is unbelievable. I'm not saying I seek validation from hot guys, but now I now I can do better than average. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 57 | Promise I’ll swear off LVM no matter how much I want the validation. It’s not worth it!I literally can't understand it when people have babies without being married, that's so risky and irresponsible for the kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 08:44 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone ever dated a covert narcissist? What were the signs? How did you escape it?It's not easy to tell honestly, I don't know if he was diagnosed or not, but he fits every possible red flag. Lmao the last thing this ex needs is validation, his ego was bigger than his dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:32 PM |
| 24 | Has anyone ever dated a covert narcissist? What were the signs? How did you escape it?Because he'd manipulate me, get me to do things that only served his interest, made comments that lowered my self esteem and then later tells me that it's okay and that I have him and he still loves me although I (supposedly) suck lol, didn't care about important things in my life like my job or my family, the list goes on... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 49 | Has anyone ever dated a covert narcissist? What were the signs? How did you escape it?I dated a narcissist and at the very beginning he was the most perfect being, he'd text whenever he got the chance, called me a lot, picked me up from work and took me places, introduced me to his friends, etc... I didn't see a SINGLE red flag, but with time he started giving me a mean attitude, we'd argue and instead of communicating he'd give me the cold shoulder for days (I was a pickme so I'd go and talk to him), got mad at me for the smallest mistakes, expected me to do X or Y thing if I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:16 PM |
| 19 | If he wants to be with you, he will.Took me forever to understand and accept this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:59 PM |
| 6 | Why is all advice about toxic males on reddit the same???And somehow those advices NEVER work, on the other hand when you leave they come back crawling like leeches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:58 PM |
| 9 | This guy has been hinting for weeks that he hopes we can get together soon but never offers any ideas. It finally made me snap.He had nothing to say to defend himself because you stated FACTS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:14 PM |
| 27 | Never accept a relationship born this way.Lmao This happened 4 years ago with an ex who cheated on me, we broke up, then I took him back bc I still loved him, and then he cheated again with THE SAME bitch, he then left me and dated her for two weeks Old pickme was the queen of pickmes 👸🏻😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:38 PM |
| 3 | REMINDER: There is NO good way to ask a man outThe spermatozoid swims to the egg sis, can't get more simple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | A friendly reminder that Mercury is in retrograde...don’t slip up 😂I'm always surprised by all the innovative and creative ways they come up with to contact you, I had an ex connect to my college on LinkedIn because he couldn't connect with me directly 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Sexism and misogyny of "How I met your mother"However Lilly is a LVW, the girl waited for like 6-7 years before he proposed, she's clingy as hell, and the list goes on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:15 PM |
| 7 | Can’t keep it up with a condom- sign of porn sickness?A guy who cares about you will use condoms no matter how uncomfortable it is. My ex who I still believe was a HVM (friendly and respectful breakup) used condoms because he knew I couldn't afford having a baby and that I didn't want one, although I was on birth control to regulate my cycle. He did tell me that condoms make him lose erections before we even started having sex, and when we did have sex I just made sure he was comfortable enough and it fixed it, no limp dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:45 PM |
| 12 | Would you bother telling a guy why you no longer want to see him ?I voice text all the time, I don't have the time or the energy for paragraphs lol And you're right, it's not like he's dumb or anything, and being courteous would only get me a "no problem" at best. Fuck it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:16 PM |
| 3 | ConnardVoulez-vous coucher avec moi ? 🤤🤤😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 17 | Would you bother telling a guy why you no longer want to see him ?He is respectful towards me, takes me to nice places and spoils me. He did try to initiate sex once, I stopped him and he apologized immediately, he later texted me apologizing again. We've been seeing each other for a month now, and yet he's not making any effort or dropping hints for a long term thing, so I'm basically wasting my time. I was thinking I should just tell him out of courtesy, but maybe I shouldn't? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:47 PM |
