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| 113 | Have LVM ever been able to see their hypocrisy when you use ‘tHeiR LoGic’ on them?Such a good point! I was bullied by neighborhood boys and constantly called a “sl-t/wh*re” because even though I was a virgin and hadn’t even kissed a boy yet, my best friend who lived one street over at the time who was a 1 and a half years older than me, that had been sexually active with some older boys who of course went on to brag to the whole neighborhood. So, because I was her friend and we hung out almost every day, these neighborhood boys, who knew I wasn’t doing those same things (thou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 01:55 AM |
| 4 | The wisdom in these verses... (book and author in tags)Same! I couldn’t put it down and stayed up all night to finish it within 24hrs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:10 AM |
| 11 | The wisdom in these verses... (book and author in tags)I stayed up all night to finish A thousand splendid suns in 24 hours because I could NOT put it down. Both books are two of my favorite novels of all time and they both made me cry, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Eartha Kitt--Timbuktu!, In the Beginning Woman, 1978 TVI just found it myself, and thought the same thing! So I thought you ladies would like it, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:04 AM |
| 4 | Lasting marriage and well mannered children is all what matters. Women are just a collateral damage produced for a sake of pp. Straight from the horses mouth 😏There was also this case in England: A row has erupted after a judge spoke in court about the “fundamental human right” of a man to have sex with his wife. The remark was made by Mr Justice Hayden, who had been asked to consider imposing a court order preventing a man from having sex with his wife of 20 years because she may no longer be able to give her consent. The case had been brought to the court of protection, which considers cases where people lack the mental capacity to make their own de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 07:56 AM |
| 6 | Held off on sex, it was horribleEven though as other have pointed out, your “body count” changes nothing about you and is made up by scrotes to shame women — I understand how you feel about having wasted a sexual encounter on someone who wasn’t worth it. We always talk about here how, for women, sex is so much more dangerous and costly to our health than it is for men. So taking these associated risks to have sex and it turning out to be crappy, leaving you without any pleasure let alone an actual orgasm, it can definitely fee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:29 AM |
| 29 | I doubt it shocks anyone here that Evan Rachel Wood is calling out Marilyn Manson for abuse. He has been such a crucial normalizer of sexual depravity. Out your abusers. Let’s help end this libfem sexpos mindset.He wears those tutrtlenecks a lot, to hide his triple chin. As ugly on the outside as he is on the inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 03:54 AM |
| 21 | Advice neededYup! This is the reason I lurk their nasty subs and sites, you learn how they talk and what their talking points are, so you can easily spot them in conversations with men. The quoted segment above is one of these talking points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 03:46 AM |
| 25 | A thought about sex work: your clients don't think you are working, they think you are performing what every woman should do for free.This is actually what men, particularly the mgtow types, seriously believe and argue — that it’s impossible to rape a prostitute since she “intended” to have sex anyway, so it’s merely theft. I would say “men are trash”, but that’s an insult to trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:38 AM |
| 26 | A thought about sex work: your clients don't think you are working, they think you are performing what every woman should do for free.Yup, they resent the fact that they have to pay for it when, as OP said, they think she should be giving it to him free. It reminds them how pathetic they are and those feelings become rage which they project out onto all women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 01:26 AM |
| 73 | I don’t know if this was posted yet but this is an example of why people need to listen to and believe women when they say they were violated !!They absolutely shouldn’t, you’re right. Men like to point to cases of women harming children, and they do happen, but the fact is that males are the main perpetrators of sexual abuse against children, and these males are most often someone the child knows — a family member, friend of the family, neighbor, etc. My mom was very diligent about making sure I was never left alone with any teenage/adult males, that meant not being able to sleep over, or even just go to, any friends homes who had brot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 09:01 PM |
| 135 | What in the pickmeisha hell is this clownery? The only thing I’m growing are my plants 🌱🪴“Grow with him!” Why? Just so he can turn around and leave when my youth is gone and take everything I “built” with him? No thank you! I would rather grow and build with and for myself, at least I get to keep and benefit from the results of all my hard work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 18 | Dispell the myth that LVM aren't smart enough to absolutely destroy MOST women's lives.See: Michael from Love After Lockup, who grifts through life by manipulating women into thinking they are his one true love, that every woman before them that he cheated on and mistreated was just a controlling, lying, b**ch, and paying to financially support him for that “privilege”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Why do men refuse to break up with you when they are not into you?Sometimes they will even go as far as to ramp up their bad behavior with the intention of forcing you to be the one to initiate the break up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:59 AM |
| 47 | Patron saint of women who don’t want to talk to you on public transitEven “crazy women” are sexualized. Men always talk about how much “better in bed” they are and how they prefer to sleep with them because of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Although OLD is a dumpster fire, let me highlight the new way scrotes can cheat!Also, Facebook messenger has a new chat feature called “vanish mode” where seen messages automatically disappears after you close the chat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her...Mgtow and incel types always try to say that women hit the wall at 30 and men just continue to get attractive as they age, so they ask “why would an older man ever want to be with a woman his age when he can have a woman half his age, especially if he’s successful/rich?” Aside from the whole “men get more attractive with age and women hit the wall at 30” rhetoric being untrue garbage, what these LVM don’t realize, because they don’t have the capacity to understand the mind of a HVM, is that a tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 04:42 PM |
| 11 | Ladies would we marry a man that keeps a jar of pubes?“He’s perfect in every other way” I guarantee you he is not, even within the post there are numerous demonstrations that this statement is false. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | “But not too long, lol” WHATS THE POINT?!Yup, he already said ten minutes is a long time to him so 🤷🏻♀️ Like, that’s how long it takes me just to relax and really get into it when I’m receiving oral. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢Just to clarify, by “pick me’s trying to appeal to them for cool girl points” I wasn’t referring to the OP. I was talking about commenters on posts like this in the advice and relationship subs, who claim to be women, replying with just as toxic of shit as the men in order to suck up to them. Granted, often these are actually males larping as women, but there are actual women pick me’s making these comments too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢She’s already bought into these commenters bullshit: ”he also didn’t have to tell me at all, but he did” that’s the same thing one of these asshats just told her and she has already internalized it, that quick. Because she wants to believe that this isn’t a big deal, that she’s the one with the problem here, so she can fix it. That’s why these subs are so harmful for women, especially younger women, who are seeking out advice from the absolute worst place they possibly could, a website full of m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:56 AM |
| 4 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍Escorts get paid better. Drug addicted and/or sex trafficked women who work the street charge $40 and lower. There are women who sell their bodies for $5. It’s extremely sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Womyn’s Lands- How have I never heard of this fantastic idea?!!As a 31 year old woman, my problem is finding older women who are radical feminists. So many older women right now are conservative trump supporters who hold onto a ton of internalized misogyny and try to enforce their anti feminist ideals on younger women, my own mother, and many female family members included. Unfortunately pickme’s come in all ages. But not too many women my age and younger are much better, they tend to just be on the other “woke” sexism end of things, with their insane far l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:30 AM |
| 56 | boy BYEI love Rose!!! (the woman in this meme) I follow all her socials and it’s truly been a joy to watch the come up of a young single mother who absolutely deserves all the opportunities coming her way! She’s also using her platform to help empower other young single mothers in the Philippines via various charitable donations and percentages of profit of her merch to organizations that specifically cater to that demographic. Here’s her YouTube and IG, both definitely worth the follow: https://youtub… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:58 AM |
| 11 | The men (and women) in the comments are LOSING IT 😂Oh damn, I looked this up on TikTok and wow were you right about the commenters losing their minds. Scrotes and pick me’s alike. “Who’s going to put a ring on it with that attitude” — What makes you think Sis gives two shits about a man buying her a ring and proposing??? With that queen energy she can buy her own ring and she obviously isn’t pressed for a proposal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:46 AM |
| 47 | Actors that played Xena and Hercule in the 90s. She looks AMAZING, aged gracefully. Can’t say the same of the racist old scrote 🥰✨Racist AND wrong (tho tbf, those two usually do go together), these people were proven to be far right trump supporters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:37 PM |
| 12 | My Grandfather’s Rose Bush :')My only qualm with this, is your mention of “reverse sexism” — it’s not a thing. I understood what you were trying to say, but that isn’t “reverse sexism”, which is a BS term made up by actual male sexists who believe their lessening male privilege, is “reverse sexism” The same way “reverse racism” was made up by racists discontent with the lessening of their own privilege and the furthering equality for non white people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 09:59 PM |
| 79 | Why do men pm women of this sub to ask questions about things they could easily google?This. They are trying to get free attention from us. Most get next to none irl and so they try to get it from women online under the guise of asking a question or posing an argument. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 09:45 PM |
| 7 | Dean (from 90 Day Fiancé) has his own problematic issues, but what he is saying here is absolutely correct, a man who values you will put in the effort, and do his best to impress you. A man who is cheap with you does not value you.It really is like a documentary about LVM, you’re right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 08:52 PM |
| 2 | N/LVM rarely change. They don’t have good intentions when they try to worm their way back into your life. Don’t be fooled by them or let them trick you into talking. The ONLY way to go is an IMMEDIATE block and delete.Like Jesse Meester from 90 day fiancé, total narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:55 AM |
| 19 | Ma’am. What exactly is the purpose of this ferine creature you call a “husband”? 🥴Here’s my thoughts, when she says she pays the bills, I think, since she mentioned it along with all her other chores, that she means like physically makes the payments and does their budget. She probably doesn’t work since she didn’t mention it and thus is home all day after dropping him off at work, but then probably goes to school at night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:26 AM |
| 8 | What’s the worst gift you’ve been given by a LVM? Here’s mine. Story in comments.Upload to www.imgur.com and then click “new post” in the upper left corner, upload your image and then click “copy link” that should now be on the top right of the image, if you don’t see it hover over the top right corner of the image. Then paste the link here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 29 | A Short Addendum to the Question of TherapyThe thing about therapy for abusive/manipulative LVM is that they are not reliable narrators due to their constant need to be right and portray themselves as the “good guy”, and will often end up with the therapist validating them in their abuse because of how they spun things in their “side of the story”. Typically, therapy is only helpful for men who genuinely want to change and better themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 6 | He’d rather be drunk with his friends and fishing with his dad than take her out. And the comments.... this is the first time I’ve really witnessed Reddit men’s attitudes about datingIf he was actually excited to date her, not only would he not be flaking on dates, but also she wouldn’t have to be the one planning the dates in the first place. HE would be the one hounding her to take her on a date that HE planned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:29 AM |
| 5 | FDS has helped me so much. In the past, I would've taken these words to heart, blamed myself, and tried to "lighten up." Now I can identify this for what it is: a NVM gaslighting and abusing. Blocked, deleted, and forgotten.That’s not misandry, it finally waking up to, and refusing to fall for or tolerate, mens bullshit and abuse. Men try to gaslight us about our hatred of them as if it’s the same as their hatred of us. When in reality, ours is in response to their hatred of US and predicated on their abuse, disrespect, exploitation, violence towards us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Oh hellllllllllllllll no.Almost instinctively downvoted this post forgetting what sub I was in, literally stopped myself right before my thumb hit the downvote button 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 12:36 AM |
| 183 | Sister finds child porn on brother’s computer. REDDIT: bUt WhY WeRe yOu SnOOPinG ThOugh?There was an edit update: ”Update: Talked to my parents about it and they’re going to approach it calmly. They told me it’s natural curiosity and they’re going to educate him and treat the problems. They told me to try and forget about it.” What the fuck. And some replies are saying this is the correct move, that the kid is probably just exploring his sexuality, and that they should “wait” until something happens before actually doing anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 12:09 AM |
| 97 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤Another skincare addict here, this post had me raging at just about every sentence, literally yelling out loud at the screen as I went. The fucking audacity of this loser to think he can just get rid of her stuff that SHE pays for, along with all of the bills, rent, etc AND his hobbies (which who wants to bet is gaming that requires expensive gaming systems and games). It reminds me of this post which was even worse because the LVM was trying to get rid of the kittens his gf was raising, behind … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 29 | Pick-me begs fame hungry NVM for babies.When the lyric says “I really like your friend too” and “your best friend” she points to his penis. So I’m pretty sure it’s just the song that is about a threesome and she is making her own joking interpretation to make the video about her, him, and his penis making a baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:03 PM |
| 9 | she had an epiphany typing it out 😩😩Yup, I’m a member :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:10 AM |
| 29 | she had an epiphany typing it out 😩😩Sorry I meant to reply that to u/yesmme It stands for “sex worker exclusionary radical feminist” and its a term used by liberal feminists to criticize women who don’t believe in the “sex work is empowering” narrative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:28 AM |
| 47 | she had an epiphany typing it out 😩😩SWERF? That’s a term made up by libfems. Do you also believe that “T-ERF” is a thing? Edit: this was meant to be a reply to u/yesmme who used the term in their comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:44 AM |
| 18 | At least ONE male will admit it!!I think the proper upgrade from Queen would be Goddess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:33 AM |
| 93 | Angry scrote doesn't think he should pay for date he asked her out onExactly. He suggested it, she agreed to it, but in his bullshit rationalization here it became “that we both agreed to”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 8 | The last time I dated anyone who wasn't my husband was 16 years ago, a man come over from spain (I'm mexican) just to see me and we didn't had sex, and now men think you don't need dates? Ok...Oh my god, if this little boy doesn’t go on somewhere.... like, just say you haven’t had your first job yet and still live in your moms basement, and go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 12:35 AM |
| 13 | “My boyfriend thought we’d been engaged for two months. I had no idea.”That’s what I’m thinking, he’s trying to force her into saying yes via manipulation and trying to make her feel bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 07:01 AM |
| 11 | Repost from another sub, good reminder for ex-religious ladies. I know it’s hard to move past all of the ingrained sexism and misogyny sometimes but I’m here to tell you; You’re not wrong, THEY are.She’s saying since it is true that women are not naturally submissive and so the Bible has to constantly remind them to be, it must also be true that men are not naturally faithful and thus the bible has to constantly remind them to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:44 AM |
| 27 | She is asking the wrong question. If you are in this situation then you should leave. Even if it is just a suspicionA cam girl who looks young enough to pass for a 15 year old and who trolls for customers to trick into thinking she’s underage, by playing overwatch and Dungeons and Dragons? Sounds unlikely... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 16 | Disgusting invasion of privacy - let's date!It refers to winter, because they view summer as their time to fuck around and be single, but then want someone to be able to cuddle and spend the holidays with in the winter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 41 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeI can guarantee you that it absolutely is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:26 AM |
| 89 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeSome pieces of utter shit actually suggested labiaplasty to the OP in the replies. Reading them left me seething. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 139 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeThank god shes realizing that due to some of the voices of reason in the replies letting her know that her husband is likely using this as an excuse to cover up his own porn sickness related ED. I can’t believe some people had the audacity to suggest labiaplasty to her. I bet her labia isn’t even that big, it’s probably perfectly normal, just not non existent like what is shown in porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 183 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeFuck every piece of shit in that thread suggesting she get her labia surgically altered. Some of those comments are even being made by women, like this one ”I don’t know how you feel about your relationship and husband but there is a surgery my husbands cousin got called labiaplasty to like make hers smaller and more .. presentable? You could always look into that route if it’s something that also bothers you. I mean none of us know how you feel about yourself or what it looks like etc so none o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:11 AM |
| 36 | I'm speechless. E.coli from a nasty cheating d***.It made me shiver to imagine being in her place and having a guy do that to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 51 | I'm speechless. E.coli from a nasty cheating d***.But in this case she found out that her NVM did cheat on her with another man.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:44 AM |
| 62 | I'm speechless. E.coli from a nasty cheating d***.Worse, anal sex with another MALE and then came back home and fucked her with his shitty dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 98 | Why do men marry a woman they don't actually love, continue to have children with her, and cheat? Why not stop before the marriage? Why not divorce?Cheating is exciting for them, and also strokes their ego by making them feel extra “desirable”. Men don’t care who they hurt, as long as they feel good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Remember Ladies: A man being attractive or rich doesn't then mean he is HV.Yup, most abusive and narcissistic ex was both good looking and rich. The worst are attractive men who, for whatever reason, used to be very unattractive, because they still have all kinds of hang ups and insecurities over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:32 PM |
| 7 | He was a translator on a trip. I met him only once for a few hours and we spoke on the phone once. This is the 4th man I have met while travelling that has professed “feelings” in hopes of financial gain. It’s getting predictable and disgusting to see that men try to use women/me this way.Agree, but can we please not with the misogynistic slurs. I know it’s common to use “b*ch” as a term of endearment amongst peers, I used to engage in it myself, but I stopped when I became a radfem and realized it just encourage men to use these slurs even more because “it’s not misogynistic, women friends call each other btches all the time”. Particularly, I don’t think we should use such slurs in feminist spaces, it’s what libfems do, and can be triggering to women who have had these words hur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | He was a translator on a trip. I met him only once for a few hours and we spoke on the phone once. This is the 4th man I have met while travelling that has professed “feelings” in hopes of financial gain. It’s getting predictable and disgusting to see that men try to use women/me this way.See 90 day fiancé for reference. Even just the clips on YouTube will give you an idea of what these guys are up to with this. Azan and Mohamed are the best examples. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 7 | "I get to dictate how my wife lives her life because her looking after our child is a turn off and I don't respect mothers"It’s pretty clear that he has some sort of fear that she’s trying to use him for money, which is probably the main thing fueling his disagreement with her being a SAHM. He thinks that her staying home would be a free vacation for her to do nothing and be lazy while he financially supports her, and since he views being a SAHM that way, he knows that he will be feeling like he’s being taken advantage of and used by her for a “free ride”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:54 PM |
| 8 | "I get to dictate how my wife lives her life because her looking after our child is a turn off and I don't respect mothers"It’s this exact bullshit that led me to believe I was anti feminist until discovering radical feminism years later. Even as a teenager I saw what crap it was that women are now expected to work AND take care of the house/kids and reasoned that we actually had it better back in the 50’s, when at least women were only expected to care for the kids and home. I wanted to be feminist, as I love my fellow women, but all I had ever seen of feminism was the liberal feminist garbage that never sat right … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 12 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?Yea, she had her flaws, but she was good about a lot of things like this. She also let me know fairly young that boys only want one thing, and made sure to remind me of it regularly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Cost performance girlfriendThe two aren’t even comparable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 32 | THIS VIDEO IS A SIGN.Great message, but I could have done without all the “btch this” and “b*ch that”, I cringed at every single one. Misogynistic slurs have no place in female empowerment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:47 PM |
| 17 | Men lying on their dating profiles...Ughh I hate that term. Apparently there is a male version, “ken”, but I’ve never once heard it actually used as pejorative towards a man. I only hear it mentioned when a woman calls out the misogyny of the term Karen and they wheel it out as “proof” that “Karen” isn’t sexist since there is a “male counterpart”..... that no one actually uses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:03 PM |
| 30 | No surprise that most of the men say that she should appreciate his sexual assault and most of the women disregard it as him just having a high sex drive...Wow, I haven’t heard that one since high school. What is he, a 14 year old? “Do you want to touch it?” like it’s some kind of honor that he’s offering her 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:51 PM |
| 34 | Men lying on their dating profiles...There really needs to be a radfem childfree sub, but it seems like a waste of time to start any new radical feminist subs here, reddit will probably just find an excuse to ban it once it starts gaining any real traction. It feels like this sub is barely hanging on by a thread as it is. If they ban us I will 100% leave reddit for good. This and the 90day sub are the only ones I stay for, and the 90day sub is swiftly becoming just as misogynistic as the rest of reddit. As a trashy reality TV sub, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 11 | Men lying on their dating profiles...At least they took the tuition out first and paid it directly to the school it sounds like. In his case and many of my friends, they sent the entirety of the loan straight to the student with the expectation for the student to pay the tuition to the school themself after cashing the check. I actually thought this was how all student loans worked, (I’ve never taken any out myself, just worked and went for the vastly cheaper option of community college) but I just looked it up and apparently it de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 75 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?I actually learned this lesson early, with my first real life boyfriend (opposed to the internet one I had prior lmao), who I approached and asked out 🤡 when I was in 8th grade. I was so excited to have a boyfriend that a month into the “relationship” (which mostly consisted of me sitting next to him at lunch) when sweetest day was still weeks in advance, I went to Spencer’s gifts and spent $50 (a lot for a 13 year old with no job) on various items that fit his whole goth boy aesthetic that I fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:03 PM |
| 34 | Teenage girl groomed by her employer since she was 15. Boss wants a relationship now that she turned 18. Hopes his daughter grows up to look like her. This is very troubling.I was going to say that she should report him for sexual harassment in the workplace, but then I remembered that it could totally backfire on her, as HR departments are more interested in protecting the company from liability and bad press, than actually fairly resolving the problem and helping the person making the complaint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:08 PM |
| 37 | Men lying on their dating profiles...Yup, for years I believed my boyfriend at the time had a bachelors in Poly Sci (a fairly useless degree as it is if you aren’t going to go further than a B.S.). Turned out he had the credit equivalency, but his university wouldn’t release his degree because they somehow allowed him to be in the position of owing them money for unpaid tuition, because even though he took out student loans, that’s not what he used the money for. He mostly blew it on partying and shopping. So he owed the school and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:44 PM |
| 61 | Men lying on their dating profiles...I’ve had 2 abortions in my life, one I wanted and one I didn’t, but was coerced and threatened into by my then boyfriend. At the time, I was heartbroken, they were twins and I thought I was in love, but now, I am so glad I went through with both abortions. Would have been better to not get pregnant in the first place, as these were still very traumatic experiences, but I am so grateful that I didn’t end up stuck raising either of these LVM’s children and being tied to them for the rest of my lif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 214 | Men lying on their dating profiles...Right?! If anyone deserves to be shamed in these kind of situations, it’s the deadbeat fathers who abandon their kids, but of course in our misogynistic ass society it’s the woman who is viewed negatively. When it comes to these things we always hear “She should have kept her legs closed”, it’s almost never “he should have kept it in his pants”. Even if he was her first sexual partner and he’s the towns community cock who bounced as soon he found out she was pregnant or the kid was born, she wil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else have this view on having children?Yup, that’s totally how I feel. I have no interest in birthing my own children and even the thought of giving birth or people talking about it in detail makes me extremely anxious. But I really love kids, with an obvious preference for girls but even little boys can be really sweet before they become preteens. It’s my goal to be a foster mom when I get my life and finances totally in order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 08:43 AM |
| 4 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!Literally, the very next sentence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 08:37 AM |
| 8 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!It’s funny how she says this, but then immediately in the next sentence she admits they barely know each other 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 08:30 AM |
| 31 | Fellas is it gay to have sex with women?“ClassicBad and the Lesbianics”, could be a sweet name for a doo wop/old school R&B group lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:59 AM |
| 38 | Valuable insight. Honesty isn’t always honesty. It’s manipulation.I think the analogy here would be “you aren’t rich enough to be my boyfriend, but I would still like for you to buy me things when I’m broke.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 50 | Valuable insight. Honesty isn’t always honesty. It’s manipulation.Five minutes is being generous, really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:49 AM |
| 7 | They’re arguing about gender roles being irrelevant because women can open their own doors 🤔They do these little acts like opening doors, pulling chairs out, pouring tea... so they can pretend they are a “gentleman”, hoping women will be grateful enough for these scraps of meaningless gestures to overlook his lack of qualities that actually matter, like loyalty, communication, pulling their own weight, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Not that he is actually going to care for them himself. We all know it's a status symbol for men.Ah the ole trying to entice you back with lavish trips, one of my exes used to pull that after breaking up with me, but then changing his mind, and my dumbass fell for it more than once.. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:50 PM |
| 4 | LVM on hinge sending me sexist messages “you sound smart for a woman” to get my attention and get me to respond. I ignore. Now some of them have stooped down to this level. Really? Does he even have anything to show off? I’ve seen more muscle on a chicken leg.I noticed that too, his nipples ARE weird! It could just be the way he’s posing, but their placement looks asymmetrical and also they look abnormally small. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 8 | A picture is worth a thousand wordsThen you’d really like “tinder translators” on IG, the profile “translations” she does are hilariously accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | What?Speak for yourself sis, your pick me ass doesn’t speak for us with this parroting of male pandering, “nice guy” rhetoric. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 53 | Thankfully all the comments said he was in fact the a**holeYup, and his pops called it out, saying he could see why none of his relationships have worked out if this is how he treats his girlfriends! Too bad his pick me mom had to undermine that to validate him by saying” she understands” because she doesn’t want to make her poor little angel of a grown ass man “feel bad” or have any accountability for his shitty behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:16 PM |
| 18 | You know who is ok? The women in this subredditWow, she really torpedoed her whole life to be a pick me to a criminal narcissist troll, just to be ghosted by him, from prison! Just. Wow. I bet she has been desperately trying to get in contact with him too. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:03 PM |
| 82 | LVM on hinge sending me sexist messages “you sound smart for a woman” to get my attention and get me to respond. I ignore. Now some of them have stooped down to this level. Really? Does he even have anything to show off? I’ve seen more muscle on a chicken leg.Lmao, he posted that pic of his body, talking about he “fucks like a pornstar”, like dude really thinks he’s hott stuff! Sir, that is a very average male body, the only thing it has going for it is not being fat, congratulations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:37 PM |
| 8 | Lazy scrote who doesn’t want to work wants Reddit to help him convince his wife why it’s okay not to work.I just replied to a post here that was a screenshot of a post from twox of a woman praising her boyfriend for doing a few chores after she had a discussion with him that she felt like she was doing all the chores. The OP that posted it here even posted it as an example of HVM behavior for listening to her and beginning to do a few chores without any argument, but I commented that if he was truly HVM she wouldn’t have had to ask him in the first place to do something so basic that he should have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:28 PM |
| 12 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.Yea, it was definitely creepy, luckily as far as I know he never did do something like that, but he had other bad qualities, yet this guy was actually one of the better ones out of my exes... and that’s not a compliment to him, my other exes were just that bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:37 PM |
| 36 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.I had an ex that dosed his fellow male housemates with acid via nasal drop while they were sleeping. He told me the story when these housemates were around and they seemed to not be really be upset about it, they joked around and added their own details to the story. They were casual drug users dabbling in psychedelics and seemed to view it more as a “free high” than anything, but I still felt so uncomfortable when he was telling the story with such a braggadocios tone and it sent off big alarm … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:01 PM |
| 113 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.Exactly. This man WILL actually push her someday, and he’s trying to build his “plausible deniability”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:52 PM |
| 161 | A man taking responsibility, we love to see it!Yea, but if he was a real HVM she wouldn’t have had to ask him in the first place.... Edit: someone’s comment of “disagree. Misunderstandings happen” was caught by automod but I want to point out that cleaning up after yourself and doing chores shouldn’t be something a grown man has to be reminded about. I think we are just so used to men not carrying their weight that this seems like something laudable, but really it’s a shame he had to be told to do something that should just be common sense a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:49 PM |
| 81 | Some women will risk their own health just so they would satisfy their LVM dirty fantasiesthese women hate other women because they hate themselves and what they've become. Whenever you wonder why it is that some women behave hatefully towards fellow women, this right here is the answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:27 PM |
| 29 | This is another level of depravity...He says he feels like he failed as a husband since he didn’t protect her, but that is such BS. If he actually felt that way he would have overwhelming guilt that would prevent even the thought of leaving her in this time of need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:23 PM |
| 30 | Am I bugging or is this a real thing? The first thing I thought was “sounds rapey to me” I’ve had this happen to me, but idk how the person could really be sleeping. A lot of folks in the comments agree that it’s a thing.That’s exactly what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:17 PM |
| 75 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄He’s the one who threw away their marriage by cheating (in their marital bed no less), but his manipulative ass is trying to spin it to where she feels that she would be the one throwing it away by rightfully breaking up with him. I really hope she ends up seeing through his bullshit and leaves him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:02 PM |
