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| 44 | “Don’t keep score in your marriage! 🥰” is patriarchal propaganda. If we tallied and kept score, there would be millions of divorces.I agree with the "don't keep score" in so far as holding every little thing against your partner because that's simply anxiety inducing. However I do recommend keeping a journal where you just write a brief description of what you do everyday including what your partner does and how you felt about it. That way, if you start noticing something, you can go back and see with evidence any sort of pattern of that behavior. You'll be able to see in a plain way that there's more bad days than good or t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:00 AM |
| 54 | Bought myself a crown just bcuz I wanna celebrate the scrote-free air I get to breath for the first time after 11 years✨ ANY future scrote that makes me feel less than how I make myself feel rn is not worth it 👋Wear it out anyway! I have a crown that I wear out sometimes just because I like it. Fancy ass dresses too! You really only get to live once and those strangers will probably never see you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inI just got 2 promotions within 90 days for a job I got right after dumping my LVM ex. Now I make as much as he does with a lower degree and less time in the work force than he had. I've also found a HVM who really restored my faith in them existing. He treats me as no less than a princess which is so far from the absolute trash bum my ex devolved into after losing his job. Also this new guy is just as attractive as I am for once. Overall life is going so well. We are leveling up, sisters! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:42 AM |
| 18 | There's no way to vet 100%I saw a post in one of the online dating app subs about this guy who started dating this woman immediately after his divorce, then got engaged to her 6 months later to a woman who was long distance for the first portion of those 6 months they were together. He has kids too. All i can think about is how LV that guy is to bring some barely better than stranger into those kids' lives so soon and then worried for the woman on how she is jumping in head first without enough time to see how he handles… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:22 AM |
| 77 | There's no way to vet 100%Even worse, this is how some abusers operate. They'll be good to you for years until you make real commitment like marriage or a house together so it's so much more difficult to leave. I found myself with what i thought was a HVM for a long time but once we got a house together, he completely changed into a manipulative flaming trash heap because he thought I would rather stick it out with him than go through the mess of leaving. Some men you can tell. Others you cant. And as you said, there's t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.Late stage pick me behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 14 | So it finally happened; a NVM from my past came crawling back.I really get this. A NVM from my past came crawling back. He was doing one of those twelve step programs that has you apologize to people you've hurt so i responded back just thanking him for the apology and saying i hoped he'd become a better person. He told me about his life, what was going on, his goals, etc. I didn't respond but i thought "good for him. Looks like he's actually becoming a better person." A few days later, I broke up with my bf and made a dating profile since its hard to meet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:14 PM |
| 79 | I finally broke up with him, thanks to FDS."Men are visual creatures" is only ever used as an excuse to be a creep or cheat. You never hear people talk about "men being visual creatures" in terms of why they dominate the visual arts fields (because they don't...). You never hear it in any other context. Its always code for "men like seeing explicit photos of women." And it's gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:59 PM |
| 9 | The majority of men WILL NOT do 50% of parentingThe next person to say a father is "babysitting" is gonna make me lose it. Most men don't do 50% of the parenting. I saw a tiktok trend that was teenagers asking their dad that they live with to name 3 of their friends and so many couldn't even name one. I saw one name two but hardly counted because they had the same name. Who is taking this teen to see these friends before they can drive? Who is there when the friends are over? Who says they can come over? Feeds them when they're over? Makes su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 24 | And they say marriage is bad for men. Who tf think washing dishes is a suprise??This trend really makes me sad because this is basically all that it's used for. I'm at least glad some people are self aware, even happier when they're roasting their past selves, but then seeing the comments of how everyone also relates... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 18 | You know he hears this constantly 🤣This man is hilarious. I recommend anyone with a tiktok to follow him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 21 | This guy gets it 🙌🐍And when we try to use clues and hints and prior knowledge, but they swear they're not like the other guys giving us similar signs... King snakes look a lot like coral snakes and unless I'm sure, I'll stay away from both. As one should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 10 | One trait does not make a man high value, evaluate the entire man (over time) and watch for consistency in behaviorYes. Sometimes even years isn't enough to be totally sure. Some men only have their LV and abusive behaviors be known after they rope you into commitment that can't be undone easy (living together, marriage, etc.). There's no way you're going to know if hes HV in 2 dates and a week of texts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:55 PM |
| 19 | If there's ones thing I learned, it's that you can never stop caring about people. You just learn to care about yourself moreThere is a poetry book i read recently and it had a quote that I liked in it that relates well: "I never gave up on you I just gave me more of a chance." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 36 | When they write “iF yOu arE pAsSioNatE abOut yoUr ProfeSsion” you know they mean “split the check 50/50”. His second paragraph sounds like a LinkedIn job descriptionThere's no bigger turn off on dating profiles than when men start listing what they want out of a person. Not only is there no point (because someone could just lie about all this shit), but a lot of this is inane. Of course everyone wants someone with a bunch of interesting things in common with them... He didn't need to write a weirdly worded novel to explain that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else not find the concept of “dad bods” funny at all? I feel like it’s just another way for men to excuse their lack of care of their own bodies and looks, and keep the focus on women having to look good. The pics of dad bods gross me out so much.I've definitely noticed the one I mentioned more. I think most people in college that I knew gained the freshman 15 lost it by senior year, but gained it back after getting an office job. Unless you go to a party college or are a seriously dysfunctional human being, the novelty of drinking a 12 pack at a house party wears off by senior year because you can drink better stuff at clubs or bars instead. I don't think I know a single man at this moment of life who kept a fit figure after graduating … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:55 PM |
| 13 | The men of the MGTOW movement aim to live their lives with no female contact. The idea began on the fringes of the internet – so how has it made it all the way to the White House?"Aim to live their lives with no female contact" So that's why they literally go out of their way to harass us and let us know how much they don't want us in their lives, right? That's why they talk about how women are only good for meaningless sex because "why buy the cow when you get the milk for free" philosophy, right? Oh lord. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:22 AM |
| 24 | Does anyone else not find the concept of “dad bods” funny at all? I feel like it’s just another way for men to excuse their lack of care of their own bodies and looks, and keep the focus on women having to look good. The pics of dad bods gross me out so much.I thought "dad bod" originally referred to the body men (and women too tbh) often get after graduating college and going from walking on campus and only eating noodles to a nicely stocked fridge while being in a 9-5 job at a desk. People tend to gain a bit of weight, like 10lbs or so, just enough to lose definition from the exercise being on a campus naturally provides. I did not realize people were referring to actual fat, not caring for their bodies at all type dudes. And then give them an exc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:19 AM |
| 28 | Friend's husband wants her to get a job despite them owning and operating 4 retail stores, for the sole purpose of getting health insurance. They haven't gotten along for years, she's on the verge of divorce, and she has him by the short and curlies.Business owners can purchase insurance plans, depending on how many employees and the profit of their business of course. However if she has equal ownership, then it's really not her responsibility to provide that for the both of them. Entirely Low value to expect that of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:11 AM |
| 17 | He’s known this woman as a child through her father. He claims they only started dating after she turned 18 but in no universe is that true. This is predatory grooming to a T 😣Even if they did, you can groom without doing anything overtly sexual. It's still grooming and still abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 6 | A Funny LVM Story To Lighten Your SpiritsYes precisely. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 13 | A Funny LVM Story To Lighten Your SpiritsLiterally all I did was tell him I think I deserved better treatment. I did get real petty putting everything he ever gave me plus the envelopes they came in all in one big package and sent it back. The last thing I said to him was just a note in the package that said "Let me know if you change." He tried to talk to me 6 months later like friends as if nothing happened. I responded like twice because from what I heard he was on the verge of like offing himself, so i wanted to make sure it wasn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:04 PM |
| 6 | have you ever changed for a man?Yes and yes. My most embarrassing moment: when a man I wanted to impress self published a book for 99 cents that was so terrible I couldn't finish the first 20 pages but I told him it was amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 04:32 AM |
| 7 | A reminder that Tinder is a place for scrotes in arrested developmentI've noticed OKC is better for people who are not young 20s but small towns are definitely a lot more difficult in every single way. I think tinder is even worse in small towns in my experience because there's such slim pickings I've basically only found the "if you hate Trump this won't work" crowd. There's no winning in places that are small for OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 04:29 AM |
| 32 | Has anyone here pulled an “Elle Woods” and gotten a “revenge degree”?I probably wouldnt. I personally think changing your entire life for revenge just shows how much of a hold they actually still have on you. The best karma is them realizing that they changed absolutely nothing about you. They were a single stop sign town in the journey. In your case, since that's something you've always wanted to thats fine. I think it'd even be cool. I just don't think id go completely out of my way to do anything to spite a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 04:02 AM |
| 35 | A reminder that Tinder is a place for scrotes in arrested developmentIf he's 30+ and on Tinder, hes LV. Men at that age should have a professional life so important to them that they wouldn't risk it by putting themselves out there on a known hook up app. Tinder is totally for young people just entering the dating world. I'm not even saying all OLD makes them LV since some are geared towards 30+ crowds, but Tinder specifically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:59 AM |