| 3 | This girl is def getting cheated onHe also most likely is dating her for his residency permit, marrying her would mean a permanent stay for him. He might or might not stick around after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Women can tell when a man’s watching pornLet's start a petition 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 37 | Women can tell when a man’s watching pornWhen they shove their tongues in your mouth or suck on your tongue. I don't know about others, but it's really gross to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Ladies we are almost 3 months into 2020! Have we all dropped that pick-me mentality yet?!It feels amazing. I went through my contacts a few weeks ago and deleted every useless person I know, especially guys I met on OLD or elsewhere and who occasionally hit me up with "we should meet sometime soon" but never actually make plans, I'm a busy woman honey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:58 PM |
| 6 | The golden pussyDick is abundant and low-value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:29 AM |
| 10 | The golden pussyExactly Pickmes think it's an insult | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:28 AM |
| 54 | The golden pussy"A pussy that isn't easily fucked" is the easy way to put it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:44 PM |
| 2 | DomDaddy? Mommy Is Disappointed He Hasn’t Cleaned His Basement Yet. He can offer you Coca-Cola bottles he has sipped from! Line up young thangs!Body fluids are okay, not washing your swing is gross though lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:32 AM |
| 2 | What is this creature on his face? Please tell me it’s one of those animal onesies from WalMart?That's okay I suppose, but I'm talking about a full fluff like in the post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:03 AM |
| 2 | This is the HVM by my side for many years. Couldn't ask for more. Those LVM got nothing on him!The ultimate HVM 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 10:45 PM |
| 10 | What is this creature on his face? Please tell me it’s one of those animal onesies from WalMart?I fucking hate beards, I went on a date with a guy a few days ago and he showed up with a beard, at the end of the date I hugged him goodbye and I found my nose in his beard, IT STANK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 10:44 PM |
| 3 | When do we stop using FDS?If he falls for you when you're using FDS, don't even consider changing that because FDS serves YOU as a woman to maintain a loving, fair and respectful relationship. FDS filters LVM so if you happen to drop it and give him some privileges after marriage, he might change his opinion about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Do all men cheat?Most of my male friends cheat on their ladies, if not sex, they'd ask a girl for her number or invite her for coffee/movie/dinner. And that's still cheating! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Another ‘Protect Your Finances’ PostNow I know why my mom always tells me to have all bank accounts separated, even saving ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 12 | DomDaddy? Mommy Is Disappointed He Hasn’t Cleaned His Basement Yet. He can offer you Coca-Cola bottles he has sipped from! Line up young thangs!I would swipe left just for the leopard print on the swing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | We need men for what, exactly? All the help they offer us?I really want to go to some handiness classes, so I'm able to fix stuff and build things myself without the need to call my dad or a male person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 08:20 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜I don't know honestly, I only date average or above average men, after all, you're dating him for the purpose of marriage, you want to have kids with him and therefore need good genes. Just my opinion here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 07:58 PM |
| 5 | Stay HappyA friend of mine had a similar situation with a guy, she straight out told him he's just trying to fuck her, he defended himself and proved her wrong, took her on an amazing date, bought her gifts and spoiled her in every way you can think of, they ended up having sex and he just disappeared. If you think he's just trying to fuck you, he probably is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:45 PM |
| 12 | 😂😂 she got him goodSorry but your (hopefully) ex was retarded or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:52 AM |
| 6 | 😂😂 she got him goodFair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:51 AM |
| 17 | 😂😂 she got him goodNot the tiities omg!!!! 😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 04:49 AM |
| 30 | 😂😂 she got him goodExactly! I love french fries but I'd rather buy them because I'm clumsy as fuck 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 10:02 PM |
| 123 | 😂😂 she got him goodIt's not mine, just found it, but I agree with you completely. And It's not very hygienic to cook naked lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afHe's obviously using you!! Level up asap! Next time he texts, don't even bother texting back, just ignore him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afLMAO I CANT 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:12 PM |
| 12 | I think reddit may be affecting my mental healthMen on those subs are mostly cave creatures who have been rejected by women their whole lives, so that's their exile to express their deepest insecurities in the form of fictional anecdotes to degrade women. There are still good men out there who love their moms and sisters, and treat their women like queens, those men don't complain or talk shit on those subs because their women treat them well in return, also because a HVM doesn't waste his time talking shit and nonsense, so don't let whatever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 15 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afNop, if a guy doesn't ask me after 48 hours of talking I just forget about him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:23 PM |