| 11 | Why you shouldn’t blindly pay for menMy only issue here is equating women and “femme presenting” (i.e. feminine males). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:30 AM |
| 19 | Rejecting patriarchy is hard. Let’s get that shit straight right now.It’s so exhausting to feel at odds with the majority of society, and everyone I know, with most of my beliefs: Radical Feminist Gender Critical Agnostic Anti Trump Childfree/anti-natalist It’s not like I can just give up and stop believing these truths, even if I could I wouldn’t want to, but damn is it hard to be continually fighting against ignorance to defend rationality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:18 AM |
| 33 | It's the signs of affection and support in the little things over a period of time that makes a man high value. Don't settle for neglect and then lovebombing - the real deal is out there.My best hangover cure is a bowl of some good pot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:02 AM |
| 8 | There is so much hilarity in this post. But if I had to pick my favorite, it’s that even an incel chooses the women who make him invest in them. Never prize yourself on looks or circumstances: you are a queen the moment you decide you are.I’m still confused, what’s the significance? Are we being cheeky implying it’s onlyfans or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:17 AM |
| 193 | Manifesting this queen energy to all of you this Friday!The second one is so accurate, about 10 years ago, back in my clubbing days, I was in the bathroom of a gay bar and spent half the night bonding and crying with a woman in there who told me “omg your body is perfect” and my drunk ass immediately broke down telling her how I had to starve myself and constantly exercise to look that way. We hugged and cried while we lamented the unfairness of society’s beauty standards and cursed our own capitulation to them. We exchanged numbers, but weren’t able… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Female Masturbation Style - Closed Leg SyndromeOmg, yes, I have this. I thought I was just weird and masturbated too much, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:08 PM |
| 33 | Mastercard severs ties with Pornhub and Visa suspends payment processingSame, but it was a different article that went into how this was a response by Visa and MasterCard to increased political pressure, posted on r politics with a neutral, uncritical title. All the comments were complaining about how it “wasn’t relevant to politics”, but it was pretty apparent they were just upset about this “attack” on their beloved porn and that the title wasn’t framing it as a negative. It’s probably been removed by now. (Edit: it has, but another post about it from a critical p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | She did the right thing and she's doubting herselfYea the whole thing is a mess, the age gap, the lying, all of it. She definitely made the right choice, I hope she sticks to it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | She did the right thing and she's doubting herselfI don’t think she would have been as upset by this if he was in the habit of taking her, his girlfriend, out to eat at fancy places. Though, the whole situation would still be super sketchy. She doesn’t mention whether he does or not, but I’m assuming he doesn’t based on her reaction here, if going to eat at fancy places was just his m.o., and he frequently took her out to them, then I don’t think it would have bothered her as much. She is probably (rightfully) extra bothered because he doesn’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 10 | I have no words.It’s my guess it’s precisely because she’s vulnerable right now that he wants to do it, probably has little to nothing to do with it “being warmer”, that’s just his excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:59 AM |
| 84 | Stumbled upon this gem today, I have no words!Right? He’s not ready for the “legality” i.e. commitment, of marriage, but they have a kid together... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:15 AM |
| 139 | So many gems from unpopular opinions today. This person just sounds lazy, or they want someone who's easier to control. Notice how it's women in their past? 🤔 Red flags all over the place.Yup, typical abuser tactic, isolate them from friends and family so they have no one to turn to and no one to talk sense into them about how they are being abused. Lots of other benefits to the abuser as well, some listed by the scrote OP himself, such as getting his own way and no accountability from her family if he hurts her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:13 AM |
| 22 | When we stand up for ourselves, we are standing up for all women. Likewise, when we degrade ourselves, we are degrading all women.Just like radical feminism says, the personal is political. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:22 AM |
| 34 | Do you confront a men ?Did this on a first date back in 2016 with a guy who said he was a trump supporter. That’s all I needed to hear to excuse myself to the bathroom and leave without another word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Princess Pickmeisha receives a proposal of marriage from Lord ScotemortThis hurt to read, it makes me sad that woman are so brainwashed by patriarchy to not only fall for obvious bullshit like this, but to think a man who would ask for such a thing is worth marrying in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 137 | Can you guess what sub this is from?When it comes to criticizing men, it’s “be diplomatic”, but when it comes to criticizing women it’s free reign to be brutal and hateful and no one cares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 25 | "Average women will die alone" This infuriates me. An unattractive, beta LVM calls a successful bussiness woman who wants a guy who makes decent income "average". He breaks her selfesteem down in the video but he calls himself "Alpha" HVM. He is breaking her so that she settles for men like him.Notice how he told her she couldn’t say “7” when he asked her to rate her looks, because a 7 (rating women’s looks this way is bullshit, but for the sake of my point I am using it) is what she is, but by telling her she can’t say 7 he is forcing her to rate herself lower. She knew if she went higher that he would use that to further try and paint her as delusional and out of touch with the reality of her attractiveness and desirability, so he could continue to frame her standards as being too hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 3 | And if they treat you like this during sex, it surely isn’t limited to the bedroom.If a man isn’t making eye contact with you during sex, 100% he is fantasizing about someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:55 AM |
| 10 | Thoughts?Wow, notice how men and their feelings are automatically prioritized and regarded with humanizing sympathy, by being described as “someone’s son”.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:08 AM |
| 15 | Black woman’s white boyfriend wants to do “race play” where she plays the slave and he the master, wants to know ifs she’s wrong for being uncomfortable with it, comments try to gaslight her that this is totally normally because mUh kInKThose scrotes over there really tried it didn’t they? They have to realize this is fucked up, but they want to gaslight women into thinking it’s not, and that so long as something is a “kink” it can’t be criticized, because to them nothing is more important than mUh PeNiS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:49 PM |
| 27 | Black woman’s white boyfriend wants to do “race play” where she plays the slave and he the master, wants to know ifs she’s wrong for being uncomfortable with it, comments try to gaslight her that this is totally normally because mUh kInKThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:45 PM |
| 194 | Black woman’s white boyfriend wants to do “race play” where she plays the slave and he the master, wants to know ifs she’s wrong for being uncomfortable with it, comments try to gaslight her that this is totally normally because mUh kInKI wanted to comment asking why racism is suddenly A-OK so long as it’s a kink? But I’m already banned for a previous comment similar to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Movie night!! 🍿🍿Love this movie so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:48 AM |
| 10 | The tradcon guide for the modern woman10 years ago when I was that age and lived with male roommates who occasionally would throw house parties, I use to charge em, a couple adderalls and $30 to clean up after the party. Looking back though, I was selling myself short for all the sticky beer and nastiness I had to clean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"Wow, I actually did not know that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Dating 2 months — he expects to leapfrog her friendships! Not long enough for an intimate poem. New relationship < long term friendships. He’s thrifty not HV.Thanks for bringing this up, I was really giving comments like that the side eye because they sound like comments I would expect to read from men replying to the original post. “She’s obviously just not that into you dude”. They have been dating for 2 months, it is completely unreasonable for him to expect a personalized poem that she is giving to her friends that she has known a hell of a lot longer than him, especially after receiving a gift from him that cost $8.99. It very well may be that s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 15 | Just a reminder that some men never changeTheir total lack of embarrassment, and even a sense of pride, is the part that gets me the most! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 31 | Ladies, I present you LV Potpourri - a mix of different flavors of pickme/LVM dynamic, all put together into one convenient package!Almost always when a man suggests an open relationship, he has either already cheated or has another woman he has set his sights on embarking on this “open relationship” with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:59 PM |
| 260 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩Good catch. Also, he claims him volunteering there “sometimes” (who wants to bet it’s a few times a year, if that) is him giving back to his community, when in reality it’s just him partially paying his own way for those five days a week he eats there for free... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 12 | Reading this honestly made me feel...just sad. She's so very proud of herself for being a CoolGirl.Typically they play them together though... not just one person watching the other play all day and night long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:18 AM |
| 12 | Reading this honestly made me feel...just sad. She's so very proud of herself for being a CoolGirl.Came here to say this. She’s 19, this will get old and boring soon. It already has, she’s just writing this post to delude herself that it wasn’t and claim all those coolgirl™️ points from the reddit scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:17 AM |
| 24 | He says it’s a sign of disrespect towards him to not have lost the baby weight already- after giving birth to their 7th child. The audacity!After one maybe two pregnancies “different” is a sufficient descriptor, and sure maybe “destroyed” is harsh, but no doubt 7 pregnancies is going to do irreversible damage to a woman’s body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:47 AM |
| 9 | Scrotes hate seeing standards being met. Gotta humble them somehow.Okay, but I don’t understand what you are getting from talking to this guy at all... you say conversations are not majority non sex related, meaning sometimes they are, “basically” stopping sending nudes isn’t completely stopping, and you are still considering meeting him for what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 05:22 PM |
| 12 | Scrotes hate seeing standards being met. Gotta humble them somehow.I don’t see the point in setting and sending nudes to some random internet LVM.... sending nudes to guys on the internet is never a good idea, (hell sending nudes to a boyfriend isn’t a good idea) even if your face isn’t showing. You never know what that guy could be using those pictures for. They could be a scammer catfishing people with them, for one thing. Or sending them as submissions to threads men make of nudes they’ve been sent to share with other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 05:06 PM |
| 30 | Scrotes hate seeing standards being met. Gotta humble them somehow.Sis, friends don’t exchange nudes. This dude is not your friend nor does him continuing to talk to you online after you “rejected him” give you any real information about what his intentions are. If he actually wanted to meet you he would ha e found a way to make it happen by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:55 PM |
| 20 | Consensual abuse is not sexy.There’s already men who eroticize women with eating disorders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:49 PM |
| 62 | Holidays make it easy to spot LVM. Thank goodness my pick me days of cooking a full thanksgiving meal so a LVM can drink, watch football, and nap are over.He probably walked in their with a Walmart/Target pie and $10 wine You know he did. Assuming he brought a $10 bottle, is probably even too generous an assumption. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:42 PM |
| 6 | That last one hits home. If it’s not love, then it’s manipulation. Steer clear!!If it was the first 2 or 3, I could totally see how those would be an appropriate reaction to certain LVM behaviors. Expecting an immediate response - If we are in the middle of an ongoing conversation and the guy just drops off, I’m going to want an explanation when I do hear from them again and it had better be a legit one. That is rude to do, especially if they make a habit of it. Withholding affection as punishment - If he has done something wrong (but not break up worthy), I’m not going to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:14 PM |
| 11 | I have a feeling it wasn’t her idea...Ah perfect! Because that will totally signal to other women, who hit on him because he’s a YT star, that he is taken/s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:59 PM |
| 31 | Boyfriend doesn’t like when tables turn on him and he doesn’t get to finish after months of not caring if his girlfriend does! Also confused why it’s considered a high standard for her to expect him to want her to enjoy sex too?I hate that phrase too, it implies that sex is an automatic given and that women who don’t just have sex whenever their partner wants is “withholding” it from him and I often hear men refer to it as a form of abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 47 | Boyfriend doesn’t like when tables turn on him and he doesn’t get to finish after months of not caring if his girlfriend does! Also confused why it’s considered a high standard for her to expect him to want her to enjoy sex too?Lmao a lurking scrote downvoted you (I brought you back to 1). What I don’t understand is what is so offensive to them about you wanting to be left alone? According to them we are all ugly fat women who are basically female incels so.... why should they even care? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Though she be fierce, she definitely don’t be FDS. Nah sis...As if that’s what he would spend it on anyway. 90% would definitely spend it on video games instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:07 PM |
| 40 | MaturityLucky! My dad wouldn’t even let me climb trees as a 5 year old because it wasn’t “ladylike”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:03 PM |
| 4 | He bought her a $4k Louis Vuitton purse after their fourth dateAh yes great point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 4 | How has she stayed for 4 years of this... NVM. I have no words.Right? Like what is there to even love? She doesn’t mention even 1 tiny endearing quality of his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:50 AM |
| 11 | He bought her a $4k Louis Vuitton purse after their fourth dateBeat me to it. We get quite a few post like this here where a guy does something overly generous way too early in a relationships, and it shows that the poster doesn’t yet fully understand the true meaning of HVM and the purpose of FDS. (Nothing personal OP, nobody understands these things completely right away so you’ll get there I’m sure). Guys like this are almost always either love bombing or overcompensating for some other crappy quality they are hoping you won’t pick up on if they divert y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Breaks up with his live in (!!) gf because she cut off her hair to donate itFuck that guy. She knows now that he was obviously only with her in the first place for her looks. Trash took itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 20 | Also, if men love big boobs so much, they should get their own implants 🤡My grandmother did this her whole life. She would still be doing it now at 85 if her hands hadn’t become like non functioning claws from severe arthritis. ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:49 PM |
| 5 | Sounds like a dude I knew in college. He said his body count was between 60 and 80 something and I could help but think how many of those women he actually got off.Oh I know that, I meant more like recent history, during my lifetime and seemingly, based on stories from my mom and her friends, from about the 70s until 2000s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Someone posted on NextDoor about a guy masturbating at a trail in broad daylight near where I live... this scrote comments to say women shouldn’t wear tight leggings and tops outsideHe IS the sex crazed maniac. He’s saying he can understand how this guy can’t control himself because women are wearing exercise clothes that happen to fit tight because that is how they function best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 10 | I think I found the queen of pickmesThis is 100% written by a male. For all you saying you aren’t sure because you know women who do this stuff, yes there are pick mes who do it, but the style of this writing is a dead give away that it’s a man. Sounds like an Indian guy based on some small grammatical clues like, “and also elder to me” instead of “and older than me”. Someone already pointed out the other extremely obvious giveaway about the whole “swallowing their cum from the source” but then also note the linking it to wanting … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:09 PM |
| 32 | Sounds like a dude I knew in college. He said his body count was between 60 and 80 something and I could help but think how many of those women he actually got off.I feel like it used to be a lot more of a point of pride and a a bragging right amongst men to be able to say you could actually make women cum. Even if they were lying, it was at least something that was cool enough and aspired to, for them to want to lie about it. These days more and more, the brag for men is getting in and out as quick as possible, just using the woman as a human masturbatory tool and her pleasure isn’t even a consideration or care, and everything is “doesn’t matter, had sex”… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 32 | I see your pickme who 'helps' married men and raise you one I found in the wild. She has other posts about how much she cherishes that someone else's man chooses her.She 100% posted this to try and feel less guilty about it all and like she’s not a bad person. She’s deluding herself that she can fuck some husbands man and not hurt her so long as she can also delude herself that he treats the wife better than how he treats her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:34 PM |
| 41 | I see your pickme who 'helps' married men and raise you one I found in the wild. She has other posts about how much she cherishes that someone else's man chooses her.She acts like there is a way for her to fuck this woman’s husband and not hurt her. You can tell her self esteem is in the trash, she views herself as “some weird black chick” and I get the feeling she feels like being the fetishized sex toy of some cheating scrote is the best she deserves. This doesn’t absolve her of responsibility mind you, she’s trying to lessen her guilt making a post like that. As someone else pointed out, she sees how he treats he when she asks about these things, so in re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:25 PM |
| 119 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).You need to cut this male friend out. If he is sensitive to this he is a LVM and probably has “red pill” type beliefs. But he can’t speak about them without blowing his cover so he pretends to care about your well-being with a question like that. He’s concern trolling you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:03 PM |
| 13 | Reason #104730194740107583947365 some men really suckThey think they are being “edgy” and “counter-culture” when they make basic insults against women, like saying we are dumb, because they actually believe this world “worships women” so they think they are really doing something and trying to “open mens eyes” about the “true nature” of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:09 AM |
| 6 | Reason #104730194740107583947365 some men really suckThank you for sharing that! Funny and accurate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:06 AM |
| 27 | Reason #104730194740107583947365 some men really suckAffirmative action, for males, a privileged class. Wow. This world is insane. It’s bad enough a man can “identify” into womanhood and not only be eligible for things meant to help women, but be even more likely to get it, so the organization awarding it can virtue signal and seem woke for helping “women” who are “double oppressed”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:49 AM |
| 9 | Reason #104730194740107583947365 some men really suckExactly, it’s jealousy, plain and simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:43 AM |
| 56 | The pickmeisha in the comment sec being like "OR you could both love each other and it doesn't have to be a one sided street" Nah sis that's how you get played. Learnt my lesson the hard way , a man should always ALWAYS love you more than YOU love HIM.This has been nothing but 100% true in my life experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:39 AM |
| 32 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisLink doesn’t work for me, probably for the better since I actually had an abusive narc ex do that to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:42 PM |
| 8 | I read asktrp for almost a year to gather insight on how LVMs mind workAlso, remember that these things are according to them and they lie like crazy to feel more like victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:42 PM |
| 30 | No walk dates, not even during a pandemic.But in reality, it’s a public park where married guys on the DL are getting blow jobs in the bathrooms from other men and the whole place smells like piss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:39 PM |
| 15 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮No you aren’t old fashioned, it’s insane to willingly make yourself an unmarried baby mama and pay for the privilege.... Gee I wonder who is making those payments.... Why would you go through all of this and reward a man with a child at the expense of your body and possibly your life, without him even making any actual equal effort in your life nor a real commitment to you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:33 PM |
| 18 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Can’t cook, can’t clean, says he does “other stuff” like what? More fucking useless platitudes? She cooks, cleans, takes care of the animals and works, says he is so “thankful” yet she is the one trying to reward him with a gifted ps5... No sis, that is definitely NOT the “best boyfriend ever” and this undeserved “appreciation post” just makes her look like a pick me clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:25 PM |
| 7 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Gee what a lucky gal she is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:23 PM |
| 16 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Well that goes beyond “kinda mean to me at work” sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:16 PM |
| 3 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highI’m so sorry you and the members of your family went through this. I hope you’ve been able to find healing since. My mom went through similar with my dad and I too went through it for a few years in my late teens to early 20s. I often think about how different this world would be if we didn’t have men dragging us all down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 84 | British rapper Octavian's ex shared SEVERAL pieces of evidence that he beat her. This is one of his "fans" response. PICKMEISHAS ARE DANGEROUS WOMEN HATERSFuck her. I can’t stand these pick me’s who say shit like this. I’ll admit I was a pick me when I was younger as most of us were, but I never stooped this low to side with men accused of abuse or sexual assault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:42 PM |
| 17 | On the front page today 🤦♀️ why can't men, as a gender, understand what systematic oppression isAnd who is responsible for causing the vast majority of this? Oh that’s right, other men. Work on y’all own shit, it’s not women aren’t responsible for the problems men create for themselves, we have enough of our own systemic problems to worry about, again, the vast majority of them caused by men/patriarchy. Statistics can be very misleading and easily manipulated to support an agenda. The stat that men serve 64% longer in prison and are 3.4 times more likely to be imprisoned for committing the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:49 PM |
| 50 | How To Shut Down Woke Bros Who Think Women Exercising our FREE SEXUAL CHOICE is a hate crimeAnd whatever will she do now not having this man continue to argue with her?! He sure showed her! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:17 PM |
| 3 | what are you proud of?You go girl!! You deserve it all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:12 PM |
| 37 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highSo true, and yet they have no problem with the male superiority entrenched in our patriarchal society, so they can’t even justify their aversion to women saying we have more value by virtue signaling claiming that they don’t think anyone is superior over anyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:54 AM |
| 59 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highWow, did they really just say that participating in FDS would make women more likely to be violent against their male partners... and what he was saying about a major risk factor of Intimate partner violence is viewing the other gender as defective or immoral sounds like it came straight out of his ass. Yes men who hate women and view them as defective and immoral are probably more likely to be physically violent towards their female partners (though they are unlikely to have one in the first pl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:26 AM |
| 2 | No. Just, no.And who does she turn and ask this to? More men... it’s like she wants to be told this is normal so she doesn’t have to believe her husband is a disgusting fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:41 AM |
| 123 | Found one ya’lls boyfriend, time to make him an ex.Lmao, y’all I’m sorry I didn’t get the screenshot before I blocked, but some random scrote messaged me saying he sent my post to the dude, and told him his gf is probably going to dump him based on her following this sub. I said “good she needs to, he’s a loser with a victim complex” To which he replied that he had screenshotted what I just said and sent it to the guy. I said “okay, and? Do you think you are actually accomplishing anything?” He said “yes, I’m getting him ready” I said, “well my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 03:26 AM |
| 133 | Found one ya’lls boyfriend, time to make him an ex.I posted this excruciatingly long read because I thought it might be one of the maybe newer gals here who is trying to implement FDS, but is doing so with a LVM so it isn’t working. I asked if his gf was on reddit and he said she was and introduced him to it. If you are out there sis and this story sounds familiar, it is time to dump this guy, he’s a LVM with a male victim complex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:39 AM |
| 66 | No. Just, no.This is an adult woman actually questioning everything she knows to be the basics of personal hygiene practices, that she has known for her whole life, based on the fact that her husband told her she was wrong.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:22 AM |
| 34 | How to Know You’re A REAL “High Value Man” 💎I love him, but with him using our lingo, I was slightly worried he could be just parroting things he’s read here. I find it hard to trust men have honest intentions, especially these relationship advice types, but I went and looked at old videos from his channel and he’s been consistent with his views since he started his channel 4 years ago. So that was a relief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:41 AM |
| 11 | I'm having some flashbacks...Inkwell is a sardonic nickname for incels, so by saying mgtow is “inkwell lite” she’s saying it is the slightly tamer version of incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:33 AM |
| 15 | Not one person commeted on the fact that this woman is still a girlfriend after having several babies with this man and that she's treating HIM to a vacation. We're officially living in The Upside Down. 🤦🏽♀️I feel like she isn’t wrong to not pay for the other kid because like another commentator said, he isn’t paying for anything else so he can easily cover the cost for one extra child. If he was unwilling to do so she should absolutely just cancel the whole trip, not that she should have been paying for it to begin with anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:15 AM |
| 10 | I don’t know how to feel about this...Exactly, how many of these “women” are just men claiming to be women, a shit ton for sure. The scary thing is that this type of thing is going to become all too common when it comes to reporting statistics of more serious things, like crime statistics. The law is changing in many places allowing biological males who simply “identify” as women, no surgeries or hormones required, to legally change their sex to female and thus be recorded as female even though those males have the same, or often ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 05:21 PM |
| 0 | The tyrannical minority benefit the majorityI get the sentiment, but in reality, someone who is being physically abused is already likely being mentally and emotionally abused as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else seen this self righteous narc on the bachelor?Having just read this thread and going to watch it, they tease the reason right in the first couple minutes of episode one. It’s that she leaves halfway through right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Guys that download their personality based on the most popular / recent showsThere is just one thing I like about Joe Rogan, that he speaks out against biological males being allowed in women’s sports. In pretty much all other respects he is just another typical LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:24 PM |
| 12 | Pick-Me tales from reddit: Pick-Me falls for former friend who stole her nudes, askes reddit for advice since " he'd make me so happy as my boyfriend", claims he is just a confused virgin. WHAT IS LIFE Y'ALL?Sounds like it’s written by the guy who stole the nudes and he’s fantasizing about what he wishes that would have lead to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:04 PM |
| 6 | Don't fake your orgasms!Reading this I let out an involuntary “hmph” chuckle because it was just that ridiculous “I deserve a woman who orgasms”. What will these scrotes come up with next.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 178 | Subtle but still gotta get called outMen act like we expect them to say the exact words “do you consent to this?” which they claim would totally ruin the mood, but in reality all it takes is a simple “is this okay?” or even “does this feel good?”. If you think asking for consent “ruins the mood” aka the woman seemingly changes her mind about having sex, it probably wasn’t something she really wanted to do in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:26 AM |
| 66 | Can someone explain to me how Sean Penn is still working in Hollywood and went unscathed by the #MeToo movement when he’d savagely beat Madonna?Same with Terrence Howard, and he was actually convicted, of assault, terroristic threats, harassment and stalking against his first wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:02 AM |
| 5 | It's not even mainstream it's literally only in porn. Men are constantly being devalued? Then what are women? Sheesh im doneAs if it isn’t men who are the ones perpetuating and pushing women to engage in those particular kinks. By his own logic he should recognize that bdsm and hardcore porn is actually just sexualized violence, right? Or is name calling, degrading, and causing physical pain, only wrong and bad when it’s towards men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:10 AM |
| 3 | He thought threatening me was romantic.The other horrible side of this coin is the poor deluded women who actually believe in that line of sick thinking, it’s the extension of “he hits me because he really cares, if he didn’t care why would he bother?”. It’s like a defense mechanism, a desperate attempt to avoid having to see the abuse for what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:54 AM |
| 37 | She cooks all this amazing food for her husband as he's gaming, who she's admitted doesn't eat dinner with her most of the time. Comments call this a healthy relationship. 🙄God this is so cringe, especially because this could be an almost exact scene (her cooking skills look a lot better than mine) out of my life, years ago when I was such a pickme cool girl with my narc ex who played online poker for a living. Right down to the 3 screen display, and serving the food without even a mere acknowledgement from him, but at least he was making money to support us both and lovebomb me with vacations and gifts, not just ignoring me to play video games for the hell of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | May you meet someone who IS a feminist, not someone who SAYS he's a feminist.All men benefit from patriarchy, and all men are misogynistic to a degree, many men embrace it, but it’s also an unconscious bias instilled by society. Some recognize it and try to unlearn it, but that is a continual process that is never truly finished. Women are also socialized into misogyny, we call it internalized misogyny, and it’s a an unhealthy coping mechanism for living in a patriarchal society, but it doesn’t mean that men aren’t our oppressors. Just like how some POC have internalized… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 12:16 AM |
| 38 | “Online dating is so easy for women, you get so many messages!” My inbox:Do you really have to ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 01:21 PM |
| 7 | OLD is a lawless wasteland. What kind of "man" who apparently has their sh#t together would even joke about that? Sweetie you're not a good guy you're abusive trash. Next.Haha women being abused is SOOOOOO funny!!1 /s This peice of shit deserves his balls chopped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 01:14 PM |
| 28 | Porn has fried so many brains they can’t even see a cute picture puppy video without mentioning porn.Who knows, when they tried to study porns effect on mens brains, they literally couldn’t find any men in their 20s who didn’t watch it to serve as the control group. The average age the men reported that they began watching porn was 10. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2261377/Porn-study-scrapped-researchers-failed-ANY-20-males-hadn-t-watched-it.html Sorry I couldn’t find a better source, but the article is accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:18 AM |
| 36 | NEVER put "feminist" in your dating profile. You'll just end up attracting misogynistic losers who watch violent rape porn and fantasize about "breaking" feminists.Porn is sexual violence against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:00 AM |
| 7 | Maybe because he isn’t the right guy for them 🤷🏻♀️That’s a really succinct and humorous way to put it , but I think they were talking about this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jkh2z8/oh_look_another_double_bind_for_women_damned_if/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 06:44 AM |
| 11 | Also, WoMeN aRe BaD aT ScIeNcE. Science is for the logical sex.Exactly, the stereotype of bad driving really should belong to men if it is to be accurate. Even without the empirical evidence, I’m sure the vast majority of us have plenty of anecdotal evidence like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:24 AM |
| 39 | Also, WoMeN aRe BaD aT ScIeNcE. Science is for the logical sex.That is so wild to me that there is a stereotype of women being bad drivers and yet that is so empirically untrue that insurance companies actually discount women’s insurance.... once again men value the soothing/boosting of their egos over objective reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:13 AM |
| 25 | May you meet someone who IS a feminist, not someone who SAYS he's a feminist.Males can’t be feminists anyway, only females can be feminists, males can only be allies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:03 AM |
| 31 | Oh look another double bind for women. Damned if you do, damned if you don't 🤷♀️Always the “rules for thee, not for me” with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:01 AM |
| 30 | Oh look another double bind for women. Damned if you do, damned if you don't 🤷♀️Yup, like colt from 90 day fiancé. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 12:58 AM |
| 50 | Having a baby with a LVM can cause some of us our lives, make sure he is HVM so you leave your children in the right hands and it will be worth it.I got an abortion to avoid giving an abusive NVM a child he didn't deserve. It is the hardest thing I've ever done and I'll have to live with it for the rest of my life This is why I hate it when men trivialize the seriousness of abortion and act like it’s something so fleeting and simple or when so called “pro lifers” make it out as if women are taking their decision to have one lightly and without any emotion. Every woman experiences it differently, but by no means is it ever a simple thoughtl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 12:44 AM |