| 3 | The bile!Saying you have a bf gets you respect? All its ever got me is them to try harder because every LVM wants to be Mr. Steal Your Girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:57 AM |
| 48 | LVM when women expect them to pay for dinner/drinks/anything at all:LVM after you order something more than $5. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:14 AM |
| 11 | I had to post this with a message on SC! In the end, they got divorced. It was an unstable relationship from the beginning!Im glad she is finally standing up for herself. I couldn't stand to read her book after what I've heard about it. I doubt i ever will. But its always great when someone realizes their own self worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:12 AM |
| 126 | Reminder: Male desire is both abundant and low value. They're out here screwing McChickens. I honestly feel like I'm taking crazy pillsDeadass there are sex dolls of animated characters men have sex with. Whenever men accuse me of doing something for male affection, I laugh... Hard. Because all you have to do is exist for men to desire you. No woman's worth is measured by the amount of unsolicited dick pics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:22 AM |
| 9 | Guys who half ass 1st meetingI actually don't mind if they dont suggest a place. If it seems like they dont care, then ofc id drop them, but I actually like picking the place. That way I know the menu and ambiance and I can set the standards from then on. If I don't know the place, it can look good online but in person be entirely underwhelming. I'd rather know what tone im setting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:33 AM |
| 6 | Googled the name of a dating app match, turns out there are several news articles about him! GOOGLE YOUR MEN, LADIES!!Yes and a man who won't let you Google him after talking for a little bit but prior to meeting is a MASSIVE red flag. I am personally huge on privacy and purged my own name from absolutely everywhere on the internet thats accessible to a common citizen, and I still would give me full name to someone I feel comfortable enough to meet because they will find nothing. Also if you're not comfortable enough to give someone your full name, you shouldnt be comfortable enough to meet them. So, question w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:30 AM |
| 65 | From AskWomen: For those of you married, what is one red flag you noticed and let pass before marrying your SO that you deeply regret glazing over?Honestly every woman here should read through the thread and then honestly consider their relationship in context with these. If you are feeling agreement, start reconsidering. Everyday you spend in an abusive relationship means the greater chance your next one will be abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:22 AM |
| 117 | Girl has sex with her “boyfriend” on his flea ridden mattress. Shit makes me sadWhat. The. Actual. Fuck. Like... Is this the average standard women have for men? Jesus Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:20 AM |
| 8 | Karma farming by making women look bad - Saved you a click: They broke upI honestly assume most AITA and relationship_advice top posts are fake. They're such easy subs to karma farm and gain infamy on, it's nearly formulaic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:20 AM |
| 25 | The dangers of dating while XXNot so fun fact for you today: the leading cause of death of pregnant women in the US is murder. I didn't believe it at first but after googling it, I was convinced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you have a secret fund when married?You don't need it to be secret as in no one knows about it but have it be composed of your own money that you earned and only you can access it. Have it be enough to get a lawyer or pay a few months of rent/a long term hotel so you can get to safety of necessary. It would not be in your best interest to lie about money in divorce. It can affect custody, etc. The fact is: if you have to divorce you probably wont be happy with the final decision no matter what. This is why it's important to be wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:07 AM |
| 31 | There are no words for how angry this makes me. I also reported him a few months ago when he showed up my my feed.Later, to his bros: "Bitches aint shit. Chad would get so many matches. Women are only into hot guys with money. It's unfair." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:31 AM |
| 17 | There are no words for how angry this makes me. I also reported him a few months ago when he showed up my my feed.It's because men like this are the ones paying for the service so they get money from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:30 AM |
| 21 | Putting on all your favorite things on a [home] date for a man you just met is a quick route to disappointment - aside from this guy being a nope.Honestly extreme liberal men like this and extreme conservative men are the same: they dont respect women at all and will mansplain to you. Of course any man can fit that but I've yet to meet a man who is on the extreme side of the liberalism to the point of this post who isn't also a raging misogynist about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:18 AM |
| 12 | LVM (specifically white) are uncomfortable talking about issues the concern the oppression of any minority.If you state facts about the oppression of women (rape stats, domestic violence stats, etc.) And is anything but supportive, hes LV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:12 AM |
| 29 | Man tries to slut-shame single woman chatting with multiple men, calling them “side hoes”I hate this mentality. There is a time and a place to put effort into one person such as if you've already known them for a while so you can rest assured youll work out at least through the honeymoon phase. However, if this is online dating, it's a numbers game. I online dated and this is how it went: I would be extremely picky only swiping right 10 maybe maybe 15 times in multiple hours of swiping per day (i would usually do it as i caught up on podcasts and tv shows). Then, probably 7 a day wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:35 PM |
| 8 | Don’t miss out on your chance with this perfect catch who’s probably gonna neg you 24/7 since “the media got y’all gassed up” 😒I would have swiped left even before that comment. I could not even stand to listen to someone who talks like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 3 | To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack?Why are you putting words in my mouth? Do you just want to argue? Or can you just not read? I don't have time for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 03:31 PM |
| 3 | To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack?Mmmmm it's really not complicated. The whole point was that it wasn't complicated. Not for me at least. And yeah, the men did make some poor decisions. When you know what you want, things rarely turn complicated on your end. It was them thinking they wanted one thing but actually wanting another. I knew what i wanted which was just to live life and do whatever whenever. Not just referring to sex either. I more happened upon opportunities for that, never really looked for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack?Well to answer a few of the first questions, I have been with a very wide range of men with wildly different wants and personalities and all. That's what kept me interested in casual relationships honestly. But afterward they all get clingy in their own way. Sometimes it's trying to see me everyday. Other times its triple texting me if i dont respond because i am done with them. Yet other times it is more subtle where i tell them i think I am done and leave, but then they keep trying to text me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | What’s the difference for you between someone you’ll hookup with compared to a relationship person?Im 22. And i know. I dont really date guys my own age. Not to say i date 40 year olds either, but all my friends have always been older than me growing up so I am more comfortable around people a bit older. Almost all my relationships have a 5+ year age difference. And that's fine with me really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 01:27 PM |
| 6 | What’s the difference for you between someone you’ll hookup with compared to a relationship person?Standards for hook up: most of the time they have to be very attractive. However, I can lower expectations to just attractive if they show me a fun time in a non sexual way. Standards for relationship: Equal in attractiveness to myself, nothing weird like face tattoos or penis piercings or etc. Job, house, car, educated, upward mobility in job, has hobbies that are more than video games or watching TV all day, physically fit (i mean anywhere from normal dad bod to quite fit, just not overweight … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Many Women's Dating Profiles are Missing the Point?It depends on location as to what you see. When i lived in Birmingham, UK the dudes posted the same stuff but that was very different than my home Midwestern small town. Those are status symbols to them. They just arent status symbols to you. It's the same as how my German exchange student friend would buy a bunch of stuff in the US cheap and then take tons of photos to post on her insta. In Germany, that stuff was 3x the price, but here it was cheap so it was a status symbol to impress them. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?Because being tall doesn't mean that person is easier to manipulate. However being 20 does usually make that person easier to manipulate because very few 20 year olds in 2020 can maintain the same independence as a 30 year old if her partner was to abuse or manipulate her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Q4A: Why is desire for young women (legal age or older) singled out and not treated like any other standard?Men after thirty? Honestly people in general usually let themselves go after they leave college and enter the 9-5 work force. Some maintain it for a while but i would say that's the first drop off point for a lot of people in terms of working out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you date a man who spent years chasing younger women and failed?Your average man doesn't really think about it that much because usually their count is similar to that of the women's his own age. The only guys I've ever met who even thought about it or asked directly are ones who were unusually low for their age. Even then it doesn't bother them. Most men that arent on reddit dont really care as long as it's not unusually high. That's why when 30+ year olds are chasing 20 year olds, its 90% of the time for their inexperience in a malicious way. Being young m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would you date a man who spent years chasing younger women and failed?But a woman's does not equate to how many men shes been with. I know women younger than me (im 22) that have had more and women older than me that are virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: Would you date a man who spent years chasing younger women and failed?Wouldn't date him. Usually why guys do that is because younger women are less experienced and they can get away with being lazier in the relationship and even be more controlling or even manipulative and some 20 year old who only ever had one relationship in her life wont know the difference. Someone like that can't just decide to change and snap their fingers and change. I doubt people like that ever actually have a self realization of what's truly wrong with them. Truly shitty people rarely ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 02:02 PM |
| 13 | Sometimes I unmatch. Sometimes I get sassy.I wonder what qualifies as "quite the profile." I have men say that all the time to me and itll be like photos of me just... Chilling and living. Nothing extraordinary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 03:56 AM |
