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| 33 | Just remember LVM and scrotes will easily get dwindled by their “online gfs”I've seriously considered scamming lvms like this. These guys DONT WANT a real woman and fundamentally are satisfied with the pretend pics and fake conversations. And they are willing to part with their money to continue the illusion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 176 | Friends with Men?Sure, if you don't mind the following: Him jerking off thinking about you Him creeping on your social media for his "spank bank" Him talking to his bros about you in a demeaning and objectifying way Him taking your acts of friendships and interpreting them as you wanting to sleep with him Him suddenly icing you out when you don't fall on his dick according to his timeline. Him seeing you as just another woman in his orbit available for sex Him resenting you for "friendzoning" Him Him using you t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:09 AM |
| 686 | Women leaving the dating appsMen treat dating apps like Craigslist personal ads of yore. Because women are the PRODUCT not the customer Too many married men on them. Because dating apps don't require background checks. Because men don't read profiles and just mindlessly swipe right on anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 03:40 AM |
| 51 | Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business.Reason No. 64825 that we dont become "friends" with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:42 PM |
| 43 | I thought I was ready to date but...Friend, always bet on yourself. Always! If you do, you will never ever lose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 06:47 PM |
| 18 | Makeup: How do you ladies do it?Im 46. I went thru this sort of thing when I was about 19. Back then, I determined that I didn't care men if found me fuckabke or even attractive anymore, reason being that I learned that men would fuck anything with a hole. So I quit. I quit shaving my legs. Quit wearing make up. Quit doing my hair. I quit because I realized I was doing all this, predominantly, to make myself attractive to men. Did this for about 6 months. Did my bf complain? Nope. He still slept with me lol. But removing mysel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:06 PM |
| 311 | Men wanting to have sex with you is not the compliment you think it is! Men will have sex with a mcchicken sandwichOy vey, this brings back memories of my first marriage. After the 2nd child was born, the marriage went to shit cause he couldn't deal with life anymore. I was also heavier too. So we would fight and he would always tell me how fat I was. Fine. Then a few weeks later, he would bitch at me about our sexless marriage. I said, why do you wanna sleep with me, you said I was fat and you weren't attracted to me! (AND I DEF DIDNT WANT HIM IN BED EITHER). Told I wasn't sleeping with someone that didn't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:33 AM |
| 138 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meThis guy sounds like a perfect candidate for the "Forever Boyfriend" category. IF you marry him, have his kids and then YOUi continue your upward trajectory while he waffles around on a business going nowhere, you are in a precarious position for him to take half your shit, you pay HIM alimony and possibly child support. If you DON"t marry him, and you split up, you may just end up paying child support, but at least YOUR assets will remain YOUR assets. I'm assuming you are in the United States w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 04:22 PM |
| 232 | Menopause liberates women from the hormonally induced "caretaking" role. In short, menopause makes women act a bit more like men, and men can't handle it.The takeaway here is to acknowledge your hormonal make up can you land you in an unwanted caretaking role of a scrote and stay in a shit relationship or marriage because of "feels". You are NOT a slave to your biology however. With some awareness, you can make decisions that benefit YOU. Don't waste your caretaking tendencies on boyfriends and husbands. They are adults and take care of themselves. In fact, don't waste it on anyone but rather apply it to where "nature" intended: your children (if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 05:17 PM |
| 33 | looking men in the eye, and being receptive vs naturally feeling defensive -- how do you navigate this?In public, I treat men as just inanimate objects in the background. I mean, I'm not going to puzzle over whether I should address the parking meter I walked by or even acknowledge its existence. And if that parking meter somehow speaks up, I just assume it's a hallucination and I keep going on my way 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/22 06:42 PM |
| 50 | Man tries to challenge my standards when I say walks are not datesThis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:42 PM |
| 13 | Queen of the Pickmes Ghislaine Maxwell found GUILTY on all counts of sex traffickingShe was the ultimate pickme for Epstein. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 11:52 PM |
| 13 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateThe comments on original post in the other sub are weird as well. Like, oh, this is relationship GOALS!!! Oh, it's so joyous to be so lovsaing and trusting! Nobody saw the obvious narcissism and pathological need for validation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 10:52 PM |
| 24 | I keep blaming myself.Question: Why do you privilege your lack of relationship success over ALL OF YOUR OTHER SUCCESSES? You are debt free, have a good job, in a master's program, and your mental health as improved. As far as the FDS version of Maslow's hierarchy of needs....you ARE a success because you are financially independent and don't need a man to provide shelter and food. Hell, I'M HAPPY FOR YOU!! As women, we are brainwashed into thinking that our success in romantic relationships is the sine quo non of our… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:11 PM |
| 122 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateShe fails to see that her husband's response was giddy and totally over the top and frankly, unsettling. This woman is so messed up from her prior abuse that she fails to see red flags coming from the opposite direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:26 PM |
| 283 | Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrateIm waiting for the "update" where she posts that that her husband is "encouraging" her to explore her new "connection" with this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 28 | lowkey don’t even care at this point if a guy wants to screw around with my feelings like that i simply just do not have the time and resources to deal with it - block and deleteBeing emotionally inconsistent and ambiguous is very UNATTRACTIVE. and Boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)You don't deal with them. You leave them. Then block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)That quote should be stickied at the top | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 07:09 PM |
| 56 | My experience leaving an emotionally abusive lvmAllow me to be happy for you then! Cause I'm seeing all kinds of beautiful colors in your story! I'm happy that you are financially secure and a homeowner. You achieved the cornerstone of the FDS version of Maslows hierarchy of needs: financial independence from men. Next, im happy that you can devote your time and energy to your pets who are so much more deserving of your time and attention. I'm also happy that you are in a peaceful home and are in a place to heal from living with that crazy sc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:00 PM |
| 120 | LibFem Lies: Western Women Didn't Enter the Workplace Until the 1960sLibFem, and it's mutant offspring SexPozzyLibFem, was correct in that MIDDLE CLASS (on up) WHITE WOMEN didn't enter the workforce en masse until the 1960s. However, working class white women (regardless of race) always worked. Black women always worked. Migrant women always worked. Unmarried women always worked. But LibFem didnt care about that. Like they don't care about the sex workers that are something "other" than the unicorn empowered sex worker of white middle class origin who freely choo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 16 | single womenThis is a sad. I would encourage you to do some soul searching on this. What did you like about yourself before your relationship that doesn't exist now that you are in one? What can't that apsect of you that you liked as a single person be in your relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 06:25 PM |
| 11 | First Date in a Few Days, Need Help!When I was dating I started off with a business like handshake, made eye contact and said,HI, I'm letsberealforamoment. That set the tone for a no nonsense, don't touch me evening. Made it clear that this was all business and no sex. Loved watching them trip over themselves as a result. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 03:13 AM |
| 193 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsThis is a prime example of a man wanting a divorce but won't cause it will cost "him" too much of "his" money". That's why he bangs on about her not having g a career. And paying for school might be expensive for "him". So he will stew in bitter resentment and act like the victim and make his wife so miserable that SHE will file for divorce. Because he won't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 02:01 AM |
| 26 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?I've been married twice, and divorced twice, and i never changed my last name. It never came up in discussion between myself and my exhusbands. The ONLY persons that asked me if i was gonna to change my last name were my.......aMOTHER IN LAWS. My first mother in law would always address cards to Mr. and Mrs. LVMslastname. Bah! My parents raised me. I figure they should get the credit, or shame, for it. Although now that I'm fairly prominent in my field, i may change my last name to regain anonym… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 12:22 AM |
| 65 | Men telling on themselves on OLD, exhibit ADo men anymore use OLD, to like......date women? This just seems to be a blatant effort to troll and abuse the platform. If a guy is serious about finding woman to date (or even sleep with) this isn't the way to do it. But that's probably the point- he doesn't want to find a woman, but just wants to reeeeeee!! into the void of OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:44 PM |
| 41 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobYou made the right choice. Play this tape forward: Imagine coming home every night to his emotional instability. He would have made YOU responsible for all his emotional distress. His coping mechanisms to deal with LIFE are non existent. Also, there is a massive difference in values here. You value your career and career achivement. It sounds like he did, at some point, but doesn't anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:16 PM |
| 72 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.Avoidants need someone to neglect, yet need that same person to chase after them fruitlessly. Once you break that wheel, the wheels come off the avoidants shitshow and avoidant is suddenly not so avoidant...until they suck you back in and in a few weeks they are back to neglecting you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:38 AM |
| 8 | How long is too long for a guy to reply to a text?If man wants you, he will keep you close by and keep your attention so you won't drift off to someone else who might want you too. 11 hours? Nah, he isn't into you for whatever reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:32 AM |
| 20 | Do you have any female role models?Susan B. Anthony: she fought for the right for women to own property and participate in the economy. She knew that financial dependence of women was a one way ticket to a lifetime of submission to men. That truth has NOT changed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 08:03 PM |
| 72 | Older women of FDS, your wisdom is requestedI'm 46. Married twice, divorced twice. 2 sons. American. Rural, not on the coasts. The Good: I'm happy to see that emotional labor, unequal division of child are and household work is now mainstream criticism and we are taking men to the woodshed over this. Now, that doesn't mean that individual men and women are applying this criticism to their lives, but it's out there, loud and proud. 20 years ago...those tasks were "baked in" and simply assumed.by all that women would do it, despite working … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 8 | Thanksgiving blues..I'm going to go against the grain here a bit compared to other responses. I too am a successful lawyer and own my own business. Divorced twice. 2 kids. Despite the above, my parents feel that I am somehow "safer" if I have a man by my side. That I'm not "alone". Statistics aside that suggest a woman is more likely to be a victim of a crime if she has a romantic partner lol. It's a very old, albeit traditional mindset. To them, not being alone and safe means being married, despite my loving famil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Any advice for my first date in 2 weeks?Absolutely no discussion, hints, JoKEs, innuendo about anything sexually related. If he does any of that, he doesn't respect you and is looking for a shortcut to sex. A first date is to explore common interests, see if you two can hold a conversation to the extent you would like to see each other again. It's NOT a time to discuss intimate things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 05:14 PM |
| 11 | article: a couple that has mutual rules in their relationship that ban porn, lusting over the opposite sex, sexting and texting with the opposite sex behind each other's back has the scrotes and pickmes on the internet in a rage; media wants to emphasize this is a "Christian" or "religious" thingSeems like the "internet" supports all the bizarre rules bdsm, polygamous and ENM couples impose on each other. Why is then so controversial? Mmmmmm...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 05:08 PM |
| 205 | NEED ADVICE - Can't Tell If New Partner Is HV After Having Been With Too Many LVM/NVMDoes he ever compliment men in public? Or elderly women? OR children? If his compliments are purely to attractive women under a certain age, this is a major red flag. Even if he has stopped doing it in front of you. HE also has poor emotional boundaries with his "close" friendships with the women you o describe. I suspect he enjoys the validation and thrill from these "friendships" but yet can pat himself on the back for not "cheating" on you. Also, be aware that as long as everything is "good" … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 10:27 PM |
| 17 | Annoyed with How Pressured Women Are Not to Be Angry or Bitter After a BreakupSocial media is a terrible place to express righteous anger. Your audience is mere voyeurs and digital anger is easily dismissed as entertainment or somehow trivial. Nah, righteous anger is convincingly done IRL face to face in person. Emails, texts, phone calls, face to face confrontation, etc. Outside of that you are just a person spouting off on social media and people dgaf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 07:21 PM |
| 218 | Case Study: The fortysomething year old "PICK ME". I'll even give a you a TLDR: I had sex with a man on the first date even though I was not attracted to him or even felt a connection. He feels the same way, but asked to have sex with me again.I found this one at the D at ing OVer FORteee sub which is dumpster fire of pickmeism Some lessons for our readers here from this post: Pickme's exist at all ages sadly enough ONLINE "CHEMISTRY" IS FAKE!! It's NOT REAL EVER! Any guy that tries to kiss while you are asleep is a predator. LEAVE! Don't have sex on the first date. Worse, don't have sex with a guy you who leaves you feeling confused or you have no connection with! Why would let a man STICK HIS DICK in you under these circumstances? N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 19 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….I should have stopped reading at the part where he said he had "two best girlfriends" but i continued anyway. However, i did stop reading at the part where he, UNPROMPTED, tells you he finds them attractive. At that point, you should have blocked and deleted. No explanation from him because you know your standards and he failed to meet them. He was manipulating you for some nefarious reasons, either trying to get you into threesome or drag you unwittingly into some poly situation or some other b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 05:26 PM |
| -32 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeAnyone who thinks political conservatives have a monopoly on hating women and brutalizing them is naive and/or wilfully obtuse. Read Andrea Dworkin's views on men from the progressive side of politics. Yes, those are the ones that infiltrated lib sex pozzy feminism and brought us rampant porn and "empowering sex work." Some famous progressive PIMPS are Larry Flynt and Hugh Hefner. Everyone here who is bitching about Elle. Too bad. Grow the fuck up. One unpleasant aspect of being an informed ADUL… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:16 PM |
| 12 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?When I was 19. I was reading Andrea Dworkin, and there was a phrase in one of her books that said "men will fuck a mud puddle". That already confirmed my experience. And then my exhusband (bf at the time) confessing to me that he jerked off thinking about random women he saw that day, etc. I am 46. Male sexual attraction to you MEANS NOTHING. At age 19, i stopped caring if men found me fuckable or not. They can get their dick up for an animal, a child, a drug ravaged prostitute, and complete str… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:56 PM |
| 32 | I'm not sure what to think of this guy I've been on 4 dates withI almost stopped reading at the "5 kids" part. But I stopped reading at the "he is in therapy because he has no empathy". This guy sounds like an emotionally stunted log. And at age 45, that's not gonna change. He doesn't bother to walk WITH you, and he already demonstrates that he doesn't care about your emotional well being. What more do you need to break this off? Another 6 months of of this garbage? Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:28 PM |
| 90 | WOC be careful fetishization is real....This is why I don't date outside of my race/ethnicity. Men already fetishize and objective women, I don't wanna deal with another layer of race based fetishization that comes from stereotypes and porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:45 PM |
| 12 | Man baby and forever gfWhat an idiot. Just because you say she isn't a hooked doesn't mean she is not. If you pay someone for sex, that is a hooker John relationship. No getting around it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 05:13 PM |
| 27 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?Easy. You don't marry or start a family with a LVM. Or if he turns into a LVM prior to marriage or kids, then you have the emotional fortitude and confidence to walk away. Or if he turns into a LVM after marriage and kids, then you make sure you have the financial means to leave and then LEAVE and get divorced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:27 PM |
| 13 | When to take a break from datingWhen you look at potential dates and see them as nothing but a basket of problems and gleefully wait for them reveal their LVM selves so you can ghost the fuck out of them. This is NOT the same as maintaining a healthy, detached "wait and see" approach, where you hope for the best but are prepared to walk away when it turns out less than the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 132 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.This is why I don't have male friends. They either want to fuck you, your kids, and hang around for the opportunity to do so. Male and female friendship is a myth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 58 | Never stay friends nor let your exes stay in your lifeAs a 46 year old woman, I don't recall the social acceptance? Expectstion? Of being friends with your ex when I was in my late teens and twenties.Granted, I got married at 22 but nobody in my friend group ever remained friends, and the ones that did were snickered at for still having a "thing" for their ex. , | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:30 PM |
| 6 | Cut off your guy friendThe answer is deceptively simple: You don't let your feelings override rational decisionmaking. How to do this is worthy of its own post. Look at the words you used. This person is toxic to you. Yet, you struggle with kicking him out of your life. He isn't even a family member or a spouse, so kicking him out of your life is much easier than those two prior scenarios. Ask yourself, why would want to harm yourself by keeping him in your life? Also, if you you knew that a beloved female member of y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 06:28 PM |
| 79 | My EX’s phone called me.You just played into his pathetic game of "DOES SHE STILL WANT MUH DICKKK???"" By answering his call, you confirmed in his pathetic beta brain, that, YUP SHE STILL WANTS ME. Even though you don't. But his stunted brain, that's how he takes it. So by answering, you just gave him some free validation cuz he probably doesn't have much FEEEMALLLLEEE action going on, and needs that hit of dopamine until the next Tinder victim answers his message. That's why we block and delete to avoid participation … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 48 | When did you realize that FDS was working for you and helping you make better dating decisions?I found FDS when i started online dating (yuck). I had always incorporated FDS principles in my real life and relationships, but online dating was a whole new world for a woman married a combined 25 years and new to it. FDS showed me how to block and delete, look for low effort from the first message, what a proper date was, etc. I essentially had to learn how to date since i had never truly "dated" before. I got linked here from a post on on dating over Fortee. And not a moment to soon. FDS was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:28 PM |
| 55 | Sisters, the vetting NEVER stops. Once you accept this, you will feel more confident and less insecure in your relationships with menYou can't control what others do, ever. Only yourself. Thus, no use stressing about what someone may or may not do at any given time. They are their own person with agency. AND SO ARE YOU! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 4 | This woman I reached out to on a sub wants your thoughts and opinions on her situation.Nah sis. The minute you read all that garbage was the time to walk out of his life with nothing more than a vague reason. These types don't deserve anything more. Good job snooping, you saved yourself a lot of time. And you saved yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 08:37 PM |
| 34 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄He has no standing to complain about this unless they are married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 02:05 AM |
| 5 | "Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or singleGood heavens, that's some expert level pick me clown shit🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.Lots of iron in those words! Newbies, read this about 100 times and then daily until you believe it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:40 PM |
| 8 | What are examples of a LVM playing red pill mind games ?Block and deletr. Or do an experiment before you do that. Start dumping on HIM and see what happens. He will prob fade you out. Men liek that take and take and never ever give. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 02:16 AM |
| 10 | 🚨ALWAYS EARN YOUR OWN MONEY! Financial freedom is the ultimate power💲💰💪The feminists of the 19th and early 20th century fought for the right to be financially independent. The first shot was passage of the Married Womens Property Act in New York state. Prior to that married women could not own propeety because her legal identity merged with rhe husbands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:43 AM |
| 160 | What did I just read? Glad she kind of wised up, sad she did it way too late. A forever girlfriend with his baby, self admitted mommy #2, he's an "entrepreneur". Basically a walking pickme & NVM stereotype all in one post.The comments were supportive...shocking considering this reddit. 2 things of note: she is financially independent and she said in the comments that she owns her residence. She can walk away and recover from this as she does not depend on him. So she is further ahead than a lot of women who are stuck with shitheads like her ex. However, she realky needs to think abiut why she adopted such a manchild in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:37 AM |
| 28 | HVM that make less than youHow long have you been dating him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:51 PM |
| 20 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?The end result of this will be a decrease in human population. Depending on my mood, i sometime wonder if that was the whole point (conspiracy alert!lol). Men's brains are fried on porn and drugs. Sperm count lower due to the environment. Lower testosterone makes men less willing to pursue women and sex. Add in there obesity and shit diets, and men become pale skinned, soft basement dwelling weebs that are addicted to porn and god knows what else. Women- have achieved sufficient financial and so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 55 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.Dropping the BOOM!!! Bravo QUEEN!! Petition to upgrade random's flair! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:04 PM |
| 9 | Why do men love using this excuse when they f*** up?The man im dating recently said that to me. We were going shopping together a d he "joked" to his friend that i was "making" him go. I immediatley said, you dont have to come, nobody is forcing you. Which was the truth. He wanted to come because he wanted to spend time with me. He noticed i was upset afterwards. I told him what he made me feel devalued and disrespected and i will not tolerate any "jokes" that suggest he is a put upon bf doing his gfs bidding. That nobody put a gun to his head, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:34 PM |
| 21 | WOC, what modified/additional rules do you have to avoid men with race/culture fetishes?The only foolproof way is to date within your race/ethnicity/culture, etc. Men, as a group unto themselves, hate and objectify women. When you date within your own race/ethnicity/culture, the vetting against creepy race and culture based fetishization is already done. Men see women as "other', including women within their race and culture. A womans differing race and culture just magnifies "otherness" and thus, increases the already present hate, objectification and fetishization. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 02:21 PM |
| 20 | Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problems😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 We down the clowns here 🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:53 AM |
| 57 | What changed when you started giving back the same energy you got?When i was still using dating apps, i always answered the "how are you" honestly and unfiltered. Answering this a good vetting opportunity If my day was bad, i said as such and explained in a few words why. Same thing if it were good. The scrotes that replied with a "lol" or anything that indicated a lack of interest got blocked and deleted. The ones that followed up or commisserated with me....didnt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:25 PM |
| 4 | He knows his worth y’all. I can’t even with this 😩Just another scrote unable to look a situation from the viewpoint of a woman. Online dating is a shitshow for women. And it's a shitshow because of how MEN ACT. The endless dick pics, the leaps to sex talk, the low effort, the stalking, etc, butthurt. The "attention" isn't loving or kind. It's sexist, and threatening. Because of the above, online dating apps are a sausage party. That's way dating apps employ bots and scam profiles to trick men into thinking there are more women on them than ther… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 60 | Guy that I went to high school with (I'm 31 now) still trying to sleep with me till this day. He's freshly married with a toddler. Mind you, these "talks" consisted of him saying pervy stuff while I tried to get away.Screen shot these and send to wife and the scrote. Tell him AND his wife in no uncertain terms that you DO NOT want contact with this scrote and request that HE cease contact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Psychologist ScroteTo the other commenters that are reporting this article, good work. Also, the article indicates he is or was a professor at Florida State. An email to Florida State's HR department is probably warrented as well. On a positive note, this article was done in 2008. I don't believe it could be credibly written today given changes in attitudes. There is progress sisters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:33 PM |
| 56 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.Because OnlyFans and porn exploit and traffic women. Did it ever occur to you that a not insignificant number of women do these things because they are trafficked? Because they are victims of sexual abuse? Because they use sex work to fuel their addictions? Porn and OnlyFans perpetuate exploitation. And you as a consumer, participate in that exploitation. By all means, have your red flags because we have ours too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 8 | Bar set too damn low. Help you with something? No thanks, that turns into lifetime years of servitudeGod, that whole sub is a dumpsterfire of pickmeishas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 03:17 AM |
| 210 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6707629/ The sad part is that women and men objectify women. We, as women, have internalized the male gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:44 PM |
| 35 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.There is no answer to this. We all have our crosses to bear in this shitty life. As women, we are burdened with reproduction, scrotes, shame of being women, objectification, abuse by men (and society at large), body shaming, pressure to marry/reproduce. Hell, the minute we are pushed into this world, we are shit on. Any decision we make is the wrong one. And we get blamed for EVERYTHING. As for scrotes? They have to suppress their attraction to underage girls. And boys. And judging by the amount… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:20 PM |
| 27 | The level of pick me that is expected of you of you if you're a black womanSay NO to struggle love Say YES to putting yourself first. Say NO to sacrificing yourself on the altar of an ideology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 11:03 PM |
| 88 | Since breaking up…Oh my where to start? When i booted my first exh out, my home life became 100% more peaceful. No LVM whining, drinking, perving, making messes and eating and picking fights with me. No longer did i dread going into the house after work. It was just me, my 3 year okd and my 11 year old. Utter bliss and quietude. My house was cleaner and my grocery bill went down. The kids did more the around the house than he ever did. And they did their chores without bitching or expecting a cookie for it. And t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 10:00 PM |
| 45 | Why are there so many more homeless men than women?Because men are more prone to violent, anti socisl behavior, sexual deviance, addictions, and acts of destruction. A consequence of the above is prison and homelessness. And i dont feel a bit sorry for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 05:09 AM |
| 30 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?He can't come during NORMAL sexual relations. Or he goes limp during the encounter. Porn causes them to become desensitized to normal sexual relations and conditions them to whatever garbage they see in porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:11 PM |
| 125 | 18 year old man from Maine looking for a wife in 1865. Better than most OLD profiles.Im 45. This kid has his shit together than most men in their 30s and 40s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:24 PM |
| 157 | 18 year old man from Maine looking for a wife in 1865. Better than most OLD profiles.And his wife was 3 years older than him!! Heaven forbid! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Never forget that Marriage is a CONTRACT: The Realities of the Marital Contract for High Earning Women, or women married to LVMs. Only enter the marital contract after a through risk/benefit analysis.The marital contract is like any other contract and imposes financial and legal obligstions on the parties that continue even after the contrsct is terminated. So yes, if you are gonna take on financial and legal risk in entering into a marial contract, then you better be benefitting from it. The marital contrwct has nothing to do with love and companionship. Oh sure, the marriage vows pay lip service to that, but at divorce time, a spouses failure to provide love and companionship isnt a defens… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADIs this a real person? At first glance i though it was one of those silicone "real dolls". Is she using filters? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:24 PM |
| 80 | 166,619 Queens and counting.. 🤍✨Love this. I remember i showed up when we were at 30k. Now 166k and counting. What a great journey. Keep wearing those crowns sisters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:18 PM |
| 90 | Do you believe in Pretty Privilege? Why is it that society, including women, dismiss the devastating loneliness of UNATTRACTIVE WOMEN while simultaneously doing everything possible to avoid BECOMING those unattractive women?Yes, pretty privelage exists. Yes, women , via internalized misogyny and patriarchal norms, perpetuate this privelage. So what to do? We cant control what others do or think. Thats why you focus on making money and financial independence instead. You wont ever make money off being "pretty" in any sustainable way so take your focus off bei ng pretty and focus on financial independence. That effort WILL be rewarded. Secondly, understand women have never set standards of beauty. Men do and the medi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:12 PM |
| 82 | I have no wordsHe hates her. He doesn't respect her. And this isn't the first time he has "joked" about her in front of his 'friends". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 292 | Pregnancy and Its DiscontentsNever forget that not only do women bear the entire biological burden of reproduction but also the MAN MADE ones too. Having kids is a net loss to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 10 | Tragic Example of The Mask Slipping AFTER Marriage and Baby. Always be willing and ABLE to LEAVE Sisters!!The comments this woman got over at that sub were surprisingly supportive. Of course, there were the usual dum ones about COuniCaTe and He is just a dumb guyndur dur. Reddit did well for this lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:57 PM |
| 134 | "Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it" - Basically it's the "ICK"Yep, women get bored with the LVMs porn habit, whining about sex, emotional stupidity, unwillingness to care for home a nd kids, etc etc. Actually, not bored. Just downright repulsed. But because "relayionships are work!" And "marriage is a commitment!", we delude ourselves into thinking there is something wrong with US for not desiring our pile of shit male partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 11:28 PM |
| 101 | So apparently watching porn to get turned on before having sex with your partner is normal... And the comments are not even by men.. 🤢Statistically speaking, these women are in relationships with LVM. Which means lousy sex, acting like manchildren, vidya games, and all assortments of LVM behavior. These women arent enlightened enough to ask the hard question of "why am i not attracted to him?: If you dont like or respect the man you are with...and/or that man is a selfish, lousy lover, then you wont have the desire to have sex with him. If you dont feel emotionally or physcially safe with him, you wont have the desire to sleep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:46 PM |
| 61 | Single by choice > stuck with a NVM for the rest of your lifeThis issue is close to my heart. I divorced my LVM exh when my kids were 3 and 11. The minute he mkved out my life became more peaceful. My house was cleaner. No bitching, whining about muhh dik. No more alcoholic drama. But when i told people i was divorced, i would get "im sorry" or "it must be difficult being a single parent" type comments. I didnt take offense cause they meant well. Hiwver, i always said....dont be sorry! Im not! My life became.easier the minute i kicked him out!" We need to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 02:19 AM |
| 6 | MeNs InFiDeLiTy Is DiFfErEnTLots of IFS in that statement!! If he.provides, if he protects. Lolol. If you live lavishly. Lotta ifs there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:05 AM |
| 49 | [TRENDING] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+703 subscribers today; 176% trend score)At FDS, we encourage women to put THEMSELVES first in ALL areas of their life. Not last like we are socialized to do. We say NO to abusive sexual practices. We say NO to low effort, low reward relationships with men. We expect men to act as capable, emotionally intelligent and competent and fully contributing adults in relationships with us. We say NO to porn because the sex trafficked, the abused, the addicted, the underage,.and the unaware, the mentally ill, and the economically deprived arent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:50 AM |
| 7 | I’m on woke tiktok again and the comments section are full of women who all admit their man left/cheated when they got cancer or any illness.This needs to be preached to the world. Maybe a r/menabandonsickwomen sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:42 AM |
| 162 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactLooks like a ransom letter! And the fucker typed it so its more.difficult to prove it came from.him. he didnt even out his name on it! was there a return address on the envelope? Pro tip: if you want this scrote to stop bothering you for good, hire a lawyer and have her write a cease and desist letter ehich threstens further crim and civil action if he persists in contscting you. Have it served by law enforcement at his work for added effect. Its very effective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:27 AM |
| 20 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?Yes, its mostly torture but i have an alt that i use to post there. When im feeling the spirit i go in to spread the message. There is also a whole sub devoted to.rhese women that marry and reproduce.with the men they kvetch about on the dating subs. Its called breaking mom. Its heartbreaking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:20 AM |
| 19 | Have men always been so bad?Yes they have. Except back "then" the misogyny and sexism was institutionalized on a legal, religious and social scale. For example, when a woman married, she lost all her rights to own property because once married, the parties merged into one being.....that is the HUSBAND. Women were categorically excluded via institutionalized legal and social means to participate in the economy. As can example, banks would routinely notify husbands if their wife was opening a checking account. Not hiring a w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 4 | NVM runs over jogger and kills her. His first thought? Take her into a field and sexually abuse her dead body. Men ALWAYS think with their dick....ALWAYS!Yes, with an obligatory screed on not kinkshaming necrophiliacs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 17 | What happened to first dates?Im 45. After my marriage was over, i dated men my age i met on OLD. This is how i handled things: We always.went out on dates. When i first met them, i reached out my hand for a handshake. I made it PROFESSIONAL and created distance from the start. Boy, dont touch me unless i say so! That sets the tone for the rest of the evening. Also, there was no discussion of anything sexual prior to this. If i liked the.guy, i MIGHT give him a hug, or.offer.my hand again. I never kiss a man on a first date.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:48 AM |
| 88 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄For reasons undiscernable to us mere mortals, the Universe spoke to him and told him rethink his use of porn and consider the damage its done to him, his marriage and to women as a group. He sees his wife up there for public consumption. His wife objectified herself for likely reasons. He feels icked out. But will he listen to the Universe? Will he ruthlessly examine his hypocrisy and his role in this shitshow as the Universe asks him too? Very likely not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:35 AM |
| 50 | This is an actual life size model of a clitoris. This why DICK SIZE MATTERSFor the longest time, i thought my clitoris was only the external part. Then I married a man with an 8 inch cock and had my first orgasm from intercourse (i was on top, the sensation of the his cock inside me and rubbing the external part was mindblowing). So it makes sense. The clitoris is much larger than i ever imagined. A below average dick just won't work. Any man with below average penis size needs to become adept with his mouth and fingers. I've already received butthurt DMs about this...… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 12 | Boyfriend said he wanted to go to a strip club at our anniversary lunch86 this scrote. Block and delete. Yes, it will hurt. But dont let your feelings cloud the reality that just slapped your face. Your.bf just revealed to you he is an NM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:28 AM |
| 5 | I’ve learned that when men accuse their partners of certain things, it’s because they are in fact doing those things. They assume everyone else must also be a total shitbag like them and become paranoid. I messaged this poster with a little advice. 😚Yes. My exh would accuse me of being with other men. He wasnt cheating though, at least with a human. Turned out he was s secret, severe alcoholic drinking in secret and lying to me about it. So he would get drunk and accuse me of cheating. Cause he was able to hid it so well that it made him paranoid that i wss doing something nefarious behind his back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:37 AM |
| 5 | In honor of Valentine's Day, I have deleted every trace of my exAbsent kids in common, this should be Standard Operating Procedure after dumping an LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 97 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Andrea dworkin wrote about this....40 years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:21 AM |
| 17 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessBut too many men are. Go preach to them. Not us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 20 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessIm leaving this one in as exhibit A: Muh dicckk!!!!! The penis uber alle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 73 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessFor all the scrotes shitting in this thread: we posted the stats on this. Address them. Address them with men and do your part to make men better. Or yall too cowardly to do so? We give no fucks about how you "would.never". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 27 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessFuck off with your not all men screeching. We dont care about.what you do or say. Go address this with other men on reddit. But you wont cause you are a coward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:30 PM |
