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#JustLVMThingsquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:40 AM
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LEVEL UPquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:23 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:39 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:59 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:21 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 02:22 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:47 PM
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quaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:09 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:09 AM
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FDS MOVIES & TVquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:51 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 02:20 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:50 PM
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DISCUSSIONquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:51 PM
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LEVEL UPquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:47 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:20 PM
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#JustLVMThingsquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:33 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:38 AM
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SCROTES MADquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:06 PM
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#JustLVMThingsquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:45 PM
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DATING THEORYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:09 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:53 PM
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FDS MOVIES & TVquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:17 PM
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DISCUSSIONquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:07 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:05 AM
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STRATEGYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:18 PM
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NAH, SISquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:45 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!quaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:09 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:52 PM
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DISCUSSIONquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:57 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:36 AM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶quaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:51 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:47 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:55 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!quaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:14 AM
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quaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:04 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYquaintlyspoken/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:23 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:00 AM
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Yes and no, but no and yes. Every day is different because we're growing exponentially independently together in our own way. Linearly, he is the same man but he is far more magnificent than that now - credit also due to Kryon. I especially adore his genuine devotion not just to me but to humanity as a whole. Regarding womens' worth he's not lacking in appropriateness. Best of all, I have every single thing I want from him. I compromised nothing. Edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:57 AM
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We met through online dating. I figured in this day and age he'd have had access to one or a few dating websites at any given point. So I chose the app with the greatest user pool and all that was left was synchronicity. In truth, he showed up the very next day I decided I was worthy and ready for exactly who I'm meant to be. He was either showing up "now" or I was going to go my own way. A profle match later and the rest is our history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:41 AM
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To me photography is one of many multimedia that effectively broadcasts a conversation of what and who you are. It's a visual manifestation of your story and where it's meant to go. You decide how much of that you want to share and to what degree. If you have an open social media and an open social circle then you can imagine a lot of people are viewing your story or a glimpse of your world at any given time. Among these people are HVMs. However many times the HVM is exposed to your story or som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:00 PM
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I don't care for sending pictures or anything before a real connection is established. I don't have social media either. I'll oblige a "yes, I am who I am" picture but anything else is at my discretion. Which is basically nothing unless I see evidence of HV and we have a true connection. The pictures aren't for his pleasure either in a validation or attwntion effort either, they are a symbol of me inviting him more into my world. I purposefully take modest photos or share images that don't even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:48 PM
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Doesn't matter what those were since the ones we create will be truly supportive for all girls. With religion (Christianity) becoming less popular it opens opportunities to buy property that comes back on the market too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:12 PM
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How about we just stick to all female schooling zones. Bring them back in force. Why fix a broken thing that is built to fail? Women exhaust so many resources trying to live with men when we could focus solely on ourselves. The education system comes second to women going FDS/WGTOW, not having children with LVMs and being more considerate of the lives born into this world. Girls do not need to be exposed to LVM men and boys at such a young age. Preferably never but we're getting there. The way p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:54 PM
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🔔🔔🔔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:45 PM
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The Boys Club™ There is a lot of evil out there who call themselves men. The most inhumane scum of the earth who proudly parade themselves as psychopaths and sociopaths right out in the open for everyone to see. Maybe instead of "LVM"s we should be calling them what they really are. Message to Male Lurkers: Don't expect us to waste time figuring you out. If you want the priveledge of everything that a woman is you better be doing your part with us to put these crimes against humanity to rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:33 PM
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This is so beautiful and I will create a space like this some day. A farm would be perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:37 AM
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BestTableLife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:25 AM
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I'm childfree - as in donct have none and never wanted one so will never date men with children. You can also check out r/childfree. We're a lot of daughters and sons (majority female) who chose no children for many, many reasons. Beyond that, I'm too consumed with thoughts of how to connect with my fellow human beings and make friendships that last a lifetime and enough coins in the bank to leisurely live life. Rather than to worry in fear which always ends up meaning to settle in life some way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:39 AM
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Parallels of racism here. Whatever this sort of thought pattern is needs to be named and its ideology removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:46 PM
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The local Cheeseblock Bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:43 PM
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It's pickme culture and mysoginy. A failed relationship is supposed to be the greatest end all for a woman next to being barren or not wanting children. Relationships still carry tones of status and a woman who fails to be a proper domestic slave is the issue, not the manchild himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:56 PM
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And certainly they shouldn't be lived with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:42 PM
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This is what they indoctrinate women and girls with in churches as a rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:39 PM
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Women need to not breed with LVMs full stop. No sane child wants or deserves a LVM for a father. Women should be forming villages of women to help them take care of children et al.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:14 PM
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I need and want the whole package so no man is tossing me some placate-flakes and calling it their love language. 🙄 If he doesn't have it all he's got no business with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:34 PM
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Yes, my experience is the same and we've been talking for 5 months or so. Our talks range from every subject and it's always fun. We both deeply appreciate and enjoy the intellectual stimulation from the little things, rambles, life's not-so-mysterious mysteries, and beyond. If I went over our chats they'd easily be a novel and our phone conversations are lengthy in depth too. As we're in quarantine our favorite distance hobby is an indigenous channel which we listen to and discuss at length/tex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:35 PM
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That just sounds like a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:43 PM
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luckily that’s not the norm It may be an uncomfortable truth, but it's a fact that this is a norm. It is so grossly understated because of patriarchy and the manipulation of the victims. You should study the culture about women and children in various countries around the world. Really eye opening. Edit: On Uplifting News, the state of Pennsylvania just banned child marriage. The US is a huge contributor to child sex abuse and consumption of child porn. https://www.newsweek.com/pennsylvania-gove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:37 PM
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If he expects me to pay for anything I'm nexting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:32 PM
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This relationship is toxic and abusive. There is no saving it. She needs to dump him,move on amd level up for herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:26 PM
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I agree. Social media is not the be all end all and any guy who gets weird about it isn't worth the time. Chances are if he's way into social media he's into porn too or is being bombarded with porn advertising, kinda goes with the social media norm. Overall, the culture has a strange approach to privacy. I won't use Facebook for many reasons, basically never had one. That company has lots of shady issues. Never had Instagram and didn't start using Snapchat till way after it was imbedded in soci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:02 PM
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I always tell them that I don't have social media. Snap is for my friends and family only. Any other media or online platform I use has zero to do with dating so no way I want a bunch of dudes cluttering things up. My "story" isn't anywhere online and the idea of someone going out of their way or even just creeping my life is disgusting. I know everyone uses social media for various reasons and ways but I just don't see the point of putting my face and life everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:54 PM
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Dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:56 PM
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I'm a mysoginist why aren't you laughing and desperate for my approval hurr durr 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:31 PM
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Timeless Classics flair or something. History tells all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:49 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:14 PM
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Anger is a useful and appropriate emotion, but it is also a surface level emotion. Meaning that there is a lot more going on inside of you than just anger. You seem resentful, judgemental of yourself, unkind, etc, etc. Personally, if an experience is negatively affecting me then it means that I'm still stuck in the past and getting derailed from my present happiness and excellence. Go with compassion, be grateful for the experience because it helped you to become who you are (Thank U, Next - Ari…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:13 PM
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Jealousy is an absolute trait of a Pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:06 PM
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Because of all the pro-men, pro-sex propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:22 PM
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I am definitely on board with this. I submit this as a flair for the subject: Over The Bar. Everyone here has varying degrees of what a HVM's characteristics are beyond what's written in the handbook and basic decency. These can easily be put under the Green Flag flair to me, the bare minimum stuff. It'll be great to have a flair that zeroes in on these Over The Bar traits and why they are important supported by individual accounts of ladies here to feed solid discussions. There are going to be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:35 AM
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Love to see more content like this haha Perfect ✨✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 07:55 PM
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You don't understand LVMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:14 AM
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He's not a great lover - likely inside and outside of the bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:14 AM
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Instead of focusing on what you should do to make the general male populace attracted to you, step into your own style and wait for the guy who wants you for you. It doesn't matter how prudish you are so long as you have your own style, sensuality and attractiveness. You don't have to let it all hang out. Especially do not glorify pickme behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:06 AM
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Because women let them be. Men will do anything for sexual sarisfaction, children or to live in a world with women. Pickmes give away our power while interfering with the evolution of the species at large. Because women choose men over women time and time again we keep dealing with the same old problems we always do. Nothing changes unless women change, hence FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:45 PM
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Sure, but I think most of the women on this sub don’t fall into that category. You're new here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:30 PM
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That or they're pickmes in disguise. A lot of women do not agree with the FDS handbook and have a rose tinted view of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:24 PM
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Seems like you have the right of it, though there won't be an end to the depravity of men for some time. It's just the way the world is right now. We do the best we can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:22 PM
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There are wen who still subscribe to FWB situations not knowing where a man has been. In general women need to not have rose tinted glasses when it comee to men. Just because you don't see the importance doesn't mean others don't. /fin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:19 PM
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Regrettably, there are states in the US where beastiality is legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:00 PM
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What's your strategy for avoiding and outing these men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:58 PM
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How do you know your guy isn't raping animals if you don't know what to look for? It sucks to have your bubble burst but that's on men. They're disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:55 PM
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Wow he low grade af. Instead of asking her to guide him in some sick moves or trying something himself he automatically needs to go to his bros for a pep rally on why he's better than her (he's not) and how she's abusing his poor fragile male ego. 😒 LVMs ruin every party, even the private ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:16 AM
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Pickmes who live for male validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:42 AM
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No. She needs to cut him off. There are no friendships with scrotes like these. This queen deserves real friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:41 AM
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She may have "mothered" him a bit too much. Pickmes have no limit. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:39 AM
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Yes very true. This sort of issue is to be expected. Also, the men are easy enough to out since they give terrible advice - which is simply not allowed. They can't win here so they'll bitch on their own subreddits or PM harassments to membere. Remember not to click on amy links ladies! Don't entertain PMs from people you don't know who have no reasonable cause to contact you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 02:35 PM
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Yes! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:23 PM
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He should also see r/pornfreerelationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:53 AM
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I couldn't even get past the first couple minutes. I'll try again later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:18 PM
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It also doesn't matter how positive the trait is or whatever. The point is to make them shut up, remove themselves from the conversation and do something useful. There is an endless list of manly chores a guy can do instead of being a mysoginist. Being a badass in the kitchen is awesome but summing a woman up for her domestic labor only is why it's appaling, denying humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:26 AM
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Noooooooooope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:21 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:51 PM
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They do not. 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:49 PM
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🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:49 PM
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Agreed, bit I'm sure these kids are watching porn too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:48 PM
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Personally, I won't be the woman making more problems by bringing more men into this world. You can teach them all you want but they have free will. Nothing will stop a male from being LVM if he wants to be, if societies around the globe keep telling him he's not wrong. LVM will continue to be birthed and created by the billions until women get serious enough about it. Men by and large want to be LVMs. Change has to happen at all levels but why drag our feet? I'd rather a world with billions of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:47 PM
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This is why women must level up. Step into your queendom. Your sisters are waiting for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:36 PM
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Wow! I didnct read the comments but we FDSers have to keep on top of the pickmes. They canct help where they start but we gotta steer them right. Report all pickmes so that theycre at least flaired appropriately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:38 PM
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Your relationship. Edit: Including those with the inlaws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:15 PM
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No, he is the literal definition of an immature boy playing house and you're his pickme. The bar never drops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:09 PM
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their are no "there is a lot of toxic and abusive dynamics" in his family that I've seen Got any more of them examples of healthy relationships and balanced people like the ones you wrote about in your post? 🤔 also I'm not gonna ask him to leave his sister. I know what she means for him, I had a brother who I loved more then life but he sadly passed away, so yeah that's a line don't cross He needs to man tf up. He's a terrible partner and father. There is no inbetween: he either is doing it for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:58 PM
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Pickmes come in all attachment styles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:48 PM
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How so ? Everything you've told us. From a third party perspective, there is a lot of toxic and abusive dynamics going on here that no HVW would want to deal with. Your bar is low. Literally everything, he is the best and most considerate man I know, he always tries to help others but never does it so that people like him, he takes care of me and provides for If everything was great and he was a perfect partner you wouldn't be here. He's not considerate to you which is why you're here trying to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:43 PM
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His family is a train wreck. It doesn't matter what he did for her, it's what he's not doing for you. You're here because he's not man enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:32 PM
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Narcs and predators are LVMs. There is no difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:27 PM
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A HVM has a proper relationship with his family, even if that means going no contact. He will lay down boundaries like the law and not allow this nonsense in his life or the life of his woman. They are HIS family and he needs to deal with them. You can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:24 PM
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There's nothing wrong with knocking men down a peg. Just like how men knock women down a peg when they neg her. You can't play nice with them. We have heard time and time again situations where women keep getting pestered, where women weren't clear enough to them and something happened to her because he mistook is as "playing hard to get and she wanted it", your body language should match when you say the words "no". Like that post about the LVM socio/psychopath who stalked the woman from the st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:15 PM
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I agree. Won't do them any good because you can't take FDS down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:20 PM
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Why do we even need an announcement on this how can people be so ignorantly obtuse pickmes? Wait nevermind that's not the woret I've seen on Reddit today. Sigh. Thank you mods. Sisiters stand in solidarity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:19 PM
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Past time to dump him and the therapist. Tell her why too. She should be helping her clients not making life harder for them by manipulating you to accept LVMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:09 PM
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Too truuuuue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:48 AM
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Your flare 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:32 AM
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The ignorance of these sheeple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 01:08 AM
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That's why I frame my standards in a certain way so if a LVM thinks he's clowning me he's not. I will waste his time, ruin his ego and take his money. They can die mad. Shouldn't have been a LVM and if you are well, there are women out there like me who will make you pay a price. Just like Taylor Swift's I Did Something Bad. There is only so much they can do their strategy remains the same at it's core no matter what. A LVM doesn't stand a chance against a leveled up ruthless strategist or DTW. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 12:58 AM
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These men have no concept of decent HVMs existing and if they don't exist they can't approach women, which is why they'll turn around and say "YoU'lL nEvEr FiNd SoMeOnE lIKe Me DoN't LeAvE!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:10 PM
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Why would anyone want to be "friends" with a LVM? They're gross. Ew. Plus their endless trains of pickmes. Why bother with friendships with men period. That's what women are for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:26 AM
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I'm so glad you're able to connect with him even now! True love does continue after death. I am so happy for you that you have him even in this stage of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 11:40 PM
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Ladies, If you dare bring a male child into this world without them being properly raised this is the demon you release into the world. You better abort that little shit if you're not going to put in the work to make sure they're raised with zero tolerance AND disown them when they step out of bounds. Sick of mothers choosing their demon spawn over the safety of women and girls. LVMs and Pickmeishas should not be having children ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:49 PM
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And/or they think they're ugly because society, men and jealous pickmes tell them so. Especially if they have a certain historically unacceptable visual characteristic. Dark skin, big nose, etc. Like you can be a model and have the best personality but when you look at yourself in the mirror still think your appearance or personality don't make the cut. It could be anything from a weird type of imposter syndrome, disassociation, perfectionism, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 10:39 PM
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If men have porn can this be an Olympic sport for women? Jokes aside this was a good laugh. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:42 PM
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Next him sis, he's a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:07 PM
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I do this in general with friends and family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:03 PM
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I agree. I will never marry someone I haven't cohabitated with first. It doesn't have to be a full move in, just a consistent string of time long enough to see what he's like when he's comfortable. There's a lot of talk about wifey duties but I am not ever going to clean house, married or otherwise. A cleaning service or he will do that. Before then I am a very clean person and he should be too. I won't ever "pick up after him". Separate rooms is mandatory if not separate houses. Keeps the relat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:55 PM
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The types of women stqnfing by these men need to be shamed harshly. It doesn't matter if they are delusional pickmes. It's one thing to endanger your own life but the life of other women? Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:21 PM
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Men love bitches and being 100% in love with yourself while putting you first is the best life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:05 PM
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I am so glad that I'm childfree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 08:01 PM
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😍✨ Why would you want anything less?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:51 PM
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The newbies will continually need to be informed as they come to FDS. I don't believe this issue will ever not be present. As for those with the preference of a high earning HVM, yes standard shaming is just being a bitter pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:47 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:44 PM
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Your boyfriend needs to step up and confront his dad or you need to not go to his place. Honestly the fact that your guy hasn't already and even submitted you to this experience is LV af to me. You should not need to have a relationship with a mysoginist. He can stew in his own poison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:42 PM
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Mr. Worldwide everybody
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:39 PM
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Good for you! I love my career and th free money in my life thanks! Why are you on FDS if you don't want a man??? This isn't WGTOW lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:27 PM
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Your free will is honoured and so is the reality that is created by it. I wish you peace, happiness and love! The HVM I know have and do want goodness for my life and contribute to it whether or not they benefit from it. They love me as a human being. It is a truly wonderful blessing to have in life. They also have strong appreciation for my aspirations in life that will benefit many prople besides me. Like domestic womencs shelters. These HVMs in particular don't pair with partners who take off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:25 PM
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Your free will is honoured and so is the reality that is created by it. I wish you peace, happiness and love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:21 PM
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Yesterday I went on a walk along the beach with my mom. It was a great bonding experience for us and had a lovely time. However, two times at different points there was a LVM who was blatantly creeping on us from a distance. It was disturbing. Last night I had nightmares I couldn't remember and this morning I was overwhelmed with discouragement for romantic relationships between men and women. My ego jumped at my vulnerability, painting my potential HVM who has shown nothing but consistent value…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:30 PM
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http://www.missionstgermain.com/id89.html This piece goes over Twin Flames and Soulmates. As for the rest, it's not your time in your soulpath to discover these things. Your free will is honored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:07 PM
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Like I said, the science is there if you want it. Saying it doesn't exist doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Beyond that, as an old soul, there are quite a lot of things that I know about this world through the many lifetimes that I've lived. Souls like you are in a certain stage of your soulpath. You'll get therr eventually. Take care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:04 PM
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Hey sister, go sister, soul sister, flow sister 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:34 PM
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I'm not telling you where you went wrong, I'm expanding on every comment that is written here for the newbies who will read this thread. Your ego seems to want to pit us against each other. That is not my intent or focus. 😊 Edit: By newbies I mean those who are relatively new on their enlightened soulpath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:23 PM
