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FDS MEMESlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:16 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:33 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFElightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:14 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?lightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:16 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFElightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:49 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?lightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:35 PM
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FDS MEMESlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:12 AM
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#KickHimOut2020lightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:28 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 12:58 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:26 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 12:17 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:11 AM
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NAH, SISlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:41 AM
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LEVEL UPlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 12:59 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:54 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?lightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 10:56 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:24 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:28 AM
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LIES MEN TELLlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:40 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:31 AM
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lightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:44 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:33 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:08 AM
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FDS MOVIES & TVlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:20 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:36 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:15 AM
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FDS MEMESlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:34 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:10 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?lightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 05:52 PM
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LEVEL UPlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:00 AM
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DISCUSSIONlightningboltx/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 10:50 PM
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My husband bought me my first vibrator when I was pregnant (second trimester) and he started the night shift at his work. He knew I would have needs, and provided a solution to them while he was away. It was great, but for some reason it was always better when he used the vibrator on me vs me doing it alone. I suspect it has something to do with the fact that he would touch me all over and suck my nipples while using it lmao. Men who care about your sexual needs are all you need, because you kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:29 AM
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Oh I watched that drama and honestly I love this dude! The second male lead is such a jealous possessive jerk with the typical “bad boy” personality, I absolutely hated him. Do San was so sweet and unwavering in his support though. Him lying to the female lead about the letters was honestly his only flaw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:23 PM
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All female everything, all the time. In this day and age, there’s no reason not to have a female doctor/dentist/therapist etc. Protect yourselves, and also support other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:04 AM
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what the FUCK did she see in him!! poor woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:49 AM
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simple, you leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:08 AM
10

“he even talked about me”!!!! bitch what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:53 AM
5

nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:47 AM
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i was always wanna know what the comments say in these posts but i don’t wanna see that mess of a sub myself lmao. what a terrible sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:41 AM
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yeah of course you’re right, i just thought it’s so off during sex of all times. generally you’re not fighting during sex?? what could even be a reason to tell someone to stfu during SEX ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:50 AM
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you’re not overreacting. you don’t tell your partner to stfu during sex. how crass and disrespectful. you did good. i know it hurts and it’s upsetting right now but you will feel better soon. take care of yourself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:30 PM
11

this right here. trying to make these women understand doesn’t work. it’s like when a bf and gf are fighting in public, and you try to help the gf, she will more likely TURN ON YOU than thank you for the help. she’s in too deep to see the abuse that it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:39 PM
3

yeah like we already know that! lets share some positivity !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:09 PM
5

same lmao. we need more success stories
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:17 PM
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this is why virgin men are best lmao. my husband was a virgin when we got married and he tries SO FUCKING HARD to get me off, its amazing. he’s gotten so good at foreplay i never have to ask, and he doesn’t consider sex to be over until we’ve both orgasmed. how lovely 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:16 PM
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i love this idea. count me in too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:12 AM
5

Lol leveled up women don't curse? Sounds like something the patriarchy would say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:46 PM
15

Oh my that looks delicious. Take care of yourself :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:04 PM
1

Thank God!! I was checking the comments to see if anyone had talked to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:58 AM
1

Most of this is solid advice, except the placing child for adoption. That's just heartless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:53 AM
29

Man sluts implies only women are sluts and you have to add the "man" to specify. They're just sluts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:21 AM
25

Queen shit 👑👑👑 you go girl. You got this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:33 AM
26

