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QUEEN SH*TLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:56 PM
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STRATEGYLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:36 PM
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LadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:50 AM
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DISCUSSIONLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:11 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:19 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 10:41 AM
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STRATEGYLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:43 PM
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DISCUSSIONLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:44 AM
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FDS HUMORLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:49 AM
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TRIGGER WARNINGLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:58 PM
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FDS HUMORLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:40 AM
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NOTHING BUT FACTSLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:57 AM
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LEVEL UPLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:27 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:18 AM
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LadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:07 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTELadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:04 AM
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LIES MEN TELLLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:41 AM
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STRATEGYLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:28 AM
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LadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 12:03 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:55 PM
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FDS MOVIES & TVLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:12 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:02 AM
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RANTLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:16 AM
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NAH, SISLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:51 AM
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DISCUSSIONLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:20 PM
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LadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:50 AM
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FDS HUMORLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:24 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:20 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:06 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTELadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 05:38 AM
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DISCUSSIONLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:15 AM
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FDS HUMORLadyHormoneMonster/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:40 AM
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Yeah you’d think that it should be simple for us to just walk away, just like it should be easy to reject a man’s advances. But of course, it never is. It all boils down to men not liking “no” for an answer or thinking there’s room to negotiate. All men are prideful about money, regardless of status. Even tightwads don’t like to appear cheap to others. When embarrassed in public, their pride can turn into wrath (ranging from passive aggressiveness to straight rage).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:42 AM
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Exactly. My words on here got criticized for weakness, but the truly powerful show strength in restraint. Besides, you can end things politely without fake pleasantries or being inauthentic to yourself. And you’re right about how it cuts deeper than telling him off. They love to get under your skin/get a reaction, but don’t give them the satisfaction. Walking away gracefully shifts the power dynamics, and nothing rattles them more than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:39 AM
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Holy shit... Thought I recognized him, but then realized these type of guys all look the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:43 PM
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Thank you, and that’s exactly what I was getting at. A HVW remains HV even in the presence of a LVM. Another thing women might not realize is that men view actions differently than we do. Us walking out without saying a word or cussing them out, shows them that we’re “mad/irrational” and validates them even more in their minds. Don’t give them the satisfaction of seeing you fazed in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:00 PM
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If it works for you, go for it. I’ve done that before, and gotten “hey, where are you going?!?”, followed out and/or harassed after. Sometimes saying a few words can save you further aggravation. Squabbling over a check like this is making a scene, and embarrassing by association. Guys like this love dramatic fights, and it’s better to nip it in the bud. Cash out and keep it moving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:41 AM
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People can say whatever they want when they leave, and I was just giving an example. You can “thank” them for their time because that’s all they gave. Maybe it’s more of an expression in my area, but it’s a boss way of saying you’re not interested. For some reason guys have responded better to this than “I’m going to head out” or “I don’t think we’re a good match”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:04 AM
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Saying “thank you for your time” at the end of a meeting is a mature way of letting the other party know that you’ll be going your separate ways. It’s common in business, and can be used to end a date. Just getting up and leaving has a higher chance of escalating a tense situation or him following up to see “what happened “. Pulling the “silent slip” on guys before has led to awkward chase downs and being cornered. I’ve trained w/ pro fighters, and will speak up or throw down when appropriate, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:00 AM
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When going out to eat, always carry extra cash and never order anything you couldn’t cover. There’s no way in hell I’d stick around to bicker about splitting hash browns with anyone. As soon as he started itemizing the bill, I’d calmly say “no problem, let’s get separate checks then”. This way the server gets paid appropriately (at least on my end), and I can make an exit while he’s waiting for his card to come back. On my way out I’d say “Thanks for your time, and enjoy the rest of your day”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:20 AM
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Probably some Parthenon Pickmeisha told softie Socrates that lie to make him feel better about a hung Hercules. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:32 AM
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I’m part Greek, and we don’t find small penises attractive. Prob made them tiny on sculptures to use less building materials. Or maybe to make our Spartan lovers feel even more massive in comparison 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:49 AM
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A mastiff got loose from its male owner, and attacked my 8 pound dog. I couldn’t see him, but heard the worst cry ever. Remember instinctively jumping in to judo toss his dog, and grab mine. The owner was some wannabe tough guy POS who gave a half assed “Oh shit, my bad”. I chewed him out, and told him he’s not cut out to handle a big dog. I’m still shocked I didn’t get mauled, and saved my dog. Idgaf and just felt the need to protect my dog. Can’t imagine a parent not instinctively protecting t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:42 AM
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That reviewer is a great example of how porn and the secret pedo acceptance movement has impacted society. There’s been so much desensitization that this guy thinks it’s perfectly normal to enjoy sexualized 11 year olds. What worries me even more is that there’s a huge trend with incest porn, so predators are even more likely to target vulnerable family members. All of this conditioning was done on purpose by the media, and the conspiracy subreddit exposes a lot of these hidden monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:12 PM
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If your bf sounds like the pro-Cuties reviewer in this video, dump him immediately https://youtu.be/zniUtLZRn8Y
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:22 AM
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That’s adorable ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:45 AM
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I’m good at that too haha. Plus, I know how to cook, clean, meal prep and always have a full fridge and coffee. What more do you need in life? 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:35 AM
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Here’s 43 clips of her being an absolute savage in GoT https://youtu.be/TpMVmwFzzuo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:24 PM
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https://youtu.be/XnNnebJkK44
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:03 PM
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Thanks to @u/sadcupcake4321 for the award ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:58 PM
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She played that character too well to not have a little bit of OT in her. Mood for life 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:44 AM
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Her quotes and comebacks were always on point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:42 AM
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A savage to the very end 👑🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:39 AM
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Need to check out that show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:38 AM
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Thanks to @u/suggestedusername69 for the award ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:37 AM
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Awww thanks ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:07 AM
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Big fan of the Tudor’s and related history. Based on her environment, I wouldn’t consider her a pick me in real life. Her marriage lasted almost 24 years (which is a lifetime compared to the rest), and her “sad death” (being granted property to live out the rest of her years) was a luxury compared to the fates of the others. They might play up the neediness of her character in tv, but mostly to pit against the Anne B drama. Think she was just trying to survive the times, and ensure the successio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:06 AM
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Who kills bugs & wasps? -Me Who fixed my dishwasher, handles routine car maintenance, takes out the trash, opens jars, saved my ex from getting hit from a car and reacted to a neighbor’s cooking disaster to prevent a 12 unit evacuation. -Also Me Only thing I’m missing is a dick, but if I had one it would be thick, dependable and I’d still want to cuddle/eat snacks after 😂😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:17 AM
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More like pruno, the toilet wine they make in jail 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:15 PM
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They’re so obsessed with the pic “proof”, yet THEY show up 10 years older, 20 pounds fatter and 1 hairline receded in person. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:30 PM
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He’s really proud of himself too showing his face with that nasty tweet. 🤮🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:13 PM
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That’s what I was implying. They hate it when you’re funnier than them. Love when dudes try to neg, and they get straight pegged 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:27 AM
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When you agreed to the job, did you sign a contract with your salary and commission plan written on it? This is the paperwork you need to present to HR to make sure you’re getting paid accurately. That way if they get rid of you, you’ll have that number in the system for UI to process. This should be your #1 priority, because HR won’t care about the other problems. Trust me on that one, and you’ll save yourself grief with the situations they can make worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:01 AM
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They want a woman with a “desire to learn”, but only if she’s not smarter than him. They want a woman who can “take a joke”, but only if she doesn’t give better ones back. They want a woman to always look good, but only if she’s not attracting other men. They want a woman with a high sex drive, but only if she doesn’t mind frequent ED and infrequent orgasms 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:55 AM
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“Fuck off, Ken” - Barbie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:44 AM
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Hahaha bet he wasn’t super sized though 🤣🦐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:39 PM
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Love Stingray Vettes. What year was it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:35 PM
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I’m confused too. Meet and greet like a book signing or they’re at comic con?? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:11 AM
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Low value dude with a low value best friend, probably from a low value family. Be glad you found out this early, and never got in too deep with any of these bums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:40 AM
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Guys initiate spontaneous video chats hoping you’ll perform as a free cam girl, and they can jerk off at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:58 AM
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Haha they definitely can and will. You could get mansplained and gaslight at a Staples 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:55 AM
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I guarantee you’ll hear it at least one more time this month. They’ll always talk shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:44 AM
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I’m mid 30’s, and guys my age still pop up with the random “Heyyyyyy” text. Boring, low effort, unoriginal coomers wondering why you ignore them or are unimpressed 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:43 AM
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I’d reply “I’m technically a digital assassin with the ability to launch drone strikes, but software engineer sounds less intimidating to men.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:28 AM
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Nice job shutting him down after all that “Hey, Haha, Yep” LV text. He should’ve stuck to the original bs F1 pitch haha. It usually doesn’t take 8 years, but these dudes always come back. You’re right that they all seem to return when you’re doing well, and focused on your own goals. These guys are zombies because they return from the dead, and try to suck the life out of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:14 AM
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I could write a book on multiple topics from the tame to the depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:05 AM
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Actions speak louder than words, and hope he will continue to put in effort. Please keep us posted with any updates on the next upcoming dates. In the beginning, they’re on best behavior and since you’ve only been on two dates it’s too early to tell. Fingers crossed for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:59 AM
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This dude definitely got day drunk from golfing, and either forgot about your date or didn’t have enough time to hide all the takeout boxes in the background. Either way he’s inconsiderate of your time, and doesn’t seem that interested in seeing you. I’ve seen people on dates at Target/Walmart and other essential businesses just to make time for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:47 AM
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This is how you heal and move forward. 1. Get a blank journal, and on the first page write “What I won’t miss about ____”. Then start your list with any and every detail you can think of. Ex. Seeing the crust in his ears, the way he chewed gum, how much his feet stunk, etc. The more specific the detail the better. You need to remind yourself of all of the undesirable traits that you didn’t enjoy. When you’re missing him, go to the middle of the journal and write “What I miss about ____” and list…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:14 AM
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Me, Aileen Wournos and Valentina Shevchenko are all Pisces, and all of us have no problem w/ confrontation or getting our hands dirty. Your dude is acting like a tadpole when he could be a shark. ♓️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:53 AM
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Thank you for the kind words, and love that I’ve made an impact. Dating is complicated, and helping others succeed is a great feeling 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:13 AM
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I hear ya. I was trying to give general advice that would work for all ages/locations, including college students and/or those with transportation concerns. I’m mid 30’s, and an alpha in business so I have no time for time wasters. The confident, take charge men I look for will step up so I don’t have to. Men should take a masculine lead, but OLD has made men become more passive. I also realize not all women desire what I do so different approaches should be considered. Great thing about FDS is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:09 AM
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It’s practically the root cause of all of the stories on dead bedrooms/breakingmom/relationship advice (they just don’t realize it). The men on DB are the worst because they act like they’ve been held against their will, and they were forced to cheat or it would kill them 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:29 AM
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I’ve done this with men that are already acquaintances/friends. I’ll say “Oh is X or XX coming too?”. Then that’s their opportunity to step up to the plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:21 AM
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Exactly. You can’t take them seriously if they’re not serious about you. Going 50/50 on a date means that they’re only half in. Men are very prideful about money, and want to appear as providers. Even if they’re living in a cardboard box, they will attempt to give the impression that they’re a great catch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:06 AM
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Bet that guy pops back into her life around holidays/birthdays to wish her well too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:50 AM
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That’s true, but sometimes it can lead to all this back and forth texting about a possible place/location. They’ll usually ask you where you want to go anyway OR if they decide it’s a spot conveniently near his place. By you suggesting a spot first you can make sure it’s closer for you, and you’ll actually enjoy the experience (even if the guy is disappointing)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:17 AM
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If I wanted to “hang out” I’d buy a hammock 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:36 PM
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I wrote an example scenario in another comment that covers getting confirmation that “hanging out” means a date (while still keeping the convo fun). Lmk if it helps or any other issue you’ve run into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:34 PM
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This is how men view it. Think of the difference between getting a car as a gift (full/partial/co-sign help, etc.) VS purchasing/insuring entirely on your own. You’ll still enjoy riding in the gift car, but you’ll appreciate and invest more into the vehicle you worked hard to get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:28 PM
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Exactly. First date hangouts lead to forever girlfriends or relationships on cruise control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:45 PM
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Working with all male teams has opened my eyes to things I never wanted to see 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:43 PM
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I think at one point or another, we have all done nice/thoughtful things for men in the early stages that were unappreciated. For example, if I visit a friend/family member I’ll bring food/bottle of booze/etc. (I was raised old school, and it was a sign of hospitality/respect/etc.) Sometimes I’d bring a 6 pack over to a guy’s place, and the majority of dudes couldn’t care less or gave a half ass thank you. Guys always complain that they wish they didn’t have to do everything, but when we answer …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:41 PM
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Thanks for the compliment, and glad it was helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:30 PM
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You can customize based on your personality, but your response should combine interest while having THEM confirm if they consider it a date. You can subtly lead them in the direction you’d like the date to go, but keep it playful and let them get excited to plan/go. Here’s a hypothetical convo to use as an example... Guy: We should def hang out sometime You: Sounds fun :) Heard great things about “(insert restaurant preference)”! Guy: Cool. We should grab drinks. When’s good for you? You: I’m ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:28 PM
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Seriously. Honest to God, every guy I “gave a chance” to was wayyyy worse than the ones you actually want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:33 AM
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Fun fact: In real life, Pam (Jenna F) was married to James Gunn for 6 years. He’s a creepy director that Disney fired after backlash on his old pedo/rape tweets. Hollywood is full of sick fucks influencing the masses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:03 AM
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I thought I met a new local friend until mentioning a red flag about a guy. When she uttered “Give him a chance!”, I wasn’t excited anymore 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:44 AM
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Guys who date women younger than their daughters are another level of gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:38 AM
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This post needs a “Trigger Warning” flair (for the men reading it) 😱🦐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:08 PM
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I hate small talk/opener chit chat. It always starts with an annoyingly bland “Hey... Hey there...What’s up? How’s it going?” It’s like I don’t know you, and you don’t care about how my day is going, so why bother. I’d rather them open up with “What did you eat for breakfast?” if they can’t think of anything original.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:31 AM
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I’m a big Audible fan while doing chores, and any type of e-learning for professional growth. I’d recommend the Elevate app to keep your mind sharp in a fun, yet practical manner. Here’s some other suggestions: Create/update an emergency bag that you could quickly grab during an evacuation (essential documents, meds, spare cash, pet kit). Bonus points for 3 days of food/water and weapons. Prepare an emergency kit for your car, and customize to your region’s weather conditions. (An extra blanket,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:26 AM
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Hahaha you’re right, those were some IMDb worthy stats. Guy larped as Roger Ebert when he was goofier than Roger Rabbit 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:59 AM
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This dude sent the longest texts/paragraphs so if there’s a girl present it’s even more sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:54 AM
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Check out JCS criminal psychology on YT. I recommend the “The Bizarre Case of Stephen McDaniel” video to start. Lmk what you think after 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:05 AM
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It’s all a game to them, and we’re no longer playing 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:59 PM
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Showing a lack of accountability now would only lead to a future of gaslighting later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:43 PM
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Arriving late while texting someone else, followed by the excessive compliments, shows he was prob texting another woman. Disrespectful 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:38 PM
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Exactly. Not seeing him for 6 months, and not sharing any assets leaves her completely free from his nonsense. This guy is a negative value parasite, and needs a final flush 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:27 PM
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Guys market themselves as turn key houses, but then you find the wood rot and mold in their foundation 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:19 PM
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👏👏👏👏 I feel the same damn way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:15 PM
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When you go through the text again you’ll see other personality “clues”. Another thing that people miss is that he admitted he was just on an hour long call earlier. That’s why all the added bs about phone reluctance seems even more phony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:14 PM
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Prob living in a van down by the river 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:10 PM
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I’m a fan of Google Voice too. Easy to set up, and useful for other areas besides dating. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:09 PM
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@cosmic I’m going to try to address 3 of your comments in one response, and give further context. He was engaging/positive during all of our communication up until the phone issue. Since we had already spent hours/days texting, and he just wrote me 5 paragraphs about the movie, I thought a call would be fun (not pushy). Even so, we’re both mid 30’s and grew up talking on the phone so he shouldn’t get stage fright at a simple request. This dude hyped himself on being old school masculine so I gav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:03 PM
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Texting back and forth for hours drives me batshit, especially when I’m trying to be productive. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:45 PM
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Thanks for the kind words. I made a few mistakes, but thought it was worth sharing to point them out. My advice is to always stay busy with your own projects so you don’t get too fixated on communicating w/ men. When you get bored/lonely/horny/etc. you’re more likely to entertain their bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:37 PM
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You’re right, and I normally shut down this nonsense immediately. Commented on how I broke my own rule below 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:29 PM
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Haha seriously. He had all that time to write 5 paragraphs, and I sure didn’t (hence the phone call suggestion). Dude acted like I asked for a kidney 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:25 PM
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Me neither. His awkward reaction to the idea of a phone call was bizarre followed by the bs afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:23 PM
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Guy was larping as a confident take charge “man” earlier, but was too afraid for a phone call gtfoh 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:20 PM
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Haha believe me, I cringed at myself for breaking my #1 rule (never waste time trying to rationalize w/ the unreasonable). Don’t know if my mind was occupied on all of the cooking I was doing at the time or if I let it slide because he got me used to big walls of texting earlier. Either way, I knew exactly how I f’d up afterwards and thought my mistake would be a teachable moment to never let your guard down. Just when you think you’re out, they pull you back in haha 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:16 PM
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Dudes are so soft nowadays, he couldn’t protect her from a ninja or pirate anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:21 AM
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Seriously! The lack of self awareness amazes me each time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:06 AM
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That line killed me too. Never heard that level of nonsense before, and thought FDS would get a laugh out of it as well 🤣🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:04 AM
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Haha or cleaned the toilet he peed all over 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:22 AM
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They don’t take themselves seriously because they’re a joke 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:17 AM
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Living on your own is amazing, and you’ll enjoy your 30’s even more. Your friendship circles may get smaller, but they’ll be the quality ones worth having. Congrats on the saving habits, and invest in a quality mattress as a reward 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:12 AM
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Wonder how many multiple men/1 woman poly relationships are out there. They make more sense since men can be sexually disappointing, and it would be nice to have a backup haha. One guy can barely satisfy one woman never mind additional ones 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:03 AM
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Definitely weird. Glad it came out early before more time was wasted haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:53 AM
24