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It is only unscientific because you have not invested the time to vett the scientific sources available to us which point to all that I've said. This is all common knowledge in the various scientific communities and studies. You are in alignment with those who reject reality because it doewn't fit in their box. I've been on this path for 15+ years and gone to great lengths to have the unshakable knowing that I have today. It would be impossible for me to quantify all of that in this lifetime. Li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:21 PM
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This is all really great, but it’s important to keep our feet rooted firmly on the ground despite synchronicities when it comes to men. Of course! To me, an FDS woman never takes off her crown. Her standards are set and her eyes are wide open. This is the embodiment of who she is and not something separate and outside of her. I was really certain that my ex bf had been led to me by the universe. I still am , but the reasons are not nice like I originally thought. I needed to learn a very painful…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:06 PM
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I hope this post opens minds, hearts and stimulates an improved discussion of the many varied FDS paths. We are not cookie cutter women and we all will not desire the same thing. The intent and purpose of being here is to help each other achieve our own version of happiness - so long as that happiness is not the patriarchy or mysogyny. I'm really happy for you sis! Keep inspiring women who want what you have to own it and get it! I love high earning HVMs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:39 PM
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This is very valid and true! Women have held societal positions and lived in paradigms where they were not brainwashed from birth to expect to be in a heterosexual romantic relationship or to have children. This aspect of our current culture is a de-evolution of the original plan and infringes on a woman's free will! Women in this paradigm are not permitted to have free will in various harmful ways that Source will never agree with. We've all been forced into a patriarchal caricature of what a w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:22 PM
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I understand how unsettling of a thought these two situations are in their spectrum of potentials, especially for the reasons that you listed. These concerns overall are related to patriarchal monogamy culture which is a mate guarding system that goes both ways. It's rooted in negative consciousness (control, power, possession, fear, insecurity, etc). Never forget that you are the one in control! These concepts are easy for me to accept because I do recognize that human beings have an enormous c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:08 PM
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You stop. You clearly have not paid attention to anything that I've said over the course of this thread. Go back and read it again before making baseless claims. No one said this ex is HV (excpt the OP in the title)and I've stated this at least four times and no one here apparently can read through their tiggered reefees. He has a HV trait. That is all. And I have said repeatedly that if you want to know you need to go to the post that was made by that male and getore details. Everyone convenint…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 08:07 AM
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There are zero assumptions to be made from this insecure LVM scrote. Men lie. It's his job to level up for a woman he's courting, not make her give up her scrotation. Unless someone goes to that thread on relationship_advice and posts more information every claim to her being a pickmeisha is baseless. Most women here have an issue with receiving money from men so they paint any wlman who does in a bad light. Especially if the man is rich. It's a blanket bias that I have seen time and time again.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:49 AM
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There is a consistent pattern of FDS women loosing their FDS principals when it comes to HVMs or potentials with big money. You'll see the usual trope statements made endlessly, assumptions unsubstantiated and the pickme martyr cry of "I don't need no man that would treat me that well just give me an average HVM!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:26 AM
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Right? Too many LVM apologists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:22 AM
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Can you quote where in the original subreddit post the guy states his ex is purely living off her ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:22 AM
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My strategy isn't that ruthless, I prefer an actual relationship, but I also respect your choice. I'm not against having more than one HVM contributing value to my life permenantly (and by HVM I mean everything that comes with a wholesome healthy relationship for those who jump to conclusions, but yes he will be of monetary means). The only difference is that I am very throrough in making sure they understand my terms. Otherwise I'm not interested. That is where my bar is set and I've yet to hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:19 AM
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Yes, it is. There are two conversations in this thread: 1) Me accurately stating that without more information directly from that subreddit post and the OP of that story we can't say anything about hat's going on in that specific case. 2) A HVM who is basically every FDS womancs dream (yeah they'd all take a guy who had it all going on) actually existing in this world. Most people who respond to me confuse and mix all of these around. Even going against FDS guidelines like having a scrotation. O…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:06 AM
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This is very possible. It's an unvetted male we're talking about. FDS brags about not taking male's word for anything without vetting but that's not what I'm seeing here in this thread. Everyone is just going off the handle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:02 AM
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I'm not the OP and I have not labeled him in my comments. Also, read all my comments or don't reply to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:59 AM
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A career woman who has all her shit together and who has people who care about her, including exes, who add value into her life is somehow a loser pickmeisha okay sis do you. It's okay if you're not open or reqdy for that kind of love. Make up your mind. HVMs are either HV or they're LVM trash. You wouldn't know what real love from a HVM was even if he wanted to give it to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:46 AM
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Lmao Right so a career woman who is 100% has someone contributing to her life is some how low value okay. Do you sis. Edit: While some women here on FDS are only interested in themselves, some of us have bigger plans which includes changing the lives of other people. Money makes things happen. A career woman who is free to use her resources to help others can do more ror the world than a career woman who decides she's "too independnt for handouts".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:44 AM
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So a HVM taking care of his woman or ex in any capacity is immoral okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:20 AM
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Why did you delete your post? That's shady af. Well I'm not the OP, but from the information alone in the post I see nothing wrong until more information is submitted. Again, assumptions about her not being happy or ready to marry based off the new guy's insecurity. The whole point I'm making is: If you try to drag this story I will say a piece because it would only be an assumption. Concerning the hypothetical situation not about this post, I have laid out the fact that a HVM with means and a h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:14 AM
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Since we're making assumptions: This woman is a ruthless strategist and believes that she is a queen. She has her own everything; house, career, education, etc. She will take this money because there are no conditions and her ex was truly a HVM. She is actually very happy with her new guy but if he makes the move to control her by giving an ultimatum of not accepting the ex's money she will check or ditch him. The new boy has not put a ring on her finger, why should she give up the ex's money?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:06 AM
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It's a heartbreaker, truly. Just goes to show the state of the sisterhood. Also, Queens receive jewels, land, houses, everything and we want to call ourselves queens but not be like them? I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:00 AM
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You can never have enough money. Doesn't matter what you already have. This world is full of misery and money is what makes things happen. If you only have eyes on your happiness and not the whole of the world your strategy is okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:59 AM
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I agree 100%. This man wants her to cut the ex off but there is no ring on her finger. We don't know how long they've been dating but it doesn't really matter because it's all about the dude's ego. As far as we know the woman is happy with him wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:53 AM
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To me hecs LV because I don't date insecure men, especially over money. There is no ring on her finger. The ex has HV traits. No one said he is a HVM. We don't have a full story so we will never know. Because HVMs are so rare a HVM of this quality must be exceptionally more rare no? If there was more than just this information we'd be able to make a better informed concensus. The arrangement in and of itself is not shady. It's shady if the ex was a LVM controlling and abusing her. Itcs not shady…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:49 AM
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See my other posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:43 AM
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Is there a ring on her finger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:42 AM
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I already answerd your question. No one is dragging you and there is no leveling happening. Only difference of opinions. HVMs who care about their exes and are exceptionally well off have the choice to just cut the woman off or make sure that she is happy especially if it doesn't hurt him any. Whether that is until there is a ring on her finger or for the rest of her life. Hence my statements and I stand by it because you have decided this is impossible for you. For me it is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:41 AM
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If my ex wants to give me money I'm taking it. The reason why FDS advocates having a man invest in you financially... is because for most men, investing financially means investing emotionally. Means they are spending their hard earned coin on you to make sure your affections are earned. And they are not just dating 10 other women because all their budget is going to keeping YOU happy. This man has invested in this woman and is continuing to invest in her. That is all that we can know. We know l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:27 AM
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If he wasn't having a physical or emotional affair with her yes, I would and I'd want to be friends with a woman who obviously knows her worth. Edit: Doesn't matter who you have or have not met, nor does "what you know about rich people" when you have never met a rich HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:18 AM
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Insecure guys over stuff like this are LV to me and I don't date them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:17 AM
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Lol You sisters are making all kinds of assumptions about this woman who we only know exists because some dude bitched about it. You taking his word for all of this sis? I'm not. Part of my FDS is knowing how to get yours, regardless of the situation. This woman could be a pickmeisha or she could me a smart ass woman - I'm going with the latter because yes I am taking the money if it's given to me. We have no idea if she is having sex with him. That was not mentioned so why is everyone assuming?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:15 AM
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So why is everyone sided with the butthurt new guy spewing pathetically about his paranoid insecurities? No ring on her finger! Keep a roster ladies. The only thing that matters in this situation is that she is benefitting and excessively so. Nothing else can be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:07 AM
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She said HVM trait not that he's a HVM. There's a difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:05 AM
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So I am to believe you are taking this unvetted new male's insecure paranoid perception of reality over what is actually happening (which we won't know because no one knows the wkman or the ex's story). I'm not. Also, false. I would take my ex's money and find someone else. Why wouldn't I? I'm worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:01 AM
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How is that HVM behavior? If a not rich not hot guy was her ex would you be singing the same tune? This is hypothetical and has nothing to do with this situation. You seem to want to question the character of her ex but we have no more information other than a LVM insecurity mental breakdown. Her ex is rich and he is hot. If he wasn't then we'd be talking about that instead of this. Supposedly this woman is a vapid pickmeisha for knowing her worth? She deserves to be taken care of post breakup a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:55 AM
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It's not. See my post on this thread to the other Disciple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:39 AM
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How is she still into her ex? How is her ex a LVM from just this information?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:38 AM
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A man with means who sees no problem in continuing to enhance the life of a woman he cares for but can't be in a proper relationship with and is honest with her is a HVM trait to me. Not saying that the ex is because none of us can determine that from this one post. As for stringing the new guy along, we don't know how long they've been dating. Could have been three months. Maybe even a year. Regardless, would you throw all that away for a new guy who you won't know is a HVM until years later of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:33 AM
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Right. I don't like having hair in certain places because it makes my life more difficult, but if he expects me to be a plastic Barbie we're gonna have a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:12 PM
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The fact remains that men will applaud this man while sending rape threats to women for not shaving. That is the only point being made here and in fact this man is the best example of the contrast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:15 PM
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This post isn't about Sam Smith. It's about double hypocritical stamdards for men and women. I have no idea who he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:27 PM
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This post isn't about Sam Smith. It's about double hypocritical stamdards for men and women. I have no idea who he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:26 PM
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I read that as 'animated' pubes and just about screamed. what have you done to my brain take it back! 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:23 PM
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My mother taught me absolutely nothing. Left me to the wolves of the Christian cult and society. I was bad but I'm better off than my other siblings who's lives are trash except my younger brother. My blood boils when she takes credit for everything that I've done all on my own. Good ole breeder bullshit. "I crapped out a human and it did a thing praise me aren't I special?!" To me she's not a Pickme, she's a Brickme. The delusion of a pickme with mental illness she refuses to address and having…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:59 AM
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Don't just pray sis, abort if you have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:21 AM
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You need to leave. We do not advocate relationships with any LVM scrotes here. We do not mommy men into being decent human beings on FDS. If their parents failed them then they need to find a source outside of dating for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:56 PM
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👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:41 PM
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She goes through a lot of mental gymnastics to delude herself into thinking that men who do this aren't trash and that it's a woman's job to be his 2nd mommy. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:49 PM
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Seriously women stop birthing males, especially if you know nothing about male psychology to properly train them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:44 PM
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This makes men's obssession with hymens inherently pedophilic and vomit inducing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:09 PM
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No, it's in a black hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:18 AM
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Ahhh so lovely to read all of this,very happy for you sis! Everything is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:31 AM
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If he wants me to pay for anything... NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:55 AM
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ONE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:33 PM
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No! Like never. LVMs are just trash. If you mix trash with the groceries you just bought that makes it trash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:31 PM
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I've had three. They were not traumatizing in any way for me. They were relieving and dare I say, empowering. It was uncomfortable for the short period of time until the administration of pills though. The first time I had a lot of anxiety but that was kinda it. First time. The only real worry I had was about the LVM in my life. And here's the best part - a soul does not enter into the body until it breathes its first breath. A child that dies after coming into the body (natural causes) will lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:28 PM
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Just avoid men like the plague ladies. As much as possible. Do not let them into your spaces. For any reason. Never quit quarantine. I am so glad I'm not having children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:57 PM
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Omfg yes this. Name it dead relationships or something. Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:01 PM
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The free Lemurian Sisterhood audios are here: https://amberwolfphd.com/lemurian-sisterhood/ls-audio-and-transcripts/free-audio/ The website: https://amberwolfphd.com/ The Kryon website for all things spiritually humanity related past, present and future: https://www.menus.kryon.com/ I've explained it somewhere else before but the spiritual practice of channeling is used. You can find out more here: https://www.kryon.com/k_25b.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:13 AM
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Sounds like he ran into some traditional women, not FDSers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 01:31 AM
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I'm spiritual but not religious. The Lemurian Sisterhood is the only active representation of women's place in spirituality, the history of the world and role in th evolution of our species that I make a study of. It improves my life and compliments FDS for me. Added bonus of undoing the LVM manipulation of religion like cult Christianity also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:25 AM
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You can assert your worth while still being professional. Don't let them neg or otherwise charm you for any reason. This is work and statistically, these dudes are LVMs. Gross. You can get your work done without catering to men. Keep it short and simple, work related only. Of course you can smile and be friendly if you want but really a LVMs ego should shrivel when he sees you coming. If a guy persists in trying to be friends tell him tactfully that you're not open to male friendships and that b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:36 PM
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FDS Lemurian Sisterhood Kryon Self Defense & Weapons Training I go about my life in an unbothered fashion. I don't do drugs (herbs with female family is okay for me) or adventure to seedy (pun intended) situations - basically anything that has to do with men. Max separation. I request women service workers, keep unavoidable talks with men to business only, walk the other side of the street, flat out ignore men, etc. They wisen up fast enough (small-ish town). Men leave me tf alone because they k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:02 PM
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This is why FDS exists. The bar is too damn low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:40 PM
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If he's into porn it better be femdom, from a female perspective. Otherwise no I'm not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:19 PM
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Snakes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:06 PM
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Pedophile scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:45 PM
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This ideology is very present in the conservative and religious spheres. Disgusting. Exactly why I am careful to structure every iota of my life where a man can't find any loophole to take advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:40 PM
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I didn't make it past the title of the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:47 PM
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Yeah that should read ex-boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:05 PM
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Kill it with fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:04 PM
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Don't forget how much men know about being a woman ladies! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:33 PM
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Exactly! Bend over lads!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:27 AM
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A NVM of my past, his LVM friends and his flying monkey pickmeishas gave me a lot of hell technologically speaking. What I went through certainly happens all the time and apps like the above would have helped me immensely. I still got out but it was horrible. At least I was able to save the clueless girl who the NVM nabbed after me. I still have to deal with the residual fallout even all this time later but secular (FDS) and spiritual (Kryon) validation gives me such a serious queen consciousnes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:54 PM
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Lol I am not a greencard service. If that is his hope he'll be sorely disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:33 PM
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She also has a video on Lovebombing vs Genuine Romantic Interest: https://youtu.be/H4hTuarfNFc I'm at a five month mark sis, also in a promising situation but keeping my head on straight. You definitely have the right of it! Take your time and set your pace no matter what. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:18 PM
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Thank you and good luck to you too. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:01 PM
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He's a potential, so exclusivity is not happening until I choose. I'm in no rush to get a ring or give my heart fully (regardless of how I feel about him) though his mind is made up already. In his own words, I am his dreamgirl. He's the only HVM I'm content with right now. I am open to and have dated others but they didn't make the cut. Single until I have a ring. Even so there are a substantial amount of things that we have talked about in detail and gotten to know about each other. Yes we eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:55 PM
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Yes. I actually just received a gift from him. Lovely flowers, a date planned tomorrow as well. He's paying my bills and spoiling me, not that I need it but I want it. Of course we are social distancing. No I have not slept with him and do not intend to until engagement at least. He knows all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:30 PM
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If that "image" you paint is glaringly flawed in strategy expect commentary on it. Notice how I've pointed out one thing about what you wrote, because it matters. It's very pickmeisha to sleep with someone you only knew for thirty days and spent less than a few hours together with. Nothing a male does within a timeframe like that is investment enough for a woman to sleep with him. LVMs will be your "HVM" for a month, then pump and dump you with this strategy. It is so low effort and the bar is t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 10:06 PM
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Omg Whisper is filth. Great platform but full of filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 09:39 PM
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I am so glad you're here sis! We're happy to have you. 🤗 You'll get there and I am incredibly excited for you. Especially knowing all the good and love that will come into your life. You deserve it and a HVM if you so choose. Welcome home, Queen. 👑💞✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 09:36 PM
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Yes and LVM can facade their way through all your criteria if you're sleeping with them one month in. Having gone on 2-3 dates. The fact that you even present it as an option for a woman to sleep with the guy that soon isn't FDS. It's not an "if she doesn't want to", it's don't do it. Dusties are one type but there are LVM who know enough about high society and manners to get by your one month criteria. Three months minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 09:05 PM
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😂 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:40 PM
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This is great and I encourage women to keep posting strategies with high financial criteria. It's common sense and doesn't need to be said that not everyone can afford services or strategies that cost a lot of money. What we won't do is make it hard for wealthy women or women of means to employ and share their FDS experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:28 PM
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The truth is they are the gold diggers. When they can't find a woman to dig off of without investing in her or when women like us in FDS call them out and level up they get pissy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:10 PM
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Three months minimum FDS requirement before physical intimacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:08 PM
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Aww what a sweetheart! I'm partial to XXY males or near to that personally. There is a huge stigma against them however re LVM culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:37 PM
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It's not a want it's an addiction for males. Their biology drives them insane onset from puberty. Only males with hormone imbalances are exempt. HVMs learn to have a healthy and balanced relationship with sex. LVMs do not. So these scrotts are really delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:36 PM
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I mean LVMs are gonna LVM. I don't see anything changing except more LVMs getting upset and making more women go FDS. That's why FDS started in the first place, why women have used these strategies since forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:33 PM
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If you can't access therapy it's a good idea to gather other resources, habits and lifestyle strategies outside of FDS from the web or what is available in your community. I use Kryon and the Lemurian Sisterhood in tandem with FDS, healing Hz frequencies, affirmations, exercise, channeling, art, high consciousness music, various psychological youtube channels, oracle cards, precious stones frequency meditations, proper hygiene, self pampering, journaling, expreseive writing, balanced plant based…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:55 PM
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At the same time it's good that FDS has this content for women to gleen from. As more and more women become Queens it'll be especially helpful to newcomers to see these sorts of things so they know exactly what they're dealing with, especially those who are presently hooked by LVMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:41 PM
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🤦 Okay sis. No one is saying this. Literally no one. Did you read anything I wrote? Obviously not. If you want to date a broke man or man with little resources do you! Just make sure you're not splitting 50/50 with him even if you're married. Especially if you are having children. Many women are grateful to find one man who isn't a LVM so the thought that a HVM would actually want to provide for them with zero expectation for anything messed up is beyond their capacity to understand or accept be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:06 AM
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You seem to be completely forgetting about the existence of HVM. It's okay if you're a WGTOW. Dating is hard and finding an actual sentient male of value is trying which is why FDS exists, but not every single male is a LVM. A HVM can be a provider and not be head of the household. This isn't the 1950s. When someone uses the term "provider" that does not mean they are submitting to patriarchal ideals. I can understand your confusion on the matter. You can also have Love, loyalty, Care and Resour…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:42 AM
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Uhm no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:28 AM
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I'm a bit confused by this discussion as well? I'm attracted to resources, looks and a whole lot else but I will not date a man who doesn't reach a certain financial bar and who isn't giving. I don't care what I make or will ever make or what I already have that will always be what I expect. Being involved with men at all is risk enough so yeah he better bring me money, car, house, land, whatever I set the bar at because I'm the woman. Lol If he doesn't like it he can fuck off with literally any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:25 AM
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This should be pinned or added to the Handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:12 AM
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Oh this is rich ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:05 AM
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Somebody posted a screenshot on here from AITA and there was this LVM talking about how he (31M) splits everything half with his 22 year old “poor college student” gf because he doesn’t want her to use him for his money. He is using her, cutting the cost of his living by half by her living with him. It's imperative that she believes this is fair because he wants cheap sex, cheap rent, as well as anything and everything that he benefits from her by. He doesn't give a shit about her, but she's too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:07 PM
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If there isn’t enough HVM to go around, what’s so terrible about HVW linking up? 👀 Nothing terrible at all. I am expecting a rise in lesbians honestly. Whether they are platonic or sexual, whatever and however it works for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:37 AM
7