| 2 | What are the obvious and not-so-obvious tells to distinguish between high- and low-n women?Honestly a lot of these are not so much indicators of high n women but insecure women who are trying to prove their sexual value. I have high n and used to do some of this stuff when i was recovering from trauma, but since i stabilized, I follow almost none of these. I use Instagram once a week if that, have no piercings or tattoos (not even ears), have same amount of male and female friends, etc. Etc. Women who want to have sex just because they want to, not because theyre insecure, dont show o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Some of thing I've always wanted to ask what do share in common with all your partners?I have two types of men i date in the looks department: South/central American men with accents and tan skin, bonus if they're latino. Or white guys with a small amount of stubble (think action movie hero level) with brown hair and are above 6 foot. I don't consciously pick people out in those two groups but i have dated many men and they've all fallen into those two. I didn't even realize it until a friend mentioned "my type" and i was like "what does that mean?" And suddenly all my tinder matc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | What's worth sex to you?Depends. If i am just looking for a good time, then yeah thats enough. If im having fun and theres sexual chemistry, then I would. But he would be assigned Fuck buddy status without any ability to get more than that. If I'm looking for a relationship, then no. I want a few dates at least then if there is sexual chemistry, I will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 03:22 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020Yeah i don't understand why people would think this shouldn't be talked about. The only information you have to predict how the future will go is to look at his past. He could have abused every single woman before and some of these people would rather be in the dark about it because they might seem insecure than just ask. You only seem insecure about it if you ask it in an insecure way. Whenever i ask, it is direct and in an environment thats appropriate such as when we are out to dinner. I usua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:57 PM |
| 65 | Tinder LVM strike again with their terrible pick-up linesIt is so cheap to use this sort of thing as an opener. I love jokes and memes but when someone does something like this I know whatever follows will be posted on some reddit and they sent the same thing to a bunch of other people so they can post the best ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Why can't men talk about women's bodies?Its because penis is plentiful and women know they can find a man who meets all their requirements to have sex with, no matter how they behave. If I just wanted sex, it would take 30 minutes and a tinder account for me to find an attractive 6'+ man to have sex with. That's how it is for most women. The ones who dont just want sex but want a relationship still dont have to wait very long (maybe a week if they vet them out before meeting) to find someone that fits criteria. I'm not saying it is ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/20 01:44 PM |
| 6 | When a woman lets a man take her to McDonald's for the first dateYeah it is not uncommon for me to see women on reddit mention how their bf took them to McDonald's for one of their first 3 dates. Of course it is usually followed by "i think he just wants sex but idk guys." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:32 PM |
| 12 | Sperm from old Men increases birth defects. Info for the next old man that bothers you!Also male infertility in the West is increasing since about the 70s or 80s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:33 AM |
| 7 | You can admit you miss and care for a LVM ex, that is okay, but don't let it fuck your shit up."I still love the people I’ve loved, even if I cross the street to avoid them.” - Uma Thurman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:32 AM |
| 52 | Sexual On Social Media: LVW TraitI agree with the memes and constantly talking about sex. Sex isnt all there is. Its not some grand prize. Any woman can get sex ant time she wants by going on OLD for 10 minutes. Dick is plentiful and low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:30 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020He won't pay for your dates, always wants to be praised for complimenting you, and probably wants you for fun. Once they say they want someone not materialistic and humble, you know they are going to expect you to praise them for everything they should just do already. They're also probably cheap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:05 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020If it was just a one year relationship he had with her, or a few months, I wouldn't bother but a marriage is a big deal. I would absolutely ask him. The answer he gives can tell you a ton without him even telling you a ton. Maybe it's as simple as she cheated on him or did something terrible. But maybe it was irreconcilable differences about something that will be an issue for you as well. Or maybe he tells a bullshit obviously not true story which is a big red flag. You can save yourself tons o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:03 AM |
| 24 | This explains a whole fucking lot, actuallyI had to read Batman Year One for a class assignment and one of the questions was about the role of women in it. People in my class are about to get an earful on the history of the mistreatment of women by male comic book writers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 01:11 PM |
| 50 | Get commitment or get movingIn retrospect, you can see all that time at once and it feels so bad. However when you are really living it day to day, you can't see all that time at once. So then you let it drag out. A lot of us have been there i am sure. When i was being a pickmeisha about this "SUPER CUTE!" (Yeah his face was and it looked normal but he was fatfishing and ended up being really really overweight) guy, I literally BOUGHT his shitty self published ebook and left a great review on it to help him and told him it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 12:50 PM |
| 65 | Get commitment or get movingIt is better to be alone than in a relationship with someone that makes you feel like shit. It might be a cliche and worn out statement, but it is so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel validated through sexual attention?Kinda. I think I'm not no matter what but it is always nice to get attention. My face was on r/all once and that was too much at once but a bit at a time is nice. No. As long as you are physically able to have sex with it, men will. So there is 0 validation in having a man fuck me. Same as the first answer No. Not a boyfriend. But i always have a posse of men when I am single. I refer to them as the "men i am involved with." I think if i was single and not involved with any of them, I would feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you people think of body builders in terms of physique attractiveness?Bodybuilders bodies look terrible imo. Male or female. However what you see on the stage and in their promo shots is a specifically curated image where they eat a specific way, do not drink water, and basically are in q state of being extraordinarily unhealthy. It's fine for them as they do it willingly and only for a few days, but if you see movies with men with these crazy physiques, this way of life is forced on them for weeks or months at a time and is super bad for their long term well bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How is it possible for a man to attract younger women and yet not be good enough for women his own age?Because a woman his own age would know where he should be in emotional development. Someone who is 20 will not see that as a red flag. They also will not see other hidden red flags that a 40 year old will have seen a lot before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 11:47 PM |
| 13 | While disgusting, this isn't surprising.Lmao!!! Big Ed is beyond disgusting. He deadass told the woman he went to see that her leg hair was disgusting! The absolute nerve of men honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 11:22 PM |
| 12 | Imagine being quarantined with someone who doesn’t even consider youOkay even without talking about the fact that he didnt ask her, what fucking psycho makes only one pancake? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 02:19 AM |
| 12 | Can a man get any lower than this?Thats what boys did to girls in middle school to bully them... This is a grown man doing it as a genuine joke? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 11 | Men cannot think nonviolently. Remember ladies, violence is genderedI absolutely do agree with your first paragraph that that interpretation is entirely incorrect. But I'm just disgusted that men always go straight to beating up women instead of a fair criticism of the title such as you did. Instead of using their brain, they'd rather be brutes and result to violence against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 09:06 PM |
| 9 | The objectively least terrible person in Tiger King is receiving death threats and being surveilled by insane scrotes trying to prove she murdered her husband.I agree. I mean, people really underestimate how much a dead body weighs. For her alone to be able to even drag it to the tigers or the puny meat grinder, then effectively feed them, then collect the bones (because bones like the skull and femur WILL be leftover), then dispose of the bones. Then the tigers will be all bloody everywhere when other volunteers check on them. Or at least their cage will be bloody all over. It would be bloodier than if she hacked him up because tigers dont care about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Reminder of why it’s important to not follow LibFem ideology when it comes to dealing with men.10 guys that looked like this went to my high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Tips for recovering and being able to function normally after long-term emotionally/psychologically abusive relationship with a narcissistic LVM?Yes. LVM do not want your baggage but view you as a mule to carry their own. Also the best two books ive read are: Why Does He Do That? And The Body Keeps The Score. The second one is a lot on child abuse but has a lot that is traumatic adult memories as well. It is more about how abuse resonates throughout a person's life and child abuse is a good way to show that since its at the beginning of a persons life. So still applicable and worth a read. It really changed my perspective on everything i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad that I’m waiting for him to get in touch so I can call him out on his shit?Just block him. Who knows how long lockdown will last? There's too many more people out there, too much stuff to better spend your time on. You paid a stupid tax with your time already, as a lot of women do unfortunately , so dont willingly pay anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:04 PM |
| 50 | Don't be this clown, queensWhat ride or die should mean: even when he hits hard times emotionally or financially or physically, we will be willing to help him through the rough patch and be there still when he is on his feet again. What ride or die shouldnt mean but often does: im going to stay with him despite emotional and physical and sometimes sexual abuse and thats just fine because a real woman would forgive a man for any "mistake" no matter how many times he makes it or how severe it is. Ladies, love yourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Reading their feelings in the quarantine?If they suddenly got renewed romantic interest right about when quarantine happened, yeah probably. If it is purely friendly chats with guys, then as long as you arent bending over backwards to talk to them its fine. Ive had a lot of people reach out and reached out to a lot of people i normally wouldn't ever hear from. That's normal. But it is not normal to suddenly be into you, especially when they cant even meet up with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Pickmesha level 9000I agree. If i can play some video games after i get back from school, chill out, spend some me time... He can too. But I also would drop that if needed and won't spend all day on it. I have the same expectations for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:11 AM |