It’s ridiculous. I hate how distracting/time consuming texting is anyway. Guy would rather write novels than have a quick call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:49 AM
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Even if they truly believe they want something serious, they’re not prepared to do the work to get a quality relationship This is someone who took the time to discuss his background, family dynamics and his goals to marry/have kids. It’s ironic because he mentioned how he’s learned how important communication is from past relationships 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:47 AM
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Love using “gross” as a complete sentence, and they always respond like this creep did “oh ok, I’m sorry, my bad, jk”. Dudes need to stop messaging when they’re horny/watching porn because it’s obvious AF 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:25 AM
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It just shows you that no matter how “open” you are in bed to please men, they’ll always want more. Sharing your past trauma only justifies their regular boundary pushing further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:50 PM
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I’ve heard this a few times/different ways, and basically because I served as a temporary oasis of their constant state of anger/stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:38 PM
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The gif/video sender is distributing child porn since she was a minor during the act. Is the bf mad that his gf won’t engage in gangbangs with him OR that the video reminded him of his favorite depraved porn and hit too close to home? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:18 PM
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The best way to make sure your pets stay with you in a split is to have documentation under your name (vet paperwork/purchase of animal). That’s a way they can determine ownership legally if there’s a dispute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:45 AM
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Bet he still jerked off to his cousin’s pics, and once he got post nut clarity decided to be the moral compass of the family. 🤣🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:00 AM
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You’re right, and it’s a complicated issue. Porn culture has been incorporated into MSM and regular life so much that we’ve been desensitized. Porn might’ve been harmless when it was nudie mags and DVD’s, but it’s at a whole new level w/ our advances in technology/social media. I could do several posts on different layers of its effects on society and the psyche. It includes everything from how we’ve been conditioned to groom ourselves to how we’re viewed more as objects than human beings (wheth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:17 AM
3

I’ve noticed impulse control and lack of accountability as well. Besides experiencing/witnessing violence as a child, I’ve noticed another pattern. Parental infidelity, in particular from their mothers, can lead to toxic behavior in a male. They can become jealous, paranoid, controlling partners with deep rooted distrust, resentment, and even hatred for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:08 AM
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Thank you. What’s crazy is how mainstream porn culture has become. More people are putting their foot down because it’s become so obvious, and thrown in our faces (especially with the pedo grooming/acceptance)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:51 AM
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It’s fascinating and frightening at the same time. If I had to generalize, I’d associate coping mechanisms with being more prone to violent thoughts/behavior. Drugs/alcohol are the most obvious, but porn and video games can bring out dark traits too. All of these acts flood the brain with feel good chemicals, and then varied levels of a crash later (ex. irritability/depression). I’m interested from your career perspective, do you see similar negative traits of men incarcerated vs ones in everyda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:40 AM
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I really wanted to share the original criminal analysis I viewed through JCS criminal psychology, but only have access through the his paid Patreon channel (best $5 I’ve spent for the quality/credibility of content). I looked for the full interview online, and could only find this source to share on FDS. I agree with you that Bundy’s manipulative intentions/agenda for the interview should be taken into consideration. However, convincing deceivers also include honesty into their lies and I believ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:06 PM
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Quick Summary: I originally watched the psych analysis on Patreon (JCS Criminal Psychology), but found the regular interview on YT. Per JCS, Bundy is more comparable to a malignant narcissist vs a psychopath. Additional takeaways: Bundy admits being half drunk during his early encounters, and feeling guilt/remorse after. Describes his love for his family, and how he came from a good Catholic home. Doesn’t blame porn for his actions, but notes how common it is in violent offenders. He thought por…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:25 PM
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This guy seems like he’d ask for reimbursement if you ate some of “his” snacks. Unless you want to itemize your entire relationship, get rid of him. Even the biggest cheapskates would be embarrassed to pull this at a Dollar Store checkout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:30 PM
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🤘😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:11 AM
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I’ve received this same message about 10x in my life. Spoiler alert: They’re not sorry, and don’t care how you’re doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:19 AM
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We’re all just walking holes to the majority of men. It’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:19 PM
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Exactly. Plus, their beloved “attractiveness” scale is as useless as the 1-10 pain scale in hospitals. One person’s 10 is another 5. Also, I’d love to see how they assess their own number. Do they say “Well since she’s an 8, and I’m a 5.6 maybe I should go with a steakhouse vs a cafe” 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:13 PM
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It baffles me to see all this new false sense of public safety from guys who try to go raw on every girl they can. Spare me with the bs that you actually care about preventing the spread of any disease if it benefits your dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:36 AM
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I had to google that one. So weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:21 AM
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Guys love to do dumb shit like that, repeating cringe words “forgetting” that they bother you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:20 AM
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Translation? He was probably hinting that he has a small/thin dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:02 AM
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The only thing worse than “doggo” is “pupper” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:56 AM
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Every guy should have to get a Brazilian wax before they suggest one to a partner. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:33 AM
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Did you guy keep himself hairless too or just expect you to always be smooth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:16 AM
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That’s what I thought, there’s nothing minimally invasive about it. On another note, why would you trust a random discount surgery provider on your labia. Update: Just saw your edit about the testicle comparison, and is a good example of ridiculous sexual modifications that we already endure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:28 AM
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I wonder if they get marketed with services they don’t want/think they need like anal bleaching or pec/calf implants. Whereas we get reminded constantly of new ways to make ourself more attractive for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:24 AM
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He was great in Six Feet Under too if you haven’t seen it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:46 PM
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Haha the bar is so low that even being a murderer isn’t a dealbreaker 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:43 PM
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OP, I’ve been doing such deep research into the dark side of Hollywood in preparation for CF’s documentary on Monday. I’d love to DM you to discuss if that’s ok w/ you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:19 AM
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I feel like I’m reading a plot into a horror story. No to all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:02 AM
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Tagging along to Taco Bell, and watching him drink his stupid soda is ridiculous. You didn’t want to waste anymore of your money (I’m guessing for an Uber?), but you let him waste your time. Don’t be afraid to end a date early if it’s not what you’re expecting. Taking action (leaving) shows the guy the date was unacceptable. In his mind, he probably thinks it went great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:42 AM
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I’m going to copy the answer provided to you from u/sageberrytree (legal advice sub) because it’s worth seeing again “This is a terrible deal for you. For him, he builds equity, while charging you rent. You will, essentially, be helping him to build an asset and equity, while you and your children are renters. However, your solution is more relationship advice than legal advice. Are you going to get married? Marriage is a legal relationship that provides you with the legal protections. You can ⁠…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:05 AM
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“...I know he isn’t paying, so I tell him I don’t want anything” OP, what would’ve happened if you went to the Cheesecake Factory and ordered dinner as usual? Would you have been able to cover your share? When it comes to dating (or life in general), you gotta hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. Even if you’re 90% sure you’re being treated to dinner, always be able to pay before you sit down. At Starbucks, you should’ve continued your planned order and had a quick date OR just left if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:40 AM
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All the time, and it makes me lose faith in humanity. Lots of those shitty relationships were formed after multiple rounds of casual sex. The guy sees the benefit of having a “girlfriend”, but in his mind she’s still just a hookup. It all boils down to having respect for your partner, and taking pride in earning their affection. Idc what the media says, casual sex equates to less respect from men. You’ll have guys who say it doesn’t matter to them, but deep down it does. They might not show obvi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:07 PM
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“Casual” means not caring enough to be in a relationship. If they don’t care enough to make you their gf, they don’t care enough to make sure you’re pleased like one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:02 AM
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Seriously!! The guy acts like he planned an extensive treasure hunt with all of the “effort” he put in. He’s so proud of himself too, and teaching it to other men like gospel. I think it would show more effort to put together a picnic than make a reservation on EventBrite. Paint glass is a nice gesture/date, but not worthy of a Reddit Ted Talk 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:04 AM
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He should fix the title/post to “I took an out of my league girl on a first date, and she paid when my card got declined. Since I’m looking for a woman I can build (my credit) with, I impressed HER by making a reservation on our 3rd date.” He’s making a humblebrag post when there’s nothing to brag about. I’ve done surprise gifts/adventures for my fam/friends/boyfriends that would put this guy (and most men) to shame. I wish I was a dude because I’d be an f’in Casanova if the bar is this low 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:15 AM
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Thanks sis. Going to get back into Muay Thai this year. HMU if you’re in the Northeast. Having a local FDS/MMA pal would be bad b*tch city. I’ll thrown them on the ground for you to dismantle haha 😎👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:47 PM
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Haha you know what’s up. Everyone gets humbled in BJJ. Injuries have held me back (broken vertebrae/torn shoulders), but I still try. My stand up is better than my ground game for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:31 PM
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I’ve done BJJ sparring w/ my guy friends who compete and found this video useful. It’s always difficult to fight them off when they’re on top mount or inside my guard, but I like to practice w/ LHW/HW sized men because it’s better preparation for real life situations. Perfecting these moves IRL takes lots of repetition, and every time I think I got something nailed down they surprise me with a counter haha. Even if the odds are against me, I still have a fighting chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:13 PM
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I like yours better. That guy only needed 8 months after meeting to know that he wanted to marry her. The other article makes me wonder how many women we’ll see proposing this weekend because they’re sick of waiting for the guy to ask. If you have to wonder when they’re going to ask, they (most likely) never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:32 PM
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Brace yourself, Leap Day is coming..,, “Data for December 2019 from online community site Pinterest shows a 113 per cent increase in searches for 'how to propose to a boy' and a 217 per cent increase in searches for 'girl proposing boy' when compared with the previous year. “ https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8035721/amp/More-women-one-knee-enlist-help-proposal-planner.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:04 AM
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Haha this is amazing. Which sub is this from? These are the kind of history lessons we need 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:10 AM
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I went on two solo trips (MMA & extreme weather), and they were the best adventures I’ve ever had. People would be impressed, but more shocked about me traveling alone. My bf passed away the year before, and they helped with healing. Best lesson I learned was that you have to be comfortable and confident being on your own. Work on becoming a HVW first, and then your HVM partner will be a great addition to life, not a necessity to live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:29 AM
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She confronted him, and he got defensive. She commented that he’s punched walls before, and she’s staying in a hotel now. I’ve hid from abuse, and it seems like the OP is doing that. Obviously the guy is a cheap POS, but it’s just the tip of the iceberg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:26 PM
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I’m getting anxiety reading the comments on AITA. Not only is the guy a selfish liar, he has anger issues. The OP is physically isolated from fam/friends, and is staying in a hotel tonight to avoid a fight. Think she could use some support from us. @u/thrwawaythrow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:38 PM
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He’s “open” to anything he can get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:41 PM
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Men look for intoxicated women like predators look for wounded prey. Glad you never got hurt (or hurt anyone else) during that rough patch. I’ve had friends who got blackout drunk, and shit got crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:07 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:14 PM
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Same after a Celiac dx. I feel more hungover on ciders than tequila. Weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:04 AM
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Guys try to hide their disappointment when they realize you’re not drinking (or ordering food/water w/ your drinks). Sorry that your “quick drink” ploy turned into a full meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:57 AM
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Whether it’s 1 drink or 6, I don’t feel productive and not my optimal self. I’ve been declining lots of drinking invites lately. They try to make you feel like the weirdo who can’t enjoy a relaxing drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:51 AM
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Even a simple cartoon can’t teach them not to be animals. You can tell them no, and be covered in bruises fighting them off, yet they’ll still rationalize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:48 AM
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You know what’s also troubling? The last thing she remembers was another male being present. That “guest” probably made himself welcome to her too. He had to go shower after the “accidental” anal? Probably because his filthy dick went raw on her, and he had to clean up. But of course he wasn’t finished, they went at it again when he got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:41 AM
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I avoid drinking on dates with guys, especially early on. I want to be sober in case shit hits the fan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:04 AM
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I bet you’ve had to deal with a lot of guys who keep pestering you to have another drink. “You’ve only had 1/2” etc etc. They’re obnoxious with trying to get you drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:58 AM
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I feel the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:52 AM
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He even said “OMG that’s a bummer because we had a great time!”. No you POS, YOU had a great time with a passed out body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:50 AM
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There’s a high possibility, and a reason why they mix it with alcohol. They know exactly what they’re doing when it comes to getting girls f’d up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:43 AM
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Who knows if the tequila didn’t mix well, if she ate light, if she weighs 100 pounds or if any meds added to it. I know a girl who can drink 15 beers, and be fine but add 1 shot of vodka and she’s a drunken nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:32 AM
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From the pic’s POV, she should be thinking “I hope I don’t get knocked up by a guy who uses a desk as an armoire”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:09 PM
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What I like about FDS is the no nonsense approach. Every other dating sub will make excuses or play devil’s advocate for male behavior. It’s refreshing because we already get told to be more reasonable or to stop overthinking enough in real life. On that note, here’s my tough but fair take. The expression “Out of sight, out of mind” applies to your relationship. He’s grown used to you being gone, so not seeing you (on a day he wasn’t planning to) isn’t a big deal to him. When the relationship wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:16 AM
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I’m speaking in general terms, not from my idea of good sex. Unless they get off on being refused an orgasm, guys need to cum or aren’t satisfied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:11 AM
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Women will still consider sex “good” even if they don’t cum. Men need to cum with sex (or don’t consider it “real sex” until they do).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:38 PM
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“Bad” sex for women: Being tricked, coerced, manipulated and/or forced into the act (including everything from “white lies” to rape/assault). Experiencing pain, ranging from temporary discomfort to permanent damage. Encountering a partner with performance (ED/PIED) or size issues, and dealing with the tension/stress of his reaction (anything from slight embarrassment to anger/violence) “Bad” sex for men: Not being able to cum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:02 PM
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They’re already sleeping in separate bedrooms. Either to avoid “her snoring” vs. being bothered by the kids in the morning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:23 PM
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I’m a firm believer that action dates lead to better experiences. For example, the local food festival probably brought out fun jokes and a bigger glimpse into your natural personalities. If your bf had only done the typical drink date, you may not have had that extra chemistry. For the male lurkers: it’s not about cost, it’s about experience. “Wanna get a drink?” isn’t special or fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:46 PM
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Him: I’m just thinking about what I would do to you in the back seat. You: I’m just thinking about how the truck bed would make it easy to dispose of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:12 PM
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Have you ever listed to her vocal range in this clip? It’s impressive. https://youtu.be/GJKy8E4JKA8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:26 PM
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Roman Polanski, Woody Allen, Harvey Weinstein, James Franco... Think of all of the pervs in Hollywood, and the impact of (and agenda behind) their movies. These predators combined with libfems have helped create and condition women into pickme’s who genuinely believe it’s their own free will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 06:43 AM
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In his mind, he probably still thought he was a stud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:11 AM
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If this POS really gave AF he would’ve gone to those appointments, and supported his wife during her pregnancy. He chose his new gf instead of his unborn son, and without a doubt that helped lead to the miscarriage. Losing a baby is always terrible, but 8 months it’s even more devastating. I don’t blame her, and actually think the guy is mad because he’s lost control over her. Now he’ll play the victim, and make his wife out as the evil one. He gets pity off of the dead son he never wanted to ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:33 AM
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Judging by the rest of the profile, a “free slurpee” is code for swallowing his cum. He’s perverted enough to think that blowing him is a treat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:00 PM
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This is why I laugh when they say that they’re “going to me fuck me all night long”. I’m a multi round fighter, and if you can’t recover for the 2nd you’re disqualified haha 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:49 PM
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Thanks sis 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:47 PM
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Wtf seriously!?! How did they react after, and what was your response?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:12 PM
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The Goldilocks Effect. It’s either too hot or too cold, and we’re looking for something “just right”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:03 PM
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If you just downvoted me for trying to prevent angry dudes flooding your inbox, that’s fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:50 PM
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insert gif of catwoman cracking a whip 😎🤘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:44 PM
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Please don’t. This is an objective study on men BY men. Just like it says in the text, they’ll overestimate their timed performance. In addition, they’ll get sensitive and send more nasty comments/messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:40 PM
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I like that last line. Here’s mine in case there’s ever a FDS quote collection 😎 “Suffering for a man’s pleasure only leads to more pain. “ - LHM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:20 PM
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It’s not a perfect science. I’ve experienced both extremes. Usually the ones you want to last don’t, and vice versa. We might need FDS field report volunteers for clarity. Who has a bf/husband, and an Apple Watch to discreetly time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:06 PM
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Double the disappointment 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:42 PM
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Haha lucky you!! Giddy up!! 🐎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:38 PM
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I agree. 6 minutes of great sex is still satisfying. Plus, you never know how long 5 minutes is until you’ve sparred/fought a full round haha. This study just puts things in perspective. How much time we use getting prepared for sex vs. the actual event itself. (Is it worth the full leg shave 🤔)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:36 PM
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Unless there’s a time crunch or imminent danger, they’re always TRYING to to last longer. Ever notice how they change speed (or what we’re enjoying) mid way? It’s so they don’t cum as quick. They all WANT to last longer, but sometimes they can’t help it. That’s why the study ranged from 6 seconds to 53 minutes in time. The average (median) time was 6 minutes, but the majority fell within 4-11 minutes. I can’t speak for your experiences, including variables that affect performance length (alcohol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:28 PM
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The 31% overestimation in performance is the cherry on top!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:57 AM
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It’s such a coincidence that me and OP were on the same wavelength. I was thinking of all the time we spend shaving, doing our hair/makeup/nails and getting an outfit ready. For what? A 2 pump semi erection? We’ll spend more time changing the sheets than fucking on them 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:41 AM
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They got mad on the original post. Basically saying how unnatural it will be for women, and how we require an emotional connection/real man. Unfortunately, men no longer offer the emotional intimacy we crave and sex robots might come with a personality haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:19 AM
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This is crazy!! I just made a post with all of this in mind. We spend so much time (and money) to stay HVW, and these guys last 6 minutes in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:02 AM
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How many of these throuples include two men instead of two women? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:22 AM
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Don’t you hate when they delete their posts? What did he except everyone to tell him how wonderful he is? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:25 AM
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He definitely has money, but is just a cheap man-whore with his multiple dates a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:14 AM
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You’re welcome!!! Hahahaha so much gold in those hills (unlike in his pockets) 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:28 AM
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I upvoted your comments. PS Did you see his prior post asking for a profile review? Let’s just say he REALLY needs to pay for the date, and has no wiggle room to be cheap whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:19 AM
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Hahaha did you see the Netflix & Chill comment? He’s offended by the assumption that he only wants sex. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:09 AM
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Hahaha is this bum a Pick-Marty?!? He really wants all the women to tell him that he’s a good guy. Luckily, your comment told him what’s up 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:53 AM
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I’m going to try to help get you out safely (and with some cash) Don’t tell your guy you’re moving (or thinking of moving) back home. Tell your bf that you need that $2k ASAP to travel to your sick grandmother and assist with related expenses. 2a. Most likely he will say he doesn’t have it, or can only pay $500/$1000 etc. Keep in mind, he will stall to keep you tied to him in anyway. 2b. Find out how much he’ll be getting back in taxes, and/or do them with him and have the direct deposit go to y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:38 AM
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Guys love to say “Let it go” to dismiss your concerns. Oh I bet you’d just “let it go” if your gf asked for a MMF threesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:50 AM
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Most likely it will only add to the depravity. They already mimic what they see in porn, and will probably replicate their doll moves on real women. Pickmeishas will say “Oh it’s totally cool if you have a love doll. You can even use it in front of me. It will be kinda hot!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:50 AM
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Awww thanks!! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:55 AM
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Wonder if the OP can get the deposit back assuming she paid for it in her name. The landlord could then create a new lease with only the remaining degenerates. I’d find a way to leave with all (or most) of the money owed. Whatever I bought in that apartment, I’d take or sell. If her roommates are “nasty”, she needs to be unapologetically ruthless. Develop a plan of escape, and keep it private until you can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:34 AM
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Quoted from the article.... “And Mikaela thinks that both of her 'amazing parents' will approve of her path 'once they see how far I've come. They're going to look at this and go, "Wow, we actually raised a really self-assured, young lady,"' she said. I highly doubt that Steven Spielberg (or any parent) would celebrate a porn career for their daughter. Sad all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:10 AM
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That’s right. We may give tough love, but it comes from the heart. Every member of FDS strives for better treatment of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:28 AM
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Thanks! I shared it on my other post because a commenter wanted more proof that men were gross 🤣 Feel free to add other inspiring stories there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:08 AM
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I noticed that. Men “apologize” for wanting normal sex. Vanilla sex has been non kink shamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:44 AM
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Let’s put this in perspective. If a man spends more money on 1 year of basic Netflix ($107.88), an $80 engagement ring for a lifetime commitment is an insult. @ u/bigstona you don’t need a guy like this. We can help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:41 AM
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LibFems are the worst. They’ve made good men afraid to open doors, and gave bad men an excuse not to pay for dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:27 AM
2