| 15 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessNo it doesnt. It just feels entitled to sex regardless of the consequences. Exhibit A: the prison population. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 20 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessLol...they dont want a partner. They want a bangmaid nanny The difference is lost on a scrote/pickme like you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 37 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessThis comment wins the thread. That about sums up why men are abusive, neglectful pieces of shit to sick, and post partum wives and partners. The lesson is to NEVER EVER center your life around a man. Dont be his therapist or maid. Dont be his nurse. Let him deal, or not deal with his health issues. Maintain youe own family and friend connections. Be financially indelendent or.maintain the ability to be. Throwing time and energy into a man is throwing that into a black hole. You will never get it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:18 PM |
| 217 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessYes, this is well known but not well known enough. Keep spreading this fact. This scenario is a good vetting opportunity. Ask yourself if you can credibly judge that the man you are with would competently care for you if you got sick. If you conclude "no" then you have some changes to make. My 2 exhs.....when i asked myself that question it filled me with terror imagining myself needing them to care for me while i was ill. In fact, they would make being ill even more stressful than if i were alo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:08 PM |
| 194 | Dita Von Teese breaks her silence on Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"Nope. They never have and never will. It's all about ego, pathological need for validation thru exploitation of women, and showing off for other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:23 PM |
| 454 | Dita Von Teese breaks her silence on Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"I'm sure Dita wasn't abused, gaslighted or pressured to do disgusting, degrading things. She was 32 when they got married and had her own, thriving career. She was a queen. She left him 12 months later because he was an addict and cheater. He didn't pull the abuse on her cause he knew she wouldn't take it and would take him down over it. The women that he did abuse were much much younger, struggling in hollywood, and ripe for exploitation. Which is why he abused them the way he did. He knew he C… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 04:28 PM |
| 47 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.What disturbs me most is his failure to.realize you get a career to take care of yourself financially in a way that appropriate for you. Not to get women. I didnt need a man to motivate me to do this. I knew what i wanted and went for it without considering whether it would help me land a scrote! He would be happy living in moms basement for.eternity. Men are so pathetic because so many of their importsnt decisions are based upon the acqusition of sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:35 AM |
| 19 | Held off on sex, it was horribleShe did tell him. And he didnt care. Why does she need to do it again?? Your response is shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 02:48 AM |
| 272 | Held off on sex, it was horribleFor the commenters here that say she should COmmUNicATE with him.....she did. And he went back to jackehammering her. So he he didn't care. We at FDS only COMMUNICATE ONCE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 309 | Held off on sex, it was horribleThose replying to you were men and I've submitted those posts for removal. You did tell him. He didn't care what you said and kept doing what he was doing. You know all you need to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:43 PM |
| 161 | Held off on sex, it was horribleIt only counts if YOU had an orgasm. Don't play the "numbers" game by rules the scrotes made up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:41 PM |
| 123 | Held off on sex, it was horribleI'd dump him without further thought. Send him a text, tell him he sucks in bed and it's over. Then block and delete cause you don't need to hear his self serving excuses and lies about why he DOESN'T suck, or how he will TRY next time to be better (because he won't). This is part of vetting. Vetting is a risk assessment. Certain behavior over the course of 3 months is MORE LIKELY to indicate someone will be good in bed. Sounds like this one made it to the very bitter end before he revealed his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:31 PM |
| 130 | What LVM really mean when they say..."I like strong, independent women!" I like women who make more money than me and i only want her to be strong and independent until i feel emasculated because she isn't being the pickme i secretly want. "I like confident women" I like women with no sexual boundaries and are totes cool with anal, forced sex, bdsm and will do anything that I see in porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 18 | The Risks Associated with Dating in the Modern EraStart with other men and call them out on their bullshit. Men need to change....not wlmen. Women are absokutely entitled to be suspicius and have a "guilty before proven innocent" stratagey when dealing with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:29 PM |
| 80 | The last thing he did. Rest his soul.Nice curbstomp!!!!! And for the newbies...thats how you do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 146 | lvms have been existing since foreverNothing is ever changed. Women have fought, and continue to fight, for damned thing that men take for granted. We have to go to the mat, every single time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:41 PM |
| 22 | Flex your support system while datingI openly text my secretary his name, our location, his phone number and any other info i have on him....right in front of him. She periodically would text me during the date to make sure i was ok. I either tell them im.doing this, or tell them when i ask. Ill even show him the texts so he.knowa im not fucking around. Lol. Ill even "joke" that my sevretsry needs to know im not locked in his trunk and will text her and show him her witty response. Then i talk about how awesome my dad and brothers … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:08 AM |
| 49 | Women's loss of desire and the pleasure gapWomen gaslight THEMSELVES into believing its somehow their fault for no being attracted to their loser, abusive, disrespecting, manchild, lazy, husband/boyfriend. I know i did. And when i was online dating, i had the epiphany that if i didn't feel and secure and safe with the man i was sleeping with, then orgasm WAS NOT going to happen, no matter how giving and and good he was in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:20 PM |
| 165 | Women's loss of desire and the pleasure gapThey forgot to add.....disliking your male partner and not feeling emotionally, sexually, or physically SAFE with him. Or seeing your male partner not as an adult, but a incompetent teenager. Lack of respect for the male partner. Contempt for the male partner. He could be the best at oral sex and be otherwise great in bed. But if OUTSIDE of bed, he sucks....then the sex will be awful too. Women need to be HONEST with themselves and their true feelings for the male partner. But they aren't becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:05 PM |
| 35 | The reboot nobody needsPeak sex pozzy lib fem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:54 PM |
| 6 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?Haha, sounds like someone might be serving a jail sentence. Block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 03:13 PM |
| 55 | The bar is in hell.I think she did this to test him. She prob wasn't cognizant of that entirely, but thats what she did esp when she felt "relief" from him losing his hardon because HE DIDN'T GET OFF ON RAPING HER. Oh, we can imagine the outcome here if he was TOTALLY into it. Cue the "it was hot, and husband is a great guy, but he got off on play raping me, wut do?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Whenever I hear people say “sex work is real work” I assume they’re saying it from a place of non sex work privilegeI represented prosititutes when i was a PD in a city in the midwest. In my part of the world,.we dont have the high end, "empowered" free agent hookers the white lib fems hold up as justification for legalizing sex work and saying its "empowering". Oh no.....all my prostitute clients were addicted to illegal substsnces like meth and heroin. Or alcobolics who only wanted to drink. They all were either street walkers, craigslist, or "lot lizards". They were women of color, poor white women, or ill… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:38 PM |
| 77 | Why Does the Porn Industry Get Away With Racist Portrayals of Black People?Because for some reason, porn is off limits to accusations of racism. I mean, if a tv show depicted black folks the way porn does, the outcry would rightfully be loud and cancel culture would apply. But cancel culture doesnt apply to porn because.....reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:14 PM |
| 9 | They never change! Abusive husband on fetlifeToday is the first day of your new, LVM free life. If you stay the course, your life will be 1000 times better in 6 months. By that time, you will be over the emotjonal upheaval and making progress in the divorce. You are dropping the millstone that is your husband into the sea. Celebrate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:48 AM |
| 43 | The divorce forums are sobering...I never comment on the wisdom of becoming legally entangled with a man (marriage). Like any contract, there are upsides and downsides to it. However, you must NEVER put yourself in the position of not being able to walk away when the marriage goes South. Always have your own job, your own money, your own family, your own friends. Don't rely on your husband for financial support, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:09 PM |
| 92 | I raise you Over 30s Midwestern LVM starterpack.As a rural midwesterner, can confirm. But, the only silver lining is that very few,.of any, are "erhically non mongamous' or "polyamorlus". They are too practical for that nonsense, and feel their masculinity challenged if male 3rd party is involved. Other than that, they are all shit for all the usual reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:23 AM |
| 66 | It’s almost as if objectifying women is... bad??This guy is completely broken sexually. Broken in his mind, and his dick. He needs to avoid women and keep to porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Did anyone else see the bumble ad pretty much discouraging marriage and encouraging children out of wedlock?Im using the term "damages" loosley here. Alimony, inequitable split of assets, ongoing obligations post divorce....are damages. You wouldnt be paying any of that if you stay married. Or never married to begin with. When you are forced to pay alimony to a alcoholic cheating spouse that hasnt worked for 15 years....it feels like you are paying damages to get out of fuether legal entanglement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:47 PM |
| 88 | FDS just hit 121k followers in time for 2021! Happy New Year's FDSers! 🎉🥂🍾🥳A good omen indeed! Sisters, this sub has suceeded beyond our expectations. Our message is getting out. Women standing tall, and scrotes run scared. To another 100k subscribers! 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 38 | Did anyone else see the bumble ad pretty much discouraging marriage and encouraging children out of wedlock?Yes, buying property together is a bad idea. But im radical in that i believe women should own their own property as individuals. Then get married,.or be a forever gf. Doesnt matter. Because when shit hits the fan, that property is forever yours after the scrote is long gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 125 | Porn is not cheatingMy approach with the porn issue is to voice my opinions on porn in a clinical way with the person im dating. I tell them about the rampant sex trafficking and abuse, how porn causes brokedick and lousy sex, etc and that im not.some performer and wont tolerate ANY sex act that is offensive to me. And that porn and mens reliance on it disgusts me, as does a limpdick. That porn has NO PLSCE in my life, and in my bed. If he even defends it a bit, then i end it. Porn is meritless and its not subject … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 78 | Did anyone else see the bumble ad pretty much discouraging marriage and encouraging children out of wedlock?Marriage is a contract. If its broken, then one or both parties pay damages. Its better to see marriage as a business partnership with the goal to increase assets via joint effort and basically, and make it legally difficult to get out of the contract in the interests of children, social stabiluty, and sexual responsibility. Its a gamble as is entering into any other contract (real eatate, business, etc). What you are gambling on is that your intended spouse will uphold their end of the contract… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 08:37 PM |
| 55 | Marriage KoUNseLInG is a waste of money unless it Post Divorce CounselingOr the lvm is.convinced the therapist is on "her" side when the therapist calls him out on his lvm behavior. Just avoid the shitshow and call a lawyer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 19 | I am thankful to have found this sub for reasons beyond dating: for making me a critical thinker when it comes to sex work and pornOnly clueless middle class on up (privileged) persons in a 1st world cointry could ever think sex work is legit work. Yeah, tell that to the Asian women trafficked into american massage parlours. Or the dalit working in a Mumbai brothel. Or the women kidnapped by cartels in Mihohuacan and sold into prostitution. Or the naive OnlyFans girl that is stalked by a subscriber. Or the meth addict prostituting herself at truck stops. The list is endless. Sex work is exploiyation. And its unacceptably da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 11 | My shopping haul from today, featuring my two cat sons (left cat has been known to attack guys I date when they don't respect his boundaries or he gets a bad vibe from them). I've been single for 2 months now after dating an LVM and I'm spoiling and treating myself in ways he never did!You already have 2 goodlooking HVMs. Lucky you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:20 PM |
| 64 | "ONCE YOU HIT THE WALL, YOULL BE ALONE FOREVER! TEeHeeHeHeE" 🙄Lvm: you'll die alone with with a house full of cats!!!! Me: a dozen floofy kitties to snuggle, and play with and laugh at? Im NOT SEEING THE PROBLEM?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:59 AM |
| 275 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsLets be fair to toddlers. They can be taught. the LVM in this scenario is more like an untrained, genetically defective pitbull. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:59 PM |
| 12 | Porn is empowering though, right? Of course a lot of comments say NTA. I feel so sorry for the cousin's kids.Assuming everythibg here is true, the cousin sounds like an awful, hypocrotical person. The proper response is that the OP take cousin aside and inform.her to never drag his mother again about her work because he knows about her patrixipation in an industry far far worse. That would have shut her up forever. OP lacked.discretion and it seems he was more focused on getting her back and humilisting the cousin as opposed to protecting his mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:14 PM |
| 96 | Family is playing a game called "Weird Things Humans Search For" and these are the top searches for "Why are men so..."And women are the IlLogiCAL ANd EmoTionaL ones??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:55 PM |
| 341 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterJust another example of why being a single mother is far easier than parenting with an LVM under the same roof. Just imagine how much more pleasant it would have been for her the kids if that pile of shit werent on the sofa. He obviously resents his family becausr they keep him from drinking, porning or doing what shit lvm "family men" would rather be doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 10 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!Fuck off with your #notallmen clownery. Take it to the millions.of pickme subs.....they'll suck your dick, we won't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:02 AM |
| 34 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!We all havr. When will the marriage kounseling komplex and the psychologists start saying it too??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:16 PM |
| 73 | #KickHimOut2020 happens in 2.5 hours.This is easy, like cutting thru butter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:48 PM |
| 101 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!The ICK is when the thought of sex or even physical contact with your spouse or bf fills you with disgust, dread, or an apathy similar to doing an unpleasant task like cleaning a toilet. When you physically shrink away from their touch. Its a feeling borne of the contempt and disrespect you have for the scrote, although you may not realize it due to brainwashing, marriage martyrdom, marriage KOUnselIng, and self blame. Its a fatal condition and sooo many women live with the ICK because til death… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 106 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!For those who dont ubderstand, catching the ICK is when the idea of sex with your spouse or bf fills you with disgust or dread, or utter apathy similar that in doing dishes. When him just touching you makes you shrink away like you just got touched by a creep on a public bus. As otherd have stated below, its most often the result of contempt and disresoect you have for him, although you may not realize it (brainwashing, marriage martyrdom, self blame, etc ) Its a fatal condition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 06:54 PM |
| 176 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!I csught the ICK in my first marriage after the 2nd child. He just reverted to being an problem dtinking 14 year old. And once you catch the ICK, its OVER. no amount of KOunSElIng , prozac or CHAngE on his part will undo it. Its a fatal condition. So many sisters living with the ICK because they feel stuck because of kids and finances. Letting some manchild scrote paw them every 2 weeks just to keep the peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:29 PM |
| 156 | FACT: Women dont want sex with incompetent manchildren. Which is why a womans sexual interest in her male partner drops off the fucking cliff!Exactly. Goes to show how fucking low.mens standards are.when it comes to sex. If im low key pissed off at someone all the time, sex with them is the last thing on my mind. But for men? Its like MUHH DIKKKK DURDURR The lesson here is that any mans, including your long time husbands, sexual attraction to you is NOT A COMPLIMENT. They will fuck you even if they dislike you and are also unhappy in the marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:23 PM |
| 28 | Why do so many men hate gift giving?Mostly because it forces them to think of somebody else and actually PUT EFFORT into doing so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 07:20 PM |
| 51 | The overwhelming majority of men in a woman's life are a risk factor.You are your own protection. Always have been always will be. IF you have been socialized to seek protections from others, then do what needs to be done to change your mindeset and to take action. I have a wonderful family and social circle, but even I realize I have the ulimate responsibility for myself in this cold world. Your best means of protection from men, from family, this world.....is financial independence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 45 | A man taking responsibility, we love to see it!I'm not sure why this is so upvoted. Its like applauding your teenager for not shitting on the carpet. Oh and come back in 6 months.....let's see if he is still doing basic adulting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 30 | If you take nothing else from FDS, take thisAnd so many still do!!! It's like, we have the keys to our jail cell, but we keep ourselves locked in. Sigh....at least indentured servitude to an man isn't forced upon us anymore. We just choose it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 154 | If you take nothing else from FDS, take thisOur nineteenth century feminist foremothers fought tooth and nail for the right and opportunity for us to become financially independent. Don't betray their efforts sisters by voluntarily surrendering your livelihood to a man, HVM or LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 29 | Anyone else find it odd that men are posting women's entire profile on reddit for upvotes?Goes to show how many more men are on tinder than women. A woman on tinder may as well be shopping at an endless line of garage sales. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:58 AM |
| 14 | Yet another example of women bearing the emotional load. 😑After the 2nd child was born, my 1st exh went full blown LVM. At that point, his family became his fucking responsiblity in ALL ways. No more me remembering bdsys, holidays, gifts etc. His family, his problem. It was so much. I already had my hands full with my kids and my fsmily. I was done giving my precious time and energy to people on behalf of an LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:08 AM |
| 85 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!No words necessary here. Just..... 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:52 PM |
| 17 | I keep coming back to the anger in my stages of Griefwrite a letter/email or whatever. NItpick the fuck outta him. Damage his ego. Did he have a small useless cock? Then describe in grotesque detail how inadequte it was. Did he ever call you fat? Acknowledge that in your letter, and point out a similar flaw in him. You know him, and you know how to wreck his ego. So do it. See what i'm doing here? Embrace your anger, play tit for tat. I don't think taking the "high road" is always warranted. Write it out and send it to him, if you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Romantic Relationships with men are poor investments of time, energy and money for womenYes, this is the best you can do vis a vis romantic relationships/marriage. Build a life for yourself that will not fall apart if a relationship or marriage ends. Basically, YOU keep investing in YOU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:13 PM |
| 19 | Romantic Relationships with men are poor investments of time, energy and money for womenThe sad thing is that we are humans, not omnipotent. Too often, we don't know what we don't know. If you don't even know what behavior is a red flag....then what. A massive red flag when i met my 1st husband at age 18 was that he blamed his mother for damn near everything. Now, his mother stayed with an abusive, violent alcoholic FOR WAY TOO LONG and that decision objectively fucked up their family (and resulted in the older daughters needing long term therapy) and caused them impoverishment for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:11 PM |
| 5 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisI wanna curb stomp this fuckface | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 91 | NVM digs through wife's computer, gets upset that she existed before himThis is why you NEVER share sexual trauma with other men, or your bad sexual experiences with other men.....even a man you been married to for years and thinks is an HVM. Tried anal with a guy in the past and didn't like it? Too bad, new husband will be MAD you won't do anal with him, regardless of your feelings on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 155 | 44yo GROWN ASS adult CRIES over GFs sexual past. This is sending me 😂I stopped reading at the "i am 30 and he is 44" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 4 | Stick with the guy that loves you, not the guy you love.Love that which is good for you. If you cannot, then dont love until you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:05 AM |
| 6 | I think we all knew a woman like that. Never disregard red flags, especially when they are mentioned by relatives or friends that may have an unbiased or more objective opinion about your partner.As Tina Turner once said.....whats love got to do with it? Nothing at all. I loved my alcoholic ex husband to the moon. But i still kicked him out because alcohilucs are terrible husbands and parents. I put ME (and my kids first) not my feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:11 AM |
| 33 | "Relationships require work, its a give and take"a relationship that is worth a shit will have both people that enjoy doing the things that make each other happy. A willingness to make each other happy. Like if I say," I love getting flowers because they brighten up my office and make feel loved" the only proper response is flowers occasionally. Not an eyeroll and a self serving statement that flowers die and are a waste of money. Of course, the LVM will the take what i said above and twist it for some depraved purpose. BuT ANaL MaKEs ME HapPY… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:58 PM |
| 3 | One year ago today I was at the lowest point of my life battling my NVM ex’s abuse in a cramped and filthy RV.Your fab new life has just begun! 🌺🌼🌷⚘🏵🌹🥀🌸💐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩Surely this is a troll post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:01 AM |
| 52 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?I've been married twice. If i had FDS 25 years ago when i met my first husband, i would have dumped his ass after the first year. But i didn't, we got married, and then the LVM came out full throttle 14 years in. The second husband was an HVM acting from the start, but hid his alcoholism under a morass of lies. You can never know what is in the heart and mind of a person. Ever. That's why I don't bother speculating. I soley watch to see if their words match their actions. And i watch their actio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 3 | I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a manWhen I first saw Twilight, and the sequel, i was like "wtf is bella thinking picking creepy paleface bloodsucker over the hot, muscular Jacob? Jacob cared for her, loved her, didn't play stupid mind games, or say that he desired to kill her all the time. And he kept her warm when she almost froze to death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 98 | I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a manI dare all you sisters to watch "Twilight" again. Trust me....you will struggle to get through the first half hour. Gaslighting, stalking, hot and cold bullshit, the whole imma want to kill you Bella and drink your blood, her self annihilating pickme behavior....its fucking endless! Everything FDS stands against is in that movie. A d MILLIONS of teenage girls swooned over that garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:30 AM |
| 159 | I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a man"The Shining" is a rare example of a believable film about a relationship. And it has a happy ending too🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:39 AM |
| 41 | I'm having a hard time watching romcoms because they reinforce that a woman would need a manI cant suspend my sense of disbelief and enjoy any kind of romance novel, show or film. Zombies are more believable 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:14 AM |
| 34 | I've been dating a man for 2 months nowThe skepticism is warranted. Afterall, we are dealing with a man that I've only been dating for 2 months. The takeaway is having the confidence to walk away when the LVM in a HVM ACTING man shows up. Not getting lost in the morass of "feels" and "but it was so good in the beginning" malarkey. Realizing that a life free of anxiety is FAR PREFERABLE than being with an LVM that does nothing but take away your peace of mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:03 PM |
| 44 | I've been dating a man for 2 months nowI can never ever know what is the mind of a person. I dont even speculate on hidden meanings, or what they meant by what they said. I only can judge them on their actions. What i can control is my own actions. So if he demonstrates low value behavior of any kind, I walk away, block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:38 PM |
| 50 | I've been dating a man for 2 months nowAbsolutely. The trash takes itself out eventually so while it's good I will enjoy this until it isn't good anymore. I'm fully cognizant that this could be bullshit or a half truth. When he told me this, i stayed silent. And then informed him about my standards regarding being a alone vs. in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:30 PM |
| 20 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.Alcoholics arent able to be partners The bottle is their true love. Putting anything befkre the booze will always.be a struggle for them on their best days Leave. Ive divorced twice over alcohism No regrets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 11:40 PM |
| 16 | What... the FuCK? 🤡😳This guy is more broken than a horse with a busted leg. Time for her to dump him...he is broken forever now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:47 AM |
| 25 | Feminine "hygiene"I trim my bikini line, and if im sexually active i will also shave my labia as it makes oral.sex more enjjoyable. So i have a bush and no man has ever declined going down on me because of it. Actually...i tease them. When we are messing around, ill shoo them away from my vag, telling themmi havent trimmed down there. It just makes them want my pussy even more and they go down on me with wild abandon. When you are in bed with a man....and he is only 2 seconds away from your full bush, he will wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:40 AM |
| 45 | Why home-ownership is good for womenAnd if a woman homeowner wants to get married and live in her house.....NEVER EVER EVER PUT HIM ON THE TITLE TO YOUR HOUSE! AND DON'T REFINANCE TO PUT HIS NAME ON THE NOTE, NO MATTER HOW MUCH BETTER YOUR INTEREST RATE MAY BE! Also, don't let him spend money on signifant home-value raising improvements on YOUR house. He will try to get reimbursed for it in the divorce. That house is YOUR piggy bank, your security. That house is what prevents you from being dependent on a shit husband or LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 09:40 PM |
| 31 | These men who share that logic have zero knowledge of the female anatomyOk, so I have a Tempurpedic mattress. If a vag is like memory foam, it bounces back to its original shape, like a tempurpedic does when you get up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 09:14 PM |
| 41 | In all my years living on this earth, I have seen only ONE marriage that I admiredThis is why I don't reflexively admire long term marriages. You just KNOW someone has put up with a fuck-ton of bullshit to keep it going. Usuually the woman because the stats on the happiness of married women are so abysmal. Even my parents 45 year long marriage. No thanks. She is is housekeeper, nursemaid, and laundry woman. They are "happy" but it's nothing i could be happy with. And my grandparents' marraige- they waited on my grandfather's hand and foot. All other marriages in my family and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 09:10 PM |
| 35 | Who has a HV boyfriend/husband right now?I have been dating a man for 6 weeks. He has displayed HV behavior this whole time. But i have no idea if he is an HVM. I take this date by date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: Leaving LV husband of 3 yearsToday is first day of your new, better life. It may not seem obvious now but your life has just become 100 times more peaceful and uncomplicated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:28 PM |
| 7 | The film "Midsommar"....if you enjoy watching LVMs get roasted, and a pickeme becoming a queen as a result, then watch this movie!What was his worst offense in this movie, in your opinion? Forgetting her birthday, and then SHE apologizing for it? Or how spineless he was about their relationSHIT with her friends? OR the ditching her after her parents death/suicide to go to Sweden (and not telling her about it)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:41 PM |
| 19 | The film "Midsommar"....if you enjoy watching LVMs get roasted, and a pickeme becoming a queen as a result, then watch this movie!I don't care about the cult angle. If anything, the cult helped her process and acknowledged her emotions unlike the the LVM boyfriend. And then at the end when her grief over the LVM turns into a smile.....loved it. "does he make you feel held?" Nope, Christian did not. That's a good question for all of us to ask of our male partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Martyrs over at r/breakingmom need to take all the notes 💅 I said what I said 💫I got exactly what i wanted which was sole custody of the kids. He got every other weekend. No way was i gonna co parent with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:47 PM |
| 49 | Martyrs over at r/breakingmom need to take all the notes 💅 I said what I said 💫I did exactly that to my alcoholic first husband. When was going on how i would get stuck with the kids, how i would never find anyone else, how i would have to pay him alimony, and how he was gonna get half time custody blah blah etc....I turned on hims and said "thats why you will get the kids, and I'm taking off and moving back out to Colorado. Sue me child support. I don't want them, and I don't want to deal with you for the rest of my life. So I won't." The look on his face when i said that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:48 PM |
| 52 | Scrote on r/divorce is surprised his wife left him when she caught him watching porn. He refers to women as "random sluts" and thinks his wife should be fine with his porn use since she's hot.Oh vey....where to start. She didn't ditch him for the the porn. That was probably the last straw for her. He is military. ha, so he probably is gone all the time, a drunk, and probably has very misogynistic views on women. He probably never helps out with the kids or house, ever. He probably objectifies the hell out of her and other women, openly. And then wants sex all the time, even though is a raging dickhead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 06:08 PM |
| 107 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️So now men want us to assume ALL thr risk in dating? The risk of rejection AND the risk of getting assaulted, murdered and raped? No thanks. A man too afraid to ask out a woman is a COWARD. He is probably a coward in all areas of his life as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:17 PM |
| 20 | HVW Hitting Some Roadblocks, help me keep leveling up!Consider that you might be feeling a bit of envy? Envy is " a feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck " There are many ways to cope with envy, old and new. I practice actively being HAPPY for those who have what i want. It helps clear the negative energy. In your situation, support your friends relationships somehow as opposed to focusing on your lonlieness or self doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 7 | A man on OKC started asking me for advice on what to write to women, and...This guy doesnt have the time to date anyone, but doesnt have the intelligence to realize it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:37 PM |
| 10 | I used to love this subreddit, but it's become a little too much for me recently...I approved this post because we need to have a conversation about accountability for ourselves and our lives. You were 100% not to blame for the abuse you suffered at the hands of LVMs. Nobody here as ever said that. However, you are accountable for choices you make. Let's face it......men are not going to change tomorrow, if ever. So where does that leave you? Well, youhave ultimate agency here. You can choose continue to stay with abusive men and continue the path of the pickme. Or you can mak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:36 PM |
| 107 | If they didn't do it for themselves, they're not going to do it for you.If you are reason why they "change" and become bettee, then you will be the reason they change and go back to their bad ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:18 PM |
| 63 | Never let them get comfortable!There are a few reasons for this negative sense of humor. Because men are very susceptible to peer pressure. So EVEN IF they are over the moon about their gf, wife, anniversary, that can't act like it because other scrotes will call them "simps" (which is the modern version of "pussywhipped"). PEER PRESSURE Because they want to put down their gf, and wife and maintaina sense of dominance over by making her feel that he "settled" for her. DOMINANCE. Because they like to pretend that she chased … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:56 PM |
| 33 | Friends, #KickHimOut2020 was blazing success. Lets start the discussion for the theme of 2021CrownsNotClowns2021 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:55 AM |
| 13 | "Going with the flow" is bsIt's ridiculous and weak. You lose your agency and expectations with that flawed way of thinking. In reality, it translates into "going with the flow of an LVM". HERE at FDS, we live our lives WITH INTENT. In all areas. Define your intentions when it comes to the men. And then put it into action. Don't accept anything less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:24 PM |
| 64 | Okay ladies, I need to talk. Incoming LVM ex rant...Don't even bother with a "gentle" letdown. Women have been too nice to scrotes for too long. He is a piece of shit and you have come too far in your recovery and LEVELLING up to let this lvm drag you down. Put yourself first. Fuck him and his feelings....because he really doesn't have any. He just wants easy sex and validation from you. Block and delete him. No explanations, no text paragraph, nothing. Cut him out like a cancerous tumor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 45 | Radical Directness Feels AmazingI hope you followed up with a block and delete as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Ladies what's your beauty routine like?I'm 5'8 and 45. I have a desk job so my day is sedentery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Ladies what's your beauty routine like?I use gold bond body powder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:59 AM |
| 111 | Ladies what's your beauty routine like?I'm one of those old school types that believe current beauty standards for women are created by men for the benefit of men, and that these silly standards change on a yearly basis. And a lot of them are influenced by porn. With that in mind, my "beauty routine" is more like a health routine. Healthy hair, clear skin, and a healthy weight is 95% of any woman's beauty! So my routine involves all those things to have clear skin, healthy hair and a healthy weight. I only use frgance free face cream… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Need some HVW songs for my playlistNo man's woman by Sinead oconnor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Another cautionary tale of the dangers of choosing a LVM: they will not hesitate to hurt you to sexually please themselves, even when you might be literally dyingI'm going to go with the possibility this is a troll post. Not sure if its an incel, or a even a FDSr to demonstrate male depravity. because thinking is real is just to demoralizing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 9 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.I almosts reported this for being a troll post, until i saw the OP name. Good grief. Giving this scrote the benefit of the doubt and thereby assuming he is not into bestiality, he has an inappropriate and disgusting "sense of Humor" that shows he is oversexed and pornified. Barf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 22 | How is #KickHimOut2020 going?Disposed of a LVM in February. Then another in May. Wrote my exh a no contact email. No contact since. Blocked all of the above. Deleted dating apps Mastered breadbaking, traveled and learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:47 AM |
| 87 | How much time do you guys give to see if he can make you orgasm?Do any of you need to feel emotionally safe with a man before you can orgasm with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:01 AM |
| 77 | I rejoined online dating yesterday and it all came flooding back to me just how ugly and unkempt men are.Set your search parameters for any area in the American Midwest. And behold the disgustingness..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 78 | I know I'm done, should I make it known or just cut contact?Block and delete. He doesn't deserve anything more. Any urge on your part to do more is just pick-meism. 5 days without contact? Nah sis, he is just shitbag. This is supposedly the "honeyumoon" period of a relationship, and already he sticks you on the backburner. Right now, is the best it will ever get. He is either creeping on someone else, or trying to make you chase him. If you are hell bent on replying to his "long time no talk" then simply say, "Agreed. I'm breaking up with you. Bye." Then… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:52 AM |
| 80 | Man complains about dating a cold right-wing woman but said he stayed because of the sex and because she was “hot.” There’s so much to unpack here.Fuck this guy. HE gets what he deserves for being led by his dick. So tired of men doing this. And then they call US illogical? No compassion from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:43 AM |
| 4 | The audacity of this LVM!You clowned him hard. Bravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 69 | Ladies, if you use OLD please have a second, fake profile in addition to your real one.It really isn't. You just make a profile so bad that if any man messages it, it instantly established that he is low value. You don't even need to respond. Low effort, high reward. Then if you see that same nvm message your real profile, you KNOW to delete it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 217 | Why do men think I want to be their friend? When I refuse dates, they say they just want to hangout "as friends"... Um my friends are comical geniuses, who are empathetic and have so much wisdom to share. These men are dull, sheltered and boring.This is the ONLY reason why. End thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:50 PM |
| 20 | What would you do if there were no men around for 24hrs?Take a nice long vacation because my work is based upon the fact that men commit 90% of all crimes. Enjoy paying lower taxes because there would be little need for prisons. Enjoy walking outside in urban areas because the violent, addicted homeless (again, mostly men) would be gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 10 | Men on OLD that lie about wanting a relationship. My profile says "casual" and my pic is of a drunk passed out woman.I used a stock image from Google. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:32 AM |
| 40 | My fake profile (which says casual) to catch lying scrotes that say they want a relationship...this one actually admitted lying about it! And another was so gross I just told him how gross he was 🤣🤣🤣This is research to show that OLD is a cesspit of lying scrote. We know this but many do not. And I will compile all of it into an imgur and post the results across all the subreddits to educate and encourage LEVELLING up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:28 AM |