| 28 | Ladies it has begun, LVM are using quarantine as an excuse not to make an effortOkay I'm going to be blunt here: do not trust military men. Ive spent a ton of time with a ton of them from every branch and they have their differences sure, but they are all like this. They're all LVM in my experience, even the career ones. A lot are abusive and cheat. STDs are rampant in the military because of everyone cheating on each other with each other. I would just recommend avoiding them entirely. Any HVM in the military has left by time you meet them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:06 AM |
| 7 | Let’s be real here...The men who complain about gold diggers are usually pay check to pay check or they are bitter divorced men that didn't want to pay child support when they have a great job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:03 AM |
| 8 | Reading their feelings in the quarantine?They're bored. Just because theyre not "from your past" doesn't mean their intentions arent exactly the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Serious question: Body hair?As long as you are hygienic it doesn't really matter. I've never really heard a woman not like a guy because he was too hairy or not hairy at all, unless he was a literal unwashed ape who's never seen a razor. Dont be a wild animal about it and you're good. | /r/askFDS | 08/04/20 04:39 AM |
| 12 | Is it rude to say "i want to be financially independent so that a relationship is a pretty thing in my life but not a requirement."Men just have their power threatened when women dont need them. If women have the power to leave them whenever they want, they cant abuse women anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 04:21 PM |
| 30 | Why are women suck pickmeshas sometimes?! Honestly part of me cant feel bad that she feels bad for giving him "what he wanted" due to all the red flagsMaybe it's because I'm even younger than and learned the lesson a lot earlier that im thinking shes too old to be falling for it. Things like this really get frustrating to see everyday when there is so much out there about not letting men treat you like this. I suppose you have to get to a certain point of intolerance of this to really start to consume those sources seriously though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 03:52 PM |
| 15 | Why are women suck pickmeshas sometimes?! Honestly part of me cant feel bad that she feels bad for giving him "what he wanted" due to all the red flagsI know! We all had to learn at one point. What i think is the worst part is that all the top comments were about how he must be shy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 03:37 PM |
| 65 | Apparently, a woman stating her boundaries is a mere challenge for a man to violate them. These psycho pervs who have nothing better to do in a pandemic other than finding women to “overcome” are a virus upon God’s green Earth. Be safe and vet HARD.Later on reddit: Idk why females unmatch with me from OLD all the time. Females are so damn picky. Its probably because of my height. Females can't handle that I'm only 5'10 and not six fucking feet like Chad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Use this time to level up, not get yourself sickOf course!! Honestly mental health is so important right now and getting busy focusing on yourself before depression and boredom sets in is key. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 02:38 PM |
| 145 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!"I dont know why i can't find women my age. That's why i have my tinder age range set to 18-25" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 03:22 AM |
| 49 | Men: "we never get matches for online dating! It's not fair for us!" Majority of women's matches:This is actually a great idea. "Tatted", talks about how much he makes, white knighting, expecting a woman to stick with him through everything... All LVM things i see constantly all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 02:42 AM |
| 38 | Men: "we never get matches for online dating! It's not fair for us!" Majority of women's matches:I was like "casual racism...? Where...?" Because I didn't even make it to the last few words of the paragraph before I was grossed out lol. I knew it couldn't get better, only worse, once i noticed he had his earnings statement as his pic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 02:35 AM |
| 7 | The advice i saw posted on here about a male telling a woman to stop being so bitchy to get her husband to not hit her reminded me of this postI honestly hope no, but think yes. I know plenty of trad women, mostly who are younger, and proud of it and would follow the same advice. I could absolutely imagine them on that sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 12:42 PM |
| 21 | Left him at the cafeHonestly i would just stop trying to date if everything is shut down. It will be difficult to tell the men who are going to put 0 effort in and the ones who will put more. Also, you never know where theyve been or what you could get from them. Even if they are HV, dont risk it. No male is so HV you need to risk it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Seen this on Facebook, so many butthurt comments "Advice on marriage written in a pamphlet by a suffragette in 1918. It is currently on display at the Pontypridd Museum in Wales, 1918"How the hell is this so accurate 100 years later? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Seen this on Facebook, so many butthurt comments "Advice on marriage written in a pamphlet by a suffragette in 1918. It is currently on display at the Pontypridd Museum in Wales, 1918"How is this so accurate over 100 years later? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Seen this on Facebook, so many butthurt comments "Advice on marriage written in a pamphlet by a suffragette in 1918. It is currently on display at the Pontypridd Museum in Wales, 1918"How is this so accurate over 100 years later? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:57 AM |
| 5 | Seen this on Facebook, so many butthurt comments "Advice on marriage written in a pamphlet by a suffragette in 1918. It is currently on display at the Pontypridd Museum in Wales, 1918"How is this so accurate over 100 years later? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:57 AM |
| 12 | Tradwives have no idea what real traditional cultures are like.That widow thing is one thing trads completely have wrong. Widows are very respected in society. They achieved what everyone in a trad society wants (a family) and then it was ripped from them through death. Widows historically were afforded rights single women were never allowed. Yet trad men would disrespect them and call them used up or think their kids dont deserve a father because "no one should raise someone else's kids." Thats the exact opposite of what traditional societies do. The only … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:22 AM |
| 67 | I found a HVM but he doesn't go down on me. He likes to please me in other ways, but this really bothers me. All my former boyfriends liked to go down on me everytime. I can't keep seeing him because of this and it sucks.You're not compatible. Thats as important as everyone else and us women tend to be conditioned to think sexual compatibility is less important than every other form... It really isn't. If youre not satisfied now, you wont be more satisfied 15 years from now. Youll be even less satisfied. Its the same as if you didn't like his sense of humor or he worked too much or literally any other incompatibility. If its a deal breaker, its a deal breaker. Don't feel bad for having standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:35 AM |
| 42 | Thought I'd check out the over 40's in my area. Yikes 🤢Honestly 35+ men's profiles are absolutely so out of touch. The photos, if they even have any, are abysmal. The descriptions are desperate and mysogynistic. If anyone else had such a profile, itd be satirical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:32 AM |
| 123 | Eventually, the mask begins to slip...That second part is totally and dangerously untrue though. People do pretend much longer with so many things, cheating being the first one to come to mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:23 AM |
| 6 | The highlighted line gets meHer writing is kind of confusing but she did break up with him. That's why it says he was shocked and she is sad and she didn't want to play second fiddle. It was only after an open relationship that she realized how bad it was is basically what she's saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 06:45 PM |
| 53 | I don’t think I have to explainI remember one about a woman who was dying and her disease was very degenerative. She found out her husband was cheating with rough BDSM sex at lunch time a few times a week but was HAPPY when she found a text from the other woman saying "i can't wait until she dies" and the husband defended his sick wife. She said she was proud of him. It sickened me that he could live with cheating on his wife as she lay on her death bed. He couldn't even wait until she was fucking dead in a few months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 03:03 PM |
| 7 | Unpopular opinion: If you're dating men in their 20s, pay more attention to their work ethic than their actual incomeVery true. Very few people start out at the top when they turn 20, but if he is graduating with a math degree and has a great work ethic, he can be making 100,000$ a year almost directly out of school. On the other hand, if he has a great degree and lots in the bank, but hasnt held a job for more than 3 months and has been out of work for 6 months and skips classes and sleeps all the time... His money is going to run out if he is too lazy to replenish it with an actual work ethic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:57 PM |
| 49 | The highlighted line gets meLmao i know! "Negotiated an open relationship" nah, she negotiated her importance in his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:51 PM |
| 11 | Tfw a woman blocks me on insta for commenting "that pussy thicc af lil momma😈😈😈 look them tiddies popping out😭😈🙊💦💦💦" on a selfie of her in a turtleneckThe thing is i get tons of dms in my insta mailbox everyday. I ignore them all. Even the gross ones barely phase me. Thats how it is for most of these women. They don't care. Just like you say. But i am sure he is someone who has such a low bar for whats sexual. He mentions a damn turtleneck... I just... Can't with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:14 PM |
| 24 | Tfw a woman blocks me on insta for commenting "that pussy thicc af lil momma😈😈😈 look them tiddies popping out😭😈🙊💦💦💦" on a selfie of her in a turtleneckToo bad I can't go back and edit post title. To make it sound more like a man i should replace "woman" with "female" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Is this weird for a guy to do?This is weird and i think the place to start is to ask her what is going on. She knows you know and if she or he wad mad, then you'd have known by now. So just break the ice and say "hey, woke up at 2am to a car outside and decided to peek to see who wad coming. I saw you out there with maybe a guy." Dont be accusatory or anything at first because then she will just get mad and you can't know the nature of the situation. No matter whats happening, it shouldn't be bit this can range from a marrie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 20 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENThis. So much this honestly. Being in no relationship is better than being in a shitty one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 8 | Pretty much the gist of AITA. Women asking for bare min. and asking if they’re in the wrong. Then Men “My wife is 8 months pregnant and won’t clean the entire house, cook dinner and take care of our 3 kids by herself, AITA for expecting her to?”I do appreciate that when I looked, the top comment was "just throw out the whole man" lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:10 PM |
