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Because their view is that women should be chaste—that a “normal” woman would hate and reject sex outside marriage—whereas a man’s normal stance is to want to impregnate as many women as possible. So a woman with a child out of wedlock is broken, and a man in the same situation is normal—or healthy, even.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 07:19 PM
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What is even the point of this? A blow job? A couple of blow jobs? Hard to see how there is any benefit in doing something like this (not that I believe this dude is telling the truth) other than to enjoy harming someone else...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:13 AM
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So much of men’s bad qualities is due to women allowing it or lying to protect men’s feelings. Of course men aren’t gonna put in effort if they don’t have to. You are so right that women need to stop doing this to ourselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:48 PM
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I guess it’s only natural to push back against having a standard imposed on you. Why support a standard that makes it less likely you’ll qualify to get what you want or closes off options to you? Yes it’s hypocrisy but it takes a bigger person to accept fairness that may work to their disservice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:17 PM
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Yeah same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:55 AM
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Do women even use the term “empowering” IRL?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:10 AM
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“Most of my friends do too” Def a man. No group of women have ever gotten together and discussed how empowered they feel from swallowing a nut. I know this because I am a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:30 PM
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Yeah, I believed it until that point. Plenty of women genuinely enjoy anal sex. But if you do it with any sort of frequency, poop inevitably happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:49 PM
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My heart is hurting so bad....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:35 AM
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Because women stayed going their own way since the beginning of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:46 PM
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As others have pointed out, the amazing irony is that their dick insecurity actually doesn’t come from us—it comes from their own porn use, which THEY choose to do against OUR wishes! The vast majority of women are asking men to eat pussy, pay attention to the clit, love on their bodies, stop pestering for anal—NONE of which has anything to do with a dick—but men are focused on their dicks instead because they are listening to porn instead of actual women/their partners. It’s truly incredible th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:11 PM
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This dude asked me to dinner and played it up, like it seemed important to him and a big deal. So I put on a nice dress and etc. Well, this MF took me—NO JOKE—to the damn CHINESE BUFFET. Not only that, but I live in a big city and he drove all the way to the suburbs to get to this particular place. Then when we got there he told me I could GET WHATEVER SOFT DRINK I WANTED. Girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:35 AM
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The bit about managing flaws is so important. Everyone has flaws, so you can’t reject people just because of that. What matters is how a person manages their flaws. When a person’s trait results in them hurting you, you it’s not so much the trait that is the issue; it’s their decision to prioritize not putting in the effort/time/money to reduce the impact of the flaw over hurting you. My ex was one of these “forgetful” types and he used to try and play this, “but I can’t help being forgetful, it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:03 AM
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So true. I accepted so much BS in the name of “love” until I realized that I can just love someone who is good to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:28 AM
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Stay off the internet for a little bit and unfollow whatever account posted the shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:29 PM
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This. Absolutely this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:10 PM
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Lmfao my boyfriend makes us dinner every night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:05 PM
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Every time I see this argument on Reddit (or whatever ignorant corner of the internet) I think of my intro philosophy and intro economics classes I took in undergrad in which one of the first, most basic ideas we learned was that choices are always constrained and that choosing something means nothing more than that it was the best option of the options available to you at the time, given all the constraints and factors at play at the time the choice is made. How do we have grown ass adults unaw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:14 PM
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If they put the amount of effort into their looks that we put into ours, women would ask them out. They just think they shouldn't have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:24 AM
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Oh please. They don't wish women would ask them out. They wish women would offer them sex. Sex where it's all about them and the woman is there just for his pleasure. Even IF the woman of a man's dreams asked him out on a date, he'd spend the whole time scheming and scamming how to get sex from her (a) in a minimum amount of time with (b) maximal pleasure for him and (c) minimal effort from him. He wouldn't be sitting there happily appreciating their dinner conversation. This is just code for "I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:22 AM
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I feel you—definitely been there. If you haven’t fully adopted a view of your body as an object, having someone treat it as such is traumatizing. Imagine if I told the chicks in that thread that my BF sometimes lets me peg him in the ass even though he doesn’t want me to? They’d go bonkers about his bodily autonomy because they know that treating a human body as though it were an inanimate object goes against all our moral and ethical principles. It’s so sad to me that the most basic, fundamenta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:47 PM
