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The end of the first date

randomyellowumbrella · 2020-01-29T16:26:07+00:00

Okay so I know it's not really advised to kiss on the first date, and that totally makes sense. However, I've been on a few dates and towards...

randomyellowumbrella

January 29, 2020

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Title	The end of the first date
Author	randomyellowumbrella
Upvotes	10
Comments	8
Date	January 29, 2020 4:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/evp3kv/the_end_of_the_first_date/
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Well, to be fair, if every guy is hoping you think they are cute and can get a goodnight kiss, they'll always do it. One guy isn't really creepier than another for trying regardless of looks. Like I said, I never liked to kiss on the first date, but not because I think it's particularly inappropriate. I discovered I kinda knew if I liked a guy based on how much I think about him after a first date. I suppose it's a pretty delayed response. And, kissing someone I wasn't sexually attracted to felt awkward and forced, so I stopped doing it. As a side benefit, I got to see which guys would ignore clear behavior signals of "I would prefer your mouth not touch me." A guy who was looking pretty good could really turn me off from him by insisting on kissing the back of my neck because my lips were nowhere to be found. I also figured out you have to disengage from the hug and step back quickly because they will hang on to you and try to wait until you pull back from the hug to plant one on you. I hated having to squirm away from someone. Ugh.