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He tried to grab his wallet but hadn't noticed it fell out of his pocket half under the bench. While he was searching confused I grabbed my phone, which was next to me and just paid so the waitress could leave. He isn't a free loader. Has paid for a lot more since. He is also pretty damn charismatic. Even if it were to be that I would like be "blinded", I knew that before I saw him that way and was one of the first things my family said from just a small glimpse while I was on the phone with him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:28 AM
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Yeah ok. But I guess more personal. For me I wouldn't want to get married in 1-2. I kind of want my degree first, at least my bachelor. I don't want to get married that early. Plus we are both raised by people who have had long relationships prior to getting married. His parents 6 years, my 12.5 of course they already lived together and were practically married. Just not on paper. I get it's different if that's like really weird around you to do that, you view it differently. The only reason my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:09 AM
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It was heavily implied with what we talked about on that date and well. And like the next day it was official official. in like he said it to his family and friends too. We have talked about it and are really serious and official. but he has said he wants to like really ask me too, for a cute moment, because his sisters boyfriend did that too. It's a bit confusing, but it's cute. He's hopelessly romantic. I personally find myself still too young to be married or even engaged yet. The only people…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:50 PM
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He has paid more than that already. felt weird to send him basically a cash app request. I know it is "bad" and looked down upon. But we both already felt at that point that this wasn't a random date, but actually the start of a ltr. It was the moment. If it was a regular first date. He DEFINITELY would have gotten one. But well, just how it played out. Sometimes when it isn't toxic at all, he showed good initiative etc. And like very specific situations not all rules have to be like followed. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:06 PM
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Yes of course still watching out etc. It helps that I have known him for longer than there was any interest. As friends. And same class etc. So sometimes I just walk or sit with the guys (and hear some real sexist conversations. Science major after all. So more guys.) And I saw him be uncomfortable at some of that stuff. And really it would be very impressive to fake how he acted on our first date, couldn't find his words anymore when I sat next to him. I paid the drinks (one of those places you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:51 PM
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Hell I am in college and I'd never do that. I don't care if it's a shitty small student flat with roommates or parents home or hell, my own bedroom in my parents house. Not doing it in a fucking car. Altho I am also not like hooking up, it's a relationship or nothing. My current boyfriend literally has 8m2 as a room, no space for a double bed (well. He can fold it out and then it is, almost. You just can't like walk anymore. Moving out to another one next month tho. Sadly to one further from my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:04 PM
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Hell. You still have to pay a hooker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:20 PM
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Hell even to true HVM dick there are more problems than with dildos. Even when you Truly love eachother and long term relationship with that HVM.. Still messier. Always a chance birth control will fail etc..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:46 AM
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Or even require you to get hormonal birth control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:23 AM
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If that's too much. I don't want it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:31 PM
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And even then... putting great value on virginity etc is just gross. Imo only accepting "young virgins" is even more gross than just chasing young girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:41 PM
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That's because there are quite a bit of Gene's for colour vision on the X chromosome. Also why men are way more likely to be colourblind. If grandpa was it, then they have a 50% chance. And if you get 2 slightly different Gene's for it that both see colour, well you see a bit more. So subtle differences. Sure But often it is about pretty damn obvious stuff they also don't see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:01 AM
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The bottom one is a mood thoo....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:44 PM
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Yeah I am European tho. Which means especially in the 50's less black people. I am sure there were. And a bit less institutionalized racism with like. Where everyone lives. But I am pretty sure my shitty grandfather was like on the poorer side. At least lower middle class. Because well factory work basically. And my mom would have qualified for EVERY help during her education. But he was too shit to fill in the paperwork. Still made enough to support a family. Sure didn't have a car he did get h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:09 PM
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They were more wholesome with like dating I guess. But the rest? Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:13 PM
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but he did not pressure her to go back to having an income when she wanted to stay at home with the kids. For that time it would have been quite rare for her to go back to work. I know my grandmas certainly didn't. And my parents say no one really did. And my teachers. Sometimes you were just like "let go". Because supposed to take care of the kids. Now sometimes it isn't a choice anymore sadly. Since can be difficult to support an entire family in like comfort on a single wage.... mind you one …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:05 PM