| 7 | Y’all. The AUDACITY!!This dude 100% lied to you by telling you he was gonna go to the fancy place because he has done this before and got rejected when he just said his plan to go to subway outright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Pick me! I'm so different so you don't need to put effort in.Nah I want women to love themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Pick me! I'm so different so you don't need to put effort in.Youre not agreeing to disagree, tho. What's what toxic red pillers would do? No one here is making fun of how she looks objectively. The closest is commenting about how she is in the same pose as every girl on instagram which is true! And not a bad thing, just a statement. And again, you havent even said what i am doing to her. Everyone here is talking about her comments... Exactly what you're saying should happen. So Idk what you think im doing to her? Or that anyone is doing to her? You are be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Pick me! I'm so different so you don't need to put effort in.Not really. As long as you cannot dox someone, then there's really no harm. I can block out everything but she will recognize it and people in her area or that know her can see it anyway since she posted it in public for anyone to see. If this was a pm or dm or something itd be different, but she chose to make it public which means she doesn't care who sees it. If her face was super visible i would have censored that, but she looks like a every woman in America with her phone over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:09 AM |
| 18 | Pickmeisha’s Valentines DayThat comment is hilarious. Hahahaha! Women really be acting like that tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 9 | Pick me! I'm so different so you don't need to put effort in.I was debating whether it wss photo shopped or not tbh. I didn't know if it was angles, but I noticed her left arm (the one on our right) is as large as her waist is. I have a decent amount of arm fat and a thin waist but i still wouldn't say ive ever taken a photo where they look similar size. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Pick me! I'm so different so you don't need to put effort in.Steph is an extremely common name. Theres so many, itd be hard to tell which one. Its not mine so 45 miles can be from anywhere in the US. I don't even know. Her face isnt in this. Her phone covers it. The only people who would be able to figure out who this is is if they already knew her. Her friends and classmates could probably recognize her, but good luck trying to find her otherwise. If she had an insta you could reverse image search but since she apparently doesnt 🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:40 PM |
| 73 | Pick me! I'm so different so you don't need to put effort in.Its to combat men who want sex for free. Because even if you dont do it that day, if you're always paying for yourself then he does get it free. If it's just a hook up or he gives 0 shits about investment into you, then he didn't think you're worth anything. Just how men claim they need to look out for Tinderella using him for food, women do really need to look out for men using us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:35 AM |
| 58 | Pick me! I'm so different so you don't need to put effort in.She doesn't get a sense of worth from a lot of likes... But she does get it from men right swiping!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:08 AM |
| 4 | I didn't see this Pickmeisha post while quickly scanning through. I felt honestly sad for her...This is what gets me about it. They think we are christian puritains anti masturbation at all. Masturbation as been going on for a lot longer than porn has existed. Its not inherently harmful. Whats harmful is what you do it to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 174 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️"Be ruthless in cutting off men who add no value to your life" fuck yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:03 PM |
| 7 | I didn't see this Pickmeisha post while quickly scanning through. I felt honestly sad for her...Which shows such low self esteem that she's willing to compromise. That's insecurity if I've ever heard it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you conduct OLD on your terms?Really jist take the reigns when decision making. A lot of people are just apathetic to decisions which is why there is the classic "what do you want to do?" "I don't know what do you want to do?" Instead of not knowing, just decide. Decide when you want to meet. Decide where. The more decisions you make on your terms, the more charge you are taking over this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 9 | I'm going to a stop light party soon, any advice?You are exactly right though. More provocative doesnt mean anything except sleazy men. Dressing in very nice clothes is much better. That outfit sounds super cute tbh. I hope it all goes well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 33 | I'm going to a stop light party soon, any advice?I always have a lot of luck when i dress nice, kind of do my own thing, and have really nice make up done. My whole thought is that men should put in the effort to come up to me or start conversation. If they want to, they'll always find a way to start it. A lot of men are probably going to be sleazy even then, though, so watch out. You don't have to find anyone here so judge them by a standard, not by how attractive they are relevant to everyone else there. Also i wouldn't drink too much if you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 7 | I am dying! Which one of yall made this mod for the sims 4?I found it on a sim modders tumblr. Lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 04:15 PM |
| 7 | I am dying! Which one of yall made this mod for the sims 4?If you Google Pickmeisha Sims 4 Trait you'll find it. It is just this one trait alone in the mod. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 04:15 PM |
| 46 | I didn't see this Pickmeisha post while quickly scanning through. I felt honestly sad for her...This is total projection. She is afraid she will lose him if she sets boundaries and has him not jerk it to exploited women anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:59 AM |
| 9 | I am dying! Which one of yall made this mod for the sims 4?It took me a couple times of looking at it until i looked at the icon! Lmao! I lost it all over again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 28 | I am dying! Which one of yall made this mod for the sims 4?Yes it's a trait but it's not an official one. Fans make traits that you can download and put into the game. This was one of those. Lol. Idk where they got it but i loved it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:43 PM |
| 153 | I am dying! Which one of yall made this mod for the sims 4?I need to add some highlights for the simmers here i just saw! So if your pickmesha sim goes on a bad date, you get a moodlet called " A Date to Mcdonalds" and the description is: "He took me on a date to McDonald's which is absolutely okay. A real woman doesn't need a man to take her somewhere nice just to prove how great of a man he is." If she is at home a while she gets a happy moodlet called "A Real Woman at Home" and its description says: "There are many women that will be going out to the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 09:56 PM |
| 82 | I am dying! Which one of yall made this mod for the sims 4?Yes! Someone modded this as a personality trait you can give a sim lmao i couldn't believe it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 39 | Tbh i haven't seen a lot of the first but being into games and cosplay attracts a ton of the secondThat's my point. Lol. OLD is pretty gross for the most part because these are most the guys on there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:38 AM |
| 33 | Tbh i haven't seen a lot of the first but being into games and cosplay attracts a ton of the secondLiterally in class this semester we had to say our favorite movie/show to introduce yourself and this neckbeard ass guy says High School of the Dead which is... Like an extremely fan servicey anime. Two days later he almost sits on me in the hallway when i am on a bench with no regard to my personal space, plopping his stuff on mine. So creepy especially because the whole bench was empty otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:36 AM |
| 1 | For Valentine’s Day please act like the HVW you areOkay just wondering on the opinions since everyone was commenting about "oh im doing this" or "im doing that" and didn't know if I was the philosophy that he just should always do something on that day no matter what lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | For Valentine’s Day please act like the HVW you areIs it low value to not like valentines day? I just don't like any day where everywhere is going to be packed, including and almost especially the nice places where price usually keeps the public out (fortunately for me). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Guy strong arms GF into an abortion and blames her when she’s still struggling/waking up to his bull shit. Wish I could pick more flair...Im glad people actually called him out for this honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:38 AM |
| 10 | The level of pick me is over 9000Ummm... She sent them last May... But is still not expecting exclusivity from him? Hmmmm.... 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:31 AM |
| 13 | Why is “What do you do for work” the first question guys immediately ask?I ask the same thing. Its really the kind of question you ask someone you don't know. I went to my boyfriend's christmas part At his work and everyone asked the same thing when they met me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:28 AM |
| 75 | Comedy hour: How has karma treated your LVM ex?One ex: Failed out of law school... After failing out of engineering and med school. All his friends realized how terrible he is so his only friends are equally terrible people online he only sees once a year. In a huge amount of debt trying to make it as a movie producer making shitty r/im10andthisisdeep independent movies on youtube. Another ex: lost a job. Went to jail. Had his mother disown him and leave him financially alone because of it. He cant find a gf since he has to be a registered s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 02:59 AM |
| 25 | What it really means when they say they "hate too much makeup"Exactly. No one likes those caked on gross make up looks with tons of product layered and layered. There are literally subs full of women making fun of those types of looks. But men love that "natural" and effortless look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 06:06 PM |
| 17 | ConsequencesWow this perfectly describes one of my exes. Im glad someone put it onto words so well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:43 PM |
| 8 | I don’t ever really have guys that pursue me irl. I’ve tried OLD and I match with a lot of guys but most of them seem to be LVM. I don’t know if I’m ugly or what the problem is. Any advice?I have the same issue with abuse as you. Except I can't get counseling lol. The thing is there are probably so many things youre doing yo sabotage yourself without even realizing it. I read The Body Keeps the Score and it was eye opening. 100% recommend. It will make you realize how you do sabotage yourself in relationships. Being aware is the first step. I wouldn't focus on your looks rn. Looks matter a lot in dating, but once you're an childhood abuse survivor things become so complicated beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 10 | Where to find HVM?OLD will have some but very very few and far between. In my experience it isn't so much WHERE you go but WHAT crowd you attract. Wealthy people dont only hang out at really high end places and anyone can save up enough to go to a high end place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 08:40 PM |