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:33 AM
0

Given the context of the comment chain I responded to your comment is lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:48 AM
0

Women have been saying why they hate sex and men for too damn long. Men act like there isn't an entire world history and all the resources at our disposal on this planet to learn how to be a decent human being. But most are content to be animals. As long as their fuck addiction is settled who cares what happens to women. Also men really want us to believe that they don't hear and see how other men do women. Bs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 08:23 AM
2

He's a fuckboy. There is no friendships with a fuckboy. It's Bye Boy time. I mean this guy has been screwing people left and right but conveniently not you (because he hasn't got you alone and vulnerable yet), enough that he has a reputation that you know about. You're posting here because your gut is telling you it's off. It is. Stop talking to him about things that traumatize you because those are what he will use to break you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:56 AM
81

Plate Smashers Rise Up Edit: Also it's so funny how a simple "No" ruins a LVMs entire game. That's why they get so violent. They truly are spineless cowards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:49 AM
2

You shouldn't be dating right now you are not secure in yourself, which means you're vulnerable. Best to stick with your frindships for now and build yourself up. The guy does not matter. Edit: I don't know but he seems very experienced sexually. He's also very social and outgoing. He doesn't talk about himself that much. Okay hol up. Abort. How do you know he is very sexually experienced where are you getting this from? Honestly just sounds like you're his next pickmeisha target. Don't have sex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:40 AM
7

Gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:31 AM
18

Omfg I would serve any man who treated our anniversary like this with divorce papers so fast. Nope. Nope. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:04 AM
46

😂😂😂😂 This sooo much. Lol Promise rings were from a master to his daughter to be sold to a new master. That's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:59 AM
16

FDS humor keeps getting better and better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:54 PM
1

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:03 PM
2

This is an excellent post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:31 PM
6

Same. Right now for me it's pretty much FDS films, Steven Universe and Kryon "radio". I've been wanting to get back into a more typographic lifestyle so this coronavirus situation and FDS has definitely helped the flow. American TV culture isn't all that great. Edit: Then again Hollywood and Business control the media so what did we expect? The Catholic church is getting its karma but so will the rest of the LVM in media spheres.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 03:38 PM
91

HV relationship she wanted =/= Fuck doll for LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:48 PM
39

Male domination at its finest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:44 PM
42

Polyandry over poligamy any day, FDS Style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:57 AM
-5

I agree with this comment chain. There are plenty of gift giving agencies available for little deliveries like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:09 PM
1

Love a HVM who knows how to take care of you even from a distance. My HVM said much the same to me and more during all this virus business, noy that he hasn't said or made such things known before. Congratulations and good luck! Love a happy story of others with FDS success.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:09 PM
3

Exactly why I won't be meeting my HVM as planned this month. Not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:03 PM
13

Yep, make sure you got the bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 11:55 AM
4

Got it. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 11:52 AM
1

I'm in the US, he's in Australia. We both have seen cities and towns very close to us go on lockdown. I will be unable to go to him with the travel ban and while he wanted to still fly over I told him to stay, as him possibly getting stuck in the US would be a situation in itself. It's all such a precarious situation to be meeting someone for the first time. I don't want the virus ruining my moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:07 PM
0

I understand your concern but it's misplaced. I'm sorry LDR never worked out for you and doesn't for mamy others but that has never been my experience. Romantic or with platonic friendships. It's just different. I set the pace and it's right where I want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:00 PM
0

Reality check about what exactly? Perhaps you're underestimating what I actually have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:59 PM
1

I am 100% understanding of and equipped for long distance communications. While most people have issues dating online I never seem to be wrong when it comes to my intuition and spotting game when it's happening. Thank you for your concern but it's misplaced. There is a great deal that you can understand from someone even though they're noy physically present. I've experienced it before with platonic friendships so it's not iffy territory to me. We would be meeting this month if it wasn't for the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:57 PM
0

Yes. We met on online dating and as is typical I'm slow to move with those things. Honestly it's been the best circumstance for us. It's given me time to really be rooted in myself and FDS. Plus I've been able to psychoanalyze and vet him to my liking, which will continue even after we meet. It could have been sooner, much sooner but my standards are high and he wants to meet them without fail. He knows that if he shows up and gives me anything less than a five star holiday experience it will go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:50 PM
37

Yes! You two sound so cute best of luck and congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:34 AM
99

He's training you to shut up and get with his program. Ditch him. Edit: FDS is not about changing LVMs. They don't change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:34 AM
40

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:55 AM
-4

Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:49 AM
-5

Think like a wolf, be a dove. Know your enemy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:19 PM
-7

When you live a reality where nothing makes you sick you see the world differently. That is my personal experience and that of others I've happned to meet in life. It was empowering on my journey. When there is no help we become the help, in whatever form we can accept in reality. There is no ceiling, no limit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:17 PM
2

We all have pysical imperfections and when you are mutually in love with your intended partner all those insecurities are felt for what they are, just a dirty thought that has no place in love or self love. You are not on this planet to plow and snatch any woman that comes your way so it's best not to think about all women - you're on a set course for one specific woman. As you've stated. Align your thoughts in this way. Your problem is not your penis size, it's making sure that your intentions …
/r/askFDS14/03/20 10:15 PM
8

Be the HVW she needs to see modeled in her life. Let her come to you with questions and guide her in the right direction. Let your HVM exemplify what a real man is as a model of standard she should be accepting from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:35 PM
3

Savage. 😭👌👑✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:21 PM
71

The thing is their "tricks" can only work in a certain environment or compromised woman. In any other situation they fail and are shamed for it by society. The root issue in the differences and tribulation between the sexes are due solely to LVM. They need to be gone. So women keep holding your head high, keep walking in power knowing that you are not just the prize but this world's God Given Salvation. If a man dare disrespect you queen show him how a woman gets it done. They can laugh and jeer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:06 PM
54

