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All I’m gonna say is what my parents always told me, “Tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:17 PM
126

Let’s take our new unlicensed gun rights and take out margaritas to protest our loss of body autonomy. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 04:48 PM
2

No he got kicked out at 16 for being a little shit and was selling drugs and having parties to get by. He almost died drunkenly diving off of a pier into too low water and breaking his neck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:02 PM
15

A personal dealbreaker I’d add is: Lack of patience. I know a guy who has no patience when things don’t go his way. We went to a concert, he got shoved because...it’s a concert and we’re close to the stage¿ it happens. Then he’s there talking shit and bickering with the person who bumped him for a solid 3 songs. Later that night, went to Denny’s (it’s damn near 2 a.m.). Service is slower than usual, as expected. This man kid complained the whole time about how slow the service was and wanted to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:29 AM
4

Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:49 AM
109

They really think trapping a hot, self respecting woman is to get her pregnant. Never mind respecting her and treating her like a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:25 PM
166

I was so surprised hearing about it from guys. The amount of times I’ve heard about them wanting to “trap” a girl the first time they fucked just because she was a baddie made me nauseous as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:16 PM
7

Yes! I can’t have a big dog right now but I get so jealous when I go running and see other girls running with a big dog at their hip 😍 Girl, can i borrow your puppy for my run?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:42 PM
21

Saaaame, they don’t have the worst relationship or anything but it’s just kind of...there. They met when they were 14 and have been together since then (over 45 years). My dad has always been the super macho, women belong in the kitchen doing the cleaning, cooking, and caretaking type of guy. But he does the bare minimum for my mom. (I have to tell him to get her flowers). Not only that he talks down to her when she has ditzy or silly moments and always talks shit on her weight. He’s never been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:04 AM
19

I find pet names from strangers so patronizing. I would’ve immediately unmatched from the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:50 PM
52

Ah, yes. I knew a guy who said I could get “spicy” since I’m Latina. And mumble to himself how he “triggered me” if I popped off about something he said or did that I didn’t agree with or spoke about more passionately. You’re bad, you can’t handle passion. Have fun with your unambitious, hazy, constantly stoned life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:45 PM
18

I had to fight myself not to downvote him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:37 PM
27

It’s true, it’s how all my relationships started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:11 AM
3

IF THIS AINT THE DAMN TRUF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:08 AM
9

!emojify
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:45 AM
16

I was just telling a new girl friend of mine that the only guys who have been nice to me just because they’re nice people have been guys who weren’t into me. Because they were guys who weren’t into women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:08 PM
10

It looks like he took the warp tool and just pulled his chin down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:21 PM
18

You’re an inspiration to us all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:23 AM
10

That’s how I understood it to, he says “how do I make the big mean thing attached to the boobie shut up?” Well, she twisted it to say men stay sucking on tiddies making them the big mean thing hence why there’s a guy getting his skull crushed in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:09 PM
33

Get physically stronger! It helps sooo much with confidence and honestly flexing your (even baby) biceps makes you feel like a bad ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:09 PM
19

I was thinking I hope he doesn’t out himself and go off telling future dates he was on the show, but pickmes will see this and side with him. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:40 PM
72

Ooooo girl TELL HIM. I love that he keeps spewing her fucking age. AND?! Why are you here then? To talk shit? Leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:58 PM
3

“No doubt no doubt”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:08 PM
3

Yeaaaaah, I’m going on over 2 years out of romantic relationships and ~3/4 of a year out of anything casual. I haven’t even been looking tbh but, being 23, I’m sure I’d be in the same boat if I was 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:45 PM
2

What helps me stay out of NV or LV relationships is seeing the glow drain from the women around me when they enter into bad relationships. We build each other up for someone to go into a relationship and get torn down. So far I’ve seen one of my friends enter a truly HV relationship (which she 110% deserves) and if/when I get to that I’ll be ecstatic, but I’m in absolutely no rush to get there and this sub serves as a reminder as to why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:40 PM
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Okay quick story on this, I used to post pictures during or post gym (because I looked GREAT and I worked for it) and I’d send the more “risqué” (they weren’t nudes, or even underwear pics, they most risqué would be bikini pics, but they’d usually be pics in workout shorts and a sports bra with a1 lighting) ones to friends because we all did to motivate each other and boost each other. Before, I’d send them to any of my close friends including straight guy “friends”. Well, lo and behold, one day…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:23 PM
8