| 34 | Women sacrificing their last name and taking husband's last name indirectly treats the wife as a property of the husband. Are the ladies here in FDS still willing to take their husband's last name after marriage or do they consider last names mixing/blending as an option as a sign of equality?I'm against it. I've been married twice and never took their last names. For one, my name is MY name. My parents gave it to me and they are still in my life. My exh are not. The name mixing....meh. when the divorce happens, I don't want any part of an exh name attached to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 56 | My HLM turned out to be an abusive LVMI've been there. And wonderful years with my ex. Then he became an alcoholic.and thus an LVM. It's so hard when that happens. So many Men are just....weak and lack resilience. Muh penis makes it all worse too. The only thing I can say is....be grateful you had an out. Always queens need an intact escape plan and CANNOT be tethered to ANY man. Family, career, money.....always have an instantly usable escape route when the HVM turns to shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:32 AM |
| 66 | Men on OLD that lie about wanting a relationship. My profile says "casual" and my pic is of a drunk passed out woman.My fake profile is catching lying scrotes by the dozen. I'll get an imgur started and put all of them there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:26 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, I created a faker than a pickme orgasm profile to show how men lie about their intentions on OLDI made a new post with screenshots. Enjoy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:20 AM |
| 22 | Ladies, I created a faker than a pickme orgasm profile to show how men lie about their intentions on OLDSee my post above. I can only post pics in the OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:58 AM |
| 70 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkThey cannot be helped, so no use trying. We as a society have a DUTY to protect children since they cannot protect themselves. The only thing to do with pedos is either actual castration, or court supervised chemical castration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 17 | Common lies on OLDI didn't fault him for not disclosing that, but rather its just a feature of OLD, which is why it sucks. There were newspaper articles on his conviction. He was going thru a divorce, picked up the 1 and 2 year old for visitation and crashed into a concrete embankment going 80mph. Tore the car in half. Somehow he survived. I think he was trying to kill himself and the kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:30 AM |
| 11 | Common lies on OLDYes it would be! There is no reason why dating apps can't do this. You can buy a house online and you can be damn sure your lender knows everything about you including your child's birthday and school. That's why OLD is so dangerous, in small ways and big ways. You are talking to and meeting utter strangers. The traditional ways of meeting people( work, friends, family, hobbkes) don't have that same level of danger because the vetting already happens before the first date and men can't hide thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:27 AM |
| 7 | Pickmeisha's First Small VictoryI'm not seeing a victory here. Some scrote fuckbky hits you up for sex, and you enabled his scroteness by being nice and flirty a with him. If your goal was to for him to repeat this low effort behavior with you, then you succeeded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 109 | Common lies on OLDAll reasons why I don't do OLD anymore. The worst is what they don't tell you or what the dating app doesn't ask of them. Like their criminal history! I spent a winter evening talking to a man on OLD. Since I'm in the rural Midwest,.its easy to find someone with a first name and an occupation. Turned out he had gone to prison for killing his toddlers drunk driving. Got released 5 yrs prior. I swear, dating apps should require MEN to submit their info for background checks to weed out shit like t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:47 PM |
| 9 | Frida Kahlo, genius and QueenFrida Kahlo was an incredible artist. But she was an utter pickme for Diego Rivera. And she was 20 years younger than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:16 PM |
| 16 | Pervert Men Megathread PlanWorking sex into a conversation when you haven't even met IRL yet. My best one was "do you enjoy talking about intimate topics?" LOLOLOL. No scrote, and phrasing that you wanna talk about FUCKING by calling it "intimacy" just makes you look even more pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 48 | Attention to Lurking Scrotes and assorted LVM/NVM shitbags: What is like being a willing slave to MuH PENis?Porn is incrediby damaging but the sole silver lining is that if it removes these LVMS/NVMS from the gene pool, it's win for humanity as a whole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 119 | They always come back. Always. They might be nasty to you, make you feel obsolete. But they come back, always.nah, sis. They come back because MuH PENis. And thley are looking for someone, anyone, to stick it in. No need to overcomplicate the LVM/NVM. Every single instance of their shit behavior can be summed up as "MuH PENis.". Really, animals are higher functioning that these scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 51 | The Audacity of some scroteaI really hate the word "intimacy" now, especially from a lvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 122 | When a LVM says he is "loyal"It means he is gonna sit on his ass, do nothing, play vidya, forget your birthday, not care about you or your day, or even ask about it, make messes, neglect you, and just be an all around shitty, boring partner......but he won't cheat on you. And because he doesn't cheat on you, he will expect to joyfully lick up all his NVM-ness. So yeah, like a awful pet that shits on your carpet, but doesn't run away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 16 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾Nope. I'm done with OLD, and have been for a while. In my time on OLD (1 year and 2 months) I dated 8 different men . One lasted 4 months. Another 6 weeks. Another a month. Dumped/ghosted them all the minute they revealed themselves to be lvm. In my area, OLD is cesspool of broken, ugly, emotionally retarded, and dull as fuck men. Agree that the wheels always come off at month 2 when they can't keep up the facade anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾I took the pic at 3:45 pm central standard time (United states) on September 23rd, 2020. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 5 | FDS is empowering me to do the things I want, including standing up for othersBravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:43 PM |
| 17 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾It's crazy isn't it? I joined when we were at 25k. The datingiverforty sub "referred" me lololol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:22 PM |
| 86 | Breaking up with the best boyfriend I've ever hadYour ex sounds casually misogynistic. Any man who has been addicted to open will never see women as human beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:21 PM |
| 68 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾I'll start. FDS helped me weed thru all the scrotes and shits on OLD. I was so clueless about OLD prior to finding to FDS. Thanks FDS for saving me untold amounts of time by pushing gleefully the BLOCK AND DELETE button. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:52 PM |
| 48 | FDS hitting 100k but men STILL be like...And he will pick you up too.....in a windowless white van | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 75 | How long should I date him before moving on?I'm not seeing the grey area. Nor am i seeing that you read the handbook. What I am seeing is future faking, a 42 year old scrote that is still mentally 20, and wanting an "out" so he can, in theory at least, fuck other women. Not over his ex. ANd then you, giving him all the gf/wife benefits without anything in return from him. This is a classic example of a man pretending to be an HVM in order to keep you around for sex. But when the chips are on the table he is all "muh, i be skerred because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:43 PM |
| 10 | If you are serious about levelling up, you need to get comfortable with taking accountability for your actions and behavioursMods, we need to sticky this. Self-accountability should be the CORNERSTONE of FDS thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 14 | Is this guy a waste of time?He is waiting for you to ask him out. Block and delete. Cowards are lowest of the low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:08 AM |
| 24 | Ladies at some point we have to acknowledge our poor pussy management. Like I know most men are trash but if you continue messing with a LVM male people are going to have less empathy for you. It’s better to be alone than to be with trash.We all have agency. It's up to us to use it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 127 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?Can confirm. Been married twice. I am 44. A year after exh moved out I started dating. The statistic that 70% of divorces are initiated by women? Yeah, it's those guys you get to sift thru. And then I quickly realized WHY they got left. Addicts. Emotional retards. Still bitter over the divorce. Ugly. Uncommunicstive. Boring. Lack of interests. Fat. Erectile dysfunction. MUH PENIS. Casual misogyny. Weird fetishes. No self awareness. Women work on themselves. Men don't. And it's so obvious by midd… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:02 PM |
| 197 | I'm tired of viewing men as the enemy.I view men as clowns. I don't take them or their words seriously until they earn my respect so i can take them seriously. Or i view them as homeless ranters on the streets. Just fucked up people that fail to get their mental illness, hangups or addictions, or other issues under control. Not my problem, and I don't put change in their hats. I view them as hopelessly addicted to their dicks. Unable to make good decisions because of MUH PENIS. Forever beholden to it. Unable to see world beyond the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 21 | The Power of SilenceIt's all about pride. Your pride. we want to have the last word. To put them in their place. Etc. I see these LVMs as trolls. They don't care about what you say. It doesn't bother them that you said they are obese neckbeards, or whatever well stated insult you can come up with. You engage because of PRIDE (which is a negative emotion) by the way in the hopes that you will hurt him, educate him, insult him, etc. Take that scrote! Ever play those Down the Clown games at an arcade? Where you hammer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 40 | Male sexuality, as it exists today, is a black hole waiting to consume you.Exactly. They knew that male sexaluality was depraved and in their patriarchal way, tried to control it its destructiveness. Fact is that we, as a society are STILL trying to control it's destructiveness. I think porn is part of that. Zombify the scrotes with porn and onlyfans so they stay put in their basements. Of course, porn wrecks hetero relationships which society also has an interest in promoting. Same with sex pos libfrm. Get women on board to satisfy men sexually however they want, and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:48 AM |
| 23 | Male sexuality, as it exists today, is a black hole waiting to consume you.I was with 1st husband for 17 years. The last three years were plagued with his selfish obsession with his fetish and sex (after the 2nd child was born no less). 2nd husband actually was enlightened on the role of sex and the destructiveness of male sexuality. I was with him for 8 years. Too bad he is destroying his once beautiful mind with alcohol. ☹ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 20 | Male sexuality, as it exists today, is a black hole waiting to consume you.I didn't. 3 years of MUH PENIS was enough for me and I gtfo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 32 | This is the 2nd time I got a dm from an ugly male lurker on this subreddit. I trolled him a bit and then blocked. Don’t they know how pathetic they look? 😂 they’re literally only proving us right.He's been a redditor for 5 years and has negative karma. 🤣🤣🤣🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:13 PM |
| 115 | Swallowing a load is suuuper empowering, guys. Girls who think it’s not are just annoyingIm really fucking annoyed at this libfem obsession with all things sex being "empowering". Swallowing a load is not "empowering". I highly doubt swallowing a guys load will make your stronger or more confident. Or give you any meaningful authority to actually make you more "powerful". If this is what "empowers" you (and i really hate that fucking word) then you need to level up in your life ffs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:01 PM |
| 51 | Why is there a rumor circling around that FDS women are ugly?It's just an insult because theise scrotes and incels don't like women with any kind of standards. Any woman other than a pickme they can shamelessly abuse.....is a threat to them. So of course, they attempt to hit us where they THINK it will hurt. where our culture TRIES to shame us because we are women: our looks, our weight, whether we own cats, and our marital status. All the usual suspects. All of those insults are meant to make us think we can't get a scrote to "take care" of us. What they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:27 PM |
| 10 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.Yeah, actrually we do. Women deal with body shaming the minute we are born into the world. Welcome to the club scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 55 | A day in the life of our lost sisters at breaking mom.Whining, sleeping, playing vidya, and making messes.....thats about all the bromo lvms do. Those ladies over there are already doing everything. I hope they consider the possibility their lives might be easier without the LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 24 | My leveled-up life without the NVM anchors tied around my ankle. My engagement to myself is going well, thanks so much for asking. I’ve just never met anyone like me before 😍🥰✨That dish looks good. An NVM probably wouldn't eat it and bitch about wanting Burger King instead🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:02 AM |
| 193 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:Nah sis. Let him offer a coffee date, etc. Then block and delete. No use in arguing with them or getting presumptuous responses back. And he asked you for coffee.....10 messages in. Lol. And he bitches that he doesn't know you well enough to gage his interest? The self awareness is weak with this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:23 PM |
| 78 | DAE finds 99.9% of men unattractive?...and there's millions of BEAUTIFUL women. Honestly it's just not fair, men don't deserve this. I think we should stop serving them.It's ironic isn't it? Men consume 99% of the porn generated, and it's directed towards them. As a result, all the men look like trolls and uggos and all the women look "hot". Men cuan barely handle the hit their egos take with the large cocks in porn, let alone porn exclusively showing "hot men". But in shows and media directed towards either women, or a mixed audience....the men may look like trolls, but not always.....but the women are always "hot". Double standards in porn and media. Nobody i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | 3 Quality Traits Most Important to You in A HVMAccountable: doesn't blame others for his problems. Acts affirmatively: any problems he has he actively seeks and executes solutions instead. Addiction free: no drugs, no porn, no fetish, no booze. Self control over all thoughts and actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | More wholesome content....my Leveled Up, LVM-FREE LIFE.Al-Anon is a support group for family members of addicts. My exh was an alcoholic and IT helped me to level up. Congrats on your sobriety! As to the birkenstocks, my exh disliked them because his mother always wore them (with fishing vests no less). So I abstained from buying any. Clown me 🤡. I bought them yesterday with the biggest smile on my face😁😁😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:42 PM |
| 18 | Hopping on the wholesome collage bandwagon! Thanks for the inspiration ladies.Yes to Martial arts! If I ever become dictator of the world, I would make every woman starting from the age of 12 take martial arts for the entirety of their teenage years. It's teaches self reliance, discipline, and REAL empowerment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 93 | I WILL Make This HappenFriend, I started law school at age 26, and became a licensed atty at age 29....with a toddler in tow. If I did it, so can you! Family is so important, and it sounds like they will be there for you! Your chances of success: 100% Your chances of success with an LVM in your life: 0%. Keep levelling up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:16 AM |
| 59 | So I made a collage of a modern desi girl's worst nightmares..to remind myself of the kind of toxicity that's ready to suck me in if I don't run fastCan you please explain the MIL nightmare? I've heard that Indian women are expected to serve their in-laws and basically be a slave in their husbands families home under the thumb of their in laws. Is this true? And where did this tyranny via in laws come from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:04 AM |
| 30 | How can I stop feeling like men are entitled to me/my body?Stop dating. You are magnet for men that will use and abuse you, which honestly is the majority of men out there. Also, please see your priest (I'm Catholic too btw) if that is something you are comfortable doing. Your priest will explain to you that as a child of God, you were not put on this earth to be used and abused. Find your self worth thru Jesus. You have s great job, so lay out the money and see a feminist (Not libfem!) Oriented therapist. She can help you figure out why your boundaries… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:59 AM |
| 19 | Muffinsongs’ most recent ex starter packThat dilated pupil!!! I'M DED 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:51 AM |
| 76 | World without women: a dystopia. But what about the other way around?I saw this movie. It's 100% believable that the men, via the government, would round up the remaining women and force them to breed, or steal their eggs. However, the movie fucked up and depicted a world that was somewhat orderly. That's bullshit. IF all women died, there goes caregivers of all kinds, health care workers, etc. Not to mention prostitutes. The movie should have shown men raping each other, forced sexual servitude of other men, and bands of neglected children roaming in the streets… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 56 | Goddamn, the breaking mom subreddit is just one disaster LVM story after another. They should change the title to their sub to "breakingmyspirit" insteadAnd a significant number of.them are.stay at home parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 77 | Goddamn, the breaking mom subreddit is just one disaster LVM story after another. They should change the title to their sub to "breakingmyspirit" insteadI iterally have to hide my babies food in the back of tbe fridge because this asshat will eat it. Wtf is that? You're literally taking food from your own child. I had issues getting my son to eat so I buy specific stuff for him to eat. Veggies....fruits. My husband walks over and takes not even a fork....but his dirty ass fingers, shoving dry ass green beans in his mouth when i tell him those are for the baby. Like wtf! Last night he tells me he gave him a cookie but "Daddy had some too". Y'all.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 206 | More proof men just see us as warm flesh lights. He expects her to warm herself up, give herself her own orgasm and be satisfied with just pleasing him??? I’m disgustedWhatever. When "BREAKING UP IS NOT AN OPTION", and she wants to "CHANGE" him, she is just sticking her head in the sand and refusing to see reality. Fuck pickme's like this. Their weak, and passive acceptance of abusive and selfish behavior of men just perpetuates misery on the rest of us. To this pickme i say....what you need, is what you get. Enjoy your miserable relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 53 | Sex “experts” say that porn usage can be healthy and even beneficial in relationships...God, so many men whining in that thread how their wives don't want sex as much as they do. Of course, it's all about MUH PENIS. And how they don't feel loved and wanted when they aren't shoving their dick into their spouse. Of course they would never consider that feelings of love and validation can be had outside of sex! Nope, all their emotional well being depends on access to the woman's body. Fuck off with that. I'm thankful that bullshit is over with for me thanks to divorce. No husband try… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 34 | Polyamory: where women get to do emotionally labor for multiple men! A meme brought to you by the polyamory subIm convinced "poly" people have a pathological need for attention and validation ie., a black hole that a single partner could never fill. Or 3 even. I too was stunned at how much work it was. Why would any woman want that? I mean, if She is an unemployed do nothing....ok, maybe. But add a full time work, school, kids, household...good god, who has the time or mental energy for it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:52 PM |
| 30 | Imagine the discussion the Netflix bosses had about promoting "Cuties"Compare "cuties" to Martin scorceses "Taxi Driver "that starred an 12 year old Jodie foster as a prostitute. There was no sexualizing of Jodie, no ass or crotch shots, and no glamourizing. It was hard hitting social commentary that didn't spare the audience, the male perps. It skewered all the bad actors that exploited Iris without once depicting her pruriently. Yeah, the director shoulda consulted with Scorsese, but I have a feeling the porn depiction of these girls was quit intentional AND NOT… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 33 | Imagine the discussion the Netflix bosses had about promoting "Cuties"Hollywood, netflix....they know there is big money in "legal" child porn. They know men are depraved, just as we here at FDS know that too. Men will eat it up to the tune of billions of dollars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 73 | Imagine the discussion the Netflix bosses had about promoting "Cuties"The director doesn't get off the hook either. What the he'll was she thinking? I get wanting to explore hypersexialization of children. And suggesting that the exploitstion of young female children is just as prevalent in conservative Senegalese culture as it is in French culture. But her choices on how to film that? Bad. The constant zoom ins on their asses, their mostly flat chests, and even the zoom ins on their crotches was not necessary AT ALL to make the points. It's as if Jeffrey Epstein … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 8 | Need a pep talkPlease elaborate on these red flags he had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:44 AM |
| 27 | LVM find women so easily and it’s infuriatingHow do you know he is such a wonderful BF to these women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 28 | r/MGTOW gleefully plotting to replace women with machines.As much as I relish the thoughts of incel/redpiller dying in a dark basement because the sexbot electrocuted them, sadly....the sexbot will never give them what they truly seek from sex: ego stroking and validation. Only a willing, human woman can provide that. That's why they hate us so much. Sure they can program the sexbot to say whatever, but they'll know it's isn't real. The experience will be similar to prostitution. The lrostitue gets paid to say ego stroking and validating things....the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:05 AM |
| 19 | There’s No Feeling Like Being Single and SuccessfulBlessings have fallen on you OP :) You put in your time on the lvm/marriage crazy train and found the self respect to get off of it. We can only hope that more women follow your example instead of keeping themselves chained and poor to a miserable LVM husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:47 AM |
| 14 | Yes, because not having sex with a man is definitely the same as domestic abuse.Remember ladies.... SCROtes R tHE LoGICal OnEs!!!1111 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:26 PM |
| 20 | NVM Ex-husband meets new meExcellent work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:49 PM |
| 27 | Blackhole Theory on LVM"Has a black hole ever reversed and become a sun?" Fucking genius! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:04 AM |
| 6 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂Of course, it's Mommy/Bangmaid's fault that he can't get his work project done because she said nice things to someone else. what a fucking loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 18 | Old post but has FDS energyYeah, if i were starving i could eat dogshit. But I won't cause i'd rather starve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 75 | 10 Types of Guys You Should Immediately Block If You Have An Anxious Attachment StyleI dunno, those types sound like even those with secure attachement should avoid as well. In fact, anybody with any of those traits aren't relationship material, for anybody of any kind of "attachment" style. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:10 PM |
| 30 | Husband Only Wants me When CompetingThis is depraved sexual behavior. He gets a dopamine hit when he sees men wanting you. When that real life porn isn't in front of him, he goes back to ignoring you. It's a dysfunctional cycle. Your husband is depraved and emotionally stunted. You will never have a real loving relationship with him. He simply isn't capable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 26 | My ex sent me this tonightKen: She is doing very well now that your LVM ass is out of her life. Oh, and she doesn't miss you either. In fact, she is occupied with many opportunities and positive people now that you are gone and no longer being the vampiric energy drain that you were to her. Speaking of being gone, you do the same, k? Sincerely, FDS. P.S. You been blocked and deleted from everything pertaining to her. Hahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:49 AM |
| 7 | When a LVM tries to drop this hot line to reel you in thinking you are a pickme, but you decide to play stupid to give him a taste of his own medicine before you block & delete for good as an enlightened Queenahahahahahahahahah!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 6 | I could never repay my debt to FDS. Has it changed your life too?I was already FDS in real life and had been since my teens (Thanks to my women's studies minor in college). However FDS saved my ass from OLD. When I started that shitshow a year ago, i was utterly clueless about online scrote behavior. Saved me so much time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | I’ve leveled up in every way, on paperI went thru something similar with my alcoholic exh. Addicts are a league of their own and the destruction they wreak, if allowed, can be vast. You did what was necessary. You built an economic and legal and social firewall between him, and you and your children. He, nor his addiction, can hurt you through legal and economic means. Now your heart....it will take some time to catch up with the reality. I was.completely blindsided by my exh closet alcoholism and the lies he told to cover it. He wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:31 AM |
| 16 | Question: while our assumption may be that "everyone" is looking for a partner to love, do you think many men are actually looking for a partner to hate?To show you how to protect yourself and your interests while dating men, which is necessary given that most men hate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:47 PM |
| 36 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERExcellent work! IMO, people who lie like that are very dangerous and should be excised from your life. Addicts, criminals, and personality disorderd do what your ex did. Good work on cancelling him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 24 | Question: while our assumption may be that "everyone" is looking for a partner to love, do you think many men are actually looking for a partner to hate?Men hate women. The reasons are well known. But they want MUhhh SEXsss, and fleshlight and hookers don't give them the ego boost and external validation that a willing woman does. So they hate the entities that provide and deprive them of muhh sexxs. If you are a woman, and a man is interested in you, he already hates you for being a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 23 | How to implement FDS within a LTRYour husband sounds abusive. Goes out and gets drunk for days, then comes back and verbally abuses you. Leave him. The abuse, and alcohol addiction, will only get worse. There is no leveling up in an abusive marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:00 AM |
| 9 | Strongly against porn - how and when do I find out if this is a deal breaker with a potential partner?If you ask him matter of factly, he will lie about it. Scrotes know women dislike porn viewing men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:49 PM |
| -26 | Strongly against porn - how and when do I find out if this is a deal breaker with a potential partner?It's super easy. Text or ask them in a sexy way about what your favorite porn is (make up whatever would be convincing to your target) and that you pleasure yourself at least once a week. Then be like " omg, is that TMI? You prob think I'm such a slut!". At this point, he will likely take the bait and spew his porn usage to you. EDIT: ok, maybe my approach is over the top. But to weed out the 90% that are lying LVMs, you have to be convincing enough that you aren't opposed to it whatsoever. The … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 151 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesMy exhusband had a MAGNIFICENT cock. 8.25 inches long. Prior to him, I had never had an orgasm through intercourse. One day, i was riding that beautiful cock and grinding my clit against him....and then it happened. The most powerful orgasm I ever had. It turns out that my G-SPOT is fairly high up inside me and his cock with long enough to reach it, assuming i was on top. And his cock was generally beautiful. Very smooth, very nicely colored. His testicles were full and round and not like tube s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 93 | First dateIt's anxiety inducing when you meet people whose words don't meet up with their actions. And i beg to differ that this date went well. It didn't. You went on a date with a male that 1. Talked about himself all night 2. Was charged with tax evasion (so he is a criminal) 3. Uses fake online personae and 3) bragged about how he intimidates women. You went on a date with a creep. Please, figure out why, in light of the above, you still sought out this man afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:31 PM |
| 85 | Me putting one of my male friends in his place (in South Korea and guys often joke like this, and I have none of it).Watching the feminist movement blossom in S. Korea is such a joy. You women are tearing down LVMs and not playing the rigged game of marriage anymore. Bravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:09 AM |
| 50 | How do I break up during COVID? Terrified of becoming tied down to a freeloader!I'm not seeing what the problem is here. You don't live together, and haven't actually seen each in SIX MONTHS? This isn't a real relationship as it only exists online. Tell him won't be talking to him anymore. Then block and delete him from everything. And then find something to occupy your time with so you wont be tempted to contact him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:06 PM |
| 7 | My LVM-ex keeps contacting me lately and it is making me anxiousThreaten him with an attorney or law enforcement if he contacts you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:02 PM |
| 42 | Am I being too tough on the OLD match?So he fucks up, and instead of apologizing, tries to deflect his fuck up on to you? (dur, we are both absent minded). This is a scrote that blames others and has zero responsibility. Block him. He just showed you who he is. It doesn't take much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:29 PM |
| 20 | Thank you to the queensThe therapist is not incorrect. Many many men are like that, and the men that are like that are LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 59 | When have you walked out on a date that didn't meet your standards and what was the aftermath?I've done this twice. First time was at a nice place we met for drinks. No chemistry, he looked much better in his pics. After 40 minutes, I asked for my tab, paid it. Told him thanks for meeting, and that i was leaving. Then I left. 2nd time I met another at a museum. No chemistry, more unattractive than his pics suggested. Stayed for an hour and then said thanks for meeting. Then left. These guys were nice enough but probably used old pics. I work 40 hours a week. My time is precious and I don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:56 PM |
| 87 | He's thinking of leaving her because she's not his "playboy bunny" anymore.Men prioritize sex above all else because: they are too emotionally retarded and stunted to receive affection any other way It's all about their ego and constant need for validation. When you marry a man, he dumps all his sexual depravity and "needs" into your lap. Post like this make me thankful for being peacefully divorced. No one trying to bully me into being a slave to their MuH PENiss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:08 AM |
| 31 | Am I right, ladies?Or: William Shatner: Me viewing pics of men on dating apps Monster: Men on dating apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:55 PM |
| 96 | What’s your favourite FDS principle?Financial independence. Financial independence Financial independence. Once you have the first 3, then all the other principles become much easier to follow. Don't bother COmmUNIcaTING. He doesn't get special treatment and accolades for basic adulting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 33 | Who pays on the first date?Not paying was the least of the problems here. I didn't get past him just talkinga bout himself. Why did you stay more than 10 minutes after that bullshit? Also, read the handbook. FDS is very clear about who pay on a first date, and why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 105 | I feel like I’ve forsaken my self worth and future love life with idiotic hook ups and overall bad decisions.The first step is to stop having sex for a good long while in order to figure out why your subject yourself to this treatment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 22 | Boyfriend of 2 years checking out other women & lying about it.He doesn't respect you at all. It's one thing for him to do that while he is by himself. But doing it in front you? Nah sis, he has zero respect for you. And no use COmMUniKAtinG any further. He'll just gaslight you about it. Fuck that. If you wanna see what a marriage/LTR where the lvm husband has zero respect for his partner, spend an hour at breaking mom. That will be your future if you stay with this jackass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 41 | Gosh! No thank you, I'm intolerant this bsThere are so many failed relationships because men suck at relationships, and our culture brainwashes WOMEN to do 100% of the labor of keeping a relationship/marriage alive while absolving men of any responsbility to do the same. Breaking up is ALWAYS the answer when dealing with an LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:21 PM |
| 10 | Should I cut this man off?Sex after only knowing someone for a month is "not taking things slow". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 10:17 PM |
| 84 | Do some of our mothers want to see us fail romantically?Because many of our mothers have pickme mindsets and believe that a woman's worth is based upon whether she is tied down to a man. Or the erroenous belief that a woman needs the protection of man.....to protect her from other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 19 | Just block all your friends and familyHonestly, the sentiment is not incorrect. Male "friends" to women are usually just hanging out to get some sex at some point. THey aren't real friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 30 | Here ya go ladies...a 26 year old man who doesn’t have his drivers license yet because he’s just “bEeN tOo bUsY”... 😂What a whiny bitch. In the United States, in most places, you need a car OR a license. Not having that just screams irresponsiblity. He probably has a DUI. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:29 PM |
| 26 | Am I just jealous?STOP. STOP. You are playing a willing part in this LVM love triangle. He is manipulating YOU, and listening to his self serving narrative about how 'awful' she is. If she is so awful, then he can break up with her without any help from you. THere is no approaching. And you two aren't friends either since you both have hidden agendas. THis is dysfunctional. BLock and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:07 PM |
| 51 | I’m quitting birth control.I've never used hormonal birth control. I'm 44, married a total of 21 years between 2 ex husbands. I'm blessed with a regular cycle. I told the ex husbands that if we have sex 4 days bedore and 4 days after my ovulation, then they use a condom. Or we don't have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:13 AM |
| 9 | We had been talking to eachother daily for weeks up until this point while I recovered from surgery before our first date. I immediately ghosted him after this. Just... wow LMAO. His bumble originally said he was 31. Make sure you do your research before meeting up with a guyTrying to get more early twentysomethjbgs to click on his profile. 33 May sound too old for a 21 year old, but maybe 31 wouldn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:34 AM |
| 12 | I’m getting a lot of green flags from this guy. He’s very much an HVM, but his texting habits aren’t that great. What “green flags” do you look for when it comes to texting?At least 3 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 26 | I’m getting a lot of green flags from this guy. He’s very much an HVM, but his texting habits aren’t that great. What “green flags” do you look for when it comes to texting?You have not been dating him long enough to determine if he is an HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:28 PM |
| 43 | Queens, I finally did it- I now have no sexual attraction to men who don’t put in effortDuring my time dating, i realized that i have to feel emotionally safe with a man before i can possibly have an orgasm having sex with him. It took me 2 men to sleep with post divorce from my exh to realize this. For me to feel emotionally safe with a man take a lot of time and honesty. I'm fully accepting and HONORED on being single for the rest of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:21 PM |
| 41 | A pathetic, LVM method of "asking" a woman out on a "date"It demonstrates how refusing they are of putting forth any effort. Just another example of them expending minimal effort and expecting MUHH SEXXKKKS. The offers to "tag along" are so fucking pathetic. Sorry, if i want someone to "tag along" i'll ask a family member or a friend. Not some scrote that i've never met before in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:46 PM |
| 126 | I'm 30 yrs old, and I'm shocked at how old men lookWelcome to the Midwest. I've lived here all my life. Men here don't care about their appearance, arent' into healthy living, and buy into the lie that their appearances don't matter, and shouldn't matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:04 PM |
| 26 | Does anyone else go through waves of “craving” a man?I would chalk it up to boredom. And probably need for attention and validation. All of that is ok and human. The task is to find other avenues to fill those otherwise valid needs. Seeking a LVM to address boredom and needs for attention and validation is like starving, but eating a pound of sugar to stave off the hunger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 44 | Guys that want you to be mom 2.0For a lot of LVM, "being in touch with their feminine energey" means dumping all their emotional bullshit on women and expecting women to be their unpaid therapist. When they confide in their MALE FRIENDS, then I might be convinced they are in "touch". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 68 | 25 and a virgin.Part of leveling up is realizing that a man's attraction to you is nothing special or unique. Men fuck children, animals, and apparently like watching sex trafficked/addicted/abused women get abused in pornography. You are already there, congrats Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:49 PM |
| 28 | Caption was “just bc p*rn is normal for boys of our age doesn’t mean its good for you”. I’ve never seen men speak up against this, Im having hope for improvement for the next generation (sorry if the flair is wrong)Porn is no better than vodka or heroin. Do it too much and you will fry your brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:58 PM |
| 56 | The look on his face was worth every pennyKeep flexing. LVMs have large, yet fragile egos. I take any chance to knock them down. For one, it feels GOOD, and two, it keeps them in their place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:09 PM |
| 35 | Strategy to decrease attachment without a scrotationI don't consider them "real" until we actually have had a date. Until then, they only exist in digital space, like one of those video game characters 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:29 AM |
| 5 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.From the relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:36 AM |
| 17 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.Wrong. There is no point to endlessly advocating for your needs in a relationship. If you tell them once, that should be enough. 2or 3 or 1209 times just means he doesn't give a fuck about you. there is not point to arguing and walking away is the only option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:20 AM |
| 14 | How do you know if he is multi-dating?I know right? I live in a non urban area of the Midwest. Nothing but busted looking scrotes as far as the eye can see. 😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:49 PM |
| 27 | I wrote this but never sent it. Sometimes I wish I had.You were correct in NOT sending this. He knows he is shit, but doesn't care. dHe knows he treated you bad, but he doesn't care. Instead of wasting your energy on this scum, take that energy and spread the word of FDS and help others avoid the mistakes you (and I) made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:17 PM |
| 39 | How do you know if he is multi-dating?I know there is a difference of opinion on the merits of mulit-dating. When i was dating, i did not multi date. I don't have the time or energy to keep a "scrotation" or talk to more than 1 man at a time. HOWEVER, i have zero chance of getting attached and will block and delete at the first red flag. Some of us have difficult doing that and if you are that type of person, then multi-dating may work for you. I blocked and deleted men when i got this sort of treatment. I don't multi-date and I'm n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:00 PM |