Spot on and succinctly said. Standing ovation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:32 PM
9

There is a story and news coverage about an eerily similar scenario that I can't find for the life of me right now. In it there was a starving village and people were literally dropping dead by the day. Everyone except this one man and his officials. They had enough food and influence that they could have saved lives and made a difference in that community. What did they do instead? They made these starving people line the room as they gorged themselves every day. Every. Day. If one of those peo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:28 PM
17

It's the plight of the wives in The Handmaiden's Tale all over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:59 PM
20

Basically the Christian ideal also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:58 PM
24

I'd also like to add a couple discourses on this same topic by other well advised souls. Struggle Love by Derrick Johnson: https://youtu.be/4UvTCHboyhs Selfless Love & Romantic Transendence by Eckhart Tolle: https://youtu.be/5BgL--RLaaQ Struggle love never has been nor ever will be it. We are not here to suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:54 PM
8

😂👌✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:54 AM
9

I said this exact thing to my mother yesterday when she brought up the virus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:45 PM
29

Sis, it's time to stop thinking and putting energy into him and her. It's time to love you. The reality is that you've been given an answer about your life. You've decided that you deserve to be loved and respected. Now you need to make a plan. I'd suggest getting into therapy. Beyond that, start getting your affairs in order. If you both don't have interwoven lives it's time to block, delete and level up. If you have to separate from LVM and pickme friends in this time because they stand by him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:32 PM
55

Time to go. He's cheating and gaslighting you, projecting his own on you. It's better to leave and make him make an effort to have you again than to stay and go through the dredges like every other pickme. But really just throw the whole man out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:19 PM
1

Past a certain dick size I will not. He can be a HVM but if his dick isn't that sweet spot design nope nope nope. Everything you said is too true, regrettably. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:18 PM
1

You don't ever have to have sex if you don't want to. I was a virgin (intentionally) years beyond my peers and even after experiencing sex was celibate for a few years. I've actually debated going celibate/WGHOW or a lesbian to entirely circumvent men. There are men who physically are unable to or naturally have a very low desire for sex - and we're not talking about porn sick, limp dicks. That means that your dating pool will be much smaller and opens up the question of alternative relationship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:53 PM
1

The pickmes aren't any better. IMO. It takes two to fuck up a child's life so extraordinarily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:29 PM
16

✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:56 PM
6

Wow I didn't even know that existed, hence reading the sub wrong. I really hope FDS gets the sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:09 PM
16

Love also exists for humans and their pet conpanions. Children as well but I'm childfree so I don't recommend bringing children into this world; a boy likely would be LVM terrorixer of women and the girl what would she have to suffer through? As for men... Unlikely for this generation and thr ones before. There aren't enough men in the world who know what love is, how to love and were brought up properly. There isn't even societal backup to force men to not be barbaric animals. I encourage ladie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 07:08 PM
1

What? AmITheAsshole wasn't spawned here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:58 PM
9

I have no idea, never moderated on Reddit, but seeing some FDS women as mods for that forsaken sub would be a godsend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:53 PM
4

I loved seeing this show in theaters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:37 PM
-4

Release your negative karma and akashic records. You do not have to struggle against these obstacles when you correct them so that only good comes into your life. Then step into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:59 PM
11

Ugh men. 🙄 Love your coworker. Love to see FDS raise up another group of strong women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:30 PM
79

LVM are the absolute bottom of the gene pool. Just don't go there sisters. Stay wherever the light touches. 😂 Wow. Evolution in action is fascinating. FDS might bring on a wave of it's own, a return to solidarity among women. It's so good to be in this sacred space of light and love. FDS forever. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:45 PM
21

Isn't this the ultimate saying of an immasculine man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:26 AM
10

Good job you're doing great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:23 AM
21

All of his answers were fuckboy answers. He's a LVM for sure. Dodge this bullet sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:38 PM
3

Again, the only people who need to learn something here are the newbies and the pickmeishas. There's a reason none of this makes sense to you and why you all keep going off topic and out of context. It's as if you can't see what's right in front of you, plainy spelled out by multiple people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 08:07 PM
43

Which is why he posted no pics of himself. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:00 PM
13

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:34 PM
13

Have you read the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:08 PM
1

Again, misconstruing the entire point of this discussion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:07 PM
1

You mean a LVM fuckboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:03 PM
3

Your mother is not the woman in this story. All of your posts are out of context. You refuse to or are unable to see the lesson here. I wish you luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:02 PM
-3

What part of the story was about a woman already in an abusive relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:58 PM
6

You are completely overinflating what is being discussed here. I don't need educating about what I already know. You don't want to accept that women have agency, power and control no matter what situation they find thselves in. A man can only convince a woman that she is nothing but he cannot make her nothing. There is a difference. By the by, how does anything that you're supposing line in with the story that was posted? Please explain to me how the woman in the story was so beyond being humanl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:56 PM
8

This concerns all women. There is a reason for everything. Women who find themselves in abusive relationships with LVMs (all LVM relationships are abusive really, that's their nature) can and do have the agency to change and protect themselves. Before the full on abuse ever starts, before a relationship wth a LVM ever began there is a clear and progressive story. The woman has the power, control and agency not to fall into that trap. FDS is helping women all over not fall into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:46 PM
9

Emotional intelligence, how and what we think about ourselves and what predetermined patterns we have takes time to understand. Pickmeishas stay because they are pickmeishas. Pickmeishas only know abuse and praise abuse so they seek out abuse. The problem is they refuse to look at reality from a different perspective and in so doing rob themselves of agency. That's why you're here. Why we're all here. To discover the line between what is abuse and what is not, what is acceptable and what is not,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:40 PM
5

Have you seen the world, globally, lately?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:35 PM
2

That's why you just never entrust yourself to them. Problem solved. If/when the time comes to move on you justget up and go then find happiness again. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:35 PM
7

Did you read the story? You missed the part where you're not a victim, you have agency, control and strength over your life. Every woman does. No is a complete sentence and way of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:32 PM
11

Yes. All of this yes. We are not hapless damsels that just get kicked around and tossed by every whoo and whim. Women have agency. We must use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:31 PM
24

Did you even read the story? That woman didn't end up in that situation solely because of the man. Pickmeism is a pattern of learned behaviors and thoughts that guide a woman down a disatrous path. As long as women feign zero agency by telling themselves that they have no power over themselves or their lives they rob themselves of a better life. That is what FDS is all about. Removing pickmeism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:28 PM
6

She's been questioning him that's what I understood from his post. That would be wise but most women in sexuationships don't because of "hope" and "he's just not ready yet". Nah, sis. Save yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:17 PM
2

3+ includes a year, but I agree. 1-3 years is a personal sweetspot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:14 PM
16

The only way you can successfully do sexuationships is to have this mindset completely. This does not come naturally for the vast majority of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:56 AM
11

Have you read the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:49 AM
8

🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:43 AM
31

Pure rape culture. What a barbaric world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:42 AM
62

Wow men have literally conned themselves out of love. No wonder they hate FDS. FDS is simply holding men accountable and they hate that. So here this guy is all upset because he was getting everything he wanted (a woman's love) like a damn leech but giving this woman no security, safety or provison. Yet he's more than content to waste her timeand resources. Good on her for the question and I hope she leaves him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:36 AM
21

Typically there are multiple occasions of catching game in the long con. The best way to avoid that in my opinion is to minimalize any damage. Keep your independence, have property that is yours, an emergency fund, separate bank accounts, etc. The less that he is able to control and manipulate you the better. If he's doing long con and he can't get you he'll move on to the next target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:34 AM
55

Short answer: yes. Strategy: 1) Give yourself enough time to access what his true intentions are (3+ months sex free). Understand that there are men who play the short con game and the long con game (suddenly LV after engagement, marriage, children, etc). 2) Make sure that how he romances you isn't a script, it's tailored to you as an individual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:00 PM
16

Just downloaded this app today, now deleting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:55 PM
81

Correction: what's wrong with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:55 AM
8

There is more to the sidebar than dating multiple guys. And the handbook is fairly extensive. Edit: I'm also going to add that you have a clear history of ignoring the sidebar and not reading it. If you don't put any effort into learning how to level up it's not going to happen for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:44 AM
11

The thing about mythologies around the world is that they used to be about female gods and deities, rarely about males. Of course that changed over time with the advancement of the patriarchy and the overtaking of the spiritual rites that belonged to women. There are a number of books written and websites on the subject. All that being said, you're right and it just makes it worse. Like men took something good and turned it into a LVM shitstorm. Typical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:42 AM
7

You're very right! We're learning more and more about all of this as our methods of sciences advance. There was definitely a clear and direct change to the various human species that existed. We are the species that came out on top. The rest were killed off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:36 AM
5

By super hvm I meant like have everything. Good personality, caring, super rich etc... Yes but that just deludes the value of the term HVM. Whenever we say HVM here it means that the guy has everything. There's no need for emphasis or not, unlike with Low Value Male or Negative Value Male. Rich is not a HVM quality, there are HVM who are not rich. How a man manages money and his relationship with his finances determines if he's HV in this category or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:33 AM
3

Evolution creates many different kinds of a species in order for them to survive. When it comes to humans we are the only species that exists today. That isn't because evolution happened differently for humans. There used to be a lot of different species of humans who had a lot in common with us but also key differences of their own species. As it would happen, all but the one species of humans who exist today were killed off. There might be some traces of DNA from the other species in modern hu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:26 AM
4

I don’t want to sound like a pickme or male sympathizer You don't sound like a sympathizer or pickme at all. 😁 some of y’all be over exaggerating how bad short guys have it. It depends on the variables in the life of every individual short man. Mostly to do with how close to dwarfism he is, geological location, culture of male on male violence (patriarchy) and operant conditioning. In my opinion, any man 5’9 or above is tall, regardless of how he compares to the woman he stands next to. 5'7-5'8 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:18 AM
20

Why is it so terrible to be a gold digger? But it's ok, socially acceptable, never frowned upon and always encouraged for them to be a pussy digger? A therapy digger? A chore digger? A resources digger? A mommy digger? A youth digger? And a woman digger in general? These words need to be added to our vocabulary. Your whole post is 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:47 AM
-3

Yeah I agree. The fact that they don't see each other enough is thr very reason that a HVM would take every opportuinity to spend time with his woman when he has the chance. I'm not so sure there's as much conflict of timing as there is his disinterest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:34 AM
17

I can't upvote this enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:27 AM
21

The delusion is strong with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:22 AM
21

That is exactly what would happen if the roles were reversed. That's the reason why things are the way they are in the first place. Sure women love tall men and there are plenty women who love short guys, but so much of the female experience is avoid danger and death by men. Tall men would use their biological advantage to cull the short guys. It's no coincidence that around the world being a short guy is a curse. It has everything to do with male on male violence, but guess who gets blamed? Wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:17 AM
2

It's not going to be a man's world forever, much as they'd like it to be. A lot about how women are treated and consequences for hate crimes against women will change. It's their choice: be a man or get your dicks cut off. Or the death sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:57 PM
3

Uhm there should be legal action you can take against this woman - and you should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:23 PM
71

Ahh, mass scale female programming so men don't have to put in so much work to get sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:53 PM
3

r/childfree has sidebar resources and can tell you all about it, including tricks to get past certain hurdles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:47 PM
6

🙄🙄🙄😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:31 PM
34

I mean I wasn't going to say it but it's my thought also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:24 AM
26

This dude is trash. Your intuition is right. Stop fighting yourself. You deserve better and you know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:47 AM
36

Sad but they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:03 AM
5

Yes, you can use whatever appropriate words you want when you degrade them for their indecency. Even new words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:02 AM
98

By Janelle Griffith An 11-year-old girl who was allegedly raped by her brother gave birth at home, and now he and their parents are facing criminal charges. The girl gave birth to a boy in a bathtub in St. Charles, Missouri, according to a probable cause statement. Her biological brother, who is 17, was charged last week with incest, statutory rape and statutory sodomy of a person younger than 12, while her parents were charged with child endangerment. Police say the girl's parents did not provi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:52 PM
1

I'll summarize as much as possible to make it as simple as possible for you. It's a large intricated subject that puts our entire human existence and experience into focus. Most of the things that I will tell you now have already been researched by various professionals (including scientists, mathmaticians, etc), will continue to be explored and as we enter the new paradigm of this age will be made apparent with time. The first is that this planet did experience a mass evolution of various creat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:01 PM
34

Ah such a beautiful cry of freedom! Welcome to the queendom. 💖👑✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:58 AM
12

Boy bye. Woman you are too grown for this and your soul feels it. Listen in and get on with your fabulous self!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:50 AM
3

Ah I'm glad to know it and have fun! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:48 AM
23

Being myself outside of romantic situations. Typically the way one behaves carries into every aspect of their lives. If I can't always be myself in that manner then I practice being myswlf when no one is around. It amazes me how much programming exists still in my mind that tells me I ahould do this or am forbidden from doing that even in solitude. Looksmatching. Nothing extreme. I worked out my blemishes, bumps, upgraded to better makeup (lips, face, not eyes) and got into faux lashes. Now when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:00 AM
15

Is there a continually updated portion of FDS resources that link to various articles and sciences on this subject?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:14 AM
9

Worthy is the soul who is able to choose their gender. Most souls are stuck in an endless cycle of depravity and debauchery. Lessons of a lifetime unlearnt will need to be learnt or they'll continue the cycle until the consciousness of the whole planet is risen to a degree that they are forced out of old paradigm patterns. True spirituality knows that men are lacking and depraved and that women have a rightful place of honor in this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:10 AM
20

I might go full gay by the time this lifetime is over. Before then, really. I might even go so far as to find a lesbian lifemate to raise a boy with, on land of female separatists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:04 AM
4

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:57 AM
167

Okay ladies new rule: slut shame men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:24 AM
36

If he has nothing in his home, that is also a red flag. Adults have possessions. Minimalism is different. A mattress on the floor with a loose sheet on it, tv balanced on the box it came in and 2 plates in the cupboard? HELL NO! This is not minimalism, and I say that as a minimalist myself. This man is desperately broke and is no way fit to be dating. Truth is LVM with this sort of house have made terrible life choices or are expecting you to furnish their home with your money as he hopes to bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:22 AM
10

😩😭👌👌👌💍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:16 AM
15

That or he wants a broodmare to later abandon (usually along with all parental responsibility) while he makes a new life with anothrr pickmeisha who won't take offense to his deplorable character in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:04 AM
7

A recovering pickmeisha who learns the importance of having and being there for her girlfriends as far as I've seen. It's so comically FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:27 AM
8

Incredibly so. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:01 AM
1

No, to the contrary I've considered everything that you said and it does not line up for me. Everything is case by case. You accuse me of doing something I never did in the first place while completely overlooking the fact that the other posters here grasped exactly what my post and intent was. You don't like the wording and yes I could have made that one portion of my posts long drawn out script but I have confidence enough in my audience that they can and do understand what I mean when I type …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:51 AM
1