| 8 | Woman calmly confronts her little man baby about following other women on Instagram and inviting her over just to watch him play video games. He resorts to having a tantrum.He dares her “Then why don’t you do that”.... knowing she won’t because even if that were something she wanted to do she knows he would throw a shit fit, just like he is here, and probably break up with her, because it absolutely isn’t acceptable behavior in a relationship and he knows that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:40 PM |
| 49 | Scrote only has sex if it means his wife is pegging him while watching the kind of porn he likes. She does so begrudgingly. And he refuses to clean up the poop afterward.And this right here ladies is why I am not interested in any man with ANY sort of bisexual inclinations, it almost always translates in to weird paraphilic shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Even if he says he wants a relationship, plans trips with you, puts in a ton of effort. He will still change his mind in a heartbeat.So was mine. Glad you saw this ones colors early too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 12 | Even if he says he wants a relationship, plans trips with you, puts in a ton of effort. He will still change his mind in a heartbeat.There was a good post yesterday that talked about exactly what this guy did to you: Idealize, Devalue, Discard https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jgme9g/terms_that_move_the_goalposts/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 06:17 PM |
| 15 | Guys, what’s your opinion on couples pretending to be strangers at a bar/place and then flirting with each other?Yea, if you cut the whole cheating storyline, it could be really cute, reliving the time you guys met for the first time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Twitter thread of women exposing men who ask them from moneyBut FDS women wouldn’t put up with these guys asking for money.... so you are making a false comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 09:26 PM |
| 3 | LibFem Twitter is at it again. WTF is “Sexual Mutual Aid”? Notice how quickly the Incels jumped into the fray to spin this idea into a way to punish women who won’t have sex with them🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️It is actually happening in the Netherlands, the disable can get a stipend up 12 times a year to be used to buy a sex worker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:33 AM |
| 18 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!Having sex with a small dick is a waste of time. Even when I was a libfem I was still pretty staunch in this belief and applied it somewhat mercilessly to the point that I would stop things there if we started fooling around with the intention of leading to sex and I realized he was short and thin down there, because I wasn’t about to waste my time and up my number to receive no pleasure just because the dude thought he was getting sex. I would make some excuse, probably about wanting to take th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:59 AM |
| 21 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!So you aren’t actually disagreeing, she actually described an experience just like yours, a guy with a big one that hurt her and then a guy who was smaller but fit her perfectly. Her point is that size (and shape) do matter, but that doesn’t necessarily always mean the bigger the better. IMO it seems that every woman has a Goldilocks spot when it comes to the most pleasurable size and shape specifically for her vagina and it can vary quite a bit from woman to woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:04 PM |
| 50 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!Thickness is most important IMO. 5 inches and thick is better than 8 inch but thinner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Sounds like someone I used to love 🤔I snorted like a pig reading this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 4 | LibFem Twitter is at it again. WTF is “Sexual Mutual Aid”? Notice how quickly the Incels jumped into the fray to spin this idea into a way to punish women who won’t have sex with them🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Oh god, I’m pretty sure that just means free prostitution, instead of money they get woke SJW points! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:08 PM |
| 26 | Prostitution is NOT a victimless crime. Prostitution is illegal for the same reason Crack is illegal: It's a public health hazard for both the distributor and the consumer, and contributes to trafficking and social breakdown.Yup. Though, I support the criminalization of pimps and johns and decriminalization for the prostitutes themselves. However, I would be for criminalization of them too if we had a decent legal system that say, charged the woman with a misdemeanor that required her to engage in therapy/addiction treatment, offered resources to get her out of prostitution, and that completely expunged the charge upon completion of such a program. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 54 | Legal and moral obligation of Tinder to vet rapistsAbsolutely agree. Even most of the escort sites have a verification system for potential clients, many that involve verifying their real identity via full name and employment verification, some that include background checks. You might say that escorts are facing a higher danger, but in reality, both a woman on tinder and an escort are meeting strange men from the internet who’s intention is to fuck them, but could also have a darker motive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:29 PM |
| 2 | No career no personality no respect for women no decent pics only sad dickRemember that post the other day that was a screenshot of a dude admitting that the reason he gets into a relationship with a woman is so that he can get access to consistent sex? That’s exactly the mindset of this dude here. He considers it to be too much work to make the effort to meet and attempt to seduce new women all the time like he would prefer, so out of laziness he will accept having access to sex with the same woman on a consistent basis and humor whatever ideas she has about it being… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:11 PM |
| 55 | Short Kings or Scrotes?Exactly, men having physical preferences for women is just considered normal, but when women have preferences, suddenly it’s DiScRimInTIoN.... Sorry dudes, but that’s literally the whole point, choosing a partner is inherently discriminatory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:54 PM |
| 41 | Short Kings or Scrotes?”While we tend to think of women as the primary victims of unrealistic societal beauty standards, men definitely bear the brunt of the body shaming when it comes to two specific measurements: height and penis size. And while body-positive efforts have made strides in quashing at least the most blatant displays of female body-shaming, we don’t seem to have come quite as far in terms of promoting and enforcing the same standards of positivity toward male bodies. By and large, jokes about short guy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:41 PM |
| 29 | I'm at a loss.They were testing a male birth control, it never went to market because the men reported too many side effects, mostly the same ones women experience, and their weak asses couldn’t handle it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:03 AM |
| 37 | Never leave the table on a first date!Thank god that waitress and then her manager did the right thing when the waitress informed the manager and the manager called police. Had the waitress not informed the manager or if she did, but the manager was some ZVM scrote who would blow it off, I shudder to think what would happen to that poor woman. I sadly believe a situation like this, where the woman is not only notified, but police are called and the man is arrested, is very much an outlier of what usually happens in these situations,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:49 AM |
| 7 | Standards? Whats that?Looking at the comments of that video, some queen said she sent it to some scrote who asked for nudes! Go sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:26 AM |
| 11 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...His handle is “@thegrowthspurt” guess he’s still waiting on his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:19 AM |
| 17 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...And based on his username, he fancies himself some kind of “coach”, coach of what I’m not sure, perhaps shitty male opinions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:16 AM |
| 10 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...The ordinary is the best affordable skincare brand!! Their serums routinely outperform the more expensive serums I get samples of from Ipsy. I really love their “buffet” peptide serum, it’s one of their more expensive ones at $14 but it is worth every penny, it visibly diminishes the appearance of the fine lines on my forehead and gives my skin a healthy plumped look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:14 AM |
| 14 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...Must be nice for them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 139 | At least you got picked 💁♀️Wow, the LVM with a receding hairline and beer gut is accurate af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:07 AM |
| 128 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃If only they could be so blunt to our faces, but that would ruin their whole little scheme. I think most women realize dudes like this exist, but they don’t understand how extremely prevalent this mindset is among men, being with women purely out of convenience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:14 PM |
| 36 | Redpill scrote (former incel) sats FDS is for “unattractive women”. Help me roast this scrote ladies.Yup, this has been posted before, but it was some months ago. I thought it very telling he featured a black woman in the article’s photo. He’s a misogynist and a racist, as they do so often go hand in hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:09 PM |
| 31 | They're so quick to joke about Daddy Issues, but forget about their Mommy Issues - what else do you call it when you want to have sex with a woman who feeds you, cleans up after you and comforts you?They literally call them “mommy gf’s” https://np.reddit.com/r/idealgf/comments/99na6n/mommy_gf/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf and males on the internet talk about them as an ideal, as you’ll notice that is posted ina sub called “ideal gf” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:19 AM |
| 8 | Lately I've been questioning my sexuality because I realize I'm not actually attracted to +95% of men.I thought about mentioning that, but I didn’t want to get too much on a soapbox about something that could seem unrelated, but as a gc radfem myself, I did notice that the sub allows males who identify as lesbians and I obviously disagree with that. It did seem quite a bit less overrun with them than most of the other lesbian subreddits when I was lurking on it a bit some months ago, I wouldn’t be surprised if it has gotten worse, as the subs that allows these fetishistic males tend to do. I do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:55 PM |
| 6 | FDS Approved Must-Have Products??Now I have to know what it is you use! Routine pretty please!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:18 AM |
| 81 | "I love beautiful sexy women". Judging by his pictures, he loves them sauteed in Paula Deen volumes of butter most of all.Says he wants a woman that is slim using 3 different descriptors that all mean the same thing in the same sentence, is built like a potato himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:46 AM |
| 35 | Lately I've been questioning my sexuality because I realize I'm not actually attracted to +95% of men.The Late bloomer lesbians sub has a great master doc for women questioning their heterosexuality. Here’s the link https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vT3f5IIzt5PG-M7G9_Z-gjY4gZaiUneTdMlYrFAcdBGcJo0-N-RDQcj2JfxOaBTxKa6J_DiDQNgqVpg/pub You may find the “compulsive heterosexuality” section particularly helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:41 AM |
| 63 | If a guy you are dating has someone "who got away", tell them to go get that person backYup, and he will always compare you against her, her being the standard to achieve. He will also likely romanticize and exaggerate all of her good qualities while downplaying yours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:32 AM |
| 8 | Dear FDS please stop using the phrase: "Going Dutch".Whether he pays or not you don’t owe a man anything, in fact it is a good test to see if a man does expect sex from you because he paid, you know right away that he’s a LVM. As for your issue with the phrase “going Dutch” it’s not a phrase in my typical vocabulary, but I’m sure I’ve used it before. I never thought about it being potentially offensive and I still don’t think it really is, but I’m not Dutch so I suppose I’m not the right person to say whether it is actually offensive or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:29 AM |
| 11 | Has anyone else ever tried to warn their ex’s new partner?On this season of 90 day fiancé happily ever after that’s what’s Larissa did, she called up colts new gf Jess to warn her. Jess blew it off at the time, but as she started seeing more and more of colts LV behavior she realized Larissa was right, she dumped colt, and now her and Larissa are friends. Personally though, I wouldn’t do it, the woman would probably go back and tell him and he’d be thinking I was just jealously trying to get him back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 12 | Men/male lurkers I have the solution for your bad dates!Excellent post! Though I doubt the kinds of men with the complaints you mentioned are HVM nor the type to actually follow this advice. The only other bone I have to pick with this is when you said he should not ask for a date for a whole 2 weeks. FDS advocates for us not to spend weeks texting and ditch any man who doesn’t quickly ask us on a date. Maybe that can be mitigated by video chats and calls that you mention, but personally that wouldn’t cut it for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | I’m dying....Dude really thinks a lesbian wants to have a threesome with him, lesbian tricks him into just letting her bang the girlfriend insteadWow, what amazing payback for these gross scrotes who ask lesbians for 3somes. I hope Tomi dumps him for Delilah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:50 AM |
| 7 | If a man asks you for a 3some or anal, runAbsolutely agree that no decent man will ask for or be interested in anal. TBH I sometimes question the sexuality of these men who are super focused on anal sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | While this advice is well intentioned, it misses how women have to vet men ruthlessly because they are users and abusers. This is what pickmes think when they are chasing a man and being “equal” in the relationship. Don’t fall for it ladies.Right. This would be good advice if it were directed at men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | WHY THE FUCK DO MEN ALWAYS BLAME WOMAN FOR CATFISHING WHEN THE ONE WHO CATFISH THE MOST ARE MEN.He probably just used old pics from when he wasn’t balding and fat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:44 AM |
| 31 | Ok buddySo, he wants a free bang maid. As if women are just dying to come fuck, cook, and clean for some slimy scrote. These guys who get little bit of muscles think they are so hot, forgetting their face still a 3 and there is no amount of muscle that will make up for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:49 AM |
| 13 | Ad for a pickme of his very own! Don’t worry 18+ only 🤢Sounds like a narcissist being very transparent about looking for a victim to get their narcissistic supply from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha shit talks feminism and gets picked in the replies by two Internet scrotes! THIS is the crumb of attention these pick me’s are so desperate for when they say this shit.Obviously I agree with her second statement that males should not be competing against girls and women because on average males are physically stronger, it’s the part where she says “thats a fact feminists try not to think about” that I take issue with and her following statement replying “are you sure about that?” to another replies that most feminists are sane and do acknowledge what she is saying. If she had specified liberal feminists I would be more apt to agree with her, but its pretty obv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:36 PM |
| 30 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.I’ve found Asian American men seem to have less low value behaviors as a whole than other ethnicities of men, they tend to better about hygiene for one and often educated and employed. Though, This doesn’t apply as much to half asian American men, also known as hapas, I’ve dated 2 (my narcissistic recently paroled ex is one of them) and known quite a few and they often have these identity crises and anxieties that manifests all sorts of negative personality and behavioral characteristics specifi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 2 | This is why we don’t sit around and put our eggs in one basket and remember if a man wants you he will say it directlyI love him, he’s the only dude that tells it like it really is with relationship advice and seems genuine about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 8 | This is why we don’t sit around and put our eggs in one basket and remember if a man wants you he will say it directlyThe crazy part is these dudes will be thinking you are the one who isn’t hot enough while they usually ain’t shit in the looks department themselves. The most average and even downright unattractive men think they deserve women with celebrity or model looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Wow. This is sad.Right, she didn’t ask, she essentially demanded, and in the name of her “independence”... that’s not independent that’s just shifting who you are dependent on to pay. I wonder if she would be quite as eager to be independent and pay her way on the date if she had to work for that money herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMI do the same, haven’t been banned for it from anywhere, but I’m banned from a lot of the dating and so called women’s subs for being a GC participant before it was banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:30 PM |
| 3 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?But that entire sub and numerous others actually buy into this male victim mentality BS, they think they are just owed sex and companionship by virtue of them being male but they are too lazy and unwilling to put in the actual effort of taking care of their hygiene and leveling up to have a chance at attracting women, they’d rather just whine on the internet about how women are shallow b*tches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:57 AM |
| 9 | Identifying a HVM.Came here to say this. If he watches porn, asking him to stop isn’t going to make him stop, he’ll just continue to do it, but hide it from you. A man who watches porn is not a man who respects women and not a man you should be giving a chance to, even if of his own volition he offers to stop, because again, he’ll just hide it from you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:41 AM |
| 31 | “I’m not a feminist for very simple reasons. I love being a woman. I love men. I can’t wait to get married and start a family and I’d gladly make @GTSFarmer a sandwich, every time. Feminism is a scam. If you think Lena Dunham and Kathy Griffin are happy — go be a feminist.” - Candace OwensExactly, liberal feminism is the face of feminism right now and it has completely corrupted it. It’s no wonder women reject feminism when all they ever see of it is liberal feminist male pandering bullshit? That’s how it was for me for most of my life until I finally discovered radical feminism in my late 20’s and a I realized that it was what feminism was supposed be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:51 PM |
| 127 | Don't fall for it ladies!This is such a common question from men and I’ve never thought about how odd of a question it really is. Like, unless it’s like the meme says and you are trying to figure it out so you can pretend to be like that, as a man pursuing me, why else would you want to know what kind of traits I prefer in a man? Because it’s definitely not that you are just curious to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 92 | Creepy scrote goes through his neighbors mail and takes a picture of it to post on reddit insinuating that it was a sex toy. He swiftly deletes after multiple commenters inform him it’s a makeup and skincare subscription service. Links to thread in comments.Right!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:13 AM |
| 10 | The Ultimate Pickmesha and Raha The Fucking Queen.It’s really obvious she’s jealous of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:41 AM |
| 9 | My ex read my diary after I left and got pissed because he violated boundaries.Sorry this happened to you, but I have to know what you mean by inflatable fetish.... like blow up dolls? And you say he couldn’t have sex with you without them? Wtf sis, that’s some next level low self esteem to allow that shit if that’s what you mean. I’m not trying to make you feel bad, we’ve all done some mega cringe pick me shit in the past. it sounds like you are doing much better now though, I truly hope so ❤️ P.S. that woman that told you about him cheating once she found out about you a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 9 | Long time lurker- saw this and thought of this subOh thank god she returned the stuff, that makes me feel a little bit better, I just assumed she continued on with her pick me behavior by making up and then giving it all to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:30 AM |
| 32 | Someone posted the aita in a Facebook group, and I found a wild Pickme getting rightfully shamedShe’s lying anyway, trying to be cool girl™️ hoping to get picked. I don’t believe for second if she were in that woman’s shoes that she would have no problem with this, having given birth just three weeks ago and having done next to all the care for the baby completely by herself thus far because mr. scrote has every excuse in the book, that are all manipulatively disguised as concern about harming the baby somehow, to not do any. To the point that dude was literally running away when the baby … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:24 AM |
| 45 | Creepy scrote goes through his neighbors mail and takes a picture of it to post on reddit insinuating that it was a sex toy. He swiftly deletes after multiple commenters inform him it’s a makeup and skincare subscription service. Links to thread in comments.https://np.reddit.com/r/Ipsy/comments/iw0p5s/he_deleted_his_account_moments_later/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf And heres a screenshot OP took of a few of the comments before he deleted https://imgur.com/a/AIih5Vf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Reedy scrote goes through his neighbors mail and makes a post on reddit implying that she is receiving a sex toy. He swiftly deletes after being informed it’s a skincare and makeup subscription by multiple commenters, link in comments.https://www.reddit.com/r/Ipsy/comments/iw0p5s/he_deleted_his_account_moments_later/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf And Heres a screenshot OP took of a few of the comments before he deletes. https://imgur.com/a/AIih5Vf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:46 AM |
| 6 | "nice guy" that's "not good with money"... i wish to god I'd read this 20 years ago! she NAILS it! i married a man-child exactly like this and it took me back over a decade. but i am a queen (and raising another one) and my life is back on track now!How is that what you took away from this? The solution for wealthy women is to just not date or marry these kinds of leeching broke men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:08 AM |
| 6 | What's the best part about being a woman?Being able to actually think with a brain and not a dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:49 AM |
| 10 | Black woman stands up to lvm president 👑That is awesome. I didn’t care for the beginning of this article though where the male author cites black women ousting the Jheri curl, and getting Popeyes to make chicken sandwiches as examples of how “Black women have been saving America from itself and putting America in its place since the beginning of time”. I know it was meant tongue in cheek, but still I think it trivializes black women’s contributions to this country and they definitely could have used some better examples. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:39 AM |
| 13 | The ”Dogpill”, AKA They think we reject them to fuck dogs.It pretty much started with that one woman, who made videos about reasons why women should fuck their dogs and she was entirely serious because she ended up recording herself doing disgusting things to her dog. See that’s the thing, all it takes is one pick me or messed up woman who does a bad thing and these incel and mgtow types will take it as a representation of all women. So much of their ideology is based on the worst cases of something a woman has done and applying it to all women. One wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:26 AM |
| 2 | He wants to "pull up outside and talk in the car" and not arrange a date.Thanks ☺️ I’m really lucky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 3 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.I’m so sorry you went through that 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:32 PM |
| 13 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.I had replied to him. I didn’t like his accusatory sounding questions in the beginning about how she caught him, because it sounded like he was trying to make it seem like she might be lying about something, but then he did go on to say a few decent and logical things but then ended on how she would be “the best sister” ever if she bought him some panties. Like wtf seriously? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 7 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.Yes, truly truly it is. We used to have a few subs as havens away from it, but this is just about the only one left, because again, reddit is a hellhole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 6 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.Yup, and these men who hold these opinions, and even doing this kind of depraved shit themselves, are our brothers, husbands, sons, and other men in our life who might not say them to us face to face but the anonymity of the internet allows them to truly say how they feel. It makes me sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 29 | Saw this in a different sub. This is the state of scrotes in 2020. They never learn because pickmeishas act like they're into being talked like this. Stay safeYup, you can tell that he really thinks that shit works, maybe even worse, that he thinks that because it has worked before and some broken kinkmeisha acted all into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:51 PM |
| 12 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.I hear you. This stuff makes me extremely pissed off and like there is no hope for humanity and posting it here for everyone to share in mutual anger and disgust is the only thing that helps me feel a bit more sane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 27 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.That’s what made me more confident that this post isn’t just some masturbation fantasy of some sick fuck, as so many of these kinds of posts are. I feel so bad that she reached out to reddit for advice and this is the kind of shit she got. There needs to be some kind of PSA or way to warn women and girls to never post about real life situations asking for advice on reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 57 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.https://np.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/iuen91/caught_brother_jerking_off_to_my_panties/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf here is the full thread. That was just the top comment but there are a ton more trying to convince OP this is normal because guys are turned on by panties and not to tell her parents because it will negatively impact him. Some degenerate fuck decried what he did but then his solution, saying she would be “the best sister ever” was for her to buy him new pantie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:57 PM |
| 4 | I had to get on thisThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 5 | I had to get on thisAlright, after seeing all these hilarious ones, I wanna make one now, what collage making apps are y’all using? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:00 PM |
| 33 | Women addicts subject to male predators in substance abuse support groupsYup, AA groups are notorious for these type of males who use the group specifically to manipulate the women in the group. It was one of the first things my counselor warned me about back In my late teens when I was sentenced to 30 days in a rehab for underage drinking charges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:58 PM |
| 14 | So I made a collage of a modern desi girl's worst nightmares..to remind myself of the kind of toxicity that's ready to suck me in if I don't run fastThank you for explaining that to me. I can definitely understand valuing your freedom when you see so many examples of the alternative! I’m glad you have it! I had a lot of Arab and Desi friends growing up and because I lived in an ethnic neighborhood and I had girlfriends who weren’t allowed out of the house except for school until they are married and move in with their husband and his parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Seeing memes like this makes me feel hopeless. Who fucking makes these miserable text memes? Do you want what you're writing to be true? If you are like me and get sad when you see this kind of fear inducing trash meme quote, what do you do when you are feeling hopeless after seeing shit like this?You would be surprised (or probably not), at how many men will get offended by innocuous statements made in comments simply by referring to them as “males” in the statement. I like to do this on YouTube, use “males” instead of men, just because I find it entertaining when I eventually bait some scrote into getting offended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:07 AM |
| 6 | This poor woman. In her case the LVM trash mentality seems to be genetic. First the racism then the subsequent gaslighting. 😔Because she already had it set in her mind that the woman was a no good cheating prostitute not good enough for her son, and she wasn’t about to change her opinion just because the evidence of her assumptions was disproven! I’m sure she thought that about her before finding the pictures on FB anyway, because why would she go stalk her FB and then just automatically assume a man she has a picture with was her sugar daddy unless she was already looking for something to confirm her suspicions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:40 AM |
| 10 | He wants to "pull up outside and talk in the car" and not arrange a date.Even when I was a straight up prostitute (rough time of my life), I would never accept a car date. Most “working girls”, even many of the ones on the street, don’t, largely because they know how dangerous it can be and how wrong things can go being alone with a strange man in a car where he can take you anywhere and do anything without anyone around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:25 AM |
| 9 | He wants to "pull up outside and talk in the car" and not arrange a date.That reminds me of the time when I was still a pick me and I was about to hook up with this guy I had hung out with a few times because I was horny and wanted the thrill of a hookup, but when I went to feel what he was working with, he was hard but it was short and thin and I made up some excuse when he tried to take things further because I realized that little thing would do nothing for me. I left and never spoke to him again until I saw him with a male friend of mine after they had just met a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:18 AM |
| 21 | Chris Watts wasn't the man he appeared to be. 🚨Cautionary Reminder 🚨Those men that say women need to lower their standards will be the same ones ready to lay the blame on a woman for her own abuse for not picking the right guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:35 AM |
| 17 | So I made a collage of a modern desi girl's worst nightmares..to remind myself of the kind of toxicity that's ready to suck me in if I don't run fastWhat does the last one on the bottom right represent? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:12 AM |
| 51 | Most**Lmao I love how some pick me edited this to add in the word “some” in attempt to avoid offending the scrotes 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:10 AM |
| 23 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomSome of these degenerates had the audacity to literally argue that he wasn’t the one with an issue, that SHE was! This dude said the guy did zero wrong: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/iu4s9u/my_boyfriend_jerked_off_with_my_baby_in_the_same/g5ij8nc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 I don’t know why I am always shocked at the lengths men will go to to defend the most atrocious behavior of other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:04 AM |
| 23 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomIn all reality, what are her issues? Not wanting the dude to whack off while she (or the baby, for Christ’s sake) is around isn’t an issue, it’s a reasonable boundary . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:02 AM |
| 2 | FrOm ThE pAsT...best father of the yearYour kids are not “from the past” you dolt, they are still here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 3 | "You don't owe any man sex, independently of how much he has invested in you or not"Oh hell yes, it’s very disrespectful! A man is not going to ask a woman he respects that question within 30 mins of meeting, but then, so many men don’t respect any women or women as a whole, so 🤷🏻♀️ at least like you said, it shows their true LV nature early on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:38 AM |
| 5 | Why is dating in your late 30s/early 40s so hard?First of all, you need to get your self esteem up before you go anywhere near dating, LVM and abusers can spot low self esteem a mile away and will use it to prey on you. It sounds like you aren’t happy about your weight, so you are going to need to take actions to make a change, buy some cheap work out equipment and start working out at home, employ portion control, and stay away from unnecessary sugar, even just doing one of these will result in weight loss. If you drink sodas or juices instea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:21 AM |
| 3 | It’s always Dan’s on OLD 🤮🤮Definitely don’t condone prostitution, but clearly what this guy really wants is an escort, he’s just too cheap and delusional to realize it. Does he actually think a beautiful woman would willingly sleep with him no strings attached for free or does he just figure he has nothing to lose by trying? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:48 AM |
| 5 | Polyamory uncoverRestingmyfeet on Instagram is a radfem account I follow and she says she’s a polyam febfem (female exclusive bisexual) and as a bi woman myself, I am so curious about how that works out with all women. Would it have any of the same pitfalls it does when men are involved? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 7 | He’s USING you girl!🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:35 AM |
| 7 | Youtube hates women too. "YouTube wants to punish me for being a woman.... because of a YesStyle try on haul". Misogyny of modern society.Eugenia Cooney regularly does try on hauls and cosplays with barely there clothes just hanging off her sickly skeletal frame while she “body checks” (when people with an ED try to catch certain angles in a camera or mirror of their bones that accentuate their thinness) and thats perfectly fine for YouTube, but this isn’t? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 115 | If you're not married, you are SINGLE. Point blank.Y’all missed the point. It’s not about acting like you are single in a relationship, it’s that none of these supposed committed states of a relationship are truly a commitment without being married. So many women are willing to have a mans child without him wanting to be married, or date for years and years with no proposal in sight, because they convince themselves they don’t need marriage or feel that they “are basically married anyway” but until he actually marries you, you ain’t married, sis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 14 | "You don't owe any man sex, independently of how much he has invested in you or not"Something like “we’ll see how the night goes!” Should be good enough of an answer to get him to take the chance and pay, I’d think. And yea, then dip because he’s just told you he’s a LVM, at least you can appreciate that he gave you the heads up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 12:39 AM |
| 78 | When a Pitbull Approaches a Man and His Young Daughter, The Father Jumps on the Hood of a Car and Lets His Daughter Fend For HerselfAbsolutely sickening. Coward POS. I can’t imagine how the poor little girl feels knowing even her own father won’t protect her in this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 12:21 AM |
| 14 | McDonald's commercial, what a joke. Hate how widespread struggle love & 50/50 mentality isHow is it biphobic to express my own preferences and say I am not attracted to a certain type of man? You sound like trans activists and their “either consider trans people as sexual partners or you are transphobic”. Is it homophobic to acknowledge that many gay men are extremely misogynistic? It’s the fact that they are MEN above anything, the descriptors and various groups and identities are less important. I’m not biphobic, I am bi and I hold no judgements about bisexual women, it’s men, of a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:16 AM |