| 9 | This is awesome. How can we make this an actual thing?Lmao my thoughts exactly. I'd be already hella disgusted if a man asked me on a date there. It would be a blockable offense tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:02 PM |
| 10 | PreachWell not even that, but ive just seen her A LOT before and she is a pale woman. In here, tbh, if i didnt know who she was id think this was black face. It's like..m really dark. And i know people can tan but this is past that i think. I agree. Make up artist might have done her dirty or maybe didnt know how to do make up for stage lights so it looks worse than it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 02:27 PM |
| 46 | PreachThis is very true, but i am so bothered by how much darker her face is here than anywhere else ive ever seen her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Should I continue seeing this guy?This is extremely true. It depends on your age and location, but on meetup app there are like special interest groups (anime, video games, crafts, wiccan, etc.) That meet however often. You can search up your area and see if theres any groups that interest you, then you're more likely to find someone who starts off as a friend and share a deeper connection to than fucking right away. Another way to find groups is going to places that will know of or host meet ups for groups such as art galleries… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:09 PM |
| 9 | The clitoris should be viewed as reproductive anatomy and given comparable coverage as the penis.Ladies, if he doesn't give you an orgasm at least MOST of the times yall have sex (because lets be honest once you get into a relationship yall gonna have a 10 minute quickie here and there) then find someone who can satisfy you more sexually. I've never had an issue with the amount of oral i received from men but then i got with a man who did it almost every time. I can count on one hand the amount of times in 5 months we had sex but I didn't finish. Idk if i could ever go back. We deserve bett… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 11 | What men think superior isNot only is the response good, but when women are actually trained to defend ourselves, we can whoop ass. In The Body Keeps The Score, the author describes how one of his abuse patients learned self defense as part of her recovery. She was attacked by 3 men at night years later and beat them all up. Every woman should at least begin to learn self defense imo. Especially with crusty ass men out here really thinking like that anon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 03:03 PM |
| 10 | Should I continue seeing this guy?Of course do not. However, i wouldnt lead with wanting a FWB thing since really men are gonna expect sex right away from you. Meeting men organically in person is a better recipe for avoiding the fuck boys like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:39 AM |
| 14 | Thoughts on prenup?Pro prenups! If it is wildly uneven due to circumstances changing or men holding back information, judges will overturn them. It's not common but not unheard of. They are really meant to protect women and men with the possibility of cheating clauses, etc. So it will protect you and your assets as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:27 AM |
| 25 | He lacks all self awareness. He's creepy and sounds hella threatening, good thing he looks deranged as well. It's a clear sign to the ladies to steer clear!Why do men like this literally always look so disgusting no self respecting woman would touch them?! Always. Without fail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:25 AM |
| 244 | reminded me of this subredditThis is how i see it quite often. Men will want an open relationship because they wanna fuck around, then realize their gf has been getting way more action and is much more satisfied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:23 AM |
| 9 | The harsh truthThis is something women need to repeat to themselves all the time, especially young women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:42 AM |
| 34 | Great apology, that's real learning to do better.Tbh tinder guys arent that ugly. If anything the profiles are boring. Its OKC where all the ugly guys are lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Types of Abusive Men: The Water TorturerYeah i had this same response. The nobody would fight me. I put an abusive ex on the ground, people knew it. An ex almost killed me, so my brain went into a survival mode of fighting all the time. Well, abusive men gonna abuse. And abusive men arent always abusive right away... So one i knew well physically tried to rape me. And someone twice my size... I can't physically fight off. I can't put him on the ground. I can't slap him and be done. And i believed I was in a safe space with a bunch of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Types of Abusive Men: The Water TorturerI agree. Honestly these comments sound like LARP to me. When i was abused, i would act immaturely like this and think that because i knew i was abused and would physically fight back that it wouldnt happen again. However, there are many different kinds of abusers. Just because you had a man whonis physically abusive doesnt mean you can recognize the signs of emotional manipulation like the kind of guy i mention in the OP. Also physically fighting back is literally how women die by the hands of a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 03:12 PM |
| 10 | Types of Abusive Men: The Water TorturerThis is very true. The book I am summarizing focuses on romantic involvements so i did as well, but it definitely mentions abusive bosses, coworkers, friends, family, etc. Anyone can be any kind of abuser and no one deserves abuse from anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 11:49 PM |
| 19 | Types of Abusive Men: The Water TorturerThat sounds like another abuser type this book calls Mr. Always Right. He will try to define the reality youre living. He often says (without explicitly saying) that life would just be easier if accepted that he was correct. Any slight disagreement is seen as a horrendously stupid attack on him personally. He says "I know whats best for you/us." These types of dudes are insidious in the worst way. Rarely violent and able to slide under the radar in public so as to maintain their social image. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 11:45 PM |
| 21 | Types of Abusive Men: The Water TorturerI posted this one specifically because the best way to combat the survivors of this abuser feeling stupid for his abuse is validating them that it is abuse. It does not take someone yelling at you or hitting you to be abuse... unfortunately society disagrees and these abusers are so good at convincing people that something is wrong with their victim. I hope your life has improved and you're in a better place now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 09:22 PM |
| 42 | Types of Abusive Men: The Water TorturerYes, that is the biggest way to know if you are with a man like this. Write down stuff when it happens. I saw a post about someone going to court over their restraining order against a family member and they recommended any time someone who is known to be abusive comes up and talks to you, say nothing back. Instead, write down everything they say as best you can. When he said he did it, the abuser just left out of frustration after a minute. Documentation is an abuser's worst nightmare. You cann… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 09:09 PM |
| 41 | Types of Abusive Men: The Water TorturerThe issue is that none of that really helps with being in an abusive relationship. Women with all of what you described and more get abused really bad by men like this because they think they are different and better than the women who fall for it but it is exactly over confidence that gets them abused. The author of this book even tells one such story. This woman was abused so bad despite having all that that her husband was court ordered to go to treatment for abusing her. The best way to deal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Had this conversation on tinder this morning. I truly can’t believe some men are like this about self confidence.Men like to think they are the very first ones to ever compliment a woman in any way at all, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How long to talk on OLD before going out?Most people here see 2 days as a hard and fast rule. Id say it depends on your schedule that week. If you are busy and cannot go out until Friday and its currently Saturday (so you have 6 days) then give more time so you can vet them more thoroughly and have less of a chance of running into a gross guy. The men that i talked to for more than 3 days before seeing them always turned out better than same day guys or 2 day guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 04:12 PM |
| 37 | when he still won't marry you after 7 yearsThe only good reason ive ever seen anyone wait is for school. I have some friends who went through their doctorates or difficult graduate programs and if anyone here has gotten one its a lot of fucking work not even just when you get it but making sure you put it all to good use after that too. But also at that same time it is the woman deciding that she wants to wait until after her doctorate to do anything because the expectations on females for weddings is much larger than that of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 04:05 PM |
| 17 | Had this conversation on tinder this morning. I truly can’t believe some men are like this about self confidence.1000$ suit ia giving him too much credit. Its probably a Men's Warehouse black Friday discount suit lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Dude asking for my height and tells me to keep the heals on with him because he is 6 foot tall LmaolThis was probably meant to be a joke that he worded poorly since a lot of short guys tell women to not wear heels so they're not the same height. I took it as him saying you can keep the heels on because hes tall enough. Not saying it's a good one, but hes not being a douche bag. Just bad at flirting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 01:14 AM |
| 3 | How do care for yourself after a man hurt you?Delete all messages. Find good friends. Go places and do things. Read "why does he do that?" By Lundy Bancroft. Find hobbies. Put yourself out there. Try new experiences. Join clubs or groups related to things you like. Delete all the photos. Even throw away stuff he got you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 12:52 AM |
| 2 | (His new girlfriend is involved) Trying to not contact himYoure going to have to learn to live with the answer: hes abusive. You will never know why or how it came to be or why you. Block him. Block her. Go on some dates with other guys. Read "Why Does he do that?" By Lundy Bancroft. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 12:47 AM |
| 6 | 37M has a 6hr long date with a catch of a 36F but fails to secure a second date. He runs to his online community to lick his wounds. Pick-mes and bitter old men flock to validate him. Will someone please just tell him he’s a LVM already? The signs are all in his post and replies.Thanks!!! It ended up getting deleted so this helps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 12:20 AM |
| 7 | “Sir, this is a Wendy’s.” This sub was created to help empower women and mangry Redditors call for it to be banned. Meanwhile, dorky “dark triads” like this openly monetize and plug their shitty ebooks and seminars in the Manosphere and subs like TRP to spread misogynistic filth.Prime example of that earlier post about mens inflated ego haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 12:17 AM |
| 15 | Man pursues woman who is sexually inexperienced. Expects pornstar performance. Complains about her lack of experience in bed. Calls her technique "boring", "bland". Insults her for "not knowing how to be sexy".... Fucking hypocrite. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE PORNSICK MEN! DUMP HIM!Its normal for a guy to not get hard every time or finish every time. Its NOT normal for a guy to not get hard at all every time because a girl is "bland" and "boring." The first thing is he watches too much porn. And second he needs to talk to her to switch up movements and sensations because if this is among her first experiences, she probably has 0 idea what it feels like to a man to have sex since shes not a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 12:12 AM |