No one is victim blaming here sis youcre just triggered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:48 AM
30

You will feel better and do better without this LVM in your life. Drop him, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:46 PM
1

The mothers featured in those personal stories are not the type who will come to FDS to better herself and the life of her children or even encourage their children on this same path likely. They're pickmeishas. My own mother is not exempt. While my post went into detail it is not the first time that the FDS community has talked about their pickmeisha mothers, the environment they grew up in and how that affected their pickme tendencies. As another poster stated, knowing that someone is a victim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:40 PM
2

Please see the personal stories of posters mentioned on this thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 08:45 PM
4

The majority of women posting on this subreddit do not already have children and if they do aren't in an abuse situation that is so far gone that they can't get out of. The exceptions will have to do as they can which I addressed in my post. There is no classism or woman hating present. Just facts, well wishes and leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 08:13 PM
2

Uh huh sure sis. My argument still stands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:53 PM
3

Who said anything about looks sis? Genetic testing exists. Stop making excuses. Edit: And you deleted your previous comment typical failed logic response. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:49 PM
7

😔👌👌👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:13 PM
5

Just clarifying. 😉 The guidebook is currently being debated for amendment given the current state of this sub and the influx of pickmeishas and platemeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:04 PM
5

Right. So women not fucking LVM to begin with. Problem solved, no pregnancy scares, no surprise babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:01 PM
0

The exact circumstance that you are using for your argument is not at all anything to do with the origibal post context and is invalid. If you have something to say for that topic I'd love to hear it because that is what I have been discussing from the beginning. Stay on topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:58 PM
2

Really? Please explain to me how inherited diseases do not in fact get passed down to offspring and why so many people in the world are born with those inherited diseases. Also Please explain to me how you justify this psychopathy and blatant disregard of life in an attempt to say the mother is actually righteous for sabotaging her child and not investing the effort to make sure there is no due and reasonable cause that a child by her will be born diseased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:56 PM
4

🙌🙌🙌🔥👑✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:44 AM
10

So many issues with this story smdh. Cockholm syndrome to the max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:43 AM
8

Yes and it always fails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:43 AM
7

Nah sis. The sperm comes from the man and if he's the donor he better be a worthy HVM wtf else would you procreate with a man? Most women here are heterosexual. Lesbians will have to opt for a sperm donor because science isn't there yet. Children grow up and they will have their own questions and opinions. You set your child up to fail in this scenario and if it's a boy well good luck he'll be just like his daddy 9/10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:42 AM
0

The post is a woman speaking common sense to pickmeishas eho make poor life choices that endanger their child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:36 AM
11

How does fucking LVMs stop the patriarchy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:27 AM
56

They should bury him under the jail. I'm dead. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:20 AM
-4

I'm well aware of the worldwide condition of women amd the challenges they face. We are obviously not talking about those situations here. At any time that a man refuses to be a father the women will be LV if she goes through with the pregnancy. Human lives aren't toys. Children do not exist as tools in some egotistical bullshit drama. How many women have babies in this specific circumstance and then end up in a terrible life which they drag the child through? We all know that type of pickmeisha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:54 AM
4

I'm going to make my own post done seeing this rhetoric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:20 AM
12

Love that mainstream has started to pickup and discuss professional analysis on these issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:15 AM
9

Why would a mother bring her child into a broken home with a man who doesn't want her or the baby? Only a LVW would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:15 AM
1

Nor do I in the way that most religions and spiritualists teach. But I do not change myself for them. Agreed ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:07 PM
9

Man: Compliments my beauty. Me: "I know I'm beautiful, tell me what I'm worth." Going to implement this going forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:25 PM
8

You seem to be missing the jist of this comment chain, the commemt it descended from and the other discussions stemming from that comment. There are newbies here who by and large are buying into fuckbuddy situations where they hurt themselves. Showing up and saying FWB works in the midst of listing a buch of red flag pickmeisha and platemeisha tendencies yes you do have some explaining to do. And again, if the FWB was all that great sex would not have been the first and only thing you would have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:23 PM
1

Yep we are in absolute agreement. As above so below. I'm looking forward to the future when we don't have to be ridiculed about our spirituality. It's been a long time coming. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:04 PM
8

I'm not confused I know exactly what you're talking about. Again, the only "benefits" you talk about are sex, amazing as that is, is there anything else besides sex that you get from him? What are all of these amazing boyfriend priviledges that you speak of? Why aren't you bragging about those first and foremost? You and I both share those dating experiences, though our paths are different, so that nature isn't something new to me. Neither good consistent and soulful physical intimacy. It's how …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:00 PM
2

I have no idea why but it doesn't matter. 😂 Science is science and science will always prove the Divine. I'm spiritual too sis, love every bit about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:49 PM
17

Yep 👌 But the child's life shouldn't be ruined because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:39 PM
9

Lots of issues here and people blatantly discriminating against the childfree community without realizing what the whole of the argument that goes on there is. Kind of like how reddit equated FDS to TRP and MGTOW. I'm against a child being born into subpar conditions or being sired by a LVM. Somehow people think that a man making up his mind about not having children, discussing this with his partner so they both equally come to a decision is suddenly a LVM when he sticks by all that when a preg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:33 PM
31

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:04 PM
4

What art? All I'm seeing is how he benefitted from you. Besides sex you never mentioned what he did for you. Using a person as an ego boost isn't a HVW trait either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:45 PM
-1

Pathogens infect sperm. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:41 PM
2

There you go! ✊👑✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:38 PM
15

I see where you're coming from but all I see is pickmeisha and platemeisha combo to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:27 PM
24

What a lovely story to wake up to this morning. If there is anything a Diremeisha hates is another woman having what she delusionally thinks is hers. I'm reminded of a plot of Outlander (yes I enjoy period pieces sue me) there is this girl who has been chasing a man since she was 7 years old, obsessed with him. SPOILER ALERT Classic beginning case of a Diremeisha. When she reached the age of majority she would throw herself at this man but he did little else but give into making out with her. Sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:10 PM
9

Also male jizz is proven to do all kinds of f*cked up things to a woman's biology which predisposes her to being his personal subserviant cockhold syndrome bangmaid. Why put yourself through all of that for a guy who has zero interest in you? He just wants sex. It's a pickme/fuckboy situation at it's finest. That's wjy FWB don't work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:23 AM
31

I'm the best damn thing there ever was. That's the line of thinking I expect from a guy who's interested in me and if he doesn't see me that way then it's over. It doesn't matter how I look, dressed up or slumped down, a HVM in love sees his woman differently than the lower self biological imperative that LVMs are controlled by. He sees my soul, my body and looks are just the bonus. He has options, he could have anyone he wanted, but he loves all of me. That's the only way that I think looks sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:45 AM
6

It's no mistake that this man has the disposition that he does. Good at business means being good at relationships too, neither of which are mutually separate from the success of the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:16 PM
3

😤😤😤👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:14 PM
5

Sigh. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:12 PM
8

Clubgoals lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:07 PM
4

"I'm the prize, uh, I'm a blessing." ✊🔥🔥🔥 Waking up every morning and he makes sure to show it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:55 PM
7

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:47 PM
3

This is beautiful. Out here doing the Divine's work queen. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:47 PM
3

Yes, but it's going to take some time. There are things happening behind the scenes, beyond the noise of the mainstream and the drum of dissonance. Better men aren't the only thing that will be coming to the world, everything is going to change - for the better. Two steps forward,one step back, five steps forward, one step back. We've made great progress collectively worldwide comepared to where we used to be. Even just the conversations that are being had are telling and many people are fightin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:44 PM
5

Too true. Even in the most civilized nations the experiences of women are largely suspect or deolorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:39 PM
20

That's the first step. I have faith that she'll get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:38 PM
2

🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:36 PM
27

It's super creepy behavior, not respectful or romantic in the slightest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:23 PM
9

Both happens way more than not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:12 PM
16

Yes it is so succinct and wisely written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:10 PM
3

Smarter, wiser, better, stronger. 👑✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:45 AM
3

Yes the one and the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:42 AM
3

That's it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:42 AM
20

Omg there was a video post on FDS about a guy teaching other guys to do this exact strategy to get laid in a widely popular American tv show. I don't know what show it was because I don't watch it. There was a total of six steps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:59 AM
12

There's nothing wrong about not laughing at something that you don't think is funny. Unless that was a typo and you meant you in fact have a behavior of laughing at things that aren't funny to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:45 AM
22

Yep. Went out today and basically every guy was staring and looking after me. It's f*cking gross. There's nothing for them to even look at anyways but it doesn't stop them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:39 AM
22

Lol Now isn't that hilarious. I canct wait for more and more female spaces to come. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:25 AM
74

I'm glad that someone said it. I'd love our own version of that subreddit, like JudgeFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:52 PM
1

This is really great. I am sure our community will grow wiser and stronger for it to better equip woomen and girls from all backgrounds and life paths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:09 PM
16

Not to mention the vast majority of women and underage girls are victims of sex trafficking. Porn is not harmless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 10:35 PM
15

You are a very dumb person. You seem to lack any knowledge of the law, customs, religion and tradition pertaining to women woeld wide and since our earliest records of human existence. NoT aLl MeN my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 10:32 PM
7

The top two contributors to ubhappy marriages are: LVM / LVW Children The vast majority of people shouldn't be having children or they should at least take greater care to do so but they don't. In the Childfree community we refer to these people as breeders and I'm sure ypu all know thr type of family dynamics involving these children that I'm talking about, if you weren't a child of a breeder yourself. Children are by far the most vulnerable of society. Me obviously don't care about them and st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:36 PM
30

"Please don't reward the LVMs." It doesn't matter what he does for you if he just takes what you've taught him to strategize taking advantage of other women. Not vetting them and giving them sex is the worst thing you can do. It's how we all got in this position as women in the first place. Not to mention you know he's telling his friends all about you. Women are also recorded all the time even if it's your place. STDs and health risks because you are not the only one he's dip dicking. The risk …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 04:45 AM
15

At risk of coming off as a spoiled bitch (not that I care): I'm allergic to low effort. I don't even like coffee! Wtf that's really all he can put in the time and effort for on our first date together? Obviously he's not that into me. Omfg he's broke and if he's not broke he's not a provider or the generous type... which means not my type byyyyeeee. In my past lives I took women out on better first dates than some dumb coffee meetup so why should I expect different as a woman in this lifetime? B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:51 PM
24

Them flashbacks are hitting too hard sisters. Icm dizzy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:57 PM
6

If she's in the US I am certain that she could win a case against him. There was a poat on a relationships such a lomg while back about a woman who gave up a huge $$$$$ job opportunity and life for a LVM who turned tricks and ruined her life. She went to court and the judge ruled he had to pay her for the psychological harm and lost life opportunity. I think more women just need to stand up and do it. This girl is 22 and her life is ruined, this man is entirely guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:52 AM
7

Yep it's filled with trash and a bunch of pickmeishas/naive girls. I try and be a voice of reason as I can but this case is just overwhelming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:24 AM
14

Same amd yes it's true. LVMs love a woman who is easily manipulated so they go for the girls fresh out of home & highschool like sharks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:13 AM
8

If not OLD then likely a friend of the family. Edit: Or through work. That happens a lot, especially with bosses and upper colleagues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:08 AM
13

I mean it is a shocker title. Lol I feel so bad for her she's so young my heart hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:59 AM
16

It is a shut up ring. She admitted that fear herself and also that he doesn't love her. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:57 AM
8

I know sis it's a cruel world out here. Science and technology gives me hope for the future. Men can lie, cheat, ruin, destroy and winge all they want but soon they will face the facts hard about how truly pathetic they are. Chiefly in them going extinct little by little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:41 AM
11

I have one brother like this. The other ine seems to be a good guy but... I jist wouldnct blink if I found out otherwise. Men amiright? Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:24 AM
2

Pickmes don't make for good friends or good family members. Keeping them in your life is dangerous and inviting trouble. These types of women are not capable of giving you the type of reciprocation and support that is due in a healthy friendship. There are a lot of comments saying that you shouldn't give these friends up for loneliness sake. They've still got a ways to go before they understand the fullness of Female Level Up Strategy. Those women will have their entire lives derailed in one way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 07:56 AM
7

"Avoid ANY man who is into the 'vanlife trend'." - Post Title While we all can agree about dating a guy who has a solid job, career trajectory, future plans and investing you overgeneralized. LVM are everywhere and our sisters in the vanlife community need FDS as much as the next. HVM exist in the vanlife community as well. Sure they could be starting from scratch in a converted van but they could just as well have bought an A Class RV. Regardless a HVM will behave ebtirely different than a LVM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:50 AM
12

It's a trick. He preyed on and trapped you in a compromising situation. He got what he wanted and he will continue to prey on you. You were never his friend. Check ou r/seduction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:46 PM
5

Single to Married is a strategy to weed out LVM and males who are not marriage minded with the utmost respect for women. Expect a lot of men to walk away! And good riddance! These men are: Not willing, ready and confident to fight for/court you. Lack character, etc. Are controlled by their penis if no sex till engagement/marriage. Especially if they're dick dipping in other women. Do not respect you over their penis if no sex till engagement/marriage. Again, especially if they're dick dipping in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:08 AM
1

Marriage is business to me. If someone make an offer and It's to my liking I'll be more than happy to oblige. Good business means dealing with the best partner - someone who's worth it, has the character for it and loves me beyond any socially accepted quo of healthy. I know I'm a good woman. He will have to prove he's a good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:44 PM
18

The finest cheese ladies. Take a good whiff before this aspiring rolling stone is gone. /s He should die a virgin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:25 AM
12

Someone give this queen gold. Standing ovation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:13 AM
18

In the above imaged post he writes: _ I’m still a virgin not by choice and am in college. I’d rather have lots of sex with different people than be in a relationship. I have a very high sex drive. I need someone to give practical advice on how to have sex with a girl within 24 hours of meeting her. I’m tired of being led on I just want to have sex. It’s destroying me. I read models by mark Manson and cold approached a lot of girls but some ignored me the rest rejected idk if I should keep at it.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:07 AM
7

This really needs to happen. I would love to have a strong circle if HVW friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:08 PM
3

The only exception here was that the man did not love you. He was doing as he was supposed to in an attempt to placate his family and your family about the arranged marriage. So in the end when the reality became too much he left. He tried but in the end he never loved you. I'm sure if you told more of your story in detail it would be apparent. Money is not the standard for how a man feels about you only a part. There are so many other things to tell when a man loves you or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:39 PM
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I've said no physical intimacy until engagement but more recently I am thinking marriage - for all the reasons you just listed. There's just something so beautiful about it. I think there are ways to establish physical compatibility as well by simply talking about it to ensure you're both on the same page. Beyond that a HVM will make sure that you are pleased so it'll all work out just fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:26 AM
38

