My (22F) boyfriend (23M) of several months has been great. All HVM behavior.

I am always working / out of town for work a lot. I love my job both for the job itself and because it keeps me busy and I’m never just sitting around.

I’ve been in and out of town for the past month and we’ve only seen each other a few times. He’s been good at being available on the rare days I can see him — he never bitches or moans, just makes himself available.

Until this weekend. I ended up home for half of today (Sunday). I wasn’t planning on being back. So I texted and asked if he was around. He said until (X) time in the afternoon — which is before I was available. I told him that. Cool, not gonna work out today. That’s fine.

Then it comes out that the reason he’s busy later is because of a GAME NIGHT with his friends. Again, I understand that I texted him morning of. He has plans. But then he tells me he’s out of town next weekend — and my job has me out of town weekdays for the next month. I already haven’t seen him in a week.

I feel like he should have rescheduled the game night or pushed it to see me for a few hours knowing that I’m in town briefly and he’s gone next weekend. It made me extremely upset and feel totally undervalued.

It’s making me consider breaking up with him. He has never made me feel this way before and I absolutely hate it.

Am I overreacting? Everything else about the relationship has been great. This totally came out of left field.