| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 95 | You telling me that i’m the favourite girl you’re talking to does NOT make me want you more. | RANT | nani_poo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:25 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 32 | Dating American menAmerican men feel entitled to your attention simply because you occupy the same space. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:32 PM |
| 9 | I’m so turned off by men who are “down for anything you’re looking for”“Yea, I do know a thing or two I can share about how unavailable emotionally I am to you & how i’m still in love with my ex. I’ll waste your time & make you question yourself on your worth though I am a walking piece of shit.” That’s what I got from his bio, lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Maybe bias confirmation.. but anyone else notice HOW MANY Sagittarius men there are on dating apps?As a cancer woman I can confirm that there are LOTS of cancer & scorpios on the apps. As well as Leos (I hate leos, lol.) I can’t date any of them because they always need validation. I don’t have the patience or time to give that to them. Edit: the reason I mentioned i’m a cancer is because usually water signs attract other water signs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 14 | Thoughts?Thank you for sharing this. So positive! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 06:51 PM |
| 27 | My brain fell out of my head while I was reading this. Much like the writer's did before they started typing.Same! I choked on my penne alla vodka! Like, wtf did we all just read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 06:43 PM |
| 32 | Reconnecting With an Ex and Realizing You Don't Love Them Anymore?I think the reason you lost interest when you reconnected was because you finally got closure. That’s what happened with me; my ex broke up with me, I was crushed & thought I lost the one person who I could love. We didn’t talk for two years, but then reconnected last November. When we met up to talk & finally saw him & heard his voice, every idea of getting back with him or dating completely left me. It was closure to that chapter of my life. It’s okay, girl. You can now move on & grow! Good lu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:31 AM |
| 5 | He expects her to remember his mother’s birthday for himLmao! You know they deleted my comment because I was “not being civil.” I said “Wow, didn’t know you were married to a Man-child.” But when a woman is the asshole, they let people rip into her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:40 PM |
| 29 | how should i end a long-term relationship with an extremely lvm?Maybe this is fucked up of me to say, but if he threatens to kill himself, let him. One less stress in your life. & know this; they never commit to doing it. It’s a way to manipulate you to stay with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Men over 50 who have never marriedI agree with you. I kind of would see a 50 year old not being married before as a good thing because it meant they too weren’t wasting their time with LVW/LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Help me be strongI’m going to say this to you & for anyone who’s reading (including me because I too forget this); DON’T DATE PEOPLE WHO AREN’T OVER THEIR EX. Our love, passion, amazingness will not cure their high-ego hearts over the “one who got away.” The moment someone/person i’m dating brings up their ex easy in convo means that they’re not over them. Especially when they still hold on to anger from that relationship. I’m sorry for what’s going on. This time shall pass & you’re an awesome person who truly d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:43 AM |
| 12 | What mixed signals really are.“Not even worth my make-up.” YES! I’m not going to apply my $45 eyeshadow palette or my $20 lipstick for a crappy date/ f-appointment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:36 AM |
| 13 | How is a Pickmeisha made?Trauma was 100% my reason for entertaining so many lack-luster partners. That’s why I feel sorry for pickme’s; they just need to see that they’re worthy of love from HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Missing verbal affirmations in my relationship.I can understand both sides. I agree with you with bringing the convo, but you even say people have different norms. I think it would actually be creepy if a guy told me “love you, need you, you’re beautiful” a lot at only 6 months. Some people have different love languages. I would say a conversation is needed though! If nothing changes, than he’s a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:00 AM |
| 10 | Pandemic and old dates coming out of the wood work10000% agree. Right now their dicks are lonely. Block & move on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | You telling me that i’m the favourite girl you’re talking to does NOT make me want you more.Lesson learned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 10:44 PM |
| 11 | You telling me that i’m the favourite girl you’re talking to does NOT make me want you more.Completely agree! I don’t have time for test. I’m a grown woman finding my way in life. I don’t need another stressor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:05 PM |
| 15 | You telling me that i’m the favourite girl you’re talking to does NOT make me want you more.They love the idea of them being wanted, but the moment that energy changes they have no clue how to handle it! Honestly, it’s just sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:03 PM |
| 6 | You telling me that i’m the favourite girl you’re talking to does NOT make me want you more.Exactly! It’s just disrespectful to do so. It was an instant turn off for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | What Makes You Swipe Right?For me to swipe right 1: I like to see someone smiling. I hate “forced” looking pictures. 2: Seeing that they talk about their interest that isn’t “I like traveling.” Like bitch, we all do. You’re not special for saying that. 3: Doesn’t have “420” on their bio. Nothing wrong with smoking, but I find it cringy to have it plastered out like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:11 AM |
| 5 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...This is so sad. Why do ladies believe dating someone with little to no common interest is going to work? Tip on a great relationship: date someone that becomes your best friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 12:56 AM |
| 5 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Thank you for the conversion! I was too lazy to look it up, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:50 PM |
| 268 | Broke up with my boyfriend over social mediaI’m proud of you for realizing what he was doing is wrong. Fuck, I HATE when men gaslight women. It’s like, you’re mad at me for being upset over something you’re doing???? Where is their logic coming from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:21 PM |
| 19 | OP's LV husband refuses to move, compromise, go to therapy, or even discuss a move with his wife for a promotion where she gets DOUBLE the income, because he wants to stay by mommy. OP says she's hurt but would never jeopardize her marriage and her husband KNOWS this and is why he's so stubborn.Throw the whole damn husband away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 07:10 AM |
| 27 | Am I taking FDS too far? Can’t get attached to my HV boyfriend of over a yearHe sounds like a pretty great guy. But i’m going to be honest here- if you’re not into him you have to let him go so he can cherish a women who will. We find it disrespectful when men string along women, it sounds like you’re doing that here. You’re just not into him as you wish to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 12 | Feeling like a clown today 🤡Girl, when you have the whole outfit & makeup on, the best thing to do is to take great selfies to update your dating profile! Looking all cute for the next dude to appreciate! I’ve been there before & it sucks. But you were excited & we can’t blame you for that! You just now know that dude’s a LVM. Stay glamours, bb! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 4 | He chose game night. Should I dump him?Sis, you’re going waaaaaay off topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:03 AM |
| 19 | I‘m afraid my hatred will keep me from forming meaningful relationships with menI understand where you’re coming from. Back when I used to date men I fantasized a version of them only being amazing. But I never pictured a family, living together, making them soup when they’re sick, being in comfortable silence together- I liked the idea of men, but not being with them. Why it’s so easy to love your best friend is because you don’t put pressure on the situation. They have no obligation to be there for you. So, the fact that they are means that they truly care for your well b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:52 AM |
| 10 | What y’all single ladies doing to treat yourself for valentines?Made myself a lovely brunch. Getting some artwork done & later on meeting with some friends for a skincare & movies night! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Lesbian fdsWoah, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:08 PM |
| 15 | A pickmeishas response to a LVM who has been cheating on his wife for years. It doesn‘t get any more desperate than this.Wow. Reading that made me so disgusted. He hurt two people by being selfish. Fill that hole by being alone to figure out the piece of shit you are & letting those two women go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:07 PM |
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