| 336 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.Stone cold queen Energy. Love it. Arguing with a man is pointless because they hate women. You already lost the argument before it began. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:56 PM |
| 18 | LVM & NVM be like, "I wAs JuSt ChEcKiNg In tO sEe HoW yOu WeRe DoInG bEcAuSe I aM sUcH a GoOd gUy." then get salty when you don't accept their shitty outreach attempt because hE iS TrYiNg!You all are too charitable in your interpretation of this behavior They do this because there may be a chance at SEXXXCCCSSS. Even if that chance is 0.0001%, it's still a low effort task to send out a lame message in order to get sex. Worst is that you ignore him. Best is that you sex him. He has nothing to lose, including dignity, because lvms don't have any. I suggest the next time one of you ladies get s sad sack message like this, reply: " "Hey Jason, wanna come over and fuck? It's been a fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 24 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.You can have a meaningful relationship and yet be financially and emotionally independent so that if you need to walk away because of cheating and abuse, you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 7 | It’s funny what brings the sexists out. MM made a comment the current playoff bubble is good because the players aren’t distracted by their wives. I can’t handle the comments on posts right now of all the men (and way too many women) seeing nothing wrong with the statement.Um, it's not the wives...., more like the prostitutes, groupies and strippers they can't get enough of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:21 AM |
| 56 | Am I just being a prude or is this too much for someone who has only spoken to me for 5 minutes? #datingwhenyoure30😝 Yes. Sex. Did I mention I like sex? Yes, sex..sex. Sex. SEXXXX!!!!1111 Block and delete friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 25 | Today I broke up with a nice guy. Explanation in comments. Trigger: mentions deathSeems like your friend, in a very obtuse and clumsy way, was trying to help you get over your loss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 10:08 PM |
| 41 | Finally ended things with my FWBThis is why I am opposed to "fwb" arrangements. I get downvited to hell when I explain, so I don't bother anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 6 | These scrotes only bother the scared, turn the tables on em, become scary.Part of leveling up is becoming better advocates for ourselves and finding solutions regarding protecting ourselves. Part of leveling up is exorcising the "freeze and appease" that makes us sitting ducks for abuse and violence. Men aren't gonna stop being lvm predators overnight. So the ball is in our court. There are many variations of fight, or flight that can be implemented. But freezing and appeasing must be overcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:59 PM |
| 3 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeThen you need to stay away from dating and men until you do. Failing that, you will inevitably end up with another manipulative predator. They seek out people like you to exploit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Women Over 65 Don't Want To Live With Their Partners...This quote is worthy of its own post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:08 PM |
| 11 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeOP: This is an unfortunate situation. You seem younger too. Your ex is a manipulative piece of shit. I hope you dumped and blocked him forever. It's well known that drinking lowers our inhibitions and can make us say and do things we regret when sober. I'm going to focus on you OP. What's done is done. What can you do OP, to strengthen boundaries? Do you have boundaries? To become more resilient in the face of outside pressure? Because that's what happened here. You had no boundsries. You had no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 4 | This post and the majority of the comments are absolutely terrifyingThe post is 10 years old. Imagine this guy posting it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:02 PM |
| 75 | What the fuck makes old men think they're a catch and they stand a chance ?Nothing, except dick feels and a massive sense of entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:56 PM |
| 4 | StigmasIrrefutable evidence that our entire society hates women. Even when you do the narrow, socially acceptable thing.....you are still wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:02 PM |
| 21 | How do I shake the constant "empty" feeling?Date a few LVMs. Visit the breaking mom subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:04 PM |
| 53 | Cue the “nOt aLL mEn” replies 🤪An LVMs definition confidence as it pertains to women is vastly different from women's. A confident woman, to an lvm, is a woman that is comfortable in being sexually exploited, sexually willing, and always DTF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:12 AM |
| 29 | I’m loving this video of an all-woman tribe in Kenya and how inspiring they’ve been in overcoming so many difficultiesI watched this all the way thru. On the one hand, I'm struck at how fortunate we are to live the first world where women have absolute economic and legal autonomy, and a legal system that penalizes male on female violence. On the other, I'm struck at how depressingly similar the Samburu men are like the LVMs here. They don't want to be with educated women that have their own money because then they can't control women. It's all. About. Control. In samburu, and in America. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 57 | Ladies it finally happened: I no longer care about having a significant otherBecause women are conditioned to make "sacrifices" and WOrk ON tHE RELAtionSHiT, fatigue and stress are the result from associating with LVMs but too many women just write it off as normal stress of living. Um...no. normal stress is jobs, work, and kids. NOT the stress of being with a manchild who takes and takes and actually adds work to your life, and probably hates you because you are a woman. That is not normal. That is just living with a toxic piece of shit. Of course the lvm experiences no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:40 PM |
| 17 | Butt hurtConfident, to men, means a woman's willingness to be used as a man's sexdoll and her willingness to act out his disgusting porn fantasies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 83 | Having to explain the novel concept of a dinner date to a 36 year old man...Trash takes itself out every damn time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 22 | Why are men allowed to look like this? 🤢🤢🤢Just another example of male privilege. Men aren't brainwashed from birth nto thinking their only value is in their appearance. So they don't care about their appearance and get butthurt when SURPRISE! IT DOES MATTER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:19 AM |
| 20 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchWhy don't you gtfo, stop targeting us, and encourage other men to stop hating and murder women? Water your own backyard. There are hundreds of misogynistic subreddit for you to pick from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 14 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchNOt All MEnnzzZz!!!11111 Duudurdur | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 12 | Has to get to know me over coffee and THEN we can go on “real” dates 🙄If I were bored, I would show up wearing no make up, unwashed hair and in pajama pants. Meet low effort with low effort. If I were meeting a "friend" for coffee, I wouldn't get all dressed up....fair play! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:28 PM |
| 12 | Is it just me, or is most couples' advice from therapists/psychologists/counselors just goddamn AWFUL for women??Many women go to couples counseling with the mindset Carmela Soprano had when she saw her psychiatrist. They know how horrible he is, but God forbid they leave the POS. They want validation for their choice to stay, or worse, expect the therapist to somehow change their husbands evil behavior. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bzVeLjj6Ao8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...To enjoy any work of fiction in any genre requires the reader or viewer to suspend disbelief. That's why I don't enjoy any romantic movies or novels....it just isn't believable to me 95% of the time. Zombie movies....i like those. Same with alien invasion movies. I can suspend disbelief to believe that zombies and aliens could exist lol . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 01:49 AM |
| 7 | What is your action plan for getting out of a date early? / Why you definitely need one.I just leave. If at dinner drinks, etc, , I pay my part of the check. I say " nice meeting you" and leave. I always meet in public so I can wait safely. That's it. I don't waste time on shifty dates or worrying about what said shitty date thinks or feels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:05 AM |
| 9 | Living with a “High Value” single man: the observations of an FDS noviceCannot upvote this enough. I quoted you in all caps for the people in the back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 14 | Living with a “High Value” single man: the observations of an FDS noviceIF HE RESPONDS TO ALOOFNESS AND INSTABILITY, IT'S ALREADY A FUNDAMENTAL INSTABILITY. u/dimethylchlorine Facts. A man like that cannot be in an authentic relationship. There will never be reciprocation of your affection, and that's no way to live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:53 PM |
| 56 | How a man treats you when you're sick or going through a hard time is a good indicator of the future.I cannot even imagine dealing with an illness and ALSO dealing with an LVM manchild whining abut MUH NEEEdz and MUH DICKKKK because.....i am too sick to pay them any attention. Fuck that. Better off alone. The pets will take better care of you than most men will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 09:05 PM |
| 29 | I think i got my HVMPlease read the handbook. You cannot say he is HVM. You have only been dating him for.....5 days? Oh, and you are being his therapist. Don't do that.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Thanks FDS: Starting to be happy being singleOur culture and institutions socialize women into seeking and staying in RELATION-SHITS. Part of leveling up is acknowledging that and overcoming that inner critic. And it looks like you are on your way in doing so! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:06 PM |
| 56 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceMy sympathy stops for PICKMEs when they allow their children to become victims of their pick me ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:03 PM |
| 39 | This is why we Vet for SexThis is why we don't fuck our friends, whether they are male or female. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:51 AM |
| 8 | Women seem terrified of leaving shitty marriages: why?Leaving a shitty LVM husband is infininately easier if the wife has financial independence separate from the LVM husband via employment and/or family or some other means. The 19th century feminists knew this, the 20th century feminists knew this...and it's still true today. Now, indentured servitude is voluntary but far too many women pick that option and then get their asses handed to them by LVM THEY depend on. It's a gamble, and one that the house (the LVM) usually WINS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:35 AM |
| 42 | Does anyone else constantly marvel at how women manage integration of their personality/interests SO MUCH BETTER than men?Because men are socialized to contribute much less to anything and everything. They aren't socialized to consider others, care for others, or improve themselves. The only thing they are socialized to think about, other than themselves, is their dick. So, no surprise men are one dimensional, self centered and boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:14 PM |
| 78 | A wholesome change of pace! Society consistently stereotypes single mothers as "lazy", while praising low value, bare minimum behavior from fathers. It's cultural misogyny in action.Parenting as a single mother is leagues easier than parenting with an LVM/NVM...regardless of finances. FACT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:25 AM |
| 21 | HVM or LVM? Having a hard time telling with this oneI stopped reading at the "only talks about himself". But then I continues and it got worse. Self centered and not interested in your life....equals DUMP HIS ASS. 2 months in and he is showing you who he REALLY is. The mask always slips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:06 PM |
| 3 | On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worthThis should be posted in r/dataisbeautiful. EXCELLENT LEVELING UP! LVMs lie, but numbers dont! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:56 PM |
| 11 | How I act in Bumble...I'm DED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:04 AM |
| 72 | Reaching out for supportYou are in no position to be dating right now. For one, you are still emotionally attached to him so that isn't fair to anyone you might date. Secondly, the chances of you ending up with another abuser are very significant until you learn how to identify abusive behaviors and learn behaviors to avoid abusive relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 60 | Found this on an Instagram meme page and honestly I don‘t find it funny at all. The “women are crazy” stereotype was created by men to invalidate us and our boundaries.Once again, it's projection on mass, institutional scale. Men are the crazy ones. Who commit crimes and fill the prisons? Men. Who are the pedofiles and rapists? Men. Who can't stop touching their dicks? Men. Who are the addicts of sex and substances? Men. Who are emotionally stunted and bad at empathy? Men. Who can't cope with life? Men. Who break their minds and dicks on porn? Men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:28 AM |
| 19 | Restraining order servedToday is the first day of your new, wonderful life free of abuse and NVM bullshit. You made the hard, yet CORRECT decisions to get to this point. So....rejoice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:55 AM |
| 45 | Wife is expected to replace husband’s pants because he quit working outIt's shit like this that is responsible for stats about the misery of married women. This lvm vomits in her mouth and she asks if she is the asshole? Until women level up and fight off their socialized "niceness" and passivity, marriage is nothing but a deathtrap for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 186 | Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUEYes, their looks decline after age 35, and then they smash into the wall at age forty. Years of drinking, overeating, obesity, and not taking care of themselves and no hair make them all just BUSTED. Like a busted mirror. It's awful. Once more, men project their shit onto women. Oh, and the ones with no hair always wear hats in their pics lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:38 AM |
| 112 | Do you also feel like men are energy vampires?Yes, the quickly become that. They can't cope with life issues, they are useless with kids and housework, and obsessed with their (And other mens) dicks. And emotionally retarded. Addicted. Many of them.are just black holes in the same way that people with untreated mental illnesses and personality disorders are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Don't be afraid to say you are happily divorced!Good for you. Let us be thankful we have the option to get divorced unlike our grandmother's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:59 PM |
| 13 | 'I Think Quarantine Will Change Fuckboy Culture,' Says Stupid Idiot"Deadly combination of naive and empathetic". I'm DED. Isn't that the recipe for your average pickme? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 17 | Male lurkers: cold approaching strange women is creepy and weirdI've handles this by ignoring their lines, taking an aggressive stance and informing them "I'm well armed so back the fuck off or I'll cut you." And it's true. I carry various knives with me some hidden and some not. Ymmv on this but I have decided that men don't get to dictate my movements anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 44 | How can you tell if they’re putting on an act on or not? How can you tell if you‘re being too cynical?Give it another 4 months. Meanwhile, get your starstruck head out of your arse! It's only been a week ffs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:21 AM |
| 15 | In order to not end up miserable, you should keep leveling up to derive power and self-esteem from other sources than LVM validation.Credited. Once you realize how ridiculous, depraved , and frankly brain damaged most men are, any lack of interest from them is tantamount to the panhandler on the corner not asking you for change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:16 AM |
| 93 | The Power of “So What?”Tina Turner said it best.....whats love got to do with it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | 🥴🥴🥴🥴Well done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 48 | Wow, I just love women's nAtuRaL beaUtyMen are so fucking stupid and clueless. Add this to their ineptitude about women's weight and anatomy. More likely, they aren't used to seeing non garish make up on women on teevee because they have rottED their pea brains on porn. Women on porn have it caked on. So non garish make up means no makeup to an LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 72 | If a men is on one dating app he’s most certainly using all the dating apps available to him. Don’t take an action of deleting a profile as a sign of commitment.Yes, that's because most men receive so few messages and matches. They think a different dating app will make them less ugly and loser-like lol. So yeah, if he deletes tinder, ask him about the zillions of other dating apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 4 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?What else do you have going on in your life? Work, interests, etc? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 73 | Cut off “friend with benefits” of three years five months ago and he contacted me again - what’s his motive?His motive is to use you for his personal benefit (sex, validation, money, etc). He doesn't care about you as a person. Only what you can do for him at the particular moment. The more interesting question is what YOUR MOTIVE in being a doormat for this loser? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:32 PM |
| 7 | Genital Piercings LVM?You had a stranger puncture your dick and balls 10 times. I would assume you are sexually depraved and pornsick. | /r/askFDS | 11/07/20 12:17 PM |
| 118 | A lesbian who had to learn about men even though she doesn’t date them.All women are socialized to be nice and accomodting to men and protect their fragile feefees. Lesbians are not exempt from this social and institutional brainwashing. Here at FDS, we learn to overcome it and say NO MORE! So....welcome Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:51 AM |
| 47 | Financial Abuse - I've said it before, there's no such thing as "our" money in a relationship, unless it's mostly your money.The SAHM track is a one way ticket to indentured servitude. Our foremothers fought so hard for economic equality for women. They would spin in their graves of they knew, 150 years later that women VOLUNTSRILY enslave themselves to a man. Frankly, if I were her, id leave the kids with the SOB. He, and millions of other men, have used kids against women. Fine, he can have them, good luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:28 AM |
| 30 | "What's your love language?" ALL OF THEM.Its axiomatic that LVM/NVM always say that "physical touch" (read: fucking) is the only love language they can understand. Poor effort to manipulate and guilt trip partners into MOAR SEHXXxx. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:49 PM |
| 42 | This man gets it.Because the fake wish-fulfillment machine that is Hollywood and TEEVEEE says they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:05 PM |
| 184 | Was feeling a little down about breaking up with LVM this morning... then I read r/BreakingMom.... wowThat subreddit should be required reading. It's basically telling you what a future with an lvm is like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:44 PM |
| 46 | Turnabout is fair playLOVE IT. I'm sorta meh on "taking the high road". Scrotes go thru their pathetic lives not feeling an ounce of empathy for anything or anybody. They never think of their partners. They don't care about the consequences of their actions. Anything to cause them cognitive dissonance like OP did is well deserved Karma. I would SO ENJOY what she did just to see him get deservedly REKT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:07 PM |
| 132 | BuT hAvE yOu TaLkEd To HiM??? - Btw, if he's not helping with the cleaning he's not "wonderful", you're delusional!Hi u/AnomalousINFJ For starters, your partner is NOT wonderful. That is the first "social norm" to exorcise from your brain. ANy man that dumps 90% of the household and chidlcare on his full time employed partner is a selfish, immature piece of shit. He passively blames YOU for his laziness as well: DURR....i too afraid to to dishes Cause I won't do it right! DURRR....make Me a chore chart. In sum, he is seflish and lazy....and blames you for it. Not wonderful. You are right, he should act like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:58 PM |
| 21 | Found this on tumblr and I’ve never agreed to anything more"A quiet and peaceful independence" My phrase for the month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:08 PM |
| 49 | Sometimes I think to myself “It would be nice to be married” but then I see stuff like this and say to myself: “nah.”This is most marriages in America. As a practical note, she can at least stop making him breakfast and doing his laundry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:00 PM |
| 50 | Update: confronting cheating fianceBrilliant! Nice dig at HIS age too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 10:55 PM |
| 10 | Better off single than with a LVM! (WGTOW - Women Going Their Own Way)Down with those clowns! The garbage pic is too funny🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:41 AM |
| 21 | At a shoe store now and heard this pick me wife say to her sulky LVM husband: "if you don't care how these look, the why did you come along?"The worst part is when they park themselves right outside of the women's fitting room while the woman is trying on clothes. Then the woman comes out and says "how does this look". Meanwhile I've had to walk past this creep to the full length mirror and watch him check me and the other women and girls out coming in and out of the dressing room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 01:49 PM |
| 42 | Literally 20% of the shops in my town are the third type. Men love that shit.Because it's not a business, it's a pyramid scheme that really generates more expenditures than income. If you actually analyzed the cost and time these SAHMs put into, they are either working for free or working far below minimum wage. My sahm SIL is in one of these. She isn't making money although she devotes a lot of time to it. My brother just shrugs and calls it an expensive hobby. From his perspective, it keeps her occupied and gives her a sense of "purpose". It's sickening. Her time is be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:54 PM |
| 14 | Facts 💅One form of wealth are options. And financial independence gives you so many options, one being never having to depend on a man to survive. Our foremothers in 19th century knew that so much of women's suffering and enslavement came from abject financial dependence on men and fought for the rights of women to own their property and engage in gainful employment. Bravo to You! You are on the path to freedom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:04 PM |
| 20 | Concrete example of what being married to a Negative Value man is like: you will lose MONEYHERE IS re is the full post in case it gets deleted: r/Marriage u/lolalovespell1h AITA that I'm angry with my husband over purchasing a car and excluding me? Seeking Advice On Thursday, my husband told me that he has Friday off. I got excited because it's been a very long time since we've had "fun" time together and wanted to go out and make a day/night of it. He told me that he had to get his truck looked at and also run an errand for his father who lives close by. I work from home permanently,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 05:26 PM |
| 149 | My boyfriend sent me this...he knows I am not trying to live together until marriage. Ladies am I trippin or is this a potential proposal?👀If he is serous about marrying you, he would wait until you and him are married to buy a house so you can do it together. This current set up....he will ask you to marry him, and you and him will have the awful conversation about how re-title the house. Understand that for him to retitle the house, he has to sign a deed. You could get married, then he drags his feet for years on the re titling the house, if he ever does at all. What is he is doing acquiring non-marital assets first THEN get marr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:05 PM |
| 20 | This man is a joke, and gross, and I don't know why I'm wasting my time explaining things to him.You should have blocked and deleted at the creepy "innocent" and "clean and tasty" comment. Did you not find that creepy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 05:39 PM |
| 305 | My boyfriend sent me this...he knows I am not trying to live together until marriage. Ladies am I trippin or is this a potential proposal?👀OP- he is buying a house for HIMSELF. Not you. You will not be on the title, or the loan. Then when he asks you to get married, you will moving into HIS HOUSE. And if, and when, you guys get divorced, this house will NOT be marital property, will not be subject to division, and you will NOT recoup any mortgage payments or utilities that you paid while living there. The only expense you could recoup in a divorce is any fixed improvements on the house that increased it's value. The burden would be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 05:34 PM |
| 14 | how to know what you are looking for in a manAt your age, your main concern is to become financially independent and that means thinking about how you plan on doing that. Gain experience in the workplace, attend to your studies. Volunteer. Travel. Dating should be like #34567 on your list of priorities. BUT (taking off my mom hat :) ) here is what you DON'T want. Pornsick guys. Guys that spend their waking hours gaming. Guys with no amibition. Guys more than 2 years older than you. Guy that are casually sexist, racists or homophobic Guys t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 08:43 PM |
| 12 | This YouTube Video shows us how to deal with PUAs trying to invade our privacy in grocery stores and in public areasIn the future, maybe we will stop socializing women to be "nice" and "accommodating" to men that creep on us in public. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 08:34 PM |
| 7 | HVM shitYep. That's how I read this. He just stops talking to her. Then pops up out of no where....with a cert? PUHLLLEAASE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:31 PM |
| 17 | Relationship advice succesfully pressured this woman into doing a sex act she hates with her entitled, predatory boyfriend. There are no words to describe how sad, sick and disgusted this makes me.He doesn't have any standards. He was only butthurt that she did ANAL!!!!1111 with some other guys and NOT HIM. He actually wanted HER to do all those things she did with other men, and his pissant small brain couldn't comprehend that she no longer wanted to do those things because she discovered she didn't like doing them. So it was all about HIM and his FEEFEES, NOT ABOUT HER. She goes all pickmeisha and does anal with him. It sucks. Then he decides he doesn't lke her 'promiscuous" past. Which… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 44 | Relationship advice succesfully pressured this woman into doing a sex act she hates with her entitled, predatory boyfriend. There are no words to describe how sad, sick and disgusted this makes me.Women who are strong in FDS SHOULD disclose their sexual history as a quick way to weed out scrotes like "John" in the post. So you tell your seemingly HVM that yes, you tried anal, but realized you didn't like and you aren't ever gonna do it again. If the seemingly HVM goes LVM like "john" did, then it's time to dump, block and delete. But again, only women who are completely exorcised of pickme ways. All other women should stay mum.....until they are no longer pickmes and have a strong sense o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:22 PM |
| 156 | I chose to leave todayExcellent. Did you block and delete his number, social media etc? That is key to keeping LVM out of your life for good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:39 PM |
| 19 | This is some next level NVM bullshit. Could you imagine thinking your friends are more important than you wife in labour. Chuck him in the bin IMO.I upvoted this comment. At some point, we all have to take responsibility for the choices we make because at the end of the day, its our life. Part of leveling up is taking a hard look at our choices and deciding to do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 05:04 PM |
| 173 | It's always our fault, according to themPrisons are filled with men that can't control themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 02:24 PM |
| 14 | Do friends who have made sexual advances toward you deserve an explaination as to why you're cutting them out?No. They were never your friend. They were merely a NEGATIVE VALUE MALE that actually took from your peace of mind and violated your boundaries. Ghost and block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:03 PM |
| 57 | Found on Twitter: The Scrotes Are Becoming Self AwareNah sis, they will just think of newer ways to cover up their lvm ways...instead of thinking of new ways to rid themselves of their lvm ways in the first place. Once an lvm/nvm, always an lvm/nvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:45 AM |
| 30 | OLD is a lot more fun when you know that it’s all entirely up to youAnd then thrown that so many of then are obese.....yeah. Its almost torture going thru the pics. It's like looking at autopsy photos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:50 PM |
| 53 | OLD is a lot more fun when you know that it’s all entirely up to youOh no, American men are a "epidemic of premature ageing and balding caused most likely by heavy drinking/smoking and a total lifelong disregard for hygiene and basic self-care" hahahaha. Except here, those uggos, saddos, plonkers and nutters ALSO have all those hunting and fishing pics to make them even more revolting that what you have in the UK. BARF! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:41 PM |
| 126 | Imagine if she said this to him. Men are so insecure that most can’t even tolerate their partner talking to another man, but they get to do and say this and tell us it’s “normal”.This guy is a racist fuck. He is ashamed of being attracted to Latina women and they aren't good enough for him to date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 12:44 AM |
| 174 | Pornmeisha gets a reality check about men. ☕️I really wish that there was a cure for naivety in women. Women think men.....think like women. Subject to a few exceptions, men perceive women as objects to used and abused for their pleasure. Men dont percieve eomen as people. Especially women that post porn. So it's no surprise that she gets creepy stiff like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:11 PM |
| 136 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:I love the smell of burned scrotes in the morning. Make sure you are drinking a cup of tea while watching his humiliation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 42 | How do you not get attached so quickly when dating?Just realize they are merely "feelings". Its not your gut, it's not your instincts, it's just a dopamine hit. Acknowledge it, and even enjoy it. But don't let those feelings guide your decisions. Those feelings you have do not reflect the reality of the situation. When the scrote shows his ass, block and delete.....despite any feelings you have. For me, when i get those dopamine induced feelings, they magically disappear when the scrote shows the first red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:55 PM |
| 33 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*That's really awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in HellWhy do dating sites allow this sort of misogynistic material? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:03 PM |
| 9 | I don’t understand women who are happy to be stay at home mums.At the end of the day....we as women are responsible for the choices we make ONCE we see the error sof our ways. I have limited sympathy for women that run back to abusive men, that put their children in harms way because they don't want to be alone, or give up a life to be dpendent on a LVM and then cry about the consequences but yet not change a thing. Are we as women socialized to be nice? Yes. Are we mindfucked by male created religions, institutions, and social norms? Yes. Do we all have in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 03:51 PM |
| 46 | How do you have a secret fund when married?Lawyer here: With some exceptions, any property accumulated during the marriage is "marital property". So if during your marriage, you squirrel away a portion of your paycheck into an account held only by you, or buy a car with your incomw....that money or car is marital property and subject to division during a divorce. Hiding assets during a divorce is a big no no. But having an account only in your names with money in it is fine, regardless of whether you tell spouse or not. It just when it c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:04 AM |
| 12 | Why do I do this to myself?I stopped reading at "alcoholic". Don't date them. Ever. Run far away if yhey say they are "sober now". I'm divorced from one. Their drinking wrecks their dicks, and it wrecks their brain. When he forgot about your plans it's prob because he was halfway thru a handle. With addicts, their substance always comes first, before foods water their health. They are irredeemably selfish. You will never be a priority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:02 PM |
| 23 | Am I reverting to pickme ways?You may be able to keep it "friendly" but he very likely won't, especially when his pregnant gf is too tired to suck his dick on demand. Do HER a favor and remove yourself from this situation. You are inadvertently interfering with his relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:51 PM |
| -3 | Can you reschedule a date?I see "first dates" similar to job interviews. Would you ever reschedule a job interview for a job you were interested in because you were jetlagged? of course not, you would drink coffee, pop pills and put on undereye concealer lol if you wanted that job bad enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:48 PM |
| 39 | Came across this profile on Tinder - these type of men think they're funny, but it's honestly just very disturbing!Oh, somebody is bitter! seriously, these profiles should be reported for harrassing content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:06 PM |
| 12 | Proof is in the pudding. Don’t try and build a man.It's the Florence Nightingale effect.....an situation where nurses fall in love with their patients. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 08:14 PM |
| 48 | OP leaves her abusive husband!It's nice to see a woman leave an LVM in the dust instead off slogging it out for years on end even though it's hard decision fraught with difficulty. Bravo to her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 08:10 PM |
| 34 | Watching Kinkmeishas defend their community as “not abusive” is like watching Trump supporters defend their community as “not racist”. Sure, some aren’t, but it sure attracts a whooooole lot of those people such that it’s almost impossible to distinguish.yeah, its the "no true scotsman" logical fallacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 03:48 PM |
| 32 | This is the standard of men in Australia. We live in tragic times.What you need is what you get. If you need to be mommas to emotionally stunted manchildren, then so be it. I'm about DONE with pickmes that stay in bullshit mother/son relationships like this. No pity from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Movie/series suggestions?Lars Von Trier's "Medea". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:47 AM |
| 11 | He likes me but I don’t think he loves meThis is the classic "relationship that is going nowhere". I was in something similar a while back. I ended it. The feelings weren't there. I would end it. Just tell him that the relationship is going nowhere and the feelings aren't there and that love isn't developing . He will try to backtrack just to save the possibility of sex but don't fall for it. You deserve to be with someone that you feel secure with and loved. And you deserve to love someone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | He likes me but I don’t think he loves meOk, but how do YOU feel about him at this point? Do you love him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:11 AM |
| 6 | He likes me but I don’t think he loves meForget him for a moment. What I'm not getting from your post is how you feel about him. Do YOU love him, or in the process thereof? If not, perhaps the current arrangement is ok. However if you do, then you need to see if he is on the same page. There must be a shared feelings here. Find out. Tell him you are in love with him (ifntrue) and you need to know if it's reciprocated. Never be afraid to rip off the band aid! If it isn't, then level up and break it off. If he doesn't love you by now he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:29 AM |
| 71 | I am in a state of shock...and disgustI will excuse your conditioned politeness because women are socialized to be "nice", like you were to this predator when you actually THANKED him for complementing your "virginal beauty".😝 He will do this again because that's what LVMS like this scrotes do unless you smash a figurative fist into their face. Next time, go directly to HR. I would not don't do him because who knows what shit he might say. Let HR do the dirty work for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:07 PM |
| 37 | "I accidentally slept during the night because our baby kept waking me up and my poor husband who plays video games for 7 hours every single evening had to interact with her :( he's such a good dad! Am I the asshole?"LOL, the loser hsuband also wear those noise cancelling headphones while he jerks off to his video games. Men are such fucking losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:55 PM |
| 109 | Has anyone else started to lose faith in men in general?It's not even about cheating IMO. I believe a lot of men WANT to cheat but because of laziness, un-attractiveness, and not having money, and insecurity....they don't. So they get married or in a relationship instead to get at least a theoretical steady supply of sex. And then jerk off to porn on the side. The above just demonstrates that men are emotionally stunted and retarded. SEX and attention from women is almost the SOLE source of validation they seek in this culture. It's pathetic. The wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:43 PM |
| 24 | Has the Online Dating Fish Bowl gotten worse since Coronavirus?Build up your retirement accounts and advance financially. Lavish your affection and love on other that are deserving (animals, children, family, the underserved, your alma mater, etc). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 06:14 PM |
| 80 | The best thing in life...Financial independence of a woman is the No. 1 preventive cure for all manners of male abuse/predation of women and children. Don't self victimize yourself Sisters, by willingly becoming dependant on a man. Our ancestors like Susan B. Anthony worked TIRELESSLY to get economic and legal freedom for women....let's honor them and reap the benefits they worked so hard to give us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 06:10 PM |
| 52 | Man in r/marriage seeks advice on how to rid himself of his porn addiction because it's ruining his marriage. The responses defend use of porn, instead of addressing his problem.Yes, lots of pickmes in that thread. It reeks of insecurity because those pickmes just cannot fathom their LVM hsuband are as depraved as the OP. EVERthiNG is OKaY HeRE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:54 PM |
| 93 | All over the world there are women and children are murdered by selfish SCROTES. Don’t give men the benefit of the doubt, ever. Don’t take a man back. Don’t give them the time of day ever again. SCROTES / LVM NEVER change and are seriously deluded.Yep, they are. Our culture does not raise them to be decent husbands, fathers, sons, etc. The sheer majority of them are emotionally stunted, if not outrightly, emotionally re*arded and can't deal with the needs of others. I think just being a man is a pathology in an of itself. Look at what the prisons are filled up with. Men. All men. Men allow themselves to be controlled by their dick. That poor girl whose rape was blasted all over the place....who were the commentators on that twitter thread… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:50 PM |
| 63 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?Pay my share of the tab. Wish him good luck on his future dating life, then get up and leave. Block and delete. That's all they deserve. If they follow you or get shitty take out your phone and call the police. Do not waste any time on scrotes like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 01:06 AM |
| 4 | My LVM ex just sent me this, probably thinking it was cute. Find someone who can express entirely how they feel about you.It's not our job to rescue the emotionally ret**ded. Just say NO to emotional labor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:34 AM |
| 19 | 20 year old female with a 60 year old males. Into BDSM. Still lives at home and relies on her parents for financial support and not this scrote 🤡As a parent, I would determine that she is an adult and able to to make her own decisions and live her own life. That would include making her find her own place to live. At some point, the parents have to cut the umbilical cord and hope for the best. This is one of those situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:40 PM |
| 39 | Why is feminist media so invested in pressuring women into "maintenance sex"? Why, in the era of #MeToo, are we still being told to ignore our internal warning systems and engage in sex we don't want for the sole benefit of men? How about we pressure men into being more fuckable so it's not a chore?100 years ago, this advice women got regarding sex in a marraige was "have sex with your husband because God made him your lord and master" Now it's "have sex with your husband when you don't want to because it's your duty as a party to the marital contract". Bahh. The problem is that MEN are so fucking stunted that their primary means of feeling loved, feeling validated and wanted is ONLY via access to a woman's body. Barf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 07:53 PM |
| 8 | Please give me the push I need to leave my FWB-turned-boyfriend, who can't so much as call me pretty.This relationship is hurting you and aggravating your alcoholism and PTSD. You need to block and delete this man from you life. He is completely negligent and doesn't like you. That's why he never says nice things to you. Then address the alcoholism and PTSD. DON"T DATE UNTIL YOU HAVE BEEN SOBER FOR A YEAR! You are too vulnerable in so many ways to competently handle any kind of romantic relationship. Please fix, and love, yourself first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 05:49 PM |
