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i personally don’t participate in hookup culture, but i promise you, no grown adult worth a grown woman’s time cares about body count. i have been with a whooping 2 people at almost 30 years old and i would run from the questions you posed. hell, when i do willingly mention my n count, men get fucking weird. besides, if you’re looking for something casual, why would someome with a low n count take YOU seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:25 AM
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this has happened to me before! i dropped them. fast. i dont have the time nor the drive to 'educate' and debate red pill types anymore, especially a potential partner. i can give somewhat of a pass to misogyny because as a man, they'll always perpetuate it as the beneficiaries (similar to how i, a cis woman, can't clock transphobia and will perpetuate it as im privileged and blind to certain aspects of it.). as long as he's open to listening and change in that aspect, i'm good. red pill /manosp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:13 PM
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i agree 100%! alternatively, anyone saying they expect unconditional love from a partner either confuse 'unconditional' with their desire for strong support or are just covert narcissists. i understand wanting someone who can understand your quirks and dislikes, someone who will understand your mental health and triggers. do you really expect a partner to stand by cheating? abuse? lack of accountability? is the support you so strongly desire from your partner even mutual? could be coming from a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:01 PM
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in all honesty, i find men think women are 'lying' about another woman being beautiful when they themselves just don't find that woman attractive. its not a crime to find others unattractive, but i also don't see why men feel the need to but in and 'tElL ThE TrUtH' as if they're the only valid perspective. i've complimented women on things completely unrelated to their looks and have had men pipe in with, 'WeLL I ThInK ShE's UgLy.'. like all i did was compliment her outfit, wtf does your lack of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:10 PM
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i could care less what strangers think, let alone how my relationship looks to society. the only exception i can think of is if a stranger approaches me with proof of bad character (i.e. a sex offender, cheater, homophobe, ect.). as for my family and friends, i care if they get along, not how attractive they find my partner or if we visually 'fit'. in fact my friends will probably find my partners 'meh' as we have polar opposite types. the only time income was mentioned as a concern by both frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:49 PM
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overtly sexual talk, especially in public. too touchy too fast; had one guy think that yanking me into him by the waist five minutes after introducing himself was appropriate. 'compliments' that come with some sort of catch (i.e. i get a lot of 'i normally don't like black/dark skinned girls but i like you!'). i personally am not a fan of sarcasm or 'dark humor' if i don't know that person well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:34 PM
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either or for the 'wow' factor; sometimes looks draw me in, other times its their demeanor and how they approached me. as for the deciding factor, sometimes its very obvious, like talking down to our waiter or just crass behavior (once had a guy make me laugh over text and he responds, 'don't laugh your ass off, i hate flat asses.'. like ew.). and other times the chemistry just isnt there. it fucking sucks, but that's the reality of dating. even in established, long term relationships people wal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:03 PM
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i mean, is it being played with or are you being felt out by these women and they decided you're just not for them? i personally don't like romantic/sexual attention so don't go out of my way to bother men or women for an ego boost. it sucks when i'm getting to know someone and realize im not feeling it, but i always let the other person know and responses vary from there. i've been accused of 'wasting' the other persons time when in reality, there's nothing wrong with deciding someone you've be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:14 PM
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make breakfast for my dogs first and foremost. then kick him out bc if he thought he'd get girlfriend benefits for good dick, hes no man of my dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:22 PM
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I have or have previously had a sexual or romantic partner. - Yes. I have had 3+ sexual or romantic experiences in my life. - No, only 2 sexual experiences (one woman one man). I have received genuine, well-intentioned romantic/sexual attention at some point in my life (even once counts!). - Yes, but not until I was in college. Throughout my childhood/adolescence, I'd usually have a friend group (either at school or outside). - I had a close knit childhood friend group until about my mid 20s; no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:23 PM
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i hate that comparison but i understand and see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:08 PM
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black men have not and have never been black women's primary support system. during the civil rights movement, yall spent your time chastising black women for 'not being as feminine as white women' for wanting to take up leadership roles, called them masculine for doing so, and, at your worst, still subjected us to exclusion, abuse, and rape within the black panther organization. this is literally when 'bedwench' sentiments and 'BlAck WoMEn KIcKeD US OuT ThE HoME' rhetoric began. we're about to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:03 PM
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doing the bare minimum to protect women's rights isnt going to get yall laid and barely makes you any kind of "ally". not many of us will be dating, let alone having casual sex after this election. have fun with those self hating trump women though. use protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:36 PM