It really be like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:49 AM
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she was kidnapped, attacked, and raped, and she’s worried her boyfriend may not forgive her for accusing him? what the actual fuck. i want to shake this girl, how did we get here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:08 PM
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A HVM won’t ever make you take BC. I asked my husband once what he thought about BC, and he said it’s a terrible risky thing and he never wants me to take it because it will mess with my hormones. We’ve used condoms our entire 4 years of marriage, and never once has he complained about it. Because the truth is, sex without a condom is only like 5% better than with a condom, and selfish men will want that 5% because they’re babies who want whatever they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:53 PM
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this is exactly why neglecting children comes under child abuse. not caring about someone sometimes hurts more than being hated. and LVM thrive on being hating, because it means you care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:38 PM
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I hope for her sake that she just orders everything online and pretends to cook it herself for the Instagram fame, and that she's not actually this abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:40 PM
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That's extremely harsh. Wanting to look nice does not equal being a terrible mother. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:23 PM
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I’ve never heard of her if that helps lol. Everyone definitely knows Chadwick tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:35 PM
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i was so blindsided and hurt when i heard he died. i don’t think another man like chadwick exists. such a beautiful and quiet soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:35 PM
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same here, where did she even hear that? or who gaslighted her so bad and told her that? i use my husband’s phone all the time, and he doesn’t care because he’s not looking at porn. i feel so sorry for her edit: who not how
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:38 AM
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She didn't say anything about superiority
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:37 PM
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Isn't it a good thing that they were confident in themselves? That's the whole attitude we encourage here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:39 PM
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Someone posted a screenshot where they private messaged him and he replied "I'm the one who dodged a bullet. She had gotten fat and cried a lot" can you believe someone could be this stupid! Yes I can actually. I'm glad that woman got away before she wasted more time on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:01 AM
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The man is getting SHREDDED lmao I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:00 AM
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Thank you! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:28 AM
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Thanks! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:27 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:27 AM
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Where's the lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:46 AM
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And not even the good kind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:43 AM
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Real men can't be swayed from their wives. Remember this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:26 AM
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This is so accurate why are men like this 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:26 AM
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Ew gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 10:31 AM
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How annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 10:27 AM
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That's the first thing that came to mind. A man wouldn't even think about this and uproot his entire family if it came to a promotion for HIM. Wives wouldn't be this unreasonable either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:45 AM
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I'm on mobile so I can't copy the whole post but the OP goes on to say that she would be ruining her marriage for "just her happiness" and that she has never put her happiness first in their entire 11 years of marriage. Husband facetimes mom all day, tells her everything, and won't consider visiting his mom every weekend, which would be possible with the amount of money OP would earn if she takes the promotion. The whole thread has me shook. OP has been completey brainwashed to think her husband…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:48 AM
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I get that, but if what you love is driving you and your partner apart then boundaries need to be established. Is she allowing the dogs into their room and bed? Is she putting dates and time together to take care of the dogs? Is she giving that same kind of attention to her son?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:40 AM
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I read it as he became a workaholic because she was rescuing so many dogs in their house. I may have read it wrong but I still don't agree. Dogs gross me out in general and I would never prioritize a dog over my husband. Edit: agree not angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:38 AM
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She doesn't seem like a HVW to me. I'm always going to be suspicious of people who choose animals over their relationships. How can you prioritize dogs over your husband and expect him to be okay with it? Did she also abandon her child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:59 AM
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Exactly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:48 PM
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I think it just shows that there are no ideal men hahaha. Better to be dead than with a LVM lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:14 PM
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Put it in my to read list. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:06 PM
5

Coronavirus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:59 PM
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Lmao the reason men get mad fun of for dick sizes is because they're so up in your face about it. If men don't want their dicks shamed, stop sending them unwanted to women who didn't ask for it? Stop bringing up your HUGE DICK every time you talk to a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:50 PM
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I think you're right! Our instincts and values are FDS, and it's this misogynist and patriarchal society that turns us into pickmes. Who wants to be stepped all over? No one! We're conditioned to think we don't deserve the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:47 PM
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What the fuck. I can barely do twice a day without feeling like my insides are gonna fall out. How does a woman have sex 6 times a day? How can she not know he's just using her for sex? 6 times a day???? I'm absolutely shocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:38 PM
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Aw I'm glad you're out of that! Nothing but good things happen when you love and respect yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:58 PM
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Yikes sis. At least you recovered lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:59 PM
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Oh my God I was grinding my teeth the whole time I was reading and didn't even realize until the end and had to make a conscious effort to stop. What a load of bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:54 PM
2

Yeah you're absolutely right. I just thought it might be different for her since she has so much support and her abuse was public so it would keep her abuser from trying to be too manipulative since he was also in the public eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:06 PM
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I love her death. I just hated that she got back with Chris brown after he beat her so bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:32 PM
25

Oh my God he's so ugly Paris why??? Marry me instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:13 PM
12