He's not interested. All he did was follow the golden three day hookup rule to get laid. After doing one of the most intimate thinga you can do with a person he: Didn't express any feelings for you Didn't establish what you were before sex Didnct put in any effort because he just wanted a hookup Didn't make any plans to see you another day Didn't text or call you a whole day Don't have sex until at least 3 months, he's proven his character and put in the effort for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:12 AM
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There's a lot of truth to what you say and this is the experience for people in those categories. It's also why there are certain stereotypes about beauty dynamics in relationships. It's true that looks aren't the only thing that's important in attraction but here is the silver lining: Not everyone can be attracted to anyone even after they give the person a try. It's just another part of reality. So for the people who do face romantic rejection more than others they either hold out for the one …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:06 AM
7

If he's into you there will be nothing that stops him from contacting you: texting, talking, video,seeing you in person. He will make time for you even on his busiest of days, think of you first thing in the morning to greet you seconds later and call you by night till you fall asleep. There is nothing that will stop him. Do not chase that is not your part in the dance. This man doesn't seem into you at all. Your happiness is not his priority. He's breadcrumbing you. Find a man who loves you que…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:53 PM
8

Can confirm, was born and raised in the cult. Those men hate women and teach other men the same. The HVM who don't agree with it end up leaving or being a pariah in the cult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:13 PM
7

Ethnicity is inseparable from my dating life. Overall I either don't take the experiences too personally, ignore/brush off the LVMs and especially use it to my advantage. The men who are attracted to me are going to be attracted to my appearance. My skin tone, my features, etc. Depending on what look I do can make it very hard for someone to place what ethnicity I am. It's okay for people to be curious. Just because I am xyz does not mean that I am not seen. HVM will see me the same as they see …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:37 PM
12

In so many words my mother is like this too so I know it well. She hasn't been as malicious all the time but it definitely comes around and remains an undercurrent of her pickme personality. Your grandmother despises you for everything she sees in you and the fact that you can go so far in life. She wants to sabotage you and do harm to your soul in one of the most dispicable ways. Your aunt knows this neighbor woudn't be any good for you from a mile away but she doesn't care. How narcissistic of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 04:12 PM
76

I made the mistake of browsing the sub. It's bad. Reaaallllll bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:46 AM
12

For me there's a few things. it's the fog and confusion, dreams/deja vu, intuitive downloads of future threat and lack of expression. Fog/Confusion: If someone doesn't make sense to me then that's a good sign that we're not compatible and especially an indicator of more sinister issues about the dynamic. Mentally Checked Out: I just can't be present with him. He could have done nothing wrong yet but it's just not meant to be because he's so not on my vibe. If I start disassociating because of so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 01:31 AM
26

It's what the oppressed handmaidens of the Netflix original The Handmaid's Tale. It's about an oppressive regime where an country called Gilead some all sorts of evil against women under the guise of serving God. The handmaids who are treated as sexual and reproductive slaves are forced to wear red.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:47 AM
34

Under His Eye 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:05 AM
2

Banging the hot dude is never the goal, just making sure that you are attracted to your partner enough that intimacy won't drop off even with the other benefits that come with being with him. Some women make that mistake and have to walk away, messy for everyone involved. You have the right of it. You're come a long way in your journey and you're ready for the next step. If in the end it pleases you to let him court you again just follow FDS to your happily ever after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:23 AM
5

LOVE YOU RIGHT BACK QUEEN! 💖👑🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 02:50 AM
1

Yeah, I could tell. I do care however. I care that she has the appropriate space to grow. I care that the same arguments that men use against women arenct used against her, the same that FDS posts against daily. I care that she levels up and steps nto her queen dom which she deserves. What I don't care for is your lack care, narcissistic need to prop yourself above others and your gaslighting. Bye! 😂👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 02:19 AM
6

Us queens have got to stick together! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:54 AM
1

Stop acting dumb it's not cute. You're a FDS Disciple and here you are going on like you are somwthing else. If your comment was a stand alone comment and had nothing to do with this woman's post I wouldn't have an issue in the first place. Maybe. But here you are making jabs at her to prop yourself up! Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:49 AM
1

The good looking ones are most definitely taken and have plenty of women to choose from in life. The others, well. Take your pick of the most attractive man. If he's not a fuck yes, if you can't see yourself being intimate with him, then it's a no. If he's like 80%+ then what he brings to the relationship might make up the difference. Never give up hope. The bald head is a bit concerning. It tells the story of bad genes, bad health lifestyle and/or porn addiction which caused him to shave his he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:40 AM
2

Standards and attraction are each individuals, not to be policed. Guys donct get sexually attracted if they don't see a woman they like and they don't settle. Why should the woman? Very NoT lIkE tHe OtHeR gIrLs of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:35 AM
3

Preach! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:18 AM
8

Hey, it's okay and you're freakin awesome. Brush that dust off your shoulder, you're a queen on the rise. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:17 AM
6

If you can find the guy who wants to spoil you in addition to providing for you and sees you as a human being jackpot. They exist but as with all things, HVM hard to find. These men especially I mean when are they ever single?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 12:06 AM
8

I'm dead. 😂🙌 Tweet tweet!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 12:03 AM
6

LVMs will always come back so long as you give them what they want. She has hopeitis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 12:00 AM
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"Snow White had seven men to do the chores, cause that's not what a lady's for." Daya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:59 PM
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Just because something feels good doesn't make it right. When it comes to sexual behaviors it's important to pay attention to the thoughts and feelings experienced outside of arousal. It also depends on the specific kink in question. Did the woman develop the kink on her own or did porn or a pornsick man introduce it to her? Some women like to be choked, even to the extent that they pass out. Choking is an act of violence. It is an act of domination, forcing one's will on another physically. It …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:48 PM
3

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:33 PM
1

Too many!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:29 PM
16

This is very true. I don't think there exista even one dating app that vetts a person before you have to. If there is well it's not common knowledge. I'm not tech inclined but a FDS dating website would be a godsend for team queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:28 PM
1

I hate when someone attacks me and then changes their post to make themselves look better like they didn't say anything like what I responded to at all. 🙄 I had a lot of respect for you but you've lost it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:07 PM
1

"Before the degradation of society" is an era where women are treated as personal property. No fucking thank you. Just because it was an era where women were treated as property doesn't mean that there is no value in certain strategies that were also emplyed back then. There are cultures where women exist today where they employ this strategy besides. Why would you not just leave him when he cheated with the maid? Why let him cheat on you with the cook and the nanny too? Wow, sis. I don't know w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:49 PM
3

Yep another woman's post. Reddit won't let me italicize it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:00 PM
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Because I'm never going to give my heart to a man 100% sis. 💁 I don't care whether the man is trustworthy or not. I don't care if he professes and shows himself to be a HVM without fail or not. Also, don't subsume that the way that I would approach this one matter is how I engage the rest of my strategy. If you don't want to keep watch over your house and home while your husband is alone with other women then so be it. Before the degredation of society it was common and acceptable that a man sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:51 PM
2

I agree 100% I know that it's something that the female body can do and women do so on the daily. I know that the substance that is squirted has been researched. I'm of the opinion that it's normal but only desireable if the woman herself wants it. As opposed to being coerced into it to please a pornsick partner. Female sexuality has been suppressed for a long time. We only just recently found out what the entire clitoris looks like, so the same could be said for this. I don't like the term "squ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:26 PM
4

Omgggg I feel bad for the people who do take them seriously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:06 PM
1

He is either a HVM or a LVM; he cannot be both. The only risk I am facing is her showing me his true colours, which I will be thankful of. Competing with other women for a man is Pikemeisha behavior. Yeah because no LVM ever became a HVM just like our Pickme selves never became HVW. Wake up sis. I hope you do find that HVM who has never engaged in LVM and never will make no mistake. I hope we all do. Setting boundaries and a proper way for the genders to behave in society is not competing agains…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:04 PM
1

A lot of HVM also lie about their LVM past. So your man very well might have done all kinds of nonsense before you ever met him. I trust no man. If you want to take that risk you may, but I would not accept any beautiful woman in my home under these specific conditions. That's my rule. She can have any career, go any place in public, come over for other reasons like a get together among friends but otherwise no. Edit: Also some HVM do become LVM if they decide to forgo integrity. It happens. Sec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:41 PM
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I'm glad that you posted that as it will be a point tonconaider for those who had their doubts about her. However their doubts had less to do with media headlines and more about her life story and history with other people, not the crown. I will find the post if I can. I'm a bystander who hasn't yet enough information to make an informed decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:39 PM
1

No, but the men I date are. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:34 PM
1

I don't care how long my husband has proven his value as a HVM I will never allow him to be unsupervised in these situations. Just like I don't expect to be careful in other gendered situations. Like having sleepovers with a best girl friend. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:32 PM
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Where did I say that she was a LVW because she was beautiful? I didn't. A lot of beautiful women are pickmeishas and platemeishas. Because of her beauty and if your man has any inkling of LVM in him then he'll be tempted in addition to her going after him. Edit: A lot of HVM also lie about their LVM past. So your man very well might have done all kinds of nonsense before you ever met him. I trust no man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:30 PM
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You'd be surprised. There are a number of women on TwoXSex who are obssessed wirh learning how to squirt and who seek advise from other squirters, who give them all the tips and tricks to achieve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:24 PM
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I haven't read enough scientific articles on the substance to know what it is. And if I have I've forgotten about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:06 PM
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Oh noooo no no no. Hahaha Ven as a pickme if my partner didn't make me cum I was out. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:05 PM
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I heard there were systematic behaviors of hers over time and featuring multiple people that has put a taint on her character. Some thread on here that was about her and people were discussing. I think the one with the video of her husband talking her up or something at a gathering?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:59 PM
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"I'm a fun sized super nice guy" Whole ass song proceeds to call women bitches, saying and mentioning degrading acts, cheating and dissing other guys. WHAT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:45 PM
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This is a post from a different thread. I tried to italicize it a few times over but Reddit won't let me format it. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:16 PM
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🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:15 PM
7

Block all dayyyyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:59 PM
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That whole subreddit is pornsick and encourages porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:24 PM
3

Excellent advice and insight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:54 PM
24

Some of the finest and choicest Pickme™ Memoires a la TwoXSex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:42 PM
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Ladies, let's educate ourselves and our sisters: What would you do to stop this LVM from taking avantage of you as a free prostitute? What would you do if you found yourself in this situation at any stage? "Hi there, looking for help. I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for about 4 years. A year and a half ago we had sex and I squirted an absurd amount pretty much for the duration of 2 hours. I’ve always been one to squirt, but I’ve never squirted that much before. I hadn’t had sex in about 3 m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:08 PM
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Omg. Reminds me of this one LVM I was so pickmeisha for after leaving my LVEX. He reached out feigning concern after I had gone silent on him for months. I told him that I was removing certain people from my life and maybe we'd talk in a few months minimum. He knew what I meant but didn't want to take the hint. I shit you not he texted back around a week later asking if it was okay to talk now I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:21 PM
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You're vulnerable from a breakup and he wants an easy in for sex and whatever other domestic benefits he can convince you to slave over for him. He's been waiting or you to breakup to do this. He does this with the woman of any of his friends when they break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:10 PM
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It's a long standing tradition of high society for the heads of the household, the man and woman, to have servants. Even poor cultures and peoole follow this same example. Whether indentured slave or of their own will this is a common pattern. The same treatment that is given to the husband should be given to the woman. Especially nowadays. It keeps the mind in line and you help someone out with some money, two birds with one stone. Even in organizations you see the same structure. Those who hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:08 PM
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Thank you. We have to reach out to our sisters and let them know that we're here for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:51 PM
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Any man who mentions "fickle", "shallow" or "loyalty" as prerequisites to how they ahould be treated out of nowhere are just waiting to unload their issues on you. It's also a kind of negging that will go south in time and escalate to abuse. Those words are also talk points that FDS regularly makes fun of guys for saying at women because we know what they mean when they do say it. You are right OP. In a moment of VULNERABILITY in which a partner who cares about you in the most basic way would ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:47 PM
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Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:05 AM
19

Men who want children will leave the woman even after years of marriage as evidenced so often on the childfree sub or they will have a baby with another woman and leave you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:52 AM
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Plates are: Pickmeishas Women in FWBs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:59 AM
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Don't be a free prostitute. At least get paid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:37 PM
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Spend his money. 💁 He can play this game all he wants but I'm atill going to get his bag. Make him put in effort. Keep it top tier like you are the only woman in the world because that's how he should be pursuing you anyways. Don't have sex til 3-6 months dating. Probe his mind ladies. He may think he's bullet proof but he's not. When you map a man's entire psyche it will tell itself. If he doesn't like extended, deep amd intellectual conversations (aka you getting to know the real him) thrn nex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:33 PM
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OP I don't even know you and I can attest with absolute clarity that I would make a better friend to you as a complete flippin stranger than this Pickme™ Snake over 9000. Dump Her Ass! Mods give us this flair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:08 PM
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I want to make a comic of this lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:54 PM
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I was meh in the first half but now I'm shook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:51 PM
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Awww congratulations sis! So excited for you omg. Can't wait to see more FDS success for all the ladies here. I think it would be so nice to have like... idk a webpage or a sticky where everyone's success stories are posted? It'd be so lovely and encouraging for everyone. We do have the tag already I'd just love to hype it up more. Make our male lurkers even more salty. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 06:21 AM
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For shaaaaame 🙊🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:57 AM
7

What have I done? 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:53 AM
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Yep! Those ladies in the business get more money and they leave the rest of us alone while we find HVMs. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:26 AM
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It depends. Is he chasing an idea of me that he can't get enough of? Or is he chasing the real me that he can't get enough of? If it's the latter he can put me on a pedestal all damn day because I'm only going to get better. 💁 Honestly being his most wholesome addiction is a win in so many ways. And let's face it I'm spoiled and entitled at heart. Lol He loves that too and considers his generosity my just reward. Edit: clarification
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 12:28 AM
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We can say humanity is just as if not more so barbaric than animals by x1000 depending on what issue in the world you look at. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:38 PM
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It's weird how people compartmentalize and categorize sex. A body count means nothing. What does matter is: Why did that person engage in x sexual encounter? What point of their life journey did it transpire? Was it within the confines of a relationship? Was it in an effort to establish a relationship? How did everyone involved feel about it? Were there any red flag elements about the encounter? It's the details that matter. Numbers don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:54 PM
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Please link her to this thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:37 PM
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This comment right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:17 PM
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💥💥💥💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:06 PM
2