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i'm a black woman with a shy, quiet, sweet personality. you know, everything men claim black women arent? i've been pursued pretty heavily, but not by anyone worth a damn. they love how caring and unconfrontational i am until it's boring i guess. i tend to attract men who love to humiliate and emotionally drain me. maybe i should be more of a bitch, idk anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:29 PM
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Regardless of how I feel about my stepfather, he always extended good advice. It's on me for choosing to ignore it haha. It's moreso me explaining what I'm going through at the moment and he responds with his thoughts and what he believes is good/bad. He has yet to be wrong. My biological father is an interesting human who doesn't want me interacting or procreating with anyone non black, majorly homophobic (I'm bisexual), and would marry me off in his "religion" if he had the jurisdiction to. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:09 PM
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I'm a shy, quiet type who's looking to grow more of a backbone. I'd prefer to extend understanding instead of argue, am good with babies/children, a natural caretaker, come from a loving and well off family. I've desired to be a wife and mother since childhood. Anyone in my life knows that if you need a space to cry, vent, scream, whatever, I'm there for them without judgement (a.k.a. 'the therapist friend'). As a black woman, I've always been praised from my calm, quiet demeanor because apparen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:04 PM
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I've never told a guy friend that because there's no need? I don't need to tell good men what they already are. I'm quick to drop a male 'friend' out of my life the second I suspect romantic interest or blatant misogyny, so i have no need to comfort them with the whole "yOu'Ll FiNd SomEOnE EvEnTuaLLy". A good man to me is an open communicator, empathetic, has a steady job or goal he's working towards, educated, not a bigot (no sexism, racism, transphobia, homophobia, ect.) knows how to express a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:51 PM
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thank you lmao. i’ve literally had men approach me just to state over and over how much they’re definitely not attracted to black women. like i couldn’t possibly care less, leave me alone. i’m not your punching bag. you’d think if black women were just sooo repulsive, they wouldn’t be in my face for 20+ minutes trying to talk. 😭 i’m also someone w/ a low n count and want someone with a low n count. once i hear certain phrases (i.e. ‘oh you’re rare i’m so used to dealing with insert misogynistic …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:22 AM
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this is ofc my personal perspective, but i’ll take nervousness and awkward pauses over a rehearsed smooth ass script any day. it shows you care. it shows that, despite your natural reaction, you’d rather suck it up and talk to me. if you’re not nervous at all, i just assume i’m not that girl. in the times where ive fallen for the super smooth, super confident type, im just not that important to them. plus im also a nervous/awkward person, so i understand. more women are willing to give grace tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:17 AM
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As a woman, you can always tell when men think there's a 'science' to women as well. The way they speak is so soulless and robotic- opener, hook, closer. I've been approached by the same few men 3+ times as I live in a small city; one of them in particular always opens by asking for directions. I can barely get a word in before I cut them off and state that we've already met, and I'm not interested. Even when they're charming about it (smooth talking, look good, ect.), it just ruins everything. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:35 PM
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i was always taught to be independent and have my onw money, career, ect in case things ever go wrong. it hasn't failed me. i made the mistake of providing for an ex of mine during a strike in his field of work. he ended up resenting the fuck out of me. the more you do for a man (as a woman), is the less they respect you. at least that's what i've experienced. ill be damned if i do that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:09 PM
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i personally do. i don’t want a high n count but i also wouldn’t want a virgin. im not saying he should’ve only slept with ppl he was serious about/dating. like i wouldn’t care if he had a hookup every now and then but if we’re talking a double digit body count? nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:17 PM
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personally, it’s a big fear of mine. it’s the #1 reason i don’t participate in hook up culture with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:43 PM
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again, you’re an outsider. you can’t dismiss interracial marriage rates bc ‘WoMEn’ bc if that’s the case, all races are fucked. that’s just proves that marriageable men of all races are few and far in between if 80% of y’all’s women are initiating leaving. at the end of the day, the black community’s is the only demographic where the women have the upper hand in wealth, education, ect. so yea, still not our problem. take it up with bm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:46 AM
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this is written like you watch black culture from the outside in. this ain’t national geographic. bw’s marriages outside of the black community last longer than bm’s marriages outside our community. so clearly us blk women aren’t the problem. edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:26 PM
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ah yes, bc all bw grow up without examples of healthy relationships either within or outside the home 🙄 speak for yourself, love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:12 AM
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i’m 25F and i’ve never found that older women are jealous? if anything they encourage me to take what i can from older men and run lol when i was in my earlier 20s and perceived their warnings as jealousy, it normally came from a place of feeling internally gross or guilty and needing to project that onto someone. 🤷🏿‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:01 AM