| 42 | Research on pedophilia is increasingly showing us that exposure to porn and pedophilia have strong connections. This is part of why there are so many more male pedophiles, as men are socialized to use pornI have heard this used as an excuse from men online frequently, that they started watching more and more extreme porn and it lead to CP, but they say it as if that makes it less their fault and as if it doesn’t mean they are actually a pedo, nah you pedo piece of shit, YOU are still the one who sought it out, YOU are still the one who got turned on by it, YOU are still a degenerate pedophile who deserves to be regarded as less than human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:41 AM |
| 9 | McDonald's commercial, what a joke. Hate how widespread struggle love & 50/50 mentality isAnd he’s bisexual, now maybe this makes me a hypocrite as a bi woman myself, but knowing a man has a sexual interest in other men ruins all attraction for me. 🤷🏻♀️ Straight men are pornsick horn dogs enough without having a whole other gender of pornsick men to be attracted to and cheat with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 30 | "I'm a father first, with the most amazing baby"It’s funny because I see this same thing said about single mothers, that their must be something wrong with them, when I occasionally lurk in the mgtow sub to laugh at how deluded they are, but they make the assumption that it’s the man who left her which I guess makes sense from a LVM perspective since they know other LVM are notorious for leaving their girlfriend/wife and baby solely because they don’t want to tied down and instead want to be “free”, but that is a reflection on them and not th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 34 | Got it twisted when I called him out on his overly sexual flirting with me. Then I get this at 5am. Now he's going to have to wait longer now bc that's his "making it up to me"Wait, what do you mean by he’s going to wait even longer as a way to make it up to you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | No need to wish me the best because I’m going to make sure I have it. Bye for good. 👋🏼That’s the biggest reason I blocked mine, hearing from him would give me anxiety to the point I’d be shaking. Even if it’s not that severe and it’s just a bit of a bummer when you hear from them, it’s worth it to get rid of that and restore your peace and stop their ability to have power over you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 68 | No need to wish me the best because I’m going to make sure I have it. Bye for good. 👋🏼I know it probably felt cathartic to tell him, but you should never let scrotes know they hurt you. As a decent human being yourself, you assume that it will make him feel bad or guilty, but scrotes aren’t decent human beings and if they do give a shit about you telling them at all, it’s only in the sense that it gives them a feeling of power over you to know they could affect you that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 14 | I showed up my pickmeisha mother-in-law for the first time and...IT... FELT... AWESOME!Even just accepting that you need to leave him is a huge step, actively working on it is one too. You should be proud for realizing your worth. It’s gonna be a fresh start in life that is going to feel so good without a LVM dragging you down! I wish you the best of luck and happiness! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:51 PM |
| 19 | I showed up my pickmeisha mother-in-law for the first time and...IT... FELT... AWESOME!That was my first thought, what kind of man they raised with this mentality. I hope you are able to detach from this loser as soon as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:41 PM |
| 7 | For Those Women Who Feel They Cannot Leave LVMs Due to Financial Abuse and Lack of Income... My experiences and Advice10/10 post., thank you for making it! It would be great to have it as a link in the info section of the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:35 PM |
| 31 | Woman finds out that her husband’s cousin’s ‘secret child’ is actually his from the time he cheated on her.From what you’ve said here... it doesn’t sound like you disagree really. Men may only care about children they have a biological paternity to, but them having that biological paternity doesn’t necessarily guarantee they will care about the child. How many absent fathers in this world have completely abandoned their kids? My point though was that it’s not out of his good heart and caring about children that he doesn’t want to let the child go into foster care, it might be based somewhat on the fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:29 PM |
| 74 | Woman finds out that her husband’s cousin’s ‘secret child’ is actually his from the time he cheated on her.Exactly. I highly doubt his feelings of attachment to this baby and desire to keep it out of foster care is out of the goodness of his heart and more than likely has more to do with his lingering feelings for the mother and viewing the child as a remaining part of her. Maybe I’m cynical, but I almost never give men the benefit of the doubt of having altruistic motivations anymore and It almost always turns out that I was right not to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLYou said “the sub” had to state that men need to stop whining about if the genders were reversed, and the only way that makes sense is if you are referring to the stickied comment, which is made by a moderator. It’s not that I’m not understanding your joke, it’s that I’m trying to point out how you misinterpreted what the stickied comment was actually saying. It wasn’t telling people to stop making those comments, it was telling people to stop reporting those comments and that actually making a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLYou said that the mod asked people to stop whining that it would be different if the genders were reversed, but that’s not what they said. They asked people to stop reporting comments of people saying that because in the mods words, “it is a fair point”, but said that actually making a new post of the same story but genders reversed, or saying that someone should do that, is against the rules. I’m just pointing this out because I had to go reread it when you said that because I couldn’t believe … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLActually, it was sort of the opposite, the stickied comment from the mod said that people need to stop advocating for making, or actually making, a made up post of this scenario with the genders reversed. And the second thing they said was for people to stop reporting comments that say people would give a different judgement if the genders were reversed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLSorting by controversial, there are a bunch of idiots saying that if the genders were reversed people would be calling the husband TA for not letting his wife take the job and that shows that sub and reddit as a whole is biased in favor of women. The delusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Re: His true colors have been Revealed. He just emailed me... I guess he doesn't knowing blocked him already....at least he wished me the best👀I checked your post history to see if you were the same person who posted about taking a break before his deployment, which you are. But I also saw some pretty worrying stuff. This dude was 36 and you are 18 and the relationship was a ddlg one where he was your “daddy”. I really hope the fact that you’ve found this sub is an indicator that you have realized how creepy that whole situation was and how creepy and pedophile-y this ddlg crap is overall. Edit: I just went back and looked again and yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:08 PM |
| 17 | We had been talking to eachother daily for weeks up until this point while I recovered from surgery before our first date. I immediately ghosted him after this. Just... wow LMAO. His bumble originally said he was 31. Make sure you do your research before meeting up with a guyFunny how the popular trope is that women are the ones who lie about our age, but it’s almost entirely men who actually do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:00 AM |
| 83 | Women Against Registry...An Example of How Dangerous Pickmes Can BeWow that is fucked up. I noticed how all of the stories shared are about men... I didn’t bother to watch them because I can already predict the bullshit and excuses from these pick mes for their creepy nigels, but it’s interesting they don’t have stories of women who are “unfairly” on this registry... wonder why that could be..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:11 AM |
| 32 | It's men of every culture and religion.Some of the loudest outcry’s against misogynistic practices of Islam are from women who were raised Muslim, yet when someone rightfully points out these shitty practices they are accused of being some intolerant xenophobe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:35 PM |
| 9 | What is this????? 🤢 And she’s been his gf for nine years.. sis, NO“Is she just trying to make me insecure?” Men can take anything and find a way to make it about them and how it impacts them/their egos. Then they turn it around and accuse women of being the self centered ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:25 PM |
| 16 | 4 ways women can test a guy to see if he is serious / FDS MINDSET TO A TThis guy is just about the only relationship coach for women that I’ve come across who tells it like it is and gives real and practical advice that is actually beneficial to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:18 PM |
| 39 | So sad... The comments section is full of women saying "RUN" but OP is only listening to the 2 men who commented saying ThiS iS tOtALLy NoRmAL!For him, the one getting his dick sucked, it is, and that’s all he cares about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:03 PM |
| 44 | Men and women multiple dating are not the same!I’m glad you explained this because it’s something I noticed that we are encouraged here to multiple date but discouraged from dating men who do the same, and inherently I knew that the two things weren’t the same, but I didn’t have an exact logic for “why” completely worked out. Thanks for taking the time to lay it out in a clear and comprehensive way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:53 AM |
| 29 | Won’t someone think of the poor menz who are now *sometimes* expected to do their fair share?Exactly, that what makes this assertion especially ridiculous, that it’s completely the opposite. As usual, scrotes are projecting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:34 AM |
| 1 | I really love this tiktok. As someone that is currently learning to love myself and do things alone. Seeing ppl do this encourages meGay men who also recognize that men ain’t shit are the only gay bffs worth having | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Should I block an ex for the simple fact that hearing from him makes me sad and hinders my self improvement progress?Yes, I recently did this and it helped my mental health a ton. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:36 AM |
| 8 | That frustration when you realize how most men interpret your interestThis cracked me up, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 9 | His true colors have been revealedI bet he made up the deployment to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:35 AM |
| 13 | LVM on 90 day Fiancé- feeling *blessed* to be singleThat fucker andrei has me seeing red every episode with his arrogant macho bullshit. He expects all the positives of traditional gender roles with none of the responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:20 AM |
| 95 | Won’t someone think of the poor menz who are now *sometimes* expected to do their fair share?That’s the part that really got me, he admits that it’s a fair expectation, but still somehow concludes that it should be a recognized issue, even comparing it to the fight for women’s equal rights. The cognitive dissonance is off the charts, but still not surprising given that we are talking about men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:07 AM |
| 52 | It's men of every culture and religion.This is why it makes me sad to see the women who made it here, but still refuse to let go of the patriarchal tool of oppression that is Christianity (and the majority of religions). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 18 | HVM has only known me for a month and wants to get married????You have only known him for a month, there’s no way to know if he’s truly HVM. We need to stop giving the HVM label to guys we haven’t known for long enough to be able to tell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 59 | Is it strange that potential date sent me an unflattering photo?It’s more likely that the unflattering photo is what he actually looks like now and the others are either filtered or from years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:30 PM |
| 24 | Sums it up pretty wellThere have been 3 different replies to this either from pickmeaisha or scrotes that got removed, 1 that slipped through and is who the other person in this thread replied to, and 2 that were deleted before they could be posted, but I could see some of the comment in my notification previews and they were saying it is the same thing or at least that there is a comparison to be made. It’s like dudes that use “divorce rape” as a term, males really believe any money coming out of their pocket is aki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:04 AM |
| 4 | Subtle “dick pick” with a side of “emotional connection”And pointy boobs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Man gropes woman's butt on live televisionI’ve seen this clip many times and it makes me just as angry every time I see it. When he moves in back next to her after she scoots away. 😡 And the incident wasn’t even given any nevermind at the time, it resurfaced years later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 162 | Sums it up pretty wellAnd males on reddit actually compare Cardi to bill cosby because she admitted to drugging clients to rob them in the past, because getting robbed is totally the same as getting raped 🙄 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | This is what dating men is like lol see how shallow I found out that was after I got just a little deeper? It’s like a bait and switch. (Lid for scale)I just made this raggedy looking meme inspired by this and my latest Ipsy disappointment https://imgur.com/a/N2sqvgC | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Always about them 🙄🙄🙄I know you were speaking about it from their perspective, but I just wanted to say that feminism is NOT about equality of the sexes. It’s about liberating women from male oppression under patriarchy. The whole “equality” narrative is popular among libfems and men, and they use it to divert the focus from women and onto men. It’s not feminisms job to cater to men or their issues when we have so many issues affecting women to tackle. Men using the equality narrative to advocate for things that are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I've seen this image posted around before with various captions, but this one upsets me the most. If this girl's FATHER is placing so much value on her sexuality, how does she stand a chance with the rest of the world?There are 2, a gspot orgasm and a clitoral orgasm and both are very different sensations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:35 PM |
| 81 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.What a fucking psycho. I would actually report this to police if you can, he threatened you. Not that it would probably do much good, but you never know sometimes cops do end up doing their job. It wouldn’t be hard to track his IP if they wanted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:30 PM |
| 5 | So I'm at a crossroads - HVM becoming LVM, what next?It’s not uncommon for LVM to put on a good act for years before showing their true character. You should start preparing to go separate ways because it is definitely going to get worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 09:08 PM |
| 6 | Why on earth on are teenagers worried about this shit....oh wait I know. Breaks my heart : /It breaks my heart too. I did the same thing starting at about 14, before I was even having sex, because I felt like having a hairy vagina was dirty and undesirable. Eventually the ingrown hairs started causing abscesses and I had to stop. I was very self conscious about it at first, but now I embrace it and sport a full proud bush (with a bit of trimming for neatness) and I don’t have to deal with any of that and can’t understand why I ever put up with it in the first place. I never even really… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | I’m obviously late to the band wagon but today I discovered the term “Softboy” 😂🤦🏻♀️Yea.. I don’t want a “boy” of any kind... I want a man. A HV one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 4 | In the weirdest flex ever, PornStar Lisa Ann brags that she’s “not like the other girls” because she fucks hundreds of professional athletes for free & takes an active role discouraging sex workers from expecting payment because players “are not meal tickets”. What circle of Pickmeisha hell is this?Right, if that’s how she feels about it shouldn’t she be shooting her pornos for free? This whole thing was a sad mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:45 PM |
| 6 | I hope he picks the second girl 🥴😴Oh I’m sure he realizes it, he just doesn’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:38 PM |
| 9 | The other side I guess (Not an excuse! I just found it interesting information) Thoughts??Exactly. And the fact that it took years to even occur to him that his behavior was wrong, and only because he saw it from his sisters perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:36 PM |
| 7 | A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸This has been my experience with every guy, except for one, who has made gestures like this early on in the relationship. Lovebombing narcissists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:25 PM |
| 11 | Daughter struggles against verbally abusive step-father IN PUBLIC, while her mother cries because she’s worried he doesn’t find her attractive anymore. If that’s what marriage is to some, fuck that.You would be surprised how much people don’t want to get involved.. I have actively been in peril before and had multiple people just ignore my pleas for help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:22 PM |
| 7 | Racist LVM tells his black wife that she looks like a slave in her head scarf, yet she's wondering if she's the asshole?Sort by controversial and read some of the downvoted comments if you want to ruin your day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:15 PM |
| 21 | This one's for all the low-lifes in my dm's - Die mad about it, boys!Ah, yes we just wake up hating men, out of nowhere! It’s has nothing to do with all the fucked up shit they do to us! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:06 PM |
| 13 | So I'm at a crossroads - HVM becoming LVM, what next?He didn’t start as a HVM and turn into a LVM, he was always a LVM from the beginning but just putting on a good front until he got comfortable enough, thinking you won’t leave him, to be his true LVM self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:03 PM |
| 16 | Scrote asks if he ITA for threatening to financially abuse his wife because she had a savings account to protect herselfThat one woman’s story in one of the top comments was heartbreaking. 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:29 PM |
| 2 | The new "trend" dudes have found for themselves (shocker: it revolves around hurting girls)The guy who brags about finishing in 2 mins 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.This. Not to mention how the thought of my man banging another dude would completely ruin his masculinity in my eyes and kill all my attraction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 13 | #MudSharkWeek is trending on Twitter. Apparently, White Scrotes are pressed over interracial relationships. Luckily, KPOP stans came to the rescue to drown out the racists. Controversial Opinion: Racism is a male sexual strategy to mate guard & discourage women from finding better deals elsewhere.“Normal” white men are the minority, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:43 PM |
| 17 | Hm interesting 😐This lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:41 PM |
| 38 | HVW ActivitiesThank you for this awesome list, I saved it. Here are a few I would like to add: Learn to knit or crochet Learn to use a sewing machine and make your own clothes Learn digital art (there are lots of free resources for learning online) Visit animals at a shelter Go to the zoo Go to a theme park Go biking/skateboarding/skating/scootering | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:31 PM |
| 44 | Woman staying with her pedophile boyfriend, still hasn’t gone to the police.Unfortunately, on the first page, she says she does have a child with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:51 PM |
| 2 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?I can’t believe I had to scroll this far to see Kyle! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do women complain about getting sexually objectified by men, when in 2020 it's women who sexually objectify themselves?Google is just a click away, bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Why do women complain about getting sexually objectified by men, when in 2020 it's women who sexually objectify themselves?They are trying to change laws, not men. Personally, I’m no fan of the sexual revolution and think it caused more harm to women than good and benefitted men more than anything, that doesn’t mean I think we should go back to those times, as there were many other things wrong that have actually improved for women since. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Why do women complain about getting sexually objectified by men, when in 2020 it's women who sexually objectify themselves?Men are the ones creating the demand.... no demand, no supply. So obviously women who oppose it would want to start at the root of the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 8 | Why do women complain about getting sexually objectified by men, when in 2020 it's women who sexually objectify themselves?Women aren’t a monolith. Some women decide to profit off of men’s objectification and others see that as setting women back. Surprise, surprise, women have varying opinions about things! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 09:38 PM |
| 12 | Why do women complain about getting sexually objectified by men, when in 2020 it's women who sexually objectify themselves?Men have always objectified women, now some women have decided to profit off of men’s objectification of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 09:27 PM |
| 52 | Please tell me if I handled this the wrong way. I can’t tell if I am executing FDS incorrectly, or if he’s gaslighting me.He’s gaslighting you. I briefly dated a guy that would pull that same shit. After the second time of him saying he was coming over and then flat out never showing up, I broke up with him, I should have done it after the first time. This guy doesn’t respect you or your time, I’d break up with him and not look back. Even if he promises it will never happen again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:23 PM |
| 15 | What I have achieved since the break up vs my LVM exCongrats on the level up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kissery7 whole words that are specific to men? I was contemplating this the other day and could only think of dick, prick, and bastard (which is still kind of a negative towards women because it’s implication is that his mother wasn’t married). Here we have created “scrote” but it’s not mainstream so I don’t count it. I suppose there are a few recent ones like neckbeard and incel, but none of these I have listed have the same terrible punch as “b-tch, c-nt, sl-t, wh-re, slag” etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kisseryI hear you and definitely agree, but through the Internet, reddit no less, and with someone so deep down the rabbit hole that they are posting long monologues like this on red pill women, I don’t think there is anything that can be done for us to get through to them. It’s going to take some radical life experience, or someone in their personal life to effect any real change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:36 PM |
| 24 | Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kisseryYup, I’m getting that same vibe about her feeling sooo superior over her friends. I wonder if she goes on these same kinds of “men are wonderful” rants to them or if she doesn’t even have the guts to express her true feelings about men to them and just has a smug sense of being the one who knows the “real truth”. My guess is the latter because I don’t know how many women, who already realize that men are garbage, could listen to such a thing and still want to remain friends with someone spewing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:10 PM |
| 21 | Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kisseryGood question! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:02 PM |
| 6 | An open-relationship is an excuse to cheatEven so, I’d bet it was still pretty one sided. As a bi woman who has had many a FFM threesome in my pickme days, it was nothing at all like being with a woman 1on1, so performative and mainly catered to the male. Even when I would try to focus on the female partner, the male partner would shift the attention back on him somehow or force his way into it. The few guys that did like watching me and the other girl interact would still try to direct the action to cater to his pornified fantasy of le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:55 AM |
| 122 | Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kisseryRight? And also says that men are working to provide for the entire family, implying that women don’t work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:45 AM |
| 9 | An open-relationship is an excuse to cheatIn all reality, I’m sure he’s been treating the relationship as an “open” one for the whole duration of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:41 AM |
| 11 | Hey young women! I know my balls are old and saggy and I need viagra for my porn addled dick to work - but I prefer my women to be 18-23! No red flags here, just into music and working out. -ScrotesYup, you can tell by the way his lowest age is just at the legal limit. He couldn’t even try to be half decent by at least starting outside of the teenage range. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Push your own needs aside for a man! No, sis. Bye pickmeisha!Uhm, no??? Not even in my pickmeisha days... how does that sound like an enjoyable relationship at all? I want someone I can converse with equally, not some narcissistic scrote who wants to talk at me while I stfu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:02 AM |
| 15 | Since when did men think it’s cute to propose to a woman who just delivered a BABY?!Reminds me of a video I saw of a scrote proposing at his girlfriends college graduation and everyone in the comments thought it was so sweet. 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:00 AM |
| 17 | I have no words lolOh, I’m sure he insisted, and she agreed, to sign a really shitty pre-nup. 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 06:41 AM |
| 60 | Epstein & Trump defender Alan Dershowitz says “Statutory rape is an outdated concept” 🤢so disgustingHe gives the 15 year old and 18 year old as an example, but imo an 18 year old male Is very likely taking advantage of a 15 year girl within a sexual relationship. I’m sure there are situations where sometimes they are close in maturity, but more often than not the older male is taking advantage of her naïveté and less life experience. I remember when I was 14 and having a 17 year old boyfriend, he was the first boyfriend to heavily pressure me for sex. Before that I had 2 other boyfriends my ag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 06:27 AM |
| 1 | LVM HALL OF FAME: Bodybuilder Yuri Tolochko to Wed His Sex Doll Girlfriend After 8 Months of DatingThe last clip in that article, where he’s with the doll on a plane and he smiles and looks at it, just soooo creepy. Gave me chills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 11:02 AM |
| 3 | What does FDS think of Dita Von Teese ?Here’s a pretty good article about it that was posted in the comments https://www.glamour.com/story/why-is-nobody-talking-about-marilyn-mansons-fantasy-of-killing-evan-rachel-wood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:13 AM |
| 6 | This video proves how some men can assault women in broad daylight and no one will do anything about itCame here to say the same thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Good luck with thatI had saved this picture from the 90 day fiancé sub to post, ya beat me to it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:49 PM |
| 5 | OP thinks LVM is out of her league :(She lists all of those LV issues he has and then still goes on to contemplate that maybe she just wasn’t “enough woman for him” 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:47 PM |
| 9 | Basic Respect ≠ “Spoil” and “Delight”LVM will treat pretty women better, yes, but it’s only temporary. LVM can’t keep up the act for too long, just long enough to where he feels like she won’t leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:35 PM |
| 12 | My boyfriend’s wedding dress unveiled my own shortcomings over masculinity | Life and style (liberal feminists always have to take their wokeness way too far! I am so sick of this)It’s a fucking ugly dress, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 112 | LVM Manipulation Caught Just in TimeAnd he has the audacity to say this when he was living in HER house, and we all know the LVM wasn’t paying any rent! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:18 PM |
| 22 | We’re just a warm hole to themNo problem, and yes it is disgusting, like why did he have to bring his kids into his lvm bullshit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:52 AM |
| 57 | We’re just a warm hole to themHe’s saying “I swear on my kids life that is what I will do, cheat” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:00 AM |
| 44 | We’re just a warm hole to themHe’s saying that if his girlfriend turns him down for sex, he’s going to go cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:58 PM |
| 5 | WTF, this is funny?!Exactly, he’s making a joke out of her giving birth and purposely trying to make her feel degraded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Thought you ladies might like this take on the trendUgggg this was me and my exes song. 🤦♀️ So cringe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:32 AM |
| 8 | Ladies, let this be a lesson to you to NEVER give a cheater another chance. He will never respect you and he will project his own depravity onto you. Same with downgrading- they will eventually view you as low value for putting up with them!Scrotes, the masters of projection, who can only see things from the perspective of their penis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:21 AM |
| 80 | AVOIDED A POTENTIAL LVMWhen I was an escort, a straight up prostitute, I didn’t even accept car dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:07 AM |
| 1 | The bar is nonexistent at this pointPlease be satire. Please be satire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationLVM gonna LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:39 PM |
| 13 | Husband won’t take care of his basic hygiene and wonders why wife turns him down for sex, comments say he’s probably depressedExactly, it really pisses me off when they do this, I see it all the time in that hell hole sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:58 PM |
| 18 | Husband won’t take care of his basic hygiene and wonders why wife turns him down for sex, comments say he’s probably depressedYup, they love to bend over backwards to sympathize with and make excuses for shitty men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Was I in the wrong for this?It’s not “making assumptions” when you see something that is clear as day with no real room for misinterpretation and you call him out on what you saw. He just gaslighting you too make you feel bad for calling him on his shit. He doesn’t want you doing that so he’s trying to make you think it’s something you did wrong so he can deflect from what he did that you are rightfully calling him out on. Him saying he deleted the app yet is getting notifications, actually is him getting too friendly with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:36 PM |
| 14 | LVM makes gf have sex with his two friends then treats her like shit and manipulates her because of itA man that would even consider asking you to do such a thing in the first place does not give a fuck about you as a person and only sees you as a sex object. This is really disgusting (on his part), and sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:26 PM |
| 23 | “He called me Mom during sex” The biggest pickmeisha/cockholm syndrome sub is FULL of that kind of stuff.I bet the comments are downplaying it saying it’s no big deal that he probably has a “mommy kink” like some people have a “daddy kink” totes normal. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 38 | She literally mothered and fathered him... this cant be real 💀But what is the punchline? I don’t get the joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 07:39 AM |
| 61 | She literally mothered and fathered him... this cant be real 💀My bet is him cheating on her or leaving her for another woman. We see those screenshots on here of men saying it all the time on social media “if she was with me when I was broke and then I get on, I’m leaving her because she let a broke dude like me fuck, her standards are too low” idk how they aren’t embarrassed to admit that (apparently being the biggest possible scoundrel is a brag nowadays) but it just goes to show how audacious scrotes are. I think it’s pretty telling that she’s the one m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 20 | how do i respond to "what are you on here for?"This is a good question. I feel like being outright and saying you are looking for a relationship could lead to the guy acting like that’s what he wants too when in reality he will say whatever to try to get in your pants. Now that I think about it, the question itself might be a bit of a red flag because I don’t think guys looking for a relationship would ask it. Him asking you is more than likely just a way for him to try to mirror your answer, otherwise he would probably start with what he’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:54 AM |
| 27 | Had a self-care day after a break-up with a toxic guy, and I'm feeling much better! Even though it was just a manicure and lunch, making myself a priority again is so refreshing!Ooooh!! These are so dope! Congrats on ditching the dead weight and I’m glad you are feeling better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:38 AM |
| 165 | She literally mothered and fathered him... this cant be real 💀This is so cringe. You did everything for him sis, what did he do for you? Where is his effort? Why did you have to find him a job instead of him finding one for himself? Of course if you give, give, give to a man he will accept it, doesn’t mean he loves you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | I know their dynamic is supposed to be cute and fun... but a comment like that just screams insecurityHaha okay bro you are the one “stuck” with her..... sureeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:33 AM |
| 8 | Is there a way out of Forever Girlfriend other than leaving?Nope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:13 AM |
| 106 | I love men who are 5’7” who neg on dating apps! I’m physically way out of his league and this is his approach.He probably thinks he’s sooooo handsome too. Scrotes are delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:06 AM |
| 16 | Let’s please not confuse ‘putting away dishes and scrubbing the toilet’ with ‘interior design’ thanks“But there’s definitely areas I could use help on” - you are a grown man with his own place, you shouldn’t need “help” from anyone to keep it tidy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:38 PM |
| 26 | A man is charged with raping a minor he met in an over 21 club.He can’t find it because it either doesn’t exist or he got a bunch of the details wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:26 PM |
| 89 | BeardfishingCheck out this post I made a while back on r/tinder https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/g8i1g7/like_a_whole_new_man/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf The sub is such a misogynistic shithole I thought I’d stir the pot a bit, a surprising 112 upvotes but near crickets in the comments, which is more than I expected to get, but I see female versions of it all the time with 10k plus upvotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Penis passYea I saw that mess. That person ended up going on to post it to r/trashy and made a post about Reddit’s rampant misogyny in r/thegirlsurvivalguide I sent her a pm inviting her to this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:06 PM |
| 14 | Whats with this new trend of men trying to be victim? Weren't they criticising women friendships few days ago?Right, like it’s our fault they’re too emotionally stunted to have real and lasting friendships... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:48 PM |
| 95 | So proud of this queen! What an achievement!I llooked it up too, it says in South Carolina summary court judges are not required to have a law degree because they are appointed. She does have a degree in political science and worked as a clerk for the bond court. It looks like she’ll make a great judge and being appointed as one is still a major achievement, but now I’m kind of concerned about South Carolina’s appointing of judges with no law background. When I looked into further I found this article https://www.propublica.org/article/th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:43 PM |