Thaaaaat’s why I’ve been walking away with splinters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:02 PM
11

Whoop-dee-fucking-do, call me Tigger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:01 PM
9

Of course!💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:21 AM
8

psst happy cake day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:34 AM
10

I love you for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:26 AM
17

Personally, he’s not ugly. His personality definitely makes him ugly though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:22 AM
4

I hope you proved him wrong right then and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:03 AM
13

Takes one to know one 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:57 AM
10

Looll. I’m not a troll, (although if you saw how lazy my lazy Sunday has really been you’d say otherwise) it’s a quasi troll post meant to point out the dumb things I put up with before. I’ve always liked being alone but would allow the wrong people into my life during those inevitable moments of loneliness we get as human beings. It was always to the detriment to my peace of mind. Thanks to FDS I’ve been single for 2 and a half-3 years mostly focusing on getting my life together with no pointle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:55 AM
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Loll, the visual, I’m living for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:25 AM
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And guess who didn’t get any attention from these men? Just guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:55 PM
10

Thank you🙈 that’s a first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:42 PM
47

I’ll bring popcorn to throw at LVM from the gates like a bunch of happy monkeys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:37 PM
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It really is something you need to come to on your own. Maybe sending soft FDS memes or tiktoks here and there would help?? Idk though, subtle to me at this point is shoving your face in the cake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:33 PM
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My sister saying “I guess I’ll die alone in a nunnery” after I argued her boyfriend is literal scum inspired it lol. Same though, I’ll bring the bedazzler for our headdresses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:31 PM
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I’m proud of you 💕. I brought you this, I hope you like it: 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:29 PM
21

Hey girl.🍆 Hello? Guess you’re not interested. ?? Good morning beautiful. Are you a ghost?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:27 PM
32

I asked my sister once what her bf does for her and she goes “he helps me with stress and he’s there for me like emotionally.” Nevermind the fact that she’s gone through THREE cars because of him, was paying $900 a month on an airbnb in the ghetto because she didn’t want to be at his moms (he’s 30), she’s lost her license because he enables her to keep smoking, the list goes oonnnn. But his homeless, jobless, careless, senile ass is there for you emotionally. How charming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:24 PM
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FDS is growing so quickly I can’t wait for men to find out what’s going on and start stepping it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:21 PM
18

Better alone than in bad company!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:57 PM
23

I’m so happy for you and I wish you the best!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:09 PM
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Every guy who wants something “more than just fucking around” but still “casual” and gets upset when you don’t act like the girlfriend in this one sided relationship carries the cognitive dissonance in every aspect of his life and i just can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:38 PM
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Nothing, NOTHING, aggravates me more than those kinds of double texts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:35 PM
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Thank you 🥺. Here’s one for you 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:35 PM
131

The BEST way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:32 PM
48

Preach it bayybeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:31 PM
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It’s extended to everyone on my life, if we can’t add value to each other’s lives, whey are we waiting wasting our energy? Edit: oops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:29 PM
25

WhAt Is YoUr VeRsIoN oF a DaTe In ThIs ClImAtE? I could already feel the racism andmysogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:17 PM
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My BIL just offered to buy the neighbors their Halloween candy bags for them to hand out and insisted that they didn’t have to pay him back when they insisted on paying him for the candies. We get inside and he says “now they’ll owe me a favor” and says “that’s how it works for white people” when we tried to argue him on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:53 AM
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Eh. For most of us, genetics and gravity are going to do their thing anyway. I’m less concerned about leveling up my boobs than I am about being comfortable. If you want a little pick-me-up for your tiddies later, go for it girl. Just do it for you though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:21 AM
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I have to agree, after I lost weight and most of my tiddies with it, I hardly ever wear bras anymore, all the bras I own are bralettes or sports bras and they’re typically worn if I’ve got sheer or super thin tops on. Personally, I’m more comfortable without them. But I completely understand why women with bigger breasts would 100% wear them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:21 PM
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I can’t wait to live alone to start something similar with photography. The good and the bad. The relaxing days and the inevitable lonely ones. And how to get through it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:35 AM
4