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i’m sorry you’ve experienced that as well! it’s not flattering like most believe it is at all. like at my prom, little 16 year old me just wanted to feel beautiful, gorgeous, ect. and all i got were porn star comparisons. it def messed me up for a bit 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:20 PM
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(excuse the formatting, im on mobile) yea because fetishization has absolutely no correlation with porn at all 🙄 i never said these issues solely came solely from porn, but they def exacerbate the sexualization bw already go thru. op asked about porn and why women dislike it, not a history lesson on bw’s sexualization and fetishization. just because these issues would still exist w/o porn doesn’t mean women can’t discuss it’s affects on our daily lives. but thanks for explaining my experience ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:56 PM
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yes! i obviously can’t speak on that behalf but it affects so many more ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:45 PM
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thank you so, so much for taking the time to read and listen 🤍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:43 PM
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literally!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:00 PM
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i can only speak as a bw. ebony is one the highest categories in the US and it’s done us literally no favors. if anything it’s helped make it socially acceptable for ppl, specifically straight men, to view us as objects that are only lusted after in private and not marriageable. when i was a minor, i was compared to a porn star at my prom because my dress and hair combo reminded the boys of a popular video. when i began getting involved in social media at age 15, some of the first messages/follo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:48 PM
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every man i’ve met who’d used the term red pill irl has been the most condescending, unattractive, entitled person in the room. and they’re pretty racist. so it’s a no for me, dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:50 PM
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my dad left when i was young but we recently reconnected. it affected me a lot when i was younger as i was def a daddy’s girl; i was desperate for male attention and reveled in what little i got as i wasn’t the most attractive kid/teenager. he’s got a long way to go, but we’re getting better. he def spoils me to make up for time lost, like i could get $1K cash app’ed to me if i asked for it rn. i also have a step father who’s the same. both of my fathers are typical manly blk men. even at my age…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:04 AM
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did this article mention anything about the risks women face that come with daily sex? as a bi woman, not only does daily heterosexual sex sound fucking exhausting, but the risk of pregnancy could also be a huge deterrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:23 PM
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our personalities mesh as friends, not as partners. i couldn’t imagine having to navigate a romantic relationship with him. i love him platonically and that love includes wanting to see him happy with another woman one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:16 PM
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it depends on the categories; if he’s watching categories that shouldn’t fucking exist like ‘teen’, ‘in*est’, or ‘forced’, then yea, i’ll find him repulsive. also if he’s strictly watching women who are my exact physical opposite. i’m a dark skinned black woman with a coke bottle shape; if all the porn he watches is of pale, thin white women, then there’s a 9/10 chance that i’m not his true type and he’s only using me as a placeholder until he can access his type. as long as it’s in moderation a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:24 PM
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one. i lost my virginity last year at age 24. i’m not a very trusting person lol. but if you meant strictly men, then it’s zero. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:29 AM
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o no, two ppl on the same level figuring it out together with no unneeded pressure from the other side. how will they ever survive. eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:16 PM
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i’ve only been with one person so i’d prefer if he wasn’t too high. like 3 or 4. casual sex is a big turn off for me. my only deal breaker is someone who refuses show me their results before being intimate/gets aggressive when asked, and that tends to be common in high body count men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:14 PM
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i need to get ahold of this energy and fast! 🥺💕 quarantine almost threw me back into femceldom since i’m not wearing makeup everyday....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:24 PM
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i literally check every box except for friend zoned because that literally doesn't exist. when will they get their head out of their asses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:58 PM
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i once had a guy tell me that i looked like a hotter version of this pornstar named jada fire. did i mention it was my junior prom? i laughed it off, but on the inside i was mortified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:52 PM
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please go off they take you out for one 2 for $20 and think youre gold digging. i cant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:27 AM
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one of my coworkers had her man take her car without asking her late night and crashed it into a pole; he completely totaled it. he promised to buy her a new one, then broke up with her a week later and changed his contact info. luckily, she found him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:25 AM
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i’m speaking as a black woman who gave plenty of men with “jungle fever” a chance: Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:58 PM
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“i don’t exist to get your dick hard and neither does she”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:41 PM