| 2 | The hell with this idea that I need to freeze my eggs-there’s always adoption!I want to adopt someday too. It has been stated here that adopting can be a long and sometimes heartbreaking process, but I would be down to foster too which is a LOT easier to get started. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:50 AM |
| 2 | What these LVMs think we areYea, this sub is widely hated amongst scrotes on reddit. Of course they don’t want us telling on them and teaching women how to wise up to their bullshit. That’s why I go the PM route when I see posts like these and want to suggest this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:46 AM |
| 11 | HVM dropping FACTSYea... Ice T is no HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:33 AM |
| 259 | Rose experienced this tenfoldYes, but he got her drunk first. He said he thought the wine made her horny, 🤢 as if anyone could be turned on by that disgusting scrote.There were multiple bottles of wine in the background of the scene the morning after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:24 AM |
| 66 | Rose experienced this tenfoldI 100% agree with everything you said here. It’s not like she knew he was the total POS he is before meeting him and because it’s a show, she had to give them some content she couldn’t just break up with him immediately after the first red flag or two like she might of in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:21 AM |
| 48 | Rose experienced this tenfoldI love Rose so much, she deserves everything good in life. I encourage you all to follow her IG https://instagram.com/rose_vega_official?igshid=gb2rpvym8k66 and subscribe to her YouTube channel https://youtu.be/2TAr8G7gysM (I can’t figure out how to link her channel so here is one of my favorite videos of hers). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:18 AM |
| 6 | If we changed the stock photo and comparison to "Boyfriend" they would endlessly would tirade to assert their dominance in stopping male hate speech by taking down this meme on Facebook, but we are expected to entertain their low capacity to develop covertly sexist memes on social media as "humor"And knowing these LVM, they will also try to fuck the beans. I hope they cut their dick on the can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Only my husband deserves the title of being your "son"My mom does this same thing! She’s so easy to win over too, you just have to flatter her and be nice and she eats it up. She has called like, 4 different boyfriends her son now, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 06:21 AM |
| 37 | Never underestimate the lies men will tell just to get sex. I hope this poor woman leaves.Look at how far they will go just for sex and how manipulative they will be, already at just sixteen! I feel so bad for this generation of teen girls 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:39 PM |
| 48 | Never underestimate the lies men will tell just to get sex. I hope this poor woman leaves.A mom of a daughter and son told me not too long ago that her daughter had natural empathy, while her son she had to painstakingly teach it to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:37 PM |
| 45 | The delusion... I’ve only seen men look better in their 30s vs their 20s if they were obese and then lost weightAs a 30 year old woman, it sucks because most guys my age look like crap so I’m not attracted to them. But the attractive ones under 25 I’m also not attracted to because they are like boys in my mind. So basically, I’m not attracted to men anymore, lol. Which is just as well because I hate their guts anyway 😂 and I’m bi so I have the much more appealing option of women who I think pretty much almost all have their own brand of beauty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:46 AM |
| 10 | This is what pickmeishas and LVM do to families. I am so glad I don't have any brothersThat whole thing is way above Reddit’s pay grade, let alone that shitty sub. This is sick. Males are sick. At the least, she does have the daughter in therapy, which is really all that can be done right now, aside from pressing charges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:26 AM |
| 9 | This is emotionally manipulative and LVM are passing it off as advice. You do NOT have to be available 24/7! You do NOT have to text back right away! If a man uses manipulative tactics on you, no matter how silly or trivial it may seem, DUMP HIM!I would say it’s a joke, but even if it were, these kinds of “jokes” are like subliminal messaging to women and society normalizing manipulation, promoting men to do it and women to accept it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:23 AM |
| 8 | Can you still follow the FDS strategy even if you're not marriage minded?Absolutely. I wish I had FDS at your age! You are very lucky to have found this place right as you are coming of age and the worst of the scrotedacity begins! God, I wasted so much of my time on many loser lvm at your age. You have to be very cunning and alert to see through and avoid the manipulative tactics of men, because they are wide and varied. Taking what they can from us and getting away with what they can is like a game for them, or a “hunt”. We are like sheep to the wolves when it come… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:18 AM |
| 7 | I think my husband is cheating on meRight? Did he ask her if she might like any after having their kid? Normally I would say it is kind of a rude question, but when he’s going out and getting them for his damn self I feel like it would be really selfish not to offer. Though, I can’t see 99% of men being able to frame such a question without throwing some subtle or not so subtle negging in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:10 AM |
| 67 | The delusion... I’ve only seen men look better in their 30s vs their 20s if they were obese and then lost weightIt’s such bullshit. Most men go down hill after 25. Very few actually become more attractive in their 30s and the ones who do mostly it’s from them finally maturing a bit and learning to take care of themselves, which again, is very very few of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:40 AM |
| 130 | Man cheats on woman, publishes it in a pathetic attempt to get her back & scrotes in the comments going “You REAL for that bro! Get her back!” If it was the other way around, theyd call her a hoe & the man a simp. double standards on display right here, folks.And to signify just how “sorry” he is he posts a pic where her face is almost entirely covered by his hand and phone and features himself doing the “I wanna fuck” face... and then goes on to tell everyone just how bad he made a fool of her..... the ego and audacity! Also the “losing you is not an option” is super cringe... not only is he trying to take away her personal autonomy and pressure her into taking him back, but it’s like, bro you wasn’t thinking about that when you were sticking your d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:36 AM |
| 16 | Men will lie and gaslight you even with video evidence. Trust your gut. If you feel you have to ask, leave.Low value male. Read the handbook, it covers a lot of the phrases and acronyms we use here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:29 AM |
| 36 | Anyone else trying to decide if they want kids? How common is regretful motherhood?You can always adopt a kid later on if you end up feeling like you missed your chance, also there is ivf and sperm banks that can help you extend your window for having a biological child, but you can’t undo having a kid if you later regret it. Personally I would put it off until my life is completely stable, welcoming, and supportive to a child, not based on whether or not I have a male partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Imagine having kids with someone like this...Yes, he really has started to show the worst of his LVM qualities. But while we’re on the topic of 90 day fiancé, that fucker Andreii has me heated everytime he opens his loser ass unemployed mouth! He has all the expectations of “traditional” gender roles for women, but also makes zero effort into holding up even the basic western expectations for men and still considers himself the “man of the house”. Like no sir, Libby’s dad is the man of your house since he is constantly the one footing the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Minder part 2 🥱Idk, the one asking if she wanted to hear a riddle wasn’t half bad.. though..... the riddle itself was probably just some cheesy pickup line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | “Have you ever considered having your hair thinned?”I’m dying for thicker hair, I do tons of gross at home treatments trying to get it, such as onion juice and castor oil, it’s a highly sought after and very attractive trait. He’s just trying to neg you about something he can see you are confident about to bring your confidence down before you realize you are too good for him. Dump him sis and keep your gorgeous thick hair! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Wife is expected to replace husband’s pants because he quit working outAlso, if he really thinks she is shrinking them, he could do his own damn laundry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me or are there barely attractive men out there?Yes! Men go down hill so damn quick! All of my exes from my early 20s apart from one look like total shit now and it’s not that he is handsome, just a nerdy but cute asian guy who looks the same as he did 10 years ago. Unfortunately his mindset hasn’t aged either. He’s still playing competitive Nintendo smash tournaments for an income, living at his moms house, and fucking 20 year olds (he has that anime boy appeal working for him by still looking so young and younger women are less likely to ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or are there barely attractive men out there?Me third. I swear I was attracted to my second serious boyfriend at 18 mostly because he was clean and his clothes smelled amazing.... because his mom did his laundry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:14 PM |
| 11 | This woman’s bf found out his ex was engaged. Immediately flys into a rage and wants to send a photo of her hand with a ring to the ex.Just commented this. I would bet you these “multiple people” it’s been “confirmed by” are just people he has told that she owes him and not anyone with any real knowledge of whether it is true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 16 | This woman’s bf found out his ex was engaged. Immediately flys into a rage and wants to send a photo of her hand with a ring to the ex.This. How does her getting married have any effect on this money she supposedly owes him? And who wants to bet that this “confirmed by multiple people” was just people who he told she owed him and not anyone with any real knowledge of whether or not it is actually true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 6 | Help a sister outHe is making it clear he deserves to do less in the relationship if you want to marry him and he is not changing. He is telling you This is so on the mark! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 18 | How to vet for sexual compatibilityI feel like this needs to be added to the handbook, I know it does touch on the subject but such a thorough explanation should be included, as it is something a lot of women, young women especially, struggle to understand how to maneuver. Even as a 30 year old I picked up some very helpful and useful tips and strategies, thank you for writing it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:39 PM |
| 14 | LVM PUA Tactics on OLD.Balding scrote with scraggly beard claims to have slept with “hundreds” of women from OLD. Thinks his “I’m warning you, I’m bad news, stay away” bio is so clever and unique. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 40 | When being a man is so easy that their worst "hardship" is women not putting much effort into online datingAnd WLW experience this too.... so it’s not even exclusive to men. Somehow we manage to get over it without all the whinging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 3 | LVM decided I was the one worth leaving.It definitely does add to the feeling of loss, I’m sorry you had to go through that too, but like you said, it was for the better because it would be something tying you to him forever. Thank you for your kind words. I am glad that I could also say some things that resonated with you. This feeling of loss and heartache will pass, I promise. I think it speeds it up when you stop yourself from indulging in memories of the “good times”. When you think of him, don’t allow yourself to reminisce and i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 5 | LVM decided I was the one worth leaving.My narc abuser was the one who left me too, broke up with me and kicked me out of our apartment, literally, because he also threw me down and kicked me in my stomach multiple times two weeks after coercing me into aborting the twins he impregnated me with. I was heartbroken at the time, but having that abortion was the best thing I could have done. It wouldn’t have been as bad if he wasn’t so completely heartless about the whole thing. Flash forward to now and he’s just gotten out of prison afte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:04 PM |
| 23 | Please tell me this is not for real...Am I the only one annoyed at the 2 women flirting with him too? Obviously he is the one at major fault here but pickmeishas and their unsolicited flirting and acting so interested and intrigued by random dudes mundane talents is annoying. I had an ex who was a professional online poker player and the frequency of women using it as an excuse to flirt with him was crazy, “oh Thats so cool, I would love to watch you play!” of course, he was the one bragging about it in the first place to court thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:25 PM |
| 28 | Please tell me this is not for real...“You are the only one who gets me angry like this, it’s because of how you are that I act this way” is one of the biggest lies abusive men tell to excuse away their behavior. But think about it, even if it were the truth, why would you want to be with someone who is most enraged by specifically you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts? 🤔I’m glad he said it three times because so many women need to absorb this message “if a man realizes that nothing is required to get inside of you, then NOTHING is what you’ll get”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:54 AM |
| 2 | I apologize for the screenshot, but I’m sick with Covid19 and high on NyQuil. ANYWAY this shit woke me back up. Somebody save her, please.She definitely made that comment hoping to get validating replies praising her, like the one she got. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:43 AM |
| 2 | A little levity but entirely HVM behavior lol.I once farted when a guy was going down on me, I was mortified but luckily he just acted like he didn’t hear it and kept going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Dude.I agree that 20 is too young to be having a kid, but I don’t think that his bad behavior here can simply be attributed to his young age. He will likely be just as shitty years down the road. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Why Gamers are LVMThe worst is “professional” gamers. I have had the misfortune of dating two, one was an online poker player and the other competed in Nintendo smash bro’s tournaments for prize money. At least the poker player made good money, but most of his time was consumed by it and he had the justification that it was his job. His mood was also dictated on whether or not he was winning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 2 | I'm super closedminded bc I hate paedos, guys 😔 I should just get over my rape and stop using it as an excuse to be bigoted towards this oppressed minorityFYI the theory that pedophiles are that way because they were themselves molested as children is a popular one but is false, just another way for them to make excuses for their behavior and try and elicit sympathy. https://theconversation.com/child-sex-abuse-doesnt-create-paedophiles-60373 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Recovering Pickmeisha in need of advice. How do I react when the bill arrives at the end of a date?I think this is the best answer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 2 | BBC News: Coronavirus face masks: Why men are less likely to wear masksJust earlier today there was a man at the grocery store up the street from me refusing to wear a mask refusing to leave, the store called the police on him and he was such a pathetic sight with these 6 masked people trying to reason with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:40 AM |
| 38 | Gamers+inherent selfishness of a NVM is clearly evident.She’s making so many excuses for him and it’s exactly what I used to do “well, maybe he’s feeling this and that’s why...” meanwhile dude just straight up doesn’t give a fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | My no.1 tip for vetting narcisstic guysYup, same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Even the pickmeisha’s are evolving 😫 big yikesWhat’s the context here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 03:22 AM |
| 11 | Always remember to love yourself 💕*Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:13 AM |
| 64 | I.....WHAT? The things some women will put up with. FDS is so necessary it’s not even funny.All you guys saying it’s fake, but I believe it. Males really do this type of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:12 AM |
| 21 | People can actually change but there is no reason to entertain someone you forgive.yes! This has happened to me with 2 exes, both losers who’s attempts I did not entertain, but then come to find out they are married or engaged. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Unreal Pickmeisha / LVM comboNot a single tooth in his methed up head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Thank You 🙏“Otherwise wonderful” Sis, he’s just as shitty in other ways, he just hasn’t shown them to you yet or you haven’t noticed them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:22 PM |
| 9 | IT IS TIME TO #BLOCKANDDELETE REDDItYup, I’ve decided this is my last day on reddit. Moving over to saidit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Oh you know, just a standard day in the life of a pickme.This is sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:51 PM |
| 74 | 90DayFiance: Larissa- laughs at friend accusing her of taking advantage of Colt- she says- he lives with Mom, car has no ac, he’s not willing to give $200 a month allowance- what advantage? Yes Queen 😂❤️I don’t know how she didn’t notice his creepy incel vibes in the first place, though. It was glaringly obvious from the first time he appeared on the show. I’m a big fan of 90 day and have seen every season and spin off, that fucker really put her through the ringer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 9 | A few days ago someone reposted a post of mine from r/deadbedrooms. Today I broke up with him and kicked him out.You are going to be so much better off. I know it hurts now, but not too long from now you’ll realize this was the best decision you ever made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliamsAbsolutely this! And yet we still have women in our subs who back the police... https://www.reddit.com/r/PinkpillFeminism/comments/gvpcvs/we_should_support_police_and_the_laws_they_are/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:11 PM |
| 2 | It’s legal in 35 states for cops to rape you after detaining you.There’s a map in the linked article. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag that my boyfriend is against pedophiles being killed???That man was a convicted pedophile and I have absolutely zero sympathy for what happened to him nor should anyone else. I have sympathy for the children who’s lives he ruined. Wtf is happening to this place? “iF ThE RoLeS WeRe ReVeRsED” sounds like an MRA talking point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag that my boyfriend is against pedophiles being killed???The guy was a convicted pedophile. I have zero sympathy for what happened to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:39 PM |
| 15 | Is it a red flag that my boyfriend is against pedophiles being killed???No one deserves die by literal dog shit being shoved into your orifices. hard disagree, pedophiles definitely DO deserve that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Is it a red flag that my boyfriend is against pedophiles being killed???What? She owes him an apology for what? How is mentioning that he probably feels that way because he’s a future lawyer insulting his future profession.....? and since when is having compassion for pedophiles a HV trait? Am I on FDS or relationshipadvice? Because with these replies and how upvoted they are, I really can’t tell..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:44 PM |
| 19 | If this was a yoga pose, it would be called “Dustyassana”The first pic it looks like she must be paying for his meth too... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:24 PM |
| 17 | This reeks of NVMThis comment really shows his unrepentant abusive nature: Lol, she doesn't have a job and her relatives are two states away. I supported us both. I know she'll be back. She has to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:54 PM |
| 1 | I keep getting flaked/cancelled on. Guys making zero effortYup, the handbook directly covers the big mistake OP made here, which was texting with these guys way too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 07:08 PM |
| 85 | Another one from JB, if he treats her like this on camera I can only image what goes on behind closed doors. She looks hurt.Yes, that really stuck out to me too, almost like she afraid he’s going to physically swat her away/hit her for touching him.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 91 | The tinder subreddit is full of men praising pickmeishas and making fun of girls for how they look... oh and I hope she gets pickedYea that sub is basically another mgtow sub, just slightly more thinly veiled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:58 PM |
| 12 | I asked a guy out today and he rejected mefeeling sorry for someone isn’t a good reason to be interested in them. This is important thing to remember for us empaths especially. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 03:19 AM |
| 92 | Demand respectHere are the two scenes where she calls him out on his shitty behavior towards her, tells him to fix himself before he hurts someone else, and leaves his ass behind. All without losing her cool and remaining a class act in order 1st: https://youtu.be/SXyf2dibidE 2nd: https://youtu.be/W8i70IY6NQQ If you aren’t a watcher of the show, this is the most self respect a woman has shown for herself on this show imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 03:00 AM |
| 59 | Demand respectI encourage everyone to follow Rose on IG and subscribe to her YouTube because she is an absolute queen. The sex tourist creep she was on the show with has a big following with lots of defenders, let’s make sure she does too! Also, the creep has been caught and admitted to using alt accounts to leave hate comments on her pages https://screenrant.com/90-day-fiance-big-ed-fake-account-rosemarie/ Rose’s IG - https://www.instagram.com/rose_vega_official/?hl=en Rose’s YT channel- https://www.youtube.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | The high value women of FDSThe assertion was that FDS promotes this behavior for their users, and this post did not prove that, because it’s entirely false. FDS does not endorse casual sex, at all, with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | The high value women of FDSNot a single comment advocating for hookups or portraying them as something worthwhile for FDS minded women. Lots of comments talking about the way things are with attractive people having casual sex with other attractive people and how unattractive men whine that they can’t pump and dump stacies like chad does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | The high value women of FDSSounds like projection on your part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | The high value women of FDSNo, I just wanted to tackle the most easily disproven one first. It’s not a female incel sub whatsoever, it isn’t even specifically for women looking to date. A lot of the members are already married or in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 03:12 PM |
| 1 | The high value women of FDSYou’re full of shit, link it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 02:50 PM |
| 4 | The high value women of FDSthey do promote sleeping around, just with top 10% males, and talking about how average looking males (on their lvl) are disgusting for even trying You obviously haven’t read the sub if this is your assertion. I challenge you to find one instance of someone promoting casual sex with men as long as the man is attractive. I would say “I’ll wait” but I’d be waiting the rest of my life, you won’t find it, because you are full of shit and it doesn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 03:23 PM |
| 0 | The high value women of FDSGet a life incel, college degree or not, that woman is quite obviously far beyond your intellect and maturity level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 03:11 PM |
| 6 | The high value women of FDSIn this case, that these women are not unattractive like the OP is trying to portray. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 11:58 PM |
| 0 | The high value women of FDSI read this comment and was like Fuck yea! And I look up to see you are the one who posted it! I will do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 10:43 PM |
| 10 | The high value women of FDSAs usual, the term “simp” is actually just a synonym for “a man telling the truth”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 10:30 PM |
| 26 | Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men.Not only that, but I also noticed that they do it to get female attention, they can’t get the positive attention they crave from women, so they will act out like this hoping that a woman will notice and respond because it’s still attention from a woman that they wouldn’t have otherwise gotten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 10:03 PM |
| 23 | Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄I just want to say that the woman in the wedding dress photo, I remember you posting that pic here and thinking how bomb your body looked in it! Your gorgeous, perfect curves look stunning. I don’t know wtf they were thinking by trying to imply you or any of those women is unattractive.... They are delusional, but we already knew that. Edit: lol at being downvoted, stay mad scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:56 PM |
| 24 | Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄Good point, this was the ”worst” they could find and these ladies are beautiful so I can just imagine the pics they passed on because it didn’t suit the narrative they were trying (and miserably failed) to portray here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:49 PM |
| 86 | Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄Right? Now let these scrotes do a side by side of what they look like and you could really see the audacity they have to try to portray these lovely women as undesirable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:45 PM |
| 167 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣They are so delusional and comprehend everything in terms of how it relates to their (men in general) pathetic PP’s. They really think we are “thirsting” over them the way they obsess over us. Haha couldn’t be further from the truth, losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | There are still only two genders regardless of how you feel :)Except this not so small minority has gained enough power to effectively lobby and get laws changed to validate their delusion.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | My pickmeisha bff is pregnantYea you are probably right about it not really having an effect. Maybe I’ll just leave it. Or maybe I could frame it as a gentle question and ask if she plans to use B.C. I hear what you’re saying, but sometimes it’s tough to see someone come so far and then get stuck or pulled back. I only get as involved as I can afford to though. I have cut people out of my life before when they were too taxing on my mental well being, but I usually don’t get to that point unless someone is purposely trying t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:59 PM |
| 3 | My pickmeisha bff is pregnantYea that’s terrible :/ my parents were addicts too so I guess it impacts me all the more when I witness this stuff. You are right though, it’s a terrible situation all around. I’ve tried to ask how she felt about the pregnancy overall in a gentle way when she first told me she was pregnant, she said she was excited, and I know she is really into this guy. I really wish she had been using some B.C. Would it be messed up to make a point to remind her how easy it is to get pregnant again after a mi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:43 PM |
| 7 | My pickmeisha bff is pregnantOne of mine just had a miscarriage and I feel like a terrible person because even though I have shown her nothing but empathy and compassion about it, in my head I know it’s the right thing. She just got clean from drugs and her best friend actually had died like 5 years ago by ODing right after having a baby and it was one of the things that sent my friend into relapse and that poor kid has to grow up without a mommy. My friend has almost died herself a few times. She took two shots to the head… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:32 PM |
| 44 | Woman wants to know if she's the asshole for putting puppy pads around the toilet because the 30 YR OLD GROWN ASS MAN she calls a boyfriend keeps pissing all over the floor. I FUCKING CANNOT, Y'ALL.Fucking gross. And as we all know based on even just mens public restrooms compared to women’s, that this is NOT an uncommon male behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:29 PM |
| 20 | Not just spending money but listeningMy narc ex spoiled me a lot, it was one of the justifications I made for myself about why I put up with his shit, but it was a lie, it was never worth it and neither was he. Not even close. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Men want virgins, but who will sleep with them on the first dateExactly, he’s full of shit and he knows it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:27 PM |
| 18 | Is there a better response than “sorry it was a mistake”? I did not reply and just unmatched btwI think this is the reply that will make them feel the worst, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:28 AM |
| 15 | Funny 1st date story to lighten up the mood... also an example of why LVM/NVM have no excuses for their behavior.You have truly met some characters and NYC is full of them! Thanks again for sharing, that was a wild ride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 12 | Funny 1st date story to lighten up the mood... also an example of why LVM/NVM have no excuses for their behavior.I’d love to hear it if your down to tell it, you can pm me if you’d prefer. I too lived and dated in NYC for a bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:59 PM |
| 83 | Funny 1st date story to lighten up the mood... also an example of why LVM/NVM have no excuses for their behavior.Thanks for sharing this story, I had a good laugh out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Scrote @ the beachYou are making too many excuses for them, they aren’t describing themselves as anti feminist because they are stupid (though they absolutely are). They are describing themselves that way because they are misogynists and they don’t care how that makes you feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.but I guess I’m always taken aback by the viewpoints here. I’m just the odd one out most of the time If you are constantly finding yourself at odds with many of the things talked about here, and you find the need to vocally challenge them, this place probably isn’t for you. I see even just a month and a half ago, you were participating in BDSM and sugar baby relationships, which both of those are things I’ve done in my past as well, but it seems like you aren’t far enough out of that libfem mind… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Scrote @ the beachIn that post specifically the OP had mentioned that the dude was also a men’s rights advocate.. so I’m sure his anti feminism was the particularly misogynistic kind. What you’ve said here was along the same lines of the point they were attempting to make, I believe, and I still vehemently disagree. A man who takes issue with the facets of liberal feminism needs to find a better way to describe themselves than anti feminist. A man who has the guts to tell a woman he wants to date, or is dating, t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.Where did op say anyone using lube was bad overall? She specifically stated that her words don’t apply to women with medical conditions (like chronic dryness), MULTIPLE times. The point isn’t lube = bad, but that a healthy woman shouldn’t need it if her partner is properly arousing her beforehand. If you wanna go ahead and use it anyway, no one is telling you not to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:20 PM |
| 0 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.I don’t have to google shit, I don’t fuck men anymore. I said people who don’t understand the point should read more to figure it out and if they still can’t get it than perhaps they need more help than this place can offer. Then I responded to your idiotic suggestion that since I do get it maybe I don’t need to be here by saying because I get it, I belong here, and maybe it’s you who doesn’t.... You are trying to act like those things are at odds with each other to get some kind of gotcha point… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:15 PM |
| -1 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.Yes that’s my solution, read some more until you figure it out. Or ask someone to explain it to you in a gracious manner. Much better than putting out your own misinformed opinion to disagree with someone who knows more than you, like ya know, a mod (not me, op). If you still don’t get it, well then you probably need some deeper help than this place can offer. And me having it figured out means that I’m in exactly the right place, maybe it’s you who isn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.Yea and this place gets all kinds of comments here with people missing the point all the time, does that mean we just stop talking about those things? No, because this place would be full of pickmeishas. The people that don’t get it can either get with the program and figure it out like everyone else or find someplace that’s a better fit for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:40 PM |
| 92 | Wow they are so uselessSo it was made by some Indian dude named bhupesh with bad English and mommy issues... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:37 PM |
| -5 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.Funny, because the person I’m replying to, myself, and many others who replied, got it just fine 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:32 PM |
| 41 | Men want virgins, but who will sleep with them on the first dateAnd you know that the poor women who do fall for it and then end up raped will be victim blamed for actually believing this bs and going to his house by the same men who make claims like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:51 AM |
| 29 | HVM are not a guarantee. They can quickly devolve into LVM under the right circumstances.Is it possible he wasn’t as good as you thought he was and now you are seeing things for what they really are after adopting an FDS mindset? Just asking, not saying that it isn’t totally possible he put on a good act pretending to be a HVM up until recently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:46 AM |
| 7 | Gigi Engle: "Sex on the first date is the only way to live" and "the main reason you're not banging someone on the first date is that you're afraid of being slut-shamed & not getting a 2nd date." Nah sis, I just have more respect for my body then to let randoms in it. Keep your shit sex and HPV.Maybe you don't belong in this sub if you can't read. Says the person literally arguing with the mod who is OP in this very post, about this very same point that you are (seemingly purposefully at this point) misconstruing. Nobody is advocating for delaying sex in order to make men stay, yet you keep arguing against it and trying to make it out as if that’s what’s being said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:12 AM |
| 14 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.At least somebody understood the point of this post! I can’t believe OP, a mod here mind you, is being downvoted and challenged over this and having their point completely misconstrued. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 09:01 AM |
| 7 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.So much of women’s discomfort and lack of pleasure is a given and no one asks why, they just tell women to take a pill or use a cream or that it’s not important. Realizing this for the first time is so eye opening, you start to notice it in everything related to women and sex. Our pleasure, if considered at all (and it usually isn’t) is always secondary or an afterthought, or just one more thing used to boost his ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:25 AM |
| 14 | Scrote @ the beachI would be wary of anything posted by this particular person, I recognize the u/ from a recent thread in which they said they wouldn’t consider a partners anti feminist views to be a dealbreaker.... when I challenged them on this they doubled down and said they would only see it as a red flag but not a dealbreaker and not a gateway to hating women in general... https://www.removeddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/gbwp4s/i_finally_decided_to_post_after_lurking_on_this/?utm_source=share&utm_… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:14 AM |
| 6 | Mentality of LVMs in one song: French Montana - Famous. They want you to stay down.It really sucks because I used to be a big hip hop fan in my pre radfem days and now I can’t enjoy any of it once I actually listen to the lyrics or say them out loud, even most female rap/hip hop artists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:58 AM |