I don't even play minecraft but I want to join. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:55 AM
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It's diliberate. Make no mistake. He was just hoping she'd be tired enough to just go along with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:12 PM
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Why settle for breadcrumbs when a HVM gonna bring an entire grocery market, orchid, vineyard and farm for you? Queens don't pan handle on the streets. Stay on your throne.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 06:48 PM
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🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 06:41 PM
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Her life sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:24 PM
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This should be pinned or something. Men view the world through sex only and sex always first. No matter what. This is what it is to live in the patriarchy and in a world dominated by the penis. Nix the fuvk buddies. Nix the LVMs. Level up. We're worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 03:31 AM
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Flair: FDS Success
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:55 AM
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I prefer a clean shaven man. It's the modern look. If he has a beard he has to look good in it and it can't be scratchy in texture because that doesn't feel good during cunnilingus. I know some guys only grow their beard in colder climates. Besides all that beards do have an intrinictly male appeal as it's something that males grow when they mature. I personally don't care if a guy doesn't have a certain facial structure, like a prominent chin. I know there are evolutionary and biological benefi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 05:53 PM
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Fuckboys are LVM that pickmes want a toxic/dysfunctional situationship with. You're fuck buddies and you get no benefits because: He doesn't care about you. He doesn't love you. He doesnct care about your safety. He's fucking multiple women. He only wants sex from you. He doesn't help you with bills. He's not there for you when you are sick. He doesn't want to meet your friends. He doesn't want to meet your family. He doesn't want commitment. He doesn't want to marry you. In the meantime you rem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:57 PM
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This makes me want to create an OLD account just to do this to men. Add to their "botx situation. Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:36 PM
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Uhm people have been posting their success regularly. You can find it under the appropriate FDS Success flair. Why are you sexually pursuing your brother? FDS is not for incestuous relationships so I really hope that's not what you're here for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:18 PM
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Reddit won't do anything about it by and large. Instead of going to Reddit mods there should instead be a concemtrated effort to bring these subs to lightbin the oublic media sphere. News outlets and the like. That will force Reddit to do something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 10:07 PM
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Do not procreate with a LVM. Period. I refuse to believe that a HVW intentionally has a baby with a man whom she knows does not want to be a father. She is not only a LVW but also a Low Value Mother! Do not pass on his genetics. Do not make that innocent human being suffer by having to grow up in a broken home. That's some of the most basic pickmeisha shit there ever was. Raped and pregnant? Abort! LVM sperm donor? Abort! Not the right time, lack of resources, no support, you haven't even taken …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:50 PM
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When it comes to age you have to consider the generational environment that the male grew up in. Factor his behavior according to his age for how ruthlessly to vett him. It goes without saying that the vast majority of men in all age categories are really shitty. That is the rule. Younger men are the worst and some of them grow out of LVM into HVMs or maintained their HVM status all throughout their lives. The rest are trash. We're working with a very small dating pool ladies. Finding a HVM no m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:40 PM
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You know the other part of this that is gross? This dude may very well go along with her carrying the pregnancy to term purely because he wants a young uterus to incubate the baby. This poor naive woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:32 PM
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Invest in a magic wand vibrator or a vibrator that stimulates your clit and G spot at the same time. Buy some pillows. A lot of them. Snuggle up with them, make a pillow cocoon, put some between the wall and you on your bed to lean back into. Or giant and small stuffed animals if that makes you feel better. Ask family and friends for more hugs. Just let them hold you and visa versa. If not them then log onto a dating app like bumble and find other single girls who understand and wouldn't mind sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:28 PM
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This boy is so immature talking about what his penis thinks about a situation. Does he have cobwebs for a brain? You know why he waited till now to start an affair with the woman he calls a wife? Because they have children. Leaving an abusive relationship is sooooo much harder when you have children. Bet he wouldn't try cheating on his wife if they didn't have children or if they weren't even married. But that's giving him the benefit of the doubt because hey we all know this guy has cheated alr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:19 PM
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We'Re NoT FrIeNdS 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:01 PM
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No a guy who makes less than me is not the HVM for me. I only consider a HVM who is already advanced in his career and is in an immediate position to be a provider. Otherwise I feel like I'm dating a dusty fuckboi even if he loves and cares about me. He can't love me according to my love language and I need it all! Time together, words of affection, acts of service, physical touch and gifts! I've been at odds with my femininity for so long that I just want to feel and be a woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:52 PM
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The only perwon who determines your beauty is you. You need to love your look. Maximize it if you want but love yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:31 PM
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Yes! Long term excellence iver short term gain! Blame the sex positive EmPoWeRmEnT that is force fed to girls in the secular world because everything that you've stated as a consequence is true. It's either that or religion teaches her to be sexually repressed and just as delusional about her constitution as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 03:38 PM
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I wonder how many "relationships" she's had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:28 PM
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We already know there is a global sex trafficking ring that is upheld by all the governments. No surprise men run the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 08:18 PM
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I don't understand why disturbed women use these terms completely outside of their original context. Except I do: they're severely mentally ill and unstable. Having a twin flame or a soulmate doesn't mean you drop your standards, submit to LVMs because fee fees or spin on a dime to become a LVW. It means you boss up and are that much more exectant of the man who is in your life. The bar gets higher, not lower and a man who acctually fits this category will deliver. Simple as that. These women wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:59 PM
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🙌❤ Huzzah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:46 PM
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This is awesome! You're doing so well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:44 PM
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Yes! I'm so ecstatic for OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:41 PM
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I'm so happy for you sis congratulations! What a great guy. I love hearing about FDS success and knowing that my sisters are finding happiness and being well taken care of. You deserve it. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:39 PM
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As a woman with a high libido I second this. Your body should never have that much control over your mind or your heart. That's a major deficit of balance. If you can't go without any sexual stimulation or satisfy your own needs then a woman needs to take the time to get her body under control. The need for sex is not greater than the defeat of the patriarchy and its ill conceived rituals of social quo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 07:26 PM
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None of those comments have anything to do with concern for the woman. None.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:54 PM
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Facts and formatting for easy remembrance and sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:08 PM
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Omfg this is too good. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:13 PM
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For me there is a spectrum, but by and large I think that LVM and HVM are more than adequate considering the disparity of difference. I have had experiences with MVM also. The broad spectrum for me looks like this: LVM < MVM < HVM < DMI Low Value Male: The dusty, predator, violently insecure, impotent, juvenile, woman hating, purposeless, directionless, devil masculine incarnate. They come in all shapes and sizes, look average and degrees of brokeness and depravity. It is not your job to fix the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:08 PM
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I can feel the breadcrumbs from here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:59 PM
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How dare you! Don't you know that male validation puts you in a social class that is above single women? If you're not fulfilling your PuRpOsE by worshipping his cheesy dick, rancid sac and dusty ass then you're out of line sis! Stop acting like you're better than us by having standards you whore slut. Smdh 😡 /s 🙄😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:51 PM
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Wtf? If pickmes want to be the trans-men in their relationships they can go right ahead but leave the sane feminine embodied women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:48 PM
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This quote and all the ones below it are golden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:42 PM
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Savage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:38 PM
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I'm just going to use this one right now. Mountains are special to me too and this phrase is perfect. Love the sunshine basking the peaks in its glow. Just yeaterday I was also researching about women's rights in Iceland and the milestones that those women have accomplished and continue to strive for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:36 PM
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I wish I'd have saved more OLD ridiculousness to share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:28 PM
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In my experience when a guy is image heavy with me he will always ask for nudes or intimates. Even if he doesn't the conversation gets sexual waaaay too fast! Like even from the first message wtaf. Yes that is what matters. Be comfortable and stay safe! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:27 PM
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Hahaha Yeah that's a good way to go about it if you want to troll them. I can't be bothered to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:25 PM
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Block, delete, level up! No room for this nonsense in 2020 sis! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:16 AM
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Some people don't believe in the Divine or realities beyond the 3rd dimension either. 🤷 That's their journey. So be it. Agree to disagree sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:22 AM
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You don't seem to have read my post where I specifically defined what a soulmate was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:23 PM
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'These men will abuse me anyway, so I might has well get some money out of this abuse.' This quote right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:22 PM
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I'll comment on the man since the ladies have everything else covered. The only picture that I will send to a man are to validate that I am who I say I am. I make it known that I am not in the habit of sending pics otherwise and don't have any interest in doing so. Guys who ask/expect a dropbox of photos of you aren't the ones you want. They're likely pornsick off Instagram/Snapchat/etc and are used to coercing pickmeishas into nudes. Just block them and move on. I remember moving off app with o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:10 PM
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Yes! The unfortunate reality of FDS is having to also deal with the LVW in our lives, how to avoid them and be safe against their antics. It won't do us any good to level up if we have deadweight holding us back. Watch the women in your life carefully by how they treat you as you grow into a HVW, listen to what they communicate with you. Don't be afraid to take the next step for you when you have to because you will have to. Such is the world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:48 PM
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The men you are describing as "HVMs" are actually LVMs. A man who is only sweet, kind and loves passionately sometimes but not all the time is not a HVM. Money and material assets will not change the character and integrity of a HVM. ULVM (Ultimate Low Value Males) are worse than LVMs but they are all still LVMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:35 PM
22

No men are ruining our lives. Technology is just a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:32 PM
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I respect you so much, you did everything right. The audacity of this man! Shocking except it's not because audacity is really the only thing that men have to offer these days. Split check, cheap wine and cheap chocolates in exchange for sex. Plus him being super creepy by continuously trying to get you to give him your address after you said no and you're not compatible! "Let me come over and rape you OMG WHY ARE YOU SO MEAN?!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:29 PM
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I have some more songs to add! Went through some old playlists and found more goodies. **Ariana Grande:** One Problem **Avril Lavigne:** What The Hell **Bebe Rexha:** F.F.F **Bonnie Mckee:** Bombastic **Brandy:** What About Us **Britney Spears:** Work Bitch Circus **Clean Bandit:** Rockabye **Corinne Bailey Rae:** Put Your Records On **Dua Lipa:** New Rules IDGAF Scared To Be Lonely **Grace:** You Don't Own Me **Jennifer Lopez:** Ain't Yo Mama **Jessie J:** Do It Like A Dude **Jordan Sparks:** O…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:29 PM
4