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It isn't necessarily that they turn them into pigs. Just the animal that reflects who they are on the inside That just happens to typically be a pig or a toad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:51 AM
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Oeh very smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:25 PM
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But what society calls "effeminate" sometimes I just call "healthy". Like doing housework especially if you both work. Communicating about your emotions instead of violence. Talking. Being for equal and womens rights. Wanting to be involved with their own kids. Basic empathy And so much more society tells us that aren't masculine but just feminine. Like... nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:00 PM
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And even not how to join a 9-5 It tries to prepare you for studying in college maybe? But not how the fuck do you write a CV or motivation letter to a job. How do you apply. What's the interview process like. Since a lot may have jobs. But I doubt it will be as easy as getting to stock shelves in your local grocery store or flip burgers at McDonald's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:53 PM
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Also. It are words. She doesn't have a limit on how often she can say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:50 PM
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When I was with this crappy dude. When I got over him and told my friend "yeah he was kinda toxic" she was "I know. He seemed really off." I was soo pissed she didn't tell me! Sometimes you just are stupid and blind by hormones and emotions and don't see as easily through the bullshit that someone is getting that way. And you just need someone to point it out to you. She knew I would have listened to her. At least considered what she was saying. And that's all that had been needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:45 PM
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But also. Fairy god mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:34 PM
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I've also never seen or heard a wlw say (also not anonymously online) that they liked changing with a bunch of girls during say PE. Only that they did it in a stall afraid it would make others uncomfortable or that they literally didn't care and minded their own business like you should. Not looking at anyone. And if say passing deodorant just like face. Eventho then you have girls in their bras and thongs. Why the hell would a bra strap be too much for boys and men to control themselves? Or som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:36 AM
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It's also because some straight women can be pretty touchy and huggy etc. So it's subtle flirting combined with "is she just being nice." Makes it so it is literally a stereotype. Combine that with not wanting to blatantly flirt as much as men do, because that shit can feel really creepy and aggressive. And finding someone gets difficult for girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:25 AM
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Also like. Yeah a retainer isn't ugly but I am also not just relaxing with it on the couch. Especially not eating or drinking.. Like... it ain't that comfortable and I like the ability to properly form my words without risk of drooling etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:43 PM
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My prescription makes my eyes look so much bigger. (Still have contacts tho. Because I wanted them at 11. And just practical sometimes) I literally can't wear mascara with them on tho. Since my lashes are pretty long and brown. But the ends are invisible. Mascara makes them harder. And blinking causes the lashes then to lay flat and sometimes be annoying while blinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:40 PM
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Well. Sometimes getting someone away from a dangerous situation might be better than just trying to pick a fight, especially if it's the litteral devil. Maybe that's just my opinion tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:07 PM
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We also only had been walking for like 10 minutes. He could have easily went in the restaurant like my mom had. But he didn't need to then... Sometimes men are just like fucking toddlers. No bladder awareness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:59 PM
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My dad after a few beers literally pissed on a hedge. Of a house. Next to a road. While walking home. Home was less than 10 minutes away..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:51 PM
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Or even worse. Feel entitled to you because they paid for your coffee or whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:59 PM
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With me they also didn't really talk about the vagina. Or penis. Since well. Assumed everyone understood, dicks get hard. It was a lot of hormones etc. Reproduction basically. And how every std spread and basic symptoms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:03 PM
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I hate to break it to you. But still not always thought about. My sex ed mentioned LGBT stuff. And far from abstinence only. But still didn't really go into consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:59 AM
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I literally spend around that amount on my best friend... as a broke ass minimum wage side job student... Sure sometimes it's kinda last minute, when I have no clue. We tend to do random things. So I spend like 2 or 3 hours or so in the mall and get her things. This time a package with a sketchbook, scented candle, her favourite chocolate, cardgame that looked fun to play together. Etc. Something doesn't have to be expensive to be thoughtful and nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:18 PM
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But I think their definitions of it are like a little shallow. It's only if you drugged her, she was fully unconscious or it was really violent and she kept saying no and fighting back. Guys say they aren't. But ask if they ever had sex with a really drunk girl they'd say yes. Maybe proud. Maybe no care. ask about convincing a girl to want to have sex with them (pressuring) and they'll proudly say yes. Which yeah less violent but it's still rape.cause she didn't consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:43 AM