| 128 | Men want virgins, but who will sleep with them on the first dateSome male in the comments really tried to pull this one: Going home doesn't have to mean sex, cuddling up in front of the TV and actually just watching stuff can be a blast and a nice change of pace from going to resteraunts imo. It also gives you guys a chance to talk about more serious compatability things that you might not wanna bring up in public like kids, life goals, any embarrassing yellow flags, etc As if women don’t get pressured for sex and often times, raped, when we do this. They wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:52 AM |
| 11 | Jezebel.com shames Ronda Rousey for saying Lube is unnecessary if a man takes his time and you’re aroused enough & that needing lube means he’s probably lazy. Everytime women try to set a standard like “my vagina must be moist in order to fuck” Libfems shame us out of it.Wow I can’t believe you are being challenged and downvoted over this.... how is this a controversial opinion here? One of those last remnants of the “casual sex is empowering” or “you are only a good partner if you are providing sex when HE wants it and everytime he wants it” brainwashing, maybe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:40 AM |
| 11 | Would you end a relationship for being called a D***head once?And this girl is on hard drugs.... it’s only a matter of time before he likely does them with her if he isn’t already. I’ve had a few dudes who I was dating and later came to find out they were addicted to drugs and looking back, the signs were there, but at the time I didn’t see it at all. This whole situation is red flag city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:25 AM |
| 27 | So if I get correctly a girl either swallow cum or rub it on her face,while being grateful for it????The pick me** is tooo strong... Funny how the far more common “spit that nasty shit out ASAP” isn’t an option. And lots of women don’t allow him to cum inside their mouths at all, and even better, some women don’t suck dick at all! Of course those would never be featured either. ** Someone commented here that the artist is in fact a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:14 AM |
| 11 | Ain't that the truthYep that’s him. And same here, it’s an excellent display of classic NO value and low value behavior and pick me’s who put up with it. Meagan and Sarah (and his new girl too) are perfect examples of how being a pick me gets you nowhere except disrespected and made a fool of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 08:35 PM |
| 4 | I finally decided to post after lurking on this sub for the past few days. Am I being a pick - me?You don’t see hating feminism as a gateway to hating women? You can’t be serious. I’ve read your comment five times and still cannot understand what you are trying to say here: A lot of people here take offence on libfems (me included). That doesn't make us 'bad woman haters'. But it would be hypocritical to say somebody is not allowed to have an opinion on feminism and feminists as well (even if we consider it the wrong one). Seems like you are trying to straw man and say that I’m saying him ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | I finally decided to post after lurking on this sub for the past few days. Am I being a pick - me?What tf are you talking about? Hating feminism should ABSOLUTELY be a dealbreaker. It’s a big huge sign of other misogynistic behavior to come. And your reasoning for why it isn’t a dealbreaker for you is because it’s common or “mainstream” as you put it? There’s a lot of LVM behavior that is common, doesn’t mean we just accept it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 06:39 PM |
| 11 | I finally decided to post after lurking on this sub for the past few days. Am I being a pick - me?That’s no HVM, sorry. He sounds like a LVM manosphere type, actually. You said you don’t want to hear us tell you to dump him so what exactly are you hoping for by posting here? You want validation that he’s a HVM when it’s very clear he isn’t. We ain’t just gonna tell you what you want to hear, post on r/relationshipadvice if that’s what you want. And yes, you are being a pick me, but most if not all of us here have been at that stage before, it’s not something that you have to be for the rest … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:18 PM |
| 3 | I Know I Made The Right Choice But I Really Thought I Found A HVM. Please Offer Me Advice For The NextI’m really sorry you are going through this right now. Please do not hesitate to Pm me if you need someone to talk to who has been in a similar situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Top 2 Ways to Prevent Men from Wasting Your Time!Does he really? He has permission from the mods to post here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:12 PM |
| 22 | Are these red flags?He doesn’t respect your stated boundaries, huge red flag. Block and move on. The fact that you wrote a post about him means you’ve already given this guy more of your time and energy than he deserves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:10 PM |
| 51 | Ain't that the truthAnyone here watch the trash reality tv show “love after lockup”? This is exactly what one of the scummiest dudes on the show does. Completely ignores his daughter except for when he can use her to endear himself to whichever woman he is bullshitting at the time and of course they buy into it and believe his wife/babymomma is the evil one that’s “keeping him from his kids”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:07 PM |
| 26 | Did you ever experience true love?If you had asked me this 5 years ago I would have said yes and claimed that every serious relationship involved love on both our parts, but that’s when I was a deluded libfem ignorant of mens true nature. So the answer now is a big resounding NO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:00 PM |
| 47 | Saw this on Instagram, and had to share IT with you all!Wow, I fully believe this is real too. The audacity of scrotes knows no boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:34 PM |
| 9 | SCROTES MAD, HISTORICAL EDITION: Anti-Suffrage Pamphlet warns of the dangers of the government falling under “Petticoat Rule” and that it’s “unwise to risk the good we have for the EVIL that may occur”. 100 years in the future and I can still smell the neckbeard. 🙄Ah, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Trust your gut! Often, it knows more than you do.I can pm you if you really would like to know. I don’t mind talking about it at all, but I’ve stopped doing so on this account publicly for particular reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:14 PM |
| 22 | SCROTES MAD, HISTORICAL EDITION: Anti-Suffrage Pamphlet warns of the dangers of the government falling under “Petticoat Rule” and that it’s “unwise to risk the good we have for the EVIL that may occur”. 100 years in the future and I can still smell the neckbeard. 🙄I wonder what “petticoat rule” means. Tried googling and most of what came up was just articles about this pamphlet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:57 PM |
| 5 | I can't decide if this man is HV or LVIf you are here asking us chances are he’s LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:54 PM |
| 15 | The importance of male foreplaySure, but from what we know about men and sex and how the penis is already centered, he’s either full of shit or he’s pressuring women who didn’t want to sleep with him in the first place. You really believe he is coming across women after woman who “doesn’t engage in enough foreplay” but it’s nothing to do with him? He himself said “there’s a big difference between a woman who wants to sleep with you and woman who lets you sleep with her” but apparently he has no moral qualms with going through… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:41 PM |
| 2 | I came across this gem of a profile today and just had to share!Really hoping it’s just bad satire, but I wouldn’t be surprised at all if it wasn’t. Scrotes really do have this kind of audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Written by a true pickmeisha. Why is this behaviour accepted, but only for men? I cannot see anyone thinking it would be okay for a woman to spend hours ignoring their partner and children.You can still talk about the topic without having to turn it into a story about your bf everytime, though. You are more than your relationship and you should stop thinking in terms of how everything in your life is relevant to that. I read some of your comments and it sounds like your bf is a lvm that you are making excuses for and trying to convince yourself he’s a HVM or worth the effort of trying to turn him into one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:55 AM |
| 9 | Trust your gut! Often, it knows more than you do.This right here is literally the reason I am alive today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 10:18 PM |
| 9 | Scrote seriously considers dumping gf bc she won't walk fasterSomeone said “please don’t ever have a girlfriend” And he responds with: Fuck you telling me what to do. I'll do what I want and I'll have a girlfriend if I want. If you are a man and say that to my face irl instead of hiding behind a keyboard then you will be taught a lesson in respecting others. He’s a literal manchild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 10:15 PM |
| 22 | Fuckboys who treat their new girlfriends to all the things you wanted but never got do so because they're desperately trying to prove you were the problem all along. Recognize it for the manipulative tactic that it is, and don't take it personally.Absolutely it’s karma! I have a friend right now that I am trying to tell her this will happen for her, but you gotta ditch the loser first! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 09:45 PM |
| 47 | Fuckboys who treat their new girlfriends to all the things you wanted but never got do so because they're desperately trying to prove you were the problem all along. Recognize it for the manipulative tactic that it is, and don't take it personally.Mine just got out of prison, and he really thinks I’m desperate enough to still be interested. I’m like his last resort person, when he was doing well he acted like he was too good for me. As if he was doing me some kind of favor by being with me and broke up with me a few times when he was getting attention from other “higher caliber” girls, but when he was on a downward spiral he would act like we were soulmates on a dark path of destiny, so he could have someone to take down with him. I learn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 09:41 PM |
| 4 | Written by a true pickmeisha. Why is this behaviour accepted, but only for men? I cannot see anyone thinking it would be okay for a woman to spend hours ignoring their partner and children.I checked your post history to make sure you were a regular poster here and your whole history is stuff like this, fawning examples and stories about your Nigel and how great he is or how he doesn’t do the negative thing being talked about that men do. Out of your 10 most recent comments 5 include the phrase “my bf” right in the preview without having to click to see the full comment. I screenshot and highlighted them here to illustrate this: https://imgur.com/a/cMgk6pR 8 out of those 10 you are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 05:53 PM |
| 21 | Written by a true pickmeisha. Why is this behaviour accepted, but only for men? I cannot see anyone thinking it would be okay for a woman to spend hours ignoring their partner and children.I feel like she made up the part about all these long conversations they have while he is gaming, maybe for a few minutes in between breaks, but I’ve never met a guy who holds conversations with his partner while he games. Mostly they yell at the other people they are playing with, whether they can hear them or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 01:25 AM |
| 15 | Man upset sex worker doesn’t actually want to have sex with him for real and just for the money.I gave a woman $500 to for a night together. I was struck by how beautiful she looked and asked her how she had gotten into prostitution. She told me she was a single mom desperate for money. Then later when I took my shirt off, I could tell she was extremely uncomfortable. I thought about how much she was going to suffer and I felt really bad. So I told her she could go home and keep the money. She looked really happy and she said "Really!? Thank you so much!" and she bolted out the door. That … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts?I think the older asian man might be a HVM. Maybe the brown desi guy too. With just a small glimpse of someone, like this, you can never be sure because anyone can put on an act for a few minutes. Hell, dudes keep up their act for months and even years sometimes before they reveal their true colors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:58 AM |
| 28 | While quarantining with her and her Husband, OP's BIL gets caught doing something disgusting. I'm sure OP is safe tho, nbd/no need to blow up!I can guarantee you this creep was fantasizing about pissing on her as part of some weird misogynistic domination fetish. Fucking disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:45 AM |
| 43 | While quarantining with her and her Husband, OP's BIL gets caught doing something disgusting. I'm sure OP is safe tho, nbd/no need to blow up!Some dickwad in the comments: Let it go. Its some weird stuff but no harm to anyone. Why cause misery in all these relationships by telling everyone. Its just some wacko thing. And OP is already buying into this creeps excuses: Actually no more than ten minutes ago he offered to pay for them. I've said no. We talked about why he did it and how his wife is the complete opposite of me. She's white, blonde, curvy.. He blamed the stress of everything right now, and I do get that. It's a horrible tim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Something tells me she probably doesn't know.It’s probably like someone else mentioned, not surgery, she likely just had his kid. That makes it a lot less identifying. Probably part of the reason he changed it to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:56 AM |
| 9 | You don't need to be submissive to be feminineThis post has too many upvotes, it’s male fawning garbage. Sorry not sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:47 AM |
| 17 | Has anyone else had this experience with their boyfriend’s friends?My narc exes friends were always dicks to me. His friends are a reflection of him, if they are dicks (and misogynist assholes), he’s a dick (and misogynist asshole). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:42 AM |
| 6 | Once upon a time he said, "I don't just think of you as some piece of meat" ...and I realized...Am I baked or is this low key deep af? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:41 AM |
| 9 | My friend (?) sent me this and thought he did something ??? why does being nice have to lewd me...also mommy vibes?? talk about toxicThis is an issue if he sees you this way, I hate to ask, but have you given him any reason to? Not that it would make it any less creepy, I’m just saying, based on this it either sounds like you have been waaaay too nice to this scrote or he’s delusional and trying to manipulate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:39 AM |
| 37 | Man upset sex worker doesn’t actually want to have sex with him for real and just for the money.https://www.removeddit.com/r/sex/comments/g9idje/i_paid_a_prostitute_and_didnt_have_sex/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:36 AM |
| 28 | Man upset sex worker doesn’t actually want to have sex with him for real and just for the money.https://www.removeddit.com/r/sex/comments/g9idje/i_paid_a_prostitute_and_didnt_have_sex/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf There’s the post on removeddit, some of the removed comments are really vile but there are a lot more calling his shit out and acknowledging sex work is anything, but empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:35 AM |
| 46 | Men are so scummyWhat a deal! What woman wouldn’t be up for being his unpaid prostitute??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 01:39 AM |
| 38 | Oh! Oh! Pick me! Pick me! Please pick me! 🙋♀️👋 Honestly, this girl needs an intervention.This part really rung “male” to me. The account is sparse, there’s not even a long female posting history as a sort of evidence, so I’m pretty inclined to say this is probably a dude. Though, those were all things I have heard real women and girls say so, it still illustrates an accurate picture of internalized misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 07:55 PM |
| 15 | They start youngI started early, but then, I was also exposed to (found and came across in a few different ways) pornography around then which I’m sure is no coincidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 07:52 PM |
| 11 | How to prepare for a HVM, should that be your goalYou know, I have to apologize because my dyslexic ass read it as “that should be your goal” instead of “should that be your goal”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious.Keep in mind before you are so quick to jump to his defense, vocalize that you are on his side, and criticize the woman, that we are getting his rosy side of the story here. I’d be willing to bet his fiancés side of the story is much different, if this isn’t all just a creative writing exercise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 08:23 PM |
| 16 | How to prepare for a HVM, should that be your goalThe sentiment is nice but self improvement should be done for YOURSELF not just for the goal of capturing the attention of or “preparing for” a man, HV or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 08:09 PM |
| 6 | Punny! 🤣🤣🤣“Two suspicious looking bags” 🤣💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 04:21 PM |
| 20 | Op says he’s 35 and she’s 21. They’ve been together 3 years.... so clearly he knew her before she became 18...He thought a younger woman (girl in the case of when they met) would put up with his inability to act like a grown man. It’s been working for 3 years, but women, unlike men, actually grow up as the years go by so she seems to be wising up and hopefully she’ll dump his ass soon. Though, he’ll probably just find another young girl to manipulate and start the cycle over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 03:25 PM |
| 20 | The NVM ManchildHey! How’d you get this picture of my ex!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Thoughtful BrotherCame here to say this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.Is there someway you could send her an anonymous email with a link to the news story? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 02:09 PM |
| 7 | Men are angry not because they can’t get laid easily, but because they can’t use their power while women can.It’s really crazy and scary to read their actual depraved thoughts and ideas about women here anonymously on the internet where no women in their lives can find out... How many men do we think we know so well, but who have these same thoughts? I’m sure we would be shocked to find out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 11:57 PM |
| 14 | I hate this channelThat’s awesome you have friends like that in real life, wish I did! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 08:26 PM |
| 68 | I hate this channelCan you imagine how empowered every woman would be if we all had all of our friends be just a gang of hardcore FDSers? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsI’ll check it out, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:19 PM |
| 3 | What does a HV relationship looks likeLol no, and I knew it was not quite the response that was being sought, but now you’re giving me a complex lol I just really miss them as our First Lady and president right now, though what I’d actually love to see is Michelle running herself, but she’s already said she won’t unfortunately. They’re just like one of the only “famous” true HVW and HVM couples that I actually believe in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsThank you, I do in fact! Now I’ll just need to find the English sub version which can be a challenge, but usually attainable with enough searching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Old scrotes reek of desperationI would have felt the same, did he really think that would be endearing or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:40 PM |
| 15 | Old scrotes reek of desperationYes why is this, most men just never grow up... or they do but their rate of growth is like a tenth that of the average woman. I’ve seen so many scrotes in their 40s 50s and even 60s that still act like teenage boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:20 AM |
| 6 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsI haven’t even watched any Bollywood since I’ve been pinkpilled. I’m going to have to give one of my favorites another watch with a new perspective. Salaam e ishq, it’s from the early 2000s and was like a Desi version of love actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:11 AM |
| 13 | The objectively least terrible person in Tiger King is receiving death threats and being surveilled by insane scrotes trying to prove she murdered her husband.Same, and I thought the fact she was even willing to be interviewed about it at all made it less likely. I mean sure, some extreme narcissist might come do an interview about a murder they committed decades after the fact for the duping delight, but they’d also have to be the kind of narc who’s ego outweighs their common sense and that’s not the kind of narc who is careful enough not to leave behind a shred of evidence. Anyway, despite the shitty cut she got, I actually really liked Carole, she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:07 AM |
| 15 | Behave, scrote. You should be thankful she is giving you the permission to even look at her. Sis is in it to get out of her financial situation, this scrote obv deceived her cuz he’s broke as shit.Rose is a queen and this guy is a fucking nasty sex tourist but this season just gets worse. There is another dude Geoffrey, who is felon multiple times over, has been accused of abuse by all 4 of his ex wives, served prison time, and was has 2 open cases for domestic abuse and kidnapping (of his ex and children) ..... and the Russian woman he is there to meet has no idea.... The show itself makes no mention of these charges (only that he’s spent time in prison) and in the current episode he tal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 09:33 AM |
| 47 | Reminder of why it’s important to not follow LibFem ideology when it comes to dealing with men.I have met so many dudes just like him. They don’t realize their sliminess and disingenuous behavior is completely transparent to most women. They may occasionally be able to take advantage of or rape a drunk girl at a frat party and really go around thinking it makes them some kind of stud... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 09:21 AM |
| 6 | What does a HV relationship looks likeMichelle and Barack is the only good example I can think of right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 09:12 AM |
| 17 | Tips for recovering and being able to function normally after long-term emotionally/psychologically abusive relationship with a narcissistic LVM?That was no HVM, sis. I know you partially used the term to distinguish the two, but it’s not just a term to apply to any man that isn’t a total and complete ass off the rip. Both dudes in this story are very LVM, maybe in different ways and to different degrees, but neither are HVM. I’m sorry you have been through what you have, I too have experience with an abusive narc ex, but it wasn’t for as long (2 1/2 years) and it was like 7 years ago now. And now I do still encounter male narcs all the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:54 AM |
| 18 | Can you even?!Yea 90 day is my guilty pleasure. You will find more than one comment in my recent history referring to the bullshit this creepy sex tourist has pulled. I was wondering if anyone here was going to make mention to this particular scene just because of how outrageous and viral it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 03:15 AM |
| 5 | Ex-boyfriend refuses to pay money owed to me after breaking up (24F, 35M)Sorry to hear you had to deal with that from your parents of all people, the ones you are supposed to be able to rely on more than anybody. My mom has always been good about that, but yea when I was about 19 I gave my dad some money to hold on to for me and when I asked for it back he had spent half of it (which was about $500). I wouldn’t have made such a big deal if he had told me he spent it on bills or food (he was barely surviving on an ssd income and small pension which would have been eno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:55 PM |
| 17 | Ex-boyfriend refuses to pay money owed to me after breaking up (24F, 35M)Same thing happened to me in my first serious relationship. I was 16 and he was 24 but we lied to my mom and told her he was 19 and she even let him live with us (what were you thinking ma?) It was my first savings from my very first job at a Quiznos. For some idiot reason I would let him use my debit card for certain expenses at work (he was a roofer) because he would always reimburse me after he got paid for the job and he would always ask ahead of time. Well towards the end of the relationshi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Tiger KingWell that’s kind of my point, the doc didn’t paint her in a positive light but there wasn’t exactly any hard evidence to support any of it and I just find it far more likely that this woman was not the bad person they tried to portray her as. I’m always inclined to believe better of a woman than what is being said of her when there is some kind of smear agenda against her.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:59 PM |
| -1 | Tiger KingBut how do you know that cub wasn’t also a rescue being that is her whole belief system? That’s it’s wrong to own cubs as pets and she backs laws that are trying to pass to accomplish this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:53 PM |
| 3 | More Bad Advice From RPWTruer words sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 10:30 AM |
| 4 | Tiger KingI thought Carole was cool af. I’m a bit disappointed to see even some of the women here kind of fall for the negative spin she was given and all the popular rhetoric around criticizing her.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 10:26 AM |
| -1 | Tiger KingWhere did it say she had tigers as pets before the zoo? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 10:24 AM |
| 14 | As if being single is a disease 🙄This is literally one of the reasons a friend of mine was insecure about being single for more than a few weeks or a month at a time.... she thought other dudes would think something was wrong with her. She internalized this so much that she would start to act like she was superior when she would be in a relationship and I wasn’t. Yeah... we aren’t friends anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 10:20 AM |
| 10 | How tf can they even compare the manosphere to FDS?!Posted a link to the sub on a post by a woman on r/rant about how pathetic it is when men pretend to be a womans friend in hopes of getting sex from her. here were the replies by all the triggered scrotes comparing the sub to incels subs and wondering why it hasn’t been banned like them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:44 PM |
| 7 | "You wish you could sway my attention." 🎶If I’m honest, I would like it better if she didn’t refer to herself as a “bitch” 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 08:54 PM |
| 12 | HVM bf mentions male suicide rate - red flag or ignorance ?He isn’t a HVM if you are here asking us questions about his integrity... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 08:52 PM |
| 6 | Guy i'm dating turns out to be a virgin.I think it’s actually a positive sign... the only reason it wouldn’t be is if he’s just not interested in sex at all, asexual or in the closet or something. Otherwise, (being that you say he is attractive and would have had other opportunities to have sex) it sounds like he is just respectful of his body and sees sex as more than just a conquest. It’s extremely rare, but some men do see sex as an expression of physical love and want the experience to be with someone they actually love. I wouldn’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Keep ya bad ass heads upYea sorry.... Tupac was no HVM. Lol at being downvoted! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Best primer for face sweatTry washing your face with African black soap, the bar I got by Shea Moisture was $4 and completely sucks all the oils right out of my face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 17 | What’s the men’s intentions behind telling you everything ?He’s testing your boundaries to gauge your reaction and see what he can get away with. Mgtows constantly whine about women “shit testing”, but that’s just another projection and more complaining about us not taking their bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 06:14 PM |
| 1 | LVM Husband masturbates, but when his wife does it apparently it's not okayJust checking in... you said stbx.... is he gone yet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:21 AM |
| 18 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayThank you I will. This (Facebook) is the only place he can contact me and I pretty much just keep him unblocked to keep tabs. He doesn’t know where I am living currently at all even though it’s super close to him... I have a few obstacles in the way of a restraining order that I am working on getting resolved. He hasn’t shown himself to be angry or have a reason or desire to come after me, but I do try and take all the possible precautions I can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayYup, exactly. I find it pretty humorous that he thinks I would at all be down to get involved in his shitshow of a life again. Well, he’ll always have his mommy! He is suuuch a classic example of a narcissist. The guy once (actually more than once) looked in the mirror and exclaimed aloud to me “I’m pretty much the perfect human specimen”. I don’t know wtf I ever saw in him honestly. He is so fucking cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 5 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayYes, I am thank you. And he has no idea where I am and never will, even though it’s very close to where he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayYep, That’s me you are thinking of and yes it’s him I am talking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:19 PM |
| 16 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayYea that’s kind of the angle I’m going for, just enough contact to where he doesn’t feel entirely ignored and get pissed. I just want him to think it’s all good. I have a few obstacles in the way of a restraining order, but hopefully they will be soon resolved. Thanks for the support 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔Ew that reminds me of that scumbag dude Jeff from the tiger kind series on Netflix... his wife is pregnant and he’s searching for sexy nannies, with her full enthusiastic pickme approval of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 17 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayThank you. It really does help to hear/read that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 27 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayThis is fb. I don’t have him blocked to keep tabs. Idk why I even sent those little replies that I did. Except the one where I asked how much longer he had... that I did want to know for obvious reasons. He has no idea where I’m living now, he has my moms address which is where he sent all of his narcissistic rambling ass non apology letters that got instantly ripped up and thrown away immediately after reading to make sure there were no documentable threats.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:21 PM |
| 63 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayI love how he is like “we shoulda had those twins” as if it was some mutually agreed upon decision we had come to. Two weeks after I had the abortion he did pretty much everything he threatened to do anyway... started a fight with me while I was recovering, broke up with me, literally kicked me out in the fucking rain in the middle of the night knowing I had nowhere to go and was almost entirely dependent on him (my immature mistake), shoving me down and kicking me in the stomach repeatedly with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:10 PM |
| 8 | Do you feel like location/ where you live matters when finding a HVMAbsolutely. The town my mom lives in for example is full of LVM and pickmes because it is mostly blue collar white trump supporters and used to be a kkk town. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Still seeing these Pickmeisha propaganda circulatibg around the Internet! I'll make sure my sister and my future generations will never become one of these!Sadly, I used to be just like this. Gets you nowhere but walked all over. Men especially do not appreciate our kindness ladies, they only see it as weakness. Especially sociopathic and narcissistic types seek out these kind of people because they are so easily exploitable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:32 PM |
| 39 | Found on my Facebook and there's a huge discussion on it 😕What 16 year old boy makes these? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:02 AM |
| 32 | Choices... The Pickmesha and Corona Virus editionJesus fucking Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 10:57 AM |
| 7 | There was a great text-only post here about the small things that are 'standard' actions for HVM, e.g. opening the door for you. It was posted within the past 2 weeks. I can't find it. Help?You are absolutely right girl. That’s why I wanted to comment about it and get an outside opinion, I’m glad I did. That’s exactly what I’m going to do, change the privacy to just my girlfriends who will appreciate it. Or maybe just send it to them directly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:33 PM |
| 8 | There was a great text-only post here about the small things that are 'standard' actions for HVM, e.g. opening the door for you. It was posted within the past 2 weeks. I can't find it. Help?I am really tempted to post a screenshot of that post to my Facebook..... so many losers (including lvm family members) will freak out, especially if they then go and look up the sub and I can’t decide if I’m ready for all the ensuing drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 28 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!Men respond to boundaries, clear and hard lines, expectations, standards, assertiveness and consequences! This is so true. I wish that I had realized this when I first started dating! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 06:13 AM |
| 9 | An early casualty of the current crisis. Please join me in saying goodnight to a fallen comrade... #gonebutnotforgottenYes, yes they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 12 | An early casualty of the current crisis. Please join me in saying goodnight to a fallen comrade... #gonebutnotforgottenGirl, you wild lmao. Terrible timing tho! I would be sad too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 4 | Some OC I made on whisper since I’m too lazy to use something better 😆 enjoyYep that was exactly the point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 09:59 PM |
| 9 | Best way to spend time being quarantined?This is so fucked... and then u have fucking trump going on tv making his speeches telling all the boomers who believe he can do no wrong that not everyone needs to worry about getting testing and downlplaying the whole thing. I swear I warned these motherfuckers that this narcissistic egomaniac man was gonna take us down. Nobody listened and they still support his ass, it’s crazy making shit because my mom is one of them. She’s so brainwashed she told me a few months ago “Fox News is unbiased”.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 09:33 AM |
| 20 | I don’t understand how they don’t get it!It’s not that they don’t understand sis, it’s that they don’t care, it’s that they want what they want (to have their cake and eat it too in this case) and are NOT above lying, gaslighting and MANipulating (like my pun? Lol) to get it. It’s as simple as that. No big mystery to figure out, no paragraphs required. It’s not about his mommy yelling and spanking him that one time and you can’t fix him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 09:27 AM |
| 13 | Elon Musk is the perfect example of a LVM with money.toad-face fuckboy TOO accurate! Lmao 🤣😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 10:50 AM |
| 8 | 95% of convicted rapists believe they are innocent and express no remorse. Criminal psychologists routinely confirm Men’s perception of events during sex crimes are completely & totally distorted and can almost never be trusted. #BelieveWomen should be accompanied by #AlmostNeverBelieveMen.I’ve always believed this to be true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:29 PM |
| 8 | Some of them are starting to get itI know, it really sucks man, I have nothing but empathy for the women ;even the ones who enforce it like you said they are brainwashed and just trying to survive like the rest of us by trying to make the best decisions they can in the moment. I’m a very black and white thinker sometimes and radical feminism is one of those things. I will always have more empathy for women because we simply are not evil the way men are, and we live in a patriarchy anyways so no matter how many women want to chang… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:42 AM |
| 15 | Some of them are starting to get itI grew up in a city in America with the highest Muslim population outside of the Middle East, as a white person. Watching my girlfriends literally not even be allowed to leave the house while the brothers could do anything they wanted was infuriating to see. My one friend who was the only friend I had who was poorer than me, almost couldn’t be friends with me because her uncle (who was like the surrogate father as his brother, their dad, was overseas with his other family and had essentially lef… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:12 AM |