| 11 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afOh I am, more than you can imagine lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:57 PM |
| 12 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afHe also smokes pot Yipes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:56 PM |
| 16 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afExactly! Like whenever something like this happens and I'm about to text back, I just remind myself that if I were in their situation I would have texted them, unless I'm not interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:56 PM |
| 16 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afHe's looking for a penpal lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 16 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afYes ma'am | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 21 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afI personally let people know if I'm having a busy week, otherwise they'll probably take it on a personal level, the only people I ignore are people I don't care enough about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:09 PM |
| 45 | Last text was a week ago, don't buy their excuses lady, even if they're hot afHow unfortunate lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Dates only, ladies.Next thing will be lunch break dates with the cafeteria's soggy sandwich | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 11:43 PM |
| 12 | They ALWAYS come backTreat 'em mean, keep 'em keen ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 11:30 PM |
| 2 | The end of the first dateThat's what I thought too! They be trying to sneak a kiss lol and mean it's cute and all when I WANT to kiss, but when I'm out with someone who I'm not into anymore, it's lowkey creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 06:45 PM |
| 8 | The end of the first dateCONGRATS!! it's sweet that he asked. I've seen somewhere some people say that a guy shouldn't ask because it kills the mood and I'm conflicted lol I mean, they play dumb because it's pretty obvious when a girl wants to be kissed, and it's pretty obvious when she DOES NOT want to be kissed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | How can I use the "single until married" strategy effectively?I have to disagree with the dating men from a religious/conservative background, I come from a Muslim family and I date people, however every single Muslim guy I've been with was only after sex like any other guy, and the ones who ACTUALLY want to marry you, will try to shove religion down your throat by pressuring you into wearing long skirts and a hijab, won't allow you to go out alone or have male friends, remove social media etc... it's not the kind of marriage you're looking for. I might be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 02:43 PM |
| 10 | Investing myself into men not interested in anything real is canceled. I’m not bringing anything to your “company”I QUIT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 8 | This is the ultimate fate of every Roberta the builder. ALWAYS put yourself first ladies.Life isn't unfair, WE make poor decisions. I learned the hard way that LDR rarely work, so why invest your time, money and feelings in something without a guarantee, unless you're actually married and he needs to go abroad temporarily, there's no way it will work. There's way too much temptation in LDR. I feel sorry for her, but 10 years is enough to date, get married, and have a kid if that's what she wants. Remember ladies, LDR are not a thing, even with all the technology in the world, if a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:48 PM |
| 5 | LOL some lurker decided to sexualize my dog after I posted on here saying how happy I was that I adopted her. Talk about projection!Boohoo mommy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:43 PM |
| 23 | Woo let's praise men for litterally doing the bare minimum of human decency. This isnt what makes a good man, this should be the expected baseline behaviour.It just makes me laugh every time. Ah men, so bitter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:38 PM |
| 79 | Woo let's praise men for litterally doing the bare minimum of human decency. This isnt what makes a good man, this should be the expected baseline behaviour.And then some of them be like "Bitch you ugly anyways" lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:32 PM |
| 3 | These LVM will always surprise me with their misogynistic thoughtsIt's not even that hard to understand, and yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 02:10 PM |
| 16 | Sex isn’t worth it for womenI don't believe in FWB, it only serves men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:28 PM |