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*average boring man. Other girls don't think you're a bitch for that. Sure if you are nasty or whatever. They may think so.but typically saying "nah. Not gonna send that dude nudes." Or whatever they don't call you a bitch for not doing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:37 AM
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I get not constantly wanting to pay for a huge huge bouquet but really......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:30 PM
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And even with teenagers it's a bit like.... whut!? You can talk about marriage and kids etc certainly. But like an actual ring? Nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:59 AM
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Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:32 AM
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I just got shivers from that image. And i am quite a messy person myself. (Like socks on floor of bedroom for a few days. Not when people come over tho. And no mold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:37 PM
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Then should have just sent a screenshot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:51 PM
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Hey. It's possible she has the same, same level or higher position. Just... wasn't on call because pregnancy leave. People are on call at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:09 PM
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I mean.. every therapist would at the minimum keep it a secret. Else they are in violation and can lose their license. Unless they are an active danger to themselves or others, the therapist cant say a thing. And cheating and thus std risk doesn't count as danger. With that they mean killing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:06 PM
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I mean. All is fine too....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:03 PM
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Nah not really. Maybe bisexuals which have sworn off men for as long as that lasts when single. Or that just decided to be single forever. Lesbians dont want em. Cause like. Your sexuality isn't a political statement. Lesbians want love too. And sex. Kind of difficult to really get with a straight girl. You can love and deeply care. But it will not be more than friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:40 PM
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Another person said it was signed jasmin. And her name meaning yasmine in arabic. Possibly her handwriting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:24 PM
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"It's not dry! So juicy!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:35 PM
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Not burning a steak on the grill. Or have it less than well done isn't even difficult (not a jab at you being a chef. I am sure yours are amazing. Just your brother.) I am a vegetarian. Which means if i only cook for myself. Never meat. Even I can make a somewhat medium steak. Rare would probably be a bit tricky. It isn't difficult. Just making sure your grill isn't the most hot it can get. And taking it off fast enough. Being fully sober, thus not having had 4 beers by the time you cooking alre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:33 PM
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Maybe jordan peterson? Idunno
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:19 AM
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Yup. I know i am average maybe slightly above average myself but not by much. Compared to them i would like be a 2. I think women are just rated on like a 5 point scale in reality. While the men on a like 10-15 ish point scale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:17 AM
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A regular bed can easily be more expensive than a boxspring Source: me and my brother both recently bought new beds from ikea. He a (fakisch) boxspring. I a regular bed (want drawer space under my bed) When you add everything up. Matrass, slats, frame etc. It's about twice as expensive (yes also ikea matrass. But not the cheapest one. Their matrasses don't suck. Some feel great. Long warranty too.) I assume the post was referring to ground matrasses. Since i assume regular beds are acceptable to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:03 AM
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Society influences a lot child's education. It has always been like that. It's one of the most primsry ways we learn anything. Usually all those types of porn ads are on more like illegal sites and are just viruses. But you can't make it so you can't get to it with a simple google search. You can't make the entire internet kid friendly. Our definitions of it may be the same. But you will have people screaming that say "atheism exists." "Vaccines are not poison" "the earth is a lot older than 600…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:57 AM
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Yes. That would be the equivalent of advertising on a place with content directly aimed at kids. Porn ads are really only on vague stuff, and aren't usually pornhub but usually scam sites. So pornhub wouldn't have a problem. If he wouldve gotten the alcohol in the cornershop, you couldn't sue wallmart for your kid getting liquor. But the cornershop. a 12 year old can't get an internet contract. As you can't commit to any contracts like that, with bills typically under the age of 18. E mail is 13…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:56 PM
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It doesn't make you wife material. But being unable to do it makes you specifically "not partner material"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:30 AM
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That sadly wouldn't be possible. But would be deemed the parents responsibility to put on the filters and stuff. Also. Those rulings could be detrimental to us. People suing because they little girl got scared by rape statistics, that the person on YouTube talking about gay rights or culture, turned their kid gay. Etc etc. Unless they advertise on sites and on kids content, not much you can do. Also pornhub doesn't tend to advertise on those deeper, shadier sites, because it is big enough. They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:24 AM
