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| 5 | An Example of How HVM and HVW Communicate as a Couple 💕A very good looking HVM is a plus to an already great man! Good looking men that are HVM can be hard to find because everyone wants one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 08:33 PM |
| 14 | An Example of How HVM and HVW Communicate as a Couple 💕For all you lurking incels out there: This just shows that a HVM doesn't mean you gotta be looking like a David Gandy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 4 | He chose game night. Should I dump him?Yeah not sure why with all the downvotes. I've had guys FaceTime me at least to catch up despite their prior plans so if they want to make time for you, they definitely will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | I hate how I constantly crave male attentionFigure out what you want vs. need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:37 PM |
| 8 | Does height really matter? Can a short man be a HVM?Do what's best for you. If you don't mind dating short men who are HV then go for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:22 PM |
| 16 | Avoid short men, it's not worth it most of the time.I wouldn't avoid short men. I would avoid insecure short men. Or just insecure men in general. Regardless of height. Confident short men are better than narcissistic tall men. I've found that confident short men are more attentive, fun, respectful compared to selfish insecure tall men in my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)Maybe he wants to take it slow? It seems he's interested in you, but just doesn't want to rush into things? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:50 AM |
| 10 | Need some advice/encouragementEnd it. Why? Your doing a diservice to yourself by putting yourself into the cycle over and over. You keep rationalizing things will get better when they will not, as it sounds like your partner keeps repeating the same mistakes. End it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:53 AM |
| 17 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...Oh definitely, but the point of my comment was to say that it would occur a shit ton more if there were no laws (consequences) for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:59 AM |
| 41 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...It sickens me to know that without laws that were designed to "help us", men would absolutely murder us at the slightest hint of disapproval. Point being, men only give a shit when it benefits them. In this case, they would only care because they would be punished for doing so. Like what the actual fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:38 AM |
| 8 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...Calling people slags doesn't help. You don't have to agree with every principle FDS advises, as I certainly don't. You do have to converse in a respectful manner if you ever want to gain insight from opposing views. What FDS has taught me is to gain control of my life and not tolerate LVM bull-shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:27 AM |
| 11 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...I'll use myself as an example. I know damn fucking well I am a HVW because of the effort I put into becoming a HVW. I don't need a man to occupy my time. My time is glorious on it's own. I am still a HVW even if I don't need a man. A man can still be a HVM even if he isn't looking for a woman through his successes. (Wealth, Knowledge, etc.) What your looking for is a HVM who is also looking for a woman. They are hard to find sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:19 AM |
| 25 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...Not on dating apps. HVM are living their best life. The reason it's difficult to find available HVM is that they are already occupied succeeding further. Just like how we as HVW know we don't need a man, a true HVM also knows that he doesn't need a woman either. That's why the best relationship anyone can ever have is within ourselves. Life happens when we start living it. edit: Thanks for the silver anon! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:03 AM |
| 23 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...We're human. Even HVM and us will make mistakes from time to time. Perfection does not exists. Consistency does though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:48 AM |
| 9 | Taking no shit but staying an empathFirst identify the things that he is doing that makes you upset. Realize that it could temporary because of stress or whatever factor. If it is a temporary stress factor that makes him LVM, then try and help him. If you try and help him and he is disrespectful, red flag. Drop him. If it's not and his behavior has habitual changed into something you dislike, drop him because that's not what you want and you don't deserve that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 07:07 PM |
| 7 | Tips for finding HVM in collegeIn 2016 it's reported that 72% of college students used some form of Financial Aid. College is the time where a majority of students are stressed, full time, part-time job, and involved in at least one club. Because college students are not even at the beginning of the earning potential (because they have yet to actually graduate yet) I've come up my own criteria to assess whether or not he is HVM. HVM in College Indicators: Social, has friends Hobbies, Respectful to everyone, Makes time out to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | My fiancé cheated on me recently. How do I feel worthy and independent again?That's disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 08:59 PM |
| 19 | My fiancé cheated on me recently. How do I feel worthy and independent again?Kissed the 18 year old? RED FLAG. RED FLAG. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 09:41 AM |
| 20 | how to "break up" with a LVM?Break up with him. If he has any respect for you he will understand and still be your friend afterward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 09:39 AM |
| 6 | What are some hobbies I can fake?Why be fake, when you can be REAL? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:45 AM |
| 20 | Shakira at 42. The propaganda claiming we hit the wall at 30 is a lie.This is because a majority of men don't have basic hygiene lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:35 AM |
| 38 | LVM discuss who should pay on dates, think they should be treated like the prize. 😂If he's not paying, he's not into you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 8 | So it sounds like he’s looking for a mom. Ugh.Of course, the scrote would downvote sound advice from the response he received on that thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:22 AM |
| 18 | “You’re really lucky I’m such a good guy. Other guys would have taken advantage of you and you wouldn’t be able to fight me off.”Any guy that insists on going on a date or doing something for a girl while barely knowing them is an immediate major red fucking flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:17 AM |
| 25 | In my part of the world, if an middle aged man on OLD describes his body as "average" that means he is overweight, if not obese.Overweight is the new "average" in America. Obesity is the normal. So many guys are sitting on their couch right now getting fat and think that it's okay and yet insist on finding "The One". lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Xmas present protocolGet him something small. Until you both agree on exclusivity. Take the time to assess him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 03:50 PM |
| 29 | Remember ladies: Never change yourself for the sake of a man. Be free.Boys are afraid of losing what they never deserved in the first place. Real men know that enabling freedom and expression to their partner allows both to flourish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 04:55 AM |
| 39 | Man Does his best friend’s 11 year girlfriend a solid and tells her the truth: HE WLL NEVER MARRY YOU. (She’s in denial)Hell, by the end of the first year the man should know if he wants to marry or not. He clearly is wasting her time. ffs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 04:51 AM |
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