You’ve peaked my interest. Do you have any good links?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:18 AM
2

They are cute, but snake guys can be f’in nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:09 AM
48

Haha did you see the triggered troll fighting over how clean he’ll keep his sex doll? He tried to bait me, so I sent him a link from that AITA post on the guy who wouldn’t clean his food containers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:06 AM
151

Haha you can block, but you can’t hide perv! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:53 AM
53

Haha I’m seeing that right now on my post in UnpopularOpinion. Men are already white knighting for their future sex dolls 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:16 AM
23

So you want to get married, huh? What a coincidence John! Me too! We should definitely go ring shopping. PS Do you have a budget allocated for this purchase?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:12 AM
483

Hahaha the guy is probably on the sex offender registry, and is legit scared 😲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:05 AM
3

There was a woman commenting on my original post that she (and other women) viewed them as a genuine threat. We might get some more ladies interested in FDS with the commentary over on UO. 🤘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:45 AM
5

Judging by some of the comments on my original post, I hope so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:39 AM
3

I’m eating dinner so I won’t open it, but have seen some nasty pics of diabetic complications on EMR’s. Which other bacterial infections do you think would arise? Ps Check out my original post because guys think it will be easy to clean haha. You might enjoy my comments saying otherwise 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:23 AM
12

Exactly. Rapists won’t be satisfied with a sex doll chew toy. They need to hunt and destroy their prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:59 AM
13

Good point. They’ll also have to get the extended warranty if they have a BDSM fetish 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:49 AM
8

If you’re in the mood for quiet luxury, check out Lelo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:46 AM
7

They’re more likely to get gangrene, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:44 AM
7

No clue about hookah logistics, but some nerve to choose this activity over doing something nice for the pregnant birthday girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:56 PM
28

Wonder if there’s a Build A Bear workshop for these things. Perhaps 6 ft, 6 inches in a LHW to HW size is in stock 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:53 PM
26

Hahaha probably, along with a post like this... “AITA for being mad that my husband cleaned his sex doll with the baby bottle brush???”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:46 PM
44

Another great selling point. I kept my list short, but there are definitely more that could be added. Feel free to include others!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:42 PM
30

Check out the other post. It’s definitely an unpopular opinion with men, but they’re too mad to upvote 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:01 PM
59

Haha seriously. I even just commented about their filthy ears/bellybuttons. If they can’t keep those 3 tiny holes clean can you imagine the dolls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:43 PM
28

That’s disgusting. Besides, guys can’t even clean their ears or bellybuttons properly. They’ll be even less hygienic with their love dolls 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:24 PM
1

That (might) work for this image, but won’t be doable on others with a non solid background. Just looking for a free app without watermarks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:35 PM
69

This guy sucks. If it’s her birthday and you’re inviting friends over, there better be a party w/ cake. PS A fucking hookah? Grow up dweebs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:31 AM
13

Exactly. If he’s bitching about the cost of extra containers imagine how much it will be to buy your own lunch each day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:27 AM
22

Disgusting. No matter how careful you are or how much you screen, this shit still happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:07 AM
16

Seriously?!? Was this some salt daddy/John type of situation? The “hotel for an hour” line is a creepy giveaway. Hope he didn’t ask you for sexy pics beforehand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:45 AM
23

You’re “supposed” to be objective in journalism. This article reads like a puff piece for the incel newsletter. Not sure if anyone else noticed this, but his agenda was clear when he wrote the following: “Not just that, but they also don’t allow trans people”. How clever. He specifically includes this to rile up the trans community, and hopes FDS will be banned for being a hate sub. Biological or not, men will always try to destroy what they can’t control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:21 AM
16

This is smart thinking. Just curious, was this your first actual date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:54 AM
43

“Wait and see” ... sounds promising 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:31 AM
35

“Talk is cheap motherfucker” -Aristotle 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:22 AM
2

Nah, it throws off the frame. Just brought it up to learn what other photo apps everyone uses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:16 AM
1

Mobile/iPhone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:01 AM
8

“I’m a nice guy! Trust me” 🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:34 AM
1

It distorts the image/formatting 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:34 AM
12

That post is motivational gold. He’s basically telling other guys not to be lazy masturbation addicted bums. 🤣👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:12 AM
39

Meal prep sucks. If he’s “too busy” to rinse out a container, she needs to be too busy to cook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:40 AM
3

Thanks for the compliment. It’d be better, but all the cool apps require the pro version 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:11 AM
5

Haha thought it was fitting. PS I made this meme today, but couldn’t find an app that removed the watermark. If anyone has any recommendations, please let me know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:00 AM
22

This is a great way to weed out LVM. If they can’t handle a period, imagine how they’d handle worse situations (pregnancy complications, childbirth, illness/surgery, etc.). Guys who aren’t afraid of a little blood, are the ones who aren’t afraid to bleed. Gladiators only 🤘😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:49 PM
2

Have you tried Eharmony or Match? I’ve never used Tinder, but I imagine you’re running into post divorce men just looking for casual encounters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:38 PM
13

Just like CC says, if you have to ask it’s not a good sign. In fact, the best relationships are when you don’t have to wonder at all. You know exactly where he stands because he makes it known. Looks like you’ve had several posts on this guy on various subs, and that’s not a good sign. Whenever you have to psycho analyze their intentions, it’s usually because there’s doubt/insecurity w/ the situation. Keep yourself busy so you’ll stop fixating on this guy (or any other guy in the future).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:31 PM
12

How long have you been dating for him to give you a “sentimental gift” ? Could you explain what it is? It might’ve been a ploy to build a false sense of intimacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:22 AM
161

“Playmate, plaything, playtoy, playtime” are all instant turn offs 🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:14 AM
2

The guy recycles dental floss. He’s walking bacteria 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:05 PM
2

Luckily, he gave her a new straw with that trash cup. This woman must have a great immune system with all the filth the husband has exposed her to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:35 PM
220

We should add a “Fuck Off Adam!” flair 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:30 AM
5

Seriously! $185 is a bargain to get a tooth removed by a professional in sanitary conditions. The guy didn’t even bother to empty the vacuum bag before duct taping the straw to the hose 🤣🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:08 AM
3

This show is bananas. Look at this clip if you want to see how they prioritize cost over common sense. https://youtu.be/eS8kvIrTXKo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:42 AM
9

You’ll love this clip. Admits to marrying his wife to get his dental work covered by insurance. https://youtu.be/Lig9A3RFnZg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:15 AM
3

Agreed. Plus FDS is getting a lot of press lately, and the last thing the sub needs is having a quote tying us to this behavior. Acting like this makes us comparable to TRP PUA’s. The more positivity associated w/ FDS the better for everyone. HV attracts HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:27 PM
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@ u/TheOGJammies I liked how you explained to the OP what the sub was about in addition to tagging her to the post. That way she knows this is a safe place to address additional concerns. Hope we can help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:16 PM
5

Looks like someone else did. However, if you endorse this type of behavior I’d downvote that mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:59 AM
24

That’s immature behavior. A HVW wouldn’t act like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:46 AM
49

There’s so much wrong in this screenshot. Find your own transportation. Never invite a new guy/hookup to your place (especially as a second option to when he laughs off your request of asking for transportation). Let him lead/ask you on a proper date. If he doesn’t, move on. READ ALL OF THE FDS RESOURCES. Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:52 AM
10

They all say some version of that. They like to convince you (and themselves) that they’re actually decent guys. Wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:20 AM
26