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Also. Like. Instagram will compress anyways. So not actually losing much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:12 PM
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Aah of course. All that shit always goes together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:46 PM
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Of course he wasn't. Would've been called out by the teacher. You could've just shown him your bio book. Those types never know what they are talking about. With science it is easy to check. Just Google a word they throw out proving it has nothing to do with their claims. Political stuff is a bit more complicated to research
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:47 AM
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"Why are there still apes" cause evolution. Why not "why are there still single celled organisms" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:32 AM
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If you have been together for so long with someone. Your stuff will be intertwined and you will get stuff. You would also get your kid as a woman if you had one. It is also easier for you to leave. The dude should also do shit. You don't want to get married to an useless twat. And many get pregnant and thus marry. End up in real sticky situations, abusive. Because they can't leave. It can work out. Sometimes people aren't thinking about marriage. Especially non religious people. The only reason …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:20 AM
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Yeah but old men that can't be drafted. That 18 year old doesn't have enough power to start a war. If they all had.. we'd probably have a lot more wars...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:52 PM
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Only 18 to like 25 year old dudes max apparently are able to talk about war.... That somehow doesn't seem like the best idea.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:51 PM
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Trollxchromosomes is better. Because it started as laughing about twoxchromosomes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:16 AM
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I certainly didn't mean normal people who don't want to be judged. But i also read some women complaining about jow her losing weight itself is undermining feminism to conform to beauty standards. They lost one of their idols. Someone that looks like em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:23 AM
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I am not denying that it is vastly more difficult if you don't have as many resources. That is why i mentioned prepping. On a very baseline it still is calories in vs out. Working out helps with muscle and toning. If you say prepare meals for the entire week, on say sunday. Larger amounts are cheaper, you for example don't have to think about cooking anymore. Also rules like no snacking after dinner or x time. Cutting down on say soda, alcohol etc. Doesn't mean you can never enjoy yourself. I do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:44 AM
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Good thing losing weight isn't that expensive. Sure easier for her with nutritionist, personal trainer etc. But many work outs can be done from home And often it takes some meal prepping, especially when you are busy and don't want say take out. It's also often just the amounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:33 AM
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I can't believe people hating on her weight loss. Also women. It isn't like she suddenly became anorexic. It wasn't overnight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:29 AM
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I think it really depends on their definition. Some say they are because say they don't believe the wage gap exists with equal experience and job. Or that there are more than 2 genders (like genderfluid/non binary people being "snowflakes"). That pan is an attention seeking term for bi. Etc. And thus define that as anti feminist. While others say it because they think women are somehow seekinh superiority. While others believe in the whole stereotypical gender roles. Belonging in the kitchen etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:29 AM
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It doesn't even have to be custom or like expensive. Nothing wrong with IKEA, second hand or whatever. Especially not if you don't have a lot of money. It is good enough. It's furniture, not that ugly and pretty easy to coordinate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:09 PM
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You aren't expected to donate your organs within a normal relationship. Usually you wouldn't even be able to because ya know, has to be compatible. It's the types of people who would do it that you can be almost assured they are HV in other aspects too. Like others have said. A lot of other men cheat in situations like this. Etc. You really are 1000% invested if you give an organ. Yes you can live with one. But less well. Even if it's your own. It isn't just doing something. It's the most commit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:14 PM
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They were also really lucky they were compatible, in genes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:03 PM
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Better be rich then, since I will not hold back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:56 AM
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That's why april fools exist. They can do minor shit like that then. And else not. Altho It's a pretty childish holiday. They also do that shit towards other men. Like a lot. The women just have the displeasure of living with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:32 AM
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Meh. I don't think I'd go out if my way to move. Just so much work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:52 PM
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Meh. The sell it in a pinch isn't a good idea. You won't get a lot for it, even on really expensive rings. it's value plumits by A LOT as soon as it leaves the store. Diamonds aren't really worth that much. Some people don't want kids so don't need something to pass down. This should've been discussed before there was ever a proposal. Or one can have other heirlooms. I don't think anyone has the rings of my grandparents. They were buried with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:50 AM
