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[–]pickmieshaexorcistFDS Apprentice93 points94 points95 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hate how porn and masturbation are thought of as the same. They aren’t. Masturbation is fine and most children discover it pretty young, even if they don’t know exactly what’s going on, they know that exploring certain ways can feel good. And that’s normal and healthy. Porn is NOT.
[–]--qtbunny--FDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Looks like natural selection get around pretty quickly. Also porn /= masturbation.
Guys who lack social skills and sit in their room jerking off to god who knows what, are most likely going to stay single. Compared to a guy who knows what he wants in life, and is confident, and has his mind set in reality.
[–]quaintlyspokenFDS Newbie[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]LadyGrimesFDS Disciple37 points38 points39 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Never date pornsick men. They don't deserve real women.
[–]quaintlyspokenFDS Newbie[S] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They do not. 😤
[–]mydeepestinnerworksFDS Disciple42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao, I started when I was 4-6 years old. Porn and masturbation are completely different things.
[–]quaintlyspokenFDS Newbie[S] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed, bit I'm sure these kids are watching porn too.
[–]DelicateDreamFDS Disciple21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Children who exhibit sexual behavior young were often abused.
[–]cantstopthemachine77FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I started early, but then, I was also exposed to (found and came across in a few different ways) pornography around then which I’m sure is no coincidence.
[–]throwaway-786786FDS Apprentice19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Gross. I grew up in a restrictive household, and waited until I was sure Islam wasn't true to masturbate lol, so I started at 21. I think if I wasn't religious, it would have been 14/15 when I tried it. A lot of women receive their first orgasm from a guy, actually. They don't even masturbate on their own.
Why do guys always seem to start so young?? Is there a way to prevent this from happening? Boys will be exposed to porn one way or another. I fear having to raise a son in the future.
[–]Eat_Pant_b0ssFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm scared of it too. My plan is to not allow my son a smart phone or a computer or TV in his room. We will have a family computer with a content blocker on it that everyone in the family can use in plain sight of each other. My husband and I will be allowed a laptop for work and stuff so the kids can have time on the family computer to do schoolwork.
Even though I plan to raise my son knowing from birth that women are equals and seeing women being hurt in any way should fill him with disgust, I know that no matter how much he internalized that, once puberty hits his dick will take over. When he gets old enough to start being interested in sex, even though he has been given a solid sex education that is anti-porn from his parents and from school and from the spiritual background I plan on providing by taking him to church, I know men and I'm not counting on that being enough. So I'm not going to give him the chance to see any of that filth.
If he wants to look at that garbage even after all my influence he can do it when he's a grown man and out of my house. The idea that kids need smartphones is a lie prompted to promote consumption of products and media from an early age to capitalize on children's ignorance and poor impulse control. He can have a flip phone or he can use our land line. Porn will never touch my kids. Teaching them sexual morals, biological facts, and a deep understanding of women as human beings is the first step. Limiting their access to technology is the second. Thats the only solution I can think of.
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[–]throwaway-786786FDS Apprentice11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you have any doubts whatsoever about raising a male child abort it or pay for a procedure that will give you female sperm only.
Whoa, yeah I don't think I can do that. There must be a way to teach them self control. Too bad there are no resources out there. Children growing up with easily accessible porn is a relatively new thing.
[–]quaintlyspokenFDS Newbie[S] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Personally, I won't be the woman making more problems by bringing more men into this world.
You can teach them all you want but they have free will. Nothing will stop a male from being LVM if he wants to be, if societies around the globe keep telling him he's not wrong. LVM will continue to be birthed and created by the billions until women get serious enough about it. Men by and large want to be LVMs.
Change has to happen at all levels but why drag our feet? I'd rather a world with billions of HVM than what we have now. A male child is not worth the suffering of women. Every fantasy and ambition of happiness a HVW has will be tainted with unsavory facts so long as we live in this paradigm. Even if we have to disconnect at times for our mental health the world keeps cycling the abuse.
[–]throwaway-786786FDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I get what you're saying. Nowadays with terms like "simp" to describe a good man and the "coolest" guys having casual sex with multiple women, boys are being socialized to think that that's what you need to do to gain social status.
No matter what we tell them at home, the world is going to reward them for doing the exact opposite.
If for some reason they don't grow up to be popular and attractive, then they'll likely be deep in some depraved porn shit or gaming world.
[–]yellowxmellowFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Back when my little brother was 7 or so, I found out he watched porn. I told my parents and everything and I still don’t regret it at all😂
[–]Whateverbabe2FDS Apprentice-3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A genuine question for all the people saying masturbation is healthy:
If it's healthy why does it give men ED? Does not seem very healthy to me.
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