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Too far to be saved — check out the people in the comments rabidly defending their right to be treated like an object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:02 PM
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The comments are so depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:33 PM
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There are so many posts on Reddit from women about their boyfriends doing this. How is this a problem adult women are seriously having ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:57 PM
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Stop killing my delusion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:59 AM
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“Depravity loophole” — beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:52 AM
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This was my last relationship. He seemed to not understand the concept of intimate physical touch—touching either didn’t happen or it was for sex. Like you, I also ended up being literally afraid to touch him / look at him wrong for fear of being pressured into sex or guilted for not doing it. It really does fuck you up—the constant negative reinforcement teaches you to recoil from any kind of intimacy or physical touch and that kind of shit doesn’t just disappear when you ditch the scrote. Sadl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:35 AM
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Or they are ashamed and know it’s fucked up— shame and guilt are always extra triggering and make people wildly defensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:48 AM
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Why isn’t this addressed to men who complain about being tired?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:16 PM
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Lmfaoooo I got banned from there for telling a chick she is not “insecure” if she doesn’t want her man looking at porn and following insta models. R/feminism is straight up porn sick 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:20 PM
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I feel like I usually see cool girls getting treated the same or worse, actually. Personally, men definitely treated me worse when I tried to be cool girl. Cool girls have no self respect and their egos revolve around appeasing men, so behavior the rest of us wouldn’t allow is totally acceptable to cool girls. I feel like that’s actually a big part of what dudes like about cool girl—rape her, strangle her during sex, insult her gender, make fun of anything she likes or does that is stereotypical…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:25 PM
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Ok done, I’m in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:04 PM
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Your post made me think, should we start referring to them as “males” the way they call us “females”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:28 AM
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I think all of a person’s attributes add up together to create one whole that is right or wrong for you based on how well it matches your needs/preferences. That includes both superficial and non-superficial things. Money is pretty much always a plus factor, just like good looks. But a person’s superficial traits don’t exist in a vacuum; you take them into consideration in light of all the other traits. I hate when people try to demonize something that is totally normal by oversimplifying it to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:03 PM
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There is no bar. It simply does not exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:01 PM
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I’m in a similar boat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:06 PM
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It’s a silly argument because it presumes a date is an exchange of goods and services when it’s not—it’s the very traditional act of inviting someone to eat together. This has been a means of bonding and showing affection since humans have existed. Humans prepare food for others or give it as a gift in all sorts of other relationships and contexts—buying a friend a drink, cooking for family, preparing a meal for a guest, taking a potential business associate out for lunch, etc. In none of these …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:31 PM
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Ways to “test” a woman’s “obedience” and teach her “obedience” if she behaves otherwise. They are a handful of (fairly adolescent) games and tricks TRP dudes believe can be used to control women. They’re games that we all know and that have been around forever but TRP tries to lay claim to them by describing them with TRP terminology (stuff like “dread”) and/or by trying to trace their alleged effectiveness back to some crazy TRP pseudoscience theory. In this case, it’s the combination of the ga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:11 PM
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Some shit he learned on Red Pill. What a doofus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:15 PM
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I don’t believe this is real. I just can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:38 PM
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Point taken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:35 AM
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He is and he has put in serious effort, but it requires a lot of hand-holding from me. There are also a lot of things he just doesn’t know he’s doing wrong ... you don’t know what you don’t know, I guess. But I won’t deny that part of the problem is a lack of effort to try and learn what his blind spots are. It’s a catch-22: he’d learn how to be proactive about being a good partner if he’d be proactive about being a good partner by learning to be proactive about being a good partner, but since h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:18 AM
