It's porn. Stop watching porn so you can get used to real-life sex. Stop listening to these people telling you "Don't change yourself for a woman!" What the heck? Give your wank a rest and it will return. Easy as that. Enjoy
Agreed I think it’s not a fair question to simply ask the two extremes. Of course nobody would prefer a total hobo. It doesn’t make all women gold diggers. We simply care if you care about yourself and apply yourself!!