| 109 | Why is feminist media so invested in pressuring women into "maintenance sex"? Why, in the era of #MeToo, are we still being told to ignore our internal warning systems and engage in sex we don't want for the sole benefit of men? How about we pressure men into being more fuckable so it's not a chore?I've been married twice and dealt with this issue. 1st marriage: I didn't like having sex with him. "Maintenance sex" would have felt like a chore that i hated. So i didn't do it. I didn't care if he felt neglected, etc. I would only have sex with him after about 8 weeks...only because I physically needed it at that point. 2nd marriage: I enjoyed sex with him. And i didn't mind having "maintenance sex" with him, as he had a higher sex drive than me. I enjoyed making him happy. Why the difference… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 05:23 PM |
| 70 | The guy didn’t confirm the date. So I didn’t meet up. What’s your policy on this?I always leave that for the man to do. If he is interested, he will be texting you to confirm the day before. And texting you telling you he is looking forward to it. And when its 5 mintues before meeting time, he will text you to let your know he is there, and ask where you. This guy sounds like a low energy LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 05:26 PM |
| 37 | Whyyyy? He's cute, has a good job, and good taste in music. I can't with this.The world is filled with LVMs with good jobs, good looks, and good taste in music. Seems like a waste tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:38 PM |
| 41 | Men Fake It The First Three Months. There is even a meme "celebrating" that realityI honestly do not "fake it" to the extent that i adopt a complete different persona from my real one. That would take so much energy. And men do this because the sex is the pay off. They gamble that if they can fake their way into your pants, and then you sleep with them, then they HAVE you and they can be their LVM selves because you are now attached to them. Nah, sis, break that shit off despite whatever you feeling. Level up emotionally women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:54 PM |
| 66 | Congrats on 70k+ Members!It's given me concrete examples of low value/no value behavior. And it's has helped me weed out innumerable scrotes on OLD. It's also given me the confidence to also eschew dating and romantic love altogether and focus on non-romantic pursuits and relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:14 PM |
| 115 | Is it a bad idea to send your long term partner sexy videos and pictures?Never trust the man you have been with for years "completely". People are unpredictable. That's what makes us human. Therefore, never send nude pics or videos of yourself. My exh, in a fit of drunken anger, threatened to post a pic of me on fb. He didn't, but still. And I trusted him with my life (used to at least). Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:11 PM |
| 2 | "Monogamous" men on OLD looking for female "friends" but can't show their face?!Lame. I put up a fake, pic less profile on OLD that said I'm wanting only "casual". I lol at the hordes of lvms whose profiles say they are looking for a relationship that message my fake profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:13 AM |
| 8 | How much do you tell your parents (or other family) about your dating lives?There truly is no bottom when it comes to men. Maybe the last circle of Hell? I mean, it's kinda sad that this is what dating has become. Something I hide from my parents because men are so shitty. You have to vet hard over a course of months to weed out all the garbage. I wish Dating could be like looking for a new job....sure you have lots of interviews, and sure you have lots of rejections, and yes, its can be draining, but at least no one is gonna try to rape you, ask for sex on the first da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:28 PM |
| 5 | How much do you tell your parents (or other family) about your dating lives?At this point i would never date a man without kids. Exh was a special case since I had known him for a very long time and we were professional colleagues and friends. So i gave him th benefit of the doubt on the pedo issue lol. But if he had just been someone i met on OLD? No way. Btw, he wasn't a pedo. Just a severe closet alcoholic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:17 PM |
| 45 | I think she is gonna need us!!Men are predators of women. Never forget that. Even the one you married. Plan and act accordingly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 01:13 PM |
| 63 | Just further indoctrinating the idea that men doing the most basic human actions is something praiseworthy. Why exactly am I blessed? Because he knows how to vacuum a fucking carpet?It's vomit inducing. The marriage subreddit is FILLED with dumbfuck posts like this. "MY HUsBAnD is DA GrATEst! HE saW I WAZ SicKKK and BROUGht ME hoME asPRIRIN! YAYAYAY! No, your husband doesn't get a fucking cookie for being a decent human being. Nor does he get a cookie for doing......housework? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 16 | When she doesn't hear from her FWB (sexual acquaintance) in 8 days, she starts to think he doesn't want her! NAH, YA DON'T SAY!!! ???HAHAHAHA, the LibFem just showed up: https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/gayly6/always_initiating/fp3829f?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x ""Wow. Maybe she’s ok with the FWB situation. Maybe that’s what she wants and just needs the Benefits a little more often. I love how women are slut shamed and told to get some self respect in FWB situations while it’s perfectly ok for their male counterpart. I looooooove how some people are still oppressing women and their sexuality... like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 07:40 PM |
| 9 | Well, ladies, they finally figured us out. After countless research, the bros made a dating guide based on our nails.I bite mine off so i have no nails. What does that make me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 05:40 PM |
| 44 | Ladies, let's talk about porn in a relationship.You don't need to confirm his usage in order to have a discussion about it. Approach the subject with him intellectually. You read an article on porn and how many the women are children depicted in porn are drug addicts, mentally ill, and trafficked. Show the article to him at an opportune time. Then open the door to a discussion. You may find out things about your "HVM" that are decidely LVM, or worse NVM. But there comes a time to rip of the bandaid. In fact, i see the early stages of any rela… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:22 PM |
| 91 | If he reaches out after months, do not think of this as meaningfulWish i could upvote this more. Should be a sticky. I always block and delete exes. It pisses me off that I exist in some LVM digital rolodex but I can do my part on my end at least to throw a monkeywrench into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:40 PM |
| 3 | He cheated on her, she's divorcing himYep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 12:43 AM |
| 115 | Is it just me or...Yes yes yes. I posted about this before actually. I call it a "lack of an inner life" . THey don't have interests other than beer, sports and porn. Someone that boring won't have thoughts, dreams, aspirations to share. Or emotional intelligence. Or intellectual pursuits of ANY kind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:36 PM |
| 40 | A scrote proudly shaming women for having a period... wtf! Protect Yourselves Sisters 👯♀️should this be on r/badfemaleanatomy? I didn't eat any animal products for a whole year. I still had a lousy period | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:19 PM |
| 13 | Has your ex ever tried to commit fake suicide? Because mine has!My alcoholic exh did this last year as an effortn to manipulate me into talking to him. I get some text that he cut his wrists, but that he "wrapped them and thinks he will be ok". So I did not respond but sent the cops over for a wellness check. He ended up on a 24 hour hold, hah. Then when he got out he was passed that I sent the cops instead of coming to him myself. Lol. There weren't anymore suicide threats after that though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 03:02 PM |
| 38 | I used to think my boyfriend was HV but now I’m not so sure. I need to know if I’m being too harsh.He won't let you in his apartment because it probably a rat hole. Messes and garbage everywhere. I would INSIST on going in his apartment before i take anything further. Then you will know the truth. If it's a pigsty, then that's what he will bring to your home if you ever get married. And don't expect him to magically stop being a slob. You will be the one to pick up after him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 07:55 PM |
| 48 | Don't let ANY boyfriend take years of your lifeI seen this and wondered the same thing too. I think the real meaning behind the "he took years from my life" is "i wasted my time in him when i could have been with someone better/looking for someone better, etc. BUT THAT IS STILL STINKING THINKING! That disordered thought process still priorities a man in your life, and implies that the only path to happiness is with an HVM. I was married twice for a total of 25 years. My HVMs morphed into LVMS courtesy of alcoholism years into the marriage. B… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:48 PM |
| 32 | Men over 50 who have never marriedIt would bother me. I don't give the men the benefit of the doubt, ever, so I won't initially assume that his never married status is for benign reasons (ailing parents, financial problems, illness, etc). It's most likely some fetid mix of peter pan syndrome, misogyny, and an inability to relate to women and be adequate partners and social awkardness. And it depends on whether you want to get married. IF so, block and delete But if marriage is not your priority, perhaps a date wouldn't be out of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 07:01 PM |
| 7 | This sub is turning into a LVM hall of fameNo truer words were ever spoken. /thread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 02:48 PM |
| 105 | Wtf is this guy spewing? We were having a nice intellectual conversation until he started going off this tangent. (he also supports Jordan Peterson) I only talked to him longer than I should because he’s anti-porn and anti-sex work. He also compared revenge porn to an aunt not liking her toasterHe, unintentionally, lays out reasons why you should NEVER send nude pics of yourself: because guy like him consider them their property and share them with others freely out of revenge, or otherwise. So next time some LVM whines for nudes, give him the argument in the OP haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:22 AM |
| 43 | If you thought the male dregs of society gathered mainly on OLD, think againI perceive dating apps as like bars and taverns. All bars in a locality have a reputation, some are dives, some are known for being pick up bars, and others are more upscale and focused on socislizing, rather than get shitfaced and laid. Nowadays a lotta dating apps have become like the dive, pick up bars. I blame the men for that. But even "back then", the male clientele of bars would eventually chase the women away, and that establishment got a bad reputstiona pf total dive without any women a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:58 PM |
| 8 | “Because he doesn’t know how to love” - and remember, a man wrote this script (THEY KNOW)Federico Fellini's "8 1/2" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 04:13 AM |
| 70 | Physicians of FDS, please help me outI'm in a comparable profession. Get it out of your head that having family and kids is incompatible. That's what husbands, families, daycares and nannies are for. NOBODY does it all. Men certosnly dont. We all have help. Lots of of it. Use it. Dont feel bad about it. The world needs.women in positions of power. Too many women don't go for the brass ring and stifle their ambition because of babies and fear. It's just your internalized misogyny fucking with you. I had two choices 18 years ago. A l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:12 AM |
| 22 | The pickmeisha ‘peaks’ during a global pandemic. I didn’t know taking care of your appearance was deemed high maintenance?I stopped caring if men found me fuckable a long time ago, roughly my sophomore year in college. I don't adhere to any social standards of beauty. No make up, only baggy clothes, hair was pulled back in a bun. Didn't shave anything. Glasses. Birkenstocks. Spent about 2 years like that. Out in the desert figurticely. That time, I learned what I FOUND beautiful. Not men, not society, not porn, etc. I exorcised the tyrannical male gaze from my psyche during those two years. Now have my own standard… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:04 AM |
| 10 | Men make up more than 90% of the jail and prison population in the United States. That stat translates over to OLD.Not gonna lie, I feel some trauma from this experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:25 PM |
| 116 | As if being single is a disease 🙄Yes. It's testosterone, a chronic poisonous drip of it very second. It's like men are on their periods all. The. Time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 10:36 PM |
| 18 | Men make up more than 90% of the jail and prison population in the United States. That stat translates over to OLD.I ALWAYS look them up. But after being on OLD for a bout year, i do it like the instant i obtain (and i actively obtain) info about them. I don't wait until we have been talking a for a few days or a week. Or if they ask me out, I insist on their names and addresses before i accept. I can't believe there are women that DON"T look up these scrotes first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 08:45 PM |
| 55 | Men make up more than 90% of the jail and prison population in the United States. That stat translates over to OLD.I know right? Per the public record, he finished his prison term about over 3 years ago. When you are on OLD, it's BUYER BEWARE. I feel decieved, not necessarily by the scrote, but rather by the OLD platform itself. Any felon or sex offender can get on there and do their thing. the dating apps make no effort to police the members. Edit: the public details IMO suggest something like a "family annihilator" situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 07:15 PM |
| 12 | He keeps bringing up his exNope out OP. He isn't over it. Best case scesnrio....he is still in love with her and not over it and using you as a free therapist. Worst case scenario....he is angry at her and you will become a stand in for his anger. And a free therapist. No matter what, you lose with this MAN. Next time he brings her up, send him a clown emoji and BLOCK AND DELETE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 01:36 AM |
| 29 | Whose blocking and deleting game gotten better?Once i see a red flag behavior, i block and delete now. Asks me out for coffee? Done. Sends me memes that shows a sense of humor incompatible with mine? Block and delete. Say anything REMOTELY sexist or misogynist? Block and delete. ask me the second say or do something after i expressly declined? Block and delete. Whereas before, i might continue to talk to these clowns for a day or so more after the tiny red flag, but now i just it cut if off then and there. I don't need a gallon of water dump… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 23 | How can we save this girl who’s thinking about saving her ex who’s an unremorseful rapist?She worrieds about him. Not the victim of his crime. What to make of that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 01:27 PM |
| 27 | New category? A place *just* to post lengthy apology emails / texts from LVM exes. Flair could be #LettersfromLVMI like this idea! Part of self improvement is identifying Lvm behaviors in the first place. Years of brainwashing have made too many women unable to do just that. A sticky would give newbies and recovering pickmes concrete examples of LVM behaviors. Plus it would be funny as fuck. Id call it #laughingatLVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:08 PM |
| 84 | Guy I knew for 2 weeks and slept with 8 years ago has msg’d me until 2016 (and I ignored him for the most part). 4 years later, He’s back. He’s now married, has a son and has suddenly “thought of me”.Send it to his wife. She shld know about this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:23 PM |
| 112 | MEN ARE INCAPABLE OF EMOTIONALLY SUPPORTING WOMENLet men go to their bros for emotional support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:08 PM |
| 10 | Back on the dating scene during trying times, help me decide if this man is a dud or a dime?I stopped at "doesn't have access to his car due to outstanding circumstances." What are those exsctly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:25 PM |
| 20 | QUICK! Stop everything you’re doing and come hang out with me !That a because he is a selfish lvm that doesn't care about you, or your work. The wyd is revolting. He belongs in the block and delete bin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:03 PM |
| 2 | They really have no shame. Guy I dated 9 months ago contacted me 😝😝😝😝And really thats how obstuse they are. They are so caught up in "muhhhh dickkk" that they don't think (or care) that there is a 99.9% chance his audience thinks he is a jackass. It's all about that 0.1% chance of muhhh dickkkk getting wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:40 PM |
| 63 | Proof that giving any attention to LVM, even "telling them off", is always detrimental to your wellbeing and advantageous for their egoThis is sooooo true. Any response, even one where you NEG him DEATH, insult his dick size, and say he is nothing but an LVM....his broken LVM brain will nonetheless interpret your response has "yeah bruh, she still wants me". His ego validated? Check! Need for attention satisfied? Check! He thinks he might be able to sex you? Check! DON'T GIVE THEM THE SATISFSCTION! I know, it's hard because you wanna ram verbal barbed wire up his ass, but don't. He enjoys it way too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:17 AM |
| 8 | They really have no shame. Guy I dated 9 months ago contacted me 😝😝😝😝Rock on My queen! It just goes to show that even basic human kindness is wasted on a LVM. In our (pre FDS) way of thinking, we would just consider it an opportunity for two people who didn't end on bad terms to catch up for a few moments. Like small talk on a bus, or something. Not so for the LVM.🤡🤡 It's just about a tiniest possibility of sex, or an ego stroke, or what LVM fuckery they got cooking in their brains. They don't want to just have a conversation, they are just fishing for their own … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:11 AM |
| 6 | They really have no shame. Guy I dated 9 months ago contacted me 😝😝😝😝Really, what are these scrotes thinking? Nvm....i answered my own question: MmMmUUUhhHH DdddIIIKKKkkk!!!!11111 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | I lold ☺A British newspaper, 19th century or close to the turn of the 20th. Written by a suffragette. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 01:09 AM |
| 37 | Beware: LVM will act like parasites looking for hosts during these trying times.raises my cup of chamomile in agreement 🍵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 08:38 PM |
| 31 | If you have questions about dump his ass or if a man is a HVM read women’s pitiful stories about their lives with their bf/husbands that are everywhere else on Reddit. Those posts can give clarity like nothing else.Yes. The post where the LVM punches out the drywall? Half the posts just casually overlooked that! These women are fucking up their kids because "muh marriage is more important!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:20 PM |
| 31 | If you have questions about dump his ass or if a man is a HVM read women’s pitiful stories about their lives with their bf/husbands that are everywhere else on Reddit. Those posts can give clarity like nothing else.I was just there today. It truly is depressing. The scales are falling from those women's eyes as I type this. Being trapped with an LVM in the midst of a crisis, they now see the husband for the LVM piece of shit that he his. There is no more plausible deniability. There is no more rationalizations for his LVM ways. Before covid: "Well I'm a SAHM, and he works, so thats why do I everything. After covid: "Neithter one of us is working, but I'm still doing everything....while he drinks/smokes, pl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Updates on on KickHimOut2020?Agree 100% to take these men at face value. There is no "deeper, better person" waiting to be found. IF anyting, he should be putting his best foot forward NOW in order to get a date. But if he is working sex into the conversation before meeting IRL....that should be an INSTANT BLOCK. NO EXCUSES!!!! Same goes for a boring or inappropriate sense of humor. That will never change...so, if his sense of humor is off putting NOW before you even met, just block the scrote. It will only get more annoyin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 03:30 PM |
| 32 | anybody else unable to tolerate normal relationship subs anymore?They all suck. Everyone gives the men way too much of the "benefit of the doubt". The underlykng assumption is that men are uncommunicative dolts that just don't get anything. That is wrong. They know what they are doing. They just don't care. Men get only one chance to correct shitty behavior. If they persist, you have your answer and the ball is in your court. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 3 | The breaking mom subreddit is just an endless shitshoe of LVM husbandd and bfs, and women letting their kids run all over themAnd because of the the pandemic, the Breaking Pickmes are stuck inside the house with their LVMs. No more plausibile deniability how LVM there now. It's in their face now useless and lazy he is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 01:14 PM |
| 52 | FDS has ruined most of TV for me....I generally don't watch film or tv where the prime subject matter is relationships or a marriage. It's lvms, pickmes, sexism, and just reminds me why women get shit on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 12:50 PM |
| 8 | Men aren’t bad. Women aren’t bad. Part 2. Women cannot save you, or why women have their shit togetherCannot upvote this enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:26 PM |
| 4 | The red flags keeps piling up!You are a fucking idiot. Or you are 15, not 35. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:22 PM |
| 56 | The breaking mom subreddit is just an endless shitshoe of LVM husbandd and bfs, and women letting their kids run all over themA life with an LVM....is no life at all. When I read those breaking mom post....i felt physically claustrophobic. Is this what is meant by "triggered" lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:56 PM |
| 61 | The breaking mom subreddit is just an endless shitshoe of LVM husbandd and bfs, and women letting their kids run all over themThere are all pickmes. Any mere suggestion of doing somethjng than other eating LVM shit is met with the "but he s a good dad, marriage is supposed to be hard, I give everything up for my family" martyrdom bs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:36 PM |
| 120 | How to make males feel weak?Loss of hair. Lack of muscles. Lack of money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 05:04 PM |
| 38 | Dating feels like eating at the same restaurant over and over again. The menu seems to change but everything ends up tasting the same.They devote so much mind space to obtaining sex that they fail to develop any other parts of themselves. The result is just a boring LVM with little or no interests and lack of curiosity about the world in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:40 AM |
| 50 | Dating feels like eating at the same restaurant over and over again. The menu seems to change but everything ends up tasting the same.I know right? I'm talking with this person now via OLD (just texting). Has all the markings of an HVM but as you said, at their core men all function the same. I know the queens here say I should be talk g to several men, but if I can't even muster the interest to talk to even ONE half the time (like the guy I'm talking to know) talking to 3 of them just feels.....like drudgery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:48 AM |
| 29 | The phrase and notion of "marrying off" daughters/girlsIt assumes that a single woman will be s constant source of worry and a burden for her parents until she is safely under the protection of man via marriage. 🤣🤣🤣 Unpacking further, it assumes husbands protect and care for their wives by reason of marriage (They don't. Stats bear this out). Assumes single women can't take care of themselves and will be a burden to their family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:41 AM |
| 4 | OLD and “being myself”Just make sure YOU know what YOU want in a man. I agree with the consensus regarding OLD. IT's really like going to the Salvation Army store and looking through all the junk in hopes of finding used, but well kept designer handbag. Just get a few good pics of yourself. As for your profile description, just state your occupation, and that you will not date married men. You won't do FWB or "casual" or "hook ups. Then put in one activity you want to do with a partner. Like skiing, weekend trips, bl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:08 PM |
| 103 | Should I communicate with my bf or respond in kind?No response is a response. He is acting in bad faith with you. Keep repeating the questions until he answers it. FYI, this is some really LVM behavior. By ignoring your question, he ignores you concerns. You wouldn't ask the fucking question if you didn't want an answer. He doesn't respect you, or really care about you enough here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 08:18 PM |
| 175 | Had to make thisHe actually more hair than the average LVM on dating apps hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 08:11 PM |
| 52 | As couples self-isolate due to coronavirus, lawyers expect a rise in divorcesAs I was laying in my clean, quiet living room in front of the fire place, I thought back on my 2 exh. And i was thankful i was not trapped in quarantine with them. Being trapped with an LVM is hell enough. But being PHYSICALLY trapped with them is a prison sentence. Their uselessness and cluelessness...always in my face. Taking up space, and doing nothing. Whining about sex and how we should fuck more because i'm at home now. Making messes. Retire into the basement and jerk off to porn and drin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 05:58 PM |
| 73 | Husband did a LVM thing todayYeah, he is an alcoholic. All alcoholic men are LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:32 AM |
| 144 | Husband did a LVM thing todayOhhh.....thats a Mic drop. Being married to the office creep is a sobering revelation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 01:38 AM |
| 166 | Husband did a LVM thing todayBecause he is an LVM, like most men are. Women , espcially ones he doesn't know aren't human. They are either fuckable, or not fuckable. Because he is an LVM, like most men are. LVMs are entitled, and overestimate their attractiveness to women. LVM's don't care about consent, thus your LVM husband assumption that she would sleep with him. Because he is an LVM, like most men are. HE doesn't respect you. HE doesn't respect the sexual intimacy you share. He is probably trying to hurt you and make y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 45 | LOSER LVM WHINING ABOUT MUHHHDICCKKKKK IN R/DATINGOVERFORTYNone of us would because we aren't pickmes. Im sure his FB feed would overflow with concerned and enabling pickmes who think "touch" is just his love language, so it's all ok. BARF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:20 PM |
| 17 | Should I be offended by this?Don't EVER ask a man what his opinion on your appearance is. EVER. Follow this rule, always, and none of the mindfuck BS you just went through will ever happen again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 26 | Beware of men who care about 'body count'I'm going against the grain here and assert that both parties should disclose their prior sexual AND romantic history....but start with sexual history firs.t I don't want to with a man who has been with a lot of women. Not because I think he is less than human for doing so, etc (like LVMs are) but rather men with a large "body count" strike me as very sexually impulsive and irresponsible, and perhaps crave a variety that is incompatible with a long term relationship. It's a character issue for m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:30 PM |
| 14 | I screwed up with my girlfriend by acting like a LVM. How can / should I move forward?Nope. She should have let you know she couldn't make it. No one is too busy to send a text. She didn't even bother to do that. I don't care how busy someone is. If you are a priority, they will treat you like one. She isn't treating you like a priority since she blew you off and left you on read. | /r/askFDS | 17/03/20 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Questions within the factor of loveDo not use FDS and TRP in the same sentence. Ever. TRP advocates and actively encourages the abuse and predation of women, and minor children. Encourages men to actively deceive and mentally abuse women to further their egotism and sexual desire. Makes concrete suggestions how to abuse, predate women and minor children for MUH DICk purposes. FDS does NONE OF THAT. | /r/askFDS | 16/03/20 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Male Friends?The only wayl men and women can be friends is if neither one entertains thoughts of sex with the other ie., one or both are gay. Outside of that, it's just one party, or both, pretending they don't want to fuck each other when the time is right. I don't have any male friends anymore. They all wanted to fuck me. Or I wanted to sleep with them. We just pretended that wasn't the case. Opposite sex friendships are also disruptive to marriages and relationships. Just better to avoid. | /r/askFDS | 16/03/20 05:45 PM |
| 21 | Fall flat on my face all the time.. single momStop drinking. If you cannot, then you have a problem with alcohol, and lvms are the least of your problems | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 12:22 AM |
| 10 | The Single Dad Question with a TwistUsually we can find those things out fairly quickly. Emotional instability and the desire for a free therapist don't remain hidden for long. | /r/askFDS | 14/03/20 01:11 AM |
| 25 | My selfish ex who called me on my birthday in a really rude way just texted again a month later. I hope the idiot realizes I was such a light in his life but he’s so selfish he probably just thinks he’s bored.Why isn't he blocked on your phone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 26 | Advice on Marriage To Young Ladies ✨So nothing has changed with men. The only thaing that has changed is that we, as women, are no longer forced to be dependent on these brutes. Any dependence we have on these brutes is 100% our decision. And for some reasons, plenty of women are still willingly become dependent on them. Its as if we still act like we are in the 19th century. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 08:58 PM |
| 29 | What do you think about have a secret bank account? Husband finds wife’s secret savings account (in case the marriage goes south) and feels betrayed. I’m leaning towards thinking this is fine but I want your takes on this!Separate bank accounts is good, and quite smart. However, it's the "secret" part that is troubling in a marriage. Is this guy abusive or controlling? Sure then the secret is fine. But absent abuse and controlling, something like this should be divulged AND DEFENDED. As in "husband, I have a my own savings account that is untouchable except in the event of emergencies. END OF STORY." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 08:47 PM |
| 24 | How to cope when you lose a queen bestie to an LVM?This is hard. What you describe sounds depressingly like what family members of addicts go thru. You are the family member, your bf is the addict, and LVM is the drug. It's her life to drink away. And it you need to stay safe and sane and emotionally well. Don't get wrapped up in her shit. How? No more discussions about the LVM. Just don't engage it. You won't win this battle. If she wants to bitch about him, politely say you are sorry she is going thru it, and change the subject. You cannot cha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:06 PM |
| 23 | Is a man who flirts with a lot of women a red flag?Yes. It's means he is an attention whore in constant need of validation. These people have the emotional maturity of a 3 year old. What kind of person views the opposite sex as an endless source of validation to fill the bottomless black hole inside them? These people do! Avoid!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:11 PM |
| 118 | In one sentence, comment your best dating advice...GO!No response is a response | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:06 PM |
| 186 | In one sentence, comment your best dating advice...GO!Believe what he does, not what he says. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:05 PM |
| 279 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoSo for all lurking scrotes THIS IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND US!!! we don't seek to dominate and abuse men and treat them like sex workers. We don't GET OFF on wielding power over men. Point to one post comparable here to the incel fan fiction above! Hint....you can't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 07:59 PM |
| 150 | Broke up with my boyfriend over social mediaGood for you. Ice him out. Treat him like the shitty roommate he is. No more cooking, laundry, planning, etc. Throw his shit out of he bedroom and claim it as yours you can shut him out. If he gets mad, too bad then call the cops If he doesn't calm down. Honestly, id just move out and leave him to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:16 PM |
| 12 | A ?VM discussing a woman who stayed single and became a QUEEN SUPREMEStevie was F DS long before anyone. She had a devoted group of female friends, was dedicated to her music and kept the men in her life in their proper place. She learned her lesson from her time with Lindsay Buckingham. He abused her, controlled her and her music. When she escaped because her career took off all hell broke loose. He ended up choking her out on the hood of a car until the band members broke them up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 12 | Typical 1 3/4 hours of on-line datingThis is like the god damn e=mc2 of the LVM thought process No sex = -S Feminism=F Male Entitlement=E Negging=n n(E)--->F(-S) hahaha stay mad scrotes and keep red pilling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Call for FDSers who mean business and want to help us mods outI'm In! I'll review the "the rational male". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:06 PM |
| 82 | ShowerThought: Having a man is like owning a gun. In theory you have it for protection and to feel safe and confident, but statistically it’s actually more likely to kill you and someone you love than to be used against someone who is actually dangerous to you.I've always observed that having a men protecting women is akin to a mafia protection racket. If you don't pay up for your protection, they will cut off your fingers. So a man or A gun? Both can kill me, but the man can kill me, abuse me, lie to me, isolate me, and do all things LVM, rape me, harm my children, financially abuse me, knock me up against my will, gaslight me, demand sexetc etc. A man requires payment for his protection, usually in the form of sex and submission to his authority. If… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 01:57 PM |
| 122 | Typical 1 3/4 hours of on-line datingLord, I can hear the wheels spinning in that LVM brain of his. SECKSSS??? (Op ghosts him for being lvm) NEGGING!! ((scrotes mad) IT FEMISISMS FAULT I SUCK AND CAN'T GET SECKSSS! (haha) srsly, guys like this should just sterilize themselves. Stop the the insanity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 03:16 AM |
| 84 | I was reading replies from non-cheating married who were asked why they had refrained from cheating on their wives. The overwhelming response?The universe has blessed us with more productive areas upon which to give our devoted affections and care: children, parents, neices, nephews, siblings, friends, Jesus, Gaia, pets, grandparents. The list is truly endless :) Why lavish affection on a man that only loves his dick, and who only loves you for what YOU DO FOR HIM (and his dick of course). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:51 AM |
| 32 | Pickmeisha’s LVM refers to their adopted child as the N word to his friends, Pickmeisha makes excuses for him and wonders if she should even confront himA pickme trait is letting males abuse their children. Because forcing your child endure abuse at the hands of the LVM is preferable to being alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:00 AM |
| 15 | I am a longtime lurker at r/breakingmom, and I suggest reading through posts there flaired “man rant” to see the extent to which LVM treat their wives and children with no respect. It will sober you up if you’re ever doubting incorporating FDS into your life.A lotta pickme doormats thinking they are somehow all that because they martyr themselves to their lvm and spawn. There is no glory in martyrdom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 12:23 AM |
| 11 | Do highly accomplished women have trouble finding a life partner?Its because a successful woman will not have to put up with LVM bullshit in order to have a roof over her head and money to support herself. The more financially secure you are, the less willing you are to "compromise" when finding a man. Financial desperation tends to LVMs more attractive than they really are. All the trps and inceks know this which is why they want it to be 1950 again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 05:14 AM |
| 14 | I'm starting to worry about the future of this subThe message is solid, unique and necessary. There is a need for what this sub offers as evidenced how its subsceibees has skyrocketed. As long as we stay on message and continue to empower women by GOING ON THE OFFENSIVE against all things LVM/pickme, and encourage and assist women to level up....we will flourish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 02:28 AM |
| 53 | Man cheats on Fiancé several times with multiple girls, treats her like complete shit, kicks her out and devastates her. She stops taking shit from him and gets a new boyfriend...and he now wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!!!"Snap chatting my brothers ex girlfriend" Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 01:17 AM |
| 12 | Be A WomanWomen need to take back all of those things that are used to describe "men". Strong: Of course we are. We give birth. Then take care of the baby while shitforbrains jerks off to porn and whines about muhdick. Then go back to work. Stoic: again, women show this trait over and over again, esp as caretakers of sick family members and shithead husbands Honorable, honest, trustworthy- yes, yes, yes. Hardworking, a provider: Yes Intelligent: yes Daring, adventurous: yes. And men hate women that are li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 7 | What is the proper response for being asked out on a low effort 'date'?No, just one week. But yeah, too long, should have unmatched when he suggested coffee and drinks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:13 PM |
| 31 | What is the proper response for being asked out on a low effort 'date'?I agree. My hangup was that he was politically in line with me, and interesting to talk to and sent me sweet good morning messages. I figured it was worth giving him another shot. So i gave him 'another chance' and he failed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:44 PM |
| 29 | You’re better off alone than with a LVMThe advent of shared parenting will put an end to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 04:26 PM |
| 30 | Listen up fools, we don’t give a single f*ck how you feel! 😁That's right, we don't care about the selfish feellzzz of LVMs. That's pickmeisha forte. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 60 | LVM are whinersWell yeah, a starving person can also eat out of dumpster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 100 | I'd rather be single forever than deal with a manchildI stopped reading at "making his lunch" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Many pickmeisha traits are nothing more than repackaged narcissism. Reject this in yourself before it is too late, and keep it gone.That pic makes me cringe. Make a me think of Robert....gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:36 AM |
| 22 | Level Up Check-In: what have you done lately to improve yourself?I joined another book club. Improving my business Facebook page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:57 AM |
| 75 | Wtf does this text mean !! Is he playing games or not? It’s been 3 days since he left me on read so I withdrew and didn’t text him. And today he text me this bullshit!I get tired just reading that wretched exchange. Sister, the trash is taking itself out. So let it go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:48 PM |
| 65 | Doing the workShutting down LVMs is something women don't do enough of Be cause women get socialized to be smiling, eager, meek, LVM pleasers in order to not to avoid being single. Shutting down LVMs, in any dating or non dating context is an integral part of leveling up. It shows 1. Much needed assertiveness 2. Outcome independece 3. Boundary enforcement and 4. Recognition of LVM behaviors. I like the shutdown posts. For those that don't, you can still learn to recognize the LVM behavior that led to the shut… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | First time being actually singleBravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:44 PM |
| 250 | Men who seek women for unpaid emotional labour are the real gold diggersWe should call them "soulsuckers" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:00 AM |
| 11 | Are Abusive Relationships Usually Community Supported?ON the other side, we also support women who actively choose to stay in abusive relationships because it's "her choice" even though we have told her to leave many times. We know women stay in abusive relationships, even when their family and friends give them 100% support to leave. That troubles me more, and I don't know what we can do about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:28 PM |
| 20 | I lied to a guy what should I do ?You should read the sidebar. You need to understand why you sleep with someone and not have enough self respect to be upfront with what YOU WANT. And why you continued on this path of emotional self-annihilation by continuing to sleep with him, and chase after him, after he told you he liked someone else! Forget him, and concentrate on yourself lest you repeat this self injurious behavior. Sis, why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 14 | Worried He'll Leave Me During Long DistanceI stopped at the "he hasn't said he loved me". Nope. Do not move. This is dealbreaking red flag, and there IS NO explaining this away. You need to leave him. He will only hurt you and erode your self respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:37 AM |