Everyone who knows me can vouch for me when I say that damn near every time I pass my reflection I say “DAAAMMNN, who IS she?!” Or “She’s cute as heeellll” or “You guys see that cutie in the mirror over there? Damn, she cute.” I’m shameless lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:14 AM
3

Thank you💕 thankfully I have people who’ll call me out if I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:04 PM
3

Same, i used to have a “hoe rule book” where one of the rules was to choose someone who has some sort of dealbreaker so you wouldn’t catch feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:05 PM
2

That was my first thought when he started 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:03 PM
7

🥺💕 I’m yet to have something like this but I haven’t been trying to date for a while now. Once I got the “if you can’t add to my life, you can’t stay in it” mentality, I severely stopped hoeing. Coupled with moving to a new city and grinding for a career that allows me to travel around the country, I know it’ll be next to impossible to find something like this. If it happens, giiiiirl, you know I’m spillin the deets. If not, we’ve all got amazing HVW friends and family and knowing ourselves to k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:57 PM
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What’s with that obsession??? I had a guy like that too, during our times together he’d always insist I talk about the other guys I’d been with but have me insist that he’s soooo much better than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:51 PM
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OMG THAT REMINDS ME!!! I got STEALTHED once. And it’s not like he argued about putting on a condom or anything, I just remember him hitting it from the back and then he tells me to turn around and freaks out and says “wait no stay like that.” My gut didn’t have the best feeling about it but what’s a pickme gonna do? Anyway, next time I came over, we’re about to go to town when I tell him to wrap it up and guess what he said? He said “Why? it’s not like we used one last time.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:48 PM
10

“I’m just trynna vibe and go with the flow” Translation: “I’m hoping I get to sleep with you soon, otherwise I’m wasting my time.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:45 PM
17

Barf. I hate when they insist on how great they are despite being blatantly told they’re not. The cognitive dissonannnncceeeeuhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:59 AM
19

🙄🙄🙄🙄Boy if you don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:20 AM
87

“iLl HaVe YoUr LeGs ShAkInG” from the trauma you just caused to my vulva 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:18 AM
12

Is there a sub about getting bad sex/head? I’ve got stories and I know others would be funny, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:08 PM
5

Do no harm, take no shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:13 PM
12

IM NOT CRYING, YOURE CRYING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:06 PM
30

I love the hairloss progression lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:33 PM
9

This is something I’ve been working on for myself lately. How did you go about figuring out what you need in a partner. Wants are easy, needs take more introspection and I’m always afraid there’s needs for myself that I don’t know about, yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:14 PM
10

Me when people aren’t expecting an “I know 😉” when they compliment me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 10:00 PM
6

LOVE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:06 PM
67

I was just going off about this a couple days ago, the only guys I’ve known that call women “females” were usually incels. If they weren’t, they were so mysoginistic I wondered how any women could stand being around them The last guy I directly spoke to who called women “females” switched job locations to work by me and tried to convince everyone at his last location AND my location that he “got me in the bag.” Luckily my people scoffed at him or asked me about directly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:08 AM
55

I hope she takes everything she bought too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:33 PM
19

I never realized how bad periods could get until my most recent one, and I know it wasn’t as bad as it could get. I couldn’t stay awake the day right before my period (I always sleep a minimum of 6 hours so it wasn’t from lack of sleep) and the fatigue only eased up a little the next day, I ended up sleeping through 80% of the day, sleeping through lecture, getting behind on notes, hardly eating. And when my period started, the craammppsss. They started in the middle of my run, I had to stop run…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:53 PM
31

At the dog park, they talked for 4 hours before she left. He’d drive by the dog park every day after that hoping he’d see her there and finally one day he sees her, speeds home to get his dog, and “bumps” into her at the dog park. They just hit 5 years together :) EDIT: they were both in their early thirties when they met. He said he wasn’t thinking about marriage until he hit 32. He lived a wild life before that though, took almost dying to get him on a good path in life. That’s not to say all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:49 AM
13

Lol!! Love it! I used to work at a pharmacy (hated it, even with amazing staff it wasn’t for me) and one of the pharmacists never got married either, she had a man that did everything for her but every time he popped the question she says “hmm...still on trial.” They’ve been together forever and they tell strangers they’re married so they don’t get into it but who needs the hassle if a guy snaps one day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:10 PM
9