Ohh I love this haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:48 AM
12

It's not unreasonable to expect a man to pay for or plan dates. It is unreasonable to expect them to drop everything and come when you call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:54 AM
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K.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:43 PM
0

You're not in the right relationship if you're going to choose an animal over your partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:19 AM
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He sounds like he could be a solid start! Great job on leveling up! Watering down is a good way to phrase it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:40 PM
5

I really like this. "When someone likes you for you, they will celebrate every part of you." A good thing to keep in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:09 PM
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SHE wanted to marry HIM so she lied to him. In what way does this make her sound better off?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:55 PM
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Where are you guys getting these assumptions from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:54 PM
1

Same. How can you be married for so long and only have sex 31 times? Why even get married then? I blame the ex tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:51 PM
50

So true. Don't share your whole life with someone who you still aren't sure about. You gotta keep some things for yourself. This is one of those small things people don't think about but can have such a big effect on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:43 PM
5

When will people learn that children are human beings who need care and affection and are not bargaining tools to fix their stupid relationships. Those kind of kids always have it the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:41 PM
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That's so fucking sad. That poor little kid :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:39 PM
2

Oh man this!! I used to be subscribed to so many subs (for example the memes one) but after joining this sub I can't stand the other ones. So much hate and normalized abuse towards women that it made me sick and I unsubscribed. Can't stand these people anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:40 PM
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I know right? Hurr durr look at the adorable naive clueless man hurr durr what can you do men are just like this haha What kills me is that one girl saying "I'm actually kind of hurt" with an awkward smile on her face. I hope this was a wakeup call for her and all the other women. These men won't take care of you if you ever need care when they don't even know your birthday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:54 PM
8

Lol good for you. These men ain't shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:07 PM
12

Weird like how? Do tell 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:19 PM
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This is so not funny. These girls should not be laughing, they should be writing their breakup text and leaving them forever. What kind of fuck doesn't know the color of his gf's eyes or her birthday or her parent's names when she knows all these things? Istg men don't deserve us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:16 PM
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Feeling a little foolish after reading these comments...because sometimes I get jealous of all the time and attention my husband gives our son when he's home. Am I stupid 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:07 AM
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Oh has it? I've been here sporadically so when I saw this tweet I thought it fit here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:06 PM
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I'm so glad reddit came to their own senses. What a horrible selfish fucked up person. She needs to leave this piece of garbage now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:41 PM
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What does this even say why would you choose this color
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 11:50 AM
2

That OP is so hard to read 😔 how sad that men can be so selfish and not even know it. I guess this is what you call entitlement?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:37 AM
1

Completely agree! It's not a war, it's a marriage. Everything should be fair. That means men should help with they get home or on the weekends. But if being awake at night is dangerous, then it's dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:33 AM
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Look I know this is gonna be downvoted to hell, but I gotta say something. When my babe was first born he woke up every 2 hours to feed. My husband would wake with me and get me what I needed or u know whatever, but after a couple weeks of this my husband was driving to work (one and a half hour commute) and FELL ASLEEP AT THE WHEEL and crashed into another car. Thank God he wasn't badly hurt and no one was seriously injured, but it scared me so fucking bad I told him to just sleep. The truth is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:29 AM
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Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:03 PM
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Sometimes I'm glad I have a rbf lol BTW, how did you get that flair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:46 PM
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I thought it was kind of funny but obviously I would never entertain a date with a man who talks like this. Make them think you're interested and then ghost them. Can you tell I'm petty haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:11 AM
7

Same, I applaud him for not trying to suck her in and drag her down with his baggage. That was a nice thing he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:52 AM
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That’s exactly how I found this sub haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:29 AM
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I can't believe how quickly the numbers climbed! Almost 15k subs in a month! Well actually I can believe it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:09 AM
2

FIRST fuck up. Like there will be more lol. Men ain't shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:59 PM
5