| 8 | He chose game night. Should I dump him?I agree that he is becoming not into her because of the overarching time issues in their relationship. This could be sorted out provides they have a honest discussion about time issues and how much of a priority they make each other and can come up with solutions. There may not be one. Sometimes things end, and it isn't anybody's fault. Just bad timing and logistics. Given the prior hvm behavior, he is worth a heart to heart discussion of where they are and where they going. It may not be saveab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:23 AM |
| 29 | Could not help myself, these LVM are so entertaining 😩😂He looks like every guy on OLD over the age of 40. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:04 AM |
| 60 | Men using weight gain and balding as an excuse for agingIn my area, so many men over the age of 35 at obese. In fact, it's one of the reasons I swipe left. When men get fat, it's them being lazy and unhealthy, not just "aging". Also, hatfishing is a thing. If they are bald, most cover it up with a stupid hat. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 8 | HELL YA!!Always bet on yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 08:49 PM |
| 36 | The more and I more I adopt key FDS strategies the more I am able to see how the systemic acceptance of male depravity continues to permeate our relationships when we let them. Another one-sided AITA post for your viewing pleasureThe LVM is 20 years older than her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 08:41 PM |
| 59 | Update: My exes Dad died, and he emailed me looking for support.Let the new gf know. It's time we stop keeping other women in the dark about what the LVM is doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 08:25 PM |
| 40 | Dealing with non-FDS familyStop talking to your mother about your dating life and choices. She offers nothing but unconstructive criticism. My mother is the same. Another part of leveling up is to stop oversharing and explaining, to anybody! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 07:29 PM |
| 47 | Female sexual desire and Long-Term RelationshipsI experienced this in my first marriage. Not in my second. What drops off is the desire for sex with your partner. And that happens A LOT apparently for women. My 1st husband become a sex addled MANCHILD. Total LVM. I'm usually a once every two weeks type and that what we did before his downward slide into LVM land. After thst.....yuck. Id have to go at least 2 months to even want to let him touch me, and even then I didn't want him, I had just reached the limits of my celibacy and he was availa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 06:28 PM |
| 74 | HOW IS BEING SINGLE WORSE THAN THIS??? Woman has to pay ex-husband a high alimony for 10 years. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!This is why I bang on about marriage being a contract. The alimony monster does not discriminate! If you enable a LVM to lay drunk on your couch while he surfs porn for 15 years and he can't work because he is "depressed" then YOU WILL PAY when you finally get sick of his shit and want to divorce. Queens with their own careers and money.....you have been warned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 06:07 PM |
| 12 | MusicMen are still selfish, lazy and entitled and stuck on "muhdick". Just in different ways. 60 years ago, men were entitled enough to think that they could rape their wives. Well the law changed, and surprise surprise, they don't think that too much any more. Now it's LVM acting entitled to sex from their overworked, mentally laboring wife while sittingonass being a MANCHILD. Then being mad when she won't touch his peen. They ar married so she should put out! The attitude of male sexual entitlement… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:29 PM |
| 25 | This guy seems to be doing all the right things, but something feels off. Advice?The guys you date are likely LVMs. Therefore their experience and judgment MEAN NOTHING. Your feeling are correct. He doesn't care about what you have to say. Pickmes think that just normal. Queen's put the hammer down on that bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:48 AM |
| 55 | This guy seems to be doing all the right things, but something feels off. Advice?It sounds like he is talking at you, and isn't interested in anything you have to say because he is too busy talking about what he wants to talk about. How does this make you feel? I would feel unheard, and dismissed and like i was just there to be a pretty face to talk to. Not someone with their own thoughts and feelings. He doesn't seem to care about your thoughts an feelings. This is not a feature you want in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:43 AM |
| 99 | I’m starting to worry that most HVM are off the market by their late 20sThe divorce stats alone should tell you that a lot of married men are LVMs. Add in the enabling Pickme wives who out up with LVM crap. My first marriage was at age 22. He was 23. He went LVM at age 36. So no, it's not true that all the good ones are taken. They just found a pickme to put with his LVM self | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 251 | "Real Men" need to look in the mirror before opening their mouths smhThey suddenly care about her career when he is on the hook for alimony. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:17 PM |
| 57 | I literally can’t. What the fuck?Screen shot this and send it to his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 20 | I've decided to just stop dating completely.OP, why didn't you block and delete after the first sexual comment? Or tell him that's not appropriate and to stop making you feel uncomfortable? Why did you continue to give him the opportunity to disrespect you more? I'm not blaming you. Just seeing an opportunity to level up, strengthen your boundaries, and cut this garbage behavior from LVMs at the knees the second you spot it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:34 PM |
| 33 | How is being single worse than this? Woman’s (27F) husband starts emotional affair with coworker while his wife was pregnant, changed his phone passcode. She built a life with him for 10 years. He doesn’t try in therapy. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN.If F DS were ever to draft it's version of the 10 commandments, number 1 would be: ! 1. Thou shalt always have the ability to support thyself financially, and maintain a strong family and friend network independent of any man. I hope she escapes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:30 PM |
| 17 | Pickmeisha asks for advice on what to do with boyfriend who wants to hire a prostituteI know right? The feeling is similar to that of watching a satisfying ASMR video | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:24 PM |
| 22 | Ladies, how does one not give up on finding a HVM after seeing this kind of junk??! In the midst of this bleak outlook, I’m starting to feel hopeless . . . what keeps you ladies going?OLD really is the new version of hanging out at s dive bar hoping to find someone decent. Or rummaging thru a thrift shop hoping to find that designer bag. I had two dates scheduled for this weekend. One displayed LVM behavior when he again asked me for my number and was somewhat rude about it. Unmatched. The other had annoying kid scheduling problems that came out when we tried to agree on a time. Nope, I don't have time for it. Unmatched. Just don't take it seriously....at all. And relentlessl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:46 PM |
| 235 | Pickmeisha asks for advice on what to do with boyfriend who wants to hire a prostituteI stopped reading at "dating this guy for a month". The trash just took itself out only a month in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 21 | Another LVM family annihilator murders his wife and kids after a trip to Disneyworld.Because of how easy it is to get guns in this country. It's so much easier to act impulsively with a gun, than any other weapon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:35 AM |
| 18 | The difference between us and themI looked through the dating profiles skewered there. I didn't bother to read any of the comments. What I see is an endless parade of self-loathing Pickmeishas that over over share. That are the by products of the shitshow that is Liberal Feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:39 PM |
| 13 | ITT, we talk about our dreams, hopes and goals and what we are doing to achieve themGetting strong is a trait too many women undervalue. THink how much easier your life (and more independent you are) is if you can start that chainsaw on your own to take out a tree limb, or heave that box up the stairs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:45 PM |
| 9 | ITT, we talk about our dreams, hopes and goals and what we are doing to achieve themYou are a burgeoning academic. I see a book or two from you in your future :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:44 PM |
| 4 | ITT, we talk about our dreams, hopes and goals and what we are doing to achieve themAs my dad told me once.....always bet yourself! Which you are doing so bravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:43 PM |
| 39 | LVMs on dating apps aren't looking for commitment but want to have kids :PThey are just idiots. I doubt they think that deeply about it. Durrdurr SEX, yes! Uh, kids? Uh....maybe. They fail to put 2 and 2 together to even consider their audience's reaction because PENIS and general stupidity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 24 | Women, stop wasting years of your life begging and pleading with your partner to go to a doctor for his obvious issues. You are burning yourself out and it's not your responsibility.To the Pickmeishas: So true OP. Pickmeisha, If they don't care, then why the fuck should YOU? Also, if they are that shortsighted that don't see how neglecting their health is tantamount to neglecting their marraige/relationship and YOU, then they are PER SE LVM and should be dumped instanter. If they don't care for their health, or keep themselves healthy, don't be surprised that they won't care about YOU or your HEALTH when you are sick. These men are black holes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:45 PM |
| 16 | [Discussion] Are you a feminist, anti-feminist, or neither? How do you think FDS relates to feminism? Do I even belong here?Tremendous amount of iron in those words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:50 AM |
| 9 | Have a date from OLD this Saturday. Taking bets now!True to form ,the LVM aborted itself UNMATCHED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:16 AM |
| 7 | Have a date from OLD this Saturday. Taking bets now!Update: I told him that we "weren't gonna click, thanks for talking, and good luck". Then unmatched. Also, he kept bothering me for my number, after I said no. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:49 AM |
| 15 | Just when I thought that I've seen it all!I minored in women's studies. Trust me, none of the women in there were interested in guys like Kevin . Pickmeisha doesn't take women's studies courses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:22 PM |
| 22 | Have a date from OLD this Saturday. Taking bets now!Oh dear, this is gonna end before it even begins. Looks like he was the defendant in a PARENTAGE case in 2017. Baby mama garbage. I can't respect a man who is the subject of a parentage case. NOPE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:28 PM |
| 8 | Have a date from OLD this Saturday. Taking bets now!My googling shows Army. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 28 | Being passive aggressive is the keyYep, men are so eager to talk about themselves. Let them. They will inevitably incriminate themselves as LVM which gives you the greenlight to dump. Although, on dates, you should get them to reveal bad things, like porn use, presence of exes in their life, addictions, mommy issues, etc. Don't waste time on a possible LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:45 PM |
| 7 | Have a date from OLD this Saturday. Taking bets now!I keep an indifferent mindset. I dispassionately wait for them to fuck up, and then 86 them. I save my power of positive thinking for things that matter in my life: my kids, my work, my family, and most importantly ME. I'm not wasting that energy on a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:40 PM |
| 28 | Demisexual...?Not wanting to have sex with someone who doesn't give a shit about you is NOT A SEXUAL PREFERENCE! It's called BEING SMART and looking out FOR YOURSELF! Most men on dating apps are unattractive and/or say stupid shit in their profiles. They shoot themselves in the foot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 13 | Have a date from OLD this Saturday. Taking bets now!I know i know. This is about the ONLY area where i will extend the benefit of the doubt (cops and military). EDIT: they also are more likely to be physically fit....so, yeah. Around here, most guys over the age of 35 are BUSTED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:22 PM |
| 21 | Reminder to always stay weary and don’t trust any guy 100%. Always look at how they treat others and their interactions with friends. Stay alert and safe Ladies 💕When you tell a man about physical abuse or a rape, they WILL NOT BELIWVE YOU. They will think you cheated and are now crying wolf. OR the sick fucks won't believe you because they are too busy empathizing with the perpetrator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:42 AM |
| 89 | The carecrow - let me introduce you to one of my least favorite types of LVM!It's all bullshit, and just a ploy to keep you around for DUH SECCCCSSSS. I think you give them too much credit for them even having pure, internal feelings of care. It's more lke "uh, oh, she busted me not giving a shit. How do I cover my ass?". But i try! I do care! I'm just bad at holidays! Flowers are too expensive! I don't know what to do, please tell me again! I always try, but it's never enough for you! Blahblahblah. Its just classic CYA to keep the sex thing nearby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:49 PM |
| 23 | Can’t keep it up with a condom- sign of porn sickness?My exh had bouts of soft dick and aorgasmia. It was because of his secret, closet drinking. Condoms do decrease sensitivity, but not to the point where they go limp. Something else is going on. Could be porn or medications or drug use. It's def a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 27 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENThis right here. My exh sank into alcoholism and became a couch zombie. Getting him to just take a walk with me in the evening, towards the end, was a challenge. I don't ever want to have to go thru that again. First exh was also boring as hell. The LVM I just 86d was also a boring fuck, despite showing early promise. He works 60 hours a week at a job he hates (won't bother looking for another) and even works on his day off. Then he comes home and watched youtubeTV and who knows what else. Every… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 06:02 PM |
| 7 | Don't Marry Men who won't care for themselvesTHey are all shit. So many of them are like this. Then they are 35 years old, on OLD and look like they smashed face first INTO THE WALL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:50 PM |
| 75 | Don't Marry Men who won't care for themselvesCan't upvote this enough. A partnered man that won't care for his health is FUXKING SELFISH. He has an obligation to try to be healthy to be a good husband and father so he can like....be a husband and father. And not just sitonass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 03:39 AM |
| 104 | Had to grey rock a stranger sitting next to me who kept paying more attention to me than his gf.When I'm talking to a couple, I always address the woman first and spend most of my time talking to her. The idiot bf/husband is always more than willing to ignore her for me. Not gonna happen. He get confused when I mostly ignore him for their gf or wife. I'm always looking to make female friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 05:09 AM |
| 34 | Depraved LVM husband jerks off in bed next to his 9 months pregnant wife. SMH.When I read garbage like this, I'm feel claustrophobic and like a weight is on my chest. Its triggering.I was trapped with a sex addled LVM manxhikd for 3 years (after the 2nd was born). This lady has NO CLUE what she is in for. I hope she has a supportive family.and a gainful employment.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:43 AM |
| 16 | I'm not your mother I'm your partnerThe default setting for straight relationshits and marriage is that of Mother and Son. It may not start that way, but it will inevitably end up there. Men are perfectly able, and do indeed, adult. But pair them up with a woman in the same house that they get to have sex with.....and the roles change. We, has women, share blame for this. We are sociized to "take care" of male partners and unfortunately, it's up to us toinitiate change in this pattern. IMO, a man will make changes in order to get … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:31 PM |
| 28 | Ultimate Pickmeishas in MoviesSandy in "Grease". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 05:56 AM |
| 15 | My exes Dad died, and he emailed me looking for support.Pickmeisha Uber!!! I'M DED!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 03:37 AM |
| 30 | But I was the better girl?Why do we care what an LVM thinks of us compared to what he thinks of other women he is trying to pick up? We dont! We only care whether he shows us proper respect and care. If he flirts with his "friends" he already failed and you need to NEXT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:23 AM |
| 5 | someone we can help over at relationships subredditYikes. Maybe be has a traumatic brain injury. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:18 AM |
| 25 | My exes Dad died, and he emailed me looking for support.Or other exes. It was probably copy pasta job he sent to all the exes and booty calls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:15 AM |
| 9 | Let's play a game! ☆ Describe your exes in 10 words or fewer ☆Emotionally retarded dumb former jock that couldn't make me come. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:27 PM |
| 5 | PickMe Anonymous, a.k.a. The FDS 12 Step ProgramExcellent post. The aa format works here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:09 PM |
| 36 | My exes Dad died, and he emailed me looking for support.Nope. This is why I decisively wrecked my relationshit with ex LVM on Valentine Day. I found out, by accident that he kept contact info of all exes and dates. This is the behavior that results. The wyd, the miss you, the bullshit. I wont be with a man that even gives the appearance of doing that shit, whether in a relationship or not. It's so cheap, so low class, so vampiric. If they are exes, I delete and block. Don't enable the madness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:05 PM |
| 38 | I hate how I constantly crave male attentionYou have an inner void that you choose to fill with male attention. Do some soul searching. Do some forensics on yourself? Where physically do you feel the void? When did it appear? Does it ever change size? Does it ever disappear outside of receiving male attebtion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:27 PM |
| 45 | Reminder: Low effort boyfriends evolve into low effort husbandsI'm a solution oriented person so what can these women do to get some immediate relief? Where is the low hanging fruit? For one, his family is HIS PROBLEM. Their birthdays, their events, their dramas, their....everything. He can get cards and presents and arrange plans for his family. He can do it all whatever it is that she is doing right now in "managing" his family. Stop doing his laundry. There is no excuse for her to do it. If his clothed pile up, throw them in the garage. Out of sight out … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:23 PM |
| 26 | Men get a 'free pass' of being abusive and not putting in effort due to an ex they hadIt's all bullshit. Who gives these losers a "free pass" btw? The enabling pickmes in their life. We sure don't. The LVM I dumped ranted and whined one night how what is ex wife put him thru in their custody fight "changed him" and he was never the same after that and bemoaned that loss of prior self. Boo fucking hoo. That s called LIFE. GET the fuck over it. I told him to see a therapist and move on from it because it was like 10 years ago ffs. No one gets to spray their shit everywhere a d be c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:46 PM |
| 87 | If the mother of your children isn't interesting to you then what isThis guy just needs to hurry up and get divorced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:30 PM |
| 24 | IMO insecurity is the biggest thing you should avoid in a man. What are some signs of insecurity that youve noticed???Gods yes. The LVM I dumped actually said "don't tell me how to do my job!" When I told him how to touch me when we were in bed. So the handful times we had sex, I just faked an orgasm. I didn't feel safe just saying....this isn't happening, move on. Thats why he is an ex now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Definitive List of PER SE LVM behaviors that require a hard nextThis list is intended to be list of DQs that are relatively easily, and quickly, ascertainabke assuming some work on your end within the first 3 months. My 4 month relationshit with my LVM revealed 5, possibly 7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Definitive List of PER SE LVM behaviors that require a hard nextMen who hate their mothers will hate women. And that means you. He will forever be "getting back" at her uskng you as his whipping girl. They are the worst misogynist. He may have good reason for hating his mother. So what. Don't put yourself in the receiving end of his unresolved mommy issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:10 PM |
| 82 | Stay at home mum takes care of 5 kids and LVM husband doesn’t even manage to get her gifts.What a passive aggressive fuckface. "I forget " is the cowardly way of saying "I don't give a fuck". It gives them "plausible deniability". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Definitive List of PER SE LVM behaviors that require a hard nextI'm going to run my exh (as he existed then compared to now) thru this rubric. Then the LVM I was with for 4 months. Exh (then) 1 thru 13....all NO. Exh (now, 7 yrs later). 1, yes. 9, yes. 10, yes. LVM. 2, yes. 3, yes. 4, yes. 5, yes. 6, don't know. 8, possibly via digital means. 11, yes. Fuck. Even my jailed, alcoholic ex is higher value than LVM. HAHAHAHAHA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 03:13 AM |
| 14 | Can we create a 12 step program for fuckboy. Want to keep it a #FUCKBOYFREE2020You have to first identify what fukboi does that drags you back. Is the attention you get? Is he just really good in bed, and if so Why? You must get to the source of the addiction, and then attack that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:51 AM |
| 73 | Just watched a full grown adult man fake fumble for his wallet at an ice cream shop. His poor date just sighed as she pulled out her wallet.Sister, that took a some ovaries to admit that. I confess, I could not. But getting over pickme ways requires accountability and putting our foibles in the open is necessary. Bravo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 01:01 AM |
| -1 | He didn't eat on first dateOr alcohol withdrawl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:36 PM |
| 3 | LVM I dated for 4 months kept all contact info of all women he datedThat's not weird. That's normal. But this guy is an LVM. He does not get the benefit of the doubt. And we shouldn't judge LVM action based upon what we, as hvws would do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:03 PM |
| 13 | LVM I dated for 4 months kept all contact info of all women he datedI'm not playing that game. If i am in a relationship with someone, then expect no contact with exes unless there are kids in common. My experience tells me that Exes have no place in a relationship. It's just a potential source of trouble. A man that keeps all contact info of women he dates and exes while in a relationship is Either contacting them or keeping them around for "wyd" texts we all know and hate. Either situation is disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | LVM I dated for 4 months kept all contact info of all women he datedWe werent supposedly just dating. We were "official". But yeah, if there are several other women in his contact list with my first name then he had to put my last name on (or something) because the phone made him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:35 PM |
| 36 | Husband ignores wife’s efforts to do all his favourite things for V-day...because she didn’t have sex with him. Consider what man you’re busting a gut for. LVM have only one thing on their mind.I second thr commentd about males making the holiday into a penis holiday. Such entitlement. I see this trope on deadbedroom and the other penis advice subs. Valentine's day, his birthday, labor day, memorial day, Christmas, etc: "It was holiday and she didnt even have sex with me! Wut do???" Well for one holidays are about ceremonies, the underlying celebrations, and other people. And any man who wants a blowjob for his birthday, and couldn't give a shit less for cake, presents, kids, family is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 14 | LVM I dated for 4 months kept all contact info of all women he datedRight. The LVM could have said something along the lines of what you said. Knstead, he got defensive, evasive and blamed me for having the nerve to bring up issues and disturbing his apple cart. But realistically, since we are dealing with an LVM, it more likely he keeps them around for networking and.....wyd?texts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:01 PM |
| 27 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerYou are right. It's never ok, at any point, for the man you are with to openly gawk at other women in front of you. It's massive display of disrespect. He can gawk when you aren't around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:30 PM |
| 6 | (F36) (M36) My ex-fiancé (8yrs) is on a Valentine’s Day overnight date and used my Hotels.com account to book it. We’ve been broken up for 9 months.Let his new gf know what he did complete with screenshot evidence. She deserves to know what she is dealing with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 01:51 PM |
| 15 | Deceptive fuckboys are not your "friend" ladies. 🐸☕I agree. That's why when an OP makes a post about her "fwb", we should not used the term FWB in our replies, but rather 'fuckboi", sex partner, sex acquaintnce, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:56 PM |
| 18 | Can we let the FWB‘s go please?As the one who started this, my point about "fwb": TAKE OUT THE WORD FRIENDSHIP in describing this arrangement. It insults and denigrates authentic friendship, which is so important for women wanting to level up. Language is important. Let's stop dragging friendship through the mud when describing the arrangement commonly called "fwb". Other than that, carry on with casual sex arrangements, sexual acquaintanceshios, fuck buddys, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Requesting songs for the Female Dating Strategy playlist.Sinead o Connor "no man's woman". Evanescent "call me when you are sober" and "going under" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:17 AM |
| 27 | That made me lol 😂 They are all the same no matter what language they speak. *Not my messages, got it elsewhereLolololololol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:13 AM |
| 17 | PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.Becasue "fwb" is a flawed construct if it has a 99.99% failure rate. That's worse than marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:54 PM |
| 21 | PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.I've never been played....because i never fell for the "FWB" fuckery to begin with. You do you though. Sounds like you found a rarity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:08 PM |
| 40 | PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.Cause he knows that eventually you will want sex. Then he will be there waiting witih dick in hand. I dare you tell him that you will never have sex with him again because you value your friendship with him so much and you have had a change of heart as to "fwbs". See what happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:25 PM |
| 38 | PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.Deal with it. I value authentic friendship. I'm tired of the idea of friendship being dragged thru the mud because of muhdickim, pickmeism, and male sexual entitlement and emotional ambiguity. I'm not crapping on anyone's lifestyle. But don't crap on authentic friendships by labeling a sex only acquaintanceship a "friendship". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:23 PM |
| 60 | PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.If you told him, "Hey I'm not gonna have sex you anymore because (insert reasons) real friends don't fuck each other" do you think he would still come over to hang out, as if you are one of his male friends? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 26 | We need to ban the use of the term "FWB" here on FDS.Get real. He hangs out with you just to get laid, or is waiting to. You are in his "potential "Friends" i can fuck" rotation. What you described is standard LVM fare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 08:03 PM |
| 6 | We need to ban the use of the term "FWB" here on FDS.Do anything you want. Find a man you whose company you enjoy, and for whom your interest is strictly sexual. Just take the term of "Friendship" out of it cause it's not a friendship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 5 | We need to ban the use of the term "FWB" here on FDS.I think the mods need to revise the handbook. Take the whole notion of "friendship" OUT of causal sex acquaintanceship and arrangements. Let's not denigrate the idea of friendship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:46 PM |
| 13 | We need to ban the use of the term "FWB" here on FDS.They are sexual acquaintances. Nothing more, nothing less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 42 | We need to ban the use of the term "FWB" here on FDS.The issue is "what do we call persons whose only interest in each other (or at lease one partys interest) is strictly sexual?" Right now, everyone calls them "FWBs". This needs to STOP. I'm not saying "sex only" arrangements are good, bad, or neutral. I propose that we take out the word FRIENDSHIP when describing them. It's an insult to authentic friendship. I propose that we replace FWB here on FDS with "sexual acquaintance". That terms most accurately describes what we all recognize as an othe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:44 PM |
| 4 | It’s been a big day for meThe last paragraph.....yes please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:15 AM |
| 43 | Talk me down!!Threaten him with legal action. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 11:02 PM |
| 6 | 15 daughter notices her dad is a LVM, encourages Mom to leave him...dad finds out and blows up at daughterGreat, a new little pickme in the making. This girl had potential too. And the parents are trying real hard to turn her into a pick me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:20 PM |
| 22 | Ugh... horrible.One thing that i miss about my alcoholic exh was that he truly saw through male entitlement bullshit. His stance on the above was that it was because it takes ZERO EFFORT to generate such a shit profile for a 0.001% chance easy sex...then why not? 0% effort for a .001% chance of this easy sex actually happening? Sure, why not? Really, this is just more low effort garbage from LVMs OP, troll away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:08 PM |
| 23 | I genuinely don’t believe in love anymoreRead up on the different types love per the ancient greeks: Eros, philia, storge, pragma, agape. Love very much exists :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 02:17 AM |
| 28 | So, here's the thing....I'm really tempted to start trolling these trash pilesI troll assclowns all the time on dating apps with my fake profile. This one fatass with a Pervy profile message some slimy to me. I said nope, not into fatties. Bye. Gave him a dose of of brute superficiality and objectification. Maybe he will learn some empathy for what women deal with. Or maybe not. But it felt good. Fuck em. Go for it. They are so weak and stupid. Id even get his contact info and screenshot everything to the wife AND him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 02:06 AM |
| 33 | Two single parents talking about their teenaged sons and then....That is enough Internet for the day. Time for a thc/cbd cocktail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 12:34 AM |
| 12 | So disappointed.On whether to disclose to the LVM that he got dumped because of his pornsickness: LVMs get away with SO MUCH because they are never challenged that what they are doing is WRONG. Like porn for example, the dominant narrative is that its' TOTES OK. It's NOT OK. Now who should do this? Only those that are strong in FDS principles. Only those for whom will not be emotionally harmed in doing so. Not recovering pickmes or people new to this. But for those us who are strong in FDS principles or are REC… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 10:20 PM |
| 27 | So disappointed.Provided you have the resolve to keep him out, I would tell him what saw. And how that is a deal breaker for you because porn has no place in a relationship for you. Let him know your disgust and call him out on it. Who cares.whaf he thinks. Speak your truth to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 09:11 AM |
| 12 | “Thank you for your perspective, it’s actually quite comforting.” I have no wordsId also wager they have kids and she is financially dependent on him. God, just thinking about being tethered a disgusting LVM like that makes me feel buried alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:05 PM |
| 33 | “Thank you for your perspective, it’s actually quite comforting.” I have no wordsI really hate the attitude against snooping. I do it freely the second I suspect something. Mmmm...whats more important? His "privacy" or my health, and my time? Um....ME! If you suspect he is cheating, or has a creepy porn habit, it's better to find out ASAP, than let an LVM WASTE YOUR FUCKING TIME!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Story time + Question for you HVWAgain, feelings are not facts. Why does his silent treatment make you feel that way? Who gives a fuck what he says? He is a LVM and very dishjnest and emotionally stunted. Why do you need his validation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 06:25 PM |
| 9 | Story time + Question for you HVWFeelings are not facts. It's ok to still love him, and feel whatever you are feeling. It's unreasonable to expect your feelings to immediately drop. But it's a symptom of emotional immaturity to make decisions based on those feelings. You need to lead from your head (And your gut). And he is a LVM that you should have no contact with. Make that decision. And deal with the feelings in a constructive way. Don't be a slave to those feelings. Level up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 05:48 PM |
| 19 | The absolute river of SHIT that are the 38 to 49 year old LVMs on OLD. They smashed headfirst into THE WALL.Not that it matters since we don't eat from dumpsters....there are like 3 LVMs for every 1 woman (real or bot lol) on OLD. It just makes the LVMs more ignominious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Dating after divorceWe separated in May of 2018. I gave myself a year to reconcile, get over it, come to terms, etc. After a year I started dating again. I wasnt going to let him hold me back so I pushed myself out of my comfort zone. Despite the adventures i had, it helped me move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:40 PM |
| 14 | Update: he still wants to be with me even though after 2 years he doesn’t love mewoman up here sister. Dear Fuckface: You do not love me. Therefore, we are over. You no longer exist to me. Lose my number. Do not text my landlady again. Further efforts on your end to reach me will result in legal action. Good Bye. ****** You feel sad which is normal. But under no circumstance let your feelings determine any course of action (or inaction) you take. HE doesn't love you-and you DESERVE a partner that loves you, not some half baked, wimpy piece of shit that is your ex-"boyfri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:04 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of ¨Living together apart¨ relationships?Its certainly a worthwhile goal for those people for whom the legal entanglement and social advantages of marriage are not a necessity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 09:23 PM |
| 4 | I wonder if I should change my profile to make it so I am a HVW.Wow, that is way to much information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:43 PM |
| 22 | Am I weird that I never get along with French men ?I personally am not a fan of dating outside of my own culture. Not because I'm ethnocentric, racist or whatever, but rather, men of all cultures are sex obsessed, entitled and looking for a Mommy to have Sex with and Resent. Add to that a layer of cultural difference and it's just impossible. So if I'm gonna look for man I have to expect the usual male garbage. I don't need anything else making it more difficult like language barriers or divergent attitudes on the role of in laws in the marriage… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:07 PM |
| 22 | Stop Calling Men "HVM" after two or three datesFor sure the designation of HVM can only be done on a day to day basis for the first 6 months. The best one can say is the man you went out on a date with displayed HVM behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 09:32 PM |
| 200 | Boyfriend of 2 years said he doesn't love meLeave immediately. Break up via email. No more than 50 words wasted on this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 12:54 AM |
| 14 | EmpathyIt's your socialization as a woman. Putting everyone needs in front of your own. It's ok have that feeling. Just don't let it dictate the choices you make. So stick it to the fuckface! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:49 AM |
| 65 | Is it common for women to date men they are not attracted to?I think a lot of women will marry a man they aren't attracted to because there are other, more pragmatic considerations that are more important. Then they delude themselves into thinking the attraction will grow over time. Then the husband wonders why his wife won't fuck him 5 years down the road. Basic attraction is not negotiable. Like when you are on a date for someone for the first time? The first few seconds when you seen them for the first time...you already know of you have a basic, physi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:45 AM |
| 7 | This dumbass scrote has poor reading comprehension. It somehow think FDS preaches women be financially dependent on men. Oh, it also seems to think that its refusal to date a FDS woman is something we care about.Sounds like this guy "wants" a woman to be financially independent. mmm...probably not. A financially independent woman is more difficult to use and abuse. What no-self respecting LVM would want such a thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:59 PM |
| 4 | I have been noticing a lot of post about avoid being in. Along term relationship for years. Is there a situation where it’s actually ok to be in a long term relationship? Like I have seen relationships that lasts longer than marriage so I’m curious to see other people’s opinionsI own property and a business and have two kids. I've been married twice. Getting legally entangled with another person would NOT be to my benefit unless there was a significant chance of being able to prosper even more financially by being married and accumulating marital property. Right now I'm very well off. If i got married tomorrow, I would insist on pre nup to protect my pre marital assets and any proceeds from the sale or transformation of such during the marriage. Basically, i would want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 08:11 PM |
| 335 | This is a mood!She was Lindsey's doormat before they made it big . He was very very controlling. Then she became a star, and shit really hit the fan between them because he couldn't cope with it, and she grew a spine. There is one documented instance of phsycial abuse where he choked her on the hood of a car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:44 PM |
| 82 | The prize that is marriage to a LVMI see it as a sort of humblebrag about how aweseome of a wife and mother they are. Oh, look at me ladies! I am DOING EVERYTHING because I am such an awesome woman. And by the way, everybody comment how htey understand because your husband is the same way! And we can all be martyrs together in a show of SISTERHOOD! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:22 PM |
| 20 | LVMs are back at it again 🙄🙄🙄Is that guy Adam Lanza? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 03:31 AM |
| 61 | STUDY: Husbands Cause More Stress To their wives than their childrenWhat he means to say is "The problem is not men, it's marriage to man-children". Which is most men after they get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:20 AM |
| 45 | STUDY: Husbands Cause More Stress To their wives than their childrenI lived this reality for the last 3 years of my first marriage. Being a single parent was sooo much easier than trying to be a parent with him. If anything, his idiocy and LVM ways took my attention away from the kids. I booted his ass out. The house became cleaner and the food bill went down. It was peaceful. We became a family of three and much happier. My older son has learned childcare and household responsibility as did the youngest. I sat them down and explained we all have to help and tak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:15 AM |
| 63 | Tape it to your mirror.It's amazing how many men fail to do one or more of those things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 01:07 AM |
| 27 | So let's talk about "settling"!The only thing that matters is whether fucking him gets a "hell yeah!" From you. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The chemistry between me and my exh is.off the charts. Objectively he is kinda nerdy looking lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 24 | She had 2 babies.You don't. It's truly a leap of faith. Some things in this world are just like that. My exh was great after the first one was.born. after the second.....its like he turned into a 14 year old again and became useless and LVM. He was unhappy and didn't cope because LVMs can't adult. That's when the alcoholism kicked in....after 15 years together. We split up when the 2nd one was 3. He had become so useless that my life became easier after it was just me and the kids! Looking back, I was grateful t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:18 PM |
| 106 | Last night, my coworker and her BF wouldn’t stop fighting in front of our friend group and I can see she’s breaking all of the FDS rulesShe moved out of state for an unemployed loser? Some people cannot be helped and they have to fall on their face hard in order to wake up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:03 PM |
| 36 | this may be controversial - should FDS members re-post from MGTOW ?I agree. We see the male bullshit in action when s woman posts in deadbedroom, marriage or relationshits. Those are the posts we should be highlighting here and offering our help to the poster by helping them identify sexist, abusive words and behavior. Not wasting digital space on the lost boys at mgtow and trp. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:08 AM |