Back in the day, my longest LTR would get so rock hard that he could hang heavy towels from it. Nowadays you’re lucky if you get half mast. I’ve even watched a guy INSIST he was hard and “fold his dick into an erection” trying to fuck. (Like give it up dude, your cock origami isn’t working) Point is, maybe men aren’t heavily sexualized because we don’t find them as sexy. Penises usually bring a 50/50 chance of disappointment, whereas there’s a 95% chance we’ll still turn on a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:07 AM
8

This article reminds me of when dollar stores rebrand cereal to shittier descriptions. LVM is “low price” and HVM is “prime price”. WTF? This isn’t Amazon, and if it was I’d order a HVM w/ my membership 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:16 AM
5

I’m not surprised!! Wonder if they get the same bouquet 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:28 AM
3

It felt like sand blew through my lungs daily. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:42 PM
159

Are you getting dual orders for wives and mistresses? My friend’s fam had a florist shop, and knew all the dirt on people’s love lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:09 PM
4

It’s crazy how the Zoo Director agrees to eat 1 cockroach for every $1k donated. That’s commitment to the cause!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:06 PM
3

I only visited, but my friend almost drove us into Juarez instead of the zoo haha. Fun trip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:04 PM
6

I’d gladly pay $100 for a hyena, $500 for an alligator and $1k for a hippo attack on the two pricks I listed above. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:05 PM
40

I’ve worked on all male teams, and realized long ago not to expect any returned thoughtfulness on their parts (unless it was business strategy or they were trying to sex me up). Happy Birthday and don’t let them see you upset. Tell them you’re going to Hooters at lunch for free birthday wings, but they’re not invited 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:09 PM
10

Guess she didn’t listen to your earlier advice 😵 @ u/Curiouscatnyc777
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:39 PM
16

What a POS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:27 PM
30

This is a great example of taking back power, and doing what YOU want to do with your body. You need to be comfortable in your own skin because you’re the one living in it. Keep up the good work! 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:21 PM
17

Haha the FB comments have me dying w/ women asking if they can feed their ex’s to the lions instead 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:13 PM
9

Lots of low value lovers according to this list haha http://www.elpasozoo.org/~/media/files/zoo/list%20of%20names.ashx?la=en
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:21 AM
5

In our area, boyfriends need to pass the blizzard test. Shoveling your car out of 2ft of snow is so sexy 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:13 AM
44

“Stef” might not have IG, but she def has premium Snap and a fire Tik Tok 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:42 AM
17

Ahhhh the Purple Pill...aka TRP Lite 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:24 AM
32

Bingo! It’s a “wellness check” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:09 AM
13

Not surprised. Do you have a link to the post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:07 AM
4

HVD!! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:00 AM
11

Bounty Hunter? He needs bounty paper towels and Lysol to clean that filthy sex pod 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:27 AM
17

Once you’ve had a pregnancy scare/miscarriage with a FWB, you realize just how physically (and emotionally) attached you become. (Whether you plan to or not). Women get to suffer the agony of the event while they provide a “damn, that sucks” in return. Sex is always more serious for us, and we should treat it as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:12 AM
6

Doesn’t matter. You shouldn’t invite a man you’re not in a relationship with to a 2 week family vacation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:09 AM
7

Sorry, but inviting a man (that isn’t your boyfriend) to a 2 week family vacation seems a little Pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:00 AM
56

Beetlejuice...Beetlejuice...Beetlejuice!!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:13 PM
49

Bet she won’t be making a brag video about having sex w/ HIM 🤮😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:44 AM
9

Love this 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:49 AM
25

They’ve only had sex 3 times in over 4 years?!?! WTF 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:13 AM
53

Scott: I’m so single I’m thinking of hooking up with guys. Also Scott: Dudes with vaginas, hard left. *Scott is (secretly) into men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:45 AM
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This is embarrassing. If you’re not in the financial position to dine out, stay home. This applies to both men and women, and towards general spending as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 10:34 PM
1

The vocal fry alone deserves an eye roll 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 10:23 PM
2

Lots of interesting info. Thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:54 PM
9

What’s her recommendation? To tell the guy how awful he is instead? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:01 PM
17

Exactly. Guys love “liberal” women because it increases their chances of casual sex. I feel more empowered being fiscally and sexually conservative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:59 PM
14

Me neither. You can feel the hatred behind the words when a man says them. Don’t act like you were joking or it’s not a big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:49 PM
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It’s making both men and women think it’s acceptable to use the word so freely, when it’s really not ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:47 PM
5

Unrelated, but your username is clever AF 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:43 PM
333

Winter is coming. The (Pickmeisha) white walkers will soon be approaching 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:54 AM
1

Just watched that documentary. Pretty interesting, and the erection study was entertaining as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 07:42 AM
5

Wtf?!? A cockroach on the table!! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 05:31 AM
45

It’s seriously this simple! If you have to wonder, he isn’t worth it. I tried to (lightly) explain this to a new acquaintance, and she wasn’t having it. “Well...actuallyyyyyy it’s more complicated than that....” (Not today Pickmeisha 😈🤪)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 10:17 PM
11

Keep up the good work. PS Loved your educational anal sex post 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:46 AM
83

The “Pick Meisha” mindset reminds me of addict behavior. Men are their drugs, and they’ll do anything to justify their habit. The denial is real, and they’ll get angry/defensive when criticized. Even when they ask for our help on their posts, doesn’t mean they’ll take it. I’ve seen commenters talk about how “they’re a queen/HVW”, while posting topless pics on other subs and describing how healthy THEIR poly/BDSM relationship is. Some girls like to post on FDS while still being high on the LVM li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:54 AM
6

So did you guys set up a date??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:51 AM
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Imagine you’re trying to get ready in the morning, and your bf is hogging the bathroom to beat off or leaves the shower full of jizz for you. But wait there’s more... Your bf gets home an hour before you, and jerks off until you bring home/cook dinner. Fuck that. Stop wasting water and time w/ this bum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 05:03 AM
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And guys always complain that they don’t get enough compliments. This is was happens when you’re nice. Tell a guy he’s good looking, and he immediately thinks you want to blow him 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 04:40 AM
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It takes more effort (words) to request food from GH/DD, yet they think 3 characters is enough to order sex. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:35 AM
3

OP, have you read any of the reading material on this sub? There’s a lot to go through, but it would be beneficial to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:20 PM
5

Thanks 😊 Did they even meet up IRL? He obviously dgaf while she wanted that date bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:03 PM
1

That seems to happen a lot on here. They’ll just find another relationship sub, and go back to their Pickmeisha ways. It’s hard to break the cycle, and not everyone is ready for the hard truths of dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:58 AM
13

Is there a link to the original post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:56 AM
87

Never let a man know your personal timeline for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:37 AM
24

Is this a new guy? Usually the doghouse is reserved for a bf/husband. Otherwise, they’re just a stray waiting for a forever home 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:26 AM
2

I’m glad that you and your practice follow proper infectious control protocol. It’s sad and disturbing that everyone isn’t that careful/cautious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:01 AM
14

It just goes to show you that STD’s aren’t a big deal to them. They try to pressure you into raw sex because it’s worth the risk, and they’ll still be able to sleep at night if they get one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:39 PM
7

I previously worked in medical, and saw some horrific complications from diabetes. I’m curious to learn more your patient’s story, and if there’s any other advice you could share to help others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:27 PM
33

Usually caused by the following: Drugs (street or prescribed) and/or Porn/Masturbation addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:50 PM
20

Her bf gets off on the public humiliation/control, and his requests will only get more extreme. He’ll never be satisfied, yet she’ll keep trying to please him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:30 PM
46

I have IC that appeared after I got the Mirena. Extremely painful, and still have it. Symptoms improved after Mirena removal, but not for years later. DM me if you ever need an IC support sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:02 PM
54

I’ve never licked an asshole, and refuse to have mine licked in return. I had a whole group of guy co-workers talk about it like it was no big deal, and how it’s quite common now. Just thinking about the cross contamination makes me sick. Meanwhile, these guys sometimes share their Juul pens 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:34 AM
1

Ain’t that the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:24 PM
9

Of course this guy is from Boston (South Shore). In certain parts of the state, you’re considered a HVM if you don’t have a felony. Bet this guy would say how his past doesn’t define him or how he’s a better man now etc. etc. No joke, he’d try to convince you that the experience was a positive some how. I know these type of goons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:49 AM
1

He won’t give a shit. Take the remote control. He’ll lose his f’in mind looking for it. It could’ve easily gotten mixed into your clothes, and fell out of your suitcase by mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:40 AM
31

So he married another woman at 18 (and was divorced at 21). Some of the most emotionally conflicted (draining) men I encountered while dating were divorced males. They had this half in/half out mentality where they desired the emotional intimacy of a partner/wife privileges, but were also so traumatized by the thought of another potential wife. Anyone else encounter the same thing (or just a coincidence)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:23 AM
5

I’ve had two BJJ friends (both LHW sized) either go a little too hard w/ moves or got hard themselves. I learned there’s a MMA porn genre where the girls will roll w/ the guys, and if she taps she has to “submit” to him. Spoiler alert: Of course the girl “loses” every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:22 AM
565

Women before a date: “I hope he doesn’t try to abuse/assault/rape/kill me.” Men before a date: “I hope she isn’t fat.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 11:42 AM
16

Sorry “Dom”, maybe your subs just hate bad grammar 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:46 AM
1

That’s beyond disturbing, but I’m not surprised at anything anymore. It’s easier to create your own kids to abuse instead of preying on strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:41 AM
2

I’m familiar with kink/BDSM, and understand there are several dynamics. DD/LG is on another level. If you get sexually attracted to a person who’s acting/dressing like a small child, that’s pedo behavior. They get a legal pass if the girl is technically legal, but it’s morally wrong to lust after someone posing as a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:22 AM
4

They pay for posed photos at meet & greets, but touching (especially pulling hair) should be off limits. Otherwise it would be an utter grope fest. They should have stricter rules than strip clubs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:00 PM
9

You’ve been in a two year “Situationship”. DTR or move on ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:38 PM
5

“Littles” are usually in the 1-10 range, and “act” appropriately according to their age. Their “daddies” will watch them color and play w/ toys before having sex with them. This type of role play is perverse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:27 PM
41

I’m surprised he was even allowed to touch her. Security should be tight at a creep attracting porn convention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:58 AM
40

His nipples look like they’re sliding off his chest. Wonder if this is from a body filter 🤔🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:52 AM
5

Just did the math. In 4 days, he shared w/ 19 subs w/ a combined count of 5,375,297 members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:47 AM
2

Even more gross when you see it on a nude pic. Disgusting animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:22 AM
9

Especially since he gets off on stating her weight/age vs his on the description. Such a big man to prey on a little girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:45 AM
15

It’s sickening. Since incest has been normalized through porn (I kid you not), I fear for a baby girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:31 AM
14

Even if she doesn’t and miraculously leaves, her face is plastered all over the place and her public image ruined. All because some stubby dicked perv wanted to use her as masturbation fuel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:26 AM
26

She looks drugged out of her mind in some pics/videos. I bet she’s not in the right state of mind, and doesn’t realize she’s shared on so many subs. Usually the ones who get off on it have their own handles, and post content too. This girl seems more like prey than a pick me. Sad all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:49 AM
20

I was thinking the same thing. Drugs and low weight won’t help her pregnancy, and in this case it’s a good thing. A guy with these sick thoughts shouldn’t procreate or be in control of an innocent baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:38 AM
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That’s part of the allure to him. Keeping her as close to a prepubescent weight as possible. He probably controls her food intake while he binge eats. He’s pumping her full of drugs to help control her appetite (and sexual repulsion to him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:24 AM
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No, because technically she’s 20 and he’s 37 (and it’s an alleged consensual relationship). What’s wrong is that he’s using his breeding kink to hide his true pedo thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:25 AM
4

Lmk how the movie compares when you see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:45 AM
2

Think I tied my answer to the wrong comment. Good question though because there seems to be lots of different opinions on it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:43 AM
1

No Fap is against PMO which is porn masturbation orgasm. They still have sex and real relationships with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:59 AM
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“Hey before you leave...” means I’m going to try to bang before you leave the state. Don’t bring that old bum energy to your new life. Congrats on the job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:49 AM
18

“White Oleander” is a powerful movie by itself, but has some great learning points too. Anyone else see it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:37 AM
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Anyone who has experienced depression knows that it can affect grooming habits. Obviously it’s gross, but it shows you how deep it was. The No Fap group helps men w/ their post porn addiction fueled depression. They’re a positive sub in my eyes, and the more men they can enlighten the better for everyone. When men start criticizing porn addiction, society is more likely to take notice. When women do it, we’re prudes, not sex positive, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 02:58 AM
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Thanks sis. Honestly, I think it’s even more sinister than that. I just have a bad feeling about this dude. Intuition spiked on this post, and I felt a strong urge to comment to OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 11:12 PM
4

A long road trip together where service is spotty and navigation is difficult. Bonus points for driving in extreme conditions/severe weather, and not wanting to kill each other afterwards. You’ll learn how well your communication styles mesh during an unexpected stressful situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 10:49 PM
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I went off the grid camping a few years ago with a group of friends. No bathrooms/electricity and the type of isolation fugitives and Gypsies would seek out. You learn a lot about a person when you’re in bear country haha. Have fun on your trip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 09:54 PM
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I know this is going to come off strange, but I have a gut feeling that this guy is going to be a POS. I got a weird feeling after reading that line “It was really a snap decision against my logic, but all those thousands of years of instinct overrode that and here I am”... Something is off, and I don’t like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 02:33 PM
46

All these artsy creeps “seeking a muse” like they’re Andy Warhol 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 02:21 PM
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“If you have someone you think is the one, take them and travel around the world. Buy a plane ticket for the two of you to travel all over the world, to places that are hard to reach and hard to get out of. And when you land at JFK and you're still in love with that person, get married.” -Bill Murray PS If you haven’t seen “What About Bob?” put it in your queue 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 10:46 AM
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I agree with all of this. If they don’t know by then, they’re just stalling and gambling w/ your future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:20 AM
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He probably wrote 18 because that’s his age preference, and was too dumb to realize they meant HIS age. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:23 AM
10

I’d rather be private property so I could wear a “Stay off my lawn!” sign. Guys keep getting more and more disgustingggggg 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:00 AM
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I’d love to know who suggested this pose. If it was a photographer, he/she should be publicly shamed for humiliating their clients while potentially ruining their dresses. (I’ve helped as a second on weddings, and this makes me cringe extra). If it was the groom, I’d punch him in the balls so he could frame that m’f’in picture in his living room. 😎 I hate this whole goon squad, and stupid wedding poses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:56 AM
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I just checked out that site for the first time, and it honestly makes me sad for the women posting. Some of these girls are absolutely stunning, and they’re being labeled as 5’s (just so the guys can knock them down a few pegs). People give FDS shit, but sites like those are the ones that are a danger to society. Who knows, these poor girls could be a few comments away from self harm or suicide. It doesn’t matter if they’re being “judged” by self loathing pricks w/ 2 inch dicks. They’ll still t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:41 AM
1

Nowadays, a good date is getting out alive. A great date is not wanting to kill them after 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:12 AM
1

Haha seriously. On the other hand, I’ve had weird dates where I stall/hide out somewhere else so they can’t follow me to my car. Other creeps who tried to jump in the passenger seat, and others I’ve physically removed from my car. Ahhh the joys of dating 🙄😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:44 AM
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Always loved when guys would wait for you to get into your car, and made sure it started/you drove off before they left. That’s a dying/old school trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:35 AM
2

