Let’s be real here...

pickmieshaexorcist · 2020-04-07T23:49:51+00:00

True and notice that if a broke LVM gets rich somehow, suddenly he’s buying escorts and sugar babies? These guys actually love those women; they are just upset they can’t afford them.

aclumsygirl · 2020-04-07T23:31:53+00:00

It's ALWAYS the paycheck-to-paycheck guys who complain. Every single time. Wealthy guys are happy to spend money on women they like. It's a non-issue for them.

Any guy complaining about golddiggers gets an immediate launch. It signals they're broke, cheap and bitter. It's a huge LVM tell.

rubymood · 2020-04-08T00:27:43+00:00

please go off

they take you out for one 2 for $20 and think youre gold digging. i cant

BlackEmeraldMoon · 2020-04-08T00:04:53+00:00

Yup, my dad would constantly talk about women trying to 'steal' his money.....

he made 34k a year.....

i wish i was joking

Im_Vinea · 2020-04-08T00:24:52+00:00

A lot of men who claim to hate gold diggers actually love them! They’re complaining because they can’t afford them. If they do get money, what do they spend it on? Gold diggers.

Why wouldn’t they love em? They’re attractive, usually young, submissive and don’t talk back. Only men of high status and wealth have access to an exclusive relationship with them.

They’re salty because they don’t fall into the requirement of high status and wealth so they blame the gold diggers for their shallowness instead of looking to themselves.

TheHistoryMachine · 2020-04-08T00:35:09+00:00

Maybe that's why they're complaining...there's a group of women who would automatically exclude them, because they have no material worth.

Sekina7 · 2020-04-07T23:42:59+00:00

As the classic saying goes “ It ain’t Tricking if you got it “ AMEN lol. Men hate it because it cancels most of them out plus women who are smart enough to play this game usually invest heavily on their aesthetics . Because even they do not expect some thing for nothing unlike LVM...and men have ZERO qualms spending money on Sex workers etc ....

lusigusi · 2020-04-08T00:17:17+00:00

Men get in their feeeeeelings when they know they can’t provide. It chips away at their self-esteem. Instead of doing the sensible and non-emotionally manipulative things that HVM would do - consider their earning potential, take consistent steps to earn more and become self-sufficient, learn new skills, be honest/transparent about their finances etc., LVM gaslight and manipulate their partners into thinking something is wrong with THEM for wanting a financially stable partner. How DARE a sensible, successful and attractive HVW want a man who has the same thing? The GALL! sarcasm.

cannedboelyn · 2020-04-08T00:05:48+00:00

Exactly and most of these men were never planning on offering anything to begin with.

They don’t have anything to offer anyways because those women invest in themselves physically and know the game

SearchLightsInc · 2020-04-07T23:31:26+00:00

Love to know how much inbox hate you get for this haha

throwaway64857 · 2020-04-08T05:03:21+00:00

The men who complain about gold diggers are usually pay check to pay check or they are bitter divorced men that didn't want to pay child support when they have a great job.

DaeYeNoKen · 2020-04-08T08:20:44+00:00

Men who complain about gold diggers would love to be able to afford one!

butterflyhatch · 2020-04-08T08:41:28+00:00

It's a genuine fear for them due to scarcity (i.e. their lack of wealth)

A meal would put a dent in their savings so of course they are so wary of "gold diggers"

level_up_always · 2020-04-08T17:31:24+00:00

men with money love gold diggers :D ask me how i know..

quaintlyspoken · 2020-04-08T17:10:24+00:00

The truth is they are the gold diggers. When they can't find a woman to dig off of without investing in her or when women like us in FDS call them out and level up they get pissy.

Present_Pumpkin · 2020-04-08T18:07:35+00:00

So true, although my ex used to call me a gold digging bitch.

What a joke that was when he dumped me for a woman 20 years younger than him, that clearly wanted just his money. I doubt he'd have been that attractive to her otherwise with his shiny bald head, fat belly and nasty temper.

Looking back, I must have been naive and stupid to put up with him.

Title	Let’s be real here...
Author	neopets_billionaire
Upvotes	289
Comments	22
Date	April 7, 2020 11:15 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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