| 30 | Communicating boundaries/standards with him vs simply dropping him?He has shown you what he is. The better question is....why are you interested in someone that doesn't care about your time? Also, this is suppose to be the honeymoon stage and he is alrEady disrespecting you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 59 | What about me gives him permission to talk to me like this??? Just started texting this dudeTedious. Trying to work sex and nudes into the conversation. Call him out and block him. He is LVM thru and thru | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:22 PM |
| 63 | because of the internet (OLD, twitter, insta, reddit etc) there is this unnatural cultural crossover where even the most lovely and self-respecting women are interacting with the actual most repulsive men when WE WERE NOT MEANT TO CROSS PATHS.That's an interesting thought. My two husbands, i met through my social group and occupations. People i was already supposed to interacting with. My time on OLD? Yeah, just as you described. Personality disordered, cheaters, and just generally vomit. Looking at the men I have dated via OLD....i never would have met if not for OLD. My life would have been better had i not ever met them. OLD is like that mythical highway across the Darien Gap. The fact that there isn't one has prevented the spread… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 10:25 PM |
| 14 | Dumped my HVM that turned into a LVM via email today. And blocked him. His response....predictably LVM. hahaha.Yeah, it's a waste of time. In mid December, the LVM lack of effort to see me, or initiate kicked in. I very directly spoke to him about it. Nohting changed, and I went on vacation and mostly ignored him. He missed me, blahblahblah. I get back, just the same old shit. I dump him via text. He worms his way back in. He fucked up last night. this time, i just dumped him without further discussion about it. It's useless. They might change their ways briefly or pay lip service. That will be all. But … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:39 PM |
| 21 | Dumped my HVM that turned into a LVM via email today. And blocked him. His response....predictably LVM. hahaha.Yep, and therefore neither do I. I have no fucks to give emailing that to his work email. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 08:17 PM |
| 19 | Dumped my HVM that turned into a LVM via email today. And blocked him. His response....predictably LVM. hahaha.Yes, exactly. And there was nothing in my email that was rude, inappropriate or gross. If by chance his boss sees that, there is nothing offensive in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:41 PM |
| 37 | Dumped my HVM that turned into a LVM via email today. And blocked him. His response....predictably LVM. hahaha.Assuming what he said is true, he only said his boss has access to his emails. Not reading them. I have employees. I've been an employee. Bosses don't read employee emails unless they are in trouble. He is just being a sap. And I could care less what anyone at his work place thinks of me. Boo fucking hoo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:38 PM |
| 11 | Dumped my HVM that turned into a LVM via email today. And blocked him. His response....predictably LVM. hahaha.I'm done texting him. And he didn't deserve a phone call, or in person. Not dealing with the conflict. Email it was. Maybe i should have written a letter instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:22 PM |
| 12 | Dumped my HVM that turned into a LVM via email today. And blocked him. His response....predictably LVM. hahaha.Fuck him, not my problem. It's was the only email i had for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:13 PM |
| 34 | Dumped my HVM that turned into a LVM via email today. And blocked him. His response....predictably LVM. hahaha.haha maybe i should follow up with a description of his ED issues that he seemed to have sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 06:48 PM |
| 14 | “Fickle and shallow”Yep. End it. All of a sudden, he will decided your issues regarding him and the relationship are "fickle and shallow". Your spider sense is right. End it. Send him a text saying that it's over between the both of you, and block him. Don't give any reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 36 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...>> Men can generally offer a lot to women. We create. We invent. We build. We protect. We provide. And time increases our value, assuming we take care of our bodies and minds. << MGTOWS never ask what THEY AS INDIVIDUALS have to offer women. Nope, they are always riding the coat-tails of other men. It's sad that these losers are appropriating the achievements of other men to themselves. that's called borrowed valor. None of the MGTOWs do ANY of those things. And how could they? They are unabasde… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:52 PM |
| 72 | Male "friends"Males can't even be decent friends to each other....so how could they be friends with a member of a sex that they categorically hate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 29 | Safety.Yes. Do it. Men fancy themselves as our "protectors", but they really are predators. Our "protectors" are our predators? LOL, that's a mafia protection racket. Except, this whole prey/predator arrangement is all in our head. We have the ability, as women, to take out any violent fuck with the proper weapons and training because we are blessed with brains, and thus aren't at the mercy of our lesser strength. Learn how to get comfortable with a guns and non-projectile weapons. Learn how to take a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:39 PM |
| 61 | What’s wrong with the image??? Lmao these Scrotes be MAD mad 😳😤😤It's this sort of shit that makes me happy more and more women are choosing to not have kids, or doing it at arms length with a man. Women have always born the brunt of child bearing and child rearing. Then they get shit in by everyone because of it. Fuck it, no mas. Personally, I'd like to see more women just give majority custody to their ex husband. It's safe to assume they spent the entire marriage raising the kids. Let the scrote deal with it post divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:11 AM |
| 7 | Why a lot of white men REALLY hate it when white women date ethnicI would love to date outside of my ethnic group (white, American, rural, economically advantaged). But I'm very close to my family and they would NEVER accept a non white man into my life. Oh sure, they would be "midwest nice" but they wouldn't get beyond merely tolerating him because he made me happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:18 AM |
| 11 | With men, you must be prepared to walk away the *first* time they fuck upIt works. Made me think of a trip wire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 29 | 42 year old man cheats on wife, gaslights her to believe its her fault through insulting her appearance and smell, then is surprised she doesn’t want sex. Nah, sis.I love the marriage subreddit. Always a dose of reality against the disneyfied version of what marriage is. Most men are selfish, entitled, muhdixked, and have the emotional capability of a 13 year old. Add in a dose of substancr abusrle. Now imagone being legally tethered to, and worse, possibly financially dependent on that person. That is marriage for many many women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 03:13 PM |
| 120 | Freinds with benefits is over!A more accurate term for a "fwb" is "sexual acquaintance". I prefer that term.because it doesn't shit on the concept of friendship like "FWB " does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 12 | I'm currently reading the "To All the Boys I've Loved Before" series and Stormy, a woman Laura-Jean often talks to during her work at a local nursing home, is a total FDS QUEEN. ----->(screenshots spliced together from different pages)We can't forget that back in our great grandmother's day that divorce was incredibly hard to get. It was socially shunned. So women had to approach men as an investment, as a potential caretaker and moneymaker for themselves. If the woman bought it (ie., married him) she was STUCK TILL DEATH with him. As we all know, men bring their A game until they snag us. It was no different back then. Except when the husband turns out to be lousy in bed, a wife beater, a lazy slob, etc....well, she was STUC… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:54 PM |
| 71 | The audacity? Lol idek with this one but it screams LVM negging childless dog owners 😲Hatfisher | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:29 AM |
| 32 | Should I be worried that my (F27) boyfriend (M28) has a female best friend that he texts more than me?You are his placeholder. You ok with that? Ghost and block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:51 PM |
| 46 | Wife tells her side of "Deadbedroom". She suffers from PTSD & several health complications from childbirth and is stressed out by 2 kids & pregnancy. No romance, husband doesn't try to take her out, pressures her into sex. Husband worries about his dick... while she nearly dies from complications.IT's just STUNNING how he doesn't even mention the quick succession of kids and her health problems. Oh, and her working nights. Barf. I dealt with the constant whining about sex in my first marriage....so glad I am divorced from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:40 PM |
| 97 | Wife tells her side of "Deadbedroom". She suffers from PTSD & several health complications from childbirth and is stressed out by 2 kids & pregnancy. No romance, husband doesn't try to take her out, pressures her into sex. Husband worries about his dick... while she nearly dies from complications.Single parenthood would be far prefereable for this woman than living with the monster she calls a husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 04:43 PM |
| 30 | Recent transcript . How was my response?Are you fucking kidding me? You go to Fetlife...expecting a HVM and dinner dates? Fetlife is explicitly for hook ups, kinks, casual, etc. IMO, its somewhat respectable because nobody is concealing their intentions unlike everywhere else. You don't go into the donkey pen looking to buy a stallion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 01:31 AM |
| 10 | Feeling depressed & low self-esteem, how do I maintain becoming a more HVW?I grew up in a rural, Catholic family. I was married at 22. Then again at 37. I am 44 now and single for the first time in 26 years. I understand the larger social pressure, sense of failure, and the flawed desire to seek security, fulfilment and identity via marriage to a man. It's. Bullshit. Anytime i fall into that flawed thinking, I go the marriage subreddit and read the avalanche of posts about women married to manchildren. For the majority of women, that is what we will end up with: a MANC… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:53 AM |
| 11 | This is what I grew up withFull contact martial arts training. You will learn not to be afraid of getting hit and keeping your cool in those situations when you are physically attacked so you respond decisively and forcefully. Also, learn how to use a handgun. I am a supporter of gun rights.because I believe it helps women help themselves. We should never rely on men, who are our predators, to protect us. That's akin to the mafia protection rackets. Also, once you you learn how to use a handgun, perhaps get concealed carr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:14 AM |
| 24 | This is what I grew up withI agree that women should learn how to fight and use weapons. Women are socialized to be passive and weapons training makes a woman truly powerful. Knowing you have the ability to take out an aggressive LVM is true power. Everything else on the list is rubbish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 12:44 AM |
| 25 | Let's talk about the hypocrisy.I theorize that once the testosterone starts flowing thru their body full tilt, they stop developoing emotionally because MUHHH DICcKKKKK. Having abad day? Just jerk off. Or gawk at women. Or look at porn. Similar to addicts: experts claim that the age at which the addict becomes addicted, all their emotional developmnet halts because they have never learned to cope with their emotions. THey just drink and drug everything away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 29 | How do we handle things when we mess up?I see this differently. He doesn't know you. You don't know him. If my date for new years eve ditched me at the last minute for a female friend....i would be highly suspicious and skeptical of any reasons. I believe many us would ghost and block. To me, it's no different from a job interview. You show up late, no show or cancel with the best excuse in the world....doesnt matter. People will think the worst about you. Men don't deserve the benefit of the doubt. And neither do we. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 80 | My favorite OLD strategy for dealing with assholesThis is not revenge. This is holding others accountable for their actions. For VIOLATING THE SOCIAL CONTRACT. They endanger their wives, the women to deceive in order to get sex, on and on. The trail of socially maladaotive behavior is a long one. Of course there are no legal co sequences to their behavior. But we can impose social ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 02:45 PM |
| 8 | How do I become a respectable and attractive lady after I had kids and let myself go ?Lose the weight. It unhealthy and drives your worn.out feeling. Weight loss is 90% diet, and 10% exercise. Frankly, you have you much on your plate right for exercise . Any exercise should be for mental health and clarity. Prob an hour or 2 walk a few days a week. But eating less and calories, and adding healthful food doesn't take up any additional time. Figure out what your maintenance calorie intake is, and cut that by a few hundred calories. There are online calculators to help you with that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 02:31 AM |
| -4 | If he's not interested, will he act like a LVM? Opinions?All men, when "they put a ring on it" turn into LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:12 PM |
| 18 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...My first husband was LVM, but when we got together I was 18...and we divorced when I was 36. Like so many others, his LV ways didn't become a problem until we had the second kid. Then he rgressed to a 14 year old kid and became an alcoholic. The 2nd husband fooled me into thinking was a HVM for the first 5 years of our marriage. Turned out he was a secret, severe alcoholic. He is in jail now. So....LVM. I'm still struggling with that disappointment. My recent guy I was dating. Seemed HVM for the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:09 AM |
| 39 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...Online communities like F DS. In the 19th century, women got the right to own property. That was huge. The beginning of economic freedom from men. In the early 20th, they worked to get the right to vote. The beginning of political freedom from men. In the mid to late 20rh, they worked to get reproductive freedom from men. And social freedom from men (to not marry). Sexual freedom from men. And complete economic freedom from men by way of equal employment and pay. Now its about PERSONAL freedom f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:45 AM |
| 83 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...They exist but in such small numbers that it's not worth mentioning. Think,about it....men aren't socialized from birth to put others before rhem,.to be doormats, to endlessly apologize, to martyr themselves for marriage and family, to give their power away in a mareiage, to be financially dependent, and give the "benefit of the doubt" to the opposite sex. The only difference between men today and 100 years ago is that there are laws in place today to check men's hate and violence against women.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:08 AM |
| 22 | Yet another look at what marriage to a LVM looks like. And the pickmeisha that is chained to it.Yeah, they never ever consider that his useless do nothing ways will NOT get better after kids. If anything, he will get.worse because there is a baby taking up the mommy/bangmaids attention. Then.he will whine about MUH DICK and how his wife "changed so much after the baby!" Well no shit asshole! She is changing the baby's diapers now, not yours! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Share your goals for levelling up in 2020Do more to deal with work stress, namely thru exercise: yoga and 2 hour walks. Quit OLD indefinitely. I've done it for 7 month and the results are....mediocre at best. Too many men my age on OLD (late 30s to 40s) are damaged beyond repair and physically unappealing. It's a waste.if my time, and my energy is better spent in more productive, non romantic pursuits. Make more $$$$$ Learn Spanish to enable me to travel with ease around my favorite parts of the world. Get divorced on Jan 3rd! Build mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:13 AM |
| 56 | Made me chuckle. Accurate!Gosh, they all have that semi serious-smirking look on their face! Add in "no drama" or " new to this seeing what is out there! " My fave is the "seeking adventure". I'm like, loser...the world is a big place maybe try exploring it instead of expecting women to be a source of adventure? Barf Oh, the guy I last dates looked like the bottom right hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:58 AM |
| 15 | Broke up with my HVM who turned out to be such low value. Why am I feeling sad even though I know better ?Do you feel sadness.....or disappointment? Sadness is what we feel when someone beloved dies. Or generally, dealing with a feeling of loss. What this LVM did was disappoint you. Failed to live up to the expectations he led you to have in him. More like hiring someone for a job, and they do a terrible job at it after a promising 60 days at first. . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 09:12 PM |
| 13 | May just send a screenshot of this to the next well-meaning family member who asks me why I’m single. It’s rough out here.I did OLD for 6 months. Will not do aamgain, nothing but absolute garbage men on there. I am dating someone from my OLD, but not sure for how much longer because what once appeared to be HVM now appearing to be LVM...AFTER 2.5 months of dating. Yep, it can take that long for the Lvm to come out. So two things to deal with this in 2020: strengthen my non romantic relationships and socializing. Strong non romantic association and relationships are sooo important to combat feelings of isolation and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 02:44 AM |
| 76 | the guy who has been texting me for weeks is married and hided it. feelin disgusted, blockedI would def forward all texts, etc to the wife. These LVMs need to know there are consequences for their behavior. Sure, the wife may not leave him, or whatever, but the LVM will suffer for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:44 PM |
| 14 | When you have an incredibly high sex drive, but are refusing to sleep with just anyone anymore.And you can't find a LTR to accomodate that? Gosh, from the way men talk, they all want LTR's with women with high sex drives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 05:48 PM |
| 13 | OP accepts FWB arrangement with man, is appalled when he starts talking to another girl and makes this new chick his GF while still fucking her... feels disposable. This is male bullshit on full display. Don't entertain it! Daily reminder to take ZERO fucking shit from these men!!! ZERO SHIT!!!!That's what i think. why do so many women fall into this arrangement? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:44 PM |
| 32 | Man Admits Women Should Not Share Sexual History - Image Buried in His Brain ForeverI always want to know how many women a potential LTR has slept with. That tells me if he is a manwhore or not and has poor control over his impulses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 43 | Of course! My husband gives zero fucks about me and checks out other women because my pussy stink! Poor boomers grew up with the teachings of the “greatest” generation.In many ways, things have gotten better for us. That's some institutionalized sexism right there. He cheats on you cause your vag stinks! LOL....imagine that as an ad campaign right now. That company would be out of business. Things are better now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 08:11 PM |
| 22 | Why does society think it's more shameful to be a single woman, than a woman in a shitty, one way relationship?And who is cracking the whip. Who is setting the expectations and making sure they are met? Who is the leader of this team? Who brings down the hammer when someone is sitting on their ass. The woman. Assuming the model of a rleationship is one of success, it's the woman that is doing all the delegating, organizing, etc. That's not a partnership with the man. He is just the oldest teenager in the house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 08:05 PM |
| 27 | Why does society think it's more shameful to be a single woman, than a woman in a shitty, one way relationship?These assertive women are doing all the work in the marraige and family. To me, that is not successful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:21 PM |
| 22 | When you discover FDS too late, what do you do? 27f in “engaged” to 37m we have two kidsMy father always told me to "bet on myself". As it is, you have relied on men to support you financially. How does one get to age 27 without a car, a job, a savings account, a job or assets? Because you have relied ON MEN all these years. By giving away your power, your agency and your self respect to men. And now look where you are. Do you realize all the blood our women ancestors spilled in securing women's rights so we didn't have to be in that position? And here you are, voluntarily walking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:09 PM |
| 9 | Posted in DTW but I thought I should spread the word. Watch out for this LVM troll, ladies!same. It said something about "good point". Don't what it is talking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:54 PM |
| 60 | Why does society think it's more shameful to be a single woman, than a woman in a shitty, one way relationship?Let's keep this real talk going. Let's look at all the "successful"relationships around us. I'm looking at the ones i'm privy to. In each one, the man functions as a manchild (despite bringing home a paycheck and being faithful), while the woman does everything: all the emotional labor, puts up with sex she doesn't want, puts up with his whining about sex, taking care of his old ass, dealing with kid crap, household crap, "telling" him to help her, mansplaining, and general male cluelessness and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:29 PM |
| 19 | Being a Pick me= slaveryHe sucks. He only became "woke" when Yoko came into his life. I see that shit allnthr time....new pussy inspires a LVM to not be a LVM, but they always revert back to form when the new car smell wears off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:42 PM |
| 35 | How men feel about the women they pay for sex.This is the sexbot revolution the incels dream about will never happen. Hookers and sexbots cannot provide the ego boost and validation to men that only a woman that wants to be with them, can provide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:02 AM |
| 22 | The sheer majority of people on OLD are menAccording to Reddit, men have an awful time on OLD and get very few matches. IMO, it's just a bunch of LVMs standing around with their dicks in their hand, waiting for some Bot to suck it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:50 AM |
| 7 | The sheer majority of people on OLD are menhttps://www.statista.com/statistics/975925/us-tinder-user-ratio-gender/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 12:52 AM |
| 118 | Being a Pick me= slaveryAnd that is why women initiate the sheer majority of all divorces....bc their husband are LVM AND they get sick of it. I know I did. Men don't initiate divorce cause they benefit from the lopsided arrangement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 12:26 AM |
| 41 | Being a Pick me= slaveryJohn Lennon and Yoko Ono wrote, like 50 yrs ago, called "Woman is the Ni@@er of the World." It's so very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 10:52 PM |
| 28 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.OP, how old is this LVM? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 07:16 PM |
| 22 | "She just delivered my baby, traumatized her body, and imbalacing her hormones leading to depression, and just when she needed me the absolute most, I cheated"Always have your walk away money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 05:27 PM |
| 64 | There was a photo of a cat in my lap...That's a good way to weed out lvms: pose with a picture of a cat and wait for the pussy comments to roll in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 03:09 AM |
| 15 | Dealing with emotionally "cold" menHe sounds duller than a sack of potatoes. Wonder what they talk about? But I'm assuming she is on the marriage and kids track, so she will make the compromises to get that....only to be desperately unhappy 10nyrs from now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 06:45 PM |
| 16 | I would love some perspective from you all right nowHe drinks to black out because he is an alcoholic, and like all alcoholics they can't cope with Life. So they drink. He boozes a lot more than you know. Esp if his dad is a drunk? Nah, sis. You are dating a genetic defect. I have 2 exh, both are alcoholics (one is supposedly sober, and the other is in jail). The sober ones dad died of alcoholism. The jailed one was adopted so no one knows. Trust me, alcoholism is a progressive disease. If i knew now what I knew then....i would not have married 1… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 06:00 PM |
| 53 | Man repeatedly misses work because of porn binges.How can possibly look at porn for 8 hours straight? One thinks it would just get boring after....the first two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 35 | Snap from a convo I had with a friend who saw her guy with someone else. NEVER let him bleed you dry!!!Where do we get the idea that somehow a man will change for the "Right woman". Its a fucking fantasy. In all other contexts we believe that people only change because THEY want to, not because someone inspires them to. That never happens. But enter magical thinking, and oh, if you loves you....all his shitty traits will go away. Any change a man undertakes done for someone else is temporary at best. Once the newness of that person washes away, they revert back to form. Anybody who has dealt with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 08:59 PM |
| 25 | Does FDS really work?If you start a relationship where you allow the guy to shit all over you (Pickmeisha syndrome), and then you change course and don't let him shit all over you, why would HE want to stay? he wouldn't! He no longer benefits from the relationship from his POV. Once a woman finds her self respect, strength and dignity, the man in her life is usually incompatible with that...because he was the source of her lack of self respect, weakness, and undignified behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Am I or did I waste my own time?Do not become financially or legally entangled with this train wreck, via marriage or otherwise. My daddy told me.....if you wouldn't go into business with them, you have no business marrying them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 11:31 PM |
| 81 | HOW MGTOW ALWAYS ENDS: 93 yr old man goes to tech store and cries because he can’t access his porn and it’s the only thing he has left to live for.Porn is a solution to lonlieness? Get the fuck outta here with that. Also, he was wanking to porn well before wifey died, Troll post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 09:28 PM |
| 8 | Brace yourself ladies... "I miss you" season is fast approachingI will be getting a call from my exh in jail. And a facebook message from this guy i dated back in August. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 07:10 PM |
| 39 | Ladies, what to do when a man reveals a micropenis?That is why you date, and explore each other's bodies a bit before you have sex. Before I have sex with a guy, I will have already explored that part of him with my hands. Also, it's a concern if you want to children. A true micropenis cannot penetrate a vagina to accomplish reproduction. Do you really wanna go the IVF route? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 26 | See where this goes or a waste of time?You are wasting time. Already, the intent is mismatched, but he will try to fuck you anyway. Cancel, delete and block. Don't waste time on someone who doesn't want the same thing you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 04:01 PM |
| 14 | Men are slaves to their dicks. And they will try to make you a slave to their dicks too.One of the few things Religion got right, and by Religion i mean the Abrahamic ones, and the non Abrahamic ones, is the idea that LUST will destroy a person. And really by person, i mean MEN. Now their remedies for dealing with the issue of lust rested upon the heads of women via marraige, burqas, and other forms of sexual tyranny and social control imposed by religion SOLELY on women, but some credit is due for realzing that following MUH DICK to destruction is insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:20 PM |
| 12 | No more time wasters 2020The lesson here is that when it's over IT'S OVER. No "being friends", no following each other on social media, no contact! Any less sets you up for an emotionally abusive situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 12:02 AM |
| 33 | Woman gets knocked up by LVM that harasses her about her weight. Despite this, they get married. To the surprise of nobody, his controlling ways get much worse.Any time I struggle with my internalized notion that I don't have value unless I am married or otherwise have a man in my life.....i read posts like this. This, sisters, is the trade off. Marrying a man (most being LV), WHAT VALUE ARE YOU YOU GETTING? At least i can live on my own terms and not sacrifice my dignity and self respect upon the altar of "marriage and compromise". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 09:38 PM |
| 8 | Why do men expect you to be their therapist?My exh is an alcoholic. I've read several professional opinions that the point at which the drinking becomes problematic....that is when the addict stops developing mentally and emotionally. So if the started the habit of drinking away their anxiety, heartbreak, stress etc at age 22.....and continue to do do at 42 years of age, they are, developmentally, still 22. 20 years of arrested development. I think this happens to men in general. Once that mutated y chromosome kicks in and floods their bo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 07:50 PM |
| -2 | Thought you ladies might enjoy this. I can appreciate the honesty when most men would not be so forthcoming with all of this fuckery. Oh, and he is a total smoke show!This is the type that will beat the ass of any man that looks at "his woman" the wrong way. They are fun, wild and great in bed. Total.scumbag. just use a burner phone at all times and don't tell him where you live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 05:54 AM |
| 5 | Dating a lot to fill a void from an ex?I'm kinda doing this now. Bear in mind it's a temporary band aid and should be undertaken with counseling, church, self improvement, etc. No one can fill that void but you. But if it keeps you from going back to an awful ex (in my case an evil, destructive alcoholic) then go for it. Endless dates are better than that possibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 04:19 AM |
| 38 | Happy 40k subscribers FDS!!Y'all Lvms can suck each other's dicks and cry over your crusty keyboards while we queens ride this ship to the Moon. BWHAHAHAHA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 04:00 AM |
| 13 | Dating Guys that are virgins?No big deal. He is only 19. Have fun breaking him in :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 01:54 AM |
| 26 | it feels like I've been lied to all my lifeEvery single patriarchal culture enforces, reinforces, institutionalizes via religion, economic systems and legal systems....pick me behavior. This has been the status quo for 5000 years. At least in the West, pick me behavior is no longer necessary for women. We can earn a living, can vote and otherwise participate fully in society and be self sufficient. But old habits die hard. We still think we only have value if there is a man attached to us. It's a mindduxk, but one that can be overcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 11:12 PM |
| 16 | [RECAP] What I Learned From Asking Men About Their Value: THEY HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE.Seriously consider doing an open thread where the male lurkers can respond to what you just posted. That would be interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 03:30 PM |
| 96 | Male wanted to try “nonmonogamy” with his girlfriend then flips out at her when she shows interest in another guy. They’re always mad when “nonmonogamy” isn’t exclusively in their favor. 🙄These are, bar none, my favorite stories of LVM dipshittery. Such delicious schadenfreude watching their entitled, self serving ego gets smashed to bits. One can only hope they learn something useful from this, namely that dick is low value and abundant HAHAHAHAHA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 01:47 AM |
| 71 | We're not doing this anymore. #kickhimout2020No we aren't. We don't need men for financial security, thank you Susan B Anthony et al. If a woman tethers herself to a lvm, it's only because she has a misguided sense of necessity, not because she objectively HAS to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 05:43 AM |
| 108 | On tumblr--It pisses me off when they don't read the profile. I've had men ask what i do for a living. It's on the FIRST LINE of the profile ffs. Or what I'm looking for. Again, it's on the PROFILE. The worst part, is that since i was using TINDER, my profile was only like 75 words long! And they couldn't even be bothered to read it before they messaged me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 22 | This is what happens when you marry a LVM....a low effort husband that takes you for grantedSame. Too many men simply cannot be adequate partners without extensive hand holding and "nagging" and emotional labor from the woman. The cost benefit ratio, at this point on my life, makes getting married again a poor investment. And too many men...once they have you, revert back to form. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 05:32 AM |
| 32 | Low effort dates?"We do the same thing all the time. I bored with it. I want to go somewhere else". Release your inner diva a bit and see what happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 6 | Remember, you are the prize. Women will always be seen as a prize to men.This topic has been explored in films. "28 days later" comes to my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 06:25 PM |
| 27 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!Sure. Most men aren't up to the task of being decent partners. And most men are SHIT at being caregivers. Google the stats for that one, it's a depressing read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 10:18 PM |
| 62 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!That's been the struggle of women forever now. To protected themselves from men, they have to.....rely on men. It's like a god damn protection racket. That's whyI fully support women learning how to use weapons and self defense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 10:14 PM |
| 60 | r/unpopularopinion: The sub-reddits 'Female Dating Strategy' & 'Gender Critical' make legitimate points & their members come closer to understanding males than any other group of women I've ever seen haveJust another example of "mansplaining" and men invalidating what women observe and think. "I WILL TELL YOU HOW YOU FEEL!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 06:38 PM |
| 56 | FDS Strategy: when he asks for polyamory, you kick him to the curbMore often than not, when LVMs request "polyamory" or an "open marriage" in an already trad relationship/marriage, it blows up in their faces because the woman ends up with a horde of men wanting to fuck her, and the man ends up with....nothing except massive fits of jealousy. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 49 | The rise of the 'married single mom'The worst example of that is the POS husband who works a regular job....but still does nothing except take up space and eat food and whine about his dick, while the wife also works a regular job and does all of the housework and childcare. The husbands in the article are somewhat sympathetic at least because military and travel work. Oh, and as for the statement that these away husbands are missing their families....there are a dozen more picking up hookers, online dating, boozing, etc. The sing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 09:55 PM |
| 21 | How do you "block and ignore" when they are stuck in your life?Be professional and polite. Don't be alone with him, and never ever talk about personal stuff. Pretend he is the creepy incel guy in the next cubicle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 08:18 PM |
| 9 | What should I do? All tips and strategies are very welcomeDelete and block this guy after savagely dumping him.first. Then read the sidebar....about a 100 times. Start fresh with a new guy. Remember, dick is low value and abundant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 05:17 AM |
| 61 | Lol I just found a message in my inbox from September. Check out the timestamps - this fuckboy (who I desperately wanted a relationship with, but who ghosted me) is STILL reaching out 7 YEARS LATER. Also, he's married now.Send it to his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 04:29 AM |
| 9 | Woman finds herself dependent on an ungrateful, emotionally immature, drunken wreck of a husband. SISTERS....dont ever ever depend on a husband or boyfriend!That's actually the smartest thing she has done. Joint assets become fair game for creditors of the addict, deadbeat husband. Another things addict, deadbeat husband do is wipe out joint accounts to spend on whores, booze and hotel rooms and God knows what else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 04:27 AM |
| 7 | Dating for women 35+The only good thing about them is you are less likely to get dick pics (ed maybe) and the inane fuckbois lingo like "wyd?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 03:36 AM |
| 26 | Be vigilant during the holiday season ladies - the ghosts of suitors past will be making their visits shortly 👻This is why we always say to delete and block forever. We don't need these unpleasant reminders during what should be a joyful season. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 02:52 AM |
| 9 | Woman finds herself dependent on an ungrateful, emotionally immature, drunken wreck of a husband. SISTERS....dont ever ever depend on a husband or boyfriend!I know right? I dropped her some advice over there. Hope she listens to 10% of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 02:07 AM |
| 26 | Imagine if Pickmeishas and LVM WonThe only silver lining here is that population will plummet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 02:04 AM |
| 14 | Imagine if Pickmeishas and LVM WonI instantly thought of that movie too!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 02:03 AM |
| 19 | Woman finds herself dependent on an ungrateful, emotionally immature, drunken wreck of a husband. SISTERS....dont ever ever depend on a husband or boyfriend!And she s been with this nitwit for 10 yrs...and he decides to NOPE out. I figure he is already tindering, closet drinking, and Instagram whoring. The abuse against her and the small kids will be arriving soon. Men being the emotional fucktards that they are, he won't ever get therapy until it's court ordered. Hope this sister realizes she is already a single mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 01:42 AM |
| 38 | Men are regarded as 'rational' thinkers, women as 'emotional' thinkers, when the opposite is true.Men are per se irrational because they follow their dick to their doom all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | When a guy doesn't even put in the tiniest amount of effortLet me suggest an experiment. Since it was apparently working out at one point, how about texting him the same reply you gave me? No holds barred, full offensive text. He fucked up. Throw it in his face and let him know. See what happens. You can always delete and block when he gives you a half sad, cowardly response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 07:44 PM |
| 8 | Just wanted to get everyone's opinions about staying friends with an ex99% of the time it's a bad idea. Neither party has pure intent, it's all about sex and validation. That's not a friendship. And if he was an asshole to you as a bf, a faux friendship with that same person is gonna be the same asshole appearing. No more lvms in Our lives! The only exception is.if you broke up because he is gay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 07:20 PM |
| 36 | 10 year old Yemeni girl smiling after she was granted a divorce from her husband, a grown adult.Any religion that has in its sacred texts directives from God, Yahweh and ALLAH to shit on women should be thrown in the dustbin of history. Christianity, Islam, and Judaism are all guilt of this. Those countries that experiences cultural change due to the imposition of Abrahamic religions are all patriarchal and institutionally shit on women. I suspect that before these religions swept through the Levant, Arabia and Europe, women were still shit on though. But for sure, they got the boot afterw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 9 | How do you shut down sexual talk? How do they respond?With a "NOPE". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 06:49 PM |
| 16 | Tinder is just too ridiculous for me. How do I meet men IRLThis thread delivered my first gut busting laugh of the day! Something about the broken English, the sex thirst and clown emoji created a trifecta of nonstop LOLS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 06:38 PM |
| 17 | When a guy doesn't even put in the tiniest amount of effortHe was basically dumping the work of the relationship onto you at this point. In his brain, you were already his gf.....tjerefore, you do all the work of planning dates, organizing blah blah. I would wager if you said "we are doing xyz on Wed so be ready by 7" he would have been "ok hun". Think it's bad now? Just wait until after marriage and kids.... I think a man can be into you and display this lazy, entitled behavior. But we don't want lazy men who won't do any work in a relationship....and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 04:48 PM |
| 26 | When your mom is trying to set you up. It took me awhile to straight out say no.My mother is the opposite. She thinks it's silly that I date. She's like you already have great kids, you are financially independent, are a respected professional, have great friends and fsmuly....there is nothing that a man can add to your life, he will just be "too headache". And she is right. I've done OLD since May and nothing has worked out. They have been "too headaxhe" so I end up dumping them or losing interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 04:29 AM |
| 20 | RED FLAGS: Signs a Man Should Be Cut OffWhen he goes into road rage while YOU are driving, leans over you to honk the horn on your steering wheel and flips off the offending driver. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 02:51 AM |
| 20 | RED FLAGS: Signs a Man Should Be Cut OffSubstance abuse and addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 02:30 AM |