Can’t argue with that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:23 AM
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The majority of men will always be taller than that, so it’s probably not a big deal. I’m average height, but love several inches over me. Skinny/thin men are more of a deal breaker for me, but we all have our preferences. I’d date the Mountain from GoT 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 02:37 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 02:02 AM
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People can downvote my earlier comment, but you can’t tell me a girl on here wouldn’t be disappointed if a guy was off by a few inches (dick size OR height). 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:53 AM
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Men don’t really “understand” makeup, but they have a rough idea. They’d be more disappointed in learning your cleavage was from a “add 3 cup sizes” bra, instead of discovering fake lashes. I’ve learned this from several guys complimenting my large “authentic” natural breasts (saying I’m not like the other padded bra girls 🙄) Not gonna lie, I’d be disappointed too if I saw some stud in grey sweatpants and learned he was stuffing his tube sock 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:40 AM
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Rick: I’m sick of horrible RACIST stuck up impossible females!! Also Rick: NO DARK/NON WHITE WOMEN!! (Fuck off, Rick) 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:19 AM
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Advanced level: Holding their head, obstructing their breathing and then telling them they look pretty when the choking tears come 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:34 AM
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Imagine if women wrote in the same vile manner?? Do you think this would work... “Hey stud, wanna take me shopping, and then eat my pussy after?” (Then when they try for a bj, you say you have to work early in the morning and just leave)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:04 AM
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I HATE how they all try to rub their dick on you until you literally squirm away or throw them off. Plan B does suck, and if you’ve already ovulated you’re fucked. Apparently, it also causes significant weight gain (15 pounds on average) WTF. This explains a few things 😥 https://www.pop.org/side-effects-plan-b-morning-after-pill/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:43 AM
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He won’t have to practice his “mad face” when I tell him to go get one, and pick up some snacks while he’s out 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:18 AM
2

Mirena put me through hell (during and after).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 12:57 AM
7

I was wondering what kind of friend would set you up with this person. Obviously, anyone could hide personality traits/flaws from their fam/friend, but I doubt this guy would be a match on any level. I let my guard down w/ my best friend’s husband’s recommendation, and the guy was an absolute pig. Better to stay outside of the friend circle in case things go south. This rule applies to hairstylists and mechanics too. I don’t want to put up w/ bad service so I don’t “offend” anyone they’re tied t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:35 PM
5

This guy is an animal. Find out his Moon and Mars placement, and I’ll euthanize him for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:54 PM
5

Capt. America is outside Masshole territory, but probably has a feisty sarcastic side to him as well. Massachusetts is a small state w/ the biggest difference in personality depending on your location. Western MA might as well be Maine or Oklahoma, rivalries between the North Shore and the South Shore, and townies fighting w/ the extreme liberal transplants. We even have Jersey Shore types in Revere/Everett. It’s wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:19 PM
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That creeped me out too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:59 AM
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Return to sender. Postage denied 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:59 AM
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Catch and release 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:57 AM
3

We use “dude” similarly, except it’s “yeah, dude”. Responding with “ok, kid” or “alright, buddy” would piss him off. Save for later. Old vid/still accurate https://youtu.be/Ao3lqNqXZrg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:56 AM
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Normally, I’d assume that but with all of his requirements I don’t know how anyone could marry him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:40 AM
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And short
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:54 AM
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His pics have a black blur on the face for “privacy” reasons and because he’s so successful, but just picture a short East Indian Scarface.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:53 AM
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I gave a few other of his “highlights” in the comments below to show what he “brings” to the table 🙄 In case people wanted to get an idea of what he looks like, it’s a 5’8 East Indian version of Don Johnson in Miami Vice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:22 AM
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I worked around there. Rich, entitled, sheltered people who try to go out of their way to act “progressive/woke” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:56 AM
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Haha I can’t imagine myself or any other woman listing a profile like this. It’s even worse than what I’ve shared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:44 AM
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I’m from MA, and could answer a few things for you. Was this guy from Quincy or Revere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:19 AM
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Wow, you pass his test?!? Impressive! Oh and btw he has a high sex drive. He says how he’s always respectful, but will want to have his way with you. 🙄🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:12 AM
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He has hair like a muppet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:46 AM
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I wear clothes that vary within 5 sizes. These guys have no clue how women’s sizing works or could guess weight by looking at a body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:45 AM
8

I would rather date Bigfoot than this guy 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:40 AM
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(It gets worse when he tells you about himself) “More likely than not: I am smarter than your professor I am richer than your Dad I am more ripped than your boyfriend I am a better listener than your best friend I give better noogies than your brother I dress better than your crush I am more captivating than your favorite tv show I am more of an advisor than your guidance counselor “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:38 AM
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I’ve received those same two quotes multiple times. Usually means they’re even worse than the “other” guys 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:15 AM
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Probably even nicer for 16-18 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:11 AM
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Along w/ his weight requirement, he has a strong preference for a C cup or bigger. (Of course he does)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:08 AM
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There’s about 4 other screenshots of his profile saying why he’s better than most guys, and additional requirements/preferences for women. I can’t imagine too many ladies making the cut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:05 AM
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His weight limit is ridiculous for most heights, but he’ll only take women up to 5’11 😂👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:58 AM
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You’ve been together for 2 years, and this is how he treats you? Unacceptable. I had my tonsils out as an adult, and had painful severe complications post surgery. If I had a bf pull this, he would be dead to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:00 AM
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Haha figured that, but at least they got several other satisfying fights that night. When a guy finishes in under a minute for us, we get a “Sorry babe, next time”. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:59 PM
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Haha Saturday’s fight was 40 seconds, and he previously finished Aldo in 8 seconds. He definitely wasn’t disappointed in either performance. Good message, bad meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:18 AM
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Done 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:39 AM
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I said this to two new girls I hung out with tonight after one was visibly upset over a guy. I started getting “Well Idk, it’s not that simple....” I’m like oh fuck PM’s in the wild, don’t bother to explain they’re not ready to hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:26 AM
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This lady seems like she’s humblebragging about her gourmet breakfast skills. She mentions “savory oatmeal” 2x, and doubt she said that to her husband. It almost seems like she’s using this guy as a prop to her silly story. It’s obnoxious in multiple ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 07:49 AM
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😎👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 01:05 AM
3

Exactly! I’ve ran into car/safety/navigation problems post date, and some of these “good guys” didn’t answer my call/text for help. Later on you’d get a “That sucks. You ok now?” “TMWYGH” is just talk, it’s ACTION that counts. If a dude actually steps up and comes to the rescue, he deserves those brownie points. I’ll always love heroes. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 10:53 PM
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Haha what a goon! He probably wouldn’t get the cocaine/Rick James joke either. People are dense AF 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:59 PM
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That’s exactly what I was getting at! I ran out of characters in my post title, and wish I could re-word to clarify the message. “TMWYGH” IS a sweet/thoughtful phrase, I just think guys say it out of habit without a second thought. On the darker side, it’s a way for us to start catching feelings even earlier. We go home w/ a smile and start thinking “Awww he’s such a great guy”. Meanwhile, when the guy gets back home he’s back to swiping or visiting PHub before bed 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:57 PM
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Hahaha I know right! Wonder if the guy you’re talking to has ever taken melatonin. Then he’d know what’s up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:49 PM
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I knew what you meant when you said “lit on melatonin”, but he might’ve took it differently. Guys are weird w/ text misunderstandings. I would’ve shot back a “What do you mean? It’s not like I OD’d on NyQuil 😉” or something else to gauge his reaction. PS I got lit on 5HTP mixed w/ melatonin & ashw. Crazy dreams!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:38 PM
8

This question gets me thinking. Above all, I determine a HVM based on his character opposed to his net worth. However, all men take pride in being providers (w/different variants in the term). Some men can hold bitterness/resentment towards women who are better providers than them. If he’s w/ a successful woman, and doesn’t feel like he’s bringing in just as much (if not greater) value, he’ll gravitate towards people he feels superior to. That’s another reason why LVM prefer younger women who do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:24 PM
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Exactly. It’s a little off topic, but notice how guys say “Do you need any help?” just to say it? It’s a thoughtful statement, but they don’t always plan on actually helping. They’re just trying to be nice or out of habit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:29 PM
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There are so many things that men will do to appear like good guys. They will even seem genuine like saying thoughtful things like “TMWGH”, but I learned they ALL say that. Kinda like “I had a nice time tonight”. People just say it (even if they didn’t) to be polite or out of habit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:21 PM
2

Friends/Fam mean well. Sometimes guys just say it to say it. Ya know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:16 PM
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I mentioned that in another comment. The good ones will text you if you haven’t responded. Otherwise, it’s just an common expression w/ no real meaning behind it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 07:15 PM
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It’s 8 degrees, too cold to go out, but I’m not letting them come here either 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:42 AM
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That’s true. Maybe an extra ego boost on their end that we’re into them, and will tell them how amazing the night was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:39 AM
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“TMWYGH” is a thoughtful statement that has turned into an empty word expression. Almost like “lmk if you need anything”. People say both out of habit. PS Guys will never understand the safety concerns (or paranoia in their minds) that women have. Prisoners are an exception because they know what it’s like to feel watched and hunted too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:34 AM
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Respect! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:56 AM
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🤣👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:49 AM
3

Different rules for friends vs lovers. Treating new lovers like friends puts you on a slippery slope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:48 AM
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The expression itself is thoughtful, it’s the motive I’m concerned with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:46 AM
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I hear ya. Besides, if I was unsafe or had an issue would the guy come back out to save me? “Sorry babe, I’m already in bed. Had fun. Ttyl”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:45 AM
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They use it as obedience training so you’ll text first. Responding “I’m home!” is compliance to their shit test. I used to do the same back in the day. Learned that it’s just bs to them. The good ones will actually get back to you that night in a respectable time frame. I let them lead so I know if they really had a nice time or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:43 AM
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Family/friends is a whole different ballgame, and is considered genuine then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:37 AM
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It’s weird because I’m kinda mixed on it. The expression itself is considerate/thoughtful, but I feel like it’s abused by low effort guys. I’ve heard it through PUA channels too as a way for the girl to start putting in work to please/obey the guy. (Ex. If she doesn’t text, I next). Sick world, I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:35 AM
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You’ll be over it? Good because I won’t be under it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:54 AM
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Probably because she posted the same story over a month ago on every dating sub known to man w/ no success. We must be the last resort!🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:54 AM
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The “Mmhmmmm” seemed like he wanted you to give him a sexy compliment. I’ve heard different variants of this before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:56 AM
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“You ready to build or not”. Build what? Your credit? Pay your own phone bill ya bum 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 05:52 AM
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🤘😎Thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:20 AM
2

Years ago, I knew this girl who was posting all these triad memes on FB. Guess it’s a fancy term for when a guy convinces his gf and mistress that he can have them both, and that they’ll love it too. Eventually, the side piece pushed out the baby mama and the triad turned into a “committed relationship”. This dynamic seems advantageous for the male, yet destructive for the females (even if they’re “cool” with it). I wonder if two alpha HVM’s would agree to a poly relationship w/ one woman? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:37 PM
7

TIL a new foot fetish fact. Kinda interesting/good to know 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:20 PM
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Savage. I’ll dig out some better ones to light your fire. Maybe change the flair? Idk. This was pre FDS days, and found the old screenshots on my phone today. Still thought it was funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:17 PM
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Guy reminds me of some creepy survey. Do you give blowjobs? If yes____ If no___ Press 3 for English or to get a live person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:54 AM
4

Did it go something like this... “Ohhh baby, I just ate so much broccoli and cheese. Can’t wait until I eat that french onion soup later...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:50 AM
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His spinoff was “I’m only freaking kidding to see if you’re judgmental. Which you are!” Ohhh so it was just a psych test eh? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:46 AM
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Haha you scared the fetish out of him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:41 AM
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I’m surprised I wasn’t accused of kink shaming. I had a bunch of oddballs reach out, but remember one freak on OKC who had a “cake smashing” fetish. Weird and wasteful 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:31 AM
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It was in 2016, so today’s response would look different. Pre FDS, and when I was more green to the scene. I’m going to look at some more old case studies later to present. Good learning opportunities for all 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:26 AM
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“Man meat”? You wish, soy boy 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:08 AM
24

Should’ve told him to go sniff some bowling shoes, and then throw himself into the gutter 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:59 AM
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This is a lose lose situation, and a tough spot. If the roles were reversed, I bet the majority of us would feel terrible if we had to bow out as the maid of honor in our best friend’s wedding (even due to the tragic circumstances). I’ve had boyfriends attend family wakes/funerals, and would leave them on the couch while I dealt with obligations. It was nice that they were there during the services, but I was most appreciative of their support before and after the services. The OP in the post ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:01 AM
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This is going to be a weird analogy, but bear with me. Note: There are a lot of fishing references in here, but just keep the following in mind. Lures= Characteristics/Traits Customized Lures= Tailored for Target Movement= Confidence/Presence Men are visual creatures, but think of them as fish. To them, women are “lures” that come in all different shapes, sizes, colors, and tastes. The lure that’s “perfect” for one fish, won’t appeal to another. In fact, even “customized lures” for specific fish…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 09:41 PM
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If a guy is creative, he can plan an amazing date that’s still affordable. I use an app that I make money on the majority of purchases (including drinks at bars/restaurants). Told my guy friends/co-workers, and they acted like taking a pic of a receipt was too much work. Bro, you have two fantasy football teams, you have the time 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:58 AM
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I’m not surprised, makes total sense. Imagine all the other lies you could get away with. Honey, it’s perfectly normal to: feel like this, look like this, last this “long” (2 minutes), taste like this, etc. Ignorance is bliss for a man with a virgin bride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:12 AM
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They got it, they just don’t want to spend it if they don’t have to. I just made this list, but bet we can think of others... Random guy purchases: (NEW) video game- $59.99 JUUL Starter pack $49.99 (4 replacement pods- $14.99) Handle of Tito’s- $29.99 Bud Light 30 pack- $22.99 Workout Supplements: xx-xxx Takeout- xx-xxx Lottery tickets: xx-xxx Drugs- xx-xxx, Tattoos- xx-xxxx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:38 AM
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Haha it sounds even more slimy when you’re cooking dinner 🐛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:59 AM
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I had two guys on my old team almost get into a fistfight that started as a debate on the musical genius of Mac Miller 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:58 AM
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Or “I get a lot of messages, and don’t have time to respond to everyone. HMU if you think we’re a match”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:44 AM
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Or “I’ll fill out the profile later. HMU if you like what you see” (See what? It’s blank 🤣)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:42 AM
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Tell him you’re looking for a few laughs too, and got them when you read his message 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:29 AM
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That makes a lot of sense. It’s sad, but true. Not sure if you’ve checked it out yet, but there’s lots of reading material in the sidebar to help improve your dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:11 AM
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I hear ya. I grew up with a military/law enforcement influence, and this guy kinda reminded me of that. I got defensive at first, but eventually learned what he was trying to prove. Granted, it could’ve been done with so much more compassion. I used “So what now?” more as a positive action based response to think about what the next steps should be. Definitely not a “too bad dummy” type of statement. I know how hard it is to heal from trauma, and would never imply otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:46 AM
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Not quite Scientology level, but definitely unconventional and controversial. It was about a decade ago, so I bet they’ve significantly softened up the approach since then. Fortune 500 companies were using it, but I went independently (not through my company at the time). It’s amazing how much society has changed since the 00’s and onward. People used to get away with a lot back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:35 AM
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Translation: I wrote I want a relationship so you’re more comfortable w/ sharing boob pics. Wanna help me out? 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:53 PM
5