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He is a truly wonderful person and I have no doubt that he genuinely, genuinely wants to be everything I want in a partner, satisfy me, and be a positive force in my life. He is not the guy who fails on a woman because he doesn’t care—his shortcomings are always due either to ignorance or inability, but never to malice or a lack of desire. So I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt and giving it a shot. He is trying so hard to be the perfect partner. It actually breaks my heart to think that suc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:08 AM
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Absolutely. When I am with a dude I spend basically all my extra energy dealing with whatever rude bullshit he’s pulling and/or helping with his man-baby problems while I put myself on the back burner. These hos come out of relationships with me like it’s an episode of Love It or List It.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:09 PM
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Yup. That’s what I’m expecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:58 PM
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I fear this is the relationship I’m in now. I got myself a fixer-upper and I am struggling to picture him holding my hand through hard times the way I did for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:07 PM
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This is epic. You are a hero on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:20 AM
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Take my money now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:08 AM
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Omg THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:38 AM
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It’s just false. The whole post is so false and so nonsensical that it’s hard to even know where to begin. It’s gibberish; you’re asking people to do the equivalent of logically explaining an infant’s babbles. The overall conclusion is not true, most of the points he makes aren’t true, even the “science” he cites isn’t true. And to the extent anything he said is true, it’s so distorted that it just.isn’t.true. Let this stupidity go and have fun with your girlfriend!
/r/ExRedPill08/08/20 01:53 PM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:16 PM
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You can see the post in the photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:14 PM
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Translation: I’m really into you being sexually open minded, but I’d like to remain a prude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:18 AM
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Lol you have to see the “feminists” over at r/Feminism defending this article and calling OP a “kink shamer.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:30 PM
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Yep! And as you can see in the comments on this post, they blocked a bunch of other people who are members of FDS who commented on that post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:47 PM
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They sent me the message saying I was banned a couple of minutes after I posted the comment. After they replied to my comment, saying that’s not why I was banned, I replied to their message, asking why I was banned if it wasn’t because of the comment. They never replied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:11 PM
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I got the message telling me I was banned minutes after my comment. After they replied to my comment, I messaged them and asked why I was banned if it wasn’t about my comment. They never replied. Edit: I just checked and I still see my comment on there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:07 PM
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❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:40 PM
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He’s graduating college and she’s graduating high school. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:53 PM
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I like whisky. I’ll join!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:51 PM
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They didn’t give me a reason. I just got a message saying that I was permanently banned. And yeah, “modern feminism” (it’s not actually feminism) is meaningless nonsense. It has nothing to do with improving women’s lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:47 PM
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Because I disagree with their brand of anti-women feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:11 PM
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Yeah, all that stuff about not letting you carry or open anything sounds more like infantilization than romance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:44 PM
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The shithole of internet shitholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:29 AM
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Anytime I’ve ever joked about men’s bodies in front of them they get angry and belligerent and throw a temper tantrum. I still do it because I won’t stop til they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:01 AM
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Bad dick is easy to get. Good dick is as hard as all that other stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:49 AM
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I love you ladies. Everyday, you post things I have been thinking and saying for years. I thought I was all alone in these views and it feels sooooo validating to know so many of us were on the same page all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:07 AM
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YES! Please! I don’t want to be a part of Reddit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:41 AM
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I don’t even visit that trash sub anymore. It’s just a pure misogynistic circle jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:39 AM
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I actually find this really depressing. Society fails women in a lot of ways but at least human intimacy isn’t stolen from us. That dude is obviously a creep and harmful to every woman he dates but those women will get over it because they have the capacity for human intimacy—they have friends and family who will help them when he harms them and then they will find intimacy with a person who doesn’t have his issues. But this guy will continue on this way because he was dumb enough to buy into th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:48 PM
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Yaaaaaaas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:59 PM