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once after literally hopping off the school bus, i had a man make a flirty statement and then ask how old i was. luckily, he dipped when i said 15 but still???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:16 AM
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i have seasonal depression and generalized anxiety. i also deal with suicidal ideation. when i’m going through these moments, i avoid dating completely. lvm can fish out low self esteem having women with the quickness, and being taken advantage of could only exacerbate my symptoms. you’re doing everything right (medication, doctors, etc.) and seem to be aware of you symptoms; that’s high value within itself!! i hope you don’t feel that your diagnosis makes you low value. if i can give you any ad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 06:50 PM
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💪🏿❤️👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:46 PM
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and neither did/would i refer to black women as bottom of the barrel. that’s how a solid majority MEN view us, whether you’re fawned over in the dating world or other wise. the way you worded that first response came off as very dismissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:28 PM
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and the point of this comment was? you may be doing fine, and i’m glad that you are, but that doesn’t invalidate what other black women go through. i’m sure you’ve seen the studies, and also hear anecdotes from fellow black women who are paid absolute dust in the dating world. not to sound like a dick, but get over yourself. as a black woman, you should already know that your experiences vary wherever you go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:07 PM
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we’ve quite literally set ourselves on fire to keep them warm. i hope 2020 is the year black women wake the hell up and focus on ourselves! ✊🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:51 PM
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slavery as well as post emancipation propaganda! we’ve been portrayed as both hyper sexual and hideous since the beginning of entertainment in the us. not to mention, the us government made sure to break up black families in order to keep us impoverished. it’sa long, long history and it exhausting to read about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:48 PM
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yes to all of this!! i completely forgot to mention how differently men flirt with us in comparison to non black women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:43 PM
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👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:41 PM
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🙌🏿 preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:41 PM
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💪🏿👑💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:54 AM
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learning when to be strong and when to relax and be feminine is one of black women’s biggest challenges. you’re not alone in feeling this way! obviously, don’t change or modify yourself for any man. in fact, if a man says you’re too strong, kick his low self esteem having ass to the curb. however, honing in on your femininity is crucial as we are viewed as less feminine than non black women. take your time! you’ll be just fine 💪🏿💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:01 AM
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🤢 what did you say back!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:57 AM
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in all honesty, i don’t think there’s a state in the US where it would be better for us. i’m a strong believer in going overseas. i’m not saying it’s perfect out there, but it’s better than how we’re treated in the US dating scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:42 AM
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girl i’m still in undergrad and people are already trying to apply this to me! it’s so frustrating and such a turn off, especially when a black man approaches me with this pitch. like all i’m hearing is that you’ve got low self esteem, my guy! don’t let them get to you! 💪🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:40 AM
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✊🏿👑💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:38 AM
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will do! i tend to follow Chrissie, so i will definitely see what she’s about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:38 AM
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🗣 let em know, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:36 AM
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o wow! your experiences are both frustrating and interesting; it must be annoying to deal with such a wide range of fetishization. stick to your guns, and vet until you can’t anymore! 💪🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:34 AM
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• high pitched/squeaky voices • 5’3 and under • recessed chin/weak jawline/double chin • obese/doesn’t do something active • white men (i make exceptions, but as a black woman my experiences with them have been abysmal) • bad hygiene/yellow teeth/balding/acne • small/weird dicks (i’m not trying to ruin my first time) • stick skinny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:54 PM
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thank you for writing this! 🙌🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:57 PM
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i am so, so sorry that you and your friends experienced something like this! this is a prime example that those idiots have no idea what they’re talking about... i myself have been snatched by a man about twice my size, only to luckily have one of my girlfriends snatch me back and walk like hell. i know the feeling 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:23 PM
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“ not having had sex doesn't mean we aren't knowledgable about it hahaha” thank you!! the amount of times people refer to me as “innocent” and treat me like a baby when speaking about sex is insane. like your little conversation about your boring 6pm missionary doesn’t phase me 😭 the amount of times i’ve brought up certain sex topics only to end up explaining them to others is a mess... like how does a 22 year old virgin know more than you? EDIT: i’ve also talked about the emotional consequences…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:44 PM