Hahaha at “God wants you to see love” . Nah, God has just forsaken you for tying his name to this nonsense 🤣😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:49 PM
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Are “love language” preferences being used as behavioral excuses now? Sorry I choked you babe, I thought your love language was physical 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:41 PM
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Damn... What else did your brother admit? Curious to learn what else comes to his mind about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:37 PM
2

Hahaha dude can’t even inflate the mattress properly. Wonder what else is limp 🤔🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:33 PM
2

I hear ya. Completely agree with the education lesson. If you’re in school, and a man gets upset that you’re not focusing on him, get rid of him. I’ve had men try to get me to rely on them as a manipulative tactic (not just out of the kindness of their hearts haha). Never solely depend on a man (even an amazing HVM) because life is never guaranteed. It’s so much easier to reject LVM when you’re living independently. The only thing I’d disagree with is thinking we’re the equivalent of a female PU…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:50 PM
2

I’ve used Twitch to watch fights. Place is a jungle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:39 PM
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This is EXACTLY what I was trying to convey on my post. Basically no matter what awful thing has happened to you, it’s up to you to move past it. Same thing happened to me. You can get temporary sympathy from people when they know what you’ve been through, but that’s it. You’re the one who lives with it. I had people act like they cared, but in the end they could do NOTHING to help. That was up to me. What’s sad is that people don’t realize their problems w/ their love life, family, career etc. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:38 PM
5

Totally agree. Until yesterday (and continuing into today), everyone on FDS has been so positive and supportive of each other. We get enough shit from the bad guys out there, and should unite here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:25 PM
3

Did I have the “privilege” of not getting physically abused/sexually assaulted myself? Yeah, you must’ve missed that part as well as the rest of the point. Take this energy, and fight the real predators on Reddit. If you just want drama go comment on your TeenMom reality tv sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:19 PM
4

Nothing shocks me anymore. I think no gender is immune from nonsense. Even my dog was being petty AF the other day. Looked me dead ass in the eye, and did something naughty when he didn’t get what he wanted 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:14 PM
7

If anyone should be heard, it should be you! You’re the expert! You’re probably used to dealing with people of all stages of trauma/grief, and know the hostility just comes from unresolved issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:52 PM
5

How about those Costco rotisserie chickens though? I make a mean bone broth/soup out of them 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:49 PM
6

I don’t get it. I even upvoted her comments on my last post because they seemed helpful. Then I see her make her own post just to shame mine haha. I’m like wtf is this about, and then find this gem in her post history. Idc if someone criticizes me, but insult the whole FDS sub while being active on here? Nah, not letting that slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:46 PM
4

No worries. It’s been a little wild on here. You can read both posts, and then draw your own conclusion on the anti FDS comment. I welcome differing options/perspectives as long as you’re not some anti FDS secret agent haha 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:42 PM
4

Toxic indeed. Now I’m singing the Britney Spears song in my head 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:29 PM
5

I don’t want you to think this person was “dragged out/flogged” for no reason, and want to provide further context. The troll who was outed here tried to publicly humiliate myself and another commenter with wrongful character assassination. I welcome different perspectives, but won’t tolerate insults from someone who clearly has a hidden agenda and masquerades as a caring person on FDS (while painting me as the villain) I will always be compassionate and empathetic for women who’ve suffered abus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:05 PM
7

Seriously, they’re like “How to be a Predator 101”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:21 PM
7

Infiltrators will try to slither in, but I’ll drive out snakes like St. Patrick 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:13 PM
13

Being referred to as the female PUA is such an insult. Especially when you read the sort of vile shit they say on asktrp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:11 PM
8

Were you the therapist? You had a great comment, and I wish you didn’t delete it. I wanted to gain more insight from your professional perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:05 PM
12

For real. Girl tried to come for me on her last post thinking I wouldn’t call her out. How are you going to act like I don’t care for the women on here when you’re posting treacherous shit like this 🤣 PS RIP Charlie Murphy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:03 PM
24

Honest to God. I just don’t get the hypocrisy. It’s like posting on MeatLovers, and then preaching on VeganLife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:58 AM
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Agreed. I don’t follow FDS like the word of God and welcome other opinions, but on the other hand you won’t see me talking shit about FDS on other subs either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:57 AM
6

I hear ya on that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:48 AM
4

Seriously re-read my post when you’re in a better mindset. You’re fighting a different battle with the wrong person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:40 AM
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She wrote this whole summary of us after commenting as a “genuine” person on FDS multiple times. After talking shit about how toxic and depressing we are, she came back. She tried to come for me, but got caught. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:34 AM
13

You’re spot on. I also have a theory that men w/ small/thin penises want virgins so they don’t know what else is out there 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:07 AM
4

Thank you!!! I’m glad you see the big picture, and the point made. I love “this is not my fault, but it IS my problem”. It’s a way to take control back, and move on. 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:04 AM
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Take a breath, and try to read my post objectively. I may have been a physical victim, but refuse to still remain one mentally. Why are you upset that I’ve moved past trauma, and am trying to help others? I try to learn something from every experience. I didn’t agree w/ the instructors style/approach, BUT took his message and put a more productive spin on it. I’m more concerned with overcoming past trauma than holding onto it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:01 AM
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It’s fascinating isn’t it. I believe the commenter could be a woman (or identifies as one), but can’t understand why she’s trashing FDS one minute and acting like Mother Theresa on here the next. I hate snakes regardless of gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:56 AM
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Seriously. I’m the “Miss Tough Love” she’s referring to in her last post. Don’t care that she disagrees w/ my content, but don’t act like you’re the “compassionate” one when you just trashed FDS a few days ago 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:48 AM
9

Haha spot on 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:21 AM
1

Exactlyyyy🤘👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:28 AM
2

That’s awful. My little guy just turned 14 yesterday. Was fixed early, and still humps his stuffed animal almost daily. It gets out his frustration, and he’s never destroyed anything because of it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:53 AM
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Ikr! this poor girl probably felt shame, embarrassment, etc. thinking it was her fault (not realizing the monster she was dealing with). These guys are the lowest of the low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:08 AM
4

What do you think of Cesar Milan? People either love or hate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:49 AM
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This story disgusts me. She’s the innocent “good girl” all of these men say they want to marry, but look what still happens. This POS really took it to the point of engagement just to take her virginity. I hope she kept the ring and sold it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:38 AM
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Way to call me out in a passive aggressive manner, and miss the ENTIRE point of my post. Grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:05 AM
2

Hell yeah, that’s the spirit! My bad, I thought it was sarcasm at first like you thought I was saying people could wish it away or something haha. Glad you’re a fighter too, and know it’s hard work to get past it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:57 AM
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Believe me this was my reaction at first. This was coming there after a recent sexual assault by someone I knew for years. After that attack, I transformed myself into a gladiator (survival/fight training galore). I will kill someone w/ my bare hands before it happens again. What I didn’t count on was how much of an emotional toll it took, and how it seeped into other areas. It took a lot of time and tough love, but I learned how to heal and moved forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:20 AM
2

We were there for a few days, and they gradually shifted into this area after hours and hours of the program. It was emotionally exhausting, and complete strangers opened up to each other more than they would to people they knew. It was ridiculously intense. I watched confident male CEO’s turn into puddles. No one left unchanged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:03 AM
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I’m not talking about some hippie bullshit where good vibes cure all. I’m talking about if you break your leg, YOU feel the pain. If you have cancer, YOU go through chemo. PS Can’t tell if you’re trying to give me shit or if I’m just hungry 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:53 AM
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Thanks Sarah, I’m glad you got the point I was trying to make (instead of focusing on how much of an asshole the guy was). I’d rather it get women thinking, and examine how past trauma has affected their romantic relationships. This is how you break the PickMe cycle by learning why things happened and how to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:50 AM
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It’s the sad truth. No matter how bad it gets, you’re the only one who has to deal with it. Take illness/injury for example. You’ll get compassion/sympathy from fam & friends, but at the end of the day you’re the one who suffers with the pain and consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:40 AM
5

My last two teams have been all male. They think you’ll be a playful dolphin until they see the shark come out haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:33 AM
7

Dealing with the post trauma aftermath is even worse than the initial act. It will stay with us for the rest of our lives, and the only thing positive to come out of it is by supporting other women. Whether it’s stopping potential abuse by educating w/ warning signs or helping those after the experience. Men will never be able to understand the significance of these events, and therefore we can only help each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:28 AM
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Haha you’re right, and would probably do the PP for the guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:53 AM
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Same. You probably learned like I did that no matter how positive and resilient you are, it doesn’t matter if you stick around those who aren’t. You gotta break the cycle before it breaks you! PS I’ll have to check out that MadTV clip 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:36 AM
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I hear you on this. At first, it definitely seemed like another “mind over matter/toughen up” pep talk. That style is so not helpful for dealing w/ trauma, and got people all fired up. Later on when my wounds weren’t as fresh, I realized that if you let trauma define you, it destroys you. It takes awhile to get to that stage, but a hard lesson you need to learn. Edit/Update: Lots of comments coming in, and will just put a related response here. I’ve experienced both physical and sexual trauma my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:33 AM
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Thank you. Since you’re a therapist, you probably understand more than anyone that delivery trumps the message. His delivery was blunt and a little too raw at times so not everyone could process the point without it triggering their own emotions. I took in the lesson, but wanted to improve the message by replacing “who cares?” w/ “so what now?”. It’s more positive, and gets you thinking instead of on the defense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:21 AM
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Would you let a male co-worker take credit for your idea during a presentation? Of course not. Never give a man glory at your expense. They’ll never take pride in it, and will sometimes resent you for the favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:53 PM
16

Yeah, he wants you to “teach him salsa” alright. 5 minutes into dancing, he leads you into the bedroom 💃🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 10:44 PM
6

I remember this MH video from a year ago. Lots of “OMG that’s TOTALLY my relationship right now!” sorta talk. It was PickMe-palooza in the comments. Starts off with 1-2 sentences in the beginning affirming bad behavior, but then a paragraph of justifying current LVM’s similar actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:58 PM
3

That song at the end took me back to the “Set it Off” scene. Movie still hits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 08:24 PM
2

I read in an earlier comment that you already met the bf in person. Tell her that there’s no need for anyone to have pictures of each other, and you’re not interested in neither of them sexually. End of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:11 AM
12

Shetlands are pretty cute though 🐴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:48 AM
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Check out one of my old posts. Discussing marriage/children is just another form of dirty talk for them. It’s maddening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 03:16 AM
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If you act like an animal, you should be treated like one. Dudes think they’re Clydesdales when they’re Shetland ponies 🤏🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:03 AM
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This is a weird situation all around. Since you’re in your early 30’s (and she’s a close acquaintance), this seems more like a threesome motive vs some more sinister options. You’ve been chatting w/ her on Facebook so I assume she already has access to a picture(s) of you anyway. Usually when you’re being solicited for a threesome by a woman, they like to put their feelings out first (especially if there’s added risk like living in the same building). Very strange to go straight to a pic request…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:27 AM
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I can bet that either one (or both) of those areas could use a boost. They’re the only parts that make a man feel “objectified”, and more of these creeps should get a dose of their own medicine. Virtual convos make men feel like they can dehumanize women whenever they’re in the mood. If you’re not on board, you can’t take a joke (or a dick) because only a lesbian would be mad. 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:05 AM
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I would’ve said “Which area would you rather add inches to...height or penis? I want to see how comfortable you are with your body” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:53 PM
4

Bet 12-14 is the norm nowadays (maybe younger)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:54 PM
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No. They’re telling him that porn is the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:44 PM
12

Let the ex collect her participation trophy 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:55 PM
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I read through the comments, and the OP is 16. There’s a lot of men who recommended giving up porn as a solution so maybe he’ll learn why it’s a problem while he’s still young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:34 PM
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I’ve noticed that most men are great at two things: Setting up TV’s and hiding their porn history. It would be easier to find out if they’re cheating vs what porn they’re looking at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:22 AM
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He hasn’t watched porn in over 14 years, yet still has problems from it? Including a teen fetish, a wandering eye and general objectification of women? (I have a strong hunch that he’s still watching, and there’s a bigger problem below)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:46 AM
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You’ll find about 500 from TRP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:08 AM
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10 days ago, you were debating on finding another HVM to have a baby with. Looks like you’re going to stick it out w/ the hubby, but withhold sex for 6 months (while he’s giving up porn). Also he needs to provide $10k before you’ll sleep with him again, and money is tight at the moment. 😲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 06:44 AM
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You need to be your own rock. A man should be complementary to your life, not someone who completes it. Here’s a hard lesson I learned. You can find your absolute soulmate, and the next moment they’re dead. You need to be okay with living on your own, and supporting yourself. Burn the boats before it’s your own Viking funeral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:10 PM
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I’m a big advocate on “seeing is believing”, and think it applies to views on FDS and porn. For example, I believe FDS is most effective when you’re in the right mindset (mentally strong, and emotionally healthy), and have gained enough experience with men to be able to distinguish good vs bad behavior. Some of the younger newbies aren’t there yet, and it shows as insecurity, self doubt and/or denial in their posts asking for help. You know what’s sad? Their self esteem is tied into societal pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:00 PM
15

I’m going to help you get a grip (because you asked for it). First, this guy sucks (just like the 4 other men you mention on your linked post 2 days ago). I think you have a more important issue to address at the moment, finding a new job. On the same day that you got fired, your post was based on romantic troubles and now they’ve escalated two days later. I know it’s tough and everything is emotional right now, but it’s the wrong distraction that will only make you feel worse. Right now you sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:58 PM
2

What time was your original date, and when did he change it to a late night drink option? And just to clarify, he still hasn’t left your location to travel for the funeral?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:37 PM
37

Dick’s Last Resort 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:37 AM
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The “guess not” text was a psycho giveaway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:40 AM
98

The only thing that made me laugh harder than your comment was the one above it. “Man of the House” 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:38 AM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Someone had to say it. OP’s OCD history gave me anxiety, and posting the same thing 20x to 10 different subs isn’t healthy. I kinda don’t blame the guy for keeping a passcode on his phone. She’d probably obsess over his LinkedIn connections or some other trivial matter. I’d recommend a year of being single while working on self improvement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 07:21 AM
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When is porn a problem? -Psychology Today Interesting article about porn use in relationships (1 year+) within 18-35 age range. 95% of men admitted to watching porn within the last 6 months. Having children also decreased porn use (only because it’s harder to watch kids and kink at the same time)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:25 AM
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It’s this simple. He asks “Do you want to hangout?” You reply “Are you asking me on a date?” That’s it. He’ll either confirm or clarify, then you act accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:44 AM
2

Hahahaha nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:23 AM
2

I think I remember that episode. They put her in a sexy LBD right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:17 AM
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It’s a virtual circle jerk and fetish freak show. If you’re kinky, you’re better off going on Eharmony and writing “Looking for a marriage minded masochist” .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:27 AM
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More than opinions, you’ll get cold hard facts on here. The most manipulative, abusive and controlling men will hide their traits under their kinks. I’d rather you learn that reality online than out in the field. Edit to your edit: Watching porn and engaging in soft BDSM will not prepare you for the filth you’ll encounter in that community. This is coming from someone who is FAR from vanilla, and has sexual Mediterranean blood running through her veins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:18 AM
8

Kik is for creeps, and Snap is for sexting 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:07 AM
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Not to be an asshole, but you need some serious tough love before you get yourself in a bad situation. I’m going to be blunt because I don’t think you realize how dangerous the kink community is, and you’re definitely not prepared for it. As soon as I read this, I thought are they on Adult Friend Finder, and was basically right since it’s FetLife. You cannot go into highly sexual avenues like this, and still expect to follow FDS. This guy couldn’t wait 1 sentence before giving off a sexual vibe.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:04 AM
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It’s always fun to brainstorm, and you might just find something in common!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 09:20 PM
13