| 3 | I was suggesting ways for my male friends to make his gf forgive him for something stupid he did, like surprise her at her place with a nice dinner or meet her when she leaves work with a bouquet or something, this was his responseWell, he did message her and she completely ghosted him, and he ended up going over to her place, she didn't even let him in and just told him to man up and broke up with him lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Men who keep talking about how hot powerful women areThey try too hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Ah....noWait hol' up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Has your boyfriend ever told you that you have small boobs?As much as average-big size boobs are sexy and look amazing in low cut tops, small boobs are cute too and have their charm, it's also more comfortable to sleep on your belly or go braless without getting attention. But no matter what anyone says, it's your body and you're free to do whatever you want, you're also beautiful just the way you are <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Men who keep talking about how hot powerful women areHe didn't talk about other women, he was asking me about what I want in life and the way I deal with things, and I told him that I prioritize my education and try my best to reach my goals, that's when he said that "women who know what they want are hot, but they scare the shit out of men" and went on about all this crap about being scared of things you respect, which I really didn't get lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Men who keep talking about how hot powerful women areHe has a great relationship with his mom apparently, he was by her side when she had cancer and she beat it, he's very proud of her. So if he treats his mom right, he can probably treat his lady right too, but the way he keeps emphasizing how attractive powerful women are just makes my gut go into siren mode | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 18 | She had 2 babies.This is why you shouldn't have kids until after marriage, he has a lot more to lose if he divorces you. And it's also bad for kids to have to go through that phase when the parent is constantly dating new people, it just confuses children imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:36 PM |
| 3 | This guy drove 15 hours while he was a teenager to meet his gf and you have now grown ass men telling you that they left you on read for 15 days because of an emergency. If a man loves you he won’t think that he will regret his choice.My ex and I broke up because he wasn't sure he wanted to move to where I live, I was having a hard time believing that, and thought that maybe he just needed time to make up his mind. This sub taught me that if a man loves you enough, he'll leave his whole life behind for you, Harry chose Megan over royalty, and you're telling me you can't choose between me and a job ??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 12:16 AM |
| 25 | Men who keep talking about how hot powerful women areWell yeah, it confuses me whenever he talks about how independence is empowering to women etc.. I don't know about the mommy side, he's a grown ass man with his own company, but at this point I wouldn't be surprised if he's looking for a mommy figure lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:55 PM |
| 33 | Men who keep talking about how hot powerful women areMen love drama, especially if it's about them, so if a guy says he's not into drama, just pretend you believe him lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:38 PM |
| 33 | Men who keep talking about how hot powerful women areExactly! It just makes it look kinda superficial when they emphasize it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Miles Seeks Muse 🙄He'll probably ask girls to get naked so he can draw them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:56 PM |
| 9 | Once you defeat all the Pickmeishas, you have to battle the Queen.I bet all those gold and silvers were from men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:46 PM |
| 5 | I was suggesting ways for my male friends to make his gf forgive him for something stupid he did, like surprise her at her place with a nice dinner or meet her when she leaves work with a bouquet or something, this was his responseActually she's giving him a hard time, ignoring his texts etc which is why he asked me about it, but obviously he doesn't care enough to fix things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:01 AM |
| 2 | I was suggesting ways for my male friends to make his gf forgive him for something stupid he did, like surprise her at her place with a nice dinner or meet her when she leaves work with a bouquet or something, this was his responseWell at least now we know he's not good at manipulation either lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:00 AM |
| 50 | I was suggesting ways for my male friends to make his gf forgive him for something stupid he did, like surprise her at her place with a nice dinner or meet her when she leaves work with a bouquet or something, this was his responseShe needs to look at FDS herself because she's a lost case, a 23 years old independent woman dating a 21 years old broke college student who spends his nights gaming in his dorm room and invites her to frat parties on weekends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 10:50 PM |
| 9 | I was suggesting ways for my male friends to make his gf forgive him for something stupid he did, like surprise her at her place with a nice dinner or meet her when she leaves work with a bouquet or something, this was his responseI'm not even surprised at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 10:45 PM |