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i love how the first comment says something along the lines of “her friends will drag her away out of jealousy” like no, my friend group will drag one of us away because we don’t fucking know you or what you’re capable of. nine times out of ten, she’s been giving us the hand signal that you’re a creep and she wants you gone. turning our backs on each other could be the difference between being snatched away or coming home safely. the audacity!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:36 PM
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i’m a black woman with darker skin and baby like, “neotenous” features. while i was bullied while i was younger for being ugly, i grew into my looks in college and get a decent amount of attention. while i do believe that i will one day have a HV husband/wife, i do think it will take longer in comparison to my girlfriends, who’re all non black. i don’t count on finding any type of love until my thirties. i’d say that my race affects my dating life greatly, only because i see the difference in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:02 PM
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i once read this thread on tumblr that was something along the lines of, “oh well the hiv virus can be dormant in certain people so there’s no need to disclose that information!!” and i just??? that decision should be left with the potential partner if they want to sleep with you. don’t take that decision upon yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 06:51 PM
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hey different things work for different people! i’ve always been insecure with my body so porn exacerbated those already present feelings.i am glad that it has worked differently for you though! why are you personally trying to stop watching porn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:39 AM
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thank you so much!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:25 AM
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thank you for your kind words and im glad that youre growing comfortable with your own sexuality!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:25 AM
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i’ve only been pursued by low value, bum ass, sexist, racist and fairly unattractive men. i wasn’t attracted to them in the slightest, and they wouldn’t meet my standards on their best day. but i guess that’s a sign that i’m not as pretty as i thought i was. 🤷🏿‍♀️ this whole post was a kick in the gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:13 AM
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i am 22! i’ll be 23 in a few months i literally only been described as cute by people who’ve pursued me. i guess it could be my personality... and i do have a baby face. but i’ve never had a s/o so that sentence that op wrote hit pretty hard lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:39 PM
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and water is wet 🤷🏿‍♀️ i could only imagine the dating pool i’d have if i was attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:03 PM
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considering i’ve been alone my whole life, in just gonna assume op is right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:38 PM
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could someone explain to me the difference between having your mans back vs building him up??? i’m so afraid i’ll end up in this position....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:27 PM
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they actually want to say that they think you're average/a bit above average, not enough to be called beautiful or given an actual compliment. as someone who’s only been called cute my entire life..... yikes. 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:17 PM
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my grandmother! she married a lv man and had my uncle and mother by the time she was my age (22). she then proceeded to divorce his ass, go back to school, climb the ranks at her local police academy, and eventually land a high paying job in ny. she then met my grandfather on the subway and moved to a nice, middle class neighborhood and had my aunt. she’s so hardworking and amazing. although there are some things i would do differently, i would kill to be half the woman she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 10:33 PM
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hugs 🥰❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 12:19 PM
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thank you and i’m so glad you’re doing better with your SAD! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 06:15 PM
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im subscribed there! it’s helped me so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 06:13 PM
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🥰❤️ will do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:11 AM
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good luck in yours too, love! 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:11 AM
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right back at you beautiful!💝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:41 AM
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noted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:40 AM
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the best way to reconduct that energy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:40 AM
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will do!! i was wondering why my doctor requested to check my vitamin d levels...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:39 AM
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🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 07:52 PM
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thanks beautiful! 💝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:23 PM
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a lot of mainstream music is disgustingly misogynistic. rap/r&b/hip hop can be empowering thou, i promise!!! rap tends to be the first genre called out for misogyny, which is justified don’t get me wrong! but other genres like rock and country can be just as if not more gross. i theorize that rap gets the worst of it because it’s a black genre. here are some good recommendations: •U.N.I.T.Y : Queen Latifah •That Thing : Lauren Hill ft Lil Kim • Cash Shit : Megan Thee Stallion ft. DaBaby • Backin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:21 PM