I'm laughing at his username. Bitch pls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:19 PM
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Is he fucking stupid oh my God I can't do anything but laugh 😂😂 and she's trying to defend herself to this shit head 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 04:30 AM
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Thank God it's a joke lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:04 AM
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What the fuck is this shit how can women be like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:01 AM
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I was so disgusted by the tweet I automatically downvoted lmao. Fixed it, but this ain't it sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:57 AM
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This is completely untrue. Muhammad's wife that he was 20 years younger than was his former boss. HE worked for HER. He never pushed women to be only mothers and wives. He promoted their education and property ownership and business ownership. I'm sorry if you were raised in an environment that didn't encourage and protect you, but please don't speak lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:27 PM
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First off, when I say Islam, I mean the actual Islam that was sent down in the beginning, not the one that has been tainted by hate and narcissistic men. I've noticed for a while now how so many of what this sub advocates are in line with what Islam has commanded. 1) educate your daughters. Invest in their education and encourage them to get jobs that will make them self sufficient. A sheikh once said that raising your daughter without allowing her to have an education is akin to burying her ali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:01 PM
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this is EXACTLY what she should do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:47 PM
11

Does he think this is really gonna get him women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 06:28 PM
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Lose 30 lbs and get back my prebaby body. This will include diet AND exercise. Do everything I need to to get clear skin, no matter how lazy I'm feeling, I will STICK to my skincare routines. Start knitting again, and actually stick to it. I learned how to knit last year but lost motivation before I could finish anything lol. Read at least 2 books a month. No failing! Learn turkish at least semi fluently. Study my religion more. Pass AHIMA and get my certification Get a job that will be a step u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:51 AM
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I said it to you yesterday and I'll say it again: not every woman has agency. You have a privileged life if you think all women have their own choice of men, instead of being limited by cultural misogyny, poverty, and racism. And again, no one purposely marries lazy people except pickmeishas, and they don't complain because they're happy that way. The women who vent are the ones whose partners weren't like that before, which is why they're angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:23 PM
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Ohhh myyyyy Godddd I saw that yesterday and it made me SO ANGRY!!! Like yes women should choose their partners better but most men are snakes!! They hide so well how they truly are and when women are hooked they do a complete 180!! And this poster didn't believe that! Like how stupid do you have to be? And then she has the audacity to blame women! Pickmeisha to the max I was so disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:19 PM
2

That seems to be the best thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 01:35 AM
37

What if they ask to split? Do you split it then and just never go on another date with them? How do you say no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 10:12 PM
11

Ohh I got that message too! I ignored it haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:03 PM
5

Do you get a lot of dates?
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:31 AM
60

Chidi didn't get into the bad place for nothing! jk jk but yikes that sounds awful. It's awesome that you left so abruptly 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:18 AM
1

I don't understand this logic. Men learning from other men is what got us in this position. Women should be the ones teaching their sons what women want! Women should be more proactive in acknowledging that their sons are not inherently better than other men, that if they don't actively teach them how to treat women, then society and other men will take over and again we'll be in the same vicious cycle. No, boys should definitely learn from their mothers. I'm going to teach my son to be a gentle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:58 PM
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No, he can be a child and still fucking respect people. This is the age you teach them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 06:01 PM
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I really doubt she's forcing him to spend ALLL THIS MONEY on a date. If she's teaching him all this, then no doubt she's teaching him the value of money and how to budget properly. And there is NOTHING wrong with taking your mom out once a month to catch up and spend time. I usually agree with everything on this sub but you guys are just projecting on this one. This is a cute innocent thing, even if it is fake, and you guys are making it more than it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 05:44 PM
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Don't even pick up next time they call. Say you were busy. If you do talk to them, make up an excuse and say you have to go every time they start complaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 05:40 PM
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What's with these comments? We get mad when men aren't raised right but now that a woman is teaching her son to be a gentlemen its abuse and incest? what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:56 PM
4

The boundaries you set in the beginning will be in place for the rest of your relationship. Men don't change. Find a better one if he resists your attempts to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:26 AM
34

This is beyond pathetic. Imagine thinking you're doing a good thing by helping an old man watch porn that regularly abuses and uses women. pOoR oLd mAn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:24 AM
4

5 in hard is average then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:09 AM
16

This. My husband is 5'8 but soooo charismatic he has everyone in my family wrapped around his finger lol. His height has never bothered him, even though he has 2 brothers who are both 6 ft tall and you would think he would extremely insecure about it. But nope, he's a great down to earth sweet gentle guy who people love to talk to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:56 PM
7