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Meh i've seen actual good reasons for the silicone ring. Mainly sensory issues with autistic groups Some, a very small amount of, people can't stand jewlery. Especially with stones since that shit will probably scratch themselves with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:08 PM
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It's true to an extend. One of mine is also touch. It isn't about sex. Someone. Can do shit for me, affirming words, compliments whatever. Everything. Fine without sexual stuff. But if I am not hugged, if we don't regularly cuddle. It will not work as a relationship. You show your love language also in friendships. Less, but you still do. Yeah I hug my friends. The love language "touch" isn't sexual acts. Because if it was, it would be the love language of most people since sex is a pretty damn …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:22 PM
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Then the cooking elaborate meals is normal. You both liked cooking. Cleaning is something else tho. Unless it's say, wiping down a table. Or cleaning something you spilled yourself. Cleaning isn't that fun. And isn't a specific moment related. So he can do it when you leave. Cleaning is TOO MUCH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:36 PM
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True. You gotta eat anyways. But unless you usually spent an hour in the kitchen. Nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:16 PM
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Oeef. That's too much. If you are long term relationship and say he is staying over. Someone is gotta cook. So then it wouldn't be a big deal. Would be weirder to force him to go home and cook for himself, then after dinner come back. You can cook together tho. But often you will spend like 20 minutes cooking. Sometimes an extra person just sits in the way. Then i'd say "sure cook for him." He probably also at least sometimes cooks for you. Helping or washing the dishes if you don't have a dishw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:46 PM
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How exciting that would be. That would also put the woman in great danger. See it's in there for a longer time. And it would be in there more often (luckily we aren't raped constantly). The mucus membranes in the vagina are very absorbant. This would just not work. Since we would absorb the venom too. Or be at great risk of getting it. And it would have to be VERY potent, fast acting for it to work as intended. Which most paralyzing stuff simply doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:11 PM
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You can get better, thicker rings from wish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:55 PM
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Thing is. Then you were also fat and unhealthy. Regardless of age, that will not make you look like really good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:47 PM
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I will. But he hasn't yet and so far he has been ok at texting sure not constantly but school and work now. So It's understandable to not react right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:58 PM
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He wouldn't have been able to get germany behind him if he wasn't charismatic. Wasn't too good of an artist thoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:55 PM
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He said he went to the doctor, but they couldn't find a specific dissorder. And that the doctors didn't believe him. Just told him to go to bed sooner. And according to studies this thing should work. Eventho they have like 100 normal healthy participants. So he has no name for it. And has given up on finding diagnoses, since he doesn't want medication anyways and the things doctors suggest don't really work. He has had moments when sleep deprived and then slept for 20 hours. Slept through many …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:08 AM
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He isn't depressed. I at least know that. Luckily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:59 AM
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He said he has been to a doctor, but that they didn't listen, called him lazy etc. Probably especially since teenager. And doesn't want medication for it, because that can cause tremors, and he already has em (under control. But doesn't want to make it a problem again). Yeah i am usually the one to plan, especially moments. unless it's really random. But you could also say it's because i am a lot more busy then he is. And my schedule is different every week whereas his is the same every week som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:58 AM
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I didn't say everyone, i said most
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:57 PM
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Because that was thrown at them yes. It was brought with a message of hope, a better future. Etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:56 PM
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The ones that stayed in my granddads house genuinely expressed that. Of course not that jews were good, they were brainwashed and that would get you also sent to the camps. But they didn't want to be there. People were brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 08:52 PM
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I need this advice too. I tend to start venting via text. Typically to either my best friend or someone I am seeing. Only thing I found was to randomly vent to people on whisper. They don't know who you are, can't find you, will not have contact with you in any way after. I can text rant since usually it isn't THAT important.... and it is just being excited or sad or frustrated. And it's how I release pent up energy, like how some journal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:19 PM
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e keeps cuddling in when I didn’t want to. So not really respecting your boundaries? once hospitalized himself after divorce due to severe depression He's honest, but kinda unstable. Possibly will use that as a manipulation thing later on when you say want to cut stuff off. told me he’ll never get married How important is marriage to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:15 PM