You can feel it when it’s the look. 🤢 thank you girlie, you got this!💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:03 PM
100

I live with my sister and her HV husband and he does this kind of stuff for her all the time. He remembers all the dates, birthdays (even our family), relationship anniversary, and wedding anniversary and never fails to get or do something special for everyone in his life. But for her? He goes all out, always. He just bought her Mac makeup she was running out of, VS lotions she was low on, roses, and a $$$$ dinner date for their first date anniversary, when she told him it wasn’t a big deal now …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:01 PM
14

My med friends and I say “protect the pericardial sac” lol help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:30 PM
25

Yay to vicarious learning! I’ve been able to sniff out manipulation and narcissists from a mile away thanks to my utter repulsion to the men that have mistreated my sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:29 PM
7

Aww 💕! I’m so happy for you. Send his HV friends over plz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:23 PM
58

I’m waiting for you to say it was just a dream
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:30 PM
1

Speaking of proving innocence, have you heard the podcast The Orange Tree? That’s a tricky one to gauge innocence on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:09 AM
19

Ooh. Okay I see it now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:50 PM
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Genuine question so don’t hate me lol What’s the difference between this and us vetting men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:59 PM
9

And not ideas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:11 PM
16

“Sperm donor”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:15 AM
21

Congratulations! I hope all goes well and you can keep on keeping on with a much more peaceful life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:15 AM
23

He came at a vulnerable time for her :/ gotta keep out guard up the most when we’re not feeling at our best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:13 AM
40

Another thing that gave him away was his use of past tense verbs when talking about her “she knew a lot of people” “she was a great person” before even “knowing” she was dead and not just missing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:12 AM
55

Back when I had Tinder, one part of my bio would read “Standards so high I could barely reach them.” And guys would message me saying, “I guess you lowered them for me” or “I doubt I can reach your standards.” Instant unmatch. You snitch on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:01 PM
13

It’s so hard not to downvote this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:46 PM
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Seconded. Doesn’t help that I live in the south 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:10 AM
3

You could blame me for occasionally reinstalling it just to be swiping right on everyone to see what kind of ridiculous messages I’ll get. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:07 AM
20

Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:34 PM
3

Fave x10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:02 AM
2

I forgot Q.U.E.E.N. existed and I’m so glad you reintroduced it to my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:53 AM
2

I wasn’t expecting that intro to the song! Love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:52 AM
14

Agreed. It’s also important to keep positive friends that are trying to grow as well. They will definitely serve as a great extrinsic to intrinsic motivator passively and kindly pointing out the downfalls we may have missed. I know recently I had a revelation about myself that I wouldn’t have come across/ kept denying if it weren’t for a friend of mine mentioning it in conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:26 PM
13

It took me toooooooooooooo long to figure this out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:23 PM
7

LMFAOOO. That last screenshot is gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:15 PM
8

You live and you learn! That’s what got a lot of us here in the first place. You got this! Also, don’t lower your standards! Not for yourself or anyone else. Keep your crown up 👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:20 PM
16

Personally, I set the standards for the ideal people I want in my life and raise myself to that standard. I find it’s easier to level yourself up that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:13 PM
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Same or Owen Grey who makes it about the girl 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:41 PM
1

And her voice is so good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:46 PM
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I’m not saying they’re not famous, all her work is amazing, but I’m referring to works like The Two Fridas and Henry Ford Hospital which, at least to me, are some of the firsts to come to mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:41 PM
22

Girl let me tell you. My friends came to visit me once from out of town and we decided to explore the area and landed at this super cute outdoorsy bar with a bunch of games and all that good stuff. When I tell you that we couldn’t walk 3 steps without some guy trying to get our attention, I wish it was hyperbole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:36 AM
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Unfortunately, he tend to be the fuel for her most famous artwork. Her bigger works almost always came from the pain he brought her or the pain from necessary abortions and miscarriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:28 AM
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IF👏🏻HE👏🏻WANTED👏🏻TO👏🏻HE👏🏻WOULD👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:22 AM
5

I literally just had a 30 year old ex coworker use that line after he noticed I unadded him from snap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:25 PM
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