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i’m slowly but surely beginning to believe this. i’ve always been the type to lose myself in whoever showed me attention because those men were few and far in between. but no. fuck that. you deserve the only best, and so the fuck do i. 👑💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:19 PM
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true queen shit 👑👑👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:16 PM
21

you ever want to frame a comment and put it over your bed??? 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:15 PM
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i mean, i fully agree with you. the sex positive movement has only pushed the narrative that the more violent sex is the better, which isn’t further from the truth. men have taken our newfound openness and manipulated it in their favor. my point was that us reclaiming our sexuality and men grabbing at such an opportunity it isn’t our fault. men have felt entitled to our (underaged!) bodies since the dawn of time, and us being more sexually open wasn’t going to change years of conditioning. the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 06:43 AM
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sure, its totally the reclaiming of our sexuality that causes men to feel entitled to us. totally has nothing to do with centuries upon centuries of sex based oppression, rape, treating women as if theyre actual cattle, the commodification of our bodies. nah, its totally our fault. EDIT: i misread the title and jumped to conclusions; the article makes some fair points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 05:16 AM
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“ Reminding them that a least Priyanka and other not fair Indian women can be successful in Hollywood and are liked by White men, but Indian men have none because of their less than average height. Tit for tat.” and i oop! i can’t wait until black women start giving black men this energy; we’re somewhat in the same boat as y’all! the guy that texted me this was indian himself. he never made any comments about my skin tone, but had plenty of things to say about black women/people. i guess it was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 05:27 PM
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it’s like they go out of their way to find a girl who’s their exact opposite, and make her insecure/feel like she has to earn his attention. fuck all that. i’m glad you dropped his ass; you deserve waaaay better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 05:24 PM
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i think he was referring to how i speak. my train of thought can be hard to follow, but i’m sure there are... nicer ways to put that. and don’t worry babe, he’s long gone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:12 AM
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once i stop feeling guilty, i swear they’ll get this energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:10 AM
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🥰❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:09 AM
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i did sis! ✌🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:09 AM
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don’t worry, love, he’s long gone!! ✌🏿 reading back to these texts gave me secondhand embarrassment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:08 AM
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i’m holding you to that, sis! its looking bleak out here for us chocolate girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:07 AM
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you know we all just drop to our knees at those types of comments 🙄😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:06 AM
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noted!! 👀💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 05:25 PM
12

men only care about bi women when they’re thinking of threesomes that they wouldn’t last three minutes into. as a fellow bi woman, i’m sorry you had to deal with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 02:16 PM
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so men spend their time bitching that they can’t find a woman who’s “wife material” or worthy to have their children, yet when their blessed with a family they barely care about them? well color me surprised. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 02:14 PM
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i would appreciate that, love! thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 02:12 PM
4

” What defines a high-value woman cannot be bestowed or taken away by a man.” when i tell you this made me stand from my fucking seat, jfc!! the above doesn’t sound cliche at all; it really, really made me begin to evaluate how i view becoming hv. thank you so much sis 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 02:11 PM
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thank you for your kindness 💕 i always find myself between 22 is young, and im past my prime. but the latter thought was made up by men who think women over the age of 30 are useless 🙄 i’ll definitely do my best to focus on myself from now on!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 02:09 PM
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“porn sick men can’t do either.” true!!! and i guess it is a stupid question to ask. i always saw my virginity as a big target that showed that no one wanted me, but i guess it’s no ones business at the end of the day. i do have to work on not taking anyone’s shit though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 02:06 PM
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thank you so much for your kind words! 💕 i try not to let my inexperience get to me but i definitely have my moments.. i’m sure my friends are tired of me bringing up this topic. don’t discredit yourself for being a newbie; what you’ve said makes perfect sense and i will try to remember it when i begin to doubt myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 02:01 PM
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i’m so sorry that this happened to you. you didn’t deserve that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 11:11 PM
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i id as a femcel but i’m all for this change!! there are plenty of subs for us to vent using that type of language... in order for us to level up, we have to begin to phase ourselves out of it anyway!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 10:40 PM
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