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Maybe because he was powerfull and you are a couch loser? Also. Most of the troops didn't WANT to, they HAD TO...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:10 PM
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From 4-9 in the evening? And then not just during quickly send a lie text that he had to help out his mom or dad or little sister or whatever? Luckily I at least know he wasn't drunk, because I did see him after, and then he wasn't drunk. But I don't know if that is worse. Shit... I do know he actually has some sleeping problems. (I know him longer than I am seeing him. And also used to know his ex, which has mentioned he is an annoyingly deep sleeper and has sleeping problems. Until she got wei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:06 PM
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They have to have the skill to do it. Can't just say "hey. Wanna kiss?" A lot don't, also because they never do it. Some can do it well, and then it's actually hot and sweet. It can get annoying after a while tho. Like when you already kiss often, it shouldn't be asked anymore. I once dated a guy who literally asked every time. I was like "JUST DO IT ALREADY." because everytime we saw each other. He asked. Why would he have had to ask for kissing me, eventhough last time we saw each other we mad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:43 PM
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For some it is. For some it isn't. Oral goes both ways. So this also includes receiving it. Biggest thing is, that it is clean. Yeah you can get STDs from it. But many people have sex without a condom anyways, especially in relationships. And altho it is sometimes looked down upon, largely because of porn, you can use a condom or dental dam for it and not risk the std. It isn't like a finger at all tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:36 PM
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They certainly do. Just not at the most super fancy events. But like getting pics taken for media. Not a coronation or funeral. These prints however tend to be more classy. Like some flowers, mute coloured flannel print, baroque style prints. Especially on younger women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:23 PM
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Especially when the woman is bisexual. Like "yeah I like women too, don't want a threesome tho! It isn't that one means the other."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:34 PM
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But like the paper with (at least my) vibrator says to not use it for more than 20 minutes. There is a reason it says that. Yes I got a vibrator, find porn not hot at all tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:46 PM
1

And yet. In German sie is her. And Sie is the formal,.respectful version of you. And you when referring to multiple people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:43 PM
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Yup. And I've actually in my circle. Friends have had it (to varying degrees. From just some spanking to fullblown calling bf daddy ddlg fully dimmed.), and even once the relationship was over, and they were fully over em. They didn't regret it at all. You just don't really hear those stories online. Because less reason to talk about it and if it would, it wouldn't get as much traction as an abusive situation online. Sorry that you had bad experiences with it. But BDSM really isn't always abusiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:32 PM
1

They are aggressively advertising to women now. Like the ads I (and my 13 yo cousin too) get. All so like "girls find that good dude." It just screams that they only have a few women on the app and waaaaay too many dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:16 PM
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Uhm an 18 yo is a legal person Mature enough to sign for own medical procedures, waivers, contracts, vote, gun, allowed to do porn, can get married, buy a house, drive trucks, fight wars, every dangerous health hazard job there is on the planet, own a company, immigrate, are regarded by law as an adult and punished as such (since deemed mature enough). (And no I don't think an 18 year old SHOULD especially like married and kids and such) But aren't mature enough to consent in their healthy relat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:12 PM
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Uuuhm I am sorry. Maybe read up on bdsm more. Consent and communication are super important. Yeah I agree, an 18 year old will have trouble navigating the scene. Especially a woman. Since preyed upon within the scene. With this I mean fetlife, parties, dungeons etc. However. If they are both into it, they are able to navigate through it within a normal healthy relationship, where there is respect, communication etc. Which yes. 18 year olds can be mature enough to have that in a relationship with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:56 PM
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Light bdsm. In a long term relationship, where there is of course really good communication (which yeah 18 yo can have) . If they have a conversation about it, and find out they wanna try the same shit. Why not? As long as concensual, safe, good communication, trust etc. WHEN would be the tipping point from it being ok in a LTR. And then to more actively seek out bdsm? Definetly not being in bdsm spaces and actively seeking it out. What i am describing is completely different from the post. Only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:34 PM
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European, not french tho. Tourists are seen as easy. Also. Try not to get pickpocketed. And souvenirs, don't buy em at the place it's off. They are way overpriced. And you might know a bit of french. But good luck holding conversation. Since french people talk FAST. In paris tho, most speak english (the french countryside tho... hell nah.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:15 PM
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Especially the mindset of "this didn't work out previous times, they abused me. Let's try it again, won't do this. People will be afraid for me, find him a creep. People find this extremely weird. but whatever, i want to do it anyways." Also since for her the "domming" most likely is constantly. No breaks, like i think most should? Like parts just normal relationship?! And they can't talk as equals at all, because he so old and using her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:38 PM
