I’ve seen too many women ask if intimidation is real, and too many LVMs spout classic cope of “no, men only care about looks and personality. Your educational and professional achievements mean nothing.”

Don’t believe me? Look in any one of the dating subs or men’s advice subs and see all the women asking the same exact question with same exact answers. LVMs are practically stumbling over themselves to take these successful women down a peg. It breaks my heart to see these accomplished women doubt themselves as a result of these losers.

If you’re a career gal who worked hard for your education and job, fret not. Your achievements still mean A LOT to real HVMs. Believe it or not assortative mating is on the rise, and will rise for a long time. High caliber men in high caliber circles want women with brains as much as looks. True HVMs want life partners, not moms/nannies/slaves. Don’t settle for the myth that all men don’t care. They do, but the voluminous losers that will flood your vision won’t admit it.

So, if anyone here is still wondering that age old question “do men get intimidated by my success?” The answer is a resounding YES, but ONLY for LVMs. The HVMs you actually want won’t be intimidated, they’ll be impressed and interested. Don’t be swayed by the “advice” of losers.