| 70 | Gives birth to his 2 babies, works 12 hrs/day 6 days/wk to support her family, has zero time for herself or self care, husband does JACK SHIT and then tells her he doesn't want to have sex w her bc she's "fat and hairy." Never over-perform for a LVM, he will NOT appreciate you for it.Marriage is a prison for women. Notice she said she "can't" leave him because of the kids. Meh, she probably wouldn't notice he was gone he provides such little pragmatic support. She has the keys to her own jail cell, hopefully she realizes this sooner than later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 11:39 PM |
| 42 | Update post: I took your advice.Being on this sub made me realize that too many women have the disease called "keeping LVMs around". I think a sticky on this subject maybe is appropriate in order to provide advice on how to deal with fuckboys, imaginary relationSHITS, "Friends", and former "friends" and exes, and provide insight on why we, as women, continue to do this and what we can do about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 09:46 PM |
| 10 | FDS worked. Now can I get some Female Relationship Strategy pointers?I'd say sex around 2 or 3 months is ideal, at that point you know enough about them to feel safe doing do. ALl i'm saying, is that don't expect "best behavior" to keep on after that. And be ready to ghost when he starts treating you in ways that are a personal affront to you. Because when you are his "girlfreind" and you had sex with him, he is gonna think you are 'his' and start, figuretively speaking, wearing pajama pants everywhere. Or maybe he won't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 09:05 PM |
| 9 | Update post: I took your advice.Good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 09:01 PM |
| 13 | FDS worked. Now can I get some Female Relationship Strategy pointers?At this point, her waiting a few more months for sex wont' make a difference. He can turn into an low effort ass 3 months from now. If she finds him attractive and wants to have sex (because SHE wants to, not because she thinks she "should") then go for it. IMO, its better to weed them out early, than later. And having sex with them is a way to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 08:56 PM |
| 50 | FDS worked. Now can I get some Female Relationship Strategy pointers?2 months.....is about when they let their guard down. Don't be surprised that once you have sex, he will let his "guard down".Better now, than when you are married and stuck with his ass. At this point, I would go ahead and fuck him (if you want). Hopefully, you will get some great sex AND see the real him. And if the real him doesn't jive, then ghost his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 07:26 PM |
| 13 | Wise with AgeLove it. So much IRON in those simple words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 06:47 PM |
| 29 | Sigh....husband has love child with mistress and wife can’t leave because she and her 5 children are dependent on him.This was the life of all women before the 1960s really. Now, women don't HAVE to become slaves to their husbands, they can merely CHOOSE to. I'm very interested in why so many women today CHOOSE this indentured servitude, and what can we do about it as women advocates. I would go so far and say it's a very unhealthy choice similar to staying with an abuser. In the meantime, let us be thankful and honor for the women who came before us, and fought to emancipated us from indentured servitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 06:22 PM |
| 11 | In my part of the world, if an middle aged man on OLD describes his body as "average" that means he is overweight, if not obese.Durdur...but these moids are so SPECIAL. And an EXCEPTION. Their personality and their 50K per annum is so OWSUM that their obesity and receding hairlines and man boods shouldn't matter to any woman, ESPECIALLY the hot ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 10:00 PM |
| 24 | Pathetic "surrendered wife" Pickmeisha in the r/marraige sub routinely gives RPW advice....after she fellates all the RP posters there of course. Because pick me's are gonna pick me. BTW, Pickmeisha takes undoes her "captain's" shoes" and takes them off for him.It boggles the mind. Her posting history is nothing but anti-woman, pickmeisha word vomit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 08:54 PM |
| 10 | What do you ladies think of this: Guy I’ve gone on 4 dates with wants to go away for a weekend. We haven’t been intimate and I’m sure this is his way of guiding things in that direction.I'd say, "Sure I'd love to go! But I will not fuck you under any circumstances. Nor get naked with you. And you better not even try. Sound good? " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 97 | Never take a man back.I will further this thought and say that its OKAY if you still love them. But never ever take them back. BUT as Tina once said, what's love got to do with it? We can love someone that is objectively bad for us, however, it doesn't mean we have to ACT on that feeling. It's just a feeling after all. I still love my severely alcoholic exh. I always probably will. But he is my ex, and i will never take him back. The moral of the story....going back to an ex is inviting Evil into your life. Best to k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 07:25 PM |
| 13 | On Dick size and whether it "matters" or not.....to women.The last 3 UTIs i had I carefully reviewed the report of the culture with my doctor. The offending bacteria found in my urine was my own natural flora. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 05:34 PM |
| 29 | Do you find the men in your area attractive?The men in my area are awful looking generally (america, not on either coast). They are generally overweight (or obese), dress like shit (ooops, casual) and have receding hairlines. And you can tell years of poor eating, drinking, smoking, no exercise etc. Yuck. After age 40, they are downright BUSTED looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Active hobbies are my excuse not to text back, what's yours?Why do you keep contact with a "broke as a joke" boy? This is a person you don't respect, don't want to be with, or have sex with, or want a relationshisp with. Why keep them in your life, in any manner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 04:14 PM |
| 4 | FDS was the first place to tell me to remove him from my dating pool, and it was completely the right choice. Now I’m debating whether we should even stay friends."friends" don't act this way to their "friends". He is toxic as fuck. Drop him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 04:10 PM |
| 25 | Stop telling men about your birth controlI had this discussion recently. I told him I was not on any kind of Birth Control, and never have been and never will be. I have two kids. I told him i am blessed with very regular cycles and that I do not have sex between days 10 and 18 of my cycle. If I do have sex during those times, then he wears a condom. That arrangement worked for my 2 prior husbands, and it will work for any future sex partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 66 | Getting with men either significantly older or younger increases our mortality rate substantiallyThis is more accurate: "Getting with men of any age increases our mortality rate." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 19 | I'm a pick me.. I feel horribleDear sister....why do you hate yourself so much? Really think about that: some lame fuckbois just told you he is looking for something better and your response was to pine foe him even more? ANGER and affronted is appropriate here followed by a delete and block! Please figure this out through all means necessary. Meanwhile dump all the men in your life (except for family). That includes any male friends that aren't gay. All of them. Men serve as a source of dysfunctional validation for you, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 11:40 PM |
| 99 | Lurkers, here is the secret amoral and toxic strategySo what their next step? Pretend to be HVM, send meaningful texts, and stop negging? LOLOL? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 10:42 PM |
| 48 | New job? New city? Recent breakup? DO NOT SHARE WITH MEN. GUARD YOUR HEART.I don't think you need to AFFIRMATIVELY misrepresent, but rather AVOID letting them know you have problematic, or no relationships with your family and friends. If the subject of family comes up, say something nice about them, and just move on from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 09:58 PM |
| 16 | New job? New city? Recent breakup? DO NOT SHARE WITH MEN. GUARD YOUR HEART.I also forgot to add....i answer phone calls from my ex-husband, with whom i share 2 awesome SONS, in FRONT OF HIM (the guy I am dating). I let him hear me and exh laugh and joke with each other, and act normal. Also, he knows my oldest son is an offensive lineman lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 09:55 PM |
| 3 | [Seeking advice] Time to move on? Or is it worth to continue seeing this guy?That is important. Dump him. He is just hanging onto you for "all over each other" part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 09:00 PM |
| 2 | [Seeking advice] Time to move on? Or is it worth to continue seeing this guy?Both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:55 PM |
| 8 | [Seeking advice] Time to move on? Or is it worth to continue seeing this guy?He sounds like a wet noodle, and lacking in any kind of energy. I almost fell asleep just reading about him. At age 20, you guys should WANT to be all over each other, especially him. There is no chemistry here OP. This is how middle aged people date, and deal with each other FFS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:51 PM |
| 78 | New job? New city? Recent breakup? DO NOT SHARE WITH MEN. GUARD YOUR HEART.I did this with the guy I am seeing. He knows that my dad is dear to me, and that i drop everything to be with my family. He knows my "Daddy" is super wealthy and successful and takes care of me. He knows that I was late visiting him on Thanksgiving because I got to talking and having a good time with my brothers, who are also awesome. I sent him a selfie of me with my teenage nephews. And that Uncles are cops. And my male cousins are in the military. And that i am close to them and we all love … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:40 PM |
| 6 | Old Friend, Same Sh*tNone of these are reasons to hang onto a toxic friendship that isn't even a friendship. Examine why you tolerate this toxicity and figure out how to change your behavior. Women hang onto to toxic relationships for far too long and it bites them in the ass time and again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 05:12 PM |
| 19 | Old Friend, Same Sh*tYou act like a "pickmeisha" when it comes to this loser. He violates your physical boundaries and is clearly NOT your friend, despite whatever you think. I suspect you keep coming around him because he gives you validation, even though the validation he provides violated your physical space. Drop this guy. He is not your friend. Or keep him around if you need the validation he provides but realize your behavior In seeking that validation is problematic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 04:21 PM |
| 36 | Chicago college students ignores man's catcalls. Being the entitled male he is, he proceeds to sexually assault her and strangle her to death.And this, all you piece of shit LVM, incels, Scrotes and assorted niceugys wonders lurking here....this is why women ghost. This is why women pretend to return affection and then run away. Because men KILL women when sexual attention is not reciprocated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Not sure if this is appropriate for this sub...I have a High Value Man who loves me deeply...but I don't feel the same.I think what you are describing is a "lack of chemistry". Sometimes, its inscrutable who we feel chemistry with. But without it....your relationship is like one of friends and siblings. How is your man in bed? How do you respond to him sexually? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 08:31 PM |
| 3 | I was part of FDS before I even knew it, dated a HVM (or so I thought), but he turned out to be trashI knew him professionally for 3 years before we got married and we were friends and colleagues. The only indication regarding alcohol use was he disclosed that when he was working at a particular job, he drank a lot because it stressed him out, but when he left, he didn't drink anymore. Well, I certainly have been there with stressful jobs and using substances to get by. He led me to believe his alcohol use was entirely situational, and not a chronic disease. The longer we were married, i would … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 10:19 PM |
| 6 | I was part of FDS before I even knew it, dated a HVM (or so I thought), but he turned out to be trashYou have to learn resilience when it comes to dealing with people in any situation...jobs, school, family, marriages, the next car at the traffic light, etc. People are unique. Uniquely complicated, good, shitty and everywhere in between. Then they are quite simple! People are changeable, and then stuck in their ways. All at the same time, in the same person. Too many of us want to approach relationships by applying an algorithm to it. Soinds like this guy checked all the boxes...but was a liar … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 01:07 AM |
| 19 | Tis the season!Boyfriends should not be at family holidays until they are husbands IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:33 PM |
| 7 | Has Anyone’s Sexual Partners All Been Amazing? Or Even Mostly Good?My 2nd exh was incredible in bed (for me).. My first exh was ok. Both knew my body very well and could make me come. I would not have married them if they didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 06:43 PM |
| 19 | Remember that married men are happier and healthier as opposed to single men, while married women aren’t. YOU are the one with priceless value and the potential key to happiness for himYes. Men want sex, and marriage is the only way a man can reasonably expect the sexual services of a woman under force of contract. Getting tired of his limp dick? Well, it bit more difficult to leave his LVM ass when half the shit you accumulated while married is his. You have more incentive to "work on things". Sex is scarce for men. But Sex is the primary way men get the validation and ego boost they seem to pathologically need. A fembot, or porn, or prostitutes categorically cannot give men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 12:45 AM |
| 13 | Do you think that there are good guys out there?As much as male sexual entitlement is entrenched in the male psyche, not very many. Ask yourself how many many men would agree that male sexual entitlement exists? Then of those that do....how many would see it as a problem? I'd wager we are getting into the single digits percentage wise. This is important because the target of male sexual entitlement is women, is you. At the personal level, and in a broader social level, and institutional level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Marraige....don't do it. Marriage is a woman's grave my sisters. We've been sold a shitty bill of goods.You are naive. Don't assume that the man you knew before you married him will be the same man after you marry him. Just be prepared if, and when, they turn on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Marraige....don't do it. Marriage is a woman's grave my sisters. We've been sold a shitty bill of goods.By all means get married. But don't go into it with your eyes shut to the reality of it. Have a game plan to deal with the ugly reality of marriage that may pop up in yours. Also, don't give up and maintain financial independence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Marraige....don't do it. Marriage is a woman's grave my sisters. We've been sold a shitty bill of goods.Many women date with the intention of finding a husband with the happily ever fantasies spinning thru their heads. So my post is appropriate for this forum. Nothing i said in in my OP is bullshit (unlike the crap the redpill subs spew). It's all backed up by statistics and long term studies that are easily available online. Married women suffer in marriage, married men don't. Single women thrive being single, single men don't. Any woman deciding to get married needs a strong game plan before she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:34 PM |
| 87 | Queen Sh*t MegathreadMy exh was a secret alcoholic. He was forced out of the closet in May. He went away for military until September. On way back, he gets a DUI. I though "great this is his rock bottom". I let him come back with the caveat he cannot drink in the house around me and the kids. He was only back for 2 days when he went out, go drunk, and DROVE HOME bafck to me and kids. I kicked him out then and there. It was hard, but needed to be done. I won't play second fiddle to booze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Rotational dating how-to?It's a lot work, both mentally and in terms of time. Throw in a 40hr work week, kids, family, friends, hobbies, volunteer work, professional networking, time alone....how does one do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 01:20 AM |
| 13 | Marraige....don't do it. Marriage is a woman's grave my sisters. We've been sold a shitty bill of goods.My only suggestion is that a woman never ever become financially dependent on a man and have the ability to walk away. Get married, or don't. But don't sacrifice your financial independence for marraige and kids. The alimony gravy train only works out if you marry a man with an income in excess of 300K and STAY married to him for a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 09:58 PM |
| 13 | Marraige....don't do it. Marriage is a woman's grave my sisters. We've been sold a shitty bill of goods.Polygamous MARRAIGE benefitted only a few men. The rest of the men were slaves, killed as infants, or toiled in the fields or in the wars for the men that had all the wives. Women of course never benefitted from it. Neither did the rest of the male population. Enter mongamous marraige. It was the first act of democracy in huMAN history. Now the slave and field worker and common soldier could have a slave/bangmaid that was legally beholden to ONLY HIM. All men benefit from mongamous marraige. Onc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 09:43 PM |
| 12 | I’m happy I found this place have some questionsIf you are making out with him, and otherwise are intimate enough that you can feel his cock....and it is limp, then he is probably a pathological porn user. A man that cannot get it up for a real woman that he claims he is attracted to is a broke dick, porn sick LVM. Leave immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 08:06 PM |
| 30 | Marraige....don't do it. Marriage is a woman's grave my sisters. We've been sold a shitty bill of goods.Those men are few and far in between. Unicorns maybe? The sad fact is that men are not socialized, either on an individual level or on an institutional level, to be adequate husbands, partners and fathers. Throw the stat that the 99% of the prison population is male, and the overwhelming number of addicts are male, and domestic batterers are male, pedos are male, porn hounds are male, ADHD/assburgers fucks are male, PTSD sufferers are male,redpill, PUA fuckwits......you start whittling down the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 07:51 PM |
| 13 | FDS doesn’t mean not being a loving partnerSomeone needs to do a pic of of a "porn sick, limp dick baboon" so we can meme the hell out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 05:49 PM |
| 30 | Thoughts on only counting men who've given you an orgasm toward your n-countExcellent idea! Under these new"rules" my n count is 2....my 2 exhusbands. LOL....some advice....don't marry a man that can't make you orgasm. I've learned (for me) the ability to orgasm is directly linked to how "safe" i feel with a man, physically and emotionally. I can be totally attracted but if the element of safety is not there, then i cannot let go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 08:24 PM |
| 29 | How do you unlearn seeing yourself through the eyes of men?Men will fuck mud, sheep, small children, and view all kinds of disgusting porn to get off. Most of the painful beauty rituals women put themselves through are WASTED on men bcause they'll just jerk off to cartoon barbie in Anal Fetish Vol. 876 at the end of day. I will assume that right now, you do things to yourself to make yourself pretty for men (wasted effort). I'd say for 3 months....stop wearing make up. Stop torturing your hair. Stop wearing heels. Stop shaving your legs and under your a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 08:18 PM |
| 18 | A typical male "4" that claims he is a "7" or "8". Commence Vomiting....I stand by my 4. Well, I'll give him a 4.25 since his preferred age range for women is entirely reasonable (+ or - 5yrs) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 08:08 PM |
| 49 | A typical male "4" that claims he is a "7" or "8". Commence Vomiting....Oh, and he is gonna have a "crazy' ex and kids in tow. But he is still an "8". LOLOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:56 PM |
| 15 | Another long term relationship FDS crossover questionWhen you change your mind in a few years, and get tired of being with a man who can't take care of himself, let alone a wife and kids, don't expect him to somehow change his "living off of mommy and daddy" ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:03 PM |
| 28 | FactsThese fish appear to have personalities and flair tho. Perhaps sea cucumbers and sponges are more apt? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:30 AM |
| 16 | To confront or let go?Block him. A confirmed liar is not something a HVW needs in her life. It's easy to find another man for ego and attention needs if that's what you are after. For sure, this guy is not long term material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:04 AM |
| 10 | Anyone else gets turned off by picky eaters?I call it "having the palate of an 8yr old". It sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:38 AM |
| 28 | Sisters, are long ass messages a red flag for anything?I wanna date this guy! He is trying to impress you with his cooking skills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:15 AM |
| 37 | Observation about dating sites. It’s basically all the same guy! Agree?Yes, i feel the same way. Trust me, the older the guy gets, the worse it is. I'm not sure your age, but once they get over the age of 35, it's awful in terms of dullness and lack of effort. Its like....just give up the ghost and be happy with porn and your hand. Women will survive without you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Hey guys - if you have to go down on her for an hour, you’re doing it wrongSo much truth. My exhusbands could make me come in under 5 minutes. And one of them had an 8 inch cock that was big enough to stimulate my g spot when I rode him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | FDS 5th date successGood for you. But hold your guard up until you find out whether he can function as a man (ED, pornsick, etc). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 04:57 PM |
| 13 | Something a little different - Teaching our young girls how to protect themselvesAssertiveness training. Putting THEMSELVES first BEFORE their husband, BF, etc....because Universe knows that they are socialized to do the complete opposite. That they aren't princesses. That the world wont' see them as a princess, especially the boy they have a crush on. That instead of the princess BS, they are independent, capable ADULTS that can take care of business. To not feel flattered by male SEXUAL attention....because he is lusting after 30 other women on any given day. She is just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 08:54 PM |
| 37 | Pick me! Pick me! Im so unique compared to other women!They should sell these on DOORMATS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 27 | Losing interest in the guy I'm dating because he used to be a hoeHis dick doesn't work. And porn addict. Once an addict, always an addict. You will ALWAYS be competing with the porn. He will ALWAYS struggle with it. Why would anyone wanna be 2nd place to porn, drugs, booze. That should be the END my dear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | 5 week dating relationship (met on OLD) came to an end. Which red flag should i have bailed on first?You are vindicated! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 01:50 PM |
| 16 | 5 week dating relationship (met on OLD) came to an end. Which red flag should i have bailed on first?I am the one who asked. IMO, if guy jerks off multiple times a day, then he is gonna have a huge sex drive I cannot deal with. Or be always so depleted there is nothing left for me. And a guy that jerks off 3 times a day very likely has a huge porn habit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:29 AM |
| 21 | 5 week dating relationship (met on OLD) came to an end. Which red flag should i have bailed on first?When I tried to tell him how to make me orgasm, he got legit upset and said that "he is an adult man and he can figure out how to make his woman come." Confessed a fear of rejection. Ate like shit and didn't take good care of his health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:26 AM |
| 13 | 5 week dating relationship (met on OLD) came to an end. Which red flag should i have bailed on first?Yes, I very much so enjoyed spending time with him. But he just isn't fit to be in a partnership or relationship. My first gut punch was how poorly he reacted when I tried to discuss my concerns about his extensive dating history and how I didn't think we wanted the same thing because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:07 AM |
| 21 | The manosphere:Men just hate women. Or they are really judgmental of what women do. Maybe some guys like the fake titted, blonde look (which is ok). Others like women that don't look like that. That's ok too. But they never once consider that their preferences in womens looks are just preferences. Nope, they have to get all judgmental and preachy about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 03:55 PM |
| 12 | This is probably a red flag, but I will run it by you all anywayUpdate: I deleted his contact thoroughly. Ever since Sunday, he been less loving and distsnt in his communicstion. Saturday night was fun and we decided to be bf and gf ffs which he brought up during our date! Tonight, I sent him a text that said "i miss you". No response. And hour later, i send a "nighty night". He immediately responds "night". Then I text "don't you miss me?" "I do" "Do you still want to be with me?" "Yes, how many times in in a 24 hr period vs you ask the same question in a d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 05:56 AM |
| 32 | WOMEN ARE NOT REHABILITATION CENTERSIt's like all the profiles that state they "want a good woman". Good meaning putting up with their limpdick, LVM, MANCHILD bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:30 AM |
| 6 | This is probably a red flag, but I will run it by you all anywayThanks for the replies. Maybe he will go all fuckbois and dump me, ghost or fade me. That certainly would make all.of this easier lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:06 AM |
| 13 | This is probably a red flag, but I will run it by you all anywayThanks for the suggestion. I imagined me watching my younger cousin in my place. I would tell her that he appears to really like her, but to understand that he is a bit of a hot head and very passionate, which is why she is attracted to him in the first place. I would warn her that if he turns that hot headededness against her is the time to leave asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 12:24 AM |
| 8 | This is probably a red flag, but I will run it by you all anywayI will certainly come back in a few months to update complete with any vindication that is due. I figure maybe someone could learn from this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 12:19 AM |
| 16 | This is probably a red flag, but I will run it by you all anywayThat was in response to my query that perhaps he enjoyed dating random and just generally being free to date, instead of in a long term relationship (which is what I want). I said "I need to know this because I'm becoming emotionally invested in you". His reply was "I am already emotionally invested in you!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 11:35 PM |
| 5 | This is probably a red flag, but I will run it by you all anywayI did not. However, he disclosed to me in an earlier conversation that he has a general fear of rejection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 10:56 PM |
| 6 | no it’s not funnyI came across a profile with the "it rubs the lotion on its skin" killer from silence of the lambs as the profile pic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 09:44 PM |
| 21 | i can't believe that i put up with this...What is important queen, is that you learned and don't put up with it now. The past is dead. Hugs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 09:38 PM |
| 25 | Please help, I'm new at thisHe is super into you. And expressed that in a sincere, if verbose, way. But I don't see any disrespect anywhere in there. A good response would be...."so where are you taking me when we go out again"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 08:27 PM |
| 13 | Its actually good things like this happen to you can weed them out after only 1 messageThis is how a pornsick, LVM conveys to a woman that he is attracted to her. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:20 PM |
| 15 | Feeling guilt when you start holding men to your standards?Feelings are just feelings. Don't let them rule your decision making. Acknowledge them, and then put them to test. Where is the logic in feeling guilty for putting your needs first before that of some man you are dating? There is a time and place for putting your needs on the backburner; however in the context of an intimate relationship WITH A MAN, that is not the time nor place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:06 AM |
| 228 | FDS GUIDE. Non-mainstream opinions and strategies held by this sub.Here is one: Don't send nude pics. Ever. Not even to a spouse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:33 PM |
| 47 | 😝Without qualification, send nude pics of yourself is a bad idea. Don't do it. Have some respect for yourselves, and your privacy ffs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:31 PM |
| 26 | He Only Wants Couch Dates with Her, But She Found Two Movie Tickets StubsThat OP IS such a doormat I almost suspect trolling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 73 | Every time I orgasm / masturbate I’m reminded that THIS is what controls a man.OP, This Is why men are not fit to serve as leaders. This WHY MEN ARE NOT LOGICAL. addicts, IN GENERAL, by their very nature, are not LOGICAL. They can't see past the end of their cock and think of consequences, and like...OTHER PEOPLE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 05:35 PM |
| 71 | The Oxytocin MythCan confirm that if the woman has an orgasm she will want to roll over and fall asleep. My former husbands were very skilled in that department and I didn't suffer a lack of orgasms with them. I would orgasm and they would be ready to go, and i would be like....oh, I can't roll over and go to sleep yet lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 11:48 PM |
| 51 | Women's sexual power is very strong but it ends the second a man ejaculates. Don't get drunk on sexual attention ladiesMen will fuck mud and sheep. It means NOTHING. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Tell the man in your life that you don’t want to take hormonal birth control and that you want him to get a vasectomy or use condoms instead. Watch their hamster wheels spin.I never once have been on hormonal birth control. I've been blessed with regular periods, and i told my husbands what days were off limits for sex (or they could use a condom). So day 10 thru 18 of my cycle were either off limits or condom days. THEIR CHOICE HAHAHA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 05:19 PM |
| 53 | Men who are intimidated by women who make more money than them aren’t intimidated because they feel like inadequate providers. They are intimidated because they feel that won’t be able to domineer the relationship nor get away with doing less housework/ childcare.I can confirm with my own anecdotal experience being married twice. The same applies when you have a wealthy family (well, daddy's little girl can just get money FROM HIM, huh?) I'd say its a healthy mixture of feeling inadequate AND a terrible insecurity that she can leave if she wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 10:48 PM |
| 123 | When the monsters you’re marrying shows his true coloursThe bride looked drugged. Or completely used to being slapped. She barely reacted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 04:29 PM |
| 11 | How to not be paranoid in future relationships?Firstly, define your boundaries in any potential relationships. Boundaries are for YOU and your sanity, not for him or the "relationship". Tell him directly what they are, and if he isn't on board, then dump him. For example, does he follow a ton of women on Instagram, etc? Well, you probably shouldn't be dating him in the first place, but if you do, then the instagram voyeurism needs to go. For me, being "friends" with an ex is unacceptable. That is a boundary i have. I don't need that anxiety … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 04:55 PM |
| 34 | OLD strategy - wait to level up or not?Date the schlubs to practice your skills to be the future Queen that is coming into being. Meanwhile, lose the weight and NOT BECAUSE YOU WANNA GET HOT FOR MEN. being 80 lbs overweight is a health problem and recognize it as such. Joints suffer. The circulatory system suffers. And it gets worse the older you get. Make your health your no. 1 priority. Doing your part in keeping yourself healthy is a good way to not fall into dependence on a man. You can do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 03:17 PM |
| 15 | "My husband is cheating on you with her and he says he can't fuck you the way he fucks her, bribes me with flowers, gifts, while I stay loyal to him" DAILY REMINDER TO FUCKING PUNISH HIM FOR HIS BAD BEHAVIORS. SHE SHOULD BE CHEATING BACK OR LEAVING."I rely on him financially and we have a son". Women, this is why you NEED a strong social support network outside of the marriage. YOUR FRIENDS. YOUR FAMILY. none of this "ours" bullshit. And never ever give up a career. Or your own money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 03:03 PM |
| 44 | "You are gonna end up all alone!" Yes, and couldn't be happier about it!My advice to the women here seeking to get married and have kids is this: Please have a strong social support network of family and friends prior to marriage, and after marriage....maintain and improve that network with diligence. Doing so will only protect you, your future and your offspring. Don't rely on your husband as a primary means of ANY kind of support for you and your kids. Doing so just makes you vulnerable to physical abuse, emotional and sexual blackmail (and abuse). ALWAYS have the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 08:27 PM |
| -2 | Question: who should text who after a first date?Your date was last night and he hasn't texted You? He.isnt interested. Move on. Edit: didn't consider date was last night and he hasn't texted her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 06:07 PM |
| 15 | Men Who Threaten to Kill Themselves if You Leave ThemMy 2nd exh was a secret alcoholic that upon me finding out I made him leave once it was clear the lying and secret drinking would not stop. He would routinely say he was gonna "drink himself" to death since he didn't have me and the kids to care about. But duh....he was choking down vodka while he did have us, so it's all bullshit. He texted me at work and said he cut his wrists. So I called the police and had them do a wellness check. He had "superfixial" cuts and he spent the night in the psyc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 03:29 AM |
| 12 | How can you have confidence in yourself when there’s nothing to be confident about?There is nothing amazing about most people, myself included. We are mostly average. Being "amazing" is not required though, to be free of abusive dating practices, to stand up for yourself and promote and safeguard your interests in dating and relationships, and to discard shotty, low effort low value men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 12:30 AM |
| 29 | The Female Guide to Friends With BenefitsI really dislike the term "friends with benefits" because it demeans the notion of friendship and I value my friends. We don't fuck our friends, and in these FWB scenarios, once the fucking stops so does the "friendship". So an FWB is never really a friend. I value all non romantic relationships and friendships as they help me not to rely on a man for necessary friendship, support and socialization. So in light if the above, a more accurate term is "sexual acquaintance". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 10:08 PM |
| 11 | One reason never to get married... Gross man ejaculates into wife’s smoothie every dayI hope this woman has financial independence. If not, she will be "going to counseling" to "work it out". And she will get that dead-eyed look all women get when they are "working things out" with an abusive, addict, POS husband because they are utterly financially dependent on their now-enemy who hates them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 08:10 PM |
| 0 | How do I let the man know I would like him to pay for the date he asked me on?Maybe drop a truth bomb via text: "You know I take 2 hours to get ready, get my make up on , etc, to look HOT for you, and you can't even be bothered to buy me a drink. You clearly aren't worth my effort because I am clearly not worth yours. Bye." Then block and ghost. And you also dropped bit of education on this low effort waste of space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 05:13 PM |
| 46 | Chris Hansen's To Catch a Predator: Ordinary men can turn to soliciting sex from minors when they hit the wallMen are not taught, either at a personal level or at a societal level, to be compassionate or empathetic. They have a massive sense of entitlement, especially to women's bodies. So they certainly will not consider 1)yes, I find a 14 yr old girls attractive, but what would the consequences be to HER if i fucked one? and 2) or even look beyond the "needs" of their dick, because that's all that matters. Here is a recent famous underage sex sting from Sarasota, FL. IT's heartwarming to watch so many… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 06:22 PM |
| 9 | Advice. I want to look my best.I'm sure the men you will be fucking will have their own imperfections as well. Directly Remind them of that if necessary. In my experience, men don't care about that stuff when they have their hands on your curvy ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Advice. I want to look my best.How does it "show" btw? I have had two kids. Believe me when i say that men care a lot a less about that than you think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 05:49 PM |
| 18 | GOLDDIGGING WHORE = Responsible Woman Who Selects Partners Who Can Actually Afford to Care For Their Offspring.And who do they cheat on then with? The disadvantaged single mother living off assistance and working at a low end job. Or the nanny. In other words, a "goldigger". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 05:14 PM |
| 9 | Inconsistent Long DistanceWhy allow such instability into your life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Just had a Tinder date, he asked me to go to his place. I said hell no.Awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 04:50 PM |
| 41 | Advice. I want to look my best.I will get downvoted for this...but get your weight within the normal bmi range for your height. If you are, you are already halfway there. There is no wall. It's a just a phrase men use to keep women insecure and subservient. Excise it from your vocabulary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 04:41 PM |
| 32 | GOLDDIGGING WHORE = Responsible Woman Who Selects Partners Who Can Actually Afford to Care For Their Offspring.I can speak to this. I am a very high earning professional. In addition, I have a very very wealthy parents. So I am, objectively, not a gold digger. Do you think that made any of my ex husbands happy? HELL NO. My parents gave me their very nice vehicle. EXH #2 felt "emasculated" and "put out" because DADDY was giving me nice things. Because my parents gave ME money every year (for tax purposes). Because my father would pay for dinner when me, my exh and my mother would go out to eat. my EXH#2 s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:55 PM |
| 2 | With husbands like this, who needs enemies (or husbands). Heartbreaking read, may be triggering.That's why women's time is better off cultivating and prioritizing non-romantic relationships. I have a large family and spend a lot of time with them and a few close friends. That's is largely my social network. When I was married to my ex husbands, i routinely did things with my family and friends ON MY OWN. They either didn't want to come, or if they did....i didn't want them to come in the first place. After 25 years of marriage between 2 husbands, my family and friends are still there. The … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:43 PM |
| 3 | With husbands like this, who needs enemies (or husbands). Heartbreaking read, may be triggering.No truer words were ever spoken. This should be a mantra every woman who struggles with societal expectations of being paired up should repeat to herself. EveryDay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:39 PM |
| 18 | How do you encourage your man step things up?Then without saying a word to him, buy yourself tickets to the concert and go with s friend or family member. Or go by yourself even. Then go to the concert and just tell him you are going like 15 minutes before you leave. Snapchat it, etc but don't send him any direct texts or pics from it. He didn't wanna go after all so don't waste digital space on him. The message is that you have a life outside of him that you aren't afraid to embrace, with or without his low effort ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:44 PM |
| 19 | With husbands like this, who needs enemies (or husbands). Heartbreaking read, may be triggering.There is ton of them in the r/deadbedrooms sub. You know, that dick won't suck itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 08:38 PM |
| 74 | With husbands like this, who needs enemies (or husbands). Heartbreaking read, may be triggering.This woman would be better off alone. Her cats, if any, would take better care of her, than this piece of shit husband of hers. If anything, having him around just would hasten her demise. Also, google the stats on outcomes when the WIFE gets a chronic illness. It's depressing is as fuck, and Exhibit A why never ever depend on a man, or even expect too. EDIT: I hope this poster has a good family and friend support network so she can divorce him and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 08:35 PM |
| 9 | Women who post in r/datingoverforty for advice, should post here insteadi know right? There is much much worse to be had there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Rant: Stop making excuses for dusty ass losersCan't upvote this enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to his quasi cancellation?What do you WANT to do? Thats all that matters. If you want to see him tonight, then see him. If not then don't. I'm not seeing a lot agency in your OP. Figure out what you want here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 06:44 PM |
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