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I think bdsm can be done healthily by 18 year olds. Just uhm, not with grandpa but with like an 18 YO dude. It requires a lot of communication, obviosly not everyone can. But if you do. It should be OK. Probably helps that it seems like younger guys today are a bit more focused on the woman enjoying herself too. Definetly shouldn't be having fulltime dynamics yet. (Altho don't understand how anyone does that..) But like little things should be ok. Exploring that part of your sexuality, who you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:27 PM
2

Probably like a lot more. Graphene is one atom thick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:50 PM
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Wouldn't inexperienced guys be like more happy to take explicit direction? Ya know. Learning what women want. Not having to guess what to do. Vs the overconfident guy that thinks "you don't have to tell me. I know what women want. I've made em cum a lot."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:44 PM
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Crossposting and then going from there and interacting. Especially if it happens a lot. Can be considered brigading and can easily lead to subreddits being infact banned, as this is against reddits rules
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:39 PM
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And how strong the plastic is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:38 PM
0

I've seen his social media. Been friends with him for hella long. He never posts his own face. Anywhere. It isn't a secret we are together. I've met almost all of his friends. He's called out a friend even joking about cheating. Way before we even considered getting together. He has been cheated on in the past. And literally he vented to me about it (yeah i know. Free emotional labour) way before even got interest in eachother. And he is very much of the protecting type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:36 PM
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When his social media is mostly memes since he wants his privacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:22 PM
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He's also rich. Like really rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:08 PM
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Commited. But not married. That's too big of a commitment..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:03 PM
1

What about those that complain about feminists thoo🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:01 PM
4

When I was a 14 year old on whisper they sometimes did back away. I was there to cringe at em and troll people. But a sick amount actually really wanted something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:53 PM
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The if you're in it yourself is a big one. They can't act smarter than you, because often when they mention something, you know what it is. Or if it's something project specific, he should be able to explain it in a few sentences. I've just started chem, and there is so much toxicity (especially from the guys) towards the medical lab girls. Like come on! Yeah they didn't choose chemistry and most aren't as good with numbers as us. But, with our small biology courses you all failed and they under…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:40 PM
3

There's always a staff member right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:23 PM
1

Is it really "keeping score" if it's "one everything, other nothing" Yeah she should definitely save and have her own money. But her entire paycheck ever month? And then also an "allowance"?! When I was 16 my allowance stopped and I had to get a job. Allowances were for stay at home moms long ago. Not working women. It's kinda degrading in a way, treated like a child. We wouldn't think it was ok if she had to do all the housework either, but if you pay nothing, you kinda do in a way? Nowadays ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:19 PM
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I think it's fine. It's great actually. Sign of being sociable and all. How close is the thing. Sleeping over? Nah. But just hanging out. Why not. Maybe I am biased, because i am bisexual. LGBTQ community. If you can't be just good friends with people of the gender you are attracted to. You can't really have like friends. Gay guys are able to be platonic friends with other gay dudes. I am able to just be super close friends with women (who yeah wouldn't do the exact same things with guy friends.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:02 PM
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What's wrong with a box spring? Which doesn't have a bed boarder. Some guys don't have a molton...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:12 PM
2

Hey. That's middle school. You don't call mc donalds a "date" you call it "chilling" or "hanging out" and these are always spontaneous. Either after school, or late. Sure you can go to the cinema as date. But not fast food. A cheap Italian place? Any cheap restaurant? Starbucks? Lunch? Whatever. Most don't go on real "first dates" anyways. Because it's usually via school or some activity. So chilling at home is also common. Relationships without real dates are super common. I am currently trying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:02 PM
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It's actually the submissive doing dominant things like giving orders and whatever, or yes resisting(things that have been agreed upon. Not in a rapy way! Altho brats also do this, which want the "punishment") brats are subs. They ain't pretending. Not following orders just is exciting for em, trying to get a reaction. In reality submissives are always the ones in control. They determine what can happen. This is usually done through conversation. And suggesting in a not super blatant way, is als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:34 PM
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Also. Want perky and big... You can have one. Both is impossible.... sure when they are young, they probably will be less saggy than when they are of an older woman. But still don't look like porn tits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 01:32 PM
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"I am 100% pro choice, for others. Myself., i could NEVER do such a thing, other people can do horrible stuff if they want, but I won't, i want a child." (If i ever got pregnant. I would probably abort it. Reason i have an implant. They'll never even see bc pills from me! 😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 01:24 PM
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