| 6 | The MansplainerYes. That is exactly the kind of man im talking about. What makes it even worse is when he starts interrupting you in front of other people too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 12:08 AM |
| 24 | Pick Me's have to have negative self awareness to not see how cringe this isOh she absolutely was NOT attractive. Honestly, shes probably saying this because she gets no attention from being unattractive that she needs to try to differentiate herself in a way she thinks appeals to men. Not saying it works, but I live and grew up in an EXTREMELY conservative community and the ugly girls were like this often in an attempt to cater to the "trad men." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 11:35 PM |
| 30 | Pick Me's have to have negative self awareness to not see how cringe this isA man probably did, but i found this on an instagram of a woman who was like a regular middle class white picket fence christian house wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 10:46 PM |
| 19 | Pick Me's have to have negative self awareness to not see how cringe this isBtw i found this on a womans instagram. A full grown woman with 1000 other images like this but of Christian stuff also posted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 10:44 PM |
| 17 | The MansplainerI hate this so much. And the worst is when these men will argue with you until they're dying breath, but then around other people be like "oh shes the smart one." Yeah well if im so smart why do you argue with absolutely everything i say at all?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 10:37 PM |
| 11 | A guy who I briefly talked to a few years ago shared this. Funny thing is, he kissed me at a party and then went downstairs and started making out with another girl and I caught him. Now all he does is complain on social media...mostly about women.Guys who complain about this usually had their first fuck up be an unforgivable fuck up. Theyre never guys who accidentally forgot to get you something at the store or ran late one time to come get you. Those are small and annoying, but everyone does that sometimes. No guys like this are mad that you end things after they cheat, harass you, abuse you, or generally make you feel like garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 10:22 PM |
| 63 | NEVER trust a guy that seems too good to be true!!!Many men at 18 are not HVM. Theyre just not. They mature slower (or not at all) and would rather fuck around for a while. If noy, you'll get into a long term relationship and before you know it they'll be posting on r/relstionship_advice about how theyre 22 and feel their life has been wasted only being with this one girl. Men are terrible at every age ofc but really be careful at that one. The stereotype of kids leaving high school to become sexually wild and full of drama in college is a stere… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 4 | This sub made me remember a "pick me" I used to be friends withTbh we should have a sub for these sorts of things. I love seeing this because we all need to see these things. I feel like everyone knows someone like this and talking about these experiences helps us learn. A sub for stories like this to serve as a reminder of how pitiful it looks to others would really help people especially ones just starting out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Needed to read this!Abusers couldn't be abusers without being masters of manipulation. Most abusive men are amazing to all the women they know... Except their domestic partners. There are even therapists that say theyve talked to past therapists of men who were physically abusive only to hear the therapist saying that man was wonderful and the victim deserved it because she was too vindictive or even abusing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Never be this woman. Level up. Realize he is one of thousands of almost identical men.She is not a baby. 19, so young and probably about the age she learns this lesson, but still an adult. I hope she does look back and cringe. I guess i unfairly compare how i was at 19 to others since i grew up in abuse which makes you mature really quick so you can survive and leave and try to be self sustained. I hope she spends college not involved with that toxic subreddit and living her best life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 07:50 PM |
| 32 | Never be this woman. Level up. Realize he is one of thousands of almost identical men.I hope so. It was on redpillwomen though and 90% of the shit I see there is unbelievable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 07:41 PM |
| 42 | Never be this woman. Level up. Realize he is one of thousands of almost identical men.Also, every man is an "artist" if you go to a big city. They all have that same sense of humor and im sure you can find a few that are good in bed. When things ended with a "good 'ol" country boy type who was a massive gambling addict i thought i would never ever find a man as handsome. I then began realizing.... That's what every man in my mid sized city looks like more or less. He wasnt special at all. Realize this quick, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 07:11 PM |
| 13 | Get a proper apology for his bullshitYeah you dont have to comfort him. If he does this, its abusive and comforting him makes his ego bigger and abuse he will commit towards you worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 07:00 PM |
| 111 | I'm ok with being rude for a minute. I'm not ok with being dead.The ladies on my favorite podcast (crime junkies) always say "be rude, be weird" because it can really save you. If someone is behaving oddly like following you around a store or keeps approaching you with drinks at a party, then be loud and weird about it. Not only that though but this sort of behavior can only thrive because of women fighting each other. If you tell him no thanks, then another woman overhears and tells you youre rude and supports the man, that also encourages him, validating t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 01:40 PM |
| 5 | What shall we do with the drunken captain?I didn't even see the name of this sub. I honestly dont know how since i dont follow this sub since i disagree with it a lot... I didn't even think about the name of this sub until you commented this. My reddits been weird lately following subs i dont follow and unfollowing subs I know i didn't unfollow myself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/19 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Statements for Women to Start Saying to MenHonestly i think having a thread stickied so people can add to it would be great. Also that way women can come back to it over and over to remind themselves that they should practice these statements whenever applicable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 01:04 AM |
| 7 | What shall we do with the drunken captain?I have been abused the majority of my life and am in recovery. I am basically learning how normal humans interact and how to respond to it properly. As a result, ive read this book and many others on abusers to help me spot them and handle them. I made a post about excuses they make and the myth that there are as many male abusers as women abusers recently. I plan to make it a series not only based around this book but others and studies ive read. Hopefully it'll help women who either dont need … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/19 10:54 PM |
| 90 | Statements for Women to Start Saying to MenStop seeking validation from me. Thats a manipulative tactic and we both know it. Never No is a complete sentence. You dont have a right to that information. You were in the wrong and owe her an apology. I dont forgive you. It's not okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Don't tell men how horrible other men are.To everyone commenting, i did make a post just today! Thanks for the input. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 10:40 PM |
| 22 | Know Thine Enemy: Knowing Male Abuse so You Can Avoid ItOne difference in male and female killers i found interesting was that women usually killed for a reason. They were abused, they needed the money of his life insurance, mercy kill, etc. However men kill due to emotions such as rage, vindictiveness, revenge, etc and lack the desire to keep it in check. It is discussed in one of John Douglas's (he was one of the founding fathers of criminal profiling in the FBI) books. Yet, i just saw a post today on MGTOW about how women are slaves to their emoti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 10:40 PM |
| 17 | Don't tell men how horrible other men are.I agree. It is really important to teach kids the basics of how to know if they are being manipulated. We all know physical abuse when we see it, but it takes emotional abuse to get away with the physical. You can have emotional without physical abuse, but there is no physical abuse without emotional abuse. Otherwise, we would have no problem getting up and leaving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | This is from a story a woman told about being in an abusive relationship. Remember that if you have to justify yourself by "not being like other girls" youre probably being manipulatedI actually have read it which is part of what I would want to talk about in summary because it has a lot of great insights that make a lot of sense. It was also the best resource imo on spotting potential abusers to avoid them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 02:46 PM |
| 350 | Don't tell men how horrible other men are.Tbh as a woman who was with a few abusive men after being raised in an abusive household, then had to learn how to identify abusive men and mistreatment from them to prevent me from missing red flags because i was literally raised to accept them, I've been thinking of doing a series of posts on here on how to identify potential abusers and what red flags look like for those women who maybe never needed to go to therapy or look into it so they wouldn't otherwise know. I just didn't know if it was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How to navigate BumbleI mean it doesn't matter as much for women i dont think, but it is always better to have some out and about. And by inside i should have specified as inside a house. Its not attractive to have 2 mirror selfies and then one cuddling a dog. Personally, i have 2 of mine outside at the beach and then at a park, then the rest of whats allowed is mirror selfies or my pets. I get a lot of attention with that. I would just vary them. Seeing a similar thing three times wont draw people in. The answered q… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:28 PM |
| 3 | How to navigate BumbleThat was a typo whoops. I am 22 closer to 23 than 21. Oh, I know. Ive been with guys ranging in age from 20-33. I spent a lot of time exploring and learning while trying to leave my abusive home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:39 AM |
| 7 | How to navigate BumbleIf they dont have a bio, nope. Less than three photos, nope. Photo with someone who definitely is an ex, nope. Only photos of themselves inside, nope. More than 30 miles away, nope. Less than 24 years old (i am 21 and like older men because theyre more likely to be established), nope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:43 AM |
| 5 | How to respond when a guy asks you to pick the date spot?Honestly, i took this as an opportunity to practice your dominance and responsiveness. Whenever a guy would ask where i wanted to go or what i wanted to do, id always say somewhere or something because thatd show that I am not only socially involved but not afraid of telling him what i wanted and expecting it. Men who didn't like me choosing the place or never asked always were red flags to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:40 AM |
