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Glad you brought this up. Yes ladies 100% don’t fall for being a Dom because you think now you are the one having the power. You don’t. Power is when you don’t engage in all these kinks that the patriarchy are trying to push as the new normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:41 AM
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Wife benefits: Living together, intimacy Girlfriend benefits: my energy and presence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:14 AM
1

I get that definitely because I feel like I need to play catch up with my peers. But it will lead to burn out and isn’t sustainable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:39 PM
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It is just really practice, practice and more practice. I do get drained as an introvert especially in larger groups. So I try to meet up with people in smaller groups. Meeting people through hobbies/ similar interests would be the best, especially if you can do other things rather than just talk, so it is less awkward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:53 AM
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CMB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:48 AM
18

No just wait for them to reach out to you. If they don't reach out after say 3 days you can just unmatch them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:48 AM
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Unattractive, no bio, sketchy morals (due to swipe night) so there just aren’t viable options. I use an app that only shows me about 5 guys a day I will stick to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:26 PM
1

Regardless of what age sugaring is just another name for prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:17 PM
1

A guy I have gone out with twice uses terminology similar to that but he has always initiated, paid for dinners, cab and has not laid a finger on me even for a hug. Great reminder to keep sensitive to word usage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:57 AM
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They like projecting because to them our entire value is in our looks so they assume we are as bothered as them about it. Of course we have standards as well but I have liked a guy who was shorter than me before and I’m tiny - just because the way he carried himself was admirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:16 AM
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Hate the whole thread. Someone in the comments trying to justify rape by saying we need to grade the severity with non-consent and sexual assault. Like 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:45 PM
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Sometimes they might not have the right-sized box available, some customers may not want a box as well due to bulkiness. I don’t think there is anything particularly suspicious but I get what you mean where some things can be staged for social media. I think this is helpful to show men to start doing better though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:10 AM
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Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:29 PM
131

Of course men don’t care, the chances of them getting an STD is lower, plus they most definitely can’t get pregnant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:33 PM
3

Interested for sure! Do want to contribute on stuff I have been thinking about lately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:34 AM
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Disgusting. Also I really do hate this BDSM choking thing. It is actually strangling. Choking happens internally (i.e. choking on food). Strangling is external - where a men uses BDSM as a guise to put his hands on a woman when all BDSM is legitimate abuse and violence. I wonder if the term choking is used just because it places distance from the perpetrator and removes responsibility in their head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:32 PM
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Wow that needs to be reported he is promoting abuse and violence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:55 PM
2

Unfortunately that is still giving them what they want and is still heavily focused on power and control. BDSM should just not be a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:26 PM
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Without the context everyone would have guessed she was his daughter...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:59 AM
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Such a good post 👏👏👏 Yes ladies guys are adept at lying and manipulating don’t take their words seriously. Embrace that you might never ever end up with a guy because you are happy by yourself, have a job that you love, wonderful friendships and so many things to learn and experience. You definitely won’t be needy then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:47 AM
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Yes please there is no need to compete with other women over shit men not even HVM (he could become a LVM in an instant) Strong solid friendships are where it is at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:15 PM
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Now this is such a level up! You got it right the core philosophy that not ending up with a man is no big deal - you got so many other things on the go. So proud of you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:11 AM
13

He also assaulted her and locked her in based on her post. She needs to get out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:13 AM
29

Yes this! “The nicer of our cars” “Most of the money I had saved” So much bs on this he just wants to find out how he doesn’t have to give her a single penny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:43 AM
10

If poly was one woman with multiple hvm maybe. But we all know poly is just one way 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:26 PM
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Sadly they have big egos and feel entitled to everything so they won’t think they need any help. They would all be sitting in a circle praising each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:07 PM
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It’s strangulation not choking. So mad that it’s made to sound nice and acceptable. BDSM is just violence and abuse disguised as a kink. Do not ever let a guy guilt you into BDSM or shame you about being vanilla.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:03 PM
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This is interesting do you put it on the scalp? Or just mainly on the hair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:33 AM
1

I have actually seen this on a bio when I was on OLD. He was prematurely balding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:28 PM
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How I wish all guys who pull crap like that break their dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:47 PM
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It’s the more socially acceptable term for fuck buddy. The benefits only apply to the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:53 AM
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Many guys rushing to the front to shout that they aren’t like the other men. Hmm yeah I don’t think so 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:15 AM
3

I don't really get this at all? I mean the club would likely not be a place where I want to meet my life partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:31 AM
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Of course not! How else is he able to fulfil all his sexual needs on demand 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:53 AM
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Why are they so obsessed with our sub if they think we are "delusional" and insecure" 🤣 The truth always comes out in the end... plus we are way too busy building our amazing lives as if we want to expend our energy on "hating" them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:04 AM
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It surely is. I have ended up in such situations due to "daddy issues" and needing validation and it haunts me deeply. I have been choked, forced into degrading positions, play out a rape scenario... all for what? The chance of getting STDs, pregnant, physically and mentally scarred. None of them have been rewarding because the guy only cares for his own pleasure. Not worth the risk for all the things stated above even on the off chance you have had good experiences. Just reserve intimacy to whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:13 PM
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It's a genuine fear for them due to scarcity (i.e. their lack of wealth) A meal would put a dent in their savings so of course they are so wary of "gold diggers"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:41 AM
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"Be patient baby, keep believing in us" 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:45 PM
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I read the post as well! Also thought about commenting but I can see it would just be drowned out by the other comments on the guy being “shy” or one week is not long give him more time?? So upsetting people are jumping on her to communicate. I thought I was going crazy! Saw her post history too she is definitely very lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:08 PM
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Wanted to laugh then realised it's much too true! All roads lead to... not showing respect for us ladies when it comes to LVM 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:43 PM
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The term FWB is just to make it sound palatable to us ladies otherwise who would take up such a crappy deal? The benefits are as follows: potential pregnancy, numerous STDs and emotional trauma. It is never worth it. If you feel lonely and need companionship then get some female friends or occupy yourself with hobbies to level up. For those with high libido like OP there are dildos and vibrators - at least you would have a more guaranteed orgasm too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 12:37 PM
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Silence and no response can deal the strongest blows. If you engage back with an insult you won’t be taken seriously either. If you must - an expression of pity for such a base person would suffice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:25 PM
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It's hard to be shocked anymore by the level of delusion that men can possess. It's fine ladies, let him live in his fantasy land that's pretty much all he has anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:25 PM
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"He wasn't a typical LVM" - he is. Having a job that pays well or looking conventionally does not have any bearing to the context of him not being a typical LVM. He is 26 and preyed on a 19 year old? That is a typical LVM who goes after someone inexperienced and naive so that he can manipulate. It can be difficult to get out of such a mindset. I feel that you are tying up your sense of worth based on external factors (i.e. him) when it should come from within. Do read through the FDS Handbook if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:06 AM
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