How big exactly is a micropenis? Less than 4 inches hard? Or soft?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:02 PM
10

I can still see the number 🤔🤔🤔 should anything be done sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:52 PM
13

Beyonce was the same. No respect for either of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:29 AM
14

That is rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:33 AM
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When I joined this sub maybe a month ago? It had 32k subscribers! The revolution is coming ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:16 AM
12

But someone who looks like her can get literally anyone. Why settle?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:59 AM
57

Oh my God she doesn't look 39 at all! Beautiful woman! Why was she dating a man 32 years older than her?? Much less want kids with?? Sperm quality so low!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 06:08 PM
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Racism isn't cool. There's more good intelligent Indian men than you know of. I didn't post this so you could be racist. Edit: also, import? Really? Are they cattle or products you're "importing"? Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 01:36 AM
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This is an amazing way to put it. Protect your femininity, these men don't deserve it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 06:03 PM
7

Aha maybe next time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 04:23 AM
17

OP you GOTTA show us what he looks like! Don’t leave us hanging sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 03:45 AM
16

Oh yeah definitely. I read recently that they're banning women from wearing glasses in the workplace because it's not attractive or something? They have to wear contacts if their vision is bad. For a first world country they sure do suck ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:17 PM
21

"As for admiration, it was always very welcome when it came, but she did not depend on it." QUEEN SHIT 👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:07 PM
18

Oh yeah them too. I'm glad they got jail sentences for it but it's not nearly enough. I suppose it's better than nothing. South Korea is notorious for its misogyny. I just care so much about hara her suicide literally devastated me, I was a huge fan of hers. She worked so hard her whole life only for it to end like this? She didn't deserve any of the shit she took
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:34 PM
36

This is what happened to a huge kpop megastar. Her boyfriend secretly recorded her while they were having sex and then threatened to release the "sex tape" to the media, among other abusive behavior. She fought a long hard battle in court but in the end the bullying from the media and comments online exhausted her and she committed suicide last month. Her name was goo hara and she was such a beautiful sweet angel with amazing talent, a singer actress and model. She was only 28.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 07:20 PM
16

I completely agree with you. Don't play games, he seems interested and respectful so be sure to be respectful of him too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 07:16 PM
8

Even now the comments are putting her down for having rich parents and saying she's not some amazing trailblazer. Men are so weak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 04:10 PM
3

Is there anyway to see her face to face?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:34 AM
17

Oh my God I just shivered reading that. SAVAGE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 05:08 AM
16

Apparently we're supposed to have compassion for low life losers and help build them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 12:35 AM
35

Am I supposed to feel bad for him? I don't. What a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 12:32 AM
11

Attempted murder maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:39 PM
14

That's how I found this sub 😂 men don't realize they're doing us a favor when they keep mentioning this sub and how "sick" we are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 03:54 PM
3

It's so...condescending lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 04:39 AM
9

I hate that smiley face it's so creepy. I imagine the person using it is also as creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:29 AM
5

No i don't. That man says he's dedicated and loves them to death, and he even seems afraid that his wife may get primary custody if they divorce because of what she's telling them. I fully believe he loves them, his desperation shines through. I think his wife was wrong to say that to their kids. Why would you tell a kid their parent doesn't want them? No i think he's fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 12:04 AM
7

I think you're being incredibly unfair. Kids who are healthy and normal have such a huge strain on marriages, having a kid with ADHD and ODD sounds like a nightmare. I feel for this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:45 PM
12

hey I'm a mom and sometimes I regret having my kid. I love him for real, and I wanted him, but now that he's here I realize I may not be cut out for motherhood. I've always loved babies and thought I wanted at least four, now I think I'm one and done. I'm gonna do my damn hardest to make sure he's a good human being, but I still feel regret sometimes. I don't think this is a good post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:43 PM
10

Did you get married in the end?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:55 PM
28

But that's your choice, which is good. If a man made you wait more than 2 years, that would have been suspect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:55 PM
181

And this is why we say that men know exactly what they want. If they don't propose within 2 years, you're being played sis. They're just using you till they can fetch their wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 07:11 PM
30