| 17 | How do I respond to an offer of coffee or drinks?Honestly a lot of guys offer coffee or a drink as a starter because they are unsure of the amount of interest between you two. However if youre confident enough to say dinner, theyll reciprocate. Even on the date it is easy to turn drinks or coffee to dinner. I turned froyo into froyo, dinner, bar hopping, club, then snacks at his place before he took me home at like 3am. It was a 13 hour date. He never wanted to sleep with me, i never offered. Didnt stay the night. Just connected really well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:36 AM |
| 12 | This is from a story a woman told about being in an abusive relationship. Remember that if you have to justify yourself by "not being like other girls" youre probably being manipulatedThe thing is too that this book i got this from emphasizes is that abusive men are often not mentally ill. They are not even deluded. They just get off on making you agree with them by controlling the narrative, allowing them to be "victims" of you again. Then that turns into a sob story he tells the next girl who will call you a slutty bitch before she gets abused too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:30 AM |
| 11 | Anyone else gets turned off by picky eaters?Same. Like octopus is one of my favorite things. Also i used to eat bugs all the time in food to add protein. Weird foods is a small joy in life really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:26 AM |
| 1 | The shit men expect for 3 minutes of masturbating into a womanMaybe so. My labia minora fits inside my labia majora. You cant even see it unless it swells from horniness. Its fairly easy to move out of the way with one hand and see every thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:22 AM |
| 1 | The shit men expect for 3 minutes of masturbating into a womanYeah i have to shave because I just hate the feeling of hair down there. I use Venus which is also not the best, but I have always just gone slow and done a little at a time. It takes me probably 15-20 minutes alone to do that part. I also use a mirror though to make sure i am angled right when it gets too low for me to bend over and see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Another “My Boyfriend is amazing but doesn’t give a shit if I orgasm” postI am with a man now that always makes sure i orgasm and i have to tell him not to sometimes since i know I wont (theyre extremely intense so they hurt if i do more than like one a day). This has been eye opening. I will never be the OP of that post again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:11 AM |
| 16 | Anyone else gets turned off by picky eaters?I also think giving people a "category" of food that they generally dont like is acceptable too. Like i hate Mexican just because the spices, beans, etc. That are really common. However i love Asian food. I grew up with all Vietnamese, Korean, and Chinese friends so stuff even adventerous people would be weirded out by, I'll eat no problem. So i will be forgiving about that sort of thing because i understand. But there is usually something that you like anywhere. You can always ask for no this o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:09 AM |
| -4 | The shit men expect for 3 minutes of masturbating into a womanI agree with what youre saying but just want to ask if cutting yourself down there is really that common? I shave once a week there and only once cut myself in 7 years. I would suggest a new razor and a mirror to anyone who is cutting themselves that much. Go slow and get a clear view of yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:05 AM |
| 4 | What do you think is up with men who speak about their wives as soon as you meet them but also flirt with you?I agree. It is hard to tell if someone is flirting because theyre trying to or if you perceive them as flirting because you find their attitude attractive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Pick me! Pick me! Im so unique compared to other women!Also, if it is this easy to sell things to them then maybe I should hop on redbubble and sell these | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 07:55 PM |
| 10 | Pick me! Pick me! Im so unique compared to other women!I thought that bathmat was a doormat tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 07:54 PM |
| 27 | Pick me! Pick me! Im so unique compared to other women!That strip club one KILLS me because i know a woman who will tell anyone shes straight as the strip poll the women her "super sexy" (hes not) boyfriend drags her to go see. But she will BRAG about it and when she asked me if i liked them and i said i hate them she got super depressed sounding and said "i dont wanna talk politics." Like girl WUT!?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 07:33 PM |
| 7 | I’m only thankful I learned my lesson and levelled up my attitude and my standards.I relate. Im thankful that i learned my lessons of life early rather than later like a lot of unfortunate women have to. Also my ex fiance was fantastic so truly am thankful for someone showing me the standard of treatment i deserve. For someone who went though csa and home and domestic abuse, its a hard thing to learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 05:52 AM |
| 2 | How to approach the topic of wanting to start a family soon?If he wants to start a family, just talking about it should not scare him off. "Before 30" is vague. Try starting with that for a conversation. Start with questions to gauge where he is at. Talk about whether you're financially secure enough and possibly starting a fund strictly for baby. What about daily care while you two work? Do you like your local schools? Do you live in a kid friendly place? These are all things to figure out before having a kid so you can make adjustments before having to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/19 03:56 PM |
| 9 | Its actually good things like this happen to you can weed them out after only 1 messageI forgot to mention in the title that this isn't mine. Its from a dating sub that can't be cross posted, but i thought it demonstrated their cum brain nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 03:13 PM |
| 15 | Its actually good things like this happen to you can weed them out after only 1 messageOh i forgot to mention this isn't mine, just from a dating sub that I cant cross post here. It really is. Any man with any experience should know this wouldnt work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 03:12 PM |
| 2 | LMAO this MGTOW moid made a video about us on Youtube. THIS is the type of salty trash hating on on usRemember this is who is saying they wouldn't want to be with "bitches" like us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:06 AM |
| 13 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?Their arrogance can be used for our advantage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:37 AM |
| 14 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?Honestly i am just very glad that they out themselves to everyone so quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:32 AM |
| 11 | Is it bad for dating prospects if I don’t drive?Usually men drive in relationships so it typically doesnt matter. If you live in a large city, its probably decently common for people to not drive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:30 AM |
| 12 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?I met my current bf through a dating app. I use them all the time since to me dating is a way to learn new people, explore new things, etc. And you can get a lot of different flavors of people quite quickly without anyone expecting commitment. However, i wouldnt use it if your endgame is commitment. I tend to find people are on dating apps for a reason. Either its fine intentions like mine, or trying to meet new people when you move to a new area... But you get the fuck boys looking for ONS and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:25 AM |
| 7 | Why don’t fuckboys leave you alone?Because their inflated ego tells them that every woman has to be secretly infatuated with him, waiting to be the flavor of the week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Don’t you just love how people like to think we’re larping men, 40+ loners or extremely unattractive?Oh i am sure that more than a few of them have dmed me on insta. Hilarious for them to find out that the girl they sent 40 dms to begging to get a drink is on here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Body countIm not saying they dont exist, jist that youre more likely to find fuck boys that age. I would say it depends on the area you live too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else think that shows like the Bachelor are absolutely disgusting?I have a weak spot for reality TV. Not for stuff like the bachelor or toddlers in tiaras which ranges from insulting to just ridiculously inane. But 90 day fiance is one i like. Mostly because ik its 90% fake anyways so i dont have to feel bad about the stuff that happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Don’t you just love how people like to think we’re larping men, 40+ loners or extremely unattractive?Sour grapes sour grapes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:03 PM |
| 33 | Reminder that hot and ugly dudes end up treating you the same wayUgly guys will be insulted if you reject them and insecure if you accept them. Both lead to the same outcome. Ladies, remember that we are not around to fix our boyfriend's self image problems. Only he can fix those. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Body countIts more about how you feel about the body count. I am decently in double digits and dudes dont care. If you are feeling insecure in yourself about it, then find guys to date and be with who dont just want to fuck and chuck. I wouldnt let your perception of what men want change your life significantly though. Edit: how old are you by the way? I just ask because of your last comment about not wanting you long term. I am 21 and dont date guys my age usually because they aren't looking long term, m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/19 07:47 PM |
| 6 | I feel so concerned now when i see stuff like thisOh i know this too well. Id never tell another woman about something like this tbh... I know when women told me i didnt listen. So i expect they wouldn't either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:52 PM |
| 11 | I feel so concerned now when i see stuff like thisI wouldn't say shes a friend. Shes just someone who runs in the same social circle. We dont even have each others numbers or snaps or anything, so when i see her its because she happens to be there with other people im friends with. Ive just been seeing her more often lately because holidays are coming up and everyone wants to see each other in my friend group. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 02:49 PM |
| 17 | Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etcMen who are always interacting, even in a seemingly innocent way, with attractive women with a lot of male orbiters while being in a relationship. He wants to go to a strip club Even more so if he thinks YOU should WANT to go to the strip club with him "I could have a threesome, but only with two women because another man would be gay." A man who doesnt mind if his gf gets with other girls, but another man cant even look at her. Hint: it means he views wlw as a kink and not equal to a male-femal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I break it off with him?Sex is an extremely valid reason to end things with someone but also consider that it was the first time you met. If you dont like the size of his dick, then you can end things and dont feel bad. It might not have felt great for him either if he is suddenly being nontalkative now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: good strategy to find a middle class 6/10 husband at 25?I found mine on tinder actually. Hes 27, earns such a good income he can travel internationally and own a house, and pay for us to eat out once or twice each week along with trips for us. Im 21 though. 25 is not the wall. I see so many women in their late twenties and early thirties that are good looking and getting men. You can find them anywhere, even unexpected places like i did. But you aren't going to just have one drop in your lap and if you really want a man with a stable income then 30s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 02:18 PM |
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