In the same way women should be loyal to women. Women should be our #1 focus, not men. Not children who are only born to continue the cycles of abuse in the world. It's sad how easily men can make some women into venomous snakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:22 PM
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👑 All hail her majesty, the queen! This! There was a post a married woman made essentially doing the same with her husband when he went sideways in their relationship. Enough with the flowery prose, excuses and apologies! If hecs serious he will put out for it. Make men pay for wanting to come back into your life. Make them pay for toying with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:00 PM
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You're on the right path and are doing great. Every woman in my family is a Pickme. The men are all LV. The friends I have are presently all long distance but they're Pickme women as well with LVMs as partners. I consider myself to have zero female friends and also am not desperate. Family is kept at a distance and I will be phasing them out too given the negativity that I get from them and the weird sexually depraved behavior of the males towards me. I will wait for the right women to come arou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:45 PM
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Love and romance is one of the most highest and purist experiences that you can have as a human which is why it is so cherished, especially by women who by and large are not living out an animal experience compared to the average man. That's the trouble. Men write the narrative for this world so they've written laws and society in a way that benefits them. That's why lovebombing is even a successful manipulative tactic to use on a naive woman. Every woman has been groomed in every aspect to be d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:22 PM
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r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 02:22 AM
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Thank you for bringing this to light. FDS and its counterpart FLS is an all woman inclusive subreddit for our collective benefit. There is no one way only to present as a HVW. I am eager and excited to see everyone come into their own in their unique and inspiring way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:13 AM
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Soooo accurate! I love everything about this comment and post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:18 PM
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What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:16 PM
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Are we reading the same post because your comments aren't adding up for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:08 PM
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I love every single thing about this and *more*. Omfg thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:02 PM
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"Intimate friend" and "Intimate Friendship" are a more tasteful alternatives to FB/FWB. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:30 PM
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Fall in love with yourself. Your mind, your personality, your body, your heart, your spirit, your soul. Do things that build you up in these areas to enhance your inner and outer beauty. Make yourself feel good and same way a loving partner will make you feel good. Make a playlist of politely artistically seductive songs. Meditate on the speech, the aura of the music and how its energy manifests in you, what expression resonates with you. Close your eyes and dream of you. Dream of you and him. E…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:23 PM
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Engagement/Marriage is a perfect time to start individual and couples therapy. Even if you think you're okay wouldn't it be better to just kbow you both are and there's no chance of anything from the past coming into the present relationship? Also an additional fail safe against predatory men. Therapists are trained specialists who will be an extra pair of eyes. They will be present in the beginning, through the honeymoon phase and into the monotony of your relationship. Of course not everyone c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:11 PM
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Love this movie and book so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:55 PM
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On point. If I ever entertained a LVM again it would be to dominate him and that's all. Nice for what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:28 PM
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Boss girls grow up to be boss women. Men like this can't forcefully violate or use violence to dominate a woman like this. That's why the patriarchy conditions girls to be anything but, so they grow up into weak bodied women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:22 PM
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You're doing great! You should be proud! Glad to hear that he is still showing promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:16 PM
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One thing that always helped me to rebuild and maintain confidence as well as to stop psychologically bullying myself are affirmations. PowerThoughts Meditation Club on Youtube is a favorite. This video specifically helped me in a very trying time: https://youtu.be/za5nVIJKLRs I listwned it it at least once a day. I would put it on repeat before I went to bed. Keep playing it to yourself and allow the kind thoughts that you identify with to seep in even deeper. The rest will come with time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:13 PM
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Yes my beauty is all mine. If I choose to share it with a man that's a priveledge not a right. Even then if it's not what I like or what I want then the answer is no. I love doing all sorts of different looks: from makeup, to hair styles, fashion styles and I even will darken and lighten my complexion as I please. I love being able to express myself this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:00 PM
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So far I agree on everything that he has said with some exceptions. Those being: The divine order- God, man, then woman A woman must submit to a man's authority The right man will make you feel like the only woman on earth/the most beautiful person unless you haven't maxed out your beauty at any time of day. Nope. The right man will always aee you as the most beautiful no matter what state your appearance is in and he will appreciate all that you do to maximize your beauty. A HVM isn't born at h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:55 PM
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Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:47 PM
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Online Dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:47 PM
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You've got the right of it. Let's see how mankind's champion does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:07 AM
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I disagree, but not for the reason you think. In the age before the patriarchy when women ruled and female gods were the norm the world was very different. Throughout time there has always been a remnant who are the embodiment what what human beings were meant to be, but they're few and far inbetween. As for the advice itself, a man from that age could have told her anything but he told her what is the most likely path for her to finding a guy who respects her and will never bring harm to her. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:05 AM
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Congratulations! I hope the date goes well. Gotta love a man who takes the initiative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:00 AM
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Timeless words from an age gone by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 02:56 AM
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Thank youuuu! This sub should be in the affiliates/sidebar of this subreddit. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:57 PM
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I respect you so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:58 PM
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"Most HVM are in relationships. It’s all about timing, you gotta catch the HVM in the narrow window between their relationships. And I don’t think HVM enjoy OLD so you gotta look elsewhere for them." This is so true. Exactly the window you spoke of is when I found my guy. Except it started through OLD. I was at the end of my OLD whits when he created an account for a very brief time slot. Had either of us been in a different place or different time we would have missed each other. What made the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:54 PM
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Honestly I would LOVE a satire sub where women say all the same things that men do like this and responds in kind. Maybe it exists and I just don't know about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:16 PM
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Men like this are not equals of women and should not be treated as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:02 PM
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I've written a bit about it in a post but mostly my comment history. By and large I agree with everything that FDS submits on this subreddit, but there are some things that I would like to add or explore more deeply with fellow strategists here. I've been compiling some thoughts so now it's a matter of writing them out. There's still the fact that I don't have a ring yet so that's why I haven't been very overtly forthcoming as for my story. I want the proof for myself but also for others who rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:48 PM
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It's always best just to be yourself and to stand up for what you believe in. It just sucks that there's so much crap that we have to uncondition from ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:50 AM
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That or the sex isn't suitable enough for her needs. And as always it could be a combination of both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:41 AM
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It's best to just cut them off. You're already so invested emotionally and that pain isn't going to just go away if he keeps acting cordially and generously towards you. Honestly this is creepy. He's hovering because he knows it's worked in the past and he thinks you're an easy target. He's anticipating the moment you crack so that he can take advantage of you and the moment he does he'll blame any callout on you allowing him to use you. The more time you waste on him is less time for the HVM ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:33 AM
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This is great! Definitely going to remember the analogy. Even just repeating stories back to myself helps a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:27 AM
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He just wanted sex. Otherwise he would have put in way more effort. In short, he found a woman or women who would have sex with him amd ended things with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:25 AM
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Okay??? Your comment is stupid but I'm going to reply anyways. I went on a date with a LVM, didn't vet him monetarily because I gave him the benefit of the doubt and you think that's something to come at me sideways for now that I'm dating a HVM??? So I'm not allowed to have a Pickme past that I leveled up from like everyone else??? Wtf is this nonsense??? It's really telling why you went digging into my past for beginner experiences as a pickme Sugar Baby to point out here. Instead of, you know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:03 AM
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High Five! Haha I didn't put a dollar amount on it until I saw the post and thought, "Yeah 10k is reasonable and it'll probably amount to that anyways". Besides going for top earners I want to make sure that he's invested. The right guy won't even hesitate - and he's yet to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:57 PM
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Queen - Loren Gray Power & Control - Marina You Should See Me In A Crown - Billie Ellish Dark Horse - Katy Perry I Could Be Anything - The Glitch Mob Primadonna - Marina I Did It - Raja Kumari Callgirl - Ivy Adara Won't Be Often - Neyo Who Am I Living For? - Katy Perry Look At Her Now - Selena Gomez Loyal to Me - Nina Nesbitt Psychopath - Charlotte Lawrence Fade Out - Seeb Acapella - Karmin Roar - Katy Perry You Deserve - Neyo FU4E - Lost Kings S.L.U.T - Bea Miller Fake Ass Friends - Dustin Atla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:51 PM
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Yes I have and we've got an 18 months countdown from our soon to be first date to our marriage home. We're both in love with our relationship dynamic and find ourselves to be exceptionally compatible. It's a long distance situationship at the moment. I don't do exclusivity or physical intimacy before engagwment. He's in another country, relocating to my country and we'll be visiting each other in the meantime. Beauty helps but it's not all there is to dating. There are women out there who habitu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 10:51 PM
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I'm that bitch. 🙋 Well at least one of them. There was another user who had heard about the 10k strategy but I don't know anyone else who is currently applying it. I'm seeking a high earning HVM so to me it's very reasonable that such a man would be able to spend 10k on me. There's dinners out, gifts, flowers, bills, travel trips, shopping, etc etc etc. The sort of courtship that only a high earning HVM can give you racks up $$$$. To top it off the ring and surprise engagement. "When you do fina…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:01 PM
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Yes it's entirely selfish and self serving. I had an ex who messed up my birth control to get me pregnant in an attempt to trap me. I shut down any conversation about the pregnancy when I found out and told him I was aborting. I was always adamant about being childfree from the start of the relationship also. He accepted it at first but then he tried to make me keep it. He had never gotten a woman pregnant before even when he and those partners had tried. Oh and his mom deliberately made up excu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:32 PM
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Can confirm, the term pickmeisha is very afro-ethnic. Pickme is definitely the neutral term with no regard to ethnicity. I think we should continue to evolve the use of pickme as women of different ethnicities face certain other challenges and struggles directly relating to their heritage and demographic of men. The spread of information and strategy will be that much more concise also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:58 PM
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Abortion procedures and pills exist. Most women in the USA have access to clinics and there are emergency birth control and abortion agencies that women and girls can access online. Women who buy into the lie that they can't abort a pregnancy take away their most sacred right as a woman, which is to be the gatekeeper of humanity by refusing to bear children or male children specifically. This is why the patriarchy seeks to control women's wombs. They take away her herbs from the earth, they take…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:48 PM
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I don't know who said that about 10k but really it's spot on. I'm also on board with no sex until commitment, and by that I mean an engagement ring. To OP, I don't do house dates until much later getting to know the guy. They're always going to be wondering when sex will come into the dynamic but if they've been lead to know that it won't happen casually the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:21 AM
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I can't help but to think of Pickmeishas here. They really go out of their way to give fuckbois anything and everything that they want for scraps in return, including sex and all the depraved things that men want from them or that they think they want for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 02:58 AM
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Thank you! I'll touch it up a little and make a separate post soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 08:30 PM
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I agree with this so mch, especially since I am in a LDS (long distance situationship) right now. I won't be anyone's girlfriend and I'm still at liberty to see other people since relationship status and exclusivity will only happen when there is a ring on my finger. We're on an 18 month timeline with a full map - from our first meeting to living together in our marriage home. I just want to add that since you can't vett a LDM (long distance male) in person it is that much more important to dig …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:08 PM
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My queenfee senses are tingling~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 04:53 PM
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shudders in the ghost of pickmas past
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 10:52 PM
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Let me tell you straight he don't care. That's all there is to it. You aren't worth the effort to him, you aren't worth the time. You aren't worth a moment of contemplation or a dime. Dump him, block and level up sis. Step into your queendom. He won't change. When my man proposes to me it's going to be the exact ring that I want and he wouldn't dare give me otherwise because he respects and loves me. How are you going to feel when you see women whose men treat them right? Who didn't skimp out on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 10:51 PM
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Why didn't he save up to get tou a proper ring? Doesn't he have any shame for his actions? Why didn't he invest the time to learn about jewelry or simply ask a jeweler who could tell him about his purchase? Why did he get you a ring that is not what you want? Are you really going to let this be the standard for how he treats you in the future? Half assed engagement, half assed marriage life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:42 PM
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I feel like there should be a meta post about online dating for this forum. LVM are everywhere. Online and offline. There is no guarantee that you will find some magical pool of HVM that you'll be able to pick a partner from. Life sucks so we're all forced to sift through the LVM trash just to find some HVM candidates. We live in an excessively degenerate world. It's frustrating and heartbreaking but it is what it is. HVM do use online dating but they are either looking for a woman on a level th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:12 PM
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It is rare, but it does happen and consistently. I wouldn't advise a woman doing so as their main dating venture but if it's going to be someone, why not you? I imagine you'd have better chances if you were closer to affluent acquaintances in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:33 AM
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It's a process of discovering your individual souls in a way that seems surreal due to how well you two as individuals go together on every conceivable level. From the most silliest and inconsequential parts of you to the most serious and deepest parts. Often times when you think back on the shared compatibility and chemistry it seems more of a conversation than anything. There is an undeniable "flow" and it grows stronger and more nuanced by the day. Over time you realize that your subconscious…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:45 PM
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If you can't see yourself being in a committed loving relationship with a guy you in no certain terms want him as a sugar daddy. Period. Just because he's willing to pay doesn't mean you change FDS. There are sugar daddies who will pay you without wanting sexual favors. These are the types who like to feel that they are helping and contributing to the betterment of your life for your sake. Not something to throw back at you or demean you for. There is a demographic of women who are happily paire…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:14 PM
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Next him and leave his essence in the past where it will fade into obscurity. The future is all us queens. You want to be able to run into your ex and not even recognize him or feel any emotion towards him beyond "stranger". No recollection of anything you both were or did in a partnership.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:55 PM
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OLD is my go to for dating for years. Given the amount of time I spent reading books, learning via the internet, engaging with people online and having a strong intuition backed by a currated affinity for human nature the OLD comes naturally. I prefer oline dating to IRL because I don't like to receive male attention when I'm just going about my daily business. If I want to disconnect from a guy at any time it's a lot easier to do it too if he's not already in my life in some way. I am currently…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:38 PM
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Only one guy ever asked me how many people I had slept with. One. He was a LVM fuckboi manipulator go figure. Edot: He was also exceptionally insecure and pornsick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:25 PM
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That's a no from me sis. If he's too busy getting his dick wet he is not ready for a relationship. He's an animal, release him into the wild where he belongs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:32 AM
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Blinks in resigned horror
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:27 AM
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Ugh I love to read about romantic success. I am so happy for you! You are so, so right about the treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:11 AM
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Slay him, queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:02 AM
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Obedience is blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:51 AM
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Figures lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 01:08 AM
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Maybe I shouldn't look through someone's post history but I'm that bitch. She states she has only slept with five people and is against casual affairs. This woman has been in five serious relationships in which she has had sex with someone that have failed. She has a current longterm boyfriend of drumroll 4 whole years. Given her trajectory she isn't getting married any time soon. She denotes any woman who has standards and who lets her man provide for her as being a gold digger. So we know all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:08 PM
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Woman, it is beyond infuriating. Society is still so deep within the patriarchy. Every new strategy and queens leveling up counts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 09:16 PM
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For all of the reasons you listed I'd do it. Go get yourself a nice ring. The more expensive the better. I think this would be a great strategy for women to employ. If enough of us did it, the men would all be far more hesitant to engage and it could set an entirely new social precedent. • Don't hit on a married woman. • This woman does not want anything to do with a man as evidenced by her ring. They'd run the risk of harrassing actual married women if they disregarded the ring and subsequently…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 09:06 PM
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Yeah I personally think it's an effect from the patriarchy, wherein a woman who is easily dominated is prefered. She can't be tall as she is "above" a man which is symbolically a "crime against men". She can't be physically strong or capable enough to fend for herself against male violence and rape. She can't be of a sound mind or else she sees through men's lies and does not entertain their bullshit. She can't act as the goddess she is and refuse to birth males into the world if all they contri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 06:07 PM
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I agree with everything except the no blaming of the mother and father in how they contributed to raising such a terrible human being. This isn't a which came first: the chicken or the egg scenario. LVM are at large because they were brought into the world by Low Value Parents (LVP). Dusties and Pickmeishas; their terrible lifestyles, mating rituals and soul sick psyches are to blame for the world that we live in today. If you can't raise a proper human being you should not be reproducing. Espec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 05:26 PM
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If men weren't so systematically violent towards women then it wouldn't be that big of a deal. Sadly, reality is often disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:22 AM
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Omfg Dusty Down the Block lmaooo Don't be fooled by the game that I drop I'm still, I'm still Dusty down the block, Tryna cuff royalty even tho I'm not No matter what they know I'm tryna get some (LVM Thot!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:06 AM
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I always state it up front and put it ony profile. Once familiarity is established I speak directly about my expectations. A HVM who wants a relationship/marriage won't be scared of this. I make sure they understand that engaging me will take effort and what relationship dynamic I'm looking for. If they don't make the cut or act shady I cut them off. Actions will always speak for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 12:50 AM
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I'm 6’ to 6’1”in heels. I love being tall. Every guy thus far who comments on my height I tell them I love being tall, especially taller than a guy. They say I'm weird. IDGAF. I wanted an extra inch but never got it and I'm content with my height. Heels make up for the rest. Height doesn't matter to me and I personally find guys who I have to crank my head at an unnatural angle to look up at annoying. It hurts. Be around my height or shorter. That being said short men who are physically unkempt …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:57 PM
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I have never been comfortable with dinner dates but while I prefer something more casual I always go for the fancy date. I can't romantically respect a guy who does not want to or can't take me to an upscale restaurant dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:39 PM
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• Extended phone calls. • Not plural dating. I just don't have the patience or time for it. If the guy I'm seeing now doesn't work out I'm more likely to just stop dating than trying to find another guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 03:05 AM
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Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:55 AM
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In my experience, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:52 AM
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He ain't it, sis. Read this subreddit from top to bottom. Read the post I just made about my own situation that is drastically different. Hope by Chainsmokers is a good song for you to listen to because that is exactly where this situationship is going. Don't do this to yourself. This fuckboi ain't shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 08:05 PM
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Wow this really outs all of this into perspective.ove the wisdom of these beautiful women. I feel like an eternal FDS diciple. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:03 PM
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That's so sweet ugh ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:46 PM
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Using this! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:07 PM
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Get credentials as a women's counselor Have a job Make digital art commissions take off Pop off the RPG project Looksmaxing Soulmaxing Friendship group of queens Lose the Pickmeishas Yoga Dance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 03:52 PM
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I love that movie. So much in it just touched my soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:32 PM
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If he is sexually active with any other women or consumes porn I wll not bed him even past 90 days. I don't want to enter into a partnership with a guy who is controlled by his penis in any respect. It all screams LVM to me. HVM aren't animals. Biological urges can and will be managed. A strong man's mind will always come on top. If he really is into you he will want to save himself for you and even see touching himself as a defiling act. He will not want to touch or be touched by another woman.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:08 PM
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There's really no way to avoid the LVMs. We just have to keep swiping, take breaks when needed, self care and continue being proactive. I know FDS is all about the realism but the Law of Attraction played as much a roll in dating for me. It also helped me to be positive. I trust that the universe will do right by me, is actively positioning events to my favor and there is abundance enough in its plan that I can have exactly what I want in life. I just need to do my thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:16 AM
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I already stopped talking to all of them/ghosted and now they're blocked. 💁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:33 PM
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I am very wary of marriage because men change after marriage and men also change after children. It's so scary. I've never been married before. However if there was a man worth his salt I would consider it if: • The universe literally stops at nothing to signal to me that the match was made in heaven. Our connection is a threeway conversation between the universe, myself and him. • He adds value to every point of my life (monetary, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, physical) • I am never the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:31 PM
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I've been using Tinder as my go to recently and am currently talking to a guy that I am still in the process of vetting. I suspect that he is a HVM but I won't trust yet. Despite every reason right now that I have to do so. We're long distance, separate countries. The dating pool is full of LVMs no matter what website you use. They are on all of them. Vetting is so important but it gets tiresome. I was frustrated and practically cried myself to sleep the night before I met the guy I'm talking to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:06 PM
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I've been thinking on this myself except being celibate until engagement. Normally after some familiarity is established I just ask point blank what a man's size is. As long as it's not deformed and is the appropriate size for me then that's good for the time being. I'd just like the security of having a ring on my finger before we get physical. In a lot of ways I think it's telling that a man can wait that long, that he's willing to enter into a courtship wherein I may vet him at my leisure, pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 09:50 PM
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