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Anytime a dude tells me I’m a keeper I know I did something wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:54 AM
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TBH I feel like it’s kinda the opposite. They all know where it is from watching porn, but they don’t know what to do with it—also from watching porn. So a dude will viciously attack your clit (the way he saw it done in porn) under what appears to be a theory that the faster and harder he attacks it, the sooner you’ll come and recognize him as the sex god he is. It’s like some kinda practical joke—the internet finally got them caught up on general location but somehow simultaneously taught them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:50 AM
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How many songs have that line about the girl who doesn’t know how pretty she is... Dream girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:08 PM
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I don’t think they think women like it? THEY like it—and that’s all that matters to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:30 PM
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SAME. He got all weird and awkward after, too, like he was butthurt that I didn’t prioritize his megalomania over my bodily autonomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:55 PM
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This made me literally laugh out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:11 PM
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Normal for a lot of dudes. Not normal for YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:31 AM
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Girl I love the farrrrtt thing I’ve been seeing around here lately. You ladies are hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:29 AM
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Agree with everyone here. Men just generally are shitty in bed (in large part because we allow it), so we don’t want sex with them, i.e., we don’t spontaneously desire what they offer. The same way we don’t spontaneously desire anything shitty—like I never spontaneously crave a glass of rotten milk. But because women do genuinely want sex, know that it’s possible to have good sex, and are so starved for it, with enough badgering, we can be persuaded that maybe this time it’ll be different. That’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:32 AM
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Just because something is common and even commonly believed to be acceptable does not make it okay. Duh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:49 PM
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They hate when you tell women it’s not okay to be abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:27 PM
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I love how people legit think the issue is her PTSD and not the fact that men get off on raping us. Like, the fact that she doesn’t want to pretend to be raped is odd and not the fact that he wants to pretend to rape her. Girl should kick his ass out for even THINKING those thoughts about her. Imagine if she said to him, “I really enjoy the thought of hitting you over the head with a 2x4 and giving you permanent brain damage, can we go out into the backyard and play it out?!” But because they ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:22 PM
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Yet another double standard. At least gold diggers give something in return—a good time, a relationship, sex, the ability to show off your “trophy,” whatever. Pussy diggers don’t give anything in return except the trauma of having someone use your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 10:21 PM
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Absolutely. But not if you’re trying to fool or manipulate someone into, e.g., by pretending you want a relationship — humans are generally pretty good at sniffing out BS. If you are genuine, respectful, and actually interested in mutual pleasure (as opposed to just using someone’s body), women will screw you NSA. As for women’s sexual freedom, you are absolutely, completely wrong. The fact that lots of people want to screw us is useless for our sexual freedom because all those people just want …
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 01:29 PM
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Having sex with more than one person at a time is only demeaning if the group makes it that way. Although it’s definitely way more common for group sex to play out with the guys “using” the woman’s body, that’s frankly true of most sex with hetero men and not something unique to group sex. If a bunch of dudes are psychologically, physically, and emotionally capable of loving on and pleasuring a woman together, that’s evolution, not degradation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:40 AM
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No because they don’t know they have these issues so they think this can’t be for them. They seek a woman who can accomplish these things without directly pointing them out so they don’t have to face reality and get their fragile egos bruised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:59 PM
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Thought the same exact thing. Sure, it’s legally different. But interpersonally and emotionally—someone is using your body for their pleasure when you don’t want them to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:49 PM
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It breeds intimacy and I won’t regret having it?? Yes, of course—I feel so close to my partner when I let him use my body like I’m a human fleshlight! For sure, no woman has ever regretted or developed resentment from doing this, so many relationship benefits!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:47 PM
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First thing -- on introvertedness. I am extremely introverted as well and it's hurt my ability to form new relationships too, but that really doesn't mean anything other than that ... people who are shy are going to have a hard time forming new relationships. No need to jump to any more conclusions about the world than that. Have you ever heard of Occam's razor? It's a principle that basically states that you should never make more conclusions or assumptions than the minimum needed to explain a …
/r/ExRedPill18/05/19 04:38 PM
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Get the fuck out of there. This is not salvageable.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/19 05:14 AM
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