He cancelled our date because he was drinking with the boys. I lay down the law, then says he will call but hasn't. Having boundaries push them to show themselves.

Parking-Act · 2020-02-04T07:22:35+00:00

You dont put men in the "doghouse" you block and delete. Don't give dudes second chances (especially after he blew you off for his boys?) !

Don't entertain this fuckboy.

He called you "the lady" like this is some ironic medieval hipster festival. Fuck all the way off.

LadyHormoneMonster · 2020-02-04T07:26:36+00:00

Is this a new guy? Usually the doghouse is reserved for a bf/husband. Otherwise, they’re just a stray waiting for a forever home 🤣

nosynobody · 2020-02-04T07:57:06+00:00

I do not like this bit about spelling out to the guy what he did wrong. You can do that in an LTR and to your spouse. Not to some rando tinder date. STOP DOING THE EMOTIONAL LABOUR SIS!!

teeteereads · 2020-02-04T07:39:35+00:00

He absolutely should have called to apologize, not text

Diamondsareagirlsbff · 2020-02-04T08:45:56+00:00

I think I know why you said ‘I’m sure you’re capable of getting out (of the dog house) again’, it’s because you want to chastise him but aren’t ready to delete him, and you want him to know he needs to make it up to you. I’m really sorry to critique but I think this is a mistake - one I’ve made many times. It’s like pre-forgiving them before they’ve eve tried to improve, there’s no point.

Edit: even after you said that he made you wait two hours to reply that he would plan something? I would not be having that.

lipgloss1000 · 2020-02-04T08:42:38+00:00

Guys like this deserve an ice pick right through their third eye. You know him & his boi’s were probably having a good ol’ laugh about him standing up his old lady. Oh please, no law was laid down, you folded like a house of cards. You really need to value yourself more sweets, you’re worth way more than this.

2020-02-04T08:42:17+00:00

When they blow you off that should show you that it’s not serious on their part. Your not the woman that gave them those can’t sleep, eat or talk straight feelings. Your not their “one.” Block and delete and move on, stop letting them use you for emotional validation and sex.

cantstopthemachine77 · 2020-02-04T09:16:16+00:00

The comments weren’t even that harsh and she deleted her whole account...

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