Nah sis. This ain't it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:43 PM
10

Wow that really sucks. And let me guess, he never paid you back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 03:02 AM
29

I love reading what the rest of reddit says about this sub lmao it amuses me greatly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 11:57 PM
17

Man this grossed me out. Women are degrading themselves with this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 11:24 PM
11

Oh man I'm sorry that happened to you. Did you give money towards the house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 10:59 PM
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No it's not. It's not Muslims in general who are like this, it's the few and mostly impoverished. The courts and media all sided with this little girl because that's what they SHOULD do. It's always the poor people who sell their daughters away. And the wealthy white men who rape little kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 02:56 PM
11

"I have no self respect whatsoever and I've been happily married for years" I've never read anything so ridiculous all I can do is laugh 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 05:46 PM
18

This man is amazing. I wish all men were as mature and thoughtful as him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:33 PM
3

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:12 PM
11

She said she didn't want to jeopardize her relationship for something "small" but this ain't small sis 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:12 PM
4

What show is this? So much truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 04:54 PM
2

Thanks! I use mobile exclusively so I didn't know about this lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:22 AM
1

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:22 AM
7

Ahh it's deleted! Anyone know what it said?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:53 PM
9

Which one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:49 PM
3

This is a great post! I feel like I could have written it myself but I'm too lazy lol. One thing I do want to say, you know how FOBs try to tell you you're being too western or "like them"?? Be like "bruh you KNEW I was born/raised/whatever here, what did you expect? Why did you marry me if you just wanted a spineless girl from back home??" God I hate that shit. Don't try to turn me into a submissive little girl! If you want to marry a western girl, then be prepared to deal with her western mind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:58 AM
3

I have never in my life met anyone who wanted to split tolls, or even heard of a person like this. Why even date if you can't pay a fucking toll? Fucking yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:41 AM
2

What is he even saying I don't understand anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 03:36 AM
10

He's clearly not a HVM but that wasn't gaslighting. That WAS rude, but it’s okay to be rude sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:01 AM
18

bUt tHe MeDiCaTiOn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:51 AM
50

The audacity to say “haha yes i did :)” is killing me lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 03:38 PM
2

For real sis share I wanna buy some nice perfumes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 08:01 PM
1

I love dolce and gabbana garden and lacoste for women they smell so nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 07:54 PM
7

Oh wow really?? I didn't know that! That makes it even worse :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 10:38 PM
9

I thought I did too until I met my husband lol. He looks so baby faced without a beard, and then he kept a short trimmed one and suddenly he's mega sexy. 10/10 would bang. It's gross on older guys who are just trying to hide their fat lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 07:56 PM
29

Was gonna comment this. I know it's just a fictional movie, but it happens. Girls have "be nice and polite!!" so ingrained into us it puts us in danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 04:28 PM
1

I mean she wouldn't put up with his shit when he stopped treating her right and made him win her back lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 07:26 AM
2

I thought it was lol. Not putting up with his shit and breaking up because he started slacking off bc he thought he "got" her. Gotta keep em on their toes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 07:25 AM
1

Sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:32 AM
25

Thank you for sharing this!! The reason so many third world countries have such a hold on women is because they don't allow women to work or have their own money, which is why women can't leave bad situations. Even now here in America in 2019 you'll hear stories of financial abuse just like yours. I'm very sorry this happened to you, and I'm so glad you made it through!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:00 AM
3

Do your friends still think of you as bitchy? Are you guys still friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 11:57 AM
2

Stop right there hon. Your prejudice is showing. I'm a practicing muslim, married to a practicing muslim, and my husband doesn't see me as less than him. He paid for me to take college courses after I had my baby and is encouraging me to find a job and start my career. (The baby that I wanted btw, not had forced on me.) I'm literally living the life you're saying is impossible. Frankly I'm disappointed in these comments. I thought the point was that any man can be LV and any man can be HV, not o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 08:09 AM
5