Since this is your co-worker you’re going to have to treat this like a GoT plot. Guys turn into Littlefinger at work when you reject them, and will be petty for revenge. HR always acts like they have your best interest and it’s safe to report, but you’d be surprised. I had one company hire an employee with a known assault record, yet defended him when he repeated violent behavior. Another rejected male coworker did everything he could to make office life difficult, and ruin a promotion. The way …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 09:14 PM
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Totally agree. He was trying to do something “fun/different”, but was a gentleman after learning it wasn’t your cup of tea. On the date, try to discover what other types of adventurous activities you both enjoy. That way he’ll have another idea for the 2nd date, and you’ll both look forward to it 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:44 PM
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Exactly! The fact that these 3 subjects are shared so casually in the relationship thread just shows you how depraved the world has become. The taboo and grotesque has become normal. Another popular trend that has been dominating porn is the step family kink. This is something women should be aware of when blending families, especially when introducing pre teen step sisters/brothers. It’s been so normalized online that they think it’s perfectly fine to lust after, and have sexual encounters w/ t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:42 PM
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It’s like they think they’re a celebrity doing a pop up concert or book signing. No one is going to drop everything so you can have a quick ONS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:59 PM
7

Damn...the phone cover as a prop too! Animals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:15 PM
15

There were 3 gross posts next to each other in the relationship advice sub. It’s basically saying if this is what “dating” is, it needs to die. All of these are disgustingly LV, and seemed related in the awful category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:14 PM
13

When they’re that good in that area, they’re usually bad in another. There’s always a catch! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 10:02 AM
18

Orgasm IOU’s 🙄 They always talk a big game, but then pop in 2 minutes. It’s not worth getting all dolled up unless they can deliver 3 rounds 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:44 AM
8

Write back “Anything else I should know?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:35 AM
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Never faked it, and never will. I always get on top first so I can cum before they do. If they get close I’ll say “don’t you fucking dare cum right now” so they know their mission isn’t anywhere close to complete. You always want to finish strong in the first round. Otherwise they’ll promise you “next time baby” or “give me a little bit, babe”. Then you’re waiting around for a half hard dick where he tries to persuade you to blow him until he can get it up again. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:21 AM
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I had that happen to me, as well meeting and bonding with their parents. Then he urged me to change my relationship status on Facebook, and decided to break up the day before my birthday. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:39 AM
14

That’s a great screening question. Hey Chad, Are you legally able to travel outside the state/country? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:32 AM
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Literally ANYTHING. This includes promising marriage to pretending they’re gay to get into your inner circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:29 AM
1

This reminds me of the expression “You can go shit in your hat” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:03 AM
13

Snap Maps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:51 AM
2

S1 was better, but still good. It had this example of a rich intellectual who gets off dismantling women through philosophical debates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:48 AM
2

Have you seen “Killing Eve”? The 2nd season in particular?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:19 AM
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You told him when you were available, and he didn’t care enough to set up a date. Also, don’t bother with replies like “guess you were too busy” etc. He won’t feel bad or give AF, so you shouldn’t either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:11 AM
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I’m in my 30’s, Northeast. I have solid friends, but some of them seemed to settle for one reason or another. If you or any other local FDS gals are looking for a partner in crime, I’m down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:03 AM
1

On point 🤘👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 10:03 PM
2

You know what’s crazy? Guys like when you’re into the same “cool” things they are, BUT if you know more than them on that subject, they HATE it. Guys can get mean when you beat them at something or have an answer they didn’t. This is the sweet spot: They want you to know “enough” so they don’t have to explain it to you, but not enough that you know better than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 10:02 PM
2

It makes me sad too, but it also took me awhile to connect the dots. It’s easier said than done, and we’ve all done things to make others happy. If a parent shows pride or joy from our behavior, we’re more likely to continue it. In comparison, if a parent shows anger or disappointment, we tend to carry that into other areas of our life without even knowing why. Crazy huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:53 PM
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Right on. This quote touches on my main point that the “cool girl” is a pretender. You can like some of the “cool” things your guy enjoys, BUT if you’re doing it just to please him that’s “cool girl” behavior. Women shouldn’t have to feel like they need to do something they’re uncomfortable with to impress or hold onto a guy. Don’t worry about what another girl did (or might do) for your guy. She’s not you, and it doesn’t matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:44 PM
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It’s a sad truth once you realize it. I gave two very tame childhood examples to keep it relatable to a general audience, but it’s much darker than that. Once you identify more traumatic experiences in your life, and how they related to future acts, it’s eye opening. I see so many women on here wondering how they can change their current relationships with men, but unable to see how they keep repeating history. You can’t live a healthy life until you’ve healed from your past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:29 PM
7

That’s right. Since you’ll never be able to please everyone, you might as well pleasure yourself 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:41 AM
6

Honesty is the best policy, but tact is crucial for a successful delivery. It’s a delicate dance that takes time to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:28 AM
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Because they sometimes take attention away from them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:55 AM
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Notice how he says “snap me if you prefer”. No happiharry, that’s what YOU prefer so you can ask for sexy pics while your wife is making dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:22 AM
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Unfortunately it’s not enough anymore because “cool girl” behavior is associated w/ pretending to be into male focused activities. I genuinely enjoy MMA and eating chicken wings just by myself, but if I only enjoyed it because of a guy that’s “cool girl” behavior. I’ll use a better example, I enjoy watching football w/ fam & friends, but I wouldn’t put up with watching RedZone all day w/ a bf. Being into cool things can definitely get you into cool girl territory if you’re not careful. It’s a fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:12 AM
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It takes a long time to truly be comfortable with yourself, and genuinely not give AF. The more activities you can do on your own the better. Not everyone is going to love what you love, and if you put off an adventure waiting for someone to join you, the day may never come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 12:59 AM
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Gaming (like sports in general) can be an unwelcoming environment for females. Women often have to “prove” themselves more than men to even get a seat at the table. This should only be done with skill, and not at the expense of another woman. Picking on other girls who are trying to participate is cruel, and lets men take women in general less seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 12:01 AM
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It’s truly the key to happiness (in every area of your life).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:15 PM
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Classic creep trying to avoid a paper trail by preferring to be a pervert in person. If it isn’t appropriate by SMS, that should tell you enough about his intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:25 AM
42

There are SO MANY ways that men create a false sense of intimacy. These tactics work because they mimic what you’d expect an actual decent HVM to do. Text game is easier to spot because actions speak louder than words, but actions can be misleading as well. For example, men have no problem bringing you around fam/friends even if you’re not gf potential. Attaching additional emotional meaning into simple physical acts is what gets you in trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:38 AM
3

Gluten is in everything including soy sauce. People don’t realize that a typical gluten free food can be prepared w/ gluten or exposed to it. Every time I find a restaurant that has a dedicated fryer, and I can get non contaminated fries I am overcome with joy. Constant at home meal prep sucks, but dining out is always risky. PS Did you get tested for celiac or see an allergist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:44 PM
5

I’m bringing back the roaring 20’s. Except I’m the female Al Capone (sans syphilis of course) 🤣😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:36 PM
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Religious Pick Meishas should be referred to as Pick Mary’s. This subset is more dangerous than your average Pick Miesha because she believes her behavior is righteous and serving a higher power. She will even spread these beliefs to other women, and encourage them to view their husbands as domestic deities. Note to Shade: If the majority of men acted more like Jesus than Judas, maybe we’d really gather in these lady circles and worship them as such. PS Being a good Christian woman doesn’t equat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 08:19 PM
20

Riddle me this... How many of our ex-boyfriends would allow us to continue living w/ them for 7 months post break-up WITHOUT giving them sex and/or rent money?? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 07:21 PM
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I have celiac disease, and gluten exposure has significantly damaged my small intestine from a late diagnosis. Not sure what’s involved w/ your gluten intolerance, but any negative response is enough to just give it up. If you’re going to be GF, stay GF because otherwise it’s like casually smoking (still bad for you, and harder to fight cravings). That way if you commit to a GF lifestyle, you can treat it as a gluten allergy. If a guy still has a problem w/ an allergy or if you need to justify y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:33 AM
1

I didn’t, but that story sounds amazing. It just goes to show you that if a man wants to make an effort he will (no matter the circumstances).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:41 PM
1

This guy could’ve bought a gold band or one w/ a gemstone for under $60. His last minute purchase of a ring w/fake stones (in the wrong metal) for his gemstone loving gf speaks volumes. A HVM doesn’t need to be rich, but needs to show effort. Even if money was so tight that the OP’s bf was homeless, he could collect cans until he had enough for a pawn store ring. A stand up guy would hustle to TRY to make his fiancé happy, even if he had to sell personal items or make other sacrifices to show fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 10:05 PM
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Even if he got a “free” tattoo in jail, he’d have to trade $60+ worth of goods and/or “services” to get it 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:34 PM
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Thanks NC 😎. Here’s another one in case OP is still reading, but not responding. If your man bought NBA 2K20 in early Sept. 2019, it cost $59.99 (PS4/XBox/Nintendo). If you don’t think you’re worth more than 1 video game, you’ve already played yourself. If by chance your bf doesn’t play video games, does he smoke, drink, gamble or has one or more tattoos? (Do you see where this is going yet?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:24 PM
1

Future POS + ____ (City/Age) = New Contact 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:56 AM
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Start by reading all of the material in the sidebar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:22 AM
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OP, let’s get real and put things in perspective. Which gaming console does your 30 yo bf currently own, and how many games are in the media stand? Tell me a few of the titles too, and how many were purchased this year. Bonus points: If you tell us what you got him for Xmas vs your ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 04:20 AM
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I agree with the majority of this (especially for being pro-MMA), but disagree on one of the gun tips. Never tell men you’re well armed, and/or carrying on a date. In the event of an attack, you want the element of surprise. Also, if he knows you’re holding he could attempt to take your weapon and use it on you. I’ve done survival training, and fighting over control of a weapon is not a position you want to be in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:56 AM
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I’m going to try to help, but the process isn’t easy. You say that you “shouldn’t be turned on by misogynistic kinks” as in you are, but are also ashamed of it. Is that the case or were you only doing it to appease your bf? It makes a huge difference if it’s just him vs both of you when changing a behavior/abandoning a fetish mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:15 AM
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This movie had so many “Pick-Meisha” do’s & don’ts that it should be recommended viewing. Here’s a few examples: Adam Driver’s main argument during the fight scene was “he was a hot shit director, and COULD’VE been fucking tons of girls” if it wasn’t for his pesky marriage. Well AD, you DID screw another girl. The classic stage hand PM who realized that she was only good enough to bang when he was “trapped” in his marriage. Now that he was separated (and more or less single), he had no use for t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:36 PM
15