| 5 | Some of them are starting to get itWe need more moms like you (and more dads like you too!) if men as a class have any chance of improving. Not that its women as a class’s job to change men as a class, it’s just that change does need practical solutions. Unfortunately too many men are dead set against implementing any and we live in a patriarchy so it makes it hard for us as women to take the reigns on fixing society and it’s impossible if men continue to refuse to be willing and making changes to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:05 AM |
| 16 | Making a PickmeishaBack to black is my all time fave album. Actually the song itself is huge favorite of mine too. She’s too amazing to even narrow it down to one all time favorite song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:40 AM |
| 33 | Another Unwashed, Unkempt, Unshaven Scrote tells us all about how our poor opinion of men is solely because of chasing “Chad”. You see ladies, We don’t date guys like him because we lack common sense, not because he’s repulsive. 🙄Of course he doesn’t understand this sub. He’s not our target audience nor is he our target type of man in any way. He will never be ANYONES version of a HVM. I think he knows it too and that’s what makes him so mad. He is an almost TOO perfect example of a LVM. Nobody is strategizing to get this dude. If by some miracle a woman did have low enough self esteem to fuck this guy (which I highly doubt as his energy reads as virgin to me) he would of course not only have to peruse her but also manip… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:16 AM |
| 22 | Another Unwashed, Unkempt, Unshaven Scrote tells us all about how our poor opinion of men is solely because of chasing “Chad”. You see ladies, We don’t date guys like him because we lack common sense, not because he’s repulsive. 🙄Lol the pubes on his face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 07:10 AM |
| 38 | Making a PickmeishaRIP Amy. There hasn’t been a celebrity life and death that resonated with me this deeply outside of Diana and Marilyn. Unfortunately out of those three I’ve spent most of my life being an Amy, like... too many parallels that I don’t even want to get into. Not to mention the huge inspiration and influence she is to me vocally as a singer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 07:05 AM |
| 2 | And that’s how you do itOh yea, always exceptions to the rule and I have seen that kind of thing in my own life as well, which is exactly why I mentioned trusting OP’s obviously amazing judgement on leaving the video game and breakfast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:07 PM |
| 5 | And that’s how you do itMaybe I should have phrased it as “unwilling to implement the introspective skills” because I do understand your point but that wasn’t my intended meaning. Men may have it but they are so much more likely to just completely ignore it to protect their ego, they may face it eventually, but it will be years down the line. I don’t know if your phrasing of “it hurts them deeply” is completely accurate though either. Most of them I honestly don’t think it does. At most maybe it makes them angry which … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 02:02 PM |
| 48 | And that’s how you do itThat’s why I trust her judgement in leaving him the video game and breakfast, for most men I would say it was rewarding him because he would either never get the intended meaning or get it but still not feel bad and thus he is just unnecessarily receiving a benefit, but she knew this man for 5 years and was an absolute queen, Im sure she had a better idea than any of us on how to really drive the knife in on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:47 AM |
| 190 | Pinterest + hvmThe cutest “male deception” I’ve ever heard of, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:02 AM |
| 34 | And that’s how you do itYou are probably right, had she defaced/tampered with the breakfast and took the game what do you wanna bet his LVM spin on the story when he told other people would have been this: “she stole my video game and tried to poison me!!1!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Ladies : take note !Not gonna happen because the majority of men feel no motivation to do anything that doesn’t benefit their penis, let alone do something that is the exact opposite that will directly keep them from “benefitting” their penis (not to describe rape callously, I’m doing it to put emphasis on their view of it). The collateral damage means nothing to them, just their penis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:14 AM |
| 4 | Lying is okay, and give second chances? What???Yea that is really frustrating, I can understand because like in my example I made, I have heard similar things from my own mother in similar type situations where she says something to defend or or try to get me to empathize with his (whatever boyfriend at the time, aside from the one she hated) side even when it was completely inappropriate and she knew that he was a piece of shit. The good news is that we know better than to fall victim to those opinions and actually be swayed by them as we u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:08 AM |
| 6 | Lying is okay, and give second chances? What???It really sucks when anyone does it, but the closer you are to the person the worse it feels. I could see a therapist or friend being right up there with hearing it from your mom or sister, depending on how close the relationships are relative to each other. Some people are closer to a friend than they are their mom, and a therapist adds an additional feeling of betrayal on a professional and emotional level, especially since there are many people who tell things to their therapists that they ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:45 AM |
| 11 | Lying is okay, and give second chances? What???I feel weird replying to my own comment but what I’m about to say is not directly related to my point above and I wanted to have that separation for clarity and keep it from from being just one long comment that nobody reads. But this made me think about how we should have a universal wearable symbol for FDS but then I realized it might not be a good idea since there is no real way to keep it completely private and I could totally see some unhinged man learning about it and then attacking a woma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:11 AM |
| 17 | Lying is okay, and give second chances? What???That’s one of the shittiest parts about coming to these realizations, if you talk about it with anyone who doesn’t already have a good understanding of and truly accept that men as a class are shit, they will try to rationalize their behavior and empathize with the man just because that’s how society works, men are prioritized. Even when they should otherwise know better, like your therapist who should be wary just as a professional, let alone that she knows the explicit details. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:02 AM |
| 95 | And that’s how you do itMy theory is that she was thinking it might drive into the wound even deeper by making it completely obvious what a class act and amazing girlfriend she was by showing what she was on her way to do when she caught him. Emphasizing even more what a shit person he is. Problem is, I think most men don’t have the introspective skills to see it that way, or they are straight sociopaths with no guilt that something like that wouldn’t bother them anyway, their emotional level is so basic he probably wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:44 AM |
| 21 | Ladies : take note !Right? I hate to judge because I have tolerated so much bullshit myself from men, but I feel like this much blatant woman hating would kill all attraction and desire immediately to where I just couldn’t be with the guy without being disgusted, even at my highest point of pickmeishadom. I’m not looking down on you u/Resident_Biscotti, I’m sure you had some valid reasons for this that are borne out of our different life experiences, but can I ask you what they were? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | UMC men don't date poor women not only because of class but because of aesthetic reasons.Referring to things as “retarded”, yet another sign of juvenility. I’m the one with the knowledge and experience here, you’re the one who needs to be explained to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | UMC men don't date poor women not only because of class but because of aesthetic reasons.I’ve definitely been with more women than you bro and am a woman so..... I think I know a bit more than you. Women do not become instantly wet, you could have said instantly turned on since you obviously know the phrase (turns out your English isn’t so bad after all, huh?) No one who is out of highschool and has any real sexual experiences refers to turning a girl on as her getting wet, it’s a false and juvenile equivalence due to the reasons I detailed in my previous reply to you. To which I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | UMC men don't date poor women not only because of class but because of aesthetic reasons.Right, so your implication was exactly as I stated. I GUARANTEE you this woman did not get wet by just having a public conversation with someone she just met. Being “wet” isn’t necessarily a sign of increased arousal as the vagina is constantly self cleaning and lubricating throughout the day to maintain a healthy PH balance. Though it is true you will typically feel a more mucous like substance when a woman is aroused, but it’s not something that happens in an instant, the period between arousa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | UMC men don't date poor women not only because of class but because of aesthetic reasons.You are speaking in English pretty well for someone who has never spoken it to someone before... what did you mean when you said you got her “wet”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | UMC men don't date poor women not only because of class but because of aesthetic reasons.So the woman has to essentially prostitute herself to a man she isn’t attracted to in order to achieve that is what you are saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | UMC men don't date poor women not only because of class but because of aesthetic reasons.I doubt that, his English was almost perfect up until that part about supposedly getting the girl “wet”. I think this was a legitimate ridiculously obvious attempt at bragging via exaggeration or outright lying where he just doesn’t have the self awareness or actual experience with women to realize how cringey and unrealistic it comes off sounding. So yea, more like cringey obvious lying than a mistranslation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | UMC men don't date poor women not only because of class but because of aesthetic reasons.I actually let out a quick chuckle when I read that sentence in his comment because of how inherently ridiculous and out of touch it was. There’s no caste system (maybe that’s what he poor lad is thinking of? 🤔) but there sure as fuck is a class system in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever heard about a doctor/lawyer or affluent man dating a lower class woman (janitress, cashier...)? SeriouslyNeither do manlets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever heard about a doctor/lawyer or affluent man dating a lower class woman (janitress, cashier...)? SeriouslyIt’s hard to not see women as a superficial monolith when I’m so much more forgiving about their looks and personalities than they are mine. Says a guy who insists a partner must be willing to perform deep threat on him.. i.e. choke and gag herself very uncomfortably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever heard about a doctor/lawyer or affluent man dating a lower class woman (janitress, cashier...)? SeriouslyShoot, I’m LMC and just getting a job as a minimum wage secretary to a small town real estate broker (only solidly MC himself) was a big step up for me and at 26 was my first job outside of retail, waitressing, or fast food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 05:56 AM |
| 45 | ❤️❤️More free time OR more spending money. So many of posts on the relationship subs of women saying these men they are married to or have children with are making them pay half the rent and bills (or more) when he makes significantly more than she does. Which means he for some reason believes he deserves more spending money than his wife and/or mother of his child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:13 PM |
| 18 | One down; millions to goThat article goes on and on about his supposed health problems... So coincidental how ALL of these rapists are all of the sudden in such horrible health, practically on their deathbed juuuusssst as the time comes for them to have to face the music and take their punishment. Huh 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:21 AM |
| 12 | Is a HVM worth adusting your standards for?This is going to be a bit harsh but.... when you said you don’t know if he uses porn and you don’t want to ask because you would make an exception for him anyways, it reminded me of those pick me’s who say that about their man cheating. I’m glad you see the light, per your edit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 10:25 AM |
| 24 | How reliable is your intuition?I’m going to copy a comment I made about this yesterday: This “uh oh” feeling is exactly what kept me alive throughout years of getting in cars with strange men on the streets of Detroit as a homeless drug addicted prostitute. The times I ignored it in the beginning ended in the men trying to beat, rob, and rape me and sometimes succeeding to where I learned that if I got that feeling, to flat out jump out of the car the first chance I got, without warning, even if he seemed perfectly nice other… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 10:11 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean if a guy mentions he's brokeRead the FDS handbook in the “about” section. Your answer is in there and it is required reading to post here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 10:00 AM |
| 12 | r/amiwithanasshole was just banned for being “unmoderated”No of course not, I thought that might be where the confusion lay. The sub I am talking about which is the subject of this post is r/amiWITHanasshole and it was created as a response to the amitheasshole sub due to the misogynistic and unhelpful answers given there to women who ask about situations involving their boyfriends and husbands. Also, to act as the first and only FDS/feminist relationship advice forum. That’s why we need it back so bad. I think it had the potential to wake up a lot of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | r/amiwithanasshole was just banned for being “unmoderated”Wdym? The sub was spawned here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 21 | r/amiwithanasshole was just banned for being “unmoderated”I just figured it out. You put a request in at r/redditrequest. Which I just did. Though upon searching the subs name, the first person who replied to me here, u/spiced_cat_puccino already put in a request for it there. Dunno why they didn’t mention that in their comment, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:28 PM |
| 19 | r/amiwithanasshole was just banned for being “unmoderated”For sure a team is always best. How do we go about this though, what is the first step? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:22 PM |
| 36 | r/amiwithanasshole was just banned for being “unmoderated”Okay damn, thanks for the info. I wish I had seen that, I would have stepped up. Do you by chance know how I could go about requesting that it be unbanned on the grounds that I act as a mod? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:02 PM |
| 8 | I don’t think I have to explainYea that was my guess in the post I made. Edit: rereading this whole thing I had misunderstood your first reply. Your wording was meant to say that you bet scrotes were reporting it, but how I misread it was you saying “didn’t you know that sub was attacked by scrotes?” so I was thinking you had some info about it that I didn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:53 PM |
| 15 | I don’t think I have to explainThat doesn’t make sense when the sub r/amitheasshole is one of reddits most popular subs. When I went to the sub it said it was banned for being unmoderated so I don’t think it has anything to do with the name. What were you talking about before about scrotes invading it or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:51 PM |
| 21 | I don’t think I have to explainI actually just made a thread about it asking what happened and how we can get it back up. What happened? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:45 PM |
| 38 | Whew chile the things I see on that bird appDAE kind of get the feeling the second woman low key commented just to flex about how she personally doesn’t wear makeup and how confusing it is for all the men because she’s still so pretty? It’s not that men are “wEiRd” it’s that they hate us and are constantly looking for ways to bring us down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:29 PM |
| 53 | I don’t think I have to explainAnd r/amiwithanasshole was just banned for being unmoderated. How do we get it back? It is so needed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Some PUA tactics I've documentedSame to you, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:05 PM |
| 11 | Some PUA tactics I've documentedThank you, It is. ☺️ Nobody would even guess that was my past knowing me now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | He was sexually abusing underage girls. One of them killed him. Now she is accused of murdering her alleged sex trafficker and faces life in prison.What was clickbait about it? The title of the article in this post and the other story by abc that someone replied to you with, both simply state the facts of the case. Nothing is sensationalized about either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:55 PM |
| 18 | Some PUA tactics I've documentedThis “uh oh” feeling is exactly what kept me alive throughout years of getting in cars with strange men on the streets of Detroit as a homeless drug addicted prostitute. The times I ignored it in the beginning ended in the men trying to beat, rob, and rape me and sometimes succeeding to where I learned that if I got that feeling, to flat out jump out of cars the first chance I got, without warning, even if he seemed perfectly nice otherwise. Because the dudes that tried shit always seemed nice a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:30 PM |
| 4 | The lack of effort.. Also WTF is this? The only way we can get a good guy is by fucking??🙄Looks like an even lower rent Fred Durst (that guy from that annoying 00’s band, Limp Bizkit). He’s got the chinstrap and the signature d-bag backwards flat bill cap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:40 AM |
| 13 | Red flags? 18F and 19MSounds kind of controlling. That’s been the case with every guy who has acted this way in my experience. It seems almost sweet at first, like “as he really cares” but don’t be fooled. He isn’t concerned about you he’s obsessing about not being the center of your attention and seeking reassurance that you are still into him. And not because he just values your attention and affection that much, it’s because he’s really insecure. This is the kind of guy that will accuse you of cheating for not tex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about privileged white people and especially men saying this shit “I AS A WHITE WOMAN/MAN NEVER SEEN RACISM OR VIOLENCE OR RAPE THEREFORE EVERYONE LYING” automatic LVM imagine feeling comfy taking your wife and kids to PakistanThis level of lack of self awareness is an indicator of immaturity, though the person isn’t necessarily young, they just never mentally progressed. Self awareness and ability to see things outside of one’s own perspective are indicators of maturity. Maturity is necessary quality for a man to be high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?Same. Also, as an ex sex worker, the smelliest and grossest dicks were the uncircumcised ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 10:09 AM |
| 0 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?Sure, but we all know most dudes don’t clean ANYTHING properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 10:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?No pantworm dickcheese for me either, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 10:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?Uncircumcised makes the sex feel way better It’s the exact opposite for me. Circumcised feels better because there is more friction. When the dude is uncircumcised it feels to me like he has on a skin condom and his dick is just moving in and out of its own skin rather than in and out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 10:02 AM |
| 8 | How to turn your FWB/fling into a HVM boyfriend!No they never do and it is never worth hanging around for the disappointing realization. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 09:59 AM |
| 2 | [Ultimate Pickmeisha] Would it be insane to hire someone to give my boyfriend blowjobs because I can't do it?Not a sex worker who isn’t strung out on hardcore drugs, at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 09:45 AM |
| 20 | FDS is now considered a controversial subreddit via WikipediaGo somewhere that has free WiFi to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 09:35 AM |
| 65 | What is it with LVM and wanting to"cuddle"?They get aroused, claim they can't control themselves, and sexually assault you. And then blame you for coming over. Too real, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 09:02 AM |
| 8 | I resent OLD but decided to give it a go, mostly to entertain myself. I matched with a guy with no pic, but he had a nice paragraph of Bible verses written. As a Christian, I matched; albeit, stupidly. Earlier, I suggested he was married. This is our exchange:I’m bashing the religion, not you. To say you were brainwashed isn’t an insult. All of us here have been brainwashed at some point whether it be by patriarchy, liberal feminism, the trans cult, or one of the other misogynistic ideologies meant to keep women subordinate. What we are here for is to help our fellow sisters shed that brainwashing, and calling it out is the first step. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:06 PM |
| 14 | I resent OLD but decided to give it a go, mostly to entertain myself. I matched with a guy with no pic, but he had a nice paragraph of Bible verses written. As a Christian, I matched; albeit, stupidly. Earlier, I suggested he was married. This is our exchange:I didn’t call you a pickmeisha and wasn’t planning on it. You have your opinion and I have mine. I think that if there were an omnipotent god, it’d be a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:57 PM |
| 158 | Man using his girlfriend as a literal sex doll; she’s worried about offending him for not wanting sex 6 TIMES AN EVENING. Ugh.For real. She isn’t his girlfriend, she’s his unpaid prostitute 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:33 PM |
| 52 | As a female...Along with blackpeopletwitter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:15 PM |
| 7 | You’re better off alone than with a LVMI just randomly remembered that movie last week and watched it again. It was just as awesome as I remembered! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:37 AM |
| 2 | The truerateme sub has a detailed section for women but not men...There is r/ratemegirlsclub but I think you have to ask to join. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:08 AM |
| 4 | Man graduates, dumps his GF of 2 years. She handles herself well, gets on online dating apps immediately, and finds a BF, who she dates for 5 months. Ex comes crawling back, now, after 6 months... he BEGS her to "let him know when she changes her mind". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!!So true. I noticed this pattern early on in my dating life, but I had never really heard women talk about it yet, so I used to hype myself up, thinking I had a golden pussy or something hahaha Kinda cringe, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:28 AM |
| 3 | I am finally kicking my husband to the curb this weekend and he doesn't know.I don’t have anything original to say, the ladies here have covered it so so well. So I just wanted to be one more voice in the crowd cheering you on! You are a rockstar! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Every. Time.Well hey, you’re already miles ahead of most if you are here in this sub at the point of your very first relationship and accepting that you have things to learn! That is an excellent attitude to approach this sub with! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 4 | I hope his wife goes and finds herself a nice girlfriend who cares about what she has to sayWe need to have a real discussion about this here because it’s been something I have been wondering about the FDS stance on. In my experience, most of the bi men I encountered were creepy ass sex obsessed dudes with weird fetishes (often times sleeping with trans and or cross dressing themselves) and as a bi woman myself I do sometimes feel like I’m being hypocritical to judge bi men this way, but even the very idea of two men together sexually is a complete turn off to me. This is going to soun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:58 PM |
| 3 | OP asks if she should go on another date, (but without alcohol this time). After commenters criticize HER reckless behavior, she even considers apologizing to HIM for getting blackout drunk. “Maybe he didn’t know you passed out” or “If you can’t keep up, don’t drink” offered as words of support 🙄As an ex hooker, sometimes I fantasize about saying fuck it all and going back but this time pulling an Aileen wuornos and capping every MFer that tries some funny shit. And that’s at least a third. If not half. People always act like her defense that all these men had raped or attempted to rape her is absurd based on the amount of men, but having lived that life, I can tell you that it’s not absurd at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | If he asks if you've got a friend for his mates... That's a red flag sis.My ex did the same! But not because I didn’t have any friends, but because I only a had a few really close ones. Meanwhile, he had multiple groups of party friends that only hung around him because he threw big parties at his college. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | why I'm against paid nudesNo, women who sell nudes are not “responsible for the creation of new LVM”...Wtf? Men will always find a way to enable their depravity, blame the cause not the symptom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | It’s still abusive.This was actually the first thing that came to mind seeing this post. I had watched jersey shore when it came out in my teens, but stopped watching the various iterations. About a year ago though, I was watching some jersey shore clips on YouTube for nostalgia sake and this was one of them. I was so upset for her and pissed that the rest of those douchebags and all of production, did nothing to stop that maniacal narcissist. Poor Sammy, I can’t imagine having to have the world all laugh at your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | LibFems really convinced an entire generation of women that porn was healthy, normal, & empowering while claiming to want to end rape culture. Because porn has always been respectful of women’s bodies and boundaries and a *great* model for establishing consent! 🤡Yep. Once pmed a woman who posted on relationship advice about her lvm (can’t remember exactly what it was now, but egregious enough for me to feel the need to message her telling her about this sub) and she said it wasn’t for her because we are anti BDSM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Reddit once again promotes that men's feelings are more important then a woman or his child's life.Some idiot had the nerve to comment that she was the one not approaching the relationship as a team effort. That post is one of the worst I have seen on AITA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Reddit once again promotes that men's feelings are more important then a woman or his child's life.Same, like wtf. That sub is so toxic. Every once in a while there will be a post from a woman that has actual non misogynistic, rational, answers, but it doesn’t happen often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:14 PM |
| 9 | Every. Time.You’ve got some reading to do girl, the FDS handbook in the “about” section. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Level Up Check-In: what have you done lately to improve yourself?Started doing a daily and nightly skin care routine and working out from home with some cheap equipment I got from 5 below, 4 days a week. Been at it for 3 weeks now. Oh and last week I organized my room and closet! I’m on a roll! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Green flag or red flag? Respectful persistence or desperation?That’s a lot of projection there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:46 AM |
| 19 | All rappers are LVM and you can’t change my mindJeremy Meeks. The “hot felon” who was engaged to a billionaire heiress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:46 AM |
| 8 | What stupid things did y'all do for a man?Moved back to my home city from NYC to be with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Green flag or red flag? Respectful persistence or desperation?Huh, okay funny because it was insta downvoted right before your comment and then right after my comment, it was at 2. I’ll take your word for it though, nobody ever lies on the internet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Green flag or red flag? Respectful persistence or desperation?I’m fine, are you going to answer my question? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:32 AM |
| 4 | Green flag or red flag? Respectful persistence or desperation?Did you really just downvote her comment when she went out of her way to give you actually helpful and useful advice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 10:23 AM |
| 6 | "Real Men" need to look in the mirror before opening their mouths smhNot that it makes him saying that any less disgusting, of course, but at least he is being honest about the fact that the only thing LVM value women for is those superficial qualities that cater to him, revealing how men really feel about us. I am already very well aware that men are trash and how horrible and depraved their thoughts and ideas about women are, but so many women aren’t. The pick mes love to believe and argue that men value us for the things he explicitly said men DO NOT value on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 06:09 AM |
| 15 | Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fateOh, I already know that sub is a hellhole of misogyny, I pretty much only follow it to have stuff to talk about here, lol. Also, it keeps it fresh in my mind exactly how shitty and toxic men are and keeps me informed of their latest games, gaslighting techniques, and manipulations without having to lurk the more extreme incel/MRA subs that are harder on my psyche to read. I want to tell you though, that I am such a fan of yours. I’ve been following your comments and posts for probably about as l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:17 PM |
| 32 | Don't settle for this, that doesn't have to be your fateThis was posted to blackpeopletwitter today and the comments were full of that bs about women needing to communicate and subtle and not so subtle digs at women. Their fragile little egos were clearly bruised. Top comment was “closed mouths don’t get fed” And here is a particularly disgusting but very revealing comment thread that perfectly displays how men view us as nothing but human flesh lights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:06 PM |
| 6 | How do you stop hoping?Don’t give up on trying to find a HVM? Why not when the alternative of being single forever is really not so bad? Like the post from earlier said, being single is better than being with most men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:53 AM |
| 4 | I started back into my old habits and I don't wanna go back.I can’t resist asking what you found out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:49 AM |
| 5 | Men only believe in "equality" when it comes to sharing bills or sharing blame.Damn ya’ll if this isn’t a prime example of the consequences of the transgender propaganda misinformation campaign, I don’t know what is. This poor girl was legitimately under the impression that sex can be changed via a surgery and it would allow for biological males to get pregnant. Not to make you feel bad sis, this is not at all your fault. I imagine you are probably kind of young and just interpreting and believing what you have been told and purposely misled to believe. I want to give you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:07 AM |
| 9 | Seeking advice: how can you test whether a guy is with you just for your looks?Lol at someone downvoting the truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:43 AM |
| 13 | Breast Implants or Nose Job - Men are wayy more insecure than women - Steroid and Growth HormonesAnd that stuff they take to prevent hair loss that causes liver damage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Please stay woke about the current Male mental health debate- manipulative low value men WILL use this to their advantageit's been a recent experience of mine that people overlabel narcissism in their partners or exes and I think it's really damaging. Men do this. It’s a variation of “my ex was crazy”. I’m not going to say women never do it, but overwhelmingly it is men. And often times everything they are saying about their ex is (as always with men) a projection that is actually true about themselves. Often times, maybe even most of the time, when women talk about how badly their ex behaved and treated them, the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 11:18 PM |
| 20 | LVM thinks he’s meeting up with two women from a dating app to “hookup”. Ends up getting ROBBED; obtains physical and egotistical bruises.I couldn’t help but laugh picturing their face when your bf walked in acting shocked 🤣 . It was a sight to see, sis. A few times they already had there pants unzipped or were in the act of unzipping them in that very moment that he would bust in! He was so good at playing the part, too. I would just sit there pretending to look dumbfounded lol A lot of these creeps are people’s husbands, unfortunately... They don’t deserve anyone’s respect. Exactly. When I was an actual prostitute, these men wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:17 AM |
| 34 | LVM thinks he’s meeting up with two women from a dating app to “hookup”. Ends up getting ROBBED; obtains physical and egotistical bruises.When I was deep addicted to drugs, my boyfriend at the time and I worked out a scheme we ran for a few weeks where I posted on an escort site (that I had used in the past as an actual escort) using a new account created for this purpose and posted pictures of myself advertising my “services” by the hour, but without including my face. I then set up “appointments” for these men to show up at our apartment (which we were moving out of by the end of that month) and pay me $250 believing they were p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:39 AM |
| 42 | How do you change your image afterRead the FDS handbook in the “about” section here. Him wanting someone “pure” is a big ass red flag, sis. 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:14 AM |
| 9 | This is why EVERY woman needs FDSI can honestly say the only man I have ever cleaned like this for is my father when he was coming home from the hospital. The place had not been cleaned since my mother and I had left 8 years ago... there was black mold caked on almost every surface of the shower. That alone took me hours. When he came back he was grateful for a day and then started ordering me around like a servant. I put up with it for a few weeks because I wanted to be there and make sure he was taking his meds, keeping up wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:17 AM |
| 11 | Stop engaging in FWB relationships! It does nothing but make you an unpaid escort who will eventually get her heart broken. Women aren’t built for casual relationships. You deserve a man who loves you, treats you like his queen, and commits to you. You deserve the full package!I was gonna say that sometimes it’s ME saying to him that HE is only good enough to fuck.... like sometimes they would catch feelings and want to take it to the next level and I would be like skrrrrrtt NO. But in general yea, FWB is not the way to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:59 PM |
| 16 | These dudes get itYou know what, you are right about young women contemplating prostitution. I have seen it be glorified around here occaisonally but more often on pinkpillfeminism as if it were a way for women to gain power over, and even take advantage of, men. Particularly dominatrix work because they think it’s like taking revenge on men and that it would be cathartic to engage in. But this mindset is borne out of nativity and lack of actual understanding of what these things truly entail. I always assume the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:52 AM |
| 13 | These dudes get itPm me, I’m always looking for fellow women to talk to who are survivors of, or currently involved in, the sex industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Is it ok for a girl to text a guy?Read the FDS handbook in the “about” section of this sub. No it is not okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 03:26 AM |
| 3 | A guy who previously rejected me has asked me out... ladies, I need your advice.sounds like a time wasting LVM to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 03:23 AM |
| 12 | Anyone else feel like you don’t deserve to report creepers/stalkers due to your own mentally ill/hyper-sexual/creepy past?This hurt to read. NO it is not your fault when men leer at you, become sexually aroused, and try to be sexually suggestive and coercive. Even if they somehow construed it that you were flirting with them, hell even if you actually were, that does not mean that it is okay for them to be disgusting, creepy, and disrespectful to you. I can’t even come up with the right words to express all the things that need to be said here but sis you are in a dark mindset of female socialization, low self este… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 02:33 AM |