Thanks for this post. It was disturbing seeing the islamophobia in another post, it got locked so I just hid it. Like you said, high and low value men exist in all cultures, that post was absolutely uncalled for. My marriage to my husband was arranged, and I couldn't be happier. My husband is a HVM that I've come to recognize, and seeing this sub think otherwise bought me down a bit. I love this sub otherwise, but if i see another post like it I might just leave. I'm not here to be insulted beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 07:59 AM
14

Same thing I thought. After 6 years you haven't made her your wife? What are you waiting for? A better woman??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 05:09 PM
42

Imagine thinking women care if you orgasm 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:59 PM
12

I was banned from dating advice bc I recommended this sub to a woman who was being used and when I asked why the mod said "for recommending a femcel sub" lmfao 😂😂 honey all these girls have more options and sex than you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:23 PM
8

I also found this sub from a similar comment deriding women who didn't want to pay for dates and it's now my favorite sub hahaha. Thanks dickbags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:22 PM
3

This is solid advice, and my current reality. My husband is new to the country so his job is not that well paying (currently on WIC) but his ambition knows no bounds. In the few years he's been here he already has 2 IT certificates he studied for ON HIS OWN, and he's currently studying for his third. He commutes +1 hour one way every day, even though he DESPISES driving, for a job where he's gaining experience and actively learning things while his coworkers fuck around because they don't want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 06:33 PM
9

I would suggest letting them know it's okay to be a virgin. They should hold out for someone who actually loves them and wont mistreat. Unfortunately, our society makes people feel bad for being virgins and that's absolutely ridiculous. Don't just throw away sex for the sake of having sex. If the guys in high school are jerks (and most are) tell them it's okay to wait for college and be safe about it. Yeah sex feels great, but only if you're having it safely. Obviously go over protection and to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:58 AM
8

This is so weird. I was literally JUST looking up the best safety devices for women!! Tasers and personal alarms that will shriek to draw attention so your attacker will run away. And pepper spray! As well as door stoppers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 02:11 AM
18

Ugh I couldn't even finish reading. I can't believe this shit it allowed to exist, meanwhile I commented on a post in dating advice about how this one woman needed to check out this sub and I got banned 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:22 PM
5

Yeah exactly. I see it becoming more common here, especially after the birth of a baby, or around holiday times. I guess it used to be for the ultra wealthy but it's slowly becoming more affordable for middle class as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:49 AM
10

It's just a stereotype where they say privileged people don't treat their maids like people, instead like slaves. Obviously not everyone is like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 12:38 AM
6

The red pill...just went over to see what the fuss was about and this was one of the first things I came across haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 11:04 PM
15

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:19 PM
20

They don't search for love, they search for the best person to pass on their genes or the best fuck. Women don't SEARCH for love, but they only choose people they can love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:48 PM
50

And now if we try to guard ourselves against their manipulation, we're the evil ones 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:54 PM
28

These are guys who were burned once and then generalized the entire female population. And if we do the same we're sexist 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:53 PM
5

shudders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 09:14 AM
47

Why you gotta slam nj like that 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:23 PM
2

THIS is the part that killed me. I can't quite put my finger on why tho 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:34 AM
16

Lol facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 01:53 AM
0

I don't know how to quote on mobile but " Well yes actually, I have to find a partner myself and he has to be approved by my parents" this is pretty much the case everywhere. Why are you frightened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 01:48 AM
1

Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 01:47 AM
-1

My marriage was arranged, and my husband is my soul mate. They're not all like that. I hope yours is wonderful too ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 01:46 AM
16

Sis tell me what happened next. Y'all broke up? Was he sad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 05:43 AM
13

Yeah, he's always happy to be home and would rather be here with me and our son than out with his friends. I think I'm pretty lucky. Our relationship could be improved, but seeing all these awful ways in which men treat women and even their partners horrifies me. My man is caring, protective, and has the mentality of "I need to take care of and provide for my family" while still encouraging me to pursue my own career. He was the one who suggested I go back to school after I had my baby, and he's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 11:36 PM
20

Thissss. My husband is in IT, I love him to death, and he can't STAND his coworkers. They're all single annoying men he hates, and he's the only one married with a child haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 11:20 PM
3

But it's not no reason. Mansplaining is rude and you don't need to be polite to someone when they think you're an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 09:58 PM
6

Mansplaining is pretty rude too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 04:16 AM
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