| 41 | I was suggesting ways for my male friends to make his gf forgive him for something stupid he did, like surprise her at her place with a nice dinner or meet her when she leaves work with a bouquet or something, this was his responseExactly! Like I was telling him to make an effort and get creative, he couldn't come up with anything so I suggested this, and he still thinks it's too much smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 45 | I was suggesting ways for my male friends to make his gf forgive him for something stupid he did, like surprise her at her place with a nice dinner or meet her when she leaves work with a bouquet or something, this was his responseI hope she dumps him, I won't text her bc she already thinks I'm trynna steal her man when I've known him since we were like 5 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"Sometimes I really need someone to be direct and blunt with me, I would say that he can't move because he has more job opportunities in his location, but that's not an excuse if he really wants me in his life. Thanks sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"Trust me, they always come back, you just need to ignore them and show then you've moved on and they come back asking for more. All my exs came back, this is the first one I'm considering taking back because he didn't cheat or lie or make me look dumb, however he'll have to work harder to convince me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:08 AM |
| 5 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"FDS has been amazing, even the guys I'm seeing now are good to me, not wasting my time. But I'll take your advice, live my life and if he comes back and his actions speak more than his words, I'll consider. It's always better to get an honest opinion than live an ugly experience, I do appreciate your bluntness <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"Thanks! I believe it would be fine keeping it light, he's not the pushy type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"I was in this very same situation and he was in fact planning to move to my city, but he bonded with his family after being away for 6 years and admitted that he's not sure he might want to move, and needs to figure things out, it would have been unfair to make me wait until he makes up his mind so we broke up. I hate to admit that as much as I'm actively dating and having a great time meeting new people, I kind of still believe it was a waste that it didn't work for us. However the reason I bel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 11 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"This makes sense, although cutting him off is not an option since we have many mutual friends. So ideally I'll probably have to keep him as an acquaintance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"This is the thing, he was a great partner, was careful about the way he treated me because I gave him a hard time before making things exclusive. I am currently over him, I don't check his social media and I don't feel sad or upset about the break up, however I know that he'll be back and potentially want to make things work, in this scenario I don't know how to deal with it. Things ended in a clean and friendly way with an apology and a respectful goodbye, I don't know if I'll be able to reject… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Ex who I believe was HVM broke up with me "out of respect"We were friends before the relationship and have friends in common, we used to meet with the rest of our friends on occasions, so it will be awkward to cut him off completely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:53 PM |
| 4 | This guy on Bumble totally overlooked the fact that I'm getting a masters degree at 21 and being trilingual, LVM are an epidemicI know right! I'm very confident about my height and most men I met prefer short women, not that it's a criteria but making a big deal out of that shows how shallow he is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 3 | This guy on Bumble totally overlooked the fact that I'm getting a masters degree at 21 and being trilingual, LVM are an epidemicOn the other hand they rarely make any effort to look decent lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 09:47 AM |
| 4 | This guy on Bumble totally overlooked the fact that I'm getting a masters degree at 21 and being trilingual, LVM are an epidemicSo shallow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 09:47 AM |
| 3 | This guy on Bumble totally overlooked the fact that I'm getting a masters degree at 21 and being trilingual, LVM are an epidemicThis made my day hah however he did ask to meet this weekend, and I'll be wearing my cute old school converse :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:33 PM |
| 19 | This guy on Bumble totally overlooked the fact that I'm getting a masters degree at 21 and being trilingual, LVM are an epidemicHe was probably expecting me to say that I aLWaYs WeAr HeEls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:23 PM |
| 28 | I’m reading “the mans guide to women” and they recommend to men that don’t like giving orals to suck it up. What are your thoughts ?In every relationship I've been in, I wouldn't do a thing until the guy goes down on me, then and only then I'd go down on him, if they don't do it I don't either 🤷🏻♀️ But I think I've just been lucky so far because all guys I dated were into oral sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:40 PM |
| 19 | This guy on Bumble totally overlooked the fact that I'm getting a masters degree at 21 and being trilingual, LVM are an epidemicThanks love! I think good looks only add value to an educated woman, you're never too educated and I encourage women to learn and invest in their education, we'll turn 40 and our looks won't be so good anymore, but we'll still be as clever and interesting as in our 20s I disliked his message for a reason, most women like heels although they're uncomfortable, but it's silly from him to assume that I'd wear heels to meet his expectations or whatever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:55 PM |
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