| 7 | Two single parents talking about their teenaged sons and then....So many men making excuses for his nasty ass in those comments: “It's probably not as bad as it seems. Instead of being a pedophile, it sounds like he's using one of those stupid rehearsed lines the pickup artists tend to trot out. Only he's too stupid to realize that he got played and someone replaced the script.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:45 AM |
| 67 | These dudes get itWell, I embraced radical feminism first and I’m not currently dating, but I have over 12 years experience in various levels of sex work ranging from selling panties to high end escorting to street prostitution and others. Which means that I have a lot of insider knowledge on the true nature of men and the depths of their depravity. Maybe someday I will do a post like that if there is really an interest. This particular set of knowledge just never struck me as really useful insight outside of as … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:04 AM |
| 6 | Stop being children and grow upHere’s what the male response to this would be “okay so you females are basically saying you want to be our paid prostitutes instead then, right?” No losers, because you still aren’t getting any sex until we can verify (ideally for multiple months and many many more dates in which you pay) that you are a man that deserves access to our bodies and will put in the work to make the experience pleasurable for us as well. And NOW, we out here endorsed by the Wall Street Journal, learning and trading … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:59 PM |
| 14 | Unexpected power movesThis is something I actually always kind of knew, but for some reason kept wanting to delude myself otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:42 PM |
| 15 | Stop the presses, ladies, this divorced bald man has advice!This should be a new post flair! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:34 PM |
| 92 | These dudes get itHaha I do kind of have it down to a science. I could probably teach lessons at this point, but I would never want to encourage other women into so called “sex work” in any form. This knowledge was not worth all the horrible trauma and serious danger that comes with it. Even the work where you don’t have to physically interact, like being a “cam girl” wears on your psyche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:18 PM |
| 14 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.From my understanding it was not the op who said those things about her in the dress, but another commenter. The op (of that thread not this one) was still totally wrong and childish for her responses, though. also, I checked for myself and she does look absolutely stunning in every dress she has posted (the most recent one is my favorite) and not at all pregnant. She has a flat tummy but beautiful curves so I don’t know what tf that person was talking about, just a jealous hater grasping at str… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 10:56 PM |
| 13 | Men need to stop projecting their personal rejections onto women. Like shut the fuck up already bro!!Seriously. When it comes to themselves, they fully understand that you can’t force yourself to be attracted to someone you aren’t. But when it comes to the women they are attracted to, suddenly this goes out the window. They want to coerce these women, who aren’t attracted to them, into being with them... but then they’d be totally baffled and go whine on deadbedrooms when she doesn’t want to fuck him... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 10:42 PM |
| 111 | These dudes get itEven as a prostitute I always refused to be on top. For one, it takes way too much stamina for something that I am already actively hating and for two, it would set the standard that he’s the one who’s gonna do the work. You wanna pay for pussy? Ok, access to my pussy is exactly what your gonna get, and nothing more. Lastly, men cum the quickest when they are the ones controlling the rhythm. If you start by being on top, 3/4 of the time he is going to want to switch into a position that he is co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 35 | Imagine being a grown man and bragging to your girlfriend about how hot your own sister’s body is.The post says him and the sister aren’t even close and don’t even talk much, I’d bet he probably perpetuated this disgusting infatuation/attraction to his sister by consuming incest porn. I don’t think the influx of all these instances of males being obsessed with incest we are hearing about and the popularity of incest porn are unrelated. 10 years ago this shit was around but it wasn’t nearly as popular and even amongst the “sexually adventurous” it wasn’t a very popular theme. Now it’s practic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 10:14 PM |
| 7 | Can a lvm turn into a hvm?Perfect answer right here! 👌💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 09:18 PM |
| 35 | Deluded coomer thinks this is what women in FDS are destined to live out because marriage isn’t our sole life’s purpose and endgame.By the time I got to the comment, I burst out laughing. These losers are so beyond delusional it’s actually funny to me at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 09:16 PM |
| 33 | Why do men put photos of themselves in their prime on their OLD profiles?Exactly, the mgtow/incel concept of women riding the “cock carousel” and then wanting to settle down after they have fucked everyone they could, is just yet another one of their projections. Almost all of the shit they say about us is pure projection. That’s why their theories about women seem so outlandish. it doesn’t describe the average woman, it describes the average man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:08 AM |
| 10 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️What’s the difference between a poster and a superfan? Is there a high percentage of women who just read and don’t engage whatsoever? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:16 AM |
| 4 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️This is amazing yes, yes, YAAAS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Fiancé hit me (accident?)This is the behavior of a scrote, not a HVM, sorry sis. I would dump him before he stops finding it necessary to pretend it’s an accident anymore.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:22 PM |
| 5 | Observation: is there any man out there without a beard or neck / hand tattoos?And those stupid thinks stink. Especially when you don’t properly take care of them, and of course, most men don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Observation: is there any man out there without a beard or neck / hand tattoos?I have seen so so many meaningless, ugly, illdesigned, tattoos on men, just like you said, solely for the sake of getting a tattoo. Like.... 98 percent of them are total shite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | No thank you 🙌Ripping up his speech legit right after he finished saying it, as she is sitting behind him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:49 AM |
| 2 | LVM actually believe their own bullshitIt’s a bad joke, right? Right??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Hi wonderful ladies! Saw this post on tumblr and would like to know what you think about what it says.Perfect standard to have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:16 PM |
| 2 | The level of pick me is over 9000And she actually believes him when he told her she’s the only one who’s pics he jerks off to.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:14 PM |
| 34 | The Bible has arrived! Something in this book made me not regret giving chances to low value men occasionally . Let me explaindating is just about treating the man you like the way you would treat a man that you don’t like too much. With absolute detachment. Absolutely this. Typically the more disinterested you seem, the less of their bullshit you put with, the more they chase and want you. This has been tried and true in my life and many others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:04 PM |
| 19 | This screenshot isn’t mine but I thought of this place when I saw itNah, ideally she would have blocked him after he cheated and she wouldn’t have had to see that potentially, extremely hurtful first message. They always come back. Just always know that and you won’t need to keep seeing the proof anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:42 AM |
| 3 | He cancelled our date because he was drinking with the boys. I lay down the law, then says he will call but hasn't. Having boundaries push them to show themselves.The comments weren’t even that harsh and she deleted her whole account... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else have a pickme mom?Yup. She has definitely gotten way better since leaving my dad 17 years ago but she still takes care of a man child who just now finally got a job as a truck driver after her providing for the last 10 years and acts like she’s lucky to be able to do it because he’s a few years younger than her and she’s overweight, even though he is bigger and just as short as her too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:13 AM |
| 39 | Sis was wondering why she got ghosted by a guy that seemed really interested; this was her follow-up to the first date.I bet she thought this was a clever way to steer him into taking her on a real dinner date to a decent place by sexualizing it to entice him and then thinking she’s making herself seem less “high maintenance” by presenting it as if she only doing all this “ironically”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 09:06 AM |
| 39 | Protect men! From...checks notes...single mothers?No it’s not “always” the case but all of us here already know this. It’s just that it so often IS the case, that it is best to operate under that assumption until you see proof otherwise. No offense, but your kind of “my Nigel-ing” with your dad and it’s unnecessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:49 AM |
| 113 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.My spidey sense would have already piqued at the part about chilling at his place after coffee and referring to me as “babes”. Then the “say wha” would’ve put it over the edge and been the point where I blocked. The way he talks/types just screams “I’m a douche”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:34 AM |
| 11 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.So true. I meant to reply that to the comment above though so I’m going to edit out the part that went with the other comment and post it there but leave the relevant part to your reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:34 AM |
| 67 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.The way he talks/types just screams “I’m a douche”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:27 AM |
| 24 | Men think dating apps are free prostitution apps.Just today some boy in the YouTube comments replied to a comment of mine to ask for my number, on a video about a non apology of a Youtube predator who was caught sexting underage girls, and then tried to play it off as a joke when I called him out. Here is the interaction I copy and pasted verbatim My comment: Dude sounds like my ex trying to “apologize” for cheating. Random Scrote: Oh... ex huh..... got a number? Me: We out here trying to shoot shots in YouTube comments now? It must be rough o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 08:15 AM |
| 7 | Am I weird that I never get along with French men ?Worst culture of men imo is middle eastern, but I guess that’s the pretty common and typical choice due to the heavy cultural, religious, and societal misogyny ingrained within that region. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 02:39 AM |
| 64 | This screenshot isn’t mine but I thought of this place when I saw itThis is a perfect textbook example for why you block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 12:28 AM |
| 216 | This screenshot isn’t mine but I thought of this place when I saw itVery possible. A lot of sociopathic dudes like this are in denial about their sociopathy and like to keep a facade that they’re a good person, even within their own minds. They’ll delete a message like that so they can keep thinking they are good person, continuing on in their denial, and not have to be faced with the reality of their shittiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 12:27 AM |
| 12 | Young woman being pressured by her pornsick boyfriend to have anal sex even though it hurts. WE ARE NOT BLOWUP DOLLS.This is the EXACT way I describe it. Like taking a shit backwards. Anytime a man has tried to bring it up, I make sure to tell them this exact sentiment and it spoils any “erotic tension” they were trying to create. Which is precisely my intention in saying it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 35 | Did you get the guy sis? Did you get a ring? Did you cum? Did you get a bigger house?? NO! All you got was 2 minutes of jackhammer pump and dump action for putting your health and body at RISK. That’s why he needs to be paying your bills pickmeishas! 💁🏻♀️I swear that sub gets closer and closer to being a full out mgtow sub every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:47 PM |
| 10 | The Tattooist of Auschwitzthere are still a few good men that exist out there Yea, in history and literature and that’s about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:44 PM |
| 49 | Man arrested for trying to pay a prostitute with a hamburgerI used to “work the street” when I was homeless and addicted and men would commonly drive up offering $5 and then act pissy when I told them to fuck off. The lowest a guy offered was $3. The lowest I ever accepted in desperation when I was “dopesick” was $20 for a blowjob and it still fucks with me to this day that I sold myself so short (let alone sold myself at all). But I could at least delude myself into thinking that I was the one getting over on them when I was charging $300/hr as an escor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:38 PM |
| 17 | 50 year-old federal law enforcement agent caught by nanny-can smelling 3 year-old girl's underwearOh I agree. I’m just trying to dispel this whole “they need treatment” myth. Also when I say castration, I mean like, cut their dick and balls off. Even though I know that’s not how it works in practice. There is no treatment that effectively and substantially lowers the risk of reoffense outside of castration. But like you say, even with that the results are marginal and they are still a risk to children if they are not locked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 07:43 PM |
| 54 | 50 year-old federal law enforcement agent caught by nanny-can smelling 3 year-old girl's underwearBy “treatment” you must mean castration. Because there is no effective treatment for pedophilia, aside from that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 06:52 PM |
| 12 | All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!!I suppose I mostly took issue with your phrasing of “Yes men should be better but why do women put up with it.” makes it sound like you are saying women are even more so at fault than men, even if that wasn’t your intention. when I see this stuff happen, I try to talk to these young women etc and I get bombarded with “you’re just jealous” type messages as if I’m thirsty for their gross ass boyfriend. It’s like this will never stop because it happens, older women (even by a couple years) aren’t l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 4 | oh my God this had me ROLLING lmfaoNah sis, at that point it’s time to kick his ass up off of you! Why you gon sit there and continue to allow some scrotus to masturbate into your vagina while making no effort to please you? For what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:27 AM |
| 4 | ePiC pWn MY BOI! The best part is a highly upvoted comment, “minimalism is awesome” lmao. Nah dude you’re just lazy and broke. The average redditor is a LVM so let’s stop concerning ourselves with all their MRA trash subreddits and what they have to say about women. They are not on our radar.And you know if the issue was a lack of money, people would be more than willing to donate toys to those kids if he put the word out and sought some resources, but like you said, too much work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:13 AM |
| 3 | ePiC pWn MY BOI! The best part is a highly upvoted comment, “minimalism is awesome” lmao. Nah dude you’re just lazy and broke. The average redditor is a LVM so let’s stop concerning ourselves with all their MRA trash subreddits and what they have to say about women. They are not on our radar.I would go as far as to say that most men under 30 do not regularly use sheets as part of their bedding and have never bought a set. If they do have them it’s most likely a hand me down from moms house and even then, half the time they still don’t use them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:21 AM |
| 6 | Funny how men can dish it, but can't take itI’m pretty sure at least some of those were staged, if only because all those “social experiment” and prank videos on YouTube always are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:11 AM |
| 123 | All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!!Patriarchy. Women are being manipulated and gaslit into going against our own self interests in favor of the interests of men on such a large, institutional, scale that it is extremely difficult to undo the programming. We are given the message by society that we are less than just for being female and our appearances criticized and sexualized from childhood onward. It causes traumas and feelings of low self worth that don’t just go away over night, even once we recognize them, which is a journe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:32 AM |
| 9 | Do you guys pay for drinks/dessert after he pays for dinner?Agree, but I also think you have to be careful with that. I know we all know this but paying alone does not make him a HVM and there are some LVM who only insist on paying because of their own out of control egos and how they want to be perceived by other people. He’s worried the waiter or store attendant will think he’s a broke loser. Because he knows, inherently, he is. I’m basing this on a few boyfriends I had who were middle eastern and they literally would get upset if tried to insist on pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 02:37 AM |
| 5 | Not sure if I fucked upFor everyone questioning how this guy could have randomly come across her post, I have a theory: Reddit has a filter feature that allows you to see “popular” posts upvoted and posted by people in your area. It’s possible that he was looking at reddit using that local filter and her post showed up based on that. Reddit does have this feature, that’s not the theory part, that he used it to find her post, is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 01:59 AM |
| 5 | "I'm looking for a woman who will clean my house, cook for me, and pay the bills. No gold diggers."My stepdad to my mom. She even stayed with him after he relapsed on his crack addiction and stole her car and emptied the bank account TWICE. He did get clean and then worked for less than a year before his knees started bothering him due to advanced arthritis exacerbated by his years of addiction, and he said he couldn’t work anymore, but he was also denied for disability every time he applied. So of course he can’t just make himself useful around the house with doing the chores and cooking, no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | You should see how guys talk about porn starsI’ve been one of the women “discussed” in that forum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Comedy hour: How has karma treated your LVM ex?ikr, talk about hitting the wall, eh? I’m glad I’m away from his ass too. Though I’m still dealing with some of the emotional trauma related to the abuse and abortion, I am still happy that I didn’t end up having them because I know that if I had, he would be using them as a way to force his way into my life and as a tool to manipulate me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Dear men lurking this sub...Or rationalize their current shitty behavior towards their partner by thinking that their daughter would be so “perfect” (having his genes and all), unlike their current partner, thus the potential man who is modeled on him would treat her well because in his warped mind, she would “deserve” it more. There are no limits to the lengths men will go to, and the lies they tell themselves and other people, just to avoid having to take blame or responsibility for something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 4 | How to not stay a pickmeshia if no guy wants youDon’t base your self worth on men’s judgements, they don’t know their ass from a hole in the ground and their opinions are worthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:43 AM |
| 54 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”Came here to say this. No way this happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 12:29 AM |
| 6 | Comedy hour: How has karma treated your LVM ex?He went from engineering student at UofM and making thousands of dollars a month using mathematical formulas he had memorized to win at online poker https://imgur.com/a/rWpn3WG To this: https://imgur.com/a/pAoeqrS Spending 10 years in prison for trying to carjack someone at gunpoint and a separate incident of trying to rob a pharmacy along with a slew of related charges for possession of the gun and drugs and fleeing and eluding. This happened a year after we had seen each other for the last tim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Why the fuck should women care about sexless, dateless men?And they don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 12:54 AM |
| 33 | You should see how guys talk about porn starsIf you think that’s bad, look at how they talk about prostituted women, www.usasexguide.nl click on the streetwalker section for any state and metropolitan city and you will see the most depraved of conversations and “advice” given in these forums nsfl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:36 AM |
| 16 | LVMs standards for women vs pickmeishas standards for menThe Victorian era’s style was pretty elaborate, but the standards extended to the men as well, decadent clothing, powdered wigs, heeled shoes, heavy white makeup. Even then, I think we might have them beat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:12 AM |
| 4 | You are the star of your own storyIt was in the US too, very catchy indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:46 AM |
| 2 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Not only that but women in general are more ACCEPTING of men doing this. Or at least nicer about it. Yup, 100% This. I talked about that part too when replying to someone else that had replied to my comment HERE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 02:14 AM |
| 16 | If my husband doesn’t shower me with this amount of love, adoration and appreciation into our 50’s and beyond, I DON’T WANT HIM.One of the very few TRUE examples of a well known or famous high value man AND woman in a relationship together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty trying to help a poor pickmeisha 😂For sure, I’ll make a post about it, probably tomorrow. I like the flyer idea as well, I’ll mention that in the post also so maybe we can get a template created that others can print and post around places, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:47 PM |
| 21 | Most LVM dating strategy. *WARNING ONCE SEEN CANNOT BE UNSEEN*Ugg everytime a dude tells me he is a fan of this show, I can be assured that he is a LVM. Men aren’t watching this show to appreciate the irony in the sexist jokes the way we are, they aren’t laughing with women, they are laughing AT us. They see this kind of shit in the clip as funny, not because of how it hilariously shines a light on the slimy shit men pull (because they don’t see it that way, to them it’s unironic advice that seems as insightful to them as the posts we read here are to us) … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:43 PM |
| 12 | Why do men not ask women out on dates anymore?You forgot the other two a) too broke and cheap b) only angling for sex and putting in the least amount of effort to as possible to get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Hun, if a man is dating/married to another women, he clearly isn't your "twin flame"Oh wow, that is some of the deepest levels of pickmeisha delusion I have seen women actually trick themselves into wholeheartedly believing. By reading you can just tell that these guys don’t give af about the person writing... like no sis he isn’t ghosting you because he’s “scared” of the “intense spiritual connection” you think you guys had.... It all reads like a shitty mixture of desperation, narcissism, and buying into mens bullshit excuses and gaslighting, combined with some new age-y, pse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Men who think a first date should be this, what is wrong with you?Bwahahahahaha 😭 and they accuse US of trying to get free meals by dating!😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty trying to help a poor pickmeisha 😂I’m gonna make some of those cards. But I’m lazy so someone should help me with the perfect little blurb to sum up what include to entice people into checking it out and I’ll send them some in the mail for their efforts lol Something printed out would be most efficient but I am also cheap and crafty/artistic and love little projects like that so I think I’m just going to make them by hand Also, what a powerful moment. I have been in a situation where I was the girl being put out (except it was o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Men are "visual creatures"...but also blind?Ah ok. Sorry I wasn’t trying to like, ask questions because I’m doubting what you are saying, I just genuinely didn’t get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Saw on r/Askmen about red flags or deal breakers. Looks like someone can't deal with rejection while not wanting to treat the woman right.But I can see why some women use this as an argument for why you should, this guy obviously thinks this way because he’s been dumped before for being a bad lay and just blaming it on the women by saying they were “too experienced”. They are afraid of experience because they know they suck in bed and will be rejected by a woman who has enough experience to be able to tell that he sucks. So it could be argued that by being honest about your experience up front, you are avoiding the lousy lay with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Men are "visual creatures"...but also blind?To be honest I haven’t, not at the drive through at least, but I’m not someone who buys coffee everyday anymore. What I’m confused on is how you are saying they are telling you that you look their daughter when this is happening at the drive thru... how/when are they seeing you when you are in your car and they are in theirs in front of you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Wife tells her side of "Deadbedroom". She suffers from PTSD & several health complications from childbirth and is stressed out by 2 kids & pregnancy. No romance, husband doesn't try to take her out, pressures her into sex. Husband worries about his dick... while she nearly dies from complications.Oh the lies I use to have to delude myself with about my “male friends” and why and what they liked and “cared” about me... just to feel like “one of the guys” another version of approval seeking from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Men are "visual creatures"...but also blind?I’m confused on which ladies you are talking about seeing you when you are saying this happens at the drive thru. Like, the baristas themselves? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 6 | The REAL clingy sexThey aren’t concerned about women in general, they aren’t even necessarily concerned with their partners safety or wellbeing, just concerned that “their” woman would be, what in their misogynistic pea brains they consider to be, “tainted” by rape. I agree with you that for most men this kind of thinking never comes in to play because his only concern is due to his own possessiveness and jealousy and he gives no actual fucks about the woman herself because he doesn’t value her whatsoever, even fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:57 PM |
| 3 | The REAL clingy sexI don’t disagree with you that stranger danger is blown out of proportion and you are more likely to be killed my a man you already know because obviously that is just objective fact, but just because it is blown out of proportion and misrepresented doesn’t mean that it never happens where women are raped or killed by random men they encounter and that that risk is greatly decreased when she is with another person and even more so when that person is male. I didn’t mean to insinuate that these m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:26 PM |
| 8 | WTF matches with a scote this groady!? NO ONE! The nail... The face... The cheap fridge... The hair... The complete lack of effort....When the 2016 election was going on I went on a first date with a guy from tinder that I had been talking to for a few weeks via text had seemed amazing and ticked all my boxes. He was my age, tall with dark hair, handsome, and was doing his medical residency. Which was seemingly not bullshit based on the many pointed and specific college level questions about chemistry and medicine. So anyway, we are having dinner and I am seeing more and more that he is far more arrogant than he had seemed via… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:13 PM |
| 10 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Exactly, I was actually starting to include a paragraph about that in my comment but got lazy and just deleted it because it was taking too much explanation to get my thoughts across right. But it’s just like you said and I think that using a filter is a lot different than using pics that you are decades younger/dozens of pounds thinner and I do not think women use the ones in the latter (older and heavier) category in their dating profiles nearly as often as men. Women will often use filtered/e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:43 PM |
| 13 | HVM Energy (and she got the job!)I am so curious about what exactly went down to make them so suddenly and publicly decide that they need their “financial independence”. I mean, obviously it most likely has something to do with the family not approving of/talking shit about megan (I’m sure, unfortunately much related to her racial identity) but I’m curious about the exact details. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:20 PM |
| 9 | The audacity? Lol idek with this one but it screams LVM negging childless dog owners 😲This particular kind of lvm are very common kind of loser I see all the time in the Midwest. Down to even specific features of his looks and appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:13 PM |
| 3 | The REAL clingy sexYea you are definitely right about that being their main concern I am just saying if they actually value the woman on some level (even just for selfish reasons) or at least believe themself to, this is a secondary concern of theirs but that doesn’t make them “good guys” because the reason they know it is because they are men and they know how dark men’s minds are and how dangerous they really are. Edit: I guess I could have phrased it better because the reason I brought it up in the first place … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 38 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Though some women do it too and men try to act like women are the only ones, in my experience and through anecdotes I have heard throughout the years (including with the many male friends that I used to have up until the last few years) I honestly believe that men do the whole catfishing with pics from when the person was younger, thinner, and more attractive, MUCH MUCH more than women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 01:34 PM |
| -2 | The REAL clingy sexDefinitely. I do have to add though for some men (though NOT their main concern at all) this concern is partially because they know how shitty other men are, and in all reality, your chances of being sexually assaulted, raped and/or even killed are much higher when he or another man isn’t with you.... even though statistically you are more likely to be killed by him than a stranger. Their fears (but much more often just the excuse they like to give when their true motive is jealousy) aren’t base… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 12:26 PM |
| 28 | You are the star of your own storyLol That’s a pretty decent one, I’m usually annoyed by those hokey stereotypical therapist lines that you know they use with every client because they’ve accidentally told it to you again forgetting they already had in another session(s) and being thrown off when you don’t seem to find it clever this time 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 12:17 PM |
| 5 | If the (clown) shoe fits....Thank you 😊, but I’m certainly no saint, I can assure you, lmao! I was just a teenager taken advantage of by a grown man and couldn’t fathom that he would screw me over like that because he always acted like he worshipped the ground I walked on and as if I was the most beautiful woman in the world. Definitely a learning experience that probably saved me from future financial pitfalls I may have otherwise had, had that relationship experience not made me stop believing I could trust men I dated r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 25 | If the (clown) shoe fits....Uggg I learned this lesson fairly young. My first ”serious” boyfriend I had, emptied out $5k of my very first savings from my very first job (Quiznos subshop lol). I was 16 and he was 24 and we were together for a year. I had dropped out of high school, gotten my GED, and started community college by that point, so even though I was 16, I had the time to work 40 hour weeks and would often work 60 because I was working so hard at building that savings.... I can’t even remember why I let him have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:30 PM |
| 44 | Listen up ButtercupSome weed. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 08:06 AM |
| 21 | Found this post on Reddit, he seems like a real catch! SmhHere’s one that I saw earlier on r/tinder that I just couldn’t help, but burst their bubble: https://www.removeddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/ejt1li/we_in_bois/fd1eypa/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Worth every downvote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 02:40 AM |
| 9 | Why is the concept of a man paying for a date so triggering and nightmarish to some men?They are upset because this sub is getting the truth about their bullshit lies, manipulation, and low effort and they are worried that more women are going to start waking up and stop putting up with their BS. Although, in reality, the dudes so pathetic to spend their time harassing random women online wouldn’t experience much of a change in their lives anyway, as they are likely incels who women were already rejecting off the bat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:58 AM |
| 5 | Advice on /r/WhereareallthegoodmenFrfr like the one who said this: “Well here you go ladies, reap what you sow, your body your choice for sure, and my body my choice my wallet is my choice, and you're disqualified from ever coming near me.” Bwahahahah like he’s some kind of prize that is beating away women with a stick for trying to get near him. As if men aren’t the ones that have to take what they can get when it comes to sex and dating. “Pussy power” is a real thing in that females of our species have always ultimately been t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:51 AM |
| 13 | DON’T EVER LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG. EVER! Wilmer Valderrama is engaged to Amanda Pacheco after less than a year of dating. Demi Lovato’s fans are spiraling due to him never proposing to her during the course of their six-year relationship.Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:31 AM |
| 34 | DON’T EVER LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG. EVER! Wilmer Valderrama is engaged to Amanda Pacheco after less than a year of dating. Demi Lovato’s fans are spiraling due to him never proposing to her during the course of their six-year relationship.Does anyone know the song being referenced in this tweet from the article?: “DEMI WAS W WILMER FOR 6 FUCKIN YEARS SHE WROTE A SONG BASICALLY BEGGING HIM TO PROPOSE AND EVERYTHING AND HE PROPOSE TO THIS GIRL AFTER BARELY A YEAR???? LMFAOOOO demi hunny this is why you never beg a man for ANYTHING PERIOD TF” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:21 AM |
| 9 | Why is the concept of a man paying for a date so triggering and nightmarish to some men?Like that one loser “navarus” or w/e it is, he has messaged me on this account and my alt that I also sub here on, so it’s obvious he is stalking this sub and mass messaging women that participate here. Like get a frikkin life dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:13 AM |
| 2 | I'm 14 and a 17 year old is interested. Should I be worried?I’m so pissed u/extraacct1234 ‘s comment got deleted. Here is what she had said: This kid is almost an adult he should not be with you. Yes this is very concerning. You're 14. You don't need to be anywhere near a man's penis for your safety. Studies show the younger a girl has sex the more sexual issues she has for the rest of her life like having issues with getting aroused and pleasure, primarily because young men are so sexually abusive. You need to protect yourself. Please consider talking t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Her husband chopped off her hands. Now she’s Russia’s voice against abuseSomebody replied that men are inherently not spiritual and thus they shouldn’t be in charge of religious institutions. OF COURSE someone had to reply “my dad was very spiritual” I said good for him, no one cares, the sentiment still applies. I am just waiting for someone to tell me that was an unnecessarily rude reply, but I am so sick of GC being over run with these my Nigel type anecdotes about their dad, or son, or husband. I’m just gonna start calling it out, that’s what everyone used to do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 05:02 AM |
| 20 | Um...You just know this image came from some weird trans meme about “mEn GeT pReGnAnT tOo!”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 03:36 AM |
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