“Baby #12” that is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:06 PM
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His kink is that his date thinks he’s a “good guy” and “boyfriend material” while he has another girl’s spit still on his dick 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:07 AM
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As disgusting as this chode is, it’s a perfect example of how the “Prince Charming” you’re dating can still be a complete toad inside. I’m going to re-read this before every 3rd/4th date as a reminder to always keep my romantic feelings in check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:45 PM
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That’s another red flag. Him trying to have control over what you eat. Unhealthy food is usually cheaper so I’m surprised his bum ass didn’t suggest McDonald’s haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 05:09 AM
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Guys always offer to help until you ask for it. How many times have we all heard “Let me know if you need anything”. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:10 AM
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If he’s turning her down $10 because it’s for frivolous mall food, I’d ask for $100 instead. You know, for the groceries HE told her he’d pay for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:54 AM
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Most dominants don’t ask like this (or need to ask this). Guys who ask this question have sub tendencies where they’re putting their feelers out. Since there’s a lot of submissive men who are also “alpha in business” they can tip toe around their true desires. When your date said he “thinks” you’re dominant, it’s because he wants that to be the answer. This trick works w/ other subjects too. Like “Oh I bet you’re really into ___” (insert a trait they have/or desired kink)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:14 AM
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90% of men who ask this question are submissive. The other 10% are just ill-mannered and/or basic perverts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:38 AM
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Not necessarily true. Men compartmentalize their female relationships, and “outside” girls are fair game. Men will even use their female relatives/friends as pawns to appear more trustworthy and build rapport w/ girls they’re interested in. (I kid you not) However, if they have a sister it puts things in perspective. When guys get out of line and you say “What would you do if someone said this to your sister?”, they know they f’d up. One benefit of guys with sisters is that they know how long it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:12 PM
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I’d like to have a Mythbusters style experiment, and use them on a thick slab of meat. Just for fun, but to measure the damage on object vs impact on hand. In a street fight, I’d imagine that you would need to keep your fist clenched to hold in place. Loosen your grip, and they could spin a little (or a lot) turning the spikes towards you. You’d have the highest chance of success w/ the initial punch, but that depends on accuracy. If you’re within punching distance, your opponent/assailant will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:53 PM
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You’re more likely to damage/lose your keys during an attack. Also, putting a regular key between your knuckles won’t stick out/hurt much. Your cat spiked ring should be separated from your regular keys. I’d consider it as a pinkie ring haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:18 PM
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Exactly! It’s like they made it through their whole lives without getting a dodgeball thrown at their face or being called an asshole 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:46 AM
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No shit. Re-read where I advocate that women learn as much self defense as possible. There’s also a difference with knowing how to defend yourself, but being smart enough to size up your opponent and act accordingly. Fight to the death if you need to, but if you have a window of opportunity to escape, you take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:25 AM
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I read the stories before including them. Re-read my post because you missed the main point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:26 AM
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Damn. No one is safe out there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:48 AM
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I never heard of any nun sex scandals so I guess that’s the last wholesome role in religion. I literally can’t think of ANY profession that hasn’t been corrupted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:28 AM
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Haha sad, but true. Just proof that nothing is sacred anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:51 AM
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Every industry has malicious males, including the most wholesome profession (ministry).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:28 AM
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Oh shit, an FDS sister that’s also into MMA?!? You’re like the unicorn friend I’ve been searching for!! Thanks for sharing your expertise and similar perspective. I agree entirely that the best action is avoiding risk, and doing what you need to do to escape. Every time I hear the “I’ll just use my keys as a weapon” statement, I cringe and have to correct them. I could write a full page about why it’s a horrible idea, but the main point is if you’re close enough to stab someone with your keys, y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 09:30 PM
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I want to give women advice that could save their lives. Learn as much self defense as possible, but use it as a last resort when it comes to fighting a man. This is coming from someone who’s trained w/ one of the toughest women in MMA and practices Muay Thai. Even after learning Krav Maga, I’d still try to avoid a gun/knife fight. I try to train with larger male friends (LHW) to practice against real world attacks, and get humbled every single time. Polyana was lucky that this altercation didn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:44 PM
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Hahaha ikr. The 1st season was the best, and the 3rd has been my least fav.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:14 PM
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Yup! I’m a Nick Kroll fan in general, and am a fan of Maury the hormone monster as well 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:12 PM
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He was hoping you’d say “Awww I really wanted to see you too. Want me to come over with some Gatorade?” Aka sweatpants & sex day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:34 AM
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Beach boy is a Red Tide alert
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:30 AM
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Only if you’re a bad boy 😱.. If you’re lucky it won’t be a kill shot, and I’ll settle on your dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:26 AM
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“You’re lucky I don’t use the spoon to melon ball your eyes out” (followed by jk sweetie) 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:22 AM
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Did you catch the “Dirty Harry” reference? Also, I’d never tell a guy I was carrying on a date. I don’t bring weapons on dates so that they’ll never be used on me. They’re either catching elbows/knees or choked to death if necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:11 AM
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Liam Neeson in Taken. Keanu Reeves in John Wick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:46 AM
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This is how you respond.... “You've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel lucky?' Well, do you, punk?" Bonus points if you’re holding a .44 Mag 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:41 AM
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Thank you! I knew that they’d be temptations galore last night, and better to drunk message me than some guy you wouldn’t message sober 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:45 AM
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We were bound to have some fallen FDS soldiers on NYE, and I tried to prevent casualties 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 02:43 AM
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This is a loaded one, and can have several meanings (good & bad) depending on the guy. The best way to decipher this is to learn about his family, and how it shaped his views on what’s ideal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 01:02 AM
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Whenever I get some version of this, I love pressing for clarification. (Ex: Oh really? How so?) If the answer isn’t something unique to me, I know I’m no different than the other girls he used this on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:56 AM
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You forgot “hey sexy/gorgeous” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:52 AM
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You must’ve not seen my post yesterday. You could’ve been saved 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:49 AM
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🤘😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:51 PM
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This is on point, and a perfect starter pack 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:04 PM
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You know what’s crazy? Fathers can transform their daughters into HVW for FREE by leading by example. Show her how a HVM behaves when she’s young so she’ll know the difference between a LVM. Teach your children what love and respect looks like so they can carry it into adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:35 PM
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Have you ever mixed it with apple cider? I heard it’s pretty good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:22 PM
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No problem! Hope he saw you smiling/laughing looking at your phone while you read the post. Trust me, he saw you AND kept his eyes on you. I learned from working with all men that one of their greatest talents is the art of watching a girl without them noticing. There are so many levels between creepily staring to subtlety checking you out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:21 PM
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Haha gotcha. A Massachusetts 8 is a New Hampshire 10 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:12 PM
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I wonder if men would pay $1,000 to learn how to become better husbands from a female led workshop 🤔. If we ever have another male reader open house, this would be my question... NOT including spending money on yourself that directly improves your chances to get laid, HOW have you invested in becoming a better partner? Both men and women spend time/money on self improvement,yet it seems only women are expected to learn how they can ALSO improve themselves for men. I’d love to learn how men are p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 06:57 PM
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Hahahaha the double entendre has tripled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 06:06 PM
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A haggard Hardy? You didn’t miss out on much, and glad you got home safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:10 PM
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Thanks, and glad you got the reference! Most people probably just assume I’m a perv 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:09 PM
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FDS crisis hotline is anonymous and confidential, but I can report that I didn’t have any inappropriate or malicious messages come through. A great start to the new year!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:05 PM
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To you as well!! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:02 PM
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If you drank Fireball without getting naughty thoughts, I’m impressed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:02 PM
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This is the “danger zone/bewitching hour” for drunken hookups. Stay strong ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 07:24 AM
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Haha peace be with you! PS Has anyone here watched “New Years Evil”? It’s a corny horror movie where the villain blames women for making him want to kill them 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:43 AM
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Awww thanks! HNY to you too!! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 04:10 AM
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He seems like the kind of guy who goes to Pilates to satisfy his camel toe fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:10 PM
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Lots of “HNY, wyd 😃” texts about to be unleashed haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:13 PM
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I listened while cooking/meal prep, and found it made the time go by quicker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:53 AM
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Haha too late, you let the cat out of the bag. Now you gotta listen after creating this post. Besides, you know how much toxic bs I had to wade through to find their holy grail 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:39 AM
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There’s 22 videos , but they start here https://youtu.be/7UP4Cv7UQSo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:11 AM
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Don’t text him, and he should’ve already messaged you. He’ll probably hit you up after midnight on NYE hoping his ball(s) will drop too 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:03 AM
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Thanks for the shoutout, and glad it helped. Here’s another tip for those interested, the whole book is available on YouTube and additional related content will come up as suggested. If you’re going to listen, be prepared for a rollercoaster of emotions. During some parts you’ll think that’s great advice (ex general tips for boosting self confidence, but other times you’ll be rolling your eyes or laughing every time they mention “Don Juan”. Go in with a clear head, and try to process the content…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:48 AM
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Without the commas, I just saw “underwear lock”. Still a good idea if you’re prone to making bad NYE decisions 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:11 PM
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Save them for your family. Your mom knows your medical history/allergies so it’s ok. God forbid you give them to someone, and they have a bad reaction. Worst case, you (or most likely your mom) gets in trouble for distributing the medication. Besides, illnesses can be tricky. I just went through two different antibiotics for pneumonia, and still didn’t respond to treatment. I can tell you have a big heart, but think about how this could do more harm than good. Even if the meds were for a more de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:19 PM
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If the roles were reversed (OP was sick), I’d still recommend the same. I’ve had guys offer to “take care of me” when I’m sick, and think you’ll get naked for bringing ginger ale 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:32 AM
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Haha can you tell I’m American, and the process is a pain in the ass 😉. Regardless, even if they were sold in vending machines here, I still wouldn’t go to his place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:08 AM
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How are you bringing him antibiotics? If he needed antibiotics that means he’d be treated by a medical professional, and get them himself the same day. Did you mean that you planned to bring him cold meds? He can get those himself or by family/friends. What he’s hoping from you is chicken soup and a bj. Then you’re fast tracked to low effort city, and you’ll be hearing “come over” instead of him asking you out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:38 AM
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I just poked around that sub, and it’s a headache inducing dumpster fire. They’re obsessed w/ FDS, and most of their posts distort content from the sub to spin their own agenda. Meanwhile, they admit that they’re more superficial than we could ever dream of, yet no one bats an eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:24 AM
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Whether they’re celebrities or average joes, some guys can not handle attention being spent on their kids instead of them. This is especially if the gf/wife doted on them before kids, and then they’re not the #1 focus anymore. Then their frustration seeps out in little ways, and they create nonsensical problems as a result (ex. Using Band-aids to say you don’t care enough about me)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:54 AM
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I’m in tech/business, and it’s crazy how it seeps out into the workplace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:51 PM
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Totally agree. Material like this just adds fuel to the fire. I found about about FDS when toxic male subs were referring to the women here as evil c*nts, and would use posts like this to support their agenda. Don’t let them use FDS content as propaganda, and give them another excuse to validate their bad behavior. When people research this sub, they should see that our main goal is empowering women, not manipulating men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:03 PM
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It makes you realize that some of them genuinely want to destroy us for how we’ve “hurt” them. You start analyzing their “tactics”, and compare them to the weird male behavior you’ve encountered. It makes me sick knowing guys who had malicious intent during dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:18 PM
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You’ll start recognizing it more and more in conversation. It’s nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 09:09 AM
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They also describe how their porn use has affected their relationships and views on women. It gives you perspective into their minds, and how men are wired. They seem genuine too, and not full of that white knight bs as a trick to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 08:00 AM
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They think players are unsophisticated, too obvious/in your face. PUA’s think they’re more suave and above typical men. Before FDS, I looked into a lot of PUA/RP/MGTOW material as a proactive approach. Depending on how far the rabbit hole you get it can be quite terrifying learning of the hatred within. On FDS we might mock LVM behavior, but we never discuss how we can physically harm the opposite sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:20 AM
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Look into “The Book of Pook”. They consider players as inferior, and as a completely different animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:51 AM
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Men just like strange. It’s that simple. They will look at and try to bang anything that’s different. The girl can be prettier, uglier, skinnier, fatter than his gf/wife. It doesn’t matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:42 AM
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It’s fun to grow plants that you can eat, and incorporate into your cooking. Or at least to make mojitos haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:25 AM
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PUA can work on anyone because there’s so many levels of it, and can be mixed with authenticity. PUA’s are different from typical players. Their biggest con is tricking women that they want relationships/marriage/family in order to sleep with them or keep them as plates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:09 AM
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Open minded like being cut open for a lobotomy 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:24 AM
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You only “let” him do whatever YOU want. 1st date or 9th, it doesn’t matter. Don’t worry about the kind of girl he thinks you are from a sexual act. Worry about if he’s the kind of guy you want to be intimate with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:21 AM
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What interests YOU, and what have you always wanted to try? Discover new activities you can do by yourself, and become the most interesting person you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:07 AM
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Guys get the death grip, and girls get desensitized to vibrators. Dudes think FDS is female red pill, but we’re more comparable as a female no fap group. The no fap guys are into self improvement, realize the negative effects of porn, and are focused on creating better sexual relationships IRL. Sounds like us 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:51 AM
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I’d love to have a convo on how porn addiction affects women differently than men. I’ll admit that I went down a dark path, and it negatively affected my body and mind. One thing I noticed is that if you keep hearing degrading language used over and over, you’re more likely to subconsciously accept LVM behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:39 AM
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I could give you a list of potential activities, but I’ll give you a small tip that will make a huge difference. Stay off Facebook/Instagram. Seeing constant announcements of new relationships, engagements, gender reveals, etc. can sometimes be overwhelming. You can be happy for others, but still sad if you’re longing to reach the same milestone. Even if you know your cousin settled on some bum, you can still be stressed from family pressure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:23 AM
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No emotional cheating huh? Does that include watching a Netflix series behind their back? “But babyyyyy, I only sucked their dick. It’s not like we watched “Black Mirror” together!” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:58 AM
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What a smooth transition 🙄 Going from denim jackets to nudes makes me think he was watching porn during your chat. They switch topics quickly when they’re masturbating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:50 AM
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I’d tie him up to the bed, get him rock hard, and then say “haha you thought I was going to blow you”. Then I’d leave him there for 6 hours for each year of my life wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 01:13 AM
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I’m still waiting to see Cole/Maria appear. Also can’t believe that Michael/Angela made it past “Before the 90 days”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:02 PM
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Reminds me of the guys who have “generous for the right woman” on their profiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:31 PM
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Meanwhile, she brings him to that shithole shed, and is mad that he doesn’t think it’s suitable to sleep in. Now she’s going to leave him in the US for a month while she goes to CR to learn herbalism 🙄. So they have even less time to get their shit together, and plan a wedding. This girl needs to get her life in order before dating, never mind marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:12 PM
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Bet his cum tastes like candy, and his penis smells like pumpkin pie 🙄 Not for nothing, but if he was that repulsed he wouldn’t have married her. Now 6 years later he doesn’t like her ugly vag. He’s probably cheating or wants to, and is starting to create problems as a reason to stray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:49 AM
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“You shouldn’t need my money, but I’m happy to buy you a drink 😘” WOW thanks Dan!!! Cheapo creepo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:27 AM
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I’m on episode 1, and this cast is already cringe. Robert is king of the bums, and Tania is decorating her hotel room w/ condoms and a baby vibrator. 🤣 Now on episode 2, and Tania is really bringing flowers and throwing petals all over the lobby. She’s a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:12 AM
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I’m down. Live commentary through Periscope?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:46 AM
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There should be a FDS Pillow Talk series that breaks down each red flag moment. Thanks for reminding me that there’s a new season!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:21 AM
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Same! This is what happens when you go against your better judgement, and “take chances” on guys you normally wouldn’t date. Dudes think we only pick tall rich Chad’s, but we’re more accepting than they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:10 AM
5

They all want babies until you tell them you’re late. He’s dead to me, and not coming back. I’m sharing these texts so another girl doesn’t fall for similar lines, and actually believes him before it’s too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:59 PM
3

I feel like they pull this shit to try to lower your guard. Twist it so you’ll seem like you’re overthinking/jaded if you don’t give THEM a chance because they’re so different. Sureeeee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:11 PM
4

You wouldn’t believe how many requests I get for this. Probably because I’m into MMA, and they want to get choked while feeling my boobs on their heads 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:53 PM
2

Why thank you! If they want the “Big Love”, I get to be Bill Paxton haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:50 PM
1

I’d agree on that, but he played the long game. Dated in 2017, ignored his contact in 2018, and he spent Feb-Aug of 2019 convincing me he was marriage material. Figured this guy had to be serious if he spent this much time pursuing me, but nope not the case. Lesson learned. I’m over it, but thought it could help other ladies see from my mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:49 PM
6

It sure is. There’s nothing they won’t say or do to get what they want. Lesson learned. No more second chances....ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:18 AM
9

IKR. This coming from a guy who reminded me of his science background, and how intelligent he was. Another “I’m not like other guys” guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:09 AM
23

Let’s hope the dickhead dynasty dies with him 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:55 AM
51

His male bloodline dating back to 1715 will die if he doesn’t produce a son. He showed me the ancestry report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:51 AM
36

Good catch. Did you like the line about how he doesn’t have to “pretend” with me, and “that’s always been the best part of you for ME”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:48 AM
20

Wow.... I can’t tell if they’re psychotic or just stupid to be so nonchalant about pregnancy. Thought they were all terrified of us trying to “trap” them, but yet they’re the ones soliciting us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:41 AM
13

With the baby pitch too?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:27 AM
16

How long were they together for? What was the finally straw that made her realize he needed to go?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:24 AM
64

If a guy suggested poly to me this would be my reply... “You’re so right. You’ve been great with the emotional aspect, but feel my physical needs would benefit from other men” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:12 AM
35

His excuse will be that he was 23 when the pic was taken 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:49 AM
81

My motto is: Never text a man when you’re sad, mad or horny. In your case (and from now on), whenever you’re rejected as a lover. don’t counter with an offer of friendship. You’ll become the “friend” he only texts when he’s bored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:25 AM
15

I believe a therapeutic way to overcome past abuse is to help prevent future trauma of others. It helps you gain back control, and move forward before it consumes you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 02:23 AM
45

Terry Crews is a great advocate for fighting porn addiction. Guys respect him, and if he helps create better men he has my support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 12:26 AM
6

I’ve done survival training, and the more you learn the more you get into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 12:16 AM
4

Mine too, virtual cycle syncing! I’ll check out that movie later. I have pneumonia, and my body doesn’t need the extra strain of me watching tearjerkers haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:34 PM
8

“Room” is a great movie, and puts me straight in survival mode. Since it’s Christmas, it’s fun to give yourself the gift of FDS comedy. Have you seen “Just Friends”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:37 PM
26

Men should propose, but women should be able to choose their rings. Men get to pick their wedding bands, so it shouldn’t be an issue for us to select ours. If you’re going to wear something everyday, you need to absolutely love it. Besides, just because it’s the right ring size doesn’t mean it’s going to feel good on your finger. I can barely find a bra that fits me well, never mind trusting a guy to fit my finger like a glove 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:41 AM
12

Dorothy is a great example of how women can be strong, independent and intelligent, yet still succumb to male manipulation. She knew Stan was an idiot and called him out on his bs, but still got pulled into his nonsense over and over. F’in Stans haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:22 AM
9

Loved her sass and confidence, but she also equated dating success to personal value. She would sulk and get emotional if men rejected her or if she didn’t have a date on Friday/Saturday night. Her roommates had a great influence on her, and she learned that her female connections were stronger than any old man could offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:18 AM
5

She definitely didn’t bother w/ any LVM’s haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:03 AM
4

That definitely was a great episode, and there are so many others that come to mind. On the outside, most people would think Dorothy didn’t take any shit, but she put up with f*boy Stan’s shenanigans over and over. Eventually, she came to her senses haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:01 AM
13

Haha I was more of a “Seinfeld” fan vs “Friends”, but both had some great lessons. If you haven’t seen “The Golden Girls”, I’d recommend it. The Dorothy & Stan scenes provide several FDS case studies that still apply in modern times. Sophia was a savage, and always called Dorothy out on the “Pick Me” behavior. They liked to tease Rose, but she was underestimated and stood her ground w/ men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:07 PM
25

If I wanted to “take a chance”, I’d buy a lottery ticket 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:37 AM
7

Me too. I feel like a lone she wolf looking for my pack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:31 AM
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